5 Classy Behaviors Men Always Notice in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive

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  • @reneecaines9097
    @reneecaines9097 3 месяца назад +1568

    I started ballroom dancing recently and there us an aspect I love and have missed. When dancing the men comes ask for a dance, then when dance is done they walk you back and thank you for dancing with them. I feel so feminine and cared for. I am trying to find that feeling outside of the ballroom when it comes to dating.

    • @CelineSuphai-iz9yo
      @CelineSuphai-iz9yo 3 месяца назад +8

      😮

    • @BlueRivers-xg2rt
      @BlueRivers-xg2rt 2 месяца назад

      Good luck because modern men lack class.

    • @lilianwal2385
      @lilianwal2385 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@cheriem432hahahaha

    • @gerrimiller3491
      @gerrimiller3491 2 месяца назад +52

      Have you noticed any potential gentleman at your dance lessons that you may want to get to know more of? Sometimes we have to show a little interest in a suddle way. I believe you are close to meeting a good companion 😊

    • @reneecaines9097
      @reneecaines9097 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@cheriem432Thanks 😊

  • @anidilollo5478
    @anidilollo5478 3 месяца назад +1215

    Lol the "do they think we don't know how much time has passed??" Cracked me up. I had a guy ghost me once--big time--and then A YEAR LATER texted me like "hey what's up". I did literally say, "who is this". He said his first name only (very common name) and when I asked for his last name he said, "oh, I thought we had a great connection but I guess not if you don't remember me." The audacity knew no bounds. I blocked him.

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 3 месяца назад +20

      Try Years, yes years. At the time, they had said he had a girlfriend (which his sibling was sent in to tell me) to which I just nodded like ok, fine. Then left him be. Well his sibling has popped in periodically at my office (we’re in the same field and their company does business with ours) but their sibling has visited maybe twice a yr for few years cause I didn’t chase after. Like hey, don’t forget me… which is how people used to be years ago. Remained friendly.

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee 3 месяца назад +60

      You should have said if it was so great, where have you been for the past year?! 🙄🙄

    • @Julybaby12619
      @Julybaby12619 2 месяца назад +32

      LOVE your response to this lazy, lazy man!

    • @simoneharlow
      @simoneharlow 2 месяца назад +12

      Hey ladies plot twist 🎉 YOU ARE ALREADY MAGNETIC I SWEAR BUT YOU DONT BELIEVE IT YET💯if you are watching this, then go within and find the love within yourself. You don’t need to seek advice from other people literally make your own rules. You have that power. There are no absolutes in this world, and there are no things that ALL people find wildly attractive click off this freaking video, and make your own rules you can do it I believe in you ❤

    • @artstudiogirl784
      @artstudiogirl784 Месяц назад +23

      Just looking for a booty call. Glad you drop kicked him!

  • @esencialnizdravi8608
    @esencialnizdravi8608 3 месяца назад +836

    “You are the priority, not an option”.. well said!

    • @hemantks4353
      @hemantks4353 Месяц назад +2

      Proceeds to say you have multiple options as a women

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 19 дней назад +3

      Any time a guy treats me like I am an option I remove myself from the equation entirely. If there's someone he wants more than me he can HAVE her. I will wait for the guy that WANTS me.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 19 дней назад

      ​@@hemantks4353😂 that's the point. Get over yourself dude.

    • @hemantks4353
      @hemantks4353 19 дней назад

      @@UnashamedCaliforniagirl What's the point? Women having multiple options?

    • @sorrywhoareyou887
      @sorrywhoareyou887 4 дня назад

      @@hemantks4353 well usually women would have the options of men wanting her and she might just be seeing who her best suitor is . Men usually only pursue the one woman they’re interested in. Idk why this is abnormal now.

  • @tiffanyb.7596
    @tiffanyb.7596 2 месяца назад +645

    My husband told me, One of the main reasons he asked me out on a second date is because my phone kept going off on our first date, but I didn’t answer it… I just kept talking with him & having a great time. 🥰

    • @living7063
      @living7063 21 день назад

      @@WynneL gotta write it down now

    • @AdrianaCowick
      @AdrianaCowick 19 дней назад +4

      @@WynneLNow that’s just manipulative. No no

  • @TahoeSnowbird
    @TahoeSnowbird 3 месяца назад +524

    I fell in love with my husband 55 years ago because his first kiss was a promise he would love, cherish and protect me all our lives. It's a promise he kept for 52 years before God called him to his eternal home. When I told that story, some friends asked if it was the first time I was kissed. I' ve been kissed 3 times before by 3 different guys. I don't even remember how I felt the first time I was kissed.

    • @Julybaby12619
      @Julybaby12619 2 месяца назад +23

      Wow.... What a beautiful story about your first kiss with your husband of 52 years. It's so true that we remember the first kiss/kisses that Really stood out to us as women, and it's usually because the man made us feel truly special, and time told us that it was REAL.

    • @peacelovejoyandhappiness
      @peacelovejoyandhappiness Месяц назад +1

      ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉intense story I loved reading this.

  • @DaniElleBeesBuzz
    @DaniElleBeesBuzz 3 месяца назад +839

    Be who you really are and you will attract the best person for you.

