I am from Pensacola. My father was in Car Dealership and auto body . So they would say hi in passing. Pensacola is one of the scariest places to live I moved away in my adult life. This level of lawlessness is so typical for the gulf coast. I look back and see so many things like this. The gulf coast is a constant chase for the big Hatteras and Million dollar waterfront home. The things I’ve seen people do because of money there is disgusting. I was raised that my beauty had a price and my own parents pushed for me to cash in. I did marrying one of the wealthiest bachelors of Destin Florida. I hate who I was.
Right!!! My cousin has been in church since he was 15, he's in his 60's now. He had a days left before retiring from being an underground coal miner. The mines fell in. Paralyzed from the waist down & his faith never wavered. That's always been awesome to me.
He screwed up royally with that threat in the courtroom. Really proved his narcissistic and dangerous personality!!! Couldn't have happened to a better guy! 🤣😂🤣
By "ex" you mean Samuels I'm sure. But her husband "Grossman" was her last "ex" so it could be confusing. I'm curious why they "divorced" after the shooting, only to pass away a year after they divorced!!?! 🤔
Go Heather!! You are a warrior! Also, there is something special about that Judge. Such a compassionate, personable person. Amazing. Thanks Court TV and Tamron Hall.
Heather, you glowed in the Courtroom with your strength. Thank you for telling your story. As a Stroke Survivor, you're an inspiration to me. Love and Blessings from Down Under.🐨🦘🦎🦈🕷🕷
I've dated two narcissists, the scary thing about them is that they don't show their true colors until they've reeled you in. .Once you're in love and they've made you feel as though you can't live without them, it's incredibly difficult to leave. My advice would be to ALWAYS keep your independence, monetarily!
Yeah and they can imitate real emotions like they care about you, and in the cycle of abuse it’s common for narcs to “love bomb” you during their initial phase in order to get you to let your guard down.
@@julieoluna8887 I think he was just trying to point out how arrogant the guy was. I think he defended him the best he could, despite his personal opinion of the man.
@@julieoluna8887 , I think that the defense attorney had no control of his client. The defendant was a narcissistic control freak who thought himself to be the smartest person in the courthouse. Him testifying was against his counsel's advise. He was an arrogant, abusive POS. I hope that he is somebody's Bit(# in prison.
I WAS WITH A TOXIC MAN FOR 11/12 YEARS.. IF I DIDN'T ANSWER MY PHONE WITHIN 3 RINGS.... HE WOULD HAVE MY CELL PHONE TURNED OFF/ CANCELED/ DISABLED...... SO I COULDNT EVEN USE IT TO CALL FOR HELP ...... I HAD TO RUN AWAY.... I COULDN'T EVEN TAKE MY CLOTHES OR SHOES OR ANY OF MY BELONGINGS..... IM STILL STRUGGLING TO REPLACE ITEMS LIKE CLOTHING AND SHOES AND LIFE.... BUT IM ALIVE AND THAT'S A BLESSING 🤍🤍🤍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤍🤍🤍🤍
I’m so sorry that you had to go through that but I’m so glad that you were able to get away. Sending lots of love, positive vibes, and prayers to you. Please know that it will get better.
Happy you're out and safe. What has helped me is my relationship with God, watching videos in how to recover from narcissists, and christian counseling. I hope you recover well
You are a strong woman who did everything right and I'm proud of you. I am a product of a toxic relationship and I remember my mother working sometimes 3 jobs to put food on the table and her having to beg my father to buy me a coat or shoes from a second hand/charity shop because it was winter and him wanting her to get more booze and smokes. I also remember being locked in the house with no food and eating uncooked pasta and rice and being punished for random things I didn't even do. So I can confidently say that a controlling arsehole will never love anyone other than himself or be willing to change for the better, they just get worse. In my case he found other, younger victims and devorced my mother so he could marry theirs. And I've stopped any communication with his family (except his mom, grandma lives with us after he put her in the hospital for a second time and she still refused to charge her son)
I have the feeling he is satisfied he put her in that state,and he was prepared to pay the price as long as she suffered was all that mattered.He is a POS
Reminds me of Trump! I will never ever get or should I say understand why people don’t find Trump a very narcissistic and creepy person‼️Trump and his ilk are very creepy and weird people‼️
I didn't think that this would make me as emotional as I am, but I want to commend Heather and her entire family. I'm in no position to be proud of someone have never met, but boy am I.
