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Rebound Relationship: Does my ex really have feelings or love the rebound person?
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In this video, Coach Courtney Gatlin discusses a question that I get from many of my anxious preoccupied clients. Do they love the rebound? Attachment styles even play a part in how they bounce back from your relationship!
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Rebounds are crazy it shows you how one person can’t sit alone and heal properly
It's such a turn off and disapointment. I feel so ew.
Yeah, I can't believe he'd suggest reaching back out to them...what lame advice that only someone lacking self respect would take.
I'm thinking they are more so projecting their love for you onto the other person.
Yes I get this….
@W. James not really, in the mind of a rebound person they 1 do not think its a rebound and 2 they believe they are ready to move on because it is ALL OVER with you period, they have not process their feeling but for them they believe they have, it is not linked to you , it is linked to the believe the grass is so green over there and LOOK it is really greener but after the high have calm down the boat crash hard and they are going to be forced to face all their unresolved issue, it is not linked to the person they have left
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But that’s so sad😢
Exactly what my ex doing rn hahaha replicating everything we had with her painkiller
He had someone almost instantly! It blew my mind and I was already so hurt
To discover that my first serious relationship of 1+ year was just me being used as a rebound... it hurts so much. Especially when he admitted that he hadn't moved on from his ex girlfriend and he dated me because he thought he had, and that he saw glimpses of her in me- meanwhile my feelings for him were real.
Something happened to the ex and he immediately questioned his love for me. The thought of losing her was way worse than the thought of losing me. And so, 2 days ago, he broke up with me.
All of these videos kept talking about how the rebound relationship don't matter, while it's true, it's crushing me so badly to know that I was never loved. I'm currently in the process of healing, I don't want to jump immediately into dating because I don't want anyone else to know the pain.
I'm willing to heal but to think I was used as a rebound kept beating me up inside
Always inquire about their history and intentions
@@IamCoachCourt I did, and I will in the future. I just hope the next one will be more open and honest the first time around
I feel like my ex is doing this to the guy she is with now. She tells me that she wishes he was me sometimes and it was too soon but continues to pursue a relationship with him. It hurts me more knowing that she isn't trying to heal and improve herself and I'm tearing myself apart trying to improve and be what she needed me to be.
I am so sorry and you are not alone dear friend. I just ended it two days ago. Just found out that I am the rebound. He broke up with his ex a year ago so I had no clue I could be a rebound. I really feel you on the point on what we had was real. It really was. But you still feel so used and no one wins in this.
Not his ex. Not him. Not me.
Horrible. I’m glad I ended it. But I do hope that this isn’t the last of it. I’m tired.
@@kalypso9256 I certainly know the pain and you definitely don't want to experience it anymore. I just hope you're not afraid to fall in love again though. One thing I learned is that if I can love the wrong person that much, imagine how wonderful it'll be like to love the right person. So for now, let yourself to grief and cry even. Talk to family and friends who can give you support, do activities to take your mind of the person, delete anything that has anything to do with them and block them, this is crucial. My best advice is to focus on healing yourself. You wouldn't want to move on too quickly and give the same pain to the next person.
The people our exes are rebounding with most likely have an unhealthy attachment style too, no? Because a secure person would realise that the other person isn’t over their ex…
Yep. I talk about that in this video.
5 Things The Rebound Taught You About Your Ex | Coach Court
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@@IamCoachCourt thanks Coach!
What if they don’t know?
@@jellybelly100100 they don’t know that they are the rebound? Or what u mean?
@@Ellael98yes exactly. How would they know if they are the rebound?
Yep, she does. Started seeing him within a month of us breaking up, being together 5 months, 3/5 of those months long distance and have now taken 2 trips together. Blows my mind! Meanwhile she still looks at my story posts
I would unfriend her.
No contact for ever
Not if they're still calling you 2 years later expecting you to talk to them like they didn't cheat & lie. In that case, it doesn't matter because exhibit A is a total lack of trustworthiness on their part.
