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Thank You.....Rebound Person
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
- In this video, Coach Courtney Gatlin talks about why the rebound person gave you a gift.
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3.5 months nc after a 9yr relationship. I got dumped. Hardly ever argued. He went into a rebound after approx 1 month of nc. Totally selfish Avoidant with Narc traits. Everyone loves him...except my family and friends of course, they see thro him.
Still hurts like hell to see them on fb, arms around each other, him wearing the clothes and jewellery I bought him. Half of me is glad I no longer have an Avoidant in my life, half of me craves for the laughs and good times. It's so so painful
Praying for healing for you!
I had a similar situation, praying for healing for you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He’ll be back focus on yourself !
@@ariusfullilove4901 I've said this all along. I'll def hear off him again. We live too far apart tho to get back together, and besides, I don't want him back. Its been 4 months of nc now. Hes still with her & she's welcome to him, all he is to me now is damaged/used goods!
I'm doing alright being single, getting on with my life and no one to answer to! 😉
@@lizp637 my ex gf left me in 2 1/2 months after a 2 1/2 year relationship, rebounded and blocked me and my family on everything. A part of me thinks I’ll never hear from her again, but a huge part does… I made my mistakes, but I know deep down she knows I meant well and that I acknowledge what I did wrong. Idk how I’m going to act when she does eventually come back around though. I feel betrayed.
i was stupid enough to ignore my exe's red flags, anger issues, never takes accountability, talks shit about everyone, rebounds from relationship to relationship, wanted to rush the relationship. She was not a mistake, she was a learning experience. Never ignore red flags and takes things slow.
Same with mine, jumping from one to another.... drinking a lot...
Those are a lot of things to ignore but I bet you thought you could love her out of it
@@IamCoachCourt unfortunately yes, I won't do that again though. I picked up on the red flags later on and I began distancing myself from her and eventually I was going to leave her and I felt terrible for it. I think she knew I was having second thoughs so she broke up with me and jumped into a rebound and posted about it on social media like no tomorrow.
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Did we date the same person haha
Why relationships end:
1. Criticism
2. Defensiveness
3. Stonewalling
4. Contempt
Thank you!
Or Narcissist Cheating
4 yrs of nc.Mine was 8 yr relationship.I caught him cheating on me with his collegue. He begged me to take him back,but a cheater is always a cheater and i don't want him back at any cost.At present i'm focussing on my career and got a better friend circle,better health and peace.Though i'm over him i watch mr.courts and others videos about relationships and psychology to cut off any unworthy people in intial stages and to upgrade my awareness in this changing world.I always believe when something got removed from life god will replace it with best things.keep rocking Mr.court.I appreciate your work 👏👏
The world is FOR SURE changing. We’re looking for unicorns these days!
My soon to be ex husband cheated on me with another married woman, they both wanted to divorce their spouses to be with eachother. They moved in with eachother a month and a half into being in their relationship. Moving from one relationship straight to the next especially by cheating is toxic, unhealthy and typically doesn’t last. While I feel my husband will regret what he did, I should so thank you to the affair because it forced me to want a better man.
Indeed!
9 years married, 19 years together. I left him September 2019, filed for divorce. We reconciled January, 2020. I found out all kinds of things about his character, and things he did during our separation. COVID hit. I felt stuck, as it seemed the world was going crazy. Nothing seemed normal. I stayed for two years after the reconciliation, worst mistake ever. I had zero trust after finding out he rebounded the day after I left...with two women. I didn't believe anything he said, and began to really despise him. I had zero respect for him. Fast-forward to 2022. I left for the final time, and will NEVER reunite. He rebounded again right before I left. I think the worst part is he doesn't realize the emotional damage he's caused. He can't see beyond his own needs. I feel bad for him because he's exhibiting serious mental illness traits. On my end, I have to get therapy to help clear my thoughts ...a narcistic bond plays tricks on your mind. You can't trust anything, anyone and sometimes, not even yourself.
@Amina Isah no, please, I don't want it restored. I wish him the best, but I'm done, done with the relationship.
Well you divorced and left him anything he did after that wasn't your concern. Now if he did it while you were together that's different,
@@mmosley8492 true, I don't recall stating what happened after I left was my concern. Matter of fact, I couldn't care less. I spoke of my experience. He's on his own living with his own demons. I pray for him. He still calls my family talking about how he loves me. He is confused, not in love with me. I prayed that energy away long ago. He needs to heal, in a big way.
