How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything! 😎

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

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  • @YourWingmam
    @YourWingmam  4 года назад +106

    How to attract a woman without saying anything isn't about saying nothing, but about the delicate balance of how much to reveal and when!
    Videos noted:
    Balance alpha masculinity with vulnerability: ruclips.net/video/t9K2gSuPKmc/видео.html
    Texting, Online Communication : bit.ly/LDRtextingonline
    Friend Zone: bit.ly/FriendZonePlaylist
    Damaged Women: bit.ly/DamagedWomenplaylist
    Where to Touch Her: bit.ly/TouchHer
    WakeUP2Luv: members.wingmam.com/get-women/
    Donations & AJs memoir: wingmam.com/donate-memoir/

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 4 года назад +3

      A huge bulge in the pants ...a huge bulging wallet

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 4 года назад +6

      A huge bulge in the pants ...a huge bulging wallet

    • @JollyMcStanson
      @JollyMcStanson 4 года назад +1

      Human psychology is beautiful. It's very interesting how it all works.

    • @renman103
      @renman103 4 года назад +3

      @Redpill Mgtow whenever that happens to me, I always counter by mentioning my wife and mistresses were fighting over me the other night

    • @lindsey607
      @lindsey607 4 года назад +2

      Very good points you bring up in this vid sweetie. Keep on keepin on.

  • @tomstout7875
    @tomstout7875 3 года назад +203

    "If you put her on a pedestal, she will look down on you" Great saying and so true!

    • @adegbenroagoro5180
      @adegbenroagoro5180 3 года назад +11

      That's why I've never liked the common practice In the Western world of a man getting down on one knee when asking a lady to marry him

    • @tmklunk
      @tmklunk 3 года назад +2

      Lived it

    • @adrianred236
      @adrianred236 3 года назад +11

      Treat her like a princess..............and she'll treat you like a peasant.

    • @hackmedia7755
      @hackmedia7755 3 года назад +1

      @@adegbenroagoro5180 if you need the government to tell someone to love you, you have other mental problems

    • @fightfiendmiggs7473
      @fightfiendmiggs7473 2 года назад +3

      @@adrianred236 Also, you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan.👏🏽

  • @steveolive9991
    @steveolive9991 3 года назад +125

    1. Is she right for you (observing). 2. Stay centered, grounded and masculine. 3. Stay in the present (don't focus on the future or past). 4. Text only for info, not conversation. 5. Turn off "read text". 6. Don't text while at work. 7. Don't giver her TMI. 8. Leave them wanting more. 9. Playful teasing (flirting) keeps you from just being friends. 10. Don't talk about your past (your exes). 11. Never trash talk anyone, including your ex. 12. Take 100 percent responsibility for your actions (shows your good character).
    13. Don't put her on a pedestal....if you do, she will look down on you.

    • @stanleybuchan4610
      @stanleybuchan4610 3 года назад +1

      I think she just said all that.

    • @steveolive9991
      @steveolive9991 3 года назад +31

      @@stanleybuchan4610 Yes, she did. I just typed it for someone who lacks the time to view the entire
      video.

    • @qu14torze82
      @qu14torze82 2 года назад +5

      4:58 5:27 5:51 6:22 7:13 7:37 8:45 9:08 9:42 10:24 11:12 12:29 13:26

    • @laughoutloud334
      @laughoutloud334 Год назад +2

      You're a life saver

    • @patienceobongo
      @patienceobongo Год назад

      Dont bother.
      Easier.

  • @kylefng
    @kylefng 3 года назад +23

    Truth! If you show a woman your vulnerable points, she will use them down the road against you.

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад +1

      HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!!
      I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :)
      Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ?
      HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ???
      Thank you for any opinions !
      ~ Michael & Emalie

    • @kylefng
      @kylefng 3 года назад +2

      @@michaelsmusic3532 sure. Just don’t get the government involved with a marriage contract. Give it 3 years, her cute little laugh will sound like a laughing hyena

    • @williamcooke6056
      @williamcooke6056 4 месяца назад

      @@kylefng Hahaa!

    • @williamcooke6056
      @williamcooke6056 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@michaelsmusic3532 You seem like a walking contradiction. Help! She WILL be my wife :), How do I tell her I'm so much older? Michael and Emalie
      So, is Emalie your dog, or are you actually dating her, because if you have never dated her, but sign her name next to yours like you are a couple, that's weird. I'm going with not ever have dated her, since she has no idea how old you are, and you have no idea how to tell her. I'd let her bring that up, by the way. And if you aren't dating, and intimate, saying she WILL be my wife, despite the smiling emoji at the end, is stalker-like. Sounds like you don't know her very well, and you have confidence issues and not a lot of experience with women in general. You need to work all this out because it will show up if and when you ask her out. Another possibility is that you have a casual s3xual relationship with her. But how do I know since you left out so many details and flop around between sounding desparate for advice and sure that she will marry you. Until you give those details, it is likely you won't be getting any help in winning her over, especially from a woman like Wingman, since you sound both desparate and creepy. So man up and give me the full story.

    • @TvrTyson
      @TvrTyson Месяц назад

      @@kylefng truth

  • @leibmoshe
    @leibmoshe 4 года назад +335

    Gentlemen, any woman who allows 300 tinder dates to run through her on the first date but deprives you to "test your worth" isn't worth your time..steer clear

    • @albertgaspar627
      @albertgaspar627 3 года назад +6

      and yet, she focuses on her looks since she's learned what she can "Get", and we are the fools who keep chasing her fine ass.

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад

      @Sam Maloney Thanks for the advice !

    • @gerritstell6248
      @gerritstell6248 3 года назад

      @@albertgaspar627 Who’s chasing?

    • @jaybeebee9288
      @jaybeebee9288 3 года назад

      @@michaelsmusic3532 You should not tolerate any woman older than that - not at your age.

