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  • @SabrinaBendory
    @SabrinaBendory 3 года назад +10

    Learn how to make him obsessively desire you and relentlessly pursue you: www.makehimcraveyou.com
    Hope you liked the video! If you have any questions, comments or anything you want to share, let me know here! 😘

    • @bernietoplevelmma
      @bernietoplevelmma 3 года назад

      Sabrina , I wish I found your channel 2 weeks ago 🤦🏽‍♀️ recent break up with a new boyfriend. He is very insecure but has no problem being alone . I feel like I’m trying to save him and know what I’m worth . The problem is we have a vacation coming up together in 2 weeks .. non refundable out of country all inclusive resort . We broke up 1 week ago and I texted 2 days after (I didn’t know about no contact rule🤦🏽‍♀️) now I know not to contact for my own good . Shld I reach out and ask about this trip or take it as a loss if it’s a couple weeks away ?Really not sure what to do , would be easy for no contact if this planned vacation wasn’t involved 😓 pls help and advise . I’ve asked a couple friends if they would go with me but they would need to get their own plane ticket so it is hard . I really don’t want to give this trip up and not sure what direction I should go . Any advice would help 🙏🏽❤️ you’re a blessing and glad I found your channel 👊🏽

    • @vidyan4657
      @vidyan4657 2 года назад

      Too good 😍

  • @peterpisspotty3052
    @peterpisspotty3052 Год назад +16

    Confident high value women
    1. Don't wait around to be chosen - for a text etc - they ask if the man is good enough for them
    2. Don't fall inlove unless he is there to catch her
    3. Don't try to win a guy over
    4. Know they are loveable - doesn't attach her self worth to his opinion
    5. Let's him go if he doesn't want her - doesn't take it personally
    6. Sets healthy strong boundaries - prioritise their needs first not the man - they're ok with walking away
    7. Accept responsibility for actions in life - not a victim - don't blame men for behaving badly or stay in poor relationships
    8. They believe they are worthy - they know they are loveable - have a strong self image
    9. Don't need his reassurance
    10. Choose a partner wisely
    Like attracts like - if you're emotionally healthy, you'll attract someone who is.
    If you don't value yourself, you'll attract someone who doesn't value you

  • @krissyaguilar1814
    @krissyaguilar1814 3 года назад +23

    Exactly these past two years I haven’t waited for anyone , I look at them and ask myself if I actually like them 🤔

  • @frederiquebertrand2204
    @frederiquebertrand2204 3 года назад +25

    Thank you Sabrina ❤️ so true ! I grew my self confidence over the last year a with your help and now I have attracted a confident emotionally balanced guy! Our communication is so clear! And I’m not afraid to set boundaries and he isn’t either.. it’s a whole new world for me 🙏

  • @ninajones6622
    @ninajones6622 3 года назад +30

    I am working this out and so appreciate your insight and advice. It has taken me a year to get back in to this mindset after a toxic relationship and now I'm feeling so much better and I now know that I'm worthy of an amazing relationship. Its all down to watching coaches like you that I have had a shift in mindset and now I feel on top of the world, thankyou xx

  • @denisejaydub
    @denisejaydub 3 года назад +22

    This video is pure gold. Saving it and sending it to my friends. I just wish the title better represented how valuable the messaging is. Because it’s not about him.. it’s about YOU

  • @harleyreyes4385
    @harleyreyes4385 3 года назад +7

    Definitely my favorite video of yours so far. Past scenarios were running through my head with how I used to think vs how I think now. Thanks to you, I’ve been approaching dating men in a healthy way and am so much happier even when the relationships don’t work out.

  • @jamielilia8516
    @jamielilia8516 2 года назад +4

    Now I just realized why am I so anxious about him is because I have low self-esteem :> Now I know that I need to be confident. Thank you Sabrinaaa!

  • @aspyn.j_
    @aspyn.j_ 2 года назад +3

    My last relationship truly changed me because although I thought I met my equal, I didn’t like who I was becoming in my pursuit of a title. Been single for a year now. Best decision I ever made. Totally fine with it stretching into two years. 😊

  • @nitahudson5109
    @nitahudson5109 2 года назад +3

    Poor self esteem can be crippling and corrosive. Having high self esteem gives you the power to have and keep high standards.

  • @beeonuma0345
    @beeonuma0345 3 года назад +10

    Watching this .. i told myself “ from now on”

  • @gillianba4240
    @gillianba4240 3 года назад +13

    I found out about you and Eric yesterday and I wish y'all could have been my friends in highschool like 15 years ago😭

  • @valeriebackhouse3404
    @valeriebackhouse3404 2 года назад +2

    All videos are great! Thank you so much! Had to watch it a few times

  • @ebtihalimarhoon7103
    @ebtihalimarhoon7103 3 года назад +5

    Thanks Sabrina, this is really helpful.

