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Gosh seeing David very stoic but clearly emotional like that makes me think about how my father actually feels about my little brother passing because my father is always so stoic and such but he must be really hurting. My mother and me, we cry together...

Gosh. After I lost my little brother, I'm 33 going on 34 and he's 31 going on 32 when he passed away in February this year, and after we lost him, I deleted all my Facebook business pages and all social media because he was the only reactor I needed whenever I post a new design. Now he's gone, I lost my zest for everything. His reaction and critiques are the only things I consider in my work. Now, I'm so lost. 😢

This is me😢

You should know you are an amazing person going through that and helping all of us you have been my strength your videos help but i hope your getting love and support back you need it to

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😢

I see dark curly haired little baby girls everywhere and wonder if that’s what Violet would have looked like.

Thank you always, Brooke .😢my daughter, Saffron, passed away two days after she turned 9 (10 april 2024)😢. I'm told, "Just like job, God will restore you,"you are still young, you can have another child" I'm Ghanaian and I'm told sometimes that my culture does not allow me to cry because she was my first and only child😢(i still cry). I feel subdued 😢😢😢

Try visiting the smithsonian museum of american history, the dress exhibit of the first ladies inaugural gowns is a wonderful piece of history.

8 months ago today, my 29 year old son died from sudden cardiac arrest. I was already 3 months in grief over my 14 year old cat having to be put down, and 3 days after my son, while planning his funeral, I had to put down my other 14 year old cat. It's been a long journey these 8 months. I cry weekly. I don't have as many nightmares. I can now hear an ambulance siren without losing it. But sometimes I cannot look at photos of my son. At this stage, what shocks me the most is that parts of my brain STILL hasn't accepted it. I STILL think thoughts of "I can't wait to show him this" or "its been awhile, I need to text him and get him over here to my place". It's weird. It's like my brain will not let me go to the place of believing I will never see him again.

Im so very sorry i wish i could give you a hug I understand. Loss but cant imagine the pain your going through from one grieving person to another i wish you sooo much love healing comfort and peace

Thank you for the help waiting to get into therapy so i watch this to help for now i find nature coloring and peaceful music help and going on bicycle rides through nature

Iam so sorry and moved By your storie .my wife died And iam really hurting. I know what your going thru. Its hell.ifeel hopeless and depressed.i hope you feel better

I donated my sons clothing and about 2 weeks later I saw his black leather jacket and jeans along with his shoes on a blonde hair guy from behind my heart skipped a beat. He looked so much like Casey that I can't get it out of my mind.

Oh my gosh yes to a point where I stop and kind of stare looked exactly like my son...

I quietly say hi to my loved one as I know this is a sign from them, I feel sad I can't see or hold them. But I do try to give myself a break and feel the grief that comes up.

Have you noticed this on your grief journey?

Where focus goes energy flows.

Hello Brooke Carlock hello anyway i had a really rough day at work so here Chanley Channel and Isabella's Inspirations as well:).

I know right

Sending a Big Hug and some ice cream your way. Thank you for sharing.

Yes I get very upset and lost my son at 28 years old in a car accident 💔

Nope I have a cleaning business and walk my mini poodle 4-5 times a day and am #1 care giver for 21 year old son/grandson... great cover up .

Thank you for explaining this model well with real life examples!

Love the book I read it twice and a friend has it now.

Since you like history, look into checking out Winterthur Estate in Delaware. Thanks for great videos!

Great podcast sorry I missed the live. I so identified with Elizabeth and the loss of her husband. I felt everything she talked about. Losing the love of your life, there are no words. It affects every aspect of your life. So glad conversations are happening so we have hope and know we aren’t alone!

Great video and advice

Hello Brooke Carlock hello anyway The Corwin Family and Fig 5 Adventures and Momma Snark and Giles Family and Magical Mom Laura and Family with Four and Days of our lives with Savannah and Izzy and Paisley's kidz club ♥️ and Krause Mouse Adventures and Heather Pead and Magical Fam and M-E-B Adventures and DannieDecentVlogs and DannieDecent and Scarlett & Mama ♥️ and Pizano Family and Wendy Jerin and Lulu and Maeby and Emily Joy and Built to Serve and Chaotic Country and Brandi Hollis - Product Reviews and Walks with Holly and Shannon Carpenter and Hang With The Bangs and SK&J Family and The Puma Family and Makenzie Robinson and A Little Bit of Pingree and Our Joyful Home and Disney Mom Life and Special Steps and Rachel Smyer and Kennedyandpresley and Cody_Lynn1 and Britnee Aloisio and Kelly Jo Bloedel and Original Motherhood and Lulu and Maeby and Ashley Marie Lopez and Vanessa Valladares and Sadie Donahue♥️ and Perseverance Mama and Amanda Payne as well:).

The older I get, I don’t tell people to stop talking about anything I don’t want to hear. If I don't want to listen, I simply don’t engage with them. Even if they’re “stuck”. I haven’t found that I’m gong to be the one to “unstick” them by telling them to “snap out of it” so I just let people be. We’re each in our own little world, full of memories, imaginings, life events and our own perception, as far as I’m concerned. Let us all be.

I undestand how you both feel , I lost my Daughter Maddie in 2020..It is a pain that can never be contemplated by folks who have not suffered the lost. I wish you strength and much love!

“Best day ever” is such a beautiful way to approach life. We actually have this printed on a painting of our 17 year old dog who we were told had a brain tumour and just enjoy her for “ a day to 3 months”: she defied all medical predictions and my daughter who is a vet would ask how Scarlett was doing : “ Best Day Ever”. Thanks for sharing your Libby. I know it is “ not the same” but I can relate to losing my very special niece who I was in contact daily with to a very sudden rare form of cancer. Everything you are saying is very helpful to others. I think our family made the mistake of NOT talking about the tragedy and my other niece ended up being hospitalized multiple times for severe mental health issues. NOT talking is NOT good. What a great son you have raised.

