12 URGENT WARNING SIGNS She'll CHEAT On You SOON!

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  • 12 URGENT WARNING SIGNS She'll CHEAT On You SOON (And What To Do!)... In this dating, love, and relationship advice video, I will talk about infidelity and give you the 12 urgent warning signs she'll cheat on you soon and explain what to do with cheating women. You may see the signs she'll cheat on you on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the whole video.
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  • @Barodil
    @Barodil 2 года назад +193

    I do not comment a lot on YT but damn... This list had me questioning if you were spying on me and my Ex - did you? 😂
    A few months have past since THE THING happened, and I am glad it's over, but what's more important - 90% of your points are bulls eye hits regarding the behaviour of my former girlfriend.
    Guys this is not made up, it's real so be aware and take action... Having to experience this taught me a lot. Do stand up for yourselves and do not let a women treat you badly. You deserve better!
    And yes it hurts letting people go, but do not waste your time with someone who's emotionally torturing you... That stuff is WAY worse!
    Btw. Thanks for the great content. It helps to slowly build up my self-esteem and glue together the shattered pieces still flying around in my head.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +10

      Thank you for a wonderful, heartfelt (and received) comment! You will get there..remember, you are the prize!
      Are you doing my WakeUP2Luv program? It helps you find the right pieces and glue them together a lot faster. Details if curious: members.wingmam.com/get-women/

    • @lumpy19722323
      @lumpy19722323 2 года назад

      Well said! Im freshly out of a relationship that were constantly setting off red flags. I cant say forsure she was cheating....but when everything in your body is telling you somethings amiss you need to listen to that. Im at work, id send texts they go unanswered for hours, she would consistantly be late picking me up from work( I work afternoons)... texts all hours of the day and night, history and location always turned off....2 other phones which are always tucked away but are in use... She let me know the password to her phone but would always be logged out of all social media and has me blocked on all platforms... holding her phone in such away for me not to see.. hanging out a her male "friend"s place while im working. She would drop me off at work and wouldent have her make up on or hair done yet would pick me up from work and be done to the 9s.... Would never offer up any info on what she had been doing or where she was and if I asked I would ne made to feel like I was doing something. Like I said...I cant prove she was up to know good but considering her past and her need for attention...well if it looks walks and quacks like a duck...

    • @thamostgangsta12
      @thamostgangsta12 Год назад +2

      Yes, keeping yourself in that situation as a man can put the woman at risk as well as your mental state. Cheating is ugly and neither one of your lives are worth a failing relationship. Sometimes the signs are there and people ignore them.

    • @zandig666
      @zandig666 Год назад

      We r the dummy to keep inviting it back in through your door I remember 1 that would ask r u sure u want me over? Sure enough she meant her and Dr jeckle as well 🤪🤪🤪🤪

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 Год назад

      Lots of woman one night stand rule isn" ,t cheating before marriages, or during marriage,, sex is about spending an hour plus with somebody alone,, whe very pretty , do i want to spend zn hour ahour alone with her,

  • @MrGabrielJude
    @MrGabrielJude Год назад +154

    Men be relieved if she cheats on you for 2 reasons: 1) she’s finally found the happiness she craves, and 2) she’s become his problem and not yours.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @jamesjhonson4568
      @jamesjhonson4568 2 месяца назад

      Never thought of it that way.

    • @bretl8130
      @bretl8130 Месяц назад

      life is short .. not worth wasting your time ...

  • @freeman37
    @freeman37 2 года назад +550

    Pro tip: if you feel it in your gut, she probably already is cheating. Disrespect is the biggest sign

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +57

      Always important to listen to your intuition

    • @DavidWilliams-pb6he
      @DavidWilliams-pb6he 2 года назад +10

      You are correct!

    • @zackgallagher3613
      @zackgallagher3613 2 года назад +4

      Making me think

    • @francismotionless393
      @francismotionless393 2 года назад +15

      My ex used to go out with her "male friends!" To dinner in public. She would get mad when I asked her who she was texting, when it was at 1 or 2 am. She also started working out, and saying "she needs to lose weight!". Which she was beautiful

    • @jk-kr8jt
      @jk-kr8jt Год назад

      @@francismotionless393 that sucks. She was already getting her back blown out. Always trust your gut. And either way she is be disrespectful. Launch her.

  • @Aaron-fj5oh
    @Aaron-fj5oh Год назад +427

    Signs she’s cheating, you’re watching this video 😂

  • @gw6496
    @gw6496 Год назад +112

    When they do cheat the first time , never ever take them back!!! They will repeat that act.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +3

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @paulfool8728
      @paulfool8728 Год назад +9

      That act will never stop I experienced it !

    • @jeremyarroyo360
      @jeremyarroyo360 Год назад +2

      💯

    • @donaldmackerer9032
      @donaldmackerer9032 Год назад +4

      I have heard that a lot there must be something to it.

    • @rubentello9792
      @rubentello9792 4 месяца назад

      Yes ,she will, 32yrs of cheating and won't stop. Just getting better at lying, deceiving, more sneaky, planning to cheat better. Don't talk to me ir answer any questions so I won't catch her lying. No communication at all , just silence so I won't catch her lying

  • @trentk268
    @trentk268 6 месяцев назад +46

    Once you feel it, she's doing it.

  • @freeman37
    @freeman37 2 года назад +244

    Sometimes she will project her cheating on the guy, saying that "you're cheating" or "you don't pay attention to her like you used to". That's her projecting her own behaviour like a defense mechanism.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +14

      You're absolutely right!

    • @MrScootmcg
      @MrScootmcg Год назад

      Projection or any other false accusations fantasies are always a red flag. If they involve accusations that you are cheating then yes its almost certain she's already doing it.