  • @aasthaparadox
    @aasthaparadox 3 года назад +7

    You are glowing ❤️ and thank you for this

  • @christilena2011
    @christilena2011 3 года назад +6

    I’m so happy I found this channel. This is just the first video I’ve watched and it’s amazing!!

  • @sihamBaD
    @sihamBaD 3 года назад +2

    I found myself taking notes! ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯

  • @liezelgalleto700
    @liezelgalleto700 3 года назад +3

    I been this through 3 weeks ago...notes of mind now.. 💯

  • @KP-mw6cx
    @KP-mw6cx 2 года назад +3

    Great video Sabrina! Thanks for all the great content you put out. I think confident women actually do look at what went wrong. But not to shame themselves or make themselves wrong, but rather to learn/grow and show up differently in their next relationship. ❤️
    I love how your content is so straightforward. I’d love it if you did a video about what it means & looks like (specific examples) when a guy is investing in you. What’s your definition of that?

  • @lydiam9323
    @lydiam9323 3 года назад +4

    Wish I had been told this years ago. But yup she’s right. I have a totally different mindset it is great.

  • @samifoluma3606
    @samifoluma3606 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful advice, thanks a million for this video. God bless.

  • @valeriebackhouse3404
    @valeriebackhouse3404 2 года назад +1

    Also nice soft music in background! Appreciate a lot

  • @faithwithmelody
    @faithwithmelody 3 года назад +2

    Yes! Love this!!

  • @michellemohammed195
    @michellemohammed195 10 месяцев назад

    You are so very talented, Sabrina. Thank you.

  • @friendofanimalsa3816
    @friendofanimalsa3816 3 года назад +7

    Please make closed captioning available for the deaf and hard of hearing. I'd prefer to read what you're saying as you speak.

  • @Empress_speaksfacts
    @Empress_speaksfacts 2 года назад +2

    I love you❤ you said this perfectly

  • @graceludekens9611
    @graceludekens9611 2 года назад +1

    This is wonderful!

  • @sihamBaD
    @sihamBaD 3 года назад +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @zelingwang4723
    @zelingwang4723 3 года назад +2

    Thanks! It’s the right time to watch this video. U r awesome 👏

  • @deborahdesanto2313
    @deborahdesanto2313 2 года назад +5

    Sabrina after listening to what you said I think I ruined the relationship before it started, I put to much into the relationship I had all the emotions and feelings into him. 😞

  • @jessiehenry1401
    @jessiehenry1401 2 года назад +1

    This is awesome!

  • @elskar1
    @elskar1 3 года назад +3

    Great wise words

  • @talghow-i2326
    @talghow-i2326 3 года назад +2

    Self efficacy seems more stable as a part of modification theory. and it enhances self esteem.

  • @peterpisspotty3052
    @peterpisspotty3052 Год назад

    Great channel - absolute genius advice

  • @thinktough
    @thinktough 3 года назад +8

    This is a lovely video Sabrina. Thanks! I think you should write up an article on this too. So many imp points.. would be really good to skim through once a while.

    • @thinktough
      @thinktough 3 года назад +2

      And by the way, congratulations on your baby! He is adorable. 🙂

    • @SabrinaBendory
      @SabrinaBendory 3 года назад +3

      Thanks so much! And yes, there will be an article version.

  • @anyoneanyone3515
    @anyoneanyone3515 6 месяцев назад

    I’m self conscious about certain parts of my body. Hard to get past.

  • @lizashby999
    @lizashby999 3 года назад +8

    I love your videos Sabrina - just wish you'd slow down your delivery as what you have say is pure gold!

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад +1

    number 4 is interesting, because in other videos you say look for a pattern if relationships go wrong... I agree about emotions and letting go but not the no analysis, alot of women do error in patterns.

  • @renoaczhary1232
    @renoaczhary1232 3 года назад

    Thank you

  • @irenemigliaccio
    @irenemigliaccio 3 года назад +9

    Choose wisely 💯 that's me.

  • @lyndamcmullen9410
    @lyndamcmullen9410 3 года назад +1

    Fabulous ♥️

  • @nondumisonkosi2346
    @nondumisonkosi2346 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Sabrina 😚😚😍😍

  • @susanrussell7157
    @susanrussell7157 2 года назад

    Very helpful. 😸

  • @sihamBaD
    @sihamBaD 3 года назад +2

    You saved my Life

  • @rainbowconnection7652
    @rainbowconnection7652 3 года назад +6

    im glad you have improved a lot by talking slower. it makes what you are saying more absorbable by people who are like me. thanks

  • @rosirose5727
    @rosirose5727 3 года назад +2

    Thank Sabrina.... Good 👍 one. Can you please slow down when you talk

    • @fleetingfootnotes9133
      @fleetingfootnotes9133 3 года назад

      No, please Sabrina, just stay the way you are. Remember that if need be, you can adjust the playback speed of the video if it's too much.

