Do you ever feel like you going through life so fast down to the path of self-destruction, but forget why and where you're going to in the first place?
In general, society today is insane. All the frantic activity by unhappy people, destroying the earth. Militarism, no community, no love, and certainly no joy. It isn't insane to go counter to society's definition of success. That's sanity. Go to the wisdom of mystics and sages. Paul Brunton, J. Krisnamurti, Mooji. Better to be poor, with heart and wisdom, than rich, in ignorance. Yes, the path of truth can be lonely and hard, but you're not dead from the neck up. You're alive. Blessings from USA.
Not anymore. Over a decade ago I went on a healing journey, learned to slow down and be mindful, stopped living for other's approval, and made other life changes like leaving California after living there for decades. My job is now only minutes from home (3 miles/7 minute drive or 15 - 30 minutes manual ride; bike, walk, jog, run, etc.), my living is simple, and peace and quiet is my everyday luxury (TRUE WEALTH!). I wake up every morning being grateful and say "Life Is Good!" because it is and I remember when it wasn't. I hope we all get to this place... before it's too late. Thanks for sharing your story.:-)
Yeah, i 've been there in a couple years ago. I'm hustling too hard that i didn't listen to my body. When my body cannot handle anymore and i collapsed, when i wake up at the hospital the only thing i want is just to live another day to see the people i love. Right now, things are better i'm still hustle but not too hard anymore.
Simple life is better. However it's not about working so much.....but more about having the ability to give to those who don't have nothing. For example when was the last time you bought someone popcorn? Pepsi? Sandwich? Half of the time your grinding and your stingie!
@@northernrogue1 buying something that requires 3 jobs to pay back the loan is a choice , not bad luck and circumstances...who was in control of signing the loan agreement?
No it’s not. You will be rreplaced by an Indian for 5 dollars an hour lol 😂😂😂. Going to office is best to maintain your standard of living. Now it seems okay what your doing but the market will pivot to cheap Indians lol 😂😂😂
Sorry to hear about your mother. It's sad that life take our loved ones before their time. All we can do is take a lesson from their lives to live our best ❤️
I'm so sorry you had to experience that. That's a horrible trauma to live with. I can only imagine how much you crying when that happened. Hope you continue to heal from that experience. ❤😢
It's hard to open up and make this video. But as it is helpful for you, it is also a way for me to deal with my own emotions. Thanks for listening bro.
You can’t imagine how much your video helped me bro I wish the best for you and your family and all people going through life struggling to cope with our broken society. I really appreciate your honestly and genuine heart ❤ a lot of us men go through this too so it’s like a breath of fresh air to hear you vent what a lot of us are feeling
We were told to grow strong, be stronf, and act strong. But at some point we have to be honest to ourselves. When it imploded t from the inside, it's hard to keep up the act of looking strong.
@@HealthCores very true especially when acting strong includes ignoring or holding in our vulnerability as if it doesn’t exist until it all comes out involuntarily. Appreciate your wisdom and insight !
At 50 years old...I've been working since i was 16. I have back pain everyday of my life..I got what i wanted a small house, but I never traveled i was worried about not having enough money to pay my mortgage..Learn from my mistakes, travel, have fun, find a hobby and live life! Life goes by way to fast
Life does go by way too fast. I am happy you have your own house. Gotta take care of your back. It's sucks we get pain in weird places as we get older.
I watch a lot of RUclips videos. This is probably one of the vids that resonated with me the most. Thanks for sharing your story man. Love the analogy with water. I also like Bruce Lee's quote, "Be like water". I'm so done with the corporate world and I'm on very close to breaking free. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going.
Yes absolutely! I am just trying to be still right now and see what will come. I can't wait until you find that escape route. It took me years to finally pull that plug. It's scary but the sound of silence is priceless! Good luck bro!
I'm not gonna lie I straight up sobbed and cried through large portions of your video, I can't tell you how brave, beautiful and honest you are, and simply thank you for taking the strength to do and say all that you did. I watched all of your other videos too, please keep making more if you would, I will be checking back soon. Wishing you only the very best!!!!!!
@LarryalShiva awww I am very touched hearing that. Sorry I brought your tears out. It was hard being honest to myself, but I think it was time I embraced my past. Thanks for watching my videos and for your support ❤️
I subscribed. This video was great. You talked from the heart for almost 1 hour, no edits, and yes, just like a lot of commenters have said, you're helping a lot with videos like these! I support you and other creators like you and I am looking forward to posting my own vids about how I left the city for the countryside. If your heart thinks it's the right thing to do, do it! You've done it and not only did you help yourself, but countless others such as I! Cheers and all the best, I'm going to watch some of your other videos as well!
Thanks for the sub. Yes go do it. If anything it's creative outlet for us away from the daily grind of life. I hope you will be very successful on your creator road. Good luck my friend!
This was such an informative video! Being from Japan, I 100% understand the overwork culture and how it destroys people. Watching this video really puts life into perspective. Bless you and your family 🍁🙏
It looks like we all do the same hustle shuffle regardless of where we live. If anything, my understand that people in Japan work ever harder than people here in the US. All we can do is trying to slow down and live more instead of just trying to survive. Thanks for sharing and please take care.
@@HealthCoresHey Friend, I can so much relate to it as my story is almost same as yours. But how did you do that, I mean did you become financially independent before choosing to come out of sucking corporate life. Love from India❤
I learned Korean, still learning so hard. Anyway had a Korean girlfriend and I'm British. Going there really shocked me how "everybody" works, even pensioners. It was a shock to me the work culture. I felt respect but also sad that everybody was so tired, even school kids.
I quit my 250k corporate job. I haven’t told anyone. They just wouldn’t understand. They all think that working like a slave is normal and it’s considered a success to be in such a position. No one has ever asked me if I was happy. Today I have peace. I’ve never had this in my life. And I don’t plan on leaving this place.
before you were worshipping other people and worshipping money, they both let you down.....now you are worshipping your own desires.....in time it will let you down aswell, because it is a false god that doesn't deserve to be worshipped......only The Creator deserves to be worshipped, and your mistake is you are worshipping the wrong things....come back to where you were in your childhood......a true peace that actually lasts because it's real!
I think I was meant to see your video this evening as I was thinking to myself about the uncertain path ahead. I’m a Marine, in the service and about to leave. After 10 years or so of grinding, I decided I couldn’t do it anymore. I’ve decided to part ways. It’s scary, what lies ahead: the unknown. But now I have a child of my own and I realized I need to be present. You were right in your other video: time passes us by and we have just today. You inspired me when you said you remembered your daughter crawling around in her diapers and then you realized she had grown. Thank you for sharing your experience. You are helping others by sharing your story. You’ve been through a tremendous amount in your lifetime. I’m glad you peeled away and I wish you clarity in the path ahead.
