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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2022
  • Welcome back to Father Knows Something! Real People. Real Stories. Real Dad advice with a dash of ADHD, and maybe a couple of millennials chiming in from time to time to add their thoughts.
    This week's episode has the Fathers Knows crew discussing listener write-ins that all involve stories that had our alarm bells ringing. Can't wait to hear what all of you think!
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Комментарии • 142

  • @monicanicole9075
    @monicanicole9075 Год назад +291

    the husband “just using tinder as a confidence boost” is definitely cheating lol

    • @EmilyLennoxchannel
      @EmilyLennoxchannel Год назад +60

      Yea even if he's not actually meeting people to me that's still cheating. If you're going outside of the relationship to seek that kind of validation that is already crossing a line.

    • @Jess_Bishop
      @Jess_Bishop Год назад +5

      Yeah, that would NOT fly with me!

    • @EvilSinx
      @EvilSinx Год назад +10

      @@EmilyLennoxchannel Exactly. There is indeed something called emotional cheating. I don't think finding out my husband physically cheated on me would be a lot worse than hearing him tell another woman "I love you"

    • @karlatrigueros9697
      @karlatrigueros9697 Год назад +5

      Not really, it depends on the couple. If she consideres it cheating, then it is cheating, if she doesn't, it isn't. Each couple is free to stablish their limits

    • @emilyharp1556
      @emilyharp1556 Год назад

      I don’t know the creators names but he says it’s a sex addiction bc of SA from childhood. Still emotionally cheating and there’s no excuse

  • @TwoHotTakes
    @TwoHotTakes Год назад +199

    Justin was so productive and got it up a day early for y'all

  • @buymeawhiskey5905
    @buymeawhiskey5905 Год назад +119

    Morgan!! Stop apologizing for talking. You contribute so much to the conversation. I don't know about others but I'm here for all of you.

    • @idontuploadanym0re
      @idontuploadanym0re Год назад +4

      literally also part of the show! everyone behind the mic is a valuable contributor with great input

  • @mrs.rodriguez123
    @mrs.rodriguez123 Год назад +14

    The husband who claimed it was just insecurity, there was one glaring red flag for me, he NEVER gave his phone to her. I'm married, we do not go through each other's phones or things, but I can guarantee you if someone accused me of cheating, I would want my husband to go through my phone to prove my innocence. That part screamed guilt. And it was all too convenient. He knew what would make her drop the issue. He knew how to make her feel guilty without ever having to defend his actions properly. That man is manipulative and a cheater. I hope she gets out.

  • @EvilSinx
    @EvilSinx Год назад +115

    About the third story..
    I'm the mother of three lovely daughters and I love my husband with all my heart. But after taking care of my little mice all day I just can't "switch" to intimacy like that. To me, being intimate with my husband is more emotional than physical, so if my mind is still exhausted and bursting with thoughts about the kids and so on, it's really hard to shut it all out and get into the right mood for that. So.. Maybe that's how she feels too. And I don't know how he usually behaves, but maybe she knows that cuddling with him would inevitably lead to him wanting more, that could be why she's brushing him off like that to avoid having to hurt him by telling him no. She may feel guilty already and so she's trying to avoid that situation right from the start

    • @jenniferpruitt5697
      @jenniferpruitt5697 Год назад +4

      Beautifully said👏

    • @Amandapuhlease
      @Amandapuhlease Год назад +3

      I feel this on a spiritual level

    • @Rmrz06.
      @Rmrz06. Год назад +3

      Yes yes Yesss!! You want to hang out and have fun and relax, you don't want to have to then switch and have to do something for someone else. However, things have changed lately. We've been together 18 years & I realized I was missing the connection to my husband WITHOUT sex. Once he stopped asking every night, and we built a relationship outside of sex, NOW we have sex almost everynight(5-6 times a week) and have been for about a year!

    • @EvilSinx
      @EvilSinx Год назад +1

      @@Rmrz06. Wow, that's awesome! And that's exactly what I mean. You need the right emotions for being intimate regularly. At least as a woman in most cases I guess x)
      I'm happy for you! :)

    • @EvilSinx
      @EvilSinx Год назад

      @@jenniferpruitt5697 Thanks ^^

  • @heezypeasy8611
    @heezypeasy8611 Год назад +63

    When I was married and took care of kids 95% of the time, I just didn't want to be touched at the end of the day. I'd have my kids crawling all over me, following me everywhere. By the time I went to bed I just didn't want to be touched.

