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Alot goes through a mans mind at this point and it is so much positive intuition.. positive interactions are accurate as they come .what makes it so real is hes getting a positive response..a positive return in all this..
7 signs he's ready to commit. 1. He confidentially makes future plans with you. ✔ 2. You'll notice you'll spend most of your weekends together. ✔ 3. His interest cues are congruent. ✔ 4. His language will start to change when you are committed.✔ 5. He will start to test the waters around your level of commitment for him. ✔ 6. You'll feel this sense of peace. ✔ 7. He will ask you to be exclusive. ✔ Well. He, my bf, definitely did all these and we are in a committed relationship. Now that we are 6 years in, he's gotten 'lazy' about taking care of 'us'. I've tried to have the talk with him about it but it never happens. Hard to get him alone or in right mind set etc. I love him and I know he loves me. We talked about 'us' and future a lot years ago but weare no closer to 'being there ie married' than we were 5 years ago. We are both in our 60's. We don't live together. What's up with this? Matt can you do a video on being in a relationship that's loving but one partner is not focused enough on taking care of it?
Well, he's older than 60. Does he even want to get married? Does he want to move in? Most men/women at that age have already gotten married, have kids, got a house, a set life, etc, and not interested in doing that again. So relationships tend to be more about companionship, love, and friendship than getting married and having a family together. Have you talked about this with him? maybe he's 100% committed but won't ever marry you and you're seeing that as him being lazy.
@@ElleD308 we have talked about it. We've both been there and done that. It's more than companionship. With elderly parent involved, job changes, covid, things were put on the back burner. I think now it's just routine and he's comfortable and a little bit of selfishness mixed in. Him doing a hobby he always wanted to do but wasn't in a position to before.
@@rezotydnic I mean, he already had a family and spent his life, years, and money raising them, now he's comfortable committed with you instead of full of drama, and he's doing a hobby that makes him happy that couldn't do before. I don't understand how would that be selfish, or did I get it wrong?
@@ElleD308 no I don't mean selfish in the sense it's all about him. He has suffered greatly, worked hard, and had to start from scratch, so I have no issue with him having hobbies etc. BUT there needs to be a balance. He's out of balance imho.
@@rezotydnic I don't know what he's been through or how he lived his life, but almost 70 is too old to keep living for others. My father passed away at 65 and I hope he had taken a time to do what he always wanted but never had the time/chance instead of pampering everyone all the time. It would be good to take a moment to yourself and see if he's really neglecting your relationship or if it's just you wanting more attention than what he's offering. Are you happier most days than sad? When he's with you, is he there or mentally gone? Did he switch a lot from how he was or you want him to be like other couples you've seen or heard of? Why are you feeling the way you're feeling now? Saying that whatever reason you're feeling what you're feeling now is extremely valid and you should 100% tell him directly that you're happy he's doing his hobbies and all that, but you would appreciate it if he can balance his hobbies and his time with you in a different way. Sometimes you need to spell it and almost draw it for men to understand what's up in our minds. If he listens to you and balances everything, then great! If not, then you have two options, decide if you're ok being with him the way you are, or leave him because just like he should be happy doing his hobbies, you should be happy in your relationship.
Thanks so much for the excellent work 😊 ,One of the signs I've realized is he keeps talking about his future plans including me and starting a family together and he continuously does it.
Well, the guy I’m seeing have made future plans and he does all these things where his actions looks like he’s committed but he never says anything about being committed.
Thanks again Mat, for just the right info at just the right time (or maybe I was just ready to hear it!). This message gave me the steps for going forward in a promising new relationship. You pinpointed some aspects that will keep me from over-committing before the signs indicate that it is appropriate. Thanks for your insight
You are nice person thank you for sharing these suggestions.. IM in a long distance relationship I'm in West Virginia an he's in Pa.. I'm praying we can work it out, because I like him..He ask me ifI was willing to relocate an I said yes...I worry some about all this ..it around 4 hrs drive for us...I know we need good communication..he works an I work part time probably Only. Weekend we can see each other....PLEASE. GIVE ME SOME ADVICE FOR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP...THX. IN ADVANCE...Delores from w v...
