8 Signs He'll NEVER, EVER Commit to You No Matter How Badly You Want It

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • This video covers 8 signs he will never commit.
    Want him to make him CRAVE a commitment to you (even if he's currently acting distant, difficult or disinterested right now)? Learn how at: www.makehimcraveyou.com/
    Will he ever commit? The thought that he will never commit can drive a cold spike of fear through any woman when she's excited for a relationship to unfold with a man but things seem to be stalling.
    To answer will he commit or not, you need to understand what it is that makes a man commit. Commitment has different motivations for men than it does for women and if you don't understand this, you may unknowingly have sabotaged his desire to be committed to you.
    Understanding the signs he will never commit also gives you an understanding of how to get him to commit since you'll understand what must be there in your relationship in order to get him to commit.
    You can't necessarily make him commit if he's willfully opposed to commitment, but fortunately this is very few men how are explicitly closed off to commitment. And no, you don't have to do anything wacky like get him to commit by walking away (I object to the idea that you can make him commit by walking away, though being WILLING to walk away from a relationship that isn't what you want is a requirement to have commitment, ironically).
    Hope you liked the video and I hope it helps you! If you liked it, it would be really cool if you could leave a Like & Comment (it really helps me out).
    Also, if you have any questions, please feel free to ask them here in the comments! I read all of them and I try to reply to as many as I'm able to as well.
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Комментарии • 153

  • @SabrinaBendory
    @SabrinaBendory  3 года назад +7

    Want him to make him CRAVE a commitment to you (even if he's currently acting distant, difficult or disinterested right now)? Learn how at: www.makehimcraveyou.com/

  • @duchessofpotatoland
    @duchessofpotatoland 3 года назад +122

    SUMMARY
    1. You don't know anything real about him 2:22
    2. He disappears for days or weeks at a time 4:22
    3. He tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now 6:23
    4. He's a mess 9:15
    5. It's all about the physical 12:08
    6. He avoids future talk 13:47
    7. You are fundamentally incompatible 14:31
    8. You feel it in your gut 15:50
    Hope it helps. ☘️
    By the way, happy holiday everyone and Merry Christmas. Stay safe wherever you are. 🎄⛄

    • @nicolem.1028
      @nicolem.1028 3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much! Hope you and your loved ones have a nice Christmas as well ☺️

    • @hava4496
      @hava4496 3 года назад

      But what if point 1-2 does not apply and 2-8 does

    • @1ofnoother
      @1ofnoother 3 года назад +4

      Thought I'd share this, because it can be a manipulative trap. Being emotionally open is NOT the same as being emotionally available. Had a guy that was very open with me and from the start, saying I'm the only one he shared his "deepest, darkest, most tightly held secret." Also shared his hopes, dreams, fears, ambitions, etc with me. We talked about building a relationship of substance, he seemed open about his "feelings and issues" which made me think he wasn't playing mind games, but turns out that's exactly what he was doing. He was lying to me the whole time, telling partial truths while omitting things, hitting on different girls including his ex and another whom he slept with behind my back and lied about (he lied to her too, she and I had no idea about each other until I found out). Don't fall for it just because they share things with you or even say they want to be with you, it isn't always because they're interested in being together. It is a manipulation tactic like those teenage rom-coms tropes where the jock feigns interest to use the girl for his own agenda. If their actions don't match their words, don't make empathetic excuses and try to help them (he basically told me he was suicidal and kept using some form of that such as severe depression and stress to excuse bad behavior every time I called him out on his poor behavior). If they don't want to date you, you'd think they'd agree with you to break it off, but they don't and will use these excuses to gaslight and manipulate you into staying.

    • @hilaryemueller
      @hilaryemueller 3 года назад

      @@dilarafataliyeva2904 I’m feeling this now. You aren’t alone. Unfortunately he ended things with me but watching this made it make more sense.

    • @erinntay
      @erinntay 3 года назад +2

      @@dilarafataliyeva2904 Awww☹️ I promise you this....it...will...get...easier
      Maybe not every day...but every week that passes...you will get over him ❤️ when you catch yourself thinking about him...STOP, do something! Anything! Wash the dishes, clean your bathroom...ANYTHING
      Reprogram your mind 😘 it will pass and you will be ok I promise!

  • @sweetlikechocolate437
    @sweetlikechocolate437 3 года назад +24

    I'd rather be alone than be with a guy who isn't interested in me. I have been on my own for nearly 10 years.

    • @dirons81
      @dirons81 3 года назад

      I think that's where my mind is at! I just had my birthday and I'm tired of being alone! I know we are in a pandemic but geez!

    • @an-cool1092
      @an-cool1092 3 года назад

      Same here..