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад +1

      @@jaybeebee9288 I'm not understanding what you mean by I shouldn't tolerate any women older than that ? Could you elaborte please ?
      Thanks :)

  • @DonStemple
    @DonStemple 4 года назад +41

    You can't emphasize enough that phones, especially texting, are basically just for logistical purposes. Set the date and nothing more. I say this repeatedly to guys who ask for my advise. Leave a little mystery, fellas, don't give it all away. Then you'll have something to talk about on your date.
    Great video, love your "do" 💯

  • @kooljay2152
    @kooljay2152 4 года назад +63

    "If you put her on a pedestal she will look down on you." that's a very deep quote❤👍

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 3 года назад +3

      It's a variation of ''treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan''

    • @rymanshroomzorz
      @rymanshroomzorz 3 года назад

      Also another way of putting it is "if you value her, she won't value you."
      It's funny really, it's not difficult to just appreciate someone putting you on a pedestal or at the least consider it a compliment. Instead of losing respect for someone just because they are emotionally invested in you. It's not moralistic to lose respect for someone just because they treat you well...

    • @MrT13
      @MrT13 2 года назад

      She can join me up here. Nothing wrong with that. But if we both have to fight about it, I’m staying right here. She can get the fk off my pedestal… long way down too. But I stay on top.

  • @JeffJohnson-uw3fi
    @JeffJohnson-uw3fi 3 года назад +91

    Watching married with children Peggy says to al “ what are you thinking?”..al says “ if I wanted you to know what I’m thinking I’d be talking “😂

    • @xmo552
      @xmo552 3 года назад +4

      I'm using that!

    • @JeffreyGillespie
      @JeffreyGillespie 3 года назад +8

      It's not a mistake that this show was one of the most successful in the history of television 😂

    • @GeorgeEnke
      @GeorgeEnke 2 месяца назад +1

      Peg was hot..😂

    • @abraxastulammo9940
      @abraxastulammo9940 2 месяца назад

      Good old

  • @edwhatshisname3562
    @edwhatshisname3562 4 года назад +114

    Don't be "needy", "dependant", or "insecure"...
    (they're in quotes for a reason)
    Right, got it, so just to be on the safe side, always keep her at arms length, don't develop an attachment to her, and always be ready to drop her like a bad habit. Sounds like fun.

    • @GodsMan500
      @GodsMan500 4 года назад +4

      The problem is that we’re in a no-win situation. Your point is well-taken but it’s the only way we can get a foothold.

    • @coldhardtruth333
      @coldhardtruth333 4 года назад +7

      Well she’s not your mum ..

    • @maisetas
      @maisetas 4 года назад +4

      i agree. what kind of relationship is that if you dont make attachments?

    • @MJBrabantNZL
      @MJBrabantNZL 4 года назад +2

      @@coldhardtruth333 I just wish she'd stop trying to replace Daddy.

    • @DarshD
      @DarshD 3 года назад

      Among the best advises!

  • @robtam7529
    @robtam7529 4 года назад +114

    Most certainly. As soon as you let your guard down, she wants a divorce. Don’t ever let them know you completely. They love mystery more than truth.

  • @saintgianni
    @saintgianni 4 года назад +188

    Rule #13: You are the PRIZE! If you put her on a pedestal, she will look down on you.

    • @thetruthisoutthere8598
      @thetruthisoutthere8598 4 года назад +32

      But if you put her on a pedestal you can see up her dress!

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez 4 года назад +5

      @@thetruthisoutthere8598 🤣 nice one.

    • @somebodysomewhere5993
      @somebodysomewhere5993 3 года назад +1

      I believe this one.

    • @saintgianni
      @saintgianni 3 года назад +2

      @@michaelsmusic3532 watch Kevin Samuels and Donovan Sharpe. Get red pilled, man. Work on yourself constantly. You’re gonna get really heartbroken if you believe that your soon to be wife isn’t attracted to young, in shape men. Make yourself the prize constantly. Work out, increase your income/earning, learn new things constantly. Men who other women want and other men want to be never get cheated on and even if they do, they have options.

    • @stanspb763
      @stanspb763 3 года назад

      @@michaelsmusic3532 You don't know whether she accepts your age difference? If not you really do not know her and are probably just infatuated. Age is not measured in absolute age but in the current position of each of you are on your personal evolutionary development. An immature 45 year old man is likely too young for a woman, 28, who is well developed emotionally, as one possible example. Why do you want to be with her....do you have and want kids, are you capable of being a partner in raising children. Does she have children and if so how close are you to them, do they look up to you? Do you have much debt, can you live as a couple or family on a single income, do you have 6 months of living expenses in savings or in convertible assets?
      Are you stable enough to be her rock, without significant debt or obligations that would undermine her security such as child support or alimony payments? Are you more stable and secure than men she might know closer to her age? Are your sources of income or assets, on a growth path?
      What does she want as a family structure, for example, are your to be the substitute dad for kids she has or real dad for kids she wants to have. If the latter, she knows she have very little time to create the warm secure nest required for creating children before she reaches the higher risk age for giving birth to healthy kids.
      These are questions that you should not the answers to well before deciding if you and she are a suitable match.
      As an example, I will describe my current situation which is similar but with the roles reversed to yours: I am older and she is not much older than your potential partner. I have known this woman since she was 19 and were activities partners and close friends for a long time, before during, and after her failed marriage. With 2 kids who think I am the only consistent adult male in their lives, when they performed in school plays or academic contests I was the male who attended and rooted them on.. The oldest is 16 and the younger is 10, She has a career, a very accomplished stage, film and currently the female lead in a national TV hit series police drama, 36years old and passes as mid-twenties. As friends, I have been a helper and her emotional and sometimes financial fixer to solve problems, and recently she has made it clear she sees me as boyfriend material and a possible marriage, most are younger than she is. I have a very active social life and hundreds of friends, mostly women, and I am twice her age I have very pleasant relations with many women. So I am examining my own feelings and whether all the questions above and the change in lifestyle are what I really want. I know her weaknesses(terrible with money) but also know her extremely admirable qualities, am I up to being a stepdad? Can I provide the security and support she needs. She needs to be on an allowance where household expenses are completely separate from her discretionary spending. I already took her credit cards and replaced them with debit cards. We both own our own homes without debt and my businesses have not had any income this last year so lived on savings during the pandemic.
      When she was younger I would not have considered it, she was impatient with people who served her for example waitstaff in restaurants. She has matured and has changed significantly in many ways where I am proud to be with her in any situation since she is really warm and empathetic now and loved by the crew on her movie sets or TV series. People can change and she has in a very appealing way.. She has had difficult challenges and instead of being broken by them, she grew. The 36 yo version is a lot more attractive in traits than her 24-year-old version. I hope my steady influence had some positive impact on her as the only rock she had to hold onto.
      This internal dialog I am describing is what you should be doing and talk with your girl about her goals and plan to reach them and where you would fit in your life's range of adaptability. IS she a feminist who believes in unequal rights and the inherent disposable nature of males? If so, do not even consider it.

