I didn’t expect this video to pick up like it has and so wanted to express my gratitude to you for taking the time to watch, to like, to comment and to share. I’ve read every comment and have tried to respond to as many as I could. Thank you for being part of my small community here and joining me on this wild journey ❤
I was today years old when I heard that if you don’t know what to pursue, start by pursuing yourself. Everything then will fall into place. What a perfect piece advice.
I think it's a decision to finally choose yourself-choosing to be the healthy, happy, and healed version of yourself. When you choose yourself, others will recognize it, and I hope it leads to many great opportunities in life. We all have a little child within us, and I'm letting her come out, shine, and be playful. To be my authentic self and not let fear take over, it has to start with small steps: self-care, little rewards, and building confidence by achieving small tasks daily. In this way, I will also learn how to raise a healthy kid of my own, as I’m a single mom.
@@simonalexanderothank you for the life advice ..am a soccer coach and I have decided to follow my passion of coaching the youth and better their lives.. Watching all the way from #Nairobi_Kenya.. #Coach_umeme
@@edwinhunnet2666 and is why I dedicated my first book Energize to my wife. She is without doubt one of the secrets to behind all the things I’ve accomplished ❤️
Yup and this is why you see a lot of people living stagnant, paycheck to paycheck lives. Those people take whatever partner they could get that they find relatively attractive and just stick with them. And then wonder why theyre unhappy and unsuccessful
I’m 31 and consider myself a late bloomer. I’m only now starting my undergrad journey in nursing after wasting away my twenties getting high and barely getting by. I still live with my parents. But not all is wasted. My twenties is an example of how not to live life. And I had to pay the price in time, something I’ll never get back. Get your head out of the sand and pursue life with a purpose. If you don’t know your purpose, take the time to figure that out but stay productive during that time. Eat well, sleep well, exercise, pray, and work.
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 you are correct. What I was implying is that I am still not financially independent yet. There's a difference between living with your parents in your 30s by choice vs necessity.
I'm 39 and this is one of the most precious thing I found since I was young. I am a people pleaser and always want to make people happy and sometimes forget to make myself happy and appreciate myself as well. Love your family by spending time more with the quality one and not only quantity. Wake up Budi, Wake up everybody. "Knowing yourself is the beginning of true wisdom" "You will have good seasons and bad seasons" and "It is never too late to make change"
Im 38 now and me too a people pleaser😂. Now that i realize how unworthy i am to othera but as a side help, now i try to seat back and had a thought first to answer a yes to others. Now i fight for the selfblaming for not doing it as always. But this will passed. Because i do have beautiful life and dream to chase.still Wanna chase it.
I think this is beautiful and the reality is most people don't truly know themselves on who they are and what they want out of life. Praying for nothing but blessings for you man
Every time this gets a like or comment I will come back and watch it. PLEASE interact. I need the reminders. Love you, you got this. I can remind u back w a notif if you’d like as well. You are beautiful, and your life will be and is beautiful.
By the age of 25, I’m a doctor of pharmaceutical science and currently doing a PhD in neuro ophthalmology. I’ve been with my lover and best friend for 4 years now. I clicked on this video to learn. I just learned that I’ve been following these advice almost religiously (unless when I’m sick) because my dad educated me this way. Life can be tough and life is not perfect, still we constantly must working on ourselves for our loved ones, and Life is truly beautiful. Thank you for this great video, thank you for your honesty and this powerful teaching lesson.
I'm 23, mentally exhausted. I feel like a failure, stuck in an endless loop of unhealthy habits. Thanks for reminding me that its never too late and I can start changing my life today. Thank u very much! I needed to hear this.
I’m 25, single, depressed in my job and life. By every societal measure I should be satisfied as I have a great family, roof over my head etc, but I’m just miserable and lonely. Anxious it feels like my life is just slipping away but I don’t know what or how to change the path I’m on. I’m getting more and more anxious every single dsy
People call other people talented or lucky or gifted without realizing that often it is a normal person that did simple things consistently that added up to their success
Wow, this was such an insightful and eye-opening video! As someone in their 20's, I really appreciate your perspective and wisdom. Definitely taking these life lessons to heart. Thank you!
I'm 22, I've made a wrong decision that made me at the lowest point of my life, now I will try more harder to climb this life again, thank you for the advice sir .
same sentiments bro, I stopped studying at 18 then proceeded to get a job. Quit my office work when the pandemic hit in 2020 and try to reason out w “health risk” (I’m asthmatic). I just recently had the courage to try and be better than who I was these past two years. I was jobless during those time. I’m 23 going 24 now
@@christiannunagtorres2026I did the same exact thing im 23 too and im back in school getting my degree its never too late and we can do anything we put our mind to. we are still really young and itll work out . start today
@@christiannunagtorres2026 I am in your situation,I left school at 18 and since 1 year I'm focusing on mastering editing and animation skills even if every day I have to hear insults from my parents saying im useless because im following this path
Mans said "If I could tell my twenty year old self something", then put up photos that look nearly the exact same. Bro barely aged. Thats a goal, too. 😂
Thank you for this. I turn 31 next month and feel like I’ve just opened my eyes and mind to see this new path for myself. Getting out of corporate and back into creative mode. Already feeling more of an appetite for life. Excited to come back to this a year from now.
