IT'S NOT EASY - A MALE SPOUSE
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- Опубликовано: 29 авг 2024
- It's been a while since I've posted. So here's a (not so) little rant of being a Male Spouse in the military and my experiences so far.
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So much of this hits home man! Great video!
hey man it does sound like you are headed in the right direction. Life is filled with good things and only some bad to give you those good days. keep your head up and continue to good things.
Thanks. It deserves more views. We need more civilian husbands
Hey dumb question but have you tried starting your own page so you can do you own thing? Some of the pages are run by uptight people create your own and continue to add people to it even if you guys are only temp at your place doesn't mean you can continue to add and build and you may even be able to help others out. Anyway cool video was funny and take care!
Im joining the Navy...and doing some extensive research before i sign. I see vids all the time about military wives so i decided to look up military husbands...and the first thing i see is your face with "Its Not Easy" plastered across LMAO dude...that was funny as hell to me
🤣😂😂 yooo same shit I thought, he looking sad asf too🤣😂 homie need some help, chill my boy have a drink and watch ESPN. Go workout get buff
It wasn’t actually hard. Gotta come up with content that’s going to get views.
But it’s all old info and we’re divorced now so my videos are useless.
I was actually pretty happy there, loved the gym!
I loved their gym! Not sure how I was looking sad though? I’m sure I’d look worse if I had to watch ESPN though.
@@TheOutdoorHooligan lmao!!
make sure you always add some coffee to your cream
Oh my god dude. This is what I have to look forward to.
💜 do for your wife what'd want her to do for you if you were in her shoes. It will keep you busy, focus in your education
Great video, my wife decided to go back to the air force. She has to go back to language school...again. I myself was also former army, it's going to be really strange being the civilian spouse....
Tommy Sanders my wife wants to join chair force and I was in the army so it’s going to be different let me know how you handle it
@@crisboca173 how did it go?
I'd really like to know how many and how our military husband's are doing. I am thinking of going back to the navy full time instead of part time and have talked to my husband about it.
I hate being a military spouse. I have my own career and hobbies outside of my husbands military world. But I hate it. I feel so isolated and it honesty does make me uncomfortable how close he is with his female coworkers. Whenever I try to engage with them they act very self righteous and give off "im better than you" "im not like other girls" because they are in the military. (Obviously I'm not saying that they are all like that) I'm just saying that it is extremely isolating as a spouse. And its honestly a shame but some if the milos wives make their whole entire identity about being a wife. Its like they have zero personal interests outside of being a milso.. idk. It just feels so cult- like and I really do not like it. Its creepy.
Sometimes they get so close, you get replaced.
This video is outdated and unfortunately no longer relevant to my current life.
Then can be close friends right
We need more civilian husbands too
I make great money I support my family and my wife is joining. Idgad what anyone says, my wife will serve the country and hey, we'll see what opportunities come our way.
big frank All that money making won’t mean a thing if she decides to end it. Not trying to be a downer, but that’s what happened. Hence why I haven’t made any spouse videos in a while.
@@TheOutdoorHooligan brother I'm sorry that happened but life goes on
@@TheOutdoorHooligan mannnnnnn listen I don't what happened but this is great lol. Man I get to wash dishes & do laundry lol. I hate it happened to you dude but we're having the time of our lives😄
Hey my wife just went to bootcamp and I hope he's lying about their being nothing to do, bro go run up some $$$ so when she comes home u can stunt wit yoo Queen. I'm all business when we move on base
We’re divorced now so... 🤷♂️
But we were at a temporary location, so it was difficult to land something.
@@TheOutdoorHooligan sorry cheif
My gf is in the air force and we don't live together yet shes transfering to where i live to be with me but i do have the problem of trusting her guy friends and your right it's hard I'm going crazy i just sit at home and think about her and waiting for a call or text and i just need some advice on how to deal with all this i feel lonely depressed sad i loved the video you kinda helped but how do i deal with it all
I have very little positive things to say because I’m divorced.
Only thing I can say is to not drown her, give her space, but at the same time be loving. Have dinner ready when she gets home, clean the house, take care of things. When she’s gone go and do things. A walk, hike, anything.
Mine made the decision that she wanted someone else, regardless of what I did or didn’t do. If someone wants things to work, they’ll make it work, sadly it can go the other way as well.
@@TheOutdoorHooligan thanks but we don't live together yet January 4 she's flying out to be with me so intil then what can i do to keep her interested in me I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out for you
Sounds like I'll be good as long as I stay away from Facebook.
WOULD YOU SAY ITS A BAD IDEA TO LET HER JOIN IF I HAVR TRUST ISSUES TO BEGIN WITH
Country first. Give it 2 years. It will work. Serving for country is something noble
No, your own interests should come first. Nothing comes before self, are you dumb. No one joins to “serve” their country. Maybe A reason but not THE reason.
Just out of curiosity, why not go off base and do friends that way?
This video is no longer relevant to my current life.
Ran across this again and still easy lol
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@@TheOutdoorHooligan bro in pir defense we divorced and remarried 14 years together before she joined lol
Just go to the gym and get jacked
RIGHT!!! He literally wasted all that time playing video games & doing meet ups 🤣 dumb ass . I see why she divorced him soon as he started talking about being lonely🤣 ….he’s super lame
Imagine having to come home to this scrawny nerd 🤣 he’s complaining about what sounds like a ball to most men like wtf 🤣