    • @EmilyLennoxchannel
      @EmilyLennoxchannel Год назад +11

      Same here! I love my partner but especially when I was breastfeeding I felt like I didn't own my own body. As a mom and a wife you feel like everyone needs to use your body for something or someone is always touching you. Once I was able to stop breastfeeding I felt a little more in control of my body because it wasn't being used on demand for food.

    • @heezypeasy8611
      @heezypeasy8611 Год назад +5

      @EmilyLennoxchannel Yes, that's exactly how I felt! I ended up divorced by ex husband's ego was too fragile to handle me wanting autonomy. Breastfeeding makes it so much easier to feed baby but it does make you feel like you're just a milk machine!

  • @rennmcloughlin3939
    @rennmcloughlin3939 Год назад +31

    For the 2nd Story with the Husband on the Dating Apps:
    Just a thought, OP said they met on a dating app and it makes me think that there is no way that he is not messaging other girls because how else would he have met her, by talking and having a conversation with her. So, he must have had talked to someone or even mutliple girls, I really hope OP is okay and makes the best decision for her regardless of what her family thinks. :))

  • @hbrat
    @hbrat Год назад +14

    Depending on how recently she had the youngest child, she may still be struggling post-partum. Not necessarily a depression, but body image, sex drive, she may just be healing still.

  • @jenniferpruitt5697
    @jenniferpruitt5697 Год назад +28

    Morgan you really hit the nail on the head with the mom who’s disconnected from her husband. As moms, we’re TOUCHED OUT by the end of the day. We LOVE our husbands and our kids. Parenting all day is stressful, you don’t have much left for anything else. I feel for these parents. They’ve had two kids back to back and she’s still postpartum. No wander she doesn’t want to be touched. I feel like with proper communication, this couple will work through it together❤

  • @kateduggan2827
    @kateduggan2827 Год назад +28

    For the story regarding the husband on dating apps. Your husband is looking negative to your family because of his actions going on a public dating app. Telling your family the truth about it is an option but if you’re worried about sharing the truth about your partner to your family cause you don’t want then to see him in a negative light that’s an alarm bell.

    • @kateduggan2827
      @kateduggan2827 Год назад +5

      You shouldn’t have to censor your partner from your friends and family. It’s concerning

  • @Vickydoessomething
    @Vickydoessomething Год назад +18

    For the third story, it sounds like his wife is really overstimulated. Young children constantly need attention, cuddles, hugs, and it can be overstimulating if you’re doing it all day. As the mom of a toddler, I totally understand that. I feel like I want no one to touch me at the end of the day. Sometimes, it’s the opposite, but I definitely agree husband needs to have a conversation about this with his wife.

  • @bbme1213
    @bbme1213 Год назад +11

    Anyone else think of “And you’re an outfit Rememberer!!!” 😂

  • @marandavasquez762
    @marandavasquez762 Год назад +17

    I appreciate Justin’s perspective on the 2nd story a lot!
    But honestly, as a Mexican American woman…I feel like that guy is “Machismo”ing her, just with a modern twist. 😢

    • @isabelleblais1077
      @isabelleblais1077 Год назад +2

      I was just thinking that! Machismo culture is so detrimental for men, it's sad to hear how it's impacting both their lives 😔

  • @reynabates6870
    @reynabates6870 Год назад +51

    For the husband and wife that are having issues with physical intimacy. I would like to offer the idea of practicing physical touch with love and not the expectation of sex, especially since she’s had 2 kids, her body is not the way she is used to it being, she has to find what works for her in her new beautiful mom of 2 body. Offer to her loving touches and kisses and make it about emotional intimacy and help her fall in love with her body again, and maybe then she can work up to sex, sometimes it’s a slow process, but for some it does work :)

    • @HelloPeopleHii
      @HelloPeopleHii Год назад

      But OP said even a kiss goodbye before work is where she pulls back

  • @GrungeGalactica
    @GrungeGalactica Год назад +4

    Morgan has the best dad, love the dynamic & great advice and perspectives ❤

  • @instantreplayjj
    @instantreplayjj Год назад +8

    I usually just listen to the audio podcast as that's what works best for me. Decided to subscribe to the RUclips channel anyway, because Jerry deserves that plaque!!!