I love how you said there’s no such thing as an overnight success. So many times we only see the result of someone’s success and rarely the work that led up to it
So true. We are blind to what goes on behind the scenes and focus too much on the things we see in public which are simply byproducts of the years of hard work.
Struggling with the so much. I’m 25, single, and seeing all my friends move away and get engaged or at least in serious relationships. I want a relationship so bad and have done so much work on myself, it’s frustrating seeing others with something I want so bad. I don’t like my job and it feels like life has just turned into the same thing over and over and I don’t find nearly the joy that I used to. Idk I feel so incredibly stuck but I know I’m not. I just have to decide to change and get better for myself. It starts with being comfortable on my own which is my biggest struggle, I fill all my time with friends or a distraction from being alone, even though I’ve lived alone for over a year now I’m still afraid to actually spend time alone and feel like I’m just wasting away my life and prime of my 20s. I just need renewed excitement and hope in my life.
@@Greenlights111 i'm 34 and single. Healing from only narcissist and avoidant relationships. Trust me, sometimes it's better to be single. Enjoy this time with no heartbreak, no attachment. Don't trust what you see, the perfect couples. I miss the days when I didn't have fealings for someone. I had enough of this pain.
@@Lavinia-uz7ul I’m sorry to hear that. I get that it’s likely better to be alone than with the wrong person, however, I’m 25 and haven’t had a serious relationship longer than a few months while I watch everyone I know getting engaged and moving on. I know you can’t compare either, but I want a connection and deep relationship and it’s hard feeling like the days and weeks are passing by with nothing changing. I need to make a change but I don’t know what
@@Greenlights111 I know. Same. That's how i ended up in this situations. You are really young, you still have time. Don't compare your life to others. A partner will not save your life. Maybe in the beginning, but the void that you feel right now will appear again after the honeymoon phase. And you will put all your happiness in their hands and you will end up codependent.
This was the best advice ever. I am 28 and I am in the midst of a transition from my immature and impulsive era to my thoughtful and intentional era. I can feel it. Just working on changing my actions to match!!!
So much wisdom on this list! It took me many books, challenges, accomplishments, and failures to learn these lessons. Young people, listen to this more than once if needed and really pay attention. This is gold! Thanks for sharing!
I just turned 30 and i went through such a big life change with my father dying last year. Everything has shifted, but i feel like i will be OK, and i am hopeful for life again 😊
Honestly, I‘m turning 42 in a few weeks and witnessing other people aging, this advise would even be useful for a lot of people no matter the age. Wisdom comes with personal development, not years on the clock
I just woke up from a scary dream on my life. You're the first video I watched. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTEGRITY AND HONESTY!!!!!!!!!! I'm so grateful right now ❤
Ive been on the self improvement path for a long time, and have read and watched a lot of videos. This is one of the most concise, straightforward and condensed lists I’ve ever heard and hits me as a great reminder in this period of my life. Starting with “make sure you’re climbing the right mountain” was such a heavy hitter that the rest felt easy to listen to. Thank you! Subbed ❤
it’s my 21st birthday today. first year in my 20’s went by crazy fast but i learned so much. embracing the journey is key for sure! i wish everyone the best, God bless💗
I'm 40 now and glad I've been on the right path in many ways. Life gets in the way here and there but that's part of life. Enjoy every minute and make sure your daily job is something you love. Prioritize family as well.
I turned 27 last week and it has been very hard to look back at my life not knowing where my twenties have gone. I feel like I haven’t achieved anything meaningful and I’ve been stuck at a 9-6 for the last 3 years and a half going into 4. I feel like my best years are gone and my time is ticking before I’m out of my twenties. I want nothing more than to leave my current job because I’m not passionate and I’m working for someone else’s dream and not my own, getting home when the sun is almost going down and watching my stay at home dad with dementia get older and not being able to spend more time with him. I have no direction about my future or what I want to build, what my gifts or talents are. I feel like the years are going by in a blink of an eye and I get overwhelmed at the thought of not having an answer, and not having a direction that gives me purpose and time freedom, while being challenged with getting out of the bad habits that keep me stuck further more.
I'm sorry about what happened to your father. I guess each one needs to duel on their own time. Don't rush that up. Don't beat yourself up because of societies expectations in life. You still a young woman. You can find your way to happiness, but is hard to find what passionates that heart when is broken. So take your time. 🫂🫂🫂
nah i got friends doing their dreams at 35 for a living and we all go out dancing and have fun, sometimes i feel like im older than them cuz they got more energy. i think sometimes im just lazy and then get sad about being lazy so then its a cycle i stay in. its hard to pull urself out of it but sometimes only you can get yourself out.
“tying your emotional wellbeing to future outcomes will cause you to live as if you’re never going to die, and then you will die, never having truly lived” this is the most profound message i’ve ever heard
I wish I had heard lesson 16 when I was 13, back in 2017. I am 20 now and I believe I would be a successful athlete now if only back then I had taken some risks
My biggest mistake was never believing in myself. As a medically disabled veteran, I believed my life was over and my confidence was shattered. I’m 23 so whenever I feel down and depressed, I remember how far I’ve come, the literal hills I’ve conquered during my time in the Army, and remember that everything will be alright. As a buddy of mine would say, “I’m not six feet under so I must be great.”
