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A question I have, is, if a man is content and happy with his wife, why then does he still have to infringe/delve into intimacy with other women ? I have experienced so many married men approach me for affairs even though they claim to be happy with their wives'. It should have been emotionally impossible, yet we see that it is not only possible but that they actively go chasing it.
Hug him. Guys love physical contact. Hug him, lean toward him when talking, take his hand, sit with your knees touching, stuff like that. If you're eating a meal together, offer him something of yours, like if you've got a cookie, split it in half and offer half to him. Chances are, he'll feel the urge to do something similar and also want to share with you. This creates a closeness that's really nice and comfortable for both of you. This is what's worked for me. It may not work for you, but that's my advice.
Your smile and kindness have such an amazingly positive effect on everyone around you. For all you beautiful ladies out there that have had your heart broken take time to heal your inner wounds; because once your inside changes and you begin to love, trust and respect yourself your outer world changes as well. The energy we send out into the world is the energy we attract back as well. 💛
@@TheBestOfLisaRenee Thank- you. Taking time to heal is truly the key to finding the happiness we deserve in this world. We can all try these different relationship tips to find a partner, but if we don't truly love ourselves first no matter what we do we are never going to be able to be completely happy in any relationships. Best of luck to you 💛🙏
thank you! i love you!! i’ve been through a lot with men, leading me to have resentment and turn into a pessimistic person. i’ve been doing a lot of healing and therapy and i feel so much better, but i’m not sure if those feelings will ever truly leave. they have been subdued though and everyday i’m making a conscious effort to be positive. i’ve learned that your mindset is your reality!
@@nukacloud4219 Congratulations on your progress Nukacloud. 😊 Life is a journey and it's full of ups and downs. Bad things may have happened to us in the past, but they don't define us or our paths moving forward unless we allow them to. By taking the lessons learned from each of our past relationships we can continue to move forward and become the change we want to see in ourselves and future partners. Through taking time to heal, which you have done you are allowing yourself the space and grace to love, care for and trust yourself again which is a beautiful gift we give ourselves.💛 God bless🙏 Wishing you a lifetime full of happiness and peace. 😊🕊️💛
I made a conscious decision to open my heart so I could feel and fully accept what it feels to be truly loved. I recognized I never truly believe someone loved me, despite them telling me, showing me. #5 got into the best relationship of my life ❤️
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Ohhh #5 reminds me of what my 2nd (late) husband told me on our first date. He was a mule wrangler. In his Colorado cowboy drawl he said, “Lead with your heart and your ass will follow”. We were married for 4 fun-filled, glorious years before he died from cancer.
I've been looking on and off for months for decent relationship/dating advice that doesn't feel like playing games. I'm a very open, honest woman. Not obnoxious, but I hate games, I thrive on honesty. In just a view videos I feel like I'm finally learning how to be true to myself, not play games and move things forward. Thank you!
Hi Mat. Today I had an appointment with an amazing man (2nd visit). He pulled out a chair for me while I waited. Wow. I greeted him with a smile and eye contact, thanked him in advance as I had forgotten to do so last visit. I paid close attention and held space while he shared a few things with me. He revealed that he is a softie, (well he is a top martial artist and very powerfully built, even intimidating), he lives with his daughter ie: is single, he is super neat, and I responded "I noticed". He made a comment about his hair style (on that I just smiled.) In short, he couldn't do enough for me. Last thing I said" I would talk another time with him " as our time was up. He was open and vulnerable to me which I really appreciated and I credit you for getting me up to speed. Oh yeah, he finished by saying I was welcome to come back 2 or 3 times. Yeay.
I get the "willingness to receive help" because men want to feel needed. My boyfriend (haha, we're both well into middle age) will say I'm "independent". When he says this, I tell him I'm "self-sufficient" because I've been on my own for so long that I just do what needs to be done. I've gotten better at asking him to help, even though I could do it myself. I do get annoyed though when he takes over, instead of just helping. I think this is another male tendency from the desire to be needed, to be "the provider". On the other hand, if I offer help or make a suggestion, he takes it as I think he can't do it. I have to remind him that it's never because I don't think he isn't capable but that I was taught to be helpful and I don't like to see him struggle.
Thank you so much ! I’m going to meet a man soon in person that we’ve been texting, phone calls, videos, quick photos for 3 months. I’m afraid I’ll be too shy when we have that first date. I needed to hear all this from you.
Things I do is be myself and follow through! If I say I want to try something, then I better be ready to do it! If I say I want to go somewhere, then I better be packed and ready! Make you actions match your words. Totally attractive.
This last one is so true. I have fallen in love and broken free and I realized I never let myself feel love before. I either didn't allow it to happen and quickly ended it or was with men who weren't a good match and convinced myself it was love but it really wasn't and there was always doubts but this guy is the real deal. It's not just love but also peace and I also let him help me in ways I never have let anyone help me before. Sometimes it's hard. It's more because I know he has a lot on his plate and I want to make life easier for him.
