You really gotta stick with this. I’m telling you your mental clarity, confidence, work ethic, view on women, and just overall happiness will be so much better.
Good for you man. I'm finding myself quitting now at 24 after doing it for the last 10 years. It truly does poison your body and mind. I don't even know you kid - but I'm so proud of you please stay strong!
You need Jesus you will never feel fulfilled. You will make that million and say to yourself what changed and you will realize nothing in fact you will look at life and try to find meaning or purpose but your spirit cannot be fulfilled by materialistic things but by spiritual things. So when you get to that point remember what I said Jesus is the only who can fill the missing link and give you hope and meaning to this life.
This video is awesome. It explains exactly what NoFap should be, not some bullshit that turns you superhuman, but just being how you are intended to be. To everyone struggling with porn addiction, it's absolutely worth stopping, and you will 100% feel better about yourself. You can do it.
I’ve had enough of this compulsive addiction/ poison. I’m posting this to hold myself accountable for my actions, this starts today, i will not do it anymore. We’ve got this guys.
@@danielpittaway i actually started getting in the gym and started boxing outside of work. But when i feel the urge i turn on my console and play a couple games of madden to relieve the stress. Getting rid of twitter was when i noticed the most significant change in how much i see explicit shit. This isn’t for dopamine its more of a “ people are counting on me” mentality. Sorry to the others above for the late response. Stay strong
Mate, it is so REFRESHING to actually see a young man, who has a complete common sense and is confident to talk about his mistakes and describes the ground he moved to by learning from those mistakes!!! I wish I had somebody in my environment with your knowledge 20 years ago when I was a teenager. :) I hope your video will go around for a long time and will allow younger men, maturing men, growing men, to learn and follow a better path!
I second that. Very impressive and wise beyond your years. When I was a teenager 50 years ago, no one talked about masturbation or ever admitted doing it. It blows me away to see the younger generations talk out in the open about it and that's a good thing.
@@Dodgerzdennots so much as a 'good' thing where there's countless videos like these who just want to gather attention for views (it doesn't matter if they believe it to be deemed as right or not) telling ppl to 'stop' as its ruining your life based on that thing that is supposedly detrimental against and basing their own arguments as an objective fact that everyone would supposedly share... its a completely baseless argument because of that notion right there, the guy in the video talks about how he doesn't like those 'corny' nofap videos yet literally delves into that idea that those videos have when you're in a 'nofap' zone then your sexual experience will be automatically or progressively better with women (or men) as well as meeting your friends (which alludes to not succumbing into that urge when you're alone), going outside and going to the gym...
@@godzillazfriction Good point. In my day there was no information and no one ever talked about it and today it's information overload and everyone talks about it. I also wonder if these people talking about no fap are causing people to feel guilt or shame about masturbation in the same way religion tries to do that.
@@Dodgerzden i just find it strange how this culture that has been brought up from mostly or definitely American side of things is always about Males and not Females as in that Females are just out of the equation for some contradictory reason for the sake of 'self-improvement' and how you should stop what you're doing, and it's ruining your life...
boys you know the drill, like this comment everyday one person at a time to remind me i wrote this comment, 365 likes=365 days, we are in this together.
don't do streaks bro, no 365 days shit. just stop watching porn. and don't stop doing both at the same time, you will likely fail. start by cutting porn out from your life and fap here and there just to your imagination, and i promise you you will slowly lose interest
This is probably the best video related to this sh*t. After 16 years (started at around 11 yo) I feel like my mentality changed for real, even if I am not in my longest streak, I really feel like this is a thing of the past already (I don't even know what my streak is anymore). Thanks for this video, hopefully more people get a chance to watch it entirely.
yeah i can relate because i started when I was about 8 and I've stopped for a couple days now. Another thing I heard is that addiction is controlled by proteins in your body which gives you dopamine, and that the less you work that protein by doing it, the weaker it'll get. I don't know if that's helpful, but that's just something I wanted to share.
@@ForThePremiumthis is absolutely horrible. I hate this society so much that you started at fuckin 8 years old. Hope these dudes that make these adult films are punished when they die. They profit off our suffering absolutely disgusting stuff
I’m so tired of feeling like a slave to porn, like many others I’m now holding myself accountable by leaving this comment here as a reminder to keep staying strong. We can do this guys, stay strong.
I believe you are right, to conquer any addictions you eventually have to come to the mindset of i no longer.. smoke, drink, fap, or anything else. And if you fail, dust yourself off and start again
@@Asrajzz64 No. I believe you have to accept you are not perfect, and the goal is to be slightly better every day. If a relapse occurs you have two choices... 1 give up and not be better. 2 try again with a benchmark to apply yourself against. So if your not perfect and no one is, you quit and stop or get up and try again. Which are you?
@@BrainfooTV Sounds like an excuse in disguise. Of course though you always have that choice even before you relapse, give in or you can put your energy to something else. We need more solutions than to just tell us to relapse and start again, thats not truly progress.
@@BrainfooTV Clearly I'm not, but doesn't mean we should just take the easy way out and not actually try to progress in life. There has to be a point where it's day one or one day.
I am 16 but I've already watched lots of videos like this and relapsed many times, but this video really made me think about all of it, I've gotta say you are really calming and I felt like my older brother was speaking to me, thank you man
You 16 brother stop beating your meat an become a real man rn kid I’m tryna tell you. I’ll be the most difficult thing in the world but u can accomplish it through are lord and savior God Jesus Christ 💯. I’m 18 finna go my life 🩸💯
When I was 16 many many years ago, I didn’t even know what no fap and SR was.. I had no issues with fapping and corn. That just tells me there’s a greater issue with teens nowadays, having instant access to corn and it’s creating a huge issue.
It’s easier and easier if you let yourself go along time then relapse, just like quitting alcohol I went a long time without drinking and now if I do go drink and I’m down for 3 days it’s just like what’s the point? Gets easier over time, let yourself go 7 days you’ll start talking to people and excelling, then when you relapse watch yourself push the people away, watch yourself feel like your on pins and needles you’ll think more and more what’s the point?
@@IntegraDIYalso the lack of in person interactions too… when you can have literally anything delivered to your door and see anything you want from a handheld device you can take anywhere, it makes for such a huge issue, considering at one point people had to actually GO OUT to socialize or get things they wanted. Dopamine naturally takes us to the easiest path or shortcut to do something and with how things are nowadays, it only gets worse
I don't have have a pornography addiction (I'm thankful to God for that, especially considering I'm in my teenage years). But this was an AMAZING video, that's important for all men to watch, this is definitely something I'll be sharing to my friends. Thank you so much for this Chi
Same, I’ve gotten much knowledge about porn and its harmful effects prior to my teenage years. So entering my teenage (and still am) years I thankfully never developed an addiction to porn or fapping. And I agree, this should be shown to more men (especially those in teen years since hormones are at peak) because porn and fapping is because more socially acceptable. It’s disgusting, and those who defend it saying “oh it’s not bad as long as you use it moderately and know it’s not the real world” or “you don’t want testicular cancer so it’s fine” are foolish and delusional.
@@fotis3v480 you make a good point here. Eternal vigilance is the price for remaining free from this scourge. I believe keeping on the "sigma male grindset" is the way to stay free.
I became addicted at the age of 11 and I've been hooked for 3 years now. Every time I finish I feel so guilty and say that I won't do it the next day, but it happens again. And I say I will stop again. This is the most moving video I've ever seen in my entire life and I just want to thank you for lifting me out of it. I'm so grateful.
Im very young and I keep doing this, I want to stop but cant I am startong my journey tommorow. Please keep liking this so it reminds me to not relapse.
Brother listen. Idk how long I’ve been off the corn, but the ABSOLUTE best two things I did to stop was 1 find God, I went to God for forgiveness and strength and to other people for advice. And two, sorry to say this, but you’re just a bitch, like is there nothing better that you can do with your life. What I mean is, whenever you feel like doing it, think about how idiotic you’ll feel after, and instead of doing that, get up, and get off your phone. Hope this helps
honestly, scary how relatable this video is I remember when I first tried to quit my addiction. I didn’t even think it was an addiction until I started getting thoughts in the back of my head trying to convince me to relapse that I knew weren’t even my thoughts I’ve been on and off with trying to quit this, but I think this video is really going to be helpful.
he literally went through all the things that im going through, and i decided right now to stop and get my life my mind everything right. I appreciate u for this video bro
I have watched more than 20 such videos. But this one was really the last for me. I'm leaving this comment here so that I'll be reminded of this video when someone likes it. Hopefully in a few days, weeks, months or even years I can come back here and feel proud of what I am about to start.
@@Renewed-RNWDi wanna get married to bro. No fapping save all our sexual energy for the love of our life. Doctors dont teach u the truth. Yes fapping can cause ur penis not to work or feel anything. So just wait till u have a girl you trust or wife.
