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How do you get a girl that wanted an open relationship in the beginning because she isn't ready to settle down but you both have set a cut off date and in the beginning when she was the one that was cheating mainly but when the guy finally gives up on being faithful and plays her game she gets jealous and actually starts wanting him which is what he was after to begin with but it comes and goes like it's only when he tells her that he has plans with someone else that shes interested ( both agreed to be upfront and honest at the start but she has failed to keep her end but the guy has caught her not telling him anything and talked to her about it every time) when the guy has plans with someone else then shes interested in him that he can see and tell and only says she is any other time when the guy knows he's only being told that and that her saying that means nothing. I love my fiance but that's my situation with her I'm giving her time at the moment so she can prove to me that she wants me ,that shes stopped cheating , that for lack of a better way to day it but to prove to me that I can trust her again even though I could tell and know she was cheating ( which I dont /didn't mind as long as I was told as long as she was honest with me but I ended up finding out from what she let slip and swore she told me or found out from a friend of mine and hers ) yet when I cheat she gets jealous and is actively after me because she doesn't want me to up and leave her for someone else but that's not going to happen because I love her completely and truly but I want her I only want her and for her to want me and show me that she wants me not just say she does
If it's just one point, she a just getting the tip.🤣 Seriously, your advice makes sense, especially for married. P.s. out of all 3 of my LTR marriages, I've gotten more happy endings without trying so hard to get one from her by jumping through hoops of fire.😁🍆😳🤘
Liked earlier. You know that one station on TV that's just a snowy screen. At many times during the day men are actually taking into account her feelings and needs, (if he really cares) and many times during life itself, us men are tuned into that one channel, so a lot of outside of intricate blah, blah interference (stuff that is not imperative at the moment) does not cloud things up that he does not think needs to be💞...
@@itsmesandman Been with the wrong person then. I'm more than happy in mine the secret is putting that person before yourself and if they truly love you then they will do the same with you!
@A Z U R E B L U E it seems you need to take a tip from Mediocre Tutorials: if you keep having the same issues with people, look at the kind of people you attract and surround yourself with. You straight up said you've had the same issues? Because you keep attracting low value women. Just because you live in Atlanta doesn't mean snow doesn't exist, it means its not in your immediate surroundings. You have metastasized failure in to your being.
Spot on!!!! And since when we man need to make them the center of the universe and clean, and cook and pay bills and still not enough they get chads to play also... noo noo noo game over, new rules, new man out there. what does the woman bring to the table? and better not be the table.
I just came back from my home country and dated a lady that wants to be treated like a queen, I already started to walk away. I don't want to be her slave .
@@YourWingmam Yes ... my Ex-Wife Influenced me and made me Happy when she finally signed my Divorce Papers 1997 ... been Extremely Happy, Healthy & very Wealthy ever since!
@YourWingmam . . . but most women rely on said happiness coming from their partners. Keeping her happy / satisfied is unrealistic long term because most women have a long list of requirements and lack clear communication skills. Most want the man to just "know" what she needs. It's like dealing with a child.
Actually it was true 70 years ago. Since about 1980 guys who have never been married live longest, followed by married guys followed by divorced guys. So if you dont want to end up in the bottom 2/3 don't get married.
Excellent video 👍🏼 After marriage, raising a family, divorce and a couple of serious relationships after...I am happy to be single. Videos like this help me process what I have been through. Thank you 🙏🏼
I would forget the whole Fifty Shades of Gray thing. Especially in at least for 6 months. Letting women be feminine ? When people first fall in love they are prone to agreeing to do things to please their partner. But later on it’s not uncommon to change outlook or say “ I JUST went along with it to please you”. It isn’t just confused women, It absolutely happens that the 50 shades thing later on can make the man seem insensitive and the gf like a sex slave. Of course try new things, but you’re looking for trouble with a strict dominant/ submissive situation. Most people are just not wired for it 100%.
my 2 take aways from this: 1. A super honest, comprehensive assessment by Anna, thank-you, well done :) 2. It did nothing to make me want to pursue women any more because of this :)
Exactly my friend, it's a total waste of time for a man to focus on these things as any woman that feels the vibe with you will completely abandon all of these things. Trying to win her over with your mastery in these areas will get you know where and be a complete waste of time, energy and money. NEVER EVER qualify yourself to women. Never fall into trying to BE what she wants or needs. You must maintain your FRAME and your PURPOSE and never ever worry about impressing her or trying to get her to like you. This is the Modern WOmen TRAP, it gives them POWER and CONTROL over the relationship. In reality, a woman wants a man to be the LEADER and lead in the relationship. As confidant and successful man women MUST qualify themselves to a men. No man is going to waste his TIME, ENERGY, MONEY, and attention on a woman that has no intention of providing any value to you. A woman MUST show a man that they are SUBMISSIVE, COMPLIANT, RESPECTFUL, HONORABLE, and INTERESTED in the man FIRST and foremost. A WOMEN must be SEDUCTIVE and ATTRACTIVE FIRST, she needs to be a LADY and show a man that she respects herself and can be a traditionally feminine woman. In today's Modern Women's world too many women are HOES and LOOSE and feel they are privileged, deserving, and entitled so they need to be VETTED for a period of time, preferable 1 year. If she can't be a LADY from day 1 then I recommend you move on and don't look back. None of these 10 secrets really matter. Did you notice her very FIRST item on the list? If SHE LIKES YOU she will COMPROMISE on this list. Meaning, if there is a VIBE she will give up on ALL OF THEM for a man that makes her feel happy and comfortable and safe. Therefore, focus on maintaining your FRAME as a man, ensuring she knows she is safe being herself around you, and then you need to LOOK and LISTEN and see if she can maintain being a LADY regardless of the situation. As a MAN we do not want to WASTE our TIME on women that initially just do not have the training or desire to be a LADY.
I remember lying in bed with my ex once when she said, " I want a provider" my responses was " I want equal rights." Later she would say " I want a partner to help me with her kids and her house. " , my response was " well , you divorced that guy. This isn't how this works. " Just seems to me that she wanted to set up rules that worked to her advantage in the moment her mind was in. No thank you.
That's taken from a line from the musical comedy, Pippin. In the show, King Charlemagne has a 'trophy' wife who is overtly sexy and overdraws her allowance from the royal treasury over and over. She says, "you know how bad I am with money. I just don't understand such things." She leaves and he breaks the 4th wall and says to the audience, "Sometimes I wonder if the fornicating I'm getting is worth the fornicating I'm getting!"
Had a friend also tell me the same thing, that his father told him, before he got married. After his wife had their child, for 7 + years, he told me he was relegated to "rubbing one out". She finally came around, and they had the discussion where she wanted another child for her daughter, and to start trying again. He'd gotten a vasectomy before hand and instead served her divorce papers. He'd suspected cheating, and in the divorce decree it stated if she cohabitated with another man, alimony was permanently terminated. Didn't take her 2 months after the court decree before a Private investigator he hired caught her. A fellow teacher at the school she worked at. They'd been cheating all along. She was pregnant 5 months after divorce was finalized. Believe it, women monkey branch. They don't release you until they have their next hookup partner already in bed and rearranging their guts for them.
So if you call a woman hot, that's bad! So if you call a woman sexy, that's bad! If you tell a woman she's beautiful she will friend zone you.... Right? If women didn't have a pussy they would be dead by now
@@syrenaxhaferi7278 hypocritically, if it were a woman making the same statement it would be praised, glorified, and considered “strong”. Men and women are stronger together, and this is something that may be learned after hard consequences driven by those those who wish to divide them. Wake up, please
06:00 N°8 Women want men to actively keep making them happy, interested, “feeling the butterflies”. That’s why one common defense when they cheat is _”You weren’t making me happy”_ Or the classic _”I’m bored, let’s do something.”_ translation: _”Think of something fun for me and pay for it.”_ Men are not court jesters.
My ex used to say "We have to do something fun today". Usually it was Sundays. I always was tempted to say "WE don't have to. YOU'd like to do something". Never said it. Maybe unfortunately ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Concern about body count isn't just a cultural or psychological thing for men. Several studies have revealed that women who have had many partners will make lousy partners and drop out much more often than women who have had fewer partners. So, it's logical for men to avoid considering such women for long-term commitment. And since today 50 percent of all marriages fail...You get the point.
@@YourWingmam Do you ever say anything thoughtful, in response to a comment? I mean, men take the time to offer their feedback. You mindlessly regurgitate the same line to every comment. Why bother? It means nothing. How about a serious, reasoned reply?
yeah, its all about oxytocin. Men and women are not biologically the same. Any ideology that thinks this is not fit for purpose. And yet here we are...
It's not a man job to entertain a woman. A relationship is not all about a woman and her happiness. If you notice a woman begins to consider hypergamy you must cut her off immediately no questions asked.
Marry practical women rather than a phone-junkie wearing false eyelashes, extended fingernails, plucked eyebrows, bortoxed lips and and kinda girl. Marry a woman with a brain and a sense of humor and your life will be wonderful. You're gonna wear yourself out and never accomplish anything of value other than being some kind of glorified "prince charming" and wosh your life's gone, trying to do what? Get on with your life and be honest to your own values and be CREATIVE in your endeavors to create a better world, and during the journey, you will find the right partner, or not, but at least you didn't waste YOUR life.