    • @Serenity5
      @Serenity5 3 месяца назад +45

      That is really the only thing a person has to do.

    • @melissabryant2251
      @melissabryant2251 3 месяца назад +24

      Not working for sooo many women. Men want skinny red carpet looks and pass over good women.

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee 3 месяца назад +8

      That didn’t work for me 😭😭

    • @prader1330
      @prader1330 3 месяца назад +10

      Ultimately yes. That's the best way. She's eventually going to find the real you so might as well get it over with early on and save everybody time if you're not her "thing." Hell, if I'm not her type there's a really good chance she's not mine anyway.

    • @shaunilashaye1976
      @shaunilashaye1976 2 месяца назад +5

      I agree ❤

  • @MsPossums
    @MsPossums 3 месяца назад +683

    Opening the door is good manners and says alot about a man. Trust me.

    • @minakumari1515
      @minakumari1515 3 месяца назад +8

      what if he opens door only for me like it not coincidence i have noticed it with other women too ,he doent open fo them .dosent give them as much as space to pass around through the door. but if i enter he just swoops in the side to give me full space. im confued is it bad that he treats other peopel differntly or i it good that he traet me speacially

    • @patmanchester8045
      @patmanchester8045 3 месяца назад

      @@minakumari1515 I can't stand it when any person opens a door and then lets it slam in the face of the next person. If there is a long line that you get stuck holding the door for. Just comment that you need to get to your friend and could someone else do it now.
      when a man, or any one, opens a door for opens the door you, I see it to be good manners that if he opens one door for you, you hold the next one for him. this is especially easy when you have to push and not pull the door to open it. It also nicely sets you as his equal. It also lets him show if he can be comfortable with it and is appreciative. If not, rethink things about your relationship.
      also remember any person ( male or female) shows their BEST side in the dating process and shows their REAL side in marriage.
      I also pay attention to waitstaff. These people work hard for little pay. Just because you may leave a big tip, doesn't mean you have to be rude or dismissive.
      I believe all these things should be taken seriously by both sexes. women should be polite, thoughtful, friendly , and helpful too.

    • @jasmines4493
      @jasmines4493 3 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂 about the camel. You are too funny

    • @sreyaprem
      @sreyaprem 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@minakumari1515 he is not a good person then

    • @sreyaprem
      @sreyaprem 3 месяца назад +1

      It doesn't. I have experience.

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 2 месяца назад +354

    I appreciate a man with good manners who will open the door for me. Always smile and say thank you.

    • @Agathon255
      @Agathon255 7 дней назад +1

      Goog luck having that now.

    • @BarnaliD
      @BarnaliD День назад

      If they're interested in you they'll open the door. If not, they won't.

  • @user-sw6jm8hj2p
    @user-sw6jm8hj2p Месяц назад +112

    As a young woman, i always opens the doors for anyone, and appreciate others doing that for me. Who gets mad at that? Insanity

    • @TheOReport1994
      @TheOReport1994 Месяц назад

      I've learned by witnessing other women getting offended by men holding doors open for them, then they have huge problems! Men, run from this! This is the first, and major red flag!
      Don't try to date someone who gets offended by you holding a door open for them!

    • @menmanom
      @menmanom 22 дня назад +1

      Tiktok kids do XD like, i tick it as a beige kinda i cant say red, but lighter flag if they dont open a door for me (a man) or if they dont pour my drink or smth like, literally thats bare minimum. Act luke a gemtleman dont be like i have a lot of money im bulky im this that blabla, show it stupid show it, dont just talk.

    • @naomihanna7028
      @naomihanna7028 11 дней назад +1

      Stop at the door and wait for the man behind you to open it

    • @Leahmoonbeamflower
      @Leahmoonbeamflower 9 дней назад +4

      Right? As a natural born woman, I open the door or hold the door behind me for anyone. Life shouldn’t be so complicated.

  • @lillllllllllllllllllllllllli
    @lillllllllllllllllllllllllli Месяц назад +191

    i think one of the biggest problems in our modern time is the way the media forces women to act like men. femininity is so often seen as "weak" or "dumb", while this actually is what makes most of us women the happiest.

    • @TheOReport1994
      @TheOReport1994 Месяц назад

      The media tells young girls and women that they should act like men (because they're equal to men, while preaching that women are 'stronger; than men but having them compare themselves to a 'lesser'(by their standards) thing to prove that they're stronger. . . . , but then they wonder why men aren't interested in them.
      Hmmmmmmm. . . . . I wonder why!
      In all seriousness though, men and women are equally strong in different ways, and that's what makes a relationship and/or marriage work!

    • @blueshoes5145
      @blueshoes5145 Месяц назад +35

      The issue doesn’t stem from media but society. Femininity has been viewed as weak by men because the roles society gives women are usually not the stronger ones. So, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out the comparison to weakness.
      It becomes problematic when that transfers into THEIR perspective on OUR actions and thoughts, our likes and dislikes and in our strengths and weaknesses. And that creates an unsafe/uncomfortable environment for women. When a woman feels safe she can be feminine.

    • @thulasibai6136
      @thulasibai6136 15 дней назад +3

      True.A human can be shy,cry,bold,fearless,sassy,sensitive etc whatever their gender and sexuality.Women with nice and strong personality are feminine and men with nice and strong personality are masculine.