@@zeethreebuild discipline. It doesnt have to outright stop shaking the shaft, but from small things like wake up early and forcing yourself to write or read or do some house chores. The most important thing is do it strictly, beating an addiction may be bigger food than you can chew so eat it in small portions. Means do strict schedules from small things. Just small, and then get bigger portions. Remember, the peak of the mountain can be one feet away only if you walk towards it
No Fap isn't really about the fact and activity of stopping to fap. It teaches you discipline to not do something even tho it feels good. its all mental.
and joke about saving 30 second and 5 calori, but its free exercise! lol most improtant part for me is transmute the sexual energy into goal focused grind im way more productif if im nofap, than lazy boring sleepy and nonchalent eyes of the tiger is no joke
We're supposed to watch a 20 minute video for you to remind the dumbest of the bunch the entire point of doing any of it to begin with? That's ridiculous. Content creators are the worst.@@chiyinde
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks. I'm not a porn addict but I appreciate this video anyway because you are one of the first people who actually framed it correctly and thoughtfully. Changes aren't measured in time, they're supposed to be something eternal.
This is why I still have hope. Because of amazing people like yourself. I swear from this point on I will try my absolute best to not lose control again. Thanks bro, you’re helping people everywhere in the best way possible. ❤
I'm in my late 30's and iv'e tried it all. I find no fap is one extreme, and fapping everyday is the other extreme.. I find both to be very uncomfortable...Iv'e had many long term relationships and a few one night stands..Porn can ruin a relationship even with a woman who likes it too because it prevents the relationship from ever going into a deeper level. This man really hits the nail on the head, he's describing the way to really hack your brain... He's right at the end of the day you're just staring at pixels on a screen and accomplishing NOTHING
Love the video man, this is totally different from what the other RUclipsrs who make content about these topics do, no fake promises of u growing a second D and gaining superpowers after going on a 7 days streak, no Alpha/Beta male childish shi, no excessive/unnecessary use of bad words to sound tough and get the point across, u could watch this in a Church without no headphones on and not worry about getting kicked out, It's just straight to the point, with plenty of advice. Keep it up, hope ur channel grows more, +1sub.
Dude I just wanna say THANK YOU and I rarely type in all caps.. but man you are the most straightforward RUclipsr I’ve seen talk on this topic. I am 16 turning 17 in a few weeks and you covered every single area I was confused about, What u said you struggled with is highly relatable with me regarding the cycle of repetitively stopping and starting over and over and over. I’ve heard people say stop counting the days before, but you gave a legitimate reason on why and from now on I promise to stop counting and to say I just don’t do it anymore. You seriously weren’t lying when u said this is your first and last video, you covered everything. Thanks alot bro🖤
@@Heisduke_.43 Yeah, that always got me so I ended up constantly relapsing from the urges, but If you’ve been through it enough to realize it is the farthest thing from worth it, you’ll be okay💯🙏
@@Horsefighter155 it’s going pretty good, I started reading the Bible and I convinced my family we should go to church. Hoping to continue growing closer to god and joining him in heaven one day 🙏
I have consumed a lot of content on this particular topic, but none have been as relatable and real as yours. You are doing a great job by being brutally honest on the internet without the fear of vulnerability. Good job man, I wish you and all those who are watching this all the luck and success in the world. Godspeed my friends, we will make it.
You can't quit, if you quit you're doomed. Just increase the interval. I havne't quit smoking cigarettes but it's been fifteen years since my last one. Counting days is a recipe for failure....
Excellent video! I am 29, and I've been watching porn since my teens. Everything you said I have been putting into practice, and I wish you made this video sooner! It's not about counting the days but making the days count. The "super powers" people Exaggerate should NOT be the focus, but simply disengaging from an unnatural act and becoming a normal human being should be the focus! Thanks, brother! 🙏🏽
Jesus Never left you or Forsaken you my Friend Better Believe that 😄He is watching and Cares for ALL of us in this Crazy life we live🙏❤Get your Focus on Christ The Saviour he really loves us:TheCROSS 🙏💟I am not healed out of nowhere from my incurrable sickness (: Better Believe that there is more to life than this Physical World💯Devil doesnt want us to wakeup...Just saying
This was probably the best of these type of videos ive seen on youtube. Will definitely be the last cuz this guy had the answer. He was real. Pure. And direct.💯
Im 33, and was introduced to p, probably at about 13. watched it consistently to about 27/28. I have so many memories of it over the years, it was there for me through thick and thin like an old friend. I remember stopping when i was 28, i was recently single and its true what they say, the world does seem different and exciting and you as a person improves drastically . I ended up back at my parents in lockdown and through a mixture of things - boredom, sadness, depression, ended back on it and my old friend was back, the routine was back and it was so difficult to stop, the hardest challenge. I am now off p, but recently in the last few months went back on it, i was feeling anxious with some things and needed my old memories. i was searching for my old memories and found them. Your brain is such a powerful thing, you very quickly convince yourself. my advice to anyone struggling is to focus your mind on something positive to improve yourself. You are with your mind 24/7, you need to know it better than the closest person in your life
Dude, i usually don't comment on videos, but this... this is what i needed. No screeming, no BS, and no lies. Just down to earth man to man. Thank you so much for the video and your support. You've earned my eternal respect. The least i can do it sub. Thank you man.
Its insane how everything you said is relatable, its all true and constantly happens. I believe me and everyone else who has watched this truly appreciates this video. Thank you.
I think the main factor is we need to find out what triggers us into watching this stuff, I'm slowly cutting down smoking cannabis and iv noticed when I'm bored and I'm really stoned that's when I get the urge to start watching , when I'm sober I don't even think about it or have interest in it, like u said we need to find out what's triggering us everyone is different
Years ago I watched video of a specialist dealing with patients on the issue. He had an acronym BLAST for it. Boredom Lonlynes A don't remember Stress T don't remember
Same but my trigger is alcohol. Combine that with idleness and the Hub becomes inevitable. I hardly drink because of this aside from it just being terribly unhealthy.
As a 20 year's old, this is truly helping me to change my perspective of NF. I'll appreciate it if someone liking this comment so I can return to this video again.
brother. as soon as you relayed your routine about instagram and upgrading intensity, i knew you relate exactly to me. im making great progress, and you’re idea of shedding the streak to just declaring i dont do it anymore, will help change my life. thank you man, you’re a blessing.
Bro you’re so real for this. I feel understood so much watching this. I’ve learned myself to not put myself on a streak and just don’t do it ever again. I’m probably at least 3 weeks clean now? Idk and idc. Just know if you’re reading this, you can do it. My personal advice is to just never keep track of your days as he said in the video. Anytime you think about doing it, have will power and move yourself out of that situation immediately.
Thank you man, I’m 21 and I’ve been fucking up my whole life and I’m starting to realize i need a change and this is one of the things i need to fix if i wanna keep changing my life around.
Age of 16, never beat it before and I literally have 0 clue what it feels like or anything. Never had sex, gonna wait until marriage. I’ve listened to this no-fap stuff since the age of 12. Scared me away from it my whole life.
@@pablodiaz6660huh??? Dude relapsing is not a thing to be proud of without sexual contact. If your jerking off, that’s a problem, I’m sorry. This guy has it good, where he didn’t have to learn or have to persevere nofap.
I applauded you brother for making this video. True wisdom comes from learned experience . You speak with a lot of honesty and conviction and its very heart felt. Your truth relates to All men young and old and at my age of 46 I am absolutely blown away at your level of maturity and understanding on this topic. You have also educated me with information I can pass on to others.The greatest skill we as men can learn is self discipline. Much appreciated Sir RESPECT 👏
I am 18 and have a girlfriend now, and I am happy to say much better self control. However I feel I needed this video in secondary school as a little kid that gave in to my desires. In fact the longer this video went on the more I learned that I can actually put a lot of my shortcomings in school and life as a teen down to an addiction like this. I focused less, I wasn't as locked in to my goals and always told myself, yeh I'll go gym today only to get home and give in to those desires and be filled with shame and guilt and lose all motivation to go gym, or even do my school work. Thank you for this video Chi, This might be the first and last NoFap video I ever watch but it is certainly not the last of your videos I'll ever watch. I hope for all the best for you and your channel, more people need to hear these messages and you're doing it the best of any other 'SeLf iMpRoVeMeNt', Eat Kale, 8 hours of sleep, Drink more water BS channel than I have ever seen. All the best bro!
Im not trying to be condescending to you, but there are no super powers to be gained from this, you just revert back to normal. I have done a 90 day Nofap before, you do feel better relatively speaking, but it is nothing special, it is just for your health.