Can’t believe after 4 years since my break up I’m here watching this 😂
My ex told me he has more feelings for the girl he met 3 months a go then he EVER has for me in 12 YEARS. I feel so awful and unworthy. 💔
He does not mean this similar thing happened to me after 11 years and he came crawling back and spent another 4 years calling me the love of his life he’s not currently in another rebound after we had an argument and I’m not as bothered this time cause I saw how it played out last time he is trying to hurt you please don’t let this get to you I know it’s so hard xx
@@amybrennan4765 Hiya Amy, I didn't get a notification for this but it made me feel better. I think he said the most hurtful thing to make me 'go away' easier. I might if he said 'i love you, but I'm obsessed with this new girl' I wouldn't have kicked him out just as fast 😂 he's still with her, hasn't come crawling back yet but we had a good relationship, so hopefully he misses it one day and by then I may have moved on xx
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You are so easy to understand, you make it simple!!
Thank you! 🙏🏾
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I remember my past 8 years ex who married someone a week later and moved out of state and called the cops on me. He knew he did something wrong that he has to live with the rest of his life
holy shit you just read my situation thank you so much
I like this guy!!!
Great info...have watched tons of relationship videos and Coach Court is the first to use terms like "avoidant", "anxious" and "secure".
I'm secure...af.
Thanks Jason!! 🙌🏾
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My ex narcissist boyfriend and I have been together 7 years,
and I found out he was cheating on me with his ex wife. Soon after he's in another relationship with the new supply, and continues to contact me, he need someone to use for shelter. I am blessed to have gotten out of that toxic relationship.🙏
Rhonda Cooper stay strong Rhonda. It’ll take some healing in your end! Good luck
My life went upside down when my husband left me with the kid to join with another lady by the island, but thanx to Dr oniha who helped me brought him back with his love spell, you can also contact him on his email dronihaspell@yahoo.com
@Harry Pannu. a whole lot better than 2 years ago thank you for asking. How are you?
@Harry Pannu.sure 👍
@Harry Pannu. (fb) Rhonda Cooper
He told me he loved me and a week later I see on a mutual friends post his arms are around another girl and they had couple pics of just them , they also went to a concert together as he’s telling me “im his wife, mother of children “ he would always tell me he wanted a baby with me and I was his person . I really thought we were working things out and I saw this story and it just stabbed me in my heart . :(((
No thanks she can have him and his soul ties
No, the anxious type is not "committed". They don't actually WANT to be with you, they NEED to be with you, those are two very different things.
No impulse lazy decision and thats why he is attempting to come back.
unless your ex is a narcissist or a sociopath.
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Here I leave you his WhatsApp number
My dear if you seriously want to recover your relationship / get ex back or a specific person
Mr wilson is the best when to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you
Thanks Coach! That was nice 👍🏽! You’re the best. Taking my blessings wherever God’s sends them. Stop worrying! More prayers
That’s the only way to do it!
I know of a man who can manifest your ex partner back and restore back your broken relationship easily__
He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily
His name is Dr Miracle Gabe,he can also help you out__
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@@jeffspeter1246 is that a phone number?
hes gone from alot of rebounds shes the first ive seen actually play out as in seen the others i found out later diwn the road when he was no longer with them we knew eachother for 5 years grew up and dated for 2 years we come from same group still to this day
Hi coach I just want to say thank you for your videos they've been a blessing I just want to wish you and your family a safe Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year take care
Thank you so much Lynette, same to you and yours!! 🙏🏾
My ex left me almost a year ago. We were together 4 years. She was in a whole relationship with someone else 3 days later. She has been in contact with me practically the past year. Today she told me that she was getting married and she's pregnant. It broke me.
You are saved you dodge a nuclear bomb do you actually want a person like that no way you are lucky
Wtf. like are thy trying to hurt us..Sorry you have to deal with this. such a fuccin mind fucc... One day at a time
I was a rebound. He was falling in love with me. Then we broke up. I'm hurting but I have to focus on myself. Theres not many videos about the rebound/ victim around whatsoever
@@tanesha4917 unfortunately. He reached out again yesterday. 2nd time now. I haven't responded. Idk man.
