This is the last video you'll need on quitting p*rn, ever...
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- This is the last video (hopefully) that you will ever need on p*rn addiction, I use a house to showcase...
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The fact that nobody talks about subliminal affirmations for overcoming addiction on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
What does this mean
As someone who has been off P for about a year now, i can tell you the happiness and energy that you had when you were a kid comes backa
Facts brother, by far the best benefit of it all
are you on no fap aswell or have you just been doing no P
do you stll mastrubate?
@@BLUE_TEARSmf no i don't do that either
Even at 40 years old?
My reasons are:
1.I want to gain confidence.
2.I want to lead a more disciplined life.
3.I don't want to experience this guilt again.
4.I want to improve my skin and overall health.
5.After fa**ing, my day doesn’t go well. It makes me feel ill and depressed, and it also hurts my stomach.
I pray you will win!! I will too
quitting p will not fix any of this LMAO. Keep using p as a scapegoat for being a loser
@@CovenantDamonGantpsyop by any chance?
@@Im_Sanenough you really are a loser if you think im a psyop
@@CovenantDamonGantyou’re much more of a loser considering you have an ace attorney villain as your pfp
“Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.”
Get away from here.
Good one now gfo
it sure feel a lot of pain to change for others
Stopping porn shouldn’t be a painful thing to do
this is a good quote idk why yall are hating
This is me, doing nothing, wasting my time, overweight, no girlfriend , no proper life,,,,,,,, i promise my self under 1 year i will change everything about me...i.promise
I believe in you
@@goldenauror Thank You💗
Believe, bro, you got this. it's now or never brother! YEEHAW!
@@doctordoge6163 absolutely, i got this
You got this brother, continue to seek for change and success
Not watching porn or masturbating is probably one of the best ways to learn mentally and physically what discipline is over time. Other habits become easier to break as a routine of discipline.
Maybe if youre crazy about it, but when you arent and never overdid it, it wont change anything
@@SubwayZ Not everyone is crazy about it anyways, but I would definitely invest my time in some good thing rather wasting on p*rn. So it doesn't matter if it changes nothing, ultimately I want control over whatever I do in my life
@@SubwayZ This is just coping my bro, If even after knowing about all the negative effects of it you're still watching it because:
"I'm not crazy about it" "Just don't overdo it" no bro, You're addicted
The first excuse for addiction is always "I'm not addicted i use it because i want to, I could quit whenever i want!" Then do it, Quit it
You know the side effects, you know what it does to your member and your dopamine receptors
But you won't do it, Because you can't do it
If you tried you'd fail in a couple of days, Maybe not even that
@@IcedsobakaIf someone likes to have a cup of coffee in the morning and does just that are they addicted? Not a whole lot or a couple pints throughout the day but just a cup. How about someone who socially drinks, but not otherwise? Some people legit watch porn once in awhile and that's it. I am one of those people. Sometimes I'll watch porn a few times a week. Other times I go weeks without it. The advice OP gave was for people who watch it often. Not everybody has a problem with porn. Some people are more susceptible to certain addictions over other addictions. I used to have a heavy drug problem for example, but have never had a sex addiction or a porn addiction, or even a gambling addiction just to throw another addiction out there. Just not my cross to bare. I had other afflictions though.
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I was just getting the urge to break my "NoFap" streak but got a notification this banger dropped
same :C
2 weeks streak
Same
Thats a sign from the universe😊
Bro just fap if you want, it's normal and healthy unless you are addicted
I once heard someone say that when you're trying to hold an addiction off and feel the urge to relapse, it's a sign that you're healing. That helped me a lot! Stay strong brethren (from a weak brother)!
100% my man
Thanks man, I think I needed to hear that.
Didn't understand brother. Could you explain in simple English?
@@pokemonitishere202urges and not relapsing = healing
Excellent advice ❤
i watched this whole video im gonna update how it went in 3 years .
Update: you relapsed a million times
@@sandor319hater
I wanna join you.
I hope you remember.
Me too just remind me about it tho 😂
The timing of this video was too good...
Fr😅
@@sloth021 bro is on the grind to
literally, I needed this
Bro I was about to relapse after 2 weeks
+1
Was a p*rn addict since 7 or 8 y.o. after finding out my father's adult cd collection. What helped me is that I put Jesus as my foundation. I was not really a religious person but the more I put my faith and get to know Jesus, I feel a sense of pleasure and wholesomeness that p*rn can never make me feel. I became more outgoing and energetic. I started to talk to people more and feel a lot more confident. I started learning to walk by faith and not by feelings since feelings change every season but having faith does not.
I asked God for erasing these urges out of my head. And he did, its been months wirhout PMO and it truly disgusts me when i think about P*rn.
