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❤This is one of the most important podcasts I’ve ever heard! It’s so rich and detailed! I’m and a holistic massage therapist, mindfulness coach. I’ve worked very hard on my own mental health issues with anxiety and depression and understand myself. With all of the other work I’ve done hearing the message in the podcast really puts a lot of peace’s into perspective. Especially with regards to self awareness and overcoming to find peace, contentment and delight! I love this and I will keep watching and sharing❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Andrew for what you’re doing it’s so needed in the world today 🌍
Look up the Bible story if The Widows Mite! ( Mite- a value of part of a penny. ) You have given GREATLY and from a kind heart - you will be GREATLY blessed!💝🙏💝
KUDOS to you, @jk7jester: My mom taught me, when i was very little, that donations of apparent great generosity is not necessarily what they seem on the surface: ie unselfish and truely altruistic.. I had commented, effusively, on how "generous" it was that a very wealthy person VERY PUBLICALLY gave monies to Cancer research. The radio DJ had repeatedly praised this action with excessive verbiage, attributing to this man great sacrifice and humility. She quietly asked if the amount gifted was, to that individual, actually "generous" or might they have ulterior motives? She pointed out that the amount of money (though extravagant to our household income) was in truth, very little given that person's wealth. Granted, it is arguably better to donate such monies to a charity (publicly or not) than to waste it....but...she posited that he was RECIEIVNG a multitude of PUBLIC attention and applause (given the fact he did so very publicly) and he would no doubt be giving these monies for the tax break, as such donations are tax deductible here. She asked me to estimate the percentage of the gift, compared to his wealth, and compare that amount to the percentage of a smaller donation from someone who TRULY CAN NOT AFFORD TO GIVE more than a "relatively small amount". She enlightened me to the fact that (in comparison) the $50.00 that many of our VERY POOR neighbours donated when she canvassed on behalf of the charity was in truth far more generous. They also did so without any fanfare or publicity, yet still they gave. GENEROUSLY and ALTRUISTICALLY. She did not point it out, but I asked was this why she gave so unselfishly of her TIME as we could truly NOT spare even a few dollars to support this [and other charities] such as the SPCA which were cause(s) she believed in? My mom devoted many evenings to this task, despite a working day which began prior to dawn, work which was physically and mentally demanding and relentless throughout the entire day, well into the evening. When I was married, I tried to talk my husbter into donating monies to the BC Children's Hospital (which had helped my/our eldest son since infancy) and he REFUSED, claiming we "could not afford it". AFTER he left we three, I donated weekly small amounts of my much smaller income to that very charity. I felt GRATITUDE that we had not lost our home and were not actually starving...so each time I shopped for groceries, I HELD BACK AT LEAST ONE "luxury" item that we REALLY WANTED (such as processed foods) at the till, and donated THAT amount to the Hospital. Also, many times I bought one of the non perishable high value foods recommended by the Food Bank as being MOST NEEDED and paid for TWO such items, placing one in the bin (to help those less fortunate than ourselves) as we left the store. I then integrated the new items into our weekly meal planning. THEREAFTER, I went straight home and after the groceries were stashed, made my kids MUCH CHEAPER HOMEMADE cookies or pies to reward them for their UNSELFISHNESS. I think it's wonderful to give what you can
I quit drinking. I first told myself I can drink on the weekends I then stopped going to drinking events I started forgetting to drink on the weekends and now I don't crave drinking. My whole life is better and more focused.
3 things that helped me and literally changed my life 1. I stopped watching porn 2. I read the book called 'Become Super Human' on lexnory 3. Stop drinking
Awoke to this- loving it. I am having a hard life since 2008 ( financial destruction) and when I was finally getting ahead….2020. However, EVERYWHERE I ago I am regenerative. I work hard building, planting the garden, saving the wild birds, rebuilding the health of abused horses and chickens. That’s my pleasure. I eat healthy and run, cycle or swim every day. And yes, I am surrounded by aggressive people who have given up and are killing themselves through alcohol, drugs and obesity. I am low income. I struggle financially. I think I make people angry because unlike them, I refuse to give up. I am grateful to listen to this podcast. It explains a lot about why I am the target of a lot of hostility . I am on the right path. I know no humans love me but the animals sure do!
I used to be a very insecure people pleaser. I fell severely ill in my early 40’s. I started an inner journey of innerstanding and releasing conditioned patterns. Now I’m much more healthy, calm and have sound boundaries.
I say, steady the course.. focus on getting to the pier.. imagine walking the ocean shore with a pier far in the distance.. you might stop to pick up shells, stop and walk into the waves , stop to say hello to a stranger, stop to reflect on life, stop for a cry over a memory, but always looking to that pier.. making your way to it in your time .
I predict this series with Dr. Conti will be one of the most impactful you have done to date Dr. Huberman. Humanity desperately needs this information unveiled. Thank you both!
This is really great information & quite informative,& if only more people today could get this in their mind. Go within & get in tune with yourself & your headspace & get mentally stronger & healthy. In my own life I always just wanted the best for my family & friends & others & Every living thing in this Earth. Love & gratitude & kindness & courtesy to each other are an excellent attribute & endeavor to have. I believe this much to My very Core. This proverbial sandbox herein Earth in this place is really big enough to have everyone gather & reach their goals & dreams. There should be no hungry child no homeless people no body strung out in drugs alcohol or other crutches. They are all just trying to numb & escape their reality of not achieving receiving & trying to do better & be the best versions of themselves. Trust that I know this. The only thing I do now is try to be a better version of me today than I was yesterday & if I find a person in my path to pay it forward for, then I do just that. It’s so simple, yet why aren’t more people aware & doing this? I ask? I’m am an empathetic non judging humble being & only here for a short visit too. I’m aware my time is short. May you all reach your fullest potential purpose & self & realize you are worthy & Loved . & that nothing fake or artificial in this World will really fill Your sadness or emptiness or anything that you feel is lacking from within yourself. So Please, I beseech you all to try be honest with yourselves & go deep into your core & find the happiness love & care for yourself & others that we all collectively as Humanity, are here just to understand & Learn. & that alone too would be a huge improvement in This world. When you give of yourself, the return to your very heart & Soul, may just astound you. Just try it & see. With Care & LOVE Take Care Another Human Friend 🕊️💕🕊️ PS I am Not ai or an ibot. I’m real flesh & blood. Homosapien type Captcha: please describe to me that you are not a robot Mark a check if you are Human ✔️ Thank You ♥️😊♥️
My 13 year old daughters private school provides group therapy to all 8th graders and each week is a different topic of discussion. This week's topic was about self talk being aware how you talk to yourself. My daughter truly enjoys her sessions and looks forward to them
Self-assessment is a critical life skill that should be taught everywhere consistently. Valuing life and our mental health and wellbeing prevents disease, cruelty, lashing out, abuses perpetrated on children and animals, mental breakdowns, and a host of other avoidable conditions. America needs help. Thank you.
I stopped smoking weed completely after experiecing schizophrenia from a family member. It made me reevaluate the path I was going and I researched a lot about how long term use can induce psychosis and schizophrenia. I decided that I did not want to increase my chances by another 40% given that if there's already a lineage of schizophrenia that makes me 10% likely to develop it. I was not willing to gamble with 50%. I quit. Cold turkey. So far I've been so much more focused and for the first time in my life so far, I've managed to save money and keep it that way. Sobriety is the first step to getting better.
I just wanted to let you know how how courageous I think U R for taking on so many challenges of the self. Thanks for sharing, it helps me look deep into me! Stay sober& chemical free(alcohol,pills,nicotine) all these substances mess us all up mentally & physically.👍✌️🦋
I was a 25 year pothead, smoking many times per day. I finally quit for good 4 years ago, way too late, but not never Well done, and don't give up (except the herb of course 😊)
Hi there I just got your like, thnx for the reply, it lets me know I’m not alone in my way of thinking& it helps me spiritually and to keep away from this bad stuff that clouds up your mind; keep up the good work ✌️🦋
Wow, wow, and wow again. I literally had an emotional breakdown last week. I ended up in the hospital for 6 days. When I came home I couldn't handle it. I literally came to the conclusion that I don't know how to live. Just live. When we think about what we need there are very few things we have to do. Like sleeping, breathing, eating, and moving. I don't get enough sleep, I don't take deep breaths, I barely eat, and I don't exercise. If I don't do the basic things to just exist, how can I do anything else well? It seems simple but, it really helped me find focus and a starting point for better health.
Thank you @thekeeks3032, I am working on things. I don't get enough sleep, I don't take enough deep breaths, I don't eat all day, I am a night eater, I don't exercise and I have two gym memberships and love music and dance. lots of love to you.. Be well and stay Beautiful♥
You underestimate the degree to which the government can insert themselves into a person's life and demoralise them intentionally manipulating relationships, cutting off their ability to earn money by control over companies bank accounts cards and the rest, canceling social status, creating artificial homelessness as a means to dispose of inconvenient individuals with opinions that the government would prefer to discredit. If you don't believe this is happening that's very unfortunate but it's been going on for a long time and it's currently happening to me so, I thought I would share this information in the light that it might wake someone up a bit out of complacency. The homeless problem is like the drug problem, billions of dollars of pumped into it and it creates vast amounts of money.. if that seems completely counterintuitive, it won't do in the next 15 to 20 years when more and more covert data becomes publicly available. Your government can and do dispose of inconvenient types, who gets to actually interact with who and who gets to breed a family is actually very tightly controlled although it may not ever seen that way to you... Who gets to be successful and who gets a career is also likewise very tightly controlled... Who has access to the money machine and who doesn't likewise.. When you have sudden misfortune in your life it might be wise to consider the likelihood of it not being just some sort of chaotic series of events that couldn't have been predicted by anyone in certainly couldn't have been generated by anyone. Even worse random things also happen, which just makes identifying which is which very difficult.. Now I'm sure you're going to take this as the ramblings of a paranoid delusional type but then it all seems like someone's delusional until it's happening to you, now you're the delusional homeless person why would anyone believe you your clothes look messy that's enough reason to be suspicious of someone.. you could be a professor but if you look like you eat out of garbage dumpsters who the hell is going to listen to a thing you've got to say... The culture is likewise very carefully managed, The reliance upon image identity likewise not coincidental, just in case anyone gets too big for their boots you can always use the fact that they are too old and out of touch yes the age weapon that's the way it's useful to discredit individuals who've been around too long and got too comfortable... You see the whole thing's a giant game on one level, if I can think of all of this garbage and it's even remotely implementable which of course it is deeply implementable with modern technology, how do you suppose in justify that someone wouldn't be doing all of this, worse they would be catastrophically vulnerable if they didn't... Because someone else would definitely be willing to... Nothing in your world is quite how it seems, thank you lucky stars for what they've allowed you to have, you'll never know the truth until you find yourself at the very bottom of the pyramid, because it's only when you look up with true perspective that you really see everything clearly, but by then it's too late no one is going to listen to a word you've got to say anymore. So yes we can talk about the drive but they know about that and remove it intentionally from people
I am a Psychiatric Nurse and had shared your podcasts to my patients, I am really grateful that you did this, very informative and an excellent discussion with Dr. Conti!