  • @minstrel1001
    @minstrel1001 Год назад +12

    Appreciate the early upload, right at the best time with my newborn in hospital with a fever, keeping me sane! 🤍

    • @EvilSinx
      @EvilSinx Год назад +1

      Get well soon newborn!
      My three girls are ill since nearly 4 weeks now.. x)

  • @Guruthosa
    @Guruthosa Год назад +7

    The couple with small babies: there doesn't have to be anything deeper going on. Sometimes you're so touched out and deeply resentful of your partner who just doesn't get it and can never get it. It's really just part of that chapter of life. 2 date nights a month is amazing!!

    • @haileyhoffman6165
      @haileyhoffman6165 Год назад

      Then that should be a discussion that she has with him. It's not okay to just be "deeply resentful of your partner".

  • @norafajardo3834
    @norafajardo3834 Год назад +4

    You guys make my days so much better! Thanks Dad Jerry for all the advise

  • @zulu32656
    @zulu32656 Год назад +8

    To the OP who lost their father: It sounds like your mom needs some therapy. She is probably dealing with deep trauma which is leading her to make poor choices and not see the whole picture with the new guy. I definitely think you should stick to your boundaries if this new guy makes you uncomfortable. I’m sorry you’re going through this and I hope your mother gets help and grows

  • @morganjohnson2513
    @morganjohnson2513 Год назад +9

    What a pleasant surprise!! Thanks for the early upload, this is going to get me through finals 🙌🏻❤️

  • @noras2772
    @noras2772 Год назад +2

    Oh how much I wish I had the chance to have a dad like you Jerry! Your relationship with Morgan is beautiful. I rarely comment on RUclips videos but I wanted to thank you, I adore this podcast, as well as THT. Listening to you guys brighten my day every time and your advices are truly precious! Thanks again ❤

  • @amycrawley7230
    @amycrawley7230 Год назад +3

    We gonna get you that plaque!! Sending love. You all are the best and only podcast I listen to religiously

  • @emmabunch-benson4795
    @emmabunch-benson4795 Год назад +4

    The dating app guy story: my opinion is to break up, don’t prolong it. As someone who’s been cheated on & it destroyed me, then I dived into the psychology of cheaters, while this man may or may not have physically cheated yet, over time he will. He said it himself; he’s insecure & needs validation & an ego boost; that’s the same reasons people often cheat & have sex outside their relationships; insecurity. Any emotion, any upset the comes about; in the cheaters mind, the solution isn’t communicating with their partners to help process the issue or their uncomfortable feelings; it is to go get validated, distracted, & comforted elsewhere. So no, any deception or insecurity is a huge red flag. Insecurity is actually the biggest red flag for me in a relationship & personally, I think it should be on more peoples radars.

  • @Fairyym
    @Fairyym Год назад +2

    Loved the episode! Idk why but this episode was one of my favs. Don’t apologize Morgan, love to hear your point of view! You didn’t talk a lot, everyone had enough time to flush out their point and it was great to listen

  • @bbme1213
    @bbme1213 Год назад +1

    This episode was great! The conversation flowed beautifully and respectfully

  • @CanadianChipmunk
    @CanadianChipmunk Год назад +6

    Hey guys, just want to say I love the shows and Morgan you look really pretty today, or whenever filming day was. Much love from Canada ❤️

  • @marisoldelatorre2046
    @marisoldelatorre2046 Год назад +5

    Dad was on point today great job guys ❤

  • @brittanyrojas
    @brittanyrojas Год назад +5

    On the story with the wife who is being distant.. she may just be insecure after having her 2nd baby I honestly felt the same way for a bit with our 2nd child

  • @NicoleSlays
    @NicoleSlays Год назад +4

    👋 Hello Jerry aka dad, Mogan & Justin!
    This is such a safe place here on RUclips. I adore this channel & all that you add to the platform ✨️💙

  • @shandixoe
    @shandixoe Год назад +2

    ahhh I'm so excited to be seeing this after a busy Monday

  • @hansje1733
    @hansje1733 Год назад

    This podcast and the tht podcast really calms me down. Love to listen to it during household time ore when i crochet or just during coffee and playing games on my tablet. tht helped me so much with sleeping in the hospital last year. Tht was on all night while sleeping. Thanks for everything ♡♡♡

