Hustle Culture Took Me Down The Path of Self Destruction So I Had To Quit Before I Lost Everything

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @HealthCores
    @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +62

    Do you ever feel like you going through life so fast down to the path of self-destruction, but forget why and where you're going to in the first place?

    • @markj7612
      @markj7612 2 месяца назад

      In general, society today is insane. All the frantic activity by unhappy people, destroying the earth. Militarism, no community, no love, and certainly no joy. It isn't insane to go counter to society's definition of success. That's sanity. Go to the wisdom of mystics and sages. Paul Brunton, J. Krisnamurti, Mooji. Better to be poor, with heart and wisdom, than rich, in ignorance. Yes, the path of truth can be lonely and hard, but you're not dead from the neck up. You're alive. Blessings from USA.

    • @blissfulbecky
      @blissfulbecky 2 месяца назад +6

      Not anymore. Over a decade ago I went on a healing journey, learned to slow down and be mindful, stopped living for other's approval, and made other life changes like leaving California after living there for decades. My job is now only minutes from home (3 miles/7 minute drive or 15 - 30 minutes manual ride; bike, walk, jog, run, etc.), my living is simple, and peace and quiet is my everyday luxury (TRUE WEALTH!). I wake up every morning being grateful and say "Life Is Good!" because it is and I remember when it wasn't. I hope we all get to this place... before it's too late.
      Thanks for sharing your story.:-)

    • @tankhangvan6272
      @tankhangvan6272 2 месяца назад +6

      Yeah, i 've been there in a couple years ago. I'm hustling too hard that i didn't listen to my body. When my body cannot handle anymore and i collapsed, when i wake up at the hospital the only thing i want is just to live another day to see the people i love. Right now, things are better i'm still hustle but not too hard anymore.

    • @comeridewithme6928
      @comeridewithme6928 2 месяца назад

      Yes, thank you for sharing

    • @erikgonzalez2486
      @erikgonzalez2486 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes the older I get the more I slow down and appreciate the little things because the days fly by so fast.

  • @JosieVanDeKer
    @JosieVanDeKer 2 месяца назад +115

    Realizing I pay for a home I barely get to be in because I have to be at three jobs to keep it. You’re the one living the real dream my friend!

    • @ronk6405
      @ronk6405 2 месяца назад +4

      bad planning

    • @RyzenZegend
      @RyzenZegend Месяц назад

      Simple life is better. However it's not about working so much.....but more about having the ability to give to those who don't have nothing. For example when was the last time you bought someone popcorn? Pepsi? Sandwich? Half of the time your grinding and your stingie!

    • @northernrogue1
      @northernrogue1 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@ronk6405 Not always - sometimes just bad luck and circumstances out of your control.

    • @ronk6405
      @ronk6405 Месяц назад

      ​@@northernrogue1 buying something that requires 3 jobs to pay back the loan is a choice , not bad luck and circumstances...who was in control of signing the loan agreement?

    • @D.M.ggww21
      @D.M.ggww21 Месяц назад

      Been there done that. Shits gonna give. I only slept at my home. For years. 7 days a week. Double shifts. Only shower and sleep

  • @JustCode512
    @JustCode512 2 месяца назад +64

    man please keep this kind of content it helps a lot of people indeed!

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +11

      Thanks man for visiting me and hearing my story. Much love!

    • @IssackKadam
      @IssackKadam Месяц назад +2

      It helps alot 💯🧡🇵🇬

  • @linolina6953
    @linolina6953 2 месяца назад +80

    Working online and living in the countryside is the best thing that the world has to offer nowadays.

    • @inclarksmemory
      @inclarksmemory 2 месяца назад +2

      That’s what I hope to do. 😮‍💨

    • @donrobertoni
      @donrobertoni 2 месяца назад

      No it’s not. You will be rreplaced by an Indian for 5 dollars an hour lol 😂😂😂. Going to office is best to maintain your standard of living. Now it seems okay what your doing but the market will pivot to cheap Indians lol 😂😂😂

    • @Liynkx
      @Liynkx 2 месяца назад

      What kind of remote work do you do?

    • @LarryalShiva
      @LarryalShiva Месяц назад +3

      I live in a poverty stricken countryside with no jobs. Please recommend me viable online work... examples, anything...

    • @whatnowok
      @whatnowok Месяц назад +1

      If you can get the work

  • @patrickl6932
    @patrickl6932 2 месяца назад +108

    My mother committed suicide in 2004. I still cannot talk about her out loud without sobbing. I know exactly how you feel

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +36

      Sorry to hear about your mother. It's sad that life take our loved ones before their time. All we can do is take a lesson from their lives to live our best ❤️

    • @jl5034
      @jl5034 2 месяца назад +7

      May she be free from suffering now.🙏
      I hope you're getting professional help to help you grieve in a healthy way. ❤🙏

    • @georgelien
      @georgelien 2 месяца назад +3

      I’m sorry for your lost ❤ Take good care of yourself

    • @CreativeCreaturefx
      @CreativeCreaturefx 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm so sorry you had to experience that. That's a horrible trauma to live with. I can only imagine how much you crying when that happened. Hope you continue to heal from that experience. ❤😢

    • @davidc4408
      @davidc4408 2 месяца назад +3

      She will want you to enjoy life to the fullest. Make her proud. She will be waiting for you at the end of your life ❤

  • @venkat4167
    @venkat4167 2 месяца назад +28

    Your videos are like therapy. It’s healing ❤

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +6

      It is very therapeutic for me to create these videos as well. I am glad to be able to share that with you. Thanks for visiting me.

