I signed up for Antia’s program on Monday 11/25/24 and I haven’t been able to find/access the link. I fear that it may have been accidentally deleted in my spam folder. My name is Teresa Kestran. I would really appreciate it if you would re-forward the link to my email and I will watch for it. Thank you in advance!
I agree. We are in survival mode. I am a widow. I see the younger girls in my workplace: working, studying trying to make something out of themselves not to depend on anyone. It starts with our fathers. We don’t feel safe anywhere.
Women were never safe. Women were safe maybe in post war U.S.A, but that's a small time frame and only one country in the world but they were still treated as second class citizens. It was not better for women in the past, the bible and my grandmothers history tells me so.
Its comments like these that remind me how privileged I was to have a good safe father and I am able to relax into a safe man. I'm so sorry you've had this experience ❤ but I commented to let you know there are good safe men, they are out there they exist and I hold onto that hope because I was lucky enough to have that for a moment in my life. Love you dad wish you were here..now I have to find ways to protect myself too from these unsafe men since you've been gon3.❤❤
Women have had to adapt bc less men fit the bill. It’s not like we want the poor bargain of working two full time jobs…corporate/self employed and being the CEO of the kids/home/relations. People change then divorce or die also but the kids still need to be provided for.
💯. It’s starts with the father. My father was not safe to be around. I learnt to be in masculine energy to be not a burden and then to provide. It took me 36 yrs to get out of that trap, with 7 years of shadow work. I now understand one thing I never understood stood before: the leading life with the brain is leading with masculine energy, living life with the heart is feminine energy. I barricaded my heart behind a, I don’t know maybe under a mountain?, to avoid being hurt. My first step in real healing was that I learnt that I can handle my emotions, and hence I can handle hurt. But I also learnt to set emotional boundaries to protect my heart. Now, I can tap into her freely without fear. In my opinion, fear (and not low self worth) is holding back women to be feminine.
These principles absolutely work wirh a healthy masculine man. At 75, I'm finally with the first man who is into his healthy masculine energy. When I am open and vulnerable with him, he'll say eirher, "I hear you . . . ." , or "I understand what you're saying," and then provides encouraging words of comfort or advice. I've never been able to communicate this easily or deeply with a man while in my feminine energy.
@Gotoworkkk Yes. I wasted 55 years of my life on broken, narcissistic men because I didn't know any better. I have healed and am finally ready for a healthy relationship. It's never too late.
Hard to be vulnerable if a man is looking for his angle. I think men KNOW women are naturally more vulnerable. Hate to say it, but knowing this is useful to "be vulnerable" without being TRULY vulnerable if you know what I mean. Some of us can't be vulnerable until we KNOW it's safe.
The deepest desires of the masculine are to be trusted & respected and the deepest desires of the feminine are to be adored & cherished. Often the best way to shift your dynamic with men and have a man love and adore you is to show him trust and respect first through your openness & vulnerability (even if it feels scary). However I would add the *very important* caveat that if a man isn't showing care for your heart over time when you are truly in your feminine energy he is likely a "broken" man and you have to set a boundary with yourself in that situation and be willing to walk away. That is how you can truly be "The Queen" that is both highly vulnerable, open and respectful while also highly valuing and respecting herself.
In that sense, I didnt have to work hard to be vulnerable with men. My natural temperament was vulnerable. Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable than being with a man. When im alone or independent, I have nothing judging me, potentially rejecting me, and I only have safe practices. And then you be with men, and their presence is danger, they bring you to places you wouldnt otherwise go, they arent as anxious and cautious and walk around at night or leave their doors open. I feel i need their protection because they are bringing me to situations that need protecting. On one hand, its scary. On the other hand, its a leap of faith, with the hopes and dreams that he'd give me everything ive ever wanted. Companionship, a family, support, love, care, attention. I just gotta hold his hand and get out of my comfort zone. And in that sense, being vulnerable right off the bat makes things easier. You see that switch in the eyes of predators, oh, fresh meat, shes so easy to manipulate, so vulnerable. Then you can quietly make an exit and give a short and stern goodbye. I always try to make sure before going on a date with them, but they do always switch up their tune. Theres just a slight predatory nature in all men, especially when it comes to potential intimacy partners. They arent as invested in the long term. Short term benefits are more than okay for them. Thats why you gotta push back having sex as much as you can. Kiss and all that, but dont end that chase, because after that, its no longer a chase to get more of you. It becomes a chase of fulfilling his entertainment. Its better to go through that phase when theres kids and he doesnt have as much time in his hands.
We will never know it’s safe for sure. I’ve married twice without premarital sex, both ended in total disasters. The last one reads the Bible everyday and said the devil was trying to use him to kill me. He has his own church. He helps people, does a lot of good in the community. We will never know for sure. That’s the risk we take, and it’s necessary for Love to be real.
Reasons why men are attracted to vulnerability in women: #7 Men are turned on by a woman's vulnerability and openness. #6 Vulnerability separates the men from the boys. #5 Vulnerability is a sign of high self-worth in a woman. #4 Vulnerability signals trust and respect as a devotional offering #3 Vulnerability evokes masculine depth and breaks his distraction patterns. #2 Vulnerability activates a man's Hero instinct to protect and provide. #1 Vulnerability creates a space for him to pursue you.
Haven't noticed. Rather been fucked over sideways time and time again. And I've ALWAYS been real, and shown my vulnerability. So much for that claim ...
@@agataloca you have to wait to see if they earn your trust before you can be vulnerable with them. Even so, you will get hurt as people make mistakes.
You probably didn’t give the guy with genuine feeling a chance because you think ‘I can do better, this is too easy, he seems boring I can’t submit to him he doesn’t get it’ And carried on chasing a guy experienced at finessing women for sex Try using logic, speak to none western women about their opinions on men and how to grateful to be a woman Hope this helps
I am ambitious, hard working, and highly competent. But I desire a hero none-the-less. I have noticed that when I am with men who are secure in their masculinity, and I know I can feel safe with, the deepest depths of my femininity and vulnerability cannot help but come to the fore in a natural and beautiful way. There is no need to force anything. It feels so good, mutually. 💗 If I don't feel safe with a man. I need to trust that instinct. 99% of the time, they are certainly not worthy of my vulnerability.
This is very dangerous. The last thing a vulnerable person should do is put their vulnerability on a silver platter and hand it to someone regardless of how well they know them. No human being, let alone a man, is that safe.
