7 Things Smart Women Never Do For a Man!

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @aurora20XX
    @aurora20XX 16 дней назад +339

    ‘If someone shows you bad behaviour, expect more of it’ so true 😔

  • @lyndainlove
    @lyndainlove 18 дней назад +224

    "A relationship should be about supporting each other not fixing each other" ✨️

    • @anndavis2920
      @anndavis2920 7 дней назад

      And not 'stopping and/or blocking, hindering each other b/c he is insecure, immature or having a one track mind- thinking hes the only one that can achieve and make good things happen

  • @Lyokokyly
    @Lyokokyly День назад +9

    0:24 giving him the benefit of the doubt
    1:20 do not keep giving him chances
    3:45 never accept emotional unavailability
    5:00 try to compete for his attention
    7:56 tolerate disrespectful language
    8:57 become his therapist / coach / mom

  • @drlisaberry
    @drlisaberry 19 дней назад +365

    Mistake: I felt I needed to make life easier for him, so when he would offer to fix things for me, I would say, “oh no, don’t worry about it. It’s on the list”. I realize now it would be great for him to do things for me. My happiness and his accomplishment would be a win-win. I tend to try to make things too easy. Doesn’t work.

    • @Assia131
      @Assia131 19 дней назад +37

      Oh men love to be useful and needed, I let the men in my life do the things I don't wanna do

    • @janaprtrs
      @janaprtrs 18 дней назад +7

      100%

    • @donnamason6522
      @donnamason6522 17 дней назад +9

      Thank you. Really helpful❤

    • @youtubeuserthinker
      @youtubeuserthinker 16 дней назад +5

      ​@@Assia131 So true!

    • @moniquegenua7287
      @moniquegenua7287 13 дней назад +7

      Men like to take care of a woman!ILet him take care of you!To me it’s the best aphrodisiac!

  • @Assia131
    @Assia131 19 дней назад +238

    I am only 24 but my advice to women is to be a little selfish, pursue yourself and a man will pursue you, develop and emerge yourself in your own interests and hobbies and he will look for your attention, that's what i do

    • @SLB_888
      @SLB_888 18 дней назад +27

      You are truly blessed to know this at your age!!

    • @JC50-joy
      @JC50-joy 18 дней назад +24

      It's good that you're wise at a yojng age. Yes, when you are young, focus on yourself. Grow a career, build up a bank account. Dont look for a guy. Let him look for you and prove himself to you. With the tips here, you should be good

    • @Assia131
      @Assia131 18 дней назад +11

      @@SLB_888 a man has been looking for my attention for the past 10 months because I don't give it to him, I don't chase him and guess what I'm low key in love with him 😂

    • @LazygirlLA892
      @LazygirlLA892 18 дней назад +10

      I wish I had your wisdom at 24!

    • @amandaschultz9078
      @amandaschultz9078 17 дней назад +7

      I’m 34, and I can confirm this. Excellent advice!

  • @slpyhd66
    @slpyhd66 18 дней назад +142

    I'm staying single until a man is ready to step up and take his part in a relationship. I had a true man. I refuse to settle for less anymore. I'm blessed that he left me with this lesson before he left this earth. ❤️

    • @ireefree2024
      @ireefree2024 18 дней назад +18

      I'm sorry for your loss 😢

    • @AliPittaway
      @AliPittaway 12 дней назад +2

      Good for you for not compromising. I am sorry for your loss but it seems like you had a one in a million man and I so understand your position. Stay single and enjoy your life my friend.

  • @arlenelovelace18
    @arlenelovelace18 19 дней назад +212

    I was dating a man, and I saw some red flags, and we talked about two issues; his over the top vulgarity and temper. He says he rarely cusses and doesn’t yell in anger. Fast forward 3 months and I broke it off when I witnessed his anger and hate (and always the vulgarity). And yes, he was yelling when I said I see no future with him. He said (yelled) I was too picky, being unreasonable and that I was looking for a Saint!

