The 6 Things That Makes Men Lose Interest... Immediately!
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
- This video covers the 6 things that make men lose interest in you immediately.
Want MORE? Join our newsletter and get our best, right in your email: www.anewmode.com/subscribe/
The topic of losing interest can come up at any point in a relationship.
Maybe you wonder, "Does he like me?" and in your effort to get him to like you, maybe you're doing something that makes him lose interest. Or maybe your boyfriend doesn't seem the same and you think you're seeing signs he doesn't want you anymore. Or maybe you're seeing what you think are signs your husband doesn't love you anymore.
It's important to recognize the signs that a man doesn't want you anymore, but it's even more important to know why a man will lose interest in the first place so you never even have to wonder about signs that a man don't want you anymore.
Hope you liked the video and I hope it helps you! If you liked it, it would be really cool if you could leave a Like & Comment (it really helps me out).
Also, if you have any questions, please feel free to ask them here in the comments! I read all of them and I try to reply to as many as I'm able to as well.
If you think your friends would like the video, please share it around and spread the word. And subscribe to the channel for more videos where we explain how love really works (so your love life really works!).
Join our newsletter here: www.anewmode.com/subscribe/
![J.P., NLE Choppa - Bad Bitty (Remix) [Official Music Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/rBDa6BCvw10/mqdefault.jpg)
Want MORE? Join our newsletter and get our best, right in your email: www.anewmode.com/subscribe/
Hope you liked the video! If you have any questions, comments or anything you want to share, let me know here! 😘
SUMMARY 🍃
1. Trying to win him over 1:50
2. Pushing an agenda on him 3:46
3. When you do all the work 7:32
4. Complaining 8:34
5. Talking excessively 10:50
6. When you're not interested in anything 13:21
Happy holiday, everyone. ☃️🌞
When a man comes to you he already knows what to do with you. So relax, if he's not doing it right it was his plan from the beginning just find someone who has good intentions.
Hi Sabrina 😀
I can't tell you how much you helped me this summer during quarantine. I discovered your channel in July after a hard break up, it was a short relationship lasted only two months but we had the greatest chemistry everrrrr I thought that's my husband right there. I rushed it and he freaked out and I didn't hear from him since but I think he genuinely liked me.
I watched each and every video on your channel like ten times, I think for the past 4 years in my life i have made every mistake you talked about LOL and I couldn't understand why nothing lasted ... I didn't know better!
I don't have an older sister or a mother to teach me anything about relationships so here you are doing that from the other half of globe
Thank you so much.. All love from Egypt ❤❤
Me too I met a great guy who I figured liked me almost like he was grateful to have met me. I liked him too and I thought well ahead of myself I started getting too close and talking about the future I even mentioned kids😆😆 he must of freaked out cus he didn’t call me again an he started to ignore me when I contact him, I finally got the hint to just back off for a min....so I’m stuck on the no-contact the moment,
I really want him to give me second chance to put things right and slow down an just enjoy the moment and just talk
In 2021 I’m hoping that women Spend more time on loving and building them self up and stop worrying about men
Sounds like I have to do a lot of hiding who I am to get a man to fall in love with me, and that’s a no. I love being negative.
Another winner, Sabrina!! You have this down! You have to act like you would act with any Man who your not that interested in. Or any friend that you would have.. A guy wants a friend first. Don't look at anyone as a potential life partner. Look for someone who has similar interests..And if you actually enjoy him, you won't need to try!!! Thanks so much for your absolute honesty!! Excellent advice!!!
I feel like Im hanging out with one of y close girlfriends when I get your advice ,youre so easy to hear out
Thanks Sabrina. This video is lifechaning advice for me. was thinking about setting a deadline for the 'friendship' but now I will just enjoy his company and let things escalate. its been a tough day for me
'focus on your life and enjoy the time with him when you see him!'
Glad it was helpful!
Well, this is totally me! Ugh...I really thought I was doing the right thing. Now I know to be more aware of my actions and to focus on me. When it's time, I guess it'll happen. Thank you Sabrina 😊
I totally agree with everything. It’s a lot to hear at once. It definitely needs to be heard. Thank you! I hope it’s not too late
It took me a while to realize that I am incapable of making anyone feel a certain way without their buy-in.
That was a huge step in begining to know, understand, and accept myself and others.
Thank you Sabrina.. Beautifully said.
Excellent information! Thank you soooooooo MUCH for it's simplicity. GOD bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏽
I was so lost in my relationship n then I found u it feels like god speaking to me through u xx
Sabrina #2 is not fair we can't waste time dating men and waiting for him to decide and eventually losing interest due to many ambiguous reasons... I personally found that if he isn't willing to commit and have a time-line for it then there is no need to waste my energy dating him . I give then a couple of dates maximum if not a phone call and date,if he can't decide whether to invest in our relationship ..I walk away
A couple of dates?? You sound controlling and unstable. There is a HUGE difference between a couple of dates and 6+ months. You're going to scare decent guys away and attract a toxic guy (narcs, abusive, etc.) who preys on females who want to rush into a relationship right away.
