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Coach Paz Goldman
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I'm Coach Paz, your guide to navigating the complex world of relationships and healing after breakups.
Here, we delve deep into the emotional and psychological aspects of love, loss, and recovery. Whether you're reeling from a recent breakup, dealing with the pain of being ghosted, or curious about the dynamics of rebound and monkey-branching relationships, you're in the right place.
This channel is more than just advice; it's a community of support and empowerment. I believe in the power of resilience and the human spirit's ability to rise from the ashes, just like a phoenix. Each video is crafted with care, drawing from my breakup coach experience to provide practical tips, heartfelt insights, and strategies to help you heal and thrive.
Let's embark on this transformative journey together. You deserve to feel whole again, and I'm here to help you every step of the way!
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Staying friends with your EX'S family Can be a HUGE MISTAKE!
Making the decision whether we should stay friends with your exes family or not can be a very challenging decision to make in this video you will find out the answer for yourself!
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LET GO Of the SHAME & SELF BLAME After Your Ex Cheated Or Monkey Branched
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It's time to let go of the Shaman Self-blame after your ex cheated on monkey branched on you! ☟ ☟ ☟ ☟ ☟ BOOK A CALL WITH COACH PAZ: 🗣️ Are you feeling stuck and in need of guidance? Look no further than Coach Paz. With a 1-on-1 session, you'll gain instant relief, clarity, and life-changing advice. Don't wait to take control of your life - book your session today and start your journey towards ...
The Monkey Brancher Exposed: How Dissociative Identity Disorder Shapes Their Behavior
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Discover the shocking truth behind monkey branching and how it’s connected to Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). In this eye-opening video, we reveal how individuals with DID can manipulate relationships and why understanding this disorder is crucial for your emotional well-being. 🧠 What is Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID)? Learn about this complex mental health condition where individua...
The Eye-Opening Truth About The Karma Of The Cheaters & Monkey Branchers!
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Welcome to today’s video where we delve into the fascinating world of karma and its impact on cheaters and monkey branchers. We’ll uncover how cheating and monkey branching lead to unavoidable karmic consequences and why understanding this can transform your healing journey. 🔍 What You’ll Learn: * Definition of Karma: Discover how our actions, whether good or bad, shape our future. * Consequenc...
Why 99% of Relationships FAIL! 6 Shocking Reasons (You Won't Believe #2!)
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Are you wondering why so many relationships end in heartbreak? 🤔 Discover the 6 surprising reasons why 99% of relationships fail and learn what you can do to avoid these pitfalls! In this eye-opening video, we break down: 1. Committing Less Than a Year: Why rushing into commitment can be a red flag. 1. Moving In Too Fast: The hidden dangers of cohabitation too soon. 1. General Life Dissatisfact...
🚨 What Your PARTNER Really Means When They Say They Want a ‘BREAK’ 😱💔
Просмотров 61514 дней назад
When your partner asks for a break, it is a sign that they are unable to work on the problems in the relationship and are likely preparing for a breakup. 1. 00:00 😱 When your partner says they want a break, it's a sign they want to break up but can't communicate it. 2. 00:53 🚨 If your partner wants a break, it means they are unable to work on the problems in the relationship and are growing apa...
10 REASONS Why YOU Should NEVER Take Your Ex Back After Rebound or Monkey Branching
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Are you considering taking your ex back after they've been with someone else? Think again! In this eye-opening video, we dive into why reuniting with an ex who has moved on is a decision you'll regret. From broken trust to undermining your self-worth, we cover the top 10 reasons why moving on is your best choice for a healthier, happier future. In this video, you'll discover: * Why resentment w...
When Will Your Ex Come Back? 8 Key Factors You MUST Know!
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When Will Your Ex Come Back? 8 Key Factors You MUST Know!
11 Questions to Ask Before Taking an Ex Back: Essential Tips for Making the Right Decision!
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11 Questions to Ask Before Taking an Ex Back: Essential Tips for Making the Right Decision!
How to Re-Attract Your EX: 5 Essential Rules You MUST to Know
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How to Re-Attract Your EX: 5 Essential Rules You MUST to Know
Breaking Free from the 'What Ifs': How to Heal After a Breakup
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Breaking Free from the 'What Ifs': How to Heal After a Breakup
How to deal with the Jealousy, Anger, and the need for revenge after your ex-monkey-branched!
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How to deal with the Jealousy, Anger, and the need for revenge after your ex-monkey-branched!
Healing Your Broken Heart: Guided Meditation for Emotional Recovery | Instant Relief (NO ADS)
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Healing Your Broken Heart: Guided Meditation for Emotional Recovery | Instant Relief (NO ADS)
This Is WHY YOUR EX is Still With The REBOUND! (not for long)
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This Is WHY YOUR EX is Still With The REBOUND! (not for long)
YOU MUST WATCH THIS To Understand How To Heal Your EX Monkey Branch
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YOU MUST WATCH THIS To Understand How To Heal Your EX Monkey Branch
Do's & Don't When a MONKEY BRANCHING EX Come BACK!
