How do we stop obsessively thinking of someone? 😫🙃😖
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- Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
- This video covers how to stop obsessively thinking of someone.
If you've ever felt caught up in obsession, mental preoccupation, a "mental loop", obsessive thinking or fixation on a person or relationship that's keeping you from moving forward, then you will want to listen closely to what's revealed in this video.
If you're obsessing over someone, it doesn't necessarily mean you're even with them or dating them. This can happen after breakups or after the painful feeling of loss that comes with unrequited love.
However, when you understand the true root of what seeds and fuels this obsessive thinking, you slow the obsession to a total stop and regain your feelings of peace, well-being and inner clarity.
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What about a guy who is telling a " Sabrina " story at this very moment ? What if you were a Sébastien to someone else ?
I LOVED 💖 your Story Alot
Made me Laugh. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You Give "GREAT" Advice . 😎👍
Felt like you just uploaded this for me. I can't tell you enough how much you have changed my life. Thank you Sabrina. I truly admire you and sending love from the other end of the world- Bangladesh! ❤️
Aw thank you so much! I really appreciate hearing that.
Accept your past without regret handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear.😇
Thanks sis❤️
This video was practically written about me. 2.5 years of a long distance relationship that has never been heading anywhere. Regularly ghosts me then comes back. Absolutely believe I continually manifested him back into my life because the universe was trying to show me he wasn't for me.
Definitely trying to fill a void in my life. You have given me the nudge I need to re- focus on what serves me and he most definitely doesnt. Thankyou Sabrina ❤️
i like sabrina. she is very authentic. so geninue in sharing her own experience with us. great advices as always!
Glad you enjoyed it!
This is the BEST video I needed to hear right now. Your videos are so amazing and they have made me realized how much I WAS ACTUALLY RESPONSIBLE for chasing all these men away and I was CLUELESS. I'm 40 now and hoping it's not too late to work on myself and find someone but most importantly, learn to love myself. Thank you so very much for what you do.
You're so welcome!
Wow this is one of the best videos I have ever seen on being obsessed with somebody who is out of reach.
“I wanted to be him” - I have tried to explain this concept to so many people but this is the first time I have heard somebody articulate the same concept.
This is some of the best therapy I’ve ever received
This is some of the best therapy I ever received
Thank you! I've experienced EVERYTHING you said. This guy's smile alone was overwhelming....(7) months later I saw him with another girl....which was a relief for me...This taught me that I need to let him go....
I love you so MUCH. YOU ARE JUST AUTHENTIC AND EVERY SENTENCE MAKES SENSE
Omg I really needed this video THSNK YOU 🙏
It's so frustrating and definitely a struggle not being obsessed about someone you love and crave for, but realizing that you are the love of your life, your own protagonist can make a change to be better. I try it every single day, thanks for everything Sabrina
One of my favorite videos on this channel thank you for this
You are helping me get through it. Thank you!
Every time I see one video and think this is your best, you just outdo it in another one. Thank you for the passion you have in this. It's literally like hearing it from your best friend or sister. I had been obsessed about manifestations too, wondering (or almost blaming myself) for "not doing it again". So crazy... now I hear you. Thanks!
Wow, thank you!
This was a great video! It brought much needed clarity and understanding. I will apply this knowledge ! Thank you
Thank you so much for this video!!! You are Amazing! 💕
That video is really liberating, God bless you!!!
This is so me!!! Just discovered your channel! Thank you for these uploads
I agree.....when you feel about someone and it just drives you crazy....it's obvious that it's a 2 way street because when you feel like this then the other individual feels the same way about you yet the individual is so much more scared than you are..I just love your videos..
This was really good and on point
I did this last year. After I split from my husband of 25 years I started to talk to a guy and I thought what we had was something special. To summarise he ghosted me after I asked for a break and obsessed over him for a VERY long time. I realise now I did this to fill the void that you talked about and now I work on myself and show myself some compassion I realise he was never worthy of me in the first place, and I finally let the obsession go. It takes time and lots of stress but I am finally happy. Thanyou Sabrina, your tips really do work xx
on point with all your Videos!
