@@greatglazer6 OR go outside and do something 😂workout , read a book , find a new skill🤦🏾yall always try to find excuses to watch po*n just stop watching it not that difficult
You need likes from people to stop fap’n??? With this mindset you have I can guarantee that you will fap until the day you die. Do it for yourself not for digital likes. 👍🏾
I’m 15 days since quitting, please like this to remind me we’re in this together. I genuinely don’t care about likes, just know this reminder could help. Update: I reached 24 straight days then broke it. Now back on this and looking at not how many days straight, but the progress made of not doing it every day or even once a week. Progress has been made and I will try to beat that streak again. I hope to get rid of this completely one day.
This is me, doing nothing, wasting my time, overweight, no girlfriend , no proper life,,,,,,,, i promise my self under 1 year i will change everything about me...i.promise
I just was so close to relapsing and I stopped myself before it got too late. I realized I was just dealing with the heartbreak of losing my favorite stuff that will never come back to me because of my unsafe toxic home. the grief is real. Thank you for this video. i just got to make my foundation be a lot stronger than it already is.
Pray? What has a divinity to do with my acting nos behaviour, enough to say I pray for innocent people and hunger but still is in so no doubt a pray is pointless and even foolish bcz I put my willing into an imaginary dude, into nothing basically
I quit smoking 8 months ago after smoking cigarettes for 14 years and vaping for 4. You got this, it gets easier with time, just gotta power through those first few weeks/months and you’ll be on the other side before you notice it. I have faith in you brother, bless you.
@@alejorag been smoking since 6th grade im 4th year now so that would be like 8 years but ill do everything in my power to quit,thank you for the encouragement brother
My reasons are: 1.I want to gain confidence. 2.I want to lead a more disciplined life. 3.I don't want to experience this guilt again. 4.I want to improve my skin and overall health. 5.After fa**ing, my day doesn’t go well. It makes me feel ill and depressed, and it also hurts my stomach.
This is the prophecy about the second coming of Jesus Zechariah 13:7 “Awake, sword, against my shepherd, against the man who is close to me!” declares the LORD Almighty. “Strike the shepherd, and the sheep will be scattered, and I will turn my hand against the little ones. The Shepherd here is Jesus. John 10:11 “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. This is the fulfillment of the prophecy of Zachariah . Matthew 26:31 Then Jesus told them, “This very night you will all fall away on account of me, for it is written: “’I will strike the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’ This happened near 30 to 33 AD. Now coming to Hosea Hosea 6:1-2 Come, let us return to the LORD. He has torn us to pieces but he will heal us; he has injured us but he will bind up our wounds. After two days he will revive us; on the third day he will restore us, that we may live in his presence. He tore us to pieces which is the scattering mentioned in Zachariah and Mathew. In prophecies 1day is equal to 1000 years. Which means after two thousand years Jesus will return again. And on the third day which is the 3rd millennium, we will live in his sight. We all know we cannot see God's face and live on Earth. So it's the second coming of Jesus. Luke 21:11 ► There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven. Matthew 24:6 You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. We are the witnesses of all these things. From the death of Jesus to 2030 - 2033 there are 2000 years. There was an eclipse in 33 Ad. So it's best to believe that Jesus died in 33AD. Jesus is coming soon. Let's all repent and turn from our old ways and turn to the Lord. Praise the Lord. Peace and Love to you all A verse to show about the Holy Trinity Isaiah 9:6 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Everlasting Father?. There's your answer The whole world will turn against Israel and not just Palestine. Then know the end is near. This is a major sign to look for in the end times. And do not take the Lord's name in vain. Even Satan trembles at his name. We should not use such a name as an expression. God bless you all Please spread this message to the ends of the world . .
I've been struggling for years and can't take it any longer. Im quitting and leaving a comment here so that if anyone comments or likes it i can be reminded to stay on the right path. Thank you kind stranger
It's not bad in moderation, I personally see it as a useful tool. Helps me last longer and disconnect from my sexual partners - but I also don't do it every day. Plus I want to be single for a couple more years
@rowestinner success so far, and the likes here have definitely helped. A few times I've had the urge and opened my phone but had a notification that someone liked my comment and I would be able to beat the urge
“Nothing changes If nothing is changing”. I was blaming time and odds and I was like “why my life is not changing” while I wasn’t changing my daily habits and activities. Great reminder here. “Nothing changes If nothing is changing”.
Not watching porn or masturbating is probably one of the best ways to learn mentally and physically what discipline is over time. Other habits become easier to break as a routine of discipline.
@@SubwayZ Not everyone is crazy about it anyways, but I would definitely invest my time in some good thing rather wasting on p*rn. So it doesn't matter if it changes nothing, ultimately I want control over whatever I do in my life
@@SubwayZ This is just coping my bro, If even after knowing about all the negative effects of it you're still watching it because: "I'm not crazy about it" "Just don't overdo it" no bro, You're addicted The first excuse for addiction is always "I'm not addicted i use it because i want to, I could quit whenever i want!" Then do it, Quit it You know the side effects, you know what it does to your member and your dopamine receptors But you won't do it, Because you can't do it If you tried you'd fail in a couple of days, Maybe not even that
@@IcedsobakaIf someone likes to have a cup of coffee in the morning and does just that are they addicted? Not a whole lot or a couple pints throughout the day but just a cup. How about someone who socially drinks, but not otherwise? Some people legit watch porn once in awhile and that's it. I am one of those people. Sometimes I'll watch porn a few times a week. Other times I go weeks without it. The advice OP gave was for people who watch it often. Not everybody has a problem with porn. Some people are more susceptible to certain addictions over other addictions. I used to have a heavy drug problem for example, but have never had a sex addiction or a porn addiction, or even a gambling addiction just to throw another addiction out there. Just not my cross to bare. I had other afflictions though.
I once heard someone say that when you're trying to hold an addiction off and feel the urge to relapse, it's a sign that you're healing. That helped me a lot! Stay strong brethren (from a weak brother)!
Been addicted for probably 14 years now. I need to stop, its ruined relationships, its drained my energy, and overall ive lost so much of my hope for self change. This stops today. Thank you for the video, and the much needed kickstart for my journey.
Was a p*rn addict since 7 or 8 y.o. after finding out my father's adult cd collection. What helped me is that I put Jesus as my foundation. I was not really a religious person but the more I put my faith and get to know Jesus, I feel a sense of pleasure and wholesomeness that p*rn can never make me feel. I became more outgoing and energetic. I started to talk to people more and feel a lot more confident. I started learning to walk by faith and not by feelings since feelings change every season but having faith does not.
@@JakPiggottthis advice is game changing in my life you are a true master in your work I’m going to use the wisdom you have given me to its maximum potential. 🫡
@@JakPiggottA couple of days ago my family found out that I was addicted. I used to do it twice a day but after my dad talked to me about it I took a shower and js talked to myself for 1 hour and cried for half of it. But the more I talked to myself the more I realized that I was overacting and my foundation was already as strong as it gets and the only thing I needed is more time with God and more strength
I have not watched porn now since 2020 and I will say the thing that helped me, which it will be different for everyone, is therapy and how porn effects the brain. I was using Porn as a means of escape from my real life world and was using it to give me a release of stress. Even though while being married and have a child I was still addicted. It took understanding of how the brain was responding to porn as a dopamine release and if I was going to remove porn in my life I had to replace it with something else or the habit would return. To anyone watching this, this gent is 100% correct. To kick a bad habit, in this case porn, you have to replace that bad habit with something positive. Find something else that will give you that dopamine release something positive. It's very simular to building a foundation like the gent is stating in this video which is also important. For me it was my family not wanting my kids to have the same addiction or even expose them to it. I also wanted to stay married and not let it end in divorce And then there is the dopamine. What did I replace it with? Gaming. Now I have a boundary with the type of games I play because there are still games that promote it, however It allowed my brain to detox from the dopamine I was getting from watching sexual content. Now if I see anything that is remotely sexual, not porn but a girl in bikini in a movie or show or sexy looking breast that women always pop out threw there shirts or something of that nature, I am not in desperate need to go masterbait to a video. Instead I have a maturity about it and either look away or I'm not turned on at all or just disgusted by it. The only thing I am turned on by is my wife. It was not over night but understanding and not willing to lose everything I fought so hard for and everything God has given me was to great to lose. For anyone still struggling with this, you can beat this because I did.