So true, ya never get over it, geez. Life changes and you adjust but getting over it never happens.

If you like history, check out Waterford, and Middleburg Virginia

That is so true Brooke..I will never get over the loss of my son. I will learn to live the best I can with a heart that has been wounded from this loss..

Last thing my baby girl said was screaming mommy because the hospital couldn't get an IV in her arm. Never got to hear her speak again. I can't wait to be with her again.

Sometimes it feels good to read blogs or watch videos about people who are suffering like you are...it makes you feel less alone. But you are right, too much of that can bring you down. That's when I try to watch some prank or comedy videos to lighten my spirit. I know you already have a career, but I think you would be a good therapist too. You have actually been through some serious stuff so when you say something like that it is sometimes possible to choose happiness, it carries a lot more weight than someone who is just repeating phrases they have been taught without much thought behind it.

My feed is split between food, dogs, farm sanctuaries….and way too many infant, child, grandchild loss posts. It does bring me down but it also makes me feel less alone. I am surrounded by family but have never felt so alone in my life. I think I do need to minimize those grief accounts to the two where I have meaningful connections. But I also cannot look at anything having to do with pregnancy, a baby, or young parents. I hide all of that and any friends with that in their life. Hide all the ads. Ugh. Good video!

Lots and lots of big big hugs, beautiful mummy xxxxx❤️💞❤️

Hi Brooke, another great video and great advice!! I have mixed feelings about watching sad videos etc…. I feel they do help as they help you feel less alone in your grief (as you stated) but also, if another parent has had an even more tragic loss of a child (eg death through murder or more than one child die) then I feel that I can be strong as they’ve survived something even worse than I have. I hope that makes sense!! I agree though, there are times that you need to ‘get away’ from your grieving thoughts and just ‘chill’ for a while. This was very hard to do when Paris had first passed but I found, with time and rest, it has become more achievable. I am now almost 2 years into the loss of my priceless baby girl and, though it’s still difficult…… and still shocking, I can ‘carry’ my grief with some ease, most of the time. Thank you again for all you do for us grieving parents, Brooke, you are helping us sooooo much, more than you know. Love and hugs from Colchester UK xxxxxx❤️💞❤️

Yea....literally and figuratively. 😢

So right ❤

Thats awful, my condolences to you all, I hope you're son is doing okay. RIP Libby 🩷🌈🙏🏻💐

Hello Brooke Carlock hello anyway i just want to say this to you and to your family and to your friends just for fun You're gonna need a bigger boat Jaws (1975) my all time favorite Summer monster movie and as a 90s kid and an early 2000s kid i am so glad I grew up with this movie instead of the movies being made these days anyway Brooke Carlock i hope your wonderful 10 year old daughter Libby Carlock had the chance to watch and see this amazing monster movie anyway rest in peace Roy Scheider as Martin Brody the greatest police chief in Jaws (1975) and rest in peace Robert Shaw as Quint the greatest fisherman with the greatest backstory in Jaws (1975) anyway just for fun I'll consider Libby Carlock and Martin Brody and Quint all three of them are having fun in heaven hunting Jaws (1975) the ultimate sea monster as well:).

I will talk to anyone that wants to listen...I lov talking about my son❤

I lost my precious 4 year old son 2 months ago.. i hate April 15.. i feel like i hate the world sometimes.. i miss him so so much!! I miss hearing his voice& holding his little hand.. the pain that comes after loosing a child is UNREAL...it can EASILY make you go crazy! Seriously crazy! I want to look at pictures and videos but everytime ive done that i get really low& in a weird state where im questioning if life is even real..i have to be careful how often i look at pictures because it is too hurtful.

That's disgusting..I lost Roy after 50 years I get my own back by saying you have it all to come it's abhorrent!!!!! people need to know and have more sympathy for as long as it takes .. but life goes on iv been told .. she is stunning and in God's trust xxx❤️❤️❤️❤️

I lost my only daughter , Saffron in April 2024. She was 9 yrs old😢 as a single mum i cannot envisage a future without her. Thanks for all ypur videos❤

Thank you for the reminder regarding the frequency of car accidents. I remember a text came in on my phone a few years ago while I was driving. At that moment, I was the first car sitting at a red light at an intersection. The text came in and I read it which made me hesitate a bit to go through the light. As I read the text, a car came speeding through the light from my right to run the red light to get through. Had I not hesitated to read the text, I would have been hit broadside by that car. I don’t advocate being on your phone while driving. I was just thankful that day that I didn’t advance as normal once the light turned green for me. I hope to be more careful as I encounter intersections. Life changes so fast.

It hasn’t been long, Brooke. Two years really is not long (and there’s been total upheaval in your life as a whole -- not to mention everything that came before that - that it’s beyond weird that anyone would be telling you to get over it. I think I might have posted it here before. Pastor Tony Evans lost 8 family members in 2 years ... his dad, his sister, his wife, .his niece ... .... .... and others and it was like every 3 months here came another one, one on top of the one before. His faith is in Christ and it’s different mindset of loss but it’s painful to go through, nonetheless. We have an “interesting” view of “time” in this modern culture, here in the US, and as microwave/ same day delivery/ impatient people, we think like children. No, we are not there yet. We just left the house. In fact, we’re still in the driveway😞 . ...but no, Brooke, two years really is nothing. This life is a whole process.🌱 Blessings