I love what you said, once this person breaks up with you and then start to get physical with someone else, this person is now DIRTY! I don’t want him back. This is the ultimate betrayal…
Yes, it is sucks my dear friend, and this is exactly why you’re educating yourself to make it suck less. Right now you have the right amount of energy and time to heal so take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
The capacity to love means you have a healthy brain that is able to create attachments and teams. For this person, don't try to kill the love, but just love from afar. They are too toxic for you to love beside them. They will slowly break you down, and it's not worth it, know your boundaries, it's your job to protect yourself. I won't obsess about you more I watch flies dance on the floor I can love you without talking Without knowing, without stalking I haven't heard of you for weeks Still it doesn't change a thing
I’m sorry to hear that… I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
6 years together and he has a new gf after 3 weeks. Couldn’t even breakup in person it was through a text and he said “he’s happy.” In gonna be 31 single w no kids and he’s happy in another relationship. This is an unbearable pain.
7 years together, he swung to a new girl less than 2 days. I’m 40 & single, he’s 37 and decent looking. I look young and cute, but men my age look like my uncle 😩. You need someone to talk to? This hurt is on a different level. I’m 4 months post breakup
Im only starting to feel the ease of the pain in my heart after 5 months. I didnt see the breakups comming . We wrte 08 years together .he was the most beautiful kind giving generous man i ever knew. .we has a pure soul connection . I still have lots of love for him but the heartache is easing I see a lot of my own contribution during these monts of reflection ❤ ❤❤
It happened to me. 6 years in, helped her with her career, took her children in like they was mines, and in one week she threw it away like it meant nothing. After I moved out, she moved him in the next day. From what people tell me that they stay in arguments. That shows that rebound relationships never work. But her jumping into a fast relationship wasnt pain for me, it was a relief to know that she wasnt the one for me.
I noticed when I step back and watch my and others break ups when they end by betrayal I see the patterns he is discussing and this person will go on and on in this same pattern.I have seen it over and over again
I hope my ex returns to me from her rebound. She was my first actual love, and if you know anything about men, we never forget our first love. If she doesn't come back I'm staying single forever because it's unfair for a woman to marry me while i still love my ex. Even if she's okay with it, my integrity just wouldn't let me. I'm praying to god everyday she returns. 💔
@@golf1diesel i know. I think i accepted my fate and I'm staying single. I don't want to go through this pain anymore. I'm just going to focus on myself
Hey man any updates 3 weeks later? I’m just starting the cycle rn I will love her forever but I’m disgusted w her actions I have too much dignity to take her back ever again. There are plenty and plenty of women out there. Find one that makes u work for the kitty, because that is someone who values themself which will make them value you too❤️
i prey and hope you are right in everything you saying, curse holy shit it hurt when you still love them, and they jump into a new relationship.. rebound or not, you can never be 100% sure i feel like.. but thanks for your wisdom friend. :)
After careful consideration, l have decided to follow your advice to not focus on getting my ex back, but instead concentrate on moving on and completely healing. Could you please do a video on healing. Thanks for all your work.
I have made many videos on healing in my channel but I’ll make more for you! In the meantime check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
For sure, my dear friend thank you for watching. I’m always here for you so please let me know if you have any question or video suggestions sending love and healing to your heart. 🙏🏽🤍
I messed up and took mine back . As remorseful as she was and repentful as she remains about her rebound that turned so toxic, it left her at 80 lbs about to turn over within 2 years that relationshipwas so bad it was on and off. . Naturally i didnt want her to die and she started proving herself immediately however 7 years later and two kids in with our own place , even though shes never did anything else i feel like i played myself by taking her back. I literally came back into her life and upgraded her in every way while her reboubd was a complete downgrade all the way around ( which she feels stipid asf about in retrospect because no other woman wants him even after all of this time. I broke up with her, ( momentarily) and she said she doesn't want anyone else, especially her rebound. But 2 years of experience with another man moving on so fast irks me. Like i played myself being blindsided by her health and that we were together 4 years and knew each other growing up liking each other since the 1rst grade a long with a gang of shh i did to her the 1rst time around. Shes completely moved on from her rebound however i still cant trust her. To me shes tainted and its not the same. Im sad that im just realizing this so far in this second time around. Its fked up because im literally in the position to exact my revenge but whats that going to do to our kids and shell definitely break and i dont want to stoop to her level but mannnn its hard. Doesnt help that my wife is prevy to other women lusting after me. This is hard im battling a mental warfare. Love her and forgive her since shes changed also fk that she got me fked up. idk smh Her rebound tried to hit her up she was completely disgusted and blocked him. But still i still yearn for revenge which is messed up
I have yo agree I thought the pain in my heart would never heal, I lost a half stone in weight could not sleep .eat or think It's possible to die of a broken heart . You have to heal and build your self confidence
I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
I was in a relaionship for 5 years, he lied and said he just wanted space and move out. Then cllicked and got him to admit he was in a relaionship and cheating. He loved bombed me. Told me he loved me, then broke up. Begging to be friends. I was in shock. I lost 2 half stone in a month and a half. I am in no contact .he is 40 and he went with a 25 year old. My heart was broken. Still messages me now, asking how i am.do these age gap relationships last?