  • @debbieaustinendecott2069
    @debbieaustinendecott2069 Год назад +1

    There is an excellent book by Jon Holstein called The Swimsuit Lesson . The Swimsuit Lesson is a powerful family resource - introducing a simple, yet effective way for parents to educate their children about the danger of sexual abuse. This beautifully illustrated story book includes a separate step-by-step parent's guide. Author, and police officer, Jon Holsten provides a realistic view of the danger facing children today, and what families can do to reduce chances of being victimized. It is story I shared with daughter and grands.
    Love your channel (s). You are all 3 great. I also spent early years in MN. Was fun place to be raised. Cannot imagine fighting snow drifts every morning to get to work on time like Dad did. This is my new favorite channel.

  • @janetsanchez5418
    @janetsanchez5418 Год назад

    Favorite episode yet! ❤

  • @emiliehubbard4783
    @emiliehubbard4783 8 месяцев назад

    11:13 MORGANS FACES ARE SENDING MEEEEE.

  • @jessicajessica8690
    @jessicajessica8690 Год назад +2

    The last name story is so relatable and can be so much more of a deep personal issue than it first sounds! My husband and I have an almost 4 year old daughter named Winnifred. We do use her full name but more often call her Winnie or Missy Fred as she is a very sassy and corky little girl. My parents have only ever called her WinniFERD. They chose to completely mispronounce the ending of her name. I don't understand why but they won't stop and after 4 years no matter how good a visit with my parents goes I leave feeling completely disrespected and offended. It's not as if they are giving her a unique endearing nickname, it's as if they are trying to change her actual name.
    If the writer of that post reads this: you are not wrong in your level of frustration. My husband and I are there with my parents too.

    • @cats1970
      @cats1970 9 месяцев назад

      My sister's kid has an English name and our grandmother consistently TRANSLATES the name to our native language. Say the name is Love and granny calls them Amour. It drives my sister and I up the wall. But she fought in the WWII resistance so we just tolerate it as her being old. Can't imagine how it must feel for your parents to do it.
      I'd definitely sit them down and explain it's not just a silly mistake. When we were kids we couldn't pronounce our aunt's name. She told mom it bothered her. So we were gifted a special nickname only we could call her. It's simple if you respect and care about your family.

  • @sarahbeth9525
    @sarahbeth9525 Год назад

    Yayyyy!!! So excited to watch.

  • @somethingelse4204
    @somethingelse4204 Год назад

    Morgan, please don't apologize for talking. You don't talk "too much". I'm a woman too and I come from a big, chaotic, loud family, and I had to work on not talking over people. In some families, talking over each other, having three conversations going on at once, it's comfortable...wow, I'm just realizing that almost all of us had ADHD and some other kind of neurological spiciness....huh. ANYWAY. It's fine to want to nip the talking over people thing in the bud. But you don't talk too much. Your insights are profound and helpful and wanted. Don't beat yourself up.
    I read this from one of my faaaavorite fan fiction authors - forget be the best version of yourself, be your favorite version of yourself. One is about perfection, the other is about joy.

  • @welmabv.391
    @welmabv.391 Год назад +1

    Coming straight from THT just to subscribe and help give you that RUclips plaque. I do listen to it, but on Spotify and I wasn't subscribed here.
    Ps: sending lots of love from Portugal, sometimes Angola 😉

  • @audrey.panneton
    @audrey.panneton Год назад +5

    About the story of the husband going on tinder to boost his confidence, my ex did something like that… he did have low self esteem but he never actually cheated that I know of but that doesn’t really matter anyway… I forgave him and we stayed together for a year after that. He was my first bf and I didn’t have a great self esteem either and he would constantly criticize my weight (which was average at the time) so that didn’t help… anyway to the person writing I hope you know your worth and your husband should know it too and shouldn’t need validation from others… maybe therapy could help if you feel like you could and want to trust him again

  • @xxelacreates
    @xxelacreates Год назад +1

    the thumbnail is so good - we love the emotional support panda

  • @bernadettemendoza5194
    @bernadettemendoza5194 Год назад +1

    I haven't even gotten into a story yet, and idk what it is but Morgan you look extra stunning here to me. Idk if its your hair pulled back or what but you look gorgeous!