Societies definition of success is a trap, but most often it takes a while to realize that, at least you did and have chosen something else even though what that something else is hasn't taken form yet. It can take some time and it's not an easy road, but someday you may realize it's a rewarding one. You have good heart, best to you!
I have no idea what is waiting for me. But I am sure it will be better than getting stuck at a place that was killing my slowly. Thank you for your support.
Brother, you're literally waking up from this broken record superficial system we call world. Just keep on, with the awakening, don't stop, don't stop till you get enough. You're coming back home, you're coming back to yourself.
You've woken up to the scam. And now you're using that knowledge for good - to help other people. Kudos to you. I wish you all the best and will continue to listen to your insightful talks.
Thankyou for sharing this message. I’ve never commented on a RUclips videos before, I have discovered this message you are sharing this day. It has touched my heart and soul. Thankyou for your bravery. I love you
I feel very special that you took the time to send me some love. I am very honored that my message resonates with you. Thanks for seeing me and Happy Holidays!
I can tell you are a good person, very inciteful, and trying to find your place in this crazy wonderful terrible place. I found in my journey that the only thing you have control over is how you react to the challenges presented in front of you. I believe that is why we are here to cope with challenges put forth in our individual paths. You need to rejoin your family and find a way to cope with life's challenges, as a team. Go forward with grace and determination to grow on your next challenge. You got this!
Facing those challenges with grace and leaning on family or loved ones as a team brings strength and meaning. That's why I chose my family over my job and would do it all over again. Thanks or the encouragement.
It's crazy to think that this is our lives as adults. This is why I had to slam on the brakes. Take care of yourself too and hope you can slow down soon.
Thank you for the courage to speak these words that we often feel but often find ourselves not able to articulate. I wish I don't live under fear one day.
I have a similar story to you, except US born, and never met my father. 39 yrs old, and hit a point when I was 30ish when I said "enough". I'm single raising my kids, one of which turns 18 in a few weeks, and I started thinking about what I'm going to do when they're outta the house. I planned on building a small house off grid, or one of those U-Haul house conversions. Well in 2022, I suddenly started getting crippling physical and mental issues (Army vet). They've steadily gotten worse with time. Seeing your stuff makes getting away from the general population feel achievable, regardless of the health stuff I've been battling. Some of which involve the heart, lungs, GI system, and spine. I can't walk most days, and the days I can it's more than challenging. But willpower can be a valuable tool, one of the most important in every mans arsenal.
You’ve been through so much, yet your willpower shines through. It’s inspiring how you’re planning for the future despite the challenges. Building that peaceful space off-grid sounds like a solid step toward healing and freedom. I thought about that too but not the right timing yet. I hope you make it happen and let me know how it goes.
I applaud you for recognizing the way you felt and making a brave desicion to change it. Most people I know would continue chasing the $$$ since it's the safest choice (but not the correct one...)
Your description of life in Vietnam with your grandmother was beautiful and described so vividly. Grandmothers are incredible xx I love listening to your story
Yes sir. Nothing has been easy. Worked 7 days a week. For years. Just to scrape by. Today. Hard work paid off. But I was prepared. My mom always told me when I quit. Life ain’t easy son. She’s right. Took the quite out of me. Now I have something for my kids.
Only 25 years old but can already relate to 100%. My father is also sacrifacing his life for us as an immigrant family and I just can‘t make the moves nessecary to take care of them and myself. Its so hard to realize that you cant give them back what they do for you so much since I already feel drained from society and all challanges life throws at us.
I am glad we can all relate. We are not so different as society make it seems. We are struggle alike. Keep finding your place in life and safe journey!
Thank you for sharing. I'm glad that you are at your best adult peace now. Also, I am really sorry for what happened with your father - it is heartbreaking when people with a passion and hardly earned education can't follow that. I also understand that you are still trying to figure it all out - me too. My reasons to push myself so hard were the same as yours - I did it for love, recognition, family and like you I almost lost myself through the process. I neglected myself completely. I almost never thought about me and my health was always perfect until lately (I'm just in my early 30s, have a family and daughter too that I love and care deeply about). I have the exact same thoughts lately. My life has/had many very very similiar paralells to yours, so watching your videos is almost as having a conversation with myself. You are not alone and you are not a weirdo - just cause your different and feel where others numb themselves. You are a wonderful human. So strong and tears just underline that. And also courageous - it takes a lot of courage to share what you do all while walking on mountain lion trails 😁. Something you said here resonated perfectly with me at the moment "sometimes we try to force ourselves into places where we don't belong". Just a week ago I turned down an offer that was like my dream job - but I felt that there was much pressure from the upper management and that my future boss would have values that kick mines with hands and feet (comments like "people are just resources - there to burn out *evil grin*" etc.). I couldn't smell the dude and the proffessional mascarade and asslicking at this levels either. If to shit on other humans and gloss over talks would be the price I'd have to pay to climb the ladder further then peep it. Look for another clown. So I turned it down and included my reason. It felt really freeing and like a wise decision. I also turned down new experience and a top job on my cv. But it feelt like the right thing to do and I'm still proud of it. Anyway, thank you very much for sharing, I love your videos and thoughts. Remember that you are loved deeply. We'll make it through.
Turning down a dream job is no joke. But at some point we have to realize that there are more important things in life than the money and recognition. That ladder climbing is not always good for us. Our family needs us more than the corporations. I am glad you stayed true to your internal compass and go with your guts. I am sure you made the right choice. Please say hello to your dear family for me and Happy Holidays!
Thank you so much for such a heartfelt story. This society has condition us to be in a rat race. I am so sorry for such a great loss. I left New York City a few years ago to a less expensive and small area, because I felt as if I was in never lasting looop that left me feeling so unhappy. Several family members made many comments and thought that I made a mistake to leave my job and moved. There have been challenges, but I am happier and definitely healthier, especially mentally healthier. It's your life. You did the right thing. Don't climb any ladder or do things to please others, because you may end up losing the most precious thing which is your life. God bless. Be Strong. Although others didn't believe in my decision, God has guided me and has been providing for me. You may feel lonely at times, but you are are not alone. God or the Creator has your back. Just trust, remain still to find the answer within. By the way, your child doesn't care about what you do. The most important thing is for her to have you here with her. God bless, Remember to trust in the Great I Am whom we are a part of and all your needs and the needs of your family will be provided for.
Your story and kind words are truly touching and filled with wisdom. It's inspiring to hear about your decision to leave a fast-paced, high-pressure environment for a simpler, more fulfilling life, despite the skepticism from others. The courage it takes to prioritize mental and emotional well-being over societal expectations or external validation is remarkable. Thank you for sharing such heartfelt encouragement.
