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So the prime idea of a bar is to buy the woman a drink so she can talk about it with her friends, and then she makes the move on you afterwards that is awesome as someone that’s 38 and never been to a bar I am bamboozled
The symbol of a good lady is actually her own ability to sense precisely what you’re feeling. Empathy is a major indication of a good woman. She will not absolutely understand your situation but she is aware of the right way to emphatize and adapt to your emotions. She cares for you too much, not only to you but to the individuals around her also. When you’re hurting, she doesn’t cease to ask the reason why. She wants to assist you to stay away from difficulties. .
Pregame before you get there so you are already good and don't spend those outrageous prices on drinks. Scope out the place before making your move. Avoid big groups or groups who may be together. A group of girls is hard if you don't have wingmen. Two girls and one guy is also a red flag sometimes. The guy is a friend who is overly protective. Honestly he just wants to score with one of them. Don't buy drinks for a girl unless she spends time with you. I would say more than twenty minutes but its at your discretion. You will find that she will buy drinks for you instead to keep the night going. Ideally two girls who come as friends is great, three is also ok. A girl who is alone next to a friend who is talking with someone else is usually always a plus, unless she is taken. Honestly if the girl is taken and you are smooth she will be over you. Avoid super drunk girls, they are a train wreck. If a girl is there to also hook up, she will make it known to you when you talk. Also the ambience is very important, a casual place means you need to talk, some are more club like so choose what works for you and try to be yourself. If you know talking is more of your thing you will find people who want to do that too. In clubs you find less mature crowd. Most importantly, take initiative. Standing on the sidelines scared means you need to improve your confidence a lot more. Also having the right group of friends that typically engage in nightlife behavior is the way to go.
You sum it up brother . I got a group of 3 guys total & we destroy the bar scene . Pregame 2 hours before, we show up feeling GOOD, not “ drunk drunk “ though . We scope sit at the bar , scope , if it’s all no gos, we dip to the next bar & anytime there’s a solid opportunity like a group of 2 or 3 we take turns approaching first . It’s fun. So many dudes are scared of rejection, we laugh it off with the girls & sometimes they end up being our wingmen too. We’re all good looking guys / Mens physique / MMA fighters , so that’s always a + too. If anyone needs REAL help . Feel free to DM me . Don’t listen to bartender girls on how to pick up women lmao
Wish I have friends like you. Living in Tokyo is really difficult. My Japanese is no good to strike a convo and I need to use bloody translator everytime to make sense or make some stupid gestures. Going alone is the most difficult thing here and being brown dude is not good either. Maybe I need to give up!
@@jackreacher9351 Huh, what a coincidence. I'm also in Tokyo, just starting up on the whole socializing thing. Feel free to send me a message and we can go to some bars in Shibuya or something.
And try not to approach them until its near enough to kicking out time, guys have been trying to talk to them for most of the night, that and you wont have to constantly buy them drinks.
@@Darrin.Crawford You can buy girls drinks if you already know them or you're on a date. But if the first thing you do is buy a girl a drink you will seem needy. You can give a drink to a women perfectly fine as long as she things she "deserved" it.
@@lennart5738 Well duuuhhhhhh??? Of course but if I know them and was trying to pick them up then I wouldn't be at a bar with them now would I?? Let alone buy them a drink...I would actually be with them....think!!!!!!!
Another thing is, after the 'what's up' part, that won't necessarily guarantee picking them up... I mean, some other fairly complicated stuff has to happen after that... haha
one thing that I always do is tip between 50-80% (or more) to get in good with the bartenders, if I go to a bar for the first time. They will ALWAYS remember you. I go back to my hometown at least once a year, and I stop in the same dive bar, and they still remember me because of my tips. That's just my rule. To get in good, tip more.
I've actually done this before, and it doesn't always necessarily work. For a lot of guys this is a huge ego boost, and they do tend to act quite 'cool' about it, like 'oohh she likes me, I have the power now!' kinda thing. Also, I can confirm that I'm definitely attractive. :-) Also, a lot of guys say that they would love girls to make a move, but then I've found when I do it, I feel like they're almost scared off. I tend to like younger guys, so perhaps this may have something to do with it.
I like this one. It’s from bartenders that have seen what works. But I hate how I search something like “what women like in a guy” and most of the videos are by men
That’s because anything a woman tells you is from the perspective of the fish - if you wanna know what girls like and how to be more successful you should ask a seasoned fisherman who’s had experience in attracting multiple fish and can give you an idea of things that work and don’t.
