How to Make Him Think About You All the Time | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
  • Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and how to make him think about you all the time.
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    That first part of the relationship where you’re on each other’s mind constantly and you feel like lovesick teenagers? You can have that feeling all the time!
    IF you know these 5 things that will keep his mind focused on you…
    Check out today's video to see if you’re already doing some of these “super attractive” things.
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    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
    Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
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    Directed and Editing By: Luke Dejoras
    Written By: Mathew Boggs
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Комментарии • 739

  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  Год назад +17

    Join the *Manifest Your Man* program and get *coached by Mat Boggs TODAY* : www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/mym/offer/strategy-session

    • @Ryansara
      @Ryansara Год назад +1

      Are you a mountain person or a beach person?

  • @roelenecloete9953
    @roelenecloete9953 Год назад +30

    I listened to this and paused it, just to send my boyfriend a text. I told him, "Babes i just received a phone call from Tony Stark, he was looking for you cause apparently you are perfect for the Avengers. They need you, so i told Tony..Noooooo. He's my Avenger, My SUPERHERO" and he immediately sent me a text back (during working hours) and told me that it was the most beautiful text anyone has ever sent him, that he loved not just me, but a beautiful Amazing woman that he truly love and adores and has eyes for. I was so overwhelmed, i started to cry..happy tears though. This is the best advice ever. Thank You

  • @adrianairby9579
    @adrianairby9579 2 года назад +1161

    1. Be unapologetic yourself
    2. Make him feel as needed as a hero
    3. Leave him wanting more - don't over do it
    4. Choose to see the positive in the world
    5. Give him a 6 seconds kiss 💋

    • @safiahnd488
      @safiahnd488 2 года назад +21

      Bless your Soul ❤️
      Wish you a lot of love and peace in this life ❤️

    • @divineserendipity1196
      @divineserendipity1196 2 года назад +12

      Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @juliafisher5844
      @juliafisher5844 2 года назад +11

      My bf doesn't like kissing for 1 second!

    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад +1

      My dear it you are facing any challenge in your relationship worry no more, I will introduce to you the same relationship restorer who helped me got back my lover, He can also help you bring back your lover within 48 hours

    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад

      Wh atsA p p👆..... 🥰🥰

  • @suemmypena
    @suemmypena Год назад +21

    My husband works away from home for long periods of times and he sends me pictures of sunsets and he even calls me FaceTime to see the sunset. Phone quality isn’t ever that good and now I see why he does it. Thank you

  • @sandiimac9893
    @sandiimac9893 Год назад +50

    He stays calm… no matter how I trip or overthink or overreact he stays calm I can count in him to be calm and bring me back down… then we laugh about how I just flipped out 😂… I appreciate this about him the most

  • @shannonmay2894
    @shannonmay2894 Год назад +15

    When he smiles at me in the morning when I just woke up like he's happy I'm awake 😊

  • @neliachambers6998
    @neliachambers6998 Год назад +275

    When he says , “You know among all the women of this world you are God’s best design. You are the best evidence the word true love is real. My source of joy and my strength I will always love and cherish you and can never take you for granted. Because you hold a very special place in my heart ❤️ “

    • @Only1Keylamarie
      @Only1Keylamarie Год назад +7

      Sheesh !!!!! I know that’s right girly 🔥

    • @warriormanmaxx8991
      @warriormanmaxx8991 Год назад +12

      Good Grief !! What man is capable of saying all that in 1-2 breaths ?!? If you are waiting for a prince charming to utter those sentences ... enjoy the wait !!

    • @hannahellen12
      @hannahellen12 Год назад +11

      Their source of joy and strength should be the Lord, not you.

    • @laurenirby3782
      @laurenirby3782 Год назад +2

      Amen!

    • @djjones7039
      @djjones7039 Год назад

      Gaaaaay lolol 😂

  • @sandrarohde7156
    @sandrarohde7156 2 года назад +20

    My man, actually listens he doesn’t try to fix my problems… But he truly listens to what I’m saying and is compassionate and caring with love

  • @daviadouglas9252
    @daviadouglas9252 2 года назад +47

    One thing my guy did that had me thinking about him all day long are his jokes. On one visit to my home I had warmed him it was icy outside- he told me no it’s fine. We were walking..... I was walking more slowly & cautiously but he raced ahead poking fun at me for walking ‘like an old grandma”. I paid him no mind I looked down @ my feet & kept walking slowly so I don’t slip by accident. I looked up ahead after a few seconds & there he was sprawled out on the sidewalk- literally his whole body spread eagle not moving waiting for me to help him up except I couldn’t because I was laughing so hard. his sense of humor always made him stand out & made me think of him constantly

  • @gennylane
    @gennylane Год назад +11

    When he says 'I got you baby!' and when I need help and he actually looks into what I need help with and makes sure I'm good/it's solved.