  • @sarahbeth9525
    @sarahbeth9525 Год назад +2

    Guys I do my Christmas shopping on Christmas Eve. That's my toxic trait lol. It's very stressful, idk why I do it each year but yet here I am again..... 🤣

  • @vixen205
    @vixen205 Год назад +1

    When there isn’t a two hot takes video out, I LOVEEE going here

  • @zephynewinters
    @zephynewinters Год назад

    Brilliant beautiful aaaaaand BRILLIANT ❤

  • @zephynewinters
    @zephynewinters Год назад

    Give this man his youtube plaque ❤❤❤

  • @msammerz5608
    @msammerz5608 Год назад +3

    I usually always agree with you all, but on story number three... they have 2 children under two! One is a few months old?!?! She's tired! Of course she isn't feeling it. Be it she isn't healed fully and that doesn't sound like a good time, or she is just worn out by the end of the day... it's pretty normal to feel that way. Ol dude needs to give it some time and help her.

  • @breathoffreshair7795
    @breathoffreshair7795 Год назад +2

    Just gotta say- idk how second story would have a good gauge of the situation based on gut because anything that would raise suspicion has been hidden it seems. That throws it off immediately sadly, she sounds like she feels obligated to stay with him out of love and that could also greatly reduce her vision of the situation.

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 Год назад

      Im getting the vibe from the woman disconnecting with her marraige and the husband writes in, it sounds like she’s exhausted, it sounds like hes giving acts of service/gifts and that clearly isnt how she needs her love cup filled. This sounds like shes drained and doesnt feel comfortable enough to even talk to him about it. Def therapy

  • @soybeanokra
    @soybeanokra Год назад

    Came here to subscribe thanks to THT!

  • @emilierayanne
    @emilierayanne Год назад

    The 3rd story about the husband who felt his wife was pulling away. Communication would 100% solve this issue and I’m glad y’all touched on that. The kids are only 1 year old and a few months old?.. w/o knowing the moms side, I wouldn’t be surprised if she was struggling with postpartum/body image/and over all exhaustion. Not to mention she had two kids in less than 18 months (holy shit). He noticed the change after they had kids but didn’t make the full connection that those kids may have taken quite a toll on her body :( As a woman I’m cutting her a lot of slack but if he just had the conversation with her I’m sure they would come to an understanding. It really just seems like 2 people living in different worlds under the same roof

  • @amandareed4689
    @amandareed4689 Год назад

    Not me zooming in to see what’s on the socks today 🙃

  • @mariah191
    @mariah191 Год назад

    I subscribed! After watching Morgan's latest tht

  • @cactuswitch631
    @cactuswitch631 Год назад +1

    On the husband using tinder for “confidence”- I agree with Morgan, him not being open from the start is a huge red alarm. Why couldn’t he use Facebook or IG for that? Makes more sense than using dating app. I understand that he’s Hispanic, majority of my family is. I completely understand the the dynamic they’re talking about. HOWEVER, that’s not an excuse to allow that behavior to continue. It’s extremely toxic and something many of us are in the process of unlearning. It’s great you’re wanting to be understanding of our culture but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. Don’t let him play the “race” card on you.

  • @andreaestrada
    @andreaestrada Год назад +2

    about the first story, all i can think is how she said they married early so he could see a doctor, which i’m assuming means he didn’t get the resident visa or the citizenship until after they got married. and i know a lot of people get married to get the citizenship, it’s unfortunately a thing. also, mexico IS one of the most dangerous places to be a woman in latin america (which means a looot of misogyny and femicide). all i can think (and i know not all people from mexico are like that but it keeps bugging me) is that the husband is cheating, and he probably doe reapect his wife.

  • @emilylucas5270
    @emilylucas5270 Год назад +2

    The story about the wife who “likes to be around her husband but doesn’t like to be touched” i relate with that so hard, not that I don’t love my partner. I’m just very sensitive to touch and would feel the same with any partner. She could potentially feel the same?

  • @dianaarzate358
    @dianaarzate358 Год назад

    The panda 😂

  • @abigailbustos1231
    @abigailbustos1231 Год назад

    Checking phones isn't something me and my fiance do either but we also aren't secretive with our phones and we ask each other to look at the others text or calls all the time. I can't imagine being suspicious and asking for his phone and him saying no. I would know right at that moment he's hiding something.