I did this. Ended up with a narcissistic sociopath that hurt my daughter and rejected me and his unborn son 1 month before he was born while he dumped my retirement into his car, bought whatever he wanted, and gave the rest away to other single mothers he wanted attention from. It was dangerous but I feel like the whole relationship was like jumping out of an airplane with no parachute so I could see that I could fly. Everything has been 100x better since our marriage/relationship ended and he showed who he really is. Win win for my kids and myself. Love and light to all❤
Correct. Just remember that a lot of info from people on these YT channels is to generate income. They will often say things that sound good but actually leave people ( esp women ) in even more precarious situations. Staying reality based is free and will lead yo the safest outcome. Our society has put the stamp of approval on misogyny. Keep that in mind with all of your interactions.
Something has changed. I see more and more men who are afraid of spiders and cannot take on a burglar. I’m not sure if it’s the plastics, soy, pesticides and whatever else hormone disrupting substance I’ve read about but men need to figure that out if they want to attract and keep a woman. Many men in their 30s are less man than my grandfather was in his 80s. I’m talking physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and fiscally. A woman who can take care of herself is only going to keep an asset not a liability or burden.
That would go for men to sometimes women can be a liability!!! let’s be fair!!!! I have a friend that’s very sick. He had a wonderful job he made tons of money works expensive clothes and everything but lost it all because of a major health crisis but you’re saying he don’t deserve to be loved.?? 🤦♀️. let’s look for strength and character not strength in numbers!! Characters the most important thing you have all the money in the world that man treat you like crud and throw you off the boat!!! Not all men in the olden days that classy either so let’s be real!!!
Omg, so true! What's happened to men!? They need to drop the beta energy, pull up their bootstraps, get some confidence and start bonding with women again!🤠 Ignore the woke media bashing white men...screw them...they were pushing propaganda to destroy men and families anyway...don't buy it.. Men have to rise above and get back in touch with alpha male energy and bond with women and reclaim their natural roles. If not, the toxicity continues on.🤢
I abruptly woke up this dawn cos of anxiety I took my phone and texted him on WhatsApp I knew he was asleep but texting him brought me comfort He replied me in the morning Called me a little later to question me why I didn’t call him but only texted He is always looking for ways to solve my problems It’s so beautiful
I have been dating a guy for 5 weeks now that is growing in his masculinity by the week. Ive been single for 5 years, but after learning thru this kind of content (and this podcast specifically) the true desire of men is vulnerability, I began to transform. I feel sold. I grew up in middle school and high school with feminism being highly promoted. I was told all my youth men desired confidence and independence. Now that I understand I can simply be myself, my feminine self, dating has become so much easier. I can interpret what is happening now, I understand every exchange, I dont question them. As my love interest has been doing more and more for me, I never would have known in the past this meant I was provoking his masculinity and his level of care for me by simply being vulnerable. I am so baffled that it was alwaya this simple and I just know the "rules" of the tango. Now that I understand men's desires, I understand how to better navigate them. The proof is in the fruit!
People can feel worthy and be high value while still being apprehensive about opening up because of past hurts. We should be able to ease into things without being told we’re damaged or not worth the trouble.
My husband hates it when I show vulnerability. His single Mom used up that part of him. He forces me to go into my masculine energy and handle things. I’m so tired of it. He’s just a little boy all the time when there’s any trouble.
My ex was the same way - always letting me fall when I needed a soft place to land. I was in survival mode. After being single a long time, my new boyfriend is totally different in the best way. He was high-ranking in the military, and when I show vulnerability, that man IS my hero. He never talks over me, belittles, or argues. He is 6'6" in cowboy boots and he is so incredibly gentle and understanding with me. I swear he's the whole package. Our second date we were gazing into each other's eyes and it was like our hearts connected without saying a word just standing next to each other. I got emotional and cried a bit. He held me and teared up too. He said, "I hope this works out because I'm falling hard already." I said, "No one else will ever measure up to you. I am so thankful we met." I have never felt this with anyone before. He's not saying how amazing he is, he's showing me and I'm seeing it for myself. I just can't believe I finally met my prince ❤
@@renewyourmind1815that’s so beautiful ♥️🥰 happy you’ve found that kind of love • it gives the rest of us hope☺️😉 may God bless you both with all the love, happiness, connection + peace your hearts can handle
Thought I’d found my King. We have been talking for years as friends. Then we developed feelings for each other. I had no idea he would shut down and run when we got close. He has been hurt and is a Fearful Avoidant. Essentially being on his own without real love from even his family who abandoned him his whole life. I don’t blame him. I understand him. But at the same time, he doesn’t take care of my heart. He breaks my heart. We just saw each other for the first time in over 30 years and we had a wonderful time. But now he’s in hiatus mode. It absolutely breaks my heart. He doesn’t seem to care much about that. I can see he is amazing as a person. He does love me. But he is broken. Badly. I don’t know what to do? I’ve fallen for him. But I do wonder if it can work for us? I know he’s trying. But still…
I think what this guy is saying is an interpretation of how men and woman are different and how to respond and behave with a man Not manipulate him or play games He does use the word feminity and vulnerable a lot but it doesn't mean a woman has to be weak needy crying moaning and running after him Sometimes depending on the circumstances can be viewed as manipulative low self worth as was discussed and the masculine guy will run a mile unless he's a narcissistic then that woman will be used for his own selfish ends It's about sensitivity understanding empathy respect and building trust between one another ❤
Yeah I'm not so sure about how simple the advice can be from you guys ....I was vulnerable like you advise in many of your videos and podcasts, when I tried to make him the "hero" when I went through a quick issue (was literally done within a day) and I told him thank you for being there for me, he helped a lot. I quickly realised he suddenly felt he was responsible for my happiness . And then I realised for his situation I was making him feel overwhelming responsibility when currently his plate is chock full of responsibilities in every area of his life right now and he didn't need another. I've since managed to reverse the damage, thank God. But it makes me realise sometimes the advice on here is a bit too simple and is not taking into account some more complex situations to be aware of and the way it could be received by a guy if he's in a particular situation or stage of his life, like a divorce and splitting the family assets and dealing with kids and is overworked too.
Brody, it’s amazing that your teachings bring to light the dismantling of the natural masculine-feminine dynamic I’ve experienced as a child growing up in the 60’s and 70’s. Thankfully, you and your sweet wife are bringing these truths back to us, so we can rebuild this natural and loving symbiotic relationship between men and women ❤
Of course they're attracted to our vulnerability, they can take advantage of our feelings a lot easier when we have our guard down. Never again will I put myself in that position.