Amen bro 🙏
Keep going brother
Me too. Mine started when was I nine. Still haven't gotten over it. I'm trying though.
I just found you, and I'm not addicted to p*rn, but rather to watching RUclips videos all day to procrastinate. I'm following this advise to concentrate on my studies. I need to prepare for a few job interviews because I recently left my previous job without finding a new one. I need to find a new one by the last week of this month, when the second semester of my master's program begins. Thank you for the advice!
Yeah, I used to be addicted to fb. I'd check it first thing in the morning and many times through the day but now I check it maybe once over several weeks and it feels really good. I have almost 200 unread notifications.
Someone who understands younger people more than most on this app. I'm changing things up now. Thanks for the help.
Man thank you, this means more than you think ❤
@@JakPiggottW video 🗿🍷
You busted?
This affects younger and older people..
fucking legend
Keep changing lives G, you're doing amazing work!
Thank you so much brother, this means more than you think ❤
@@JakPiggottthis advice is game changing in my life you are a true master in your work I’m going to use the wisdom you have given me to its maximum potential. 🫡
@@JakPiggottA couple of days ago my family found out that I was addicted. I used to do it twice a day but after my dad talked to me about it I took a shower and js talked to myself for 1 hour and cried for half of it. But the more I talked to myself the more I realized that I was overacting and my foundation was already as strong as it gets and the only thing I needed is more time with God and more strength
I Haven't watched porn since like 2 days or 3 days ago, Until I found this living in my recommendation list, thanks for this @@JakPiggott
@@user-tc4sr6ub8nGo atleast 20-30 days without masturbating and it's so easy once you control it for a specific number of days
The last point is so crucial. A lot of people try and fail because they feel they lack the willpower to do it. You dont need willpower if you rewire how you think about porn. Its not enjoyable, you arent missing out on anything good what youre doing it. You are giving up nothing (and actually gaining a lot) by stopping your consumption of it. Stop feeling like you need it, stop telling yourself that lie. Literally just stop doing it. Pretend you were never a user, because as of now, you are not. Be free.
easy peasy
@@gabrielbritez5861 yup, the only method that has worked for me
read.easypeasymethod.org/easypeasy.pdf
Read Easypeasy method....You lose nothing by reading but the information contained therein is really valuable in changing your perspective on porn and quitting it. Good luck guys, you've got this.
Right. There is no addiction it's already gone. I've downloaded an app to block it off my phone and I rlly need to hold myself accountable
Reasons for quitting involve: disgusting and feeling miserable afterwards
Go deeper bro. Why does it make you feel disgusting and miserable. How is it affecting you and your goals?
Fr bro, if u know Ur gonna feel filthy afterwards and post nut clarity's gonna hit u like a truck, just think about that and it makes it easier to stop
Post # clarity and ho#ness are like cartoon angel and devil on your shoulder arguing and the devil wins then the angel makes you regret it
@@MicrowaveGenieMan I was about to say this LITERALLY word by word 😂
I agree with microwaves comment bro 👊
My reasons are:
1.- I don't want to become a porn addict, it actually ruins your mind and brain, and just makes you see women as pleasure objects.
2.- For my future partner of life, friends, family as well.
3.- Porn is just a distraction, it distracts me for when I have to go training, do homework, etc.
4.- Not being a gooner, and a disgusting person.
Thank you for making this video, I was just getting the urges, but when this video came, instead of clicking the video the urges wanted, I quickly clicked this. I simply want to overall be a better person in my life, and for the life of others.
Great work
gooning is actually a painful thing like shoving things up the bum so most fapping addicts won't do it lol
That's a great reason
And we all know who runs the porn industry.
@@Gangsta4Eternity its truly mess up your brain, easy to forgot something,less focus,makes you hard to remember topic you already study, makes your brain keep thinking about lewd stuff,makes your communication skill decrease so the main point is porn will make you become dumb 😂😂
Reason for quitting :
- I want to make myself better
- Be more optimistic and open to social
- I want to make achievment in school
- Because, everytime I'm trying to quitting, it always failed.
- Everytime I want to start a positive habit it just last short.
I want to make something different from now and on.
This addiction is affecting my life.
I don't want to be a failure person.
From now on, I promise to myself, that I will make better of myself. I will not let my future of myself fail and dissapointed. This promise it's not just for the addiction, but also for all bad habbits I have.
stop believing everything you see on the internet
I hate that word PROMISE😂
I used to think these videos were stupid, but you're the one who made me finally come to the realization that p*rn was negatively affecting my life.