Bro, if you want to have a girlfriend you need to be highly educated barbarian, a driver, a handy, a provider, a father, a therapist and an entertainer all at once, that's the secret :) otherwise she will be unhappy, never stop shittesting you and finally leave. (That the best part ;))
Oh wow! Do we make this reality of just finally realize it? We're human beings with powerful brains, but it looks like using a nuclear reactor just to make breakfast toast!!!!
My ideal woman is a friend who likes to do the same things I do like hiking, traveling, saving for retirement, sex, etc. These things are a lot less fun to do you yourself. She should be an addition to my life rather than a burden. If not, I’ll just stay single. My first wife was a constant burden in nearly every aspect of my life but she was hot. Not worth it!
Absolutely. Just imagine if the religion of Islam took over. Islam would shut this $hi! Down!!! All this nonsense about overspending and overly special to please her would go to the trash can. The world has gone mad, and Islam would put it in a straight line.
The first thing that comes to mind about this is BODY COUNT. Also, any woman who will give a guy the "Mr. Right Speech" (no kissing until after the 3rd date, no sex until we are in a committed relationship) will also never admit that while you are trying to make that happen, she has also been busy giving the "Mr. Right NOW!!! Speech" to other guys the whole time.
....yes we know your secrets, because its another man you are cheating with on us and guess what!!! Men talk!!! and share info. Some of you women are so dumb!!!....but think that you are so smrt....I mean smart!!!
I had a wife for over six years. Multiple trips to Paris, Rome, Istanbul, London, etc., etc. Designer clothes. Nice apartment in NYC. Expensive concerts, dinners. Treated her like absolute gold. Always told her how much she meant to me. Respectful, kind. Her family loved me. Paid out the nose for life insurance so that she would be well taken care of when I was gone. Result: NOT HAPPY. It would be easier to baptize cats than to keep most women content. Most of them are built to self-sabotage and have Insane expectations of other human beings, notably, men. Just listen to the ridiculous laundry list in this video.
..... ,, Solid yes...I'm 65...& just out of a Divorce... From 1 Hot filipina Rn...w...mental issue... N...has my 2 sons in lock pt..22 years n 25 years old.... I'm not dating... I'm going out w..1 Beatty.. My x- college - Computer 1.0.1. Lab partner... No chemistry... She has zero brains... Alcoholic.. N...constantly on her cell phone... I asked if she reads...have you read The Classic s...She said " NO "...... I've noticed. Groups of Women going out inn PACs of wolves
😂😂 yep, just avoid them completely. They're a pita N.b., just here to see if this Tuber has any actual enlightenment and for the comments... Only the comments contain enlightenment
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
When I was young I knew little about women but wanted them very much. Now when I know more about them (but far from every thing) I want them much less.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
All this woman just said was this: It is easier to work four part time jobs , than it is to please the average woman. Her story also explains why men in relationship get prematurely grey, and die prematurely early.
Talk about having secrets.... My wife [now separated] has told me that I should work night & day for all the "energy" I've had at night to try to spend it with her in the bedroom, but she has significantly dwindled in that activity with me for over a year down to basically zero which lasted several months. I told her to take a hike... though it was really me who had walked away because I won't tolerate that garbage any longer. Her "feelings" about this-and-that don't affect me anymore. She needs to change her attitude and lack of gratitude towards me if she wants to work things out. Her excuses of likely having a low libido, entering menopause, being too tired in general, etc. has run its course. I caught her a couple of times using her phone for her own self pleasure. I can imagine how many times this has been going on until I started spying on her after noticing different patterns and a new routine when it came to the late-evening hours before I went to bed. Yet she's not too tired at night before bedtime to spend hours on her phone or watch different series on Netflix via the iPad. It's actually called "manipulation" and "disrespect" to put it more accurately... to say the least.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
Dude the part about body count was a kick to the guts and almost dug and early grave for myself I really don't know what kees me holding on still or why it hurts
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
Sex is much better with a happy woman though. So agree, not your responsibility but I've been richly rewarded for doing some things I "wasn't responsible for".
@@Ace.0.0.0. Can't say she always thanks me but I don't expect that ALL the time. I do for her the way I want done for me. As my girl, she is entitled to certain things but they are things I do, not necessarily buy. Men are not responsible for woman's happiness. Men are responsible for their own happiness. Keep your woman happy in certain ways and it will go a long way toward keeping you happy most of the time though. It's really kinda what makes you in a relationship vs just being fk buddies. When you love someone you want to do the special things for her; make breakfast, rub her feet or neck when she comes home from work, detail her car, etc. It truly is the thought though, not about tit for tat. It is demonstrative that you think about her and want her to be happy. If you don't do that, no matter how much you tell her you love her, it will be just words. Actions truly do speak louder than words. If you are doing special things and never get positive responses, maybe you should be looking elsewhere.
Thank you! As a old man can I add... In the end men and women Must chose to love each other in spite of our shortcomings it is the only way the relationship will survive. A good man will work himself to death for his wife and children. If he includes what he is dealing with at work it will probably be a limited disclosure. Some times he will be working more than someone should, know that it is probably not his choice. He is doing what he has to to bring home the bacon. Sometimes women may see this as a lack of attention. He is just exhausted. In the end more men are aware they will lose everything in a divorce situation. Justice is not a factor. He will be on the hook decades or more watching his children suffering with no hope. Sorry to go there, but we are instructing men of this reality. It is really hard place for men to be. I have been married twice. The first time 8 years, 3 years to get divorced. This time 29 plus years, my wife is the best friend in this age I have ever had. We both went through the fire together so to speak.
Women need women friends to talk endlessly about relationships, who said what, who did what, emotional everything, drama, more drama, etc etc etc. a man will never meet all these needs in women for any length of time, and it would be too exhausting to even try.
You guys got no man in you . Just sitting here watching this and . Omg . I just got an insight into woman . And how you both can have a good relationship . And scurry away like the . Wimpy guys you are . 😂😂😂😂🎂👍
This is all very nice, thank you. Now it’s back to the real world. I looked down at these comments and there’s so much damage done. I truly do not think today’s woman deserves a good man.
@@whythis28 What women want is very simple. She wants whatever she definitely cannot get, and does not want whatever she thinks she can definitely get.
If i had saw this video 10 years ago i could have avoided marrying my ex-wife 👍🏻 If women starts to show these charecteristics described in this video, it's time to move on and save yourself. We live in a western society of equality and the door swings in both ways. "Never negotiate with terrorists".
Then you need to realize as soon as she starts testing you it's time to leave. Because in all reality she's not testing you she's training you to be submissive to her and it certainly will never be reciprocated
Not necessarily. Maybe shes been fucked over by assholes, Molested by an uncle and cousins and doesent quite trust men and really needs a hero. Sure, some women test for the wrong reasons like you said but being empathetic and not putting all women and all men in the same box is not fair to the innumerable possibilities and personalities derived from response to human stimuli over their childhood to the time of said “testing.” Don’t lump them all in the same category and please just get out there and socialize with people instead of listening to these bitter so-called ladies men on RUclips that consider themselves high value men looking for high value women. Give me a fucking country girl any day and I’ll show you high value.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
I don’t care how “hot” or “sexy” a woman is, I never call her “beautiful” until I’ve seen that she is beautiful on the inside...character, integrity, compassion, grace, femininity, etc... The same way I don’t throw the word “love” around, I don’t throw the word “beautiful” around. That’s why I quit saying my ex is beautiful...she pretty...even sexy, but not beautiful.
Exactly they all want to think theyre beautiful on the inside but the only beauty they can disguise is on the outside. They don't see that we see the difference. I had an ex that told me i should treat her like a queen, so I asked her to stop acting like a princess and I'll consider it!
@@istra70 They can help it as much as we can control our nature. The system and culture has changed to encourage, facilitate, support and incentivise their betrayal, their nature. This is the big problem. Previously society, laws, culture was designed to keep a lid on both sexes' "animal nature" and keep them behaving as civilised humans. Big mistake to take down all the safeguards. Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind!!
Thank God I have made the choice to remain single. I have made this decision before the Internet was invented. And since then, I have been doing really well in my life...and I am really happy. By the way, I already know the things on this list and that's why I have made the decision to remain single.
Yep I know that one. You end up just keeping shtum to avoid any chance of sparkling her off over whatever because she can. Then they complain you never tell them stuff 🙄.
@@keyboardfreedomfighter5734 Who is the fool here? A video about women's secrets should be about things they don't want men to know. Like hybristophilia, their preference for dominant badboys rather than teh kindhearted men they profess to desire, their dual mating strategy, cognitive dissonance, and solipsism.; not about how men can make them happy. You're either a solipsistic woman with no awareness or a feminine man. Pathetic.
Wow, I learned something profound. Loads of videos by women on men needing to work on themselves to find inner happiness. But we are expected to make women happy. Why can not they follow their own advice and work on themselves to become inwardly happy? I am an old man who has never had a girlfriend due to childhood traumas perpetrated by women. I would like to find a good woman to find out what "love" is. From your video, I guess I should stop trying. I should expect the rest of my days will be lonely and empty.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
All I heard at that point was "happy wife, happy life" and then thought "well I spent over a decade in that constant state of purgatory so noooooooooope time to skip back to stand up"
@@DrGingerHamster Iv had many mates go to the East for partners and the women there do try and make the man happy. I think many women in the West have changed over the decades and now its all about them. I had a mate thats wife cheated on him with a cop so he went to Ukraine and got with a women half hes age that worshiped him until he died at age 86. Everyone iv known that went to the East for a partner was blown away by how the women are but the mates that bought them back to the West regretted it after some years as they started to act like Western women. Women in the East are stronger than women in the West as in they dont walk out over a minor issue or would drop you for a richer man etc.
