WHAT TO EXPECT AS A MILITARY WIFE | what it's like to be a military wife / marine corps wife
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- Опубликовано: 14 май 2024
- What to expect as a Marine Corps wife! Today I’m sharing 7 things that I wish I knew before becoming a military wife. A couple of these are good things that I didn’t expect, and a couple are things I wish I had gotten a heads up about. If you’re curious about what the military wife life is really like, then just keep watching!
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Any military wives watching??
I'm a soon to be military wife I'm nervous and excited at the same time for my boyfriend... I saw your video and was like wow I gotta watch it so I did and thank you for the heads up!!!! Appreciate your time to help us ladies.
Am get married to james but what if you have a condition(epilepsy) where you take meds
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My husband is in the process of getting into the Marines
Does marine veterans count?
Honestly, military life has always been reported as a hero life. But I could never quit my life, my career, my dreams to dedicate to another people, I couldn’t be happy. He’s lucky to have somebody who understand him and love him and dedicate it’s life to that with joy and do not regret of that.
Soon to be marine corps wife 😊❤️
Ahh! So so excited for you!
I hope that everything goes well!
So happy for you!
Me too :)🫶🏾
This was super informative! My boyfriend is thinking about joining soon and I’m really nervous for the change and what I’m supposed to do. You’re also so chill about everything! I need to learn that bc I am NOT 😂
Hahaha I've had to work very hard to be "chill" about this 😂 Once the ball gets rolling it's a lot easier to be relaxed! I think one of the worst parts of military life is the anticipation - you know there's going to be a big change soon, and you're not sure what it entails. It's never as bad as you build it up to be in your mind!
This was a super helpful video. Thank you so much for sharing! Wishing you and your husband many many decades of continued wedded bliss 💕
i’m in the same situation you used the be in with the long distance thing. i’m in california and he’s currently in north carolina, i’m really hoping to move out to him next year and i’ve started a list of things i need to prepare for so your video really helped me :) thank you
Im watching this to write a fanfiction but good video! The edit is on point and youre voice is beautyfull🌹 keep the good work!
Thanks for supporting our military Warrior
Thank you for this! I know I’m a little late but this video helped me a lot! Me and my fiancé are getting married in November! And eventually once everything gets approved I will be on my way to Hawaii! I’m worried about the making friends part because although I do have an outgoing and bubbly personality (once you get to know me) I’m very shy in the beginning. I own a business so I can easily keep it going over there! Thank you again!
This is truly an amazing woman. She’s so supportive, and there for her Marine, amazing this to see. Semper Fi
You helped a lot!♥️ thank you!♥️
You’re welcome 😊
This was super helpful!
So glad it was helpful! thanks for watching :)
I love that you talk about God in your video!! I just found you page and I’m definitely subscribing! My boyfriend (now fiancé!) and I have been together for about a month, but him and I have prayed a lot and we are now engaged and getting married this summer! He’s going a way for a year this fall for deployment and I’m trying to find content for what to expect!
Welcome Madison 🤗 I’m so glad you found this video!
I'm also a Marine wife and new subscriber! Learning the acronyms is annoying but helpful 😄 it makes talking about their work day easier.
I agree! Gotta speak their language!
soon to be Army wife🥰😋. would be happy to be friends with you, Allison, and all other MILSOs😍
This helped alot
I am a airforce wife and I 100% agree with everything you said! 😊
I’m glad it’s not just us Marine wives!
Thanks girly , you answered a lot of my questions. My bf is in the army and I just wanted to know what to look forward too in the future 🤗
So happy I could give you some info! Thanks for watching :)
My husband is about to join the marine corps! I’m enjoying your videos!
How exciting! You guys are about to start on quite the journey together!
