MARINE CORPS BALL: What to Wear to the Military Ball, Etiquette, + What to Expect | Military Wife

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  • Happy military ball season!! The Marine Corps ball is just around the corner. If you're a new military spouse getting ready for the military ball, this video is for you! I'm sharing all the tips on what to wear to the military ball, military ball etiquette, what to expect, specific Marine Corps ball traditions, AND sharing examples of popular military ball dresses! Think of this video as your official spouse's guide to the military ball lol
    Even though I do stress the importance of understanding the traditional significance of the Marine Corps ball specifically, it is a night of fun and celebration! Enjoy the evening, take pictures, and cherish the memories.
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Комментарии • 126

  • @xomarissalee
    @xomarissalee  Год назад +17

    I hope this video is helpful!! If you have any questions at all, don’t hesitate to ask!
    If you have attended a military ball, please feel free to share your best tips and advice! I’d love for this to be an informative and encouraging resource for the girlies not knowing what to expect 🥰

  • @ambermcdowell8531
    @ambermcdowell8531 Год назад +17

    Army wife here, I think your tips are great! Elegant is definitely the goal. You can tell spouses from girlfriends usually by the level of appropriateness to the attire. Also I would add for the army at least, make sure that you can go from sitting to standing without adjusting the dress or shape wear because that is what you do the whole ball is sit down then stand up, over and over and you don’t want to me messing with your dress every time.

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      There’s definitely a ton of sitting/standing at our balls too!! I didn’t even think to mention shape wear! That’s definitely something you don’t want to be adjusting all night!

  • @KatieBSewCrafty
    @KatieBSewCrafty Год назад +10

    My husband is a USMC veteran. We attended several balls while he was active duty, but he’s been out for a few years now. We were extended an invite from a local command for this year and I’m SO excited to get to attend again 😁

  • @keepingupwiththelunas7500
    @keepingupwiththelunas7500 Год назад +15

    I feel so much better about attending now! This will be our first ball, so I’m super excited for the experience having a better idea of what to expect and thank you also, for sharing the traditions and for all the tips! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💕

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Yayyy I’m so glad you found this video helpful!! I’m so excited for you!!

  • @LPSLover13
    @LPSLover13 Год назад +8

    This helped so much😅I’ve been so nervous with no clue what to expect other than the few details my boyfriend has told me. So descriptive and much appreciated!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      I’m so glad you found it helpful!!

  • @michelleosborne1431
    @michelleosborne1431 7 месяцев назад +2

    My Marine son invited me. I'm so blessed.

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  7 месяцев назад +2

      How sweet! You’ll have the best time! ❤️

  • @RamoGezus
    @RamoGezus Год назад +9

    Couldn’t be more excited for this year’s Ball! These past two years completely robbed us of one of the most significant traditions we have. Your advice was spot on baby! Great job. ☺️

  • @xomarissalee
    @xomarissalee  Год назад +54

    I’m curious to know how many of you are fellow Marine Corps spouses/girlfriends?!

  • @Nana-om2vb
    @Nana-om2vb Год назад +5

    Thank you so much for posting this video!!! This literally helped me a lot as I am a Japanese who was born and raised in Japan. I had no idea what to expect and wasn’t ready for the ball until I watch the video. Now, I feel more confident about my dress and how I should act ❤ have a great time there!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for this comment! I love knowing others find value in the content I share. I’m so glad this video was helpful for you!! I hope you have the best time as well ❤️

  • @ItzelHFuentes
    @ItzelHFuentes 8 месяцев назад +4

    My boyfriend invited me to go with him this year and I’m starting to get nervous because it’s the first time I’m meeting his friends/coworkers so I don’t want to look bad. Plus I’m meeting his bosses too so I need all the tips 😅

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  8 месяцев назад +1

      Don’t be nervous!! It’s a lot of fun and there’s always others going for their first time / meeting others for the first time too ☺️ knowing that always gives me a bit more peace!

    • @julibritton3838
      @julibritton3838 7 месяцев назад

      Sameee 😂

  • @isabelacastro4770
    @isabelacastro4770 Год назад +2

    Im a spouse to a marine we live in the Camp Pendleton area and I’m going to the ball this year and I’m so excited but nervous but I cannot wait !!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      That’s so exciting!! You’ll have so much fun! Also this comment really brought me back.. I miss our Pendleton days 🥲

  • @mondaytihutfernandez
    @mondaytihutfernandez 9 месяцев назад +3

    I feel like if you don’t do rhinestone or sequins on the dress, do it on the shoes. And like you said in a balanced way

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  9 месяцев назад +2

      Ooo yes great tip!! I love the way a detailed shoe looks with a simple/ understated dress!