  • @rarebean
    @rarebean Год назад

    Number 3 I get overstimulated staying home with two kids. I want to have my own space and try to make an effort to meet my husband’s physical touch needs but sometimes I feel like everyone needs me all the time. I think this may be a sahm thing but he should for sure talk to her.

  • @courtneythomas3721
    @courtneythomas3721 Год назад +1

    For story 3. The alarm in my head was say postpartum depression or baby blues. I wonder how old baby number 2 is.

    • @that.ll_do_pig
      @that.ll_do_pig Год назад

      Believe OP said new baby is just a few months old.

  • @jadec2139
    @jadec2139 Год назад +5

    anyone else feel their heart break when morgan said sorry for talking too much??

  • @stephaniecendejas8318
    @stephaniecendejas8318 Год назад

    Love your guys shows! ❤Where can I submit a listener right in?

  • @belaszn3839
    @belaszn3839 Год назад

    Morgan & Jerry look so alike to me hahah

  • @oliviahtaylor8896
    @oliviahtaylor8896 Год назад

    The third story… I am a mother of a 14 month old and a 3 month old.. I can’t believe nobody is mentioning the ages of their kids! It could be stress of having children so close together. Could be postpartum depression. Could be just feeling lonely in her own head and doesn’t know how to get out of it. Moms are freakin tired man lol. We just want to be left over sometimes 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @theanxiousavocado
    @theanxiousavocado Год назад +1

    To the husband and wife who are struggling with physical intimacy…… I would like to add, as a woman who struggles with intimacy myself, it’s evident the wife has somehow been negatively conditioned to the idea of sex - whether directly or inadvertently. When the husband tries to be romantic, what is his thought process behind his actions? Is he REALLY bringing her flowers and rubbing her feet in order to treat her, or is he doing it with the hope for sex afterwards? When they cuddle on the couch, does it ALWAYS lead to him initiating sex? The husband is saying all the right things and I truly have a lot of hope that this relationship can work through this, but many (in my experience, most) men will do favors for their wife/girlfriend/partner with a expectation of a returned ‘favor.’ It seems this wife now has negative associations with anything physical, and I wonder if it’s because he has a habit of inadvertently turning the simplest of kisses or cuddles into sexy time, whether he knows it or not. If this is the case, these actions won’t be seen as sweet & thoughtful by his wife, but as self-fulfilling and dreadful. I definitely agree with couples counseling (not a huge fan of Jerry’s comments about an affair, although that is a slim possibility), but I sincerely think that this is a universal experience that many heterosexual couples endure and she shouldn’t be shamed or blamed for her disinterest in intimacy. Obviously there’s something deeper going on, and I wish all the best for them 🤍

  • @keelinhawkins3301
    @keelinhawkins3301 Год назад

    Let’s get jerry his plaque!!!

  • @CinnamonBasic
    @CinnamonBasic Год назад

    40:07 😭💕

  • @Experiencetori
    @Experiencetori Год назад

    MORGAN STOP APOLOGIZING: you are amazing and don't let those comments hurt you the way they do. I know its easier said than done but most of us love you and justin and your dad but its not wrong of you to have opinions ❤

  • @alexismccarter1334
    @alexismccarter1334 Год назад

    Justin’s voice makes me think of the voice changer on tik tok for some reason

  • @laurascott3448
    @laurascott3448 Год назад

    Morgan was giving Jenna Marbles vibes this episode for some reason 🫶🏼🥹

  • @mustlovewolves
    @mustlovewolves Год назад +10

    For the story with the man asking why his wife won't touch him anymore. My 1st question that popped into my head was how long ago did she have that baby. Because he said they have a few months old. So did she have the baby 2 months ago, 3 months ago. She might not be ready for sex. And if this dude kept asking over and over and over and over and over again before she's ready i can understand why she is so distant. Pregnancy is a huge change in a woman's body and let alone the birth. Like, my alarms are going off like that on this And i think yall missed this take. About the kids ages alone too. Are they even a a year apart? you're supposed to wait at least a year before having another kid so that the body can heal properly. And your supposed to wait a minimum of 6 weeks after birth to have sex but the 6 weeks, personally, is not enough time. Also most men don't wait those 6 weeks before they ask and it's one of the most common excuses for cheating after birth. And if she's been asked over and over and over again with a "few months" old baby and he probably doesn't accept that answer (because of her reaction on the couch) i don't blame her for the reaction. If every time you are touching her, kissing her, or bringing her flowers you ask for sex... thats why she keeps saying no. And for the men out there, your wife doesn't owe you sex for bringing her food and flowers. She doesn't owe you sex ever.