  • @aneeshamadhok6231
    @aneeshamadhok6231 Год назад +60

    I really like this guy's personality. Girls, he's absolutely right! This is the healthy advice you need. My family friend's daughter, who's 13, showed me this! How sweet that she's learning about healthy love from day 1!!

  • @user-tb5ub4qu7t
    @user-tb5ub4qu7t 4 месяца назад +5

    He smiled at me and said to me,"I'm always positive with you babe" that really made my day ❤

  • @suveankrakowski8104
    @suveankrakowski8104 Год назад +46

    He wakes up with me at 3:30 am in the morning Monday-Friday. He made me Coffee and spend the morning with me talking before I leave for work at 5:00 am. He made sure that I have my keys and lunch for the day. He kissed me goodbye and he goes back to bed that is Precious moments ❤❤❤

  • @chandradavis2135
    @chandradavis2135 Год назад +75

    It's door holding and opening for me 🥰... and not just the "one" door to the building we're going into but car doors, elevator doors, and stairwell doors. If he unlocks and/or opens the door and allows me to enter first, it's a major turn on!!! Something so powerful in this small gesture. Men PLEASE hold open any and every door for her, I promise it's the smallest investment guaranteed to reap IMPRESSIVE rewards 😉.

    • @rositasheffield3258
      @rositasheffield3258 Год назад +7

      Yes I admire men who open door for the ladies and other gesture

    • @Marjoryc1
      @Marjoryc1 Год назад +1

      Love your advice!Cant wait to try !

    • @joycee5493
      @joycee5493 4 месяца назад +1

      It makes us feel protected and looked after and shows thoughtfulness!

  • @khulilemsibi9379
    @khulilemsibi9379 2 года назад +190

    He calls me everyday.. just to check how my day's going and in the evening it's the tell it all call where he allows me to whine about anything. Basically, he listens to me and takes part in everything I do as I keep him in the loop.

    • @impsci2
      @impsci2 2 года назад +1

      @Peter Rock Lola

    • @hannahbeghi8148
      @hannahbeghi8148 Год назад +2

      How’s the relationship going now?

    • @khulilemsibi9379
      @khulilemsibi9379 Год назад +5

      @@hannahbeghi8148 it's very progressive...he wants me to meet his mom.

    • @hannahbeghi8148
      @hannahbeghi8148 Год назад +3

      @@khulilemsibi9379 still be careful! Stay mysterious, don’t tell everything about you! Good luck

    • @khulilemsibi9379
      @khulilemsibi9379 Год назад +1

      @@hannahbeghi8148 thank you...I'll be careful

  • @Chryslerdealership
    @Chryslerdealership 2 года назад +302

    I’m not in a relationship but I truly appreciate how genuine your advice is, Mat. A lot of relationship advice tends to be manipulative, like “if they don’t like you, you can make them like you”, but I’ve found that that is so toxic, and yet, all of your advice allows us women to respect ourselves when looking for love and I really admire that. I would love some advice on how to become more attractive as someone who’s never dated because I didn’t grow up with a lot of good examples in my life. Anyways, keep it up!

    • @gregwilliams6641
      @gregwilliams6641 2 года назад +3

      Hello dear it's a pleasure to have you here ❤️☺️

    • @jesusliebtdich1112
      @jesusliebtdich1112 2 года назад +16

      I agree with you! He‘s not a manipulative coach, but his advices are honest and real!

    • @gregwilliams6641
      @gregwilliams6641 2 года назад +1

      @@jesusliebtdich1112 Hey hi dear how are you doing

    • @Ignitechannel23
      @Ignitechannel23 2 года назад +9

      One major thing that makes a lady attractive is when she genuinely be herself and carry herself with a great sense of worth and value. Also, Women who are expressive, tender, express their feminine sparks and pose positive vibes are always attractive. Be more free and less rigid to expressing your emotions such as happiness or joy - it can look childish sometimes but it makes you attractive ❤️

    • @chrismary1283
      @chrismary1283 2 года назад +2

      Great experience I had with you doc osu channel for bringing my ex back after 5 years of separation with your powerful spell casting .