    • @loveinseattle
      @loveinseattle 19 дней назад

      Of course it's an old hag like you who has a problem with "vulgarity"

    • @jjm8224
      @jjm8224 19 дней назад +44

      So according to him, the the opposite of vulgarity and yelling is sainthood? Lol, what a clown!

    • @britta-alrikobrien-nikkola9818
      @britta-alrikobrien-nikkola9818 19 дней назад +41

      Good for you for putting your foot down and saying no to such rottenness.

    • @Afternoon99
      @Afternoon99 19 дней назад +25

      Does he even know that even you’re looking for a saint there’s literally nothing wrong with it?

    • @nancylang4294
      @nancylang4294 19 дней назад +26

      Narcissist

  • @aquachonk
    @aquachonk 13 дней назад +51

    This applies to friendships, as well. I've recently ended several uneven female friendships and the relief was nearly euphoric. NEVER give more than you're gettin'.

  • @biljam972
    @biljam972 19 дней назад +146

    I was a "project" for so many men that I am DONE with dating forever! Not one of them wanted me as I am, they all wanted me to change and to fit their ideal woman or ideal fetish in some cases. And I am not better, I dated a man I liked but who wouldn't commit, and he told me he wouldn't but I refused to accept it and kept relationship going while he was like "ok, but I will never marry you or live with you or even go somewhere for weekend with you". And I was stupid believing that will change! If a man tells you something about him that you don't like, f***ing believe him! Don't waste years and years of your previous life believing her will get to love you so much he will change. He won't.

    • @petsmart1000
      @petsmart1000 19 дней назад +1

      Same here. 😊❤

    • @taramyers9799
      @taramyers9799 18 дней назад +8

      I just listened to another RUclipsr short the other day that said, “When a guy tells you something about hisself early on in a relationship, BELIEVE HIM”. Heed this advice! Guys love to jokingly or bragging etc tell on their self when getting to know a girl. It’s our job to listen to him, believe it about him while realizing just because he’s with us, we’ll never have to worry about that. This one piece of advice can save a lot of disappointment and heartache in the long run!

    • @ireefree2024
      @ireefree2024 18 дней назад +13

      I'm happy married now and it was a long journey. First, be yourself. Don't ever try to be the perfect woman because of fear to lose somebody. Second, if a guy says or shows who he is, believe him. And third, a man won't change for you, only for himselves if he wants to. And finally attention doesn't mean intention. Only if a guys shows interest it doesn't mean it will last or go further. Only if you make baby steps towards each other and build something together it will work. All the best to you ladies ❤

  • @tracymullane8818
    @tracymullane8818 17 дней назад +77

    Excellent advice from Brian
    Don't:
    Give them another chance after breaches of trust. Just pull back and watch what they do, put them on probation for a while.
    Give the benefit of the doubt
    Accept emotional unavailable men
    Ignore your own needs in a relationship!
    Fight for his interest with- other people, things, online things
    Accept disrespectful speech
    Accept disrespectful treatment
    Make excuses from him
    Think his happiness depends on your actions- it's not your responsibility it's his.
    Disrespect yourself. You cannot buy his attention. If he doesn't notice you, that's not on you, that's on him.
    Do:
    Choose a worthwhile individual
    Keep the focus on yourself
    Keep pursuing what makes you happy, that way he will step up to the plate to figure out what will keep making you happy.
    That's his job in the relationship, not yours
    Once the relationship is established then you both contribute-there's a balance.
    If it's off balance, Don't try to buy it. If you feel yourself doing that, that is a clue he's a low-life individual and basically he's just playing you. Good luck out there ladies!!!

  • @hansanaik3835
    @hansanaik3835 13 дней назад +35

    To be happily married in life - both partners should be attracted to each other, both should have good temperament, both should be practical, both should take responsibility for raising kids, household chores, healthy living and finances.

  • @smhan280
    @smhan280 19 дней назад +134

    I wish I could have shared this video with a younger version of myself! Not a second of this video is fluff - straight facts the whole video!