I started it when I was 8. I had a really bad environment and my friends, I just now stop a year ago when I was 13. Now I’m 14 I’ve gotten better and I haven’t done it in about 4 months. Watching this really reminded me how much an idiot I was doing this.
had a similar experience i accidentally stumbled across it many times since i was 6. i had a tablet and just the access to google allowed me to accidentally find it. i had watched it a few times before i was even 10 but not until i was 12 was it consistent. the things i saw when i was younger have definitely scared my brain and libido for life and i will restrict every single method i found from my kids because i wouldn’t wish this on anyone.
Man, this video hits hard. My fateful journey began around the age of 11 or 12 (I'm 15, about to be 16 now), and it's been an awful ride since. There were spouts of time where I could go 1-2 weeks, and maybe even if I was really good, 3 without P but I always fell back in the same trap and I always felt terrible when I did. Last year, around January of 23' there was this girl I really began to like, and I got her number and I thought she was genuinely into me until I told her how I felt, and she shot me down. That broke me. That's when I got really heavy into the addiction, and I was unstoppable. Flash forward to just before new year, I asked her again if I'd ever have a shot with her and she said yes. At that moment, I vowed to quit porn and become a better person because I felt like I wasn't worthy of her, If I'm just a sad excuse of a dude with no mental control who's addicted to porn. Every day I remind myself of what my goal is, and I tell myself that I'd be throwing my chance with her away if I ever got back into it, and it seems to be working rather well, because there is nothing more in this entire world, I want more than her. It makes me sad to think about all the worthless time I've spent letting myself dig deeper into that pit, that ultimately means absolutely nothing, and I know I won't ever be able to regain that lost time, but I can try to make the effects of it less. I pray every day to keep my mind away from the thought of even picking up my phone to look at something slightly suggestive. I still have an impossibly long journey ahead to becoming the person I want to be, someone without any sort of mental ties to anything other than her, my friends and my family. I pray that anyone reading this, if they are still struggling with it, to set your wallpaper on your phone or viewing device to something that will stop you when you open that device. I set my wallpaper to a quote that reads: "Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret." It stopped me dead in my tracks a few times where I had the urge to fall back into the hole I dug. Thank you for this very inspirational video, and I hope that any man still suffering from the addiction finds it and takes every word you said to heart and makes a change! You have nothing to lose, only the world to gain. "Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret." -unknown
That's a good goal for now but you really have to develop other goals that you can fall back on should this fickle young lady change her mind. I'm saying you should know that if this one falls through, there are other young ladies you can pursue. To be good enough for them, the same determination you have now, will be required just as much.
@@losfromla1480real, at the end of the day there are some girls you can’t get back, but use that failure as motivation to be better so the next time a girl comes around you’ll be better than last time
@@losfromla1480 Yeah man. She made me realize that I need to make a change. Even if things don't work out with her, she brought me to God, and I have a better concept of what is wrong, and how to change. I prayed that things would somehow start working out with her, and then right after I started doing that, things started falling in place. I've realized that God is real, and he is a part of everyone's lives and what he's done in mine, is amazing. I appreciate the concern my man
Amazing content Chi. I felt represented by your history. The advice can give you guys is to count days until 3 months and then just stop counting the days.
I turned 16 a few weeks ago. I saw a similar video to this a while ago, but I never had any thought. But this video puts the right agenda in the right words. Thank you for making this video. It has most likely changed the rest of my life. Stay strong, guys.
@@Aubertinome too, I’ve had it a week ago actually and I’ve been just feeling so down and sad that I fucked up my first time for myself and my gf, she keeps telling me it’s okay and that sometimes it happens to boys in their first time but I already knew what the problem was and I’m still so angry with myself for fapping so much. I’ve decided now to completely delete fapping from my life and honestly I haven’t really felt that much different yet but I hope I’ll be feeling better soon. Prayers my second time will be like my first time should’ve been🙏🙏
@@Mr_Menace0 its totally normal man, im 17 and i had sex for the first time when i was 14 and i didnt finish as well because i did it everyday with my hand. Don't worry about it, it might feel embarrassing to say but its nothing to be ashamed of because its normal. My advice would be to not force it upon yourself when you know its about to happen, so dont force the act and dont get frustrated and beat yourself up for it.
I used to do it several times a day. The addiction was crazy, but then I got a crush on a beatiful girl that I liked. That didn't dtop me at first though, but after half a year my feelings for her grew stronger where it felt like I was cheating everytime I did it. After realizing that, I haven't done it by myself since. We are now together and my life couldn't be any better❤
I first had the desire to quit and better myself when I started dating. We broke up, but it changed me permanently. Even though I am struggling again, I hate it and the thought of being ruled by porn sickens me. I am GOING to quit.
I’m 14 and I have been struggling with this for quite a bit now. I know it is wrong and I know it is a sin. I want to be more motivated to work towards being better in my sport, and have more energy. I want to go back to when I was a very social person, ever since I started masturbating I have been way less social. I want to get closer to god too. Seeing this video and watching it through gave me the motivation to stop. Everything that you said related to me and felt like my exact situation. So, thank you for helping me start this journey. Thank you for helping me and so many others work towards being better. I also liked and subbed.
If you want to stop, what I do is talk to myself. I think to myself, “oh, you’re gonna make me fap again? You’re gonna give me the urges? Try it, won’t even work”. It’s really more of just taunting myself than talking to myself now that I think about it The first step to changing your life is to get your mentality into the right place And if you follow a religion that involves worship, pray. Whoever or whatever you worship has written down in a holy book that they can help you through tough times
Wish I saw this video a very long time ago. Didn't realize the actual damage this addiction has done to me over the last 9 years. 21 now and never even held the hand of a woman, this is a real addiction with real consequences. Looking back it fucked me up in so many situations and basically ruined my life up until now. Been about a week now of nofap after watching everyday/multiple times per day and I truly have never felt better. I know its only up from here and I can slowly start to piece my life back together. Feels like a new start from the person I have become up to this point and can now become who I actually want to be. Seeing content like this inspires me to continue on my journey and for that I thank you.
Hi Chi, first time watcher, but wow what a great video. Well said, the path forward is no longer having to feel guilt, shame, and embarrassment, but to have the will to become the person one is meant to be. God bless, and thank you for such great wisdom!
My man, this man deserves more love here in youtube. I genuinely got surprised when i saw how small amount of subs this man has. Keep up the good work my man.
The worst thing for me is that I actually kind of realised everything that was said in this video but never saw clearly enough through it to take action...
I just turned 20 and I had a same encounter at the same age of 16 this makes me happy that you used your platform to get this out into the world or at least boys in there teens that are hitting puberty, this is a huge problem now in our would where kids just talk about it without being embarrassed and it just being ''normal''.
I completed NNN for the first time last year Dec 1st: 3 girls made passes at me, one was an 8!, one even said "Hi" to me... THat is INSANE! Women usually never make the first move and shoot their shot like that. Women can somehow tell... True story, I swear. This is life changing for me! I haven't fapped or watched pron this year. It's still hard, you get urges and this is where discipline come in. Tell your mind to say "NO" You are in control. My personal Tip: Everyday you wake up, you will "ALWAYS" be happy you didn't fap the previous day. I'll say it again: You will always be glad you didn't fap the previous day.
"Women usually never make the first move" this is not true. if they are really into you they will, however awkward they will try. i have a friend who is very attractive, and girls do try to make first contact rather often. but since hes genuinely not interested in having sx with people he doesnt know, it doesnt go anywhere xd
I'm happy for you bro, great progress. Here's some good advice for your mental stability, don't attach yourself to the streak, you are no longer a FAPer. if you jerk it, its okey as long as you don't pick up the habit again. A few times a year is okey, try your best to keep it as along as possible. Sex is still ok btw. My background: No FAP - 4 YEARS. Longest streak 6 months. I maybe jerk it 10 times a year. Just like alcohol I'm not a n alcoholic but I do drink a few times a year at parties or big events. I use to beat myself up for "relapsing" (mind you relapses where months apart) but after years I realized that, that wasn't a relapse. Just a mistake I made ONE day and learned what got me there and learned from it, that's all. I am a mature man that is in control of himself, that can still make mistakes to learn and get better.
Hey man, I’m 14 and I really needed this, I’ve been going thought this thing for over 3 years (I know I started very young) and I’ve been really trying to change for over a year. My social life and my mind have been suffering under this addiction. I really hope that I change the way I think and that I start living my life.
Don’t worry man, you’re not alone. I’m almost 13 now and started when I was 11. I’ve been trying to quit but every time I relapse. I’m going to a summer program away from home for 5 weeks and that means I’ll have a roommate. I’ve especially been wanting to quit so I don’t get caught doing it there. I’m also really addicted, when I get in bed or even just sit on my sofa, I get erect. My god damn social life is ruined and has been taken over by this stupid addiction. If I’m alone, or even just have my room to myself, I do it. It’s disgusting. I’m trying my hardest to stop. My plan is to not think about it, leave my door open when I’m alone, play a video game with my friends if I feel like doing it, go for a run, talk to my brother, even just sit and watch tv with my dog. I’m hoping this will work. Will check back in a couple days and give progress report, but no counting days, we all know that NoFap doesn’t mean anything, it’s flawed. Good night.