  • @michellemohammed195
    @michellemohammed195 3 года назад +19

    Thank you for all you have done during 2020! We look forward to more from you next year.

  • @kimberlyhensley9596
    @kimberlyhensley9596 3 года назад +16

    Sabrina first Congrats on the baby bump!! Thanks for another great video. This is the video I truly needed right now. Found a great guy but I have been feeling like I didn't know where he was in this relationship. You just verified my gut is not wrong. 😥😥. Thanks for all you do

  • @Jooney91
    @Jooney91 3 года назад +17

    Great video, I like that you explain also reasons why. From my own experience I can confirm that these signs are true. Recently I started to date one guy and it finally feels right. I've just accepted who he is and what he can offer, without thinking I will be that one special girl in his life. He is not afraid to plan future with me and I really can tell he supports me. I can enjoy simple things with him because I don't think about what ifs all the time. So girls, listen to Sabrina, really, and don't overthink it, just enjoy present moment.

  • @kgs2280
    @kgs2280 3 года назад +71

    If he tells you “I love you, but I’m not in love with you”, he’s not going to commit. He’s just having fun with you. Time to move on.

    • @dirons81
      @dirons81 3 года назад +1

      Thanks maybe it's time ( my kids love him though)

    • @kgs2280
      @kgs2280 3 года назад +1

      @@dirons81, I’m sorry that they’ll have to have that pain of separation, but you have to do it in order to be a healthy, whole, mother for them. They’ll see that you’re a better, happier mother after you’ve had some time apart from him and have been able to heal some (a lot, I hope!). I wish you, and your kids, all the best. And, please keep yourself safe during your leaving. Many men are very unpredictable at that time. If he’s mean, it might be best to not tell him, and leave when he’s not at home. And don’t fall for it if he contacts you crying and begging for you to come back. They don’t like losing their easy playthings, and will say almost anything to get you back. Then, if you go back, he’ll just start the same old mistreatment again. Just remember, why would you want to go go back to a man who says he’s not in love with you? What’s in it for you if he’s just using you? And if he’s not in love with you and he’s using you, he probably has at least one other woman on the side. He’s got his cake and is eating it, too. You don’t need that, and you certainly don’t deserve that. Please drop me another comment here about a month after you’ve left to let me know you’re safe, and, hopefully, beginning to heal from the pain of the breakup, and feeling much freer and happier. Good luck. You can do this if you know there’s no future there. You don’t want to live as someone’s play toy. ❤️

    • @dirons81
      @dirons81 3 года назад +1

      @@kgs2280 I already left their my kids father cause of his lies ( now we co parent alright together) as far as the guy I am in love with idk I love him and right now thou I don't feel like I should date idk I just got a new job so I'm foucing on that (I love it)

    • @kgs2280
      @kgs2280 3 года назад

      @@dirons81, thanks for following up. I’m glad to hear you’re doing well. It sounds like you’re doing the best thing for you and your kids by focusing on work (and at a job you love - that’s wonderful!) and getting your life together. Take care of you and your kids FIRST and think about another guy later. Believe me when I say there are plenty out there! You’ll have more to bring to the table in a relationship if you get YOUR life in order first, and you’ll want only a better man after you’ve made your own life better. Good luck!

    • @maitsab5203
      @maitsab5203 3 года назад +1

      True that lol

  • @ntombimngomezulu2031
    @ntombimngomezulu2031 3 года назад +4

    There's no better way to say it and this is the honest truth. you nailed it. Thank you

  • @miguelap.5626
    @miguelap.5626 3 года назад +15

    You help millions of women with your advices. Thank you so much.

  • @toni1457
    @toni1457 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for being real and telling it how it is
    You are awesome and congratulations on being blessed a third time.

  • @E.Nobody
    @E.Nobody 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for another amazing video and congratulations on your new little bundle of joy! 💙 I hope you and your family have a merry Christmas and happy new years💙 take care of yourself 💙

  • @nicolec7807
    @nicolec7807 3 года назад +15

    OMG perfect video! Needed to hear that as confirmation for what I’m experiencing with this particular guy! You’re the best! Love your videos. They’re always informative!❤️

  • @sharnteedwards7068
    @sharnteedwards7068 2 года назад +4

    I don't feel the sign "look at his actions" is true. I dated a guy who was consistent, stepped up with my wants and needs etc for a straight 3 months and then when i asked as I started to gain feelings, about where this was going, he then proceeded to say he doesn't want a relationship. So I was a convenience for him to just casually date. This guy chased me and then I gave in, I started to invest as well (not as much as he did and I still got hurt.