Thank you for the love and support! Sharing isn’t always easy, but if it helps even one person, it’s worth it. Stay strong, keep shining, and remember we’re all in this together. 🙌
I can very well relate to this, currently on the treadmill with the corporate job. The wasted time eats at me constantly. Thanks for sharing on a topic a lot of us can relate to.
I think if you are lucky to find something that you love doing then it's not so much of a dread. The problem is many of us just don't do something that makes us happy. It's tough I know.
Your honest, thoughtful sharing is so inspiring! You mention feeling a little lost, not knowing where the future is taking you, yet also feeling a new sense of peace. By connecting to Nature and your heart , you are shifting to a new way of being. You will know when it's time to work again but I am sure your life will remain in balance going forward.
Thank you for such kind words! Finding peace in the midst of uncertainty is a journey, but connecting with nature and our inner selves makes all the difference. I do believe balance and clarity will come with time.
I too crashed out badly after health scare after almost 17 years in IT industry . The hustle culture took a toll on me but nobody was there except the family when it happen. Doing fine now and trying to get back . Still not sure what to do next . Should i go back to hustle culture or do something on my own. Right now the options are few for me (in my country). Lets see how it unfold.
Man I’d love to have a conversation with you. You bring me back to a level of peace that I haven’t found in a while. I feel the need to personally thank you for feeling comfortable to express myself and the things that matter to me. Speaking on the past is often hard when reflecting on the present. You speak it with confidence and understanding that it’s okay for those things to be, but also to grow into what life is meant to be for us. Beyond powerful. Thank you.
Brother, like you said it's never easy to face our own past. But at some point we need to start being honest with ourselves. It's time we accept that we are who we are now because of everything that ever happened in our lives and come to terms with it. I am happy that you stop by to visit me. Take care of yourself brother.
Your a good motivational speaker and is a good friend brother and with this video you set me right honestly do appreciate it and im sorry that your life was bad the way you had broke it down but things will get better for all of us many blessings and prayers to you and your family i hope to meet you one day to shake your hand stay blessed brother
Thank you for those kind words! Life has its tough spots, but we grow stronger through them. Keep your head high, and remember brighter days are ahead. Sending prayers and positivity your way always!
I just turned 18 few days ago well I don’t even have a childhood it’s all pain trauma and suffering living with my abusive dad he doesn’t abusive me anymore but you know already making distance with him my mom is great best mom ever had so yeah trying to do something with my life slowly slowly also I have dyscalculia and ADHD so hard to focus but iam trying ❤ your videos gave me some hope
You are loved by the most high God, Lord Jesus Christ. May our Lord find you and give you peace;he is knocking your door, and it’s your choice : open the door and let him in. Love from Colorado
It's not a great feeling to be honest that we were slowly destroying ourselves. I hope we still got time to change our course. Good luck on your journey.
@@HealthCores true! - also good to remember life isn’t linear and that’s what makes life beautiful . Those moments of self reflection are powerful even when life stops outside . It’s moving within and eventually the outside will aligned with your new inner self
This is the second time I have listened to your wonderful honest and insightful reflections and presence. In the first video you mentioned not having yet something that you are passionate about to emmerse yourself into with all your heart. I tell you this....right now this vocalised (no sign of any 'defect' of speech) expression....may actually by IT? Your humanness, struggles, insights and passions shared on this very platform are extremely purposeful I am quite certain. You are Uber valuable in this very state of 'uncertainty' in the present in Nature. Thank you once again for the open style of sharing. Been an interesting life you have lived. Wonderful and super purposeful channel. The shared honest reflections make you a Real Guru. YA
Not sure about the Guru part. But I am beginning to embrace my true self to share my struggles with you. It is helping me to see things that I have not been able to see before. Thank you for taking the time to drop by and listen. Much love!
@HealthCores someone who guides out of darkness and who has walked a path to get to a knowing .... guru .... but unnecessary to set one's store by it. Your vulnerable honest sharing has the attention of Many. FYI I emerged broken after owning and running the largest company in my sector of the hamsterwheel on the African continent. Burned out and literally sickened by the meaninglessness of the insanity of the money push push push....I am here today living a simple life, and I think it is true that the highest road does actually run through the middle.
Man just watching this video I wanted to give you a hug. Everything you said, I can relate. Feeling like an alien in this world, but at least we were given the chance to understand this while we are still alive. Lets see where it goes now 🙂.
At the end of the day we are all the same...trying to find our place in this big puzzle of life. Still trying to find my spot. Hopefully you find yours too bro. Hugssss
I spent much time thinking about my childhood in the 1970s and 1980s, when things were more normal. Products were better quality and made in the USA. I think that it is helpful to reflect on the past, even the way it was before I was born in the other centuries.
The world is constantly changing and we just have to try to learn from our past. That’s what made us who we are today. Perhaps we are meant to be where we are right now.
@@HealthCores I am learning from my past. I have recollections of the the 1970s and 1980s, which were more conservative. I bought many antiques from earlier: 1700s, 1800s, and 1900s. It was a completely different world. The craftsmanship was much better then. If you had been born in the 1700s, you would have had a slower life, before the factories mass produced things. The United States had factories in the 1800s before they moved to other countries.
God says i will never leave you nor forsake you. He's always been here for you, he is within us, the infinite, Omni presence and all powerful infinite God. He will turn your water into new wine, your sorrow into Joy, your pain into laughter. Your grateful heart will lack nothing, your grateful heart will never be sick, will never be impoverished. Let God be your refuge and put all your trust Him, who giveth life and breath and all things 🙏
Nature is the best. For my part, being in the woods here in New England on my mountain bike is the only time when I am at peace. I hope you find peace brother. Finding peace, not accumulating money and material things, will bring true happiness. God bless. Remember, a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Stay strong and keep on keeping on.
I love you brother you are a hero to me I’ve been watching your videos I’m inspired to just breath and take things slow I don’t care where the future takes me either but everything is fine enjoy this every moment .
I believe we will all be ok once the future takes its course. Can't worry too much about what we can't control. What we can control is how we feel now and who and how we spend our time. Get a dose of that peace, and we will figure this out.
Thanks bro. Doing my best to enjoy the lazy life until I find whatever it is that get me back on the saddle. At least I know we're not the only one struggling out there.
Gotta Empty your Cup first...in order for the Universe to Fill it Up! We all too often want it filled to the Brim all the time...and the universe fills it but you cannot hear it with all the worldly garbage. You're doing it right. Solitude speaks volumes.
That’s deep and so true. You’ve got to let go of the noise and clutter to make room for what really matters. Solitude clears the path, and the universe knows when to pour in.