    • @mercedes-amgforlife3237
      @mercedes-amgforlife3237 Год назад +7

      My x wife did this to me constantly. 6 months into our marriage I caught her on a dating app trying to find a new husband. The whole 7 year marriage she accused me of cheating, and when my divorce started I got into her social media to find "sexy" pics and all kinds of guys commenting on them including my friend of 21 years. She used that "you don't pay attention to me anymore" excuse as well. She also would put a pass lock on her phone, but if I did so she would go nuts. Also she began erasing all her call logs before I got home from work.
      I did cheat back after 4 years, as I got tired of being accused of something I wasn't doing, and thought "what the hell I should if I'm getting accused 24/7." Even though we're divorced now I still don't trust her at all, and probably never will even though she wants to "date". Even now she keeps me locked out of her personal life, but asks what I'm doing all the time.

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 Год назад +6

      It the one night stand rule, woman do not consider one night stand stuff as cheating,,,,

    • @rawheadnick1914
      @rawheadnick1914 Год назад +1

      Been there...

  • @aoisora9003
    @aoisora9003 3 месяца назад +20

    "hes just a friend/coworker"
    Ha never gets old 😆

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @silkroad1201
    @silkroad1201 Год назад +55

    If my girl cancelled plans with me to hang out with another dude, that's not a sign or a red flag, that's the end of the relationship

    • @SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor
      @SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor 2 месяца назад

      Then she will just say she's going with a friend who is a girl. Women are like children, you can expect them to try to hide what they are doing.

  • @PrimalKingTV
    @PrimalKingTV 2 года назад +220

    One sign is if she has cheated on a previous partner before you.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +43

      Excellent addition! Especially if she doesn't regret it and blames him!!

    • @PrimalKingTV
      @PrimalKingTV 2 года назад +6

      @@YourWingmam 💯👏👏

    • @tamuman93
      @tamuman93 2 года назад +17

      Cheaters always gonna cheat. Stay away from them.

    • @michaelburgoyne328
      @michaelburgoyne328 2 года назад +1

      yes

    • @yoitzjustnightbot6721
      @yoitzjustnightbot6721 2 года назад +19

      Or they cheated on someone with you 😂

  • @jeffwalker1322
    @jeffwalker1322 2 года назад +31

    Men and women can’t be “ just “ friends. If she is spending time alone with him whether you know it or not, she IS cheating. True story

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @sandyshore2712
    @sandyshore2712 2 года назад +87

    Cheating is a complicated behaviour and usually doesn't work out well. If you feel like cheating, end the relationship.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +5

      Agreed!

    • @timjohnson1199
      @timjohnson1199 2 года назад +8

      Cheating is a (I would think) a lot of work. If you're so motivated to cheat there's some big problems. And, cheating takes a lot of energy and probably money.

    • @eddaimes2247
      @eddaimes2247 2 года назад

      only from a human perspective

    • @Johnny.1965
      @Johnny.1965 Год назад +7

      Cheating is no accident, it's a pre planned act...

    • @Jerry-yb7po
      @Jerry-yb7po 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@timjohnson1199it usually costs you money ....

  • @roberttroxell4006
    @roberttroxell4006 Год назад +65

    The most reliable sign for me has been the women becoming increasingly critical of me. This could include little “digs” at my intelligence or perceived manliness. As the criticisms mount, I know she is on her way out. With one girlfriend, I went from “perfect” at the beginning to ending up without any redeeming qualities.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +3

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @Xenophanes198
      @Xenophanes198 19 дней назад

      Sounds like a covert narcissist. You dodged a bullet there my guy

  • @kellygreenii
    @kellygreenii 11 месяцев назад +21

    Biggest thing is that she starts acting wierd…and you have no other explanation as to why. Unless your are dealing with a narcissist or a psychopath, the stress and the guilt will have her conscience start to eat away at her. It’ll come out in the form of new, weird behaviors.

  • @E3fieldservices7144
    @E3fieldservices7144 Год назад +125

    Never be too attached to a woman that you can't drop her when she crosses the line and absolutely never take her back

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +5

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @TrollingHistory
      @TrollingHistory Год назад +11

      Said a guy who has no kids. No shared responsibility. Mortgage. Old dog. Car payments 100% intertwined world.
      It's alot harder then. But it can always be done you just have to walk away and let her and her new boyfriend have it all. You have nothing.
      Sleep easy knowing new guy is raising your kids. Sleeping on your side of the bed. With his underwear in your drawers. Don't worry about the dog he had that put to sleep week 2. After wifey walked him everyday for weeks to new guys mums house.
      But sure. What you said.

    • @E3fieldservices7144
      @E3fieldservices7144 Год назад

      @As-if If-as I had all that and kicked her out of my house and took the kids and the dog she never seen it coming too busy with her new man

    • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
      @PeterShaw-ne1yq 10 месяцев назад

      @as-ifif-as3081
      Romantic liaisons are a core risk nowadays!
      You have not much comeback when the romance flops belly up - your belly usually;
      women are like 🐈 's and land on their feet 🫤

    • @broadkast477
      @broadkast477 4 месяца назад

      Code to live by.

  • @dwocelot6913
    @dwocelot6913 2 года назад +31

    By the time you think your woman is considering cheating on you, she already has

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +5

      Often that is true! Watch for early subtle signs. Cheating doesn't usually happen overnight for women.

  • @enri74cv
    @enri74cv Год назад +31

    People who cheat will do it no matter what you say or do. It's just a matter of time..

