When You Stop Caring, This Happens! Relationship Advice For Women
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- Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
- The best relationship advice for women is to realize the powerful effect of when you stop caring.
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Maybe you've heard it said: When you stop caring results come. Or you've heard friends rattle of why results come when you stop caring so much about getting into a relationship.
What do they mean when they say "stop caring"? And what's the path of how to stop caring about what others think?
The truth is dating advice coaches or relationship advice videos discuss how results come when you stop caring and how you need to stop caring, what they actually mean is to stop stressing!
That's a key piece of dating advice for women!
That's a key piece of relationship advice for women too!
When you stop caring so much results come, so long as you understand what's actually meant by the word "caring" and what to do instead.
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Thankyou so much!!!!?
You might have a troll in your message base... there's someone "Kelly White" who has responded to several messages by saying their experience with "Mr Oswlundia" (or something like that) helped her get her ex back and the message poster should whatsapp her for more info. Ugh. See the message posted by Machelle B for an example.
Is marriage the end of relationship issues? I think it is the other way round!
So I confessed 1 day ago , bu theres another girl that likes him but he's not sure if he likes her he likes me but he didnt say if he liked her or not all I know is that cristina also likes him im worried. I really like him and I dont want him to choose cristina over me. Can you help? How can I increase his love for me?
I am going into no contract for 19 days
No if he’s into you you never need to worry. If you’re panicking it’s because he isn’t totally into you
So true!!!!!
Exactly ! I worry now because he caused me to do so ! He broke trust and loyalty so yes I care and yes probably way too much but he caused the stress and worry !
Wrong. Life isn't so simple, black and white, perfect. Nor is any person.
@@nofybn7794 I agree with you. Sometimes I overthink and believe he doesn’t like me. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t, it’s just my anxiety.
It is soooooo freeing when you concentrate on your on life and just chill . What ever happens ... give it to God 💖🙏. Love yourself always
Yes yes..it’s feels great to be single
Amen, Lindsay. 🙌🏾
Yes! So true
So true!!!!
Amen ❤
The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.
Wow now that's some wisdom right there!
Sorry, thats what we do.
That's a hell of a lot of men. Women aren't innocent either.
Facts!
I love that!!!
My lesson learned from this video is just enjoy the moment when you are with the guy or without the guy. I enjoy spending time with my friends, but I do not obsess over them when the conversation ends. Until he is ready to make any commitment with me, he does not exist. I have also learned to keep a busy life of activities I love. So, far this advice seems to be working. Thank you Sabrina.
Prayer and meditation are really helping me "not care too much" and love myself more.
Yep!! So guilty of this. But finally woke-up to me and my need to address ME! I was so caught-up in a "relationship", waiting and wondering ALL of the time, it was making me sick!! It wasn't until I realized he wasn't into me the way I had hoped, that I was able to let go.
This is exactly how I was before, and now! Well now my new man is obsessed with me because I'm just cool with everything and don't need him to be happy. Listen up girls this method really does work xx
Me. This is meee 😭. You described my exact situation right now. Every phase was spot-on. We've been seeing each other for 10 months and spoke all day, every day. I realize I started stressing over everything if our conversations "felt" different. I questioned him, overthought everything, and I decided to give him space from me. I finally told him I was sensing he needed space....and we haven't had any contact in 10 days!!! He unfriended me on Facebook. There was no argument.....I just offered space! I'm dying in this no contact period. Totally heartbroken, but I know I'll probably never hear from him again. He's emotionally unavailable and "focused on his goals," and I fear that I am not on his mind anymore. This is really hard.
Use the men's rule.....ALWAYS date 3 men......a pair & a spare.....keep it casual.....care but never too much...just HAVE FUN and you will soon just how fast you will eliminate 2 of them. You will KNOW! ❤
OMG. I love this so much...hahah
@@hvanderf Trust & believe Heidi girl Lol
How can you find 3 men you like?
And then we'll get eliminated
I've actually never heard of that one. Thanks for that information. Makes sense
I had to watch and listen to this several times to get everything in! All of a sudden I see very clearly what my mistakes have been in the past. It’s a cool awakening, knowing that I won’t do same mistakes as then. Quite much same way you realized those things, meeting your now husband again 😌
This is really good stuff! It really sucks when you lose your happiness due to the insecurity in a relationship. No amount of approves would be enough if you feel lacking inside.
Perfect! Thank you for your honest feedback on what we all do: Get wrapped up in our own heads!
My only regret is not knowing about your channel sooner! Thank you
You are so right! Been there and done that! I’m so happy that you are sharing this advice with others.