I drink i smoke i live I CRY I EAT I SLEEP TEARS ARE GOOD FOR YOUR EYES AND YOUR ❤ DO THE BEST YOU CAN. NOTHING IS PERFECT CAREING IS ALL WE CAN DO I JUST STAY ALONE
I believe God is healing you because you have been neglecting your spiritual self and you need to connect with God I am a Muslim and these are my thoughts I feel very much like you at this time of my life im now 41 and i have realised that my happiness and connection with my creator is the most important things to me at this time in my life I have nothing to prove anymore I want to do something like pursue a goal or something because i want to not because it is expected
Most of us are always in a hurry and sometimes we don't even know why. Please slow down when you can and treat yourself to some care and live a little.
I worked in Downtown LA myself, i totally agree with you! that traffic was NOJOKE! i quit that job 12 years ago because of stress & Anxiety! i hope one day ill do what your doing brother! i appreciate what your doing now... i have mad respect for you ! Thanks for these videos man, very inspiring!
Wow, thank you for sharing that! It sounds like you've been through a lot, and stepping away for your peace was a huge move. You haven't missed much. The traffic is worse and LA is still LA.
Thanks for everything you do my brother 🙏 I'm going thru the same thing but never had the courage to tell anyone about my feelings I thought I was the only one and it made me feel weak
You are never alone, my friend. Sharing your feelings takes real strength, not weakness. Just taking this step shows your courage. Keep moving forward, I know things will get better for us.
I just subscribed to your channel. Thank you for sharing your life story. You sound like a good father. I lost my job over a year ago military contractor. I can’t seem to find a job and now my brothers want to evict me from the house that I lived with with my mother and live with her for many years and give her rent and take care of my disabled brother after she died my brothers took my mom changed her trust around When she had dementia and now they want to evict me I’m 57 years old and they have their own houses. They’re all in their 70s. They’re not talking to me anymore. I tried getting a lawyer. A lawyer wants more money to defend me now my brother gave me a 60 day notice to Leave the property now I have to fight with no money. I don’t want to be homeless now my brother’s not talking to me my brother I took care of. He just died last year and watched him die in the hospital and none of my other brothers wanted to come visit him And when one of them visit it all he did was talk about himself so disgusting. They want me out of here so bad they don’t even want to keep the house in the family. Yes this is a dysfunctional, narcissistic family. I paid thousands and thousands of dollars fixing plumbing carpeting paying property tax Now I’m broke my 401(k) money is all gone. I can’t even get a job doing anything I don’t know is that my resume or what 15 years doing military contract and it doesn’t help when you have ADHD..
You’ve been strong through so much already, and while it’s tough to see now, there are still paths forward. One step at a time, and please don’t hesitate to ask for help where it’s available. You deserve stability and peace after all you’ve been through.
Hey man, i was reaching through the screen to put my hand on your shoulder at 38:00. My grandfather aggressively pursued his career in London for many years, trying to climb to the top even moving away from where he had a better quality of life. Then he had his heart attack. Luckily he surivived but from then on he finally realised it wasnt worth it and knew it was time to retire. Once he did he took off his watch and never wore one again. 'I've spent too much time looking at it already'.
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Do you ever feel like you going through life so fast down to the path of self-destruction, but forget why and where you're going to in the first place?
In general, society today is insane. All the frantic activity by unhappy people, destroying the earth. Militarism, no community, no love, and certainly no joy. It isn't insane to go counter to society's definition of success. That's sanity. Go to the wisdom of mystics and sages. Paul Brunton, J. Krisnamurti, Mooji. Better to be poor, with heart and wisdom, than rich, in ignorance. Yes, the path of truth can be lonely and hard, but you're not dead from the neck up. You're alive. Blessings from USA.
Not anymore. Over a decade ago I went on a healing journey, learned to slow down and be mindful, stopped living for other's approval, and made other life changes like leaving California after living there for decades. My job is now only minutes from home (3 miles/7 minute drive or 15 - 30 minutes manual ride; bike, walk, jog, run, etc.), my living is simple, and peace and quiet is my everyday luxury (TRUE WEALTH!). I wake up every morning being grateful and say "Life Is Good!" because it is and I remember when it wasn't. I hope we all get to this place... before it's too late.
Thanks for sharing your story.:-)
Yeah, i 've been there in a couple years ago. I'm hustling too hard that i didn't listen to my body. When my body cannot handle anymore and i collapsed, when i wake up at the hospital the only thing i want is just to live another day to see the people i love. Right now, things are better i'm still hustle but not too hard anymore.
Yes, thank you for sharing
Yes the older I get the more I slow down and appreciate the little things because the days fly by so fast.
Realizing I pay for a home I barely get to be in because I have to be at three jobs to keep it. You’re the one living the real dream my friend!
bad planning
Simple life is better. However it's not about working so much.....but more about having the ability to give to those who don't have nothing. For example when was the last time you bought someone popcorn? Pepsi? Sandwich? Half of the time your grinding and your stingie!
@@ronk6405 Not always - sometimes just bad luck and circumstances out of your control.
@@northernrogue1 buying something that requires 3 jobs to pay back the loan is a choice , not bad luck and circumstances...who was in control of signing the loan agreement?
Been there done that. Shits gonna give. I only slept at my home. For years. 7 days a week. Double shifts. Only shower and sleep
man please keep this kind of content it helps a lot of people indeed!
Thanks man for visiting me and hearing my story. Much love!
It helps alot 💯🧡🇵🇬
Working online and living in the countryside is the best thing that the world has to offer nowadays.
That’s what I hope to do. 😮💨
No it’s not. You will be rreplaced by an Indian for 5 dollars an hour lol 😂😂😂. Going to office is best to maintain your standard of living. Now it seems okay what your doing but the market will pivot to cheap Indians lol 😂😂😂
What kind of remote work do you do?
I live in a poverty stricken countryside with no jobs. Please recommend me viable online work... examples, anything...
If you can get the work
My mother committed suicide in 2004. I still cannot talk about her out loud without sobbing. I know exactly how you feel
Sorry to hear about your mother. It's sad that life take our loved ones before their time. All we can do is take a lesson from their lives to live our best ❤️
May she be free from suffering now.🙏
I hope you're getting professional help to help you grieve in a healthy way. ❤🙏
I’m sorry for your lost ❤ Take good care of yourself
I'm so sorry you had to experience that. That's a horrible trauma to live with. I can only imagine how much you crying when that happened. Hope you continue to heal from that experience. ❤😢
She will want you to enjoy life to the fullest. Make her proud. She will be waiting for you at the end of your life ❤
I keep loving these videos man, they bring me peace at so many levels. Keep doing them. Blessings for you sir, you are the best
I am glad to help bring you some peace. May many blessings go to you and your family as well. Take care my friend.
Your videos are like therapy. It’s healing ❤
It is very therapeutic for me to create these videos as well. I am glad to be able to share that with you. Thanks for visiting me.
