Not Chilling Out A Customer
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- Опубликовано: 23 май 2021
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her cousin, who she loaned money to help move into a house. She says her cousin never paid the rent and got evicted, plus she never reimbursed her for the loan, so she’s suing. The defendant claims the money was a gift, not a loan. She’s countersuing for stress and aggravation.
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How to know for sure that someone will never pay you back: They'll tell you "I'll pay you back when I get my income tax money."
I learned that from Judge Mathis.
My husband came here on a K-1 visa from 🇯🇲 Jamaica. I told him point blank," you NEVER depend on tax money coming back. Once it is in your hand do with it what you plan 2, but NEVER borrow from someone with the intent 2 use it 2 pay back from or assume it will be a particular amount. Until it is dispursed, it is not certain." I can not stand people who spend what they do not have or try 2 borrow based on something they do not know will come...
I see you watch Judge Mathis too 😅🤣😂
If you have to rely on your taxes to pay your bills you have bigger problems 😬
generally people that earn $5000 a year get tiny refunds
I've never been showered like that with thousands of dollars. It amazes me how so many grown adults all come in claiming it was a gift. Pay your own bills.
That is what baffles me, ma’am, you’re grown and speaking in this manner? Tf, go work and pay tor your own items, lifestyle as such.
They always knew it was never a gift they just don't want to pay it back now
Its the harassment excuse that drives me nuts😡. You know you owe someone money and claim harassment.
Bully. It was a gift when you give money to someone you know cannot or probably won't pay you back.
Once when I was on LOA from my job I asked to borrow $300 until I started receiving my temp disability checks and felt so bad about it. I paid it back with my 1st check. I couldn’t imagine having the audacity to ask for such a large sum then have an attitude about paying it back.
They kill me with these "gifts". Never in my life have anyone gave me a $3000 gift. You know dang well that's a loan.
Lol I disagree.. maybe y’all ain’t been around wealthy people..
@@MhiaLee19 Been around wealthy people all of my life. Much closer than you may realize. And 99% of the time they don't splurge unnecessarily. They would rather invest. There's a reason why they're wealthy...they didn't attain that wealth by foolishly tossing $3k around here and there. And when they do generously hand out money it's usually for a tax write off. At least that's what Forbes has detailed in their reporting. But that's an entirely different class of wealthy people than what you may be referring to.
I need them to come up with a new excuse 🤣🤣 obviously the "gift" shenanigans ain't working .
@@stevielovee7656 Facts.
@@MhiaLee19 People's Court isn't a showcase of wealthy people
Never loan money to family. It never ends well.
SO TRUE!
In general I feel that if you can’t afford to lose out on that money, don’t give it.
Never loan money period if you ask me.
@@heyayup damn . Where were u 7 yrs ago? bcuz that's the last time ive talkd to my family over money😁😅
@@ronaldturner5733 We need more people like you Ronald :)
This is exactly why my husband and I only help our children. No one else.
Not even help out siblings or parents? Can’t wait to see the look on your kids’ faces when they ask you to babysit the grandkids.
You're selfish
Wow I hope you two never need help from anyone else.
@@leetakamiya you aren’t obligated to help anyone and you don’t know their dynamic with their family anyway
@@Khalagessyca I didn’t want to help the OP. Just wanted to ask a question,
Never loan money to a relative unless you are prepared not to get it back.
good rule of thumb
And that's real
well it's not a loan then is it, if you don't get it back. how about don't ask to borrow money if you have no intentions on giving it back. people are so stupid. 🙄
This is very true
I cringe when I hear women state they’re a single mom 🙄 as if it’s a handicap. The defendant used and took advantage of the plaintiff. Her getting fired during training because she was dishonest “most likely on her application” clearly shows what type of person she is....shady and a liar. The defendant should be grateful and willing to pay her back. The plaintiff paid for her security deposit, rent and uhaul. She lost out on a kindhearted person who was willing to help her get ahead. She deserved to lose her job and her case. She’s highly ungrateful.
Very well said.. exactly what I thought!
It is a self inflicted handicap.... Most of the time
@M Tol Well to be fair it works for men. The moment they say they are single fathers they get all kinds of praise and sympathy.