@@bonnie_gail yes this last relationship definitely makes life easier for me. Although I think we make life easier on each other. He also allows me to be me without feeling like I can't be whole self. He accepts every part of me. Yes, you should be fully present no matter who is there and no matter what their reaction is but this makes it so much better. He also always seems to tune in just when I need him. Like today he was miles away for work but he knew I was having a tough time with my new boss and sent me a supportive message.
I’ve watched so many of your videos, Mat, and not only is your content awesome, but it reaffirms for me that I’ve found my person! My guy checks all the boxes in this video as well as in your other videos.
So great that you brought the subconscious fears to attention because these are mega love blockers. My personal experience is that subliminal meditation really helps with eliminating those limiting beliefs.
Great video Mat! The unconscious/ invisible love shield is a big obstacle for so many us women. It was a complete game changer to my dating life when I did the work to bring it into the light and began lowering it and I know it was a key piece of finally attracting my guy and has helped our relationship thrive! ❤
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0nce you do the inner work and the shield becomes visible you can begin to lower it, which is a good thing. Continue to thrive and be happy Sarah.🎉 The light gets so much brighter once you get out of the darkness.💛✨
Did all of this with a crush I had for a couple years recently. Even let him know about the crush. He said he always thought I was sexy, but he doesn’t have time for a relationship. He put up a roadblock instantly! It’s like a switch flipped and he turned into another person! I thought he was cool… but turns out he’s a nut. Kinda juvenile. If this was supposed to be reverse psychology for me to chase him and get him to see I’m a catch, forget about it! That’s too much work.
Holding gaze does work cuz happened to me..!! I was just catching up with a friend staring into his eyes the whole time. Only cuz I find it disrespectful, not to pay attention/focus while talking to someone. His eyes, the way he talks to me, his attitude & more.
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Work the Quirk! Love it❣️ I can do that! I guess I have been waiting for permission to be my eclectic, eccentric self. 👍 Perhaps it’s time to shed that old time ‘good girl’ image. Thanks for the BIG tip, Mat. Love your sense of humour and sweet smile. 😁🤗😘
I was hoping this was going to be in regards to texting PRIOR to an initial date - since that’s so much of how we meet these days - still a great video. I’d love to see more on texting at the beginning of getting to know men ♥️
Funny you said that I met someone by not even looking ... him approaching me after my comment on Instagram... kept it playful and real... no rush to meet to where I got to know more about him.
Your story about the quirky couple is an example of the saying there is a lid for every pot 😉 I’m still hoping to meet the lid for my pot…in this lifetime 🤣
Awesome you such in a goooood spirit in this video , you shine all over and make me sooooo happy , thank you , i am getting ready with your teaching, Love it ❤
Thanks Mat,i loved this today i know myself im an old fashioned, thinking of this to do it to Him a couraged to do so. Iam who shield myself to protect myself not until two days ago I went fo a date i will never let happend of what had happened on that date. Thanks Mat.
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Also making sarcastic comments, using dark sense of humour, pulling his leg and wittiness really give them some Rush!! Really working on almost every man even when he is committed to someone else.. 😂
Loving your advice about men. It is quick, and directly to the point. I am very old fashioned, and a perfect gentleman, loyalty, honesty, and value and respect is what I am looking for. Like that knight on a white horse kind of man, that has never been married, and has NO CHILDREN AT ALL. Plus I am a hopeless romantic at heart. Tired of attracting the wrong guy!!
To get all of that, in a man who's never been married and has no children, I'm hoping you're looking for someone in his early 20s! Men like you describe are snapped up fast while young; I've found that they are typically available only after divorce, being widowed, etc., often through no fault of their own. Yes, they have been married, and likely have kids. Unless you're looking for a very young man, maybe you need to be a wee bit more understanding, and focus on becoming all that you demand in a partner.
Laury, if you are desiring a man like that, then that means there's a man like that desiring you back. The Universe puts it in our heart to start manifesting what is already created for us...it means there IS someone to reciprocate it. Put it out there. Write it down. Visualize it everyday, feel it, taste it, live it, and make space for him in your life right now...like you're actually already living it and actually with this man you desire. I'm in Mat's class and this is something he helps you identify and build up and live it. If you've been doing this and he hasn't manifested for you yet, then ask the Universe/God/Your Source, why? What's stopping you? Blocking you? What's in your way? Listen. Because He/She will show you an answer. It's amazing to watch God work...
@@Volkslady YOUR ADVICE IS ABSOLUTELY WORTHLESS TO ME, AND PROVES YOUR MINDSET IS SHORT. I KNOW LOTS OF GUYS THAT ARE EXACTLY AS I DESCRIBED!!! ONE MORE THING, I NEVER ASKED FOR YOUR ADVICE DIRECTLY, AND NEVER WOULD. LEARN TO REALIZE WITH COMMENTS THAT IT IS NOT YOUR COMMENT THAT IS WANTED LISA PETERSON
I agree, that hero in him has to be initiated by him a lot too. Otherwise he might feel nagged or resentful. I am blessed with a guy who is always wanting to do things for me of his own volition. I am so impressed with him and it feels so good.
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What if you compliment him and he says yes, I agree. Isn't that a mistake or turn off. I've been with someone for over 13 years. Yet he still excites me.