  • @HughJarse1968
    @HughJarse1968 3 года назад +17

    Cor, this all sounds like a lot of effort to me. Think I’ll just enjoy my hobbies and have a fantastic life on my own 🌞🙏

  • @jaymcd8577
    @jaymcd8577 4 года назад +120

    The whole women giving it up to Chad and Brad but making the Nice guy wait for it, pisses me and every other guy off out there to no end!

    • @Shanedog76
      @Shanedog76 3 года назад +3

      I think that's all about them giving them money!

    • @jaymcd8577
      @jaymcd8577 3 года назад +4

      @@Shanedog76 mm..gee I'm trying to think of another definition for that...it's on the tip of my tongue

    • @Observer82AB
      @Observer82AB 3 года назад +4

      They're not the right woman for you.

    • @SUPER-hx1bs
      @SUPER-hx1bs 3 года назад +10

      What's stopping you to be Chad, you don't have to be a nice guy.

    • @flowerofash4439
      @flowerofash4439 3 года назад +13

      You don't have to be a nice guy, especially for women. The only thing that deserve your nice side is yourself, heads up

  • @comali2212
    @comali2212 3 года назад +110

    1- Show up with a beautiful woman and watch other women how perplexed they become.
    2- Never ever compliment a woman. Resist that urge and you'll become like a magnet.

    • @ezgrowth9
      @ezgrowth9 3 года назад +8

      You hit the nail on the head, brother!
      And by extension:
      Do not ever, I mean EVER, seem desperate!
      Act like she isn't the only one!
      Plus up your money, your grooming, hygiene, style, confidence and humour!
      Bonus tip: Don't pay attention to her and make her jealous!

    • @chicoassmaster4293
      @chicoassmaster4293 3 года назад +6

      @@ezgrowth9 Look: if they like you for whatever reasons you can violate all that advice & it will matter 0. There are no rules other than does she like you or not. Can never make a woman like you no matter what you do.

    • @nicronomici4658
      @nicronomici4658 3 года назад +1

      Why no compliments?

    • @AlternicityBlogspot
      @AlternicityBlogspot 3 года назад +1

      @@michaelsmusic3532 Don't tell her ffs!

    • @tysonbaker4556
      @tysonbaker4556 3 года назад +1

      Yeah I agree rarely complimenting is good, because if you just said she was beautiful straight away well if she was then your only talking to her because of her looks that’s shallow.

  • @richardpellis
    @richardpellis 4 года назад +467

    "The minute a woman has you figured out, your done."

    • @SkidCudi
      @SkidCudi 4 года назад +53

      Dealing with modern women can be terrifying

    • @drinkthekoolaidkids
      @drinkthekoolaidkids 4 года назад +51

      @@SkidCudi then dont deal with them , do your own thing .....

    • @victoriaisaza53
      @victoriaisaza53 4 года назад +53

      She need to do at least 70% of pursuing. The man is the prize

    • @iJuanGutierrez
      @iJuanGutierrez 4 года назад +3

      @@drinkthekoolaidkids facts

    • @321reh
      @321reh 4 года назад +10

      Best Comment This Week!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!

  • @beanzbeanz
    @beanzbeanz 4 года назад +138

    Emotional unavailability, silent aloofness, disinterest in her passions and mild abuse make women stick to me like glue.

    • @drinkthekoolaidkids
      @drinkthekoolaidkids 4 года назад +12

      No sht , that is for real !

    • @MJBrabantNZL
      @MJBrabantNZL 4 года назад +3

      Congratulations. You're now De Facto Dad.
      *RUN.*

    • @donaldmcdonald7660
      @donaldmcdonald7660 3 года назад

      For real lol

    • @albertgaspar627
      @albertgaspar627 3 года назад +20

      that WILL attract a certain type of woman. Women who want mystery, are in fact playing games. Women who grew up with a Dad emotionally or physically absent? will use sexiness to win love from other men. women who follow the "treat them mean, keep them keen" pattern? not a lot of self respect. they may say they have some, but a dude who puts them in their place turns them on because they know they were being immature and bratty. again, not much self respect.

    • @Shanedog76
      @Shanedog76 3 года назад +3

      why I have never understood why Women like treating badly???

  • @SpinDoctor91
    @SpinDoctor91 4 года назад +27

    Be yourself and be confident. Don't try to hard to be noticed and do your own thing and be in your element. People will always take notice.

    • @szymonwozniak8242
      @szymonwozniak8242 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @daveruth4954
      @daveruth4954 День назад

      That's terrible advise she an take anyone she wants

    • @SpinDoctor91
      @SpinDoctor91 18 часов назад

      @daveruth4954 It's always good advice. Why change yourself for someone? Just be you your person will come

  • @llman03
    @llman03 3 года назад +12

    This was one of the best relationship videos I have seen on RUclips. She is spot on.👏🏿

  • @bill7778
    @bill7778 4 года назад +8

    I learned a long time ago.... There are 2 rules to life.
    Rule #1 Don't tell anyone everything you know.
    Rule #2 See rule #1

  • @Franklin-dk1fr
    @Franklin-dk1fr Год назад +8

    I don't really want to be alone but I have come to believe it's my best option. So I always try to be happy about the great things that come with being single.