Haven't watched P for like 6 months,wish me luck guys for more.I can't thank you enough for this video as it is like a gentle reminder to me.Thanks brotha,you are a lifesaver.
bro is a free therapist for thousands of people. love the slowed Sweden. also i am sure my mental will is going to break thru it. cause that breaks my body
Brother, if you count the days, it’s because you know you’ll go back to it eventually. Forget counting the days, stop corn until the day you realize you’re a changed man. By that point you won’t even care about corn because you’ve created so much success by ridding it from your life that it no longer crosses your mind, or soul. God bless you brother, good luck
Hey bro, I’m curious as someone who also struggles with this addiction. Have you relapsed again? Or are you staying strong bro? I would love to talk about it
All love, man, thank you so much. I wanted to quit but was unsure how to start my main motivator is wanting that time and energy back because once I can get that back I can feel confident to try dating but right now I just know im not in right headspace to be in any kind of relationship. 13:11
Dude im fighting the biggest urge, from yesterday, i know i need to go do something with that energy build up, but i just cannot convinde myself.. I just know im gonna feel like shit after doing it, ive done that many times, the addiction is just so strong. Thanks fot the video, im gonna finnaly leave my room, take a cold shower and visit my friend.. And for all the boys reading this, just remember how you will feel after doing it.. If you have so much energy from retaining like i do. Use it! Transfer it to work. Ic could be anything. Tidy your room, trim grass, workout, even washing the dishes, but you cannot stay still while fighting an urge. It will just get you! Love this community🥰
Proud to hear this my man, transmutation is the single most powerful thing (from my personal experience at least) you can possibly do. Keep it up brother 👊❤
Read the freedom model. Your 'urges' come about because you believe there is massive value in pmo otherwise you wouldn't do it. We do things we find value in. Ask yourself what is so valuable about pmo in your life. Do not focus on costs, focus on benefits of moderating or abstinence
@@JakPiggott CONFINDENCE COMES FROM MONEY BIG HOUSE AND CAR. NOT FROM QUITTING WATCHIN TV OR INTERNET. AS MATTER OF FACT THEY SPICED UP MY LIFE BUT EVERY GIRL LEFT ME BECAUSE I DONT HAVE HUGE MONEY NOT BECAUSE IM WATCHING CPU OR TV THINGS
Fast! You need to fast to defeat the urge, fast like muslims do from sunrise to sunset. After fasting for 3 days in a row your urge will get lower and if you still think you are having strong urges that are disturbing you, keep fasting until you have tamed your urges. if the urge is still strong then I recommend you to do alternate day fasting for a month. After fasting there is NO WAY you will still have urges. I can f*cking guarantee you that!
@@ZzzVainman that's ridiculous, confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. There are plenty of broke men who are confident. Its not all about money. Abstaining from pmo will make you more confident, there is no doubt about it
Reason for quitting : - I want to make myself better - Be more optimistic and open to social - I want to make achievment in school - Because, everytime I'm trying to quitting, it always failed. - Everytime I want to start a positive habit it just last short. I want to make something different from now and on. This addiction is affecting my life. I don't want to be a failure person. From now on, I promise to myself, that I will make better of myself. I will not let my future of myself fail and dissapointed. This promise it's not just for the addiction, but also for all bad habbits I have.
Timestamps for self: 4:33 - put pressure on yourself, nothing changes if nothing changes 5:17 - create the foundation, focus on the foundation 6:31 - controlling the relapses, dont let one relapse destroy the foundations 8:06 - understand the urge, observe the trigger, learn how to control it 10:24 - you dont enjoy it, it doesnt make you happy, its just an escape that ends up having worse consequences
I do enjoy it though, especially because it provides relief. I don't enjoy having to do it. But if I do it when I need to, and it provides relief... I enjoy it. I don't feel like it hurts my confidence levels or anything like that, I think it's how you view it. If you're criticizing yourself for it... then you will fee bad about it.
@@gmarounf7472yup. It's just about the people who critise you about it. It's a matter of just relaxing and enjoying your body, like drinking a beer or watching a movie
@@gmarounf7472for me it’s less about how I feel about it and more about what It actively does in my life. My goal is to be as close to God as possible. Corn is not of God. It puts you farther and farther away the more you indulge. Another goal is to work on my mental wellbeing. Corn is know to have severe mental effects, especially on young growing brains. Effects include, but are not limited to depression, anxiety, decreased activity and damage to the prefrontal cortex, and memory problems. Now I’m not telling you to stop, but I am giving you the knowledge to make a more informed decision. “So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened.” Luke 11:9-10 NASB1995
@@gmarounf7472 Fr, I do enjoy it and it does make me happy lol. It helps me stay focused on things other than getting women - which is far more time consuming and destructive.
My reasons are 1.I want to beat this sin and grow closer to God 2. I dont want to be those weird p*rn addicts 3. I want a girlfriend but ik God won't trust me with the hand of one of his daughters if he cant trust me with mine 4. I want to be the best version of myself 5. I hate feeling like crap and straying from God 6. I WANT TO BE A GREAT MAN OF GOD!
Your 3rd reason really put it into words for me. That's the exact reason I'm still alone after all this time. I'm 23 and everyone I went to school with is getting married and having kids, and I'm just working and praying. God bless you and I hope you get through your struggles. Don't let the Enemy win brother!
Start by lowering your gaze. A command from God in His scripture. A purified sight leads to a purified heart. As long as you do it for His sake, He will guide you out of it❤.
You got a good point man, tell you what, i'll do it, i'm going to be a handsome, productive, wealthy man in 2 years, starting today. Let everybody know and put his goal in here
@@sifouzed focused, some winds have been blowing up my windows but not my house in its entirety, im doing efforts on blocking sites with adult content, so my best record until now has been 6 days clean, but that was some time ago and recently the closest i got was 3 days, but i know i can do better, and so will all of us that want to be BETTER
I'll upload my achievements per day, if some of you need advices or references, tomorrow starts the 1st week clean challenge, wish you all good luck if you're in this too
Fr bro, if u know Ur gonna feel filthy afterwards and post nut clarity's gonna hit u like a truck, just think about that and it makes it easier to stop
The last point is so crucial. A lot of people try and fail because they feel they lack the willpower to do it. You dont need willpower if you rewire how you think about porn. Its not enjoyable, you arent missing out on anything good what youre doing it. You are giving up nothing (and actually gaining a lot) by stopping your consumption of it. Stop feeling like you need it, stop telling yourself that lie. Literally just stop doing it. Pretend you were never a user, because as of now, you are not. Be free.
read.easypeasymethod.org/easypeasy.pdf Read Easypeasy method....You lose nothing by reading but the information contained therein is really valuable in changing your perspective on porn and quitting it. Good luck guys, you've got this.
I'm gonna download this to watch every morning. I've heard the message plenty of times, plenty of ways, but i feel like the daily reminder will help it stick. Help me to stay focused... I can't keep going like this... Feeling like this... Thanks for the calm, concise, & compassionate video, bro. Wish me luck! ✌️❤️
So grateful because of this video recommendation... Thanks bro I swear you helped thousands of people by making this video ❤️🔥 & BTW Meditation is a miracle... I'm doin it constantly for 5 to 6 months I recommend everyone to do it !
Last month I went almost two weeks without it. Unfortunately I did relapse and I gotta say the difference is insane. Before I felt more, fuller and focused if that makes sense. The minute I took that step back I felt my anxiety and shame take over and looking at it from an adult perspective I love how I felt without porn. It also made sex with my partner 10x better. For anyone who is struggling, try not to put it on a pedestal so much. Start small and say I won’t do it for two days, then 4, then try a week and build from there. I really encourage you try for two weeks and be honest with yourself and see if there is a difference
I just found you, and I'm not addicted to p*rn, but rather to watching RUclips videos all day to procrastinate. I'm following this advise to concentrate on my studies. I need to prepare for a few job interviews because I recently left my previous job without finding a new one. I need to find a new one by the last week of this month, when the second semester of my master's program begins. Thank you for the advice!
Yeah, I used to be addicted to fb. I'd check it first thing in the morning and many times through the day but now I check it maybe once over several weeks and it feels really good. I have almost 200 unread notifications.
Yes, same here. Getting hooked on YT videos can really derail my day. YT can be really useful for educational purposes so it is easy for me to justify but will eventually lead to a black hole of wasted time. Didn't think about using this video for that purpose until you said it, so thanks.
@@tubyrusedaysI have the same problem, and these videos really help. There's also an extension I have on my PC called DF Tube (distraction free), and you have the choice to block out everything but the video your watching, so you can make sure you only watch what you want to, and not what the algorithm wants you to watch. It really helps without the hundreds of distractions.
My reasons are: 1.- I don't want to become a porn addict, it actually ruins your mind and brain, and just makes you see women as pleasure objects. 2.- For my future partner of life, friends, family as well. 3.- Porn is just a distraction, it distracts me for when I have to go training, do homework, etc. 4.- Not being a gooner, and a disgusting person. Thank you for making this video, I was just getting the urges, but when this video came, instead of clicking the video the urges wanted, I quickly clicked this. I simply want to overall be a better person in my life, and for the life of others.