Yes never date if your not emotionally healed, in love with who you are, know what you need and want etc. We are all here to learn from each other, however, as soon as he's not invested in you, bye bye, no time wasting😂❤simple.
I am only now seeing many of the comments on this video. I have to say just how deeply I feel for all the women here who have been hurt by others for being vulnerable. I am genuinely heart broken by all the pain you have been made to endure. Know that you did not deserve it. However, men aside, the world at large desperately needs the warm radiance that can only shine through you when you are brave enough to be vulnerable. We need to balance out all the darkness that is in this world. I know it is very difficult. I have been hurt many times too, by both men and women (women who are waaay far in their masculine). I hope that one day we will all find healing, because we as the embodiment of the feminine are needed. I simply cannot stress enough just how much we are needed. My heart and spirit goes out to you all! ❤
What about when a guy tells you keep how you feel to yourself and that they don't care how you feel and that it's your own fault if you're upset by something that they did to cause it?
Absolutely true. I have value and the man with me will know that as FACT! I won't settle for any 'less than' from a man who is in a relationship with me. I trust and give respect to him and he should "get with the program" and "get right" on his role which I will make clear. That way, he knows. He is the masculine energy. I am the Queen Supreme! ☺️✅
What to do, when he shows that ( and explicitly says) he feels overwhelmed and doesn't want to hear anything about "deep topics"? Thank you for this video and all the support that you are providing for us, in the community!💓🙏
I’ve been alone for 2 decades I’m currently with a very masculine man for close to a year, but it’s so hard for me to open up. I wish I could be open and vulnerable
If you operate out of fear and protect your heart, you aren't operating out of the soft strength of feminine energy, you WILL attract exactly the kind of men you don't want to.
Unless he felt taken advantage of by his prior partner/s. Then they are guarded and hold back their support, even though it’s clear I need it and am energetically open to it.
I’ve heard this concept before but I never heard it broken down in such a well and easy understandable manner. Makes sooo much sense and yes it also sounds very scary 😩😮💨
When I open up and need to talk my husband drops everything and listens. He tries to find a solution even though sometimes there doesn't have to be one right away, or simply there is nothing he can do...(like the suffering of animals in this cruel world etc. ) He would do anything to help me heal and his arms are always always open. Not once has he judged me even when I judged myself. He is my hero and I will never stop loving and respecting him. There is nothing I wouldn't do for him ❤
I already was thinking of the song "I Need A Hero" by Bonnie Tyler the first time you mentioned hero.. and I've already planned to listen to it afterwards, too. Great minds! 🤣
Thank you so much for your insightful videos and the vital work you and your wife have dedicated these past 20 years of partnership in educating those interested in knowing more on the most important relationship of all - the love romantic relationship that if found most compatible should result in marriage. I would love to see that you will in the future include this category of love relationships that have found that they do connect most compatibly which would result in investing in a long term committed relationship of marriage that should endure . Educate them how to protect these true soulmate/ twin-soul marriages so that they do not end up in divorce.
you should do a video on how i want to respect my man, but his man-child of not closing food boxes and leaving dropped food over the floor. it's really frustrating.
Thanks for answering the question about a man's response to vulnerability, something I always believed about how a man should respond--and the wrong way I felt a man could respond! And is a response of, "I wont allow it," a good response after telling him you are confused about men or other?
When I would share with my now X and be open, honest, vulnerable with him and share secrets of my heart, or how I really felt about certain things he would later use it against me as a weakness. He was broken, a narcissist. Loved to brag about how smart he was, how he was always right, how he was a real man...a know-it-all who contantly belittled me and talked poorly about everyone.
Yeah, that know it all is the brain surgeon that kills a patient because he’s too ignorant and close minded and that’s not intelligence honey that’s ignorance!!!!
Al lacking and flexibility in the mind can happen with certain brains, but the biggest problems when they won’t be flexible when you try to help them see things like the gray areas instead of the all black and white
@Portia620 oh yeah, definitely for him. In his mind the answer was either A or B (both his ideas) there was never a third option, only two choices, and that was. Or I was exaggerating or lying.
@Portia620 oh, to me, he was of average intelligence and in some areas, a little more aware, but HE thought he was the smartest man around. And we argued all the time, because I would see his flaws and argue different points, and he hated that.
Does not vulnerability smack of being too forward ….. at what point does a man not feel he is being pursued if she pours out her heart.? When is it appropriate to guard her heart?♥️
Is it possible for a guy who freely does and says all of these things, to be a fake? I am currently involved in a relationship. He is absolutely wonderful. Unfortunately I have lil birds that whisper in my ears saying he is a fake.
Agree with you. I feel as this dynamic works well in the dating phase. Once the dynamic changes as in when a couple begins living together, it’s only so much that this can go on. Yes vulnerability is there and so on but we can’t deny that The relationship changes where the woman becomes the helper in the relationship because now it’s a shared space between the two and responsibilities to uphold. Never mind when children enter the picture. Man as well as women want to be taken care of but men have that need more in their later years especially when they need a nurse.😂
I have preached this for many years! Long before Bene Brown blew up! Women breath with the earth…when they remember that…its sacred. Look up the original relationship video from the light at the center! Love this guy! Want to meet him!
Thank you for your video. I have a question: What if the man begins by being empathetic and caring when I’m vulnerable, but then tells me he cannot give me what I need after a couple of months, and gradually shuts down and completely discards me? I am really confused about why he told me he was 100% committed and began planning a future with me, and then suddenly ghosted me. He said a number of times he wanted to make me happy, and I thanked him and expressed to him openly when I felt happy. But as time went on, my vulnerability seemed to push him away and he stopped saying things and doing things he used to say and do before….all in a period of 4 months. It was a huge roller coaster and heartbreaking for me!
No…. Enough of this vulnerability. Just be yourself. If you feel confident, full of smiles, laughter, ideas that I want to talk about, where is vulnerability in there? I guess vulnerability is inherent in the communication… you are not afraid to express yourself, to show your real you. I had so much fun meeting men the old fashion way, meaning meeting them in cafes and bookstores or museums without expectation of meeting anyone in my 20s. So… define your strength, men and women, and within those strength is vulnerability… because you have no idea how things are going to turn out, which is just fine. Be vulnerable, but not for a man, but because you are dealing with a certain situation and you need to problem solve that.