By far the best video i ever encountered. And bro crazy how your experiences similar to mine. Praying on it is my last video too, and today marks that contract been torn. Amen.
It’s time to change for the better. I have to take Control over myself and start becoming the man I always wanted to be. You are right 🙏 I needed that to finally quit my addiction to porn
I really needed to hear this. Thanks man. In my early 20s now and have been secretly fighting these demons for about 7yrs now. Time to turn a new leaf. Deleting it and anything that makes me think of it in my life. God bless 🙏🏻
Me too man I’m 21 right now. I’ve been addicted to it ever since I broke up with my ex 2 years ago, I think I went the longest without doing it for 20 something days but then I relapsed and it’s been everyday since then even multiple times a day. I’m tired of it, I want to feel confident again, I want to attract another woman but I doubt myself so much because of the guilt I feel from doing this.
I’m only 12 and I already suffered with this addiction at 11. I realized it was an addiction really (thank god). This video will definitely help me quit. Thank you. 🙏 (i’m talking about porn by the way, i already quit porn for months. but not fapping.)
Niiiiceeeeeee bro don’t watch porn and try not to compulsively fap if you do make sure it’s to your imagination lucky bastard realising it’s an addiction so early noice bro
I've have an addiction for 3-4 years, it's always hard but this time i'm stopping, I need to, ik this seems like some kind of like beggar but please like this so i dont forget about it and stop that endless fucking cycle of hell
I have been on a journey of self improvement for the last few months and I knew that the first step would be to end this disgusting desire of pleasure. This video and your channel in general has been helping me so much and I want to thank you for improving my life for the better.
My friend i need to tell you. After 12 years of being an addict i decided to use the only tool i have to help me: RUclips. And it feels like magic to hear all the thoughts i had over the last decade translate into such a beatiful video. I have mo words to describe how much it helped me. Thank you so much
Very very good video (i randomly saw it and clicked) hearing the mindset of a young man who is giving advice to other youth (especially men) is powerful. whoever reads this please keep at clearing your mind and focus on the better version of yourself & soon 100% you will be free - the road is rough but NOT impossible!!!! to the young man in the video you really should think about being a motivational/ public speaker. it's refreshing to hear the young youth (our future) speak life & give solid advice!!! keep up the good work
I literally can't thank you enough, it's truly a blessing that the algorithm recommended me this video, and thanks to you, my friend, I have hope that I will become better than I ever was, much love to you ❤
It's amazing how I can relate to your story, every fking detail. I don't fap about 3-4 months and I can really see the differences, psycho and physiological. It's really nice that you shared your story with such assertiveness. Hope a lot of this young men really listen to you and make some actions about this. Keep your testosterone up G's!
Boys, like this to remind me everyday not to relapse.
Dont give up
Do not give up
I‘m starting tomorrow I relepsed on 9 days streak just don’t quit bro I feel like a loser and a nerd
@ExercicesAtHome keep going bro. Be strong
I’m on a 20 day streak you can do it
No bs, no over exaggeration just face to face and straight to the point, thanks dude
Facts
No way that's only for some people
I’m glad I’ve never gotten into the hub, and I will never go there
glad 4 u bro❤️
@@BuffedAcheron bro that’s insane! Don’t even look! Keep your eyes pure !!
Leaving this comment here so that i'm always reminded of this video when you like
i got you fam
made it so far ?
Reminded
Reminder
The purpose of the video is not to come back , u shouldn't even think about it , it has to be natural
Imma leave this here so I can keep being reminded of this video
You really gotta stick with this. I’m telling you your mental clarity, confidence, work ethic, view on women, and just overall happiness will be so much better.
Daily reminder for ya!
Do not give up. Its that simple. No matter what, do not give in. You have no excuses
keep it up, one day at a time brother.
Remember
17. Y/o, stopped by my self, and began going to the gym, got better in school, makes more money by working more and got more confident. 100% worth it
Proud of you bro
🙌🙌
Good for you man. I'm finding myself quitting now at 24 after doing it for the last 10 years. It truly does poison your body and mind. I don't even know you kid - but I'm so proud of you please stay strong!
I've stopped at 14
You need Jesus you will never feel fulfilled. You will make that million and say to yourself what changed and you will realize nothing in fact you will look at life and try to find meaning or purpose but your spirit cannot be fulfilled by materialistic things but by spiritual things.
So when you get to that point remember what I said Jesus is the only who can fill the missing link and give you hope and meaning to this life.
This video is awesome. It explains exactly what NoFap should be, not some bullshit that turns you superhuman, but just being how you are intended to be. To everyone struggling with porn addiction, it's absolutely worth stopping, and you will 100% feel better about yourself. You can do it.
Yeah but Johnny always gets out of control when I’m 4 days in and the urge to do it begins to constantly grow😭
@@chungye8937 just stop counting. Simple.
@@vhuawelomakhuvha ok I’ll stop counting 👌
@@chungye8937 Forget about it. Put porn blockers on your phone, go outside, do stuff with friends, and fill your time with productive tasks.
I've stopped for a week bro I feel so good I JS feel so energetic
Boys hold me accountable, like this so I can rewatch as many times until it’s drilled in my head
Thanks fellas, currently watching it a second time
Third time watching this, temptation was creeping in, but quickly shut down
@@maricoleman5622this is the person i wanna be😭 like this so i can watch it w u
I’ve watched this video 6 times, everytime at night I get this surge or hormones. This helps calm them down
Write down all the key words in a notebook
I’ve had enough of this compulsive addiction/ poison. I’m posting this to hold myself accountable for my actions, this starts today, i will not do it anymore. We’ve got this guys.
I got you bro, come back every 2 weeks to give us updates, let’s know if you still on it.
Stay strong my bro! U freaking got this ❤ in the bag. Even if you relapse, keep trying your best !
Yeah right
@@DannyVibes1 i know u didnt reply to me abt this, but im gonna come back every 2 weeks
@@momentt-uw9ct let’s goo 💪🏾 see you in 14 days time
17:05 "a man who isn't embarrassed of the things that he does behind close doors" that hit me like a bullet
Anyone should not be ashamed of what you do behind closed doors.
@@konyvnyelv. What are you saying?
op
@@MNAHN-T.GOF-NNgo away
@@infoatniro9055?
Like this to remind me to stay locked in 🙏🏾
lock in brother
Still got it? You feel better?
Stop seeking dopamine from our gratification
@@danielpittaway i actually started getting in the gym and started boxing outside of work. But when i feel the urge i turn on my console and play a couple games of madden to relieve the stress. Getting rid of twitter was when i noticed the most significant change in how much i see explicit shit. This isn’t for dopamine its more of a “ people are counting on me” mentality. Sorry to the others above for the late response. Stay strong
1 month later. Stay locked in bro
Mate, it is so REFRESHING to actually see a young man, who has a complete common sense and is confident to talk about his mistakes and describes the ground he moved to by learning from those mistakes!!! I wish I had somebody in my environment with your knowledge 20 years ago when I was a teenager. :) I hope your video will go around for a long time and will allow younger men, maturing men, growing men, to learn and follow a better path!
I second that. Very impressive and wise beyond your years. When I was a teenager 50 years ago, no one talked about masturbation or ever admitted doing it. It blows me away to see the younger generations talk out in the open about it and that's a good thing.
@@Dodgerzdennots so much as a 'good' thing where there's countless videos like these who just want to gather attention for views (it doesn't matter if they believe it to be deemed as right or not) telling ppl to 'stop' as its ruining your life based on that thing that is supposedly detrimental against and basing their own arguments as an objective fact that everyone would supposedly share...
its a completely baseless argument because of that notion right there, the guy in the video talks about how he doesn't like those 'corny' nofap videos yet literally delves into that idea that those videos have when you're in a 'nofap' zone then your sexual experience will be automatically or progressively better with women (or men) as well as meeting your friends (which alludes to not succumbing into that urge when you're alone), going outside and going to the gym...
@@godzillazfriction Good point. In my day there was no information and no one ever talked about it and today it's information overload and everyone talks about it. I also wonder if these people talking about no fap are causing people to feel guilt or shame about masturbation in the same way religion tries to do that.