  • @princessunni
    @princessunni Год назад +5

    Hi! I’m a new military s/o and this will be our first ball. We’re here in San Diego so luckily it won’t be too cold. I’m really excited, but I’ve also been nervous. This video is so informative thank you for the tips!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      I was nervous to attend the first time too! I promise the nerves will subside once you get there and it ends up being a lot of fun ☺️ I’m also so glad you found this video informative!! I tried my best to break it all down and be as detailed as possible.

    • @Florida21Girl
      @Florida21Girl Год назад

      Hey! My first ball also, and we are in San Diego, too! Good to know I am not the only newbie! Lol

  • @ooolanthonyy
    @ooolanthonyy Год назад +4

    I’m going to Vegas for my hubby’s ball in a couple days I’m so excited! ❤️

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      I’ve always heard the balls in Vegas are so fun!!

  • @TinaMarieBarnard
    @TinaMarieBarnard Год назад +3

    Thank you!! I’m going to my first ball next month this helped a ton! New subscriber ❤

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      That’s exciting!! I’m so glad this video was helpful and thank you so much for subscribing ☺️☺️

  • @peteandresenfamilyadventur8742
    @peteandresenfamilyadventur8742 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wonderful video! Very helpful especially for first timers. Thank you!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  7 месяцев назад

      I appreciate the feedback! Thank you!

  • @marjetewyatt8257
    @marjetewyatt8257 Год назад +2

    Girl, I’m going with a glitter high slit spaghetti strap dress. My husband saw the dress and we both fell in love with it.

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      I’m sure you’ll look great! This video was only meant to be a baseline 💗 those details can definitely be done together in a tasteful way!

  • @sophiacadet9472
    @sophiacadet9472 Год назад +3

    This was very informative! Thank you

  • @Florida21Girl
    @Florida21Girl Год назад +2

    Thank you!! This will be my first ball, since covid limited the celebration over the last few years!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Yay I’m excited for you!! We’ve definitely missed attending the ball these last couple of years 🥲

  • @reginaphalange9316
    @reginaphalange9316 3 месяца назад

    This girl gives me hope for Americas future.

  • @ldavis8980
    @ldavis8980 11 месяцев назад +3

    This is so helpful! My boyfriend is in the Air Force and he invited me to an Air Force ball in a few months, and I'm stressing over what the dress code exactly is! Definitely don't want to embarrass him!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  11 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you found this helpful! 🫶 let me know if you have any questions!

  • @sandyluki87
    @sandyluki87 Год назад +1

    Thx for this Video.. going to the ball Friday..i'm german..Will be my first military ball..Just got my dress today..sooo nervous

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Don’t be nervous!! It’s so much fun! Take lots of pictures and enjoy the evening ❤️

  • @dzhorselover
    @dzhorselover 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much this video was so helpful! Getting ready for my first Marine Corp ball! What would you recommend for shoes?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  7 месяцев назад

      Any heels you can walk in 🤪

  • @sjensen183
    @sjensen183 Год назад +7

    It's good to know a slit is ok. I have my eye on an emerald green dress and the slit is a little high. It's probably similar to the green dress you showed at the end and I wasn't sure if it was appropriate. Definitely going to buy it now. Thank you!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      I feel like it’s sooo hard to even find a dress without a slit these days! But yeah, nothing to worry about as long as the overall look is appropriate and looks put together! I’m also obsessed with emerald green right now, so good color choice 😍

  • @Tonistylezu
    @Tonistylezu Год назад +3

    Im literally going to throw up from nervousness. My lowkey HAVE to go

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Aww I promise it’s so much fun!! Once you get there, the nerves will subside!

  • @ashtonrooks7957
    @ashtonrooks7957 Год назад +1

    I just wanna reconfirm what you said about the bright pink dress in the DO NOT wear, the only issue is the color? I’ve got a dress picked out similar to it’s style but in black and was afraid it would be seen as informal bc there was no shoulder coverings and the slit and I heard that they normally want you to wear some kind of sleeve to the ball😅thank you so much for posting this though it was really helpful on what to expect

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      Correct! The bright pink dress (second to last one mentioned), the only issue would be the color. I think that style of dress in black would look classy! Also, there aren’t any rules about shoulder coverings so that may be outdated information. I have seen that info being shared too, but it’s never been my experience or something I’ve heard of until recently. My guess is someone’s command was much more strict or it’s just super outdated information - either way, I wouldn’t worry about it because that’s not a rule or expectation across the board.