@@iurk0_streaming Everytime the lady who drive the ice cream truck as me if I want sprinkles on my $15, one scoop cone? I say yes, so I simp a little bit here and there six days a week. I really have to quite dairy and save more money.
If a mature woman (read older woman still not attached) is obsessing about a man's behavior in social media, she's going to wind up alone. Why? Because no man in his right mind is going to deal with such neediness and narcissism. It's not going to happen. What you described are big red flags.
Thanks for explaining this lose/lose scenario. I stand a better chance of hitting the lottery than making a woman happy on an ongoing basis. It really sounds like the juice is not worth the squeeze.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
It can be worth it if she is willing to reciprocate. I've had respectful, submissive women (in both a 50 shades way and in a willing to take direction way) and it was very nice. I was getting my needs met.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
This all reminds of a song by the Allman Bro’s called “ Sweet little Angle “ The lyrics are :- I met a sweet little Angle, I love the way she spreads her wings She wraps her arms around me gives love, joy and everything, I gave a diamond ring and every other thing I took to dinner, she said thanks for the snack. I built her a penthouse, she said thanks for the shack I gave her some children and now she wants to give them back I’ve been down harder days etc etc
Bottom line is this men: if you focus too much on trying to please a woman you will go insane. Be you and treat her with love and respect . Dont fret over the small stuff
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
You forgot the most important secret that women don't want men to know!! That they will become bored in 6 months or less and eventually cheat on you and say it's your fault !
they get bored by a week or less, and start nagging, and looking funy, and want more and more... ask for a glass of water and see if it is in a clean glass, half empy or full, and how she brings it you know you are always in trouble anyway.
And those who cheat, after we fall for them, many times are narcissists. There are many of them. To lure us into the relationship, they lovebomb us, and we fall for it when they are attractive and nice to us. Then the devaluing and passive-aggressive comments start and worse, sometimes after only a few months. And they say it's OUR fault they cheat. Once they find someone else after texting and even cheating on us with another man, they discard us without hesitation. It's all about THEM. Little to no empathy. Sure, we make big mistakes, but if they truly loved us, they would want to work it out and work together - and agree to psychological therapy and counseling. But narcissists really can't experience true love and caring and compassion and empathy. Social media and dating sites are often where these women prey on us. I am only one of many men (and yes women) who have been victimized and abused by predatory narcissists.
You absolutely have to love this, " Even if she doesn't know how to communicate or even know what her real needs are," You need to know and figure it out. Nevermind she's an adult but it's on you fellas if you can't figure out even what she may not know. Like your content but this is still hilarious.
I matched with a chick on bumble who had on her profile that read “the way to her heart is to make me laugh.” After exchanging a few messages I asked her to say something funny. She replied “I don’t tell jokes” and unmatched me.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content. Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
Hahaha, oh, no kidding. The amount of times Ive asked something like "So how do you like your coffee?" Or "What music venue do you like going to the most?" And its been met with utter confusion. Like "I dont drink coffee, why would you think that? Not everybody drinks coffee." You know, if someone asked me something that seems off the wall, like say kicking babies in the head, my first inclination would be to wonder why... then immediately go to my profule to see if it's on there. "Yep, right there, I'll be..." Yet they put so little effort into any of this, that even expecting her to check her own profile before embarrassing herself, is too much to ask.
Exactly, it's a demonstration of female entitlement, notice nothing mentioned on what women should do to earn a man , respect a man, compliment a man, it's all me me me.
I don't want a relationship where I constantly have to "score points" and beg for a woman's approval. It is time men realized the value they bring to the table and make the woman be the one that is required to score "points".
Noooo! It. neeeeeds to be reciprocal....equal hunger in both parties...to. WANT to make the other one happy....It is out of true love, mutual respect, TRUST. earned not given....and. no one is doing it to score points...We ATE BOTH DOING BECAUSE WE WANT THE PARTNER AND TO CONTINUE TO BE HAPPY!!!
It's a trick she plays to try and get control as per the curse in the garden: Gen 3:16 To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.”
The majority of the time the man has to bring the damn table, set it, provide the food and clear the damn dirty dishes. Women bring very little now days.
@@patrickreynolds9853 OMG thank you, My soon to be EX wife somewhere along the lines feel into this crap and after 35 years together asked me one day what I brought to the table. I said I bring the FFFing table.
Kudos to Anna, for having the guts, to put out this “truth-bomb” video, for the benefit of us men. This video will, sadly, piss off many woman who have to conceal their true identity to us men, for fear that we’ll walk away. Men, be glad we don’t have to live with ourselves like this. Now we are warned. I recommend that we men watch this video over and over again until you’ve memorized the whole content.
This made me think of a joke I heard many, many years ago. A wife told her husband that if he loved her, he would give her compliments. So he started giving her very nice compliments. After a few months, her ego was so inflated from believing all of his compliments that she felt she was too good for him, so she left him.
This list epitomises why so many of the best men are leaving the west and finding wives elsewhere 😅. My wife is gorgeous, smart, fun, loving, caring, and loves excelling in what she calls the more traditional role of a woman. She loves to cook my favourite foods, clean the house, arrange all the celebrations AND she loves to take care of my and her physical needs at least twice a day. She never lets a day go by without making sure to tell me and show me, that she loves me. In return I make sure I am the absolute best at fulfilling my role as the more traditional man. I feel better, look better, my mental health is better and I no longer need medication. Cheers
Thanks for the info! I've been doing almost everything wrong, but I'm 63 and completely impotent now, but in case I get reincarnated, I'll make good use of the advice!
Very good video. Just one recommendation. It would be good to keep in mind that women are not that good at showing physical attraction to men while men need to feel this just like women do. Men dont mind showing appreciation for a womens beauty. Its men who dont get enough compliments in this area throughout society alt all levels even in marriages.
I appreciate the video and some points are interesting to think about, but I feel the same as a lot of others here: You articulated those points in a way that completely scared us away. The way you said those things, all I could think was: "astronomically high maintainence, no thank you". Now you seem smart, so I'm sure you're aware that all of those points, or at least some, are also valid the other way around. A relationship is a two-way-street, women have to give something back, of course, otherwise she risks dying alone. And I mean give back emotionally, not only physically, because that I can get anywhere.
@@x-man5056On a contrary - Have my job, my friends, sports like sailing , skiing diving, motorbiking , fishing .... Couldn't have more fulfilled life and sex - without commitment. My kids are past teenage years so I am experiencing total freedom for the first time in my life (corona didn't affect me a bit ). Couldn't be happier...... P.S. ....... Only boring people experience loneliness.....and if you can't make yourself happy - even less you'll make someone else happy. Happiness comes from within - misunderstanding it is a main reason of broken relationships - people expect from partners to make them happy ( how shallow ).
@@istra70 "Only boring people experience loneliness", what utter nonsense. Never been in the military I would say. Think astronauts don't get lonely for their mates in the ISS? Are they boring? What about military widows, are they boring also? Some poor guy sleeping in a hot, dirty tent in some Godforsaken desert sand pile, or tropical mud hole? It can get very exciting fast there but they still get lonely. Never seen a man willing to (figuratively) cut off a finger just to embrace his love and taste her lips? You say you live an exciting life, maybe you do. But you don't know much abut being lonely. Lucky for you,...so far.
Get a rescue dog. It'll be appreciative of what you do for it and bring you the companionship you long for without the drama. Hang tight, I hear sexbots are on the way. Too late for me (I'm in my 60s) but guys in their late thirty to early fifties will have a ball!
I had a friend who commented that a couple we both knew "do not share much". I told him that was a deep insight that I would not forget. I believe those couples that have an ability to share a lot will be very attentive to eachothers needs, with passion on all levels. I always say "It is not about you it is about your partner". That is not easily found nowadays, and requires character. Thank you for the truth.
I agree with what you are saying, I have experienced this from my ex. With that said, the expectations' she had were unrealistic. Basically she was living in a fantasy that wasn't our reality. She wanted to work less, but without both of our incomes, we couldn't have continued our lifestyle. She would also start projects and never maintain or keep them up; I had too up-keep them. I would be content and she would not and want to do something else. I got tired of trying too keep her happy. She would get board very easily as well. I say it is (too much work) to keep women happy. Plus she was a leftist feminist... The older I become, the less patients I have for this type of behavior. Nor do I want to invest time, money, or effort anymore.
@@andyhinds542 No, it was a statement of fact. It wasn't biased in any way. You could argue on its relevance, but nothing else. Its funny, even _Germaine Greer_ called out these "leftist feminists" - and they cancelled her. Please tell me all the wonderful things about being a "leftist feminist". I leave you an open goal...
Which woman doesn't want you to read their thoughts, so she never has to say what she wants and keep all her options open and you in the performance stress of her whims.
1) if women like you, they will share everything about you to girlfriends 2) vigilant to everything you do 3) she will never clearly mention the number of relationship she had 4) until you are not lock in her life, she will never share her bad/toxic files of life to avoid turn you off 5) she counts « points » on a different way. 6) women request constant mental/emotional/sexually attention 7) if your « warranty » is at its end she will start looking somewhere else 8) they want seduction 9) every woman is insecure, she must feel secure 10) call her beautiful, not hot (specially under 25yo)
She makes light of a woman’s negative traits that come to light in a relationship and tells us, for example that “we’re just gonna have to get use to that one” regarding a woman’s tendency to be high maintenance and yet advises us to go against our nature of slacking off once we’ve won a girl’s charms. She’s coaching you to basically live in a constant state of anxiety to the ends of preventing hypergamy. In short: do NOT listen to this woman.