After 2 months of failing I think this is the last time. Ive gone the longest I ever have. Im doing my best to become the person that my dream girl would want to be with, and ofc Im doing the things that make ME happy. You're changing lives dude.
Good job bro
@@zero-21 appreciate it man
You need to have a BIG WHY!!
I hope the guidance in this video can be valuable to you my man, much love ❤
i had a gf while also having a porn and masturbating addiction it was so bad. Im working on myself for my next person
Haven't watched P for like 6 months,wish me luck guys for more.I can't thank you enough for this video as it is like a gentle reminder to me.Thanks brotha,you are a lifesaver.
I used to be like you, i wish i will be the same i just need some love 🫂 i pray for your success brother, Love from srilanka
Thanks for the video!
Good luck, brother may God be with you?
@@averagechad69 thanks brother
@@destinvaughn828 yep!
Thanks G! keep saving lives, as guys we need goals and a foundation to keep it rocksteady so the wind wont blow us down, i completely get your message and i find the reason to quit it, now i know its not gonna be completely cut off but as you said ill cut it off like 10 times lesser than before and achieve my goals keep doing this mate im with you 😊 may us all stay strong in the darkest of times
jak has the first 0.66% of his 3 million
Holy shiet two thousands dollars
It's our Indian currency rupees not dollars @@user-ql4cv2yb2n
Oh myyyy gooodddddd wish i had that
It's 2000 rupees around 25 dollers@@user-ql4cv2yb2n
bro is a free therapist for thousands of people. love the slowed Sweden. also i am sure my mental will is going to break thru it. cause that breaks my body
Haha thanks brother, I'm no therapist but glad to see you finding value in the videos ❤
That’s subwoofer lullaby
@@JakPiggottyou help us all to Come out of this shitty thing
This man is the reason why I’ve decided to change my life around and confront my mental health issues in order to be a better person.
Give yourself more credit than you're giving me brother, I am just a messenger, you put the necessary work in ❤
@@JakPiggottno bro you really helped me,Ypu deserve credit
None of the things said in this video are needed if you have a long perfect dik like me.
Free digital porn wasn’t readily available until I was in my late 20s. It gave me ED by 35. I can’t even imagine what it’s doing to young men’s psyches and health when they start watching at a young age. My ED resolved when I quit porn. I was mature enough to be able to quit pretty easily. As a teenager I probably wouldn’t have been mature enough. It’s terrifying to think what it’s doing to young men.
When I was on a soccer team when I was younger we would never win a game ever and it was awful. So we ended up changing the name of our team, we named the team off constantly. After the game when the other team defeated us they would all run around yelling, we beat off constantly!
Yeah that sounds like a unique issue. People be jerking it for 20 years and have zero problems
Dude im fighting the biggest urge, from yesterday, i know i need to go do something with that energy build up, but i just cannot convinde myself.. I just know im gonna feel like shit after doing it, ive done that many times, the addiction is just so strong. Thanks fot the video, im gonna finnaly leave my room, take a cold shower and visit my friend..
And for all the boys reading this, just remember how you will feel after doing it.. If you have so much energy from retaining like i do. Use it! Transfer it to work. Ic could be anything. Tidy your room, trim grass, workout, even washing the dishes, but you cannot stay still while fighting an urge. It will just get you!
Love this community🥰
Proud to hear this my man, transmutation is the single most powerful thing (from my personal experience at least) you can possibly do. Keep it up brother 👊❤
Read the freedom model. Your 'urges' come about because you believe there is massive value in pmo otherwise you wouldn't do it. We do things we find value in. Ask yourself what is so valuable about pmo in your life. Do not focus on costs, focus on benefits of moderating or abstinence
@@JakPiggott CONFINDENCE COMES FROM MONEY BIG HOUSE AND CAR. NOT FROM QUITTING WATCHIN TV OR INTERNET. AS MATTER OF FACT THEY SPICED UP MY LIFE BUT EVERY GIRL LEFT ME BECAUSE I DONT HAVE HUGE MONEY NOT BECAUSE IM WATCHING CPU OR TV THINGS
Fast! You need to fast to defeat the urge, fast like muslims do from sunrise to sunset. After fasting for 3 days in a row your urge will get lower and if you still think you are having strong urges that are disturbing you, keep fasting until you have tamed your urges. if the urge is still strong then I recommend you to do alternate day fasting for a month.
After fasting there is NO WAY you will still have urges. I can f*cking guarantee you that!