How wonderful and a super idea, I shared it with my son who suffers but many others could benefit too, sometimes sharing with others might be seen as insulting, guess you have to know your audience.
Thank you for another wonderful session. As a psychologist, allow me to expand on your question regarding 'staying in a relationship longer than one should': Our parents imprint on us what we come to recognize as love. If we had neglectful parents, we may be drawn to neglectful partners; an irresponsible parent may have left the impression that 'this is love,' leading us to seek out similar traits, even if we can't tolerate such behavior. And yes, we can change our patterns. 😊
Dr Huberman has made this point many times before and some of the guests too. It can also go the other way where we are attracted to the polar opposites. That's me. Cold, callous, uncaring mother, broken family, so I'm attracted to non-white, warm, kind, traditionally feminine women from big families.
It often feels as though this era is fraught with seemingly endless hopelessness and despair. Dr. Huberman and Dr. Conti, what you have done here is nothing short of prayers answered, existential loneliness lessened, hope planted and encouraged actionable steps illustrated for a greater humanity. A profound thank you for this and the future parts of this series!
Dr Conti, you are one of the most empathetic people I have been able to come across, the way you chose your words and speak with so much sensitivity but assertion it's truly moving... I haven't felt this much impacted with a series before thankyou Dr Huberman for bridging the education gap and making such important pieces of information open to everyone
@@immanuelhall4577that's because people who act out are mentally unhealthy and tend to have unprocessed trauma that activates negative automatic thoughts and other cognitive distortions (catastrophising, grandiosity) that trigger the fight response. Having adult internal dynamic to process criticism without exploding is a definition of mental health. Being able to deliver criticism or your side in a good way is way to help the unhealthy person understand better and process their unprocessed trauma. In a way it's therapeutic to step in the role of constructive, assertive critique without attacking or overstepping boundaries. It brings peace to the society.
Dude, this video is like a goldmine of wisdom that can seriously change your life! The way the teacher breaks down stuff is eye-opening. It's like a roadmap to a better you, shining a light on how to live your best life.
What did you find wise? I’m about half way through and I don’t think I’m going to be able to finish. I’m a huge fan of the HLP, and I enjoy reading the psychoanalysists …but this guy is just the worst of all these relating fields.
Dr. Paul Conti is very well knowledgable to mental health. He has provocative insights that comes from a true butterfly in the wall. He strips everything bare to the lowest layer of knowledge.
You are a pioneer of taking complex subjects, and delivering it in Laymans terms that most everyone can understand. Such a crucial subject to discuss in a World 🌎 like today. We all need it. Grateful. Ty
I have struggled with bi-polar, childhood trauma and 3 years ago a TBI changed my life. While I rebuild myself I have been confronted by a lot of my unresolved inner baggage . Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the work you do. The information you share has helped me, my family and my community.❤
Just wanted to express my gratitude for your podcasts! I had to put my 16 year old dog to sleep a couple days ago, I am a veterinarian and had to do it myself which made it quite intense. Listening to your work has given me some emotional relief on long runs throughout this grieving process, I hope her spirit crosses Costello’s 😌 Edit: thank you all for your beautiful responses, feeling overwhelmed with gratitude for this wonderful community 💜
My dog is my best friend. We have been together everyday for almost 10 years. I've had one of her eyes rebuilt, she really is my everything. I have been there before and I know I will be there again with this pet. I'm truly sorry for your loss. I want to tell you that you did the right thing. I have to trust your judgment as a loving owner and a trained professional, so I am. Nothing about you could tell me that you love your animals any more. I'll give my dog a hug for you and send it through the ether...may peace be with you.
My gal was 16.5yo and it was just this past May, that she needed help passing along. I wish I could have done it at home but did take her body back home with us so that we could do our ceremonies and have more time with her in that stilled quiet state. She was with me since she was 2mths old and was the being that was in my life the longest. Longer than my being with my parents and longer than my child, who ventured on his own the same age I did. She is still a constant companion in the energetic ether and that brings me tremendous comfort. But I cry everyday tears of love and gratefulness for the joy she brought to me but also tears of mourning. Losing pets has always been hard for me but this one really has impacted me in ways I am still coming to terms with. I look forward to the next canine beast who will fill the hole in my being. My dog really did make me a better human. My best to all those who have loved a dog and those that will lose them too.
Never clicked on an episode so fast- I’ve been looking forward to this for quite some time! Thank you Dr Huberman and Dr Conti for freely sharing your life’s work which I know will help so many or encourage many to get help.
Well Andrew has put us in a tough spot. He's built so much trust up with his audience because of his humility and candor that how can we not click? I feel like I'm in great hands here. The knowledge is enlightening and has made my relationship with my GP much more productive. He's had me fired up about my health for awhile now and there aren't words to thank him enough...I'd shovel the sbow from his driveway for life if he was my neighbour!
I've just started watching. When I started taking an SSRI I could feel the difference between happy and unhappy and this difference is grattitude. I've never been so grateful to this worrld and to my life. It's incredible. I knew I had to be grateful before but couldn't feel it
@@Marcspix. Hi! I am taking citalopram, but I cannot recommend it, it has been prescribed by my medical doctor because it's combinable with other medicine that I have to take. It has been prescribed because I have a mental disorder that wasn't allowing me to consistently perform all the daily actions I love and that are actually making me happy and grateful 😊
My experience was the opposite of yours. Citalopram took away all joy and most other emotions in my life with the exception of the anxiety it was supposed to help 😔
Mr. Huberman, I want to thank you for this…I think this will change my life for the better. Since listening to you it brought me the strength to address and get my whole family mental help. I’ve also gained the strength to show up better as a brother to my three sisters and helping them with college, woman issues, and life. For myself, I feel like I am getting to a point where I think I can achieve what I want; because I have the tools to heal and reframe my mind. You saved my life; and if I ever get the opportunity Andrew I would break down and cry and give you a hug. I am a man that is not candid in this way. I also don’t cry often. but I just cannot thank you enough sir. Thank you so much
I hope you get the love and support, the compassion and kindness from the women you love (and others YOU LOVE). It is selfless and rewarding to help others (those who want their lives to be better WILL be helped by your love and support) but those who are truly empathic do need those who RECIPROCATE and support YOU when you need the kindness and love you give others. Please safeguard YOUR energy, your emotional well-being.
This week, I will delve into the study of health from the perspective of 'Awareness of Love.' May it provide additional knowledge and answers to life's questions. Thank you.😊
May I suggest the 4th Edition of all PhD authored Roediger, Herman, Capaldi Psychology text to credit where PhD Huberman extrapolated many evolutionary theories and practices…
I know this is a loaded concept (what we teach in schools) but I do wish they’d have a curriculum that included how to deal with emotions and cope in the world. Parents try their best but we are the results of multiple generations- including the good, bad and inbtwn. As a clinician myself, and someone who is still learning to understand my emotions and live well with them, I find society as a whole could benefit from accessible tools to cope. Even when I worked in acute pain management, the majority of my patients had an inability to cope that was as hindering as their physical pain. I appreciate podcasts and platforms such as this as it creates a bridge to all of us being better able to understand and cope. 🙏 keep it up!
I agree with this, and many countries already include this. Unfortunately, teaching empathy, emotional insight, care, love, etc. has been included in the "anti-woke" agenda of extremist groups and is now targeted in the United States. It is unfortunate because it's not like we are missing the knowledge. What we're missing is the social structure, institutions, and systems to spread it.
It's a loaded concept because people don't really want to teach the next generation what is actually healthy for them, they want to brainwash them into thinking the same as them, no matter which side of the "concepts" they are on. A true curriculum could be developed which is totally none political, but that wouldn't suit the agenda of the powers that be. Students that can cope with the stressors of life could also think for themselves, not really the agenda of the public school system, which is to produce a compliant work force for the future and nothing beyond that.
Dr Pinsky explained that the goal of therapy is to build an empathic relationship with the therapist, so that you can trust, share, grow and overcome issues in relationships. It takes time to build an empathic relationship, it is not transactional like A) listen to this explanation and definition of terms, B) you are now changed for the better. Many patients lie to their therapist, some are embarrassed about how bad or petty they might sound, some are protecting not willing to open wounds, scared what might happen if they were wrong all this time, etc. Therapy is complicated for sure.
Dr, Conti shared so much depth in this podcast and there is a lot to unpack. That's 10 years of therapy in a bottle every one needs to hear this at least 10 times to absorb this information .