    • @queenpanda26
      @queenpanda26 11 дней назад +4

      Feminine and masculine are useless terms, there's just people with different personalities. What you're talking about is caused by mysogyny tho. Just do what makes you happy.

    • @thulasibai6136
      @thulasibai6136 11 дней назад

      @@queenpanda26 Exactly.

  • @ddmr44
    @ddmr44 3 месяца назад +277

    Boy, am I ever grateful that my man and I are balanced in our "feminine and masculine" energies. We don't need to even think in those terms. There's no game playing, no calculating, no worrying about offending anyone or emasculating anyone. We each like to feel needed, valued, respected, and taken care of... and we do that for each other.

    • @chiarac3833
      @chiarac3833 3 месяца назад +11

      That's a good relationship. I know, because I'm in a good relationship as well. My lovey puts me first because I put him first.

    • @ddmr44
      @ddmr44 3 месяца назад

      That's nice, but you should always put yourSelf first, ;), not as in "being selfish", but as loving yourself first because it's only when you love yourself first that you can properly love another person. @@chiarac3833

    • @Himmiefan
      @Himmiefan Месяц назад +4

      Thank you! This is how it should be.

    • @ddmr44
      @ddmr44 Месяц назад +3

      @@Himmiefan I know. This "balancing of masculine and feminine energies" b.s. is de rigueur now in all these so-called "relationship coaches'" videos. I think they have all piggy-backed on Gray's "Venus/Mars" idiocy to make it sound more relevant.

    • @nathalian.7209
      @nathalian.7209 Месяц назад +3

      @@ddmr44 why do you need to turn down the concept of "masculine and feminine" to feel good about your relationship? this concept actually work for a lot of men and women. Why would you diminish a concept that fits other couples to say your relationship is good?

  • @thekrystalmethod
    @thekrystalmethod 3 месяца назад +263

    The phone thing - if I’m with someone, I will do my best to have my phone put away unless I’m showing them something funny. If I absolutely must respond to something, I will tell them “I’m not ignoring you, I’m just going to respond to this text really quick so you can have my full attention”
    I once hurt a FRIEND’S feelings so much that she scolded me about it in frustration for being on my phone while she and I were out to dinner and that moment has never left me, which is why I make it a thing now to not have my phone out if I’m out with close friends/family.

    • @MegaMisfit138
      @MegaMisfit138 3 месяца назад +17

      It is very good that you correct your mistakes, and are able to evolve. Some people don't. My best friend and I wanted to go to The Beatles Cirque show in Vegas forever. We finally went, and she was texting half the time! I asked her to be present in the moment. She refused. I told her it was bad show etiquette. She kinda ruined it for me. All I could think about was how embarassing and rude she was! Till the usher came and told her to put her phone away! 😂 Next day we went to a fancy restaurant. She was dressed in a skimpy beach outfit, while I'm dressed like Marilyn Monroe! I said it was customary to put a napkin in her lap. She refused, while sitting spread eagle! Then she ended up sneaking off to a room, with a man. Needless to say, I won't be attending any classy events with her!

    • @princessofgenovia1407
      @princessofgenovia1407 3 месяца назад +15

      I leave my phone in the trunk of my car and rely on my I watch if I must,,,,, no phones on dates!! It's so rude!!

    • @vivhiggins5656
      @vivhiggins5656 2 месяца назад +1

      Men get in touch whith you what do you do fore a liveing how old are you were do you live,know you talk a bout thing's first till you get too know one another know dont hate men,and what a bout what a woman wont,s,

    • @JamieLynnMorris
      @JamieLynnMorris 2 месяца назад +5

      I put my phone on do not disturb so it's not constantly binging with notifications, but allows my starred contacts to ring through. Mainly the local sheriff's office in case my horses get out and my BFF who will know what I'm doing so will not interrupt. My time is precious, so is yours.

    • @justsomeone9705
      @justsomeone9705 Час назад

      ​@@MegaMisfit138yo girl if I had a friend like you , I wouldn't have let go of you ! Seriously , the ppl who correct you at places where you are wrong are precious and always better than those who provide a helping hand and appreciation when you are clearly at wrong ! Props to u ;)

  • @FP65
    @FP65 3 месяца назад +675

    I have seen women, (it’s always young indoctrinated women) who get mad at men for opening their door. I’m an older woman really appreciate a gentleman. Any man who opens the door for me, I look him straight in the eye and thank him for being a gentleman. Men aren’t toxic contrary to what young women are being taught.

    • @LLCoolJ_25
      @LLCoolJ_25 3 месяца назад +74

      Do they really get mad? I’ll be 25 next month and I’ve never seen women of any age get mad at this. I know this all based on personal experience. That’s just crazy, if they do. I know I’ve seen it portrayed in recent movies. “I can open my own car door” is not a flex. Just arrogant and we don’t need to be hyper independent all the time. I always thank men when they’re chivalrous. But I never expect them to be because of the fight between men and women.🙄 I work in corporate America and when I’m on elevators, from what I’ve observed, millennial men do not allow for women to go first. I’ve only gotten on the elevator with one other gen z guy and he was really kind to everyone. The gen x and boomer men always allow women (and men) to go before them.