  • @Garland67
    @Garland67 3 года назад +2

    This is so good. True that many women try to win men back and chase men who have rejected them. More women need to just move on!

  • @ozzie8800
    @ozzie8800 3 года назад

    Great channel and advice. However their email subscription links lead to weird virus sites and now I get spam email! I’m certain it’s from them. It’s a shame as I really like them so don’t understand why they’ll do spam containing virus emails.

  • @ushine4me
    @ushine4me 3 года назад +7

    Wonderful video... I was triggered... A lot. Lol but its definitely spot on insight. I consider myself healthy and confident and secure but I have my moments and tendencies that are not as constructive. I recently made a list of these tendencies (some of which you discussed in this video). I don't know the next step... How do I work on these once I've identified them? I guess it is a journey that progresses with every interaction and relationship.

    • @ushine4me
      @ushine4me 3 года назад +3

      I need to watch this video like at least 3 times lol

    • @Marcianamusic_
      @Marcianamusic_ 2 года назад +1

      I feel you girl!!

  • @jlee0719able
    @jlee0719able 3 года назад +5

    What if there is "money" involved where both of you invested into something and you haven't gotten your shares back yet?

  • @sheriwl
    @sheriwl 8 месяцев назад

    The man I´m chatting with says that aaaaaall the time he ¨doesn´t do drama¨ and he ¨just wants peace¨. So, def truth to that. But can you do videos on geriatrics? I´m 45 and hes 55 and this whole ¨meeting new senior citizens¨ things is new to me.....

  • @krissyaguilar1814
    @krissyaguilar1814 3 года назад +3

    Yessss I want a partner not a project 👍👍

  • @angelicatrevino1122
    @angelicatrevino1122 3 года назад

    Loved!

  • @nothinginparticular2641
    @nothinginparticular2641 3 года назад +8

    AWESOME. No more PickMe-sha energy over here >_

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA 2 года назад

    In #2 you mentioned confidant women gives the guy space. Can you define how much space Is considered normal vs too much space???

  • @trixiekirch434
    @trixiekirch434 Год назад

    👏👏👏🔥

  • @kilingjoy9145
    @kilingjoy9145 3 года назад +1

    Second ❤️

  • @retroswank4693
    @retroswank4693 29 дней назад

    The background music is hilarious

  • @kerethajackson2435
    @kerethajackson2435 2 года назад +1

    👍❤❤❤❤

  • @monicahirsch5615
    @monicahirsch5615 3 года назад

    Hi.. I have several emails trying to obtain the email copy of your book, purchased months ago.
    Would you pls assist with lmk how I may access this material- (I paid for).. Ty!!❣️❣️

  • @AngeldelaMuerte1313
    @AngeldelaMuerte1313 2 года назад

    👍🏼❤️

  • @tracemoonde4532
    @tracemoonde4532 3 года назад +1

    Third

  • @mylaganda1
    @mylaganda1 3 года назад

    Hi❣️Am d 1st commenter

  • @sophiasiwakoti3740
    @sophiasiwakoti3740 3 года назад

    😇🥰

  • @lavellapelarion5628
    @lavellapelarion5628 3 года назад

    Waching

  • @sweetlikechocolate437
    @sweetlikechocolate437 3 года назад +3

    How to get fantastic advice on dating...Umm...read Jane Austen.

  • @audrey6528
    @audrey6528 3 года назад +3

    Question is.. what’s too confident???🤔

    • @hannahsworld9101
      @hannahsworld9101 3 года назад +2

      never heard of her🤔

    • @audrey6528
      @audrey6528 3 года назад +1

      @@hannahsworld9101 are you doing sarcastic? Lol i can’t tell

    • @abbygriffin9105
      @abbygriffin9105 2 года назад +2

      Answer is...arrogance.

  • @Tarasyoutube
    @Tarasyoutube 3 года назад +2

    What is wrong with her having an agenda about what she wants
    I guess it can feel overbearing or one sided

  • @emmanuelalexander9399
    @emmanuelalexander9399 3 года назад +3

    Woman of high value ???.....is that an overweight woman 😄

    • @JustTeeTee777
      @JustTeeTee777 2 года назад +3

      Being of High value is not based upon how someone looks its a way of life. The way you think of yourself and carry yourself. Genius...smh