I tried to 'Cold Approach' girls as an Introvert (Difficulty: Impossible)

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  • @DylanMcKnight
    @DylanMcKnight  Год назад +5775

    W or L rizz?
    10K Likes and I’ll do this again, but with a lot more girls lol. Also saw some comments about my appearance and how I’m looking a bit ‘better’ and how I did it. It’s really a combination of cutting (I’ve lost 20lbs of fat) as well as I’ve gotten into looksmaxxing incase you’ve missed my previous videos. Could also be because I bought a new camera, so the quality and visuals are definitely upgraded! Anyways, thanks for watching and hopefully this inspires at least a couple of you guys to approach a girl or two ❤️
    The book I used to looksmaxx: www.facialgains.com/dylanmcknight
    My workout program: dylansprogram.com
    Please use code ‘DYLAN’ for your Gorilla Mind supplements ❤️

    • @ccsurep
      @ccsurep Год назад +42

      What happend to Aubrey 😯

    • @ccsurep
      @ccsurep Год назад +217

      W rizz

    • @gamtoszinios1336
      @gamtoszinios1336 Год назад

      1di0t watch scott primal

    • @soylentgr33n
      @soylentgr33n Год назад +26

      Just make a connor murphy style video where you pretend to be a nerd and then show girls your abs ahahha

    • @calvn8or543
      @calvn8or543 Год назад +40

      Absolute W

  • @rida7757
    @rida7757 Год назад +46469

    brotha absolutely crushed that first approach after just saying he couldn’t walk up to girls at all 🤣🤣🤣

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 Год назад

      m.ruclips.net/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/видео.html

    • @Lucid132
      @Lucid132 Год назад +929

      Fr making me feel so much more single

    • @digitalsage5636
      @digitalsage5636 Год назад +638

      Bro said our kids would have pythons😂

    • @chickentoucher55
      @chickentoucher55 Год назад +202

      He sounded like a ai

    • @andeemengaming5000
      @andeemengaming5000 Год назад +88

      @@Bocchi347bro no the girls reaction was negligible notice the way he spoke. good face doesnt give you that

  • @freejae3884
    @freejae3884 Год назад +13325

    Bro caught feelings on the first attempt 💀💀

    • @Kqmren
      @Kqmren 9 месяцев назад +410

      lmao frl, had to stop the video right then and there

    • @paulo0651
      @paulo0651 9 месяцев назад +221

      Yeah and probably surpassed the line when he said "our kids would have pythons" to a teenager💀

    • @samerbark690
      @samerbark690 9 месяцев назад +206

      @@paulo0651 teenager? trying to frame the guy or what?

    • @paulo0651
      @paulo0651 9 месяцев назад +41

      @@samerbark690 I was joking bro, she's 19 and legal ofc

    • @REALGAMING2016
      @REALGAMING2016 9 месяцев назад +13

      😂😂😂😂 homie somehow killed the first convo lmao

  • @Worldexplorer2390
    @Worldexplorer2390 Год назад +14076

    Sophie contributed and engaged in the conversation. Not a lot of girls do that.

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty Год назад +676

      Hardly everrrrr bro. If you get a girl to ask you a question back she a keeper

    • @RaysocialM5
      @RaysocialM5 Год назад +111

      @@GlobeofBeautyidk bout a keeper bruh I will go far to say far from it bruh

    • @Tony-tk4ht
      @Tony-tk4ht Год назад +327

      bro i just cold aproached a girl that i liked at the gym. my inner demons were trying to make me fold but i walked up and said hey and just let the vibe carry through. endend up inviting her to get a smoothie afterwards and she accepted. felt great

    • @wolfeloma
      @wolfeloma Год назад +8

      @@RaysocialM5 more like a friend theres not always a chance

    • @nelli5168
      @nelli5168 Год назад +54

      if girls don't contribute to convos w u thats entirely on you bro

  • @eriksniped5111
    @eriksniped5111 7 месяцев назад +2923

    "I can't get girls"
    Bro if he tried:

    • @realwii.e1
      @realwii.e1 3 месяца назад +42

      me if i tried: x_x

    • @pikd7454
      @pikd7454 3 месяца назад +14

      how do i repost a youtube comment xd

    • @Real6002
      @Real6002 3 месяца назад +6

      @@realwii.e1 literally me lol

    • @fggfdfg3525
      @fggfdfg3525 2 месяца назад

      Red pill man sucks, they don’t believe in the astral dimension, that’s why they suck.

    • @Crester_Green411
      @Crester_Green411 2 месяца назад +1

      @@realwii.e1me not being jacked or good looking if I tried

  • @blushiro29
    @blushiro29 Год назад +9468

    sophie and dylan were a perfect match, that first approach was incredible, who agrees with me

    • @the1337fleet
      @the1337fleet Год назад +227

      I would have liked your comment, but asking for validation and asking who agrees made me not want to
      But I agree with you

    • @suryanshtripathi6249
      @suryanshtripathi6249 Год назад +112

      ​@@the1337fleetdude chill its a like you are not paying him😂

    • @akaTandy
      @akaTandy Год назад +69

      @@the1337fleetbros a menace for no reason 😂

    • @the1337fleet
      @the1337fleet Год назад +8

      @@akaTandy 😂

    • @ASTR0TALKSPHILOSOPHY
      @ASTR0TALKSPHILOSOPHY Год назад +10

      Women will never reject a man no matter how shy he is, you need to talk to her more. She will only reject you in private, women are social creatures.

  • @ISOUI9
    @ISOUI9 Год назад +5107

    When he said "i rather charge into battle with a sword and shield instead of approaching a girl right now" I felt for him

    • @UgasInk
      @UgasInk Год назад +167

      Nah I felt him. I understood. Infact I agreed.

    • @Zenikai_
      @Zenikai_ Год назад +12

      i thought he was gonna finish that clip by walking up to the people in front of him LOL

    • @Εφταστερος
      @Εφταστερος Год назад +39

      It's always easier for an introvert to have a cause, a serious reason for doing something rather than making small talk and trying to socialize with others. I feel him.

    • @verlax8956
      @verlax8956 Год назад

      @AzureWolf168and anjme

    • @AlbertWesker_GOAT
      @AlbertWesker_GOAT Год назад

      ​@@ΕφταστεροςThat's why I haven't had casual sex with women, I don't want to have sex just for the sake of it and I can't lie about it, the day I talk to a girl it will be because I'm dying to be with her and have a real relationship.

  • @liamflynn6929
    @liamflynn6929 Год назад +8283

    Dude that was an INSANE first attempt at cold approach. Seriously, I've never seen one go so well. Keep it up bro.

    • @skirtinbed9923
      @skirtinbed9923 Год назад +88

      My thoughts exactly... He came off perfectly I'd say, pretty genuine and brave

    • @skirtinbed9923
      @skirtinbed9923 Год назад +44

      Most I've been able to manage was walking up, asking for a number straight away nervous af, and then getting rejected. Since then been to scared

    • @ricpo8683
      @ricpo8683 Год назад +39

      Goes well when you pay the girl to be in your video and give her the script beforehand, how naive are you?