Great video, so true for me. We've been together 5yrs now and I never had to question how he felt about me or if he wanted to be with me. Not like other guys I had dated who were real mind boglers and that's putting it nicely.
I have a question, Matt. Is him asking me whether I am going to come to a certain event in a few months where he will be mean that he is into me? Maybe not yet ready to commit but to see if I will be there so we have an opportunity to get to know each better? Does that mean he is maybe interested in me?
Does it freak out a man when a woman says to him that ge us the only one she wants. I fiund the nan i want to be with gir the rest of my life. Is it too weird for me to tell him that?
I have a little situation that I need to clear of so I thought I would ask here for advice. I matched with a guy on dating app but apparently we work in the same place but different departments. We talk a few times at work but contact on app died so I thought he just ghosted me, but last week he talk to me again unfortunately the talk was super short and I feel like he's really awkward and a little nervous and to be honest it looked like he run away. I would like to get to know him better but our only contact is work and we saw each other a couple of times at work. In a meantime I was asked by other guy for a date or more like my cousin started to play Cupid. I was wandering if saying him about date would encourage him to ask me out or pull him away? Or it would be better to just ask him out myself? Will it be considered me chasing him?
What do you think about the man who says he wants a friendship, not a "relationship", when I thought we were just friendly neighbors whose spouses had passed.
My ex did all these things to me but in the end, he broke up with me. However mats you are doing a great job recently a man came into my life and I'm following all your tips and I'm hoping he will commit in future
What if u stay over every night but not in the daytime cause she works & he stays home cause of being retired & disabled, that's how the routine is. How do u know ur filling only his sexual needs & u know he doesn't want to get married again for a 3rd x using u for his own needs
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This is funny because back when I had met my now ex husband. He came out and asked me to go study with him after three months and then we got engaged and got married October 10, 1992. We ended up having three beautiful boys. But we divorced in 2010. Than in 2013 I thought I found my forever once again but he ended up being abusive and was an alcoholic. We were together for five years. I haven't been able to find nice men to go out and meet.
Amazing video Matt, So my man has asked me to be together 2 weeks ago twice actually, but on Friday, he said “our friendship is so amazing I love your friendship “, then i said: “but you said we are together”, he said “of course but didn’t know how to call it exactly and didnt want to seem weak, but if i don’t want us to be together I would say I don’t want, but I certainly do want it and already said it twice”. Then on Saturday he said “my friend asked me how much does my girlfriend worth and I said Ruba (which is my name) worth an infinite amount of worthiness”. Then he asked me to be with his huge family gathering in the future which is held twice a year, then he said “if we get married we will bring a whole sheep and cut it and eat it”. Is this a real relationship? Plus, we spend every weekend together.
Thanks Mat, ❤ my 💓 Guru, you always inspire me , make me take time to watch even though I am in a committed relationship ...that's why you are a role model for many who lose hope in their life no matter the age.Thx again for the lovely video and hope Irene, kids and mom are fine. Happy Easter to you and your awesome family, God bless 🙌 you all.loving Urmila❤ stay safe and keep that million dollar smile ever lasting.,TC
You’re right! I can just See all those players watching Matt’s videos and soaking up all the info for their own nefarious purposes can’t you? 😈😖😆. Maybe that should be Matt’s next video - how to spot the guys who are using his tips to play us! 😆😅
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I watched so many of your videos a bit over a year ago and then found my life partner. This advice is gold!!!! Thank you 🙏
Alot goes through a mans mind at this point and it is so much positive intuition.. positive interactions are accurate as they come .what makes it so real is hes getting a positive response..a positive return in all this..
How correct you are men want positive women
Dear Matt, This episode feels like is going to change my life! I have 4 kids and I have to reframe it, thank you so much for the amazing examples! ❤
Thank you very helpful information 😊
7 signs he's ready to commit.
1. He confidentially makes future plans with you. ✔
2. You'll notice you'll spend most of your weekends together. ✔
3. His interest cues are congruent. ✔
4. His language will start to change when you are committed.✔
5. He will start to test the waters around your level of commitment for him. ✔
6. You'll feel this sense of peace. ✔
7. He will ask you to be exclusive. ✔
Well. He, my bf, definitely did all these and we are in a committed relationship.