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Do's & Don't When a MONKEY BRANCHING EX Come BACK!
YOUR ONE & ONLY RESPONSE For When Your Partner Want To Break Up!
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YOUR ONE & ONLY RESPONSE For When Your Partner Want To Break Up!
When to Break NO CONTACT: Essential Guidelines
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When to Break NO CONTACT: Essential Guidelines
Inside the Mind of a Monkey Brancher: What They Say & Why
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Inside the Mind of a Monkey Brancher: What They Say & Why
The Psychology Behind Rebound Relationships: Why Do They Jump So Fast?
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The Psychology Behind Rebound Relationships: Why Do They Jump So Fast?
Energy Shift EXPLAINED! | Why Your Ex Comes Back When You Move On!!!
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Energy Shift EXPLAINED! | Why Your Ex Comes Back When You Move On!!!
What to do when a DUMPER comes back and leave AGAIN!
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What to do when a DUMPER comes back and leave AGAIN!
How to MOVE ON & Focus On Yourself After a Breakup | Healing & Self-Growth Strategies
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How to MOVE ON & Focus On Yourself After a Breakup | Healing & Self-Growth Strategies
How to Start Dating Again After a Breakup | What to expect & HOW to do this RIGHT!
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How to Start Dating Again After a Breakup | What to expect & HOW to do this RIGHT!
Will My Ex Miss Me? Understanding Their Thoughts After a Breakup
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Will My Ex Miss Me? Understanding Their Thoughts After a Breakup
When Is It Okay to Take an Ex Back? Key Signs to Look For
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When Is It Okay to Take an Ex Back? Key Signs to Look For
Dumpers' Remorse In a Monkey Branching Relationships
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Dumpers' Remorse In a Monkey Branching Relationships
The Power of Forgiveness: Essential Steps for Healing and Personal Growth After a Breakup
Просмотров 766Месяц назад
The Power of Forgiveness: Essential Steps for Healing and Personal Growth After a Breakup
Healthy vs. Toxic Relationships: Are You in the Right One? Discover the Signs!
Просмотров 498Месяц назад
Healthy vs. Toxic Relationships: Are You in the Right One? Discover the Signs!
11 NOT-SO-OBVIOUS RED FLAGS IN A RELATIONSHIP You Shouldn’t Ignore! 🚩
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11 NOT-SO-OBVIOUS RED FLAGS IN A RELATIONSHIP You Shouldn’t Ignore! 🚩
My ex of 14 years cheated and left me for a known meth head. And married him 4 months later. I've never heard a word from her
I took my ex back after she cheated and after 10yrs she cheated on me again and kissed cuddled me had sex the night before she told me how much she loved me and can't wait to marry me then i came home to empty house she left me and destroyed me. I can't move on because i now hate her and its taking over my life cos i want revenge for hurting me like that.
this video came exactly at the right time Paz 💪
my ex gave me no chance ~ she basically ensured her family cut me off. looking back, it was probably a good thing. I was hurt because her identical twin and I were also close friends. I’m almost certain that my ex cheated. My heart is healing. Hare Krishna. ☀️🏄♂️💦🙏🏼🧘♂️🧡🇦🇺
Yes mine did it too she bad mouthed me to her family and they started to believe I was not good for her.
Don't be that person that keeps in touch with the ex's friends or family in hopes of getting them back
@@dt8427 Yes exactly!!!
What does it mean when the ex has the new woman call him a pet name that I gave him? I thought it was odd that she would agree to call him a name that I made up for him.