Public speaking, and finding something you're truly passionate about definitely were unknown skills for me until way too late in life. Underrated to enable long-term growth and leadership 😊🔥
Those magic words that you said literally transform my mind! I'm 19 and I'll make sure that I will climb the right mountain and leave no regrets! Cheers to anyone who wants to change their life! Good luck to our journey🥂🙌
I’m 40yo, and can attest to life is short - not only is it short but you start to realise that once you get into your 70s/80/90s, flying overseas etc isn’t something you want to do due to health. So when you factor that in you come to realise your time to really experience life becomes even shorter. If you have no goals in life, you will forever work for those who do….
Kicked out at 18, cancer at 19-22! Severely depressed & currently 22 & no education or career experience under my belt & im constantly stressing that I’m so so behind as most my hs classmates have graduated college by now! Thank you for this video, it’s never too late to get up! What I’ve learned most is that Health is Definitely wealth! I’m made fun of for saying that but those who do that have yet to run into issues with their health & just seem to think they’re invincible bc they’re young. Started dating my now fiancé at 15, he continued on to college & then PT school & is about to be a doctor of physical therapy soon 😅meanwhile I’m just starting to begin my journey of what I’m doing now! He’s my biggest supporter & always has been, but it’s definitely hard when those around me seem so ahead! Definitely a ramble & rant here but again thank you for posting this video! Idk how it came across my feed but I do know WHY! I needed it!
i'm 23 but i feel like i'm getting old really fast and i keep worrying about the future all the time instead of actually doing something about it. i hope i overcome this fear and get my shit together fast thank you for this video
dude... you are so freaking YOUNG. I'm 27 and i wish i had YOUR age. And im sure people that's 35 will think 27 is too young. And so on. People that's 60 thinks 40 is young.
I’ll be 29 in November. In & out depression but trying to stay consistent with healthy habits to achieve a good life. Love seeing things like this. Thank you
I started doing yoga because I wanted to try something new and a friend recommended it to me. I’ve already been eating healthy but then I decided to truly cut out bad sugar and treats over the summer and my health, vibrancy and mindset and so clear and positive. Especially because of yoga. Find something for your health you do everyday. Health is not a side hustle like he said. ❤
15:17 Number 36 hit me hard. I'm 37 this year and I feel that I'm trapped in it all my life. I made a choice to start a new life in a foreign country a year ago and it has not been easy recently. I needed this. Thank you for your wisdom
The hardest times can make us more resilient and take on more challenges that life throws at us. Also, public speaking is a powerful skill I wish I had learned earlier in school. The ability to communicate our ideas to others is such an important life skill 🙌
I already heard most of the stuff being talked about from mentors, friends and colleagues. I’m so grateful to be surrounded by supportive and helpful ppl. I’m in a slump in terms of career, starting again. I will do it again, correctly this time.
@@simonalexandero this feels like one of those tycoon games! When you reset it becomes very very easy to blow past the easy stuff and still continue to grow! So far I have already got more done than what I thought I would do in months. Lesgoooo
I needed this so much 🫶 lost my early 20s to bad depression and gave up a fancy uni degree for a not so great relationship. 25 now and back in my 2nd year of a 5 year degree, finding myself ashamed of how “behind” in life I am. Your video reminded me to look back with gratitude for the life lessons and growth I’ve accumulated, and to cherish the present moments 🥺
"How you do things everyday is how you do things for the rest of your life ". I even wrote it down on my whiteboard. I'm gonna live by this quote. It touched me so deep I even paused the video to really meditate on that thought. Beautiful stuff. Thanks man
This has to be one of the most high quality, down to earth, positively impactful videos that I've watched all year. Good on you for sharing this content. It will change many peoples' lives.
I lost my mom when I was 17, so when you said that happened to you my jaw dropped. That moment made me who I am today. The way I looked at life after that was so different.
I am so happy i found this video. Thank you so much! I feel so overwhelmed but i‘m just 25 years old. I‘m so young and sometimes i think it is already too late to change something.
I've normally never watched a full video like this but I really want to grow up since I’m turning 20 and once I heard what he was saying it really hit me, thank you so much for the video!
27 here, and just two weeks ago, I began to stress out in the thought of, "You haven't done anything for your life" When, for God's sake! I am already graduated as a teacher and I am a graphic designer, I have a job (none of my careers) that is helping me save for my biggest dreams and I know that it is not a race against anyone but me... The fear of turning 30 someday and "done nothing" is because of the that damn phone
I’m 26 & I’m grateful I went through all my life experiences to have already known these things..I live by these daily trying to be the first Millionaire of my family..everyone be safe in your journey
25yo here juggling business, side hustle real world work, and passion projects. Feeling overwhelmed so it’s nice to watch a video like this to cut away the bs and focus in on scheduling my dreams
i’m 24, turning 25 in 2 months…. thank you so so much. this video has me in tears as im visioning myself doing everything you’re saying. a fulfilled life
I am in my 20's and your video will actually change my life, I was doing many wrong things without even realising, I wasted my time doing wrong things that would not even bring me 1% closer to my goals I've promised. Thank you
I didn’t expect this video to pick up like it has and so wanted to express my gratitude to you for taking the time to watch, to like, to comment and to share. I’ve read every comment and have tried to respond to as many as I could. Thank you for being part of my small community here and joining me on this wild journey ❤
I whole heartedly appreciate the time and thought you put into this masterpiece, blessings.
@ thank you 🥲
This is the best 18 minutes I have ever spent on a video. So, my gratitude to you.