  • @christinewakim4172
    @christinewakim4172 15 дней назад +22

    He literally asked for my help, and I did become his coach. It didn’t end well, as he started to take me for granted, and make excuses for his low effort behavior. I had to end the relationship, but learned a valuable lesson.

  • @happyhermit3141
    @happyhermit3141 14 дней назад +32

    A man who is rude to his partner in social situations is either trying to isolate her from a potential support system (Abuser 101) or paving the way for a breakup where he can tell everyone what a terrible person she is and they will be inclined to believe it.

  • @carleenedgar
    @carleenedgar 19 дней назад +70

    another good one. I always thought unconditional love was the perfect thing to give a man. My husband of 25 years responded well to it I suppose, but, being single again, with your help, I finally understand that that principle should only apply to your children.
    Thank you for all your videos. I think I have listened to every one of them now. You have taught me how to treat myself well in all cases and, in the process, require a certain level of respect and care from a partner. I am happier every day than in my previous year of being newly single.

  • @Tania-q2k1m
    @Tania-q2k1m 18 дней назад +40

    Very useful info! We women really are doing too much and regardless if it's out of love (and/or a desire to be loved) he's so right; LET HIM do the work, let him struggle, let him fail and learn, let him grow by not trying to jump in and help him. They get so much more self esteem when they are left to sink or float - let him swim! Let him pay, let him work hard, let him plan, let him wonder, let him deal with you investing in yourself more and him less, let him invest in you! Let him grow

  • @phyllisamy4738
    @phyllisamy4738 19 дней назад +39

    I absolutely love the way you use humor to emphasize your points.
    And they are always spot on and resonate ! 😊

  • @TheGhostedWoman
    @TheGhostedWoman 19 дней назад +58

    I lost weight, got into gaming, begged, bought him everything he wanted and he still treated me like I was nothing. As soon as I moved on and met someone else he came back begging for me.

    • @fruitypopwhickle6806
      @fruitypopwhickle6806 19 дней назад +31

      I hope you laughed in his face and walked away.

    • @TheGhostedWoman
      @TheGhostedWoman 19 дней назад +28

      @ I didn’t laugh because I’m better than that. I just moved on. 💖

    • @TheGhostedWoman
      @TheGhostedWoman 19 дней назад +5

      @@EdelweisSusie He will be reminded he must settle for less lol! But honestly I’ve got too much going on in my life to worry about that. My mom always taught me even before I was married, to never leave the house without your make up done.

    • @sballantine8127
      @sballantine8127 15 дней назад

      I hope you said NO.

    • @TheGhostedWoman
      @TheGhostedWoman 15 дней назад +5

      @ oh no. He lost all chances because even though he wanted to come back, he did not change at all.

  • @MerryCarrie
    @MerryCarrie 15 дней назад +17

    This is perfect! I needed to hear this 17 years ago 😢.. but SO glad I'm hearing it now. Thank you !

    • @esterrios5626
      @esterrios5626 12 дней назад

      During my 17 yrs marriage, there was no Google no RUclips and as far as he was concerned I just needed to Obey him in everything and things would work out! The more I submitted the more he took me for granted and was unfaithful. Tough lesson to learn after 17 yrs n 3 children. Better alone. 26 yrs single.

    • @Ana20358
      @Ana20358 10 дней назад

      Igual que yo

  • @lolowlamiskinah905
    @lolowlamiskinah905 19 дней назад +24

    Every single video you make is so enriching and comforting. Your advices are pure gold, thank you so much !

  • @DianePoole-n7r
    @DianePoole-n7r 19 дней назад +56

    Partner not project! Awesome.

  • @efe3097
    @efe3097 3 дня назад +3

    A man who is always rude to you in social situations does not love you. Leave the relationship ASAP.

