Hard fact they don't. In fact they are annoyed they couldn't take advantage of you longer. Once there is a break it should be considered unrepairable. Let them live their lives and you create a life to ensure you never experience what you experience with them again.
@ a good 9months. You need time to analyse what went wrong and to heal. I was living in Asia and was married 7years when I found out that my wife had cheated. Divorce took less than a month and as a result I relocated back to my home country so it was a lot of change in a very short time. At the beginning I was ready to forgive and go back with my ex ( big mistake to do) but the more time passed the more I realised what was wrong and no matter what I would have done it wouldn’t have changed the outcome. I also realised what I brought to the table and what was my worth. Take time to heal and be kind to yourself. There’s someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are.
@@Aktivbottle I’m struggling right more I left a very toxic relationship but once I found out she possibly monkey branched it destroyed me now I’m like willing to take her back and no it’s not a good decision but my heart isn’t catching up with my head sucks
It doesn't matter if they regret it or not, the outcome is the same, there was a breakup and that is not going to change. Thank you for your videos, I'm in a bad way and I'm going to work through them all.
@@marguskiis7711my ex gf came back multiple times and begged for me back like crazy, but she would go back to treating me like trash, she recognized it and admitted it she says she felt like an awful gf which she was, so I’m glad we ended things. She’s got avoidant or bpd problems or just cuz she’s immature n selfish. Just sucks I gave in when I knew I shoudve had last time she begged for me back.
My ex definitely don’t regret leaving me he used our relationship for pass time to find someone else now his set it’s that girl he cheated me with he said his happy his found the right person to have a life with when he was with me he didn’t communicate message or spend time with me his doing everything with that slag
Coach brilliant video. I'm into the 8th week of indefinite no contact and I've not heard a word. I've gotten rid of her phone number all our media and her possessions. I'm focusing on myself in life but why do I still hope to hear from her ?
Do you miss the woman you broke up with? Even more when you found your ex who now dumped you? No. Why? You didn’t want to be with your ex. Your new ex you wanted more. Do you miss your previous car? Not the one you have right now, the one you traded in? No. This is how your ex feels. Leave them alone. They don’t want us. They want who they are with an glad we are gone because they are so much better. When it ends with them it’s because your ex found someone better. The only reason a dog returns to its vomit (us) is when it has no more food to eat. It’s over. Grieve and heal. Give it a year if you loved your ex, in love. If it was marriage, give it 3 years. For real healing. Not the pretend.
@@marguskiis7711 it's not about them being criminals you just have to not let yourself be put in a position to where you're hurt you have to make changes
@@jasonpoolo3523 they hurt you, they destroyed you, they robbed you. And they are not criminals? Women do not have any ethics. They have the eternal victim mindset (like criminals). They want to do to men every harm what possible.
Thanks coach u really help I'm 1 year into this she has had a relationship with a guy 10 years younger than her she is 44 and now in a relationship with a 49 year guy...the other day she says she doesn't feel comfortable with No one else besides me...we were together 24 years 3 kids ...I'm in a never ending spiral
Man,thats rough..mine was 9 yrs,3 kids,one not mine but raised him over 10 yrs now..she rebounded and wont let me adopt my son now,we moved states,i left my career of 150k a yr for near 20 yrs..women suck..my little girls still cry they want us both..only reason i might consider trying down the road..spiral for sure. Betrayal is a b..God is great! Thats where im at.
@charlesdemar9612 man wish u the best...I said I'll forgive her and we get back reconcile but now I'm thinking will I b at peace sleeping next to someone that's been elsewhere....anyway best of all to u thx for reply...we men are good stay strong greeting from south africa
tell me the truth guys been really hot at the moment was in a relationship with my girlfriend for nine years for 3 1/2 year-old boy we’ve not been getting on for couple of years. Think I was taking drugs to deal with stuff been together for a long time, been for a lot with her, one night I was very high with friends at home. She came back kicked out of the house looked for a fight did some crazy stuff to me stole my phone punch me in the balls kicked me then went to bed then come back taking videos of me tried to drag me round the house then woke up my son and said that she was leaving and then I left with my son I come back the next day she called the police on me got me arrested took my house. My Lawyer took my stuff my money. I was lucky to be able to see my son cousin this country. They believe everything the woman says, with no proof evidence within two weeks I found out there’s a guy in my house. She had a restraining order against me. I knew this guy I rang him. He said that he only asked her out. My house was rented three months later she moved out of my house. I moved back in, to find out then from other people that she’s moved in with this guy with my kid I’m paying for the house living in a two bedroom place and two other guys live there. I can’t understand it loads of lies and letters left around the house, love letters hate letters, engagement rings her talking to me for other people telling me where she is if I wanted to meet which you could get me arrested she promised to take the restraining order after I signed all the paperwork and then didn’t never been such a hard time in my life, it’s been going on for months nowI never get screwed over like this. Can’t believe she was lying about being with somebody else.