@@tanesha4917 late January
We worked at the same place & lived together. I ended up leaving on both situations. Moved out a week later when we broke up. Then 2 weeks later I resigned
@@tanesha4917 no. They were broken up for almost a year before I came in the picture
@@mxsharkgang3246
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Great content! Concise and useful! It is helping me right now.
Glad it was helpful!
I know of a man who can manifest your ex partner back and restore back your broken relationship easily__
He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily
His name is Dr Miracle Gabe,he can also help you out__
+2348029822204
Why my FA bf (who had a 1 yr deep love) search on me, not let me leave him still , fear of losing me & come to see me if he has a rebound love?
I was just having thing to work after recognizing his attachment style in no contact but yesterday only i came to know he married within 2 months of breakup
Hun this man is probably a narc
I was with my ex for 17 years and all it took was a comment on her TikTok video and as soon as she broke it off with me they started talking and she started going to see this guy he also lives 3hrs away and to top it off we live together and have a 5 yr old together
6 y relationship. We broke up 5 months ago, 2 weeks after he was in rebound relationship with a person he knew. I went no contact he came back saying he’s single and wanted to get back together saying that no one is me. We met up (he’s driven 4h to come see me) we hooked up same night then he left being very anxious saying he had to clear his mind and that he couldn’t stay. HELP??! 🤯
How long were you in no contact before he reached out? Also, I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope things worked out for you.
He's not serious of you.
Dishonest and will do it again and again
I really appreciate your content. 🙏
Thank you Karen!!
Karens also watch this.
Great video!
Thank you!
There not your girl / boy friend anymore !!!! If your upset it helps to think of there as just a person you know
My ex does NOT love me at all. He betrays me left and right . Very painful.
My best friend got into a rebound relationship post break up. He's still with her til this day. But he is so miserable and unhappy. I think he stays because he's afraid to be alone.
Thanks for the feedback 🙏🏾
Hey what if my ex went back to a ex rebound from years ago but we been in a relationship for 7 years
But everytime we break up she is one of the females that he talk to
My very recent ex (D/A) dumped me (F/A becoming secure) a month ago for a guy she met at work but it has only really been a thing for about two months. We where together for about 31/2 years and where engaged. The new guy broke off from his fiencee of 6 years (they where getting married in month from when I post this) me and my ex where also engaged. I made a silly financial mistake during lockdown and my ex has seen this a man a red flag. We have not really communicated properly for about 12 months as I have been dealing with depression (now diagnosed as potentially Cyclothymia).
I can be hard work but everyone I know has said that I am such a great person but I became such an introverted and anxious person with my ex. She isn’t the easiest person to de with either.
I hope the grass is greener for her but she has lost the respect of her family so we will see.
I am growing and healing and will be such a better person by the end of my current journey.
My ex boyfriend broke up with me on May 4th after almost 2 years of a serious relationship. We were long distance but we got to see eachother every month and we were incredibly close. We were bestfriends and he was VERY invested. Within a month after we broke up, he was already with someone new... He posts pictures of the two of them and they both changed their profile pictures already to the two of them together... He never posted anything like that when we were in our honeymoon phase so something seems really off. Like he's trying to prove himself to her and everyone else... I've been in NC for almost 2 months now
Is it possible that they were already talking while you were long distance?
@@IamCoachCourt they knew each other but we were incredibly close and he was very obsessed with me and talked to me 24/7. When we weren't working we would be on the phone. And we would talk every morning and night till we fell asleep. So if that were the case, he didn't really have much time to talk to her. Plus she was in a serious long term last year as well that ended...
This is a narcissist more than a da
@@pi2771 a DA?
sounds so much like my situation - we were also long distance
My wife met her person 3 months after breaking up with me. We split last October she met him last December and is still with him till now. So is this still a rebound. We were married 13 years.
You have to feel bad for the guy who’s caught unaware
How can i do no contact to my ex girlfriend and she has a new relationship after we break up 1 week later. We live the same house. We rent the same room. Its hard for me to see her she always chatted her new boyfriend in front of me she always talk how good her new bf and she told me that her body its not mine anymore and belong to her new boyfriend and it hurts. What should i do? Please help me coach. Thank you.