@@nikam4167 So true! They might as well announce "I have no morals and I make poor choices."
@@Childfree334 not my praise and sympathy.
This is so pathetic. How do you think someone should support your lifestyle and you’re a GROWN woman with children? And has the nerve to be talking about, it was a gift.
WHY do people you loan money have NO integrity to pay it back? This is a stab in the back!!!! PAY BACK WHAT YOU BORROW.
they probably had no integrity to begin with!
Honestly! I make it first priority to pay someone back (happened maybe 2 times) as soon as I get money. I don’t even consider the amount of money I borrowed mine because I’m in debt with someone.
Just don't loan money to anyone. It just makes life easier.
@Ruth Ferguson, we ALL! may need some help at some time, these situations just shows You WHO?! people REALLY! are!
And with the grace it was given so rude and disrespectful.
One thing I learned from Judge Mathis is if someone says that they are paying you back during income tax time...you can kiss that money goodbye 🤣🤣🤣
The defendant is messy and ungrateful. Says a lot about her condition
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Right like wtf
Word
Not to mention how bad that destroys her character!!! I would NEVER treat someone as such, she was down right wrong all across the board!
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If a relative gave me money and later called it a loan, I would pay them. Regardless, if I thought it was originally a gift.
Same!!
Same even if I didn’t have the money I’d sort out a payment plan or pick up overtime at work 😭
If you know your cousin has “a pattern” of giving then demanding refund why accept money from her??
Exactly. She shot herself in the foot a few times with stupid comments like that 😊
She's a user.
The plaintiff was being very generous by paying for the entire move, prorated rent and deposit.. And giving the defendant until income tax to pay it back. The defendant seem to have gotten aggravated about the plaintiff trying to manage her life and used that as an excuse not to pay! There’s no way I’d be comfortable allowing a relative to foot that kinda bill and not pay it back! Shameful
I agree with you. That 17 year old had better enroll in school; if he refuses, he'll have to get a job and pay rent as I worked a full time and part time job to repay the loan and put some away for future emergencies.
Amazing how the defendant literally started off by saying the plaintiff felt like she was being used by everyone… then proceeds to say “Oh but no she totally just gave me $3000”
I love my family members very very much! This is no reality where I would gift them 4K for personal bills.
Some families do that for each other. Especially if they rich and giving kinda people
Even for an important medical procedure?
Amen to that, hell not even $400, if I do it better be a life or death situation, not because they’re behind on bills or even getting some one out of jail. When I say “life or death” I mean “life or death”. Family or no family. Like Judge Judy says “No Good Deed Goes Unpunished”. I’ve witnessed people throwing a person a life line only to have the generous person get kicked in the teeth for helping them.
That's nice. . .hope they feel the same way. . .sadly most relationships are not mutual
Period!
That woman’s Elvis glasses were DOPE!
I’m sure she would say: Thank you… Thank you verymuch.
Absolutely. Who is the designer,. I want a pair.
Absolutely!
Wow family needs to do better
Ditto. I NEED THESE GLASSES!!
I do believe the plaintiff was helping her get out of a bad situation that money was definitely a loan not no gift she wasn't your child
Never loan money you can't afford to lose because unfortunately you may never get it back. And the #1 sign you will not get it back is when they say I will give it back when I get my taxes.
If you recall, it was the plaintiff that suggested that she could repay the loan from her tax refund.
@@leetakamiya Yes, that was the text but I thought that the plaintiff said that's what the defendant had told her BEFORE loan was issued. Maybe this was her way of making sure that it was in writing.
This is why I disappear without a trace. My family, friends, everyone only talk to me if they only want something. 🙄
I've been missing a few times myself!! Before caller ID, I'd just let the answering machine record any messages. If there were a series of hang-ups, I didn't dare answer because I knew that a loan (that would never be repaid) was involved.
Aww that messed up. It’s always the good ppl who get done dirty. I always say let’s get all the good ppl who’ve been done wrong by their blood relative sand let’s make our OWN family together. I wldt mind having some new cousins 😂
@@TheMsklg1981 yeah wassup cuz?😳
Me too...
Family always do you dirty when it comes to money!
Exactly
Very true
"Eva has a realy really bad habit of giving me free money. It's a pattern for her."