@@camwangs thank you 🙏
As a 32 year old needing some guidance, I thank you for sharing your experience with us! Much appreciated big brother!
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world!
Beautiful words ❤️
Thank you , Wishing you same. ❤
Aw thank you, I wish the same right back for you!!!
Good luck to you too
Likewise
I was today years old when I heard that if you don’t know what to pursue, start by pursuing yourself. Everything then will fall into place. What a perfect piece advice.
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Can you elaborate on this?
I didn’t get it can you explain plz .
@@ha-mynguyen9468start by working on yourself, Health becoming a better version of yourself and the mission will appear
I think it's a decision to finally choose yourself-choosing to be the healthy, happy, and healed version of yourself. When you choose yourself, others will recognize it, and I hope it leads to many great opportunities in life. We all have a little child within us, and I'm letting her come out, shine, and be playful. To be my authentic self and not let fear take over, it has to start with small steps: self-care, little rewards, and building confidence by achieving small tasks daily. In this way, I will also learn how to raise a healthy kid of my own, as I’m a single mom.
"Not all risk takers will be winners, but all winners are risk takers." Love that one.
Thank you 🙏
@@simonalexandero And thank you as well!
@@BB-kb5br 👊
@@simonalexanderothank you for the life advice ..am a soccer coach and I have decided to follow my passion of coaching the youth and better their lives..
Watching all the way from #Nairobi_Kenya..
#Coach_umeme
@@timothyumeme1521 inspiring stuff 🙌
“Your new life will cost you your old one” I love that. Respect!
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Brianna Wiest…
Do everything that u fear because those are the things that u crave the most
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Explain pls .
I do not crave to go caving or cave diving I promise I don’t 😂😅
@universe21hehe takes action before thinking next, if you meet a grandma is having a hard time to cross the road, just help don't overthink it
@@bbygurlrav 😂
“Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that may change your life.” This hits different
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fr!!
@@lilianignatius right?!
i feel like i'm living that year right now
@@frogery 🔥
“Look at someone for inspiration, not comparison” 👏🏾
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Yes!!!
Thank you Jesus! Humbly receive from the ministry of others wowww
@@asewejetosin5248 ❤️
@@asewejetosin5248 ❤️
This is priceless. 29 now, I’m climbing the right mountain. Thank you.
Thank you Skyler 🙏
What’s you mountain?
"be patient with the process and impatient with taking actions" astonishing
Thank you 🙏
Picking the right partner is the biggest business decision you’ll ever make in your life time on earth.
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@@edwinhunnet2666 and is why I dedicated my first book Energize to my wife. She is without doubt one of the secrets to behind all the things I’ve accomplished ❤️
It’s about being the right person. Not finding the right person. That’s what I’ve learned!
@@type-dev ❤️
Yup and this is why you see a lot of people living stagnant, paycheck to paycheck lives. Those people take whatever partner they could get that they find relatively attractive and just stick with them. And then wonder why theyre unhappy and unsuccessful
I once heard:
If you think the bill of growth is too high, wait for the bill of regret.
Wow! That’s deep and powerful ❤️
And that bill of regret is generational
@@rc_ilya650 👏
in other words, "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure"
@@mysteryman595 👏
“Be sure to take care of yourself first “
Absolutely Andrea 👏
Ha! GEI!
if a british asian is giving me life advice im gonna listen
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Surprise surprise for you I guess
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@@callieblossomASMR ❤️
British Chinese**. Stop using the A word.
I’m 31 and consider myself a late bloomer. I’m only now starting my undergrad journey in nursing after wasting away my twenties getting high and barely getting by. I still live with my parents. But not all is wasted. My twenties is an example of how not to live life. And I had to pay the price in time, something I’ll never get back. Get your head out of the sand and pursue life with a purpose. If you don’t know your purpose, take the time to figure that out but stay productive during that time. Eat well, sleep well, exercise, pray, and work.
Well said 👏
there's nothing wrong with living with parents though
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 ❤️
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 you are correct. What I was implying is that I am still not financially independent yet. There's a difference between living with your parents in your 30s by choice vs necessity.
@@initialdluvr 👏
I'm 39 and this is one of the most precious thing I found since I was young.
I am a people pleaser and always want to make people happy and sometimes forget to make myself happy and appreciate myself as well.
Love your family by spending time more with the quality one and not only quantity.
Wake up Budi, Wake up everybody. "Knowing yourself is the beginning of true wisdom"
"You will have good seasons and bad seasons"
and "It is never too late to make change"
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Im 38 now and me too a people pleaser😂.
Now that i realize how unworthy i am to othera but as a side help, now i try to seat back and had a thought first to answer a yes to others.
Now i fight for the selfblaming for not doing it as always.
But this will passed.
Because i do have beautiful life and dream to chase.still
Wanna chase it.
@@juwarnihallo9999 👊👊👊
I think this is beautiful and the reality is most people don't truly know themselves on who they are and what they want out of life. Praying for nothing but blessings for you man
@@MindsetJournaling 👏
Every time this gets a like or comment I will come back and watch it. PLEASE interact. I need the reminders. Love you, you got this. I can remind u back w a notif if you’d like as well. You are beautiful, and your life will be and is beautiful.
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Keep working Steph. No matter how slowly that progress may be coming, you're getting there and you're doing great.
@@erikmacaluso 👏
Hey, I have reminded you.