  • @tiffanythiede14
    @tiffanythiede14 Год назад +2

    New marine corps girlfriend here and I’ve been stressing out over my dress it’s beautiful floor length it’s black with green detailing and i feel like I’m going to stand out to much… I’m also very much an introvert

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      Your dress sounds beautiful! From how you described it, I don’t think you’ll stand out too much! Keep in mind that I showed more “subtle” dress styles in this video simply as example. You can message me a picture on Instagram if you’d like my opinion on your dress! Ultimately, you want to be comfortable and confident.

  • @essencealexander8454
    @essencealexander8454 Год назад +3

    Thank you. See I’m super nervous about what to wear to my my boyfriends army dinner. He hasn’t told me what the dress code is supposed to be but I assumed it has to be formal since they can bring their significant others.
    I don’t know, if so I’m still concerned about the dress that I have because it’s the only dress that I have on hand right now🙄.

    • @essencealexander8454
      @essencealexander8454 Год назад

      My dress style looks like the bright pink one but without the slit but it’s a pale lavender color with glitter do you think that’ll be appropriate?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      Have him get more info for you on the dress code! Dinners can vary and may be different from ball attire! If it is a formal event, I think the dress you described would be fine!

    • @essencealexander8454
      @essencealexander8454 Год назад +1

      Update I was so concerned and the attire is Christmas sweaters, ugly Christmas sweaters😑🤣.

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      Hahahaha hey, at least that’s easy!! 😂

  • @sidneyquiroz5273
    @sidneyquiroz5273 Год назад +1

    I have a beautiful white dress with a gold sequin pattern all over, it’s v neck, long, and appropriate. the only thing i’m concerned about is the back of the dress, my back will be out a bit but i also have very long hair that will be covering it, should i look for other options?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      Is the v neck a deep cut? If it’s not super revealing, and the only deep/dramatic cut is the back, it sounds fine!! If you want, you can send me a picture of the dress on Instagram and I can let you know what I think from seeing it!

  • @kylaburke2003
    @kylaburke2003 Год назад +2

    So this is my first/ only marine corps ball with my boyfriend, and I have been nervous with looking at dresses. Is having a slit in the skirt of the dress ok, yes or no? Just curious because if not it’s been hard finding some without.

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      Totally fine! As long as the slit isn’t too high that it becomes revealing!

  • @jesenniacarrillo
    @jesenniacarrillo Год назад +2

    My bf is in the marines and I have my first ball coming up next month and I am so nervous 😭

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Don’t be nervous!! I promise it’s such a fun night ☺️

  • @SierraFord_
    @SierraFord_ Год назад

    Do you have recommendations for military graduation? My husband will be graduating officer candidate school in the winter and i don’t know what to wear!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      Good question!! Graduations are much less formal, but you still want to look put together! Girls tend to wear dresses, but more along the lines of what you’d wear to church. Not super casual, but not formal!

  • @caitlynlyons1633
    @caitlynlyons1633 Год назад +1

    this video was really helpful. I am concerned about slits though. I have one in my dress do you think this is okay. I am stressing out.

    • @caitlynlyons1633
      @caitlynlyons1633 Год назад

      its navy its the same style as the right pink one im just concerned the slit is to high

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      I think I just responded to your message on insta!! ☺️ your dress is beautiful!

  • @bearypinkparfait
    @bearypinkparfait Год назад +1

    As it is a formal setting/ball is it required for me to also know formal dining etiquette too?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Good question!! No, most Marines don’t know formal dining etiquette anyways 🤪 Basic etiquette and manners is all you really need!

  • @heatherquintanilla3254
    @heatherquintanilla3254 Год назад

    Hi I’m heather and this is my very first time and I’m so nervous i have no idea what I’ll be doing with my hair and what dress to wear like I don’t know what kind type dress style to wear just know the color navy blue😭💗

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Do whatever makes you feel confident!!

  • @nayatrower464
    @nayatrower464 Год назад +2

    My boyfriend has a military ball coming up and this is our first time going… he’s a Marine and I have a dress and everything but I’m not sure how to do my hair that’s 4c and I have on a nose ring so I’m not sure if some items are restricted …

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +3

      No restrictions on face jewelry! And do your hair however you like it best!! Whatever makes you feel pretty and confident!