Now that we are 6 years in, he's gotten 'lazy' about taking care of 'us'. I've tried to have the talk with him about it but it never happens. Hard to get him alone or in right mind set etc.
I love him and I know he loves me. We talked about 'us' and future a lot years ago but weare no closer to 'being there ie married' than we were 5 years ago. We are both in our 60's. We don't live together. What's up with this?
Matt can you do a video on being in a relationship that's loving but one partner is not focused enough on taking care of it?
Well, he's older than 60. Does he even want to get married? Does he want to move in? Most men/women at that age have already gotten married, have kids, got a house, a set life, etc, and not interested in doing that again. So relationships tend to be more about companionship, love, and friendship than getting married and having a family together. Have you talked about this with him? maybe he's 100% committed but won't ever marry you and you're seeing that as him being lazy.
@@ElleD308 we have talked about it. We've both been there and done that. It's more than companionship. With elderly parent involved, job changes, covid, things were put on the back burner. I think now it's just routine and he's comfortable and a little bit of selfishness mixed in. Him doing a hobby he always wanted to do but wasn't in a position to before.
@@rezotydnic I mean, he already had a family and spent his life, years, and money raising them, now he's comfortable committed with you instead of full of drama, and he's doing a hobby that makes him happy that couldn't do before. I don't understand how would that be selfish, or did I get it wrong?
@@ElleD308 no I don't mean selfish in the sense it's all about him. He has suffered greatly, worked hard, and had to start from scratch, so I have no issue with him having hobbies etc. BUT there needs to be a balance. He's out of balance imho.
@@rezotydnic I don't know what he's been through or how he lived his life, but almost 70 is too old to keep living for others. My father passed away at 65 and I hope he had taken a time to do what he always wanted but never had the time/chance instead of pampering everyone all the time.
It would be good to take a moment to yourself and see if he's really neglecting your relationship or if it's just you wanting more attention than what he's offering. Are you happier most days than sad? When he's with you, is he there or mentally gone? Did he switch a lot from how he was or you want him to be like other couples you've seen or heard of? Why are you feeling the way you're feeling now?
Saying that whatever reason you're feeling what you're feeling now is extremely valid and you should 100% tell him directly that you're happy he's doing his hobbies and all that, but you would appreciate it if he can balance his hobbies and his time with you in a different way. Sometimes you need to spell it and almost draw it for men to understand what's up in our minds.
If he listens to you and balances everything, then great!
If not, then you have two options, decide if you're ok being with him the way you are, or leave him because just like he should be happy doing his hobbies, you should be happy in your relationship.
Thank you Matt this was very helpful!!
Thanks for that!❤
Thank you mat great advice
You just fabulous mat
Thanks so much for the excellent work 😊 ,One of the signs I've realized is he keeps talking about his future plans including me and starting a family together and he continuously does it.
Well, the guy I’m seeing have made future plans and he does all these things where his actions looks like he’s committed but he never says anything about being committed.
Same here
Thanks again Mat, for just the right info at just the right time (or maybe I was just ready to hear it!). This message gave me the steps for going forward in a promising new relationship. You pinpointed some aspects that will keep me from over-committing before the signs indicate that it is appropriate. Thanks for your insight
You are nice person thank you for sharing these suggestions..
IM in a long distance relationship I'm in West Virginia an he's in Pa.. I'm praying we can work it out, because I like him..He ask me ifI was willing to relocate an I said yes...I worry some about all this ..it around 4 hrs drive for us...I know we need good communication..he works an I work part time probably Only. Weekend we can see each other....PLEASE. GIVE ME SOME ADVICE FOR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP...THX. IN ADVANCE...Delores from w v...
Great video, so true for me. We've been together 5yrs now and I never had to question how he felt about me or if he wanted to be with me. Not like other guys I had dated who were real mind boglers and that's putting it nicely.
Thank you, dear Matt. I wish the outro music were more mature. Otherwise I love your videos and your energy.
Thank you Mat.
You really explained very well. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sign: The brain shuts off for all matters related to "socks".
❤I'm just now seeing this video
A stalker named Robert did these to me, and he was such a creep! No means no.
Thank you for answers to the questions going through my mind.