@@Gangsta4Eternity its truly mess up your brain, easy to forgot something,less focus,makes you hard to remember topic you already study, makes your brain keep thinking about lewd stuff,makes your communication skill decrease so the main point is porn will make you become dumb 😂😂
I cried in front of your video I cried because I realized that the addiction spoiling all the pleasure of having it quickly was too strong thank you for your video from today garter thank you.
@JakPiggott well it wasn't EXACTLY corn ive gotten rid of 90%of sources reddit, google, ect but there is still TONS of bad stuff on youtube, I don't want get rid of youtube too!
I mean, probably no. You likely can't stop in instant and not do it for a year. I think realistically you can avoid it for a month. The key is to make it longer after each relapse, and not falling into it after you stumble (as then you could get addicted within days).
@@ItsJoeverrrr Same thing, read what I wrote. Also you need a replacement for your dopamine spikes. Maybe cocoa + running. Should give you similar endorphins
Quitting today to pursue a more fulfilling life that I can look back on without any regrets. For my foundation, I have some goals: - exercise - better diet - quit smoking - earn my 32 remaining credits for my bachelor's degree - find a successful job - have a loving wife - retire my parents - give back to my family that helped me out It's going to be a tough journey, but also one I'm willing to travel on. To everyone else here, I wish all of you the best of luck on your journeys as well.
Been struggling for so many years and I feel like an animal with no control. I’ve tried and tried but have failed. It’s been on my mind more recently and I’m going to keep fighting like I hope everyone else does. We got this!!never give up!
Iam 17 , nearly jacked, never had a girlfriend (currently craving but no , iam focusing on my priority goals ) , love u big bro , u always inspire me ❤️
Ay bruh I’m in a similar situation (17 hittin the gym and somewhat looking for a girl, but I’ve had one before) don’t force yourself to avoid a relationship to “better yourself” a relationship is not necessarily something that comes after the work, I think it can be a beautiful thing to grow with someone and become great together, so don’t limit yourself to being alone for no reason
Been watching P for the last 9 years, been heavily addicted for the last 2-3 years, tried many times to quit, failed all of them. Low self confidence, depression, and many other life factors became excuses for relapse. Your channel is helping me make sure this time is the last, got the goal of marriage, and developing a meaningful relationship as motivation. No woman wants a man with this addiction, so praying that when i finally can say ive quit ill have the self confidence to look for a wife. What I'm trying to say here is thanks for beign the catalyst for good in my life❤️
How will quitting prn help you get a relationship or marriage? I think a lot of people are clowning. Truth is, even if you were married, you would still feel the urge for release, with or without prn. Lol no woman wants a man with this addiction? Yes, yes, there are women out there dating murderers and thugs, literally, but watch prn, this is where we draw the line lmao. What a clown world really. You really live in some bubble where women are sugar and spice and all things nice, they're all moral and good girls who want good boys and all the other fairytales. Dude modern women in the west have triple your body count but you're here blabbing about how no woman wants someone who watches prn (which is overwhelming majority of men).
genuinely a phenomenal video. Well done my dude, it applies to more than just p**n, it applies to being lazy, it applies to setting goals and not meeting them, it applies to breaking promises made to yourself. Everything is so well put.
This analogy actually apllies to not just porn but every addiction there is. Be it smoking, alcohol, unhealthy food, gaming, anything. Just identify and build a foundation to quit it and build a house of actions over it. Good job mate and bless you
i went about 8 months without prn but just watched it recently and ngl i actually prefer the feeling of not watching it now. Great video Jak proud of ya
It has been 7 months since my last relapse. I never thought I was gonna rid of this addiction, but man, I've been watching porn since I was 14 or 15, I finally stopped for good at 26 now Dude, being 12 years addicted isn't healthy at all, these last few years watching porn I wasn't even having fun or having pleasure One thing I learned after quitting is, that it's never too late, you can still get better 7 months porn free, and I never want to watch it again, I feel so much better nowadays Great video dude!
Hey i got a weird question… do you still pleasure yourself tho, without watching P, or do u only have it with your partner (if so) i dont know if the point was to quit pleasuring at all or the watching P thing
Luke 6:48 He is like a man which built a house, and digged deep/meditated, and laid the foundation on a rock. And when the flood arose/desires of the emotions/lustful urges, the stream/desire beat vehemently against that house/you, and could not shake it, for it was founded on the rock. Strange how i was thinking of this analogy today and then saw your vid. Thanks Jakky boy🤝
When watching Jaks content I always realize that most of the thing he talks about is grounded in the words of the Bible but he never talks about it in that way.
True that. When I meditate I keep in control of my thoughts and desires which keeps the emotions compressed in a state of submission from the mind. I had done 20-25 days of semen retention and no lustful attraction because I was in a state of being in the present moment and having the awareness of the winds, rivers, and thunder that was at the door shaking the house, but I didn't open the door for the theifs and wolves/negative thoughts but only for my sheep/positive thoughts. We need to be Abel who is the keeper of his sheep/thoughts, but not Cain, for he is the digger of the earth/digging out his own ego and self which is of his own ideas and that we shall not do. Women/emotion shall be submitted to the Man/mind, for the desire of the flesh kills, but the desire of Christ lives. Soz I was yapping.
1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
This video, out of nowhere, just randomly popped in my feed while I was death scrolling. I just watched it out of curiousity. But it makes a lot of sense. The confidence you have alone is genuine. This is my first impression. I will sub and learn more.
1 year ago my friends got me on this shit and I was addicted for a year until on RUclips shorts I saw your channel, it was a signal from god to hit that subscribe button, after a month I never had that feeling again and your such a big help Jake like your the biggest help and u have the best advice I found, you are a great person and everyone is if your reading this and thinking abt quitting, DO IT, it will be the best decision of your life,god bless you guys all
@@detox3330Listen man I don’t know anything and I could just be assuming stuff here, but that sounds a bit strange bro. Maybe don’t ask stuff like that anymore.
If this is actually your last video of talking about this problem, then I just want to say Thank you for talking about this huge Problem Brother, Thank you for explaining it and For Speaking up, I'm glad that I watched your vids talking about this and other stuff, Thank you for Helping Us Brother, Keep At It and Keep Going Strong 🙏🏻💪🏼
Thank you for your words man, it won’t be my last on the topic, but I probably won’t talk about it for a few months, as this video has 90% of what you need to know if you want to remove it from your life 👊❤️
Very comprehensive video. Straight forward, no BS method for quitting an addiction. Though I’ve personally never struggled with such, I appreciate the effort that went into this. Some folks might need the advice.
Thanks G! keep saving lives, as guys we need goals and a foundation to keep it rocksteady so the wind wont blow us down, i completely get your message and i find the reason to quit it, now i know its not gonna be completely cut off but as you said ill cut it off like 10 times lesser than before and achieve my goals keep doing this mate im with you 😊 may us all stay strong in the darkest of times
I gotta be honest, I've seen you on Instagram and I've seen some short clips and even tho what you say is true but I never thought that it'll actually have any affect on me But just like I said I gotta be honest I started watching this video and and I thought to myself here's another smart ass guy but honest to God it's like you just spoke from heart, everything I deep down knew was said , that's why I'm writing this long comment, it's not you trying to convince me or anything, it's just you just woke something in me that's been dead for a while So for that I thank you And I can't promise yet because what matters is action but hopefully I'll put this dark period of my life behind and work through challenges so I can go where I need to go in life Good luck everyone on this journey or any other journey And thank you God for helping me and bringing me back alive 🙏🏻 Love everybody 🤍
I'm 28 and I'm from Kenya bro and you just saved me... I've been having this addiction for years which has affected my life negatively and I can't progress... I'm so behind man... Hope to quit soon... Thanks bro
Soon.... Brother, fast today and ask God to help you. Ask Him to bring an end to it. Avoid apps or situations that trigger it ... I'll be praying for you too
I chanced upon this in the middle of a relapse and it helped me stop myself. Thanks to you, I've been reminded what really matters, and what I want from life. Thank you. You're doing God's honest work. Never stop.
quite deep, ngl, it makes me question myself: do I really want to change something in my life? no, not really, I just want everything to stay the same forever (I'd like to go 4 years back and then I would think so 100%) the reason of my negativity and sadness is the "it will never be the same" feeling, I don't give a f if Iam a millionaire if I wont have my current family or friends 🤷♂️
This man is the most useful man i ever found on RUclips he changed my life my perspective his videos are just life changing bro saving thousands of life BIG RESPECT
Hey man, I found you a few months ago, and your videos have really been helping me. That's why I want to add something to this one. These points are based on my experience, and they helped me: 1- Think about the women in the videos: Some of you want to be good men, so consider the actresses. The women in porn are often mistreated. Out of respect for them, DO NOT watch porn and DO NOT support this industry. 2- Think about your younger self: Are you the man you wanted to be? No? Then what are you waiting for? Quit porn and become your own hero. 3- Some of you won't do it because it's scary, but TALK to your parents if you're close to them, your friends, or even to yourself if you have nobody. Talk about it, draw about it, write about it, but express yourself because inside of you, there is something that wants to come out. I hope this helps some of you. I love you guys. Keep smiling, stay strong, and be proud.