Well … many more women can take care of themselves financially, socially, physically,n emotionally… I like independent, intelligent, caring, honest, disciplined, loyal, faithful men in general.
I was told by the ex that you can't just claim people like their pieces of property. ... notice how I refer to him as the and not my . Because he was never mine . He belonged to the streets.
Women have been in SURVIVAL MODE since the dawn of time. Read the bible. It gives an accurate description of the desperation most women were living under, then, and every generation since then. Maybe post war U.S.A. was different but that was an anomaly not the standard throughout time.
Can you please make a video on what to do when he comes back after a break up ? All the videos on the internet are unhealthy but I believe you can do a healthy video about this topic ! Thank you
I was vulnerable with him for 2 months he said that he likes me but he is still healing from a break up that he had like a year ago and so what I did was pull back I stopped if he don't wish to talk to me that's fine he what got me thinking is when he said he missed how I use to send messages of missing him or checking up on him and I didn't want to anymore I'm not chasing bye
The problem is there are very few men who are chivalrous anymore. My goodness I have seen grown men cut in line in front of women and one was elderly. That’s the rude ones. But even some well meaning men got nothing.
I agree 100% but many get taken advantage thats why many women are hurt. Woman are vurnable. Please teach men to be more playful and not take thier egos seriously ❤
Do you have any videos about connecting to your own feminine energy? I have always been a tomboy and I’m a female currently in the military. I have a very direct approach to communication, and I think my personality is off putting. I feel so lost when you’re talking about feminine energy. I don’t even know if I understand what you’re even talking about half the time. I feel like that’s an area in my head that isn’t on anymore. Help?
Feminine energy resides in your womb and your heart, not your head... Listening more than you talk, moving slow, not forcing things to happen and doing things that get you out of your head and into your body increase your feminine energy. Spend time in nature, nature is the epitome of feminine energy. Masculine energy is 'doing', feminine energy is 'being'. Go with the flow more and don't compete... As a woman feminine energy is natural for you. Hope this helps 🙏
This channel talks a lot about it's the women's job to inspire the man to simply "be a good man." Huge red flag if a man needs to be so called inspire constantly. It is much more healthy and self-sustaining for women and men, to inspire themselves to be a loving, supportive and self-sustaining self-inspiring spouse. This channel is like softcore red pill manosphere content.
to imply that a man who watches basketball or plays video games is a form of escapism that a woman should provide is such a strange take... i want a man i can do those things with
I had to walk away from a 25 year marriage. I slowly and completely lost myself. I eventually suffered from DID from the constant trauma. I'm recently divorced. I'm frightened to show my feminine side because a narc will learn all your vulnerabilities only to turn around and weaponize them against you. Wanna talk about getting brain f'ck'd. 😢
@patriciarose2342 I know they're few and far between. I married two cheating narcissist broken men. But I finally found my real masculine man in my later years who is a younger man.
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I signed up for Antia’s program on Monday 11/25/24 and I haven’t been able to find/access the link. I fear that it may have been accidentally deleted in my spam folder. My name is Teresa Kestran. I would really appreciate it if you would re-forward the link to my email and I will watch for it. Thank you in advance!
I agree. We are in survival mode. I am a widow. I see the younger girls in my workplace: working, studying trying to make something out of themselves not to depend on anyone. It starts with our fathers. We don’t feel safe anywhere.
Women were never safe. Women were safe maybe in post war U.S.A, but that's a small time frame and only one country in the world but they were still treated as second class citizens. It was not better for women in the past, the bible and my grandmothers history tells me so.
Its comments like these that remind me how privileged I was to have a good safe father and I am able to relax into a safe man. I'm so sorry you've had this experience ❤ but I commented to let you know there are good safe men, they are out there they exist and I hold onto that hope because I was lucky enough to have that for a moment in my life. Love you dad wish you were here..now I have to find ways to protect myself too from these unsafe men since you've been gon3.❤❤
Women have had to adapt bc less men fit the bill. It’s not like we want the poor bargain of working two full time jobs…corporate/self employed and being the CEO of the kids/home/relations. People change then divorce or die also but the kids still need to be provided for.
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💯. It’s starts with the father. My father was not safe to be around. I learnt to be in masculine energy to be not a burden and then to provide. It took me 36 yrs to get out of that trap, with 7 years of shadow work. I now understand one thing I never understood stood before: the leading life with the brain is leading with masculine energy, living life with the heart is feminine energy. I barricaded my heart behind a, I don’t know maybe under a mountain?, to avoid being hurt. My first step in real healing was that I learnt that I can handle my emotions, and hence I can handle hurt. But I also learnt to set emotional boundaries to protect my heart. Now, I can tap into her freely without fear.
In my opinion, fear (and not low self worth) is holding back women to be feminine.
These principles absolutely work wirh a healthy masculine man. At 75, I'm finally with the first man who is into his healthy masculine energy. When I am open and vulnerable with him, he'll say eirher, "I hear you . . . ." , or "I understand what you're saying," and then provides encouraging words of comfort or advice. I've never been able to communicate this easily or deeply with a man while in my feminine energy.
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@Gotoworkkk Yes. I wasted 55 years of my life on broken, narcissistic men because I didn't know any better. I have healed and am finally ready for a healthy relationship. It's never too late.
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I have seen a boy when I showed my vulnerable side, he turned around and judged me. Thank you for making a distinction between a man and a boy.
Hard to be vulnerable if a man is looking for his angle. I think men KNOW women are naturally more vulnerable. Hate to say it, but knowing this is useful to "be vulnerable" without being TRULY vulnerable if you know what I mean. Some of us can't be vulnerable until we KNOW it's safe.
The deepest desires of the masculine are to be trusted & respected and the deepest desires of the feminine are to be adored & cherished. Often the best way to shift your dynamic with men and have a man love and adore you is to show him trust and respect first through your openness & vulnerability (even if it feels scary). However I would add the *very important* caveat that if a man isn't showing care for your heart over time when you are truly in your feminine energy he is likely a "broken" man and you have to set a boundary with yourself in that situation and be willing to walk away. That is how you can truly be "The Queen" that is both highly vulnerable, open and respectful while also highly valuing and respecting herself.
Exactly
In that sense, I didnt have to work hard to be vulnerable with men. My natural temperament was vulnerable.
Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable than being with a man. When im alone or independent, I have nothing judging me, potentially rejecting me, and I only have safe practices.