Hey Coach , I just want to tell you that you are the best coach there is out there and you helped me the most out of all the relationship coaches however I will say that you’re teaching is a little bit more advanced. I think you are in the half to final stages of healing where other coaches might better help with that first half, but still keep up the great work!
My ex seems to be regretting it she’s trying to get back and I told her to move on . She said “do you love your new girlfriend the same way we loved each other ,is the sex good as ours ? Seems that she’s projecting and comparing her current partner with me because I haven’t been dating anyone Z
Rebound.. in order to have rebound something nneds to go down so that later on it can go up.. in this case, she just moved on.. so realy, it is not a rebound..
💯 they gonna regret, karma is real sooner or later they will be knocked down by their own follies with thousand times greater pain and destruction says karma.
@marguskiis7711 💯 percent there is karma and I hv served my karma,I hv gone through all the same pains ,yes but in greater intensity than what I gave to that person in the past , hopefully I hv mended my ways n my karma ended this year .
@user-hn6xv2mw9v karma is a religious myth. Scientifically it does not exist. Scientifically there is no justice in the human society. Evil, ruthless people are much more successful than the good compassionate people. Bullies rule in the real world.
Oh my God you’re completely right. I looked into it afterwards and I can’t believe after 9 to 10 years together. I didn’t even realise is having a kid with her move straight into another relationship and says she’s happy as the restraining order against me never really knew that existed.
Hard fact they don't. In fact they are annoyed they couldn't take advantage of you longer. Once there is a break it should be considered unrepairable. Let them live their lives and you create a life to ensure you never experience what you experience with them again.
I am at a point where I don’t care anymore if she will regret or not. I am 100% done and ready to move on. Never look back. Her loss is my gain.
How long did it take you to get there if you don’t mind me asking
@ a good 9months. You need time to analyse what went wrong and to heal. I was living in Asia and was married 7years when I found out that my wife had cheated. Divorce took less than a month and as a result I relocated back to my home country so it was a lot of change in a very short time. At the beginning I was ready to forgive and go back with my ex ( big mistake to do) but the more time passed the more I realised what was wrong and no matter what I would have done it wouldn’t have changed the outcome. I also realised what I brought to the table and what was my worth. Take time to heal and be kind to yourself. There’s someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are.
@@Aktivbottle I’m struggling right more I left a very toxic relationship but once I found out she possibly monkey branched it destroyed me now I’m like willing to take her back and no it’s not a good decision but my heart isn’t catching up with my head sucks
@ if the relationship is toxic and you take her back she will do it again and you will get worse. No contact!
@@quinntrejo1068 literally in the same situation dude, really hurts
Never seen women regretting anything.
I have
Who lied to you 😅
It depends
@@Fen3rbahce a WAY more they regret getting into relationship
It doesn't matter if they regret it or not, the outcome is the same, there was a breakup and that is not going to change. Thank you for your videos, I'm in a bad way and I'm going to work through them all.
The reality is your ex did not love you,did not respect you and did not want you.That is why they left you.The chances of them coming back is slim.
Men usually come back. Women -- never.
@@marguskiis7711my ex gf came back multiple times and begged for me back like crazy, but she would go back to treating me like trash, she recognized it and admitted it she says she felt like an awful gf which she was, so I’m glad we ended things. She’s got avoidant or bpd problems or just cuz she’s immature n selfish. Just sucks I gave in when I knew I shoudve had last time she begged for me back.
Thank you, coach. I really needed this reality check ❤
My ex definitely don’t regret leaving me he used our relationship for pass time to find someone else now his set it’s that girl he cheated me with he said his happy his found the right person to have a life with when he was with me he didn’t communicate message or spend time with me his doing everything with that slag
@@RainaAkther-t5r now imagine finding out you "won" this fool! His poor new gf
Forget it! He is regretting. Have you seen the devil telling you I’m a devil?😅
@@davilasline4112 this commen is funny but true
Coach brilliant video.
I'm into the 8th week of indefinite no contact and I've not heard a word. I've gotten rid of her phone number all our media and her possessions. I'm focusing on myself in life but why do I still hope to hear from her ?
@@MineCastRUclips you never stop loving them u just learn to live without them. find a new partner to love
@@PurpYoshii this is just d hard true now u never stop loving them
@@PurpYoshii u just have to live without them
Do you miss the woman you broke up with? Even more when you found your ex who now dumped you? No. Why? You didn’t want to be with your ex. Your new ex you wanted more.
Do you miss your previous car? Not the one you have right now, the one you traded in? No.
This is how your ex feels.