  • @jessenoelle262
    @jessenoelle262 Год назад +29

    I love #2, it's basically having gratitude for your man, and I think that's essential in relationships. Yes, gratitude for when he buys you dinner at a restaurant, or when he cleans the bathroom or mows the yard. But I love how Matt describes it in the video, like taking gratitude a step further in a given moment by letting a man know you're grateful for his presence in your life. Sometimes (maybe esp. in long term relationships, and for those of us who've struggled to overcome our own insecurities) it can be easy to forget that a man is with you because he chooses to be. He has the freedom to be wherever he wants to be, and he's choosing to be by your side. The joke about making the sunset is cute, but what you're really doing in that moment is expressing gratitude to your man for his choice to show up--which is ultimately thanking him for making that moment possible. 🥰 Great advice, thanks for sharing!!

    • @HelenaSpells
      @HelenaSpells Год назад

      There is still hope law of attraction in my bio

  • @melissaschulte4523
    @melissaschulte4523 2 года назад +13

    He just text hi always when I'm thinking about him. He always takes the time to tell me what is beautiful about me, different all the time, from my eyes, to smell, to soft parts of my body. We are going on 17 years and have been friends for 30,has been hard but both taking time and effort to rediscover each other and build, the best is yet to come.

  • @ham3749
    @ham3749 2 года назад +9

    The way he only has eyes for me is what I love. The girls at work always comment! We laugh and joke and pick on each other all the time too lol. We've been together going on 13 years. Almost 4 of them married!

  • @unchargedpickles6372
    @unchargedpickles6372 5 месяцев назад +3

    He just loves the hell outta me. He continuously was soooo present for me and caring and loving that eventually it made me addicted to him. It took 5 yrs of consistent effort and trustworthy behaviors and ensuring I felt 100% safe to fully drop my walls and love him fully and my brain began to respond to him like a drug addiction which caused my behaviors toward him to be such that he is just as addicted to me and its a beautiful thing. Thank God for good men w morals and loyalty.

  • @vinyltimewithamy84
    @vinyltimewithamy84 2 года назад +177

    I love when my husband has something planned and he’s dying to tell me but yet keeps it a secrete all day. I know how hard it is for him to keep a secret because he is not good with secretes..lol…I know he’s thinking about me because he’s dying to tell me his plans and he knows I am thinking of him too ❤️ I love when my husband plans a surprise date or even a surprise family day. He loves seeing me get all excited and I love the playful game of trying to figure out what he has planned 😆😁

    • @ReneelovesGod
      @ReneelovesGod 2 года назад +11

      That is so nice!!. That must feel so great!.. I smiled just reading about it.

    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад

      My dear it you are facing any challenge in your relationship worry no more, I will introduce to you the same relationship restorer who helped me got back my lover, He can also help you bring back your lover within 48 hours

    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад

      †2349056214114⏭⏯???????..... 🥰🥰

    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад

      Wh atsA p p👆..... 🥰🥰

    • @vinyltimewithamy84
      @vinyltimewithamy84 2 года назад +3

      @@ReneelovesGod if you don’t have a man like this in your life right now he is out there looking for you ❤️ I’ll be praying for this kind of love in your life sister.

  • @qwiktips6804
    @qwiktips6804 2 года назад +31

    Its my man entire voice for me. When he talk my eyes are drawn right to his face. I listen to him. He has me all vulnerable & loving. He makes me feel like a Princess.

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together.

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Whatz'app him for help..

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      十2348050772031⏯⏯_ ^_..

    • @katieakin1091
      @katieakin1091 2 года назад

      That’s how I am with my crush. We only see each other at church, but when he talks, nothing else matters. And sometimes (though not often), what he says will go in one ear and out the other

  • @yvetteclark8686
    @yvetteclark8686 2 года назад +16

    I love that you give great advice and you don't leave us on the hook all day waiting.

    • @Ryansara
      @Ryansara Год назад

      Are you a mountain person or a beach person

  • @heathermorales4215
    @heathermorales4215 6 месяцев назад +17

    He’s really handsome. I love the way he smiles when I say certain things. He smiles randomly and looks at me with his beautiful eyes. He gives me value by giving me undistracted attention regularly. He is so respectful and professional, then again, he isn’t afraid to show his true emotion. He trusts me with his secrets and I trust him. I think thats why he stays in my head all day.