  • @oscarhdez5
    @oscarhdez5 2 месяца назад +33

    I keep loving these videos man, they bring me peace at so many levels. Keep doing them. Blessings for you sir, you are the best

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +6

      I am glad to help bring you some peace. May many blessings go to you and your family as well. Take care my friend.

  • @JS-cg3dp
    @JS-cg3dp 9 часов назад

    I pop into YT on the regular to see what people are saying. You popped into my feed today and I decided to listen. Your voice sounds incredibly sincere and real and that's what kept me glued. In a world that is putting on a show at every time and every sm space, this is what we need more of. Real and raw content that we as humans truly need to come from is direly needed in today's unreal landscape. You are a light.

  • @erikgonzalez2486
    @erikgonzalez2486 2 месяца назад +23

    You can’t imagine how much your video helped me bro I wish the best for you and your family and all people going through life struggling to cope with our broken society. I really appreciate your honestly and genuine heart ❤ a lot of us men go through this too so it’s like a breath of fresh air to hear you vent what a lot of us are feeling

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +6

      We were told to grow strong, be stronf, and act strong. But at some point we have to be honest to ourselves. When it imploded t from the inside, it's hard to keep up the act of looking strong.

    • @erikgonzalez2486
      @erikgonzalez2486 2 месяца назад

      @@HealthCores very true especially when acting strong includes ignoring or holding in our vulnerability as if it doesn’t exist until it all comes out involuntarily. Appreciate your wisdom and insight !

  • @Gladius638
    @Gladius638 2 месяца назад +20

    Man, this guy just speaks to me. Thank you for opening up brother, hang in there, your doing great things posting this stuff.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +2

      It's hard to open up and make this video. But as it is helpful for you, it is also a way for me to deal with my own emotions. Thanks for listening bro.

  • @CPerry-bu1ni
    @CPerry-bu1ni Месяц назад +11

    I don’t hear a residual speech impediment, I hear a wise, gentle and unique voice that has an important story to share x

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +3

      Thanks for that. I am still sometimes self conscious about my speech but I am learning to just embrace me for everything that I am.

    • @bigd6326
      @bigd6326 Месяц назад

      @@HealthCores I didn't hear any impediment to be honest, even after reading this.. wouldn't worry

  • @HT-xw1fh
    @HT-xw1fh 2 месяца назад +24

    If you still have a speech "problem", it's just something that makes you sound nice at this point my man.

  • @Robbiesdiner
    @Robbiesdiner 2 дня назад

    Thank you for your transparency. Life can be hard, but oh so beautiful. Peace be with you💕

  • @LarryalShiva
    @LarryalShiva Месяц назад +8

    I'm not gonna lie I straight up sobbed and cried through large portions of your video, I can't tell you how brave, beautiful and honest you are, and simply thank you for taking the strength to do and say all that you did. I watched all of your other videos too, please keep making more if you would, I will be checking back soon. Wishing you only the very best!!!!!!

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +2

      @LarryalShiva awww I am very touched hearing that. Sorry I brought your tears out. It was hard being honest to myself, but I think it was time I embraced my past. Thanks for watching my videos and for your support ❤️

  • @freedomforaging
    @freedomforaging Месяц назад +4

    “When you force yourself into a place where you don’t belong, it takes a toll on you physically and mentally” so true… this is why I always recommend that people don’t take on the mentality of never giving up. Sometimes it’s the right move that will lead you to the right place. Stay strong, thanks for being so genuine

    • @tjstraw1
      @tjstraw1 29 дней назад

      I totally agree. You gotta know when to hold 'em, and when to fold 'em.

  • @619sandiego8
    @619sandiego8 2 месяца назад +18

    At 50 years old...I've been working since i was 16. I have back pain everyday of my life..I got what i wanted a small house, but I never traveled i was worried about not having enough money to pay my mortgage..Learn from my mistakes, travel, have fun, find a hobby and live life!
    Life goes by way to fast

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +3

      Life does go by way too fast. I am happy you have your own house. Gotta take care of your back. It's sucks we get pain in weird places as we get older.

    • @simemsayss4395
      @simemsayss4395 Месяц назад

      Men naturally are nomadic, buying a house and feeling safe is an ideology for women.
      I did the opposite and just lived and not worry about shit, I just go on till I can't, but feeling trapped is the worst.

  • @BonTin1988
    @BonTin1988 2 месяца назад +9

    I watch a lot of RUclips videos. This is probably one of the vids that resonated with me the most. Thanks for sharing your story man. Love the analogy with water. I also like Bruce Lee's quote, "Be like water".
    I'm so done with the corporate world and I'm on very close to breaking free. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +3

      Yes absolutely! I am just trying to be still right now and see what will come. I can't wait until you find that escape route. It took me years to finally pull that plug. It's scary but the sound of silence is priceless! Good luck bro!