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @kayasper6081
    @kayasper6081 2 года назад +82

    My ex had a very close friend. She always stressed that there absolutely was nothing romantic going on. Although it didn't feel well, I took her word serious and didn't want to limit her social life. I just trusted in her because I want to be trusted too when I say something.
    However, it turned out that they had sex several times during all those years. Hard to understand for an honest person.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +23

      That's the thing, when you're a good person you don't expect it from them. Sorry that happened to you! :(

    • @tamuman93
      @tamuman93 2 года назад +30

      Brother, they had sex several times every week over those years. And no doubt there were times they had sex several times in a day numerous times on top of that.
      When a cheater gets caught, their fall back is that “it only happened once…” or “it only happened a few times….”.
      Don’t believe those lies

    • @DNAisWookieUSER
      @DNAisWookieUSER Год назад +1

      exact same hjappened to me . thi list is so true

    • @kayasper6081
      @kayasper6081 Год назад +6

      @wanker2us wally Yes. I am one of those silly man who are too faithful and always try to find a solution together. But this went too far, so I divorced her. I would never ever cheat or betray nor my friends nor my wife, and don't expect them to do that me either. Now I am with another woman and we're very happy🤗

    • @dano9421
      @dano9421 Год назад +1

      @@kayasper6081 that is why you are a wanker

  • @danielscuiry2847
    @danielscuiry2847 2 года назад +73

    The woman who did this to me was practically open about it. I even caught her in a blatant lie. I only wish I’d ended it right there than letting it drag on. Lesson learned I hope.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +2

      I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @yegotyp4084
    @yegotyp4084 2 года назад +24

    The trickiest thing- we don’t want to believe in the worst. I experienced most of the red flags with my ex girlfriend. I dismissed my gut feelings thoug, because I didn’t want to believe in harsh truth. Thank you Anna.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +5

      You are not alone! Men aren't given enough credit for intuition. Listen to your gut! :)

  • @mushinkandoshu1588
    @mushinkandoshu1588 Год назад +21

    One real warning sign is when she stops being concerned that her family likes and accepts you. When she no longer cares about how they relate to you then you can be very certain that she is no longer interested in you. She has someone else in mind.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @alexguild
    @alexguild Год назад +68

    I'm being counseling/helping people in relationships for many years and I find this list very accurate and helpful for people.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @calebcunningham4106
    @calebcunningham4106 2 года назад +38

    I don't want to come across as insecure, controlling, or unreasonably jealous, so it's difficult to know when to address something that bothers me and when to just make a mental note of it or just overlook it. The accumulation of these red flags is a good indicator of a cheater but it's still very painful and often irreparable by the time you discover infidelity. The best solution is to avoid situations as much as possible where you might be tempted to cheat or where it might look suspicious.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +5

      I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @AndresCMas
      @AndresCMas 9 месяцев назад

      See if she does it 3 times, then have a talk about it

    • @lexluther1642
      @lexluther1642 7 месяцев назад +1

      as someone who recently filed for divorce and did marriage counseling for 2 years... both counselors we went to agreed that friends of the opposite sex are inappropriate in a marriage. Its not controlling... its exactly how you should feel.

  • @actmyage2149
    @actmyage2149 2 года назад +60

    On male-female friendships: when my wife was alive, I learned that it made sense not to get close to other women. It's too risky -- don't allow chemistry to form. Since being single, I have female friends, but it is because I know I have no interest in them beyond friendship. Your list: horrible, but absolutely on point. I've seen this before. I hope everyone else watching takes this to heart. These symptoms are a call to action if you hope to preserve/fix/restore the relationship. Valuable video. Hoping you're well. Been upping the prayers a bit lately; just felt appropriate. God bless you! -- Russ P PS/Is that Stuffy caught behind the plant? Looks uncomfortable, if it is!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +9

      Anyone who's experienced these signs will feel gut punched for sure! Thank you for the extra prayers, needed... pray for Canada!! Cat hiding: may need to learn a trick or two from kitty! Eep. God bless!

    • @estherchang4174
      @estherchang4174 2 года назад

      Being happy couple are most dangerous to the seduces from hunters .

    • @deviousj5868
      @deviousj5868 Год назад +2

      No need to try to fix it. Cut your losses if she's doing this there's nothing to fix. It's over. I personally never open my "heart" to others because personally to me "love" doesn't exist. Its a concept I cannot grasp.

  • @brambledemon1232
    @brambledemon1232 2 года назад +51

    All good points. This is why you need a prenuptial agreement. No alimony. No division of retirement income and pensions. Protect yourself. This is especially true if you live in no fault states, and make sure that you get a lawyer to negotiate it. My ex wife’s affair was the absolute best thing that happened to me, because it freed me up to start living again and it allowed me to break free from a toxic person. In my second marriage, if she cheats, I walk away free and clear. She gets nothing. The single dumbest thing a man can do is marry a woman without a prenuptial agreement.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

    • @18wheeler76
      @18wheeler76 Год назад +6

      wrong,this is why you dont get married at all.what is the point of making a contract with the government that says she gets everything in the divorce ? and what is the point of going into huge debt for a 1 night party that no one cares about 1 second after its over ?

    • @brambledemon1232
      @brambledemon1232 Год назад +5

      @@18wheeler76 There’s a whole slew of benefits that come from being married over not being married to someone that you’re sharing your life with. Pensions. Healthcare. Survivorship benefits. End of life care. You’re assuming that the relationship will fail. Even if my marriage failed, what I’ve gotten thus far exceeds what I would’ve gotten had I stayed single.

    • @brambledemon1232
      @brambledemon1232 Год назад +5

      @John Stevenson go look at the numbers. In virtually every metric there is, married men beat out single guys. Economics. Health. Happiness. Married men live longer.

    • @mittis64
      @mittis64 Год назад +1

      @@brambledemon1232 its not longevity its the quality of live that counts.

  • @michaelvandeginste3497
    @michaelvandeginste3497 Год назад +20

    Instead of cheating, my ex dumped me so that she could run straight to the new guy free of guilt. Before that, though, several of the red flags were present that I didn't heed until it was too late. She talked about him a lot, hung out with him on campus after class, bombarded me with a bunch of new problems she had with our relationship and then set me up to fail something so as to make that the last straw, so to speak.
    I guess I'm only sharing this to warn others if they see things similar to this.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +3

      Unfortunately, this is happening out there. Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 Год назад +1

      Thanks bro

    • @ScrimaGames1
      @ScrimaGames1 10 месяцев назад +1

      Dumping and moving on right away with other guys IS cheating. That's worth mentioning.

