14 Reasons WHY Monkey Branching Relationships ALWAYS FAIL!
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- Опубликовано: 29 май 2024
- In short, Monkey branching is cheating and leaving with the new person.
It refers to the behavior where someone in a relationship starts looking for a new partner while still being in their current relationship, transitioning to the new partner before fully ending the current relationship.
Here are several reasons why monkey branching relationships will ALWAYS fail:
1:26 1. Bypassing the grief process
2:50 2. Commitment Phobia
- Fear of Long-term Commitment: Individuals who monkey branch have a fear of commitment, making it difficult for them to sustain any relationship long-term.
- Avoidance of Intimacy: They might avoid true intimacy, preferring the excitement of new relationships over the work required to maintain a long-term partnership.
3:42 3. Communication Problems
- Poor Communication Skills: Those who engage in monkey branching did not have developed strong communication skills, relying instead on escape and avoidance rather than addressing issues within the relationship.
- Conflict Avoidance: Avoiding conflicts and not dealing with problems in the current relationship will lead to unresolved issues being carried into the new relationship.
5:14 4. Emotional Dependence
- Need for Constant Validation: Individuals who monkey branch will be dependent on external validation and the excitement of a new relationship, which is unsustainable in the long run.
- Lack of Independence: They struggle with being alone, leading to a pattern of seeking relationships not out of love but out of a fear of being alone.
7:01 5. Getting into a relationship before getting to know the partner
7:56 6. Impact on Future Relationships
- Cyclical Behavior: The habit of monkey branching can become a cyclical pattern, making it difficult for the individual to break free and develop healthy, stable relationships.
9:24 7. Social and Ethical Consequences
- Reputation Damage: Constantly jumping from one relationship to another will harm an individual's reputation and social standing, leading to social isolation or judgment from peers.
- Ethical Considerations: The ethical implications of hurting others by not ending relationships properly can weigh heavily on one's conscience, affecting mental and emotional well-being.
10:13 8. Psychological Effects
- Mental Health Impact: The stress of juggling multiple relationships or the anxiety of being caught can have detrimental effects on mental health.
10:53 9. Lack of Genuine Connection
- Superficial Relationships: Relationships initiated through monkey branching might lack depth and genuine connection, as they are often based on physical attraction or the excitement of something new rather than a deep, emotional bond.
11:28 10. Emotional Unavailability
11:40 11. Unresolved Issues
- Repeating Patterns: The issues that led to dissatisfaction in the previous relationship are likely to come back if they are not addressed. Without personal growth and self-reflection, these problems will resurface in the new relationship.
11:53 12. Psychological displacement
This could be things like:
- moving in together fast
-going on vacation
- post pictures on social media
- Introducing them to the family
12:26 13. Too many expectations of the relationship (getting married…)
12:53 14. Lack of Trust
13:35 In conclusion, monkey branching relationships will ALWYAS fail due to a combination of trust issues, emotional unavailability, poor communication skills, and unresolved personal issues. These factors create a shaky foundation that makes it impossible to build a stable, healthy, and lasting relationship.
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This video is right on time. It is EXACTLY what I have been going through the last 4 months. Everything you are explaining sounds like my anxious ex, and now it’s the breadcrumbs, which is even worse. I have to temper my own anger, hurt, and grief with compassion towards her and her mental challenges.
Not only did they monkey branch but intentionally tried to take their guilt out on me online by smearing my name and trying to get me to react. I couldn’t understand why she was so mad at me when she broke up with me and was cheating and left me for that person. I also saw them a year later out and saw how skinny they looked. Looked like depression to me
Yo same! With her for 6 years.. share a kid .. she got SOO skinny and always looks miserable
Going thru that right now
This is a behavior pattern of people with Borderline Personality Disorder
Same happened to me after 10 years
@@matthewkeim mine got skinny as well. i met her when she was curvy. theyre looking for the next sucker is why.
Currently living through this 😞 my heart is broken I miss my husband so much.💔
It gets better....just put it in JESUS hands. I missed my wife but now I realize she wasn't the one for me. God has someone better for me. Have faith.
I'm so sorry 😔 I am going through the same thing currently and I am destroyed and I miss my husband also 💔
If they left you .. they never truly loved you
You're not alone. I'm struggling with this as well.
@ricardocamara1602 probably don't even know whatlive is.... limerence = chasing the butterflies
Your videos on monkey branching are incredibly detailed! Thank you Paz!!
Thumbs up 👍 your information is good and your heart is in the right place. I’ve been monkey branched 3 times. I think this is just the default way women break up.
They constantly have men around they are talking to but the moment you’re no longer her best perceived option becomes the moment she starts swinging
Just thought I’d update, after almost 3 weeks mine reached out asking if I was free to chat and wishing me happy birthday for my birthday yet to come. I just ‘liked’ her comment.
I was never rich but was just used and replaced. And he gave me false hope before the ghosting
The video that I needed. Thank you Paz. You're the best !
Girl here, my ex monkey branched co-worker we both knew. We've been 10 years together. I thought he was my forever man but never asked me to marry, red flag. I wish I knew this back then. He was my best friend, I thought. He made her pregnant while still living with me and dared to invite her to my apartment to show off 🤯 to be honest I don't know for how long he was 'cleaning her chimney' but it's no longer my concern. It happened in 2021.What type of a man he is to do something like this and last day he sees you and tell you that he did it as revenge because I was talking to other man and couldn't come back to our home country and used my insecurities against me. 😔 This was like being hit by a train. He still lives with that woman so don't tell me those relationships always fail. I wanted to end myself, people were saying that time heals so I thought I was healed from it but after 2 years I met someone new and after this discard whole trauma came back doublepowered and it was one time too much. Something died inside me but I ended up in recovery (not for substances use). So one benefit of those two experiences is I'm seriously healing now🙏 Thanks for this video anyway.
just soooo helpful❤
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8 years has gone by since my ex husband cheated and left me and he STILL hasn’t spoken to me not even about our children. GUILT.