Facts brother, I probably would have continued this video for another 3-5 minutes and mentioned some of these things but I didn't notice my camera was low on battery before recording ❤
I was going so strong 4 months and I relapsed. I felt horrible after and I wanted to curl up in a ball and cry. But I’m gonna stay strong. 1 set back doesn’t mean an excuse it means to persevere
TBH, BEST VIDEO YET, you touched many of the unspoken things and realness with no magic pills or "oh just be discpline sigma bro", thank you, god bless.
3 years clean.
Doubled my pay. Had a child. Bought a house.
Trust me it’s worth it
Amen, brother.
Doubled my gay. Went buck wild. Bought a horse. Trust me, meth is worth it
Really?
Give some tips when you want to quit it especially at beginning stages
@@sumanth9459 I did that while masterbating.... The secret is moderation and having a life.
I’m quitting, if someone likes I’ll get reminded to stay focused
You got this
you got this bro dont give up
We got this
Don't give up keep pushing just keep pushing 😤
Don't fucking quite. Just stay in the fight bro. Your King.
I met an outstanding woman and she deserves the best version of me. I'm quitting. Liked it to remind me, please.
You got this bro❤
That's the reason I want to quit. I just wanna feel enough for girls but I can't get them cuz I'm just 14 and that leads to relapse
Just quit 😂stop relying on strangers
@@BrayWs It's easy to say it, but when you are alone, with Wi-fi, and a computer/cellphone you'll relapse for sure
@@greatglazer6 OR go outside and do something 😂workout , read a book , find a new skill🤦🏾yall always try to find excuses to watch po*n just stop watching it not that difficult
I’ve been struggling. I’m commenting to get some of this off my chest. I hope y’all succeed with whatever you’re dealing with. Wish me luck.
You can do it man!
we are with u man
Stay strong soldier 😢
I'm quitting ,if someone like I'll get reminded to stay focused
We in this together boi
Copypasta. Shame on u!
Remember. Don’t count the days. Count the battles lost and won
You need likes from people to stop fap’n??? With this mindset you have I can guarantee that you will fap until the day you die. Do it for yourself not for digital likes. 👍🏾
🤡🎉
I need a support system. Can you guys do me a favor & like this if you come across it. I’m tired of relapsing
Remember ur foundation, u got this :)
You got this man, we’re in this together.
Stay strong bro
I’m not liking your comment. That’s sad asf begging for likes on a RUclips comment
You got this bro
As someone who has been off P for about a year now, i can tell you the happiness and energy that you had when you were a kid comes backa
Facts brother, by far the best benefit of it all
are you on no fap aswell or have you just been doing no P
do you stll mastrubate?
@@BLUE_TEARSmf no i don't do that either
Even at 40 years old?
Quitting porn results in more confidence with women, better resilience in life and a more fulfilling love life. Trust me boys.
99 problems
I quit so I can be a manwhore
@@uuuultra And porn ain’t one lmao
Quitting porn doesn't make anything else happen than make you feel a bit less artificial pleasure and save some time. Get your life together guys.
I’m 15 days since quitting, please like this to remind me we’re in this together. I genuinely don’t care about likes, just know this reminder could help.
Update: I reached 24 straight days then broke it. Now back on this and looking at not how many days straight, but the progress made of not doing it every day or even once a week. Progress has been made and I will try to beat that streak again. I hope to get rid of this completely one day.
Keep going bro. Not going to like, but I am going to remind you that you're not alone, and you got this and so much more.
I lost my streak, continue without me
Use an alarm clock then
@@marlboroortoiletananasdasdas join my new streak..
Okay my friend
This is me, doing nothing, wasting my time, overweight, no girlfriend , no proper life,,,,,,,, i promise my self under 1 year i will change everything about me...i.promise
I believe in you
@@goldenauror Thank You💗
Believe, bro, you got this. it's now or never brother! YEEHAW!
@@doctordoge6163 absolutely, i got this
You got this brother, continue to seek for change and success
Thank you strange Australian man
still you constant?
لماذا ناديته بهذه الطريقة 😂😂
تقريبا عشان الاكسنت بتاعته@@OxTheants
He looks like the russian and sounds australian 😂
wait I though he was British
I just was so close to relapsing and I stopped myself before it got too late.
I realized I was just dealing with the heartbreak of losing my favorite stuff that will never come back to me because of my unsafe toxic home. the grief is real.
Thank you for this video. i just got to make my foundation be a lot stronger than it already is.
“Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.”
Get away from here.
Good one now gfo
it sure feel a lot of pain to change for others
Stopping porn shouldn’t be a painful thing to do
this is a good quote idk why yall are hating
Not a c0rn addict but ill use this video to help me quit smoking.
Pray for me brothers.
All the best for your new journey mate
Pray? What has a divinity to do with my acting nos behaviour, enough to say I pray for innocent people and hunger but still is in so no doubt a pray is pointless and even foolish bcz I put my willing into an imaginary dude, into nothing basically
I quit smoking 8 months ago after smoking cigarettes for 14 years and vaping for 4. You got this, it gets easier with time, just gotta power through those first few weeks/months and you’ll be on the other side before you notice it. I have faith in you brother, bless you.
@@Realsamsthetic thank you for your words mate i only relapsed and smoked like 2 days since i have tried to quit
@@alejorag been smoking since 6th grade im 4th year now so that would be like 8 years but ill do everything in my power to quit,thank you for the encouragement brother
My reasons are:
1.I want to gain confidence.
2.I want to lead a more disciplined life.
3.I don't want to experience this guilt again.
4.I want to improve my skin and overall health.
5.After fa**ing, my day doesn’t go well. It makes me feel ill and depressed, and it also hurts my stomach.
I pray you will win!! I will too
@CovenantDamonGantpsyop by any chance?
@CovenantDamonGantyou’re much more of a loser considering you have an ace attorney villain as your pfp
@CovenantDamonGantwhat will then broski?
This is the prophecy about the second coming of Jesus
Zechariah 13:7
“Awake, sword, against my shepherd, against the man who is close to me!” declares the LORD Almighty. “Strike the shepherd, and the sheep will be scattered, and I will turn my hand against the little ones.
The Shepherd here is Jesus.
John 10:11
“I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.
This is the fulfillment of the prophecy of Zachariah .
Matthew 26:31
Then Jesus told them, “This very night you will all fall away on account of me, for it is written: “’I will strike the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’
This happened near 30 to 33 AD.
Now coming to Hosea
Hosea 6:1-2
Come, let us return to the LORD. He has torn us to pieces but he will heal us; he has injured us but he will bind up our wounds.
After two days he will revive us; on the third day he will restore us, that we may live in his presence.
He tore us to pieces which is the scattering mentioned in Zachariah and Mathew.
In prophecies 1day is equal to 1000 years. Which means after two thousand years Jesus will return again.
And on the third day which is the 3rd millennium, we will live in his sight. We all know we cannot see God's face and live on Earth. So it's the second coming of Jesus.
Luke 21:11 ►
There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven.
Matthew 24:6
You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come.
We are the witnesses of all these things. From the death of Jesus to 2030 - 2033 there are 2000 years. There was an eclipse in 33 Ad. So it's best to believe that Jesus died in 33AD. Jesus is coming soon. Let's all repent and turn from our old ways and turn to the Lord.
Praise the Lord.
Peace and Love to you all
A verse to show about the Holy Trinity
Isaiah 9:6
For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Everlasting Father?. There's your answer
The whole world will turn against Israel and not just Palestine. Then know the end is near. This is a major sign to look for in the end times.
And do not take the Lord's name in vain. Even Satan trembles at his name. We should not use such a name as an expression.
God bless you all
Please spread this message to the ends of the world .
.
I'm quitting, if someone like I'll get reminded to stay focused and committed
Quitting from today...Everyone who likes this comment will remind me to never break my decision. 😊
Let's go brother!
Can you remind me also?
Sure...lets go soldiers!!!