Mental health is such a big issue in life. We need to teach this more. Superficial content is not going to cut it. Glad hubberman is doing the lord's work
When there are too many stressors it makes is pretty difficult to remain mentally healthy. I live in the city, hopefully I can get out soon. My backyard is lit up with LED lighting from the street and I can hear the freeway, always. My city is growing so fast that where ever I drive there is construction and drab row housing and strip malls are all I see. The beautiful mountains I would look upon to orient myself now have huge mansions built into them. Though I am out doors on my street often there are neighbors I have not met once that live on my street. I do try daily to be grateful for what I do have but sometimes I do not believe the stressors we are put under are conducive for health, yet there they are. Maybe the new "Line" they are creating will be better? I am going to listen to the whole talk but at 4 hours I am going to need to break it up some. I am hopeful that it will help with my discouragement of my surroundings.
I'm a big fan of Dr Huberman, and have been for ages, but how have I not heard of Dr Conti before? This man is a philosopher, a true scholar! Thank you for your awareness 🙏❤️A great meeting of minds! What a show!!! 🤩
I see in his eyes the passion for what he is conveying, and I love this !!! I will revisit this , by the Grace of God, just like it was his Good Grace, that despite in my own willingness to make selfish choices, he has still allowed me stumble upon this message and eloquent messenger. Thanks be to God 🙏
As a mental health psychotherapist working in an underfunded and over stretched service, I would like to say how much I appreciate the work and dedication to bring top class and brilliantly presented information to the public. I know I can trust the evidenced information I hear and I am able to use it for my own self-care and for my clients. Dr. Paul Conti is a role model to me and I am delighted and excited about this series. Thank you and your teams so much.
This podcast is like a summation of a lot of what I’ve had to work through and has provided me with much closure of my past life. How refreshing it is to hear professionals discussing what I basically had to work through on my own as I could not find the appropriate help to heal my full blown traumatic past…This podcast has not only given me much closure but has also contributed to the cementing of my amazing resilience in remaining alive, aware, strong and hopeful….( I should be so very dead long time ago ). It’s nothing short of a miracle that in spite of ALL the excessive abuse and trauma, that my CHILD LIKE SPIRITED NATURE IS ALIVE, WELL and STILL IN ITS AUTHENTIC STATE. THE fact that I’m able to understand all that was discussed blows me away as my health was grossly NEGLECTED. THANK YOU DR.PAUL🙏🏼 and THANK YOU ANDY for pursuing your passion and for being real down to earth by being personal and for letting your light shine🙏🏼⚓️🕊️🤍🙏🏼 3:26:38 3:26:43 3:26:47 3:26:23 3:26:49 3:26:53 3:26:56 3:26:58 3:27:04 3:27:09 3:27:24 3:28:25 3:35:50 3:35:56 3:35:59 3:36:40 3:36:50 3:36:53 3:37:25 3:37:29 3:37:32 3:37:40 3:37:44 3:37:48 3:37:53 3:37:56 3:37:59 3:38:02 3:38:03 3:38:07 3:38:10 3:38:15 3:38:16 3:38:18 3:38:29 3:39:25 3:39:26 3:39:31 3:39:48 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 3:40:09 3:40:19 3:40:21 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dr Huberman, I so very much hope you read this. You've deeply affected my life, and I mean given me the tools to improve it in so many ways. I've been listening to your podcast lectures from day one, and without question this episode and the 3 more to come with Paul Conti may be for many people and certainly for me the best thing ever on the internet. This will save lives, improve lives, improve society, and make a better world. Dear God, do i ever have you and Paul Conti, along with dozens of your other guests, on my forever gratitude list! Please keep doing this incredibly important work. * Take note I live in Arkansas, grew up in Chicago but have been here 25 years, Rural states don't have access to the level of clinician you present and I absolutely can't shout loud enough how precious and priceless your quality scientific information pesented with an earnest desire to help people truly is. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I apologize for this being so long, but I needed to thank you for how much this podcast has meant to me. 🙏
Dear Dr. Huberman, I have been listening to you for the last 3 years and am very happy with your current success and reach. You are one of the very few grown-ups in the room (I won't name names of who isn't, yet purport to be). Your calmness, consistency, and intelligence are a much needed balm in today's crazy world. You have a clear love and respect for science while keeping an open mind, and you acknowledge there are many things you don't know. I hope you don't let success get to your head and always stay self-aware and unbiased in your thinking and approach. Thank you for the work you are doing.
This podcast just saved my life. I ruined 2 relationships and 1 career and was so sad and confused as to why it happened again despite me being aware of why it happened. And this podcast has helped me to find the root cause, understand myself and move forward with better life perspective. Although i’m still grieving for my loss, I felt so much better due to being able to make sense of everything.
@@galvannarek i try my best to make it short. i lost all those 3 things due to my anger issues. this podcast made me realize i used unhealthy defense mechanism such as projection against people i love / coworkers. when traced back, i had so many incorrect predispositions. this podcast gave me the understanding on why i acted in such way and how i'm supposed to focus on having a good life perspective and take accountability as opposed to distracting myself with pleasure and end up approaching life the wrong way. basically my pain is taken away when i understand how i'm supposed to view life and now i'm currently in progress of making gradual change of mindset.
❤As a person with weekly therapy for over 30 years and (also an Emergency Medicine physician) You should be knighted or sainted or put on Mt. Rushmore! Thank you for your motivation and for sharing such beautiful and valuable information.
Just wanted to express my gratitude for coming across your podcast and the time and energy that you put into it! This whole series with Dr. Conti gave me so much insight and I loved listening to it. Thank you again for your work ❤
I first came across Andrew's podcasts when I was looking for information about low lumens at work. Our office had lighting at 70 lumens and I needed information on why that was affecting my work. Dr. Huberman's earlier work talks about ophthalmic neuroscience. I saw the well-organized sharing of information as a model that could help me learn to be a better communicator and learn about myself and others. I just want to say thank you.
The recipicle part of giving/receiving Life Information/therapy(kinda) is what I just went through today. I always have before..... only now, it will be by my design And God willing, and he is, we'll all keep helping each other get better
It’s insanely distracting for me. Ruins the whole podcast. Maybe it’s my problem, but it’s really unbelievable that somebody so intelligent can’t self-correct this insanely repetitive and diluting habit.
This is what the net is for. A really practical lecture, highly enjoyable so much exellent information and now available for all on this platform. True knowledge. Available for all. THANK YOU YOUNG MAN
Confidence is the ability to dissolve into a puddle of your own tears, even publicly, and not be thrown away by the experience because every day, even every hour, is a brand new time for you as if the breakdowns not only didn't hurt you, but you became even more confident as a result.
Hey Andrew, I’ve been listening to your podcasts since my mother passed away a few months ago. You’ve helped me stay mentally and physically healthy through the grieving process and I wanted to write a comment to say thank you. Also, I would love it if you could do an episode on epilepsy, I grew up with temporal lobe epilepsy and I’ve found that there are lots of common misconceptions about seizures.
The sincerity of your gratitude towards the Huberman, and the intense grief are experiencing (and processing) resonates with such emotion that it brought me to tears. I'm so glad you have been listening to the podcasts, as there is so much help therein.
Nice comment sorry for your loss glad Hubermans pods help you they helped me when I couldn't sleep I looked for ward to them every Monday when I was going thru some things. If you don't mind could you clear up some misconceptions about seizures? I've only had one due to brain trauma but one bad piece of advice I've heard is how to handle dealing with someone who has them such as put a wallet or something in their mouth... in my 20s I was told that has been proven the incorrect way of dealing with it as a kid people said use a wallet or something
Yes! Please Andrew!! Definitely an episode on epilepsy and specific key questions about this disorder and the most healthy version we can achieve with epilepsy. The challenge con medicine side effects and the hard interactions we might have with people who don't completely understand.
@@Respect2theFallen there are several misconceptions about what a seizure is, what it looks like, what causes it, what to do when someone is having a seizure, and what society thinks of people with epilepsy. Kind of a lot to address in one YT comment, but in short not all seizures have convulsions. Not all seizures are triggered by flashing lights. When someone is having a seizure make sure they don’t fall, help them gently onto the ground and lay them on their side, other than that give them space. Lots of epileptics aren’t all that different than everyone else in terms of personality or capability, we just have the additional mental and sometimes physical stress of dealing with a disability
Can u do a podcast on autism as appears to be an increase in children being diagnosed with this condition in Ireland where I am and no really suitable available treatment and guidance for parents apart from the medical model ..greattings and thank u for you're gift of knowledge to the world Dr Huberman ..
As someone personally frustrated by traditional talk therapy, this clear and mathematical structure of approaching mental health challenges is exciting. Thank you, Dr. Conti and Prof. Huberman, for this valuable series.
@@Jensth I recall Dr. Conti saying it's like a math problem, figuring out what's going on. There's a clear answer if you know how to set up the equation and look for the variable that hasn't yet been solved for
That's a good idea. I've started looking at the comments after 3/4 of an hour and didn't realise I was listening to Jordan Peterson, I've only listened to before and not seen and basically can't stand as I disco with so many things that he says as a doctor of psychology.
Agency relies upon empowerment and Gratitude relies upon humility🙌 That alone is golden contemplative info! Thank you both for this enriching discussion. ❤Huberman does it again!
I loved that Dr. Conti talked about gardening. Gardening is simple and beautiful. It made me realize that the simple things I do well are important too because sometimes I don't think I do things that matter much. Thanks!
I cannot describe how insightful this episode was for me. I could identify with many aspects of what was said in this episode. Not only has it flashed out what was hidden in my unconscious mind, but it has also given me a guide on which I will rely to figure out what is preventing me from thriving in both my personal and professional realm. Thank you so much, Dr. Andrew Huberman and Dr. Paul Conti! You are building a chain of good intentions and transformations in this world. From the bottom of my heart, thank you!
The bit about demoralization gave language to an experience I’ve been blindly grappling with for years. That bit alone is so valuable to me, and has given me access to a deeper understanding of my own drive and ever-toiling effort to self express. you both deserve reminding that the words you share have significant, life-altering, profound impacts on those listening in. Thank you thank you thank you!!!♥️✨♥️✨♥️
Dr. Conti, you are a gem. I want you to know how much these conversations impact those [me] who are struggling. Thank You so much. I see you, thank you. Dr. Huberman, I mean, you are a wonderful example of…pursuit, drive, and put into action, the life you want to lead~such an important lesson but also, an important reminder. I appreciate that so much. Thank you. Blessings Gentlemen. The information you speak, is f ing golden.