That too with a girl who was described by him as clingy and stupid crazy fan of him
My bf came in rebound relationship literally in 10 days , so I'm so chill right now bcz it's gonna fail anyway
Love your videos!
Thank you for the positive feedback Meagan! 🙏🏾
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Mr wilson is the best when to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you
My Ex brought up breaking up with me a couple months ago and officially wanted to break up a few weeks ago. She connected with an old friend she used as a rebound in the past. We've been together going on 7 yrs and within the last couple months she said she hasn't felt an emotional connection but before that we were good. We have 2 children 2 and 4 and we live together. So I'm trying to keep my emotions in check.
@Bruce Gant Rebound start fast and have a high intensity about them so right now, dont do anything, dont say anything, just focus in your own life like you did not notice this annoying episode , focus on bettering yourself because that person is coming back and when they do you need to be in better place with yourself mentally and physically, advance yourself, Rebound goes fast and crash fast as well so let them hit the rock and thats going to be pretty soon, when that person come back you need ti ask yourself if you want them back as its questionable but that person is coming back
@@BrighterLifeInstitute I feel that, because as of right now I've gotten over the weight of the reality of the initial breakup. So I'm not as emotional as I was when she first sprung it on me. Since we live together I made sure to avoid arguments and keep the vibe good. So now she says she wants to get her own place, which I anticipated was going to be coming soon. I feel, honestly, more upset about my children not being with me everyday and not being a family under 1 roof. That's what hurts the most. But, like you said I have to get myself in a better place financially, mentally and spiritually.
@@bruegant I know its hard it was hard for me too but if we put our focus to rebuild ourself and use this disappointment to make a better life for ourself we will see these people were not right for us, your children will always be yours, start today to make plan and see where in your life you need to make change, if she go let her, let people be free even it hurt, its sad that in end all we had turn to some side effect bad taste in our mouth, you got to be there for you because there are so many people like this out there
@@BrighterLifeInstitute very true. I guess also what messes with me is she did subliminally reach out to me to build a connection, you know how women want you to pick up on their vibes. But I was focused on other aspects of our situation. I guess I feel like I dropped the ball on keeping our relationship alive. Kind of like I failed her and the relationship. But, like you said all i can do is work on myself at this point
@@bruegant I can never say this enough, you must know clearly what caused your relationship to break before you take any action because some action can really make this worst, women rarely just decides to leave a relationship so please make sure you know that cause the end of your relationship
Hi, I have tried to end my relationship with my girlfriend 4 times in 6months because of the fear that I'm a rebound guy. Although she told me that I'm not and she doesn't have feelings for her ex ,somehow I dont believe her. Everytime I end the relationship,I get anxious and think what if it's the real deal ,and I go back the next day.
The last time I broke up with her she cried and begged me to stay. I felt her pain. Now I'm thinking that she truly loves me but I've fucked up so much that she won't love me the same .
She cried over you?? Yeah she loves you. Treat her right.
Coach Court,
I've been following and listening to your videos for a few months now. So the issue that I am having with my ex is that they married their rebound partner who was also their high school sweetheart just 3 months ago. After being told that they would never speak to me or see me again we have gone to texting and conversation/going out. I am lost because I still have strong feelings for my ex. they claim that they still love me and do care, its just past problems got in the way and that I took to long to marry. I need some advice. Thanks for reading.
My ex and I broke up in August 2023 but he still lead me on for 2-3 months. He ghosted me and etc !! I was so confused bc we were talking about the future together. February 2024 I I found out he was talking to someone and now he is in A relationship with her!! I was devastated, he told me they haven’t had sex yet but , it still hurts me to know that he moved on soo fast . The new girl also have a kid of her own .. he broke my heart 😭 idk if it’s official or rebound . He haven’t reached out to me
Thank you!!
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My ex has me stunned that he left his child for a woman. This is something I cannot live with.
My ex and i were each other’s first love and together for 5 years and broke up about 8 months ago but for the first 6 months broken up he was always texting me saying he was depressed and missed me and would ask if i was seeing anyone and then a week after those texts i find out he’s seeing someone new and cuts me off and has been with her for 2 months. He has texted about three times since dating her but they seem really happy :(
Then he’s trying to breadcrumb you Lucy, stay strong and heal the right way!