  • @yamimorales2384
    @yamimorales2384 5 дней назад +1

    I love your calmness and connection with nature. Your content is very inspiring ❤❤

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  3 дня назад

      The water is my medicine to a head full of things we need to clear up ❤️

  • @Kyokooooo55
    @Kyokooooo55 2 месяца назад +11

    This was such an informative video! Being from Japan, I 100% understand the overwork culture and how it destroys people. Watching this video really puts life into perspective. Bless you and your family 🍁🙏

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +4

      It looks like we all do the same hustle shuffle regardless of where we live. If anything, my understand that people in Japan work ever harder than people here in the US. All we can do is trying to slow down and live more instead of just trying to survive. Thanks for sharing and please take care.

    • @harneetsingh6812
      @harneetsingh6812 2 месяца назад

      ​@@HealthCoresHey Friend, I can so much relate to it as my story is almost same as yours.
      But how did you do that, I mean did you become financially independent before choosing to come out of sucking corporate life.
      Love from India❤

    • @simeonbanner6204
      @simeonbanner6204 Месяц назад

      I learned Korean, still learning so hard. Anyway had a Korean girlfriend and I'm British. Going there really shocked me how "everybody" works, even pensioners. It was a shock to me the work culture. I felt respect but also sad that everybody was so tired, even school kids.

  • @Mellonen-Galadh
    @Mellonen-Galadh 2 месяца назад +5

    I subscribed. This video was great. You talked from the heart for almost 1 hour, no edits, and yes, just like a lot of commenters have said, you're helping a lot with videos like these! I support you and other creators like you and I am looking forward to posting my own vids about how I left the city for the countryside. If your heart thinks it's the right thing to do, do it! You've done it and not only did you help yourself, but countless others such as I! Cheers and all the best, I'm going to watch some of your other videos as well!

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the sub. Yes go do it. If anything it's creative outlet for us away from the daily grind of life. I hope you will be very successful on your creator road. Good luck my friend!

  • @enchantingbynature
    @enchantingbynature 2 месяца назад +16

    Societies definition of success is a trap, but most often it takes a while to realize that, at least you did and have chosen something else even though what that something else is hasn't taken form yet. It can take some time and it's not an easy road, but someday you may realize it's a rewarding one. You have good heart, best to you!

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +8

      I have no idea what is waiting for me. But I am sure it will be better than getting stuck at a place that was killing my slowly. Thank you for your support.

    • @inclarksmemory
      @inclarksmemory 2 месяца назад

      @@HealthCoresa big RUclipsr I believe. 🙏🏼

  • @Ladas85
    @Ladas85 8 дней назад

    Thank you very much for sharing your story. Love from Sweden ❤
    Also saw the other video where you shared your childhood memories from back in Vitneam 🙏 thank you. I'm a refugee from Bosnia and have very similar memories from the innocent times playing around the river, fishing, swiming. Living in Sweden since the age of 10, now 40, but those memories always remain. Thx for sharing yours :)

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  8 дней назад +1

      Those memories were best. Kids being kids. Sometimes we forget how to live those simple moments as adults. Sweden is a very beautiful place. Would love to go there to visit 1 day 🙏

    • @Ladas85
      @Ladas85 7 дней назад

      ❤ yeah ​I'ts true, too many responsibilities and too much running around for most people. So difficult to "just be" I guess. Feels unproductive and stressful.
      I've had several periods of slowing down and it's just the way I am I guess, feel more at home in the existsntial realm of being, but at the same time I haven't carved out any "great career" so It actually gets to me sometimes. But I guess we all have something to work on.
      Yeah Sweden is really beatutiful, serene green forests, clean and fresh air.
      Remember to write if you come to Gothenburg so I can show you around 😊
      @@HealthCores

  • @ephermallove
    @ephermallove 2 месяца назад +3

    I think I was meant to see your video this evening as I was thinking to myself about the uncertain path ahead. I’m a Marine, in the service and about to leave. After 10 years or so of grinding, I decided I couldn’t do it anymore. I’ve decided to part ways. It’s scary, what lies ahead: the unknown. But now I have a child of my own and I realized I need to be present. You were right in your other video: time passes us by and we have just today. You inspired me when you said you remembered your daughter crawling around in her diapers and then you realized she had grown. Thank you for sharing your experience. You are helping others by sharing your story. You’ve been through a tremendous amount in your lifetime. I’m glad you peeled away and I wish you clarity in the path ahead.

  • @thunderresistant
    @thunderresistant 2 месяца назад +2

    Incredible story, thank you for your courage and sincerety.
    God bless you and all of us🙏🏻, I wish you all the best in life ❤

  • @iv2sab
    @iv2sab Месяц назад +1

    You've woken up to the scam. And now you're using that knowledge for good - to help other people. Kudos to you. I wish you all the best and will continue to listen to your insightful talks.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Maybe I was meant to go through all that so now I have a story to tell. Thanks for visiting me and listening.

  • @judester9482
    @judester9482 8 дней назад

    I pray for this man’s healing. May God help him find peace and serenity!

  • @Sdk123-p7v
    @Sdk123-p7v 2 месяца назад +8

    Totally relatable. Asian pressure is REAL- and yes I completely understand as a failed startup founder, former tech worker, i feel so similar

    • @simeonbanner6204
      @simeonbanner6204 Месяц назад +2

      You never know what's around the corner. It might not earn you shit loads of money but the skills you have picked up will be useful.