  • @ipekcollins9123
    @ipekcollins9123 10 дней назад +2

    A relationship must be supporting each other not fixing each other, very true

  • @taramyers9799
    @taramyers9799 18 дней назад +11

    Brian, you are wonderful and so full of knowledge in your videos. I hope and pray the people listening to you will actually take your advice, especially the young people out here. Most people do have to make their own mistakes to learn; however, I’m 58 and have learned a lot of these lessons the hard way and if you’ll do what Brian is suggesting, you won’t compromise yourself. Watching people that appear to be selfless, always looking out for their loved ones and friends may look admirable but in the end, it will cost them their very self. I’m not saying to be self-serving and only look out for number 1. Life is give and take but if you tell your guy what you like or your deal-breakers (boundaries) and you treat him they way you’d like to be treated such as attention, respect, consideration etc, and you are not met with the exact same thing, you need to take a step back and clarify. NEVER think that it’s all new and time with you will have him meeting your expectations. Time DOES NOT change who he is. If anything, the behaviors will get worse. Don’t shortchange yourself. Think of dating like an interview and don’t give him a call back. You will eventually meet someone that will love you for you - not a cliche - this is the truth. Trust me - just keep looking, they are out there ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @WaverleyRay
    @WaverleyRay 19 дней назад +14

    Oh my gosh! I absolutely love your down-to-Earth, practical advice! What a treasure you are to us all! Blessings, Wave

  • @DS40764
    @DS40764 19 дней назад +11

    You are very kind to Women, thank you.

  • @ellenmykkanen3865
    @ellenmykkanen3865 18 дней назад +8

    Thank you - this was a really good reminder. I've done most of these things at one time or another, and it's good to recognize that they won't work

  • @AnettTotivan-ol8go
    @AnettTotivan-ol8go 17 дней назад +3

    Thank you for being here for us!

  • @ninajones6622
    @ninajones6622 19 дней назад +32

    Always listen until the end 😊 you are an oracle and honestly if it wasnt for you i dont know that i would have been able to call time on a 25 year relationship as i KNEW i deserved better....partly thanks to you xxxx

  • @AbiBrown-q9k
    @AbiBrown-q9k 19 дней назад +7

    in my twenties, I did exactly what you said. I wanted him in my life so I decided to take a liking to sports what a waste of time looking back, to date still dislike sports. Now, I see it this way, is this guy is going to enhance my life if not he has to go. What he brings to the table, are we compatible, if not he has to go. If it is not working before, I emotionally invest on the guy or get attached to the idea and not the person sitting across front of me. I do not try to fix anything that does not require fixing. It has worked for me, less stress, less drama and everything in between. I love to listen and let the guy speak and it never fails, they will tell you who they truly are. With that information I make my decision basis on the information he has shared with me

  • @jackielouise7538
    @jackielouise7538 19 дней назад +6

    Thank you so much for all your good advice. Listening to you has made me realise that I need to stop trying so hard to please someone else and just be myself. After all, I want someone who loves me and not the person I'm pretending to be just to please him 😊

  • @rainsara2795
    @rainsara2795 18 дней назад +10

    Thank you for your service to humanity with these videos, we should all know this and someone has to say this! Again, thank you!

    • @ESyta-ti7hs
      @ESyta-ti7hs 12 дней назад +1

      Wish I had known these things a bit earlier than at 35

  • @michelepascoe6068
    @michelepascoe6068 16 дней назад +7

    Good video. “Believe what you see and make adjustments accordingly.” Dr Les Carter. And, “We must not confuse the good command to love, with the bad realities of enabling behaviour we should never tolerate.” Lysa Terkeurst

  • @beingilluminous
    @beingilluminous 13 дней назад +3

    My last relationship got clarity around the division of mental and emotional labor-once I introduced him to using chat gpt to go to for his own personal growth. It helped him understand he wasn’t ready for a relationship and that helped me see that I was doing too much (and he acknowledged he leaned too hard on me). Now we are rebuilding a friendship based on who we REALLY are, not what we thought we were supposed to be. We are both late diagnosed, so unlearning the past and learning accommodations for our current selves has been so helpful in keeping healthy peace during the growth.

  • @rhondaself6093
    @rhondaself6093 19 дней назад +13

    Thank you so much for your time, this has really helped me as I navigate dating after being with my late husband for over 50 years!

    • @SitBrigid
      @SitBrigid 19 дней назад +1

      ❤ me too!