My heart bleeds for you hearing this. I've been in similar pain before. It is awful but I promise over time it will get better. YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS GUY. Try to reconnect as much as possible with good friends. Lean on them if you need to. Try to eat something filling even if bland a couple of times a day to start with. I ate oatmeal/porridge every day for a month. Try to do some meditation and focus your attention on tasks/work. But ease into these things and you will get there. I educated myself on attachment styles and my own anxious style, of low self worth and still am today, so that next time someone that is healthy for me appears. You deserve better, love! ❤
@@kerriereid8560 unfortunately men love younger women at all times. Why would they have a woman who is the same age and eventually after 42 starts to have no desire to have sex and energy of intimacy. It’s a desire of all men now days the younger the better and most guys now days only looking to get in bed with a same age counterparts and after sex they don’t want the desire to be available with a same age female partner as the younger one would be much fulfilling and more desirable. That’s unfortunate but it’s a reality. I wish you the best as I’m separated for 50 days now and she already on vacation with a new guy that will eventually dump her sooner than later because of her awful attitude and values in life.
It was during covid I want to save money she want to spend money I said this isn't going to work out after I just spent $1,500 on a cat. I worked on myself internally when I bike rides worked out increased my income she she was in a relationship by the time December 2020 rolled around. We broke up in May of 2020.
Do not worry about it , go on your own , it is all it matters! As soon as you start to realise they are gone forever , as soon as you will start again.
@@PazGoldmanOfficial I just want to know in general. How do we actually know if that relationship is a rebound or actually a new relationship, And yes, my ex has a new partner after only 2 months. We wer together for 3.4 years/months and the last 6 months, living together. They are all over social media and my ex even blocked me from everything after seeing their picture on FB. Thanks for responding Paz!
@@aqmendoza52sounds like an actual relationship. My ex boyfriend did this to me 2.5 months ago, too. It hurts like hell. I know how you must be feeling…
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I love what you said, once this person breaks up with you and then start to get physical with someone else, this person is now DIRTY! I don’t want him back. This is the ultimate betrayal…
It sucks when you still love them
Yeah you have no choice but just take it like that dear.
its alright, soon you wont
Yes, it is sucks my dear friend, and this is exactly why you’re educating yourself to make it suck less.
Right now you have the right amount of energy and time to heal so take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
The capacity to love means you have a healthy brain that is able to create attachments and teams.
For this person, don't try to kill the love, but just love from afar. They are too toxic for you to love beside them. They will slowly break you down, and it's not worth it, know your boundaries, it's your job to protect yourself.
I won't obsess about you more
I watch flies dance on the floor
I can love you without talking
Without knowing, without stalking
I haven't heard of you for weeks
Still it doesn't change a thing
Sucks doesn’t even do justice to how it feels
I saw the breakup coming but I was blind with the love I had for her
I trusted him and entrusted my innocence, my laugh and my soul unto him, he disrespected and took me for granted 😢
I’m sorry to hear that… I feel you my friend!
Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
6 years together and he has a new gf after 3 weeks. Couldn’t even breakup in person it was through a text and he said “he’s happy.” In gonna be 31 single w no kids and he’s happy in another relationship. This is an unbearable pain.
