How to LOVE yourself Terri Cole
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- Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
- I am so excited to explore different ways to create more love (self and other!) in your life right now. Take a moment before watching to assess your feelings about yourself right now:
How do you speak to yourself when you make a mistake?
How worthy and lovable do you truly feel?
How valuable do you think you are?
This week is really about uncovering the behaviors that block self-love, and in this video, I specifically cover:
Flipping the script on negative self-talk
Becoming aware of the Disease to Please
Learning to brag in a healthy way
Effective affirmations for building self-esteem
The power of accepting a compliment
Tackle the exercises in this video and leave me a comment to let me know what surprised you or challenged you.
TIME STAMPS:
0:00 - Introduction
1:50 - What limiting beliefs do you have about yourself?
3:16 - How do you talk to yourself? + Words of affirmation
5:15 - Can you accept compliments? How to brag in a healthy way
9:51 - The truth about self-love and the disease to please
14:00 - How to change negative self-talk into words of affirmation that are right for you
15:15 - What mirror work is and how it might help
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Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global leading expert in female empowerment. For two decades, Terri has worked with some of the world’s most well-known personalities from international pop stars to Fortune 500 CEOs.
Terri has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible, and then actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change i.e. true transformation.
She empowers over 500,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, Real Love Revolution and Boundary Bootcamp + her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. She is also the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free (April 2021)
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''' if you have a low opinion of yourself, you will attract someone who agrees with that opinion ''' need to pin this on my wall...
Saying it like this gave me the message I needed.
Amen Terri Cole! Thank you!
Thank you Terry. I love you already 😘 Am a survivor of a narcissistic mother and father. Am currently still living in their house and it is HELL! Literally. Am organising my finances so that I can move out and NEVER return. So, thank you for letting me know that I am not alone and that there's nothing wrong with cutting contact completely with abusive toxic people. Sending you much love and light. 😀😇
Love this so much. Ah, so beautifully said ' If you have a low opinion of yourself, you will attract someone who agrees with you.' 'You are worthy because you exist.'
Your videos are saving my life, thank you. I searched RUclips once I "woke up" to what I was dealing with.
Happy to help, and I'm glad you're here.
I cried! I cried, by listening to you. You touched a very sensitive nerve for me. I love your matter of fact attitude, I do! I'm guilty of not fully and authentically loving myself, Im a people pleaser, I to lovers who don't respect my boundaries, and in return I become hateful and vindictive.
I will begin a new. I will look at myself and remind me of who Im suppose to be. I appreciate your advice respectfully.
I love these videos, thank you for your time.
Dee-
I totally feel you and am so happy you're here. Self love is a journey and sometimes all you need is a great coach (and lucky you cuz you have me ;) Please make sure to sign up for free gifts and weekly live stream with me by signing up for the waiting list for the Real Love Revolution here www.terricole.com/rlr then join our private, girls only FB group here : facebook.com/groups/RealLoveRevolution/members/
Dee, thats how I react, I always say yes, then I resent them and get angry with them, I am trying to change and I say NO, now when I mean no and I feel ok with it, I dont guilt myself out anymore...reading John Bradshaw's book "Healing The Shame That Binds You" John, outlines in baby steps, how to change negative self-talk into loving positive self-talk...we are each worthy of loving ourselves.
Terri Cole Real Love Revolution thank you so much my love! Being a fatherless young lady, I was looking everywhere to not let my circumstances dictate the course of my life. I am learning how to love myself at this point. So grateful for your videos and channel.
You have some great ideas
Your such an encouragement to me ♡♡ my self love has been buried too deep for too long.....i never knew where to begin because i put the ones i loved before me, thinking they would appreciate my selfless giving.......i was wrong. I needed to etep back in my life and begin to learn WHO and WHAT i was and wanted for myself....i had to begin to like myself as i never knew. i was at a level of putting others needs before my own at my expense......now, with your clear talk that im resinating with i see patterns that i find unhealthy and too minimizing of all that i have done for family and others... i have been going crazy feeling i needed to prove myself to my family mostly without the positive feedback i should have been getting from them, honestly.........i bent over backwards without as much as a Thank You...it was if i owed them my loyalty and they didnt appreciate all that i sacrificed......now, with the perfect words I needed to hear is so timely, and is having such a positive self-realization that ive needed for myself.. ♡ Thanks so much for your insight....Im so looking forward to hearing more videos from you and sharing your message ♡ Love your messages of encouragement so much ♡♡
“We need to learn brag in a healthy way”
Oh Lawdy, she’s right. 🙏
After selfhate for more than 50 years (narcissist mother and 2 violent boyfriends), now you can read on my mirror: "I love myself, I forgive myself all my mistakes!" 💖💭💗💞👑👏🕊
LOVE. THIS.