I was needing this , really thank you
This is my new favorite video ever!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Gosh this is just what I needed. Thank you 😊
Christ your describing my whole life I'm 52 and have never been aware of this continual mindset rut , thank you
This video is literally the best, thank u so much❤️
I love the "pluck it out" concept. That's going to become my mantra. I can do that! There's always SOMETHING you can replace a thought with. Even if what you replace it with isn't always that great of a replacement, it's a start in the right direction when you're ruminating far too much, like I have been. Over time, I can tweak the replacement thoughts until I'm really soaring on a different playing field. I have to allow myself that learning curve, because I think plucking out thoughts won't all happen overnight.
Great video! I just stopped obsessing over someone recently, by just calling him and telling him that what he wanted wouldn't work for me, (fwb until one of us found someone else). I knew I needed to tell him, and the indifference in his voice was all I needed to hear to convince me that I made the right choice. I am now focused on being my own person. And when you mentioned wanting to be like them, I was reminded of Shallon (the youtuber), mentioning hurt lockers. He was my hurt locker. But im in a place in life where I'm learning to be ok with who I am and seeing the power in that and that I don't need him. We waste so much time obsessing when we can be working on becoming the Queens we are meant to be!! It's sad really, and I don't want to do that to myself anymore.
spot on. freaking universe :)))
this was extremely helpful! i needed to see this, thank you!
I'm so glad!
Thankyou so much, I was stuck in a negative mindset expecting the worst and not giving people a fair shot, I was so used to pushing people away I forgot to focus on the small things that really matter.
You are so amazing!
it's so good!
I really enjoyed this video! All so true! I hate being obsessed with someone it drives me crazy especially a celebrity crush! I do feel the root is trying to fill a void or avoiding the work on yourself!
Thank you thank you thank you. This was just what I needed to hear. I felt like you were talking about me😂 I’m so bad at it. I obsesses over a guy way to easy. I thought I would finally love myself when a guy gave me the validation I am so desperate for. I am on a path on fixing myself and improving my self love. You came into this path at the perfect time🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💜 thank you
Thanks for this!!! I'm gonna listen to you everyday lol.
I'm not happy because i finally found a solution to my huge problem as i'm glad i've found someone who understands my feelings like 100%!!!!! She's speaking my thoughts out loud!! Thank u so much!!!! No one will taught me these things like u did ❤️❤️❤️
This makes so much sense. Thank you for the video, Sabrina! Love your content.
So glad!
Such wisdom
Sabrina, thank you!!!!! Such an amazing video! I loved how your personal story completely illustrated and set up the topic. You’re amazing!!!
Thank you so much!!
So thanksfuk for this video! You helped me a looooooot! May Allah reward you my dear 💕
Thank you for this great video. It's interesting how you use the word "manifested" or "manifesting" because I feel that is what I've been doing lately. I went through a bad break up this year, but had two instances following where the guy and I wound up back in each others' presence. The first (two months ago) was bittersweet, but the second (last week) felt more positive. In part, I attributed this to manifesting, but have been working on reeling it in and letting it go. Every time I ask why he couldn't love me, or why didn't he want me, I turn the question to myself: "Why can't you love yourself?"... "Why don't you want yourself?".... He also represents the life I want and so I make sure to work towards making that life, not for him but for me. It's so exhausting, lol. But obsession is a reflection, I am working on filling the void. We deserve better so, ultimately, why not give it to ourselves?
This video is so underrated! I foud it so helpful
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It’s funny… reading all the comments, we can finally understand how we are “all one” :)) So many people going through the same experiences for the same lesson :))
It’s tough though… It’s been 2 years… and I’m not sure I’ve learned the lesson. Not sure what’s missing, what is this void… I’m doing what I love, but in the back of my mind… he’s still there.
This is so helpful! All of my crushes were basically "Muses" and so I clearly wasn't going anywhere with that.
This was fantastic! Thank you
You're so welcome!
I absolutely love your story. You look absolutely gorgeous Sabrina!
Thank you so much!
Thanks this video helped alot
I feel like I manifested this video 😅😂
Haha, love it!
Love every video...you're so good at this...and you're an amazing person for teaching us these lessons 💗💗
Aw thanks so much!
Not only is your video so helpful, but I also have to remember rejection is the universe's protection. And with your story the A..hole sounds like a narcissist because you don't just kiss someone and not know the signal you are giving. Hugging can be friendly but kissing, no he needs the supply from pretty women to boost his ego.
I love your videos so much this is exactly what I need❤️😭
Happy to hear it!