And then you be with men, and their presence is danger, they bring you to places you wouldnt otherwise go, they arent as anxious and cautious and walk around at night or leave their doors open. I feel i need their protection because they are bringing me to situations that need protecting.
On one hand, its scary. On the other hand, its a leap of faith, with the hopes and dreams that he'd give me everything ive ever wanted. Companionship, a family, support, love, care, attention. I just gotta hold his hand and get out of my comfort zone.
And in that sense, being vulnerable right off the bat makes things easier. You see that switch in the eyes of predators, oh, fresh meat, shes so easy to manipulate, so vulnerable.
Then you can quietly make an exit and give a short and stern goodbye. I always try to make sure before going on a date with them, but they do always switch up their tune.
Theres just a slight predatory nature in all men, especially when it comes to potential intimacy partners. They arent as invested in the long term. Short term benefits are more than okay for them. Thats why you gotta push back having sex as much as you can. Kiss and all that, but dont end that chase, because after that, its no longer a chase to get more of you. It becomes a chase of fulfilling his entertainment. Its better to go through that phase when theres kids and he doesnt have as much time in his hands.
We will never know it’s safe for sure. I’ve married twice without premarital sex, both ended in total disasters. The last one reads the Bible everyday and said the devil was trying to use him to kill me. He has his own church. He helps people, does a lot of good in the community. We will never know for sure. That’s the risk we take, and it’s necessary for Love to be real.
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Reasons why men are attracted to vulnerability in women:
#7 Men are turned on by a woman's vulnerability and openness.
#6 Vulnerability separates the men from the boys.
#5 Vulnerability is a sign of high self-worth in a woman.
#4 Vulnerability signals trust and respect as a devotional offering
#3 Vulnerability evokes masculine depth and breaks his distraction patterns.
#2 Vulnerability activates a man's Hero instinct to protect and provide.
#1 Vulnerability creates a space for him to pursue you.
Haven't noticed. Rather been fucked over sideways time and time again. And I've ALWAYS been real, and shown my vulnerability. So much for that claim ...
Thanks!
@@agatalocaagreed but we must be very careful and still be authentic and vulnerable but pay close attention to the signs.
@@agataloca you have to wait to see if they earn your trust before you can be vulnerable with them. Even so, you will get hurt as people make mistakes.
@@agataloca I think this only applies to emotionally mature , “healthy - minded” men, not your toxic variety.
Yeah and then they lie, use and abuse you. So be careful who you open up to.
Exactly.
You probably didn’t give the guy with genuine feeling a chance because you think ‘I can do better, this is too easy, he seems boring I can’t submit to him he doesn’t get it’
And carried on chasing a guy experienced at finessing women for sex
Try using logic, speak to none western women about their opinions on men and how to grateful to be a woman
Hope this helps
well he does say it separates the boys from the men.. only healthy men will value this so choose wisely!
Man after all are only males. Never trust these mammals or regret being harmed ..
Absolutely!!!
I am ambitious, hard working, and highly competent. But I desire a hero none-the-less. I have noticed that when I am with men who are secure in their masculinity, and I know I can feel safe with, the deepest depths of my femininity and vulnerability cannot help but come to the fore in a natural and beautiful way. There is no need to force anything. It feels so good, mutually. 💗
If I don't feel safe with a man. I need to trust that instinct. 99% of the time, they are certainly not worthy of my vulnerability.
This ❤
Vulnerability is being truthfull. Truthfull to your soul. And speaking from that source. And doing from that source.
The guy I was dating didn’t appreciate my vulnerability, he ghosted me when I poured my heart out 😂. Never again 👎
I agree. Been there 2 years ago. He wasn't emotionally available and dishonest about his past and what he was doing behind my back. Never again.
It wasn't your vulnerability that caused an issue - you were with the wrong person.
Maybe you said too much and too soon.
That was a broken-consciousness man. You don't need that in your life.
Being vulnerable isn't the issue. The right man would accept it.
This is very dangerous. The last thing a vulnerable person should do is put their vulnerability on a silver platter and hand it to someone regardless of how well they know them. No human being, let alone a man, is that safe.
That's why it's important to know what to avoid. I don't think people should be in relationships without knowledge of men
Agreed as narcs will ruin our lives!!!
@@Bodangers‼️. Learn about men thru men! I have done that for years!!!!
I did this. Ended up with a narcissistic sociopath that hurt my daughter and rejected me and his unborn son 1 month before he was born while he dumped my retirement into his car, bought whatever he wanted, and gave the rest away to other single mothers he wanted attention from. It was dangerous but I feel like the whole relationship was like jumping out of an airplane with no parachute so I could see that I could fly. Everything has been 100x better since our marriage/relationship ended and he showed who he really is. Win win for my kids and myself. Love and light to all❤
Correct.
Just remember that a lot of info from people on these YT channels is to generate income. They will often say things that sound good but actually leave people ( esp women ) in even more precarious situations.
Staying reality based is free and will lead yo the safest outcome.
Our society has put the stamp of approval on misogyny. Keep that in mind with all of your interactions.
Something has changed. I see more and more men who are afraid of spiders and cannot take on a burglar. I’m not sure if it’s the plastics, soy, pesticides and whatever else hormone disrupting substance I’ve read about but men need to figure that out if they want to attract and keep a woman. Many men in their 30s are less man than my grandfather was in his 80s. I’m talking physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and fiscally. A woman who can take care of herself is only going to keep an asset not a liability or burden.
That would go for men to sometimes women can be a liability!!! let’s be fair!!!! I have a friend that’s very sick. He had a wonderful job he made tons of money works expensive clothes and everything but lost it all because of a major health crisis but you’re saying he don’t deserve to be loved.?? 🤦♀️. let’s look for strength and character not strength in numbers!! Characters the most important thing you have all the money in the world that man treat you like crud and throw you off the boat!!! Not all men in the olden days that classy either so let’s be real!!!
@@Portia620stop caping for a male. Let him handle his own life Jesus Christ are you his mother?
Totally spot on!! What has happened to our society.
Omg, so true! What's happened to men!? They need to drop the beta energy, pull up their bootstraps, get some confidence and start bonding with women again!🤠 Ignore the woke media bashing white men...screw them...they were pushing propaganda to destroy men and families anyway...don't buy it.. Men have to rise above and get back in touch with alpha male energy and bond with women and reclaim their natural roles. If not, the toxicity continues on.🤢
@@kl1203-q6h too many men raised by single women
I abruptly woke up this dawn cos of anxiety
I took my phone and texted him on WhatsApp
I knew he was asleep but texting him brought me comfort
He replied me in the morning
Called me a little later to question me why I didn’t call him but only texted
He is always looking for ways to solve my problems
It’s so beautiful
Have you ever met this man?