  • @charminggirl6748
    @charminggirl6748 2 года назад +25

    Love 6 second kiss! Love "let's not tell our sad stories"! Love the positivism! Brilliant pieces of advice in this video, thank you!

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад +1

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together.

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Contact him

    • @ikiramakima6705
      @ikiramakima6705 2 года назад +1

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....

    • @maryhoreski3840
      @maryhoreski3840 Год назад +1

      Love 6 second kiss

  • @carolinewahab8349
    @carolinewahab8349 11 месяцев назад +4

    He tells me he's on his way. He a cargo ship Captain and can be gone for a few months, when he tells me he's on his way home, even if he will be away for several more weeks, it somehow shows me his heart is with me at all times.

  • @charminggirl6748
    @charminggirl6748 Год назад +8

    What a great video, Matt! We appreciate all of your advices!

  • @obeng-akrofipriscilla6385
    @obeng-akrofipriscilla6385 2 года назад +13

    You do a great job teaching how to have and hold best relationships.
    Thank You

  • @loakyguiadeen24
    @loakyguiadeen24 2 года назад +29

    I will have to try that 6 second thing. Thanks for the tips. I am happy to say I have over come my fears of letting my accomplishments gets in my way of being myself and its so liberating.. girls/guys be yourself because when you do, you will find that person that's right for you in that time of your life..... you can it into a life time.....

  • @SampradaSingh19
    @SampradaSingh19 2 года назад +1

    Listening to this man and at the same time you imagine about those moments which you and your man spent and about him too.

  • @dianaacostan1692
    @dianaacostan1692 2 года назад +4

    When he makes me laugh! That s the moment when I will surely remember him😆

  • @sarahmerbell4712
    @sarahmerbell4712 Год назад +54

    you have to watch it til the end, really . i learn so much from you. for example thx to you i found the natural drops spanish fly. i use it everyday w my husband and he's absolutely relieved (from stress) and it boosts his energy as well as mine

    • @davidandes9939
      @davidandes9939 Год назад +1

      I was pretty inspired with your comment and bought spanish fly on the internet online. i like it bc i’m pretty in stress all the time but still i can easily use it with my wife as it has no side effects !

    • @odijieeddy274
      @odijieeddy274 Год назад

      Hello friends are you trying to attract or manifest love? to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting

    • @odijieeddy274
      @odijieeddy274 Год назад

      Believe me he's going to restore your broken relationship back successfully.💔👆

  • @matcradle
    @matcradle 2 года назад +11

    Love this video!!

  • @saraiannaccone1790
    @saraiannaccone1790 2 года назад +8

    Thank you. I love listening to your great advice! You make so much sense. You’re so sincere, honest, intelligent and warm. I appreciate you.
    My man sends me kisses and says “I need you.”

  • @michellem306
    @michellem306 Год назад +3

    You are so genuine in the way you speak. I love it! Thank you for making amazing videos.

  • @yogitameera
    @yogitameera Год назад +6

    I just LOVE his explanations ... It's so good , realistic and honest ....
    This really helped me thanks for making this video 😊

  • @ivanamurphy6917
    @ivanamurphy6917 2 года назад +34

    I’ve been talking to this guy for almost three weeks straight. We are constantly talking and just have so much in common. We’re going on a lunch date soon.

    • @betaylor173
      @betaylor173 2 года назад +3

      How did your lunch date go?

    • @footyfan101ful
      @footyfan101ful 2 года назад

      How's it going?

    • @ivanamurphy6917
      @ivanamurphy6917 2 года назад +5

      @@footyfan101ful it’s going wonderful. We’ve been on many dates and it’s just pure happiness.

    • @ivanamurphy6917
      @ivanamurphy6917 2 года назад +1

      @@betaylor173 it was so good!!!

    • @wildhopeXx
      @wildhopeXx 2 года назад

      That’s so lovely! Wishing you the best for the future!