  • @veronicaarandavernet5495
    @veronicaarandavernet5495 2 года назад +1

    ‌Wow, it's amazing how RUclips always knows what to recommend me. This is just what I needed to hear right now although it hurts a little. Thanks for sharing your amazing advice!

  • @dyslexiahelpforallages4176
    @dyslexiahelpforallages4176 2 года назад +2

    Awww. Loved this. Thank you. Found some good insight. The man I was thinking about wants to get his career in place and a home before starting a relationship again. I didn't understand that and it's nice to hear it validated as a real thing instead of "he's just not that into me." (Which I was wondering). Also potential incompatibles..... and "not a relationship right now." Looking forward to checking out your other videos and book.

  • @melonsdoesvr3775
    @melonsdoesvr3775 3 года назад +26

    He straight up told me he wants to be in a better place in life before getting serious. And that he doesn’t want to get hurt. We have fun when we are together. And we talk everyday. I love our friendship. I also want more and am not willing to lose what we already have.

  • @dolcenina28
    @dolcenina28 3 года назад +13

    Thank you for this video exactly what I needed to hear right now.

  • @DianaDimSP
    @DianaDimSP 3 года назад

    A really great video! Love your talks, you are really knailing it! Thank you Sabrina!

  • @syntheticsol
    @syntheticsol 3 года назад +5

    You do have a book, as you should. Great, can't wait to read it.

  • @marlenelacamera82
    @marlenelacamera82 3 года назад +4

    You are absolutely right! Thank you ,😊

  • @eddajustice8345
    @eddajustice8345 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for your constructive thoughts and advice

  • @JuliaKalvik
    @JuliaKalvik 3 года назад +4

    I needed to hear this. Thank you❤️

  • @bonniemac8479
    @bonniemac8479 2 года назад +2

    I agree it’s my fault, His actions do not exist at All!!! He has said he doesn’t have time for a relationship… he’s hot and cold. Buuuttt I feel he likes me. With other men I have had that gut feeling he doesn’t feel as I do, at that point I have zero problem walking away… But with him I’ve never had that feeling. I wish I did so it would be easier. I think he wants to be with me but doesn’t want his ex to know he has a girlfriend… because she threatens to take his business from him also he may still have feelings for her. He wants his cake and to eat it too. I have not gone to see him in 1 year but he still reaches out 2/3 X a month. I have him blocked now.

  • @laurarendon8359
    @laurarendon8359 2 года назад +1

    It’s crazy because he shared a lot with me. I got to know him pretty well in a matter of weeks. He insinuated everything. The dates, confessed feelings first and everything. Then breaks up with me a day after a date.

    • @lindamoody9561
      @lindamoody9561 2 года назад +1

      Write him off and move on you deserve better than that jerk.

  • @andreajorgensen2051
    @andreajorgensen2051 3 года назад +8

    this made me feel content because he does the opposite of all of these

  • @beeftujatani1364
    @beeftujatani1364 3 года назад +32

    No more waisting my time 🙄. 2021 is coming

  • @ssy8026
    @ssy8026 3 года назад +2

    That's the first video I am watching from you and wow you are an expert !

  • @Nysi_Chang
    @Nysi_Chang 3 года назад +11

    A lot of time, us woman have to put in requirements when it comes to dating or starting a relationship because if we don’t, our “ guy “ is going to feel as if he has other options. An that’s not a good sign. If you have to, write down some requirements on a piece of paper & y’all have a conversation about them together but, I must warn you. Please do this BEFORE you get your “ serious “ feelings in with the person. If your requirements don’t match his, don’t ignore it. It’s just not meant to be. Even if he was cool, sexy, has his self together etc. don’t push for something that isn’t there. Just let it be & move on because it’s only going to get worse from here on. Do not ignore the red flags! I repeat, DO NOT IGNORE THE RED FLAGS!!!

  • @NoorAhmad-gd7ok
    @NoorAhmad-gd7ok 3 года назад +3

    Thank youuuu so helpful💛

  • @susmitaghimire2484
    @susmitaghimire2484 Год назад

    You are the creator of your own reality so everyone will do the things we want them to do, they will commit everyone will commit if you want 🙏

  • @bikerknits4540
    @bikerknits4540 2 года назад

    Thank you for an honest post.

  • @marmel4086
    @marmel4086 3 года назад +4

    Congrats on the soon to be #3!!

  • @isabelsalas7124
    @isabelsalas7124 3 года назад +5

    Finally, a woman that helps me understand how the heck men acts and thinks and vice versa. And I like how you're so open about it. Sometimes we need to be talked to like this so we stop idealizing and fantasizing. I guess it's not as complicated as it seems when you put it that way. Men are just pretty straight forward. It is what it is and as it is! Thanks!