I love 💕 you, man. That was great. I agree, could you imagine 100 rules of engagement you have to follow all the time, always fearing that you might have missed one and that the walls are going to close around you at any minute because she is unhappy? Divorce rate in this country is reported to be around 60%. Do you know that 80% of all the divorces are filed by women?
#7 “Women count points differently” That’s a weird way to say “women count points incorrectly.” They don’t count you mowing the lawn, changing the oil, patching the roof, etc. They do count themselves doing the laundry, washing the dishes, etc. What ends up happening is the only way she sees you doing “equal” amount of work is if you do all of your work (that you earn no points for) as well as half of her work.
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How do you get a girl that wanted an open relationship in the beginning because she isn't ready to settle down but you both have set a cut off date and in the beginning when she was the one that was cheating mainly but when the guy finally gives up on being faithful and plays her game she gets jealous and actually starts wanting him which is what he was after to begin with but it comes and goes like it's only when he tells her that he has plans with someone else that shes interested ( both agreed to be upfront and honest at the start but she has failed to keep her end but the guy has caught her not telling him anything and talked to her about it every time) when the guy has plans with someone else then shes interested in him that he can see and tell and only says she is any other time when the guy knows he's only being told that and that her saying that means nothing.
I love my fiance but that's my situation with her I'm giving her time at the moment so she can prove to me that she wants me ,that shes stopped cheating , that for lack of a better way to day it but to prove to me that I can trust her again even though I could tell and know she was cheating ( which I dont /didn't mind as long as I was told as long as she was honest with me but I ended up finding out from what she let slip and swore she told me or found out from a friend of mine and hers ) yet when I cheat she gets jealous and is actively after me because she doesn't want me to up and leave her for someone else but that's not going to happen because I love her completely and truly but I want her I only want her and for her to want me and show me that she wants me not just say she does
If it's just one point, she a just getting the tip.🤣
Seriously, your advice makes sense, especially for married.
P.s. out of all 3 of my LTR marriages, I've gotten more happy endings without trying so hard to get one from her by jumping through hoops of fire.😁🍆😳🤘
For the record I think you're beautiful.
Liked earlier. You know that one station on TV that's just a snowy screen. At many times during the day men are actually taking into account her feelings and needs, (if he really cares) and many times during life itself, us men are tuned into that one channel, so a lot of outside of intricate blah, blah interference (stuff that is not imperative at the moment) does not cloud things up that he does not think needs to be💞...
You’ve reached true enlightenment when it no longer bothers you what women think about.
exactly. if you are in long relationship, it's never enough no matter what you do.. been there done that, never again!!!
Well said
@@itsmesandman Been with the wrong person then. I'm more than happy in mine the secret is putting that person before yourself and if they truly love you then they will do the same with you!
@A Z U R E B L U E it seems you need to take a tip from Mediocre Tutorials: if you keep having the same issues with people, look at the kind of people you attract and surround yourself with.
You straight up said you've had the same issues? Because you keep attracting low value women. Just because you live in Atlanta doesn't mean snow doesn't exist, it means its not in your immediate surroundings.
You have metastasized failure in to your being.
@@paulwilson2651 You're a comedian!!
New title for this video:
“10 reasons to stay or become single”
From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
That’s the hard cold reality of relationships.
Extremely high body count is the only information I need to know.
Yup
After nearly thirty years of marriage, the key is this- she needs to care about you too. If it’s a one way street, it won’t last.
Spot on!!!! And since when we man need to make them the center of the universe and clean, and cook and pay bills and still not enough they get chads to play also... noo noo noo game over, new rules, new man out there. what does the woman bring to the table? and better not be the table.
U right
A one way street leads to a dead end
I just came back from my home country and dated a lady that wants to be treated like a queen, I already started to walk away.
I don't want to be her slave .
Well said
@@catrashoo if she wants to be treated like a Queen then tell her to treat you like her King.
Nobody can make other person happy, happiness comes from inside, either you have happiness, or you don't have it.
Fundamentally, true. And others can influence our happiness. :)
This comment really made me happy.
@@YourWingmam Yes ... my Ex-Wife Influenced me and made me Happy when she finally signed my Divorce Papers 1997 ... been Extremely Happy, Healthy & very Wealthy ever since!
Medical condition?? Prozac? What dosage 😆
@YourWingmam
. . . but most women rely on said happiness coming from their partners. Keeping her happy / satisfied is unrealistic long term because most women have a long list of requirements and lack clear communication skills. Most want the man to just "know" what she needs. It's like dealing with a child.
Good Lord, these are the 10 reasons I love being single.
😂
Haleluyah
Lmao
Contemplating becoming a monk, priest, straight edge, and /or straight up celibate 😂
Bloooood when she said the dinner was 1 point I was like "Ite I'm out" lool
Anna, you are amazing. Your ability to turn men off women completely and forever is unparalleled.
good one
Your wingman thank-you for speaking the truth.
HA HA!! I love it!
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FFFFFFFFFFFF RIGHT JUST LIKE OTHER WOMEN ON THE NET. THEY ARE SHIT PERIOD,
Funny, that’s how I feel about these red pill guys.
They say married men live longer than single men. They're wrong; it just seems longer.
That is very funny.
They say women live longer than men. Because men CHOOSE to drop out.
Actually it was true 70 years ago. Since about 1980 guys who have never been married live longest, followed by married guys followed by divorced guys. So if you dont want to end up in the bottom 2/3 don't get married.
Indoor cats live longer too
@@Redrocket14 LMMFAO
Excellent video 👍🏼
After marriage, raising a family, divorce and a couple of serious relationships after...I am happy to be single.
Videos like this help me process what I have been through.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Be yourself dudes. The right ones will find you. If she makes you happy, you will make every effort to make her happy.
I would forget the whole Fifty Shades of Gray thing. Especially in at least for 6 months. Letting women be feminine ? When people first fall in love they are prone to agreeing to do things to please their partner. But later on it’s not uncommon to change outlook or say “ I JUST went along with it to please you”. It isn’t just confused women, It absolutely happens that the 50 shades thing later on can make the man seem insensitive and the gf like a sex slave. Of course try new things, but you’re looking for trouble with a strict dominant/ submissive situation. Most people are just not wired for it 100%.
And then leave you cause you made every effort for then
@Bleu Barclay You know. NAWALT ;)
So true
Been doing that 40 years and still nobody. Works out great. 😐👍
If she’s playing “ hard to get “ just start running as she will always play hard to get ... if she’s into you she will make it easy to get
They already changed the game. Can't play hard to get when they are too busy playing hard to want.
There are two things you never chase. A woman or a bus. Because they will both leave you!
@@Observer82AB ewen bus drivers have bigger chance to wayt than girls 🤣
@@Observer82AB Great analogy!
Yup...Rules only apply to guys she finds unattractive.
Was it Mark Twain that said "Never try to impress a woman. Because then, she'll expect you to maintain that standard."
That's the reason why everyone say "Be yourself" - being yourself is the best thing you can do.
That's why I never poach eggs or bake bacon in the sun.
I heard careful what you do for a woman twice because then she will expect it all the time
@@JoseRRodriguez expand on what you just said.
@@JoseRRodriguez ok thanks for the breakdown.
my 2 take aways from this:
1. A super honest, comprehensive assessment by Anna, thank-you, well done :)
2. It did nothing to make me want to pursue women any more because of this :)
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same.
just got divorced, by her 32 years ….. i’m done , women are not honest
@@davegayaldo You are now a part of MGTOW.
The older I get the more I realize I don't need this.
@Rockin agreed
Amen.
Exactly my friend, it's a total waste of time for a man to focus on these things as any woman that feels the vibe with you will completely abandon all of these things. Trying to win her over with your mastery in these areas will get you know where and be a complete waste of time, energy and money.
NEVER EVER qualify yourself to women. Never fall into trying to BE what she wants or needs. You must maintain your FRAME and your PURPOSE and never ever worry about impressing her or trying to get her to like you. This is the Modern WOmen TRAP, it gives them POWER and CONTROL over the relationship. In reality, a woman wants a man to be the LEADER and lead in the relationship. As confidant and successful man women MUST qualify themselves to a men. No man is going to waste his TIME, ENERGY, MONEY, and attention on a woman that has no intention of providing any value to you.
A woman MUST show a man that they are SUBMISSIVE, COMPLIANT, RESPECTFUL, HONORABLE, and INTERESTED in the man FIRST and foremost. A WOMEN must be SEDUCTIVE and ATTRACTIVE FIRST, she needs to be a LADY and show a man that she respects herself and can be a traditionally feminine woman. In today's Modern Women's world too many women are HOES and LOOSE and feel they are privileged, deserving, and entitled so they need to be VETTED for a period of time, preferable 1 year. If she can't be a LADY from day 1 then I recommend you move on and don't look back.
None of these 10 secrets really matter. Did you notice her very FIRST item on the list? If SHE LIKES YOU she will COMPROMISE on this list. Meaning, if there is a VIBE she will give up on ALL OF THEM for a man that makes her feel happy and comfortable and safe. Therefore, focus on maintaining your FRAME as a man, ensuring she knows she is safe being herself around you, and then you need to LOOK and LISTEN and see if she can maintain being a LADY regardless of the situation. As a MAN we do not want to WASTE our TIME on women that initially just do not have the training or desire to be a LADY.