Thank you! I needed to hear everything that you just said. Ughhh, I'm more messed up than I thought I was :/ changing the way I think and letting it go
Thank you for going a little bit deeper! Definitely made difference compared to all relationship videos
This so resonated with me! I needed this!
This definitely resonates with most people. Thanks for sharing. Be carefree not too careful
I am so confused by all of this. But I also understand. Having said that, my emotions are all over the page. I think it's best to just forget about it. However, once I don't care, i don't care ever again. If I have to go to the point of not caring to make a man want me, then, whenever he decides that his squirelly self is ready for caring, it won't come back for me. It either is, or it isn't. All I see is that men are alot more weird emotionally then we women. And I'm tired of being hurt. I'll just get back to planting my own flowers and loving my dogs.
Sometimes I have got the same feeing 😔
@@annagaluszka26 I have a hard time wrapping my head around this concept. If I care about someone it is impossible for me not to show it. Subterfuge is not my strong point. I guess the dating game is a lesson in self-control, because when I care about a man I am either all in or all out. And I don't generally have feelings for men these days anyway. So when I do have feelings and they aren't reciprocated or even rebuffed, I feel badly for both of us. Badly for me (rejection) and badly for him because he's losing a good thing. Having said that, once I move on, I don't go back. A guy who is so squirell-y that he has to have me play games in order to garner his interest isn't worth it. Are there any men out there that know their feelings, and stay on course instead of all this smoke and mirrors? Honestly.
@@adriennedouke1880 I have been there plenty of times. I understand you and I do work very very similar. Games aren't for me.
What lady from video try to teach us is more about our emotion self control.
I can say it's helpful because it can give you freedom of feeling free from this radical way of worrying.
I don't think it's actually called playing games but more about self love.
I do think that we both men and women emotionally work different.
I am in relationship with lovely guy.
He has hard time to find himself in Sweden and he is originally from Venezuela.
We are together 3 years and 8 months. Recently he actually told me honestly that he need more time to find himself to get back to guy I met 3 years ago.
I decided give it a try and not being to clingy.
Meantime I am focusing on creating my online shop I am launching soon so I don't get crazy in my head.
I would love to spend more time with him but instead I try to do my best and take this time to take care of me and it does not mean I don't care about him. I know he loves me and cares for me this is why He opened himself to me.
I find it beautiful since he is an introvert.
I give it a time I do have faith in it and I try to focus on present.
I need to be plain as a person. We can't depend our happiness on others.
I do pray I do work on myself every day. I really hope that you will meet someone worth you.
Women who are 100% very often finish bad in relationships. We need to learn how to not give too much that we actually should.
I can imagine that you are very generous person too. We need to care about our energies we give to close ones. ❤️❤️❤️💪💪💪💪🙏
It is not about ‘caring’ as such, as it is about controlling the situation - and we all know that 😉 So it boils down to letting go of the control, not trying to go ahead of ourselves and not to have specific expectations attached to that caring.
@@natalic6088 agree
Wow you hit on everything. Thank you for the reminder. I will be dating others, enjoy myself and be care free, like my usual self. Love it!!
Really needed to hear this. Thank you!
Thank you for your excellent presentations. You cut to the chase.
I needed that.
More, please!
I almosttttt dated someone after a really long time and I got so insecure and worried and stressed so much after catching feelings. Things took a quick turn from there, dude started to pulll away. Resonated so much with this! Will keep in mind till the next ;)
You couldn’t said it better, it was like you were literally talking to me , I need to chill the heck down , thanks so much for this video! Your are awesome
Thank you sooooooo very much Sabrina!! This is right on time!!💗💗💗
I have to watch this everyday❤️ but there is a big change he even asks things he nvr used too. thanks so much🙏🏼🙏🏼 his so confused now😍😍
This video was just what I needed! Very informative and helpful.
I needed this so much and I felt like you were talking to me. Lol
Awesome advice! It is so easy to get caught up.
This video was so uncomfortably accurate, but it’s actually just what I needed to wake up. Thank you!
Thank u Sabrina this was so needed for me
I really need this. Thanks a lot.
This is the most video I found that is on point. Exactly every word you say is true
So true. Thank you
You are very articulate, have great common sense, have great insight, and have great solutions. Enjoy listening to you.
Thank you ❤️ Sabrina
When I stopped caring I ended the relationship.
That's where I'm at, and not interested in any more 'relationships'. I'll stay happily single, and leave them to their stupid games.