    • @nayatrower464
      @nayatrower464 Год назад

      @@xomarissalee Thank you!

  • @zanaiyacooper3483
    @zanaiyacooper3483 Год назад +2

    Hi Marissa! This will be my first marine corps ball. Would yellow be an okay color to wear?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      Good question! There aren’t any rules for dress colors! I’ve seen yellow dresses worn before! I think a muted yellow is fine, but I’d avoid anything super bright or neon. With a loud color like yellow, make sure the overall look is balanced and mature! Avoid dress styles that look too “prom” or juvenile ☺️

    • @zanaiyacooper3483
      @zanaiyacooper3483 Год назад +1

      Thank you!!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Of course!! ☺️

  • @tkatcosplay8983
    @tkatcosplay8983 Год назад

    Are there any restrictions on tattoos? I have a tattoo sleeve and don’t know if that’s appropriate or I need to wear long sleeves

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Good question! There aren’t any restrictions on tattoos!! 💗

  • @sheilamaecabaguio6320
    @sheilamaecabaguio6320 7 месяцев назад

    watching this before attending this 11th

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  7 месяцев назад

      Hope you have so much fun!!

  • @alicericci9432
    @alicericci9432 Год назад

    Hello, I am a girlfriend of someone in the army at Fort Drum. I really appreciate the informational video!

  • @AliceLee333
    @AliceLee333 Год назад

    What about guests having tattoos. Do they have to cover-up if the tattoos are on the arm?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      As far as I know, there aren’t any restrictions on guests with tattoos! This may be different across branches/units though, not sure!

  • @jesenniacarrillo
    @jesenniacarrillo Год назад

    I was looking at a dress similar to the black dress with sequence but it’s like a burgundy and I want to make sure it won’t be too much. :(

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      That should be fine! You can message me a picture on Instagram if you want and I can give you my opinion!

    • @KatieBSewCrafty
      @KatieBSewCrafty Год назад

      I think burgundy sequins would be perfect!! Burgundy isn’t super loud. As long as the cut of the dress is classy, I think you’re good. One of my options for this year is burgundy sequins 😊 (USMC wife of 12 years).

  • @cattiepers1028
    @cattiepers1028 Год назад

    Would I be able to wear sandals? Im not much of a high-heel girl…

  • @lailagomez1400
    @lailagomez1400 Год назад

    What if my dress is like the pink bright one spaghetti strap slit on thigh but in color red

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      That should be fine!! ☺️

    • @lailagomez1400
      @lailagomez1400 Год назад

      @@xomarissalee omg thank u🥹 I was so worried I have the military ball this weekend!

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Aww have fun!! You’ll look great ☺️

  • @blisskincaid5026
    @blisskincaid5026 Год назад

    Can I dm you on insta and get help??? I’m so torn bc it’s my first ball and I have no idea if this dress would be fine or not can I send pics?

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      Of course! I just responded to your message!! 🥰

  • @kaylaquinn6372
    @kaylaquinn6372 Год назад

    Anyone going to the Marine military ball in Germany this month? 😅 I need gfs 🙃

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад

      I wish I was going to the ball in Germany 😂

  • @Amber-mb5tg
    @Amber-mb5tg Год назад

    Why can't they hold hands to me that's dumb

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +2

      Haha it’s so their hands are free to salute when needed ☺️

  • @DSTcenterpOiNtE
    @DSTcenterpOiNtE Год назад

    Yikes. I think the dress I have my eye on wouldn’t make your cut. 🥴🥴🥴

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      As long as your service member approves of the dress and feels like it’s appropriate for the occasion and their command, don’t feel like you need to strictly follow what I suggest!

  • @dianacastellanos282
    @dianacastellanos282 Год назад +2

    Hi Marissa! This is perfect since I’m getting ready for the ball soon :)
    I haven’t gotten to catchup on your videos lately because I’ve been so busy. But GIRLL when I saw your name pop up it made me so happy!! 🥲 it’s feels like I’m talking to a friend !! My husband has been gone for a few weeks on a ship op so I’ve been in my feelings for a while 😂 your videos make me feel like if someone else can make it past the tough parts of being a Military wife then I can too ♥️♥️

    • @xomarissalee
      @xomarissalee  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for this comment!! 😭 this literally made my entire day and I appreciate it so much! I hope the time apart flies by for you and your husband ❤️