Remind me too!
All the best!
@@pallaviahuja9641 🔥
"Extraordinary results come from repeating ordinary actions over an unordinary period of time"...
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Sounds an awful lot like what Alex Hormozi says.
read the slight edge by jeff olson bro!
@@tryna23 adding to my list. Thank you 🙏
...but i still suck at rocket league😢
By the age of 25, I’m a doctor of pharmaceutical science and currently doing a PhD in neuro ophthalmology. I’ve been with my lover and best friend for 4 years now.
I clicked on this video to learn. I just learned that I’ve been following these advice almost religiously (unless when I’m sick) because my dad educated me this way. Life can be tough and life is not perfect, still we constantly must working on ourselves for our loved ones, and Life is truly beautiful. Thank you for this great video, thank you for your honesty and this powerful teaching lesson.
Love it and thank you for your sharing ❤️
Yeah right
Uh huh sure pal
That’s great. Yes my health issues took my 20’s.
@@irmakalember9403 ❤️
I'm 23, mentally exhausted. I feel like a failure, stuck in an endless loop of unhealthy habits. Thanks for reminding me that its never too late and I can start changing my life today. Thank u very much! I needed to hear this.
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You are still very young ! The world is your oyster
@@Light_Connect well said 👏
i am 19 and feel this way to man
@@dantheman9050 ❤️
“The clarity you seek will come from the action you take” Wow
Thank you Jay 🙌
So true brotha. Took me 3 failed attempts in business just to realize investing is my power.
@@brilliantran9808 🔥
Luck is what happens, when preparation meets opportunity - so be prepared
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it isn't luck, but a blessing from God
@@justine851 ❤️
I've seen a few videos like this, but this one was genuinely useful. I loved the Japanese saying involving trees. Have a beautiful day!
Thank you 🙏
Love how you went directly into the video and didn’t waste our time with “hiiii welcome to my RUclips channel” kinda stuff
Thank you 🙏
Yeah
@@themutindasfarm 🙏
Me at 29: "Hell yeah I'm in my 20s😎😎"
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Me too 🥹
@@bennymahlangu8674 🙌
I’m 25, single, depressed in my job and life. By every societal measure I should be satisfied as I have a great family, roof over my head etc, but I’m just miserable and lonely. Anxious it feels like my life is just slipping away but I don’t know what or how to change the path I’m on. I’m getting more and more anxious every single dsy
@@Greenlights111 a thought… if you were to speak to someone who is in exactly the same situation as you, what advice would you share with them?
People call other people talented or lucky or gifted without realizing that often it is a normal person that did simple things consistently that added up to their success
Well said Casey 👏
Wow, this was such an insightful and eye-opening video! As someone in their 20's, I really appreciate your perspective and wisdom. Definitely taking these life lessons to heart. Thank you!
So glad to hear you enjoyed it Jarred 🙌
"Not everyone will like you, you are not ice cream" 😁 Awesome video, thank you.
So glad to hear you enjoyed it Yusra 😁
Well, I don’t like ice cream.
Yeah some people are that heartless, they dont like ice cream.
@@girlbossfromscratch 😂
@@markuku2991 😂
Man I’m 24 years old and I love videos like this. It’s so easy to get caught up in the clutter of life and forget to go after what you want.
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bro probably saved thousands of teenagers from depression
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This isn’t what teenagers are watching.
@@CurieBohr hopefully those that do come across this can find some benefit from what is shared 🙏
@@simonalexandero I hope that too
@@CurieBohr ❤️
I turned 30 recently. I needed this, but ironically, i watched it when i should be asleep.
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Wow me too 😂 😊
@@BontlerainBillions 😂
I'm 22, I've made a wrong decision that made me at the lowest point of my life, now I will try more harder to climb this life again, thank you for the advice sir .
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same sentiments bro, I stopped studying at 18 then proceeded to get a job. Quit my office work when the pandemic hit in 2020 and try to reason out w “health risk” (I’m asthmatic). I just recently had the courage to try and be better than who I was these past two years. I was jobless during those time. I’m 23 going 24 now
@@christiannunagtorres2026 👏👏👏
@@christiannunagtorres2026I did the same exact thing im 23 too and im back in school getting my degree its never too late and we can do anything we put our mind to. we are still really young and itll work out . start today
@@christiannunagtorres2026 I am in your situation,I left school at 18 and since 1 year I'm focusing on mastering editing and animation skills even if every day I have to hear insults from my parents saying im useless because im following this path
it's crazy how he looks the exact same at 17 months old, 20 year old and 40
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Those were exactly my thoughts 😂😂
@@mandmaq 😂
Mans said "If I could tell my twenty year old self something", then put up photos that look nearly the exact same. Bro barely aged. Thats a goal, too. 😂
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LOL I swear I was like “huh?!” “Corporate wants you to tell the difference between these two pictures”
That's health for you. Visual representation of why to prioritize your health
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Thank you for this. I turn 31 next month and feel like I’ve just opened my eyes and mind to see this new path for myself. Getting out of corporate and back into creative mode. Already feeling more of an appetite for life. Excited to come back to this a year from now.