I thought it was just me .
Yep.
I remember lying in bed with my ex once when she said, " I want a provider" my responses was " I want equal rights." Later she would say " I want a partner to help me with her kids and her house. " , my response was " well , you divorced that guy. This isn't how this works. " Just seems to me that she wanted to set up rules that worked to her advantage in the moment her mind was in. No thank you.
I knew a woman who told me all the same things...didn't even sleep with me!! Would have been lousy sex anyway!
well, at least she was honest about it
How was the honeymoon?
I had a buddy who once told me that “the f***ing he was gettin’ was not worth the f***ing he was gettin’” . . . . nuff said.
No sex is worth giving up your life.
That's taken from a line from the musical comedy, Pippin.
In the show, King Charlemagne has a 'trophy' wife who is overtly sexy and overdraws her allowance from the royal treasury over and over. She says, "you know how bad I am with money. I just don't understand such things."
She leaves and he breaks the 4th wall and says to the audience, "Sometimes I wonder if the fornicating I'm getting is worth the fornicating I'm getting!"
Had a friend also tell me the same thing, that his father told him, before he got married. After his wife had their child, for 7 + years, he told me he was relegated to "rubbing one out". She finally came around, and they had the discussion where she wanted another child for her daughter, and to start trying again. He'd gotten a vasectomy before hand and instead served her divorce papers. He'd suspected cheating, and in the divorce decree it stated if she cohabitated with another man, alimony was permanently terminated. Didn't take her 2 months after the court decree before a Private investigator he hired caught her. A fellow teacher at the school she worked at. They'd been cheating all along. She was pregnant 5 months after divorce was finalized. Believe it, women monkey branch. They don't release you until they have their next hookup partner already in bed and rearranging their guts for them.
You should have titled this; "Ten reasons men should stay single and have peace".
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤
@@YourWingmam you are helping keep men single and happy
So if you call a woman hot, that's bad! So if you call a woman sexy, that's bad! If you tell a woman she's beautiful she will friend zone you.... Right? If women didn't have a pussy they would be dead by now
AND have a PRENUP!
@@billcarney829 MGTOW USA, V-Snip & Passport so you never need to worry about getting taken to the Cleaners
It took me over 50 years to learn how to make a gal happy.....leave them alone.
Lol
Or give them more avenues of complaint. They seem happy with the act of being dissatisfied...
If you can make her happy, then you will be happy because you get some happy endings!
@@markm.3297 Lol Robert Cooper
Go to work , make money . They WILL spend it while you are at work . Most likely on her sugar daddy .
Starting to feel pretty good about being single, honestly.
Married men do not live more than single men.They're alive but do not live!
With those glasses and facial hair you'll be okay
@@syrenaxhaferi7278 Thank you I think!
@@syrenaxhaferi7278 hypocritically, if it were a woman making the same statement it would be praised, glorified, and considered “strong”. Men and women are stronger together, and this is something that may be learned after hard consequences driven by those those who wish to divide them. Wake up, please
I love being single
06:00 N°8 Women want men to actively keep making them happy, interested, “feeling the butterflies”. That’s why one common defense when they cheat is _”You weren’t making me happy”_ Or the classic _”I’m bored, let’s do something.”_ translation: _”Think of something fun for me and pay for it.”_
Men are not court jesters.
My ex used to say "We have to do something fun today". Usually it was Sundays. I always was tempted to say "WE don't have to. YOU'd like to do something". Never said it. Maybe unfortunately ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Concern about body count isn't just a cultural or psychological thing for men. Several studies have revealed that women who have had many partners will make lousy partners and drop out much more often than women who have had fewer partners. So, it's logical for men to avoid considering such women for long-term commitment. And since today 50 percent of all marriages fail...You get the point.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@@YourWingmam Do you ever say anything thoughtful, in response to a comment? I mean, men take the time to offer their feedback. You mindlessly regurgitate the same line to every comment. Why bother? It means nothing. How about a serious, reasoned reply?
yeah, its all about oxytocin. Men and women are not biologically the same. Any ideology that thinks this is not fit for purpose. And yet here we are...
#4. If a man finds out he’s been lied to and those numbers are high it’s game over!
Who wants to pay for what everyone else got for free?
@@joshgarrison8410 Exactly!
Don't even start playing this game - it is rigged and even law is on their side.
All women will lie to you and they all love at least two men!!! They all will steal money straight from your pockets
Lol this is hilarious and the reason I’m single and getting rich. I don’t stress about women. Focus on your goals and don’t get distracted.
How old are you ?
@@jimmeldoyle1374 34 and retired.
@@itr761 you too lie
If your single , your pockets will jingle !
So true! I found myself people pleasing only to find most women are selfish and self-centered!
I enjoyed this one...10 Secrets every narcissist doesn't want you to know.
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Facts
Lol!!
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Wait until you find a girl who is already "happy" before you start in with her. If she's not a happy person, you can't make her happy...
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
It's not a man job to entertain a woman. A relationship is not all about a woman and her happiness. If you notice a woman begins to consider hypergamy you must cut her off immediately no questions asked.
Problem is, hypergamy is an instinct, and they can't turn if off...
oh so right they want me to wear the take me show hat.....
The last woman I dated said "I'm wasting my time with you." To which I replied, "And yet here you sit on my couch again."
Marry practical women rather than a phone-junkie wearing false eyelashes, extended fingernails, plucked eyebrows, bortoxed lips and and kinda girl. Marry a woman with a brain and a sense of humor and your life will be wonderful. You're gonna wear yourself out and never accomplish anything of value other than being some kind of glorified "prince charming" and wosh your life's gone, trying to do what? Get on with your life and be honest to your own values and be CREATIVE in your endeavors to create a better world, and during the journey, you will find the right partner, or not, but at least you didn't waste YOUR life.
Bro, if you want to have a girlfriend you need to be highly educated barbarian, a driver, a handy, a provider, a father, a therapist and an entertainer all at once, that's the secret :) otherwise she will be unhappy, never stop shittesting you and finally leave. (That the best part ;))
A woman has to prove to me that she’s worth my time and effort. Otherwise, I’ll keep making money and going on trips 🙄
. . . " Making money and going on trips " ... let me guess - you're American? ...
@@donaldcook3112
Huh?
Facts my g, if she ain't on my program she can bounce
Absolutely
You've got the right attitude . Let her come up to your level not the other way around. Men have been catering to them way too long .
This is beyond ridiculous. Women, you just aren't that special, and the idea that a man has to constantly try to please her royal hiney is sickening.
Welcome to the modern women
Oh wow! Do we make this reality of just finally realize it? We're human beings with powerful brains, but it looks like using a nuclear reactor just to make breakfast toast!!!!
My ideal woman is a friend who likes to do the same things I do like hiking, traveling, saving for retirement, sex, etc. These things are a lot less fun to do you yourself. She should be an addition to my life rather than a burden. If not, I’ll just stay single. My first wife was a constant burden in nearly every aspect of my life but she was hot. Not worth it!
seanautilis: *_Sickening reality for 99% of the spoiled feminist witches (spelled with a "b") in the world who will even go on date #1._*
Absolutely. Just imagine if the religion of Islam took over.
Islam would shut this $hi! Down!!! All this nonsense about overspending
and overly special to please her would go to the trash can.
The world has gone mad, and Islam would put it in a straight line.
The first thing that comes to mind about this is BODY COUNT. Also, any woman who will give a guy the "Mr. Right Speech" (no kissing until after the 3rd date, no sex until we are in a committed relationship) will also never admit that while you are trying to make that happen, she has also been busy giving the "Mr. Right NOW!!! Speech" to other guys the whole time.
Many women adopt the attitude of 'what he don't know won't hurt him', but we know because chickens come home to roost, and yes, it hurts us.
....yes we know your secrets, because its another man you are cheating with on us and guess what!!! Men talk!!! and share info. Some of you women are so dumb!!!....but think that you are so smrt....I mean smart!!!
Women care about a man's future. Men care about a woman's past.
Making a woman happy...
You might as well learn how to baptize cats...
Ha! Well, the phrase had better SEO than "how not to make her really unhappy" lol
I had a wife for over six years. Multiple trips to Paris, Rome, Istanbul, London, etc., etc. Designer clothes. Nice apartment in NYC. Expensive concerts, dinners. Treated her like absolute gold. Always told her how much she meant to me. Respectful, kind. Her family loved me. Paid out the nose for life insurance so that she would be well taken care of when I was gone. Result: NOT HAPPY. It would be easier to baptize cats than to keep most women content. Most of them are built to self-sabotage and have Insane expectations of other human beings, notably, men. Just listen to the ridiculous laundry list in this video.
Yep...that would be easier to do...lol
Baptizing cats is a hell of a lot easier.
That was damned FUNNY!👍
I'm Exhausted, from just Listening to All of This Advice, i think I'll save Myself the Stress, Headaches and Heartbreak and just Remain Single !!!
Yeah get a dog, they're cool.
..... ,, Solid yes...I'm 65...& just out of a Divorce... From 1 Hot filipina Rn...w...mental issue... N...has my 2 sons in lock pt..22 years n 25 years old.... I'm not dating... I'm going out w..1 Beatty.. My x- college - Computer 1.0.1. Lab partner... No chemistry... She has zero brains... Alcoholic.. N...constantly on her cell phone... I asked if she reads...have you read The Classic s...She said " NO "...... I've noticed. Groups of Women going out inn PACs of wolves
@@RobertGonzalez-hb6ft Okay, so what are you doing, MGTOW for a couple years?