    • @ddmr44
      @ddmr44 3 месяца назад +60

      I'm in my 60s and I open doors for *people*, men AND women. We have had a patriarchal society since the beginning of time and a male-dominated society continues to exist today. That, to me, is responsible for the inequality that women suffer and, believe me, inequality has affected my life in many arenas. So, it's not about "getting mad at men for opening doors". I just do not want to perpetuate that inequality.

    • @michellebatzel5809
      @michellebatzel5809 3 месяца назад +1

      @@ddmr44No wonder the world is in the toilet, your generation helped it happen! Men and women aren’t equal. That exact brainwashed mentality is why men pretending to be women are in women’s sports. You’re probably also jabbed aren’t you?

    • @armystrong6809
      @armystrong6809 3 месяца назад

      Women aren’t being “indoctrinated “. To the contrary it seems they’ve arrived at their own conclusions. I raised a young woman and not once have I “indoctrinated “ her. That comment is offensive, rude and quite frankly out of touch with reality. If you want to live under strict and rigid patriarchal gender rules by all means go for it, but the days of men having full reign and power and privilege over women are over.

    • @mellocello187
      @mellocello187 3 месяца назад +11

      Well clearly some are. Read the news.

  • @cdeweijer12
    @cdeweijer12 3 месяца назад +169

    Being lighthearted is really not that difficult. True, it takes some practise to look on the bright side but it definitely helps to feel oneself happier

    • @LittleLulubee
      @LittleLulubee 3 месяца назад +9

      It’s hard for some of us 😭😭

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 2 месяца назад +11

      @@LittleLulubeeit’s called neuroplasticity. Easily explained: Fake it til you make it! The more lighthearted I am, the better I feel!! 😊

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq Месяц назад +5

      "Being lighthearted" does not exist without a sense of humour, -- doesn't have to be extreme, actually shouldn't be extreme, but have a sense, the _sense_ of humour. Anyone without any sense of humour at all is disqualified from being lighthearted.

  • @katherinemcintosh7247
    @katherinemcintosh7247 2 месяца назад +133

    This video amused me. “Men” and “Women” are individuals when they are dating. Just date people who behave in the way which compliments your behavior and is in keeping with your values.

    • @bufficliff8978
      @bufficliff8978 22 дня назад +2

      Toxic individuality breeds anxiety.

    • @katherinemcintosh7247
      @katherinemcintosh7247 22 дня назад +1

      @@bufficliff8978 “toxic individuality?”

    • @bethm3152
      @bethm3152 18 дней назад +1

      Agreed. Also, toxic individuality is lack of self worth, bad self esteem, self conscious… if I’m not mistaken, it’s things that keep you from being in a healthy relationship

    • @katherinemcintosh7247
      @katherinemcintosh7247 18 дней назад +2

      @@bethm3152 I guess I am wondering what “toxic individuality” has to do with my comment.🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @MichelleKotler
    @MichelleKotler 2 месяца назад +133

    I have just started seeing a man and he did not open the car door. I finally asked if he could he please do me a favor…could he please open the car door for me? He said he would like to do that and he used to do it but so many women chastised him for it, he stopped doing it. I had a feeling he was going to say that. I told him those women weren’t fully evolved yet and I probably thought that way about 15 years ago. Sure enough, when we walked back to his car, he opened my door. 😊

    • @frenchappletarte3252
      @frenchappletarte3252 Месяц назад +12

      I don't mind a man opening a door but if he opened my car door, I'd feel like a child

    • @Bergziegen35
      @Bergziegen35 Месяц назад +5

      I love that you kindly asked him to open the door for you instead of being offended

    • @readerzozo410
      @readerzozo410 Месяц назад +1

      @@frenchappletarte3252 It’s good if he’s the one who is driving and you’re just sitting in the car

    • @chaosqueen1703
      @chaosqueen1703 28 дней назад

      @@frenchappletarte3252 Same, idk why but it's the same with them like pulling a chair out or smt. I never get mad at them for it, it's just really awkward

    • @chaosqueen1703
      @chaosqueen1703 7 дней назад

      @@HarriedPedestrian Yeah, but tbh I hate having chairs pulled out for me in general. It's the same with them feeding me, it's not cute, just embarrassing for me

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 3 месяца назад +93

    My sense of humor and witty conversation and laughter draws men like immediately, I had men say I asked you out because of your sense of humor

  • @joiab11
    @joiab11 3 месяца назад +249

    De-center your man! You will be happier and he will be enthralled

    • @NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs
      @NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs 3 месяца назад +8

      ‘Your man’? Any sense of ownership is a real turnoff

    • @KjcIpswich
      @KjcIpswich 3 месяца назад +3

      Absolutely

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 2 месяца назад +6

      Please explain?! What’s “de-centering” a man?!

    • @malhunt7
      @malhunt7 2 месяца назад

      🙄🙄🙄😴​@@NaturesInfiniteWELLth-fo6rs

    • @shobhnaenrique6458
      @shobhnaenrique6458 2 месяца назад +32

      Don't surround your life to the man only

  • @44ashley
    @44ashley 3 месяца назад +86

    Being light- hearted! I think a lot of parents forget this quality when dealing with our children also. Noted, thanks. Not worried about men right now but still appreciate your advice.