What a great story and very relatable ! Thanks for all the advice 😃 I’m going to keep this in mind. The part about using the guy as a distraction from myself really hit home for me. I feel like I need to work on my life, career goals, etc. but I’m obsessing over a guy to distract me from real life stuff cuz it’s hard growing up & adulting! 😐
You got this!
Very helpful topic.
I literally found this at the right time. I want to stop.
Thank you. Seriously. This video, changed my life. My obsession was getting out of control, and i had a feeling i should let go, but I didn't know how to, and this helped me a lot. Thank you so much!
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Iam glad I finished the whole video...am gonna work on myself for a better me in the future.I forgive my former self and glad she was eager to learn and move on to a better her.Thank you so much.
"GREAT STORY" 😎👍
We All go through Something like that in our Lives .
The Key is to Learn from it and make sure it doesn't happened again . 💖👍
I love the way you talk abt manifesting and such I don't obsess abt manifesting either but I do clearly see where you can manifest good just as easy as bad stuff but if you want out of a relationship that is going no where why not try and bring it down to what it is and give yourself permission to feel ok
You are definitely saving my life! Keep up with the great work because you are amazing! 😍 btw I loove your style, outfit, makeup, your energy ❤❤ Greetings from Morocco
I really need this 😭
a new mode , with the new in pink like that would be so much fun as a message on a mug or a keyring or perhaps a pillowcase for fun 😊
Sabrina- You are a natural! This has been my most favorite video of yours. Wish you loads of success in your endeavor!!!!
Talk to fast!!!!!!
Thank you so much!!
Thanks for sharing your experience Sabrina...I wonder what Sebastian is doing now! 😉
This video just came the right time for me... you explained it in a way i could really relate... thanks ❤👍
I'm so glad!
Nope, nope...nope, that Sebastian, you speak of was just a jerk. Thank you so much for the story. It so like the same thing, that I'm going through. I was in love with a guy who once helped me in the school yard when I was a kid... Last year I dated him and it turned out he was all over the place and totally emotionally unavailable. He lives in my hometown and I have been crazy about him for years. And you telling me this story just helps me (so much) to move on.
This was helpful for me
It feels so validating that im not the only one going through this. It makes you feel like your literally crazy. I’m so down about it.
Awesome to hear this from a woman's perspective, even though a lot of the tips apply to both men and women!
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
Can I just say that is an amazing exciting story about a boy?! My thoughts on this are....I have things like this happen all the time and I think its the universe's way of injecting bits of fantasy and fairy tales into our lives and I take these little beautiful interactions as the true happy endings. They are exciting bits of true innocent fun love that don't end in tragedy with real broken hearts and real broken lives. I mean seriously....wouldn't you rather have that happy experience as your memory and story of him than to lose an awesome apartment you rented with him and have to move out and leave a dog you got together or have to go to court and fight him for child custody and support??? I mean seriously.....embrace the fun of those passionate moments and keep your stability. That is the fantasy dream. This is when you have it all. The fantasy. The dream. The reality. The stability. You aren't losing you by being crazy....about a boy 💜 much love and hope to you and all the girls and women out there who get crazy about ....a beautiful fantasy about a boy....thank you for sharing your passion and love and loss and lessons learned with us...you are brave, beautiful strong and smart....you are loveable
.....you deserve love. Most importantly.... that Self love. XoXoX
17:10 for the actual tips.
Thank you 🥰
many of us are facing ourselves, improving ourselves, over and over and over, to the point you can become a therapeust to ANYONE, but YET, you still feel that hole inside you. We are SO tired of improving, learning, being sucessful.. great, then you get there and so what? You're still alone drinking a martini in Maldivas... what's the value of happiness without sharing..
This is brilliant. I’m stuck on a girl after 30 years. After a number of dates I asked her out for dinner and she said ‘why?’ I took that as a rejection and never called her again and let her go. I felt and feel so guilty and stupid.
U just gained a subscriber over this video....
Thank you Sabrina 😊 💓
You are so welcome!
Thanks for this video sabrina! This is so helpful. Easier said than done! I have been through this and still going through, you’re right about the fantasy part, we just see a person as a fantasy ignoring what the reality be like. We expect miracles/fairytales kinda romance, failing to understand that god has better things planned out for us. I hope I’ll be able to get through this and bring the focus on myself, be the best version of myself. So that I don’t have to obsess over someone who doesn’t know my value.