@@ZzzVainman that's ridiculous, confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. There are plenty of broke men who are confident. Its not all about money. Abstaining from pmo will make you more confident, there is no doubt about it
Luke 6:48 He is like a man which built a house, and digged deep/meditated, and laid the foundation on a rock. And when the flood arose/desires of the emotions/lustful urges, the stream/desire beat vehemently against that house/you, and could not shake it, for it was founded on the rock. Strange how i was thinking of this analogy today and then saw your vid. Thanks Jakky boy🤝
When watching Jaks content I always realize that most of the thing he talks about is grounded in the words of the Bible but he never talks about it in that way.
True that. When I meditate I keep in control of my thoughts and desires which keeps the emotions compressed in a state of submission from the mind. I had done 20-25 days of semen retention and no lustful attraction because I was in a state of being in the present moment and having the awareness of the winds, rivers, and thunder that was at the door shaking the house, but I didn't open the door for the theifs and wolves/negative thoughts but only for my sheep/positive thoughts. We need to be Abel who is the keeper of his sheep/thoughts, but not Cain, for he is the digger of the earth/digging out his own ego and self which is of his own ideas and that we shall not do. Women/emotion shall be submitted to the Man/mind, for the desire of the flesh kills, but the desire of Christ lives. Soz I was yapping.
I love this bro, thank you for your support 🙏❤
I immediately thought of this as well
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
This analogy actually apllies to not just porn but every addiction there is. Be it smoking, alcohol, unhealthy food, gaming, anything. Just identify and build a foundation to quit it and build a house of actions over it.
Good job mate and bless you
Every other addiction in life is because of ejaculation.
Thank goodness I got this notification while watching corn, I was accually able to stop
W timing man, hope this was valuable for you ❤
@@JakPiggott it was
@JakPiggott well it wasn't EXACTLY corn ive gotten rid of 90%of sources reddit, google, ect but there is still TONS of bad stuff on youtube, I don't want get rid of youtube too!
W
😭😭i broke the streak today, i feel very broken now
Timestamps for self:
4:33 - put pressure on yourself, nothing changes if nothing changes
5:17 - create the foundation, focus on the foundation
6:31 - controlling the relapses, dont let one relapse destroy the foundations
8:06 - understand the urge, observe the trigger, learn how to control it
10:24 - you dont enjoy it, it doesnt make you happy, its just an escape that ends up having worse consequences
I do enjoy it though, especially because it provides relief. I don't enjoy having to do it. But if I do it when I need to, and it provides relief... I enjoy it. I don't feel like it hurts my confidence levels or anything like that, I think it's how you view it. If you're criticizing yourself for it... then you will fee bad about it.
@@gmarounf7472 I agree, porn is very fun to watch.
@@gmarounf7472yup. It's just about the people who critise you about it. It's a matter of just relaxing and enjoying your body, like drinking a beer or watching a movie
How often do you do it? Have you ever spent 7 days without ejaculating?
It has been 7 months since my last relapse. I never thought I was gonna rid of this addiction, but man, I've been watching porn since I was 14 or 15, I finally stopped for good at 26 now
Dude, being 12 years addicted isn't healthy at all, these last few years watching porn I wasn't even having fun or having pleasure
One thing I learned after quitting is, that it's never too late, you can still get better
7 months porn free, and I never want to watch it again, I feel so much better nowadays
Great video dude!
Addiction is not healthy at any age..
@@joelc9439 true words brother
Iam 17 , nearly jacked, never had a girlfriend (currently craving but no , iam focusing on my priority goals ) , love u big bro , u always inspire me ❤️
Ay bruh I’m in a similar situation (17 hittin the gym and somewhat looking for a girl, but I’ve had one before) don’t force yourself to avoid a relationship to “better yourself” a relationship is not necessarily something that comes after the work, I think it can be a beautiful thing to grow with someone and become great together, so don’t limit yourself to being alone for no reason
@DoopySoupy well said! God bless you bro
Big W bro, you should be proud of yourself for the progress you have made, keep doing you ❤
@@DoopySoupytrue, just live your life qnd take care tbh, it really is that fucking easy
Same here bro
Been watching P for the last 9 years, been heavily addicted for the last 2-3 years, tried many times to quit, failed all of them. Low self confidence, depression, and many other life factors became excuses for relapse.
Your channel is helping me make sure this time is the last, got the goal of marriage, and developing a meaningful relationship as motivation. No woman wants a man with this addiction, so praying that when i finally can say ive quit ill have the self confidence to look for a wife.
What I'm trying to say here is thanks for beign the catalyst for good in my life❤️
Keep going forward..don't upset..be strong n ubwill become worrier in next few days...trust God... Mumbai ❤❤❤ From India🇮🇳
Yeah but plenty of women also had the addiction or watch P*rn.. remember that.. many couples including married couples also watch porn..