🤣 hahaha right! Acting like she isn't accepting it with open arms!
😂🙌
Defendant lied and got caught up in her lies
She would also have lost if she had told the truth. Her emails showed her true colors.
Home girl was confident showing the judge that phone lmaooo .. she’s unstable and knows that was a loan
Plaintiff knows she stretches her “DoJ” employment status as far as she can 😂
Yes, I work for the government but if someone asks me for ID, I'm using my drivers license and not my badge.
I def believe she did that 😆
@@Fribee83 same. That's what they teach us to do.
@@foreverblessed6443 can you explain
@@Fribee83 explained
Imagine owing someone thousands of dollars and having the AUDACITY to file a counter suit for $5k claiming they caused you STRESS?! What?! You the one stressed out?!
Defendant's arguments make no rational sense unless you already believe her story without any evidence. It's truly circular reasoning.
She did have a point with the text however. If they had an original agreement for her 2 pay back the money with her taxes as the plaintiff cousin testified, why would there suddenly be a text "asking" if when she received her taxes IF she could pay her back. I mean the judge is correct, she did reply, " absolutely. " But why would she be asking her 2 if that was what was originally agreed upon? It wasn't asked in a manner that was reaffirming the original agreement, like..." Are you still going 2 be able 2 pay me back when you get your taxes?" Or, "I will still need you 2 pay me back when your taxes come." It was very specifically asking,"Can you pay me back the money when you get your taxes?" That implies that there never was an agreement 2 do so prior...
@@giondennis6808 there is a possibility that the original agreement was to pay the plaintiff back and the defendant said “let me know when”. that would prompt such a text imo. also, WHO GETS GIFTED THAT MUCH $$$$
@@c0gimyun For sure...NOBODY is ever trying 2 just GIVE someone a large chunk of money...But sometimes I think these people come in2 money from some kind of settlement or so.ething and it is the LARGEST amount they have ever had so they think it is really more than it is. Or more realistically that it will "go" farther than it really does. So at first, they hand it out, trying 2 be super generous and appear soooo giving and wealthy. THEN it begins 2 run out & panic mode sets in so now they start claiming "loan" and suddenly want it back...Regret giving...
You borrow a family members money and get upset because you have to pay it back. What is wrong with people?
People always get mad when you want your money back.
Shameful and selfish.
My grandma always taught us to never loan out money you can’t afford to not get back. Her family has burned her enough. She should keep her money in her pocket and help them in other ways.
If you were afraid of going to prison you should have paid that woman her money back!
She owed that money and didnt wana pay it back....but she was reaching on that ima federal agent mess😂
Indeed!
This defendant has some nerve!!! I am glad the plaintiff won, I hope she learns her lesson.
Thanks for telling me the verdict before the end of the vid 😒lol
@@sophiehaze6685# 1 lesson: never read the comments first.
You have to be careful who you share losses with. She confided in her cousin that she was being used and the cousin noted it as a weakness, and took advantage. She came down to use her..
Plantiff do NOT loan another DIME to a family member or friend! OMG!!!
I think she got her disability lump sum and was trying 2 look all flashy like she had it 2 spare...Then whatever insurance claim she was going after is investigating her for fraud and whatever settlement she was intending 2 further pad her pockets with fell through so she "suddenly" decided they were loans...
@@giondennis6808 LOL
Maybe
I got a loan from my family member to purchase a home...I made sure to pay it back in 2 months...I just could not afford to pay the rent anymore..My rent was was over 1700 for a 2 bedroom 2 bath...I purchased a home and now my mortgage is 1160....I'm just thankful my family could assist.
Doug questions and comebacks don’t hit where needed ...they need me in the hallway...
Come ON Nisha girl....get IN there and lettum havit!!!
POW!!! Right between the eyes.....
It's so amazing that people are very bold when comes to asking others for money.
This woman doesn't know how fortunate she is, in that she had someone so willing to help her. It never fails to astound me when others feel sooo entitled to get/take money from a friend, a family member and then act as if they don't have to repay...