    • @melaniedeare5427
      @melaniedeare5427 19 дней назад +4

      Me too! It hasn't been easy. Be careful of the predators. They're out there, and they can be oh, so charming!

    • @franparkinson2040
      @franparkinson2040 15 дней назад

      ​@@melaniedeare5427preach!!

  • @anitarogers2877
    @anitarogers2877 19 дней назад +16

    @Brian Nox - We stay to the end of your videos, because we enjoy your content and love watching you! You are so fluent in sarcasm it is wonderful haha! Much Love, Anita xxx 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🌹 🇬🇧😘 🤗.

  • @S_Nayana
    @S_Nayana 19 дней назад +4

    Thankyou Brian ❤ You saved me & helped me gain a lot of clarity even when I knew what was happening..but now I'm putting a fullstop to it

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 19 дней назад +5

    You know Brian, I ve read many books, but your book about high quality women, changed me, I still read the summary I made, and I use it when I want to know what to do and how to act. Very very very useful book

  • @ronniephilip1680
    @ronniephilip1680 19 дней назад +3

    I love it when you say 'seriously' as if you can see me laughing out loud, you crack me up you are so funny.No other motivational speaker has ever made me laugh the way you have.love your awesome content I am always excited when I get a notification because I know it's going to be good.

  • @aeb8799
    @aeb8799 19 дней назад +12

    Excellent video!! One of your best!

  • @kristidin1983
    @kristidin1983 19 дней назад +11

    We started as friends, and he wanted all of the knowledge I had from the work I'd done. We got close and into a situationship. Big mistake on my part. I didn't expect to fall, but I did. We are roommates, and now he's distant and avoidant. He hid it well for a while. He doesn't want to do the work these days. I'm radically accepting him where he is as his friend, but his way of life is no longer in alignment with mine. I love him, but I can't do this anymore and am waiting for the day for my exit plan! He's going to have a very lonely life...

    • @sballantine8127
      @sballantine8127 15 дней назад +1

      What, exactly, are you waiting for? DO IT NOW.

    • @kristidin1983
      @kristidin1983 15 дней назад +2

      @sballantine8127 it's not that simple. Finances. Or I'd be gone.

  • @boti1dproudofliam797
    @boti1dproudofliam797 19 дней назад +9

    I did these mistakes... is there any way for us to work? I learned my lesson and i'll respect myself

    • @jo-annwenzell5722
      @jo-annwenzell5722 19 дней назад +3

      I made all these mistakes too! My first husband died when I was 55. We had been happily married for 31 years. I made all these mistakes with my new second husband. Now I’m his caretaker. Learning to be better at 70. Wish I heard all this sooner. Thanks, Brian!

  • @Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande
    @Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande 13 дней назад +4

    You have just earned yourself a follower❤

  • @emmadevoy5105
    @emmadevoy5105 19 дней назад +12

    Good timing

  • @accesetouverture8240
    @accesetouverture8240 19 дней назад +12

    Quite the same things when it comes to friendship:)

  • @laurenval2370
    @laurenval2370 9 дней назад +2

    You are a very wise man! Thank you so much!!!❤

  • @flamissia4
    @flamissia4 15 дней назад +2

    Very helpful and insightful. Every woman should listen to this!

  • @farimahv7909
    @farimahv7909 19 дней назад +2

    I really admire your talking and how you explain everything clearly

  • @Cheekycupcake-d5j
    @Cheekycupcake-d5j 19 дней назад +3

    Hey Brian, I still love your video’s every time I watch them….keep on with them!!!!❤

  • @jazzgal51
    @jazzgal51 19 дней назад +6

    Great video Brian!!!! ❤

  • @DeniseCummins
    @DeniseCummins 3 дня назад

    A lot of wisdom in this video. Kudos to Nox!

  • @marachellmara14
    @marachellmara14 19 дней назад +5

    Thank-you for your timely advice always ❤❤❤

  • @MelodySaleh
    @MelodySaleh 19 минут назад

    Beautifully great video. The advice are on point.