Heather am so proud of you. That smile you gave after the verdict! It destroyed his smack n humiliated him. You have raised three wonderful kids. loving you from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
I noticed that also and came to comments to see if anyone else noticed. He must have adopted them or they had their names legally changed to avoid association with their murderous father.
@@sachelleb4930 I could be wrong but I would lean moreso on them having legally changed their last name as I highly doubt Ron Samuels would have consented to their adoption by Jon Grossman.
@@SageTheRage there are certain actions that a parent can take that sever his/her rights and so after attempting to murder his ex-wife, it would’ve been easy to have his parental rights severed allowing the children to change their names without any regard for that sick f$&@!
Yes, and good ole John didn't take things well either and abused her when she was paralyzed. Since his parents were paying the bills, she felt she couldn't do anything. She finally was able to contact her mother with help from nursing staff and reported incidences to police helping her with charges against him. She certainly has will. Bless her and her children
This wasn't about money. It was about control. She left a pathologically entitled narcissistic sociopath. Nobody does that unpunished. Seeking revenge becomes an obsessive compulsion to the point where they can't think and consider the consequences at all. They will keep going without realizing that they are well on their way to complete self-destruction. We see that happen over and over again. Reject a top tier malignant narcissist, and there WILL be Hell to pay!
My sister is going through this very thing. She’s terrified of leaving. I’ve offered her a place but she said she doesn’t want to put me at risk too. She refuses to take my help saying it will make me his target. I wish the alligators would get him
Omg the fact that she said he would turn around in the courtroom , look at her , and smirk …. Made my blood boil. He knows he caused her to be paraplegic, and will suffer everyday of her life and he’s getting off on the fact that he’s causing her daily suffering and every time she thinks about her situation she’ll think of him. Ugh. It’s just so upsetting , I hate his guts. He’s truly evil.
Ron Samuels made me sick how he kept looking back at her. I wish the judge would have said something to him to keep his eyes forward. It also made me sick how the shooter walked right past her on the way out. Despicable. How could you defend someone like that???
I don't think she should have had to endure that horrible creep smirking at her. He's rotten to the core. The judge who I do admire said she was in charge of the court room so perhaps seating could have been configured better so that that horrible sub amoeba couldn't tuant his ex wife and exacerbate the damage he had already done.
Heather is a sweetheart! She's a lovely woman! Sorry this happened to her! When I get down I will remember the strength of this beautiful woman and all that she has gone through and continues to go through! She's truly the definition of a survivor❤️
What a great story! Such an inspiration! God bless Heather & her children in this extremely complex emotionally & physically ordeal. Wow, you inspire me Heather!!!!! You are a badass!!
I'm so happy for the sentencing I cried when he was in the court room and they said life I'm glad she doesn't have to live in fear anymore. Heather you are a survivor and I saw that you made it in court every day to face 😈😈.... Live life to the fullest. Survivor!!!!!!!
I just read that her second husband John, was also very abusive. He did some rotten things to her after she was shot. And then her parents business had to close down when her father died of cancer. Her medical bills were payed from the money earned in the business. This poor woman can catch a break 😭❤️
Narcs and abusers always know who to target. They will reject the best partner if they don't think they can manipulate them. This is why when a woman comes out of an abusive relationship, she needs to stay single for a while so she can fix whatever it is inside herself that draws her to these men and vice versa.
@@farmhouseonthemountain If you're impressed by money or status you're an easy target for narcissists. So yes, I agree with you. Anyone can fall for a narcissist but if it happens more than once it's definitely to do with yourself.
@@farmhouseonthemountain only women? Seems like good advice for anyone leaving an abusive relationship, and pretending only men abuse is woefully naive, not to mention sexist AF.
Actually you would be surprised at your inner strength, when faced with imminent death! I survived with only a 3% chance, organs shutting down, and Drs telling my family to go make burial preparations. My 20 yr old son REFUSED to give up on me! He told the Drs I was a fighter & would survive, very confidently. I survived with no organ damage which was truly a miracle! That was on 2004! I’m still here! I still work full time at 70. I also survived an aggressive breast cancer. Had to have a mastectomy on the affected breast, but still alive! That was in 2008. I returned to work three days later! Worked through the aggressive chemo, bald after the first dose! Again, until you are faced with death, you can’t TRULY say what you will or won’t do, to survive the things life throws your way! I have two REMARKABLE grown sons & an equally remarkable grandson, who will be 18 in October and graduating in the spring. Thank God I lived! I would’ve missed so much! I admire this woman! She’s a true fighter!!