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Hello friends are you trying to attract or manifest love? to get back your ex, manifest your specific person, He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting
Hello friends are you trying to attract or manifest love ? to get back your ex , manifest your specific person , He's the best in restoring back broken relationship and attracting
Matt, I initiated a conversation with a guy I found very attractive and funny. We had a great, long conversation and it seemed like we had good chemistry. He said he enjoyed the conversation, gave me his phone number and asked me out. Before saying yes, I asked if he was seeing someone. I reasoned that he had a very young daughter and had at least been in a significant relationship recently. He was kinda wish washy about the answer which was kind of a let down after a great convo. He said he was currently single, but unsure if he was going to reunite with his daughter’s mother in the future. So I told him I was attracted to him and I really enjoyed the conversation, but I said no to the date. I didn’t want to put myself in a situation where I could potentially get hurt. Was this the right move? He said he felt like one date wasn’t a big deal and he was currently single. I thought about him after and wanted to reach out more, but I didn’t want to send mixed messages since I did say no ( but honestly didn’t want to). He hasn’t reached out again. I respect his prior relationship/family, but is it wrong for me to want to stay on his radar if that relationship doesn’t work out? Should I keep friendly conversation going? Or should I just wait for him to reach back out in the future? Am I doing this right????
Your gut feeling is usually always right. You could have tried one date just as friends to see what happens. Sometimes our high expectations get in the way of just going out and having a good time with a man and practicing our feminine around them. 😉 All girls hate to be hurt, however, sometimes our shield is so high we can't accept friendship because we want instant relationship.
oh god.. please.. basic knowledge of how to make a relationship lasts... the best relationship advice coming from someone who has been in a 17 years relationship with someone, please read the book Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-and Keep-Love: . a therapist gave me this tip.. you will understand the basic dynamics of what takes to have a long term relationship. the key is secure attachment. most people are messed up, especially men. a lot of men are avoidant. unless people work on themselves... relationships won't work, I had a very secure relationship for 17 years...
Maybe she did not Let you carry her suitcases because you asked.... sometimes I feel like if a guy wants to do something he'll just do it without asking.
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Was meant to be on a second date tonight but the guy forgot to tell me that he is out of town for the weekend!! Not relevant to the video but I'm pissed lol.
Being honest about myself and curious about him and asking questions. Like I crave Chinese food, what food would you say you crave at times? Doing little fun things like sing a little of a song playing, maybe lean in then laugh and say ... guess I better not quit my day job 😂 ... and yes, light touch of forearm and move hand down to his fingers and see if he holds my hand.
Love this, thanks so much Mat. I have a question though: I have already opened my heart more than my man (10 months dating and counting) and Im so ready to tell him that I love him. Thing is, he is still being guarded and keeping me on the outside. I know hes been hurt in the past, but I have accomodated him and given him loads of space and been patient. (he has an 11 year old daughter- I havent met her yet) When is the right time? Is there a right time? Who goes first!!? Thanks xx
Give him a definite timeline: how he really feels about you, when you can meet his daughter, etc. 10 months is a long time for him to still feel uncomfortable with you. Look up Avoidant Attachment. That could help you in figuring him out and what to do next.
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@@loryjones7220 this is incredibly helpful, and Im just grateful for a sensible (non spam, reply!) Thanks so much for this. I will look up avoidant attachment as I never heard of this before. great stuff. x
Do you know why women don't let men to help them like carrying a simple suitcase? 'Cause they are aware when things get worse, men will become the most horrible creatures ever. So, something like "being kind to you" will become a weapon to make you feel devastated. For this reason women tend to stay in their masculine energy, like a sort of self protection.
I've never met a woman that carries the luggage for that reason, and I'm sorry for what you've gone through. But if you have relationships that make you feel so unsafe and that you need to take care of everything for when they leave, I think you should talk to a professional and be surrounded by people who love you. 💕
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Delia my heart goes out to you because I can fully embrace and understand what you're saying. Sadly so many women have been in these abusive relationships in which they have learned they have to do everything themselves. Take time to heal your inner wounds and get to the root of why you attracting these type of people in your life. Through inner healing self love, trust and acceptance in time you will be able to learn to trust others again. It takes a lot of time and commitment to yourself, but I'm living proof that it is 💯 worth it There are a lot of beautiful people out there that don't weaponize helping. They do it because they want to, which is kind and has no ulterior motive. Sending you prayers of strength and inner peace. Always know you're not alone and things will get better. As your inside changes your outside world will change as well and you will begin to feel the walls coming down.💛 God bless🙏
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The whole social media is bombarding woman to be cool, don't show interest, don't chase, let them chase you, 8things why you should not chase a guy , be cool to your your crash kind of vdos...I met a guy and it was a love at first sight, we liked each other andI was so excited around him,these vdos never helped me and killed my potential believe me..I was actually authentic and very warm to him suddenly played the hard and never greeted him and ignored him twice,he now ignored me totally. Be natural. I wish I never played being a stranger...me as an authentic person colud win his heart...