    • @Sdk123-p7v
      @Sdk123-p7v Месяц назад +1

      @ thank you I appreciate the encouragement, really have been down lately.

  • @brianlee4503
    @brianlee4503 2 месяца назад +5

    Unhappy, stressed, and dissatisfied. Pretty much sums up my life. Really related to and enjoyed this video.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      It's crazy to think that this is our lives as adults. This is why I had to slam on the brakes. Take care of yourself too and hope you can slow down soon.

  • @SawdeyTV
    @SawdeyTV 2 месяца назад +9

    Bro, it’s a challenge for a lot of people. It is for me. I’ve just now at 32 realized how much I value relationships after the service

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +4

      In my experience money come and go but relationships with loved ones are priceless. I guard them with my life. Take care bro.

    • @SawdeyTV
      @SawdeyTV 2 месяца назад

      @ 👊

  • @StefanInside
    @StefanInside 24 дня назад

    Your story touched me a lot. Especially with your father. The loneliness you described sitting and drinking must be hard. I see you as a strong person going through all that.
    And I do also resonate with you regarding the parents working a lot to put food on the table.
    I listened to the whole video when I was driving one hour. That was perfect. Thank you for your story.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  24 дня назад +1

      Yeh it's sucks drinking alone. Not going through that again. Maybe it's part of the growing pain we must go through.

  • @Shinedig
    @Shinedig 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for your authenticity.
    We find what we need when we stop looking outward
    this is the journey start inside. Peace will radiate

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад

      You said it perfectly, peace starts within. When we pause and look inward, everything else starts to make sense.

  • @levvaus
    @levvaus Месяц назад

    I’m so grateful for this life advice-it’s life-changing!

  • @CPerry-bu1ni
    @CPerry-bu1ni Месяц назад

    Your description of life in Vietnam with your grandmother was beautiful and described so vividly. Grandmothers are incredible xx I love listening to your story

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      @CPerry-bu1ni Thank you. I feels great to bring back some of those happy childhood memories.

  • @KevinSchroeder-zk1kv
    @KevinSchroeder-zk1kv Месяц назад

    Thankyou for sharing this message. I’ve never commented on a RUclips videos before,
    I have discovered this message you are sharing this day. It has touched my heart and soul.
    Thankyou for your bravery. I love you

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      I feel very special that you took the time to send me some love. I am very honored that my message resonates with you. Thanks for seeing me and Happy Holidays!

  • @ThatBikerGedi
    @ThatBikerGedi Месяц назад +1

    Ah man, so much respect for you opening up in this video! You are going to inspire a lot of people.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +1

      Man it was a tough self conversation. But it was time to face my own demon. Thanks man.

  • @albertsantiago2635
    @albertsantiago2635 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the courage to speak these words that we often feel but often find ourselves not able to articulate. I wish I don't live under fear one day.

  • @triadmotion8113
    @triadmotion8113 2 месяца назад +4

    Only 25 years old but can already relate to 100%. My father is also sacrifacing his life for us as an immigrant family and I just can‘t make the moves nessecary to take care of them and myself. Its so hard to realize that you cant give them back what they do for you so much since I already feel drained from society and all challanges life throws at us.

  • @BAGHEERAPROSPER
    @BAGHEERAPROSPER 2 месяца назад +4

    Brother, you're literally waking up from this broken record superficial system we call world. Just keep on, with the awakening, don't stop, don't stop till you get enough. You're coming back home, you're coming back to yourself.

  • @andymedina7054
    @andymedina7054 2 месяца назад +1

    God bless you brother!🙏👍 You help us go through very similar experiences in our journies.

  • @cooket12
    @cooket12 2 месяца назад +26

    A wise man once said “life is hard and then you die”.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +6

      Indeed very wise.

    • @lakermark2006
      @lakermark2006 2 месяца назад

      RIP to Coolio

    • @WhiteLight249
      @WhiteLight249 Месяц назад

      Easy or hard… we all going to die at the end.

    • @sadhu7191
      @sadhu7191 Месяц назад

      Wow eating and smoking weed so hard. Grow up

  • @ryanconn2761
    @ryanconn2761 2 месяца назад +1

    I can very well relate to this, currently on the treadmill with the corporate job. The wasted time eats at me constantly. Thanks for sharing on a topic a lot of us can relate to.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      I think if you are lucky to find something that you love doing then it's not so much of a dread. The problem is many of us just don't do something that makes us happy. It's tough I know.

  • @thuff86
    @thuff86 Месяц назад +3

    I have a similar story to you, except US born, and never met my father. 39 yrs old, and hit a point when I was 30ish when I said "enough". I'm single raising my kids, one of which turns 18 in a few weeks, and I started thinking about what I'm going to do when they're outta the house. I planned on building a small house off grid, or one of those U-Haul house conversions.
    Well in 2022, I suddenly started getting crippling physical and mental issues (Army vet). They've steadily gotten worse with time. Seeing your stuff makes getting away from the general population feel achievable, regardless of the health stuff I've been battling. Some of which involve the heart, lungs, GI system, and spine. I can't walk most days, and the days I can it's more than challenging. But willpower can be a valuable tool, one of the most important in every mans arsenal.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +1

      You’ve been through so much, yet your willpower shines through. It’s inspiring how you’re planning for the future despite the challenges. Building that peaceful space off-grid sounds like a solid step toward healing and freedom. I thought about that too but not the right timing yet. I hope you make it happen and let me know how it goes.