God Bless you Heather! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you! I have taken care of Quadriplegics and Paraplegics as a CNA and they are the most humble people I have ever known! Thank God for that wonderful experience bc I became a Registered Nurse many years later!!♥️🙏💕
What an unspeakably evil individual Samuels is, so happy he`s in jail....Heather is an absolute extraordinary woman, I wish her all the happiness in the world.
A husband is one who takes care of that which he does not own. You don't own that wife or those children. They are not possessions but their own person. Treat them right and they will treat you right. You can't force anyone to do what is not in their heart to do. It just doesn't work out well when cross that line.
@EarlGrey007 shouldn't that be the definition of spouse? This old school sexism has to stop. Men provide and women what, take? If that's the husband's role, what is the wife's role?
I swear what I'm about to say is truth, my brother in law was his district Service Manager at his Toyota Dealership in Pensacola Florida. I was at Ron's home on the water for a July 4th party in 1996. I have pictures to prove it. When this hit the news I was floored. I never met Heather but I did meet the Kids. He was so fat and arrogant talking $hit on her the whole time I was there with my family. He is where he belongs. God bless her for all she's been through. I see her kids took the last name Grossman. Good for them.
What a brave woman! Fortunately she didn't get physical complications from being a quadriplegic. I really admire Heather. What a blessing that she and her children could still have a life together.
Heather´s case has been featured in many shows and it is still one of the most shocking marriage gone bad stories. She is an amazing woman and I hope she has a lot of years ahead of her to enjoy with her family.
For the life of me I'll never understand how women can fall in love with a man when she is witnessing him first hand, being cruel, and mistreating their ex's. What do you think that they will do when they turn on you? Why can you actually come to believe that there's something so special, and so amazing about you, that will change who another human being is down in their soul? You can see this happening all the time. It's not even something that's rare. This result is rare, but women attaching themselves to terrible men, that have treated other women like objects, that is commonplace. Usually these women will be hateful to the ex-women along with the men. If he hates his ex's, his new woman will hate her as well. It's just beyond ridiculous.
Men like him still try to get back at their spouse from jail don't be surprised if he is still harboring a grudge and blames her for the situation he is in
What an amazing women. To endure the torture of that cowardly narcissistic POS for years. Then become completely paralyzed and muster the courage to keep fighting that monster. Really incredible.
i don't understand how defense attorneys can sleep at night defending monsters like him, imagine if their mom, or daughter or wife is left like that poor woman , these people dont have a conscience..
What an amazing woman Heather is and her three kids turned out to be amazing adults all because of Heather, just proves all the money in the world cannot buy common sense or makes you a better person. I am also glad his ex wife took the stand and did the right thing too.
This is so sad . this lady has really paid a big price for marrying that terrible man . even after being found guilty he still blames her for being bitter . He is the one who is bitter , he destroyed his life and hers all for nothing . how brave is this lady !!!
@@potocatepetl The shooter and the driver could be placed at the scene of the crime. The car links them to SOBs contact. What more did they need? Just threaten them all with the DP unless they testify. Then offer them a 30 year plea deal. Did you see the shooter just walk past Ms. Grossman as he left court without any acknowledgment. Absolutely travesty 😤😱☹️🤬
Ron Samuel's is a raging narcissistic bullying jerkoff. My husband and I made the mistake of going in to his Toyota dealership in Pensacola Fl many many years ago. We didn't agree to the deal, he wanted us to sign off on.. We turned to leave going down the stairs, he deliberately tried to trip my husband. He deserves everything he got..
@@thomism1016 The driver would never take a 30 years plea deal... who in the right mind would do it? The shooter maybe. Although at that age, it is pretty much a life sentence. And no, the evidence they had was not enough to convict for life a very rich person with access to very good lawyers.
Men like this ALWAYS have the gift of gab. Narcissistic men always want everyone around them to know how amazing they are while down grading the other person.
Gawd! When Roger Runyon, the shooter, walks past her while leaving the courtroom after his testimony, his shame, remorse for his act is clearly evident in his demeanor.
I have just come across this story and though heartbroken for Heather and appalled at the level of evil in that man, I am so very proud of her courage and strength, she has raised 3 beautiful children, now adults, who i am sure were a source of that strength. I commend you Heather.
What I didn't like tough was the immunity granted to the ones that conspire to commit the crime and pulled the trigger. They should've been offered a reduced sentence, but to sentence a person to live the rest of her life as a quadriplegic is a horrendous crime.
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@@otsileaubreymarumo6801 Right!! Isn't she gorgeous!?! 😍
R.S. is a slimy, creepy, psychopath. Malignant
Narcissisist! Beautiful souls Heather and her kids!