  • @dalianaferrero9110
    @dalianaferrero9110 3 месяца назад +64

    the hard part is finding men that WANT to step up

  • @CF-wp7xo
    @CF-wp7xo Месяц назад +36

    I let a man do things for me , just like you said to make them feel needed (i knew how to do these things).
    However, after 20 years he resented doing all these things.he said that i didn't love him i just used him..an i was useless and couldn't take care of myself.
    Now, i really appreciate men who know that i can take care of myself and push me to do my best.

    • @saddlerrye6725
      @saddlerrye6725 Месяц назад +12

      I think it's about balance, and the type of things you let them do for you. Opening doors, helping with heavy stuff at times, etc. are things that I don't think would brew much resentment. But other things, like paying for meals or taking the initiative to organize dates - if it *always* falls on one partner, I can easily see it becoming burdensome, or seem like the other is just "freeloading". It really sucks that in your case your partner just blew up one day instead of talking to you about it when he started to feel uncomfortable with it.
      I hope you found someone who makes you feel like you're your best self!

  • @JaxSwim1
    @JaxSwim1 3 месяца назад +86

    I love a man who opens a door for me ❤

    • @cynthiaracicot6502
      @cynthiaracicot6502 8 дней назад

      I can open my own door.! Often hold doors open for men.

  • @jessicam3707
    @jessicam3707 3 месяца назад +51

    This gave me a good perspective on one thing in particular - showing that I like a guy even if it’s not super clear he’s into me. I was thinking that made some guys uncomfortable and that’s why they pulled away, but now I’m thinking that they just pulled away bc it was obvious what I wanted and they didn’t want the same things with me, and they’re good guys. And maybe they like my sincerity and like me as a person instead of feeling uncomfortable and bad for me. I could definitely see that being the case. I’m going to keep being open and not pretending, it’ll probably bring me to the right guy faster. Thanks for the insight!

  • @pferdeklauerin
    @pferdeklauerin 3 месяца назад +38

    Im in a relationship about four month. He is very busy and paying so much for me. I only know lovebombing until him and it takes me hard times not to seem needy, cool down and to trust, when he only want to see me one time a week. But now we are going forward. Thank you Brian.

    • @verenamaharajah6082
      @verenamaharajah6082 3 месяца назад +21

      He only wants to see you once a week? He’s very busy? Paying for everything for you? I think you need to find out if he’s already married. If he’s not married or in a relationship with someone else, then you can relax a bit and enjoy your outings with him.

    • @pferdeklauerin
      @pferdeklauerin 3 месяца назад

      @@verenamaharajah6082 thank you. He is not married. He takes care for his little daughter twice a week, visits his mother in the rest home one time a week. I see he is very responsible, working shift. He invites me now more often, always cooking for me, takes care. Tomorrow i should get to know his grown daughters. He wants to be sure as me. It was very good for me, i see I still had to heal from traumabond a bit. I was working on my emotions to be able to let him come. Think this working good. He has a good feeling for me (he was manipulatet before also), I feel safe with him. Im happy now.

  • @clairexxx0405
    @clairexxx0405 3 месяца назад +62

    Thanking you (Geert) Brian, I wanted to say you're light hearted ways you express all you're advice really helps me and very sure many women, relate to you even when we're looking for advice because lifes very low.
    A little light hearted humour goes a long way to make the world a brighter place 😁🕊

  • @Openhearted2024
    @Openhearted2024 3 месяца назад +60

    I like you. One of the best things we can say and hear.

  • @Pamela-sb5ev
    @Pamela-sb5ev 2 месяца назад +15

    You have a light hearted energy. It's very refreshing. Thank you for this video 😊

  • @AKHWJ3ST
    @AKHWJ3ST 3 месяца назад +10

    When we were dating, I told my husband to open the car door for me. After we were married, it never happened again. Why? Because I didn't tell him to. I thought he would on his own, but he didn't. Ladies don't trust men to do these things. If they are a good man, they will. Trust me.

  • @pnrpnr6708
    @pnrpnr6708 3 месяца назад +29

    The one light heartedness made everyone around me obsessed with me. My family, friends, clients. What i try to do is just not showing my stress to them and trying not to be angry. Before i was thinkimg if i have stress anger i have right to show them, behave formal to them.

    • @vedakin
      @vedakin 19 дней назад

      You always vent and laugh about it after 😊

  • @lindabidwell6722
    @lindabidwell6722 3 месяца назад +65

    I stop and WAIT for the man to open the door. I'm a southern woman.❤

    • @8jaime8
      @8jaime8 Месяц назад +6

      Love that! That’s a big-brain solution right there - giving them the opportunity to show themselves to be gentlemen.
      I live in the U.K. and it’s still normal for men to open doors here, thank God. When my friend and I first arrived here in 2004, we had men at the train station running up and offering to carry our bags whenever we approached a staircase. They wanted nothing from us but to help. It was incredibly lovely.
      Men are capable of being so much better than they are given credit for. Smart women like you help them along in the right direction!