Dr. Huberman …. I am 71 years old..youngest of six…Cptsd from raging dad…three rowdy..fighting brothers..I just recently finished seven Ketamine infusions, at a wonderful place..I had MDD …it took my depression away, but now I need to work on the Cptsd…I have found a great lady with videos, with a crappy childhood..I am starting a group workshop for six weeks. My psychiatrist is awesome..I am learning meditation , she suggests two 20 minutes meditation a day..I have been married to my high school friend going on 51 years.
So happy someone sent me one of your podcasts! I can’t stop watching and I can’t wait to go down the list of previous podcasts. Thank you Dr. H for all that you and your guest do!!
Thanks for the spot-on questions! I actually started a gratitude journal since two weeks already, and after every section I ask myself, what are the actions I could take to be feeling calm, loved, safe and powerful when I’m in a not-stimulated state, alone by myself. I called it the ActionPlanner ;) . It really helped me stay focused and start my day with a positive energy despite some really hard issues I’m going through right now. Again, thanks for the amazing content! 🤗
Thank you both for dedicating your existence to the genuine desires to help others. I can tell that your desire to help others is greater than the desire to become rich from helping others. I’m so grateful that I stumbled upon such humans in my search for learning about the self .
I am so excited for this! I love Dr. Conti. I’ve been working on things but I’ve got a lot more work to do. I’m up for it. Thank you so much Andrew. This is going to change a lot of lives.
This is why I love practicing psychiatry!! These conversations literally make me happy and are why I will never (unless I have to) work outside of private practice, because I can’t do a 3 hour psych evaluation, do weekly therapy for as long as is needed, and spend the time necessary to find out what’s in the boxes. These conversations energize me so much.
How unique! I have always felt that one hour sessions are way too short! Also impressed you actually practice psychiatry instead of just medicating. You obviously are a caring doctor!
wow, what a conversation. Just checked to see how much time I have left and I've only watched 50 minutes so far. This is my first time listening to Conti, what a gem!
I cannot thank you enough for this series with Dr. Conti. Makes me feel like I’m not faulty and gives me such insight into myself and others that is just beyond any gratitude I can give! Thank you to you both!!!! 💞💞💞 I am a person who had continual childhood trauma and I’ve been working on myself for a long time but I still struggle with socializing in the work situation and with people I know more than strangers. I struggle to say hi or good morning or look people in the eye when I walk by and I’ve worked here over 7 years. And then I feel like if I were to try and change this, it would draw even more attention to me since that’s not really me. Listening to this though makes me feel like being me is ok. Doesn’t mean I can’t improve on things but I don’t need to beat myself up so much.
Beating yourself up in any way is not recommended. We must encourage ourselves and be our own cheerleaders... From that mindset, the greatest outcome is possible. Shaming and blaming ourselves only hinders us. Absolutely be gentle with yourself and "just keep swimming" ❤
This is insane… I am sooooo happy that you are speaking up on this!!! About 3 weeks ago, I had to go stay with a couple different households when my air went out (Thank God for amazing family and friends). When I was there, it was the eye opening experience I needed to get my butt in gear. I currently have a very dysfunctional/unstructured house at home but after watching these other families function happily together as a unit, it opened my eyes up to what we need to be doing at home in order to help us with our mental health which will lead us to become happier and more functioning humans. Agency and gratitude. Wow! 🤯 It’s finally clicking!!!!
I have been seeking understanding and articulating my pleasure drive for a long while. It was perfectly explained in Dr Conti’s statement “it’s a drive for relief”. Thank you for explaining from so many perspectives.
I love that Dr. Conti addressed the reductionist attitude of some doctors, how they throw pills at a problem without even bothering to understand why it's happening. So glad to hear someone in the field pointing that out! Bravo!
Andrew, this has been so EXTREMELY informative and inspiring. I have literally listened to this 4 TIMES just so I can LEARN more about how to assist one’s Mental Health and maintain Mental Wellness. This is TOTALLY filled with so many Golden Gems of Wisdom & Knowledge. I am so Grateful for your Passion and Perseverance to continue to share all that you know and your Dedication to continue to Grow Awareness about the Brain and Behavioral Science. Reach One, TEACH One; you’ve definitely Reached ME! To the Spirit of LIVING! Tiff
I love that Dr. Huberman always comes up with examples from his personal life when asking questions. It all becomes so easy to understand and follow and it’s so interesting because of that (and also, because of all the great topics and great guests ofc) 👏🏻
Andrew- you just endured an indepth, heavy-duty analysis by the good Doctor for a sub four hour session. Your guest is fascinating....and you handled it with aplomb and sincerity. Great combo- Thank you... great show.
I think this is literally the best video in the whole channel, I love just how profound and humane the conversation here is displayed between Paul Conti and Huberman There’s just a such strong desire of goodness coming from both in this episode
Just wanted to say a huge thank you to both of you for bringing this series to us. It is so helpful. I have been intuitively trying to understand my inner drives and Paul just explains and validates the existence of those shapes and structures I've been trying to feel in the dark. I can't wait for the next conversation. Thank you!
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I'm looking for the hand out you mentioned so I can keep thinking about this.
Apparently, you’ve made it to the top of the algorithm, whenever I leave videos playing, this channel without exception pops up, even though I’m not subscribed. You’ve won YT. Congrats
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❤This is one of the most important podcasts I’ve ever heard! It’s so rich and detailed! I’m and a holistic massage therapist, mindfulness coach. I’ve worked very hard on my own mental health issues with anxiety and depression and understand myself. With all of the other work I’ve done hearing the message in the podcast really puts a lot of peace’s into perspective.
Especially with regards to self awareness and overcoming to find peace, contentment and delight!
I love this and I will keep watching and sharing❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Andrew for what you’re doing it’s so needed in the world today 🌍
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I’m currently poor so I can only give back so much but I really appreciate you all. Thanks!
I'm not so I'll 10x that in your name.
Obviously your life as poor will be short lived! Stay the course!
Look up the Bible story if The Widows Mite! ( Mite- a value of part of a penny. ) You have given GREATLY and from a kind heart - you will be GREATLY blessed!💝🙏💝
you can do it
KUDOS to you, @jk7jester: My mom taught me, when i was very little, that donations of apparent great generosity is not necessarily what they seem on the surface: ie unselfish and truely altruistic.. I had commented, effusively, on how "generous" it was that a very wealthy person VERY PUBLICALLY gave monies to Cancer research. The radio DJ had repeatedly praised this action with excessive verbiage, attributing to this man great sacrifice and humility. She quietly asked if the amount gifted was, to that individual, actually "generous" or might they have ulterior motives? She pointed out that the amount of money (though extravagant to our household income) was in truth, very little given that person's wealth. Granted, it is arguably better to donate such monies to a charity (publicly or not) than to waste it....but...she posited that he was RECIEIVNG a multitude of PUBLIC attention and applause (given the fact he did so very publicly) and he would no doubt be giving these monies for the tax break, as such donations are tax deductible here. She asked me to estimate the percentage of the gift, compared to his wealth, and compare that amount to the percentage of a smaller donation from someone who TRULY CAN NOT AFFORD TO GIVE more than a "relatively small amount". She enlightened me to the fact that (in comparison) the $50.00 that many of our VERY POOR neighbours donated when she canvassed on behalf of the charity was in truth far more generous. They also did so without any fanfare or publicity, yet still they gave. GENEROUSLY and ALTRUISTICALLY. She did not point it out, but I asked was this why she gave so unselfishly of her TIME as we could truly NOT spare even a few dollars to support this [and other charities] such as the SPCA which were cause(s) she believed in? My mom devoted many evenings to this task, despite a working day which began prior to dawn, work which was physically and mentally demanding and relentless throughout the entire day, well into the evening. When I was married, I tried to talk my husbter into donating monies to the BC Children's Hospital (which had helped my/our eldest son since infancy) and he REFUSED, claiming we "could not afford it". AFTER he left we three, I donated weekly small amounts of my much smaller income to that very charity. I felt GRATITUDE that we had not lost our home and were not actually starving...so each time I shopped for groceries, I HELD BACK AT LEAST ONE "luxury" item that we REALLY WANTED (such as processed foods) at the till, and donated THAT amount to the Hospital. Also, many times I bought one of the non perishable high value foods recommended by the Food Bank as being MOST NEEDED and paid for TWO such items, placing one in the bin (to help those less fortunate than ourselves) as we left the store. I then integrated the new items into our weekly meal planning. THEREAFTER, I went straight home and after the groceries were stashed, made my kids MUCH CHEAPER HOMEMADE cookies or pies to reward them for their UNSELFISHNESS. I think it's wonderful to give what you can
I quit drinking. I first told myself I can drink on the weekends I then stopped going to drinking events I started forgetting to drink on the weekends and now I don't crave drinking. My whole life is better and more focused.
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How lucky for you not to be an alcoholic
Respect, I wish I would be able to do this in the near future.
@@RFresh5 Slow and steady wins the race. I cheer you on !
Good for you😎🙌💪
Been following Andrew since Covid and I still can't believe all his info/research is freely accessible. A true saint.
It's not free, but it's great that it's accessible here
Before the internet, how could you/we all have gotten these benefits from this info/research?@@LauraDeVasconcelos
If something is free then you are the product
@@LauraDeVasconcelosjust curious what makes it not free
@@pocketthoughts9089the fact that it's full of ads and or you pay RUclips Premium
3 things that helped me and literally changed my life
1. I stopped watching porn
2. I read the book called 'Become Super Human' on lexnory
3. Stop drinking
never thought a book could help me this much. highly recommend
Seeing how much people have praised this book recently, I'm hopeful it will help me with my intentions
Who's the author? There's a few books with similar titles
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I suspect this is a viral. Don't bother look up for the book.