xoxoxoxo
Mireille Claire 🤗💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 good for you !!!! PLEASE treat yourself right 🌷
My mirror says "I am enough".
Wish I could reach this after life long abuse and a partner who brainwashed my kids against me I feel unbearable deep hurt I can't fix
Video point outs - AVOID: Negative self-talk, negative public talk, don't be humble out of fear. Self love creates self esteem. One of the most important thing is to create boundaries. Be authentic. Stand up for yourself! You are worthy just by existing. Accept responsibility for your happiness, and stop blaming others (their opinion about you doesn't matter, it's merely projection of their own beliefs.) Keep affirmations simple. Challenge yourself with 21 days mirror work with positive affirmations!
Lovorka
At 68, I need to write (have written by someone) a book? Believe we all should write the TRUTH or our history (existence) should be documented. I lived in narcissistic Abuse, when it had no name, when speaking up about it made you feel “whats wrong with ME ?” Now my 2 sons are in Narcissistic Abuse and their children, they adore, are tools used to manipulate them. I spent the last 15 years of my life as full time nanny to Grandchildren. I made Mommy’s sacrifices, but also was Blessed w their Love. Thing “is”, now (last 2 the parents both stay home since they get more money than working , its accepting as if I never existed in their Lives. Im poor and need counselling, unfortunately I’ve found that money, to others replaces
God. Narcissists are only happy when they are deceiving, receiving or just plAin fooling you. Its their “high”. How does an Empath see all this and know ... yet put this out of mind n heart? ? I have Grandchildren whose very existence is in hands of Narcissists Mothers who “they” parent ..or are used as tools. There was NO maternal bonding. The Answer ? Its in God’s Hands. If only the Fathers weren’t prisoners and recognized its a Generational Trauma and the Narcissists aren’t the victim because their Daddy’s or Mommy’s didnt Love. Title of a book ? Lies that steal Lives ? Diaries of a Dumb Blonde.? I’ve lived the lie, because the Children would be hurt knowing the Truth. I’ve protected the narcs deceptions, lying and stealing and their falseness when “someone was looking”. When I suggest or address the Truth, getting help, Im discarded. Paying their consequences almost made me Homeless, in a couple years the victims of Domestic theft could be
Homeless, I can’t stop it. Who would believe “His Mother” or the Mother in Law ?
Gm mama gm
Hi, terry, your video inspired me so much .i am 62 years I sabotaged my life through destructive behaviour and most of the time I felt depressed,because of my age I thought my life is finish but when I listened to your affirmation , I am happy and grateful that there is always enough time to change what ever needs to be changed , that had a big impact on me . I have so many problems and never realised that I don't love myself at all. I have so much love empathy for others I thought that's enough. I feel very hopeful now . thank you 😊
Warms my heart to hear it, Monika. I'm so happy you are here and on this journey towards self love xoxo
monika schelinsky thanks to share this I send you love you made my day
Your second half could be your best half!
GREAT advice! After a lifetime of a malignant narcissist mom speaking to me with contempt, hatred, disdain - I would treat others so much nicer than the way I'd speak to myself. Isn't that odd? Yet, it makes so much sense. When someone like a hateful mom, makes it her mission in life to make sure that you hate yourself as much as she hates herself - if feels normal, "familiar-familial' to speak to ourselves the same way. My mother was a sadist, she was a despicable person who loved to see pain, fear, humiliation in my face - and whatever talents I had she made sure to kill any pride I took in my accomplishments. Narcissists will not have anyone outshining them, in any way. So it's not hard to understand why we play down our accomplishments. We were too afraid to stand out in any way for fear of the reign of Hell that was about to come down on us from a jealous narcissist. I wish I'd rebelled instead, and made it my mission to SHINE bright and live true to myself. Yes, we were trained to abandon ourselves to try to survive the nightmare of attracting narcissistic envy and rage.