  • @theelephant2887
    @theelephant2887 2 месяца назад +3

    I applaud you for recognizing the way you felt and making a brave desicion to change it. Most people I know would continue chasing the $$$ since it's the safest choice (but not the correct one...)

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +3

      It was hard to admit you been down the wrong path. But better late than never. Thanks.

  • @mhstb25
    @mhstb25 2 месяца назад +3

    Great content man! Thank you for posting! 💪🏼

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for letting me share my struggles with you. Much love brother!

  • @mountainswillcrumble777
    @mountainswillcrumble777 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for your word's of wisdom Brother....heart felt !🙏

  • @petromusic23
    @petromusic23 Месяц назад

    Thank you for posting this! 👍

  • @_Crazyslots
    @_Crazyslots Месяц назад

    Thankyou for your work and devotion ❤

  • @Radio.Melvin
    @Radio.Melvin 2 месяца назад +4

    I know this feeling and can resonate with this . Thank you for sharing .

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      It's not a great feeling to be honest that we were slowly destroying ourselves. I hope we still got time to change our course. Good luck on your journey.

    • @Radio.Melvin
      @Radio.Melvin 2 месяца назад +1

      @@HealthCores true! - also good to remember life isn’t linear and that’s what makes life beautiful . Those moments of self reflection are powerful even when life stops outside . It’s moving within and eventually the outside will aligned with your new inner self

  • @cat-tanungansabuhay9574
    @cat-tanungansabuhay9574 Месяц назад

    Thank you brother for your honesty in life. We learn a lot from you.

  • @Skywalker954
    @Skywalker954 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. I'm glad that you are at your best adult peace now. Also, I am really sorry for what happened with your father - it is heartbreaking when people with a passion and hardly earned education can't follow that. I also understand that you are still trying to figure it all out - me too. My reasons to push myself so hard were the same as yours - I did it for love, recognition, family and like you I almost lost myself through the process. I neglected myself completely. I almost never thought about me and my health was always perfect until lately (I'm just in my early 30s, have a family and daughter too that I love and care deeply about).
    I have the exact same thoughts lately. My life has/had many very very similiar paralells to yours, so watching your videos is almost as having a conversation with myself. You are not alone and you are not a weirdo - just cause your different and feel where others numb themselves. You are a wonderful human. So strong and tears just underline that. And also courageous - it takes a lot of courage to share what you do all while walking on mountain lion trails 😁.
    Something you said here resonated perfectly with me at the moment "sometimes we try to force ourselves into places where we don't belong".
    Just a week ago I turned down an offer that was like my dream job - but I felt that there was much pressure from the upper management and that my future boss would have values that kick mines with hands and feet (comments like "people are just resources - there to burn out *evil grin*" etc.). I couldn't smell the dude and the proffessional mascarade and asslicking at this levels either. If to shit on other humans and gloss over talks would be the price I'd have to pay to climb the ladder further then peep it. Look for another clown. So I turned it down and included my reason. It felt really freeing and like a wise decision. I also turned down new experience and a top job on my cv. But it feelt like the right thing to do and I'm still proud of it.
    Anyway, thank you very much for sharing, I love your videos and thoughts. Remember that you are loved deeply. We'll make it through.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад

      Turning down a dream job is no joke. But at some point we have to realize that there are more important things in life than the money and recognition. That ladder climbing is not always good for us. Our family needs us more than the corporations. I am glad you stayed true to your internal compass and go with your guts. I am sure you made the right choice. Please say hello to your dear family for me and Happy Holidays!

  • @anasthebest
    @anasthebest Месяц назад

    It's very brave of you to share this with people 🙏

  • @pavelborisik174
    @pavelborisik174 29 дней назад

    My man good for you. I'm glad you made a massive change. Be blessed

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  29 дней назад +1

      Thank you. Change is slow but everyday progress is better than stuck to the old place.

  • @JustinSleiman
    @JustinSleiman Месяц назад

    Good perspective! appreciate you, you're strong! im confident your next chapter will blow you out of the waters!

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 17 дней назад

    God bless you. You are a HSP. “Highly sensitive person “. I am also. I left my job prematurely but did have eligibility to a meager retirement. It was a toxic environment for me & I simply had to leave and now everything financially is falling apart so I’ve traded one stress for another. I’ve read also prevalence of heart attacks early morning on Mondays. We have to be true to ourselves.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  17 дней назад

      I not sue if I am a HSP. Maybe I need to be. Sometimes I should be more reactive instead of just trying to hang in there until I imploded from the inside like I did.

  • @andrewvo8395
    @andrewvo8395 2 месяца назад +34

    I quit my 250k corporate job. I haven’t told anyone. They just wouldn’t understand. They all think that working like a slave is normal and it’s considered a success to be in such a position. No one has ever asked me if I was happy.
    Today I have peace. I’ve never had this in my life. And I don’t plan on leaving this place.