  • @JamesOnen
    @JamesOnen 2 года назад +15

    Assume that no matter what you do, she will cheat anyway. Just operate accordingly. She's not yours, its just your turn. Do not get married. Live happy!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +6

      Choose well, don't take her for granted and you'll have less risk. Marriage in the West is like playing Russian roulette with a half loaded gun!

    • @mikebaker7355
      @mikebaker7355 Год назад +2

      💯 percent facts 🙏

  • @dankcum
    @dankcum 2 года назад +88

    no signs needed because unfortunately, she is going to cheat on you in some way, shape or form. it's just the way it is. best not to get too attached to anyone these days.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +20

      Love is the biggest risk. Love too much, get hurt. Restrict yourself, get hurt. Only the brave should try it! lol

    • @drewtakesprofit8897
      @drewtakesprofit8897 2 года назад +1

      literally lol

    • @nephtaligonzalez4407
      @nephtaligonzalez4407 Год назад

      Unfortunately, love is being stepped on by people who cheat, for example I give my heart life and soul to a woman, but this woman is used to socializing With any one , yet the moment a man socializes with a woman all hell breaks lose , there is no right in that, I did that last night just to push a button the button was , she can talk to males and is ok but as soon as I talk to female bar tenders for a drink it’s all over.

    • @deviousj5868
      @deviousj5868 Год назад

      You are right. Best to cheat anyways. It gives you value that you have more options. I'm against it but if you see signs go ahead and cheat or break up.

    • @deviousj5868
      @deviousj5868 Год назад

      @@YourWingmam So not trying means you'd get hurt less.

  • @Dustinwhy8
    @Dustinwhy8 Год назад +6

    If you find yourself looking for proof of cheating, or vice versa, it’s already too late. The trust is gone.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @gglehteswhtemnAdChrstns
    @gglehteswhtemnAdChrstns 2 года назад +19

    6 mins in , “leave first, do not cheat”! Well this opens up to the most common form of cheating such as; “let’s take a small break so we can bind ourselves again”. She then pummels some guy for 2/3 weeks, then she wants to get back, she turns up at your foot step and says “let’s get back together, you are the one”!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @wachaushenzi
      @wachaushenzi Год назад +8

      If you take her back then, please paste this on forehead.. 🤡

    • @casual9982
      @casual9982 Год назад +1

      @@wachaushenzi lol seriously though

    • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
      @PeterShaw-ne1yq 10 месяцев назад +2

      She might be harbouring some undisclosed travelling companions 😮

  • @drat9625
    @drat9625 Год назад +8

    If she allows anything that even looks suspicious, if she doesn't have the self respect to avoid the very appearance; dump her. She has no respect for you or your dignity. Never entertain the excuses. If you catch her, she will hate you. If you accuse her, she will hate you. Either way, you lose, and of course it is always your fault. Just dump her and move on with your dignity and pride in tact. And to the guy who is cheating with her, do you really think if she cheats on me, she won't cheat on you to???

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @dragonlord1689
    @dragonlord1689 Год назад +17

    I broke up with a ex because I can tell she was going to cheat on me. It started with her getting a call from an old friend everything normal but the friend mentioned that my ex gfs ex bf had gotten sick.
    This is the same man that for weeks she told me was abusive and she hated him and hey I was so much better. She seemed concerned and I joked well maybe it’s he at least had to miss work her response about the person she “hated” “Oh I hope he didn’t have to miss work!” That made alarms go off in my head why should she even care??
    The NEXT day she starts making fun of me for being a goodie two shoes for following the speed limit and being just law abiding. She started saying she wished I was more dangerous. She also stopped packing my lunch, kissing me when I left for work or even waking up when I left to say goodbye.
    Of course then she told me how “You know I’d to start texting (her ex) again and be friends” I told her no I’m not comfortable with that he was only an hour away and I could already see he had control of her because she got mad when I told her no. She called me insecure and even told me it didn’t matter because she was her own women and I can deal with it!
    I told her the fuck I didn’t and broke up with her cause I could see how much she WANTED to be with him. I knew he would fuck won’t our relationship and maybe fuck her just as a “I fucked your girl” gloat he was a major asshole the few times I had to interact with him.
    She tried to reason it with my best friend being a women didn’t matter that we had never dated and she lives STATES away like hours by plane far. And is MARRIED WITH A KID! I’m close with her family we have been friends for years. She said well I could fly her down to my town for a night and say I’m at work (I work overnights) I was amazed by her bullshit and told her yeah cause that’s the same as your ex living an hour away! Who can easily drive here when I’m at work yeah ok!
    Seeing how much this meant to her I dumped her cause I could see she was obsessed with this guy. Best part her family kicked her out and I let her move in with me 😂 so I kicked her out to and she had to move in with someone else.
    Like idk if her feelings changed hearing about him or it was a long con and she thought I would just let happen but she gambled wrong 🤣

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +3

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @casual9982
      @casual9982 Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing this. I'm experiencing similar issues with my current girlfriend and her kids dad. They haven't escalated quite to this point yet...but this sounds too familiar! I'm keeping a close eye on things👀

    • @seven7upndown241
      @seven7upndown241 2 месяца назад

      Whaa

  • @scottpella7419
    @scottpella7419 Год назад +24

    Damn…you described my ex wife to a T!! And I missed them all🤣 10 years later, and I can honestly just laugh about it. Good work here!! Hope it helps someone

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @hwy27west
    @hwy27west 2 года назад +9

    So true, and you nailed it! Sad to say when I was young and dumb, I suspected before I knew, but it was too late. Thank you for your wisdom…

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @alejandro3485
    @alejandro3485 Год назад +67

    The male female friendship crap is such a modern day westernized society problem. I left a girl (not a woman) because she had her “day 1” best guy friends. They would call her, text her, check in on her, chit chat on video calls, hang out together, etc. Once you get in a serious relationship and have respect for your partner you make the sacrifice and cut out friends of the opposite sex. There are rare occasions that this may work with all parties but a majority of people are not and should not tolerate opposite sex close friendships. A shoulder to cry on can become a d1ck to ride on. When I was in my teens and 20s I had my “bestie” female friends. When I got older and started getting serious with someone I lost them ALL because I decided to become an adult. It’s disrespectful to be with someone and constantly be communicating and interacting with someone of the opposite sex that isn’t your partner. Men, don’t put up with females that have these bestie guy friends. Leave them and let the guy friends take care of them.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +4

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 Год назад +1

      good advice

    • @j.p.5373
      @j.p.5373 Год назад +1

      Absolutely true bro !!