Thank you for sharing your story here with us, Julia. I am sending you so much compassion for your healing journey ;)
This is so true! You hit the nail on the head. And now, it's time to rebel, even in our fifties or sixties. It's never too late; there is always time to start honoring ourselves.
I recently found out my mom is narcissistic (thanks to Terri Cole since my own therapist never brought it up), and I am finally doing the things that I normally would have done when I was a teenager. This video feels like a good how-to-start guide!
You are just amazing! I love you. I felt like I knew a lot about this- you blew my mind and heart wide open! “No one can love you authentically if they do not know who you really are.” Also, on humility, you had me cracking up: “most of us have mastered the crap out of that.” 😂🙏🌈
It all starts with self compassion which is why inner child work is so useful. Once you realize you’re berating a child, it creates powerful motivation to stop.
Yes! ❤️
I cried during the whole video....”I am lovable simply because I exist”!!!Thank you so much!!!!
Loved the part about not needing to be humble. What's wrong with saying you're great? Nothing! Such an inspiring video
Taryn,
Exactly!! thank you for your comment and for being here xo
Terri Cole Real Love Revolution I'm totally the girl who says " oh thanks I totally fkd that up .. but thank you . " - and I've attracted abusive partners .
The part about making excuses about my success hit home...I always say I am lucky, blessed and I don't know how I deserve this or that.... now I will say WOW - look at all the benefits I have from my hard work and integrity!
Hi Teri! I ve just discovered you! I love the way you present things and what you talk about I ve pre ordered your book about boundries as I really suffer with luck of them Greatings from windy North Wales in UK Thank you
omg I love you Terri. This is just what I needed for my healing journey. Thank you
I'm so glad this resonated for you, Shaunda! ❤️
Thanks for this great food for thought and action!!! Really gives me hope to heal and move forward in my life. Looking forward to learning more....😉❤Marie R.
Thank you for your great videos. I have had bulimia for last 8 years and really had a battle with myself, my own self talk, all the voices and boundaries in my head. In January 2018 I went to 4 months addiction treatment therefore I started to drink alcohol to hide and cover the pain from bulimia. I started my journey two years ago and now I am here, started to running and had run my first half maraton in my life, got promoted in new job, not drinking at all. Happy and respinsible for my own life, independet from other’s help. I am still having some issues with the food but sometimes I just cannot see the bigger picture of the progress. Your videos are very inspiring and helpful. Thank you for your job.
You have come so far and I hope you continue to be proud of your progress. Thank you for sharing your story. I am glad to hear it's resonating with you. I am cheering you on as you keep going and keep focusing on your health.
Follow The Blood Type Diet by Peter D'Adamo...not really a "diet. It's a guide to your best life by eating the foods for your
Blood Type. Awesome...saved my life!
This still resonates 6 years later ❤
You are the best! I dont love myself, I thrive on pleasing others and then I get the worst. No one remembers anything good I did. My mom thinks that I cant do enough. I will try to love myself more.
Thankyou Terri. Very valuable. One of the things I have noticed that freaks me out is rushing. Rushing at work, rushing to start things, fix things, "friends" constantly "needing" to see me, constant parental contact where I don't have time to think. Etc etc. Frazzled and with chronic health problems that no one cares about. Over the last decade or so I radically changed this. Limited or no contact, reevaluated my priorities, slowed down, changed jobs, qigong, deep breathing etc etc. I am still working on boundaries and self worth but slowly. Thanks again
So true! That is probably the main reason why the majority of relationships fail.We tend to love our partners more than ourselves thinking that is how to have them respect us and love us.That is not the case! We have to set boundaries and put our needs and ourselves first or others will use us as a doormat!
Right on Janet! Thank you for sharing!
after years of seeking to heal myself, I finally got my toxic mother's voice out of my head. Now, I'm learning to love myself. It's not easy after being raised to feel ashamed of myself and not good enough. I have been no contact for a few years now , with one short reconnection where I realized that I was correct to reinstate no contact again, this time in order to focus on my healing. At times, it feels overwhelming so I listen to your videos and others along the same lines.