  • @RIVALContentJammerz
    @RIVALContentJammerz 4 года назад +95

    Don't try to impress her with my knowledge of war atrocities, got it.👌

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  4 года назад +26

      Sprinkle it in sparingly! ;) #mystery

    • @stephengraham1153
      @stephengraham1153 4 года назад +6

      Well if you were special forces and had just returned from a conflict zone with first hand knowledge you might...

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 года назад +3

      💀💀💀

    • @virgilgann107
      @virgilgann107 4 года назад

      So what do you impress her with?

    • @RIVALContentJammerz
      @RIVALContentJammerz 4 года назад +1

      @@stephengraham1153 Dork.

  • @mitcherny6965
    @mitcherny6965 4 года назад +287

    How to attract a woman without saying a word: Touch your eyebrows with your tongue.

  • @pinosantilli8297
    @pinosantilli8297 4 года назад +4

    There really are no wrong choices. No matter how good a gal or guy is in the beginning people change thru time and anything can happen.

  • @jerrykitich3318
    @jerrykitich3318 2 года назад +1

    My previous trumpet teacher used to say that - always leave them wanting more. I think that's a mantra all entertainers live by.

  • @scorp2271
    @scorp2271 4 года назад +7

    I am doing almost everything you said not to do. This video is the first one that has told me something that I'm actually doing wrong. Everything else I've seen (from multiple presenters) is generally things that I already know about women, but these points are really new to me. Thank you

  • @Tom-db9yv
    @Tom-db9yv 4 года назад +88

    Answer: be tall and be hot.
    There, I saved you guys 14 minutes.. You're welcome, have a nice day.

  • @redwow
    @redwow 4 года назад +207

    A used car salesman once told me that there is an ass for every seat.

    • @drinkthekoolaidkids
      @drinkthekoolaidkids 4 года назад +11

      You can learn some real jedi mind tricks from a used car salesman or really any good salesman.

    • @0ned
      @0ned 3 года назад +1

      @@drinkthekoolaidkids yeah like bend your knees a little to bring your eye contact to their eye level so you're on the same level haha and a million more

    • @PFLEONARDI0906
      @PFLEONARDI0906 3 года назад +3

      AKA: meat for the seat or ass behind the glass

    • @chicoassmaster4293
      @chicoassmaster4293 3 года назад

      @@PFLEONARDI0906 Ahaaaaaaa! hahaha!

    • @michaelsmusic3532
      @michaelsmusic3532 3 года назад +1

      HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!!
      I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :)
      Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ?
      HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ???
      Thank you for any opinions !
      ~ Michael & Emalie

  • @davidmiskell3051
    @davidmiskell3051 3 года назад +6

    great advice. a person has to be confident, assertive and comfortable with who they are in order to be the kind of person that will attract the same. you are spot on with everything you say.

  • @beezomaticful
    @beezomaticful Год назад +6

    Revealing what's deep to an individual male can often times be used as a weapon when things go south.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      You're absolutely right!

    • @beezomaticful
      @beezomaticful Год назад

      @@YourWingmam I never thought in a hundred years that the creator of the channel would reply to my comment!
      I'm honored.....

  • @lythsian
    @lythsian 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for saying overly attentive instead of needy and desperate. I'm tired of the belittling.

  • @kythrathesuntamer9715
    @kythrathesuntamer9715 3 года назад +3

    I dont think I COULD actually ever finish revealing everything inside me vulnerability wise which is part of the magic. theres so much inside there that its pretty much endless.

  • @Mr1jdub2
    @Mr1jdub2 4 года назад +1

    Hi Anna, I wrote a comment of a situation I had in a store awhile ago when I approached a much younger woman. I didn't mention what happened before I approached her. I was standing in a aisle looking at items when I noticed this younger woman in the corner of my eye. It looked like she was standing there awhile before she walked pass me. I noticed she had a smile on her face when she walked by. That's what made me approach her. Now you know. Thanks again for what you do. James

  • @KNakanishi
    @KNakanishi 2 года назад +3

    1. Is she right for you (observing).
    2. Stay centered, grounded and masculine.
    3. Stay in the present (don't focus on the future or past).
    4. Text only for info, not conversation. - 100%
    5. Turn off "read text". - This is why I still have an android
    6. Don't text while at work. - A 35 year-old woman who I matched with on a dating site when I was 24 did this, and when I didn't respond to she flipped out. This is genuinely the best way to uncover red flags earlier on.
    7. Don't giver her TMI.
    8. Leave them wanting more.
    9. Playful teasing (flirting) keeps you from just being friends.
    10. Don't talk about your past (your exes).
    11. Never trash talk anyone, including your ex. - 100%. We're all inherently flawed.
    12. Take 100 percent responsibility for your actions (shows your good character). - This is a red flag for ANYBODY (including co-workers btw).
    13. Don't put her on a pedestal - If she's trying to put herself on a pedestal, red flag!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @mamaducissemaci929
      @mamaducissemaci929 3 месяца назад

      @@KNakanishi great!

  • @Martin-ej6tc
    @Martin-ej6tc 5 месяцев назад

    Whew. Taking responsibility is so difficult. Thanks for the vid! Mathew McConaughey is a standard for this. He never badmouths any of his exs. Always talks them up.

  • @Newgrist
    @Newgrist 4 года назад +16

    Good content. It presupposes, however, strong character, which is in short supply today, both among women and men.

  • @malikmumtazz6333
    @malikmumtazz6333 3 года назад +9

    And the most popular way to attract every female or male you must to have prosperous personality, fine manners and positive behavior.

    • @Nabruj7
      @Nabruj7 5 месяцев назад

      1-Looks, 2- Money. 3- Everything else is created from 2.
      4-Sweet talker.
      The scum men who are women hunters possess these traits and ruin woman with their bed post notches.
      It’s sick and evil and happens everyday.

  • @henrylouis5328
    @henrylouis5328 3 года назад +95

    Just ignore em, it drives them crazy

    • @Babarflower
      @Babarflower 3 года назад +6

      Correct😝😝

    • @aliaswizard6963
      @aliaswizard6963 3 года назад +5

      Fax

    • @aliaswizard6963
      @aliaswizard6963 3 года назад +8

      @@geoepi321975 it works for a quote on quote hot guys only I pull it off all the time without trying but it does work but I think it works better when you generally seriously don't care whether you get the girl or not and even more if she is beautiful and gorgeous because she feels like you should be chasing her it's a formula everything has to be in place

    • @aliaswizard6963
      @aliaswizard6963 3 года назад +1

      @@geoepi321975 I see you are using metaphors so what are you trying to say in layman's terms I think I follow you but could you explain?