Can’t wait to hear about your incredible progress 🙌
I haven't turned 20 yet, so I'm leaving a comment here so I'll come back in the future to watch this 👍
I think a lot of what is shared can still apply 😉
I haven’t turned 40 yet, so I’m leaving a comment here so I’ll come back in the future to watch this 😉
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I love how you said there’s no such thing as an overnight success. So many times we only see the result of someone’s success and rarely the work that led up to it
So true. We are blind to what goes on behind the scenes and focus too much on the things we see in public which are simply byproducts of the years of hard work.
“Nobody is here to save us “ , that hit deep. But also as an adult , being saved by someone just shows how not independent we are .
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Can't wait to this guy turning 50 and wanted me to watch him when i'm 40's
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When you reach the point of being able to enjoy your own company and happy being yourself, the right people will come along.
Beautifully said ❤️
Struggling with the so much. I’m 25, single, and seeing all my friends move away and get engaged or at least in serious relationships. I want a relationship so bad and have done so much work on myself, it’s frustrating seeing others with something I want so bad. I don’t like my job and it feels like life has just turned into the same thing over and over and I don’t find nearly the joy that I used to. Idk I feel so incredibly stuck but I know I’m not. I just have to decide to change and get better for myself. It starts with being comfortable on my own which is my biggest struggle, I fill all my time with friends or a distraction from being alone, even though I’ve lived alone for over a year now I’m still afraid to actually spend time alone and feel like I’m just wasting away my life and prime of my 20s. I just need renewed excitement and hope in my life.
@@Greenlights111 i'm 34 and single. Healing from only narcissist and avoidant relationships. Trust me, sometimes it's better to be single. Enjoy this time with no heartbreak, no attachment. Don't trust what you see, the perfect couples. I miss the days when I didn't have fealings for someone. I had enough of this pain.
@@Lavinia-uz7ul I’m sorry to hear that. I get that it’s likely better to be alone than with the wrong person, however, I’m 25 and haven’t had a serious relationship longer than a few months while I watch everyone I know getting engaged and moving on. I know you can’t compare either, but I want a connection and deep relationship and it’s hard feeling like the days and weeks are passing by with nothing changing. I need to make a change but I don’t know what
@@Greenlights111 I know. Same. That's how i ended up in this situations. You are really young, you still have time. Don't compare your life to others.
A partner will not save your life. Maybe in the beginning, but the void that you feel right now will appear again after the honeymoon phase.
And you will put all your happiness in their hands and you will end up codependent.
This was the best advice ever. I am 28 and I am in the midst of a transition from my immature and impulsive era to my thoughtful and intentional era. I can feel it. Just working on changing my actions to match!!!
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"Extraordinary results come from doing ordinary things an extraordinary amount of times" I needed that
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So much wisdom on this list! It took me many books, challenges, accomplishments, and failures to learn these lessons. Young people, listen to this more than once if needed and really pay attention. This is gold! Thanks for sharing!
So glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏
I just turned 30 and i went through such a big life change with my father dying last year. Everything has shifted, but i feel like i will be OK, and i am hopeful for life again 😊
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Keeep your head you will make it. Remember the strength that he had
@@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏
@@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏
Honestly, I‘m turning 42 in a few weeks and witnessing other people aging, this advise would even be useful for a lot of people no matter the age. Wisdom comes with personal development, not years on the clock
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Made my day! I wish you all the best as well
Thank you Omar 🙏
watching this at 18 years old. I pray we all achieve all our goals and visions that we pray for.
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I just woke up from a scary dream on my life. You're the first video I watched. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTEGRITY AND HONESTY!!!!!!!!!! I'm so grateful right now ❤
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im 38 and this is the video that will finally push me to post mine! LETS GO GUYS!
Let’s go Johnny!!! 🙌
Ive been on the self improvement path for a long time, and have read and watched a lot of videos. This is one of the most concise, straightforward and condensed lists I’ve ever heard and hits me as a great reminder in this period of my life. Starting with “make sure you’re climbing the right mountain” was such a heavy hitter that the rest felt easy to listen to. Thank you! Subbed ❤
So glad to hear you enjoyed it! 🙏
it’s my 21st birthday today. first year in my 20’s went by crazy fast but i learned so much. embracing the journey is key for sure! i wish everyone the best, God bless💗
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday 🥂
I’m now that age about to be 22 already
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@@Jay7.62Same, 22 next month and I am still anxious about life 😢
@@LéonardK-z8e focus on what you can control today and tomorrow will look after itself ❤️
Thank you! I am 53 “ its never too late to make a change “😊
Never too late indeed ❤️
There is Age limit for many job.
@@hidonvousspeak7178 and plenty of options out there where there isn’t 🙌
Indeed health is the most important asset. I didn’t care and was diagnosed with cancer last year
Well said and hope you are on the mend now Sonia? ❤️
❤❤❤ sending you well wishes
Thoughts and prayers for a full recovery Sonia 🙏
x Tony.
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I'm 40 now and glad I've been on the right path in many ways. Life gets in the way here and there but that's part of life. Enjoy every minute and make sure your daily job is something you love. Prioritize family as well.
Words of wisdom right here. Thank you 🙏
@simonalexandero I saved yours as well. Love it. Thanks for the amazing video.
