The Reality of Being a Military Spouse

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2022
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  • @defencekidz
    @defencekidz 6 дней назад

    Thanks for your honesty and telling your story! We find military families find it hard to locate resources. It’s about keeping on promoting them so they are aware ! I’m a military kid (and spouse) and we have created children’s books for military children- it’s so important children have access to further supports, especially when a parent is deployed. ❤ would love to connect ! 🎉

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  3 дня назад +1

      Thank you for reaching out, I agree!
      My IG is @alyashayasmeen

  • @user-qq6rc9xx8e
    @user-qq6rc9xx8e 8 месяцев назад +7

    military girlfriend here!! it’s been really hard he just left for basic in tx 2 days ago and i’m struggling. we have a baby on the way and it sucks he can’t be here for appointments and my belly grow. im looking forward to moving with him though!

    • @J35u5Ch4i5t
      @J35u5Ch4i5t 3 месяца назад

      Is the baby his?

    • @user-ew4td7zf3j
      @user-ew4td7zf3j Месяц назад

      ​@@J35u5Ch4i5t it's the utter guts... Ain't none of your business

  • @mikeuprockhistorian8507
    @mikeuprockhistorian8507 Год назад +4

    They are most cutest couple, I just love watching them, I leaned so much from watching there video, keep doing what you are doing, other people can learn so much from you both,

  • @angelinacalderoni7054
    @angelinacalderoni7054 Год назад +6

    My boyfriend is currently at BMT in TX. Your videos have helped me so much! Steve and I have been together for almost 4 years now and I’m so afraid about how our lives are going to change. I am a RN in CT working my dream job. He will be in tech school in Mississippi for (something relating to radar I think). How have you managed staying true to your dreams while still supporting your husband? Steve is very honest about wanting to get married and I want that to. I just feel like we can’t have the best of both worlds.

    • @juanalim1652
      @juanalim1652 Год назад

      My husband is finishing AIT rn and we'll be 4 yrs married this month. We've been living w/ my parents this whole time because I was finishing grad school and then covid. I'm excited for us to be out on our own, but also worried about changed and my career moving forward. 🙃

  • @mebeBrianna
    @mebeBrianna Год назад +7

    My husband just started tech school (space force) and he is on the other side of the country for the next 4 months and I’m STRUGGLING

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  Год назад +2

      Ouu girl I know how that feels 😥my husband’s tech school was almost 6 months, the best thing is to set a FaceTime schedule or talk on the phone when possible. Or even start a little hobby. If you follow me on Insta @alyashayasmeen we can chat girly🤍 you’re not in this alone

    • @cassandracastillo2736
      @cassandracastillo2736 11 месяцев назад

      My boyfriend yesterday left for the Navy bootcamp

  • @smalltowngirl420
    @smalltowngirl420 Месяц назад +1

    Just found your channel. Thanks for your Husband Service.

  • @KaysLife20
    @KaysLife20 Год назад +2

    Fun fact we actually had Guam but it had to be changed because of endless typhoons which sucks because Guam is beautiful & I was really looking forward to being a island girl but hey like you said we women have no control😂

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  Год назад +1

      GIRLL😭😭😭omg Guam sounds beautiful, I’ll be laid up on the beach everyday! But here in Alaska it does get hella cold lol. Also when you get down here if you have a hard time just lmk I can help you @alyashayasmeen is my insta🤍

    • @KaysLife20
      @KaysLife20 Год назад

      Thankyou so much for your reply because I’ve been really over thinking the whole waiting process , I’m actually very excited to be living in Alaska it seems cool & I will definitely be hitting you up if I have questions I really appreciate the help

  • @thelawrences9366
    @thelawrences9366 Год назад +4

    I wish I could take to you personally. My husband is about to leave for Basic training and my thoughts are everywhere. I’m also an over thinker

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  Год назад +4

      Hey girly, 🤍I know exactly what that feels like. If you have Instagram, DM me on there and I’ll send you my Phone number and we can talk. I’ve been in the same boat, it can get very lonely and stressful so whenever you need to talk to someone you can easily just call me or shoot me a text. My Instagram is @alyashayasmeen🙏🏾

  • @zealousideal
    @zealousideal Месяц назад

    If u find that movie let ME know. Bcz wife is the one that always sleeps soon as it starts. I retired from USAF and was also SF. Y’all a good cute couple. Take care of each other. Blessings!