You are going to be okay. Don't give up. You are only 31. It's his loss. I promise.
@@cathrynhaggerty can always be worse I’m single and pregnant
7 years together, he swung to a new girl less than 2 days. I’m 40 & single, he’s 37 and decent looking. I look young and cute, but men my age look like my uncle 😩.
You need someone to talk to? This hurt is on a different level. I’m 4 months post breakup
Im only starting to feel the ease of the pain in my heart after 5 months. I didnt see the breakups comming . We wrte 08 years together .he was the most beautiful kind giving generous man i ever knew. .we has a pure soul connection .
I still have lots of love for him but the heartache is easing
I see a lot of my own contribution during these monts of reflection ❤ ❤❤
It happened to me. 6 years in, helped her with her career, took her children in like they was mines, and in one week she threw it away like it meant nothing. After I moved out, she moved him in the next day. From what people tell me that they stay in arguments. That shows that rebound relationships never work. But her jumping into a fast relationship wasnt pain for me, it was a relief to know that she wasnt the one for me.
I noticed when I step back and watch my and others break ups when they end by betrayal I see the patterns he is discussing and this person will go on and on in this same pattern.I have seen it over and over again
Found your video and book on healing, thank you very much.
I hope my ex returns to me from her rebound. She was my first actual love, and if you know anything about men, we never forget our first love. If she doesn't come back I'm staying single forever because it's unfair for a woman to marry me while i still love my ex. Even if she's okay with it, my integrity just wouldn't let me. I'm praying to god everyday she returns. 💔
I feel the same bro
How long where you together for?
Trouble is no woman nowadays would do that for you..
@@moahmad9667 3 years
@@golf1diesel i know. I think i accepted my fate and I'm staying single. I don't want to go through this pain anymore. I'm just going to focus on myself
Hey man any updates 3 weeks later? I’m just starting the cycle rn I will love her forever but I’m disgusted w her actions I have too much dignity to take her back ever again.
There are plenty and plenty of women out there. Find one that makes u work for the kitty, because that is someone who values themself which will make them value you too❤️
i prey and hope you are right in everything you saying, curse holy shit it hurt when you still love them, and they jump into a new relationship.. rebound or not, you can never be 100% sure i feel like.. but thanks for your wisdom friend. :)
I feel your pain, we are strong we will make it. X
After careful consideration, l have decided to follow your advice to not focus on getting my ex back, but instead concentrate on moving on and completely healing. Could you please do a video on healing. Thanks for all your work.
I have made many videos on healing in my channel but I’ll make more for you!
In the meantime check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
Thank you for this valuable information!!👍🏾
For sure, my dear friend thank you for watching. I’m always here for you so please let me know if you have any question or video suggestions sending love and healing to your heart. 🙏🏽🤍
It’s not easy to move on, it’s so painful on my side to be a dumpee. All I want is to be heal and forget about him.
You’re an absolute angel Paz
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Wisdom - thank you.
@@haihai5293 You got it brother 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🤍
@@PazGoldmanOfficial
I’m never going back , I understand that he is not emotionally available and he’s damage will no longer take my energy . I will
Heal
I messed up and took mine back . As remorseful as she was and repentful as she remains about her rebound that turned so toxic, it left her at 80 lbs about to turn over within 2 years that relationshipwas so bad it was on and off. . Naturally i didnt want her to die and she started proving herself immediately however 7 years later and two kids in with our own place , even though shes never did anything else i feel like i played myself by taking her back. I literally came back into her life and upgraded her in every way while her reboubd was a complete downgrade all the way around ( which she feels stipid asf about in retrospect because no other woman wants him even after all of this time. I broke up with her, ( momentarily) and she said she doesn't want anyone else, especially her rebound. But 2 years of experience with another man moving on so fast irks me. Like i played myself being blindsided by her health and that we were together 4 years and knew each other growing up liking each other since the 1rst grade a long with a gang of shh i did to her the 1rst time around. Shes completely moved on from her rebound however i still cant trust her. To me shes tainted and its not the same. Im sad that im just realizing this so far in this second time around. Its fked up because im literally in the position to exact my revenge but whats that going to do to our kids and shell definitely break and i dont want to stoop to her level but mannnn its hard. Doesnt help that my wife is prevy to other women lusting after me. This is hard im battling a mental warfare. Love her and forgive her since shes changed also fk that she got me fked up. idk smh
Her rebound tried to hit her up she was completely disgusted and blocked him. But still i still yearn for revenge which is messed up
I have yo agree I thought the pain in my heart would never heal, I lost a half stone in weight could not sleep .eat or think
It's possible to die of a broken heart . You have to heal and build your self confidence
He moved on after a month. I still haven’t moved on and it’s been over 2.5 months.