@@joelc9439 doesn't change the fact that it's not a good habit, and the type of woman I'm looking for isn't the type of woman to watch it
May God bless you, brother. I finally found one of the important goals in my life, and for 10 days now I haven't had this damn desire at all. I'm starting to control myself more. Thank you. Your videos also helped me.
I just said "no more porn" when I saw this.Thank you,Jak,you helped me a lot ❤
@@GoldenDragonSK Tak se toho drž draku 🔥
Say that with confidence man, much love ❤
It's my first super chat. I did it because your video was able to move me till the extent that no one has ever been able to.
I am really thankful of you.
I was struggling for 8 years.
It's like a curse to me. I am at a point where I can't even talk to anyone. No friends, no good communication skills and now it's getting hard to focus too, i was having suicidal thoughts. But your video gave me hope.
I will journalise my day here. So that I will get a daily reminder, that I can do it.
please do not ever harm yourself ❤
you are loved man
@@Therandomguy320 you will most probably fail
Remeber, Failure is the first step to succeed@@iamtitanhelm8888
Sometime the simple way is your way. I diagnosed probably have a bipolar and i stop my counseling because i dont trust anyone. Since teenager i have a feeling to end my "journey". And this got worse when covid come. Everynight my head full of "just do it, you are not worthy. You dont have any chance". Of course you know what my escape is, thats why i watch this video.
But last month suddenly i got a thought, why not just flip out my mind. And then everytime that bad thought come, i just reverse it. As simple as that. And slowly i got back my positivity. Keep fighting guys, your journey never end here ✊✊✊
Thanks man, as a 14 year old who struggled with addiction since I was 10 I found this video really helpful and made me want to turn my life around. 🙏🏼
@@detox3330Listen man I don’t know anything and I could just be assuming stuff here, but that sounds a bit strange bro. Maybe don’t ask stuff like that anymore.
At such a young age? Quit social media like instagram or Snapchat bro. Nobody cares. It will just drag you deeper into addiction.
Glad it was helpful man, I remember when I was 14 I was in your exact position, you should be excited for what life has in store for you ❤
Good luck man, remember to make your own decisions, dont let the internet guide your life
I'm 17, been struggling since I was 8 😞
MAN your amazing your changing so many peoples lives every day
Thanks brother, I am nothing without support like this though, I hope you realise that ❤
@@JakPiggott thanks man
Truly, it warms me on how you share your knowledge with a warm, caring smile. I felt your genuine kindness and i felt your willingness to help others who are struggling with porn addiction.
Thank you, Jak.
Hey man, I found you a few months ago, and your videos have really been helping me. That's why I want to add something to this one. These points are based on my experience, and they helped me:
1- Think about the women in the videos: Some of you want to be good men, so consider the actresses. The women in porn are often mistreated. Out of respect for them, DO NOT watch porn and DO NOT support this industry.
2- Think about your younger self: Are you the man you wanted to be? No? Then what are you waiting for? Quit porn and become your own hero.
3- Some of you won't do it because it's scary, but TALK to your parents if you're close to them, your friends, or even to yourself if you have nobody. Talk about it, draw about it, write about it, but express yourself because inside of you, there is something that wants to come out.
I hope this helps some of you. I love you guys. Keep smiling, stay strong, and be proud.
Facts brother, I probably would have continued this video for another 3-5 minutes and mentioned some of these things but I didn't notice my camera was low on battery before recording ❤
Both men and women.. a lot of women also watch p*rn..
Jak, you could always edit the video or make a part 2 if you have the time.
3 is impossible considering my parents would chastise me.
Edit: I’m giving into better habits at night and my habits and actions during the day are starting to align with my goals. I don’t feel urges as much and I feel a bit better.
I found your channel last night and I’m feeling way more peaceful and well. I’m 14 and have been Chokin my chicken for almost a year. I’m changing myself because I know I have more self potential rather than having little confidence and being weird in general. I’m seeing the impact corn is having on me and you helped me quit being a slave to my desires. My mind feels much more peaceful and I know sometimes as a kid I’m gonna fuck up. I just can’t make the same mistake again. Because honestly I’m realizing my problem is getting worse and girls usually look at me in a different way.
I've been 40-50 days clean now and holy shit can I notice the effect. I know you can do it its gonna be hard but I know you can do it stay determined
@@DaDuckfr_____I’m meditating and setting goals and holy shit my urges just get knocked down way sooner even without effort.
@@just-a-pufferfish6844 good shit man
You're still so young bro and you have a lot of good ahead of you, trust the process and your results will come, much love ❤
Hey man! We’re surprisingly similar and I just wanted to say that for me, the book EasyPeasy helped enormously. It’s totally free on the internet if you’re ever interested. Much luck :).