    • @doernbecherr
      @doernbecherr Год назад +54

      Honestly I think her being responsive and being engaged in conversation with him is what really helped it go well. Still good on Dylan’s part cause he was pretty smooth talking to her but it’s always helpful when a girl at least acts enthusiastic, as a guy trying to ask out a girl

    • @Theeelp1
      @Theeelp1 Год назад

      ⁠@@doernbecherrhe was just being himself not particularly smooth I’d say I think in general the initial nerves obstructs us guys from being ourselves when approaching a female.

  • @Ouzyman
    @Ouzyman 5 месяцев назад +1695

    He broke character so fast😂. He was like "fuck acting, she's fine"

    • @yamashita7578
      @yamashita7578 3 месяца назад +6

      lmao

    • @C-64
      @C-64 2 месяца назад

      One of us my ass, mf is built

    • @Gir-granat
      @Gir-granat Месяц назад

      Time?

    • @skdhak739
      @skdhak739 Месяц назад +4

      exactly, felt so un-Introvert

    • @C-64
      @C-64 Месяц назад +1

      @@Ouzyman he deleted my comment exposing him

  • @jakefitzfitness
    @jakefitzfitness Год назад +4033

    What a wholesome guy. He found a girl he likes and stops pursuing other women. Respect brother ✊🏼

    • @dwex8596
      @dwex8596 11 месяцев назад +52

      YEAH? BECAUSE HE IS A TALL GOODLOOKING GUY. IMAGINE IF HE WAS SUB5 LIKE ME

    • @97itachiuchiha
      @97itachiuchiha 11 месяцев назад +103

      @@dwex8596 Become dwarfpilled

    • @ts6603
      @ts6603 10 месяцев назад

      over for guys like us@@dwex8596

    • @elpatron7185
      @elpatron7185 10 месяцев назад

      @@dwex8596😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😊😊😊🎉🎉

    • @keithtorrence2487
      @keithtorrence2487 9 месяцев назад +7

      Well he actually kept going after but he didn’t have the stones and had to stop.

  • @Frontfight
    @Frontfight Год назад +7134

    Nah that’s awesome Dylan. After seeing that first interaction I thought you’d be insane not to follow through with that girl. What a gem. No shame honestly in cutting the video short.

    • @ZugZug99
      @ZugZug99 Год назад +132

      18 is kinda young for a 23 year old man. As a 24 year old guy I have to be honest I wouldn't really want to go younger than 21-22. Not necessarily an issue with the age itself but more about things like experience and maturity and expectations that come with being a little bit older

    • @JohnHughesTR
      @JohnHughesTR Год назад +327

      ​@@ZugZug9918 is not to young lmao, if both are comfortable with the age gap then no age gap is too big assuming both are above 18 ofc

    • @davidaustin8424
      @davidaustin8424 Год назад +67

      @@ZugZug99I’ve been 29, dated a 19 year old for a year and a half (obviously started dating at 19) and the answer is: IT DEPENDS! Age difference can be a perfectly fine thing but can also have its own set of issues. Just depends on the individuals. I’ve seen 18 year olds that act 30 and vice versa. So it’s very dependent on the individual 🤷‍♂️ regardless, they’re fun in the sack so rearrange those guts and if she’s got the type of personality you wanna keep around then do it 🤷‍♂️

    • @TRENMATO
      @TRENMATO Год назад

      man shut up@@ZugZug99

    • @6ixXxnonymous
      @6ixXxnonymous Год назад

      @@davidaustin8424💀

  • @PARCE93
    @PARCE93 Год назад +4410

    Out of all the “cold approaching” videos, this one was the most genuine & best one I’ve seen. No cheesy pickup lines, no forced chatter, no creepy vibes, no over the top gimmicks. It was a genuine interaction. I know it made you uncomfortable, but you killed that. Just remember that you are going to eventually come across someone who will turn you down, so don’t let that break your spirit.

    • @iwantcake7703
      @iwantcake7703 Год назад +25

      Very creepy sounding brah 😭

    • @fanatic4747
      @fanatic4747 Год назад

      @@iwantcake7703how?

    • @tyx0x0ty
      @tyx0x0ty Год назад +19

      @@iwantcake7703 how dude

    • @iwantcake7703
      @iwantcake7703 Год назад +12

      @@tyx0x0ty its just so incredibly off-putting how he words things. He directly said "i've been watching you," lmfaoo

    • @McDonaldReagan
      @McDonaldReagan Год назад +68

      @@iwantcake7703 it was clear he was being sarcastic. she even played along and responded that she watched him every single day. You probably haven't talked to many girls though so it's understandable for you to miss things like that.

  • @Marco_My_Words
    @Marco_My_Words 11 месяцев назад +884

    Sophie is a keeper, the chemistry between you guys is great, you should really keep getting to know each other!

    • @truedepthaquaponics7118
      @truedepthaquaponics7118 3 месяца назад +3

      100%

    • @fggfdfg3525
      @fggfdfg3525 2 месяца назад

      Stop saying this keeper thing, this doesn’t exist

    • @Marco_My_Words
      @Marco_My_Words 2 месяца назад +1

      @@fggfdfg3525 A keeper doesn't exist? How do you procreate?

    • @fggfdfg3525
      @fggfdfg3525 2 месяца назад

      @@Marco_My_Words no need to be a “keeper” to do that. And also not everyone on earth is willing to proceate.

    • @hotmcfly9247
      @hotmcfly9247 2 месяца назад

      @@fggfdfg3525no they aren’t

  • @TheBritishPatriot
    @TheBritishPatriot Год назад +9052

    There’s no way in hell you’re introverted, you were so confident and casual.

    • @williamredpath861
      @williamredpath861 Год назад +4

      Exactly, it's all fake nonsense. The man is the embodiment of narcissistic. Introverts don't video themselves working out. Introverts find it hard filming themselves in any capacity. This guy knows he's tall, buff and good looking. It's naivety to believe otherwise.

    • @CHUCKZ2
      @CHUCKZ2 Год назад +1493

      It seems that way. Not all Introverts are bad at socializing People always confuse all introverts with being bad at socializing, but I can tell you he’s using every last piece of mental energy to keep up with the conversation. I speak from experience. I can see through his lines. I can easily come off as a extrovert myself, but I have social anxiety, doesn’t mean I can’t come off casual and not be able to speak.

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 Год назад +201

      ​@@CHUCKZ2 it was scripted. She looked like she knew him. I cold approaches thousands it's never that smooth and she was way too comfortable for a stranger

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 Год назад

      ​@@CHUCKZ2you guys are autistic believe everything

    • @SR2NormandyEnjoyer
      @SR2NormandyEnjoyer Год назад +223

      I’m an introvert too and i can handle a conversation but after that, i am extremely tired and need to be lonely

  • @arshie26
    @arshie26 Год назад +2937

    Wow Sophie feels like a dream. She loves to work out, she seems intelligent, great chemistry, and she loves that he's cold approaching.
    Dylan, I wish that you would have kept approaching. Chunk out the goal, dude! Do 10 approaches per day. It would be seriously inspirational to watch you work through them.