Great advice! x
Your explanations, on the whole, are seemingly very focused and lucid. According to one study in 2006 women used about 3x's as many words as men did.
You're doing fine. Solid relationships are very often about developing finesse over the course of one's dating life.
Your success as a RUclipsr speaks well of the way you present the topics you choose to cover.
When did love and relationships become so complex? How do we get to know each other with such skepticism? Tiresome!!...When all is said and done, what does men really want? Mix messages, mix messages! I'm exhausted...
Exahusted?...that makes two of us
Beautiful one. Thank you
Definitely gonna follow this up
Wellwood said that we love someone not only for what they are, but also for what they can be! That is a fact, but it is constantly misinterpreted, in order to justify the unhealthy approach to human relationships that you describe in your video! Great video...as always!!!
thank you so much for helping me during this time!
Thank's for such good advice.. Great video..
Hi Sabrina.,
I don’t know what I will do without your awesome awesome videos 🙏🙏
Great advice
Thanks for this
Love all your advice!!!! Look forward to your videos
This message came right on time! Thank you.💕
Same
Amazing this has been really helpful and will keep all of these things in mind now as I go on my next date this weekend! Don’t want to screw this up so this has been super helpful. Great tips and advice. I’m learning a lot from you. Thank you!!❤️
I did most of these things with a man i really liked. His interest drifted away. . In my defense it hadnt been long after my husband had died and I was still grieving. But I also was very nervous. I was married a couple of decades. Our relationship ended after a year and it was painful. But...it was hugely beneficial. I had a lot of self analysis after that and learned to be independent and confident. Mostly I realized I dont need a man to be happy, and I am a very capable person that likes herself. I learned that I will be fine no matter what happens.
But you sure hit the nail on the head with this.
Absolutely love your videos.. totally wisdom packed and such great advice about relationships ...thanks for sharing
Totally agree with all of these, and I've probably made everyone of these mistakes, oh lord xxx
I've made them many times myself in the past!
me too.. I just did the #1
@@nurul1408 I don’t know about this, I like when girls win me over, I hate when they behave like they don’t care about me. When she behave like she don’t give a f*ck about me, I lose interest. It’s not a mistake don’t listen to her.
I thought was so great. It was sobering and helpful.
So helpful ❤️ thank you, wish I would have known all these things earlier in life
I wish for more questions please.
Thanks for great advise.
Thank you so much for this! When you said, "women feel the need to make everything their responsibility", that sat with me. Many times, in this need to see where we stand with men we forget this is their test too. Also, the need to not fill in every silence which causes us to do too much/say too much/share too much. It's true - it just seems like often women just have bad emotional boundaries (with themselves and others) while men have way better boundaries.
I wonder if there is a video on the reasons why we women come off as so "extra" in our insecurity. I have heard the mention of childhood trauma and attachment issues, but am wondering if there is one on the kinds of trauma we face and the forms of insecurities it manifests into later in life. For example, I grew up in a home where I was not made to value or express my individuality (my mom was all about fitting in as it meant being safe, and safe meant being likeable - she is a massive codependent). So it was been a hard journey of undoing this faulty core belief that being different equals being disagreeable, which means being unlikeable which means that I often now dull my shine in many ways - I don't speak up if I disagree, I try to match everyone else's energy and opinion. Basically, it's set me up to seek validation as an individual but to also blend in - just miserable. Needless to say, this turned into not being able to coexist with others (women especially) who have different interests than me (not different values, just interests) and seeing them as a threat, especially if they could garner the attention of men.
From what I've been hearing - men (speaking in generalities : p ) seem to just be raised to be their own individuals first and everything else is secondary so they seem to go through life just being more individualized and having more agency/better boundaries. And we women are (often) just groomed to constantly be more focused on others, putting the needs of others before ours, easing tensions, being agreeable, being likeable, and so we go through life just burned out because we only know how to operate in one way. So we kinda are raised to not represent ourselves well and it shows the most when it comes to forming relationships where we shoot ourselves in the foot. It's just sucky.
This video makes me realized a lot of things I'm really thankful for this but it's too late cause we just broke up days ago and I didn't even realized these were all the problems that causes him to leave
Loved, thankyou🤗💞
Since you said it, 🙈 yes I notice, you do love to talk. And I identify this, because once, I did too. And I think that's the secret, that one should talk to their girlfriends or other friends so much, instead of the guy you are dating. Talking is therapeutic for anyone as long as they do it with thier friends, but not really everytime with the person you date. I learnt it much later that I should spare my man from the chatter, unless he is going to be an important role player to help me solve my issue. There are different people in one's life to deal with different aspects one has to deal with. Hence better not expect from your partner things that you require a whole village comprising of different role players to solve your issues. Have a strong social support system.