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад +1

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      Whstapp me

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      +1 9-7-2 5 3 4-8 3 9 9

  • @dirons81
    @dirons81 3 года назад +5

    This guy I really like and I haven't been out since October and idk I just don't want to seem like a pushy person
    Thanks for the videos

    • @dirons81
      @dirons81 3 года назад

      I love these videos keep them coming please

  • @TheSabiha317
    @TheSabiha317 3 года назад +7

    For steps going forward, how should the girl go about addressing this to the guy and ending things on good term? Or do you think when the topic comes up that’s when the girl should say something? I’m in this similar situation with this guy that I’m seeing excepts he says he wants to work towards a relationship but is exhibiting the behaviors mentioned in this video. I really like him but I don’t think it’s a good idea for us to date at least rn because he’s trying to get his life together and he’s not investing in me as much .

  • @andreanavrg4415
    @andreanavrg4415 2 года назад

    Very helpful video!
    Thanks a lot!💯
    Time to move

  • @auzzyangel1
    @auzzyangel1 3 года назад +3

    I love your videos thank you.

  • @lukwagolatif964
    @lukwagolatif964 2 года назад

    Thanks so much great video everyone want to hear this

  • @shradhaanand5762
    @shradhaanand5762 3 года назад +1

    Your videos and emails are awesome.

  • @itssdayja1632
    @itssdayja1632 3 года назад +8

    Thank you

  • @ravenstillwaters5195
    @ravenstillwaters5195 3 года назад +2

    You are so articulate love you videos.

  • @kellyteahuahu15
    @kellyteahuahu15 3 года назад +4

    My guy has a child under 7
    He does do #2 and #8
    2. He disappears for days or weeks or a month at a time 4:22
    8. I feel it in my gut 15:50 ( due to disappointment)
    My man has never done the below following with me:
    1. I don't know anything real about him 2:22
    3. He tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now 6:23 ( but he insisted we should be in one since it’s his idea 💡)
    4. He's a mess 9:15 ( He has no problem here)
    5. It's all about the physical 12:08
    6. He avoids future talk 13:47 ( he always talks about the future with me in it with him )
    7. You are fundamentally incompatible 14:31
    So HELP
    how do I resolve this?

  • @nondumisonkosi2346
    @nondumisonkosi2346 3 года назад +4

    Im in a mess relationship his always busy,he doesn't have time for woman so why his in relationship yooh his acting like im the one who wanted to date him.
    I like your video like serious and your letters on my e-mail you help me a lot thank you so much I know about him now

  • @georgianamataoanu2799
    @georgianamataoanu2799 3 года назад +4

    Hello, Sabrina! If I am în NC shoud i answer if he send me messages for The holidays?

  • @lukwagolatif964
    @lukwagolatif964 2 года назад

    True most guys pretend to be in love with but keeping telling to wait until we get married but already using you that's to bad and hurts a lot and support you financially only telling you to wait until we get married

  • @AnnMarks
    @AnnMarks 3 года назад +9

    Omg! I was so stupid: he has been so committed to me, but I doubted everything. An eye-opening video.

    • @tabithatierney6512
      @tabithatierney6512 3 года назад +3

      How is it going with him? Were you wrong on your doubts? I second guess myself sometimes but I need to quit it or I won't ever open up to anyone and I need to move past that and the doubts!

    • @AnnMarks
      @AnnMarks 3 года назад +3

      @@tabithatierney6512 it was a long time ago. Could have been something special. Now we live in different countries.

  • @raularmas317
    @raularmas317 3 года назад +4

    The only thing holding me back from letting her know that I am sure that I love her and want to commit is returning the complement of being able to hold space for her as she once did for me.
    What could possibly get between us and personal and professional success if we are both willing to be vulnerable and available to each other to listen in a non-judgemental and non-overwhelming way simply acknowledging one another's inherent right to feel as we each do?

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Why did I overlook all of these?! When we met he brought up sex immediately but backed out saying he was drunk when he said it. He said he doesn’t have time right now? He has too much going on. But then he says he’s where he wants to be and everything is going well in his life. Then he starts to build the emotional foundation, says he sees me as a part of his life, he talks of how well I would get along with his family. He says all the right things. We have chemistry and same values… but he despises the word marriage….I want marriage. Neither of us been married before. I told him after him being sporadic that I believe we want different things. I’m wanting long term and not sure what he wants but being slow to respond on his days off work doesn’t work for me. Now he’s responding very quickly. Maybe just to reel me in again with his mixed signals.
    Yes it is very scary…putting our hearts ♥️ on the line and we aren’t sure of his intentions

  • @melodytan6802
    @melodytan6802 3 года назад +3

    So much agree with u. He suddenly changed his outlook and no longer wanted to commit as he told me. I don't know if it means he no longer love me or what. But i understand it, at least he is being honest and he doesn't want to waste my time either.. that i can move on even if it is still painful

  • @yannaportu7169
    @yannaportu7169 Год назад

    Thanks for this video. I've met a guy , he rarely text. He said doesn't like texting. He only text if he wants to see me. After 20 days without communication. Wants to see me without a plan ahead. I feel like I'm his last option on his schedule. And not that much interested ,he is too busy.
    I've wasted my time thinking about him.