@ yes.been friends for a year
“5-10% of men are deeply broken”. I’d say that number Is a LOT higher.
I have been dating a guy for 5 weeks now that is growing in his masculinity by the week. Ive been single for 5 years, but after learning thru this kind of content (and this podcast specifically) the true desire of men is vulnerability, I began to transform. I feel sold. I grew up in middle school and high school with feminism being highly promoted. I was told all my youth men desired confidence and independence. Now that I understand I can simply be myself, my feminine self, dating has become so much easier. I can interpret what is happening now, I understand every exchange, I dont question them. As my love interest has been doing more and more for me, I never would have known in the past this meant I was provoking his masculinity and his level of care for me by simply being vulnerable. I am so baffled that it was alwaya this simple and I just know the "rules" of the tango.
Now that I understand men's desires, I understand how to better navigate them. The proof is in the fruit!
Wish I had known these things 20 years ago.
Great 😊isn't it in the pudding😂
People can feel worthy and be high value while still being apprehensive about opening up because of past hurts. We should be able to ease into things without being told we’re damaged or not worth the trouble.
This guy speaks straight to one’s heart - never has this type of advice make so much sense than how he does on this channel 👏
My husband hates it when I show vulnerability. His single Mom used up that part of him. He forces me to go into my masculine energy and handle things. I’m so tired of it. He’s just a little boy all the time when there’s any trouble.
My ex was the same way - always letting me fall when I needed a soft place to land. I was in survival mode.
After being single a long time, my new boyfriend is totally different in the best way. He was high-ranking in the military, and when I show vulnerability, that man IS my hero. He never talks over me, belittles, or argues. He is 6'6" in cowboy boots and he is so incredibly gentle and understanding with me. I swear he's the whole package.
Our second date we were gazing into each other's eyes and it was like our hearts connected without saying a word just standing next to each other. I got emotional and cried a bit. He held me and teared up too. He said, "I hope this works out because I'm falling hard already."
I said, "No one else will ever measure up to you. I am so thankful we met."
I have never felt this with anyone before. He's not saying how amazing he is, he's showing me and I'm seeing it for myself. I just can't believe I finally met my prince ❤
@@renewyourmind1815that’s so beautiful ♥️🥰 happy you’ve found that kind of love • it gives the rest of us hope☺️😉 may God bless you both with all the love, happiness, connection + peace your hearts can handle
@bloom7204 - Thank you. Don't lose hope, ladies! There is a man who will hold you and make you feel secure in the relationship 🥰
@@renewyourmind1815this is beautiful!!! ❤
Thought I’d found my King. We have been talking for years as friends. Then we developed feelings for each other. I had no idea he would shut down and run when we got close. He has been hurt and is a Fearful Avoidant. Essentially being on his own without real love from even his family who abandoned him his whole life. I don’t blame him. I understand him. But at the same time, he doesn’t take care of my heart. He breaks my heart. We just saw each other for the first time in over 30 years and we had a wonderful time. But now he’s in hiatus mode. It absolutely breaks my heart. He doesn’t seem to care much about that. I can see he is amazing as a person. He does love me. But he is broken. Badly. I don’t know what to do? I’ve fallen for him. But I do wonder if it can work for us? I know he’s trying. But still…
I’m vulnerable within limits, at the beginning, especially when I’m trying to discern if he’s genuine.
Out of so many channels, you are the least manipulative. I don't understand why we are advised to play manipulative games! Your method works. ❤
I think what this guy is saying is an interpretation of how men and woman are different and how to respond and behave with a man
Not manipulate him or play games
He does use the word feminity and vulnerable a lot but it doesn't mean a woman has to be weak needy crying moaning and running after him
Sometimes depending on the circumstances can be viewed as manipulative low self worth as was discussed and the masculine guy will run a mile unless he's a narcissistic then that woman will be used for his own selfish ends
It's about sensitivity understanding empathy respect and building trust between one another ❤
You're a good man. Honesty and goodness- shows in your face.
Yeah I'm not so sure about how simple the advice can be from you guys ....I was vulnerable like you advise in many of your videos and podcasts, when I tried to make him the "hero" when I went through a quick issue (was literally done within a day) and I told him thank you for being there for me, he helped a lot.
I quickly realised he suddenly felt he was responsible for my happiness . And then I realised for his situation I was making him feel overwhelming responsibility when currently his plate is chock full of responsibilities in every area of his life right now and he didn't need another. I've since managed to reverse the damage, thank God. But it makes me realise sometimes the advice on here is a bit too simple and is not taking into account some more complex situations to be aware of and the way it could be received by a guy if he's in a particular situation or stage of his life, like a divorce and splitting the family assets and dealing with kids and is overworked too.
I also feel like these videos and podcasts are so sell sell sell....all their clicks and prompts lead to the same page and it's a sales pitch.
He says I’m too emotional and emotionally unstable.. I’m not allowed to be my vulnerable self
If he truly loves you, he will accept you just as you are. He will also support you and listen to you. Challenge him to step up for you. 🎉
Brody, it’s amazing that your teachings bring to light the dismantling of the natural masculine-feminine dynamic I’ve experienced as a child growing up in the 60’s and 70’s. Thankfully, you and your sweet wife are bringing these truths back to us, so we can rebuild this natural and loving symbiotic relationship between men and women ❤
Of course they're attracted to our vulnerability, they can take advantage of our feelings a lot easier when we have our guard down. Never again will I put myself in that position.
Yes never date if your not emotionally healed, in love with who you are, know what you need and want etc. We are all here to learn from each other, however, as soon as he's not invested in you, bye bye, no time wasting😂❤simple.
I am only now seeing many of the comments on this video. I have to say just how deeply I feel for all the women here who have been hurt by others for being vulnerable. I am genuinely heart broken by all the pain you have been made to endure. Know that you did not deserve it. However, men aside, the world at large desperately needs the warm radiance that can only shine through you when you are brave enough to be vulnerable. We need to balance out all the darkness that is in this world. I know it is very difficult. I have been hurt many times too, by both men and women (women who are waaay far in their masculine). I hope that one day we will all find healing, because we as the embodiment of the feminine are needed. I simply cannot stress enough just how much we are needed. My heart and spirit goes out to you all! ❤
What about when a guy tells you keep how you feel to yourself and that they don't care how you feel and that it's your own fault if you're upset by something that they did to cause it?