@@adriennedouke1880 I agree,I was dating a guy we went out for six months knew each other for just about 30 years was friends all this time. He wanted to know if I would be interested in a relationship ,so we tried it for 6 months and as far as I was concerned he had too many mixed stories. I called him several times contradicting himself. The distance in miles 1300 of them we didn’t see each other too often. It ended up he was mad at me because I couldn’t drop everything and run to Michigan
@@Sloan341 After all I've been through in life, it is too hard to rebuild at my age. So I won;t be dropping everything I've worked for to go off with some man. Neither will I ever allow one to live with me in my house again. That never ends well. I like the idea of having a relationship with a man who lives closeby, but has his own place, his own car, and his own life, and we get together from time to time for dinner and sometimes drinks. I don;t have the patience anymore to live with a man again.
@@adriennedouke1880 So you like to keep things casual, is that right? What if you're married. Also, what if you want that Million Dollar mini mansion with city lights view in the suburbs, but you need at least a double income for that?!
@@svasianfilipiname6603 The reason I want to keep things casual is so we can enjoy the best of both worlds. I'm in the final stages of divorce, and I am fairly sure after it is finalized I probably won't be so keen on marriage again. And finally I am content with what I have. I am at the age I just want to maintain what I have, improve it (if possible) but I am happy where I'm at. I would love to have a man in my life with similar ideas. I don't see a man as a means to an end, either. If he did want more, then I would at least consider it, but really, if the guy was my neighbor, why?
This is gold. ❤️ Learning so much about myself too.
So glad!
I wish I would have found you 20 years ago lol! For real though I'm so grateful I found you.
I needed this today!!! Thank you!!’ :)
Excellent, Sabrina!
Thanks so much for this reminder❤ being in the moment* it's a quote on my wall now!
Seriously I’m just glad I found your channel.
Thankyou so much for this message 🎉
my goodness
You're so so right 😥
Just went through this! I felt sorry for him and kept being the understanding, caring woman. I finally got tired of my needs not being met and left, put my needs first since he wasn’t even trying.
Thank you sister 🙏focusing on my life and drawing life force to transform my life for the better. So needed to hear what you said as a great reminder 🙏
Thank you so much❤
Yes it happens too me .
u are so right. whatever u said resonates with mine
You are an inspiration to women, thank you
Thank you, this video made so much sense! You are so wise! Thank you for sharing! Love all your advice.❤
You are so welcome
Refreshing,like your channel!
Omg this is so spot on!!! Thankyou
So glad!
This was sooo good! Like literally so specific to my situation. I met the love of my life after my divorce of 6 years and everything was perfect for the first 4 months until his Dad died suddenly from COVID. For 2 months I hardly received affection or healthy validation understandably so since he was suffering from depression. I felt stuck because I knew he was an incredible person just going through a life altering event but I stuck by him for two months in misery. In the end we mutually decided to take time off so he could focus on his healing and so I could focus on myself and dating other people. It was the best decision and although I still have hope that he and I could work out in the near future, I’m trying to stay present and work on myself while being open to new possibilities.
This is perfect oh my God
O my gowwwd! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ - THIS! 100%!!
Thank you sooo much!!!
Love it!
Thank you sweetie...you make my day
All your videos are really helpful thankyou 💕
I'm so glad!
So reliable 💕
Thank you for this video, Sabrina. Like always, this was really helpful, and I am a huge fan
I'm so glad!
I appreciate and thank you so much for doing all these videos.
My pleasure!
bravo!!!
This is really insightful..thank u so much for explaining in such detail. I felt like u literally watched me go through this very exact phase. Can you please make more videos on becoming more secure and not stressing about fantasized relationship, rewire our mind to overcome from this behaviour.
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Thank you so much. I needed this. It is soo hard to not show I care but I need to .. Thank you again.
You are so welcome
You are a savior!
Currently getting to know someone and I have felt everything you said, but I've caught myself and have been trying to process why there is unhealthy care. Childhood wounds come up and am able to sit with it. I also am trying to ask myself, "why do I want to text this? Is it for validation or genuine care?" Your video is helpful
Glad it helped!
Thanks a lot, you are amazing ❣️
You're welcome 😊
Thank you very much for your advice.
May God bless you and family.
With love from Malaysia.
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This is exactly what I need to hear whenever I get pissed off with someone I am talking to online for a year but haven't upgraded his level yet and still always replies very slow. I feel good when he texta but feel anxious when he doesn't. Its painful to go through this especially when you haven't met in person yet and you don't wanna dump him yet to test the waters but gets pissed off with how things are so stagnant.