    • @noxlousxsolo9724
      @noxlousxsolo9724 Год назад +32

      And she is a teenager!

    • @k2c534
      @k2c534 Год назад

      ​@@noxlousxsolo9724Ok?

    • @moonlight-zt7pi
      @moonlight-zt7pi Год назад +114

      @@noxlousxsolo9724you’ve commented a couple times about her age. a little bit odd to focus on it. hopefully you’re not older than mid-late 20s, otherwise this just comes off as creepy…

    • @zura898
      @zura898 Год назад +41

      @@Jk-qx7gm Such a random accusation wtf lol

    • @zura898
      @zura898 Год назад

      @@Jk-qx7gm First of all that dude isn't even east asian lol. And you sound like one of those insecure dudes who shit on asian men to make themselves feel superior. Im asian and I'm not like that in the slightest. Plenty of asian changs out there

  • @Ziggle-ky9kv
    @Ziggle-ky9kv 2 месяца назад +2404

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @lonestarr1490
      @lonestarr1490 2 месяца назад +20

      Nah, I don't want to "manipulate" them. I'm after smart ones who would see right through this shit anyway.
      I also don't need to manipulate them, since I'm legitimately awesome. All I need is a proper chance to prove that. And since this is a highly situational ordeal, no book will help me with that. Especially not one that promises me to make some kind of deranged puppet master out of me.

    • @leonyarkin8797
      @leonyarkin8797 2 месяца назад

      You know where i can find it? Theres is no sign of that book in internet.

    • @bilbo_gamers6417
      @bilbo_gamers6417 2 месяца назад +6

      dark mind tricks otherwise known as talking to them and being nice to them while occasionally making a joke at their expense in good fun

    • @eulalawrence1222
      @eulalawrence1222 2 месяца назад +4

      Bot

    • @monfrecher9449
      @monfrecher9449 2 месяца назад

      ​@@leonyarkin8797it doesn't exist

  • @marigi2013
    @marigi2013 Год назад +2272

    Being attractive is 80% of the battle with talking to women, if not more, and you proved that today. You’re doing great keep going strong

    • @leaflet7738
      @leaflet7738 Год назад +217

      It’s definitely thoughts like this that hold most guys back. If you didn’t notice, Sophie was really engaged and found a common link between them. He even said in the video he tried to approach other women and it didn’t work. If you stop thinking of women as shallow empty heads, then you’ll see that there really isn’t a one size fits all method in dating.

    • @nubu9636
      @nubu9636 Год назад +318

      @@leaflet7738 she literally assumed that he goes to the gym because he looks like he does, so the conversation started due to his appearance and she found him to be her type aswell

    • @nik-q3x
      @nik-q3x Год назад +164

      @@leaflet7738 keep coping looks are one of the most important things

    • @BennDover-x3q
      @BennDover-x3q Год назад +6

      @@nubu9636fr bro 😂😂😂

    • @BourdeoixEterno
      @BourdeoixEterno Год назад

      Being funny and confident attracts people bro@@nik-q3x

  • @grumplin
    @grumplin Год назад +2765

    I think the thing holding most guys back from doing this is the fear that some people think this kind of approach isn't socially acceptable. I know that's why I don't.

    • @EthanDBG
      @EthanDBG Год назад +1

      It’s because it’s scary. It’s our own minds preventing us, not society

    • @mangarwts
      @mangarwts Год назад +144

      I jus think am not good enough, and I think that's the case actually, it's why I want to become the most superior version of myself so everyone will acknowledge me...

    • @TheRealOG007
      @TheRealOG007 Год назад +84

      @@mangarwts Do It for yourself, not for others

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 Год назад +149

      @@TheRealOG007lets be honest. we all do it for others to some degree. And thats okay. It’s just that you should do it for yourself more, thats all.

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 Год назад

      Its deffo socially acceptable, though the evil feminists and evil media are trying to brainwash our young girls and boys into thinking it isnt, and that rotting their brain away on sad, fake apps like instagram is the new way to connect with people. I’ll always speak to girls in real life nomatter what. We’re human beings, not socially retarded islands who should be distant from one another. As long as theyre respectful. Theres nothing wrong whatsoever with a human being simply talking to another human being.

  • @thepeopleareawake445
    @thepeopleareawake445 Год назад +2232

    to be clear the first approach wasn’t HIM doing the work. Kudos to him for doing the approach but this is what natural compatibility looks like. Notice how it was effortless on both ends bc both parties WANTED to participate and engage in conversation. With the overlap in interests (fitness) it made it even easier, therefore creating attraction.
    You cant hope to have this with every interaction and it’s important to know what actually contributes to an interaction like this.
    So instead of “dude you killed it” its more like “dude you guys are a match”.
    it’s dangerous to contribute the interaction to JUST him or you will think all interactions/results you have with women only have to do with your “game” and that you have some sort of obligation to muster perfect results with EVERY girl you talk to.
    Which i will make clear, is NOT the point of dating and is why so many men end uo unhappy.
    The point is to find who you are most compatible with.
    Side note: this is why even REJECTION is good bc there was clearly an incompatibility somewhere.
    Overall, great video. Appreciate you putting yourself out there despite the discomforts!

    • @ygaaaoo
      @ygaaaoo Год назад +58

      100% correct 🙏🏼. I agree

    • @nicosanchez_music
      @nicosanchez_music Год назад +98

      If I don’t feel that mutual energy from a girl in conversation I just let it go. I hate feeling like I need to get someone’s attention or make them feel something.

    • @ltb1345
      @ltb1345 Год назад +14

      Yeah, I've never shared any interests with a girl. Makes it hard to know what to talk about.

    • @thepeopleareawake445
      @thepeopleareawake445 Год назад +9

      @@nicosanchez_music facts

    • @novanity9611
      @novanity9611 Год назад +5

      Preach

  • @jestahead
    @jestahead 11 месяцев назад +132

    It's amazing what a difference it makes when she actually wants to talk to you. That nonverbal positive feedback boosts your own confidence in the moment and it's this self sustaining loop of feeling bolder which makes her more interested which makes you feel even more bold and increases the options you have in the conversation that you think will be received positively. It's great to see that in action.

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy Месяц назад

      Makes zero difference if your not good at pick up ! im very good looking and loads of women drool over me but when i aproach im nervous and underconfident and bad at pick up and not one ever has ever said yes, so no it doesnt make any difference if she wants you ! you have to be good at pick up like this guy !

  • @djnathaniel2699
    @djnathaniel2699 Год назад +3174

    Introversion doesn't mean social anxiety or being bad in social situations - it just means you need more alone time to recharge your social battery. Never use introversion as an excuse to be bad at socializing, and you can be just as confident as Dylan is in this video.

    • @MrLeeStories
      @MrLeeStories Год назад +109

      Bingo bango you got it. I’m highly introverted, but still do ok in social situations. I 100 percent thrive in my alone time.

    • @zazazaza9693
      @zazazaza9693 Год назад +24

      In my case I have high anxiety issues, I'm always paranoid and I'm a introvert with trust issues. Still do fine with socializing irl and I've grown to have over 200 irl friends.