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I Agree, but if she has implants, they're way oversized. Awkward!
Those chest pockets are too high, which doesn't help!!! 🤔
I am from Pensacola. My father was in Car Dealership and auto body . So they would say hi in passing. Pensacola is one of the scariest places to live I moved away in my adult life. This level of lawlessness is so typical for the gulf coast. I look back and see so many things like this. The gulf coast is a constant chase for the big Hatteras and Million dollar waterfront home. The things I’ve seen people do because of money there is disgusting. I was raised that my beauty had a price and my own parents pushed for me to cash in. I did marrying one of the wealthiest bachelors of Destin Florida. I hate who I was.
24 years as a quadriplegic has to be one of the strongest will to live that I’ve ever heard of
God Bless you Jenny because God has a plan for your life and I know God has given you that plan!! ♥️♥️🙏💜
I think she's talking about the lady in the video
Yes, and praise God for the strength he has given her!
and losing her 2nd husband she is truly a Queen amazing children
Right!!! My cousin has been in church since he was 15, he's in his 60's now. He had a days left before retiring from being an underground coal miner. The mines fell in. Paralyzed from the waist down & his faith never wavered. That's always been awesome to me.
I am so glad that Heather survived and was able to raise 3 wonderful children in spite of her ex.
It is heartbreaking that she had to pay such an unimaginably high price. She is an exceptionally strong woman!
She is a very strong woman, a lady of ladies, even as this thug tried to destroy everything about her.
I think her husband has a lot to do with the raising of these three children.
In spite of both exes. The second one was smearing feces on her after a few years of changing diapers.
@@hirainawhaanga6253actually her second husband, John, became abusive as well and they divorced and then he died.
What a strong lady Heather is, She certainly is an inspiration.
He gives me the chills. His evilness just seeps out of him.
He screwed up royally with that threat in the courtroom. Really proved his narcissistic and dangerous personality!!! Couldn't have happened to a better guy! 🤣😂🤣
@@FLo-jc7ig Yes, he should have been there in a straight jacket with a gag in his mouth...what a creep
Heather must be honoured for her dedication to her children and her survival. Her ex husband is exactly where he should be.
By "ex" you mean Samuels I'm sure. But her husband "Grossman" was her last "ex" so it could be confusing. I'm curious why they "divorced" after the shooting, only to pass away a year after they divorced!!?! 🤔
According to a previous post her ex husband was also abusive.
She is amazing
He is a soulless sick F**k
Thank God for this inspirational woman!!
Heather Grossman is such a strong woman. She raised 3 beautiful children!
Exactly! And she had to have had help in raising them. She must have got a big settlement in her divorce from Grossman!?
Go Heather!! You are a warrior! Also, there is something special about that Judge. Such a compassionate, personable person. Amazing. Thanks Court TV and Tamron Hall.
Heather, you glowed in the Courtroom with your strength. Thank you for telling your story. As a Stroke Survivor, you're an inspiration to me. Love and Blessings from Down Under.🐨🦘🦎🦈🕷🕷
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@@January.go away
@@caseymanuel7199 No.
Women, please, stay away from narcissists. God bless you, Heather, you are an INCREDIBLE woman.
I've dated two narcissists, the scary thing about them is that they don't show their true colors until they've reeled you in. .Once you're in love and they've made you feel as though you can't live without them, it's incredibly difficult to leave. My advice would be to ALWAYS keep your independence, monetarily!
Women are narcissists as well my ex-Daughter in-law is one . She has ruined so many lives including her children
They’re charming at first. By the time you realize the depth of their depravity it’s possibly too late.
Yeah and they can imitate real emotions like they care about you, and in the cycle of abuse it’s common for narcs to “love bomb” you during their initial phase in order to get you to let your guard down.
Remember they wear a mask. Most of the time you will find out, in the middle of the hurricane.
We can still enjoy her smile after all she's been through.. God has blessed her..
Heather is a shining example of a hero. Her story is inspiring. Thank you for sharing it with me.
I’m am in awe of Heather, she is the most amazing woman. I really hope she proves the doctors wrong and lives another 24 years!!
This is the 1st time I can see a defense lawyer who despises his client. Could hardly represent the guy.
If he was getting paid handsomely... it would have been a different story.
@@julieoluna8887 that’s kinda what I go from it!
@@MDC8915 "He spoke to me as if he was paying me thousands and thousands of dollars" I feel sorry for truly innocent poor people he had to defend.