  • @normalunicorn4934
    @normalunicorn4934 3 года назад +3

    I agree on this 🥲

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 3 года назад +2

    I am and do number 5 . I enjoy her company, she says I'm to old for her. So I respect her for that. What do you think?

  • @balconygardenfairy
    @balconygardenfairy 3 года назад

    Thank you ❤️

  • @rainorshine118
    @rainorshine118 3 года назад +2

    Exactly!

  • @catalinasarbach5651
    @catalinasarbach5651 2 года назад

    We love you from Argentina!

  • @windyrainStorm
    @windyrainStorm 3 года назад +4

    He consistently date me every week, we text, and keeps offering of picking me up and driving me home from school and work specially this winter. Been seeing him for 3.5 months now. When I told him I wanted to be dated properly, like when a man take me out to do activities together. Then later he said, he is not in the place to commit. But few days later, he invites me for dinner like him cooking (which he never does) this winter he asked me out for coffee and a hammock in the mountain with city view and last night took me out in the mountains while in the car having our hot chocolate drink and drove me home. Im torn of letting him go and walking away or stay and just enjoy his company. Because once he told me the reason he does not want to commit is that he is scared of lossing someone again and he knows I am applying to another university which is not in his city.

    • @TinfoilHatGirl
      @TinfoilHatGirl 3 года назад +3

      Have you asked him whether switching up things is because he changed his mind? If he says the same again like I am scared of loss it is the same as saying I don't want a relationship right now. Then you should take it as that. Imho "scared of loss" is just an excuse because some men know it makes them look more sensitive. But be assured if the RIGHT GIRL crossed his path being scared of loss would vanish within a heartbeat. (it is the same like when men say they are not ready for marriage, becoming a dad and women wait and wait and waste precious time and then they finally break up just to see them walking around as the most proud baby daddies with their NEXT who they married and all within less than a year after breaking up)

    • @windyrainStorm
      @windyrainStorm 3 года назад

      @@TinfoilHatGirl I never bring up that question again. Thank you for the advice 😘 I think I should just pull back a bit because I keep saying yes whenever he asked me out.

  • @annwurch9651
    @annwurch9651 3 года назад

    Sucks that I have moved in with him and we act like a couple when alone but hidden when out... he says stuff like meant to be together etc and yet he still wont commit

  • @kpowrescuepupper
    @kpowrescuepupper 3 года назад +4

    I was dating a guy for 2.5 months. He didn't want anything serious, apparently. We had never talked about it, but when I asked him about being serious, he freaked. Then he told me our political views were too different. Which I thought was shallow. I have wonderful friends of many different political beliefs. So I thought it was strange that he said that. I had even offered to help him volunteer at his local political headquarters. I've done 30 days of no contact. I called him, no answer. He called back 5 hrs later. He didn't seem very interested in talking, but we did chat for about 15 min. We had so much fun together, but now he strikes me as entitled and shallow. I'm having a hard time not thinking about him, however...bc of the fun we had. Should I give up on this relationship?

    • @Jooney91
      @Jooney91 3 года назад +5

      Definitely move on. You will find someone who will accept you and you'll have fun together as well. Don't worry.

  • @butterfly2332
    @butterfly2332 2 года назад +1

    Thank u

  • @reeseorr2663
    @reeseorr2663 3 года назад +1

    he broke up with me over the phone two days ago. We fought because he never told me he was planning to move an hour away for college. He doesn't tell me anything about his day unless I ask. He never communicates, I feel like I don't know him. He told me on the phone he can't figure out my life with me in it, that I am making him choose between playing football in college and me, even though I only said I don't think this will work anymore if he can't even tell me important things in his life. He then said he would let me know in a couple weeks if he wants to date me again or not, yelled at me to stop hyperventilating (he was not crying or upset at all) and he loves me. Every six months he starts a problematic fight about stuff that he internalized and did not address with me and then tells me he needs a break from me for awhile. Then after he comes back everything is fine. He will slowly start pulling away again and then it finally hits the fan six months later and its all about how he cant stand me for this laundry list of reasons he never told me were a problem. What am I supposed to do now?