  • @sheilalambie5597
    @sheilalambie5597 19 дней назад +5

    Excellent advice here!

  • @silviazac7492
    @silviazac7492 14 дней назад +3

    Such a great advice and always explained easily. I wish more women would follow it so that most men will have to improve. I feel men got way worse than before the digital age came in right because the allegedly women equality meant women now give everything to a man without having to work for it and yes I mean also intimacy because regardless of how feminists want to see it, there is a difference btw men and women when it comes to sex. Complaining a man just want sex and keeping seeing him is in itself the reason why he does that. Don’t do it and apply Bryan advice and either he has to live up to your standards or you know his true cards.

  • @maryangier2773
    @maryangier2773 17 дней назад +10

    2:05-2:11 real stood out to me. I broke up with my ex after he sexually assaulted me. I told him he was a creep and a predator. He was like, “I know I did SA you but I’m not those names!” Like sunny boy, that’s not how it works 😂

  • @susane945
    @susane945 5 дней назад

    I love you Hiirt!! I really love how Ur on OUR side! And really, your advice is right on the money. Thanks for the reality check. ❤🎉😊

  • @TameraReynoldson
    @TameraReynoldson 19 дней назад +5

    Another great video…. Thank you.

  • @skoyashiki3923
    @skoyashiki3923 18 дней назад +5

    OMG. The first topic was a question I had about friendship. How on earth did the algorithm know I had this question. Thanks, Now I can give up on a false friendship.

  • @lyndamilligan560
    @lyndamilligan560 19 дней назад +5

    Yes....I was viewed as 'too capable'

  • @mattanderson6672
    @mattanderson6672 18 дней назад +1

    Fantastic analysis
    Thank you Sir!

  • @visionsofvirginia
    @visionsofvirginia 17 дней назад +3

    Best dating video ever

  • @BlinkinFirefly
    @BlinkinFirefly 12 дней назад

    Geert, you are adorable. Thank you for continuing to put out wonderful content on dating advice. Your videos are comprehensive and insightful!

  • @HiKasandra
    @HiKasandra 19 дней назад +1

    Thank you for teaching us and in a funny manner too. It takes effort to make the videos. I have bought your books a good long time ago but didn't put them into practice until I looked into myself and am just starting to realise some of the truths you share with us in the videos! 😮😮😮😂😂

  • @hasnidaar1406
    @hasnidaar1406 10 дней назад

    thank you.. i love your content and have been following you since 2022 ❤

  • @beryll3556
    @beryll3556 4 дня назад +1

    Personally i do think giving people an other chance is okay BUT !!!!
    I go by these rules, if it was a small mistake i will give a couple of chances but once i notice it is a pattern and the person isnt trying to fix it i am out
    When it comes to a big mistake i give the person one chance and after that absolutely none
    If it something REALLY BIG like emotional and physical abuse i am out immediately
    I believe every person can change and should even get the opportunity to learn from their mistakes and make ammends but for thah to happen the person needs to take ownership of their mistake and should actually try to make it better so that the behavior will not happen again

  • @faithm.8958
    @faithm.8958 18 дней назад +2

    I LOVE THIS and NEEDED this!!!!❤❤❤

  • @Donna-m3z5s
    @Donna-m3z5s 17 дней назад +1

    Love this Brian thank you so much love Donna ( Sydney Aus) xx

  • @irena-z2g
    @irena-z2g 16 дней назад +1

    Brilliant and spot on!

  • @binni61
    @binni61 17 дней назад +4

    Brian you are a wonderful teacher. Every lesson you give us is at point. Love it so much ❤

  • @ekaterinaozernaya6628
    @ekaterinaozernaya6628 19 дней назад +1

    pure gold ❤ thank you, Brian!

  • @elefnti
    @elefnti 8 дней назад

    Just a third a the way through this video and it's *brilliant* and beautifully explained.

  • @DLee756
    @DLee756 19 дней назад +4

    Perfect timing. To the second.😂 👍thank you!