@@julieoluna8887 I think he was just trying to point out how arrogant the guy was. I think he defended him the best he could, despite his personal opinion of the man.
@@julieoluna8887 , I think that the defense attorney had no control of his client. The defendant was a narcissistic control freak who thought himself to be the smartest person in the courthouse. Him testifying was against his counsel's advise. He was an arrogant, abusive POS. I hope that he is somebody's Bit(# in prison.
He’s remarried and still obsessing over his ex who left him.
These narcissistic men cannot move on when their egos are bruised.
It’s sick
I WAS WITH A TOXIC MAN FOR 11/12 YEARS.. IF I DIDN'T ANSWER MY PHONE WITHIN 3 RINGS.... HE WOULD HAVE MY CELL PHONE TURNED OFF/ CANCELED/ DISABLED...... SO I COULDNT EVEN USE IT TO CALL FOR HELP ...... I HAD TO RUN AWAY.... I COULDN'T EVEN TAKE MY CLOTHES OR SHOES OR ANY OF MY BELONGINGS..... IM STILL STRUGGLING TO REPLACE ITEMS LIKE CLOTHING AND SHOES AND LIFE.... BUT IM ALIVE AND THAT'S A BLESSING 🤍🤍🤍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤍🤍🤍🤍
I’m so sorry that you had to go through that but I’m so glad that you were able to get away. Sending lots of love, positive vibes, and prayers to you. Please know that it will get better.
happy you got out, stay strong and most important, never go back!
Happy you're out and safe. What has helped me is my relationship with God, watching videos in how to recover from narcissists, and christian counseling. I hope you recover well
Stay strong 💪
You are a strong woman who did everything right and I'm proud of you.
I am a product of a toxic relationship and I remember my mother working sometimes 3 jobs to put food on the table and her having to beg my father to buy me a coat or shoes from a second hand/charity shop because it was winter and him wanting her to get more booze and smokes. I also remember being locked in the house with no food and eating uncooked pasta and rice and being punished for random things I didn't even do.
So I can confidently say that a controlling arsehole will never love anyone other than himself or be willing to change for the better, they just get worse.
In my case he found other, younger victims and devorced my mother so he could marry theirs. And I've stopped any communication with his family (except his mom, grandma lives with us after he put her in the hospital for a second time and she still refused to charge her son)
I hated how he kept looking over at her during the trial… a look of satisfaction…. What an absolutely creepy man.
I have the feeling he is satisfied he put her in that state,and he was prepared to pay the price as long as she suffered was all that mattered.He is a POS
The worst part about that is that (obviously) she CAN’T physically look away. Made it that much creepier to me
Reminds me of Trump! I will never ever get or should I say understand why people don’t find Trump a very narcissistic and creepy person‼️Trump and his ilk are very creepy and weird people‼️
Not one ounce of sorrow! No conscience.
You're right. He's pure evil.
I didn't think that this would make me as emotional as I am, but I want to commend Heather and her entire family. I'm in no position to be proud of someone have never met, but boy am I.
Heather am so proud of you. That smile you gave after the verdict! It destroyed his smack n humiliated him. You have raised three wonderful kids. loving you from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
One of the saddest and yet inspiring stories ever. I am happy justice was served. I am glad she is alive. YOU GO GIRL! I love you and your family.
I noticed that all 3 adult children had the last name of their stepdad, Jon Grossman, rather than that of their biological father, Ron Samuels.
I noticed that also and came to comments to see if anyone else noticed. He must have adopted them or they had their names legally changed to avoid association with their murderous father.
@@sachelleb4930 I could be wrong but I would lean moreso on them having legally changed their last name as I highly doubt Ron Samuels would have consented to their adoption by Jon Grossman.
@@SageTheRage there are certain actions that a parent can take that sever his/her rights and so after attempting to murder his ex-wife, it would’ve been easy to have his parental rights severed allowing the children to change their names without any regard for that sick f$&@!
Yes, and good ole John didn't take things well either and abused her when she was paralyzed. Since his parents were paying the bills, she felt she couldn't do anything. She finally was able to contact her mother with help from nursing staff and reported incidences to police helping her with charges against him. She certainly has will. Bless her and her children
He died in 2005 from a heart attack right as they were about to prosecute him finally
This wasn't about money. It was about control. She left a pathologically entitled narcissistic sociopath. Nobody does that unpunished. Seeking revenge becomes an obsessive compulsion to the point where they can't think and consider the consequences at all. They will keep going without realizing that they are well on their way to complete self-destruction. We see that happen over and over again. Reject a top tier malignant narcissist, and there WILL be Hell to pay!