You’re a beautiful soul, Dr. Huberman. Thank you for all you do to better humanity.
Wholesome humble down to earth great scientist
@@abdolhamedsharef2924 Due yew wand tu doo but secks ?
Spot on❤
Agreed. Good man ❤
@@sovereign775 Bros giving us a free doctors degree
People can't watch 3 hour long movies but they're gonna watch 10+ hour of Huberman lectures all day 😛
True! But the new Oppenheimer film is 3 hours of engrossing viewing 👌
Ha, much more enriching and not hard on the eyes, and ears
@@skippy7208 I mean there are people who said 3 hours are long 😂
I lasted like five minutes. Everything I heard seemed self evident.
I would like to know the data on how many ppl made it half way thru this and completed listening.
Awoke to this- loving it. I am having a hard life since 2008 ( financial destruction) and when I was finally getting ahead….2020. However, EVERYWHERE I ago I am regenerative. I work hard building, planting the garden, saving the wild birds, rebuilding the health of abused horses and chickens. That’s my pleasure. I eat healthy and run, cycle or swim every day. And yes, I am surrounded by aggressive people who have given up and are killing themselves through alcohol, drugs and obesity. I am low income. I struggle financially. I think I make people angry because unlike them, I refuse to give up. I am grateful to listen to this podcast. It explains a lot about why I am the target of a lot of hostility . I am on the right path. I know no humans love me but the animals sure do!
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You need to find your tribe dude, try to find some videos off guy named JulienHimself, he learns how to self respect and other helpful things.
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I agree
damn... we should create a network state.
need my tribe of people to be together.
bettering themselves, bettering their surroundings in the process
I used to be a very insecure people pleaser. I fell severely ill in my early 40’s. I started an inner journey of innerstanding and releasing conditioned patterns. Now I’m much more healthy, calm and have sound boundaries.
I’m working on the same thing can you please give some tips on how to identify and let go
Me too!! Help! 😂❤
I say, steady the course.. focus on getting to the pier.. imagine walking the ocean shore with a pier far in the distance.. you might stop to pick up shells, stop and walk into the waves , stop to say hello to a stranger, stop to reflect on life, stop for a cry over a memory, but always looking to that pier.. making your way to it in your time .
thx
Awesome, I want that so badly.
I predict this series with Dr. Conti will be one of the most impactful you have done to date Dr. Huberman. Humanity desperately needs this information unveiled. Thank you both!
Wait, he is dating Dr. Conti?
This is really great information & quite informative,& if only more people today could get this in their mind.
Go within & get in tune with yourself & your headspace & get mentally stronger & healthy.
In my own life I always just wanted the best for my family & friends & others &
Every living thing in this Earth.
Love & gratitude & kindness & courtesy to each other are an excellent attribute & endeavor to have.
I believe this much to My very Core.
This proverbial sandbox herein Earth in this place is really big enough to have everyone gather & reach their goals & dreams.
There should be no hungry child no homeless people no body strung out in drugs alcohol or other crutches.
They are all just trying to numb & escape their reality of not achieving receiving & trying to do better & be the best versions of themselves.
Trust that I know this. The only thing I do now is try to be a better version of me today than I was yesterday & if I find a person in my path to pay it forward for, then I do just that.
It’s so simple,
yet why aren’t more people aware & doing this? I ask? I’m am an empathetic non judging humble being & only here for a short visit too.
I’m aware my time is short.
May you all reach your fullest potential purpose & self & realize you are worthy & Loved . &
that nothing fake or artificial in this World will really fill
Your sadness or emptiness or anything that you feel is lacking from within yourself. So Please, I beseech you all to try be honest with yourselves & go deep into your core & find the happiness love & care for yourself & others that we all collectively as Humanity, are here just to understand & Learn. & that alone too would be a huge improvement in This world.
When you give of yourself, the return to your very heart & Soul, may just astound you.
Just try it & see.
With Care & LOVE
Take Care
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Not ai or an ibot. I’m real flesh & blood.
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My 13 year old daughters private school provides group therapy to all 8th graders and each week is a different topic of discussion. This week's topic was about self talk being aware how you talk to yourself. My daughter truly enjoys her sessions and looks forward to them
And?
@@danc8458 and I was just mentioning it because it pertains to video topic
That sounds like a great school.
@@SuzyQuzy926 thanks it really is
Love that schools are helping our kids with mental health
Self-assessment is a critical life skill that should be taught everywhere consistently. Valuing life and our mental health and wellbeing prevents disease, cruelty, lashing out, abuses perpetrated on children and animals, mental breakdowns, and a host of other avoidable conditions. America needs help. Thank you.
I stopped smoking weed completely after experiecing schizophrenia from a family member. It made me reevaluate the path I was going and I researched a lot about how long term use can induce psychosis and schizophrenia. I decided that I did not want to increase my chances by another 40% given that if there's already a lineage of schizophrenia that makes me 10% likely to develop it. I was not willing to gamble with 50%. I quit. Cold turkey. So far I've been so much more focused and for the first time in my life so far, I've managed to save money and keep it that way. Sobriety is the first step to getting better.
I just wanted to let you know how how courageous I think U R for taking on so many challenges of the self. Thanks for sharing, it helps me look deep into me!
Stay sober& chemical free(alcohol,pills,nicotine) all these substances mess us all up mentally & physically.👍✌️🦋
I was a 25 year pothead, smoking many times per day. I finally quit for good 4 years ago, way too late, but not never
Well done, and don't give up (except the herb of course 😊)
Hi there I just got your like, thnx for the reply, it lets me know I’m not alone in my way of thinking& it helps me spiritually and to keep away from this bad stuff that clouds up your mind; keep up the good work ✌️🦋
I hope it's still going wel
Do you know any youtube with such research. Intrested
Wow, wow, and wow again. I literally had an emotional breakdown last week. I ended up in the hospital for 6 days. When I came home I couldn't handle it. I literally came to the conclusion that I don't know how to live. Just live. When we think about what we need there are very few things we have to do. Like sleeping, breathing, eating, and moving. I don't get enough sleep, I don't take deep breaths, I barely eat, and I don't exercise. If I don't do the basic things to just exist, how can I do anything else well? It seems simple but, it really helped me find focus and a starting point for better health.
Said a little prayer for you! You got this
I can totally relate.
Thank you @thekeeks3032, I am working on things. I don't get enough sleep, I don't take enough deep breaths, I don't eat all day, I am a night eater, I don't exercise and I have two gym memberships and love music and dance. lots of love to you.. Be well and stay Beautiful♥
I hope you’re ok 👍
You underestimate the degree to which the government can insert themselves into a person's life and demoralise them intentionally manipulating relationships, cutting off their ability to earn money by control over companies bank accounts cards and the rest, canceling social status, creating artificial homelessness as a means to dispose of inconvenient individuals with opinions that the government would prefer to discredit.
If you don't believe this is happening that's very unfortunate but it's been going on for a long time and it's currently happening to me so, I thought I would share this information in the light that it might wake someone up a bit out of complacency.
The homeless problem is like the drug problem, billions of dollars of pumped into it and it creates vast amounts of money.. if that seems completely counterintuitive, it won't do in the next 15 to 20 years when more and more covert data becomes publicly available.
Your government can and do dispose of inconvenient types, who gets to actually interact with who and who gets to breed a family is actually very tightly controlled although it may not ever seen that way to you...
Who gets to be successful and who gets a career is also likewise very tightly controlled...
Who has access to the money machine and who doesn't likewise..
When you have sudden misfortune in your life it might be wise to consider the likelihood of it not being just some sort of chaotic series of events that couldn't have been predicted by anyone in certainly couldn't have been generated by anyone.
Even worse random things also happen, which just makes identifying which is which very difficult..
Now I'm sure you're going to take this as the ramblings of a paranoid delusional type but then it all seems like someone's delusional until it's happening to you, now you're the delusional homeless person why would anyone believe you your clothes look messy that's enough reason to be suspicious of someone.. you could be a professor but if you look like you eat out of garbage dumpsters who the hell is going to listen to a thing you've got to say...
The culture is likewise very carefully managed, The reliance upon image identity likewise not coincidental, just in case anyone gets too big for their boots you can always use the fact that they are too old and out of touch yes the age weapon that's the way it's useful to discredit individuals who've been around too long and got too comfortable...
You see the whole thing's a giant game on one level, if I can think of all of this garbage and it's even remotely implementable which of course it is deeply implementable with modern technology, how do you suppose in justify that someone wouldn't be doing all of this, worse they would be catastrophically vulnerable if they didn't... Because someone else would definitely be willing to...
Nothing in your world is quite how it seems, thank you lucky stars for what they've allowed you to have, you'll never know the truth until you find yourself at the very bottom of the pyramid, because it's only when you look up with true perspective that you really see everything clearly, but by then it's too late no one is going to listen to a word you've got to say anymore.
So yes we can talk about the drive but they know about that and remove it intentionally from people
Andrew's work is exceptional. Throughout every video, he is helping people. This is a valuable social service. Respect
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I am a Psychiatric Nurse and had shared your podcasts to my patients, I am really grateful that you did this, very informative and an excellent discussion with Dr. Conti!
God bless you. Not everyone can handle that profession
How wonderful and a super idea, I shared it with my son who suffers but many others could benefit too, sometimes sharing with others might be seen as insulting, guess you have to know your audience.
Dr Conti is Jordan Peterson s brother
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Thank you for another wonderful session. As a psychologist, allow me to expand on your question regarding 'staying in a relationship longer than one should':
Our parents imprint on us what we come to recognize as love. If we had neglectful parents, we may be drawn to neglectful partners; an irresponsible parent may have left the impression that 'this is love,' leading us to seek out similar traits, even if we can't tolerate such behavior.
And yes, we can change our patterns. 😊
Great advice to add to this episode. Thank you.
oh wow 🙏🏻
Dr Huberman has made this point many times before and some of the guests too. It can also go the other way where we are attracted to the polar opposites. That's me. Cold, callous, uncaring mother, broken family, so I'm attracted to non-white, warm, kind, traditionally feminine women from big families.