Me too
Day 2 for me 😢 i feel me bad can anybody tells me what it is ?
I was just getting the urge to break my "NoFap" streak but got a notification this banger dropped
same :C
2 weeks streak
Same
Thats a sign from the universe😊
Bro just fap if you want, it's normal and healthy unless you are addicted
I've been struggling for years and can't take it any longer. Im quitting and leaving a comment here so that if anyone comments or likes it i can be reminded to stay on the right path. Thank you kind stranger
It's not bad in moderation, I personally see it as a useful tool. Helps me last longer and disconnect from my sexual partners - but I also don't do it every day. Plus I want to be single for a couple more years
@HeroicEvil13 i agree, but I'm too far gone currently. Need a full detox before I can even think about moderation
How you doing with quitting bro ?
@rowestinner success so far, and the likes here have definitely helped. A few times I've had the urge and opened my phone but had a notification that someone liked my comment and I would be able to beat the urge
There's help in GOD. Truly speaking, addiction cannot be broken by just determination. You need a stronger power to break its hold on you.
“Nothing changes If nothing is changing”. I was blaming time and odds and I was like “why my life is not changing” while I wasn’t changing my daily habits and activities.
Great reminder here. “Nothing changes If nothing is changing”.
I'm quitting, if someone likes it will remind me to stay committed
How its going? Im also in from 5days and stays focused
@@czujoo im on day 2 rn i will stop forever
Hey dont you f@KING GIVE UP after coming so far here.
Your not serious then you don't need anything external all it takes it's a decision
@@spence1203hes just begging for likes
Not watching porn or masturbating is probably one of the best ways to learn mentally and physically what discipline is over time. Other habits become easier to break as a routine of discipline.
Maybe if youre crazy about it, but when you arent and never overdid it, it wont change anything
@@SubwayZ Not everyone is crazy about it anyways, but I would definitely invest my time in some good thing rather wasting on p*rn. So it doesn't matter if it changes nothing, ultimately I want control over whatever I do in my life
@@SubwayZ This is just coping my bro, If even after knowing about all the negative effects of it you're still watching it because:
"I'm not crazy about it" "Just don't overdo it" no bro, You're addicted
The first excuse for addiction is always "I'm not addicted i use it because i want to, I could quit whenever i want!" Then do it, Quit it
You know the side effects, you know what it does to your member and your dopamine receptors
But you won't do it, Because you can't do it
If you tried you'd fail in a couple of days, Maybe not even that
@@IcedsobakaIf someone likes to have a cup of coffee in the morning and does just that are they addicted? Not a whole lot or a couple pints throughout the day but just a cup. How about someone who socially drinks, but not otherwise? Some people legit watch porn once in awhile and that's it. I am one of those people. Sometimes I'll watch porn a few times a week. Other times I go weeks without it. The advice OP gave was for people who watch it often. Not everybody has a problem with porn. Some people are more susceptible to certain addictions over other addictions. I used to have a heavy drug problem for example, but have never had a sex addiction or a porn addiction, or even a gambling addiction just to throw another addiction out there. Just not my cross to bare. I had other afflictions though.
@John-c7x Censor porn is still porn, Also most of it is fetish content
I once heard someone say that when you're trying to hold an addiction off and feel the urge to relapse, it's a sign that you're healing. That helped me a lot! Stay strong brethren (from a weak brother)!
100% my man
Thanks man, I think I needed to hear that.
Didn't understand brother. Could you explain in simple English?
@@pokemonitishere202urges and not relapsing = healing
Excellent advice ❤
Bro is a wholesome 40 year old ocker in a 20 year old’s body. Quality content, laudable goal.
Been addicted for probably 14 years now. I need to stop, its ruined relationships, its drained my energy, and overall ive lost so much of my hope for self change. This stops today. Thank you for the video, and the much needed kickstart for my journey.
You should start watching gay porn instead
If you seeing this response you've got this and let us know how you've been doing periodically 🤙
Goodluck bro. Have the best lif, bro. I know u can do it, if any one of us could
You got this bro ❤
And here I though my 11 years failing is already highest record, I'll pray for you brother, and pray for me as well. The best I can do is once a week
Was a p*rn addict since 7 or 8 y.o. after finding out my father's adult cd collection. What helped me is that I put Jesus as my foundation. I was not really a religious person but the more I put my faith and get to know Jesus, I feel a sense of pleasure and wholesomeness that p*rn can never make me feel. I became more outgoing and energetic. I started to talk to people more and feel a lot more confident. I started learning to walk by faith and not by feelings since feelings change every season but having faith does not.
I asked God for erasing these urges out of my head. And he did, its been months wirhout PMO and it truly disgusts me when i think about P*rn.
Amen bro 🙏
Keep going brother
Me too. Mine started when was I nine. Still haven't gotten over it. I'm trying though.
Needed this, thanks bro
The timing of this video was too good...
Fr😅
@@sloth021 bro is on the grind to
literally, I needed this
Bro I was about to relapse after 2 weeks
+1
Thank you brother and I know where to start and it makes my mind clear with your explaination, cheers mate 😁👍🏿🫂
Man i wish we had more awareness of the dangers of porn when I was a kid
Me too man, I was too young when I started
Me too...
F#$@you Edgar wherever you go 😒
@@kurt276since secondary school 😢
Yeah I wish I never started, but the curiosity was too strong...
Jesus Encounter Ministries RUclips channel**
Keep changing lives G, you're doing amazing work!
Thank you so much brother, this means more than you think ❤
@@JakPiggottthis advice is game changing in my life you are a true master in your work I’m going to use the wisdom you have given me to its maximum potential. 🫡
@@JakPiggottA couple of days ago my family found out that I was addicted. I used to do it twice a day but after my dad talked to me about it I took a shower and js talked to myself for 1 hour and cried for half of it. But the more I talked to myself the more I realized that I was overacting and my foundation was already as strong as it gets and the only thing I needed is more time with God and more strength
I Haven't watched porn since like 2 days or 3 days ago, Until I found this living in my recommendation list, thanks for this @@JakPiggott
@@basselzouhairyGo atleast 20-30 days without masturbating and it's so easy once you control it for a specific number of days
Someone who understands younger people more than most on this app. I'm changing things up now. Thanks for the help.
Man thank you, this means more than you think ❤
@@JakPiggottW video 🗿🍷
You busted?
This affects younger and older people..
fucking legend
I have not watched porn now since 2020 and I will say the thing that helped me, which it will be different for everyone, is therapy and how porn effects the brain. I was using Porn as a means of escape from my real life world and was using it to give me a release of stress. Even though while being married and have a child I was still addicted. It took understanding of how the brain was responding to porn as a dopamine release and if I was going to remove porn in my life I had to replace it with something else or the habit would return.
To anyone watching this, this gent is 100% correct. To kick a bad habit, in this case porn, you have to replace that bad habit with something positive. Find something else that will give you that dopamine release something positive. It's very simular to building a foundation like the gent is stating in this video which is also important. For me it was my family not wanting my kids to have the same addiction or even expose them to it. I also wanted to stay married and not let it end in divorce
And then there is the dopamine. What did I replace it with? Gaming. Now I have a boundary with the type of games I play because there are still games that promote it, however It allowed my brain to detox from the dopamine I was getting from watching sexual content.
Now if I see anything that is remotely sexual, not porn but a girl in bikini in a movie or show or sexy looking breast that women always pop out threw there shirts or something of that nature, I am not in desperate need to go masterbait to a video. Instead I have a maturity about it and either look away or I'm not turned on at all or just disgusted by it. The only thing I am turned on by is my wife.
It was not over night but understanding and not willing to lose everything I fought so hard for and everything God has given me was to great to lose.
For anyone still struggling with this, you can beat this because I did.
Yeah i relate to this for me it was sport and gaming
even tho im not married
Haven't watched P for like 6 months,wish me luck guys for more.I can't thank you enough for this video as it is like a gentle reminder to me.Thanks brotha,you are a lifesaver.
I used to be like you, i wish i will be the same i just need some love 🫂 i pray for your success brother, Love from srilanka
Thanks for the video!
Good luck, brother may God be with you?
@@averagechad69 thanks brother
@@destinvaughn828 yep!
bro is a free therapist for thousands of people. love the slowed Sweden. also i am sure my mental will is going to break thru it. cause that breaks my body
Haha thanks brother, I'm no therapist but glad to see you finding value in the videos ❤
That’s subwoofer lullaby
@@JakPiggottyou help us all to Come out of this shitty thing
Just don't do it. Stop right now. The moment u stop, the next time an urge comes, it will be easier to block it.
i’m quittting, if someone likes i’ll get reminded to stay focused
Friendly reminder, you got this Bud :)
That's a bad reminder bud. What if the likes stop coming? What then
@@temiamone976anyone who makes a comment like this is a fkn loser “like my comment so I will stop gooning 😢” lol it’s pathetic
@temiamone976 then he's coming😢
Sad asf to be trying to get people to like your RUclips comment like that. Get a life brother.