Yeah, I wish the signs for a narcissist were easier to see, like a tattoo on their face, she's a nice lady and she hangs in there for her kids
Yep. Jezebel spirit 🤏
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My sister is going through this very thing. She’s terrified of leaving.
I’ve offered her a place but she said she doesn’t want to put me at risk too.
She refuses to take my help saying it will make me his target.
I wish the alligators would get him
And where he's going now he will have absolutely zero control
Heather if you read this, thank you for your courage. God bless.
Omg the fact that she said he would turn around in the courtroom , look at her , and smirk …. Made my blood boil. He knows he caused her to be paraplegic, and will suffer everyday of her life and he’s getting off on the fact that he’s causing her daily suffering and every time she thinks about her situation she’ll think of him. Ugh. It’s just so upsetting , I hate his guts. He’s truly evil.
I remember this case! So sad! I am glad she is doing better.
What an amazing lady. She is definitely a survivor. Bless her and her three kids- they deserve good things in their life.
What a deadbeat.
Won't pay child support.
Doesn't pay the hitmen.
Lordt 😂😂😂😂
So great that her kids understand exactly what happened.
Heather is a very courageous woman.
Ron Samuels made me sick how he kept looking back at her. I wish the judge would have said something to him to keep his eyes forward. It also made me sick how the shooter walked right past her on the way out. Despicable. How could you defend someone like that???
I don't think she should have had to endure that horrible creep smirking at her. He's rotten to the core. The judge who I do admire said she was in charge of the court room so perhaps seating could have been configured better so that that horrible sub amoeba couldn't tuant his ex wife and exacerbate the damage he had already done.
Heather is a sweetheart! She's a lovely woman! Sorry this happened to her! When I get down I will remember the strength of this beautiful woman and all that she has gone through and continues to go through! She's truly the definition of a survivor❤️
He's worth 30 million and refuse 2 pay child support, worth the 120 year under the jail
What a great story! Such an inspiration! God bless Heather & her children in this extremely complex emotionally & physically ordeal. Wow, you inspire me Heather!!!!! You are a badass!!
Wow! 24 years! She has phenomenal strength & perseverance!
Strong woman, and wonderful children.
I'm so happy for the sentencing I cried when he was in the court room and they said life I'm glad she doesn't have to live in fear anymore. Heather you are a survivor and I saw that you made it in court every day to face 😈😈.... Live life to the fullest. Survivor!!!!!!!
As a Domestic Violence advocate for all - God has the final say in this woman’s life - her son summed it up beautifully-IT WAS A MIRACLE!!!!
Heather is an Amazing Woman and a Miracle. Helping other victims of violent crimes thrive and survive. ❤
Incredible story of love and strength 💕
What a great story of survival and willingness to overcome. I love all the focus on Heather's positivity and strength!
I just read that her second husband John, was also very abusive. He did some rotten things to her after she was shot. And then her parents business had to close down when her father died of cancer. Her medical bills were payed from the money earned in the business. This poor woman can catch a break 😭❤️
She also said he had Post-traumatic Stress disorder after that 🤨 before this he was a good guy 💯
Narcs and abusers always know who to target. They will reject the best partner if they don't think they can manipulate them. This is why when a woman comes out of an abusive relationship, she needs to stay single for a while so she can fix whatever it is inside herself that draws her to these men and vice versa.
@@farmhouseonthemountain If you're impressed by money or status you're an easy target for narcissists. So yes, I agree with you. Anyone can fall for a narcissist but if it happens more than once it's definitely to do with yourself.
@@farmhouseonthemountain only women? Seems like good advice for anyone leaving an abusive relationship, and pretending only men abuse is woefully naive, not to mention sexist AF.
@@barbarama sadly a great many are impressed by those precise things. Far too many frankly.
Tough lady. That man is evil.
I couldn’t live like that. She has some mighty courage 💝👍💕
No, me either. I admire the strength and commitment to her children this woman has.
Actually you would be surprised at your inner strength, when faced with imminent death! I survived with only a 3% chance, organs shutting down, and Drs telling my family to go make burial preparations. My 20 yr old son REFUSED to give up on me! He told the Drs I was a fighter & would survive, very confidently. I survived with no organ damage which was truly a miracle! That was on 2004! I’m still here! I still work full time at 70. I also survived an aggressive breast cancer. Had to have a mastectomy on the affected breast, but still alive! That was in 2008. I returned to work three days later! Worked through the aggressive chemo, bald after the first dose! Again, until you are faced with death, you can’t TRULY say what you will or won’t do, to survive the things life throws your way! I have two REMARKABLE grown sons & an equally remarkable grandson, who will be 18 in October and graduating in the spring. Thank God I lived! I would’ve missed so much! I admire this woman! She’s a true fighter!!