I used to feel like a huge walking wound just broken and lost. Now I know that I'm on the path to being fully healed and self partnered. THANK YOU for your important, valuable, life saving work helping people like me to know there is hope and healing if we choose it. You are a huge blessing to all of us
Thanks for your kind note. It warms my heart to think my work is helping you. I LOVE "self-partnered" as a goal because that is exactly what a healthy relationship to self is. Thank you for being here with us
Hi Terri, you are awesome, Thankyou for sharing your love, I'm 53, and absolutely love that I've found you on my journey in life. Your the first person I've found that really breaks things down to an understanding that is so simply understood and that's so complex in all it's forms. Thank you so much, will always listen to your videos in my quest to show real love to myself and others. Sending you lots of love . It's clear the universe is giving back the love you give to others🙂xxx
So afraid to threaten other people! This resonates thank you ❤️💫
SO beautiful AND touching. I was always told to love myself first, didn’t know what or how to do this. I simply LOVE it when you say there is always time to change what needs to be changed. Usually people say oh but I am too old, like my mum said the other day. Huge thanks dear Terri. Am cleaning my house, which I do not enjoy, but listening to your wonderful videos makes the job so much more pleasant. 🙏❤️🙏
No one is ever too old to change and evolve ❤️ So glad to hear I'm making cleaning a little more enjoyable for you!
@@terri_cole🙏
Great video Teri! It really hit home. I've been doing the mirroring and being nicer to myself when I make sure mistake. Which I don't think I have ever done before. It's all good stuff. I'm feeling better already. I wish I would have discovered all of these things about me sooner. But better late than never. I'm in the process of trying to split up with my Narc wife but she made my life so miserable after I filed for divorce I stopped the process. Now I'm just coexisting with her even though she is content. But one day I will be strong enough to go through with it and lead the life I was meant to live. Thanks do much!
Terri, thank you for this powerful reminder about self love. There are a lot of home truths in this video. I used to be a people pleaser, running around attending to family n friends but constantly ignoring myself n my needs. I live with a family of Narcissists who expect me to drop everything n attend to their needs first. I'm a recovering Codependent n learning to love myself. Very important advice here. LOVE YOUR ADVICE XXX.
Even 2 yrs after you posted this video Terri, loving myself and practicing every day how to love myself even more still and will forever be appreciated of your words of wisdom, affirmation and confirmation to be my best!! Thank you so much! May God continue to shower you with blessings, abundance amd peace!!
This woman is an angel from heaven. I love you Terri. Keep up the good work ma'am❣❣❣❣
So glad you're here, thanks for the encouragement :)
Carsons mom here. Even though I dabble in design.. I will do something that I KNOW looks beautiful. And.. if I send a pic of it and someone says *Thats beautiful*.. I have trouble not critiquing what doesnt look perfect. Or feel if I say thank you.. Im being selfish or a bragger. But Im learning to be confident in my accomplishments/talents
Thank you Terri. You emit so much knowledge and light. Deeply thank you.
Deep appreciation for your presence here with me ;)
I started following you after a interview with Gabby Bernstein. I am sure the Universe brought you into my life ... and this video ... and the most perfect time. I have been struggling with having a tough conversation with my husband. I definitely have the 'disease to please'. I have forgot who I am and what I truly want. I've become a bittttter person towards my husband it it rubs off on so much more. 'I am willing to be uncomfortable' I WILL speak my TRUTH! Thank you. I look forward to many more of your talks, meditations and I'd like to read your book as well. Thank you!
Thank you Terri for doing this service to society.. the internet has so many distortions of human behavior and psychology, its good to hear a bluntly real, honest and refreshing perspective like in your videos.
You are so welcome ;)
“You’re worthy simply because you exist”😭🤍
Yessssss! Take that in!
I have heard this term self love so many times but never knew the actual work to do in order to truly love and accept responsibility for the life situation we are in is our accountability and not anybody else is job. Thank you for breaking it into understandable parts as to how one can go about it. 🤗
You're welcome!!
Wow..the part where you talk about " Lucky and Blessed" really resonated with me. Such a small shift to say " thank you I worked so hard". Love it.