Quitting porn, if anybody replies or likes, I'll get reminded to stay focused.
Go brother. I will try too.
Stay focused 🫡
Stay focused ❤️
Its worth it man, you have so many things to do, failing will only slow you down.
bro was edging
No. of likes = No. Of days i will not watch corn again
Brother, if you count the days, it’s because you know you’ll go back to it eventually. Forget counting the days, stop corn until the day you realize you’re a changed man. By that point you won’t even care about corn because you’ve created so much success by ridding it from your life that it no longer crosses your mind, or soul.
God bless you brother, good luck
Nicely said bro
I don't watch corn too often, my addiction to pornography might be more of a problem
Hey bro, I’m curious as someone who also struggles with this addiction. Have you relapsed again? Or are you staying strong bro? I would love to talk about it
Corn is a food, don't disrespect it
All love, man, thank you so much. I wanted to quit but was unsure how to start my main motivator is wanting that time and energy back because once I can get that back I can feel confident to try dating but right now I just know im not in right headspace to be in any kind of relationship. 13:11
Dude im fighting the biggest urge, from yesterday, i know i need to go do something with that energy build up, but i just cannot convinde myself.. I just know im gonna feel like shit after doing it, ive done that many times, the addiction is just so strong. Thanks fot the video, im gonna finnaly leave my room, take a cold shower and visit my friend..
And for all the boys reading this, just remember how you will feel after doing it.. If you have so much energy from retaining like i do. Use it! Transfer it to work. Ic could be anything. Tidy your room, trim grass, workout, even washing the dishes, but you cannot stay still while fighting an urge. It will just get you!
Love this community🥰
Proud to hear this my man, transmutation is the single most powerful thing (from my personal experience at least) you can possibly do. Keep it up brother 👊❤
Read the freedom model. Your 'urges' come about because you believe there is massive value in pmo otherwise you wouldn't do it. We do things we find value in. Ask yourself what is so valuable about pmo in your life. Do not focus on costs, focus on benefits of moderating or abstinence
@@JakPiggott CONFINDENCE COMES FROM MONEY BIG HOUSE AND CAR. NOT FROM QUITTING WATCHIN TV OR INTERNET. AS MATTER OF FACT THEY SPICED UP MY LIFE BUT EVERY GIRL LEFT ME BECAUSE I DONT HAVE HUGE MONEY NOT BECAUSE IM WATCHING CPU OR TV THINGS
Fast! You need to fast to defeat the urge, fast like muslims do from sunrise to sunset. After fasting for 3 days in a row your urge will get lower and if you still think you are having strong urges that are disturbing you, keep fasting until you have tamed your urges. if the urge is still strong then I recommend you to do alternate day fasting for a month.
After fasting there is NO WAY you will still have urges. I can f*cking guarantee you that!
@@ZzzVainman that's ridiculous, confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. There are plenty of broke men who are confident. Its not all about money. Abstaining from pmo will make you more confident, there is no doubt about it
Reason for quitting :
- I want to make myself better
- Be more optimistic and open to social
- I want to make achievment in school
- Because, everytime I'm trying to quitting, it always failed.
- Everytime I want to start a positive habit it just last short.
I want to make something different from now and on.
This addiction is affecting my life.
I don't want to be a failure person.
From now on, I promise to myself, that I will make better of myself. I will not let my future of myself fail and dissapointed. This promise it's not just for the addiction, but also for all bad habbits I have.
stop believing everything you see on the internet
I hate that word PROMISE😂
Fahrihamka I believe in you! We are going to make it
@@kenkoi619u feminist gay women? 😂
@@watson1212 Except the girl
This is actually solid advice. Same kind of thing They taught me at rehab. Good video thanks dude!
Timestamps for self:
4:33 - put pressure on yourself, nothing changes if nothing changes
5:17 - create the foundation, focus on the foundation
6:31 - controlling the relapses, dont let one relapse destroy the foundations
8:06 - understand the urge, observe the trigger, learn how to control it
10:24 - you dont enjoy it, it doesnt make you happy, its just an escape that ends up having worse consequences
I do enjoy it though, especially because it provides relief. I don't enjoy having to do it. But if I do it when I need to, and it provides relief... I enjoy it. I don't feel like it hurts my confidence levels or anything like that, I think it's how you view it. If you're criticizing yourself for it... then you will fee bad about it.
@@gmarounf7472 I agree, porn is very fun to watch.
@@gmarounf7472yup. It's just about the people who critise you about it. It's a matter of just relaxing and enjoying your body, like drinking a beer or watching a movie
@@gmarounf7472for me it’s less about how I feel about it and more about what It actively does in my life.
My goal is to be as close to God as possible. Corn is not of God. It puts you farther and farther away the more you indulge.
Another goal is to work on my mental wellbeing. Corn is know to have severe mental effects, especially on young growing brains. Effects include, but are not limited to depression, anxiety, decreased activity and damage to the prefrontal cortex, and memory problems.
Now I’m not telling you to stop, but I am giving you the knowledge to make a more informed decision.
“So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and he who seeks, finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened.”
Luke 11:9-10 NASB1995
@@gmarounf7472 Fr, I do enjoy it and it does make me happy lol. It helps me stay focused on things other than getting women - which is far more time consuming and destructive.
My reasons are
1.I want to beat this sin and grow closer to God
2. I dont want to be those weird p*rn addicts
3. I want a girlfriend but ik God won't trust me with the hand of one of his daughters if he cant trust me with mine
4. I want to be the best version of myself
5. I hate feeling like crap and straying from God
6. I WANT TO BE A GREAT MAN OF GOD!
HALLELUJAH
bless you
Your 3rd reason really put it into words for me. That's the exact reason I'm still alone after all this time. I'm 23 and everyone I went to school with is getting married and having kids, and I'm just working and praying. God bless you and I hope you get through your struggles. Don't let the Enemy win brother!
Start by lowering your gaze.
A command from God in His scripture.
A purified sight leads to a purified heart.
As long as you do it for His sake, He will guide you out of it❤.
You are god we are gods
You got a good point man, tell you what, i'll do it, i'm going to be a handsome, productive, wealthy man in 2 years, starting today. Let everybody know and put his goal in here
Updates?
@@sifouzed focused, some winds have been blowing up my windows but not my house in its entirety, im doing efforts on blocking sites with adult content, so my best record until now has been 6 days clean, but that was some time ago and recently the closest i got was 3 days, but i know i can do better, and so will all of us that want to be BETTER
@@yisusjuegatusjuegosfavoritos good Luck with your Journey mate!
@@sifouzedthanks, same to you bro
I'll upload my achievements per day, if some of you need advices or references, tomorrow starts the 1st week clean challenge, wish you all good luck if you're in this too
It popped up on my algorithm when i needed it. Thank you
Reasons for quitting involve: disgusting and feeling miserable afterwards
Go deeper bro. Why does it make you feel disgusting and miserable. How is it affecting you and your goals?
Fr bro, if u know Ur gonna feel filthy afterwards and post nut clarity's gonna hit u like a truck, just think about that and it makes it easier to stop
Post # clarity and ho#ness are like cartoon angel and devil on your shoulder arguing and the devil wins then the angel makes you regret it
@@MicrowaveGenieMan I was about to say this LITERALLY word by word 😂
I agree with microwaves comment bro 👊
The last point is so crucial. A lot of people try and fail because they feel they lack the willpower to do it. You dont need willpower if you rewire how you think about porn. Its not enjoyable, you arent missing out on anything good what youre doing it. You are giving up nothing (and actually gaining a lot) by stopping your consumption of it. Stop feeling like you need it, stop telling yourself that lie. Literally just stop doing it. Pretend you were never a user, because as of now, you are not. Be free.
easy peasy
@@gabrielbritez5861 yup, the only method that has worked for me
read.easypeasymethod.org/easypeasy.pdf
Read Easypeasy method....You lose nothing by reading but the information contained therein is really valuable in changing your perspective on porn and quitting it. Good luck guys, you've got this.
Mindset change. 💪
I'm gonna download this to watch every morning. I've heard the message plenty of times, plenty of ways, but i feel like the daily reminder will help it stick. Help me to stay focused... I can't keep going like this... Feeling like this...
Thanks for the calm, concise, & compassionate video, bro. Wish me luck! ✌️❤️
So grateful because of this video recommendation...