I love to show interest. 😊I do compliment him on his clothes. Takes a special guy to win my heart, but he has already won my heart. I do use eye contact, i wink and smile at him. Confidence, I do be me. I am a little querky. I do recieve help. My man asks me all the time. Talks about fixing breakfast and bringing it to me in bed. I do create space. I have opened my heart to my man, he loves it. ❤❤❤
How does one start attraction in ones self? Edit:. Seems to be a grave misunderstanding to my question. I'm dating a man for over 6 months who I've known most of my life. He does all the things I want, ie:. Plans dates, loves me unconditionally, wants to be a couple...after all this time, I'm still not physically attracted though i believe him to be a very attractive man. What can I do to become attracted romantically to this man, or will it not develop?
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⚡1) practice mindfulness and meditation - become more in touch with ur body and feelings. Come into your own body (as opposed to abandoning it). Honour your feelings. Tune into your intuition. ⚡2) Write down & know your values, things that matter most to you (these could be religious values or personal beliefs) ⚡3) Become clear on what your personal boundaries are ⚡4) practice assertive communication, like expressing yourself when hurt or upholding a boundary or addressing when someone has crossed it. Be your own ally. ⚡5) Self-awareness, through therapy or counselling or self help books or all of the above. Increase understanding around what makes u tick and why, and seek to discover blind spots that unconsciously impact on your day to day life ⚡6) Be kind to yourself and respect yourself and forgive yourself (we all make mistakes as we grow and no one's perfect) ⚡7) Do what brings you joy, connect to your playful side ⚡8) Be present - try to avoid projecting into the future or travelling back in time. The time is now, that's all you've got ⚡9) Practice gratitude, keep a journal or list ⚡10) Build confidence by doing new things outside of your comfort zone, small steps ⚡11) If you seek love, be loving - it comes back to you 💞
I lived with a man. He mentioned love first. I got injured, and he made a comment. I didn't like it, and I told him to move out because I was shocked and upset. Later he said he didn't mean it? We are now really good friends but I want more. He wants sex and best friends. I won't go there because I don't want to get hurt again. What should I do?
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My neighbour that I really like and appreciate offered me a chess game of his grand-parents I feel like he has a romantic interest in me and I don't know how to show him mine
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Tap into embodying your beautiful feminine energy --be playful, attentive, open in your energy and look for ways when in communication with him to give him a green light -- even as simple as a light touch of his arm. Hope that helps and good luck! Oh and I'm sure Mat has videos on his channel that would help you with this further ❤
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Ok, can't do it too much too obvious to desperately either. A friend of mine initiates men to take her out and looks at men with eye contact desperately. She always shows it clearly that she needs the guys. She is still single coz all men ran away.
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A question I have, is, if a man is content and happy with his wife, why then does he still have to infringe/delve into intimacy with other women ? I have experienced so many married men approach me for affairs even though they claim to be happy with their wives'. It should have been emotionally impossible, yet we see that it is not only possible but that they actively go chasing it.
I would like to have the link to brake free
1. Show interest
2. Eye contact & smile
3. Confidence
4. Willing to receive help
5. Lead with open heart
You are the best!! we all with ADHD love you guys that write this down so we can come back and read it when we zoom out🤓🥰😘😘😘
Thankyou
Hug him. Guys love physical contact. Hug him, lean toward him when talking, take his hand, sit with your knees touching, stuff like that. If you're eating a meal together, offer him something of yours, like if you've got a cookie, split it in half and offer half to him. Chances are, he'll feel the urge to do something similar and also want to share with you. This creates a closeness that's really nice and comfortable for both of you. This is what's worked for me. It may not work for you, but that's my advice.
Your smile and kindness have such an amazingly positive effect on everyone around you. For all you beautiful ladies out there that have had your heart broken take time to heal your inner wounds; because once your inside changes and you begin to love, trust and respect yourself your outer world changes as well. The energy we send out into the world is the energy we attract back as well. 💛
You said that so beautifully. 🦚
@@TheBestOfLisaRenee Thank- you. Taking time to heal is truly the key to finding the happiness we deserve in this world. We can all try these different relationship tips to find a partner, but if we don't truly love ourselves first no matter what we do we are never going to be able to be completely happy in any relationships. Best of luck to you 💛🙏
thank you! i love you!! i’ve been through a lot with men, leading me to have resentment and turn into a pessimistic person. i’ve been doing a lot of healing and therapy and i feel so much better, but i’m not sure if those feelings will ever truly leave. they have been subdued though and everyday i’m making a conscious effort to be positive. i’ve learned that your mindset is your reality!