Fellow Marine wife here 🙋🏻♀️💗
Whoop whoop 🎉🎉🎉
I have an Air Force boyfriend (hopefully soon to be fiancé this year). I’m so glad you talk about Papa God in your videos. I just want to know what to expect when I become an Air Force wife. I never in my wildest dreams would have fallen in love with my Philip, if I didn’t meet him when I did. Papa God works in mysterious ways. I experienced my first deployment with him a year and a half ago, and that was very hard. I’m working on my alternative certification for becoming a teacher. Philip is so proud and supportive of me with doing that.
I am an army brat and I agree with everything onenote for another way that the govt controls the spouse (and kids) is through your social media and what you are and aren't allowed to post and they take it out on the military member. However, this is more once they get higher ranking. My dad is a LTC now and this started for him once he was a captain about to be a Major.
Very interesting to hear that! I haven't experienced that yet, but I'm sure you've had a lot more time and experience being a part of a military family than me! :)
My Marine and I will be married in September! I would love for you to do a MILSO Tag!! (Haven’t seen too many officer wives doing them, NOT TRYING TO SOUND PRETENTIOUS!!)
That’s so exciting Lauren! I bet you two can’t wait 😊 I’ll definitely add the Milso Tag to my video’s to make list! In the meantime, I have a military wife playlist with all my military focused videos!
Allison McPhail OMG yes!! Soo excited! Thank you!!
**grabs a glass of wine and gets ready to binge watch the playlist!**
Hahahaha! SAME - well not the watching my own playlist part
Need to establish an AFZ - acronym free zone! Ha! Love you vids!
I agree! I'll be sure to pass that along :)
Did you know any military wives that were nurses? I want to get my NP and I’m currently in a relationship with a marine but I’m curious as to what it will look like going forward.
I’m becoming a marine wife in august and we are struggling with finding a house do you recommend on base or off base? I’m pretty sure you are where we will be in august!
My husband is thinking about it, but for some reason I have so much anxiety thinking what if something happens :/ any advice on that
That feeling/worry is always going to be there, but it gets a lot easier to deal with as time goes on! Seeing how happy and fulfilled my husband is by his job reminds me all the time that its all worth it :)
I'm talking to a Marine and I read am liking him so much we talk everyday. But I've got some reservations on being a military gf or maybe spouse one day any advice?
My hubby and I are seriously considering him joining the marines. We have a newborn and 2 year old, so being flexible is def not as easy as when it was just the two of us. After he goes through boot camp, do you know how quickly he will get stationed at a base? I’m surprised you will be moving after 6-9 months. Is that typical for a marine? I figured we would be stationed somewhere for the 4 year term.
Hi Nicole! I wouldn’t say that I’m a good person to be asking these questions... I think a recruiter would have more accurate answers! What I do know is that it depends on if he is going to enlist or if he’s going to be an officer. They have different training that they go through. Don’t quote me, but I believe that if he enlists, he’ll go to boot camp (without any family) for 13ish weeks and then he’ll be stationed somewhere (not sure for how long, I think it varies) For officers they have their own version of boot camp, then they attend another basic training school for 6 months, then they have a specialty school they’ll go to based on their assigned job, and then they’ll get stationed somewhere. If you see some of my other videos I talk more about what my husband’s timeline looks like, but I wouldn’t take that as whats definitely going to happen for you. It really can be different for every single person! I hope this was a little bit helpful, but I’d really encourage you to reach out to a recruiter who could give you more specifics!
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We have been chatting with recruiter. It seems like everything is so last minute! I wasn’t some definite answers before we just jump in ... but it doesn’t seem to work like that. I’ve been hearing/reading that the two most likely places we will wind up is nc or ca. Congrats on going to ca! I’m terrified of moving across the country. Nc would be so much better since all our fam is in va and nc, I just hate that’s there’s no way to know.
Also wondering why his schedule is so wonky? Why doesn’t he go to work the same time every day?