It's time to drop him, he is insensitive, non caring and a "mama's boy", and this is not the type of man you need in your life.
Dump him....pronto!
leave them they dont care about you at all
NARCISSIST!!!!!! RUN!!!!!!!!
After watching many channels, I finally find you. You nailed the subject. You got a new subscriber 😊
Absolutely true. I have value and the man with me will know that as FACT! I won't settle for any 'less than' from a man who is in a relationship with me. I trust and give respect to him and he should "get with the program" and "get right" on his role which I will make clear. That way, he knows. He is the masculine energy. I am the Queen Supreme! ☺️✅
What to do, when he shows that ( and explicitly says) he feels overwhelmed and doesn't want to hear anything about "deep topics"? Thank you for this video and all the support that you are providing for us, in the community!💓🙏
I’ve been alone for 2 decades I’m currently with a very masculine man for close to a year, but it’s so hard for me to open up. I wish I could be open and vulnerable
If you operate out of fear and protect your heart, you aren't operating out of the soft strength of feminine energy, you WILL attract exactly the kind of men you don't want to.
@@lovepeacejoyhappinessYou probably were not able to set boundaries?
You’ll get the weirdos no matter how you are.
Unless he felt taken advantage of by his prior partner/s. Then they are guarded and hold back their support, even though it’s clear I need it and am energetically open to it.
I’ve heard this concept before but I never heard it broken down in such a well and easy understandable manner. Makes sooo much sense and yes it also sounds very scary 😩😮💨
Im so excited about what is to come! I'm ready for anything! Life is such an adventure!❤❤
I think when you both respect each other hearts and accept and open and communicate the portability will show through in both the man and the woman 💟
When I open up and need to talk my husband drops everything and listens. He tries to find a solution even though sometimes there doesn't have to be one right away, or simply there is nothing he can do...(like the suffering of animals in this cruel world etc. )
He would do anything to help me heal and his arms are always always open. Not once has he judged me even when I judged myself. He is my hero and I will never stop loving and respecting him. There is nothing I wouldn't do for him ❤
YEEESSS I LOVE MEN... They are perfect creatures God made...❤
Thanks God !
Can you define vulnerability? Vulnerable about what exactly??
*FEMININE COMMUNICATION!* This is the key of this important topic! Thank you. This is THE MASTER CLASS to take. Feminine Communication. LM
I already was thinking of the song "I Need A Hero" by Bonnie Tyler the first time you mentioned hero.. and I've already planned to listen to it afterwards, too. Great minds! 🤣
Thank you so much for your insightful videos and the vital work you and your wife have dedicated these past 20 years of partnership in educating those interested in knowing more on the most important relationship of all - the love romantic relationship that if found most compatible should result in marriage. I would love to see that you will in the future include this category of love relationships that have found that they do connect most compatibly which would result in investing in a long term committed relationship of marriage that should endure . Educate them how to protect these true soulmate/ twin-soul marriages so that they do not end up in divorce.
you should do a video on how i want to respect my man, but his man-child of not closing food boxes and leaving dropped food over the floor. it's really frustrating.
😂😂 Sounds like you got a grown toddler on your hands and that's something you don't need!😅😅😅
Thanks for answering the question about a man's response to vulnerability, something I always believed about how a man should respond--and the wrong way I felt a man could respond! And is a response of, "I wont allow it," a good response after telling him you are confused about men or other?
I found this video very helpful! I really appreciate it! Thank you! 😊
Welcome!
When I would share with my now X and be open, honest, vulnerable with him and share secrets of my heart, or how I really felt about certain things he would later use it against me as a weakness. He was broken, a narcissist. Loved to brag about how smart he was, how he was always right, how he was a real man...a know-it-all who contantly belittled me and talked poorly about everyone.
Yeah, that know it all is the brain surgeon that kills a patient because he’s too ignorant and close minded and that’s not intelligence honey that’s ignorance!!!!
I’m sure he made you believe that he was smart but close minded people are not very smart really!!!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Al lacking and flexibility in the mind can happen with certain brains, but the biggest problems when they won’t be flexible when you try to help them see things like the gray areas instead of the all black and white
@Portia620 oh yeah, definitely for him. In his mind the answer was either A or B (both his ideas) there was never a third option, only two choices, and that was. Or I was exaggerating or lying.
@Portia620 oh, to me, he was of average intelligence and in some areas, a little more aware, but HE thought he was the smartest man around. And we argued all the time, because I would see his flaws and argue different points, and he hated that.
Does not vulnerability smack of being too forward ….. at what point does a man not feel he is being pursued if she pours out her heart.? When is it appropriate to guard her heart?♥️
Thank you so,so much for absolutely perfect and encouraging advice
All aside from narcissistic men out there looking for prey- this video is good but ONLY with healthy men which are hard to find
Is it possible for a guy who freely does and says all of these things, to be a fake? I am currently involved in a relationship. He is absolutely wonderful. Unfortunately I have lil birds that whisper in my ears saying he is a fake.
Where to watch the 90 days magnetic ways?
I really need a hero/ king in my life to be happy again.
Make yourself happy, you don't need a man to do this for you.
Agree with you. I feel as this dynamic works well in the dating phase. Once the dynamic changes as in when a couple begins living together, it’s only so much that this can go on. Yes vulnerability is there and so on but we can’t deny that The relationship changes where the woman becomes the helper in the relationship because now it’s a shared space between the two and responsibilities to uphold. Never mind when children enter the picture. Man as well as women want to be taken care of but men have that need more in their later years especially when they need a nurse.😂
I have preached this for many years! Long before Bene Brown blew up! Women breath with the earth…when they remember that…its sacred. Look up the original relationship video from the light at the center! Love this guy! Want to meet him!
- Does it safe to expose your vulnerabilities?
- No.
- But, may be, It can be a tactic to distinguish and filtrate right person from bad one..
Thank you for your video. I have a question: What if the man begins by being empathetic and caring when I’m vulnerable, but then tells me he cannot give me what I need after a couple of months, and gradually shuts down and completely discards me? I am really confused about why he told me he was 100% committed and began planning a future with me, and then suddenly ghosted me. He said a number of times he wanted to make me happy, and I thanked him and expressed to him openly when I felt happy. But as time went on, my vulnerability seemed to push him away and he stopped saying things and doing things he used to say and do before….all in a period of 4 months. It was a huge roller coaster and heartbreaking for me!