    • @MrLeeStories
      @MrLeeStories Год назад +6

      @@zazazaza9693 you have over 200 friends?

    • @MrLeeStories
      @MrLeeStories Год назад +7

      @@zazazaza9693 but you still maintain 200 relationships like that? Me being very-very introverted; I find it impossible to do that. For me that is.

    • @zazazaza9693
      @zazazaza9693 Год назад +2

      @@MrLeeStories yeah, I became popular at school for being the funny person who does random stuff and always gets in trouble lol plus I'm 6 feet in 7th grade, I just force myself to talk and push myself out of my comfort zone, I have over 200 friends that i normally talk to, girls and boys, I first bacame popular by association bc i knew a lot of popular ppl from my school then I soon became popular and known around the whole school. I'm still a extrovert and rather not talk to anyone and sometimes it slips put for a day or 2 and I just talk and I seem some what depressed but Noone knows about my anxiety and stuff I think.

  • @Figrin
    @Figrin Год назад +1196

    I love the part when you said you couldn't approach 100 girls, that was the moment I actually believed this video could motivate me to do something similar, because I saw you're not a superhuman that says he's introverted but actually can effortlessly rizz a hunderd girls and it actually took a lot of energy from you, thank you for including that in a video

    • @BangYongguk-sf8ly
      @BangYongguk-sf8ly Год назад +7

      Yes man. I could relate.
      For me its crazy to think i will walk up to a girl and talk, like etf

    • @solereeper3955
      @solereeper3955 Год назад +6

      ​ Bro fr, talk about what? The weather? The nerdy shit im into? I dont know anything about you what do we talk about.

    • @solereeper3955
      @solereeper3955 Год назад +6

      @AzureWolf168 Could you give examples? Im good at talking to people i know and have met before but strangers is like a whole different game.

    • @banaan5416
      @banaan5416 Год назад

      Try to find someting that you both have in common and common interests, thats how you get the first connection with people if it turns out you really feel each other and share way more things it can turn into a friendship or relationship.@@solereeper3955

    • @RainbowGhostOverdrive
      @RainbowGhostOverdrive Год назад

      Ask things, like... hobbies? Whatever, then talk about it as much as you can with interest.

  • @CrimsonCutie08
    @CrimsonCutie08 Год назад +1028

    Kindness is attractive. I consider myself an introvert and I struggle with confidence when socializing. I've noticed that if I stay true to my core values and be kind to others, it's so rewarding.

    • @juggerswood
      @juggerswood Год назад

      I bet you drink hot pee from Porta potties

    • @W_PFP
      @W_PFP 11 месяцев назад +9

      This sounds like cope

    • @CrimsonCutie08
      @CrimsonCutie08 11 месяцев назад +33

      ​@@W_PFPmaybe to you it does 😅😊

    • @traattatata7973
      @traattatata7973 11 месяцев назад +34

      I wouldn't say it's neccessarily attractive, but it's very disarming. Approaching people with kindness in your heart by default makes your attitude towards the whole social interaction positive. Much less of the bad thoughts like "but what if they hate you, but what if they tell you to go a hike" and so on and so on. Why would anyone respond to kindness with negativity if they are a normal human being? If they respond with negativity, something is wrong with them or at least their day, and so nobody would have had a chance that day.

    • @juggerswood
      @juggerswood 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@traattatata7973 True I totally agree.

  • @Patrony762
    @Patrony762 5 месяцев назад +201

    >Challenges himself to talk to a hundred girls
    >Do one
    >Succeeds once
    >Gives up
    >returns lifting in the gym

    • @pjplaysgaming367
      @pjplaysgaming367 3 месяца назад +2

      At least he ended on a high note.

    • @chc2650
      @chc2650 Месяц назад

      Infield pickup speed run

  • @jlboss_ps4751
    @jlboss_ps4751 Год назад +267

    Sophia is a keeper 100% most chill person throughout the conversation.

  • @Kumari_44
    @Kumari_44 Год назад +1307

    As someone who used to be socially akward as a teen, that was an *excellent* first approach. You smashed that out of the park.

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov Год назад +18

      He's tall and white. It's easy when you're accepted by default. He can only talk his way out of the box, meanwhile if you're not tall and white you're fighting an uphill battle to break the creep barrier

    • @mez9673
      @mez9673 Год назад +51

      @@MikhailFederovnot just tall and white. Hes young and extremely attractive. He can literally say nothing and pulls girls. Lol

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov Год назад +2

      @@mez9673 The tall and white is what makes him extremely attractive

    • @minutebyminute01
      @minutebyminute01 Год назад +12

      ​@@MikhailFederovwhat does the race has to do with attractiveness?

    • @daddytachanka8076
      @daddytachanka8076 Год назад

      @@minutebyminute01it’s true that many brown guys are gonna struggle more to get girls. This is just a truth. But to pretend like black guys or really anyone else doesn’t/can’t because of some shit like race is astronomical cope, even brown guys.
      1. They’re pretending that the years of lifting and consistent effort Dylan has given doesn’t exist. If anyone else did the same thing and worked on themselves it would become very very easy to get attraction, for anyone. But who’s put in the years?
      2. Anyone saying that is just coping and ignoring the vast majority of things that are in their control and they just don’t want to take the responsibility.

  • @ermesgasparine
    @ermesgasparine Год назад +687

    A training video with Sophie would be insane, don't approach other girls, that was the best interaction possible, soul mate interation tipe shit!🔥🔥🔥

    • @pyro4327
      @pyro4327 Год назад +33

      wild @DehaOynuyor

    • @-SPECTRE-
      @-SPECTRE- Год назад +9

      ​@DehaOynuyorouch.

    • @antenna7002
      @antenna7002 Год назад +4

      Don’t get to attached early

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 Год назад

      ​@DehaOynuyor what's with the random negativity?

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 Год назад +2

      ​@AzureWolf168 guys aswell. Its the nature of the modern age. Abundance of choice. I'll message a lot of girls but not commit wholly to one and I know some of them do the same.

  • @takitukFNR
    @takitukFNR 4 месяца назад +73

    3:21 bro u aint no introvert thats w rizz

  • @itsOrba
    @itsOrba Год назад +6926

    Bro found his wife in the first 30 seconds

  • @viktorkyncl3011
    @viktorkyncl3011 Год назад +504

    At the start i thought it’s gonna one of THOSE videos but the fact that you actually put your heart to it instead of just checking off 100 girls is way more meaningful and at the end even wholesome

  • @heatherflynn
    @heatherflynn Год назад +1103

    Fair play Dylan. Love that you are not afraid to stop the vid midway through and just be like "Nah I don't want to continue". You do you. Your interaction with Sophie was cute, you are deffo not nearly as bad as you think with talking to people!