    • @KP-mw6cx
      @KP-mw6cx 2 года назад +1

      Date someone who has a secure attachment. You deserve all the love you want & need. “When you remove the people in your life who don’t want to be there, you make room for the person who does.” Life is short, move on from this guy (even though it might be hard), and go live your best life. ❤️

  • @memelove3640
    @memelove3640 2 года назад

    At times I wish I could put all my memories into movie form and ask others what they think cause I do feel like I might be missing something about my relationship I've been with the same guy for about 13 years had a baby we weren't able to keep and been living together(with and without his friends) and he says he loves me but no ring....we have so many memories....ik he has feeling for me but is it true love

  • @dubongros3108
    @dubongros3108 3 года назад +3

    There is just a detail missing Sabrina . Age ! The guy who is wishy washy about commitment is 18 or 34 ? As for men being affraid to appear weak ... Damn right we are ! This is the inspiration for 99 % of the insults guys throw at other guys routinely .

    • @an-cool1092
      @an-cool1092 3 года назад

      Age does not matter, I have experienced this last year. I was talking to a guy of 33 age. But he was wishy washy. But yes many men who are stable and ready for serious commitment often fall for a women quickly.

  • @plainprivacy4562
    @plainprivacy4562 3 года назад

    Hi Sabrina, What about if he checks like 3 of the points?

  • @eviek1122
    @eviek1122 3 года назад +4

    Sabrina, what are the relationship milestones and about how long should each one be up until marriage?

  • @reicewells7483
    @reicewells7483 3 года назад +3

    I love you ❤️💕

  • @Gigilovehugs
    @Gigilovehugs 3 года назад +2

    How do I know if a man is taking his mask off?

  • @cherierobinson8713
    @cherierobinson8713 3 года назад +3

    Yes! Your so right! Thank you!

  • @davidkelly3822
    @davidkelly3822 3 года назад +12

    I'm only interested in commitment-

  • @thisismetoday7423
    @thisismetoday7423 2 года назад

    Doesn’t number 1 take time though? Just because he doesn’t open up and get vulnerable right away it doesn’t mean he will never get there or never commit?

  • @TheSabiha317
    @TheSabiha317 3 года назад +2

    What if he says he wants to work towards a relationship? But he’s still showing the behavior mentioned in this video.

    • @NaomiMarie1130
      @NaomiMarie1130 3 года назад

      Classic dangling a carrot to keep you around for the assets/benefits. Any updates? Has he committed yet?

  • @jaclynreitmeier1715
    @jaclynreitmeier1715 3 года назад +1

    So I had a talk with a guy last night about moving the once a week hookups forward to a relationship. We touched on it a few months back as well but I wasn't ready to commit at that time. I was seeing a bunch of guys and I didn't know who I wanted to be with. So when we talked about it a few months ago he said he likes me, he likes spending time with me but he knows there's other guys and he doesn't want to be the jealous type and force me into a relationship I'm not ready for. He also pointed out that he didn't want one because he believes he's an asshole and that he doesn't deserve to be happy.
    Flash forward to last night I brought it up again. I told him he's the only one I've been sleeping with lately and that I'd like to move this forward. He said that as much as he likes me he wants to just keep things the way they are which is pretty much bf gf but without the title and only seeing eachother about once a week lol. I also should add that he takes a Uber to see me every week which costs him $20 each way. He also said that relationships with him are messy and he doesn't want to ruin what we got going. I pointed out that I could end up dating someone else then and then he would lose me. He said that's fine.
    We've been seeing eachother since August. When we met he said the last time he had sex was 2 and half years ago. I think his last relationship was like 3 years ago but I'm pretty sure his ex messed him up good. He's amazing in bed and seems like he has a world of confidence in bed but outside of that he's shy and not very confident. He's a super nice guy. He's met one of my friends and they got along great. When I left his house last night I said maybe I'll see you in a few weeks. We kissed goodbye. Normally we just part ways but he gave me a few kisses before I left then told me to text him when I get home to let him know I made it safely. That was also new. After our talk I was going to sleep over so I had rolled over to go to sleep and I could tell he was doing some serious thinking at that point then grabbed his phone because suddenly he had a song stuck in his head lol. So after we watched the music video I said I should go home. A snow storm was coming and I told him I don't want to have to brush snow off my car in the morning. So I left instead of staying over. Sigh not sure what to do here...