The only time I ever went to a bar alone I ended up travelling around London with a bunch of Bulgarian models. I'm not gay or a guy though so an utter waste!
0:22 - "Just be yourself..." Yeah right... Talk about doing something that will all but guarantee that a Second Date WILL NEVER OCCUR!!! Today's women don't want men to be honest/genuine/sincere. What Do they want? I have NO Idea, and don't know of any man who does know, presuming one exists. Doing this Guaranteed to fail approach basically begs for the Certainty of women turning a man on just so she can turn him down.
shes assuming that 'yourself' is a cool laid back and interesting man. if you're not any of those things... work on that first. find and interest (whatever your want) work at it. do shit with it. take pride in it. take care of your apearance. find a style of clothes that represents you, and rock it. then be confident, but quiet. don't push or try to hard. just act as comfortable as you would with your guy friends. (minus farting, burping, or checking out girls.) Talk and Listen.Thats it. Done.
Not coming off "too strong" example. Sending the drink their way but not staring and being a creep. Just stay with your friends and be normal lmao if she wants to talk she will.
Don't just sit around. Make a move. As a guy i can tell you that - if you're not ugly (which i can't judge here) - most guys are just to shy to talk to you. Just walk over to the guy you think is cute and say "Hi, What's up?".
Absolutely not. Any girl who does that is weird and from hanging with girls I've seen giving up "the prize"(her time/number) that easy is a non-starter and shows she's not worth being approached.
As i said most guys tend to be shy, and it may seem like they do that "all cool" thing, but i garantuee you they do this just because they think that this is what YOU would want to see - and they don't feel like they have the power, they're just acting like they did, the truth is: A girl always has the power (and you have 2 arguments that support my thesis). As soon as you make smalltalk and you're flirting with a guy you got him. ... to be continued
Dance halls and bars are hardly the same thing. Dance halls don't usually contain drunkn idiots,alcoholics and drunk drivers. Ive not heard if a professional Swing dancer being arrested or hurting others w ther kick azz dancing. I also wish I new someone to take dance with. I wish I could swing dance,looks awesome!
I've given up on bars I tried and tried and always get ignored not even bothering with women at bars anymore I'm just going out there to have a fun time.
Wow, this video may as well have been made in the 1950's. Sending a drink over to her(them)? Really? Also, I think the worst thing you can do is offer to buy her a drink especially if that's the first thing out of your mouth. If you are going to do that then at least wait until at least ten minutes into the conversation. I don't recommend it at all though.
No... to test peoples abillity to troll others... it's pretty simple. You connect to people who want to register, both have to troll the other one. The one who trolls better will lose. If there is no other person to troll a stupid AI will compete against you.
I won’t talk to them or make eye contact in pubs or bars, I keep my self to myself, as those sorts of places are anti-social and not the place to meet women.
I just beat my chest and point at the lucky lady.
brilliant!
haha i'll definitely try that one..thx
This is just superb, been searching for "woman up" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Ciyackorn Lothario Fraternity - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my brother in law got cool results with it.
Winner of a video, I have been researching "how to go up to a girl" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Repatoon Pickup Packwood - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my buddy got excellent success with it.
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I'm friends with every bartender downtown, and all I got to show for it was this alcoholism.
:(
Lmao
100th like
So the prime idea of a bar is to buy the woman a drink so she can talk about it with her friends, and then she makes the move on you afterwards that is awesome as someone that’s 38 and never been to a bar I am bamboozled
Lol right
Buying a drink is the worst thing you can ever do
nope
Obviously not "the worst," but it is a simp move.
You mean a *bartender* is telling you you should really send drinks to random girls? Oh no, say it ain't so, Joe!
The symbol of a good lady is actually her own ability to sense precisely what you’re feeling. Empathy is a major indication of a good woman. She will not absolutely understand your situation but she is aware of the right way to emphatize and adapt to your emotions. She cares for you too much, not only to you but to the individuals around her also. When you’re hurting, she doesn’t cease to ask the reason why. She wants to assist you to stay away from difficulties. .
This just makes me even more afraid to try to meet a girl at a bar.