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😂😂 yep, just avoid them completely. They're a pita
N.b., just here to see if this Tuber has any actual enlightenment and for the comments... Only the comments contain enlightenment
@@extraspicywasabi Some are Tube steakers.
How nice it would be to find a partner who doesn’t require an emotional roller coaster to stay interested.
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Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
When I was young I knew little about women but wanted them very much.
Now when I know more about them (but far from every thing) I want them much less.
Unfortunately, many woemen have been damaged early by dark forces and other factors including the sheeshhterhood of crazies for a looong tieme...
Amen.
Exactly, mgtow is not a decision but a consequence of learning about female nature and just losing interest in pursuing them.
It's only good advice for immature women, it provides useful insight but if you're not looking to pursue these types of women, it's next to useless.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
All this woman just said was this: It is easier to work four part time jobs , than it is to please the average woman. Her story also explains why men in relationship get prematurely grey, and die prematurely early.
hahahahahah!!!! good one
My hair isn't grey, it's white.
Married Men live longer than Single Men...
Talk about having secrets....
My wife [now separated] has told me that I should work night & day for all the "energy" I've had at night to try to spend it with her in the bedroom, but she has significantly dwindled in that activity with me for over a year down to basically zero which lasted several months. I told her to take a hike... though it was really me who had walked away because I won't tolerate that garbage any longer. Her "feelings" about this-and-that don't affect me anymore. She needs to change her attitude and lack of gratitude towards me if she wants to work things out.
Her excuses of likely having a low libido, entering menopause, being too tired in general, etc. has run its course. I caught her a couple of times using her phone for her own self pleasure. I can imagine how many times this has been going on until I started spying on her after noticing different patterns and a new routine when it came to the late-evening hours before I went to bed.
Yet she's not too tired at night before bedtime to spend hours on her phone or watch different series on Netflix via the iPad.
It's actually called "manipulation" and "disrespect" to put it more accurately... to say the least.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
I learned everything in the comments
As did I. but the video is still good, its just a list and not real "wingman advice"
True
Just stay single and concern yourself about keeping yourself happy . Total peace of mind
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Dude the part about body count was a kick to the guts and almost dug and early grave for myself I really don't know what kees me holding on still or why it hurts
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
@@YourWingmam copy and paste much?
Yes, women don’t want men, they want slaves.
Sure sounds like relationships are waaayyyy more work than they're worth!
Troof 😅
Yeh they are hard work, and you pay to work .
Best is they scream you have done nothing for them.
My God, after listening to this I will now avoid dating like the plague.
Guys need to realise that we are not responsible for women's happiness. Stop believing this fairytale crap.
Sex is much better with a happy woman though. So agree, not your responsibility but I've been richly rewarded for doing some things I "wasn't responsible for".
@@x-man5056 I acknowledge what you say. However, does she thank you for doing things that make her happy, or is she entitled?
@@Ace.0.0.0. Can't say she always thanks me but I don't expect that ALL the time. I do for her the way I want done for me. As my girl, she is entitled to certain things but they are things I do, not necessarily buy.
Men are not responsible for woman's happiness. Men are responsible for their own happiness. Keep your woman happy in certain ways and it will go a long way toward keeping you happy most of the time though. It's really kinda what makes you in a relationship vs just being fk buddies.
When you love someone you want to do the special things for her; make breakfast, rub her feet or neck when she comes home from work, detail her car, etc. It truly is the thought though, not about tit for tat.
It is demonstrative that you think about her and want her to be happy. If you don't do that, no matter how much you tell her you love her, it will be just words. Actions truly do speak louder than words.
If you are doing special things and never get positive responses, maybe you should be looking elsewhere.
Facts
Women will never be happy because there is a limited supply of more.
Thank you! As a old man can I add... In the end men and women Must chose to love each other in spite of our shortcomings it is the only way the relationship will survive. A good man will work himself to death for his wife and children. If he includes what he is dealing with at work it will probably be a limited disclosure. Some times he will be working more than someone should, know that it is probably not his choice. He is doing what he has to to bring home the bacon. Sometimes women may see this as a lack of attention. He is just exhausted. In the end more men are aware they will lose everything in a divorce situation. Justice is not a factor. He will be on the hook decades or more watching his children suffering with no hope. Sorry to go there, but we are instructing men of this reality. It is really hard place for men to be. I have been married twice. The first time 8 years, 3 years to get divorced. This time 29 plus years, my wife is the best friend in this age I have ever had. We both went through the fire together so to speak.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
Women need women friends to talk endlessly about relationships, who said what, who did what, emotional everything, drama, more drama, etc etc etc. a man will never meet all these needs in women for any length of time, and it would be too exhausting to even try.
Big ol facts
Anna, I know you are sincere and I appreciate your efforts in helping.
I have to be honest, that list makes me want to avoid women.
that was very polite and to the point. well done.
Bro I have to say that I was reading comments and i saw your comment and I’m so laughing hard at this but i feel you and agree bro.. you’re right
Do you get mad at your dog for not being a human? If not, why do you get mad at your woman for not acting like a man?
You guys got no man in you . Just sitting here watching this and . Omg . I just got an insight into woman . And how you both can have a good relationship . And scurry away like the . Wimpy guys you are . 😂😂😂😂🎂👍
@@lloydbeattie9370 good luck kid. It's a long road ahead of you
I love my dog more and more everyday
@אדם דראי that’s 🤢
Have you baptized your doggy?
Oh..OK, just don't make out with them, (cause they lick their own privates).
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There is a saying - Dog is mans best friend.....
and another saying - Diamonds are women best friend.
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This is all very nice, thank you. Now it’s back to the real world. I looked down at these comments and there’s so much damage done. I truly do not think today’s woman deserves a good man.
These are the exact reasons why men are leaving relationships congratulations! We’re gone! Lol
Thanks Anna. I was wondering today if I was ready to date, or even date again. This video has talked me out of it!
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Amen
Yo forreal
Smart move .....
Lol!!!!
It’s all about what she wants, apparently!
What makes that even more difficult; she doesn't know what she wants. 🤫
Yep it’s a joke..
@@whythis28 What women want is very simple. She wants whatever she definitely cannot get, and does not want whatever she thinks she can definitely get.
That is very selfish of her.
Yeah apparently.😀😂😀
I’m a “regular guy” over 50 and Unless I win the lottery tomorrow… The only thing I can offer a woman is a path to citizenship or jumpstart her car.
Im 21 its about the same but my batteries dead lol
I'm 57 and just ran out of bubble gum. 😀
I can offer them my organ!
50 isn't too late to improve your value, man.
At age 51, I offered an educated, charming and culturally conservative high quality woman a path to citizenship. Our 15th anniversary is tomorrow.
Well by "God"... and {Amen}!!!...Yes'Zir!!!...
If i had saw this video 10 years ago i could have avoided marrying my ex-wife 👍🏻 If women starts to show these charecteristics described in this video, it's time to move on and save yourself. We live in a western society of equality and the door swings in both ways.
"Never negotiate with terrorists".
Idea for a new video, "why would any man want to have a woman in their life?"
DAMN!!!
Hahahahaha
I have a friend in his later 60s who said, 'If I knew then what I know now, I would just have gone to whores'. lol
Agreed.
Yes
Then you need to realize as soon as she starts testing you it's time to leave. Because in all reality she's not testing you she's training you to be submissive to her and it certainly will never be reciprocated
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@@YourWingmamdo you have anything to say to this?
Not necessarily.
Maybe shes been fucked over by assholes,
Molested by an uncle and cousins and doesent quite trust men and really needs a hero.
Sure, some women test for the wrong reasons like you said but being empathetic and not putting all women and all men in the same box is not fair to the innumerable possibilities and personalities derived from response to human stimuli over their childhood to the time of said “testing.”
Don’t lump them all in the same category and please just get out there and socialize with people instead of listening to these bitter so-called ladies men on RUclips that consider themselves high value men looking for high value women. Give me a fucking country girl any day and I’ll show you high value.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
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I don’t care how “hot” or “sexy” a woman is, I never call her “beautiful” until I’ve seen that she is beautiful on the inside...character, integrity, compassion, grace, femininity, etc... The same way I don’t throw the word “love” around, I don’t throw the word “beautiful” around. That’s why I quit saying my ex is beautiful...she pretty...even sexy, but not beautiful.
Exactly they all want to think theyre beautiful on the inside but the only beauty they can disguise is on the outside. They don't see that we see the difference. I had an ex that told me i should treat her like a queen, so I asked her to stop acting like a princess and I'll consider it!
They are definitely hypergamists and tree jumpers, as soon as things get too hard they look for someone else same level or higher status.
You're wrong and a horrible person if you bail out on them the same way
They can't help it - betray - it's in their nature.
@@istra70 They can help it as much as we can control our nature.
The system and culture has changed to encourage, facilitate, support and incentivise their betrayal, their nature. This is the big problem. Previously society, laws, culture was designed to keep a lid on both sexes' "animal nature" and keep them behaving as civilised humans. Big mistake to take down all the safeguards. Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind!!
Sounds like a lot of work. I'm out.
Lmao
Bam
Ha ha. Good call.