I think I'm blessed. My sister brought me from Africa, paid my flight and every document I made and has housed me for 2years. I don't pay a dime. Instead when I do groceries she'll be mad and ask me to safe for my future then later refund the money. I'm just so blessed
And she's my step cousin not even blood sisters
This lady is a real good cousin that you don't find in these times,she should of had a conscience and give her atleast some money back
If a cousin handed me $4,000 I would not assume it was a gift and I wouldn’t accept it if it was.
Some people just won’t pay you back, unless you get a third party involved , like a court. Then they’ll be full of excuses and justifications to try to get out of it.
I know people that become habitual borrowers - borrow from everybody that would be willing to give them a loan, then not pay them back. They become a big “DEBTOR” .
WHAT gets me, is HOW u help people, then after they get your money, they go ghost, and no longer want to communicate. The lady who who lent her the money WILL DEFINITELY remain BLESSED because she has a given heart. I also HOPE she learned wisdom. Dont lend money unless you have it to lose. Always assume you wont get it back. If u dont have it to JUST give away, then dont lend it. Its ALWAYS a possibility you WON'T get it back..
As a Retired Fraud Investigator, myself, i have to disagree with the Judge respectfully. It's NOT a coincidence that the Defendant switched her claim to the office for the Plaintiff worked. Stevie Wonder could see what's happening in that scenario. Nevertheless, her employer were JERKS because they should've waited for the final disposition of the Investigation of the claim in question before taking action, if any, regarding her employment!!!
The defendant literally said that she had nothing to do with the ongoing claim or investigation, so why would her transferring agents to someone in her office suddenly get her fired? It makes no sense. She was fired for her own reasons.
Never loan family money! This lady can't even enroll her children in school without help... which is a major red flag, showing irresponsibility.
She should of paid her something, she might need her again!🤦🏾♀️
"should of"
That's what users always do. She burned that bridge. Cut down that money tree.
Her circle of people she can use just got smaller.
Should have*
@@s.k5459 should of, should have... Either way, she didn't....
If I loan someone money I ask myself one question- “If I never get any of this back will I be resentful?” If the answer is yes, I won’t do it.
finally some new episodes!!!
Right 😆
@Yeshuas Return You know that the RUclips channel for PC has ALL their downloaded videos, right?You can watch any or all at you leisure.
Yayyyy!!!!!!
@@leetakamiya What’s the name of the channel? I found one but there’s only abt 10 episodes on it.
@@leetakamiya What is the channel name? I am a feen!
Never ever loan money or give any money to family or friends they'll never pay it back and they don't appreciate it. Let them get how they get it how they were getting it before. Let everyone work and get their own stop extending your hands for someone to give you.
I agree plus I never borrow or loan money. If you need it and I have it and you're immediate family, it's a gift, not a loan, but only if you have a good track record of handling money and are doing your best. Freeloaders need not apply.
Yup! Was a roomate with a bestfriend until he lost his job and I covered his half until he looked for a job. Anytime I'd see him buy a video game or get fast food, I'd get pissed he could afford those but not pay me. Totally ruined it!
So no one has ever helped you except EVERYONE in the American taxpaying public? And everyone in the country has received some benefit of the public good, so stop pretending you fed yourself from your own teets as an infant. 🙄 Similac babies know no nurturing.
If her employer gets wind of this she might lose that job. That's not the first time she flashed that badge for no official reason. If her cousin is salty enough she might turn her in.
I agree but I have a feeling a lot of people flash their badges.
@@iris-nx1wt I'm pretty sure its against the law to flash your badge as a fed or a cop even if your not on a case or currently working just to get information, that been said, once some of those people get their badge they don't care about the rules behind it
As some1 who has a badge (won’t say which kind) u absolutely cannot just flash ur badge Bc u feel like it. It’s worn yes, even when u are getting off work in plain clothes shopping in for groceries Bc technically u are always on duty even off duty just like nurses/doctors. But u can’t go up to some1 flash ur badge & then question them about something or use it to intimidate ppl. She know that & that’s why she was nervous in her answer. She can definitely be in trouble for that!
Judge Milan should know many people have been set up by law enforcement. And if she recieves WC a person gets big settlements, that could be why she has been able to loan large sums of money. And her WC checks twice a month would be almost as much as she makes on the job. She's in no rush to go back to work.
She should lose her job, and all of her benefits.