    • @Loulou0673
      @Loulou0673 3 года назад +2

      if he is fine with losing you......let him go.....seriously

    • @jaclynreitmeier1715
      @jaclynreitmeier1715 3 года назад

      @@Loulou0673 not entirely sure if he is actually ok with losing me lol

    • @Jooney91
      @Jooney91 3 года назад +1

      Don't think about it this much. If he will change his mind during these next few days (since you told him things to think about for sure), you will find out bc he'll tell you. And if he won't, then it's up to you whether you want to see him just for sex and not expecting you being serious couple ever or you don't want to continue at all and move on.

    • @Nysi_Chang
      @Nysi_Chang 3 года назад +1

      That’s where you’ve messed up smh idk why ppl keep doing this. Require for a relationship FIRST!!! Before you have sex with the person. Don’t give away all the great sex or have great sex then catch feelings to where, you want a “ relationship now “ because 9x out of 10, it’s not going to work. You gave the person everything they’ve wanted & even plus more so, there’s really nothing to look forward to if that’s all you were bringing to the table in the first place. You’ve already let them know in their minds that, “ that’s all you had to offer “ so, they’re going to keep you in that place. If that’s all you’ve signed up to be in the beginning then, let it be just that but, NEVER GIVE UP THE GOODS IF YOU SEE THE PERSON AS RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL. let them work for it by getting to know you to see if you can take things much farther THEN if it works in your favor, build a relationship then have sex. Because the person who crave you more if you do it that way. They will begin to feeling you on both on a physical & emotional level & plus more if you don’t start things off with just sex. Cause now if you mention this to the person that “ you now want a relationship “ prepare yourself for possible changes & some heartbreak.
      Never every do that again. Because you’re only setting yourself up for failure.

  • @ralukafit5064
    @ralukafit5064 3 года назад +1

    I made a few of these mistakes :(

  • @isaacasimov9532
    @isaacasimov9532 10 месяцев назад +1

    OMG! This was amazing! My grandma met my grandpa in a fishing expedition and they got married! All thanks to this video ❤ thank you so much 🙏

  • @thetechfella1
    @thetechfella1 3 года назад +1

    Noticed in a previous video that her left eyelid goes down before the right one
    I can't pause her vids now

  • @artistheart5272
    @artistheart5272 2 года назад

    Ok, I feel stupid for looking this stuff up but I can’t find the words so I need help.
    I was married 25 years…
    Lost my husband in a tragedy over 4 years ago…
    Starting dating this man 3 years ago..I’m with him every weekend for 2 years .. (he lives 10 mins away)…
    Anyway I’m getting burned out on the back and forth (for me) every weekend ..
    he’s talked about marriage before but it’s been over a year ago.. now he never talks about it..
    It rips my heart out every Sunday to leave and go back home. We live in our own house, have good jobs and grown children except his 20 yr old daughter that still lives at home and barely works… like “omg I hurt the tip of my finger and don’t want to go to my job at the pet store today.. “.. she’s sweet but that drives me nuts..
    I have 3 big dogs - we both have acreage and plenty of space in our houses but his daughter has made comments that “ omg like what would you do w your dogs if you and dad live together?” Stupid commits like that irritates me.. we get along but she leaves drinks and food around and I clean up after them.. like ALL THE TIME..
    Anyway we have crazy deep love and chemistry … but I’m to the point to where I’m like where is this going???
    Are we just going to date and screw and hang out on weekends?
    I cook really well and make dinners for him and clean his whole house .. if I need him to do anything for me I have to literally pout or make a scene … whatever.
    And we do stay in touch but he’s a builder and under a lot of pressure at work during the week - I’m ok w texts and calls during the week but it’s to the point I’m getting sick of back and forth every weekend and pack up and unpack and pack up and unpack and live out of a suitcase every weekend.. it’s to the point I get stressed out and hurt when it’s time for me to go home and I just need the strength to say ENOUGH..
    I wasn’t raised to give all my love, cooking and legs to a guy on weekends… the. Go home during the week .. I feel like he thinks why commit to an engagement or something when she already brings herself on a silver platter every weekend then goes home..
    And like clockwork I’m back on weekends .. cook clean and screw ..
    I’m cool w it if I’m in a long term relationship..
    But this feels so u balanced and I feel like he married his ex’s bc she was pregnant ( 2 marriages & pregnancies btw) ..
    so now I’m 43 and no babies coming this way so what I’m just expected to drive my life back and forth every weekend and no words of affirmation on what the fck the future holds?? I mean damn am I wrong!!?
    He said tonight-
    “Well you been blowing up a lot lately and why would you think I want to put a ring on your finger when you’re causing me stress?”
    REALLY? Well maybe because IM STRESSED OUT BC YOU DONT TALK ABOUT OUR FUTURE!!!?
    Ugh..
    Ok rant over

    • @lizzieh431
      @lizzieh431 2 года назад

      This guy sounds really selfish for me. Imagine, if you really commit with him, how life will be like if he's such inconsiderate and self-centered? I also think his daughter is a product of his education, a reflection of his life attitudes and responsibilities.