    • @johnnyboy3357
      @johnnyboy3357 Год назад

      Its the power of media to corrupt unsuspecting people, if its portrayed in media that opposite genders can become besties, expect ignorant people to follow suit, opposite genders besties i believe was popularized only in recent generations, decades ago it reeks with malice, why is media doing it, there is a reason why at this point in civilization morality is being torn apart, its a corrupt cycle in any civilization

  • @roborovski008
    @roborovski008 Год назад +5

    Discovered this video too late but it's so 100% true, found her cheating and she's the one that dumped me. never did I feel so down in my life. Gladly I'm starting to move on slowly but surely.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @joshuafrench3920
    @joshuafrench3920 Год назад +7

    Yeah. I'm being cheated on for sure .

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @joshuafrench3920
      @joshuafrench3920 Год назад +1

      Thank You. I appreciate your prayers.

  • @frankwhite1928
    @frankwhite1928 2 года назад +15

    One hundred percent agree Anna .. DO NOT CHEAT! Make it perfectly clear to her once you become exclusive that cheating is a deal breaker and define it. For me it's any relationship with another man that keeps secret or lies about. The same rules apply to YOU. There's no getting away with cheating, if you stay in a relationship with some who cheated on you or you cheated on ... it never goes away EVER!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @lonnieandjodiehodge4496
    @lonnieandjodiehodge4496 Год назад +3

    This is so spot on. My last relationship was exactly all of this.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @elitewitnesssolutions5572
    @elitewitnesssolutions5572 2 года назад +1

    This video is so incisive. Not just this but everyone AJ makes. Keep it going you’re doing a great job.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

  • @theclown2393
    @theclown2393 Год назад +6

    Anna.....your doing a good deed out there by helping out us brothers who have good hearts and good intentions.. You definitely found your calling in life. Don't ever lose focus on what your doing, many thanks.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

    • @blackporscheroadster-yw8hb
      @blackporscheroadster-yw8hb Год назад

      YOU'RE

    • @theclown2393
      @theclown2393 Год назад

      @@blackporscheroadster-yw8hbTry to act all bobby bad a** ok grammar police🚔!YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR,YOUR, YOUR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR, UR

  • @matthewlalone3243
    @matthewlalone3243 Год назад +8

    On most of these points, I agree with her. But saying cheating can be prevented? Nope. Once someone wants to cheat, they're going to. There's no stopping that. Cheating starts in the mind first. After that, a person cheats. It might not be physical, but its a start. If you're going to be with someone, always look out for yourself. Always lay the boundaries and ground rules first before dating. That way a woman understands what she's getting into.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @alanherook4171
    @alanherook4171 Год назад +2

    I love your Down to Earth answers and questions without all the fluff involved

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @peterwinzeler2935
    @peterwinzeler2935 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Anna for being honest. That’s all we want(well,not all🙂). I can handle the truth a hell of a lot easier than a lie!

  • @wingslenses1800
    @wingslenses1800 2 года назад +3

    Hi Anna, OMG. This video just fell in my life from a past woman I thought was the one. A married couple friends of mine told me to back away from her. Which I did this is where my comments come from. A book I read also said, if you feel you are being ignored. Back away and never go back...
    Great video I will certainly see the next video you make.
    Take Care and have a great week, George.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you very much, George and take care of yourself as well!

  • @highboost1459
    @highboost1459 Год назад +1

    What you are saying here are pretty accurate. This is pure gold.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much!

  • @alexmorgan3435
    @alexmorgan3435 2 года назад +8

    So glad I am single. Can't be doing with all that. Life is too short to be dealing with false 2 faced people.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Not all women cheat. But... there are benefits of staying single: ruclips.net/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/видео.html

  • @jeffmann4201
    @jeffmann4201 Год назад +9

    You are spot on, Anna. Sadly, I have experienced all of these red flags with a very serious ex girlfriend. Another one not mentioned is when we three would be out for dinner and she and he would share food from the same fork or fingers. I was correct in thinking something was up and asked her about it only to be told I had bad judgement. I consider that to be psychological abuse. The answer for me was to end the relationship and define -for me- what love is in my mind. If you have to “sell” your partner on love and loyalty, you don’t have either. I’m jumping around too much, time to stop.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 Год назад

      Thank you for this. If you have to explain too much it’s not the one.

    • @Jerry-yb7po
      @Jerry-yb7po 9 месяцев назад +4

      What were the 3 of you doing out to dinner?

  • @paulgabler1476
    @paulgabler1476 6 месяцев назад +4

    Come on . Are you really telling me I’ve got to persuade my girlfriend not to cheat on me!! I don’t think that is very healthy at all. What’s mess. I’d rather just let it happen and walk away

  • @TheELEASY
    @TheELEASY 2 года назад +1

    Just the tip Tuesdays! This is absolutely great I am late but thank you for your counseling!

  • @bartrobertson8444
    @bartrobertson8444 Год назад +6

    I was in an open relationship ,but she never told me

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @8520204
    @8520204 2 года назад +6

    She said to me: "I'll never give you up. Someone else would snap you up just like that." Two months later she emptied the bank account and was gone.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @8520204
      @8520204 2 года назад +1

      @@YourWingmam I forgot to add, 18 months after she left - one week before the divorce was final - I get a letter from her stating: "You're not such a bad guy, I think I'll keep you." Well, I had learned my lesson. I stayed calm and was single for the next 12 years before marrying again.

    • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
      @PeterShaw-ne1yq 10 месяцев назад

      Someone else did 🤔

  • @Ragnarok691
    @Ragnarok691 Год назад +7

    I have female friends I would never in a million years sleep with. I never hang out with any of them alone. Ever.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, it really helps when we embrace that ❤

  • @johnswofford599
    @johnswofford599 Год назад +2

    Thank you for doing this. I lived 11 out of 12 of your signs with my ex-wife when she decided to cheat on me with a married man - total Tyrone. It got really ugly. I hope your advice helps those that may be going through this now.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

    • @johnswofford599
      @johnswofford599 Год назад +1

      @@YourWingmam Thank you so much. It was a long time ago, and I have left it behind. I was just amazed how spot on your advice was.

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 11 месяцев назад +2

    My girl , for now, has been talking to an older ex who is wealthy but married. No character or integrity on both of them.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  11 месяцев назад +1

      Why are you with her?

  • @adventureswithreggie
    @adventureswithreggie 2 года назад +24

    The bonus tip definitely struck a chord with me. That happened almost verbatim. The day before my wife left she blamed me for everything and accused me of cheating, said that she couldn't trust me because of the new job I got that was for us. The couple of weeks leading up to this she was very ugly and accused me of belittling her, trying to make her a house wife, lying to her in order to get her to marry me.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @jsisk117
      @jsisk117 Год назад +2

      Wow dude the woman I'm with is saying the same things

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 Год назад

      Sounds kind of toxic.

    • @joshuaburns4242
      @joshuaburns4242 Год назад +1

      @@jsisk117 You posted this 11 months ago, has anything happened?

    • @AndresCMas
      @AndresCMas 9 месяцев назад

      @@joshuaburns4242 what about you my guy?

  • @gregmacklin9758
    @gregmacklin9758 2 года назад +26

    This may not go over too well, but I noticed people early on (high school) early if someone lacked emotional integrity. And what I've noticed in people is once they cheat no matter what form of cheating, they don't stop .
    I've heard a few opinions on this topic, and so many people have discussed the reasons why people cheat. And after listening to enough professionals my conclusion is people who cheat on relationships don't need a reason. Just an opportunity. People who cheat are never fulfilled in general. No matter who their with their constantly on the hunt for attention and selfe gratification in someone else's circle.
    As far as rationalization of these personality traits goes, I don't think you can. Your either an honest person, or your not.

  • @Voncid
    @Voncid 2 года назад

    Thank's Anna, big huge , god bless back at you. I've been there and done that years ago and is part of why I'm a bachelor now.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching! Big hug!

  • @mwh3227
    @mwh3227 Год назад +14

    Here is something that you never get over - BETRAYAL! I's a pain that really never goes away! You may survive and sort of forgive the cheater, but you will never get over the betrayal!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @passthegravy7688
      @passthegravy7688 9 месяцев назад

      Very true. Don't let the experts tell you that you can heal. That is BS.

  • @concernedandequal1928
    @concernedandequal1928 2 года назад +7

    Hey @YourWingman, I really enjoyed the video, it was very informative. I recently got out of a three year relationship and what hurts most is that there was no closure. I'm not 100% positive that she cheated, but there's a good chance that she did. I have that gut feeling.
    She went out with her friends. Told me she was almost going home but never messaged me again after that for two hours. My first gut feeling was that she had been drinking, so I went looking for her. Once I got near her house, she messaged me saying she was fine. I call her, clearly she's drunk. So I ask her to give me her location so I can go pick her up. SHe refuses to give me her location. I call her again to insist she shouldn't drive and a female friend picks up the phone, and then a guy picks up the phone even though she told me it was just her and her female friends.
    The whole night she refused to tell me where she is or who she is actually with.
    Long story short, once we finally met like at 3 am, she yelled at me, cussed at me, accused me of being insecure. When I would call her out on her lies she would break down and cry. I finally told her that I think she was out cheating or at the very least meeting with people she did not want me to see her with. TO make things worse, she got a message from someone on snapchat as we argued and she said "let me just message him back." And I said "who is him?" And she said "I meant them."'
    She made me look into her eyes as she told me she would never cheat on me. But my gut feeling tells me she was doing something very wrong. Anyway, it's over.
    The best part about your video is when you tell us guys to listen to our gut feeling. I had a gut feeling she had been drinking and I was right. My gut tells me she was hanging out with another guy. I think I'm right about that too.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Always important to listen to your intuition

  • @greywolfarmory7336
    @greywolfarmory7336 Год назад +1

    Stays up all night on internet chat rooms with headset on or door closed. Big red flag!

  • @LutherThompson-rj2hy
    @LutherThompson-rj2hy 2 месяца назад +1

    My ex may or may not have left before she actually performed acts, but she definitely decided she was unhappy and must be elsewhere. I learned the hard way that you cannot make someone happy who refuses to be happy, and would rather have someone else and compares you unfavorably to her preferred other.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @realmenez
    @realmenez 2 года назад +14

    The editing is great 🙌🏽
    I been cheated on and I didn’t notice the red flags till it was too late. Love can really blind you from the truth 😅 and you’re just spot on with everything 💯

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      Thank you! Sorry that happened to you. :(

  • @paulg2132
    @paulg2132 2 года назад +3

    Yes, Anna, you nailed the traits/symptoms. I will spare you the details. On the flipside, I have had and do have great platonic relationships with women friends.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @johnh.nickels3832
    @johnh.nickels3832 2 года назад

    Another review of my past life, great advice

  • @egobuilders415
    @egobuilders415 2 года назад

    We are WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY past that point. Thank you. Now I can have someone better. Scared but smarter.