  • @reemsaif3105
    @reemsaif3105 9 месяцев назад +2

    No man here but i agree with what you said. Im very touchy feely. Touch is the Love language for me 🎉

  • @ursulaprinz1775
    @ursulaprinz1775 2 года назад +5

    I always send love notes with my husband when he goes 💕 out of town and we have been married for 46 years

  • @katemiller5990
    @katemiller5990 2 года назад +8

    I laughed out loud when I heard what your kids said 😂
    Well done 👍🏼

  • @daniellebopeep2933
    @daniellebopeep2933 2 года назад +2

    Thanks friend, I truly learned a lot just 5 min in! Bless you and your family xo

  • @jordangorwood8805
    @jordangorwood8805 2 года назад +3

    He let's me love him. He never cared to before. He listens and communicates well. Does not let emotions alone affect his reactions. He's my peace and let's me be his

  • @williaminaloftin3814
    @williaminaloftin3814 2 года назад +27

    I love receiving a good morning text mixed with some inspiration! That causes me to think about him throughout the day.

    • @Ryansara
      @Ryansara Год назад

      Are you a mountain person or a beach person

  • @TejanaInPhx915
    @TejanaInPhx915 Год назад +3

    This helped me- my husband left me after 18years- I built myself up met a guy, he swept me off my feet I wanted to go slow but he spoke to me and did all the right things so I gave in! Huge mistake The attention continued then one day it stopped- I went crazy! He said to me I want to take it slow…now my emotions are messed up. Don’t know how to handle the sudden change- it wasn’t cool he did that!

  • @mylamila31
    @mylamila31 Год назад +1

    I've learnt a new phrase: "to shed off any opinion". Thanks

  • @weare4strong
    @weare4strong 2 года назад +14

    I've just gotten reconnected with somebody that I had talked to for a brief time 2 years ago.
    What he does that makes me appreciate him and desire to know more about him.
    Is that he's a wonderful communicator has strong empathy and validates that he is hearing what I'm saying.
    This is amazing to me.

    • @gregwilliams6641
      @gregwilliams6641 2 года назад +1

      Hello dear it's a pleasure to have you here 💗☺️

  • @Santu7220
    @Santu7220 Год назад

    So, your question. Made me realize how sweet this way of thinking about each other is! How beautiful to create that mental space too, where these moments are cherished. Awesome.

  • @dashiajames1882
    @dashiajames1882 2 года назад +1

    The way he is. He's determine, funny, helpful & more. Luvv guys like that. Your kids are funny...😂

  • @dariaaria2576
    @dariaaria2576 2 года назад +22

    OMG! You are so amazing! Great advices and such a positive energy, Mat! Thanks for sharing! 🍀

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together....

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Whatz'app him for help

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      十2348050772031⏯⏯_ ^_.

  • @trishaspire199
    @trishaspire199 2 года назад +81

    Hi Mat, I quite appreciate your insights! I recognize that some of this advice may often cater to women relating with men whose predominant love language is words of affirmation. The man I am seeing seems to have a predominant love language of acts of service, and is less receptive to when I offer words of affirmation, sometimes even deflective of it.
    I would love to hear you speak to relating with men who have strengths in giving/receiving in the varying love languages; how to spot what that is for them, how to be appreciative of what they give though speaking a different language, how to offer love in their language. And as a bonus perhaps; how to communicate our language lovingly in the early stages of dating in an inspiring way.
    I'd like the insight from you because I appreciate your heart and care for us women folk.
    Thanks!

    • @vinodhakirba8527
      @vinodhakirba8527 2 года назад +8

      Notice the things he does in service of others - especially the things that are so small and most people take for granted, perhaps even himself, and with sincerity, point out how you appreciate the things he does. The more unique they are to him, the better! People, just want to be seen -- and most people see the big things about you. It's the secret, hidden things that truly set one apart! Find those things about him, and point them out - it doesn't even have to be a compliment - just pointing out that you noticed something, and you really like what you saw. My dad could never take a compliment because he was so modest. But, if it delivered in a conversational tone, and not a 'praising-tone' - and you keep moving with the conversation, and not dwell on the compliment -- even if they try to deflect it, they HAVE received it!

    • @gregwilliams6641
      @gregwilliams6641 2 года назад +1

      Hello dear it's a pleasure to have you here ❤️☺️

  • @belindaroca4577
    @belindaroca4577 2 года назад +45

    I love your videos! You are so real.. love that. We've been together for 32yrs and I still make him the hero and we still think about each other during the day.. treats me like his queen and I treat him like my king. He's my best friend . But there's always room for improvement.. and things we take for granted after being together for so long..