Wut? Why? How? This is all explained in plain english and it makes sense
@@InnerLightGuns Cuz ur mom gay
Pregame before you get there so you are already good and don't spend those outrageous prices on drinks. Scope out the place before making your move. Avoid big groups or groups who may be together. A group of girls is hard if you don't have wingmen. Two girls and one guy is also a red flag sometimes. The guy is a friend who is overly protective. Honestly he just wants to score with one of them. Don't buy drinks for a girl unless she spends time with you. I would say more than twenty minutes but its at your discretion. You will find that she will buy drinks for you instead to keep the night going.
Ideally two girls who come as friends is great, three is also ok. A girl who is alone next to a friend who is talking with someone else is usually always a plus, unless she is taken. Honestly if the girl is taken and you are smooth she will be over you. Avoid super drunk girls, they are a train wreck. If a girl is there to also hook up, she will make it known to you when you talk. Also the ambience is very important, a casual place means you need to talk, some are more club like so choose what works for you and try to be yourself. If you know talking is more of your thing you will find people who want to do that too. In clubs you find less mature crowd.
Most importantly, take initiative. Standing on the sidelines scared means you need to improve your confidence a lot more. Also having the right group of friends that typically engage in nightlife behavior is the way to go.
You sum it up brother . I got a group of 3 guys total & we destroy the bar scene . Pregame 2 hours before, we show up feeling GOOD, not “ drunk drunk “ though . We scope sit at the bar , scope , if it’s all no gos, we dip to the next bar & anytime there’s a solid opportunity like a group of 2 or 3 we take turns approaching first . It’s fun. So many dudes are scared of rejection, we laugh it off with the girls & sometimes they end up being our wingmen too. We’re all good looking guys / Mens physique / MMA fighters , so that’s always a + too. If anyone needs REAL help . Feel free to DM me . Don’t listen to bartender girls on how to pick up women lmao
Wish I have friends like you. Living in Tokyo is really difficult. My Japanese is no good to strike a convo and I need to use bloody translator everytime to make sense or make some stupid gestures. Going alone is the most difficult thing here and being brown dude is not good either. Maybe I need to give up!
@@jackreacher9351 Huh, what a coincidence. I'm also in Tokyo, just starting up on the whole socializing thing. Feel free to send me a message and we can go to some bars in Shibuya or something.
@@Kilack65 where to dm you?
And try not to approach them until its near enough to kicking out time, guys have been trying to talk to them for most of the night, that and you wont have to constantly buy them drinks.
Nah. Then another guy will possibly have her and youll look desperate in my opinion.
Amen....its all down to attraction..if they aren't into you. They just ain't. Might as well wait to see who they choose. Lol
Oddly enough I wouldn't have thought to talk about booze in a bar.
I didn't either, although I haven't been to a bar to drink yet, lol.
how do you pick up the bartender?
"Wanna shot at the title?" works pretty well for me.
L M A O
No nooooo...you DO NOT under any circumstances buy her a drink.
why
@@comicstwisted Why?? look at the result.
@@Darrin.Crawford You can buy girls drinks if you already know them or you're on a date. But if the first thing you do is buy a girl a drink you will seem needy. You can give a drink to a women perfectly fine as long as she things she "deserved" it.
@@lennart5738 Well duuuhhhhhh??? Of course but if I know them and was trying to pick them up then I wouldn't be at a bar with them now would I?? Let alone buy them a drink...I would actually be with them....think!!!!!!!
Haha... but a *bartender* wants me to send random girls drinks! There couldn't possibly be a conflict of interest there, could there?
9 minute commercial for a 2 minute video and I can't stop watching
ALWAYS factor in the difficulty setting that you're living life on into the equation.
Another thing is, after the 'what's up' part, that won't necessarily guarantee picking them up... I mean, some other fairly complicated stuff has to happen after that... haha
BE CAREFUL - Having the bartender know you by name can make you look like the regular, boring drunks who have nowhere else to go.
Good point.
NOOOOOOORM!
Nah
one thing that I always do is tip between 50-80% (or more) to get in good with the bartenders, if I go to a bar for the first time. They will ALWAYS remember you. I go back to my hometown at least once a year, and I stop in the same dive bar, and they still remember me because of my tips. That's just my rule. To get in good, tip more.