God bless you for being vulnerable on your breakup journey it has really empowered me. I can identify with all the confusion of love and hate at the same time. And everything you described of the back and forth of the grieving process helped me understand that it is just a process you must go through and it's not linear!. You gave me so much hope!! It is a true blessing that my ex-husband is my greatest coach to finding my value! I, too, have an anxious attachment style from the grooming of 2 narcissistic parents into codependency. Your healing journey video helps me grieve the death of self to allow the strongest potential of "ME" I can ever be. Thank you!, thank you!, thank you! I go to therapy and AA, which has really been a true blessing. I now feel like another piece of the puzzle has been added to complete the puzzle into peace instead of chaos of the broken pieces of my inner being❤❤❤
An ex of mine monkeybranched to a guy who weighed 400lb. She was terrified of being abandoned because her parents pretty much abandoned her after they divorced and met new partners. This caused her to try manipulate me in various ways + behave hyper possessive - to the point she was sneaking into my workplace and eavesdropping on my conversations. She started new job… a couple of weeks in she left me a Dear John, but tried to get back with me a month later, only I’d already did my homework and found out she left me for this morbidly obese coworker. She denied it until she was blue in the face - even saying the guy was fat, girly, ugly, etc, but she was with him and moved in with him. Getting with such an unsightly guy was the only way she could feel secure that she wouldn’t be abandoned because no one else wanted him, therefore she felt safe that she’d always have someone there for her. Fast forward 15 years… his mother is terminally ill, she monkey branches on him with another morbidly obese, effeminate man. This girl BTW was a stunner in her day, she looked like a prettier blue eyed version of Britney Spears, and could have had her pick, but she was so damaged she felt totally worthless, and felt a 400lb man, she found repulsive, was her only option. Anyhow, what this taught me… any woman who is extremely possessive has abandonment issues, meaning they cannot be alone (hence needing you there all the time). When you start challenging their possessive behaviour, they’ll start freaking out that you will abandon them, that’s when they’ll start looking for a more secure replacement, then they’ll monkey branch without a second thought. It’s all about escaping abandonment anxiety - not about you. The truth is, they never really cared about you.
Sounds like a female dismissive avoidant. Experienced this first hand and saw the personality switches. It was like I was tom cruise I'm the movie edge of tomorrow and she was Emily blunt. Every time I saw her in person it was like I had to start again as if it was day one week one. One of the strangest experiences of my life, until the relationship hit the peak after 3-4 months (she started to fall in love with me) and then she all of a sudden went back to her ex out of nowhere. Luckily I'm very experienced with avoidant women and knew it was going to come at some point. Ya man it's a crazy world out there hahaha.
I disagree. I and several of my friends took back our exes months or years after they left and got into another relationship. They saw the grass wasn't greener and fought to get us back and we all ended up marrying them 🤷♀️ During the separation we had dated other men as well. Sometimes people don't know what they've lost til it's gone. People grow through learning lessons. You don't know what you don't know and by closing doors and not working through issues together you could be depriving yourself of an even deeper connection than you would ever get with someone new
@@creatureofstyle If you’re so happily married, WHY you are watching this kind of videos???
@@PazGoldmanOfficial I was married for 15 happy years. I am no longer married and am starting to date again in this completely unrecognizable dating culture I've experienced this one chance mentality where I was discarded for not immefiately getting everything exactly right and perfect by the first man I dated (after I had not dated for 18 years, which he knew). There were extenuating circumstances that could have easily been worked out with some communication but he decided to ghost me instead and just go find a new girlfriend despite the fact that we had extremely high compatibility and chemistry, which in my experience is rare I'm sure his new girl will end up being discarded too, and the cycle will continue even though he says he wants to get married and have kids, and I'm left wondering what the point of dating is if this is how people relate to each other now When I dated before I was married the goal was to stay together, not throw each other away at the first sign of a minor inconvenience
2 Timothy 3-5: 3 You should know this, Timothy, that in the last days there will be very difficult times. 2 For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred. 3 They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good. 4 They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God. 5 They will act religious, but they will reject the power that could make them holy. Stay away from people like that!
Wow!!! You are so beautiful inside & out!!!!! Amazing human being💗
Never take a cheat back & never be afraid to walk away- something better will always come….💯
thanks man! you are honest and straight!
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yes ur right.....i almost want to exit but i believed on repair...yet this happened...
Best videos no BS straight honesty,no sugar coating ❤❤love ❤❤
Great video all words you said…You nailed it to the tee
Wisdom ❤thank you
I have heard that a woman will check out from a relationship long back before the break up and then move to the new relationship with a person they know. My ex did this and is enjoying their relationship. Wont it work because she doesn't have any feelings for me? Especially with a co worker who is near her unlike me who was doing long distance for 7 years.
I am into 3 months of a 7 year long distance relationship where she is in a relationship with one of her co-workers and i am still in the same stupid stage as the day she dumped me and got to know she is with someone else.
This is keeping it real…straight up Thanks for the honesty
I wanted to leave so many times and l did but he kept coming back every time and l took him back thinking he changed only to find out he got worse 😢 lm out and on my own.
Thank you.
Sadly I have to figure out what I’m paying karma for. This is the third man who has cheated. I can only think it’s karma to myself giving so many chances to people who didn’t deserve it. Other than I must’ve been quite cruel in a past life.
Love you Paz
@@batemen258 I love you too my dear friend 🙏🏽🤍
I don't understand why sleeping with her exes is acceptable, but sleeping with a rebound is not. I don't see a difference. Change my mind
Who said it’s okay?! I’m with you, it’s NOT!
I’ll never have compassion for her has knowingly did it multiple times.