  • @kkweirdo123
    @kkweirdo123 Год назад +1

    I barely can keep track of who I told what among my friend group and family let alone be able to cheat on someone without messing it up like that I literally tell my friends I'm like okay I don't know who it was that told me this or I did this thing with I just remember it was a female and most likely one that's very close to me and that is as far as my memory is able to go so I have no idea how people cheat and get away with it now I'm sure there's a possibility they could say they did something with their friend instead and as for names I have heard of someone that's in my family member's friend group that was married and cheated on her husband with someone with the exact same name so I guess that's another way 😅🙃

  • @lydiacongdon8135
    @lydiacongdon8135 Год назад

    I honestly would give the first guy a chance. In OP's submission, he wasn't attacking all women's sports, just women's soccer because something he is interested in takes a backseat. It's silly if he showed that much anger in this day and age of live streaming, but if he is kind, tolerant, and understanding as described, then there's a chance this is really a case of making a mountain out of a molehill. Female and male interests will often lean more towards their gender. Typically males have more male friends, like male led films, sports, etc and vise versa. As a (I'm guessing) woman, OP has every right to be more invested in female sports. The beauty in relationships is our difference coming together. He could also advocate for women's sports without being nearly as invested as OP. Supporting each other is what's important. If it comes to show he doesn't support your interests, or has a vendetta against women, then drop him.

    • @writerchick94
      @writerchick94 Год назад

      Sure, but she's also within her rights to decide that's a hard no for her. If that's a red flag for her, so be it.

  • @skitty114
    @skitty114 Год назад

    Wild I'm 24 and my bf is 27 and my birthday is on August 21 how weird lol

  • @marianadineva14
    @marianadineva14 Год назад

    The unconfident guy of tinder story: even without this cheating or not, the guy is super insecure while not getting any help and she can’t talk about it with anyone, this is major red flags. He has separated her from her parents and maybe friends’ circle while he goes out with his friends… it is not her job as a wife/gf to be his psychologist/mother/etc.

  • @shannie1993
    @shannie1993 Год назад

    I had a friend who downloaded tinder and was swiping just to see if he could get matches. His gf knew. A month later he broke up with her. Who would’ve guessed that would’ve happened…

  • @Nytemist21
    @Nytemist21 Год назад

    If it's just a confidence boost then give me your phone and after, we can go to therapy. Because nothings going on and we need to work on communicating how we are feeling right?

  • @steph8383
    @steph8383 Год назад

    I dated a guy JUST like that first story. He was a doctor trying to go pro in sand volleyball. I’m a woman, lifetime athlete, and trying to go pro in bodybuilding. This douche had the audacity to tell me that women’s sports aren’t worthwhile to watch. We argued on the last day we saw each other, he told me there was zero reason to watch women’s sports because men are always better at the sport, and men are always more athletic. He said it was extremely boring watching female athletics, and he wouldn’t watch them with me. He laughed in my face when I told him I enjoy watching female athletes because I am a female athlete drawing inspiration from female athletes.
    People like this will not be your supporter. If they tell you who they are, listen.

    • @steph8383
      @steph8383 Год назад

      He gave a similar reason about why women’s basketball is terrible to watch… because they don’t dunk. It’s almost like… women are shorter on average. Weird. I’m so tired of some men pretending to like women and then they act like this about women’s interests.

  • @cabbagechronicles9010
    @cabbagechronicles9010 Год назад

    morgan looks so cute with that bun 😳

  • @zulu32656
    @zulu32656 Год назад

    Dating app husband situation: In the kindest of ways I say to you, “Don’t be stupid.” He’s cheating on you. He used you by marrying you to get healthcare and now he’s cheating on you. Stop lying to yourself. You know your cousins are right. You know deep down he’s cheating.