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 Год назад

      m.ruclips.net/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/видео.html

    • @azziek3246
      @azziek3246 Год назад +19

      Not bad? The Bro aced it and also got the girls number! :P

    • @FreeJidion6969
      @FreeJidion6969 Год назад +12

      @@azziek3246 i mean it was def good but u could tell there was still some nerves. the fact that was his first could approach is wild tho

    • @azziek3246
      @azziek3246 Год назад +3

      @@FreeJidion6969 for sure

    • @cix9420
      @cix9420 Год назад

      yeah me personally usually i just act super nervous and end up having to get rid of them@@FreeJidion6969

  • @StevenFPatten
    @StevenFPatten Год назад +570

    Fair play to the dude. Props to Sophie for being a good sport. Dylan ending the video after speaking with her shows a real man, you could see he liked her and wanted to pursue it.

    • @Sauczi
      @Sauczi Год назад +8

      its fake bro

    • @kiwikiwikilian
      @kiwikiwikilian Год назад +17

      He did also say that he approached several other girls after Sophie but those interactions were all not very good. So… 😅

  • @iBrianful
    @iBrianful Год назад +945

    Honestly that first girl made it easy for him, he gained mad confidence after that.

    • @TheCentennial4
      @TheCentennial4 6 месяцев назад +86

      Swear down if every girl acted like she did, it would be so easy.

    • @jonahelleso
      @jonahelleso 6 месяцев назад +56

      "the first girl" bro that was the only girl💀

    • @ElsyOO366
      @ElsyOO366 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@jonahelleso proof they didn't watch full video

    • @edurangelcastro3671
      @edurangelcastro3671 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@jonahellesoxD

    • @dorikin333
      @dorikin333 4 месяца назад +18

      @@TheCentennial4This is kinda why I think having “game” or “rizz” is kind of a myth. Cause when someone is actually interested in talking to you and is contributing to the conversation and is giving u shit to work with, it’s very easy have “rizz” in that type of situation. But when most women you talk to are giving you one word answers it’s very hard to be charming.

  • @Larxy_
    @Larxy_ Год назад +514

    he stopped the video because he got the girl he wanted after 1 approach

    • @gabrielascensotomas
      @gabrielascensotomas Год назад +31

      It's called scarcity.

    • @fighterinmkiwiscience3517
      @fighterinmkiwiscience3517 Год назад +3

      ​@@gabrielascensotomaswhat that mean?

    • @gabrielascensotomas
      @gabrielascensotomas Год назад +12

      @@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 It means that you don't have many options and stick to the first girl that you encounter

    • @MineySim
      @MineySim Год назад +82

      @@gabrielascensotomas my n word really said scarcity after doing one economics lesson

    • @CallMeSlade
      @CallMeSlade Год назад

      @@MineySimsay nigga bruh, you’re an anon on the internet no one cares lmao

  • @brandonbell1854
    @brandonbell1854 11 месяцев назад +120

    “I met a girl, conversation went well, and now I’m going to pursue her and not talk to the other girls”
    That hit home 😂

    • @HellGod67
      @HellGod67 3 месяца назад +4

      He knew she will check his vids and find the one with herself in it, "of course" he wanted to make an impression he didn't do any other approaches to look more genuine. I bet it was not his first or last.

  • @mr.d4178
    @mr.d4178 Год назад +332

    I love his authenticity. He said he’s super introverted, goes up to a girl, talks to her, cancels the video and goes into the gym. What a legend.

  • @SlinkyJosh
    @SlinkyJosh 11 месяцев назад +41

    Bro that went INSANELY good. I can't even believe that was your first cold approach, you're a natural

  • @lilpanini1351
    @lilpanini1351 Год назад +450

    I used to cold approach people as an introvert just to get out of my comfort zone, this is just exposure therapy and teaches you that you're not your thoughts. Blessings Dylan ! love these kinda messages brother they help alot of people.

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 Год назад +16

      This one was good cause she was working. Most natural cold approach I've ever seen.
      I wouldn't do it like thse pick up artists do where they go up to girls clearly walking somewhere or with friends. Flirting with girls who are working is way more accessible and natural.

    • @lilpanini1351
      @lilpanini1351 Год назад

      W rizz my g
      @@jr5993

    • @TaylorPhase
      @TaylorPhase Год назад +10

      @@jr5993they are also paid to be nice to you. They say hitting on a girl working is the least acceptable thing

    • @MrSipho1
      @MrSipho1 Год назад +4

      ​@@jr5993The real test is girls that are not at work 😅

    • @TheSecondFlock
      @TheSecondFlock Год назад +3

      I heard it's a terrible idea to approach girls while their working. They have to be there and can't leave if they're not into it.

  • @gusevening4910
    @gusevening4910 11 месяцев назад +365

    he’s not an introvert

    • @samuellitrico3234
      @samuellitrico3234 7 месяцев назад

      Shut up

    • @vaas8403
      @vaas8403 6 месяцев назад +22

      ahah introvert sometimes sound like they not but they are

    • @akshatrawat3300
      @akshatrawat3300 6 месяцев назад +47

      Nah bro you are just anti social. Introvert have social life too, not with many but they are not afraid human like how people have stereotyped in social media.

    • @vfeasey97
      @vfeasey97 6 месяцев назад +5

      I'm leaning towards not introvert. But it could be that thing where they hyper focus cos he's into the gym

    • @Anonymousange
      @Anonymousange 5 месяцев назад +3

      He is , you might have social anxiety, introverts can still make human connections

  • @bobbywatto
    @bobbywatto Год назад +93

    actually one of the most entertaining vids ive seen in a long time

  • @TheTonyD
    @TheTonyD Год назад +866

    Dylan actually came in super smooth. I'm a super social guy and although he did come across as SLIGHTLY awkward at some points & he could smile more/laugh at himself more, he still did very very good especially for someone who says hes introverted. If you're extroverted you just tend to cold approach naturally & just say passing comments as a natural state.

    • @cryptojuicer
      @cryptojuicer Год назад +36

      being slightly awkward is real tho. girls like real

    • @RizZRizZ-
      @RizZRizZ- Год назад +6

      He’s completely okay
      I’d like to see you

    • @prodbystorik
      @prodbystorik Год назад +15

      Ok mr social coach lmao

    • @ExploreWithEthan
      @ExploreWithEthan Год назад +1

      Being extroverted is definitely not normal nor nice

    • @TheTonyD
      @TheTonyD Год назад +3

      @@prodbystorik is this one of those sarcastic comments made by incels? That's funny dude

  • @danielgisborne3469
    @danielgisborne3469 Год назад +139

    Like many others, i respect the authenticity in being able to say youre uncomfortable as opposed to some bullshit video where you just play the role you think we wanna see. Really refreshing approach, keep it up

    • @danielgisborne3469
      @danielgisborne3469 Год назад +1

      @AzureWolf168 Yeah me personally those ones make me feel even shittier about myself cause Im like damn if its that easy then what the hell is wrong with me? lol

  • @ProfessionalRacist007
    @ProfessionalRacist007 7 месяцев назад +3

    1st girl is such a MASSIVE GREEN FLAG.
    Holy shit.

  • @AntiiiG
    @AntiiiG Год назад +95

    Honestly I'm impressed how vulnerable you are willing to be in your videos

  • @MisanthropeGains
    @MisanthropeGains Год назад +143

    You crushed it. Takes a lot of balls to put yourself out there. It does help that you’re a fit and somewhat goodlooking dude.