@@barbarastephens9698lady you too are amazing😊
Wow you have a very inspiring story yourself!
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Heather, you & your children are beyond awesome. I love all of you 🙏🙏🙏
Love Ms. Tamron ✿ Such a classy woman and a great presenter for the show.✿
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What an amazing woman Heather is despite what happened to her at the hands of a despicable pathetic creep of a ‘man’!
Wow, all three kids got their mom’s integrity!
Tamarin is a classy lady. I like that she doesn't use her sexuality to gain viewers. As in wearing low cut apparel, showing cleavage. She is a lady.
This is awesome!! 👏
I’m so tired of trying to figure out what show is on which app. Catching a free episode on YT is super cool!
One of the many reasons I love having cable.
Watch all my true crime on yt for free
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Me too, I canceled my cable service 3 years ago best decision I’ve made.
@@labelledujour5855 yes, same 28 years ago !!
Tooo expensive, and full of horrible shows!!
Very true
God Bless you Heather! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you! I have taken care of Quadriplegics and Paraplegics as a CNA and they are the most humble people I have ever known! Thank God for that wonderful experience bc I became a Registered Nurse many years later!!♥️🙏💕
@@michellemonet4358 I'm sure she meant no disrespect, and was sharing inspiration and encouragement from her own Judeo-Christian frame of reference.
@@michellemonet4358 Lake ! Jump ! Michelle !
Keep your fake deity out of it. Her strength is her own. Your delusion did nothing to strengthen her
Disgusting
What an unspeakably evil individual Samuels is, so happy he`s in jail....Heather is an absolute extraordinary woman, I wish her all the happiness in the world.
Oh My goodness I remember this Story .How could someone do this too this Beautiful Loving Woman, Mother sister daughter cousin aunt ?
Heather Grossman has such beautiful skin. So graceful even in her condition 🎊⭐️❤️💐🥂🎉
What's her condition? She always looks amazing.
The smile of relief in Heather's face is worth the wait. What a fabulous human being. God bless you and all your family.
Wow Heather is such an amazing woman so inspirational much love Arlene from Scotland xoxoxo
4 men who perpetrated a horrible crime orchestrated by this psychopath and the system gave them a free pass and let them lived among society.
A husband is one who takes care of that which he does not own. You don't own that wife or those children. They are not possessions but their own person. Treat them right and they will treat you right. You can't force anyone to do what is not in their heart to do. It just doesn't work out well when cross that line.
Well said.
@EarlGrey007 shouldn't that be the definition of spouse? This old school sexism has to stop. Men provide and women what, take? If that's the husband's role, what is the wife's role?
She has recently said she lives a full life and that there is never a day that she doesn’t leave the house!
This show is always great! I could watch these all day!!
Having a good support system makes a big difference.Those friends and family members that can give you good advice during difficult times.
Heather raising those incredible kids is sweet revenge.
This woman is just amazing and so are her kids they should all be very proudof themselves.😊
I swear what I'm about to say is truth, my brother in law was his district Service Manager at his Toyota Dealership in Pensacola Florida. I was at Ron's home on the water for a July 4th party in 1996. I have pictures to prove it. When this hit the news I was floored. I never met Heather but I did meet the Kids. He was so fat and arrogant talking $hit on her the whole time I was there with my family. He is where he belongs. God bless her for all she's been through. I see her kids took the last name Grossman. Good for them.
What a brave woman! Fortunately she didn't get physical complications from being a quadriplegic. I really admire Heather. What a blessing that she and her children could still have a life together.
Heather´s case has been featured in many shows and it is still one of the most shocking marriage gone bad stories. She is an amazing woman and I hope she has a lot of years ahead of her to enjoy with her family.
Heather, you are brave and courageous. You raised three wonderful children. God bless you.🙏
When I was shot in the neck all I could think of was my family. I feel for her!
Hope you are fully recovered.
These are great unheard of stories! Sad but great reporting.
God bless you Heather. Stay strong wish you long happy life🙏🏻
This was hard to watch but im glad I stayed with it. She is an inspiration to us all
For the life of me I'll never understand how women can fall in love with a man when she is witnessing him first hand, being cruel, and mistreating their ex's. What do you think that they will do when they turn on you? Why can you actually come to believe that there's something so special, and so amazing about you, that will change who another human being is down in their soul? You can see this happening all the time. It's not even something that's rare. This result is rare, but women attaching themselves to terrible men, that have treated other women like objects, that is commonplace. Usually these women will be hateful to the ex-women along with the men. If he hates his ex's, his new woman will hate her as well. It's just beyond ridiculous.