If you give money to relative, parents, kids, grandkids, you might as well consider it a gift because you're lucky if you'll ever see it again. The old adage generally applies. "No good deed goes unpunished".
I did a contract when I borrowed money from my parents. They taught me to do people right and I wanted to make sure I paid them back what I owed.
I love that old saying. Another one I like is "Be careful of what you wish for". Through age & maturity I've learned that both of these sayings often do "ring true". 😊
The only person in my life that gets money me as a big gift is my grandmother. She’s 86 now God bless her she raised me gave me the world. She taught me how to be a young lady.
With the defendant ungrateful attitude & mouth twisted to the side like that is proof she’s TRIFLING! FBI or not… The plaintiff had to do what she needed to do to get her money back!!
She’s a federal officer who can’t answer what she does at the department of justice when asked multiple times other than to say over and over that she’s a federal officer lol. A clear cut case of the type of person who would never have a problem trying to use that to throw her weight around to coerce people and get her way thru intimidation.
I don’t mean any harm but the plaintiff had that crazy look in her eyes too often… its a lot that is not being said here 🤣🤣😵💫😵💫😵💫
I loaned brother over 6500 dollars and he didn’t pay and i sued him. Family will do you worse than a friend expecting it to be forgiven because your blood. No way
The look at 1:12 told me everything I needed to know about this Defendant.
How embarrassing for both of them. A grown woman taking thousands of dollars and not paying it back, a grown woman on ‘disability’ throwing cash at a family member when her other cousin didn’t pay her back… throwing that DOJ badge around like she’s something.
It ALWAYS makes me laugh when they file a counter suit for stress, slander & everything else that falls under that umbrella. I’ve seen the Judge rule in favor of it only a few times & those cases were EXTREM cases. Same when they file for lost wages.
Why do so many people who are dishonorable have similar traits?
Head tilting, smirky smiles, inappropriate giggles and laughs, fake looking shocked ......
They’re both shady as hell!
Yeah something is off...
I WISH someone would "gift" me 4k...
"Cassie, would you be able to pay the money back around income tax time?"
"Absolutely!"
Busted!!
🤣
The defendant is full of entitlement and ignorance 🙄 she plays the victim when convenient
Unless it’s an unexpected situation (a fire, stolen/lost wallet, health emergency etc.), always consider a ”loan” a “gift”. If you have a better living situation, your family usually believes that you have money to give away.
I had an Aunty call me , to ask if her son and his kids could come stay with me for a few months , as he lost his job and was looking for a new one . I have a 5 bedroom house . I did reply to her …… by giving a website where there are rooms to rent available . He called me after that . Asking if he could borrow some money for a deposit . I referred him to a few banks around the town . They are not talking to me anymore . I don’t care at all. Not loosing money for friends or relatives . The plaintiff should have done the same .
Great idea. I would never let anyone stay at my place. I dont like other people so it would be easy for me to tell them.
Absolutely Now I can rule against you. Lol
I find it funny that people rely on income tax. I get pretty much nothing back for taxes because my employers take it out correctly. If you're getting a lot back in taxes you are for sure getting screwed on your weekly pay (aside from having kids)
Frfr. I get my own money during the year and put it in my saving to get my own interest instead of letting the government have it
Yea some people are just bad at saving and money management. If they claimed 0 and got full paychecks, come tax season they'd have nothing saved to pay and owing IRS ain't fun.
If they getting a lot of money usually they have or claim multiple kids and low pay, and they don't get any taxes out cause they expected to get a refund!, they be getting usually 6000-12000 and never giving a dime to the government while ppl working decently pay that much or more and get nothing back
You already know she has three kids.
Pretty red hair behind defendant. Defendant is very pretty when she smiles. Pay your bills dear...
The plaintiff has the mannerisms of Mariah from married to medicine, glad she won
She will forever be on the struggle bus and needing money for other people! Pay that lady what you owe! Ugh!
The best part of this show is the post verdict interviews ….homie tell it like it is all the time
She is just an ungrateful young lady !
I would of been so appreciative of someone who helped me and kids move to another state and showing me the ropes ...sometimes the wrong ppl we helped at some point and time along the way ,and thats suck bc someone who is genuine at heart loose off bc of this kind of shit!.