@@Dodgerzden i just find it strange how this culture that has been brought up from mostly or definitely American side of things is always about Males and not Females as in that Females are just out of the equation for some contradictory reason for the sake of 'self-improvement' and how you should stop what you're doing, and it's ruining your life...
someone get this guy a medal
@l-ixirit’s someone get this guy an Oscar but that’s still
boys you know the drill, like this comment everyday one person at a time to remind me i wrote this comment, 365 likes=365 days, we are in this together.
hehe 69
@@RajProX08hehe 69
don't do streaks bro, no 365 days shit. just stop watching porn.
and don't stop doing both at the same time, you will likely fail. start by cutting porn out from your life and fap here and there just to your imagination, and i promise you you will slowly lose interest
Yo
im 365th like stay strong
The fact that nobody talks about the book NoFap Rebirth Project, speaks volumes about how people are stuck in life.
Who wrote the book. I can’t find it
cuz of OF, they are earning money off addicted ppl
@@ironmanjaimz he is a bot
@@GhostRiley-zs8zbthere is so many bots in comments these days
@@HolyPlush gotta be a bot if they disagree
This is probably the best video related to this sh*t.
After 16 years (started at around 11 yo) I feel like my mentality changed for real, even if I am not in my longest streak, I really feel like this is a thing of the past already (I don't even know what my streak is anymore).
Thanks for this video, hopefully more people get a chance to watch it entirely.
yeah i can relate because i started when I was about 8 and I've stopped for a couple days now. Another thing I heard is that addiction is controlled by proteins in your body which gives you dopamine, and that the less you work that protein by doing it, the weaker it'll get. I don't know if that's helpful, but that's just something I wanted to share.
11!!!! i started way later wow
@@ForThePremiumthis is absolutely horrible. I hate this society so much that you started at fuckin 8 years old. Hope these dudes that make these adult films are punished when they die. They profit off our suffering absolutely disgusting stuff
i started at 7💀and i'm 13 now this is the first video i seen of this and didn't know what it was before but i'm stopping
@@oofoofson4654i started at 7💀
I’m so tired of feeling like a slave to porn, like many others I’m now holding myself accountable by leaving this comment here as a reminder to keep staying strong. We can do this guys, stay strong.
Please like this comment do I can come back and watch this. I needed this so much
Just download it
Straight up 😂 0:05
npc and like beggar
@jjaden NPCs don't have typos in their dialogue ya cornball. Also jokes on you, you got me to come back and watch the video again loser.
comeback watch it right now, u need it
I believe you are right, to conquer any addictions you eventually have to come to the mindset of i no longer.. smoke, drink, fap, or anything else. And if you fail, dust yourself off and start again
So basically relapse over and over without any progress at actually quitting your addiction, that doesn't help anyone at all.
@@Asrajzz64 No. I believe you have to accept you are not perfect, and the goal is to be slightly better every day. If a relapse occurs you have two choices... 1 give up and not be better. 2 try again with a benchmark to apply yourself against. So if your not perfect and no one is, you quit and stop or get up and try again. Which are you?
@@BrainfooTV Sounds like an excuse in disguise. Of course though you always have that choice even before you relapse, give in or you can put your energy to something else. We need more solutions than to just tell us to relapse and start again, thats not truly progress.
@@Asrajzz64 obviously you are perfect, well done 👍🏻
@@BrainfooTV Clearly I'm not, but doesn't mean we should just take the easy way out and not actually try to progress in life. There has to be a point where it's day one or one day.
God bless all my brothers out here on their journey 🙏🏿
Can someone like this so I can keep the streak like these other guys here. It’s a rly big problem and I can’t stop
I liked ur comment, in return u like mine so i can too go back to this vid
@@intensifiedjay69Nah man make sure to like mine, because I saw the parrot in your pfp and I thought it was a butt, I need help 🤣
@@Fermin-hw5pd No Probs G🤣🤣 How does it look like a butt🤣🤣
I am 16 but I've already watched lots of videos like this and relapsed many times, but this video really made me think about all of it, I've gotta say you are really calming and I felt like my older brother was speaking to me, thank you man
You 16 brother stop beating your meat an become a real man rn kid I’m tryna tell you. I’ll be the most difficult thing in the world but u can accomplish it through are lord and savior God Jesus Christ 💯. I’m 18 finna go my life 🩸💯
When I was 16 many many years ago, I didn’t even know what no fap and SR was.. I had no issues with fapping and corn.
That just tells me there’s a greater issue with teens nowadays, having instant access to corn and it’s creating a huge issue.
Good luck brother
It’s easier and easier if you let yourself go along time then relapse, just like quitting alcohol I went a long time without drinking and now if I do go drink and I’m down for 3 days it’s just like what’s the point? Gets easier over time, let yourself go 7 days you’ll start talking to people and excelling, then when you relapse watch yourself push the people away, watch yourself feel like your on pins and needles you’ll think more and more what’s the point?
@@IntegraDIYalso the lack of in person interactions too… when you can have literally anything delivered to your door and see anything you want from a handheld device you can take anywhere, it makes for such a huge issue, considering at one point people had to actually GO OUT to socialize or get things they wanted. Dopamine naturally takes us to the easiest path or shortcut to do something and with how things are nowadays, it only gets worse
I don't have have a pornography addiction (I'm thankful to God for that, especially considering I'm in my teenage years). But this was an AMAZING video, that's important for all men to watch, this is definitely something I'll be sharing to my friends. Thank you so much for this Chi
Same, I’ve gotten much knowledge about porn and its harmful effects prior to my teenage years. So entering my teenage (and still am) years I thankfully never developed an addiction to porn or fapping. And I agree, this should be shown to more men (especially those in teen years since hormones are at peak) because porn and fapping is because more socially acceptable. It’s disgusting, and those who defend it saying “oh it’s not bad as long as you use it moderately and know it’s not the real world” or “you don’t want testicular cancer so it’s fine” are foolish and delusional.
You ain't got one yet wait till you get around 25-30 and see what dating really is and you'll beg for a quick sneak peek at Abella or sumsht
I don’t have porn addiction I only struggle with lust
@@fotis3v480 you make a good point here. Eternal vigilance is the price for remaining free from this scourge. I believe keeping on the "sigma male grindset" is the way to stay free.
@@KevinKuntawhat is lust
I became addicted at the age of 11 and I've been hooked for 3 years now. Every time I finish I feel so guilty and say that I won't do it the next day, but it happens again. And I say I will stop again. This is the most moving video I've ever seen in my entire life and I just want to thank you for lifting me out of it. I'm so grateful.
Same bro, I'm praying for you
Me too
14? Jesus christ what did the internet do to us...
Im very young and I keep doing this, I want to stop but cant I am startong my journey tommorow. Please keep liking this so it reminds me to not relapse.
I literally just rubbed one out a few minutes ago and this shows up..
Drop a like. Help me quit.
Brother listen. Idk how long I’ve been off the corn, but the ABSOLUTE best two things I did to stop was 1 find God, I went to God for forgiveness and strength and to other people for advice. And two, sorry to say this, but you’re just a bitch, like is there nothing better that you can do with your life. What I mean is, whenever you feel like doing it, think about how idiotic you’ll feel after, and instead of doing that, get up, and get off your phone.
Hope this helps
I hope ur doing good bro
I believe in you my friend. You aren't alone brother
@@ProdectOnRUclips I am not, I completely forgot about this I have failed myself 😓
@ike8962 we all have been there just keep going I am still struggling too man but discipline yourself brother and you will get through
Popped up on my recommended when i needed it the most. Hold me accountable boys. To all those on your journey, wishing you the best.
@guavacake how are you holding up man?
hey are you doing good?
honestly, scary how relatable this video is
I remember when I first tried to quit my addiction. I didn’t even think it was an addiction until I started getting thoughts in the back of my head trying to convince me to relapse that I knew weren’t even my thoughts I’ve been on and off with trying to quit this, but I think this video is really going to be helpful.
he literally went through all the things that im going through, and i decided right now to stop and get my life my mind everything right. I appreciate u for this video bro
I have watched more than 20 such videos. But this one was really the last for me. I'm leaving this comment here so that I'll be reminded of this video when someone likes it. Hopefully in a few days, weeks, months or even years I can come back here and feel proud of what I am about to start.
I stopped like 7-8 months ago and i would do it all over again. Very good decision. Just waiting for marriage
Gooby
Good yute, now come and clap my cheeks🍦🎀
@@Renewed-RNWDi wanna get married to bro. No fapping save all our sexual energy for the love of our life. Doctors dont teach u the truth. Yes fapping can cause ur penis not to work or feel anything. So just wait till u have a girl you trust or wife.
Update?
The shame is the hardest part guys. Overcome the shame and you'll gain control over it.
What if you don't carry any shame from this? Like how much shame do you walk around with because you pick your nose when nobody is watching?
So you would beat your meat looking at pixels in public ? Because I think picking your nose in public is fine.
@@zeethree A lot.