Leave them alone. They don’t want us. They want who they are with an glad we are gone because they are so much better. When it ends with them it’s because your ex found someone better. The only reason a dog returns to its vomit (us) is when it has no more food to eat.
It’s over. Grieve and heal. Give it a year if you loved your ex, in love. If it was marriage, give it 3 years.
For real healing. Not the pretend.
Yeah, let the criminals escape the punishment, let them leave the court laughing.
@@marguskiis7711 it's not about them being criminals you just have to not let yourself be put in a position to where you're hurt you have to make changes
@@jasonpoolo3523 they hurt you, they destroyed you, they robbed you. And they are not criminals?
Women do not have any ethics. They have the eternal victim mindset (like criminals). They want to do to men every harm what possible.
Another fantastic video!
They only want you back when they need something from you or their options run low.
Get into a relationship with Jesus and God. That’s such an upgrade over your ex. And they will see to it.
Thanks coach u really help I'm 1 year into this she has had a relationship with a guy 10 years younger than her she is 44 and now in a relationship with a 49 year guy...the other day she says she doesn't feel comfortable with No one else besides me...we were together 24 years 3 kids ...I'm in a never ending spiral
Man,thats rough..mine was 9 yrs,3 kids,one not mine but raised him over 10 yrs now..she rebounded and wont let me adopt my son now,we moved states,i left my career of 150k a yr for near 20 yrs..women suck..my little girls still cry they want us both..only reason i might consider trying down the road..spiral for sure. Betrayal is a b..God is great! Thats where im at.
@charlesdemar9612 man wish u the best...I said I'll forgive her and we get back reconcile but now I'm thinking will I b at peace sleeping next to someone that's been elsewhere....anyway best of all to u thx for reply...we men are good stay strong greeting from south africa
tell me the truth guys been really hot at the moment was in a relationship with my girlfriend for nine years for 3 1/2 year-old boy we’ve not been getting on for couple of years. Think I was taking drugs to deal with stuff been together for a long time, been for a lot with her, one night I was very high with friends at home. She came back kicked out of the house looked for a fight did some crazy stuff to me stole my phone punch me in the balls kicked me then went to bed then come back taking videos of me tried to drag me round the house then woke up my son and said that she was leaving and then I left with my son I come back the next day she called the police on me got me arrested took my house. My Lawyer took my stuff my money. I was lucky to be able to see my son cousin this country. They believe everything the woman says, with no proof evidence within two weeks I found out there’s a guy in my house. She had a restraining order against me. I knew this guy I rang him. He said that he only asked her out. My house was rented three months later she moved out of my house. I moved back in, to find out then from other people that she’s moved in with this guy with my kid I’m paying for the house living in a two bedroom place and two other guys live there. I can’t understand it loads of lies and letters left around the house, love letters hate letters, engagement rings her talking to me for other people telling me where she is if I wanted to meet which you could get me arrested she promised to take the restraining order after I signed all the paperwork and then didn’t never been such a hard time in my life, it’s been going on for months nowI never get screwed over like this. Can’t believe she was lying about being with somebody else.
@@charlesdemar9612I’m so sorry! I really am. Sending hugs
Great analysis by coach, Paz! 👍👍💪
Hey Coach , I just want to tell you that you are the best coach there is out there and you helped me the most out of all the relationship coaches however I will say that you’re teaching is a little bit more advanced. I think you are in the half to final stages of healing where other coaches might better help with that first half, but still keep up the great work!
My ex seems to be regretting it she’s trying to get back and I told her to move on . She said “do you love your new girlfriend the same way we loved each other ,is the sex good as ours ? Seems that she’s projecting and comparing her current partner with me because I haven’t been dating anyone Z
Your videos have been helpful with my divorce. You ✌🏽
Rebound.. in order to have rebound something nneds to go down so that later on it can go up.. in this case, she just moved on.. so realy, it is not a rebound..
Monkey Branching
@neodistinct yes, but the term "rebound" isnt right.. but we get the point 😁😄
Women are evil.
@@marguskiis7711and men aren’t?
💯 they gonna regret, karma is real sooner or later they will be knocked down by their own follies with thousand times greater pain and destruction says karma.
There is no karma.
@marguskiis7711 💯 percent there is karma and I hv served my karma,I hv gone through all the same pains ,yes but in greater intensity than what I gave to that person in the past , hopefully I hv mended my ways n my karma ended this year .
@user-hn6xv2mw9v karma is a religious myth. Scientifically it does not exist. Scientifically there is no justice in the human society. Evil, ruthless people are much more successful than the good compassionate people. Bullies rule in the real world.
Sounds like a narcissist to me.
Oh my God you’re completely right. I looked into it afterwards and I can’t believe after 9 to 10 years together. I didn’t even realise is having a kid with her move straight into another relationship and says she’s happy as the restraining order against me never really knew that existed.