I never loan money out. Either I’m going to give it to you, or I’m not. And in the case if someone ask me for nearly $4,000 dollars, the answer would be no.
My facial expressions would never🙈🤣 those people just sitting like zombies 😩🤣
17:44 "It worries me because she is a federal agent"
18:20 "you can misrepresent yourself as a federal agent and be rewarded for it."
Am I the only one that noticed that she said she changed her insurance that was under fraudulent investigation and then the lady is not working because of an injury at work ... 🤔
I think she was talking about car insurance.
Why when somebody owe you money they be the ones with an attitude. Thats the most funniest shit to me.
How ungrateful and selfish of that cousin!! Shes only bringing up the plantif's job because she lost hers!! Selfish...
Losing her job does actually make sense in that the cousin switched agents to her cousin which likely made the company think that they were working together to get a successful claim, probably not definite but makes the company concerned. 🤷♂️
The defendant didn't represent herself very well. If she was telling the truth, it seems she would have mentioned in the beginning of her testimony that she would have never moved to FL in the first place knowing she couldn't afford the move on her own, or afford to repay her cousin back money to help her move; and it was only after she had already been there for 2 weeks when her cousin decided to ask for her money back. So, if she knew the gift was going to turn into a loan she wouldn't have ever moved. Because if the plaintiff wanted to be vindictive she could have asked her to start repayment as soon as she started working, but she gave her at least 6 months to pay her back.🤨 (I do think they are both lying a little bit, but the defendant is definitely in the wrong! Too bad this situation will probably mess their relationship up for ever!)😕
She should be so grateful her cousin helped her. My family only had their hands out for my help before I said NO MORE.
That entire "I'm such a great person that everybody should agree with me," attitude from the Defendant was disgusting.
Instead of being grateful, the defendant showed her true colours. Glad thr plaintiff won! She seems so big-hearted.
Leave the dead sister out of it omg
The defendant most certainly should've paid but the plaintiff should've been reprimanded for what she did. Glad to see a new episode though
Plaintiff.....reprimanded for the 'parking lot' escapade?
@@4everThoughtful For misusing her federal badge
@@raeneal3825 Got it!! Yes, I agree.
I already learned my lesson about helping someone who I called a sister.
Not me Marilyn, I would never, EVER come to Florida, I hate the heat and the humidity. We get enough of that here but we don't have the lizards, snakes, alligators, cockroaches, etc.....
It's not that bad!😂
I don't care if it's family; If I get screwed over by anyone including family you will never get another dime from me. Believe me, they will need me before I need them.
The Plaintiff is a very shady person and if anyone else loans her money in the future and she doesn't pay it back. It's on that person
The defendant not plaintiff
Girl pay up, God Bless YOU!
It is always the same, people never want to pay back money. Then when you ask for it, you are harrassaing them.
This judge isn't giving any one any extra money if your ducks aren't in a row. Don't go to ger if you're not ready. Especially black or brown.
Rule of thumb, only "loan" money you don't need back, don't care if you get it back or not, and if you don't get it back you will not fall out with the person. So that drastically limits what is loaned and how much. Ex: Someone tell me they need to borrow $150, I will probably just give them $50 and say don't even worry about giving it back, but that is also all I can give you. They say they need to borrow $1,500, you need to go visit a bank 🤣
This is why you never loan noone money to family ,friends or strangers cause some would just say it was a "gift*.lol
That is one nice cousin for helping her moved and paid for her rent .... what a horrible cousin for not paying back or at least trying to do so
A good word to live by 'don't give money unless you're ok with not seeing it given back'
Don't gift or lend what you can't afford to lose.
I loved the plaintiff saying, I was telling her how to "get" money? Cause I know FL?
My daddy say don't let somebody borrow something you don't feel comfortable about not getting back!
Same!! I never loan what I expect back
Guy in the green shirt was rushing to sit down 😂😂😂😂😂
Hell don’t offer the money and when they ask just say “ I’m broke as a joke”. By the time they stop laughing hopefully you would have left the room. 🤣🤣🤣
Or hit them with the “dang, i was just about to ask you if i can hold something”
@@jessj953 I like that ! 🤣🤣🤣