Thanks bro I swear you helped thousands of people by making this video ❤️🔥
& BTW Meditation is a miracle...
I'm doin it constantly for 5 to 6 months
I recommend everyone to do it !
Last month I went almost two weeks without it. Unfortunately I did relapse and I gotta say the difference is insane. Before I felt more, fuller and focused if that makes sense. The minute I took that step back I felt my anxiety and shame take over and looking at it from an adult perspective I love how I felt without porn. It also made sex with my partner 10x better. For anyone who is struggling, try not to put it on a pedestal so much. Start small and say I won’t do it for two days, then 4, then try a week and build from there. I really encourage you try for two weeks and be honest with yourself and see if there is a difference
I suggest you take a look at this: '' The Freedom Model For Addictions ''.
thanks for the advice bro
I just found you, and I'm not addicted to p*rn, but rather to watching RUclips videos all day to procrastinate. I'm following this advise to concentrate on my studies. I need to prepare for a few job interviews because I recently left my previous job without finding a new one. I need to find a new one by the last week of this month, when the second semester of my master's program begins. Thank you for the advice!
Yeah, I used to be addicted to fb. I'd check it first thing in the morning and many times through the day but now I check it maybe once over several weeks and it feels really good. I have almost 200 unread notifications.
Yes, same here. Getting hooked on YT videos can really derail my day. YT can be really useful for educational purposes so it is easy for me to justify but will eventually lead to a black hole of wasted time. Didn't think about using this video for that purpose until you said it, so thanks.
@@tubyrusedaysI have the same problem, and these videos really help. There's also an extension I have on my PC called DF Tube (distraction free), and you have the choice to block out everything but the video your watching, so you can make sure you only watch what you want to, and not what the algorithm wants you to watch. It really helps without the hundreds of distractions.
My reasons are:
1.- I don't want to become a porn addict, it actually ruins your mind and brain, and just makes you see women as pleasure objects.
2.- For my future partner of life, friends, family as well.
3.- Porn is just a distraction, it distracts me for when I have to go training, do homework, etc.
4.- Not being a gooner, and a disgusting person.
Thank you for making this video, I was just getting the urges, but when this video came, instead of clicking the video the urges wanted, I quickly clicked this. I simply want to overall be a better person in my life, and for the life of others.
Great work
gooning is actually a painful thing like shoving things up the bum so most fapping addicts won't do it lol
That's a great reason
And we all know who runs the porn industry.
@@Gangsta4Eternity its truly mess up your brain, easy to forgot something,less focus,makes you hard to remember topic you already study, makes your brain keep thinking about lewd stuff,makes your communication skill decrease so the main point is porn will make you become dumb 😂😂
I cried in front of your video I cried because I realized that the addiction spoiling all the pleasure of having it quickly was too strong thank you for your video from today garter thank you.
Im quitting. Leaving this here so i can get reminded when someone likes or comments. Wish me luck boys
Good luck buddy
Best of luck to you man
Don't lose buddy 👊
Keep ur hand off ur cock mate
How are you now?
Watched 2 times, because we tend to forget what we listen to often. I hightly value your video.
This man is the reason why I’ve decided to change my life around and confront my mental health issues in order to be a better person.
Give yourself more credit than you're giving me brother, I am just a messenger, you put the necessary work in ❤
@@JakPiggottno bro you really helped me,Ypu deserve credit
None of the things said in this video are needed if you have a long perfect dik like me.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for this video!
Thank goodness I got this notification while watching corn, I was accually able to stop
W timing man, hope this was valuable for you ❤
@@JakPiggott it was
@JakPiggott well it wasn't EXACTLY corn ive gotten rid of 90%of sources reddit, google, ect but there is still TONS of bad stuff on youtube, I don't want get rid of youtube too!
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😭😭i broke the streak today, i feel very broken now
I'm going to stop watching p*rn today. I'll definitely come back in a year and say thank you for saving me.
I'm right here
After a year we will be back
Im proud of you bro. The first step is realizing the problem.
Starting also, been about a week so far. Hoping we can all come back in a year clean.
I mean, probably no. You likely can't stop in instant and not do it for a year. I think realistically you can avoid it for a month. The key is to make it longer after each relapse, and not falling into it after you stumble (as then you could get addicted within days).
@@ItsJoeverrrr
Same thing, read what I wrote. Also you need a replacement for your dopamine spikes. Maybe cocoa + running. Should give you similar endorphins
Being a biker helps me out with this. My focus has been on biking, but sometimes the urge comes back, so thank you for helping me out
Quitting today to pursue a more fulfilling life that I can look back on without any regrets. For my foundation, I have some goals:
- exercise
- better diet
- quit smoking
- earn my 32 remaining credits for my bachelor's degree
- find a successful job
- have a loving wife
- retire my parents
- give back to my family that helped me out
It's going to be a tough journey, but also one I'm willing to travel on. To everyone else here, I wish all of you the best of luck on your journeys as well.
Been struggling for so many years and I feel like an animal with no control. I’ve tried and tried but have failed. It’s been on my mind more recently and I’m going to keep fighting like I hope everyone else does. We got this!!never give up!
I just said "no more porn" when I saw this.Thank you,Jak,you helped me a lot ❤
@@GoldenDragonSK Tak se toho drž draku 🔥
Say that with confidence man, much love ❤
The fact that nobody talks about subliminal affirmations for overcoming addiction on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
What does this mean
what.
@@apexpredator9021idk neither
Jesse, what are you talking about
wtf does this even mean
Thanks bro... you're awesome....I love the quality, the context of everything.
Iam 17 , nearly jacked, never had a girlfriend (currently craving but no , iam focusing on my priority goals ) , love u big bro , u always inspire me ❤️
Ay bruh I’m in a similar situation (17 hittin the gym and somewhat looking for a girl, but I’ve had one before) don’t force yourself to avoid a relationship to “better yourself” a relationship is not necessarily something that comes after the work, I think it can be a beautiful thing to grow with someone and become great together, so don’t limit yourself to being alone for no reason
@DoopySoupy well said! God bless you bro
Big W bro, you should be proud of yourself for the progress you have made, keep doing you ❤
@@DoopySoupytrue, just live your life qnd take care tbh, it really is that fucking easy
Same here bro
Been watching P for the last 9 years, been heavily addicted for the last 2-3 years, tried many times to quit, failed all of them. Low self confidence, depression, and many other life factors became excuses for relapse.
Your channel is helping me make sure this time is the last, got the goal of marriage, and developing a meaningful relationship as motivation. No woman wants a man with this addiction, so praying that when i finally can say ive quit ill have the self confidence to look for a wife.
What I'm trying to say here is thanks for beign the catalyst for good in my life❤️
Keep going forward..don't upset..be strong n ubwill become worrier in next few days...trust God... Mumbai ❤❤❤ From India🇮🇳
Yeah but plenty of women also had the addiction or watch P*rn.. remember that.. many couples including married couples also watch porn..
@@joelc9439 doesn't change the fact that it's not a good habit, and the type of woman I'm looking for isn't the type of woman to watch it
How will quitting prn help you get a relationship or marriage? I think a lot of people are clowning. Truth is, even if you were married, you would still feel the urge for release, with or without prn.
Lol no woman wants a man with this addiction? Yes, yes, there are women out there dating murderers and thugs, literally, but watch prn, this is where we draw the line lmao. What a clown world really. You really live in some bubble where women are sugar and spice and all things nice, they're all moral and good girls who want good boys and all the other fairytales.
Dude modern women in the west have triple your body count but you're here blabbing about how no woman wants someone who watches prn (which is overwhelming majority of men).
you got this bro! don't give up. Remember the happiness you will get when its over.
genuinely a phenomenal video. Well done my dude, it applies to more than just p**n, it applies to being lazy, it applies to setting goals and not meeting them, it applies to breaking promises made to yourself. Everything is so well put.
This analogy actually apllies to not just porn but every addiction there is. Be it smoking, alcohol, unhealthy food, gaming, anything. Just identify and build a foundation to quit it and build a house of actions over it.
Good job mate and bless you
i went about 8 months without prn but just watched it recently and ngl i actually prefer the feeling of not watching it now. Great video Jak proud of ya
It has been 7 months since my last relapse. I never thought I was gonna rid of this addiction, but man, I've been watching porn since I was 14 or 15, I finally stopped for good at 26 now
Dude, being 12 years addicted isn't healthy at all, these last few years watching porn I wasn't even having fun or having pleasure
One thing I learned after quitting is, that it's never too late, you can still get better
7 months porn free, and I never want to watch it again, I feel so much better nowadays
Great video dude!
Addiction is not healthy at any age..