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Good Video Mr. Court
I know of a man who can manifest your ex partner back and restore back your broken relationship easily__
He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily
His name is Dr Miracle Gabe,he can also help you out__
""Whts" App " him __
+2348029822204
I feel like I was the rebound dated her for 5 months but then I broke up with her out of anger and emotions going 3 months now. tried to make things right with her but then she went hot and cold left me with mixed signals n by the way we work together and now I'm hearing a rumor she is kind of dating someone new at work and on that day I heard I bout it I see she blocked me on Watsap. Any advice for me I would appreciate it
i met my ex a year a go in 2020 in november, and she broke up with her ex which is the father of their kid. first i started to chat her but she says she says shes not in the mood for talking and the next day she chat me again says why did i not chat her. until everyday we talked after a month we started a relationship. we lasted a year and 4 months. we broke up due to problems not in our relationship but personal problems. is it real love or shes just using reasons to avoid me to know the real thing.
Sir, he is an avoidant and he has been with his rb for 7 mo. now. We broke up 7mo ago lol. He told me 1 mo after being with his rb he regrets the breakup and love me. He try to break it off but she begged him to stay. It's been 5 months since that incident. What's up with that?
Well she monkey branched 4 months ago and it’s long distance, 3 hour drive for each of them. They see each other every weekend and now she’s moving down to his place and engaged now as well. So why is this working out? I was good to her but would not move in together because I had trust issues with her. And now you can see why. But I had 7 years together and loved her regardless. But I’m less than 4 months they now are gonna live together and getting married. I’m in disbelief. He’s been married twice before and now my ex is his now. They are 54 years old. Will it work? She has a major pattern of monkey branching, almost her entire adult life. She. Am be alone and won’t be alone. I still love her . I’m in therapy over this . Been in therapy since it happened but I can’t seem to let go
my ex left me and quickly was in a rebound with someone new but after 10 days came to me and we had sex a couple of time.. but now she thinks she maybe likes the rebound because she feels also guilty to him after no contact for 3 weeks with him. what to do
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He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily
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He jumped ASAP to a rebound n posting lovely dovey stuff I was blocked didn't know why we was texting n he just asked for space but he wanted to still keep in touch he doesn't know I know since I found out I blocked him on fb n messenger n Snapchat like he did me n I haven't reached out because it's hurtful that he says he loves me n miss me n for us to be together again cause he feels kinda broken so I texted one a week like that n was just weird out of nowhere he blocked me so after blocking him back I disactivated my fb for a while
My ex went into a rebound relationship after a 5-year I believe he's jumped into a few different relationships I think why is jumping into other now I year he's dating guy.. I was with this guy since 2016. If he still loves me how come he hasn't reached out to me yet? Last week I saw him in public and he stared at me for a second what does that mean? He didn't come up and say hi to me and try to apologize for what he did. He looked at me twice. I saw him on the bus and he looked at me at the corner of his eye what does that mean? He hasn't tried to reach out to me saying I saw you today I love to talk things out with you and be your friend. I'm dating somebody else though maybe I can be friends with my ex while I'm dating somebody else. And the rebound relationship as he met up with this girl online and people online. I think he's been doing dating apps online.
I have a question how do explain them moving in within a month and he claim they just met so do that mean they're inlove you said it take time to fall in love and if you was with them for 25yrs and separated for 4 months but during separation yall kep seeing eachother and he kep lying about seeing someone else until u pop up and see them together and next thing you know he move out his spot and in with her and talking about marriage
I have a question, I was with a girl for 5 years, all these years we lived together, we broke up in August 2021, and 2 months after the breakup, she started dating again with a guy with whom she been together 6 years ago! the relationship with this guy lasted a year, I was blocked on all social networks and on the phone number! is there any hope of ever contacting me?
We we're in a relationship for 4 years and 9 months. We were in a long distance relationship and a month ago, he broke up with me. His new gf is in the x-ray department and he's actually managing the canteen of the poly clinic where his new gf works. I guess, they were already talking before. They were official before he broke up with me. I don't know if he still loves me or if there's still a chance for us to be together.