  • @rozmanriquez-martinez8127
    @rozmanriquez-martinez8127 Год назад

    The thing about women sports and its inequality, there are certain sports where men get paid regardless if they win or loose; women, tend to not be paid UNLESS they win. Can you imagine putting your all and losing by a few points, and you're tired, and being told "You lost, you're not being paid tonight. I don't care if you tried your best, or if it was someone else's fault. A loss is a loss."??? Women sports need more respect to their name. Athletes are out there menstruating and still playing, while others are barely bumped and need a stretcher.

  • @emilybear4832
    @emilybear4832 Год назад

    The lady who is rejecting her husband is likely going through postpartum

  • @StefaniYee
    @StefaniYee Год назад

    If OP ever sees this about the unhealthy partner with mom. Get your sister out of there if at all possible.

  • @yllwClusterduck
    @yllwClusterduck Год назад +1

    So does Morgan run this pod and THT? Love them both but it really feels like these episodes might as well be part of THT.

    • @yllwClusterduck
      @yllwClusterduck Год назад

      I don't mean this as a slight in an capacity to Jerry. I love listening to his advice. I have a wonderful relationship with my dad but I always wish he were more open to having deep conversations about things. I love hearing such deep advice from a father figure that my own dad lacks at times. I adore these shows as a method of expanding my own understanding of varying perspectives 💛

    • @AnnaRenee
      @AnnaRenee Год назад +3

      @@yllwClusterduckI believe they are separate because these are listener write ins and tht is mostly Reddit stories

  • @johannarohe1401
    @johannarohe1401 Год назад +1

    For the first story: As a female soccer player, I say don't get involved with him. A person that doesn't respect your sport is not the right fit long-term

  • @SuzanneN86
    @SuzanneN86 Год назад

    Also it could be medical that she does not want to be intimed anymore.

  • @bluey1062
    @bluey1062 Год назад

    Do you think that wife with the two kids under the age of 1 has postpartum depression?

  • @HelloPeopleHii
    @HelloPeopleHii Год назад

    If using Tinder just to “boost his confidence” is still cheating, I feel like women who post sexy pics on Instagram for likes and comments is too, right?

  • @Rachel-xg7hs
    @Rachel-xg7hs Год назад +1

    Female basketball players not getting the same percentage from ticket revenues or jersey sales-that’s the issue. The issue is not that they don’t get paid the same as the men, their games don’t draw the same fan base. If you want female basketball players to get paid the same overall, then you best start buying tickets and watching their games lol. Actually support them, and they will make more money. I hate sports in general, and I don’t want to watch anybody’s game. I don’t care what any of them get paid, or if they get paid at all. But I understand what fairness is lol. Female players should receive the same percentage of their sales that male players receive from theirs, even if that number is not as high. Would a wannabe pop star make the same amount of money as Taylor Swift just because they also sing and write songs? Umm no haha. Taylor fills stadiums. Some dumb kid releasing tracks on SoundCloud doesn’t get paid what she does just because they do “the same work.” Taylor is in high demand. A wannabe isn’t.

  • @stephjovi
    @stephjovi 11 месяцев назад

    A little fanbase in Austria? Awesome. I'm Austrian too ❤.
    Don't date him if he refuses to acknowledge women's sport. We're really bad in men's football so he should celebrate women succeeding 🎉

  • @stacywells2516
    @stacywells2516 7 месяцев назад

    Morgan looks like she's about to jump through her skin. She wants to read so bad. You can just see her body languageShe is so stiff and keep rubbing her head, Like saying shut up just give me the computer. LOL

  • @taylorpatten8708
    @taylorpatten8708 6 месяцев назад

    You guys do realize that mens basketball has billions of viewers and womens teams only get like 1 million viewers right?…. This is why their is a gap in pay. 😂 so embarrassing. Not only that but Morgan preaching how men are soooo sexist but then being sexist against men…. Like all men are the exact same. Of course except for when it excuses her boyfriend 😂 the second hand embarrassment I feel for her… soooo cringe. At least know what your talking about before you speak on it pleaseeee.

  • @groovykari2266
    @groovykari2266 Год назад +1

    My ex also cheated on me on a dating app with my own phone 🥲😂

    • @EvilSinx
      @EvilSinx Год назад

      Lovely.. Does he have no shame at all? Guess it being on your phone gave him an extra kick..?
      Congratulations to you for having kicked such a jerk out of your life! :)

    • @kittymusics
      @kittymusics Год назад

      @@EvilSinx you