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I turned 27 last week and it has been very hard to look back at my life not knowing where my twenties have gone. I feel like I haven’t achieved anything meaningful and I’ve been stuck at a 9-6 for the last 3 years and a half going into 4. I feel like my best years are gone and my time is ticking before I’m out of my twenties. I want nothing more than to leave my current job because I’m not passionate and I’m working for someone else’s dream and not my own, getting home when the sun is almost going down and watching my stay at home dad with dementia get older and not being able to spend more time with him. I have no direction about my future or what I want to build, what my gifts or talents are. I feel like the years are going by in a blink of an eye and I get overwhelmed at the thought of not having an answer, and not having a direction that gives me purpose and time freedom, while being challenged with getting out of the bad habits that keep me stuck further more.
What small steps can you start taking outside your 9-6 that will help you eventually create an exit route to something more fulfilling?
I'm sorry about what happened to your father. I guess each one needs to duel on their own time. Don't rush that up. Don't beat yourself up because of societies expectations in life. You still a young woman. You can find your way to happiness, but is hard to find what passionates that heart when is broken. So take your time. 🫂🫂🫂
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I'm in the same boat literally I have the same problem with myself it's hard to find that one thing u wanna chase after:/
nah i got friends doing their dreams at 35 for a living and we all go out dancing and have fun, sometimes i feel like im older than them cuz they got more energy. i think sometimes im just lazy and then get sad about being lazy so then its a cycle i stay in. its hard to pull urself out of it but sometimes only you can get yourself out.
“tying your emotional wellbeing to future outcomes will cause you to live as if you’re never going to die, and then you will die, never having truly lived” this is the most profound message i’ve ever heard
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So much good knowledge in this video. I'll have to watch it several times.
Thank you 🙏
I’ve just turned 25 days ago. This video is definitely a wake up call for me. THANK YOU
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Inner peace comes from accepting what you can't control, and focusing your energy instead on what you can ❤
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What lessons would you share with your younger self?
Don’t put things off, get after the things you want as life doesn’t last forever.
@@RobinMWaite so true ❤️
Those great ides you get will make their way into the world one person or another... be that person who does it first and in your style!
@@DirectorYaya such a powerful lesson 🔥
I wish I had heard lesson 16 when I was 13, back in 2017. I am 20 now and I believe I would be a successful athlete now if only back then I had taken some risks
My biggest mistake was never believing in myself. As a medically disabled veteran, I believed my life was over and my confidence was shattered. I’m 23 so whenever I feel down and depressed, I remember how far I’ve come, the literal hills I’ve conquered during my time in the Army, and remember that everything will be alright. As a buddy of mine would say, “I’m not six feet under so I must be great.”
Your best years are ahead of you 🙌
you’re a young veteran and the military was the stepping stone you needed to get to where you are now. ask yourself what are you going to do with it?
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Public speaking, and finding something you're truly passionate about definitely were unknown skills for me until way too late in life. Underrated to enable long-term growth and leadership 😊🔥
Thank you 🙏
Those magic words that you said literally transform my mind! I'm 19 and I'll make sure that I will climb the right mountain and leave no regrets! Cheers to anyone who wants to change their life! Good luck to our journey🥂🙌
Beautiful words. Thank you and here’s to the journey ahead 🙌
What he said about health was the most important thing
Thank you 🙏
I’m 40yo, and can attest to life is short - not only is it short but you start to realise that once you get into your 70s/80/90s, flying overseas etc isn’t something you want to do due to health.
So when you factor that in you come to realise your time to really experience life becomes even shorter.
If you have no goals in life, you will forever work for those who do….
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mid-life is not 50 or 60 as some of us would like to believe...
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Kicked out at 18, cancer at 19-22! Severely depressed & currently 22 & no education or career experience under my belt & im constantly stressing that I’m so so behind as most my hs classmates have graduated college by now! Thank you for this video, it’s never too late to get up! What I’ve learned most is that Health is Definitely wealth! I’m made fun of for saying that but those who do that have yet to run into issues with their health & just seem to think they’re invincible bc they’re young. Started dating my now fiancé at 15, he continued on to college & then PT school & is about to be a doctor of physical therapy soon 😅meanwhile I’m just starting to begin my journey of what I’m doing now! He’s my biggest supporter & always has been, but it’s definitely hard when those around me seem so ahead! Definitely a ramble & rant here but again thank you for posting this video! Idk how it came across my feed but I do know WHY! I needed it!
Such an inspiring comment to read. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏
i'm 23 but i feel like i'm getting old really fast and i keep worrying about the future all the time instead of actually doing something about it. i hope i overcome this fear and get my shit together fast
thank you for this video
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@@simonalexandero Whats your advice for this age of ours??
@@Samclava_media with regards to anything specifically? 🙏
dude... you are so freaking YOUNG. I'm 27 and i wish i had YOUR age. And im sure people that's 35 will think 27 is too young. And so on. People that's 60 thinks 40 is young.
@@cestentoimeme so true 👏
I’ll be 29 in November. In & out depression but trying to stay consistent with healthy habits to achieve a good life. Love seeing things like this. Thank you
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Having a mid-life crisis at the moment so listening to this helped. Thank you.