@@zeethreebuild discipline. It doesnt have to outright stop shaking the shaft, but from small things like wake up early and forcing yourself to write or read or do some house chores. The most important thing is do it strictly, beating an addiction may be bigger food than you can chew so eat it in small portions. Means do strict schedules from small things. Just small, and then get bigger portions. Remember, the peak of the mountain can be one feet away only if you walk towards it
Find god
No Fap isn't really about the fact and activity of stopping to fap. It teaches you discipline to not do something even tho it feels good. its all mental.
Many people aren’t aware of this man. They spend most of their time staring at the day counter.
Facts
and joke about saving 30 second and 5 calori, but its free exercise! lol
most improtant part for me is transmute the sexual energy into goal focused grind
im way more productif if im nofap, than lazy boring sleepy and nonchalent
eyes of the tiger is no joke
Exactly
We're supposed to watch a 20 minute video for you to remind the dumbest of the bunch the entire point of doing any of it to begin with? That's ridiculous. Content creators are the worst.@@chiyinde
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks.
I'm not a porn addict but I appreciate this video anyway because you are one of the first people who actually framed it correctly and thoughtfully.
Changes aren't measured in time, they're supposed to be something eternal.
❤
Respect bro
@@chiyindeso nofap is bad bro ?
it feels wrong seeing doraemon being a corn addict 💀, MY CHILDHOOD
bro what?@@pn7600
This is why I still have hope. Because of amazing people like yourself. I swear from this point on I will try my absolute best to not lose control again. Thanks bro, you’re helping people everywhere in the best way possible. ❤
Thank you so much man for opening up and helping other brothers. "The hardest choices requires the strongest wills"
Please like this to help me remember to stay locked in and to not relapse. I want to move on my addiction.
Today is the beginning of an end. A beginning of a better beginning.
How’s it going man
how is it going man?
@@Ownsinfulwonderful
@@shoter1930really good
W man
I'm in my late 30's and iv'e tried it all. I find no fap is one extreme, and fapping everyday is the other extreme..
I find both to be very uncomfortable...Iv'e had many long term relationships and a few one night stands..Porn can ruin a relationship even with a woman who likes it too because it prevents the relationship from ever going into a deeper level.
This man really hits the nail on the head, he's describing the way to really hack your brain...
He's right at the end of the day you're just staring at pixels on a screen and accomplishing NOTHING
Maybe pixels on the screen but it's a lot better than getting your whole life ruined over a lie
yeah thats true
@@divergentthg7925yeah that's true yeah that's right
2 extremes both uncomfortable, 1 it takes you in a hole and keeps you there, the other gives you energy to go out and do something out here.
@centurion6378 for some reason it doesn't affect the mass population at least though according to studies though at least
Love the video man, this is totally different from what the other RUclipsrs who make content about these topics do, no fake promises of u growing a second D and gaining superpowers after going on a 7 days streak, no Alpha/Beta male childish shi, no excessive/unnecessary use of bad words to sound tough and get the point across, u could watch this in a Church without no headphones on and not worry about getting kicked out, It's just straight to the point, with plenty of advice. Keep it up, hope ur channel grows more, +1sub.
Much appreciated brother, means a lot 👊🏾
Do it right and U will get the superpowers, I know I did
Superpowers like?@@michalksi2377
What powers?@@michalksi2377
@@michalksi2377superpowers being not feeling good and a healthy prostate decreasing cancer because your youtube gurus said so?
day one please remind me every once and a while
reminded (1)
remind
Stay strong
Stay strong bro
stay strong breh
Dude I just wanna say THANK YOU and I rarely type in all caps.. but man you are the most straightforward RUclipsr I’ve seen talk on this topic. I am 16 turning 17 in a few weeks and you covered every single area I was confused about, What u said you struggled with is highly relatable with me regarding the cycle of repetitively stopping and starting over and over and over. I’ve heard people say stop counting the days before, but you gave a legitimate reason on why and from now on I promise to stop counting and to say I just don’t do it anymore. You seriously weren’t lying when u said this is your first and last video, you covered everything. Thanks alot bro🖤
I gotta agree with you,it is true like sometimes after a day from not doing it,it would come so strong
@@Heisduke_.43 Yeah, that always got me so I ended up constantly relapsing from the urges, but If you’ve been through it enough to realize it is the farthest thing from worth it, you’ll be okay💯🙏
I felt compelled to donate money to you because you spoke to me from the soul hopefully I can overcome the addiction, thanks for the video
can yall like this so I know there's people that believe in me?
How you doing so far
@@Horsefighter155 it’s going pretty good, I started reading the Bible and I convinced my family we should go to church. Hoping to continue growing closer to god and joining him in heaven one day 🙏
@@skydivcali Proud of you bro, I really am. Keep it up!
As a muslim you have my respects for quitting this thing and turning to god and your own religion great job brother
This is the beginning of my new era
How u doing?
I have consumed a lot of content on this particular topic, but none have been as relatable and real as yours. You are doing a great job by being brutally honest on the internet without the fear of vulnerability. Good job man, I wish you and all those who are watching this all the luck and success in the world. Godspeed my friends, we will make it.
Bro just didn’t like her like that 😂
This is something I really needed. My life has a hit a really big low point and I am ready to start turning myself around.
Same i need to fix this
you guys got this. everything in life feels too hard for me right now but I'm trying
Good luck brother
@@Infact77 appreciate it you guys always mean a lot when ppl acknowledge one another when in need.
You can do it bro I’m on the same journey rn
You can't quit, if you quit you're doomed. Just increase the interval. I havne't quit smoking cigarettes but it's been fifteen years since my last one. Counting days is a recipe for failure....
So fap once every 5 years
Is this more of a mental strategy
it seems like if you set yourself to quit it puts more pressure on yourself rather than just trying not to do it
Slow
Bull
Enough of the procrastination bs I’m finally gonna control my life and this is to hold myself accountable and for me to become a better person.
I believe in you brother you got this
Good - clear teacher. Very realistic. It's a shame young boys don't get this basic education from responsible males like you,
Excellent video! I am 29, and I've been watching porn since my teens. Everything you said I have been putting into practice, and I wish you made this video sooner! It's not about counting the days but making the days count. The "super powers" people Exaggerate should NOT be the focus, but simply disengaging from an unnatural act and becoming a normal human being should be the focus! Thanks, brother! 🙏🏽
Porn literally destroy young men brain
Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14)
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Have you also watched the AoT-No-Fap Video? Because there i got the sentence: I dont count the days, i make the days count.
Unnatural act? Is this sarcasm or something?
Jesus Never left you or Forsaken you my Friend Better Believe that 😄He is watching and Cares for ALL of us in this Crazy life we live🙏❤Get your Focus on Christ The Saviour he really loves us:TheCROSS 🙏💟I am not healed out of nowhere from my incurrable sickness (: Better Believe that there is more to life than this Physical World💯Devil doesnt want us to wakeup...Just saying
This was probably the best of these type of videos ive seen on youtube. Will definitely be the last cuz this guy had the answer. He was real. Pure. And direct.💯
Im 33, and was introduced to p, probably at about 13. watched it consistently to about 27/28. I have so many memories of it over the years, it was there for me through thick and thin like an old friend. I remember stopping when i was 28, i was recently single and its true what they say, the world does seem different and exciting and you as a person improves drastically . I ended up back at my parents in lockdown and through a mixture of things - boredom, sadness, depression, ended back on it and my old friend was back, the routine was back and it was so difficult to stop, the hardest challenge. I am now off p, but recently in the last few months went back on it, i was feeling anxious with some things and needed my old memories. i was searching for my old memories and found them. Your brain is such a powerful thing, you very quickly convince yourself. my advice to anyone struggling is to focus your mind on something positive to improve yourself. You are with your mind 24/7, you need to know it better than the closest person in your life
Dude, i usually don't comment on videos, but this... this is what i needed. No screeming, no BS, and no lies. Just down to earth man to man. Thank you so much for the video and your support. You've earned my eternal respect. The least i can do it sub. Thank you man.
Not saying “bro” every other word!!
Its insane how everything you said is relatable, its all true and constantly happens. I believe me and everyone else who has watched this truly appreciates this video. Thank you.
I think the main factor is we need to find out what triggers us into watching this stuff, I'm slowly cutting down smoking cannabis and iv noticed when I'm bored and I'm really stoned that's when I get the urge to start watching , when I'm sober I don't even think about it or have interest in it, like u said we need to find out what's triggering us everyone is different
100% it’s about identifying triggers, that’s the first and most important step
Was the same with cause that’s when it felt the best
But once your able to sr
For a while you know
Who the real culprit was.
That's a big part of why I quit smoking,
Years ago I watched video of a specialist dealing with patients on the issue. He had an acronym BLAST for it.