Just move on. If there’s any chance of it, don’t entertain it. They don’t respect you and won’t ever again. It’s very rare it will work long term. Also why would you want someone that had eyes for someone else and even emotionally violated your trust?
@Harry Pannu. How are you now?
@Harry Pannu. Same here bro. It's been 7months now since he broke up with me. I suck at moving on because he's my first boyfriend. 😞
@Harry Pannu. He's with someone now and he's happy also. I guess, I'll be happy for him even if it's not with me anymore.
@Harry Pannu. Do you want me to add you in fb or ig?
Idk but my ex husband (10 years of marriage) that cheated on me said he loves his affair partner
Hi coach court, question.... my wife of 9 years left me about 3 months ago, and jump into another relationship with her coworker within a month. Is this truly a rebound relationship, or is it monkey branching? i know both is very similar, but since this is her coworker, i'm sure they had an emotional connection for awhile, before breaking up with me. In any case, do you think their relationship will work? She did basically EVERYTHING what a rebound person would do. Her new man is much older, and is completely out of her character. I dont personally know him, but certain there is a lack of connection, interest and culture. Not to mention she moved in with him within a month. thanks in advance!
Depends on her attachment style and how long she was feeling in love with this guy. People who jump that quick are usually Anxious attachers. I would need more info.
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@@IamCoachCourt thanks for your response! i'm sure they did things together such as lunch of dinner with the team at work. As far as her being a cheater, i feel its unlikely because she never displayed anything for me to think otherwise over the 9 years. I believe she's an anxious attacher. thank you!
im in a similar situation, any updates?
What has happened, it's been awhile since you posted your message?
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my ex went away in November and since of this year she is around me alot now i have seen her in a rebound relationship what the advice you would give me towards that coach
She’s probably thinking about swinging to the other person
Does it count as a rebound if he got into the relationship about 2 to 3 months after our breakup? He just started posting tons about her about a month into them dating (4 months after our breakup). It seems out of his character for him to post so much so early on in a relationship, he also face-timed me and mentioned he missed me 2 weeks before I saw him post about her for the first time. Amm I delusional thinking this is a rebound?
Is still a rebound
I’m the rebound but we both knew it and he needed to heal from his wounds. If he heals is there a chance for us? Please respond 💔
There is if he’s doing the work on himself?
@@IamCoachCourt I won’t reach out, I know I’m a good catch and hopefully he sees that once he can love me with no hurt or love he has for his ex
I am the rebound victim, why do this shit even exist. After 5months she suddenly changes n says she needs space and tried loving me lol. This shit hurts crazy my genuine love dnt matter. What m I suppose to do damit.
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So sad cause we start in a big fight then we dont talk for 3 days... Then i've realize i have a mistake then when i say sorry he sad.. Give me space i tried to please him for over 2 days to fix our relationship bu he keeps on saying give me time, space to think... he said I'm lost, confuse, hurt... Give me some space.. Then after a day there is dummy account saying that my boyfriend has a already a girlfriend so i try to ask him a lot of time and he said i dont have, his mom try to confront him ask if there is another girl and he said "no i dont have"...his mom and i try to fix it and he always keeo on saying just give some time, space to think cause i'm lost right now,... I dont know what to if i'm going believe that he keep on saying maybe someday when he heals there is a chance. And it hurts me more cause he give me hope and its killing should i wait for him? Cause i love him so much... I'm scared..😥😭😭 can you give me some advice? Cause i'm stress right now...😭😭
Jennifer Banaag honor his wishes. Giving him space is very important
@@IamCoachCourt do you think he still love me? Do you he has a rebound relationship?😭
Jennifer Banaag that’s tough to answer, ask yourself this question, does it matter if he does or doesn’t?
I can feel it that he still love me.. Cause he still dont change password and cover photos..he said i dont want to change cover photos...😥😭😭 i miss him so much coach but i need to respect him.. I always talk to god whenever i'm upset..
Jennifer Banaag praying for healing!
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What about fearful avoidant
How rebound works with borderlines?