I love your advices ❤️
Really good video and I’ve seen hundreds of them
Thank you 🙏
Interesting content Sabrina!!! Thank You!!!!!
My pleasure!!
So informative, I wish I knew this 15 years ago!
Just amazing 👏
5 of 6( thank you for a piece of advice!
I love your video, you are so much fun ❤
❤ thank you for this video. It was helpful for me. I’m dealing with the last part of the video. At this moment. Don’t know how it’s going to turn out.
I am a smart woman…
Thank you for the list…maybe for me and others like me… Less is more. I do appreciate your work…
I will be reentering the world of dating after 36 years of being with the same man… I know things have changed and I will need to adapt… I have to work on the hobbies, good tip!!
Thank you again
Thank you. U saved my friendship 😍
This video teaches you to be calm and easy going
Happy new year Sabrina ❤❤
Same to you!
I can't stand whining, complaining men either....drama kings!
It’s hard for me to keep my interests after getting into a relationship. Like when I was still single I had a passion for both art and crafts and exercising than when I found a boyfriend he became such a big interest that it made my other interests fade away.
thanks
Hell yes🔥🔥
Sabrina, how do you feel about people who date for multiple years before the woman(?) usually brings up the " what is this" talk, "what are we doing" conversation?
I was the unwitting child who saw way too many fights in my immediate family
I grew up starving for calm and reassuring adults around me who liked each other and got along.
So I adopted the attitude that I needed to be open and above board from the beginning about why I was interested in a woman-- and there have not been many.
I thought I needed to let them know early on that I was about wanting a commitment/Stability(I thought this would help me avoid the "what is this about..." conversation and the rest of the "games" people seem to play.
You are awesome 👏…this is what we need to understand a Mens mind 🤣
So so I think!
I recognized myself in all of these in this last relationship. 😮
Hey Sabrina! Is there any chance to book a one to one session with you for coaching?
Talking excessively is when a person does 80 % or more of the talking or talks with so many words and details about something that could easily be summed up in a few sentences . I have great momories of conversations at a super fast pace with friendly lady friends , but it was a conversation not a monologue .
We are only talking on the phone right now. But I talk sooo much, and we have also spoken for such a long time. Like, too long. I am going to allow more silences, and also talk for less time as I don’t want him to feel as though there’s nothing to gain/work for! 💀
Not to confuse u but other relationship experts say that women should be doing most of the talking because it allows him to get in touch with his emotions as you express yours about life in general or him in particular & gives him a real taste of who you are….so how is the relationship going that you were posting about 5 months ago?
1. Trying to win him over 1:50
2. Pushing an agenda on him 3:46
3. When you do all the work 7:32
4. Complaining 8:34
5. Talking excessively 10:50
6. When you're not interested in anything 13:21
I would argue these female behaviours do not make a man lose interest.
More likely they are symptoms on his lack of motivation to engage with you, (to the level you want him to be) because he was/is not that interested - and this is usually because he feels he can do better and/or never considered You (or anyone) for a long term relationship (for that period of his life)
So he leaving slack in the rope which you then are picking up and pulling, (leaving a vacuum that you are trying to fill). The point being , you did nothing wrong by doing the above points (except complaining that's never good), but you extended a relationship that WOULD have ended much sooner if you didn't do the above.
If you were his ideal women he would have no motivation to risk losing you by his actions or inactions. And if he wanted you he would encourage you to do the above (except complaining/lack of interest)
So its more likely he feels he can do better, but is happy to date you (enjoys your company) while exploring his other options.
This was helpful thank you.
I have been doing everything so wrong!
Hi Sabrie❤
My ex says that he still loves me but he doesnt want me.Because if i leave him again he will be devastated.But i ensured him that i can do anything for him and he is precious to me and i would never leave him..But he doesn’t want me back now..What should i do. Pls suggest...pls.I saw your videos of no contact rule.Should i follow it?
Hi Sabrina! so i did pretty much all these wrong things in a relationship i cannot even begin to explain how important was to me. how can i prove to my ex that i am not like that anymore without him actually giving me any type of chance to prove it?
The guy I dated for 6 months long distance ghosted me out of nowhere with zero explanation. I think it’s because I did some of the things on this list… is there a chance he will come back?
I reach to the point of my life that I'm tired chasing him. if he want to stay then stay and if he want to go then go.