Man, this guy just speaks to me. Thank you for opening up brother, hang in there, your doing great things posting this stuff.
It's hard to open up and make this video. But as it is helpful for you, it is also a way for me to deal with my own emotions. Thanks for listening bro.
You can’t imagine how much your video helped me bro I wish the best for you and your family and all people going through life struggling to cope with our broken society. I really appreciate your honestly and genuine heart ❤ a lot of us men go through this too so it’s like a breath of fresh air to hear you vent what a lot of us are feeling
We were told to grow strong, be stronf, and act strong. But at some point we have to be honest to ourselves. When it imploded t from the inside, it's hard to keep up the act of looking strong.
@@HealthCores very true especially when acting strong includes ignoring or holding in our vulnerability as if it doesn’t exist until it all comes out involuntarily. Appreciate your wisdom and insight !
If you still have a speech "problem", it's just something that makes you sound nice at this point my man.
I don’t hear a residual speech impediment, I hear a wise, gentle and unique voice that has an important story to share x
Thanks for that. I am still sometimes self conscious about my speech but I am learning to just embrace me for everything that I am.
@@HealthCores I didn't hear any impediment to be honest, even after reading this.. wouldn't worry
At 50 years old...I've been working since i was 16. I have back pain everyday of my life..I got what i wanted a small house, but I never traveled i was worried about not having enough money to pay my mortgage..Learn from my mistakes, travel, have fun, find a hobby and live life!
Life goes by way to fast
Life does go by way too fast. I am happy you have your own house. Gotta take care of your back. It's sucks we get pain in weird places as we get older.
I watch a lot of RUclips videos. This is probably one of the vids that resonated with me the most. Thanks for sharing your story man. Love the analogy with water. I also like Bruce Lee's quote, "Be like water".
I'm so done with the corporate world and I'm on very close to breaking free. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going.
Yes absolutely! I am just trying to be still right now and see what will come. I can't wait until you find that escape route. It took me years to finally pull that plug. It's scary but the sound of silence is priceless! Good luck bro!
I'm not gonna lie I straight up sobbed and cried through large portions of your video, I can't tell you how brave, beautiful and honest you are, and simply thank you for taking the strength to do and say all that you did. I watched all of your other videos too, please keep making more if you would, I will be checking back soon. Wishing you only the very best!!!!!!
@LarryalShiva awww I am very touched hearing that. Sorry I brought your tears out. It was hard being honest to myself, but I think it was time I embraced my past. Thanks for watching my videos and for your support ❤️
I’m so grateful for this life advice-it’s life-changing!
I subscribed. This video was great. You talked from the heart for almost 1 hour, no edits, and yes, just like a lot of commenters have said, you're helping a lot with videos like these! I support you and other creators like you and I am looking forward to posting my own vids about how I left the city for the countryside. If your heart thinks it's the right thing to do, do it! You've done it and not only did you help yourself, but countless others such as I! Cheers and all the best, I'm going to watch some of your other videos as well!
Thanks for the sub. Yes go do it. If anything it's creative outlet for us away from the daily grind of life. I hope you will be very successful on your creator road. Good luck my friend!
This was such an informative video! Being from Japan, I 100% understand the overwork culture and how it destroys people. Watching this video really puts life into perspective. Bless you and your family 🍁🙏
It looks like we all do the same hustle shuffle regardless of where we live. If anything, my understand that people in Japan work ever harder than people here in the US. All we can do is trying to slow down and live more instead of just trying to survive. Thanks for sharing and please take care.
@@HealthCoresHey Friend, I can so much relate to it as my story is almost same as yours.
But how did you do that, I mean did you become financially independent before choosing to come out of sucking corporate life.
Love from India❤
I learned Korean, still learning so hard. Anyway had a Korean girlfriend and I'm British. Going there really shocked me how "everybody" works, even pensioners. It was a shock to me the work culture. I felt respect but also sad that everybody was so tired, even school kids.
Thank you for posting this! 👍
Thankyou for your work and devotion ❤
I quit my 250k corporate job. I haven’t told anyone. They just wouldn’t understand. They all think that working like a slave is normal and it’s considered a success to be in such a position. No one has ever asked me if I was happy.
Today I have peace. I’ve never had this in my life. And I don’t plan on leaving this place.
before you were worshipping other people and worshipping money, they both let you down.....now you are worshipping your own desires.....in time it will let you down aswell, because it is a false god that doesn't deserve to be worshipped......only The Creator deserves to be worshipped, and your mistake is you are worshipping the wrong things....come back to where you were in your childhood......a true peace that actually lasts because it's real!
Congrats for being brave to be you
AWESOME!
250K per month or year? Sure, you can afford to quit such job.
@@mchakakolentai2524your maker would be displeased with your accusations and assumptions 🤔
I think I was meant to see your video this evening as I was thinking to myself about the uncertain path ahead. I’m a Marine, in the service and about to leave. After 10 years or so of grinding, I decided I couldn’t do it anymore. I’ve decided to part ways. It’s scary, what lies ahead: the unknown. But now I have a child of my own and I realized I need to be present. You were right in your other video: time passes us by and we have just today. You inspired me when you said you remembered your daughter crawling around in her diapers and then you realized she had grown. Thank you for sharing your experience. You are helping others by sharing your story. You’ve been through a tremendous amount in your lifetime. I’m glad you peeled away and I wish you clarity in the path ahead.
Good perspective! appreciate you, you're strong! im confident your next chapter will blow you out of the waters!
Ah man, so much respect for you opening up in this video! You are going to inspire a lot of people.
Man it was a tough self conversation. But it was time to face my own demon. Thanks man.
Totally relatable. Asian pressure is REAL- and yes I completely understand as a failed startup founder, former tech worker, i feel so similar
You never know what's around the corner. It might not earn you shit loads of money but the skills you have picked up will be useful.
@ thank you I appreciate the encouragement, really have been down lately.
Societies definition of success is a trap, but most often it takes a while to realize that, at least you did and have chosen something else even though what that something else is hasn't taken form yet. It can take some time and it's not an easy road, but someday you may realize it's a rewarding one. You have good heart, best to you!
I have no idea what is waiting for me. But I am sure it will be better than getting stuck at a place that was killing my slowly. Thank you for your support.
@@HealthCoresa big RUclipsr I believe. 🙏🏼
Brother, you're literally waking up from this broken record superficial system we call world. Just keep on, with the awakening, don't stop, don't stop till you get enough. You're coming back home, you're coming back to yourself.
You've woken up to the scam. And now you're using that knowledge for good - to help other people. Kudos to you. I wish you all the best and will continue to listen to your insightful talks.