Glad to hear it resonated ❤️
I started doing yoga because I wanted to try something new and a friend recommended it to me. I’ve already been eating healthy but then I decided to truly cut out bad sugar and treats over the summer and my health, vibrancy and mindset and so clear and positive. Especially because of yoga. Find something for your health you do everyday. Health is not a side hustle like he said. ❤
Love it Adam 🙌
Just turned 30 and im glad ive been practicing most of these. But still a ways to go. :)
We are a constant work in progress and to fulfil our potential, the focus must be on being a little better than who we were yesterday ❤️
09:26 bro just casually dropped the answer to “what’s the meaning of life?” without even blinking twice
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15:17 Number 36 hit me hard. I'm 37 this year and I feel that I'm trapped in it all my life. I made a choice to start a new life in a foreign country a year ago and it has not been easy recently. I needed this. Thank you for your wisdom
So glad to hear it resonated ❤️
The hardest times can make us more resilient and take on more challenges that life throws at us. Also, public speaking is a powerful skill I wish I had learned earlier in school. The ability to communicate our ideas to others is such an important life skill 🙌
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@@lauriexwang one of the most important 👏
I already heard most of the stuff being talked about from mentors, friends and colleagues. I’m so grateful to be surrounded by supportive and helpful ppl. I’m in a slump in terms of career, starting again. I will do it again, correctly this time.
You will come back stronger with wisdom gained from the experience 🙌
@@simonalexandero this feels like one of those tycoon games! When you reset it becomes very very easy to blow past the easy stuff and still continue to grow! So far I have already got more done than what I thought I would do in months. Lesgoooo
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I needed this so much 🫶 lost my early 20s to bad depression and gave up a fancy uni degree for a not so great relationship. 25 now and back in my 2nd year of a 5 year degree, finding myself ashamed of how “behind” in life I am. Your video reminded me to look back with gratitude for the life lessons and growth I’ve accumulated, and to cherish the present moments 🥺
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Don’t feel ashamed, timelines are just a social construct, the important thing is you’re doing your thing!! Good luck :)
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42 but watching anyway
You will still enjoy it Holly 🙌
Seconded 🙌🏽
@@dhlimimunza633 hope you enjoy it ❤️
Still growing 😊
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"How you do things everyday is how you do things for the rest of your life ".
I even wrote it down on my whiteboard. I'm gonna live by this quote. It touched me so deep I even paused the video to really meditate on that thought.
Beautiful stuff. Thanks man
Thank you Shawn 🙏
That’s crazy, I’m 21 now. I hope life is going up. This year was the worst year in my life. I want to go up. But good Tipps.
Thank you and here’s to that 🙌
Happy 40
Thank you 🙏
This has to be one of the most high quality, down to earth, positively impactful videos that I've watched all year. Good on you for sharing this content. It will change many peoples' lives.
Thank you Aaron. Means a lot 🙏
I lost my mom when I was 17, so when you said that happened to you my jaw dropped. That moment made me who I am today. The way I looked at life after that was so different.
An experience like that so young can mature you overnight ❤️
Im 31, i encountered and learned most you stated.
Will use this as basis before i turned 40.
Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏
So glad to hear you enjoyed it and sounds like you will have some strong foundations in place through your 30s 👏
This video is on my algorithm on purpose bc im Watching this while pulling an all nighter bc of work. Im def rethinking my life rn
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I appreciate the fact that you separate all topics on the description!!! Thanks for the valuable information ❤
Thank you 🙏
Allah give this man endless blessings 🤲🏽Ameen
Thank you 🙏
I am so happy i found this video. Thank you so much! I feel so overwhelmed but i‘m just 25 years old. I‘m so young and sometimes i think it is already too late to change something.
Not too late Kristy ❤️
Just turned 30 and time has gone by so fast. Its worrisome and scary sometimes but we take each day. make it better than the last
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I’m 36 and changing
So much. I’ve lost 40
Pounds and 75 more to go. Choosing myself feels great. Being responsible for myself feels great.
Amazing work 🔥
Im 31, been working on this for a couple years, not easy with young kids but not stopping :) thanks for this reminder!❤
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I've normally never watched a full video like this but I really want to grow up since I’m turning 20 and once I heard what he was saying it really hit me, thank you so much for the video!
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27 here, and just two weeks ago, I began to stress out in the thought of, "You haven't done anything for your life" When, for God's sake! I am already graduated as a teacher and I am a graphic designer, I have a job (none of my careers) that is helping me save for my biggest dreams and I know that it is not a race against anyone but me...
The fear of turning 30 someday and "done nothing" is because of the that damn phone
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I’m 26 & I’m grateful I went through all my life experiences to have already known these things..I live by these daily trying to be the first Millionaire of my family..everyone be safe in your journey
Amazing work Joe! And I’ve no doubt you will 🔥
25yo here juggling business, side hustle real world work, and passion projects. Feeling overwhelmed so it’s nice to watch a video like this to cut away the bs and focus in on scheduling my dreams
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Happy Birthday! So nice of you posting today and offering some advice that isn't just for people in their 20's.
Thank you so much Jay 🙏
i’m 24, turning 25 in 2 months…. thank you so so much. this video has me in tears as im visioning myself doing everything you’re saying. a fulfilled life
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happy birthday 😁
I'm 28 , I'm saying honestly this is the one of the best advice that I saw
I'm really appreciate you.
Those words mean a lot. Thank you 🙏
This is definitely a video I'm sending my 30 something kids. This is a gold mine of meaningful life guidance.
Thank you and hope they enjoy it!
People need resources, support and community. We need to have that conversation.
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I am in my 20's and your video will actually change my life, I was doing many wrong things without even realising, I wasted my time doing wrong things that would not even bring me 1% closer to my goals I've promised. Thank you
So glad to hear and here’s to that 🙌