    • @Icureditwithmybrain
      @Icureditwithmybrain 3 года назад +7

      Be awesome in their presence while ignoring them.

  • @FFE-js2zp
    @FFE-js2zp 4 года назад +41

    The key to attracting women is understanding how shallow and meaningless their attraction is. Most pretty girls sleep with hundreds, if not thousands of men while they have their looks, which isn't very long. Its just your turn.

  • @alibertylover
    @alibertylover 4 года назад +92

    My dog is my main source of companionship & she requires none of this...

    • @counsela9240
      @counsela9240 3 года назад +5

      Lol

    • @rrivera_2747
      @rrivera_2747 3 года назад +13

      My dog doesn't try to change me every minute of my life.

    • @myfirstcrappyvideobilly
      @myfirstcrappyvideobilly 3 года назад +5

      Dogs are the best.

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 3 года назад

      I ❤pets too, my dogs ❤ hangout with me

    • @andyfin990
      @andyfin990 3 года назад +2

      You lock your wife and dog out in the rain for half hour, see who's the most happy to see you when you open the door .🐕‍🦺🐩

  • @PhDarien
    @PhDarien 3 года назад +1

    The title says it all. Say nothing and women are curious why and that alone will attract her to engage in conversation. Happens all the time and I don’t do it intentionally.

  • @alexhilton-johnson5978
    @alexhilton-johnson5978 3 года назад +4

    Good stuff in this video. I've been analysing my own dating strengths and weaknesses for some time, but I have learnt some useful tips here. Also... Wingmam is gorgeous, both in mind and body.

  • @johnpick8336
    @johnpick8336 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for being here Ms. Ana !

  • @TheWaterman2011
    @TheWaterman2011 4 года назад +10

    Wow I just found Anna Jorgensen , feel like I'm on the discovery channel...

  • @brantgoneau9603
    @brantgoneau9603 3 года назад +4

    Hey Anna very interesting. i have tried to be real..casual and straight up..that's for over 40 years through a marriage and many dates and several relationships afterwards.. compatibility stems from honesty and attitude with a base of knowing Real love which is a beautiful thing that two people must desire equally.. if you want something else stay single hermits live longer than a miserable partner..my search has Not ended but the mountain is Much easier to climb thanks to your excellent advice and straight up Wingmam posts! Still smiling with less incline in Wisconsin)

  • @dubongros3108
    @dubongros3108 4 года назад +2

    The text part is a big one . I'm surprised it's the first time I hear this ! Totally agree that one ought to refrain from texting while at work . We used to live without texting

  • @louiskucinski5016
    @louiskucinski5016 3 года назад +1

    i am new listener to this channel . I love this lady and i think she speaks with much wisdom and very solid in her ways of helping us understand woman. Just Fantastic!

  • @lochinvar00465
    @lochinvar00465 4 года назад +3

    I remember learning about dating back in 5th grade. And the one flaming question I had never got answered. Being as it became clear that it was a lot of work for a guy (and expensive) what I wanted to know was "How long do I have to keep that up".

  • @Mr1jdub2
    @Mr1jdub2 4 года назад +2

    Hi Anna, very helpful videos. I had a encounter in a store with a women a while ago who was much younger than myself. I approached her and struck up a conversation which is something I have trouble with. It was going well up until my brain told me that she probably had somewhere to go and I was keeping her from doing that. I told her that it was nice talking to her and she said the same. A matter of fact she said how much she enjoyed talking to me more than once. Never had that happen before. I'm afraid my ADD kicked in. It does that from time to time. I've been regretting it ever since. She was someone I could see myself being with. Thank you for your videos! James

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 4 года назад +16

    Yes i made the wrong choice with my ex.But i got a wonderful daughter.

    • @keepitraww
      @keepitraww 4 года назад +2

      Same as me brother I’m so happy I got my boy

    • @mrjaybennett80
      @mrjaybennett80 4 года назад +1

      me too.

  • @michaelhaney3388
    @michaelhaney3388 2 года назад +2

    I actually did this 5 years ago. It works now and then.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @MrSaemichlaus
    @MrSaemichlaus 4 года назад +21

    Why are mysterious characters attractive? Because we fill in the gaps with our best hopes.

  • @FRO420
    @FRO420 3 года назад

    I like your catch phrases “pace don’t Chase”, leave them wanting more” and the respect bit.
    Thanks Tim

  • @xiezz1538
    @xiezz1538 3 года назад +4

    This being mysterious stuff works, I just avoid the fact that I'm married and pretty much got the checklist covered.

  • @jamesmartinez7851
    @jamesmartinez7851 3 года назад +1

    Yep. My vote is in. You tell the truth. Great job. Wish you continued success

  • @rhuiden4086
    @rhuiden4086 3 года назад +7

    As Bruce Lee said, "The art of fighting without fighting"

  • @michaelnovish1620
    @michaelnovish1620 4 года назад +1

    Most important be honest and yourself. Show what a good person you are and enjoy your time together. Life is too short. Wingmam you are a voice of reason in this crazy world.

  • @akirathearchibald7958
    @akirathearchibald7958 4 года назад +66

    Me a single introvert: now this looks like a job for me

    • @Josh46731
      @Josh46731 4 года назад +10

      🤣😂🤣 if you don't get out and get comfortable going out you will never go out. Stop being scared. They sense insecurity!

    • @thomaspohl5845
      @thomaspohl5845 4 года назад +5

      @@Josh46731 Easier said than done. I had to intentionally institute a self improvement program to be more outgoing. Took 15 years before people told me they couldn't tell i wasn't outgoing.

    • @edwhatshisname3562
      @edwhatshisname3562 4 года назад +11

      @@Josh46731 They also have a bad tendency to see things that aren't there.