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq Месяц назад +4

      I wanted to open the door for a woman, but the door was automatic ! 🤔

    • @Ravencycle21
      @Ravencycle21 16 дней назад +1

      Me too❤

  • @loria7043
    @loria7043 3 месяца назад +16

    Great stuff! My wonderful mother taught me to do those things, and I have taught my daughter. As my mom would say, "It's classy."

  • @CLRiley-rr1gd
    @CLRiley-rr1gd 3 месяца назад +52

    You really are SO very helpful- as many of your tips also help married folks- to keep things positive & fresh! It is so good for us self-supporting, competent women to hear how we can allow ourselves to be more feminine, which can hieghten a man’s masculinity.
    I am still learning that one at 65!

  • @germanlanguageworkshop1542
    @germanlanguageworkshop1542 3 месяца назад +10

    Great! Thank you.

  • @marylafrance9547
    @marylafrance9547 2 месяца назад +11

    love that "who are you?"

  • @genevievechirelstein6537
    @genevievechirelstein6537 3 месяца назад +11

    Hadn’t seen you for a while. I didnt realize how much I missed your presentations. Thank you. ❤😊

  • @heathermerrin6654
    @heathermerrin6654 2 месяца назад +6

    Great content, thank you Brian Nox. I love your humour and delivery.

  • @dpcssn
    @dpcssn 3 месяца назад +32

    It is nice to see you again, Geert... I got this video in my suggestions and thought - he sure looks like the guy that saved me from panic disorder so many years ago. Decided to click to see if it might be you and voila! I cannot thank you enough for creating that course and your other work in that area, I got so much of my life back afterwards as I am sure many others did as well. I am interested to see what you have branched out into at present. Good luck!

  • @karinafoster6974
    @karinafoster6974 3 месяца назад +22

    I love your videos and advice. Thanks. Is always nice to hear from guys point of view

  • @cindyjean3208
    @cindyjean3208 3 месяца назад +18

    I appreciate you so much 😍

  • @heatherlynne7322
    @heatherlynne7322 3 месяца назад +9

    Great advice

  • @katelynbrown3404
    @katelynbrown3404 3 месяца назад +19

    I do all of these things because they either come naturally to my personality, or because I’ve done my own work. And I’m still single as a Pringle. Lol. 😩😭 I feel like there’s something in the water where I live. Please send help. 😭😭 lol. Thank you for affirming qualities that prioritize wellbeing, joy, and safety. 💓✨

    • @living7063
      @living7063 21 день назад

      looks like the same water is being supplied to my town. 😭

  • @ulianatkachuk9428
    @ulianatkachuk9428 3 месяца назад +11

    Love you Brian! You are wonderful!❤

  • @Paralegal1
    @Paralegal1 Месяц назад +2

    Geert, you're terrific, and your English is PERFECT! Love your content and sense of humor!! ❤
    Thank you 😊

  • @adolfosofiao
    @adolfosofiao 3 месяца назад +38

    Hi Brian. Came across your channel today - god sent! You’re so right about conveying a positive energy. I’m a regular gym goer, and I’ve noticed someone that I like and I have seen around my neighbourhood for some years. It’s only recently I’ve began to see him in a more attractive way. We distantly smile at each other at the gym...I don’t anything about him. I do recall one mistake I made couple weeks ago when I went to the gym, I was in a bad mood...I walked passed him without my usual smile or a “hi”. He immediately he picked up on my demeanour and he appeared confused. I know my personality - I can be reserved and friendly and it doesn't do me any favour if I like a guy..I can become quite shy. Your teachings are very encouraging. I need to build the courage to at least ask him his name! That’s as far as I will go for now..I have no idea if he is attached..I will take it slow.

    • @KarlaEmmerson
      @KarlaEmmerson Месяц назад

      Have you asked yet 😄

    • @CharleneMarshArtist
      @CharleneMarshArtist Месяц назад +2

      Wait for him to approach you. If he is interested and available, he will. If not, you are wasting your time.

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq Месяц назад +3

      @@CharleneMarshArtist I am a man, and from a man's perspective, we need some indication that the woman is a potential positive result, some hint, some clue, and regardless of everything, being congenial or sociable always, ALWAYS improves your chances and makes society more livable too.

    • @CharleneMarshArtist
      @CharleneMarshArtist Месяц назад +3

      @@mtlicq I appreciate a man's perspective. And agree. For a man to approach a woman, he is taking a big risk on being rejected. A woman must react in a positive, friendly manner when a man approaches. But if there is no initial attraction on his part, it won't go anywhere. My experience is that a man will observe a woman from afar before approaching and assess if she is congenial and sociable. So when he approaches, he has some assurance that she will be kind and friendly and see where it goes. From my perspective, someone becomes attractive based on their personality, humour, intelligence, compassion, morals, service, etc.
      I just started at a new gym and a man has approached me a couple of times. Very casual, not sure if it goes anywhere and not connected to any outcome. I also have some male and female friends (married and single) who go to the gym and we end up chatting a lot about local politics, health, diet, etc. I'm pretty friendly to everyone and many (including strangers) are helpful towards me and I think that radiates to any observers. And, YES, makes society a much more happy, livable place! 🙂

  • @Emily-ke9xb
    @Emily-ke9xb 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank youuuu, Brian!