Maybe I was meant to go through all that so now I have a story to tell. Thanks for visiting me and listening.
Thank you brother for your honesty in life. We learn a lot from you.
Thankyou for sharing this message. I’ve never commented on a RUclips videos before,
I have discovered this message you are sharing this day. It has touched my heart and soul.
Thankyou for your bravery. I love you
I feel very special that you took the time to send me some love. I am very honored that my message resonates with you. Thanks for seeing me and Happy Holidays!
I can tell you are a good person, very inciteful, and trying to find your place in this crazy wonderful terrible place. I found in my journey that the only thing you have control over is how you react to the challenges presented in front of you. I believe that is why we are here to cope with challenges put forth in our individual paths. You need to rejoin your family and find a way to cope with life's challenges, as a team. Go forward with grace and determination to grow on your next challenge. You got this!
Family isn't always blood related. My entire family turned on me in many ways
Facing those challenges with grace and leaning on family or loved ones as a team brings strength and meaning. That's why I chose my family over my job and would do it all over again. Thanks or the encouragement.
Incredible story, thank you for your courage and sincerety.
God bless you and all of us🙏🏻, I wish you all the best in life ❤
Unhappy, stressed, and dissatisfied. Pretty much sums up my life. Really related to and enjoyed this video.
It's crazy to think that this is our lives as adults. This is why I had to slam on the brakes. Take care of yourself too and hope you can slow down soon.
A wise man once said “life is hard and then you die”.
Indeed very wise.
RIP to Coolio
Easy or hard… we all going to die at the end.
Wow eating and smoking weed so hard. Grow up
Thank you for the courage to speak these words that we often feel but often find ourselves not able to articulate. I wish I don't live under fear one day.
What comes to my mind as it has been said by a wise man " don't die with your music still in you"
It's very brave of you to share this with people 🙏
I have a similar story to you, except US born, and never met my father. 39 yrs old, and hit a point when I was 30ish when I said "enough". I'm single raising my kids, one of which turns 18 in a few weeks, and I started thinking about what I'm going to do when they're outta the house. I planned on building a small house off grid, or one of those U-Haul house conversions.
Well in 2022, I suddenly started getting crippling physical and mental issues (Army vet). They've steadily gotten worse with time. Seeing your stuff makes getting away from the general population feel achievable, regardless of the health stuff I've been battling. Some of which involve the heart, lungs, GI system, and spine. I can't walk most days, and the days I can it's more than challenging. But willpower can be a valuable tool, one of the most important in every mans arsenal.
You’ve been through so much, yet your willpower shines through. It’s inspiring how you’re planning for the future despite the challenges. Building that peaceful space off-grid sounds like a solid step toward healing and freedom. I thought about that too but not the right timing yet. I hope you make it happen and let me know how it goes.
Bro, it’s a challenge for a lot of people. It is for me. I’ve just now at 32 realized how much I value relationships after the service
In my experience money come and go but relationships with loved ones are priceless. I guard them with my life. Take care bro.
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Thank you for your authenticity.
We find what we need when we stop looking outward
this is the journey start inside. Peace will radiate
You said it perfectly, peace starts within. When we pause and look inward, everything else starts to make sense.
I applaud you for recognizing the way you felt and making a brave desicion to change it. Most people I know would continue chasing the $$$ since it's the safest choice (but not the correct one...)
It was hard to admit you been down the wrong path. But better late than never. Thanks.
Your description of life in Vietnam with your grandmother was beautiful and described so vividly. Grandmothers are incredible xx I love listening to your story
@CPerry-bu1ni Thank you. I feels great to bring back some of those happy childhood memories.
Yes sir. Nothing has been easy. Worked 7 days a week. For years. Just to scrape by. Today. Hard work paid off. But I was prepared. My mom always told me when I quit. Life ain’t easy son. She’s right. Took the quite out of me. Now I have something for my kids.
Thanks for your word's of wisdom Brother....heart felt !🙏
God bless you brother!🙏👍 You help us go through very similar experiences in our journies.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us
Only 25 years old but can already relate to 100%. My father is also sacrifacing his life for us as an immigrant family and I just can‘t make the moves nessecary to take care of them and myself. Its so hard to realize that you cant give them back what they do for you so much since I already feel drained from society and all challanges life throws at us.
I really enjoyed this thank you kindly 🙏
Hey, your videos mean a lot and personally, I can relate to your words on so many levels. You help me and many others.
I am glad we can all relate. We are not so different as society make it seems. We are struggle alike. Keep finding your place in life and safe journey!
Thank you for sharing. I'm glad that you are at your best adult peace now. Also, I am really sorry for what happened with your father - it is heartbreaking when people with a passion and hardly earned education can't follow that. I also understand that you are still trying to figure it all out - me too. My reasons to push myself so hard were the same as yours - I did it for love, recognition, family and like you I almost lost myself through the process. I neglected myself completely. I almost never thought about me and my health was always perfect until lately (I'm just in my early 30s, have a family and daughter too that I love and care deeply about).
I have the exact same thoughts lately. My life has/had many very very similiar paralells to yours, so watching your videos is almost as having a conversation with myself. You are not alone and you are not a weirdo - just cause your different and feel where others numb themselves. You are a wonderful human. So strong and tears just underline that. And also courageous - it takes a lot of courage to share what you do all while walking on mountain lion trails 😁.
Something you said here resonated perfectly with me at the moment "sometimes we try to force ourselves into places where we don't belong".
Just a week ago I turned down an offer that was like my dream job - but I felt that there was much pressure from the upper management and that my future boss would have values that kick mines with hands and feet (comments like "people are just resources - there to burn out *evil grin*" etc.). I couldn't smell the dude and the proffessional mascarade and asslicking at this levels either. If to shit on other humans and gloss over talks would be the price I'd have to pay to climb the ladder further then peep it. Look for another clown. So I turned it down and included my reason. It felt really freeing and like a wise decision. I also turned down new experience and a top job on my cv. But it feelt like the right thing to do and I'm still proud of it.
Anyway, thank you very much for sharing, I love your videos and thoughts. Remember that you are loved deeply. We'll make it through.
Turning down a dream job is no joke. But at some point we have to realize that there are more important things in life than the money and recognition. That ladder climbing is not always good for us. Our family needs us more than the corporations. I am glad you stayed true to your internal compass and go with your guts. I am sure you made the right choice. Please say hello to your dear family for me and Happy Holidays!
Talk it out with them, dust off your resume, find a job that has a reason, you won't waste it. Break the cycle, I hear you
Thank you so much for such a heartfelt story. This society has condition us to be in a rat race. I am so sorry for such a great loss. I left New York City a few years ago to a less expensive and small area, because I felt as if I was in never lasting looop that left me feeling so unhappy. Several family members made many comments and thought that I made a mistake to leave my job and moved. There have been challenges, but I am happier and definitely healthier, especially mentally healthier.