Bpd and those classified as cluster b personality’s rebounds most likely won’t last long either. Unless the other person struggles with mental health as well. Then it’ll become codependent and unhealthy from observation. I’m not a licensed Clinician certified to diagnose
@@IamCoachCourt yes, it's pretty unhealthy situation. My ex is undiagnosed borderline (quiet) and it was like a dancing with sweet, intelligent and beautiful devil. I blocked her everywhere because after breakup she started hoovering me by 4 months in no contact. However I'm a lot better now, after excusting 3,5y trying and trying to make it work. I know I have problem with copedency. My therapist said two weeks ago she's clearly borderline. Now I see it. It's... Sad. I don't want to back to her anymore (it's still battle of heart with brain but mine sanity and dignity is more important). I thought to contact with her rebound if it could be 'something more' to take her to therapist. But if it's something for few weeks or months it's make no sense (she don't listen to me in this moment). I'm a bit terrified. Now she had exams for university, changing city... F&$6ing empathy.;) Thanks
The fact that you’re going to therapy and working on yourself is HUGE and says a lot about your character. Great job man. Men find that hard to do!
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That is good news. But how about if DA gets the rebound? Is he love the rebound.
my DA started following same city girls since the first day I left. but i think he just try to replace me，get me out of his mind.
@@xinzhao1938 rebound style. Hahahha
@@xinzhao1938 sameee
Is it best to stay in no contact until they fail?
Yep
I broke up with my ex of 8 ½ months for the 2nd time... The 1st time was we were 2months together. He rebounded a friend of his bestfriend, the rebound was smart enough to know what was going on and ended the relationship in one week. He came back to me after his rebound said she doesn't wanna be with him... Guess what? he still wanted her even after he got back with me even to this day, a mutual friend of ours said he's trying to talk to her but she keeps avoiding him.... Is this infatuation? obsession? Or what?
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Im a rebound and its hurt for me because she is my first girlfriend and its hard to me
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@@IamCoachCourt can my girlfriend back to me because she ask for cool off because her father have a kidney problems and she's going to the province where her family lieve and she's also pesuing his dream of being a sea woman
But she say to me this when she ask for cool off so I never miss him sorry I can't give you time
Does anyone have any success stories ?
No one will cause there are none people just don't care and move on they don't know how to heal and if they go into another relationship it goes to show you what kind of people they are so consider yourself lucky
you are so telented
Thank you!!!
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How long rebounds lasts?
Few monts tops
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Forever and they don't comeback so stop having hope move on
Of course they do mine married the clown the so called rebound "...
She and i have been together 10yr and have 8,5,and 3years childeren. We broke up 7mth ago and she is already pregnant with another dude 7moth. I am wondering what is going on her mind and why she jumped and be pregnant so quick when she already have tre little children?
Dang, my heart goes out to you and your kids. I hope you are able to find strength and healing.
@@kathleencarosi2343 Thank you so much. I cant find word for what she is did to us. Thank you.
Damn, sorry man... I hope you're OK.
Nope! They’ll use them and Dump them
bruh they just went straight into dating then broke up got back together broke up in few days thats the saddest fkn rebound ever hahha
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Screw rebound it's an excuse.
There’s no excuse for hurting people
You are contradicting yourself. In one of your other videos you have given an example of your own ex girlfriend who rebounded to someone, came back to you after 6 months and, yet, you perceived that she was still in love with that rebound.
Show me the video
My ex couple with someone else :(
My ex know that person for 2 weeks and they be in relationships. On first day they couple my ex give that person an iPhone
How can? How can my ex give that person iphone? How can they be in relationships so fast?
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How can i do no contact to my ex girlfriend and she has a new relationship after we break up 1 week later. We live the same house. We rent the same room. Its hard for me to see her she always chatted her new boyfriend in front of me she always talk how good her new bf and she told me that her body its not mine anymore and belong to her new boyfriend and it hurts. What should i do? Please help me coach. Thank you.
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What if my ex go back to his ex that he used to date for 2 weeks? I am with him for 2 years tho.
Then it sounds like he might be monkey branching. Can’t say for sure without further details.
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