Yeah, it does it becomes even more stressful if you have a demanding job.
I feel ya ron
Just keep saying 'no' and you'll be in control. This applies to almost everything in the relationship.
Making a woman happy is like balancing a pencil on your finger... vertically.
That's FAR too easy to be a valid metaphor! Try "like balancing a drop of water on the tip of your finger..." instead!
Who cares , as long she is playing with my pencil , thats all that matters right
more like nailing jello to a wall.
I'd say it's like skydiving without a parachute. You can do it, but you won't last long.
@@nunyabidniz2868 You forgot to add ''In a desert''
Thank God I have made the choice to remain single. I have made this decision before the Internet was invented. And since then, I have been doing really well in my life...and I am really happy. By the way, I already know the things on this list and that's why I have made the decision to remain single.
Me and myself just get on fine 😂
"Make her happy"? SHe better be happy already
Not possible to make them happy.
They don't even know what they want, so how can we?
U can Neaver ever make and keep a woman happy. ! Remember this !
exactly happiness is found within you cant force her to go within lol.
Great video! Helpful, also ; ) I just ordered my Geisha Robot from Japan, and a Labrador pup from a kennel in town 🐶
Its like walking on eggshells with a spoilt child.
Its like being in that episode of the twilight zone where the kid could destroy your life in an instant
Had a relative get involved with someone like that, they went their seperate ways.
Yep I know that one. You end up just keeping shtum to avoid any chance of sparkling her off over whatever because she can. Then they complain you never tell them stuff 🙄.
Agree, A relationship that's too much work isn't worth it!
@Tom Reedy Yes they are vain and insecure.
This is a public service announcement for living a single life. Thanks for the reminder that she's not worth jumping through the hoops.
This was supposed to be about women’s secrets ... it turned into how to keep women happy lol. Solipsism!
Krwler thats the secret fool.....how to keep them happy. Keep up.
@@keyboardfreedomfighter5734 Who is the fool here? A video about women's secrets should be about things they don't want men to know. Like hybristophilia, their preference for dominant badboys rather than teh kindhearted men they profess to desire, their dual mating strategy, cognitive dissonance, and solipsism.; not about how men can make them happy. You're either a solipsistic woman with no awareness or a feminine man. Pathetic.
I think he's being sarcastic brobro- we in the trenches here lol
Wow, I learned something profound. Loads of videos by women on men needing to work on themselves to find inner happiness. But we are expected to make women happy. Why can not they follow their own advice and work on themselves to become inwardly happy?
I am an old man who has never had a girlfriend due to childhood traumas perpetrated by women. I would like to find a good woman to find out what "love" is. From your video, I guess I should stop trying. I should expect the rest of my days will be lonely and empty.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
"make a woman happy" lool haha 😄 🤣😂 good luck with that one
All I heard at that point was "happy wife, happy life" and then thought "well I spent over a decade in that constant state of purgatory so noooooooooope time to skip back to stand up"
How about women make men happy for once?
@@DrGingerHamster Iv had many mates go to the East for partners and the women there do try and make the man happy. I think many women in the West have changed over the decades and now its all about them. I had a mate thats wife cheated on him with a cop so he went to Ukraine and got with a women half hes age that worshiped him until he died at age 86. Everyone iv known that went to the East for a partner was blown away by how the women are but the mates that bought them back to the West regretted it after some years as they started to act like Western women. Women in the East are stronger than women in the West as in they dont walk out over a minor issue or would drop you for a richer man etc.
Not possible
@@DrGingerHamster That could never happen majority are with you to use you for what you have not because they love and care about you
Who’s supposed to generate this amount of time and energy while trying to keep up the pressures of life?
Facts bro big facts
As accurate as this is, I find it extremely discouraging.
Don't be discouraged just master simping and you'll be fine, I think.
@@14kurtismiller Imagine being a simp
@@iurk0_streaming Everytime the lady who drive the ice cream truck as me if I want sprinkles on my $15, one scoop cone? I say yes, so I simp a little bit here and there six days a week. I really have to quite dairy and save more money.
@@14kurtismiller Whatever floats your boat, man
If a mature woman (read older woman still not attached) is obsessing about a man's behavior in social media, she's going to wind up alone. Why? Because no man in his right mind is going to deal with such neediness and narcissism. It's not going to happen. What you described are big red flags.
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Thanks for explaining this lose/lose scenario. I stand a better chance of hitting the lottery than making a woman happy on an ongoing basis. It really sounds like the juice is not worth the squeeze.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
It can be worth it if she is willing to reciprocate.
I've had respectful, submissive women (in both a 50 shades way and in a willing to take direction way) and it was very nice. I was getting my needs met.
I work hard all week, I don't want more work when I'm home. I'll stay single thank you.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
@@tough2lie382 Amen, my brother.
This all reminds of a song by the Allman Bro’s called “ Sweet little Angle “
The lyrics are :-
I met a sweet little Angle, I love the way she spreads her wings
She wraps her arms around me gives love, joy and everything,
I gave a diamond ring and every other thing
I took to dinner, she said thanks for the snack.
I built her a penthouse, she said thanks for the shack
I gave her some children and now she wants to give them back
I’ve been down harder days etc etc
Bottom line is this men: if you focus too much on trying to please a woman you will go insane. Be you and treat her with love and respect . Dont fret over the small stuff
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Every time you said Keep her Happy, you just told us how extremely high the level of maintenance is.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
You forgot the most important secret that women don't want men to know!! That they will become bored in 6 months or less and eventually cheat on you and say it's your fault !
Now do they trip and cheat? Because that's called an accident.
they get bored by a week or less, and start nagging, and looking funy, and want more and more... ask for a glass of water and see if it is in a clean glass, half empy or full, and how she brings it you know you are always in trouble anyway.
And those who cheat, after we fall for them, many times are narcissists. There are many of them. To lure us into the relationship, they lovebomb us, and we fall for it when they are attractive and nice to us. Then the devaluing and passive-aggressive comments start and worse, sometimes after only a few months. And they say it's OUR fault they cheat. Once they find someone else after texting and even cheating on us with another man, they discard us without hesitation. It's all about THEM. Little to no empathy. Sure, we make big mistakes, but if they truly loved us, they would want to work it out and work together - and agree to psychological therapy and counseling. But narcissists really can't experience true love and caring and compassion and empathy. Social media and dating sites are often where these women prey on us. I am only one of many men (and yes women) who have been victimized and abused by predatory narcissists.
Facts. When a woman says she’s bored run for the hills bro because she ls for the streets.
So sorry for you Bro!! That don’t now how to keep your woman happy…a HAPPY, content woman, never cheat…good luck!
Yes, so, women need 100 times more effort from us than vice a versa
Yea, seems like way too much work. Would rather put the effort towards reaching my dreams rather than on someone who may end up ruining your life.
You absolutely have to love this, " Even if she doesn't know how to communicate or even know what her real needs are," You need to know and figure it out. Nevermind she's an adult but it's on you fellas if you can't figure out even what she may not know. Like your content but this is still hilarious.
I matched with a chick on bumble who had on her profile that read “the way to her heart is to make me laugh.” After exchanging a few messages I asked her to say something funny. She replied “I don’t tell jokes” and unmatched me.
Women are simply nuts. That's what I've concluded after 30 years of dating a lot of women. Almost none of them worth the time/money/effort. Currently, this channel has 649 videos. Let's assume average length is 15 minutes of explaining women's nature and giving men tips on how to have successful healthy relationships with women. That's OVER 160 HOURS of decoding women, just on this channel. And there's hundreds of channels offering similar content.
Contrast that with explaining to women how to find and keep a great man: Start young, be friendly, feminine, fit, attractive, and cooperative. Follow his leadership. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
When sane men examine how extremely difficult women are to find and keep around, men conclude they are just not worth this level of effort, plus the endless expenses, time, and attention required. And the risks of raising kids not yours, false allegations, drama, divorce, child custody and support issues, marriage and the contract with the state, losing all your stuff, losing rights and/or going to prison on false allegations, etc. all far outweigh the T&A you might get in the early stages before she withholds that or becomes unattractive or unenthusiastic. Women have priced themselves out of the market and men just need to walk away until women fix themselves.
Hahaha, oh, no kidding. The amount of times Ive asked something like "So how do you like your coffee?" Or "What music venue do you like going to the most?" And its been met with utter confusion. Like "I dont drink coffee, why would you think that? Not everybody drinks coffee."
You know, if someone asked me something that seems off the wall, like say kicking babies in the head, my first inclination would be to wonder why... then immediately go to my profule to see if it's on there. "Yep, right there, I'll be..." Yet they put so little effort into any of this, that even expecting her to check her own profile before embarrassing herself, is too much to ask.
"Making a woman happy, easier to baptize cats." So true. Gave up trying. Appreciate the info but this list is an advertisement for MGTOW.
Exactly, it's a demonstration of female entitlement, notice nothing mentioned on what women should do to earn a man , respect a man, compliment a man, it's all me me me.
@@kenjohnson961 playing video game wayyyy better than with women today
@@kenjohnson961 Was it the four tops who sang "Don't walk away Renee, you won't see me follow you back home"?
@@mrparlanejxtra Yes, but I thought it was "Just walk away, Renee." I think the song was originally done by the Left Banke.
@@Qrayon You are right. They did it 2 years earlier. I was only 4 then.
I don't want a relationship where I constantly have to "score points" and beg for a woman's approval. It is time men realized the value they bring to the table and make the woman be the one that is required to score "points".