Wut, How do you avoid becoming broke
bro im broke bro
These tips are too damn general
I've actually done this before, and it doesn't always necessarily work. For a lot of guys this is a huge ego boost, and they do tend to act quite 'cool' about it, like 'oohh she likes me, I have the power now!' kinda thing. Also, I can confirm that I'm definitely attractive. :-)
Also, a lot of guys say that they would love girls to make a move, but then I've found when I do it, I feel like they're almost scared off. I tend to like younger guys, so perhaps this may have something to do with it.
Makes a man miss the caveman days, where a guy would just say ..............you......me......sex.......and take her back to his cave. lol.
+damndisplace07 The good ol days ;)
Yeah but they're heavier these days so they're harder to pick up and carry off
hahaha, Going to get even heavier with the new all you can eat mcd's fries option.
Yup now its fkd up
I like this one. It’s from bartenders that have seen what works. But I hate how I search something like “what women like in a guy” and most of the videos are by men
That’s because anything a woman tells you is from the perspective of the fish - if you wanna know what girls like and how to be more successful you should ask a seasoned fisherman who’s had experience in attracting multiple fish and can give you an idea of things that work and don’t.
I think being a bartender would be really fun sometimes.
I tried this but they patched it after the update
How do you pick up women who are bartenders?
The only time I ever went to a bar alone I ended up travelling around London with a bunch of Bulgarian models. I'm not gay or a guy though so an utter waste!
You still looking for guys in bars? Lol what's up....my name is David.
@@Nolen_Sorento When was I ever looking for guys? Been with my other half for 18 years.
@@UsandEveryoneWeKnow lol just making a joke.....trying to hit on a girl through RUclips comments...on an 8 year old comment. 😅
@@Nolen_Sorento I know you were joking. I'm probably a fair bit older than you think too.
@@UsandEveryoneWeKnow and probably half way around the world. 🌎
I met my wife in a bar now we have 3kids and been married 10yrs
same.
Ngl my parents met at a club 👀
How did you do it, with so many guys around as competitors
@@Myself_here just sparked a conversation
@@seanlamar29
How?
I would love to meet my soul mate in a library.
Rawr x3 nuzzles how are you *pounces on you* yes
how do you meet someone in a library you're not suppose to talk
Probably a lesbian
JP by talking. 💁🏾♂️
Like BIG said you gotta “wipe it out rubber doubt show her what you all about” 😂
"don't try to be witty, just be yourself" but if myself is witty, what do i do then? :P
Then dont
i usually say "i can get us a bottle"
0:22 - "Just be yourself..." Yeah right... Talk about doing something that will all but guarantee that a Second Date WILL NEVER OCCUR!!!
Today's women don't want men to be honest/genuine/sincere. What Do they want? I have NO Idea, and don't know of any man who does know, presuming one exists.
Doing this Guaranteed to fail approach basically begs for the Certainty of women turning a man on just so she can turn him down.
Where this bar at again ? I will go to soely ask the bartender to marry me
shes assuming that 'yourself' is a cool laid back and interesting man. if you're not any of those things... work on that first. find and interest (whatever your want) work at it. do shit with it. take pride in it. take care of your apearance. find a style of clothes that represents you, and rock it. then be confident, but quiet. don't push or try to hard. just act as comfortable as you would with your guy friends. (minus farting, burping, or checking out girls.) Talk and Listen.Thats it. Done.
Life would've been so much better had Adam not met Eve
Bartenders are so cool.
Not coming off "too strong" example. Sending the drink their way but not staring and being a creep. Just stay with your friends and be normal lmao if she wants to talk she will.
eye contact was the key when i was dating
Well that sounded like a good advices, i got translated my native language and see how it works
Ii didn't know Demi levatto was a bartender?
That girl is way hotter than demi
He says "maybe"... that does imply that your "Cinderella" maybe found in a bar, but maybe not.
i tried sending a drink to a lady in a bar and that pointer didn't work and never used that one again
Bartender's are the NSA of the drinking world! LOL
that escalated quickly.
Well I know mine goes to bars often and he is an amazing man :)
be a hot badass and girls will chase you. thats the way nature intended
Exactly the hot guy will get the women without trying.
0:12 Damn Girl Wouldnt mind hangin' with you! You're healthy!
The bartender girl looks good! What’s up!
9 people failed at picking up girls
More likely than in a bar.
yeah, 4chan IS a place of wisdom and knowledge
I couldn't say that with a straight face
Introduce a troll test for every online game... before you can registrate you have to complete this test ;-)
İ couldnt understand.. what abouth if i cant speak english very well??