My story exactly 💯 %. Wow.
I have watch a lot of your videos never comment until now. You are doing a great job please keep these videos coming Thank you
Trying to get better everyday Tracey, thank you for commenting. 🙏🏾
I just watched a video of yours 2 years ago and now I'm watching this and I see such a big improvement in the way you present yourself! Love it!
That really means a lot, thank you for this encouraging comment.
thank you from Russia, had hard break up a month ago, now my ex in rebound with my friend
I’m new to your channel I’ve watched a few coaches but think you get it all they say is how to get your ex back.I know I can never go back so doing everything I can to move on so thanks
Thanks for comment Chris, I appreciate it!
We were both toxic at the end of our marriage more because he was being sneaky and being silent it was a emotional roller coaster with him and l was getting anxiety around that person
My ex wife and I have a child together. We divorced back in 2014 got back together in 2016. We dated for 6 more yrs but she wanted to get remarried.
I say no because I started dealing with the same issues that I dealt with before our first divorce. Which happens to be about money. She makes more so she wants to control the relationship.
When we were married she once told me since she makes more money she makes the rules.
So she dumped me 2wks ago, and has started dating. We’re just co-parenting now. She wants to be friends but I can’t do that. I’m definitely crushed.
Now I don't know if I was dealing with a narcissist but it sure felt like it.
Be strong brother. Focus on you . Be there for you child. Take a long step back, find the lesson to be learned and work on some short and long term goals.
Your coaching help me to understand more about the relationship. Because I also begin go thrue this problem. I married for 23 years and my husband just dumped me and getting into rebound relationship. But tru this coaching I follow all this. And my husband started talking to me again. After 👍
That's great to hear!
Thank you for this video coach. God bless
thanks for watching!
Best coach ever❤
You’re too kind. Thank you!
Love the video 🙂
Thanks for always supporting!
@@IamCoachCourt You’re welcome ☺️
It depends, if you’re responsible for the breakup then you need to take responsibility, learn from it and move on.
Oh brotha! I pray you never hit a big bump in the road that knocks you off your square and you need that partner to at least tell you shit is going to work out or buy you groceries!
Oh trust me, I’ve been there
When l just to talk to him he would tell me we always talking then at the end of the marriage he said we couldn’t communicate smh
Coach, had a talk with a friend and we noticed that most relationships nowadays tend to fail....can you make a video talking about the relationship dynamics nowadays and comparing them to relationships from previous generations?
Thx coach
Continue your amazing job
There’s a LOT to unpack there. Thanks for watching Charles.
Please do a video when they go back to someone they cheated on an x of 7 years me 6 year as nothing in line he is now in love he says and wants to get married moved back with her after about 6 weeks I’m doing the work he is running
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Thank you Doreen. I hope that you’re subscribed 🙏🏾
I think I was a rebound and thats really sad :(
It is sad
So sorry💕
People don’t want to work it out go to therapy they just want to jump with different people crazy
Hi. From Wales. 😃
Hi Ceri!
Eula from Louisiana
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Thanks N!
My ex left me for someone he haven’t known a month but I still love him and want him back
Be kind to yourself I feel the same way about my ex gf and same thing happened. Theres a shame that naturally comes with feeling that way. Your feelings arent bad as my therapist says its just about how u handle those feelings that matters. Those feelings just mean your human. I really hope the best outcome for you and myself as well.
Hii sir my ex and I broke up 6 months back after that I begged her a lot but it didn't worked out then I took a 30 day no contact and won a national medal in powerlifting changed my behaviour. We met again on dinner she was seeing someone else. From being an immature person I totally shifted my behaviour to someone mature but we ended up having sex and after that it became more of a friends with benefits situation. Everytime we met she showed me care and she showed interest in me and agreed that I'm a changed man like she always wanted. On our last meeting she even said she still loves me but as a defence mechanism I told her that I don't....then she shifted her statement to that she loves me as a person. I asked her once in between that should we get back to together and she got extremely mad and started fighting like a crazy person. Recently I drunk called her and confessed my feelings that I'm lonely and I miss her in the beginning she consoled me but after some time she got mad and told me she regrets talking with me again and she blocked me on call. I was drunk so I messaged her on WhatsApp and asked her for a normal good bye. She messaged me bye just a single text. I didn't replied to it. She has her birthday on 16 August according to you what should I do? Should I wish her on her bday or should I just go into no contact again? Before this drunk call everything was going good. I hope you will reply soon ❤️