It often feels as though this era is fraught with seemingly endless hopelessness and despair. Dr. Huberman and Dr. Conti, what you have done here is nothing short of prayers answered, existential loneliness lessened, hope planted and encouraged actionable steps illustrated for a greater humanity. A profound thank you for this and the future parts of this series!
I could listen to Dr. Conti all day. Such a compassionate person
Yes.
If he dropped the "right" after every thought I could listen too
@@ScottStrickand I think he was being gracious since huberman was filling a lot of space
@@ScottStrickandI had a hard time also with that constant repetition
Verbal diarrhea…. No can do.
Dr Conti, you are one of the most empathetic people I have been able to come across, the way you chose your words and speak with so much sensitivity but assertion it's truly moving... I haven't felt this much impacted with a series before thankyou Dr Huberman for bridging the education gap and making such important pieces of information open to everyone
I wanna be able to do that talk with sensitivity but assertion. I think a lot of conflicts start because most ppl don't know how to do this
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@@immanuelhall4577that's because people who act out are mentally unhealthy and tend to have unprocessed trauma that activates negative automatic thoughts and other cognitive distortions (catastrophising, grandiosity) that trigger the fight response. Having adult internal dynamic to process criticism without exploding is a definition of mental health. Being able to deliver criticism or your side in a good way is way to help the unhealthy person understand better and process their unprocessed trauma. In a way it's therapeutic to step in the role of constructive, assertive critique without attacking or overstepping boundaries. It brings peace to the society.
@@xKarenWalkerx How do you process trauma that leads to catastrophizing?
honestly to me it just sounds like hes yapping, it's difficult to understand what hes even talking about
Dude, this video is like a goldmine of wisdom that can seriously change your life! The way the teacher breaks down stuff is eye-opening. It's like a roadmap to a better you, shining a light on how to live your best life.
What did you find wise? I’m about half way through and I don’t think I’m going to be able to finish. I’m a huge fan of the HLP, and I enjoy reading the psychoanalysists …but this guy is just the worst of all these relating fields.
@@henglish3398same! This guy can talk but I only hear psychobabbble. Andrew barely said a word.
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Dr. Paul Conti is very well knowledgable to mental health. He has provocative insights that comes from a true butterfly in the wall. He strips everything bare to the lowest layer of knowledge.
You are a pioneer of taking complex subjects, and delivering it in Laymans terms that most everyone can understand. Such a crucial subject to discuss in a World 🌎 like today. We all need it. Grateful. Ty
Due yew wand tu doo but secks ?
Just saw Dr. Huberman live a few days ago. It was incredible. He is so humble and adored by many!
I have struggled with bi-polar, childhood trauma and 3 years ago a TBI changed my life. While I rebuild myself I have been confronted by a lot of my unresolved inner baggage . Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the work you do. The information you share has helped me, my family and my community.❤
Thanks wonderful! So glad you’re doing better!!!
Just wanted to express my gratitude for your podcasts! I had to put my 16 year old dog to sleep a couple days ago, I am a veterinarian and had to do it myself which made it quite intense. Listening to your work has given me some emotional relief on long runs throughout this grieving process, I hope her spirit crosses Costello’s 😌
Edit: thank you all for your beautiful responses, feeling overwhelmed with gratitude for this wonderful community 💜
My dog is my best friend. We have been together everyday for almost 10 years. I've had one of her eyes rebuilt, she really is my everything.
I have been there before and I know I will be there again with this pet. I'm truly sorry for your loss.
I want to tell you that you did the right thing. I have to trust your judgment as a loving owner and a trained professional, so I am.
Nothing about you could tell me that you love your animals any more. I'll give my dog a hug for you and send it through the ether...may peace be with you.
I had my 16 year old put down three years ago and I still miss her so much! I’m sorry for your loss.
@@nancyjohnson2187 Sorry to you as well, you must have taken amazing care of her to have made it to 16!! 💜
My gal was 16.5yo and it was just this past May, that she needed help passing along.
I wish I could have done it at home but did take her body back home with us so that we could do our ceremonies and have more time with her in that stilled quiet state.
She was with me since she was 2mths old and was the being that was in my life the longest. Longer than my being with my parents and longer than my child, who ventured on his own the same age I did.
She is still a constant companion in the energetic ether and that brings me tremendous comfort. But I cry everyday tears of love and gratefulness for the joy she brought to me but also tears of mourning.
Losing pets has always been hard for me but this one really has impacted me in ways I am still coming to terms with.
I look forward to the next canine beast who will fill the hole in my being. My dog really did make me a better human.
My best to all those who have loved a dog and those that will lose them too.
What breed?
I'm really excited to work through this series. It will not be an easy ride, but it will be necessary.
Love the Rammstein pic ;)
Mental health is complicated and access to effective care is limited for so many of us. Thank you for being a trusted resource.
Never clicked on an episode so fast- I’ve been looking forward to this for quite some time! Thank you Dr Huberman and Dr Conti for freely sharing your life’s work which I know will help so many or encourage many to get help.
Such a lovely and eloquent compliment: "....Dr Conti for freely sharing your life’s work".
Well Andrew has put us in a tough spot. He's built so much trust up with his audience because of his humility and candor that how can we not click?
I feel like I'm in great hands here. The knowledge is enlightening and has made my relationship with my GP much more productive.
He's had me fired up about my health for awhile now and there aren't words to thank him enough...I'd shovel the sbow from his driveway for life if he was my neighbour!
@@DanceintheRaine666😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
I've just started watching. When I started taking an SSRI I could feel the difference between happy and unhappy and this difference is grattitude. I've never been so grateful to this worrld and to my life. It's incredible. I knew I had to be grateful before but couldn't feel it
Can I ask which SSRI you are taking? I'm currently between meds and would love a recommendation.
@kanzikanz138 Due yew wand tu doo but secks ?
@@Marcspix. Hi! I am taking citalopram, but I cannot recommend it, it has been prescribed by my medical doctor because it's combinable with other medicine that I have to take. It has been prescribed because I have a mental disorder that wasn't allowing me to consistently perform all the daily actions I love and that are actually making me happy and grateful 😊
My experience was the opposite of yours. Citalopram took away all joy and most other emotions in my life with the exception of the anxiety it was supposed to help 😔
Awesome...and welcome!😊
Mr. Huberman, I want to thank you for this…I think this will change my life for the better. Since listening to you it brought me the strength to address and get my whole family mental help. I’ve also gained the strength to show up better as a brother to my three sisters and helping them with college, woman issues, and life. For myself, I feel like I am getting to a point where I think I can achieve what I want; because I have the tools to heal and reframe my mind. You saved my life; and if I ever get the opportunity Andrew I would break down and cry and give you a hug. I am a man that is not candid in this way. I also don’t cry often.
but I just cannot thank you enough sir.
Thank you so much
I hope you get the love and support, the compassion and kindness from the women you love (and others YOU LOVE). It is selfless and rewarding to help others (those who want their lives to be better WILL be helped by your love and support) but those who are truly empathic do need those who RECIPROCATE and support YOU when you need the kindness and love you give others. Please safeguard YOUR energy, your emotional well-being.
This week, I will delve into the study of health from the perspective of 'Awareness of Love.' May it provide additional knowledge and answers to life's questions. Thank you.😊
May I suggest the 4th Edition of all PhD authored Roediger, Herman, Capaldi Psychology text to credit where PhD Huberman extrapolated many evolutionary theories and practices…
Omg I love you Andrew Huberman!
He doesn’t love you
I know this is a loaded concept (what we teach in schools) but I do wish they’d have a curriculum that included how to deal with emotions and cope in the world. Parents try their best but we are the results of multiple generations- including the good, bad and inbtwn. As a clinician myself, and someone who is still learning to understand my emotions and live well with them, I find society as a whole could benefit from accessible tools to cope. Even when I worked in acute pain management, the majority of my patients had an inability to cope that was as hindering as their physical pain. I appreciate podcasts and platforms such as this as it creates a bridge to all of us being better able to understand and cope. 🙏 keep it up!
This comment x 1000! Totally agree
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I agree with this, and many countries already include this. Unfortunately, teaching empathy, emotional insight, care, love, etc. has been included in the "anti-woke" agenda of extremist groups and is now targeted in the United States. It is unfortunate because it's not like we are missing the knowledge. What we're missing is the social structure, institutions, and systems to spread it.
It's a loaded concept because people don't really want to teach the next generation what is actually healthy for them, they want to brainwash them into thinking the same as them, no matter which side of the "concepts" they are on. A true curriculum could be developed which is totally none political, but that wouldn't suit the agenda of the powers that be. Students that can cope with the stressors of life could also think for themselves, not really the agenda of the public school system, which is to produce a compliant work force for the future and nothing beyond that.
I might have learned way more of this three hours podcast than I did from thirteen years of therapy, thanks !
Same
Ditto
ya think
Dr Pinsky explained that the goal of therapy is to build an empathic relationship with the therapist, so that you can trust, share, grow and overcome issues in relationships. It takes time to build an empathic relationship, it is not transactional like A) listen to this explanation and definition of terms, B) you are now changed for the better.
Many patients lie to their therapist, some are embarrassed about how bad or petty they might sound, some are protecting not willing to open wounds, scared what might happen if they were wrong all this time, etc. Therapy is complicated for sure.
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Dr, Conti shared so much depth in this podcast and there is a lot to unpack. That's 10 years of therapy in a bottle every one needs to hear this at least 10 times to absorb this information .
His ability to keep his hands under the table/still is unparalleled by people not under arrest. ✨
It's scary!
He might not use his hands, but he has the crutch of saying "right".
Does he have hands?
Mental health is such a big issue in life. We need to teach this more. Superficial content is not going to cut it.