I didn't realise that not accepting compliments was avoiding responsibility, thanks xx
OMG! I've had the disease to please all my life. It's true, I have little idea what I actually want and like because it's easier to rely on others to tell me. It gives me some sort of direction. You opened my eyes. Thank you so much.
This is a fascinating and soooooo clearly articulated video!🎶Thank you for this 🙏
taking responsibility for your happiness, just went on vacation and usually please husband and stay near a pier so he can fish, this time I stayed where I wanted with a lazy river and hot tub and took care of myself and my happiness for a change, felt good, loved myself, thank you.
YES!!! Woohoooo!!!!
I have to say I love your videos. We all really do need to love the self. I was never loved correctly and became codependent. you are a treasure to hurting souls and I want to thank you for. the bottom of my heart. I am so glad that you found love in your life. God bless you!
I listened to you and found it very helpful, im at a really low low and it feels so scary to be riddled with such insecurity and negative self esteem at this point in my life. Ive done alot on the outside but internally im in shambles. ive been sifting thru youtube and nothing resonated but you sound genuine and are a beautiful woman inside and out. im hoping to learn how to navigate these terrible feelings and feel better. thank you.
You matter. Thank you for being here and watching. One step at a time, rebuilding your inner confidence. I am sending you light and strength, mama.
I really needed this today. My inner voice is so critical of my physical body. I’m really tired of feeling bad about my appearance because I’m not the size society accepts as attractive. I’m doing some mirror work but I really like the writing idea so I have a reminder every morning to prioritize positive talk. Thank you!
I am witnessing you with compassion and cheering you on for the work you're doing.
Hi Mrs Cole, my name is Sabine and I live in Toronto, Canada. I just discovered your channel. Thank you very much for this video. I am on my own journey of self-love and I am going to therapy. It is very helpful and painful but I am willing to do the work. I am grateful for your content. Sabine.
Hi Sabine, thanks for being here ❤️ I'm so glad my content resonated, and I am witnessing you with compassion and cheering you on along your journey.
Thank you for this video! I'm going to try to mirror exercise for 21 days. Lately, I've been feeling like I'm driving myself crazy and it's gotten to the point where I just tell people, "Yeah I'm going crazy." But you made me realize that by doing this, I am in fact accepting my crazy. That voice in my head isn't going away because I'm giving it life. Thank you so much! I'm going to work on a new affirmation today!
Right on , Dennis!!
I watched so many videos about this subject ,but this one has power and touched me deeply. Thank you for great work
I am so delighted to hear that, thank you for sharing.
Thank you Ms. Cole. This was amazing for me. I have made mistakes and been hurt; I am learning, however, my own agency. Thank you :-)
So glad it was helpful! ❤️
First of all, I must say how grateful I am for this channel you have created. For some time now I have been soul searching and trying to figure out what was wrong with me. I have worked hard getting to know myself and learning from my mistakes. After every brake up I would Google the phycologically reason why I would feel the emotions I felt. However, after discovering many areas I needed to grow I have realized this is my main issue. I do a great job at hiding not loving myself. However, after loosing 120 pounds I really had a change of mind and started to see life from a much healthier point of view. I have a long way to go but thank you for sharing so much information. Every thing makes perfect sense now. I really appreciate you.
Right on, Rosa!! Keep up the great work ;)
Rosa Montes de oca 3
“You are worthy of your heart’s desire”. Love it❤️❤️. Self 💕 love 💕 thank you😘
Right on mama!!!!
I've seen like millions of videos about self love, and I can say that this the best one❤🙏🏼thank you
Thank you so much
Best coaching advice on meditation I’ve ever heard!🤣🤣🤣
Ps Terri - wow are you beautiful! I am an instant fan and admirer!
7 years ago. I’m am catching up with all your shares Terri. So grateful for your knowledge, AUTHENTICITY! 💛🤍⚡️, and wisdom. Thank you from Cooroy, Australia. XO
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Self love is a process and I am going to add mirror work to my journey work.