Noooo! It. neeeeeds to be reciprocal....equal hunger in both parties...to. WANT to make the other one happy....It is out of true love, mutual respect, TRUST. earned not given....and. no one is doing it to score points...We ATE BOTH DOING BECAUSE WE WANT THE PARTNER AND TO CONTINUE TO BE HAPPY!!!
It's a trick she plays to try and get control as per the curse in the garden:
Gen 3:16 To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.”
SAaaad.....pitty! never going to haaappen!!!! it is the 21st Century!!! Wake up!!!
The majority of the time the man has to bring the damn table, set it, provide the food and clear the damn dirty dishes. Women bring very little now days.
@@patrickreynolds9853 OMG thank you, My soon to be EX wife somewhere along the lines feel into this crap and after 35 years together asked me one day what I brought to the table. I said I bring the FFFing table.
Kudos to Anna, for having the guts, to put out this “truth-bomb” video, for the benefit of us men. This video will, sadly, piss off many woman who have to conceal their true identity to us men, for fear that we’ll walk away. Men, be glad we don’t have to live with ourselves like this. Now we are warned. I recommend that we men watch this video over and over again until you’ve memorized the whole content.
Thank you so much for watching and appreciating!
Bachelorhood is looking better all the time.
Monk mode.
What if you've never known anything else and are curious?
@@93nGU1n you know what happened to the cat...
This made me think of a joke I heard many, many years ago. A wife told her husband that if he loved her, he would give her compliments. So he started giving her very nice compliments. After a few months, her ego was so inflated from believing all of his compliments that she felt she was too good for him, so she left him.
hahahah, good one :D
I wish it was a joke only.
Wow, that is a crafty way to get ride of her.
😂😂😂
Thats a joke?
secret number 11-woman in the end do not appreciate anything, be your own, do only the things you want.These tutorials are about nothing
Yeah, I think this lady is projecting what "she" wants. It is entertaining and she is easy on the eyes, so it's okay.
Truth..dont simp..pimp!
This list epitomises why so many of the best men are leaving the west and finding wives elsewhere 😅.
My wife is gorgeous, smart, fun, loving, caring, and loves excelling in what she calls the more traditional role of a woman. She loves to cook my favourite foods, clean the house, arrange all the celebrations AND she loves to take care of my and her physical needs at least twice a day. She never lets a day go by without making sure to tell me and show me, that she loves me. In return I make sure I am the absolute best at fulfilling my role as the more traditional man.
I feel better, look better, my mental health is better and I no longer need medication.
Cheers
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well done! There are still sensible women in the world, but they are not in the West.
Thanks for the info! I've been doing almost everything wrong, but I'm 63 and completely impotent now, but in case I get reincarnated, I'll make good use of the advice!
Very good video. Just one recommendation. It would be good to keep in mind that women are not that good at showing physical attraction to men while men need to feel this just like women do. Men dont mind showing appreciation for a womens beauty. Its men who dont get enough compliments in this area throughout society alt all levels even in marriages.
I appreciate the video and some points are interesting to think about, but I feel the same as a lot of others here: You articulated those points in a way that completely scared us away. The way you said those things, all I could think was: "astronomically high maintainence, no thank you".
Now you seem smart, so I'm sure you're aware that all of those points, or at least some, are also valid the other way around. A relationship is a two-way-street, women have to give something back, of course, otherwise she risks dying alone. And I mean give back emotionally, not only physically, because that I can get anywhere.
"women understand women, and they hate each other." "You can love women or understand them, but never both."
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After two marriages I´m just so happy to be single. No games, no lies, no everything.
Freedom has no price.....
@@istra70 no sex, no companionship, no one to confide in and comfort you. Nothing but selfish purpose. Loneliness.
@@x-man5056On a contrary - Have my job, my friends, sports like sailing , skiing diving, motorbiking , fishing ....
Couldn't have more fulfilled life and sex - without commitment.
My kids are past teenage years so I am experiencing total freedom for the first time in my life (corona didn't affect me a bit ).
Couldn't be happier......
P.S. ....... Only boring people experience loneliness.....and if you can't make yourself happy - even less you'll make someone else happy.
Happiness comes from within - misunderstanding it is a main reason of broken relationships - people expect from partners to make them happy ( how shallow ).
@@istra70 "Only boring people experience loneliness", what utter nonsense. Never been in the military I would say. Think astronauts don't get lonely for their mates in the ISS? Are they boring? What about military widows, are they boring also? Some poor guy sleeping in a hot, dirty tent in some Godforsaken desert sand pile, or tropical mud hole? It can get very exciting fast there but they still get lonely.
Never seen a man willing to (figuratively) cut off a finger just to embrace his love and taste her lips?
You say you live an exciting life, maybe you do. But you don't know much abut being lonely. Lucky for you,...so far.
@@x-man5056 your path to enlightenment seems long .
Thank you , respectfully I cherish ,no drama and will stay single forever more.
That's perfectly acceptable, too! Never compromise your values and beliefs. :)
It ‘s only your turn 😂😂😂
Men always live fulfilled life - until woman gets in their life.
Get a rescue dog. It'll be appreciative of what you do for it and bring you the companionship you long for without the drama. Hang tight, I hear sexbots are on the way. Too late for me (I'm in my 60s) but guys in their late thirty to early fifties will have a ball!
Groom: wow she's so good in bed. She did it seven ways from Saturday.
Best Man: How do you think she got that way?
I had a friend who commented that a couple we both knew "do not share much". I told him that was a deep insight that I would not forget. I believe those couples that have an ability
to share a lot will be very attentive to eachothers needs, with passion on all levels. I always say "It is not about you it is about your partner". That is not easily found nowadays, and requires character. Thank you for the truth.
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@@YourWingmam You have a gift for communicating in manner that is crystal clear.
Dream on. It won’t work. Your partner will be bored silly.
I agree with what you are saying, I have experienced this from my ex. With that said, the expectations' she had were unrealistic. Basically she was living in a fantasy that wasn't our reality. She wanted to work less, but without both of our incomes, we couldn't have continued our lifestyle. She would also start projects and never maintain or keep them up; I had too up-keep them. I would be content and she would not and want to do something else. I got tired of trying too keep her happy. She would get board very easily as well. I say it is (too much work) to keep women happy. Plus she was a leftist feminist... The older I become, the less patients I have for this type of behavior. Nor do I want to invest time, money, or effort anymore.
That's very normal for a leftist feminist to complain all the time but not be able to complete anything themselves.
What does being a leftist feminist have to do with it? That's a rather ignorant and biased statement.
They think the world owes them a (exhorbident) living!
@@andyhinds542 No, it was a statement of fact. It wasn't biased in any way. You could argue on its relevance, but nothing else.
Its funny, even _Germaine Greer_ called out these "leftist feminists" - and they cancelled her.
Please tell me all the wonderful things about being a "leftist feminist". I leave you an open goal...
Which woman doesn't want you to read their thoughts, so she never has to say what she wants and keep all her options open and you in the performance stress of her whims.
Secret 1-- False eyelashes
Secret 2--High heels
Secret 3--False push up bras
Secret 4--Gallons of makeup
Secret 5--Hide her lack of intelligence
If they're doing all this you can't say she's not trying some don't even do that.
🤣🤣 you’re not wrong but, I would assume these women have self love issues tho
1 Pounds of dry makeup everyday
Sexy/expensive purfune
It's not anyones job to kneel before others to make them happy
In other words, men put in all the work, while women don't have to contribute anything.
Other than their worn out thingy sprayed by countless men!
Oh what they contribute is laying on their back doing nothing and expecting us to perform like a professional porn star.
@@oldtymer9106 Yes🥳
@@lisa3341 unrealistic expectations is what got you women into this mess in the first place.
@@oldtymer9106 🤯
1) if women like you, they will share everything about you to girlfriends
2) vigilant to everything you do
3) she will never clearly mention the number of relationship she had
4) until you are not lock in her life, she will never share her bad/toxic files of life to avoid turn you off
5) she counts « points » on a different way.
6) women request constant mental/emotional/sexually attention
7) if your « warranty » is at its end she will start looking somewhere else
8) they want seduction
9) every woman is insecure, she must feel secure
10) call her beautiful, not hot (specially under 25yo)
Was looking for this lol thank you
She makes light of a woman’s negative traits that come to light in a relationship and tells us, for example that “we’re just gonna have to get use to that one” regarding a woman’s tendency to be high maintenance and yet advises us to go against our nature of slacking off once we’ve won a girl’s charms.
She’s coaching you to basically live in a constant state of anxiety to the ends of preventing hypergamy.
In short: do NOT listen to this woman.
amen
Don't listen to any.............if you do - sooner or later ....
I love 💕 you, man. That was great. I agree, could you imagine 100 rules of engagement you have to follow all the time, always fearing that you might have missed one and that the walls are going to close around you at any minute because she is unhappy? Divorce rate in this country is reported to be around 60%. Do you know that 80% of all the divorces are filed by women?
Like my drill sergeants said in boot camp, "he price of pssy goes up ever day."
So just play the game boys.
#7 “Women count points differently”
That’s a weird way to say “women count points incorrectly.” They don’t count you mowing the lawn, changing the oil, patching the roof, etc. They do count themselves doing the laundry, washing the dishes, etc. What ends up happening is the only way she sees you doing “equal” amount of work is if you do all of your work (that you earn no points for) as well as half of her work.
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