Nicole Cable Ok good to know! I just wanted to make sure you were getting accurate information! There are a lot of bigger bases in CA and NC, but I wouldn’t say that you’re most likely to end up there. It really could be anywhere - including Japan. There really are so many little factors that go into where you’ll be stationed and for the most part it’s out of your control which is terrifying. I’ve never been so humbled about not having control over my life. I will say that it can seem really scary thinking about times they’ll be gone for training or how you could have to move across the country, but I’ve found myself settling into the uncertainty of it all... I think most people do! His schedule changes a lot because every day looks very different for him. Some days he’ll have an early morning hike or physical training or whatever and he’ll have to go at 3 am or some days it’s more relaxed and he doesn’t have to be in until 7 am. There’s not a real rhyme or reason to it - it’s just kinda how they operate where we’re stationed now. I’m not sure if that’s going to be true in CA or if things will be different. I do know some people where we are now who have a more traditional schedule and work like 7-5 every day, so their job also is a big factor in what their schedule looks like. I really wish I could give you a more solid answer, and I’m more than happy answer any other questions you may have!
My husband and I are going to chat with the recruiter together next time. Do you have any recommended questions that would have helpful to know in advance?
Ps. I love your organization skills :) I love organizing. It’s an added challenge organize your children’s stuff. So fun. We are special breed.
Nicole Cable hmmm... I wasn’t part of my husbands recruiting process so I can’t share any advice from personal experience, but I would ask about specific dates for training and about where you’d likely be stationed. Those seemed to be 2 big factors for you guys. Just really pick their brain when you’re talking to them because they’ve been through the process themselves. Also, keep in the back of your mind the fact that their job is to recruit people so they’re going to definitely be pushing all the positives. Don’t be afraid of being a little pushy to make sure they’re not sugar coating the facts.
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Been a military wife for 5 years and I laughed at the acronyms! So accurate lol sounds like your husband might be infantry??
I'm glad I could make you laugh with that one! He's actually not in infantry!
@@AllisonMcPhail ohhh what does he do? Thought he might be an 03 based on his crazy schedule!
I've been married to a USMarine for 19 years. He has 21 years in service and will be retiring in June. We have 8 kids. My advice:
*buy additional life insurance for both of you while you are young.
*max out TSP, Roth IRA, and other investments.
*save, save, save.
*keep excellent medical records for him
*do your best to continue some type of work or education even if you have kids.
*stay out of debt!!!
*have in-depth and hard conversations about money.
*Take TAPS/TRS early and more than once.
Navy wife ❤️⚓️❤️
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Should I join marines too or should I just be a civilian married to my husband? I have lost motivation to join marines. I’m currently a poolee but getting married and getting housing with my soon to be husband is most important to me rn
I never was interested in joining the Marines so I'm not sure I'll be a big help with that decision
What’s it like for a marine spouse with no college degree and not much work experience living in on base or off base housing?
I'm not quite sure, but I know a lot of people have different backgrounds and all make it work :)
It depends on which base you’re on honestly. It’s really common though because wives are usually young and recently out of high school/just starting college and move a lot.
my boy friends dad is in the military
What a coincidence!
This content is very beautiful, similar to that you think sweet me 7
Super random, but does military housing let you have dogs?
Yup! Different neighborhoods have different policies (one neighborhood on our base allows up to 2 dogs, but no cats are allowed) but i think most allow pets!
@@AllisonMcPhail my husband is in process of joining, I am a dog trainer so my dogs are my business card so they have to come! Lol
Future AF wife! 💍
Congrats!!!
Getting married to my marine in 4 weeks🌹🌹
Soon to be military wife :)
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Soon to be navy wife 😊
Ahhh! Congrats!
Future marine wife
Congrats Jazmine! So exciting!
What about your furniture?
What about it?
@@AllisonMcPhail can you get things shipped to your house if you’re living on base?
What MOS is your husband
Hi! We chose to not share that online - thanks for understanding!
Watching this as a husband trying to convince my wife to let me join lol
Hahahaha good luck!
Hey quick question does your husband come home every night ?
Ok I guess is time to breakup with my army boyfriend!