My ex and his monkey branch are still together 8 yrs later. She left her fiancé for my ex, she is half his age. I bet it’s lasting because neither wants communication, or emotional support, closeness. She is so young she probably don’t know what a healthy relationship is. They do look happy, cuz it’s all fun, and avoid the tough stuff.
Man point 13. Too many expectations... really sounds fu..ed up. That's the most unhealthy thing.
My ex wife monkey branched and living with this guy a month after we separated. I hope she realize what she did and I don’t want to sound hateful or mean I hope she struggles.
Man mine did the same but they don’t live together I don’t think, he has 2 kids and was abusive to his ex 🤣🤣I hope she struggles
What about someone she knew as a kid but never close as adults but just knew each other and were attracted to each other? This is what my ex did. Broke up with me and jumped straight into another relationship with this guy. Engaged to him on. 4 months after a 4 yr relationship with me. Went on a date with him the same week we broke up. In 6 months of dating will be married.
I wanted her so bad. Now that I'm trying to move on. She comes back, after things didn't work out with her new dude. Idk how to feel. I want my family back but I can't stop thinking what she was doing behind my back.
Updates ?
Did you go to her now? Remember she put you as a backup plan.. whn she brokeup with you behind you she was enjoying sleeping with someone else while he was just for sex with her nothing serious and she relaize that she lost a loyal and responsible man like you. Dont take her back bro
Trust me once a cheater always a cheater. It’s a character flaw. If you take her back she will cheat again! ruclips.net/video/9rf35fXD7bo/видео.htmlsi=_ZF6x0ZosKMlK9-x
i quietly sit back and watch the ex get wrecked becuase we were married 15 years, she discarded, went hot/cold for the last 6 months only to find out she was seeing another man already-whom she introduced to the grandkids 1 month into her rebound..meanwhile i spend time healing myself and not about to get back with her-that train wreck will impressive
Mine monkey branched to a co worker. They been together a year now. Guess some do work
She known her monkey branched for 10 years they been together 5 month and now introduced my kids to him … I’m trying to get her back I was in a rut she got scared never talked about it she avoids feelings always have 12 years of no talking about them , it’s never bothered me until she didn’t tell me when something was wrong, she would never of strayed if I was at my best we have kids as I say and I won’t leave family so I hope this ends tbh, I’m not treating her any different than I did this doesn’t bother me really what does bother me is the thought of losing her and the family, I speak to her every day because iv got kids she still has feelings for me iv never treat her badly but I didn’t treat her right either but she has seen my changes that’s all I can do and she said iv changed everything I needed to, she isn’t toxic I see nothing wrong with her personality rather than speaking she ran, but I won’t become in that rut again and I know we can be happy for years to come, better your self so they want to come back they ran from the old you just become better than your old self I’m hoping that gets me the end goal of family back together if not then my changes will have to be for the next woman but I’m hoping it doesn’t come to that, I have no anger towards her never have even when I found messages asked how she was feeling you have to put your self in their shoes it’s not easy to run from your kids and family it took guts to do that then moving out in her own place and taking the kids, I just hope she realises the grass isn’t greener my love is real for her and the kids and iv changed massively since she didn’t talk about feelings nor did I 😂
Broke up 7 months ago, now she’s dating the guy she was talking to during the relationship. Lived together for 4 years and raised 2 kids together. Is that still considered monkey branching?
It’s monkey branching.
She monkey brnchee to me fell in love with her nd eventually she left me I feel she either is gonna stay single like she claims , go back to her husband (kids dad ) or meet someone new
My ex FA monkey branched to another after a four-year mostly good relationship with me. He wanted to " see where it goes " and be friends with me at the same time. Nope. I let him go without tears or drama. NC forever for me. I am mostly secure with a few avoidance tendencies myself. I like my space; once a week is enough for me. I kept my own.life, family, and friends. The new love possibly has emotional problems and was aided by her family from what he told me. I wish him well. Nine months later, I am healing very well, and moving on. Much happier now. I do watch these videos since they are educational and helpful.
My fiance monkey branch on me and to be honest since she left doors as been opening for me am more happy than sad tbh them leaving can sometimes be a blessings
My ex monkey brached to another guy and after 5 months get married with him. Does it mean I lose, and they won?
Yes. Unfortunately. Living Sucks.
@@neodistinct Thanks. I asked Paz, not you unfortunately.
I understand that you might feel like you have lost and day one, but the truth of the matter is that they lost a new one because this relationship will not last due to the fact that it is based on a lie!
When we get divorced, and you will be happily married, you will realize that you are the winner .
@@GoebiowskiHardRockBand-ns9ru you are welcome
I have a story of 2 people who were starting a relationship from scratch and they got married after 4 months, they didnt last a year. Now what will happen with a relationship that starts from cheating? Dont base your decision of things that you can see(social media), because what they share the best part of the relationship, but the real life stays with them and it will take its toll.
I think you have just described a rebound relationship. Not monkey branching.