  • @elsavelaz
    @elsavelaz 2 года назад +5

    How do you have a conversation with a man 1) about his hygiene 2) tell him in a way that sticks the stuff you like in intimacy and the stuff you definitely absolutely do not enjoy . I don’t want to fake enjoying pleasure but I also don’t want to discourage the stuff I do love and I feel I’ve tried every suggestion out there on how to get to a place away when my physical pleasure is not having to tip toe around his ego

  • @lindalinville6137
    @lindalinville6137 Год назад +5

    He does the most sweetest things, like , I had covid and went to urgent care waiting outside, He hunted me down and brought Chinese food, and we ate on top of his hood of his car in the parking lot, I thought that was so awesome so romantic to me so thoughtful, I'll never forget this, ❤️❤️❤️

    • @HelenaSpells
      @HelenaSpells Год назад

      There is still hope , law of attraction in my Bio

  • @annabellwilliams4534
    @annabellwilliams4534 2 года назад +15

    I just love your video and advice, because everything that u just got through saying is exactly how our relationship is going, and I just got into this relationship about nine month ago, and from the time we kick off it has been a burning feeling inside of me every time I think of my partner, just to look at him just turn me on to him the talk the phone calls it's just so many splendid thing about this relationship, I think I have found my soulmate..🙌🏽 Thank u I glad I stop and listen to your video.

  • @maameserwaa4221
    @maameserwaa4221 Год назад +3

    When he tells me "I don't want anyone, I want everything in you"

  • @rileywiebe3512
    @rileywiebe3512 2 года назад +5

    When he randomly reminds me he likes me and what he likes about me.
    When he gets really excited about something and expresses the excitement around me.
    When he puts a lot of thought, creativity and effort into something important to him.
    When he surprises me with something little, but sweet and unexpected

  • @bookano859
    @bookano859 2 года назад +1

    He gives me positive affirmation of his feelings and it’s verbal over text.

  • @joansandeen9443
    @joansandeen9443 Год назад

    Matt--you're the best!! Such good practical advice!
    The thing that I admire the most in the guy in my life is that I just love him for him being himself. I love his essence and true self!!

  • @robynrinear
    @robynrinear 2 года назад +1

    Active listening from your man is a sure way to leave a lasting impression

  • @alyakusuma14
    @alyakusuma14 Год назад

    Always love your advice! Thankyou so much😊

  • @nj4495
    @nj4495 Год назад +11

    He pays attention & remembers small little things about me. My routines, what was I doing when I picked up his call, what I love doing. ❤

    • @Ryansara
      @Ryansara Год назад

      Are you a mountain person or a beach person

  • @nitamckeethen6986
    @nitamckeethen6986 Год назад +1

    Great ideas! Very useful. Thanks!

  • @debbie7688
    @debbie7688 2 года назад

    What a great little vid. Thanks for sharing x

  • @catherinem4130
    @catherinem4130 3 месяца назад

    This encouraging instructional video never goes out of style!! Thank You

  • @jennyjones4296
    @jennyjones4296 11 месяцев назад +2

    May fabulous man sends me a special song that reflects and celebrates love for each other. I used these songs to create a playlist for when I go to the gym.

  • @natarshaseenath961
    @natarshaseenath961 2 года назад

    Great advice.
    I am in a long distance relationship.
    For me I would say just hearing his voice first and last thing everyday.
    Stay safe and thank you.

  • @shelleyoconnor1609
    @shelleyoconnor1609 2 года назад

    So fun!! Thank you Matt!🙏💙🌻

  • @annae.9006
    @annae.9006 2 года назад +33

    I LOVED every second of this video, but the story of your kids going "get into it..." just cracked me uuup, hahahahaaaaa :D Much love to you and your beautiful fam.!!! xoxox

  • @paolachernosky5025
    @paolachernosky5025 Год назад +3

    I do all these things to my man. I make him feel special every time I see him. I do lift him up and make him feel like a man. I love doing this for him. He is special and a loving person. Thanks for sharing.

    • @Ryansara
      @Ryansara Год назад

      Are you a mountain person or a beach person

  • @queenbee9109
    @queenbee9109 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @myrnasumaran525
    @myrnasumaran525 Год назад

    You're great!! Wonderful tips!! Thank you!!

  • @richardsonramble4166
    @richardsonramble4166 2 года назад +1

    Did this, it works.
    I wasn't going to devalue myself.

  • @euphory
    @euphory 2 года назад +12

    Brilliant! Thank you :) Loved the accompanied effects on No 5! That really helps convey what's going on internally.