It's your life. You did the right thing. Don't climb any ladder or do things to please others, because you may end up losing the most precious thing which is your life.
God bless. Be Strong. Although others didn't believe in my decision, God has guided me and has been providing for me. You may feel lonely at times, but you are are not alone. God or the Creator has your back. Just trust, remain still to find the answer within.
By the way, your child doesn't care about what you do. The most important thing is for her to have you here with her.
God bless, Remember to trust in the Great I Am whom we are a part of and all your needs and the needs of your family will be provided for.
Your story and kind words are truly touching and filled with wisdom. It's inspiring to hear about your decision to leave a fast-paced, high-pressure environment for a simpler, more fulfilling life, despite the skepticism from others. The courage it takes to prioritize mental and emotional well-being over societal expectations or external validation is remarkable. Thank you for sharing such heartfelt encouragement.
Thank you for sharing of yourself, your vulnerability, your openness.... your strength! That is the light that we all need. Thank you bro!
Thank you for the love and support! Sharing isn’t always easy, but if it helps even one person, it’s worth it. Stay strong, keep shining, and remember we’re all in this together. 🙌
I relate to this so much. Thanks for saying what’s been on my mind about work culture. You’re not alone.
Thank you for making me feel that we are in this together. I used to think it was just me ❤️
I feel like I'm listening to my on thoughts and life. Man i feel and know your pain brother.
Thanks for knowing the pain. Hasn't been easy but we will get through 1 day at a time.
I can very well relate to this, currently on the treadmill with the corporate job. The wasted time eats at me constantly. Thanks for sharing on a topic a lot of us can relate to.
I think if you are lucky to find something that you love doing then it's not so much of a dread. The problem is many of us just don't do something that makes us happy. It's tough I know.
Your honest, thoughtful sharing is so inspiring! You mention feeling a little lost, not knowing where the future is taking you, yet also feeling a new sense of peace. By connecting to Nature and your heart , you are shifting to a new way of being. You will know when it's time to work again but I am sure your life will remain in balance going forward.
Thank you for such kind words! Finding peace in the midst of uncertainty is a journey, but connecting with nature and our inner selves makes all the difference. I do believe balance and clarity will come with time.
Thank you for your content. I really appreciate your insight. ❤️
Thanks for visiting and listening to my story Take care.
I too crashed out badly after health scare after almost 17 years in IT industry . The hustle culture took a toll on me but nobody was there except the family when it happen. Doing fine now and trying to get back . Still not sure what to do next . Should i go back to hustle culture or do something on my own. Right now the options are few for me (in my country). Lets see how it unfold.
You're on the right path, brother..
Man I’d love to have a conversation with you. You bring me back to a level of peace that I haven’t found in a while. I feel the need to personally thank you for feeling comfortable to express myself and the things that matter to me. Speaking on the past is often hard when reflecting on the present. You speak it with confidence and understanding that it’s okay for those things to be, but also to grow into what life is meant to be for us. Beyond powerful. Thank you.
Brother, like you said it's never easy to face our own past. But at some point we need to start being honest with ourselves. It's time we accept that we are who we are now because of everything that ever happened in our lives and come to terms with it. I am happy that you stop by to visit me. Take care of yourself brother.
You have a good heart. Thank you for sharing your life. ❤
Your a good motivational speaker and is a good friend brother and with this video you set me right honestly do appreciate it and im sorry that your life was bad the way you had broke it down but things will get better for all of us many blessings and prayers to you and your family i hope to meet you one day to shake your hand stay blessed brother
Thank you for those kind words! Life has its tough spots, but we grow stronger through them. Keep your head high, and remember brighter days are ahead. Sending prayers and positivity your way always!
I just turned 18 few days ago well I don’t even have a childhood it’s all pain trauma and suffering living with my abusive dad he doesn’t abusive me anymore but you know already making distance with him my mom is great best mom ever had so yeah trying to do something with my life slowly slowly also I have dyscalculia and ADHD so hard to focus but iam trying ❤ your videos gave me some hope
You are loved by the most high God, Lord Jesus Christ.
May our Lord find you and give you peace;he is knocking your door, and it’s your choice :
open the door and let him in.
Love from Colorado
I know this feeling and can resonate with this . Thank you for sharing .
It's not a great feeling to be honest that we were slowly destroying ourselves. I hope we still got time to change our course. Good luck on your journey.
@@HealthCores true! - also good to remember life isn’t linear and that’s what makes life beautiful . Those moments of self reflection are powerful even when life stops outside . It’s moving within and eventually the outside will aligned with your new inner self
Great content man! Thank you for posting! 💪🏼
Thanks for letting me share my struggles with you. Much love brother!
This is the second time I have listened to your wonderful honest and insightful reflections and presence. In the first video you mentioned not having yet something that you are passionate about to emmerse yourself into with all your heart. I tell you this....right now this vocalised (no sign of any 'defect' of speech) expression....may actually by IT? Your humanness, struggles, insights and passions shared on this very platform are extremely purposeful I am quite certain. You are Uber valuable in this very state of 'uncertainty' in the present in Nature. Thank you once again for the open style of sharing. Been an interesting life you have lived. Wonderful and super purposeful channel. The shared honest reflections make you a Real Guru. YA
Not sure about the Guru part. But I am beginning to embrace my true self to share my struggles with you. It is helping me to see things that I have not been able to see before. Thank you for taking the time to drop by and listen. Much love!
@HealthCores someone who guides out of darkness and who has walked a path to get to a knowing .... guru .... but unnecessary to set one's store by it. Your vulnerable honest sharing has the attention of Many. FYI I emerged broken after owning and running the largest company in my sector of the hamsterwheel on the African continent. Burned out and literally sickened by the meaninglessness of the insanity of the money push push push....I am here today living a simple life, and I think it is true that the highest road does actually run through the middle.
@HealthCores thoroughly enjoying your channel and energy.
Man just watching this video I wanted to give you a hug. Everything you said, I can relate. Feeling like an alien in this world, but at least we were given the chance to understand this while we are still alive. Lets see where it goes now 🙂.
At the end of the day we are all the same...trying to find our place in this big puzzle of life. Still trying to find my spot. Hopefully you find yours too bro. Hugssss
I feel you bradda 🥲
Talk it out buddy. Many of us have been there.
I spent much time thinking about my childhood in the 1970s and 1980s, when things were more normal. Products were better quality and made in the USA. I think that it is helpful to reflect on the past, even the way it was before I was born in the other centuries.
The world is constantly changing and we just have to try to learn from our past. That’s what made us who we are today. Perhaps we are meant to be where we are right now.