  • @leannaroslan
    @leannaroslan 19 дней назад +2

    I always loooooove your videos

  • @Behave_New_1984
    @Behave_New_1984 19 дней назад +1

    I needed this video today! 🙏🏼

  • @kriskris4214
    @kriskris4214 18 дней назад +1

    Thank you. A very good video.

  • @arianesvilasboas
    @arianesvilasboas 9 дней назад

    I love your content, thank you só much!

  • @Jan-qv8ku
    @Jan-qv8ku 16 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing!
    Great message!
    💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

  • @dianagentile7636
    @dianagentile7636 19 дней назад +6

    Thank You 💕
    Brian…
    You Can’t make
    Someone Love ❤️ You…
    Once I was with a man that did an
    Engine change…
    Yes he ended up
    with a few Nuts & Bolts left over
    🤦🏾‍♀️😂🤦🏾‍♀️😂
    Have A Blessed
    Week Ahead 🥰

  • @pn6490
    @pn6490 15 дней назад

    Thank you, Brian

  • @Mhelyssa_1
    @Mhelyssa_1 19 дней назад +3

    This is gold

  • @jayakjosh
    @jayakjosh 16 дней назад +3

    The whole bitter truth wrapped in a bundle

  • @Terry-cg7kt
    @Terry-cg7kt 7 дней назад

    I needed to here this thanks

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 19 дней назад +2

    Thank you Brian 💕👼

  • @bernicearaujo3922
    @bernicearaujo3922 14 дней назад

    Great advice!

  • @nonai7897
    @nonai7897 7 дней назад

    Very good points but these should be common sense. I never tolerated anything I didnt like and would speak up about it. The only one take away for me was the lingerie story. Thats a really good point. Instead of trying to get his attention with what he likes be happy with what you like... thats what made him like you.

  • @margaretwhittaker1667
    @margaretwhittaker1667 12 дней назад

    Excellent reminders of what not to do;-)!

  • @monikavarro2020
    @monikavarro2020 17 дней назад +4

    I've never regretted being single. 😂

  • @KitKat-ob6nz
    @KitKat-ob6nz 13 дней назад +1

    Agree, with a man shows you who he really is. But I disagree with assisting a man to overcome problems, because psychologist cost a fortune and quite often you won't learn enough to get out of a bad situation because the psychologist usually hasn't experienced the situation themselves.

    • @karendunbar8321
      @karendunbar8321 12 дней назад

      Does an obstetrician have to have experienced childbirth to know what can go wrong, why, and what to do about it? No. Please re-think your incorrect assumption about psychologists and their value to people going through "stuff". The tools they use can be applied to many situations, are are not dependent on having experienced exactly whatever your issues are.

  • @JC50-joy
    @JC50-joy 18 дней назад +2

    No. 1 hits the nail hard! I forgive but I dont forget hah!

  • @BEYOUTOTHEFUL
    @BEYOUTOTHEFUL 19 дней назад

    YOU ARE THE BEST THANK YOU ANGELA

  • @Anonymous4you-8519
    @Anonymous4you-8519 19 дней назад +1

    4:17 absolutely. I did exactly that

  • @DLee756
    @DLee756 19 дней назад +3

    Thank you for the video.
    😂 the end

  • @lubaortoleva9554
    @lubaortoleva9554 16 дней назад

    Thank you for doing these….

  • @queenie547
    @queenie547 14 дней назад

    Oh gosh, "unfollow hundred of women in bikinis in social media" got my attention...
    So, needed this right now..

  • @JoySpirit888
    @JoySpirit888 19 дней назад +3

    God's blessings to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🍀🤗💜

  • @marcoC1991
    @marcoC1991 13 дней назад

    Lekker bezig Geert, Geertje gaat global😮

  • @nomhrs3314
    @nomhrs3314 16 дней назад +1

    Heith, you're great!

  • @ardenevox
    @ardenevox 13 дней назад

    I love this video.

  • @Alexandra-dy7cj
    @Alexandra-dy7cj 5 дней назад

    💯 % agree 👍 but unfortunately I made some of the big mistakes although I knew better 🙈