Glad hubberman is doing the lord's work
Yes is true😊
When there are too many stressors it makes is pretty difficult to remain mentally healthy. I live in the city, hopefully I can get out soon. My backyard is lit up with LED lighting from the street and I can hear the freeway, always. My city is growing so fast that where ever I drive there is construction and drab row housing and strip malls are all I see. The beautiful mountains I would look upon to orient myself now have huge mansions built into them. Though I am out doors on my street often there are neighbors I have not met once that live on my street. I do try daily to be grateful for what I do have but sometimes I do not believe the stressors we are put under are conducive for health, yet there they are. Maybe the new "Line" they are creating will be better? I am going to listen to the whole talk but at 4 hours I am going to need to break it up some. I am hopeful that it will help with my discouragement of my surroundings.
I'm a big fan of Dr Huberman, and have been for ages, but how have I not heard of Dr Conti before? This man is a philosopher, a true scholar! Thank you for your awareness 🙏❤️A great meeting of minds! What a show!!! 🤩
Philosophers give speeches with no answers, scholars read the same books over and over and forget what they've read
🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉 beautiful❤🎉
I see in his eyes the passion for what he is conveying, and I love this !!!
I will revisit this , by the Grace of God, just like it was his Good Grace, that despite in my own willingness to make selfish choices, he has still allowed me stumble upon this message and eloquent messenger.
Thanks be to God 🙏
This dr talks like a 6 year old and he’s speaking of happiness he’s the most sad guy I have ever seen
Who is this dr, I cannot believe this got 8 million views, alex looks like he’s on drugs and again who pays this dr. He has none of what he speaks of
Wow and you make it sound so scary, and Alex please please please why do you look like your tweeking out, I’m a fan and I’m concerned,
Huberman is one of God’s many gifts to the world. Thank you for your service.
Agency + gratitude = a healthy self ❤ 10:31
Thank you both for this episode🙏🏽❤️
As a mental health psychotherapist working in an underfunded and over stretched service, I would like to say how much I appreciate the work and dedication to bring top class and brilliantly presented information to the public. I know I can trust the evidenced information I hear and I am able to use it for my own self-care and for my clients. Dr. Paul Conti is a role model to me and I am delighted and excited about this series. Thank you and your teams so much.
Now that's what we call No BS & Pure Value for 4 hrs straight. Dr. Andrew Huberman you never disappoint us❤
This podcast is like a summation of a lot of what I’ve had to work through and has provided me with much closure of my past life. How refreshing it is to hear professionals discussing what I basically had to work through on my own as I could not find the appropriate help to heal my full blown traumatic past…This podcast has not only given me much closure but has also contributed to the cementing of my amazing resilience in remaining alive, aware, strong and hopeful….( I should be so very dead long time ago ). It’s nothing short of a miracle that in spite of ALL the excessive abuse and trauma, that my CHILD LIKE SPIRITED NATURE IS ALIVE, WELL and STILL IN ITS AUTHENTIC STATE. THE fact that I’m able to understand all that was discussed blows me away as my health was grossly NEGLECTED. THANK YOU DR.PAUL🙏🏼 and THANK YOU ANDY for pursuing your passion and for being real down to earth by being personal and for letting your light shine🙏🏼⚓️🕊️🤍🙏🏼 3:26:38 3:26:43 3:26:47 3:26:23 3:26:49 3:26:53 3:26:56 3:26:58 3:27:04 3:27:09 3:27:24 3:28:25 3:35:50 3:35:56 3:35:59 3:36:40 3:36:50 3:36:53 3:37:25 3:37:29 3:37:32 3:37:40 3:37:44 3:37:48 3:37:53 3:37:56 3:37:59 3:38:02 3:38:03 3:38:07 3:38:10 3:38:15 3:38:16 3:38:18 3:38:29 3:39:25 3:39:26 3:39:31 3:39:48 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 3:40:09 3:40:19 3:40:21 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dr Conti is an intelligent and compassionate person. Thank you both for this conversation.❤
Dr Huberman,
I so very much hope you read this. You've deeply affected my life, and I mean given me the tools to improve it in so many ways. I've been listening to your podcast lectures from day one, and without question this episode and the 3 more to come with Paul Conti may be for many people and certainly for me the best thing ever on the internet. This will save lives, improve lives, improve society, and make a better world. Dear God, do i ever have you and Paul Conti, along with dozens of your other guests, on my forever gratitude list! Please keep doing this incredibly important work.
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Take note I live in Arkansas, grew up in Chicago but have been here 25 years, Rural states don't have access to the level of clinician you present and I absolutely can't shout loud enough how precious and priceless your quality scientific information pesented with an earnest desire to help people truly is. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I apologize for this being so long, but I needed to thank you for how much this podcast has meant to me. 🙏
Nice comment. Best wishes.
And thanks Dr Huberman
Dear Dr. Huberman, I have been listening to you for the last 3 years and am very happy with your current success and reach. You are one of the very few grown-ups in the room (I won't name names of who isn't, yet purport to be). Your calmness, consistency, and intelligence are a much needed balm in today's crazy world. You have a clear love and respect for science while keeping an open mind, and you acknowledge there are many things you don't know. I hope you don't let success get to your head and always stay self-aware and unbiased in your thinking and approach. Thank you for the work you are doing.
The three keys are self-awareness, self-acceptance, and self-support. These are the best terms for summing up emotional sobriety.
This podcast just saved my life. I ruined 2 relationships and 1 career and was so sad and confused as to why it happened again despite me being aware of why it happened. And this podcast has helped me to find the root cause, understand myself and move forward with better life perspective. Although i’m still grieving for my loss, I felt so much better due to being able to make sense of everything.
Can you explain ur story ?
@@galvannarek i try my best to make it short. i lost all those 3 things due to my anger issues. this podcast made me realize i used unhealthy defense mechanism such as projection against people i love / coworkers. when traced back, i had so many incorrect predispositions. this podcast gave me the understanding on why i acted in such way and how i'm supposed to focus on having a good life perspective and take accountability as opposed to distracting myself with pleasure and end up approaching life the wrong way. basically my pain is taken away when i understand how i'm supposed to view life and now i'm currently in progress of making gradual change of mindset.
“Envy may be the root of all evil.” This is profound.
You might find it interesting to look up René Girard.
He actually said " envy may not be the root of all evil but envy and natural disasters".
Not accurate.
Ignorance is.
@@primodiscepolopingu373 aren't there smart evil people?
❤As a person with weekly therapy for over 30 years and (also an Emergency Medicine physician) You should be knighted or sainted or put on Mt. Rushmore! Thank you for your motivation and for sharing such beautiful and valuable information.
R u talking about Conti or huberman??,
Thank you so much for this Dr. Huberman and Dr. Conti. I am eagerly awaiting the rest of the series. GENERATIVE DRIVE!!!
Just wanted to express my gratitude for coming across your podcast and the time and energy that you put into it! This whole series with Dr. Conti gave me so much insight and I loved listening to it.
Thank you again for your work ❤
I first came across Andrew's podcasts when I was looking for information about low lumens at work. Our office had lighting at 70 lumens and I needed information on why that was affecting my work. Dr. Huberman's earlier work talks about ophthalmic neuroscience. I saw the well-organized sharing of information as a model that could help me learn to be a better communicator and learn about myself and others. I just want to say thank you.
The recipicle part of giving/receiving Life Information/therapy(kinda) is what I just went through today.
I always have before..... only now, it will be by my design
And God willing, and he is, we'll all keep helping each other get better
that's what i want to know
Paul Conti says "right" well over 900 times in this interview.
Amazing.
So annoying, right? 😂
Oh my god I love them both but the “right” at the end of each segment of his thoughts is beyond irritating and distracting
I once took a class where the instructor said "and, um....."
900 times in a 2 hour class.
Both "right" & "and, um..." are both so annoying!!!!!!!!!
It’s insanely distracting for me. Ruins the whole podcast. Maybe it’s my problem, but it’s really unbelievable that somebody so intelligent can’t self-correct this insanely repetitive and diluting habit.
“right” very off putting, unfortunately. Appreciate being able to read the transcript of this great conversation.
This is what the net is for. A really practical lecture, highly enjoyable so much exellent information and now available for all on this platform. True knowledge. Available for all. THANK YOU YOUNG MAN
Confidence is the ability to dissolve into a puddle of your own tears, even publicly, and not be thrown away by the experience because every day, even every hour, is a brand new time for you as if the breakdowns not only didn't hurt you, but you became even more confident as a result.
Hey Andrew, I’ve been listening to your podcasts since my mother passed away a few months ago. You’ve helped me stay mentally and physically healthy through the grieving process and I wanted to write a comment to say thank you. Also, I would love it if you could do an episode on epilepsy, I grew up with temporal lobe epilepsy and I’ve found that there are lots of common misconceptions about seizures.
The sincerity of your gratitude towards the Huberman, and the intense grief are experiencing (and processing) resonates with such emotion that it brought me to tears. I'm so glad you have been listening to the podcasts, as there is so much help therein.
Nice comment sorry for your loss glad Hubermans pods help you they helped me when I couldn't sleep I looked for ward to them every Monday when I was going thru some things. If you don't mind could you clear up some misconceptions about seizures? I've only had one due to brain trauma but one bad piece of advice I've heard is how to handle dealing with someone who has them such as put a wallet or something in their mouth... in my 20s I was told that has been proven the incorrect way of dealing with it as a kid people said use a wallet or something
Yes! Please Andrew!! Definitely an episode on epilepsy and specific key questions about this disorder and the most healthy version we can achieve with epilepsy. The challenge con medicine side effects and the hard interactions we might have with people who don't completely understand.
@@Respect2theFallen there are several misconceptions about what a seizure is, what it looks like, what causes it, what to do when someone is having a seizure, and what society thinks of people with epilepsy. Kind of a lot to address in one YT comment, but in short not all seizures have convulsions. Not all seizures are triggered by flashing lights. When someone is having a seizure make sure they don’t fall, help them gently onto the ground and lay them on their side, other than that give them space. Lots of epileptics aren’t all that different than everyone else in terms of personality or capability, we just have the additional mental and sometimes physical stress of dealing with a disability
Can u do a podcast on autism as appears to be an increase in children being diagnosed with this condition in Ireland where I am and no really suitable available treatment and guidance for parents apart from the medical model ..greattings and thank u for you're gift of knowledge to the world Dr Huberman ..