I feel you my friend!
Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
Are you latino too? Dude has the best advice on breakups on YT. Salute hermano.
Thank you so much for this information. It’s a big help from you Coach Paz.
Great video 🙌
Caught my ex cheating. He lied until i had a photo. Then he told me he had been dating her for 2 years. 😱
Found out she monkey branched/rebound to me,we lasted 12yr and she monkey branched me.......these women are monsters.
I was in a relaionship for 5 years, he lied and said he just wanted space and move out. Then cllicked and got him to admit he was in a relaionship and cheating. He loved bombed me. Told me he loved me, then broke up. Begging to be friends. I was in shock. I lost 2 half stone in a month and a half. I am in no contact .he is 40 and he went with a 25 year old. My heart was broken. Still messages me now, asking how i am.do these age gap relationships last?
My heart bleeds for you hearing this. I've been in similar pain before. It is awful but I promise over time it will get better. YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS GUY. Try to reconnect as much as possible with good friends. Lean on them if you need to. Try to eat something filling even if bland a couple of times a day to start with. I ate oatmeal/porridge every day for a month. Try to do some meditation and focus your attention on tasks/work. But ease into these things and you will get there. I educated myself on attachment styles and my own anxious style, of low self worth and still am today, so that next time someone that is healthy for me appears. You deserve better, love! ❤
@@kerriereid8560 unfortunately men love younger women at all times. Why would they have a woman who is the same age and eventually after 42 starts to have no desire to have sex and energy of intimacy. It’s a desire of all men now days the younger the better and most guys now days only looking to get in bed with a same age counterparts and after sex they don’t want the desire to be available with a same age female partner as the younger one would be much fulfilling and more desirable. That’s unfortunate but it’s a reality.
I wish you the best as I’m separated for 50 days now and she already on vacation with a new guy that will eventually dump her sooner than later because of her awful attitude and values in life.
Is monkey branching considered as rebound relationship? My ex cheated on me and left me for someone else after a 5 year long relationship.
It’s monkey branching brother
What do I do with all the love and compassion I still hold for the person? 😢
You simply give it back to yourself, my dear friend!!! This is your time now to fall back in love, WITH YOU!
It was during covid I want to save money she want to spend money I said this isn't going to work out after I just spent $1,500 on a cat. I worked on myself internally when I bike rides worked out increased my income she she was in a relationship by the time December 2020 rolled around. We broke up in May of 2020.
Is it a rebound if it started 3 1/2 - 4 months after breakup?
How do we even know it's a rebound and not a real relationship?
Do not worry about it , go on your own , it is all it matters! As soon as you start to realise they are gone forever , as soon as you will start again.
You’re asking because you want to find out if your ex in relationship or if someone is in a rebound relationship with you,?
@@PazGoldmanOfficial I just want to know in general. How do we actually know if that relationship is a rebound or actually a new relationship, And yes, my ex has a new partner after only 2 months. We wer together for 3.4 years/months and the last 6 months, living together. They are all over social media and my ex even blocked me from everything after seeing their picture on FB. Thanks for responding Paz!
@@aqmendoza52 delete all social media and give em the gift of missing u forever
@@aqmendoza52sounds like an actual relationship. My ex boyfriend did this to me 2.5 months ago, too. It hurts like hell. I know how you must be feeling…
so are you saying relationships occur only once in a lifetime
No
@@PazGoldmanOfficial yeah because then everyone is a rebound after 1st relationship.
Loool he wantse to care i actually don't
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