  • @woodsandcreek7589
    @woodsandcreek7589 Год назад +1

    *What I like the best*
    When my boyfriend looks me directly in my eyes, gives me his full attention, and he shares a genuine, lighthearted conversation with me

  • @colleenwilliamson8429
    @colleenwilliamson8429 Год назад

    You always give such brilliant advice Mat, thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @thisisblisss
    @thisisblisss Год назад +2

    :D such lovely, healthy advice!!!!! thank you!

  • @TheMomo1109
    @TheMomo1109 2 года назад +1

    Great insights Mat!

  • @janorr1111
    @janorr1111 2 года назад +8

    Tell your wife I’m going to steal her line about the sunset! Good Video!

  • @bienvile104
    @bienvile104 2 года назад +1

    That 6 second kiss seals the deal! It worked for me!!!!

  • @rberryphils9307
    @rberryphils9307 Год назад

    I'm so hooked with all your videos! Kudos and thanks alot for these life saving vids haha

  • @naturallyyounaturallyme1324
    @naturallyyounaturallyme1324 10 месяцев назад

    Great advice. I will try. Thank you 😊

  • @ah3738
    @ah3738 Год назад

    Some great tips here!! Thank uuu

  • @christyrohrmayer5330
    @christyrohrmayer5330 2 года назад +3

    Wow. I love this video! So glad you covered these points. I need to listed to this again. Thank you.

  • @josierissi1358
    @josierissi1358 2 года назад +2

    The best video ever 🤩👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @mrsdanmiller
    @mrsdanmiller Год назад +10

    Everything he demonstrated to me (his exterior persona) was his heart expression. I fell in love with him the first day I met him, loved him in this dimension until the day he left this world for the next and I continue to feel a deep sense of connection to him spiritually. It’s difficult to know how to use the next 30+ years of this mandatory death sentence we call “earthly life.”

  • @muscles_ann_mascara6194
    @muscles_ann_mascara6194 2 года назад

    Mat, I appreciate you and your advice!! Thank you!!!!

  • @jillg7321
    @jillg7321 2 года назад +4

    Fabulous video Mat. I am definitely trying the 6 second kiss 💋. What a wonderful idea.

  • @aniab4306
    @aniab4306 2 года назад +1

    Great video thanks😍

  • @blekon9
    @blekon9 Год назад

    Great tips here.
    Thanks.

  • @selfretired3025
    @selfretired3025 2 года назад +50

    What makes me think about him all day?
    When he does things that excite me... and always being exactly what I need.
    Whether that's his consciously positive wording in everything he says... or the gentle, loving way he has of listening and helping me from falling.

    • @cellechidors7817
      @cellechidors7817 2 года назад

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together. and if you need any kind of help he can help you....

    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад

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    • @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210
      @afolarinoluwadamilolaracha2210 2 года назад

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    • @gregwilliams6641
      @gregwilliams6641 2 года назад

      Hello dear it's a pleasure to have you here ❤️☺️

  • @lalalax706
    @lalalax706 Год назад

    I love it! Thank you.

  • @ceciliesamritaaune2783
    @ceciliesamritaaune2783 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for inspiring words ❤

  • @elenar6212
    @elenar6212 2 года назад +1

    Your advice is brilliant.

  • @deliapasqualini970
    @deliapasqualini970 2 года назад +3

    Very helpful, thank you😊

    • @cellechidors7817
      @cellechidors7817 2 года назад

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together. and if you need any kind of help he can help you....

  • @koltokawarpeei
    @koltokawarpeei Год назад

    Amazing video , Thank you ❤️❤️😍🙏

  • @belindaroulston152
    @belindaroulston152 2 года назад +1

    His smile... and his eyes 🥰🥰🥰 that has me thinking about him constantly

    • @WatchManDan-9
      @WatchManDan-9 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days

  • @donnahampton7764
    @donnahampton7764 2 года назад +3

    Hey Mat, I love your videos! Keep up the good work!

    • @ikiramakima6705
      @ikiramakima6705 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....

  • @shawtrickajoseph6367
    @shawtrickajoseph6367 2 года назад +8

    I Shine my Light ✨✨✨ and Bring Greatness to all my relationships
    Feel Good 😊
    About ourselves

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together.

    • @johnsonmike6907
      @johnsonmike6907 2 года назад

      Whatz'app him for help

  • @getawaywithpam
    @getawaywithpam 2 года назад

    Number 5… brilliant! … and the effects!! 🤩

  • @deborahmoir4726
    @deborahmoir4726 Год назад

    great advice as always