    • @mchakakolentai2524
      @mchakakolentai2524 2 месяца назад

      before you were worshipping other people and worshipping money, they both let you down.....now you are worshipping your own desires.....in time it will let you down aswell, because it is a false god that doesn't deserve to be worshipped......only The Creator deserves to be worshipped, and your mistake is you are worshipping the wrong things....come back to where you were in your childhood......a true peace that actually lasts because it's real!

    • @2blackcatz426
      @2blackcatz426 Месяц назад

      Congrats for being brave to be you

    • @jmac4952
      @jmac4952 Месяц назад

      AWESOME!

    • @tekknorat
      @tekknorat Месяц назад

      250K per month or year? Sure, you can afford to quit such job.

    • @chadschwartz8027
      @chadschwartz8027 Месяц назад

      @@mchakakolentai2524your maker would be displeased with your accusations and assumptions 🤔

  • @ThelmaM123
    @ThelmaM123 2 месяца назад

    Your honest, thoughtful sharing is so inspiring! You mention feeling a little lost, not knowing where the future is taking you, yet also feeling a new sense of peace. By connecting to Nature and your heart , you are shifting to a new way of being. You will know when it's time to work again but I am sure your life will remain in balance going forward.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for such kind words! Finding peace in the midst of uncertainty is a journey, but connecting with nature and our inner selves makes all the difference. I do believe balance and clarity will come with time.

  • @taylorsmith9115
    @taylorsmith9115 12 дней назад

    I fucking like you dude. It sounds like you just figured something out that's very important. Find your peace, keep it safe.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  12 дней назад

      Yes I finally find what give me peace after years. Not sure how long I can afford to sit around but I know I won't let my life go off that cliff again 🙏

  • @Sigma1976-SS
    @Sigma1976-SS 2 месяца назад +1

    I really enjoyed this thank you kindly 🙏

  • @hugoriquelme4712
    @hugoriquelme4712 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing of yourself, your vulnerability, your openness.... your strength! That is the light that we all need. Thank you bro!

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for the love and support! Sharing isn’t always easy, but if it helps even one person, it’s worth it. Stay strong, keep shining, and remember we’re all in this together. 🙌

  • @StephenChizick
    @StephenChizick 2 месяца назад +4

    What comes to my mind as it has been said by a wise man " don't die with your music still in you"

  • @annaagon6100
    @annaagon6100 Месяц назад

    Very interested in your videos, I think you are a very honest man, not scared of saying or explaining your inner YOU...I will watch your pposts as much as I can, its inspirational.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Speaking the inner voice out loud is very difficult. But it's even harder holding it in. Thanks for listening to my message.

  • @торговыйфлот-м1ш
    @торговыйфлот-м1ш 2 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for the videos

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      Your welcome. Thanks for visiting me.

  • @craigcampbell6933
    @craigcampbell6933 Месяц назад

    I can tell you are a good person, very inciteful, and trying to find your place in this crazy wonderful terrible place. I found in my journey that the only thing you have control over is how you react to the challenges presented in front of you. I believe that is why we are here to cope with challenges put forth in our individual paths. You need to rejoin your family and find a way to cope with life's challenges, as a team. Go forward with grace and determination to grow on your next challenge. You got this!

    • @michaelallen3808
      @michaelallen3808 Месяц назад

      Family isn't always blood related. My entire family turned on me in many ways

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Facing those challenges with grace and leaning on family or loved ones as a team brings strength and meaning. That's why I chose my family over my job and would do it all over again. Thanks or the encouragement.

  • @chinrulin6212
    @chinrulin6212 24 дня назад

    You are a very good storyteller. Every word you said touched my heart and soul. Have you thought of writing a book about your childhood and struggling life? It would help many people who are on the same path as you❤

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  24 дня назад

      I actually wanted to become a writer when I was younger. But I got into tech because I need to pay the bills. It's still something I have on my mind. Thanks for reminding me of a dream that I put way in the back burner.

  • @inclarksmemory
    @inclarksmemory 2 месяца назад +1

    Listening to the times with your grandma sound so beautiful and magical.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for listening to my story. Those years really shaped me into who I am today. Especially my love for being out in the mountains. Cheers!

  • @davidpitts1976
    @davidpitts1976 12 дней назад

    I left a comment months ago which got a lot of attention. I tried to answer everyone's question as briefly as possible. Anyhow, i would like to speak to you in person realizing this probably won't happen. You are so right about feeling lost and unfulfilled. Keep doing what you're doing and take time to smell the Roses brother!