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Thanks u hv saved mi
🙏🙏🙏just when I needed you😔
The right relationship just shouldn't be that difficult. If you're doing things that don't feel right, if you have to change yourself for him to like or love you, if he puts you down or never gives you a compliment, MOVE ON SISTER! He's just not worth it. He will break your heart in a second, and he won't even look back. Take back the power! You're Sooo worth it!! P.S. We're not the problem. There are just so many dick heads and abusive idiots out there. And they all seem to have such complicated set ups with being "separated', 'almost divorced', that's just a huge red flag right there! Beware!!
I’m 100% in the caring way to much area now, I will stop it now!
My relationship is crumbling but I will fix that 💜
Did you?
Going thru the damage case right now
😲😲😲😲😲😲 Sabrina girllll you just stepped me off the ledge 😂.You said a whole lotttttttttt in short amount of time. YOU HAVE LIBERATED MEEEEEEE. God bless you ❤
what i learned in relationship is , if it’s the right person who reciprocates your feelings , you get assurance, stability , consistency instantly , things are clear and are never hard, things go smoothly
Do you my sister ??? You just described it 100 percent.. she can’t be alone and is not herself anymore . I miss her :(
OMG...where were you 5 years ago !! Hhhh glad that i found your channel now🤩💪
I need this to remind me everyday.
Thank you Sabrina. You look so beautiful in this video!
Aw thank you!
What song is this haha it’s so good
hmmm if the guy is into you, every care and concern you show is greatly appreciated and reciprocated
You put so much effort in creating this content.. how do you everything that has happened to me??? I wish you were my bestie😁
The damaged case has happened to me too.
I watched your video...love it! Here's my issue...he looks to the future as "it's not going to work" due to past failed relationships...he has been hurt so many times, in a traumatic way, loves with everything he is and has, but he is in love with me as I am him! I am supportive of him trying to heal of his last relationship 4.5 years ago, and we are really close and best friends. Can you give me some advice as to what else I can do?
Susan Chandler
Admittedly, through your Love Formula program I was able to truly shift my mindset on dating and am just an overall less stressed woman now!
Awesome!! So happy to hear it!
omg when you were talking about the faze about ecd or whatever you called it thats exactly me, he has alot of family problems and i just have an urge to keep helping him and being there for him, but he broke up with me cause he doesnt feel like himself and thats making him not contected to loving me i mean you cant love someone if you have lost yourself, but i keep texting him cause i want to help but then he airs me and it makes me feel like did he ever love me or was it all fake. and i dont know what to do but i love him so much
OMG! So me!! In everything you said-I am a mess!
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You are speaking to my soul! I knew better & I still did it lol now I feel stupid & extremely embarrassed for my pressuring needy behavior. I feel like I wanna contact him & apologize for that but I know I'm not supposed to contact him at all lol ugh... this shit sucks 😕😂
Tell me about it. Not doing it again either. Had enough of the bullshit. If this is the 'man of today' who appear to be emotional basket cases, count me out. I have better things to do with my time than to coddle a man's fragile emotions. Honestly.
I'm 63, own my own home, own my own car and have a good income. No biological clock ticking here for me to be concerned with. Just thought it would be nice to have a man in my life again. Boy! Was I wrong about that! I am thoroughly miffed.
You make it all so clear. Thank you :)
It’s always the case for me right into my marriage and it never pays off.
I love you Sabrina :( thanks so much
I LOVE SABRINA MORE
You just explained my last relationship to the T
Let's say a relationship went down exactly as you described (the accuracy in fact is almost terrifying)... How do we get such an ex back? Is it possible at all? What steps do we take? No contact, I would guess, but what comes after that?
Sabrina gave several examples in the video, including of a "damage case", which one is yours? As a general rule, be prepared for and be prepared to be fine with it if he never comes back. Work on yourself, work on being complete and satisfied with yourself. Keep busy, chase passions and hobbies, spend time with friends. The sort of relationship that is best is where two people walk together - not where you need someone to "be complete" (it's nice to have someone, but you don't) and not lost in the fantasies of what should be or what could be. From me personally (a lot of females, perhaps Sabrina included, might disagree) I'd say let him you know you're still interested and then go on with your life. Either he will take you up on your offer or he won't. Chasing him down and trying to force him back into a relationship would not work in the end and be a nightmare for you, if you're tempted, DONT. If he doesn't come back (if I can be snarky, if he's not smart enough to see your value) there are zillions of guys who will, and the best way to meet them is to be living your life and see who shows up in it. I wish you happiness either way you go!
Great advice hun, I've learned alot listening to this thank you 👍👍😊❤
I was seen at my worst but she seemed so caring that I thought she would forgive my fall from grace if I definitively started showing up as a man on the mend.
The jury is still out on the answer to that question.
I don't yet know if it's still possible to recover from that kind of loss?
Can you please put the subtitles on thanks sister x.