@@HealthCores I am learning from my past. I have recollections of the the 1970s and 1980s, which were more conservative. I bought many antiques from earlier: 1700s, 1800s, and 1900s. It was a completely different world. The craftsmanship was much better then. If you had been born in the 1700s, you would have had a slower life, before the factories mass produced things. The United States had factories in the 1800s before they moved to other countries.
Listening to the times with your grandma sound so beautiful and magical.
Thank you for listening to my story. Those years really shaped me into who I am today. Especially my love for being out in the mountains. Cheers!
God says i will never leave you nor forsake you. He's always been here for you, he is within us, the infinite, Omni presence and all powerful infinite God. He will turn your water into new wine, your sorrow into Joy, your pain into laughter. Your grateful heart will lack nothing, your grateful heart will never be sick, will never be impoverished.
Let God be your refuge and put all your trust Him, who giveth life and breath and all things 🙏
Amen! My life become complete and satisfied when I think of the love of God !
I really enjoyed your video , you speak such words of wisdom, such a beautiful lake.
Nature is the best. For my part, being in the woods here in New England on my mountain bike is the only time when I am at peace. I hope you find peace brother. Finding peace, not accumulating money and material things, will bring true happiness. God bless. Remember, a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Stay strong and keep on keeping on.
Can feel the authenticity- keep going be real thank you
I love you brother you are a hero to me I’ve been watching your videos I’m inspired to just breath and take things slow I don’t care where the future takes me either but everything is fine enjoy this every moment .
I believe we will all be ok once the future takes its course. Can't worry too much about what we can't control. What we can control is how we feel now and who and how we spend our time. Get a dose of that peace, and we will figure this out.
Thanks for your wonderful message new subscriber from Taiwan.
@@SigmaFemale-g1w Thanks for the sub my new friend from across the world ❤️
@HealthCores ur most welcome
Thank you for this channel, just started watching...I think it's important to figure out how much is enough?
I think the first thing to do is figuring out ourselves. That's the path that I am on now. Thanks tor joining the community.
I went through a lot of hardships myself too bro. Don't worry. Just relax for now.
Thanks bro. Doing my best to enjoy the lazy life until I find whatever it is that get me back on the saddle. At least I know we're not the only one struggling out there.
4:27 ❤ i feel you my man! never seen it that way (button). but i know exactly what you mean. beautiful words. you‘re doing the right thing my friend!
Gotta Empty your Cup first...in order for the Universe to Fill it Up! We all too often want it filled to the Brim all the time...and the universe fills it but you cannot hear it with all the worldly garbage. You're doing it right. Solitude speaks volumes.
That’s deep and so true. You’ve got to let go of the noise and clutter to make room for what really matters. Solitude clears the path, and the universe knows when to pour in.
Praying for you my brother🙏
I drink i smoke i live
I CRY I EAT I SLEEP
TEARS ARE GOOD FOR YOUR EYES AND YOUR ❤
DO THE BEST YOU CAN. NOTHING IS PERFECT
CAREING IS ALL WE CAN DO
I JUST STAY ALONE
I believe God is healing you because you have been neglecting your spiritual self and you need to connect with God I am a Muslim and these are my thoughts I feel very much like you at this time of my life im now 41 and i have realised that my happiness and connection with my creator is the most important things to me at this time in my life I have nothing to prove anymore I want to do something like pursue a goal or something because i want to not because it is expected
I enjoyed this conversation although not an easy one..i get you brother🙏🏻❤
Listening you make realize that I never had me time for my whole life
Always in rush ,in hurry not for my self but for every one else’s
Most of us are always in a hurry and sometimes we don't even know why. Please slow down when you can and treat yourself to some care and live a little.
I worked in Downtown LA myself, i totally agree with you! that traffic was NOJOKE! i quit that job 12 years ago because of stress & Anxiety! i hope one day ill do what your doing brother! i appreciate what your doing now... i have mad respect for you ! Thanks for these videos man, very inspiring!
Wow, thank you for sharing that! It sounds like you've been through a lot, and stepping away for your peace was a huge move. You haven't missed much. The traffic is worse and LA is still LA.
Thanks for everything you do my brother 🙏
I'm going thru the same thing but never had the courage to tell anyone about my feelings I thought I was the only one and it made me feel weak
You are never alone, my friend. Sharing your feelings takes real strength, not weakness. Just taking this step shows your courage. Keep moving forward, I know things will get better for us.
One day at a time dude. When one door closes...another opens.
You’re a good man. Keep going
Thank you taking it 1 day at a time.
I just subscribed to your channel. Thank you for sharing your life story. You sound like a good father. I lost my job over a year ago military contractor. I can’t seem to find a job and now my brothers want to evict me from the house that I lived with with my mother and live with her for many years and give her rent and take care of my disabled brother after she died my brothers took my mom changed her trust around When she had dementia and now they want to evict me I’m 57 years old and they have their own houses. They’re all in their 70s. They’re not talking to me anymore. I tried getting a lawyer. A lawyer wants more money to defend me now my brother gave me a 60 day notice to Leave the property now I have to fight with no money. I don’t want to be homeless now my brother’s not talking to me my brother I took care of. He just died last year and watched him die in the hospital and none of my other brothers wanted to come visit him And when one of them visit it all he did was talk about himself so disgusting. They want me out of here so bad they don’t even want to keep the house in the family. Yes this is a dysfunctional, narcissistic family. I paid thousands and thousands of dollars fixing plumbing carpeting paying property tax Now I’m broke my 401(k) money is all gone. I can’t even get a job doing anything I don’t know is that my resume or what 15 years doing military contract and it doesn’t help when you have ADHD..
You’ve been strong through so much already, and while it’s tough to see now, there are still paths forward. One step at a time, and please don’t hesitate to ask for help where it’s available. You deserve stability and peace after all you’ve been through.
Damn man, I see me there. It hurts. Congratulations for choosing the red pill.
so inspiring dude thank you
Thanks for the videos
Your welcome. Thanks for visiting me.
Thank you for reality....I totally relate. I appreciate you.❤
You are so welcome!
Hey man, i was reaching through the screen to put my hand on your shoulder at 38:00.
My grandfather aggressively pursued his career in London for many years, trying to climb to the top even moving away from where he had a better quality of life.
Then he had his heart attack.
Luckily he surivived but from then on he finally realised it wasnt worth it and knew it was time to retire. Once he did he took off his watch and never wore one again. 'I've spent too much time looking at it already'.
New here. Thanks for these videos.
I am glad we met. Thanks for being with me on my new journey. Much love!
There are a lot of us out here who are choosing the same path as you are, welcome to Buddhism 101 my friend, we are glad that you have joined us.❤
this man speak a spiritual awakening .. congrats brother 🎉🥭🍊🍅🫶🛸👽