@@joelc9439 true words brother
Hey i got a weird question… do you still pleasure yourself tho, without watching P, or do u only have it with your partner (if so) i dont know if the point was to quit pleasuring at all or the watching P thing
I am one minute in and I just paused to say that the way you talk is so enchanting encouraging to me I feel greatness
Luke 6:48 He is like a man which built a house, and digged deep/meditated, and laid the foundation on a rock. And when the flood arose/desires of the emotions/lustful urges, the stream/desire beat vehemently against that house/you, and could not shake it, for it was founded on the rock. Strange how i was thinking of this analogy today and then saw your vid. Thanks Jakky boy🤝
When watching Jaks content I always realize that most of the thing he talks about is grounded in the words of the Bible but he never talks about it in that way.
True that. When I meditate I keep in control of my thoughts and desires which keeps the emotions compressed in a state of submission from the mind. I had done 20-25 days of semen retention and no lustful attraction because I was in a state of being in the present moment and having the awareness of the winds, rivers, and thunder that was at the door shaking the house, but I didn't open the door for the theifs and wolves/negative thoughts but only for my sheep/positive thoughts. We need to be Abel who is the keeper of his sheep/thoughts, but not Cain, for he is the digger of the earth/digging out his own ego and self which is of his own ideas and that we shall not do. Women/emotion shall be submitted to the Man/mind, for the desire of the flesh kills, but the desire of Christ lives. Soz I was yapping.
I love this bro, thank you for your support 🙏❤
I immediately thought of this as well
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
This video, out of nowhere, just randomly popped in my feed while I was death scrolling. I just watched it out of curiousity. But it makes a lot of sense. The confidence you have alone is genuine.
This is my first impression. I will sub and learn more.
1 year ago my friends got me on this shit and I was addicted for a year until on RUclips shorts I saw your channel, it was a signal from god to hit that subscribe button, after a month I never had that feeling again and your such a big help Jake like your the biggest help and u have the best advice I found, you are a great person and everyone is if your reading this and thinking abt quitting, DO IT, it will be the best decision of your life,god bless you guys all
Im commenting before watching this video, I can assure you, this won't change anything ANYTHING
Thanks man, as a 14 year old who struggled with addiction since I was 10 I found this video really helpful and made me want to turn my life around. 🙏🏼
@@detox3330Listen man I don’t know anything and I could just be assuming stuff here, but that sounds a bit strange bro. Maybe don’t ask stuff like that anymore.
At such a young age? Quit social media like instagram or Snapchat bro. Nobody cares. It will just drag you deeper into addiction.
Glad it was helpful man, I remember when I was 14 I was in your exact position, you should be excited for what life has in store for you ❤
Good luck man, remember to make your own decisions, dont let the internet guide your life
I'm 17, been struggling since I was 8 😞
If this is actually your last video of talking about this problem, then I just want to say Thank you for talking about this huge Problem Brother, Thank you for explaining it and For Speaking up, I'm glad that I watched your vids talking about this and other stuff, Thank you for Helping Us Brother, Keep At It and Keep Going Strong 🙏🏻💪🏼
Thank you for your words man, it won’t be my last on the topic, but I probably won’t talk about it for a few months, as this video has 90% of what you need to know if you want to remove it from your life 👊❤️
MAN your amazing your changing so many peoples lives every day
Thanks brother, I am nothing without support like this though, I hope you realise that ❤
@@JakPiggott thanks man
Very comprehensive video. Straight forward, no BS method for quitting an addiction. Though I’ve personally never struggled with such, I appreciate the effort that went into this. Some folks might need the advice.
Thanks G! keep saving lives, as guys we need goals and a foundation to keep it rocksteady so the wind wont blow us down, i completely get your message and i find the reason to quit it, now i know its not gonna be completely cut off but as you said ill cut it off like 10 times lesser than before and achieve my goals keep doing this mate im with you 😊 may us all stay strong in the darkest of times
jak has the first 0.66% of his 3 million
Holy shiet two thousands dollars
It's our Indian currency rupees not dollars @@IncelIncazzato
Oh myyyy gooodddddd wish i had that
It's 2000 rupees around 25 dollers@@IncelIncazzato
I scrolled by this video so many times and then I watched it today and I wanna say thank you brother 🙏🏾
already can tell this is gonna be a good one 5 million views in 4 seconds
😂😂
quitting from today, thanks brother.
it's been 5 days and i feel good. aiming for a month now. wish me luck
Thank you for making this video. You my friend, are a legend. Peace.
Bro deserves his own TED talk 😭. This was so accurate, ty for uploading it
I gotta be honest, I've seen you on Instagram and I've seen some short clips and even tho what you say is true but I never thought that it'll actually have any affect on me
But just like I said
I gotta be honest
I started watching this video and and I thought to myself here's another smart ass guy but honest to God it's like you just spoke from heart, everything I deep down knew was said , that's why I'm writing this long comment, it's not you trying to convince me or anything, it's just you just woke something in me that's been dead for a while
So for that
I thank you
And I can't promise yet because what matters is action but hopefully I'll put this dark period of my life behind and work through challenges so I can go where I need to go in life
Good luck everyone on this journey or any other journey
And thank you God for helping me and bringing me back alive 🙏🏻
Love everybody 🤍
Bro the background music 0:15 🗿🔥🗣️💯
Minecraft
@colepeters9361 I know I was just praising him 🗿🗿🗣️🗣️🔥🔥💯💯
Those who know 💀
Minecraft ❤❤❤❤
@@aven5630 forever 🗿🗿🗿🔥🔥
I'm quitting. If someone likes this, ill get reminded to stay focused please
Keep fighting
I'm 28 and I'm from Kenya bro and you just saved me... I've been having this addiction for years which has affected my life negatively and I can't progress... I'm so behind man... Hope to quit soon... Thanks bro
Soon.... Brother, fast today and ask God to help you. Ask Him to bring an end to it. Avoid apps or situations that trigger it ... I'll be praying for you too
I promise to watch this when I get home from work with a completely open mind
Thank you very much brother. Needed it in the right time.
I’m glad bro ❤️
Thanks very much brother you cured my addiction.🎉@@JakPiggott
I chanced upon this in the middle of a relapse and it helped me stop myself. Thanks to you, I've been reminded what really matters, and what I want from life. Thank you. You're doing God's honest work. Never stop.
4:50 nothing changes if nothing changes
quite deep, ngl, it makes me question myself: do I really want to change something in my life? no, not really, I just want everything to stay the same forever (I'd like to go 4 years back and then I would think so 100%) the reason of my negativity and sadness is the "it will never be the same" feeling, I don't give a f if Iam a millionaire if I wont have my current family or friends 🤷♂️
I paused the video just to write this down and then I seen your comment 📝🏅✅
Naruto, Team Guy, Better than yesterday, better than before. Pretty hard to keep up with
This man is the most useful man i ever found on RUclips he changed my life my perspective his videos are just life changing bro saving thousands of life BIG RESPECT
Thank you for your words bro, but I’m nothing special, just a regular dude ❤️
Hey man, I found you a few months ago, and your videos have really been helping me. That's why I want to add something to this one. These points are based on my experience, and they helped me:
1- Think about the women in the videos: Some of you want to be good men, so consider the actresses. The women in porn are often mistreated. Out of respect for them, DO NOT watch porn and DO NOT support this industry.
2- Think about your younger self: Are you the man you wanted to be? No? Then what are you waiting for? Quit porn and become your own hero.
3- Some of you won't do it because it's scary, but TALK to your parents if you're close to them, your friends, or even to yourself if you have nobody. Talk about it, draw about it, write about it, but express yourself because inside of you, there is something that wants to come out.
I hope this helps some of you. I love you guys. Keep smiling, stay strong, and be proud.
Facts brother, I probably would have continued this video for another 3-5 minutes and mentioned some of these things but I didn't notice my camera was low on battery before recording ❤
Both men and women.. a lot of women also watch p*rn..
Jak, you could always edit the video or make a part 2 if you have the time.
3 is impossible considering my parents would chastise me.
I’m In love with this girl. I don’t want to fuck it up. Like this so I can come back. ❤
I was going so strong 4 months and I relapsed. I felt horrible after and I wanted to curl up in a ball and cry. But I’m gonna stay strong. 1 set back doesn’t mean an excuse it means to persevere
i deadass thought he'd say 10 times more at 0:12 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thought im the only one
Same 😂😂😂
Saaaaame , I was gettin myself ready to laugh or some
I'm already doing it 10 times more after watching this video
We all did
TBH, BEST VIDEO YET, you touched many of the unspoken things and realness with no magic pills or "oh just be discpline sigma bro", thank you, god bless.