I have a question, Matt. Is him asking me whether I am going to come to a certain event in a few months where he will be mean that he is into me? Maybe not yet ready to commit but to see if I will be there so we have an opportunity to get to know each better? Does that mean he is maybe interested in me?
@paulo-jn1gq Ok. But how? WtsApp?
Some men are all "hot air". Actions speak louder than words
if a man wants to commit to you, he will show it and no questions need to be asked. otherwise it is just a waste of time.
What if he doesn't take down his dating profile & has no intentions if telling u about it..
Then he is not serios 😔😬
Does it freak out a man when a woman says to him that ge us the only one she wants. I fiund the nan i want to be with gir the rest of my life. Is it too weird for me to tell him that?
I'm single but I now know how a guy shows you he ready to commit. Great video as usual.
Thanks alot, 🙂🙂
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I have a little situation that I need to clear of so I thought I would ask here for advice. I matched with a guy on dating app but apparently we work in the same place but different departments. We talk a few times at work but contact on app died so I thought he just ghosted me, but last week he talk to me again unfortunately the talk was super short and I feel like he's really awkward and a little nervous and to be honest it looked like he run away. I would like to get to know him better but our only contact is work and we saw each other a couple of times at work. In a meantime I was asked by other guy for a date or more like my cousin started to play Cupid. I was wandering if saying him about date would encourage him to ask me out or pull him away? Or it would be better to just ask him out myself? Will it be considered me chasing him?
What do you think about the man who says he wants a friendship, not a "relationship", when I thought we were just friendly neighbors whose spouses had passed.
I guess no man has ever wanted to commit to me then. 😞
He's moving too fast for me.🚘 how do I slow him down?
My ex did all these things to me but in the end, he broke up with me.
However mats you are doing a great job recently a man came into my life and I'm following all your tips and I'm hoping he will commit in future
dont hope, just ask for what you want. dont waste your time. there are bilions of men on the planet Earth! good luck:)
What if u stay over every night but not in the daytime cause she works & he stays home cause of being retired & disabled, that's how the routine is. How do u know ur filling only his sexual needs & u know he doesn't want to get married again for a 3rd x using u for his own needs
He did all this for me but I don’t like him and I don’t know what to do bc I know he is the right guy but I don’t feel nothing for him.😫😫😫
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Only a few days in mentioned they need to get off the dating app.
This is funny because back when I had met my now ex husband. He came out and asked me to go study with him after three months and then we got engaged and got married October 10, 1992. We ended up having three beautiful boys. But we divorced in 2010. Than in 2013 I thought I found my forever once again but he ended up being abusive and was an alcoholic. We were together for five years. I haven't been able to find nice men to go out and meet.
Why did you and your ex husband divorce?
Amazing video Matt,
So my man has asked me to be together 2 weeks ago twice actually, but on Friday, he said “our friendship is so amazing I love your friendship “, then i said: “but you said we are together”, he said “of course but didn’t know how to call it exactly and didnt want to seem weak, but if i don’t want us to be together I would say I don’t want, but I certainly do want it and already said it twice”.
Then on Saturday he said “my friend asked me how much does my girlfriend worth and I said Ruba (which is my name) worth an infinite amount of worthiness”. Then he asked me to be with his huge family gathering in the future which is held twice a year, then he said “if we get married we will bring a whole sheep and cut it and eat it”. Is this a real relationship?
Plus, we spend every weekend together.
Thanks Mat, ❤ my 💓 Guru, you always inspire me , make me take time to watch even though I am in a committed relationship ...that's why you are a role model for many who lose hope in their life no matter the age.Thx again for the lovely video and hope Irene, kids and mom are fine. Happy Easter to you and your awesome family, God bless 🙌 you all.loving Urmila❤ stay safe and keep that million dollar smile ever lasting.,TC
Matty....if guys follow ur videos they will definitely use these and can make their partner feel for him even if that's not his real intentions 😅
You’re right! I can just See all those players watching Matt’s videos and soaking up all the info for their own nefarious purposes can’t you? 😈😖😆. Maybe that should be Matt’s next video - how to spot the guys who are using his tips to play us! 😆😅
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He asked me to go away with him months away 😊
8th sign: he wants to eat.