    • @sk8ingthemystery
      @sk8ingthemystery Год назад +21

      Somewhat good-looking? This dude is a Chad

    • @ltb1345
      @ltb1345 Год назад +8

      This guy literally has my dream physique.

    • @theRPGmaster
      @theRPGmaster Год назад +7

      "Somewhat" is the biggest understatement of all time

    • @Us3r739
      @Us3r739 Год назад +1

      @@sk8ingthemysteryngl has got an average face but the height n muscles help

    • @Brendan99349
      @Brendan99349 Год назад

      Looks don't matter all that matters is approach. I know plenty of short skinny guys with amazing results, these are just limiting beleifs.

  • @Ikari_kenshin
    @Ikari_kenshin 9 месяцев назад +3

    Good for you bro. Looks like you summoned the right amount of courage for the right lady. I wish you the best, and I hope you two work out. Putting it into the universe.

  • @FaithhMe
    @FaithhMe Год назад +439

    The first step is understanding these girls are humans just like us, as men we pedestalize these females as goddesses we are not equal to. But in reality she is just as nervous as you are when you approach her.

    • @cwavv
      @cwavv Год назад

      They also take shits everyday and have to spray for the smell so there’s another one to think about

    • @prod.kashkari3075
      @prod.kashkari3075 Год назад +62

      This comment should be the top comment. Most girls are just as if not more nervous of the guy. When the guy is just confident and masculine the girl finds it very comforting.

    • @fotis3v480
      @fotis3v480 Год назад +21

      Humans? The devil incarnate and I'm not even religious 😂.
      They will all backstab you .

    • @michaelrobson7005
      @michaelrobson7005 Год назад +24

      ​@@prod.kashkari3075Not really. They get approached non-stop so they aren't nervous at all

    • @prod.kashkari3075
      @prod.kashkari3075 Год назад +25

      @@michaelrobson7005 they don’t get approached nonstop. Most hot girls don’t cause guys are afraid of them

  • @DTRONBEATZ
    @DTRONBEATZ Год назад +106

    Dude the chemistry with Sophie is amazing 👏 glad you were able to go up to her and have a good conversation with her

  • @TheFluxTube
    @TheFluxTube Год назад +125

    Nah this content better than the gym content ngl

  • @smalzio.
    @smalzio. 9 месяцев назад +6

    NAAAAH ma man didn't chicken out, he just settled for 1 and was happy about it

  • @33rdGemini
    @33rdGemini Год назад +47

    You can tell from his red eyes that the ones after Sophie broke him. Stay strong King. I hope to see videos with you and Sophie together in the future.

  • @Astranoire
    @Astranoire Год назад +97

    As a socially anxious gym goer I tried appoaching girls multiple times in public, it really made me uncomfortable at first but once I realize that I'm not undesirable as an awkward person, it really helped with my confidence.

  • @kilo4848
    @kilo4848 Год назад +170

    It just goes to show how important your self confidence is to be honest. He’s amazingly built but still gets anxiety about approaching girls. I’m currently a college student and face a lot of the same but I’ve push past a lot of the nervousnesses and to anyone who doesn’t push themselves out to the their condor zones you have to try it it’s amazing

    • @tfiggs4312
      @tfiggs4312 Год назад

      accept the worst possible outcome and realize it's very unlikely you get the worst possible outcome@AzureWolf168

    • @lando8981
      @lando8981 Год назад +1

      How? 😢

    • @blueleafy7167
      @blueleafy7167 Год назад +3

      If I tried that I would most definitely get laughed at cause my social skills are at rock bottom

    • @pep1679
      @pep1679 Год назад +8

      Looks*

    • @alexpivniouk8421
      @alexpivniouk8421 Год назад +3

      100% agreed. Confidence is fake it til you make it, and I found this out by trying to approach girls. Most of the time you will fail, but sometimes you'll be able to click with someone and those moments are so magical and fun.

  • @bhanusairam1534
    @bhanusairam1534 4 месяца назад +41

    as a certified introvert , this man is definitely not an introvert yall

    • @SVAgxlxxi
      @SVAgxlxxi 3 месяца назад +2

      i think we all know that… he has muscles

    • @Us3r739
      @Us3r739 3 месяца назад +1

      Nah he definitely is, tense face and body movements and he’s super serious which is another sign of being tense. These all relate to anxiety.

    • @Grogman9868
      @Grogman9868 3 месяца назад +2

      He so obviously is

    • @leonard5654
      @leonard5654 2 месяца назад

      Nah​@@Us3r739

  • @fredz91
    @fredz91 Год назад +46

    Dylan you're a real one for this. Really motivated me to do more of this to be honest.

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 Год назад

      m.ruclips.net/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/видео.html

  • @the.rogue.roman.77
    @the.rogue.roman.77 Год назад +322

    The way you talked to Sophie, you looked like a natural. Well done. And thank you for all your encouraging videos.
    The last hot Saturday this summer, I did about a dozen cold approaches at the beach near my town. Of all of those, maybe two or three became meaningful interactions, and none of them went anywhere. I still felt amazing afterwards.

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 Год назад

      m.ruclips.net/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/видео.html

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 Год назад

      Its a numbers game bro. Glad you met some cool people though.

  • @DS-hh3yc
    @DS-hh3yc Год назад +113

    Bro MAD respect for doing this. Always respected you big time anyway for your content, but so proud of you for having the sack to do it. Most people would never try

  • @loganphillips5471
    @loganphillips5471 10 дней назад +1

    I'm crying at the first interaction why was it such a perfect exchange

  • @ChrisMalki
    @ChrisMalki Год назад +41

    the pain of regret would be worse so its good that u tried

  • @dingusrevolver
    @dingusrevolver Год назад +83

    That's so funny she immediately referenced the 1 subject that would make him feel the most comfortable

    • @songsforpantstowearl
      @songsforpantstowearl Год назад +9

      That’s a sign of an emotionally intelligent person for sure. Trying to make the other person comfortable

    • @ShortFuseFun
      @ShortFuseFun Год назад +2

      @@songsforpantstowearl Everyone can be that way if they want, it's a sign of someone who cares about the interaction. And she cared because he was attractive, so she tried her best to make it go well.

    • @jfo1740
      @jfo1740 Год назад

      He picked someone he has seen before and has seen him before. It's a setup in that sense even if the rest of it is genuine.

    • @aristotle9243
      @aristotle9243 Год назад

      @@jfo1740the whole ive watched u work out before was a joke dude.

    • @dobridjordje
      @dobridjordje Год назад

      ​@@jfo1740Probably picked the good looking girl he saw couple of times at the mall. That way it would be way less uncomfortable and creepy lmao

  • @CoolCreepz
    @CoolCreepz Год назад +60

    Huge respects bro. I used to be an introvert and I know how hard it can be to have the courage to approach girls. It feels like you are dying because of being so nervous around them. But trust me bro through experience and time, it becomes second nature. Have a great day/night brother!