I got urges and accidentally saw this video thumbnail on my feed and I watched it completely, now I'm feeling so much better
Bro deserves his own TED talk 😭. This was so accurate, ty for uploading it
This man is the most useful man i ever found on RUclips he changed my life my perspective his videos are just life changing bro saving thousands of life BIG RESPECT
Thank you for your words bro, but I’m nothing special, just a regular dude ❤️
Thank you for making this video. You my friend, are a legend. Peace.
already can tell this is gonna be a good one 5 million views in 4 seconds
😂😂
If this is actually your last video of talking about this problem, then I just want to say Thank you for talking about this huge Problem Brother, Thank you for explaining it and For Speaking up, I'm glad that I watched your vids talking about this and other stuff, Thank you for Helping Us Brother, Keep At It and Keep Going Strong 🙏🏻💪🏼
Thank you for your words man, it won’t be my last on the topic, but I probably won’t talk about it for a few months, as this video has 90% of what you need to know if you want to remove it from your life 👊❤️
i deadass thought he'd say 10 times more at 0:12 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thought im the only one
Same 😂😂😂
Saaaaame , I was gettin myself ready to laugh or some
I'm already doing it 10 times more after watching this video
We all did
Thank you so much Jak, you've been helping me on this journey through and through. These days I'm focusing on me, on who I want to be, what I want to do, what are my goals in life. I'm basically on a journey of self discovery and self discipline and self love and you're my motivator you are a gift from god to me and all of us thank you so much Jak.
Love from all the way from Saudi Arabia ❤
You should be immensely proud of yourself man, you should give yourself more credit than you’re giving me ❤️
@@JakPiggott this means so damn much coming from you bro. ❤️🫡
Jak, I'm a 17 year old going through times and Imma just say your advice helps. Thanks man. It's helping me to fix my problems.
Glad to hear brother, keep your head up ❤
@@JakPiggott Thank you dude didn't think you'd see it.
@@FalconTheAviatorPlease give me your email or discord?
Here I am...
I want to be a strong beast.
This is the thing making me weak and stopping me.
I promise myself to stop this and fulfil my dream within an year from now
Thank you very much brother. Needed it in the right time.
I’m glad bro ❤️
Thanks very much brother you cured my addiction.🎉@@JakPiggott
Leaving this comment as a reminder and a start of me letting go of all this shit. Time to change this shit for the better. I know how bad it affects me mentally and all the task that I needed to complete, it literally affects my confidence on basically everything that I do and would just at one point cry and depressed when something that you believe you are good at fails or the smallest inconvenience comes. This video just gave it a whole new and better purpose (to stop) and i could just say that this video basically adds a foundation on mine.
I just want to thank you Jak for helping me quit my addiction and helping me get closer to god. Ever since last year, I went onto homeschool, I have been completely isolated with little to no social interaction. However, with your videos, I have had the motivation to do more with my life and seek greater meaning. So thank you, Jak. Much love ❤
I wish the best for your future brother, trust the process ❤
Love the advice you give bro. I'd be nowhere without you.
You would be fine brother, don't discredit your own ability 👊
@@JakPiggott Thank you. Means a lot to me 👊
today is gonna be the day. ive been saying this to myself for years even but seeing your video about how p*rn affected you, it made me realise just how bad it is. thank you bro.
I'm going to stop watching p*rn today. I'll definitely come back in a year and say thank you for saving me.
I'm right here
After a year we will be back
Bro you have a calm and welcoming demeanor. Appreciate the content and I subscribe
Im just relapse 😰.no ,i want to control my life.not going to give up easily to this. Im quitting this shit once and for all. Day 0🏃♂️. Im going to watch this video whenever im into the urges again...pls give me your support or words❤️
Absolute legend man this explaination was very meaningful and descriptive ive stopped watching p hub 2 months ago and i feel 10 times better and have way more motivation in acheiving my goals, this video is great man hope many people are influenced to change and become a better version of them selfs.
bro got post-nut clarity
I have been watching p@rn from about 2 years from now. I had a reputation in school about masterbaiting about 10 to 12 times a day and this video saved my life and whole carrer. Thank you Jak for doing such a miracle in my life. May god make you live longer. I have subscribed to you and liked your video and forwarded to my other friends. Thanks god for showing this video in my for you page 🙏🙏🙏
I'm Christian so I appreciate the mention brother. I think the house foundation is a lot like what Jesus taught: Works (actions) comes from faith (foundation). This video genuinely showed me a part of myself I haven't seen before. thank you. And to others who are not Christian, please turn to Christ, he makes your life easier I swear to you, and he gives you a free foundation to work with
Amen
Amen 🙏
Religion is an escape too. Not much different than porn.