As someone personally frustrated by traditional talk therapy, this clear and mathematical structure of approaching mental health challenges is exciting. Thank you, Dr. Conti and Prof. Huberman, for this valuable series.
@danymilll707 you already have
Whats mathematical about it?
@@Jensth i think she meant methodical
@@Jensth I recall Dr. Conti saying it's like a math problem, figuring out what's going on. There's a clear answer if you know how to set up the equation and look for the variable that hasn't yet been solved for
Andrew, you are gift from god (or universe) to humanity we probably never deserved but still received. Thank you so much for everything you do! ❤✊
Note to self: When you are enjoying a podcast, don't read the comments, just enjoy the show.
Then why post🧑🦯
That's a good idea. I've started looking at the comments after 3/4 of an hour and didn't realise I was listening to Jordan Peterson, I've only listened to before and not seen and basically can't stand as I disco with so many things that he says as a doctor of psychology.
Yup I have that habit too
Note to All of us.😊
Reading your comment as I am listening 🎧🫣
Dr Conti is the real deal man. You've been cranking the vids out lately I swear
Dr. Paul has presented a simple framework; not easy, but simple. I appreciate the simplicity amongst such a massive conversation.
Agency relies upon empowerment and Gratitude relies upon humility🙌 That alone is golden contemplative info! Thank you both for this enriching discussion. ❤Huberman does it again!
Okay, but how do we get to humility and empowerment?
Pray it all time without ceasing. Gody Praise is sufficient for all times and actions ✝️❤️🔥🎯🛐
Assessing our mental health is so key. Thank you for bringing attention to this. We love the pod!
I loved that Dr. Conti talked about gardening. Gardening is simple and beautiful. It made me realize that the simple things I do well are important too because sometimes I don't think I do things that matter much. Thanks!
I cannot describe how insightful this episode was for me. I could identify with many aspects of what was said in this episode. Not only has it flashed out what was hidden in my unconscious mind, but it has also given me a guide on which I will rely to figure out what is preventing me from thriving in both my personal and professional realm. Thank you so much, Dr. Andrew Huberman and Dr. Paul Conti! You are building a chain of good intentions and transformations in this world. From the bottom of my heart, thank you!
I've been waiting for this series to start since the last time Prof Huberman was on Lex's Podcast
The bit about demoralization gave language to an experience I’ve been blindly grappling with for years. That bit alone is so valuable to me, and has given me access to a deeper understanding of my own drive and ever-toiling effort to self express. you both deserve reminding that the words you share have significant, life-altering, profound impacts on those listening in. Thank you thank you thank you!!!♥️✨♥️✨♥️
Dr. Conti, you are a gem. I want you to know how much these conversations impact those [me] who are struggling. Thank You so much. I see you, thank you.
Dr. Huberman, I mean, you are a wonderful example of…pursuit, drive, and put into action, the life you want to lead~such an important lesson but also, an important reminder. I appreciate that so much. Thank you.
Blessings Gentlemen. The information you speak, is f ing golden.
Dr. Huberman …. I am 71 years old..youngest of six…Cptsd from raging dad…three rowdy..fighting brothers..I just recently finished seven Ketamine infusions, at a wonderful place..I had MDD …it took my depression away, but now I need to work on the Cptsd…I have found a great lady with videos, with a crappy childhood..I am starting a group workshop for six weeks. My psychiatrist is awesome..I am learning meditation , she suggests two 20 minutes meditation a day..I have been married to my high school friend going on 51 years.
Thank you gentlemen so much for doing this and making it available to us here. 💚
I could listen to Dr. Conti for hours, so insightful and helpful!
The podcast is over 3, enjoy
This is amazing. It’s a very important series of discussions, thank you and Dr. Conti for this wonderful contribution to society🙌❤️
Humbling topic to take in about one's self but mental health is profoundly significant to all human beings
Dr. Conti is absolutely channeling wisdom from some higher source. I really liked hearing him talk.
So happy someone sent me one of your podcasts! I can’t stop watching and I can’t wait to go down the list of previous podcasts. Thank you Dr. H for all that you and your guest do!!
Thanks for the spot-on questions! I actually started a gratitude journal since two weeks already, and after every section I ask myself, what are the actions I could take to be feeling calm, loved, safe and powerful when I’m in a not-stimulated state, alone by myself. I called it the ActionPlanner ;) . It really helped me stay focused and start my day with a positive energy despite some really hard issues I’m going through right now. Again, thanks for the amazing content! 🤗
Thank you both for dedicating your existence to the genuine desires to help others. I can tell that your desire to help others is greater than the desire to become rich from helping others. I’m so grateful that I stumbled upon such humans in my search for learning about the self .
Him and Jordan Peterson are my two top gems of the social and hard sides of the same coin of the science and understanding of the mind
As a therapist, I was really looking forward to this one! Thank you!
Me too.
I am so excited for this! I love Dr. Conti. I’ve been working on things but I’ve got a lot more work to do. I’m up for it. Thank you so much Andrew. This is going to change a lot of lives.
This is why I love practicing psychiatry!! These conversations literally make me happy and are why I will never (unless I have to) work outside of private practice, because I can’t do a 3 hour psych evaluation, do weekly therapy for as long as is needed, and spend the time necessary to find out what’s in the boxes. These conversations energize me so much.
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How unique! I have always felt that one hour sessions are way too short! Also impressed you actually practice psychiatry instead of just medicating. You obviously are a caring doctor!
@@miriamalonso3959 Thank you! I love it.
wow, what a conversation. Just checked to see how much time I have left and I've only watched 50 minutes so far. This is my first time listening to Conti, what a gem!
I cannot thank you enough for this series with Dr. Conti. Makes me feel like I’m not faulty and gives me such insight into myself and others that is just beyond any gratitude I can give! Thank you to you both!!!! 💞💞💞
I am a person who had continual childhood trauma and I’ve been working on myself for a long time but I still struggle with socializing in the work situation and with people I know more than strangers. I struggle to say hi or good morning or look people in the eye when I walk by and I’ve worked here over 7 years. And then I feel like if I were to try and change this, it would draw even more attention to me since that’s not really me. Listening to this though makes me feel like being me is ok. Doesn’t mean I can’t improve on things but I don’t need to beat myself up so much.
Beating yourself up in any way is not recommended. We must encourage ourselves and be our own cheerleaders... From that mindset, the greatest outcome is possible.
Shaming and blaming ourselves only hinders us. Absolutely be gentle with yourself and "just keep swimming" ❤
@@Jean-xo3hl very true. Unfortunately logic doesn’t always fix things lol
This is insane… I am sooooo happy that you are speaking up on this!!! About 3 weeks ago, I had to go stay with a couple different households when my air went out (Thank God for amazing family and friends). When I was there, it was the eye opening experience I needed to get my butt in gear. I currently have a very dysfunctional/unstructured house at home but after watching these other families function happily together as a unit, it opened my eyes up to what we need to be doing at home in order to help us with our mental health which will lead us to become happier and more functioning humans. Agency and gratitude. Wow! 🤯 It’s finally clicking!!!!
Can you share anything specific you learned or noticed?
Thanks for all the work you put into these podcasts. 🙏.
"Empowerment leads to a sense of agency." - Paul Conti. Brilliant!
I have been seeking understanding and articulating my pleasure drive for a long while. It was perfectly explained in Dr Conti’s statement “it’s a drive for relief”. Thank you for explaining from so many perspectives.
I love that Dr. Conti addressed the reductionist attitude of some doctors, how they throw pills at a problem without even bothering to understand why it's happening. So glad to hear someone in the field pointing that out! Bravo!
Empowerment: I have control over life.
Humility: I'm a part of a bigger ecosystem.
Agency: Using my abilities around me.
Gratitude: I'm alive
Jordan Peterson looks healthier than normal.
Lmao I was just about to post this. ^JP when not on the carnivore diet.
JP and his wishy washy speeches 🥴😵💫
Haha that was a good one..
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Wahahahaha!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Andrew, this has been so EXTREMELY informative and inspiring. I have literally listened to this 4 TIMES just so I can LEARN more about how to assist one’s Mental Health and maintain Mental Wellness. This is TOTALLY filled with so many Golden Gems of Wisdom & Knowledge. I am so Grateful for your Passion and Perseverance to continue to share all that you know and your Dedication to continue to Grow Awareness about the Brain and Behavioral Science. Reach One, TEACH One; you’ve definitely Reached ME! To the Spirit of LIVING! Tiff
It turns out the real AG1 (Agency and Gratitude as the first principle of mental health) was inside us all along.
I love that Dr. Huberman always comes up with examples from his personal life when asking questions. It all becomes so easy to understand and follow and it’s so interesting because of that (and also, because of all the great topics and great guests ofc) 👏🏻
The amount of authentic knowledge shared here is astounding. This should be the new form of education.
Andrew- you just endured an indepth, heavy-duty analysis by the good Doctor for a sub four hour session.
Your guest is fascinating....and you handled it with aplomb and sincerity.
Great combo-
Thank you... great show.
Direct and brilliant dissertation, I can appreciate the diligence it takes to reach that level of stability.
Shorter questions can make this podcast so much better
Thank You, David! You are a LIVING LEGEND!
Thank You Andrew, for that 0.1% of content on RUclips that acctually is important!
I think this is literally the best video in the whole channel, I love just how profound and humane the conversation here is displayed between Paul Conti and Huberman
There’s just a such strong desire of goodness coming from both in this episode
So true
Right!
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Just wanted to say a huge thank you to both of you for bringing this series to us. It is so helpful. I have been intuitively trying to understand my inner drives and Paul just explains and validates the existence of those shapes and structures I've been trying to feel in the dark. I can't wait for the next conversation. Thank you!