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🪬 Yup 🪬
our EGO ~ especially as a man. as Tate says; breakup hits a man harder, because a woman (especially in todays digital world), has instant abundance of options straight away. Be strong ~ male ~ female or non binary types; listen to Coach Paz. ✌🏽😎🇦🇺☀️🏄♂️🏄♂️🏄♂️💦🌟🎶
great content Paz ~ ✌🏽😎🇦🇺☀️🏄♂️💦 after the abrupt ending; I went straight into survivor mode. took my a** to the gym (which I do anyway); every single day and trained more intensely; hung with my mates and got busy with my hobbies. .. and then BANG … it hit me hard (some would label it post trauma). went through the rollercoaster of emotions; lack of sleep and all that stuff. 11 year relationship, so 18 months on; life is definitely getting better, but now and again, those feelings sneak up like an SAS soldier behind enemy lines 🤫. I haven’t moved on (no dating apps ~ I’m an analogue guy living in a digital world). Like Diamond Dave sang in ~ Big Train ~ ; “always another train pulling into that station; and I’ll be smiling again..” Such is Life.
Let me ask you Paz. First, amazing and helpful video. Second of all, I was with my ex for 3 years, everything was perfect and she blindsided me 5 months ago. Later on, I learned she’s with another guy (2 months after the breakup). A bit further, I learned that she was with that guy 1 month before she dumped me. She was lying to him and me on the same time. I went to get a closure from her, she told me all those lies that ‘you never know, in the future we might end up together’ and ‘I don’t want you to go’, etc… while she was with the other guy! Obviously she wanted to have me as a backup, because deep inside she know she’ll never find somebody who’s as loving to her and courageous in our adventure. Damn, we used to do so many activities together… Anyway. She’s been lying to him about me, and I learned that when we met for our closure, he stalked on her and saw us together, therefore, he knows he’s been lied to by her as well. However, they’re still together. I’m sure if it’s not toxic now, it will get toxic, because on their first argument the guy will be like ‘you’ve been lying to me from the beginning anyway’. I’m not saying, I’m in a very good stage of processing. I had very harsh moments, and I also so your documentary so I can relate, but I experienced far more pain and depression. Like, suicidical thoughts? Idk how I got over them. They were there for 2 months at least. I was crying every single day for 4 months. Now, I cry around 3 times per week. It still kills me that they’re together. Is there a chance they are going to stay together? I know I shouldn’t care, and trust me, I care much less than I used to, but it’s still unfair that I’ve been experiencing all these difficulties and she didn’t feel a single thing… she skipped all the pain. Her sister told me (when I found out) that she’s been trying to find me inside that guy. She’s been trying to get him involved in the activities we used to do, replace me in the family etc. Do you think there’s a chance for this to be healthy? He’s also a guy from her work, senior at her department. He’s 30, she’s 23, I’m 25. Not being selfish, he has a good life as far as I know, but he didn’t do half the shit I’ve done and neither experienced quarter of the difficulties I’ve been through. Idk it just messes me up
She went out with her coworker to a movie and they kissed but only remained " friends" which she keeps vomiting to me even in the last 2 page.email she wrote me. I put up with this from February until July, after 3 years together. Now i dont even answer her texts, email or anything. She kept trying throughout July and a bit in August. My answer , unlike it was always before: complete silence.
I rebounded off my four year toxic relationship, and of course it didn’t work out! lol, I made a lot “too perfect, too easy” oops, I got obsessed over his rejection and some weeks or a month later he got with someone else. But it was never meant to be
Heartbreak sucks , people deal with it differently, for me it’s a hole in the pit of my stomach especially if they moved on with someone else , can’t sleep , overthinking the past , blaming yourself. what you could of did differently,not eating, dreams of her ,jealousy, bitterness, loneliness the killer of them all , May God heal the broken hearted, remember time heals all but for love loss time moves slow , go out and cry get some sunshine, seek therapy, hit the gym , take vitamins and appreciate the things in life , it always can be worse go visit a children’s hospital and see the real much harder reality and you will start to realize you have another chance these poor kids some don’t and pray for them ❤
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I like the fact you describe them as identity crisis and multiple personality disorder people they don't know who they are and can't control their behaviors. Everything is programed in their subconscious mind from childhood. Everything that triggers them and their unhealthy coping mechanism switch turns on. Whether is cheating, doing substance abuse or being workaholic. My ex was avoidant did all of those things to me including cheating and pretty much traumatized me.
this behavior all applies to dismissive and fearful avoidance attachment disorder.
Forgiveness 😊
Agree 100% .Thank you !
Wisdom
My ex monkey branched on me and then got ghosted by that guy. Now she’s all over dating apps. It’s sad. I wish she would wake tf up.
The spiritual connection part is true- we were together over 20 years! Felt inseparable. After the affair and the horrible behavior and things she did to hurt us no matter how hard or what I did to try to save our marriage and fix it nothing worked. Once sleeping under same roof same bed and living together to strangers it’s so sad