@@3TTriple Dude... Don't be making false claims about something you don't know much about
@@Apple_100 then why do missionary is deliberately giving money to conversion? Is that what a religion makes ? Spiritualism is beyond religionism
Reason why I want to stop.
1: it fucks up my brain
2: i want to enjoy life and smile more
3:I want a girlfriend and family
4: I want to be a professional photographer
5: I want to be a digital/graphic designer
those are the stupidest reason,i have seen so far.😂stop listening to everything you see on the internet kiddo
Nothing is stopping you buddy! It’s all there for you! I promise you can achieve it all if not better! The only thing is these great ambitions need a strong person behind it to make it unique. You have to be strong for it when it reaches you so you can be the best spouse, photographer, designer there is. Get after it buddy.
The fallacy in your argument is "finding your dream wife" to start a family.
Tell that to all the single moms.
I can't imagine what bro could have said if he had more battery 💀
best advice for me was DO NOT TOUCH IT, NO MATTER WHAT NEVER and go outside swimming pool is good because you will lose fat fast, make your skin look better, make some muscle, and be very tired after so you even won't to do something. Good luck and JUST DO NOT TOUCH IT
Biggest thing that got to me was the fact that it’s just an escape from reality and I don’t actually enjoy it. Thank you so much for the wisdom
Nothing changes, if nothing changes. Hits hard 💀
i heard someone say in a yt short. if youre taking a piss and you miss a little and get some on the toilet seat, do you just give up and end up with a bathroom full of piss? no? so why give up after you relapse once at 3pm? get back on track, or you end up with a bathroom full of piss
Yeah that's facts bro, great analogy 👊
Hey Jak, your channel is honestly amazing. I started watching your videos a few months ago but I would never focus and truly watch. Today I finally watched and I will finally start my journey. Thanks man and keep it up!
Ay bro im 15 and have consistently been going to the gym for 9 months now. I’ve been watching you for a while and You continue to get me super motivated everytime i watch your videos, i just wanted to tell you if you don’t hear it enough that you have really had a Big impact on so many peoples lifes. // love from sweden ❤
He gives you mental health tips but if you want physical go to Dillon Latham they are both good examples
Thank you for your kind words brother, this motivates me more than you think, keep doing you ❤
Only Jesus Cam truly give you freedom from this addiction. When your fight with your own willpower: you’re fighting yourself because you’re resisting your flesh and fighting your fleshing with your flesh. When the flesh fights the flesh, the flesh wins. Surrender to a higher power who already defeated sin, Jesus Christ.
🙏❤️
He probably is referencing to The Bible if he’s making this video, but probably didn’t say that he referenced to The Bible so that it can maybe attract more people. I don’t see any other way to quit lust than through the word of God and Jesus Christ.
@@dew8855For sure you don't have to be a beliver to quit porn if u want . It's like with other things. Your faith can help you but a lot of successful people don't believe in God and offen have similar values. Earth it's Earth, Heaven is Heaven. Beliving don't mean you will have better life now thanks to God or sth but you believe in better life after your body death.
Wait is he a Christian?
Amen
As someone who struggled with his mental health and self image a lot not so long ago, I used porn a lot to cope with how I was feeling. But in recent months I've felt a lot better and actually started seeing less and less porn everytime. I still relapse from time to time, but I feel so much better now than I did like 4 months ago. My journey isn't over, but it feels so much better to just start the process than doing nothing about it. To all the people out there struggling with this too just know that there's hope and we can fight this and we'll make it out as better people. Love y'all and please keep fighting as I'll be doing the same.
6:07 that is a really good advice, man
you have had lots of videos with a similar title and you know some people still didn't quit I'm glad that you haven't gave up on us
Thank you man, I don’t wanna make to many vids on this topic but then I know it’s a growing problem so I need to spread some awareness. This will be the last video on this for a while though
@@JakPiggott yeah I'm 15 and you helped me quit porn 5 months ago and I started at the age of 12 and I have been going to the gym with my uncle and I feel so good when my muscles recover and stronger and less stress
Thank you dude you dont know how grateful I am to find this channel 🙏
10:30
I opened my eyes to this
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Yeah crazy Facts shot like bullets 😟
4:50 nothing changes if nothing changes
quite deep, ngl, it makes me question myself: do I really want to change something in my life? no, not really, I just want everything to stay the same forever (I'd like to go 4 years back and then I would think so 100%) the reason of my negativity and sadness is the "it will never be the same" feeling, I don't give a f if Iam a millionaire if I wont have my current family or friends 🤷♂️
I paused the video just to write this down and then I seen your comment 📝🏅✅
Nothing changes if nothing changes, I'm commondeering that phrase. Thank you for helping those struggling. Be intentional about your life, diet, environment & actions.