Boredom
Lonlynes
A don't remember
Stress
T don't remember
Same but my trigger is alcohol. Combine that with idleness and the Hub becomes inevitable. I hardly drink because of this aside from it just being terribly unhealthy.
As a 20 year's old, this is truly helping me to change my perspective of NF. I'll appreciate it if someone liking this comment so I can return to this video again.
20 years old also, see how I do as well
How’s it going
brother. as soon as you relayed your routine about instagram and upgrading intensity, i knew you relate exactly to me. im making great progress, and you’re idea of shedding the streak to just declaring i dont do it anymore, will help change my life. thank you man, you’re a blessing.
Bro you’re so real for this. I feel understood so much watching this. I’ve learned myself to not put myself on a streak and just don’t do it ever again. I’m probably at least 3 weeks clean now? Idk and idc. Just know if you’re reading this, you can do it. My personal advice is to just never keep track of your days as he said in the video. Anytime you think about doing it, have will power and move yourself out of that situation immediately.
Thank you man, I’m 21 and I’ve been fucking up my whole life and I’m starting to realize i need a change and this is one of the things i need to fix if i wanna keep changing my life around.
truth.
Goodluck brother, you got this 💪🏽
Age of 16, never beat it before and I literally have 0 clue what it feels like or anything. Never had sex, gonna wait until marriage. I’ve listened to this no-fap stuff since the age of 12. Scared me away from it my whole life.
Your lucky people were there to tell you from right and wrong 😔
Same bro
Nah that’s unhealthy at 16 may have erectile disfunction
@@pablodiaz6660huh??? Dude relapsing is not a thing to be proud of without sexual contact. If your jerking off, that’s a problem, I’m sorry. This guy has it good, where he didn’t have to learn or have to persevere nofap.
do you have ED? not tryna be rude but that might be a reason why you havent done it
I applauded you brother for making this video. True wisdom comes from learned experience . You speak with a lot of honesty and conviction and its very heart felt. Your truth relates to All men young and old and at my age of 46 I am absolutely blown away at your level of maturity and understanding on this topic. You have also educated me with information I can pass on to others.The greatest skill we as men can learn is self discipline. Much appreciated Sir RESPECT 👏
I am 18 and have a girlfriend now, and I am happy to say much better self control. However I feel I needed this video in secondary school as a little kid that gave in to my desires. In fact the longer this video went on the more I learned that I can actually put a lot of my shortcomings in school and life as a teen down to an addiction like this. I focused less, I wasn't as locked in to my goals and always told myself, yeh I'll go gym today only to get home and give in to those desires and be filled with shame and guilt and lose all motivation to go gym, or even do my school work. Thank you for this video Chi, This might be the first and last NoFap video I ever watch but it is certainly not the last of your videos I'll ever watch. I hope for all the best for you and your channel, more people need to hear these messages and you're doing it the best of any other 'SeLf iMpRoVeMeNt', Eat Kale, 8 hours of sleep, Drink more water BS channel than I have ever seen. All the best bro!
I’ve been doing this for 10+ years twice a day now I’m on my 16 days clear thanks to the lord and guys the super powers are real
Keep going bro
Im not trying to be condescending to you, but there are no super powers to be gained from this, you just revert back to normal. I have done a 90 day Nofap before, you do feel better relatively speaking, but it is nothing special, it is just for your health.
I CANT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@joshuachurch5702 addiction funny to you huh?
@@adriankovacs4133 nah bro confidence, mind clarity, muscular gains, more energy…..
I started it when I was 8. I had a really bad environment and my friends, I just now stop a year ago when I was 13. Now I’m 14 I’ve gotten better and I haven’t done it in about 4 months. Watching this really reminded me how much an idiot I was doing this.
had a similar experience i accidentally stumbled across it many times since i was 6. i had a tablet and just the access to google allowed me to accidentally find it. i had watched it a few times before i was even 10 but not until i was 12 was it consistent. the things i saw when i was younger have definitely scared my brain and libido for life and i will restrict every single method i found from my kids because i wouldn’t wish this on anyone.
16:40 bro started hating on me
Bro this is the realest video people could find. Hope people take your advice.
Man, this video hits hard. My fateful journey began around the age of 11 or 12 (I'm 15, about to be 16 now), and it's been an awful ride since. There were spouts of time where I could go 1-2 weeks, and maybe even if I was really good, 3 without P but I always fell back in the same trap and I always felt terrible when I did. Last year, around January of 23' there was this girl I really began to like, and I got her number and I thought she was genuinely into me until I told her how I felt, and she shot me down. That broke me. That's when I got really heavy into the addiction, and I was unstoppable. Flash forward to just before new year, I asked her again if I'd ever have a shot with her and she said yes. At that moment, I vowed to quit porn and become a better person because I felt like I wasn't worthy of her, If I'm just a sad excuse of a dude with no mental control who's addicted to porn. Every day I remind myself of what my goal is, and I tell myself that I'd be throwing my chance with her away if I ever got back into it, and it seems to be working rather well, because there is nothing more in this entire world, I want more than her. It makes me sad to think about all the worthless time I've spent letting myself dig deeper into that pit, that ultimately means absolutely nothing, and I know I won't ever be able to regain that lost time, but I can try to make the effects of it less. I pray every day to keep my mind away from the thought of even picking up my phone to look at something slightly suggestive. I still have an impossibly long journey ahead to becoming the person I want to be, someone without any sort of mental ties to anything other than her, my friends and my family. I pray that anyone reading this, if they are still struggling with it, to set your wallpaper on your phone or viewing device to something that will stop you when you open that device. I set my wallpaper to a quote that reads: "Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret." It stopped me dead in my tracks a few times where I had the urge to fall back into the hole I dug. Thank you for this very inspirational video, and I hope that any man still suffering from the addiction finds it and takes every word you said to heart and makes a change! You have nothing to lose, only the world to gain.
"Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret."
-unknown
God bless you on your journey
That's a good goal for now but you really have to develop other goals that you can fall back on should this fickle young lady change her mind. I'm saying you should know that if this one falls through, there are other young ladies you can pursue. To be good enough for them, the same determination you have now, will be required just as much.
That wall paper idea is genius, definitely doing that
@@losfromla1480real, at the end of the day there are some girls you can’t get back, but use that failure as motivation to be better so the next time a girl comes around you’ll be better than last time
@@losfromla1480 Yeah man. She made me realize that I need to make a change. Even if things don't work out with her, she brought me to God, and I have a better concept of what is wrong, and how to change. I prayed that things would somehow start working out with her, and then right after I started doing that, things started falling in place. I've realized that God is real, and he is a part of everyone's lives and what he's done in mine, is amazing. I appreciate the concern my man
Amazing content Chi. I felt represented by your history. The advice can give you guys is to count days until 3 months and then just stop counting the days.
This is the single most real video I have ever watched on this platform
I turned 16 a few weeks ago. I saw a similar video to this a while ago, but I never had any thought. But this video puts the right agenda in the right words. Thank you for making this video. It has most likely changed the rest of my life. Stay strong, guys.
had the exact same experience as him and ur lucky to discover the dangers this early
@@Aubertinome too, I’ve had it a week ago actually and I’ve been just feeling so down and sad that I fucked up my first time for myself and my gf, she keeps telling me it’s okay and that sometimes it happens to boys in their first time but I already knew what the problem was and I’m still so angry with myself for fapping so much. I’ve decided now to completely delete fapping from my life and honestly I haven’t really felt that much different yet but I hope I’ll be feeling better soon. Prayers my second time will be like my first time should’ve been🙏🙏
@@Mr_Menace0 its totally normal man, im 17 and i had sex for the first time when i was 14 and i didnt finish as well because i did it everyday with my hand. Don't worry about it, it might feel embarrassing to say but its nothing to be ashamed of because its normal. My advice would be to not force it upon yourself when you know its about to happen, so dont force the act and dont get frustrated and beat yourself up for it.
8:16 - 8:28 my god you just described my life. Thanks for the video. I'm 22 now and still feel shy to be social. I am trying to do my best.
Please, give me day to day reminder about this so I dont forget. Thanks man. This vid made me think about myself and what I was doing for so long.
I used to do it several times a day. The addiction was crazy, but then I got a crush on a beatiful girl that I liked. That didn't dtop me at first though, but after half a year my feelings for her grew stronger where it felt like I was cheating everytime I did it. After realizing that, I haven't done it by myself since. We are now together and my life couldn't be any better❤
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Damn. Lucky
GG i hope you are doing well!
@@ServantSinister gg? Nah ez
I first had the desire to quit and better myself when I started dating. We broke up, but it changed me permanently. Even though I am struggling again, I hate it and the thought of being ruled by porn sickens me. I am GOING to quit.