Wow You are brave miss Heather, Stay blessed and Strong, and live long Ma'am
I hope she went on and got all the money she could from him in civil court.
What a narcissist, I’m so glad he was found guilty.
Men like him still try to get back at their spouse from jail don't be surprised if he is still harboring a grudge and blames her for the situation he is in
so freaking sad but im so proud of her!! what will power! U look beautiful in purple Tamron!
What an amazing women. To endure the torture of that cowardly narcissistic POS for years. Then become completely paralyzed and muster the courage to keep fighting that monster. Really incredible.
Love your channel. You always help me understand human behaviour. Keep up the good work and take care.
i don't understand how defense attorneys can sleep at night defending monsters like him, imagine if their mom, or daughter or wife is left like that poor woman , these people dont have a conscience..
Omg this poor woman. I feel so horrible for her.
What a lovely woman and mother. Her will to live is admirable
Heather deserves a big hug for being a true role model.
*Please tell me that Heather filed a civil suit against his estate and took every* DIME!
HE NEVER TOOK HER LOVELY SMILE ❤❤❤
What an amazing woman Heather is and her three kids turned out to be amazing adults all because of Heather, just proves all the money in the world cannot buy common sense or makes you a better person. I am also glad his ex wife took the stand and did the right thing too.
This is so sad . this lady has really paid a big price for marrying that terrible man . even after being found guilty he still blames her for being bitter . He is the one who is bitter , he destroyed his life and hers all for nothing . how brave is this lady !!!
I don’t see why the shooter and driver were offered immunity rather than prosecution sentence deals?
what choice did they have? they had little evidence otherwise and they wanted to send the son of a b to jail for life.
@@potocatepetl The shooter and the driver could be placed at the scene of the crime. The car links them to SOBs contact. What more did they need? Just threaten them all with the DP unless they testify. Then offer them a 30 year plea deal. Did you see the shooter just walk past Ms. Grossman as he left court without any acknowledgment. Absolutely travesty 😤😱☹️🤬
@@thomism1016 I agree. There was NO need to give teh shooter a deal. Lazy prosecutor office.
Ron Samuel's is a raging narcissistic bullying jerkoff. My husband and I made the mistake of going in to his Toyota dealership in Pensacola Fl many many years ago. We didn't agree to the deal, he wanted us to sign off on.. We turned to leave going down the stairs, he deliberately tried to trip my husband. He deserves everything he got..
@@thomism1016 The driver would never take a 30 years plea deal... who in the right mind would do it? The shooter maybe. Although at that age, it is pretty much a life sentence. And no, the evidence they had was not enough to convict for life a very rich person with access to very good lawyers.
She’s a survivor and raised great children. They cannot help what their dad is. Heather is a hero!
Glad she was able to live her life to the fullest and be there with her kids...love ❤️ love ❤️ love it
He got what he deserves someone that has money like that thinks they can't be touched he got proven wrong
My grandma Beverly always says “Nothing comes for free”
Heather is such a strong beautiful woman. I wish her and her kids all the happiness in the world!
Men like this ALWAYS have the gift of gab. Narcissistic men always want everyone around them to know how amazing they are while down grading the other person.
Good for you Heather.
A powerful Mother. Most powerful loving kids. May GOD ALMIGHTY Keep on protecting you. Be 💪 Guys.🇿🇦
What is the medical condition for him to speak so slowly...?
Gawd! When Roger Runyon, the shooter, walks past her while leaving the courtroom after his testimony, his shame, remorse for his act is clearly evident in his demeanor.
Heather you are a winner! God bless you and your beautiful children!❤
She's gorgeous too!
I have just come across this story and though heartbroken for Heather and appalled at the level of evil in that man, I am so very proud of her courage and strength, she has raised 3 beautiful children, now adults, who i am sure were a source of that strength. I commend you Heather.
Heather is so a strong woman.I'm happy for her.God bless this woman
She didn’t do this crime and our justice system needs a huge overhaul
What I didn't like tough was the immunity granted to the ones that conspire to commit the crime and pulled the trigger. They should've been offered a reduced sentence, but to sentence a person to live the rest of her life as a quadriplegic is a horrendous crime.
You can offer them less time, you know. It's not full immunity or nothing.