    • @Natejay1988
      @Natejay1988 4 года назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing lol

    • @anony5021
      @anony5021 3 года назад

      Lol. Just meditate. RUclips: sahajayoga meditation for spiritual growth. Free

  • @BucketWheat
    @BucketWheat 4 года назад

    I HATE Texting! So I ALWAYS use it as little as possible, and only for "Must Reach" brief messages. Never for long conversations.

  • @TrephineArtist
    @TrephineArtist 4 года назад +4

    Great advice, some of these I haven't adhered to in the past but will try to remember in future! Thank you :)

  • @wingslenses1800
    @wingslenses1800 3 года назад +1

    Hi Anna, You made a lot of sense in this video.. Thanks I feel better George

  • @krashkrash4941
    @krashkrash4941 4 года назад +5

    A lot of women quit trying after they think they have the man. She should do the same as dating. The man is the prize.

  • @popcornsutton6849
    @popcornsutton6849 3 года назад +1

    watched one video and I'm hooked. Newly subscribed. Thanks for all the important info from a woman's perspective. I'm a lover, not a hater.

  • @yossiallen3316
    @yossiallen3316 2 года назад +3

    This is extremely useful information. Thanks again for the lesson.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 года назад

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @earlsreid4130
    @earlsreid4130 4 года назад +1

    I normally am attracted to longer hair on women, but after looking over several of your videos, you are very appealing with the short hair also. Must be both beauty and personality that makes it for you. I'm an introvert so I can post that here without fear of rejection. Oh, love the very informative videos, spot on.

  • @liamcage7208
    @liamcage7208 4 года назад +5

    I dated a woman who absolutely hated her ex-husband. Being divorced myself I never spoke poorly about my ex-wife. I see no value in that and as the mother of my children she deserves respect. So the new GF trashed talked her Ex all the time and felt I must still have a thing for my Ex because I never did that. Sometimes you can't win.

    • @toddbellows5282
      @toddbellows5282 4 года назад +3

      She'll be trashing you when you become her newest ex.

    • @liamcage7208
      @liamcage7208 4 года назад +1

      @@toddbellows5282 Yes in fact that is what happened. ...as if I cared.

  • @russ9921
    @russ9921 4 года назад +1

    Superb video - your best yet, Anna, with bags of good advice, especially putting ‘is she right for me?’ in place of ‘am I good enough for her?’)

  • @josesegura2090
    @josesegura2090 3 года назад +35

    When I need company I just drive my Lamborghini around the mall a few times! Works every time!

  • @saulurraca9294
    @saulurraca9294 3 года назад +1

    You’re one of the only people I have heard on relationships and women that are 100% on point my mother always taught me a woman’s like a cat if she catches the mouse and nose the mouse can’t get away then she gets bored with the mouse as long as the mouse is running she’s excited thank you I want to have my kids watch this well my male voice

    • @jwdyss
      @jwdyss 11 месяцев назад

      women are like cats. That's why so many have cats. They understand each other. Once a woman gets bored with a guy, it's over...... she says "next please! " and moves on. It's all a game to them. They want what you have and once they get it, they're gone. The fall out comes if you've married them and had children and accumulated property. That's when you're not only dumped but sent to the poor farm as well. Women should be looked at as "drive-thrus". Get what you want and move on because if you don't move on, they'll do the same to you.

  • @michaelclay8471
    @michaelclay8471 3 года назад +7

    That's happened to me all my life I unintentionally attract women they mistake my body language and the look in my eyes as flirting when I'm just getting engaged to the conversation

  • @PeterJames143
    @PeterJames143 3 года назад

    That is the cleverest youtuber background ever. It's cheap and quick, you can just fold it out in one minute and fold it away when you're done. Obviously not the most beautiful background ever but it's such a smart idea way better than just showing the room you're in. Smart idea.

  • @shadowfilm7980
    @shadowfilm7980 3 года назад +56

    Stay single. Don’t get married. Be happier. Easier too. 👍

    • @The-You-Doober
      @The-You-Doober Год назад +4

      And richer!

    • @extra222love
      @extra222love Год назад +2

      That’s a kind of avoiding driving cars, just coz they might make accidents 🤔

    • @The-You-Doober
      @The-You-Doober Год назад +5

      @@extra222love Women are like cars. Don't pay a brand new price for a 300,000 mile used and abused car.

    • @extra222love
      @extra222love Год назад +1

      @@The-You-Doober
      I’ll definitely go with that 👌🏼

  • @dukadecastro5381
    @dukadecastro5381 3 года назад

    Thanks great. I will try to implement what you said keep both fingers crossed and wish me luck.

  • @steveratkaj6994
    @steveratkaj6994 4 года назад +12

    I'm recently widowed, and find all this dating advice really interesting but way too complicated. As men we are told to have hobbies and interests, which I think most men naturally have. Men who have interests tend to drop many of them when in a relationship due to the women in their life. Conversely, most women I have come across in my life had no real interests or passions they pursued. I found and still find that a major turnoff. I was very fortunate as my wife let me still pursue my hobbies and interests and actually encouraged me to do so. She did that because she was confident in me and herself. A rare women indeed.

    • @DocJaeBass
      @DocJaeBass 4 года назад +6

      Steve,
      I"m not a widower, but older so probably in a similar situation. If I can be so bold as to offer an opinion. When you start dating a women, don't give up a single hobby. Keep all of your male friends and make time to spend time with the guys. It will keep you and your relationship healthy.

    • @CaliforniaArchitect
      @CaliforniaArchitect 4 года назад +7

      I'm wodowed too. I lost my wife at a relatively young age by surprise; aggressive breast cancer. I think that most of the advice in the Wingmam TV is pretty good. Much of what she is saying is to have your life in order such as with your career and hobies. From that, confidence and general satisfaction with life follows. Women notice this and are attracted to it like metal to a magnet. The problem for me is that I just don't find women attractive anymore. Their physical features yes! But their attitude is an outright turn off. So, I'd rather remain single (MGTOW). But I've noticed how women try to strike a conversation with me or to put themselves in my view to get me to notice them. I might flirt, let them validate themselves to me, but at the end of the day, I'm just not interested in them. I friendzone them.