So grateful to have found this channel. I needed to see your videos, thank you!
Finally read my self help books and implimented better habits as a result (7 habits... Richest man in Babaylon... jim kwik limitless brain etc). And many career goals have evolved from refocusing the obsession. Also, exercising and sleeping. In the beginning my body carried a lot of tension from the anxiety and overthinking, but coming back to life with time.
Thank you for this video , it's such a relief, u won't believe Prince Charles became my friend on Facebook then he calls me a goof, after that I am humiliated, now he wants to talk, I am so confused 😕
Thank you so much for sharing. Personally, I may be wrong but he sounded like a guy that was just having a good time but had a girlfriend. Nevertheless, I’m glad that you were able to get some clarity for it and give us all this great content. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Thank you!! This is exactly what I have been going through for so long! Each guy I want I obsess. But I choose the emotionally unavailable men. HOW does one fill that void? HOW does one feel valid in who they are without a man? I am seeking professional help, but it’s been a battle I’ve been dealing with for so long. 😞
Sabrina, thank very much for all your work and sharing with us your thoughts and perspectives!
You are fantastic!✨💕
What do you think about financial aspects of relationships? What is your take on how financially invested should be both man and woman during different stages of the relationships? What is your take on 50/50 model?
It would be great if you can make video on this topic!
I'm pretty sure this practically applies to me being obsessed with a particular business seller from abroad after few years of connection with him on social media before he already committed a breaking point of blocking me... After what he did accused and/or claimed me of. I was mostly the one that did grow fond or into him enough to ever had the interest of interacting with him while he himself used to be decent enough to seemed to be interested in me. I was initially his client plus me being mostly the one that saw him as my friend before. Once i heard part of his human nature of how he acted and behaved in a stubborn or aloof way sometimes til sooner or later already became distant with me. That could be something he doesn't see me as his friend much. Makes me sense a feeling of rejection no matter how good my intentions with him were. Talk about watching how people like him change that could be out of the blue.
That’s so true
I'm literally in this mess as we speak 😂
I was missing something & wanted him badly I was so obsessive day & night eventually I got very depressed. I learned my lesson & hope never to go through that again!
Amazing video Sabrina.... so much truth. Specially the void part. I’ll play it whenever I need to pluck those weeds out😅.... love your channel. I learn so much. Thank you🥰🙏
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I liked this video!!
Please get a podcast🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi, this Gemini brain of mine NEVER stops 🤷♀️🤣 the guy I’m obsessing about is I met at a bar playing pool. He was totally into me then, not. Long story short I have to move on, ugh. Q the obsession!
Really enjoyed the video & it seemed so relevant to me. Also, I’ve subscribed to your channel & tap the bell to be notified yet I don’t think it’s doing it? 😓 anyone know why please?
ugh, really? That's so annoying. I usually upload every Monday around 12pm EST so just check at those times, but hopefully it will show up on your feed!
Cute history. I was obsessed with someone for 8 years.
Sabrina 🥰 , I feel a connection to him because he knows and understands my life circumstances and has still remained in contact with me , but when he moves to USA I don't know what will happen
Hyperbole what a great new word I have learnt 😂👍
In your defense , that was a jerk move by "Sebastian". Its like if were all adults, then have the courtesy to tell someone that youre not interested. ( In a perfect world it would work that way.. I know, lol)
Agreed, it definitely was a jerk move. At the same time, even if he had replied and said he couldn't come to the party... I still would have obsessed over him! The ghosting just added insult to injury!
I feel like Sebastian played her. Guys know when girls have an interest, especially if it's at the obsession level. He played off her to boost his own ego. That's all she was to him. Like, "I can call her gorgeous, and make her swoon." And then he delights in watching it play out. Huge boost to his ego, while doing nothing for her, but leaving her in a pile of confusion. We need to see these things coming from a distance, and head them off at the pass. A better response from her would have been a nonchalant, "hey, handsome," and a mild peck on the side of his head. Then way back away as though she was planning to leave. Would have put that guy right in his place where he belonged, instead of giving him the upper hand. And when he told her to call him, the response, "oh, no, I'm not gonna be able to do that," and just leave it at that, and change the subject.