  • @tmm4782
    @tmm4782 8 месяцев назад

    When a man says words like Me Me Me and I I I and never uses the word Us … he has no plans just wants to have fun

  • @tabithatierney6512
    @tabithatierney6512 3 года назад

    My guy says he can't get enough of me

  • @mayang8790
    @mayang8790 3 года назад +1

    What if you have that guts and how to open with him. Thanks

  • @davidsbranson6202
    @davidsbranson6202 3 года назад +4

    2 LANE HWY

  • @reicewells7483
    @reicewells7483 3 года назад +1

    I feel the same about if females want to have there act together but guys are not going to wait and that’s where I feel it double standard and or just uncouth 😩 I guess move on ?

  • @corafranklin7555
    @corafranklin7555 3 года назад +3

    How can I tell if the guy wants a relationship but works all the time and can’t text or call all the time but yet when’s he’s off he doesn’t text or call that much? He did ask me out though

    • @diamondmaitland5327
      @diamondmaitland5327 3 года назад

      same thing im going thru

    • @Chris-tg3qy
      @Chris-tg3qy 3 года назад +2

      IMO: He sounds like a guy that needs a lot of time devoted to work. If this has been going on for more than a couple of months then he doesn’t want a relationship. He is not positioning himself to be part of a couple right now. Any guy that works all of the time that is into you will find a way to reduce his hours to be with you or use most of his free time to connect.

    • @corafranklin7555
      @corafranklin7555 3 года назад

      We just started dating and he says he wants the relationship but when I ask for a simple text during day he says I’m asking to much. And plans get canceled a lot. He does live 2 hrs away

    • @Chris-tg3qy
      @Chris-tg3qy 3 года назад +4

      @@corafranklin7555 I kind of look at it this way. If he is acting like a simple text is too much, if he cancels plans plans too frequently and isn’t discussing how the two of you can make a long distance relationship work then you have to ask yourself if you want to be with someone who doesn’t make an effort.

    • @corafranklin7555
      @corafranklin7555 3 года назад

      Yea this is what I’m having trouble figuring out right now.. I told him I’m not dealing w games etc. when I tried to break up w him he was all distraught and was like I don’t want to lose you and did text a tad more but when I do see him it’s only for the night and sex always. Never just hold me and relqx

  • @lizzieh431
    @lizzieh431 2 года назад

    Do you also have videos talking about how to deal with the fear of commitment for a women 😂.

  • @anastasiamustika
    @anastasiamustika 3 года назад +5

    He's a mess

  • @pennyweeks1980
    @pennyweeks1980 3 года назад +1

    It happened to me and it’s hurt 😞

    • @xavierwoodley
      @xavierwoodley 3 года назад

      Think about the type of man that you want. Do you want a man that is masculine, affectionate, and a leader? Or do you want a "feminine" lad, that deep down you want to rule over? More women want a masculine looking man with a feminine mindset, because women have now wanted to rule 9ver men. Women don't like the word submissive, because they do not like not having any power. Ladies also hate the word submissive or submit because they are power hungry. What do you ladies truly desire?

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      Whstapp me

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      +1 9-7-2 5 3 4-8 3 9 9

  • @lebeaugirlone1
    @lebeaugirlone1 3 года назад +1

    dislike ebooks

  • @Hachi0419
    @Hachi0419 2 года назад

    I hate love

  • @shenogood
    @shenogood 2 года назад

    7 minutes in - hit a strike already.

  • @ieriabagaenzo4223
    @ieriabagaenzo4223 3 года назад +1

    Very happy 😍💋 💝💖♥️❤️

  • @victoriathompson2246
    @victoriathompson2246 3 года назад +1

    I wish I found you much earlier. I left him.

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      Whstapp me

    • @officialofficial9692
      @officialofficial9692 3 года назад

      +1 9-7-2 5 3 4-8 3 9 9

  • @How.Dare.You.
    @How.Dare.You. 2 года назад

    smart women are pragmatic and care if they have a job before they are ready for love. not smart dont care

  • @biancafontanella
    @biancafontanella 3 года назад +3

    She takes too long to start the subject

  • @ullchoenange4808
    @ullchoenange4808 3 года назад +1

    Hi Guys 😍💋 💝💖

  • @tonerholdulia4786
    @tonerholdulia4786 3 года назад +2

    Woow woow 😍💋 💝💖❤️

  • @fzzouraki8957
    @fzzouraki8957 3 года назад +3

    Thank you

  • @queenbee7895
    @queenbee7895 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you