Terri,
This is so fabulous!! I'm so glad you have shared such resonating strategies to help you learn to love yourself. From self talk to public talk to mirror talk...it's so important to appreciate yourself, validate your emotions and feelings and see the value of what you do. I will share this video elsewhere because it is very powerful and I appreciate your words of wisdom.
Thanks so much Dawn!
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I like what you say. I was raised to feel ashamed of myself by my parents, they wanted to make sure I didn't get too proud. Even deeper than that, Im not worthy of having the things I want most in life, and I don't mean material things. I want to learn.
Linda,
You deserve to learn AND build a life you love! I'm so glad you're here xo
Wow, some things really resonate with me, like not being able to be proud of how hard I worked to get myself through my education and other career moves. I definitely need to work on that. I'd love it if I could go out, apply for a new job and tell them how wonderful I am! Not feeling like a fake, but genuinely telling them how wonderful I am.
Something else I need to work on is to start blaming others. This may sound contradictory to your advice, but I always made excuses for my parents for boycotting my education. Now I realize; it wasn't because I did something wrong. It was because of their selfish motives that I didn't go to college.
Thank you, Terri. You are helping me so much. I live in the Netherlands, so your words go far away!
I'm so glad you found this helpful ❤️ YES to applying for a new job and genuinely telling them how wonderful you are 🙌
“If you don’t truly know yourself, you cannot truly love yourself.” Profound.
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Beautiful message thanks so much x blessings to you for caring and making my world a brighter place x
Thank you for being here! I appreciate you.
Im so glad I found your channel!! I keep self sabotaging and sabotaging my relationship with my boyfriend (who has been very understanding) because of insecurities and I tend to drink as a coping mechanism which only intensifies the negative thinking. I only do this when he is not around, mostly through text. When we are together, we get along great and it's always a nice time together. I have been in emotionally abusive relationships, but he is not like that at all. It's like I can't accept that i finally found someone worthy of me and i keep thinking i am not worthy of him
I am witnessing you with compassion. Now that you have more awareness you can choose how you want to respond. You can choose your old patterns or you can observe yourself with curiosity about what this is bringing up for you.
@@terri_cole Thank you.. I have been dealing with this for a while and I've been trying to change it. I've been used and manipulated in the past as well and I think that may be part of it. In fact, it happened shortly before I met my bf. I thought this person cared about me and it turned out he was using me for sex. It was something I was not proud of in the first place because I worked with this person and he was married. Of course he said that wasnt going well 🙄 I havent told my bf about that and I dont know if I should. Maybe it would help clarify things for me? I just know the hardest part of this is putting down the drink. I want to stop but it is so hard. I only act this way and feel those negative things when I drink. I am implementing the steps you talked about in your video. Loving myself has to come first and foremost
@@terri_cole and the worst part is I always feel worse about myself when I come back to my senses after saying the most ridiculous things to my bf. That is no good..how can I love myself if I cant stop this cycle 😔
He will be broken without me
My girl will be broken
I’m his strength n he as well for me
From the age 21 I was with him n till today I’m happy I’m ready happy with him n this love is more for me n I’m satisfied with this
I really respect u n ur words n ur advice n the love n care that u have for me I feel like I’m blessed to have u all I leave this to God
Thank u to all u are simply wonderful u are doing wonderful things on ppl brings happiness n love for them
I pray to god to bless u all even more with all his blessings from the heaven on ur good work as well as on u n ur family n ur friends let u all have the love of god n grace over u all
With so much of love thank u
You are very insightful. Thank you very much.
I appreciate your authenticity & being down to earth. You are not a typical therapist who has not done the work & who speaks from a soap box. Thank you🌻💖
Thank you for your kind words!!!
For most of us our formative years lacked any true value and respect from our guardians ...
Instead we were not seen or heard and were taught that outer behaviour was important ...not what we felt
This resonated with me. I didn’t know self care, self love could also look like this.
Some of these things I’ve learned to move past, but I’m still a work in progress. Thank you for this!
You're welcome, and thank YOU for being here!
My morning alarm is this- Good Morning Beautiful! 💙💄👗👛
Thank you so much I’ve been struggling a lot with loving myself because of the issues in the relationship, I’ve struggled with self love before the relationship but its even worse now being in one because I cannot take criticism or be real enough for the relationship to grow. I feel like I’m not worthy sometimes of love when I make mistakes or when I upset her.