@@nukacloud4219 Congratulations on your progress Nukacloud. 😊 Life is a journey and it's full of ups and downs. Bad things may have happened to us in the past, but they don't define us or our paths moving forward unless we allow them to. By taking the lessons learned from each of our past relationships we can continue to move forward and become the change we want to see in ourselves and future partners. Through taking time to heal, which you have done you are allowing yourself the space and grace to love, care for and trust yourself again which is a beautiful gift we give ourselves.💛 God bless🙏 Wishing you a lifetime full of happiness and peace. 😊🕊️💛
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The things that ignites attraction is by being an active listener… and definitely eye contact… thank you great video
I made a conscious decision to open my heart so I could feel and fully accept what it feels to be truly loved. I recognized I never truly believe someone loved me, despite them telling me, showing me. #5 got into the best relationship of my life ❤️
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Believe me he's going to restore your broken relationship back successfully.💔👆
Sense of humor, humbleness, intelligence and lack of rudeness
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Believe me he's going to restore your broken relationship back successfully.💔👆
Ohhh #5 reminds me of what my 2nd (late) husband told me on our first date. He was a mule wrangler. In his Colorado cowboy drawl he said, “Lead with your heart and your ass will follow”. We were married for 4 fun-filled, glorious years before he died from cancer.
I've been looking on and off for months for decent relationship/dating advice that doesn't feel like playing games. I'm a very open, honest woman. Not obnoxious, but I hate games, I thrive on honesty. In just a view videos I feel like I'm finally learning how to be true to myself, not play games and move things forward. Thank you!
Hi Mat. Today I had an appointment with an amazing man (2nd visit). He pulled out a chair for me while I waited. Wow. I greeted him with a smile and eye contact, thanked him in advance as I had forgotten to do so last visit. I paid close attention and held space while he shared a few things with me. He revealed that he is a softie, (well he is a top martial artist and very powerfully built, even intimidating), he lives with his daughter ie: is single, he is super neat, and I responded "I noticed". He made a comment about his hair style (on that I just smiled.) In short, he couldn't do enough for me. Last thing I said" I would talk another time with him " as our time was up. He was open and vulnerable to me which I really appreciated and I credit you for getting me up to speed. Oh yeah, he finished by saying I was welcome to come back 2 or 3 times. Yeay.
I get the "willingness to receive help" because men want to feel needed. My boyfriend (haha, we're both well into middle age) will say I'm "independent". When he says this, I tell him I'm "self-sufficient" because I've been on my own for so long that I just do what needs to be done. I've gotten better at asking him to help, even though I could do it myself. I do get annoyed though when he takes over, instead of just helping. I think this is another male tendency from the desire to be needed, to be "the provider".
On the other hand, if I offer help or make a suggestion, he takes it as I think he can't do it. I have to remind him that it's never because I don't think he isn't capable but that I was taught to be helpful and I don't like to see him struggle.
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Yes, it can be a delicate dance!
Thank you so much ! I’m going to meet a man soon in person that we’ve been texting, phone calls, videos, quick photos for 3 months. I’m afraid I’ll be too shy when we have that first date. I needed to hear all this from you.
Same!!!!!!!
Things I do is be myself and follow through! If I say I want to try something, then I better be ready to do it! If I say I want to go somewhere, then I better be packed and ready! Make you actions match your words. Totally attractive.
This last one is so true. I have fallen in love and broken free and I realized I never let myself feel love before. I either didn't allow it to happen and quickly ended it or was with men who weren't a good match and convinced myself it was love but it really wasn't and there was always doubts but this guy is the real deal. It's not just love but also peace and I also let him help me in ways I never have let anyone help me before. Sometimes it's hard. It's more because I know he has a lot on his plate and I want to make life easier for him.
and who is making life easier for you ?
@@bonnie_gail yes this last relationship definitely makes life easier for me. Although I think we make life easier on each other. He also allows me to be me without feeling like I can't be whole self. He accepts every part of me. Yes, you should be fully present no matter who is there and no matter what their reaction is but this makes it so much better. He also always seems to tune in just when I need him. Like today he was miles away for work but he knew I was having a tough time with my new boss and sent me a supportive message.
I think body language is really important! Always face him and look “open” to an approach
Smiling
Approaching with comment
Initiating honest conversation
Switching to sweet conversation
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I’ve watched so many of your videos, Mat, and not only is your content awesome, but it reaffirms for me that I’ve found my person! My guy checks all the boxes in this video as well as in your other videos.
My shield is like the Great Wall
So great that you brought the subconscious fears to attention because these are mega love blockers. My personal experience is that subliminal meditation really helps with eliminating those limiting beliefs.
I loooove when he talks about his wife!!!
Great video Mat! The unconscious/ invisible love shield is a big obstacle for so many us women. It was a complete game changer to my dating life when I did the work to bring it into the light and began lowering it and I know it was a key piece of finally attracting my guy and has helped our relationship thrive! ❤
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0nce you do the inner work and the shield becomes visible you can begin to lower it, which is a good thing. Continue to thrive and be happy Sarah.🎉 The light gets so much brighter once you get out of the darkness.💛✨
Did all of this with a crush I had for a couple years recently. Even let him know about the crush. He said he always thought I was sexy, but he doesn’t have time for a relationship. He put up a roadblock instantly! It’s like a switch flipped and he turned into another person! I thought he was cool… but turns out he’s a nut. Kinda juvenile. If this was supposed to be reverse psychology for me to chase him and get him to see I’m a catch, forget about it! That’s too much work.
Holding gaze does work cuz happened to me..!! I was just catching up with a friend staring into his eyes the whole time. Only cuz I find it disrespectful, not to pay attention/focus while talking to someone. His eyes, the way he talks to me, his attitude & more.