I dont think you know this, but people dont try to find love at bars.
a viper venom shot sounds intense
This is good advice I'm turning 21 in August and I been single for to long and I'm kind of looking for love with my life
Macknificent JP amazing advice.
@@jpalmighty317 im doing that bro
@@jpalmighty317 Same thing I told my friend! Until you save enough to travel put love on the backburner.
If you meet someone smashed they tend to be broken all the time...
Don't just sit around. Make a move. As a guy i can tell you that - if you're not ugly (which i can't judge here) - most guys are just to shy to talk to you. Just walk over to the guy you think is cute and say "Hi, What's up?".
Absolutely not. Any girl who does that is weird and from hanging with girls I've seen giving up "the prize"(her time/number) that easy is a non-starter and shows she's not worth being approached.
I hide in my restroom.
Creepy is the bartenders watching
Why go to a bar looking for something serious in the first place???
Because there's people there and you meet people by going to places where there are people???
Starscream but it’s a fake environment where people are more than likely intoxicated
@@SecretlyStarscream bs
@@SecretlyStarscream you're right actually, you cannot meet people anywhere else :)
can I have 5 $ by the way I have a gun but i just need 5 $
That’s a good line
I hate when be say "just be yourself." Bitch, I wouldn't be watching this video if it wasn't for me "just being myself."
As i said most guys tend to be shy, and it may seem like they do that "all cool" thing, but i garantuee you they do this just because they think that this is what YOU would want to see - and they don't feel like they have the power, they're just acting like they did, the truth is: A girl always has the power (and you have 2 arguments that support my thesis). As soon as you make smalltalk and you're flirting with a guy you got him. ... to be continued
And i said people dont try to find love at bars. I didnt say that it doesnt happen.
Dance halls and bars are hardly the same thing. Dance halls don't usually contain drunkn idiots,alcoholics and drunk drivers. Ive not heard if a professional Swing dancer being arrested or hurting others w ther kick azz dancing. I also wish I new someone to take dance with. I wish I could swing dance,looks awesome!
hello
you just killed it dude....
hey
I kind of want to be a bartender...
That would probably be the single easiest way to pick up women.
I don't drink, so I ain't never going to a bar.
B-O-R-I-N-G
what is it, that they're talking about? didn't pay much attention both of them probably got fired anyway.
bigmouth strikes again
Veriy nice
Why so mean? And what do you have against libraries?. They are places of wisdom and knowledge ... you should visit one...
idn sending a drink theses days seems to be an insult idn mabe times changed
I've given up on bars I tried and tried and always get ignored not even bothering with women at bars anymore I'm just going out there to have a fun time.
Looking like Rock Hudson helps.
Add cold water to the burned area.
Chicks dig me
Lol I kept scratching my screen to get the fly off of it.. Nice display picture :p
I don't think people go to bars to meet their future husband or wife... they're usually looking to hook up.
Wow, this video may as well have been made in the 1950's. Sending a drink over to her(them)? Really? Also, I think the worst thing you can do is offer to buy her a drink especially if that's the first thing out of your mouth. If you are going to do that then at least wait until at least ten minutes into the conversation. I don't recommend it at all though.
Great vid!!
Always be yourself, except you can be like Barney. Then be like Barney.
THE VIPER ROOM :DDD JOHNNY DEPP OWNS THAT XXXDDD
Hey
Im thinking of trying a new approach confidence strong personality traits
Hi
True story. Be genuine is what theyre really trying to say
That seems to be the ultimate challenge, lol. Hot (or sometimes just vaguely female) bartenders are used to getting ridiculous attention.
0:19 - what if I don't have to try?
ITT: thirsty, angry dudes who've struck out a lot (or think they have)
rip Michael hastings
No... to test peoples abillity to troll others... it's pretty simple. You connect to people who want to register, both have to troll the other one. The one who trolls better will lose. If there is no other person to troll a stupid AI will compete against you.
i gotta stop drinking
I know
I have lost all of my confidence after my breakup.
yikes
Hope you found it and are doing well
Still the same 8 years later? That would be a cool story to listen to. 😋
I won’t talk to them or make eye contact in pubs or bars, I keep my self to myself, as those sorts of places are anti-social and not the place to meet women.
How to pick up women at bars: Don't.
ow who would guess be normal
Best advice! Had to learn the hard way. :D
You can't possibly be serious...