  • @mckyliepeterson
    @mckyliepeterson 4 месяца назад +1

    Airforce wife and we’re about to move onto base together and we have no idea what is going on because nobody is giving him clear information 😳😳

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  4 месяца назад +1

      Girl I feel you, he can contact his first Sergeant and he or she can lead him in the right way. I hope this helps!🫶🏾

  • @KaysLife20
    @KaysLife20 Год назад +4

    I’m away from my fiancé right now while he’s in tech school, his first duty station is Alaska & I’ll be going with him once we get married after he graduates tech school in July, I was wondering if any one could tell me how long it takes for you to be able to join your spouse wherever they are once you’re married?

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  Год назад +1

      Hey🤍 It depends on housing honestly. It took us MONTHSSS🙄 but once you’re on his orders it speeds up the process. So once you guys get married, he will put you on his orders and get the process started. I would say just make sure they’re clear, cause they had me and my husband doing the run around cause misinformation. But if you have any questions you can also call On base Housing🤍 do you know if you’ll be at Eielson?

    • @KaysLife20
      @KaysLife20 Год назад

      I think he’s going to be at elmendorf or something like that so we’ll be stationed in anchorage, but we are going to get married in July while he’s home for raps for about 2 weeks. I just hope it doesn’t take TOO long for me to get there & we’re planning to live off base because we have a dog that would be classified as a “dangerous breed” so we just think living off base would be a lot easier for us

    • @KaysLife20
      @KaysLife20 Год назад

      About how many months did it take you guys? I’m just so ready to be in a different scenery honestly I’m so sick of Louisiana even tho I love my city & things of that nature I’m ready to go lol!

    • @cassandracastillo2736
      @cassandracastillo2736 9 месяцев назад

      U can immediately if ur married an on his orders

  • @cheyennemiley4158
    @cheyennemiley4158 Год назад

    Hi! I am 40hours away on a 3 hour time difference from my fiancé!!

  • @cynthiaxlopezz
    @cynthiaxlopezz 11 месяцев назад +1

    my boyfriend is going to be on deployment this December. It’s going to be hard for me.

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  9 месяцев назад +1

      It was super hard for me as well, the best thing that helped me was staying busy and finding a hobby and staying communicated with my husband whenever. And just remember it’s hard on both sides so when you guys talk, focus on the positive it really helps🤍🫶🏾

  • @lexikailyns
    @lexikailyns 11 месяцев назад

    Can I live with my husband during his AIT??

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 11 месяцев назад +2

    My boyfriend is a reserve marine but he still go on missions…my baby 😢

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  11 месяцев назад +1

      Ugh I know that’s so hard😫😭don’t worry queen, he’ll be back in no time 🩵 just take it day by day

  • @luhgator3k
    @luhgator3k Год назад +2

    Can your spouse live on base with you? Or do you have to live off base with your wife?

  • @tymiracle4093
    @tymiracle4093 Год назад +2

    My wife is at bct now so it's definitely hard and it's only been a week so far

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  Год назад +2

      Hey Ty! It’ll be over sooner than you think. You can send mail to her through sandbox once she sends her address and it helps a lot!

    • @tymiracle4093
      @tymiracle4093 Год назад +1

      @@AlyashaYasmeen thank you! I'm look it up

    • @manimona3902
      @manimona3902 Год назад

      Are you going to be a military husband spouse? ( I think I worded It right lol ) but I was just wondering how it is for you if so because I'm a female and I'm joining the military and my boyfriend soon to be husband is going to be a military spouse as a man I just don't see any content when it comes to them just woman.

  • @manimona3902
    @manimona3902 Год назад

    Im curious i never seen the lower rank houses are they two bedrooms are just one ?

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  Год назад +2

      Hello🥰 They go up to 3 bedrooms now! Especially if you have kiddos