    • @SenszR
      @SenszR Год назад +1

      You can’t change from introvert to extrovert it’s just naturally how you are

    • @CoolCreepz
      @CoolCreepz Год назад

      @@SenszR lmao ppl say i am extrovert after i became outgoing

    • @alangarcia3531
      @alangarcia3531 Год назад

      ​@@CoolCreepzthe video is fake

    • @TitanBolt99
      @TitanBolt99 4 месяца назад

      ​@@SenszRYes you can. It's actually possible.

    • @SenszR
      @SenszR 4 месяца назад

      @@TitanBolt99 it’s no possible it’s a personality type you can’t just choose to change it

  • @davoodrahimi4580
    @davoodrahimi4580 6 месяцев назад +164

    You are not an introvert

    • @ducasse8473
      @ducasse8473 5 месяцев назад +36

      Bro got excommunicated from the tribe 😂

    • @thegrimreaper270
      @thegrimreaper270 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂🤣

    • @davoodrahimi4580
      @davoodrahimi4580 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@ducasse8473 :)))

    • @bamboleo901
      @bamboleo901 4 месяца назад

      @@ducasse8473how did you come up with this

    • @blazer9547
      @blazer9547 4 месяца назад

      He definitely is. he talks like me

  • @BourdeoixEterno
    @BourdeoixEterno Год назад +57

    Dylan just wanted to say that you have been one of my biggest inspirations since the moment I first started watching your videos. I'm not sure if you're gonna see this haha, but the positive affect you've had on me to improve myself physically has changed my life. It's crazy knowing that you get nervous just like me in public, love your content and a huge fan thanks for everything Dylan!

  • @NJ-500
    @NJ-500 Год назад +55

    First approach started off awkward but once the conversation started flowing you killed that

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 Год назад +12

      Not really. If you watch pick up artists then u realise this is one of the most natural cold aporoaches youll see. No creepy intentions or gimmicks, just honesty and relatability. Even the start wasn't awkward.

    • @NJ-500
      @NJ-500 Год назад

      @jr5993 nah the start was awkward, and you sound like a nerd

    • @karlisd2870
      @karlisd2870 Год назад +1

      @@jr5993 Agree, didn't seem awkward at all, dude could pull many ladies

  • @imsocentral2872
    @imsocentral2872 Год назад +9731

    As a introvert I can tell he was literally DYING while talking to Sophie😭

    • @bnkz
      @bnkz Год назад +1185

      ​@AzureWolf168bro he was awkwardly laughing 💀

    • @AdamTravelsTheWorld
      @AdamTravelsTheWorld Год назад +564

      Only introverts understand this comment LOL. I can relate, interactions with people when you value peace and being alone is harrrrrd, even if you want to get with a woman.

    • @imsocentral2872
      @imsocentral2872 Год назад +426

      @AzureWolf168 His voice was a little shaky, he struggled to keep eye contact, he couldn’t stand still, and he kept making awkward jokes (that somehow worked).

    • @cender4357
      @cender4357 Год назад +60

      You show yourself confident but inside your heart is about to break 😂

    • @jugger6228
      @jugger6228 Год назад +25

      @imsocentral2872 awkward jokes work always and show humor / sympathy if the person is into you

  • @TheApplesaw
    @TheApplesaw Год назад +112

    As an introvert myself and seeing you afterwards with red bloodshot eyes, just shows how draining that was. Cheer brother! Most extroverts or wannabes ("ambiverts, what they call themselves") wouldn't understand.

    • @Cart_Art_Tart
      @Cart_Art_Tart Год назад +5

      As an ambivert myself, you are aware that being one means you have traits of both intro and extro right? Also, what do you mean by "wannabes"? They are simply ambiverts, some are able to do what he did, some can't. Simple as that really. Which is to say, ambiverts have traits of both, those traits most of the time being different then other ambiverts themselves

    • @brandonheflin06
      @brandonheflin06 Год назад +3

      Im pretty sure the OP was just referring to the people who claim to be introverts/ambiverts because its, for some reason, cool to be one nowadays.
      @@Cart_Art_Tart

    • @Cart_Art_Tart
      @Cart_Art_Tart Год назад

      @@brandonheflin06 oh, my sincere apologies then, I don't label myself as one to be cool, but rather to understand myself better, because currently I am working on self improvement, and would honestly like to transfer over to an extrovert or maybe even just an ambivert with more extro qualities 😭 basically my socialising is dog water and should probably honestly be better since I'm 20

    • @richard38618
      @richard38618 11 месяцев назад

      im an extrovert now

    • @christopherstein2024
      @christopherstein2024 10 месяцев назад

      @@Cart_Art_Tart We shouldn't take the terminology too seriously. People aren't really any type of -vert

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery Месяц назад +1

    *Approaching girls as an introvert is definitely tough, but this video shows that even though it feels impossible, it’s totally doable with patience and practice. It’s all about pushing those boundaries and growing from each interaction - great job for taking that leap!*

  • @gizzyIizzy
    @gizzyIizzy Год назад +13

    Probably the most relatable and honest influencers out there. I love you and keep strong man !

  • @ZsmZer0
    @ZsmZer0 Год назад +74

    1:55 the laugh was so strange hahaha, keep up the good work man

  • @TheMediaKnights
    @TheMediaKnights Год назад +638

    Step 1: Be in the top 1% of looks
    Step 2: Be in the top 1% of physique
    Easy as pie, right guys?!

    • @nawbgohdawjd
      @nawbgohdawjd Год назад +25

      play in your league i would say

    • @SimonR141
      @SimonR141 Год назад +139

      @@nawbgohdawjd Dude I tried women in my league but their standard is high to the fucking moon.

    • @DriveLikeIDid
      @DriveLikeIDid Год назад

      Boo hoo. Poor little baby. That’s okay. Sit around feeling sorry for yourself. More pussy for the rest of us

    • @zdaito10
      @zdaito10 Год назад

      @@SimonR141 thats called female delusion, even a 1/10 woman would never go for a sub 5/10 dude

    • @winston7055
      @winston7055 Год назад +7

      lol its not about looks my guy.. just be confident it will get you far

  • @Orion7204-m5b
    @Orion7204-m5b 3 дня назад +1

    I love how Dylan McKNIGHT said “I’d rather charge into battle with a sword and shield”! 😂

  • @DAKiDDiOE
    @DAKiDDiOE Год назад +27

    The like to view ratio on this video is amazing! Shows what people are really interested in brother. Thank you for doing this for all the men out there who have missed potential opportunities of a lifetime because of the the paralyzing fear many get from the thought of approaching a lady only to look back and regret that moment. Keep it up!

    • @alangarcia3531
      @alangarcia3531 Год назад

      the video is fake

    • @alangarcia3531
      @alangarcia3531 Год назад

      And besides, he is a tall boy with blue eyes. If he were ugly, they would reject him immediately.

    • @goldenpersonwhoexists8834
      @goldenpersonwhoexists8834 9 месяцев назад

      Don't forget that women are human beings who like looking at things, and could, should, and will reject you if they don't like looking at you. The girl being attracted to him makes it a whole lot easier because 75% of the pressure dissipates right there.