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 4 года назад +3

      very true, women dont do anything significant or that requires risk taking. they also make you carry on the conversation while saying very little

    • @FranklySpeaking73
      @FranklySpeaking73 4 года назад +2

      If you give up on your hobbies, that is on you. Tell her “NO” and if she doesn’t like it, she can leave. Don’t be forced to choose. Let them choose you or goodbye. Be the man in the relationship!!

    • @TheBlackSheepDiaries
      @TheBlackSheepDiaries 4 года назад +2

      Steve, man it looks like you found a winner. I married once, she had no interest, was a major problem. Didn't work out. I've given up chasing the ladies now, I have too many hobbies and interest to keep busy, and I don't feel like bending my natural behavior to try to impress anyone. Sorry for your loss sir. Invite you to check my channel here, may find some things to like. Stay strong.

  • @GordianKnotProject
    @GordianKnotProject 3 года назад +1

    I have a question. I have a plan to move about 1,000 miles from where I live now in a couple years. I'm working hard towards this goal, and it's really non-negotiable. How long should I wait to tell a woman about this plan to balance not talking about the future with not leading her on?

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 4 года назад +68

    I'm picturing an 89 year old man bent over his walker, never married, muttering to himself "I am the Prize... I am the Prize"...

    • @ObamaSaidHeLikesMe
      @ObamaSaidHeLikesMe 4 года назад +2

      Lmaoo stfu

    • @TheCoachRC
      @TheCoachRC 4 года назад +3

      Haahahaha!!! Yeah, picture that with a Kodak.

    • @ReasonAboveEverything
      @ReasonAboveEverything 3 года назад

      Maybe he was but at 89 nobody is a prize.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 3 года назад +3

      He won't need a walker if he lives a healthy life....and if he does that then he will be the prize.

    • @ReasonAboveEverything
      @ReasonAboveEverything 3 года назад +3

      @@mreverybody1150 He will be healthier but nobody is a prize at that point and quit frankly I don't think people over 70 even care about dating and fucking.

  • @godseed2214
    @godseed2214 2 месяца назад

    Not sure if you realize how attractive your knowledge is beyond your fabulous looks. My goodness.

  • @robertvahle1755
    @robertvahle1755 3 года назад +16

    Men having mystery...this is why criminal types don't talk about their past, so women find these bad boys mysterious. Then when she gets abused in the relationship, she will claim, "I didn't know he was violent."

    • @MaKi-e3h
      @MaKi-e3h 2 месяца назад

      Exactly this. All these "masculine" behaviors are actually something that criminals and a-holes do.
      Then girls wonder why everyone they meet is a-hole or criminal. This is who you get attracted to. Emotionally unavailable narcissists who think they went school equivalent of Harvard (school of life) to get where they are, when they've done nothing but drink and treat women like s***. Hey maybe these are not the signs you want to be looking for in a man. Close minded, doesn't respect you, can't talk about past, constantly thinks too highly of himself, acts flirty all the time because he does that with everyone. OH man, what a catch!

  • @kkim1177
    @kkim1177 3 года назад +1

    I've been out the game for over 13 years. Thank you for the refresher

  • @Buddycoop1
    @Buddycoop1 3 года назад +4

    Funny thing is whenever I try this stuff it back fires. When I am clueless and have my guard down then women are there. Boils down to being yourself as long as your not awkward.

    • @cosmopolitanbay9508
      @cosmopolitanbay9508 3 года назад +1

      Boils down to if whatever you do forks for you. If your get the desired outcomes, keep doing it.

    • @VaronPlateando
      @VaronPlateando 2 года назад

      ... 'awkwardness' is an external label, primarily. free yourself from caring for such, instead of refering to own frame | mental point of origin.

  • @KT-bd5ym
    @KT-bd5ym 4 года назад +1

    Always enjoy your videos. I've had times where I said to much at times and women ghosted me. Great help

  • @barak5122
    @barak5122 4 года назад +3

    Thank you so much, you’re so intelligent! And it’s wonderful to leasen to you! God bless you!

  • @f.k.6151
    @f.k.6151 3 месяца назад +1

    Best coaching, as always.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

  • @aarhusnord
    @aarhusnord 4 года назад +5

    Seeing this in Denmark (maybe where your ancestors came from, Mrs Jørgensen ?) - what interests me : are these pieces of advice cross-cultural ? And how do you get close to females, when all your hobbies and job circles are mainly inhabited with males ?

  • @biggib2222
    @biggib2222 4 года назад +2

    Thanks Anna. I kept thinking a lot of the things you covered I’ve found to be red flags with women. If she bad mouths her ex, or blames others for things wrong in her life, or just puts down other people. Any of these from a woman and I back away.

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 3 года назад

      blaming and badmouthing others are classic signs of a narcissistic personality disorder.

  • @andykyriakides2144
    @andykyriakides2144 3 года назад +6

    To attract women , first you need the physical attractiveness , then a humble and polite personality , and just be yourself .

  • @jamesbsnow91
    @jamesbsnow91 3 года назад +1

    I had just found you on RUclips and I must tell you that you are very good at what you do please keep up the good work just needed to get that off my chest

  • @mwanzafitalphamotivation2541
    @mwanzafitalphamotivation2541 4 года назад +12

    IF ALL YOU DO IS COMPLAIN, YOU’LL STAY THE SAME‼️ shoutout to steph 💪🏽

  • @justinroberts7671
    @justinroberts7671 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much your really great and I just subscribed to your channel.This video was just what I needed to hear.❤️

  • @kimsiewers
    @kimsiewers 4 года назад +35

    #13 Don’t say anything; I dated a girl who said I was “such a good listener” 😜

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  4 года назад +6

      Always leave them wanting more! ;)

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 года назад +1

      😂 I always get that.. 💣

    • @johannesswillery5146
      @johannesswillery5146 4 года назад +4

      I think my most successful first date was one where I took the girl shopping and spent four hours not saying a word. She talked incessantly, shopped her heart out and in the end drug me into the back seat of the car. Strangely I didn't always do that well........