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@@DR_odijie_love_spell_homeNo Thank Youhe is toxic as h* ll.
Work the Quirk! Love it❣️ I can do that! I guess I have been waiting for permission to be my eclectic, eccentric self. 👍 Perhaps it’s time to shed that old time ‘good girl’ image. Thanks for the BIG tip, Mat. Love your sense of humour and sweet smile. 😁🤗😘
I was hoping this was going to be in regards to texting PRIOR to an initial date - since that’s so much of how we meet these days - still a great video.
I’d love to see more on texting at the beginning of getting to know men ♥️
Funny you said that I met someone by not even looking ... him approaching me after my comment on Instagram... kept it playful and real... no rush to meet to where I got to know more about him.
Your story about the quirky couple is an example of the saying there is a lid for every pot 😉 I’m still hoping to meet the lid for my pot…in this lifetime 🤣
Hey Mat,
I love how do you talk about relationship
You are the best relationship coach!!
I appreciate your videos. I get what your saying but some people are just not matchable. I know I am completely unmatchable. Tested and proven.
Your laugh always makes me smile! I can't help but giggle when you start acting silly.
I showed interest and thank him for checking on me when I was ill and I sent him 😘, he vanished after 🤦🏻♀️
I think men are attracted to women who treat others respectfully and kindly but also are capable of standing up for themselves
So much great advice and have a better understanding of myself. Thank you.
Awesome you such in a goooood spirit in this video , you shine all over and make me sooooo happy , thank you , i am getting ready with your teaching, Love it ❤
Thanks Mat,i loved this today i know myself im an old fashioned, thinking of this to do it to Him a couraged to do so. Iam who shield myself to protect myself not until two days ago I went fo a date i will never let happend of what had happened on that date. Thanks Mat.
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Also making sarcastic comments, using dark sense of humour, pulling his leg and wittiness really give them some Rush!! Really working on almost every man even when he is committed to someone else.. 😂
Note everyone likes sarcasm!
Loving your advice about men. It is quick, and directly to the point. I am very old fashioned, and a perfect gentleman, loyalty, honesty, and value and respect is what I am looking for. Like that knight on a white horse kind of man, that has never been married, and has NO CHILDREN AT ALL. Plus I am a hopeless romantic at heart. Tired of attracting the wrong guy!!
To get all of that, in a man who's never been married and has no children, I'm hoping you're looking for someone in his early 20s! Men like you describe are snapped up fast while young; I've found that they are typically available only after divorce, being widowed, etc., often through no fault of their own. Yes, they have been married, and likely have kids. Unless you're looking for a very young man, maybe you need to be a wee bit more understanding, and focus on becoming all that you demand in a partner.
Laury, if you are desiring a man like that, then that means there's a man like that desiring you back. The Universe puts it in our heart to start manifesting what is already created for us...it means there IS someone to reciprocate it.
Put it out there.
Write it down.
Visualize it everyday, feel it, taste it, live it, and make space for him in your life right now...like you're actually already living it and actually with this man you desire.
I'm in Mat's class and this is something he helps you identify and build up and live it.
If you've been doing this and he hasn't manifested for you yet, then ask the Universe/God/Your Source, why? What's stopping you? Blocking you? What's in your way?
Listen. Because He/She will show you an answer.
It's amazing to watch God work...
@@Volkslady YOUR ADVICE IS ABSOLUTELY WORTHLESS TO ME, AND PROVES YOUR MINDSET IS SHORT. I KNOW LOTS OF GUYS THAT ARE EXACTLY AS I DESCRIBED!!! ONE MORE THING, I NEVER ASKED FOR YOUR ADVICE DIRECTLY, AND NEVER WOULD. LEARN TO REALIZE WITH COMMENTS THAT IT IS NOT YOUR COMMENT THAT IS WANTED LISA PETERSON
Great video, love the background, thanks for all that you do 🧤 I find listening and paying attention really agnites passion. :)
If anything a man should be assertive and say, "Let me help you with your bags" and take the lead.
I agree, that hero in him has to be initiated by him a lot too. Otherwise he might feel nagged or resentful. I am blessed with a guy who is always wanting to do things for me of his own volition. I am so impressed with him and it feels so good.
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Love your channel, always wonderful and heartfelt guidance.
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@@khadijasalisu5010 You need to make your own RUclips channel
I really found your relationship videos informative. 😊
What if you compliment him and he says yes, I agree. Isn't that a mistake or turn off. I've been with someone for over 13 years. Yet he still excites me.
Thank you very much for such a great video, sometimes we all need to be reminded
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👏🏻 I’m going to watch this over and over. Thanks Matt
Great tips! Thanks so much for sharing.
“Don’t get the twerk on, get the quirk on.“ 😂😂😂😂😂
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Sometimes a girl's gotta maneuver her way into his path so he'll "approach" her. 😊
Thank You Matt!🙏 Now I realised, that I really have a problem to receive help and I need to let it go, I need to let a man help me...