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  12 дней назад

      Hey brother thanks. I missed out on your last comment and didn't have a chance to answer. I did what you did. Jumped in my car and just drove West and haven't look back since. Not easy but doable and would do it all over again. Cheers bro 🙏

  • @DafruitYogi
    @DafruitYogi 2 месяца назад

    this man speak a spiritual awakening .. congrats brother 🎉🥭🍊🍅🫶🛸👽

  • @liveyrdream
    @liveyrdream Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for such a heartfelt story. This society has condition us to be in a rat race. I am so sorry for such a great loss. I left New York City a few years ago to a less expensive and small area, because I felt as if I was in never lasting looop that left me feeling so unhappy. Several family members made many comments and thought that I made a mistake to leave my job and moved. There have been challenges, but I am happier and definitely healthier, especially mentally healthier.
    It's your life. You did the right thing. Don't climb any ladder or do things to please others, because you may end up losing the most precious thing which is your life.
    God bless. Be Strong. Although others didn't believe in my decision, God has guided me and has been providing for me. You may feel lonely at times, but you are are not alone. God or the Creator has your back. Just trust, remain still to find the answer within.
    By the way, your child doesn't care about what you do. The most important thing is for her to have you here with her.
    God bless, Remember to trust in the Great I Am whom we are a part of and all your needs and the needs of your family will be provided for.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Your story and kind words are truly touching and filled with wisdom. It's inspiring to hear about your decision to leave a fast-paced, high-pressure environment for a simpler, more fulfilling life, despite the skepticism from others. The courage it takes to prioritize mental and emotional well-being over societal expectations or external validation is remarkable. Thank you for sharing such heartfelt encouragement.

  • @robb61887
    @robb61887 Месяц назад

    I relate to this so much. Thanks for saying what’s been on my mind about work culture. You’re not alone.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Thank you for making me feel that we are in this together. I used to think it was just me ❤️

  • @featuringrageyt3103
    @featuringrageyt3103 2 месяца назад +1

    I watch my self and my siblings drain ourselves just to live none of us own property's or own houses ive struggled 44 years of my life in and out of jobs just to try and support myself the world is shocking that we live in but just gotta keep your head up and be strong in the mine 💪🏻 i have kids yes i basically new when i was a teenager i could just see the world for what it actually is

  • @SigmaFemale-g1w
    @SigmaFemale-g1w 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for your wonderful message new subscriber from Taiwan.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +1

      @@SigmaFemale-g1w Thanks for the sub my new friend from across the world ❤️

    • @SigmaFemale-g1w
      @SigmaFemale-g1w Месяц назад

      @HealthCores ur most welcome

  • @Shownup007
    @Shownup007 Месяц назад

    Firstly thank you brother for your service to our Nation.
    I would ask you to consider asking the Lord to take your burdens . He will see you through this and always be there for you . Because he said he would.
    God Bless you and your precious family. . 🇺🇸🙏

  • @aightbet164
    @aightbet164 14 дней назад

    This is a great channel, really puts it into perspective for me as a young man what my parents have to go through to support my family, but also makes me realize how much I just want to spend time with my loved ones.
    Also I think that Jesus Christ has blessed you with an opportunity to speak your mind and spend more time with those you love. Sounds like you understand there is a higher power, and I just wanted to say that nothing is coincidence. The Lord saw you suffering and couldn't bear to see you go down the bad path you were headed down. I think if you just pray for the next step Jesus Christ will open that door for you. Its very easy, just ask him and you will get an answer, even if you don't believe.

  • @michaelallen3808
    @michaelallen3808 Месяц назад

    I feel like I'm listening to my on thoughts and life. Man i feel and know your pain brother.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Thanks for knowing the pain. Hasn't been easy but we will get through 1 day at a time.

  • @amermeer3989
    @amermeer3989 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us

  • @stefano8936
    @stefano8936 14 дней назад

    this helps me concentrating during my work in office

  • @gregoryowain2073
    @gregoryowain2073 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey man, i was reaching through the screen to put my hand on your shoulder at 38:00.
    My grandfather aggressively pursued his career in London for many years, trying to climb to the top even moving away from where he had a better quality of life.
    Then he had his heart attack.
    Luckily he surivived but from then on he finally realised it wasnt worth it and knew it was time to retire. Once he did he took off his watch and never wore one again. 'I've spent too much time looking at it already'.

  • @coskun481
    @coskun481 Месяц назад

    Listening you make realize that I never had me time for my whole life
    Always in rush ,in hurry not for my self but for every one else’s

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Most of us are always in a hurry and sometimes we don't even know why. Please slow down when you can and treat yourself to some care and live a little.

  • @CarterFromThe7
    @CarterFromThe7 2 месяца назад

    Man I’d love to have a conversation with you. You bring me back to a level of peace that I haven’t found in a while. I feel the need to personally thank you for feeling comfortable to express myself and the things that matter to me. Speaking on the past is often hard when reflecting on the present. You speak it with confidence and understanding that it’s okay for those things to be, but also to grow into what life is meant to be for us. Beyond powerful. Thank you.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад +1

      Brother, like you said it's never easy to face our own past. But at some point we need to start being honest with ourselves. It's time we accept that we are who we are now because of everything that ever happened in our lives and come to terms with it. I am happy that you stop by to visit me. Take care of yourself brother.

  • @akimateru7980
    @akimateru7980 Месяц назад

    You're on the right path, brother..

  • @vladyslavv6261
    @vladyslavv6261 День назад

    so nice to find your channel

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  5 часов назад

      I am glad to have you here. Thanks.

  • @Shofi.
    @Shofi. 2 месяца назад +1

    I just turned 18 few days ago well I don’t even have a childhood it’s all pain trauma and suffering living with my abusive dad he doesn’t abusive me anymore but you know already making distance with him my mom is great best mom ever had so yeah trying to do something with my life slowly slowly also I have dyscalculia and ADHD so hard to focus but iam trying ❤ your videos gave me some hope

  • @josephlivaudais4603
    @josephlivaudais4603 28 дней назад

    NYQUIL DOES WONDERS! ITS HELPED ME THROUGH THE WORST OF TIMES.