  • @Dbo61999
    @Dbo61999 2 года назад +7

    I think the hardest thing to do is trust a woman when she says trust me. Or says she’s not lying but she is. How can you disprove these words without legit following them around or going through their phones? Even today’s apps make it 100X easier to cheat. Just feels like the easiest time in human history for a man to be insecure, especially younger generations.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @rubentello9792
      @rubentello9792 4 месяца назад

      Very true, dont trust her. We are supposed to trust but cant.

  • @mickeybonejelly
    @mickeybonejelly 2 года назад +4

    A very interesting video I recommend anyone who suspects there is a problem in their relationship watch this and take note.
    Hi Anna, you are bang on with all these signs, I had this happen to me many years ago and literally as you were saying them I was thinking yeah she did this ,she did that. At the time I had a feeling something wasn't right but couldn't prove it and confronted her but she denied it was happening. I thought I was going crazy!! In the end I broke our relationship up, she finally realized he was just using her and came back to me.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @beawarenar
    @beawarenar Год назад

    All points 101% correct great

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Better to know sooner than later, big hug :(

  • @bobdillon1138
    @bobdillon1138 8 месяцев назад +1

    Its a sign of the times but i would expect most woman today will cheat on you sooner or later if the opportunity presents and she thinks she is not likely to get caught out.

  • @marus3953
    @marus3953 Год назад +3

    She's right, these are signs I see from people sharing about their SO cheating.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @RealLifeFinance
    @RealLifeFinance 2 года назад +18

    From Someone who has been cheated on twice by different women in marriage. This list is legit....And those 12 Red Flag behaviors (when caught twice doing same one) are a pattern and need to be addressed ASAP. Take it from me.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +2

      Sorry that happened to you! That sucks, no question. Don't sweep it under the rug, it won't fix itself. Thanks for sharing your experience, please share this video if you think it will save other men from heartache!

    • @RealLifeFinance
      @RealLifeFinance 2 года назад +1

      @@YourWingmam Your channel not only advises people, it helps many heal. Such as me.

    • @scottmurray5600
      @scottmurray5600 2 года назад

      @@RealLifeFinance Well said

    • @russellmiles2861
      @russellmiles2861 2 года назад

      You don’t control another’s sexual behaviour. You can always leave. This was all your problem.

  • @michaelhaney3388
    @michaelhaney3388 Год назад +2

    Thank you for this tip. Cheated for sure. I confronted the guy and he ran. She ran also. This happened many years ago.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @steve03260
    @steve03260 2 года назад +1

    100% spot on!

  • @andyhinds542
    @andyhinds542 Год назад +7

    I think a lot of these traits also apply to men. Also, yes, I have experienced these behaviours, too. When my ex-fiancée in the mid-90s kept talking about a bloke at Hendon Police college that she was spending a lot of time with who was 18 years older than her.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      True re: men! And yes, the signs are almost always there.

    • @Coffeendonuts
      @Coffeendonuts Год назад

      Old women love being piped down by young guys

  • @gregorycarlson6632
    @gregorycarlson6632 7 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve been dealing with this kind of thing for many years on a professional level and share some thoughts and observations. There is a sequence here 1.) Infatuation or “crush” then becomes 2.) Emotional Affair, then becomes 3.) Physical affair. But, it ALWAYS begins with infatuation. One way to tell if your partner is infatuated with someone is the way they get ready when they are going to be in presence of that person. This is most easily observed in women. She “goes the extra mile” in looking good. A bit more attention to hair, makeup, outfit, etc. I liken it to how she gets ready for a first date.🤔 Guys, if you see this in your partner you have a problem on your hands! If the other person is equally infatuated, you have a huge problem on your hands! You need to confront it immediately. It’s important that she knows you’re noticing this. Guys, watch out when you’re with a couple you socialize with. That’s where it very often begins. This was a great video with very helpful insights.👍

  • @saurabhjadhav6282
    @saurabhjadhav6282 2 года назад +2

    Listening all these points from a woman itself is soo helpfull
    Thank you soo much ma’am

  • @olanrewajubello5881
    @olanrewajubello5881 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for the amazing work.

  • @motoman1997
    @motoman1997 10 месяцев назад +4

    I don't understand why none sees how simple it is, just don't get into a exclusive committed relationship keep it casual and you'll never get hurt by a manipulative cheating woman. 🙂

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @Poraqui
    @Poraqui 2 года назад +39

    True story here. I was doing the long distance thing with someone. She was 3 hours away. Over the phone we were always lovy doby so I was satisfied on how things were going. At a given time it was my time to go see her and make the trip. I was as always very welcomed when she saw me and then we proceeded to get to her home.
    When she was laying her things down on the dresser like keys and cellphone I've noticed she put the phone with the screen down.
    In that moment I asked her about that and she said it was unintentional hehe.
    So I asked her if I could see her phone while offering my unlocked phone for her to browse too.
    She didn't wanna do it so then and there I dumped her and made in that very same day the 3hour trip back.
    Nothing feels better than self respect.

  • @eduardocastillo2759
    @eduardocastillo2759 2 года назад

    Excellent insights. Thank you!!

  • @rickeustace7343
    @rickeustace7343 Год назад +1

    Wow, Pardon the pun, BANG on................I wish I saw this last year. Your video's are great and thank you for your wisdom.

  • @rapsack7058
    @rapsack7058 2 года назад +3

    I allways get scared if a woman get a totaly new hair cut...or new fashion style...She wants something changed and you never knew what it can be you!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @CochoAntonio
    @CochoAntonio 2 года назад +6

    Anna is so right on this one! I got dumped for the so called "best friend" twice, so guys when you spot these signs act immediately for your own good, you deserve better.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

  • @Solarlube
    @Solarlube Год назад +1

    ALL of the above! Got me ready for number two and thought totally different girl/woman wrong. It must be me lol

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @jamesguillory2081
    @jamesguillory2081 2 месяца назад

    Spot on!