*Hey friend I got my relationship fixed back with the help of a man who brought my partner back in 48 hours after many years of separation.♥️♥️*
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What shows we have an open heart Mat or how do we show it please. Always enjoy your relationship info 🙏 bless you for taking the time to help us 💜
Could you make a video about vulnerability or the ways/examples how to be vulnerable?
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Matt no one it's better than you thank you ❤
This was so good Matt. Work the quirk!
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I'm not even ready to date. Where's the door? lol I love what you're saying and the fact that you know there is a God.
I just enjoy the way you explain your points. 🤗
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Do you have any content for married people?
Great video and information. Thank you, Mat😁
Greetings from Nigeria 🇳🇬...let's talk on whatsapp
This is amazingly great. Thank you Mat!! You are really talking to me.
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I was being myself by being a bit childish and received confused look on his face with a smirk right after. Most confusing thing ever lol
I'm attracted to men who make me laugh. Men who don't mind being their goofy self.
I LOOOOVE the ant story!!!!!!❤
How am I supposed to "make him earn it" but also still be humble and realize that yeah, I am kind of a prize, but not the best and have hang ups too?
Matt, I initiated a conversation with a guy I found very attractive and funny. We had a great, long conversation and it seemed like we had good chemistry. He said he enjoyed the conversation, gave me his phone number and asked me out. Before saying yes, I asked if he was seeing someone. I reasoned that he had a very young daughter and had at least been in a significant relationship recently. He was kinda wish washy about the answer which was kind of a let down after a great convo. He said he was currently single, but unsure if he was going to reunite with his daughter’s mother in the future. So I told him I was attracted to him and I really enjoyed the conversation, but I said no to the date. I didn’t want to put myself in a situation where I could potentially get hurt. Was this the right move? He said he felt like one date wasn’t a big deal and he was currently single. I thought about him after and wanted to reach out more, but I didn’t want to send mixed messages since I did say no ( but honestly didn’t want to). He hasn’t reached out again. I respect his prior relationship/family, but is it wrong for me to want to stay on his radar if that relationship doesn’t work out? Should I keep friendly conversation going? Or should I just wait for him to reach back out in the future? Am I doing this right????
Your gut feeling is usually always right. You could have tried one date just as friends to see what happens. Sometimes our high expectations get in the way of just going out and having a good time with a man and practicing our feminine around them. 😉 All girls hate to be hurt, however, sometimes our shield is so high we can't accept friendship because we want instant relationship.
So????? What happened???????
I'm no longer interested in igniting attraction.
oh god.. please.. basic knowledge of how to make a relationship lasts... the best relationship advice coming from someone who has been in a 17 years relationship with someone, please read the book Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-and Keep-Love: . a therapist gave me this tip.. you will understand the basic dynamics of what takes to have a long term relationship. the key is secure attachment. most people are messed up, especially men. a lot of men are avoidant. unless people work on themselves... relationships won't work, I had a very secure relationship for 17 years...
Maybe she did not Let you carry her suitcases because you asked.... sometimes I feel like if a guy wants to do something he'll just do it without asking.
10:14 i'm a man but i exactly recognise myself in it. Either i'm not interested in them or they aren't in me. It's getting better now though :)
Great tips! Thank you, Mat!
Thats me with the big suitcases.....
Great helpful video! Thanks♡
You are so funny! And all your tips make total sense 😊
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They really do make so much sense!! `❤
Was meant to be on a second date tonight but the guy forgot to tell me that he is out of town for the weekend!! Not relevant to the video but I'm pissed lol.
Being honest about myself and curious about him and asking questions. Like I crave Chinese food, what food would you say you crave at times? Doing little fun things like sing a little of a song playing, maybe lean in then laugh and say ... guess I better not quit my day job 😂 ... and yes, light touch of forearm and move hand down to his fingers and see if he holds my hand.
Hey my new Instagram friend. Told you I absolutely love your material. So happy to learn so many exciting things. 🥰💕
Love this, thanks so much Mat. I have a question though: I have already opened my heart more than my man (10 months dating and counting) and Im so ready to tell him that I love him. Thing is, he is still being guarded and keeping me on the outside. I know hes been hurt in the past, but I have accomodated him and given him loads of space and been patient. (he has an 11 year old daughter- I havent met her yet) When is the right time? Is there a right time? Who goes first!!? Thanks xx
Give him a definite timeline: how he really feels about you, when you can meet his daughter, etc. 10 months is a long time for him to still feel uncomfortable with you. Look up Avoidant Attachment. That could help you in figuring him out and what to do next.
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@@loryjones7220 this is incredibly helpful, and Im just grateful for a sensible (non spam, reply!) Thanks so much for this. I will look up avoidant attachment as I never heard of this before. great stuff. x
Do you know why women don't let men to help them like carrying a simple suitcase? 'Cause they are aware when things get worse, men will become the most horrible creatures ever. So, something like "being kind to you" will become a weapon to make you feel devastated. For this reason women tend to stay in their masculine energy, like a sort of self protection.