    • @goldboy8869
      @goldboy8869 4 года назад

      What if sho don’t speak ?

    • @johnnyboy3357
      @johnnyboy3357 4 года назад +1

      #14 just get yourself out of sight

  • @AnswersFromGod_com
    @AnswersFromGod_com 3 года назад +2

    Most excellent advice. Thank you.

  • @theseattlegreen1871
    @theseattlegreen1871 4 года назад +143

    I dont think women are capable of loving a man.
    Just my opinion.

    • @johnhanson4795
      @johnhanson4795 4 года назад +17

      they have to many choices and media nowadays

    • @marlinshanklin1855
      @marlinshanklin1855 4 года назад +9

      They love a different way.

    • @virgilgann107
      @virgilgann107 4 года назад +5

      What an awful opinion! You should go after the prettiest ones!

    • @marlinshanklin1855
      @marlinshanklin1855 4 года назад +4

      The love that God has for humanity is the only pure love. All others have different factors it shouldn't be that way. If you analyze it you will come to that conclusion.

    • @KayNovember26
      @KayNovember26 4 года назад +7

      The problem is that most men want to date girls out of their league. The same goes for the ladies. You get what you can bring to the table! Older men wants young ladies, fat guys want slim and petite girls, life long gamers/ couch pototoes want career women....

  • @jtrealfunny
    @jtrealfunny 2 месяца назад

    In relationships, especially romantic ones, I feel like the most important communication is through your actions. If I don't like something I'm pulling back a little, not criticizing, certainly not arguing, just changing my behavior in response to something I didn't like. I want partners who want to be with me, and so if they want to be with me and see that what they are doing isn't working they have a chance to change and we have a chance to grow in our relationship.

  • @thorsprovoni2525
    @thorsprovoni2525 4 года назад +40

    What do you mean looks aren't everything?
    Are you suggesting that all my wind-sprints up the slope of Mount Olympus have been for naught?

    • @Asporez
      @Asporez 4 года назад +4

      Dude you didn't actually work those out you were just forged like that by Zeus who took the form of your moms husband to forge you like that.

    • @sammylane21
      @sammylane21 4 года назад +2

      You mean you didn't just mount on your Pegasus and fly over... *pfft* ding dong.

    • @Asporez
      @Asporez 4 года назад

      @@sammylane21 Thats Bellerophon... also not the same era.

    • @renman103
      @renman103 4 года назад +2

      yeah right , women are more attracted to a sense of humour than appearance , so the 3 stooges got laid more than Brad pitt???

    • @Asporez
      @Asporez 4 года назад +1

      @@renman103 I mean, thats entirely possible, the howard brothers both got married a couple times and divorced because of cheating and that was in the 40s-50s so a man needed to cheat A LOT for the wife initiated divorce to hold any chance of being valid. Brothels were not considered cheating by law either.

  • @marcogreis
    @marcogreis 4 года назад

    The only woman I´d like to attract without saying anything is you Anna. Oh your voice, your heart everything about you makes me have the best thoughts a man could have.

  • @FightingRimbaud
    @FightingRimbaud 4 года назад +9

    Basically this can be excellently summed up by Mike Dimone’s speach to Mark Ratner in Fast Times at Ridgemont High. 😂

    • @josephcusumano2885
      @josephcusumano2885 4 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @drinkthekoolaidkids
      @drinkthekoolaidkids 4 года назад +1

      I was think the exact same thing ....... it's a numbers game .

    • @bovaz2287
      @bovaz2287 3 года назад

      or like Dwayne Johnson giving Sean relationship advise in The Mysterious Island.

  • @mickeyaugrec7560
    @mickeyaugrec7560 4 года назад +1

    Excellent points, great vlog. NO OVER-SHARING. Words to live by in so many settings.

  • @loklie3226
    @loklie3226 4 года назад +117

    How do you keep the mystery up for the next 30 years. Eventually she's going to figure out you stock shelves at walmart...

    • @johnhanson4795
      @johnhanson4795 4 года назад +12

      in the old days it never mattered

    • @KDJWTV
      @KDJWTV 4 года назад +6

      They can get women to . It's easy to get women working at Wal-Mart I had sex offers all the time working there if I was single it would have been fun. But I had a wife and kid. Walmart vworkers can get all the sex they want.

    • @jimmieparker8093
      @jimmieparker8093 4 года назад +7

      @@KDJWTV u must be 12......that comment didnt even sound right....u sure ur not trolling....lol

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 3 года назад +12

      The trick is to make stocking shelves at Walmart sound really interesting...

    • @ajrockinshockin2893
      @ajrockinshockin2893 3 года назад +5

      @@dustbin5044 you must live in Alaska.

  • @David-gu8hv
    @David-gu8hv Год назад +1

    Love the ending, "Ok, that's it..thanks..by! (and the rest of course)

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @njineermike
    @njineermike 3 года назад +66

    How to attract gorgeous without saying a word: Be a billionaire.

    • @gregorydixon277
      @gregorydixon277 3 года назад +3

      And be over 6', and super fit, and 150 other thing she requires of a man

    • @russellmiles2861
      @russellmiles2861 3 года назад +2

      @@gregorydixon277 I disagree: Squiggles is right. That is all that is required. I’m over 6 feet, and quite fit. I was in the army in my youth; I cycle everywhere. Why I work hard I have never been wealthy. For most of my various partners my wealth or lack thereof was a stated reason for ending the relationship.

    • @jaythenihilist4689
      @jaythenihilist4689 3 года назад

      @@russellmiles2861 So basically what you're saying is that women are attracted enough to hook up with you, but they don't want commitment from you? If so, then I would call that a good problem lol.

    • @russellmiles2861
      @russellmiles2861 3 года назад

      @@jaythenihilist4689 I'll try to see things that way: but you think by know I may have learnt how to hang on to them. I am looking for advice

    • @gregorydixon277
      @gregorydixon277 3 года назад

      @Jack Mikeson you've got that right

  • @johnnyburgess8326
    @johnnyburgess8326 4 года назад +2

    Thank you very much. I appreciate these helpful videos.