  • @LightJoyHealing
    @LightJoyHealing 3 месяца назад +8

    I do appreciate your videos, they are very helpful

  • @gypsydee9
    @gypsydee9 3 месяца назад +6

    Brian. Haven't seen you for so long. Love your podcasts. I'm much older, and there is still plenty of advice I can use from you. Thanks!!❤

  • @waterlilynymph
    @waterlilynymph 3 месяца назад +15

    Thanks Brian, got all 4 down 👌🏻
    Now…I will continue to do No Contact to my knucklehead I am in love with, as a product of #1 and #3 😂

  • @UrsaBella
    @UrsaBella 3 месяца назад +6

    loving someone and sharing feelings with them is not obsessive...provided the love is mutual....

  • @anwa6169
    @anwa6169 3 месяца назад +8

    Helpful and funny! Thank you for your awesome work

  • @TheAllanah216
    @TheAllanah216 3 месяца назад +15

    What a sweet man! I love his channel. ❤

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f Месяц назад +7

    What stress me out is when you're trying to tell your man you're having problems with your car. And you're a single mom and you're saying I need help. And they're like oh I can point you in a direction. Instead of saying oh don't worry I got this come with me. I'll take you to the shop and we'll work something out. Because every time women go to the car shop we tend to get taken advantage of. So you telling me meaning you don't care? You're not going to try to help me and I have to change a tire myself or do the oil myself or figure out this thing myself like a man😢 I don't want to have to do that

    • @tealkerberus748
      @tealkerberus748 2 дня назад

      One of the critical things for any woman with a car is to find a garage that won't swindle you just for being a woman. If you're either blonde or you have a small child with you, especially if your small child is a daughter, it gets even more difficult.
      Asking your women friends where they take their cars and how they feel about the service they get, can be a good starting point. Any woman who owns a car and has lived in the same area for a while probably has some horror stories to share, so get ready for the second-hand trauma, but it's worth it!

  • @Lina_1517
    @Lina_1517 3 месяца назад +5

    Love your content. Thank you ❤

  • @robinchilds7492
    @robinchilds7492 3 месяца назад +13

    My last relationship was with a covert narcissist. He never stepped up for me but he was always trying to impress other women. I tried talking to him about it. He would storm out of the room.

    • @idid138
      @idid138 3 месяца назад +7

      Sounds like a blatant narcissist. He wanted you to accept that. Be glad that's over!

  • @SpectrumOfChange
    @SpectrumOfChange 3 месяца назад +17

    It's always a little weird for me that "decisive" and "taking action" came to expressly not describe feminine energy. It seems to me like all the ladies and mothers of the natural world are pretty decisive and active. 🤷🏻‍♂️
    There's some good info in here, I'm not throwing shade. That part is just always so weird to me, in the feminine/masculine energy conversation.

  • @onthedamsquare
    @onthedamsquare 3 месяца назад +6

    Love your videos, thank you!!!!

  • @katnui
    @katnui 3 месяца назад +23

    I wanted to add for the getting him to pick a restaurant... I've found it helpful sometimes to narrow it down with a few *types* of food you might be feeling. Like Italian or Greek 😅

    • @chiarac3833
      @chiarac3833 3 месяца назад +5

      Good point. I'm lucky, my lovey knows what I like and he always finds new and exciting places to go. Never a dull moment!

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq Месяц назад

      Or German or Chinese

  • @cara4737
    @cara4737 10 дней назад +1

    Yes, please make more of these! I do need this info in my single 60’s.

  • @cyndimoring9389
    @cyndimoring9389 3 месяца назад +17

    I danced with my guy sort of impromptu in the kitchen and he surprised me that he knew how to dance and did. such a turn on.

  • @juliemoore6957
    @juliemoore6957 Месяц назад +4

    Great tips. Reminds me of the book, "The Rules".

  • @acquadiamore
    @acquadiamore 3 месяца назад +4

    Love love love your content 💛

  • @morganchristmas6299
    @morganchristmas6299 Месяц назад

    I absolutely love your videos. Thank you so much.
    I never had a father, and have been through some terrible relationships and I'm just now stepping into my truth and learning how to say no And get away from toxic people and I just turned 28.
    Thank you from my heart ❤️

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 3 месяца назад +5

    Great information, God Bless 🙌

  • @yorkiepuppykisses
    @yorkiepuppykisses 2 месяца назад +6

    I always attract a lot of men because I LOVE being in my feminine energy and letting the man be the man.

  • @hearthhomebykristina2233
    @hearthhomebykristina2233 2 месяца назад +5

    Very good video! I see so many of my friends doing the exact opposite of this advice and then end up with a real loser but not understanding why! Keep up the good work

  • @auberjean6873
    @auberjean6873 2 месяца назад +2

    Geert, thank you for your powerful videos. It's easy to forget to give up control.

  • @icequeen6719
    @icequeen6719 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you 🙏 you are so helpful

  • @awmpropertygroup3839
    @awmpropertygroup3839 2 месяца назад

    Great content. Well said. Love the humor. so true❤

  • @lanabanana6849
    @lanabanana6849 3 месяца назад +2

    Loved this helpful video ty

  • @Morbid_Alice
    @Morbid_Alice 2 месяца назад +2

    Sound advice, Sir. Very pleasant to listen too, when it popped up randomly. I hope everyone in the comments are not being to hard on yourselves and are have a peaceful day.
    Yawl may be one person in the world, but you are the world to one.