I've never met a woman that carries the luggage for that reason, and I'm sorry for what you've gone through. But if you have relationships that make you feel so unsafe and that you need to take care of everything for when they leave, I think you should talk to a professional and be surrounded by people who love you. 💕
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Delia my heart goes out to you because I can fully embrace and understand what you're saying. Sadly so many women have been in these abusive relationships in which they have learned they have to do everything themselves. Take time to heal your inner wounds and get to the root of why you attracting these type of people in your life. Through inner healing self love, trust and acceptance in time you will be able to learn to trust others again. It takes a lot of time and commitment to yourself, but I'm living proof that it is 💯 worth it There are a lot of beautiful people out there that don't weaponize helping. They do it because they want to, which is kind and has no ulterior motive. Sending you prayers of strength and inner peace. Always know you're not alone and things will get better. As your inside changes your outside world will change as well and you will begin to feel the walls coming down.💛 God bless🙏
@@Goldenheart2911Amen 😊🙏🏾❤️
Give some clear examples of "opening your heart " , please and thank you.
Brilliant Mat thank you 🙏😊
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What do you mean by open heart? Can you explain the meaning of that?
Thank you for sharing your video matt.👍👍👍
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GREAT video, … ❤❤❤
Hi Mat, I can’t find the link to the Break Free program you mentioned. Thanks!
The whole social media is bombarding woman to be cool, don't show interest, don't chase, let them chase you, 8things why you should not chase a guy , be cool to your your crash kind of vdos...I met a guy and it was a love at first sight, we liked each other andI was so excited around him,these vdos never helped me and killed my potential believe me..I was actually authentic and very warm to him suddenly played the hard and never greeted him and ignored him twice,he now ignored me totally. Be natural. I wish I never played being a stranger...me as an authentic person colud win his heart...
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I like your topic very interesting and I find you funny the way you explain I enjoy it 😄 😊 thanks for that 👍❤
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5:20 i rolled with laughter 🤣🤣
I love to show interest. 😊I do compliment him on his clothes. Takes a special guy to win my heart, but he has already won my heart. I do use eye contact, i wink and smile at him. Confidence, I do be me. I am a little querky. I do recieve help. My man asks me all the time. Talks about fixing breakfast and bringing it to me in bed. I do create space. I have opened my heart to my man, he loves it. ❤❤❤
How does one start attraction in ones self? Edit:. Seems to be a grave misunderstanding to my question. I'm dating a man for over 6 months who I've known most of my life. He does all the things I want, ie:. Plans dates, loves me unconditionally, wants to be a couple...after all this time, I'm still not physically attracted though i believe him to be a very attractive man. What can I do to become attracted romantically to this man, or will it not develop?
Look yourself in the mirror and be kind to yourself recognizing how wonderful you are, start with " wow what a beautiful eyes i have " xoxo
find your inner venus
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⚡1) practice mindfulness and meditation - become more in touch with ur body and feelings. Come into your own body (as opposed to abandoning it). Honour your feelings. Tune into your intuition.
⚡2) Write down & know your values, things that matter most to you (these could be religious values or personal beliefs)
⚡3) Become clear on what your personal boundaries are
⚡4) practice assertive communication, like expressing yourself when hurt or upholding a boundary or addressing when someone has crossed it. Be your own ally.
⚡5) Self-awareness, through therapy or counselling or self help books or all of the above. Increase understanding around what makes u tick and why, and seek to discover blind spots that unconsciously impact on your day to day life
⚡6) Be kind to yourself and respect yourself and forgive yourself (we all make mistakes as we grow and no one's perfect)
⚡7) Do what brings you joy, connect to your playful side
⚡8) Be present - try to avoid projecting into the future or travelling back in time. The time is now, that's all you've got
⚡9) Practice gratitude, keep a journal or list
⚡10) Build confidence by doing new things outside of your comfort zone, small steps
⚡11) If you seek love, be loving - it comes back to you 💞
I lived with a man. He mentioned love first. I got injured, and he made a comment. I didn't like it, and I told him to move out because I was shocked and upset. Later he said he didn't mean it? We are now really good friends but I want more. He wants sex and best friends. I won't go there because I don't want to get hurt again. What should I do?
Don't be a friend with benefits. Never works. You end up getting hurt.
His ability to want to help me. Not that I have to ask him.
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I haven't got the first clue.😢 Maybe just not like them.
4:48 as a man i cant definitely confirm this 🤣
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Loved it! Don't get your twerk on...get your quirk on!😘😂
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I THINK THIS IS PREVIOUS VIDEO
Yes so true 👍😊
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Background music is very destructing. Please remove. I enjoy your videos
Get your qwirk on ❤😅💯
My neighbour that I really like and appreciate offered me a chess game of his grand-parents I feel like he has a romantic interest in me and I don't know how to show him mine
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Tap into embodying your beautiful feminine energy --be playful, attentive, open in your energy and look for ways when in communication with him to give him a green light -- even as simple as a light touch of his arm. Hope that helps and good luck! Oh and I'm sure Mat has videos on his channel that would help you with this further ❤
Where is the link to the "Break Free" Class?
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Ok, can't do it too much too obvious to desperately either. A friend of mine initiates men to take her out and looks at men with eye contact desperately. She always shows it clearly that she needs the guys. She is still single coz all men ran away.