Sorry. You missed the biggest one on my list. Having your stuff together. Your finances, your family, your problems. Have your physical body and emotional body under control. Meaning in good shape. Taking control of your own happiness by ridding yourself of all the problems that you have the ability to fix...but won't! I'm not going to take on a woman with these issues. Because I will try to fix them myself. And that doesn't work. You can't fix another person. They have to want to CLEAN THEIR ROOM! I've got my stuff together. I expect her to do the same!
Sabrina, you left out sth. So, I dated this guy. Great date, great chemistry, great guy.
After texting back and forth meeting up and all, after 2nd date he ditched me bc he realized that I don't open up my backdoor and so he didn't think that we were compatible...
Still hoping to meet a personality type like yours 😔 I reject women harshly at times and I do think it's because I feel like they try to paint a pretty painting. Cold women definitely get my attention and I hate it lol
So his birthday is tomorrow… should I text him happy birthday or just go no contact
If you these all or one of these mistakes you think theres is a chance to win him over what will i do?
So Nice 💘💘💘💘💘💘
I was I was the only one making all these mistakes until I saw this video.
Wow. I'm a guy and just came here to explore female thinking. The comments section is completely opposite. In a video aimed towards men, every comment is extremely negative, but rational nontheless. But here, every single comment is overwhelmingly positive and hopeful. It's like women take the blue pill and delude themselves into believing they're entitled to what they want to believe while men take the red pill and face reality. Extraordinary stuff.
This makes me feel like we need to win them over like dude let them be with themselves
so complicated haha If you like someone just tell them and if he likes you back good if he doesn't then find someone else
Then how do we women approach the topic of relationship with a man?
If we are together, dating for a year, he talks about marriage from day one, then a year goes by, yet, he still have same life style, same plans every day, same thing over and over.
How do I know if he truly wants to settle and not just leading me on?
We knew each other for 3 years, together for one year, things never came off the ground as far as taking the relationship to the next level. What the heck is going on?
Why a man can have agendas to use us women, but we can not have “agenda” on him? Too bad. He is a man let him handle the shit properly.
Have done 5/6 of these things smh
More women should watch this video
I just thought he was perfect and I didn't want to play games .i was too honest
Don’t mind me watching this to know what to do since I’m asexual
Hi Sabrina, I love your videos for sure! And I have DEF made a ton of mistakes which is probably why I am still single haha but anyway I had a genuine question! I do know you ended up marrying an ex-boyfriend, so wouldn't that count as going against a lot of the advice given? It was just a weird epiphany almost and I was curious to know if that counts as "going back" to someone who did not initially have feelings for you and forcing things. And I mean general use of the word "you". Thank you!
I don’t want a guy anymore!
You might change your mind someday . So that is 👍 just go do things you like doing right now. 🛍 goals and hobbies reading a good book . Me time loving you and not getting involved . Fix up and look beautiful and put some good smelling perfume on and ignore them guys. They will be looking but smile and keep on moving. Do not give them the time of day. And someday that right guy will appear when you least expect.
I disagree with the pulling back so that he'll chase her. That's a game that some play...and any man with any self respect won't chase her. Its a 2 way street where each should be moving toward each other
U have to have the good with the bad. Nothings perfect. That's why they walk away. They want it nice all the time. Well get real. U can't live in fairyland for ever. U have to share. Everything.
Very happy 😍💋 💝💖♥️❤️
I think all these are true, but I think something else needs to be said. Guys are not forced to grow up anymore! Guess what the world is stressful and uncomfortable. Grow up and deal with it. I’m looking for a partner not a child.
Apparently my ex-boyfriend was a woman 😄
bro the first thing is just not true
To keep him interested you just have to be better than the other girls he's seeing.
Stay slim, Stay hot, give the Best Sex of your life. When men are looking for a (monogamous) LTR with the intention of raising children. Men (if they're wise) have two conditions. 1) The girl must have Genuine Desire for him. 2) Any child they have MUST be HIS.
Genuine Desire: If a man is going to give up unlimited access to sex with other girls and be monogamous; then the sx with this one girl has to be Her Absolute Best and at the frequency he wants. He doesn't not want to find out years later, that she had crazy hot monkey sex with Chads/Tyrones during her party years, But only has Standard vanilla sx with him.. And the frequency satisfaction means for the rest of your LIFE together, or she needs to be prepared for that to be satisfied outside the relationship
Woooooooowwwwwwwwwwww loloololololol 🥸
"Pushing an agenda on him": I can't understand how american women minds and society works. You need to control everything in relationships. It's not natural. I would feel quite rare in your country.
Why did God make the male species so complicated 🤬!
Please talk slowly not fast
Guy you are not blessing
I don't agree much.. Cuz you really nerd to talk communicate so the other side knows who you are, what you want.. So.. This video is a bit no no no😳🙏🤕
Could you slow down a little? Remember: Less is more. More or less. Especiallly when it comes to words.....