  • @kikitaube-hansen
    @kikitaube-hansen 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you. So true😘.

  • @yvonnejapin6403
    @yvonnejapin6403 Месяц назад

    I love your advice !!! ❤❤ to be honest I applied them for not being in control with is very 👌 perfect and now I can see we don’t have any fights

  • @kristiehonsinger8598
    @kristiehonsinger8598 2 месяца назад +5

    Yes, man opening the door for you 😍

  • @LittleLulubee
    @LittleLulubee 3 месяца назад +2

    I just found your channel, and I LOVE your vids ❤💕🥰

  • @voice-of
    @voice-of 2 месяца назад +1

    I love your sense of humor 😂😂

  • @sharonmiller5327
    @sharonmiller5327 3 месяца назад +3

    Good advice ty❤

  • @legaleagle7896
    @legaleagle7896 3 месяца назад +4

    great! You're hilarious Geert!

  • @aavvcc
    @aavvcc 3 месяца назад +3

    When is your next book (or even some RUclips videos) about navigating long term relationships coming out?

  • @SobiaMM
    @SobiaMM 3 месяца назад +2

    Thanks

  • @gamelakissy2076
    @gamelakissy2076 Месяц назад +4

    7:00 - Self-love is stress reliever

  • @orange462
    @orange462 25 дней назад +1

    Omg thankyou god for recommending me this video and i subscribed to your channel ❤🎉

  • @enjennyr2949
    @enjennyr2949 3 месяца назад +8

    Not you bringing up the roman empire LOL!!! I love these videos and it is so validating for me! Thank you!!

  • @oglemedaris
    @oglemedaris 3 месяца назад +6

    I love❤ what have to say! I'm going to try this stuff on my husband after 25 years!😂😊

  • @user-sj6kg2tu9e
    @user-sj6kg2tu9e 3 месяца назад +5

    Uh so true
    Just a bit eghr when already did so many mistakes 🙈
    It’s a great lesson
    Thank you !!!❤

  • @cinderling5472
    @cinderling5472 3 месяца назад +2

    I love you Geert ❤🎉 Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

  • @doreenalexander1670
    @doreenalexander1670 3 месяца назад +38

    Men under 45 don’t abide by this. They view providing as a burden.

    • @SilverGreenEyes18
      @SilverGreenEyes18 3 месяца назад +9

      Then they want more government in their lives

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 3 месяца назад +3

    Have a show on what we do when we have too many??? It’s overwhelming us!!! Right now I’m entertaining one and seeing how that goes.

  • @maryharper9321
    @maryharper9321 2 месяца назад

    I find when you bring your full attention to a person you needn’t push to be an interviewer it will flow if you listen

  • @Ane-genius
    @Ane-genius 5 дней назад

    You are the best 🥺 thank you very much

  • @dianakurland2500
    @dianakurland2500 3 месяца назад +1

    Great channel

  • @stacyakinyi9822
    @stacyakinyi9822 3 месяца назад +106

    I've never outgrown your channel

    • @rileywiebe3512
      @rileywiebe3512 3 месяца назад +1

      Is this good or bad 😂

    • @stacyakinyi9822
      @stacyakinyi9822 3 месяца назад +3

      @@rileywiebe3512 😅good

    • @aura7153
      @aura7153 3 месяца назад +1

      I relate to that 😂

    • @PetitHibou72
      @PetitHibou72 3 месяца назад

      @@stacyakinyi9822totally relatable :.)

  • @KathrynFritze
    @KathrynFritze 3 месяца назад +12

    Love your exaggerations🤣

  • @minouchan
    @minouchan 3 месяца назад +2

    Great video :)

  • @SmithWR-ti3gl
    @SmithWR-ti3gl 24 дня назад

    Loved this

  • @pimpumpame3864
    @pimpumpame3864 3 месяца назад +6

    You read my mind about the Roman Empire 😂

  • @poonyaTara
    @poonyaTara Месяц назад +4

    3:55 Ha! Women objecting to a man paying for a date amuse me. If I want children and am considering marriage then I want him to demonstrate that he'll provide for any child of his whom I die bringing into the world. Split the bill, sure. Treat him if the occasion calls for it. Just understand that that isn't a romantic date--that's a social engagement with a friend.

  • @maysoliman6220
    @maysoliman6220 6 дней назад

    Love this one

  • @kellywilson5301
    @kellywilson5301 2 месяца назад

    I like this guy. He is very funny and interesting talk about the relation.😅

  • @dianecourtney2724
    @dianecourtney2724 3 месяца назад +3

    I like you and your channel 😂✌🏼

  • @NS-neversaynever
    @NS-neversaynever Месяц назад

    You're so positive. I like you.
    Yeah. No, not that I'm into you, but I like the way you explain things. Simple, easy, with no extra promises and annoying adds.
    By the way, I love one guy, I tell him how I feel but he doesn't believe me. It's so sad he had many girls before me who were unreliable and untrusted.