  • @user-nl1yp6pu1n
    @user-nl1yp6pu1n 2 месяца назад +1

    Man just watching this video I wanted to give you a hug. Everything you said, I can relate. Feeling like an alien in this world, but at least we were given the chance to understand this while we are still alive. Lets see where it goes now 🙂.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      At the end of the day we are all the same...trying to find our place in this big puzzle of life. Still trying to find my spot. Hopefully you find yours too bro. Hugssss

  • @Nehraoutdoor
    @Nehraoutdoor Месяц назад

    You are beautiful soul dear..n I hope you realise the journey you are into❤

  • @gswordnichols5154
    @gswordnichols5154 2 месяца назад

    Dear Darling Friend, I love your story with your Grandma! Tank you for sharing. Soul sweet! GoldenSword

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Thanks for listening. Those were some of the best childhood memories being in the mountains. How fast time has went by.

  • @MikeRogers2014
    @MikeRogers2014 2 месяца назад

    You have a good heart. Thank you for sharing your life. ❤

  • @x7728
    @x7728 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey, your videos mean a lot and personally, I can relate to your words on so many levels. You help me and many others.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      I am glad we can all relate. We are not so different as society make it seems. We are struggle alike. Keep finding your place in life and safe journey!

  • @randyhuy2889
    @randyhuy2889 Месяц назад

    I went through a lot of hardships myself too bro. Don't worry. Just relax for now.

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Thanks bro. Doing my best to enjoy the lazy life until I find whatever it is that get me back on the saddle. At least I know we're not the only one struggling out there.

  • @ginomazzenga4409
    @ginomazzenga4409 Месяц назад

    You’re a good man. Keep going

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Thank you taking it 1 day at a time.

  • @G0DAWGZ1
    @G0DAWGZ1 Месяц назад

    Thank you for your content. I really appreciate your insight. ❤️

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      Thanks for visiting and listening to my story Take care.

  • @alicebarky8362
    @alicebarky8362 Месяц назад

    Thank you for reality....I totally relate. I appreciate you.❤

  • @edogdunc
    @edogdunc 2 месяца назад +1

    you are a free man like me attached to no organizations or society 😊

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  Месяц назад

      I am still trying to figure this out. How does it feel like to be free the way you have been?

  • @gavinfisch2868
    @gavinfisch2868 2 месяца назад

    This is the second time I have listened to your wonderful honest and insightful reflections and presence. In the first video you mentioned not having yet something that you are passionate about to emmerse yourself into with all your heart. I tell you this....right now this vocalised (no sign of any 'defect' of speech) expression....may actually by IT? Your humanness, struggles, insights and passions shared on this very platform are extremely purposeful I am quite certain. You are Uber valuable in this very state of 'uncertainty' in the present in Nature. Thank you once again for the open style of sharing. Been an interesting life you have lived. Wonderful and super purposeful channel. The shared honest reflections make you a Real Guru. YA

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      Not sure about the Guru part. But I am beginning to embrace my true self to share my struggles with you. It is helping me to see things that I have not been able to see before. Thank you for taking the time to drop by and listen. Much love!

    • @gavinfisch2868
      @gavinfisch2868 2 месяца назад +1

      @HealthCores someone who guides out of darkness and who has walked a path to get to a knowing .... guru .... but unnecessary to set one's store by it. Your vulnerable honest sharing has the attention of Many. FYI I emerged broken after owning and running the largest company in my sector of the hamsterwheel on the African continent. Burned out and literally sickened by the meaninglessness of the insanity of the money push push push....I am here today living a simple life, and I think it is true that the highest road does actually run through the middle.

    • @gavinfisch2868
      @gavinfisch2868 2 месяца назад +1

      @HealthCores thoroughly enjoying your channel and energy.

  • @Samurai-w4r
    @Samurai-w4r 2 месяца назад +1

    Your a good motivational speaker and is a good friend brother and with this video you set me right honestly do appreciate it and im sorry that your life was bad the way you had broke it down but things will get better for all of us many blessings and prayers to you and your family i hope to meet you one day to shake your hand stay blessed brother

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for those kind words! Life has its tough spots, but we grow stronger through them. Keep your head high, and remember brighter days are ahead. Sending prayers and positivity your way always!

  • @MisterT-x9r
    @MisterT-x9r День назад

    I feel sick hearing you speak my thoughts... my insatiable desire to change leaves me ridiculed almost daily. And now, I'm ok with that.

  • @rosieennis1820
    @rosieennis1820 2 месяца назад

    I really enjoyed your video , you speak such words of wisdom, such a beautiful lake.

  • @Kenny03084
    @Kenny03084 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes sir. Learning this, thanks for your wisdom 🙏

    • @HealthCores
      @HealthCores  2 месяца назад

      Thanks for visiting me. Please don't make my mistake. Take care.

  • @mdin1980
    @mdin1980 2 месяца назад

    Can feel the authenticity- keep going be real thank you

  • @TravelingDan20
    @TravelingDan20 2 месяца назад

    I enjoyed this conversation although not an easy one..i get you brother🙏🏻❤