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy Месяц назад

      @@goldenpersonwhoexists8834 Incorect im way better looking than him but im autistic and i have never had a gf and ive been rejected by women flirting with me all my life , ive even bneen rejected by women who aproach me ! dont assume looks will get the woman, you still have to be good at pickl nup at get ANY woman, even the love of your life !!

  • @hiokeaim
    @hiokeaim Год назад +45

    bro u say u are introverted but u handled that so well. I wish i could even hold a convo like that :((

    • @breathebih4321
      @breathebih4321 Год назад +25

      Being introverted doesn’t mean not knowing how to talk to ppl

    • @idrinkmilk282
      @idrinkmilk282 Год назад

      He's full of shit. Dudes career is literally putting himself out there, pouting at cameras, clenching his jaw, and being topless as much as he possibly can, for hundreds of thousands of people 😅😅😅 and you guys are buying this "I'm introverted" bs.

    • @CargoRemover
      @CargoRemover Год назад +2

      He’s def an introvert lmao

    • @Sam-ve9sv
      @Sam-ve9sv Год назад

      he can be charming and funny and not akward but still be introverted and prefer isolation

    • @SurfyStories
      @SurfyStories Год назад

      He may be introverted that doesn't mean someone is socially retarded

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley7652 Год назад +140

    You're actually better at approach than you let on when it came to Sophie.
    1) Strong open which set the frame of making her think of you with other girls who weren't her.
    2) Made her qualify/seek your approval.
    3) Got her to break the touch barrier.
    4) You even knew to do a take-away suggesting she could be just a "gym bro" instead to make her chase even harder.

    • @moneymakinmitch8130
      @moneymakinmitch8130 Год назад +5

      you wanna elaborate on the strong open part

    • @mustsee715
      @mustsee715 Год назад

      ⁠@@moneymakinmitch8130yes I also need some elaboration

    • @coovaydafinest
      @coovaydafinest 10 месяцев назад +1

      this was a great breakdown

    • @kacelewen88
      @kacelewen88 9 месяцев назад +5

      As an ex-introvert I'll set you straight. He said let's be gym bros because he couldn't think of a valid way to suggest anything else that indicated dating. He was nervous the entire time which I think was the biggest obstacle but he did well.

    • @volbrenYT
      @volbrenYT 8 месяцев назад +2

      *takes notes* so we're speaking rizziphonics I see.

  • @thevapiddrolls4339
    @thevapiddrolls4339 4 месяца назад +6

    The fact that you felt bad trying on multiple girls when you clicked with the first shows you got some character, keep up the good work.

  • @cu11en76
    @cu11en76 Год назад +13

    This and his Lookmaxxing vid are so inspiring, thank you so much Dylan

  • @karlisd2870
    @karlisd2870 Год назад +18

    For an introvert , you seem very confident. Respect dude.

  • @dreamsaresharedhere_
    @dreamsaresharedhere_ Год назад +8

    This is shockingly impressive. I was expecting a mess. You couldnt have been more smooth imo

  • @len-structuur
    @len-structuur 4 месяца назад +2

    reading the title helps and searching it, thanks for uploading

  • @jakpodcast
    @jakpodcast Год назад +30

    Dude came in and crushed it by being natural right from the start! This is like such a perfect example to me.

    • @dozadog
      @dozadog Год назад +5

      His looks crushed it

  • @Jay123-m9f
    @Jay123-m9f Год назад +13

    Respect man did my first cold approach a few months, really well done man as a fellow introvert I am proud of you 👏

  • @lx_ol
    @lx_ol Год назад +14

    Quality is substantially better than quantatity my friend, sophie looks like a keeper👍

  • @aldoushuxley5953
    @aldoushuxley5953 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am in love with Sophie now, and I just watched the video from the outside.
    Like seriously, you guys have increadible chemistry

  • @Tolya1979
    @Tolya1979 Год назад +12

    Thanks for being honest, and showing people this is totally normal.

  • @haveyouseengeorgehennen
    @haveyouseengeorgehennen Год назад +23

    Bro might be an introvert but he's for sure confident and well spoken, that just shows that if you work on improving yourself physically and mentally first, you'll be able to get not only a girl but achieve way much more, keep grinding yall 💪🏽

  • @gp7110
    @gp7110 Год назад +7

    Great video, solid interaction. She seems very cool, I hope she's as genuine as she came across here as you pursue whatever may be there.

  • @youwouldntbelieveit89
    @youwouldntbelieveit89 8 месяцев назад +14

    When you are good looking and fit every girl will be intrigued and interested

  • @williamsporing1500
    @williamsporing1500 8 месяцев назад +1

    He reminds me of myself when I was young, so I dove headfirst into becoming a musician because I didn’t fit in, anywhere.
    Keep up the good work brother.

  • @montana3918
    @montana3918 Год назад +13

    The first interaction was better and more authentic than what I've ever seen on any "dating guru" plattform. Great job dude.

  • @starks464
    @starks464 Год назад +16

    You did great! It will absolutely feel awkward and very forced at first, but at a certain point, it will be a lot easier. Keep going!

  • @pavellyulin5470
    @pavellyulin5470 Год назад +12

    Bro do this not only for yourself, but for everyone watching. Imagine how much you could inspire everyone

  • @Chris-ss8zt
    @Chris-ss8zt 22 дня назад

    Checkpot at the beginning. Totally proud of you.

  • @johannduplessis3467
    @johannduplessis3467 Год назад +33

    Well done in not making it weird. Solid way to let introverted people see how to talk to people without coming off as creepy

  • @jonathanv8127
    @jonathanv8127 Год назад +18

    My respect for you 📈I actually really liked your first interaction w that girl. Not awkward at all, and it takes lots of balls to go up to a girl.
    And it felt like your were being yourself, which is nice, even with the weird laughs, it’s actually wholesome. You weren’t changing yourself to impress her. Good job!

  • @viktor1970
    @viktor1970 Год назад +6

    bro ive just seen the first girl approach and you absolutely killed it! i mean the way you know what to say and stuff.. you got the rizz, looks.. youre gonna kill this challenge you beast

  • @-Meme-Central
    @-Meme-Central 3 месяца назад +1

    Don’t worry bro you did good for the first girl you pulled w rizz, and as a fellow introvert that first and last convo felt tiring even tho I was not talking 😂and introverts need to recharge after such conversations, keep it up too 💪🏼

  • @lukeistired_
    @lukeistired_ Год назад +14

    You got this bro!

  • @yohex5962
    @yohex5962 Год назад +45

    I challenged myself to do this a while ago to get more comfortable talking to women. Now i dont feel nervous, lol. I've come to a realization that the more uncomfortable situations you put yourself through eventually become the new normal. So keep doing the uncomfortable 🙃

  • @AlexMinor
    @AlexMinor Год назад +33

    Dude I commend you for doing as much as you did. It’s not for the faint of heart.

  • @_nuance
    @_nuance 3 месяца назад +3

    Bro, tall, fit, superman neck, and handsome enough, and you're saying you're gonna have problem with girls.