Blessings Shalom fam 🫀
I wanna be pro boxer but i was too scared to fight heavy sparringa until i left this addiction
I'm 19.
Have been struggling with porn for 8 years now.
Six of them were straight up wasted. I had no emotions, no ambitious, nothing. I was litteraly a walking corpse.
I started fighting it at the age of 17 when the moment of realisation have come. And did good. Lasted around 3 months without it. The feelling of accomplishment was great, i was confident, happy, motivated. All the benefits were there.
But ever since I've never managed to achieve that mark again.
Today I realised why.
Because i've never felt that moment again. The moment of realisation. The strong reason to quit.
And guess what?
Today it's came back stronger than ever before.
I realised that i can't lost even more years in my extremly short life. I want to feel emotional, want to experience the beauty of this world again. Feel like a human again.
And i can't let it ruin my path to ideal image of mine who will provide for the closest ones.
And i can't let my grandfather down who was the only man figure in my life. Even though he passed away when i was 11 (the exact age i got addicted to pornography).
So just as Jak said.
Find a reason to quit.
"When men can't find a deep sense of meaning in life, they distract themselves with pleasure."
It only has the power you give it.👍🏾
This is exactly how I feel about it, been addicted myself for just a year longer, and realising now that when I get married I don't want to be the dad that loses everything cos of a stupid prn addiction.
You've got this bro, whenever those urges to relapse come back fight them by reminding yourself why you're doing this, rewatch this guy's vids, do whatever helps remind you of your goals
I've always knew my reason of doing it was to escape and cope with my problems. I just needed a little bit more push and you sealed it for me. Thank you for this.
And also my reasons is to have a better time management and a better communication skills. I'm gonna get there someday y'all.
Bro, im 37 and this is the first video on the topic to really open my eyes. Thanks man. You could also apply the same logic to video games, another escapist pitfall
Yeah had the problem with short form content and applied this video to it. Really helped
Nothing wrong with Videogames bro, or escapism in general. Everyone does it. The mind needs to divert once in a while. It only becomes an issue when avoidance comes into play.
Starting from today i wont do this shit, i promise, everyday progress, if i stop updating, then i am on a right path
Day 1
Keep us updated bro I’m done with this shit too man. I’m not a “no fap”guru but I just don’t like how I feel after
Any update bro
Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.
After almost 5 years of trying and failing, I have finally put together 30 days without relapsing. I was previously doing it twice a day. No matter how hard it gets or how hopeless it looks and it feels like you’re never going to get it done, don’t EVER give up. I always knew the day would come where I would hit 30 days
1 like = 1 day without touching
I have to quit to obey Allah. To stop being oblivious to opportunities knocking. For my own good.
Ameen brother
Ala is a fake "god",you're on your way to hell if you don't pick up your cross and follow Jesus.
i would say it depends on you. if you dont put in the effort no one literally no one can change you.
I hope you can change yourself. Whatever you do only one thing is required thats discipline
"Nothing changes, If nothing change" - jak piggott
"Verily, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves." - Quran 13:11 This verse from the Quran speaks to the power of self-belief and the role it plays in shaping our lives and the world around us.
Jim Rohn***
@@YourFavouriteiASubhanAllah.
@@YourFavouriteiAbrother don’t say self belief
Been trying to do it for 7 years , let's see how it goes from now on.
Will report my result on 1 st October 2024
So please keep reminding me
1 month left 😂
"a perfect way to escape what you are feeling" that really hit me hard !
Around a week of my streak.. cmnt here your streak guys..🙂
1 year 6 months.
4 days
Almost two weeks now 💪
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@@jasonvictor10k 1 what?
Bud is not a contractor Lmao (still good advice) 2:59
When injustice becomes law, resistance becomes duty
Bro i love the thumbnail, it reminds me of dogpack's video🤣
8:44 very relatable, my family in problem rn, my mom very mad just bcs the house wasn't clean and i just arrive from college
you must be joking
I really appreciate what you mentioned here: Not all of it is laze.
A lot of videos I've watched in the past have always placed a emphasis on the "Grindset" type thing, saying how it's just laziness, etc.
But for a lot of people it's not, I don't have the worst homelife but I live in a rural area, so for a lot of my time I just do nothing really.
This helped a lot to try and think how to make my time worthwhile, I'm going to try and clean up some more tonight and figure out to do from there.
Consider this my "Day one".
56 days clean .
amazing ! Keep going bro
@@clementm9161 I don't know, sometimes it's hard . I don't know if it's worth it . 😔 Even I struggle .
Love these videos bro ❤❤❤