He was just talking to swooned you in, he was serious at all, forget about him and go on with your life.😮
He seems to have an avoidant attachment style. They pull back when they fall in love.
No…. Enough of this vulnerability. Just be yourself. If you feel confident, full of smiles, laughter, ideas that I want to talk about, where is vulnerability in there? I guess vulnerability is inherent in the communication… you are not afraid to express yourself, to show your real you. I had so much fun meeting men the old fashion way, meaning meeting them in cafes and bookstores or museums without expectation of meeting anyone in my 20s. So… define your strength, men and women, and within those strength is vulnerability… because you have no idea how things are going to turn out, which is just fine. Be vulnerable, but not for a man, but because you are dealing with a certain situation and you need to problem solve that.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING.🙌⭐
Well … many more women can take care of themselves financially, socially, physically,n emotionally… I like independent, intelligent, caring, honest, disciplined, loyal, faithful men in general.
Excellent advice. Loved this
Some men don’t want vulnerability 🤗🤗🤗
I was told by the ex that you can't just claim people like their pieces of property. ... notice how I refer to him as the and not my .
Because he was never mine . He belonged to the streets.
Women have been in SURVIVAL MODE since the dawn of time. Read the bible. It gives an accurate description of the desperation most women were living under, then, and every generation since then. Maybe post war U.S.A. was different but that was an anomaly not the standard throughout time.
Yes indeed, let's go to the beginning of time, I'll start with Esther, any women dare to be like her during this day and time? And then Ruth.😂🎉❤
Can you please make a video on what to do when he comes back after a break up ? All the videos on the internet are unhealthy but I believe you can do a healthy video about this topic !
Thank you
Well, if he broke up with you when you take him back, he will break up with you again. That’s 100%.
Will a dog return back to his own vomit? The answer is NO! Don't take him back unless you want to repeat the first encounter.
I was vulnerable with him for 2 months he said that he likes me but he is still healing from a break up that he had like a year ago and so what I did was pull back I stopped if he don't wish to talk to me that's fine he what got me thinking is when he said he missed how I use to send messages of missing him or checking up on him and I didn't want to anymore I'm not chasing bye
Never chase a man! He should be the one chasing!
How do you deal with a situation where he wants to be everyones hero. Just has to please everyone
That's why Marilyn Monroe was so irresistable (besides her beauty): She was so vulnerable!
Aaaand how’d that turn out for her?
She was irresistible because she was beautiful.
What she was, was impaired by pills and alcohol. Not sorry to be frank about it.
Good example.
@@irenemorley75
And she was an actress too! 😂😂😂
Fellow dancer here, west coast is cool! And makes tthe hings you say make more sense.
The problem is there are very few men who are chivalrous anymore. My goodness I have seen grown men cut in line in front of women and one was elderly. That’s the rude ones. But even some well meaning men got nothing.
What a wonderful vid thank you 🙏
All this only applies if the man is completely interested in a woman first that's what's needed to be determined
i really wanted to know the basis of these conclusion
Vulnerability also the #1 thing predators look for.
I need a hero soo bad…..reached out to a guy I was seeing…vulnerable he bloody used it AGAINST me…….nah there’s something more happening!!!????
What is the difference between vulnerability and insecurity? That would be a good video.
Yeah, that would be good to know what exactly that means. Not being aggressive and controlling, maybe.
Thank you 🙏🏼🌻
🌈🌟ThankYou! So very helpful!
You are so welcome!
Thank you 🙏 ❤
Awesome message! Thank you!
You're so welcome, glad it's helpful!
Would you differentiate between the feminine urge to take care and the more insidious “becoming his mommy”
I need a hero‼️❤️‼️
What do you mean by Vulnerability ?? Describe please ??
I really like your videos ❤
I have been the cash cow in my relationship
Its shit, without communication it becomes that shitty play when a woman turns into a teenager while man has to guess what she wants
awesome
I agree 100% but many get taken advantage thats why many women are hurt. Woman are vurnable. Please teach men to be more playful and not take thier egos seriously ❤
Do you have any videos about connecting to your own feminine energy? I have always been a tomboy and I’m a female currently in the military. I have a very direct approach to communication, and I think my personality is off putting. I feel so lost when you’re talking about feminine energy. I don’t even know if I understand what you’re even talking about half the time. I feel like that’s an area in my head that isn’t on anymore. Help?
Feminine energy resides in your womb and your heart, not your head... Listening more than you talk, moving slow, not forcing things to happen and doing things that get you out of your head and into your body increase your feminine energy. Spend time in nature, nature is the epitome of feminine energy. Masculine energy is 'doing', feminine energy is 'being'. Go with the flow more and don't compete... As a woman feminine energy is natural for you. Hope this helps 🙏
UGHH…….LIFE OF GAMES……
THEY NEVER GROW UP!
This channel talks a lot about it's the women's job to inspire the man to simply "be a good man."
Huge red flag if a man needs to be so called inspire constantly.
It is much more healthy and self-sustaining for women and men, to inspire themselves to be a loving, supportive and self-sustaining self-inspiring spouse.
This channel is like softcore red pill manosphere content.
Do men come to you to learn or only women?
I don't have time to play mind games with him
Listen at this man. He won't lie to you.
to imply that a man who watches basketball or plays video games is a form of escapism that a woman should provide is such a strange take... i want a man i can do those things with
Does work on a man 10 years younger 😂.
I wonder who leads this ⬆️ relationship. Like I just get the feeling this guy is PW.
I had to walk away from a 25 year marriage. I slowly and completely lost myself. I eventually suffered from DID from the constant trauma. I'm recently divorced. I'm frightened to show my feminine side because a narc will learn all your vulnerabilities only to turn around and weaponize them against you. Wanna talk about getting brain f'ck'd. 😢
... What 😂
But not all men deserve our vulnerability. Be careful there are a lot of superficial takers out there.
He's talking about doing this with a high-energy masculine man. It wouldn't work with a broken man like you described.
@catb8661 Good luck finding one 💜
@patriciarose2342 I know they're few and far between. I married two cheating narcissist broken men. But I finally found my real masculine man in my later years who is a younger man.
Until a more attractive women comes around