  • @davids.8496
    @davids.8496 2 года назад +4

    B I N G O! Anna, you nailed those signs. Those are spot on what happened in my relationship. How do you know these things....please don’t tell me you cheated to gain this knowledge? Unfortunately for me, I did not have Anna’s videos back when they would have been really really helpful to me....but I got them now. Know the signs! Look for the RED FLAGS. Remember the 5 D’s of relationships: Dodge, Duck, Dip, Dive and Dodge!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      I'm sorry that happened to you! I've gathered my intel from study, observation, coaching and personal experience to help others avoid heartache. Red flags: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ

  • @deviousj5868
    @deviousj5868 Год назад +21

    If she is about to do it, and changes up on you go ahead and cheat on her before it happens or if you suspect it break up with her right then and there. Respect yourself guys. As soon as her hair is cut or dyed dip out and end it. No amount of "Love" is ever worth being disrespected. Don't ever get too close in your feelings you lose your logic.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

    • @primitiivireaktio
      @primitiivireaktio Год назад

      "Oopsies" when she didnt cheat on you afterall. 🤣 Ya'll men are so funny and simple. These videos are so black and white, you should definitely take no advice.

  • @aviralsrivastava7314
    @aviralsrivastava7314 Месяц назад +1

    Such an eye opening video.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Месяц назад

      Glad to hear that thank you for sharing your feedback I appreciate that 🙏🏼

  • @vickigonya9432
    @vickigonya9432 4 месяца назад +2

    Yes, Ive been platonic friends with my ex-husband's best friend since 1989. He's married and I'm friends with his wife as well. Our texts are not flirty. We occasionally eat lunch at a restaurant but only because we are working together. We all 3 remodel houses. There is not now nor has there ever been any interest between us - nothing flirty, inappropriate nor secretive. In fact our conversations are on speaker phone. I don't get involved in their relationship. And I don't involve them in my life. 😊

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @sean8060
    @sean8060 Год назад +4

    I’m with Billy Crystal on this. Men and women cannot be JUST friends. Which is why out of respect for my wife, I have never, nor would I ever take on a female friend.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @bernicebasanesjr8650
    @bernicebasanesjr8650 Год назад +5

    this all signs mentioned is absolutely correct,I do have an experience that my ex cheated and decieved me for having an affair of another guy(foreigner) the painful part is that the other guy which she had a relationship send me their conversation as a proof that they have a relationship but my ex denied even have conversation between them...CHEATER IS ALWAYS A CHEATER

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

    • @bernicebasanesjr8650
      @bernicebasanesjr8650 Год назад

      thanks mam

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 Год назад

      Sorry mann

  • @rooksman64
    @rooksman64 Год назад +5

    a long distance relationship complicates things so much more

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      I feel you. it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @gw6496
      @gw6496 Год назад

      Long distance relationship will never work!!

    • @rooksman64
      @rooksman64 Год назад

      @@gw6496 they will if they don’t stay long distance

  • @hamhari6921
    @hamhari6921 2 года назад +1

    Hhhhhhh Anna sparkling as always , The way you are expalaining is professionel coachv and useful !! Thank you so much

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      You're welcome! Thank you for appreciating it!

  • @michaelmoore1331
    @michaelmoore1331 Год назад +2

    I recall how I responded to offers to cheat (When I was married). I would respond, "It occurs to me that if I were the sort of man to cheat on my wife, I would not be the sort you are seeking."

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @guntertorfs6486
    @guntertorfs6486 2 года назад +5

    You forgot the Asian Chad : the Chang. This video seems to be along the same line of the video from two weeks ago. You made it so comprehensive it covers almost all possibilities. Great work. Agree with all of it. It's an important subject that needs to be adressed , but don't become too gloomy will ya. ( no you're not there yet ,of course ) The Anna i got to know from your memoir can be melancholic but looks at everything with a ( your ) quirky sense of humor. So endearing. Keep up the good work , lovely lady.

    • @robaldridge6505
      @robaldridge6505 2 года назад

      thats his cousin, you mean Wang

    • @guntertorfs6486
      @guntertorfs6486 2 года назад +2

      @@robaldridge6505 OK my bad. Thanks.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +2

      Chang! lol love that! Careful on the gloom: noted! Thanks for reading my quirky memoir!!

  • @thebestofj.fraley
    @thebestofj.fraley Год назад +7

    I've been cheated on by a couple of women. I'm not going to go through that again. IF, and I do mean IF I ever get into another relationship and I start seeing the same signs as I did before, if its my house, she would be ousted. If its her house, I out the door making tracks. I honestly doubt I will ever be in a relationship again because I have serious trust issues and its not something I can just get over. When it happens, its a complete betrayal of trust and I am broken because of women.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +2

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

    • @f.r.ashley1317
      @f.r.ashley1317 Год назад +1

      Same here bro, I’ll never fully trust again.

    • @thebestofj.fraley
      @thebestofj.fraley Год назад

      @wanker2us wally I don't have a problem with being alone. I save money and so far I've returned to college to upgrade my degrees. If I were with a woman, I would not be able to afford college and probably wouldn't have enough money for TP.

    • @blackporscheroadster-yw8hb
      @blackporscheroadster-yw8hb Год назад +1

      Don't let vacuous superficial women define you. Go your own way and do you own thing. Plenty of porn on the interweb.

    • @seven7upndown241
      @seven7upndown241 2 месяца назад

      i hear all you who share your stories, like these things happened to a close friend or relative or maybe me. it is an honor t share your pain and betrayal my man of the things i see especially married women who put themselves in situation and allow to be manipulated to feel loved and excited like they are young girls. Only God can discipline them at this point.

  • @davidsisson2026
    @davidsisson2026 2 месяца назад +1

    This is spot on

  • @PNWTruckCamper
    @PNWTruckCamper Год назад +2

    As someone who has been in all three roles this is very accurate

  • @goodwinaj
    @goodwinaj Год назад +3

    Gut feeling is typically correct 👍

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Always important to listen to your intuition!