I am glad i came across this video thank you soo much!
You are absolutely worthy of love. Mistakes happen, forgive yourself. I'm witnessing you with compassion.
🙏🏻🙏🏽🙏🏿Thanks God.❤️Thank you, Terri.🌹You are a gift.🎁Good Presence are better than any store bought presents any day!💝 Thank you for making our Lives, this world, and the future a better place!✅✅ Thank you for being gentle while being 100% honest and for coaching us in the right direction to change & improve ourselves to be the best version of ourselves we can possibly be! So Awesome!💯 I look forward to the future and excited to transform. Let the healing begin.🌱
❤️Love♥️, ✨Light✨, and 🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏🏻Blessings🙏🏻🙏🏽🙏🏿 Always in All Ways, ~Joanna Aimee ✌🏼😎✨
Terry I love your videos!!! Thank you your voice is so calming and you are so reassuring and it feels like you a a great guide /teacher .Thank you for your clarity ,instruction and wisdom .
Terri, THANK YOU for your kind heart
Awww thanks for being here Karen! I appreciate your kind words xoxox
Thank You so much Terri for the work you do. Love and blessings to you.
Yes.. very mean to self... try to remember we are unique
Terri your voice your persona brings healing as you speak Thank u
and God bless you much love xxxx
No person is ever gonna love you enough - hard to swallow, but so true!
Thank you Terri ❤️❤️
Thank you Terri!!!! I loved your video!! You are an angel on earth!! Thank you!!
Thank you very much for your motivation
I pleases other people and forgetting about myself, and people turn to take advantage of that😢
I am always hurt because of that and always thinking if I love too much I will get the same back😢
I see you 💕 You might want to watch this video on self-abandonment as well: ruclips.net/video/D8M-q8CalSs/видео.html
You are the best!!!!! I appreciate your existence so much!!!
I am riveted by what you are saying. Everything you say has such relevance for me and such depth. Not a wasted word. I am so grateful to you and to have found your website, blog. It is like looking in a mirror, seeing reality and receiving support for the things that cause me pain and struggle.
The wrapped gift analogy is good. Thank you Terri!
This is me, 1,000 percent. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
You're welcome!
I'm searching. Love the lights in the background. It's self soothing for me.
Love you Terri !
Thank you !👍😊
It is my belief psychologists really need to take a page out of this woman. She seriously knows what she's talking about. She breathes, she has delivery, she knows her shit and yet is calm. Seriously, i feel like when i walk into a room the 60mins count down has begun and i'm more weary they will charge me thrice what i'm paying for. Quality ppl! I really wish i lived abroad you would so be my psychologist.
Thank you for your kind words. They really mean a lot to me. And thank you for being here with us.
This woman is the truth!!!
Thank you!
Thanks for breaking this down!! So many people seem to think loving yourself is just getting your nails done or something and that just hasn't been enough for me.lol
Pow...very eye opening....thank you!!!!!!!
Amazing, wonderful advice! Helps so much!
I never dont accept compliments very well.
Great content! Thank you so much, Terri!
I love your bluntness. It really resonates with me. ❤️
I LOVED IT , I stumbled upon on of your videos of self help, You're fantastic, great help , great voice, great message!
Thank you so much for what you’re doing! It’s so helpful. Your advice is precious, I learned so much with your podcast about boundaries!
This makes me so happy to hear, Marusha ❤️
You’re wonderful. I’m so glad I found you.
Thank you Terri! Loved it💗💗💗🌸
You are so welcome!
Thank you 🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you so much♥️🙏...much needed change of thinking...at the right time... blessed and grateful🥰
You are so welcome ❤️
so so true!
This is a great video. Thanks for making and sharing it. So much beautiful love and gems shared. I appreciate it. Thank you.
Thank you Terri I’m learning a lot 🥰🥰🥰👏👏
The disease to please, oh thank you. I'm trying to build myself up again, and get to love myself. I had several bad relationships and am trying to love myself, being self care and self love. So that later I can be in a healthy and happy relationship.
I see you ❤️
I LOVED this video. Thank you SO much! I'm going to start working on this today ❤️
So happy to hear it and that you are here with me!