I’m 14 and I have been struggling with this for quite a bit now. I know it is wrong and I know it is a sin. I want to be more motivated to work towards being better in my sport, and have more energy. I want to go back to when I was a very social person, ever since I started masturbating I have been way less social. I want to get closer to god too. Seeing this video and watching it through gave me the motivation to stop. Everything that you said related to me and felt like my exact situation. So, thank you for helping me start this journey. Thank you for helping me and so many others work towards being better. I also liked and subbed.
If you want to stop, what I do is talk to myself. I think to myself, “oh, you’re gonna make me fap again? You’re gonna give me the urges? Try it, won’t even work”. It’s really more of just taunting myself than talking to myself now that I think about it
The first step to changing your life is to get your mentality into the right place
And if you follow a religion that involves worship, pray. Whoever or whatever you worship has written down in a holy book that they can help you through tough times
I can relate to everything you just stated. Dont quit now.
Honestly the best ever video I have seen on this topic, I think you take a great approach to it cutting out any BS
Wish I saw this video a very long time ago. Didn't realize the actual damage this addiction has done to me over the last 9 years. 21 now and never even held the hand of a woman, this is a real addiction with real consequences. Looking back it fucked me up in so many situations and basically ruined my life up until now. Been about a week now of nofap after watching everyday/multiple times per day and I truly have never felt better. I know its only up from here and I can slowly start to piece my life back together. Feels like a new start from the person I have become up to this point and can now become who I actually want to be. Seeing content like this inspires me to continue on my journey and for that I thank you.
Hi Chi, first time watcher, but wow what a great video. Well said, the path forward is no longer having to feel guilt, shame, and embarrassment, but to have the will to become the person one is meant to be. God bless, and thank you for such great wisdom!
My man, this man deserves more love here in youtube. I genuinely got surprised when i saw how small amount of subs this man has. Keep up the good work my man.
The worst thing for me is that I actually kind of realised everything that was said in this video but never saw clearly enough through it to take action...
easy to say, hard to do
This video was too relatable, thank you for this bro. To everyone watching this, it’s never too late to stop
I just turned 20 and I had a same encounter at the same age of 16 this makes me happy that you used your platform to get this out into the world or at least boys in there teens that are hitting puberty, this is a huge problem now in our would where kids just talk about it without being embarrassed and it just being ''normal''.
It happened to me yesterday
Are you doing better now bro?
I didn’t expect this from this video but you earned my respect!!! Keep spreading your wisdom like and please don’t stop nomatter what♥️
Thanks brother
This channel is so underrated, he deserves more subscribers
Appreciate that man
I completely LOVE how you hit us withthe reality instead of softening It so It has a real impact
I completed NNN for the first time last year
Dec 1st: 3 girls made passes at me, one was an 8!, one even said "Hi" to me... THat is INSANE! Women usually never make the first move and shoot their shot like that.
Women can somehow tell... True story, I swear. This is life changing for me!
I haven't fapped or watched pron this year.
It's still hard, you get urges and this is where discipline come in. Tell your mind to say "NO" You are in control.
My personal Tip: Everyday you wake up, you will "ALWAYS" be happy you didn't fap the previous day.
I'll say it again: You will always be glad you didn't fap the previous day.
"Women usually never make the first move"
this is not true. if they are really into you they will, however awkward they will try. i have a friend who is very attractive, and girls do try to make first contact rather often. but since hes genuinely not interested in having sx with people he doesnt know, it doesnt go anywhere xd
I'm happy for you bro, great progress. Here's some good advice for your mental stability, don't attach yourself to the streak, you are no longer a FAPer. if you jerk it, its okey as long as you don't pick up the habit again. A few times a year is okey, try your best to keep it as along as possible. Sex is still ok btw. My background: No FAP - 4 YEARS. Longest streak 6 months. I maybe jerk it 10 times a year. Just like alcohol I'm not a n alcoholic but I do drink a few times a year at parties or big events. I use to beat myself up for "relapsing" (mind you relapses where months apart) but after years I realized that, that wasn't a relapse. Just a mistake I made ONE day and learned what got me there and learned from it, that's all. I am a mature man that is in control of himself, that can still make mistakes to learn and get better.
extremely reassuring comment bro. thank you for sharing your experience 🙏🏾
never had any [problem getting girls and i never did a nofap. moderation in life is key.
Thats really great to hear but remember that you have to grind as always
Hey man, I’m 14 and I really needed this, I’ve been going thought this thing for over 3 years (I know I started very young) and I’ve been really trying to change for over a year. My social life and my mind have been suffering under this addiction. I really hope that I change the way I think and that I start living my life.
Don’t worry man, you’re not alone. I’m almost 13 now and started when I was 11. I’ve been trying to quit but every time I relapse. I’m going to a summer program away from home for 5 weeks and that means I’ll have a roommate. I’ve especially been wanting to quit so I don’t get caught doing it there. I’m also really addicted, when I get in bed or even just sit on my sofa, I get erect. My god damn social life is ruined and has been taken over by this stupid addiction. If I’m alone, or even just have my room to myself, I do it. It’s disgusting. I’m trying my hardest to stop. My plan is to not think about it, leave my door open when I’m alone, play a video game with my friends if I feel like doing it, go for a run, talk to my brother, even just sit and watch tv with my dog. I’m hoping this will work. Will check back in a couple days and give progress report, but no counting days, we all know that NoFap doesn’t mean anything, it’s flawed. Good night.
@@The_gamingmaster8progress bro?
@@ibby1414iam 16 and it's been month been doing it my longest streak is 4 days 😢
By far the best video i ever encountered. And bro crazy how your experiences similar to mine. Praying on it is my last video too, and today marks that contract been torn. Amen.
how are you brother?
I’m glad there’s people out there willing to talk on this matter.
We need to stop normalizing it
It’s time to change for the better.
I have to take Control over myself and start becoming the man I always wanted to be.
You are right 🙏
I needed that to finally quit my addiction to porn
Lets go man me too
Good luck bro
I really needed to hear this. Thanks man. In my early 20s now and have been secretly fighting these demons for about 7yrs now. Time to turn a new leaf. Deleting it and anything that makes me think of it in my life. God bless 🙏🏻
Me too man I’m 21 right now. I’ve been addicted to it ever since I broke up with my ex 2 years ago, I think I went the longest without doing it for 20 something days but then I relapsed and it’s been everyday since then even multiple times a day. I’m tired of it, I want to feel confident again, I want to attract another woman but I doubt myself so much because of the guilt I feel from doing this.
I’m only 12 and I already suffered with this addiction at 11. I realized it was an addiction really (thank god). This video will definitely help me quit. Thank you. 🙏 (i’m talking about porn by the way, i already quit porn for months. but not fapping.)
I wish I knew about this at your age. You're on the right path - keep it up man.
Just stop doing man Im, 40 years old and it ruined my life
im 68 and this shit ruined my life
Niiiiceeeeeee bro don’t watch porn and try not to compulsively fap if you do make sure it’s to your imagination lucky bastard realising it’s an addiction so early noice bro
I’m only 7 I am addicted and I haven’t even hit puperty
Best video , he said every scenario ive been thru , most convincing , no fap for life streak starts now
and this is motivation. A perfect balance between insulting and giving advice!
Insulting?
This is hands down the best video I’ve seen on this subject !!! Absolutely amazing! Thank you brother !
this is actually so relatable thank you for this video it has genuinely helped me.
I've have an addiction for 3-4 years, it's always hard but this time i'm stopping, I need to, ik this seems like some kind of like beggar but please like this so i dont forget about it and stop that endless fucking cycle of hell
I have been on a journey of self improvement for the last few months and I knew that the first step would be to end this disgusting desire of pleasure. This video and your channel in general has been helping me so much and I want to thank you for improving my life for the better.
My friend i need to tell you. After 12 years of being an addict i decided to use the only tool i have to help me: RUclips. And it feels like magic to hear all the thoughts i had over the last decade translate into such a beatiful video. I have mo words to describe how much it helped me. Thank you so much
Very very good video (i randomly saw it and clicked) hearing the mindset of a young man who is giving advice to other youth (especially men) is powerful. whoever reads this please keep at clearing your mind and focus on the better version of yourself & soon 100% you will be free - the road is rough but NOT impossible!!!! to the young man in the video you really should think about being a motivational/ public speaker. it's refreshing to hear the young youth (our future) speak life & give solid advice!!! keep up the good work
I literally can't thank you enough, it's truly a blessing that the algorithm recommended me this video, and thanks to you, my friend, I have hope that I will become better than I ever was, much love to you ❤
It's amazing how I can relate to your story, every fking detail. I don't fap about 3-4 months and I can really see the differences, psycho and physiological. It's really nice that you shared your story with such assertiveness. Hope a lot of this young men really listen to you and make some actions about this. Keep your testosterone up G's!