November 10th update: I’m still going strong boys, for some reason I have felt almost no lust at all this month which is great, and I’m hoping for it to continue. Of course, an urge will definitely pop up but I think I know what to do when it comes. This was definitely a temporary experience i have learnt from. The support means the world honestly, I will get back to comments later today ❤️❤️
Stay strong my brother!!! We all make mistakes man, don’t beat yourself up, pick yourself backup and stay on track and I know you will, and anybody else seeing this know the same go’s for you. Jack, I’m 22 years old and you’ve inspired me so much with all ur shorts and makes me smile. God bless! Enjoy the tip.
@@JakPiggottPlease brother, don’t let the devil tempt you James 4:7. Please turn to Jesus to help you because you are a good person and if you believe in the Lord then you can be a believer and go to Heaven.❤
We are all human, and mistakes make us grow. It's awesome that you're putting this topic out there because this is not discussed enough. Be proud of yourself for coming this far! I just found your channel, and I wish I had found it sooner. It's nice to see a fellow Australian showing so much self-awareness at such a young age. Hang in there :)
A righteous man falls seven times but shall rise again. Don't focus on lust. You can't beat it. No one can. Focus on God. Only with Him you can beat lust and overcome it, overcome any sin. Focus on God, and every time you see lust coming towards you, recognize it as an attack from the devil
You never beat lust God can help you get away from it but it's impossible to completely beat it, you need to run away from it, as we see here even he couldn't beat it, it's about staying away from it, not facing it or "beating it." not a hate comment just something I learned recently
Hi Jak, I look up to you. I don’t think I could ever be as transparent as you. I’m 18 and I’ve been following lust since around 11 sadly. Years ago I used to do it multiple times a day for a long time then after I found faith in God I fought it for a long time. There’ve been times where I haven’t done it for up to six months but I’ve always relapsed and gone back. Anymore though I lost myself and hate myself, I still do it around once every couple days, but I just honestly don’t care that much. But I wish I did care, I don’t have a lot of purpose in my life so when I don’t have work or something to do or work towards I just scroll on my phone all day. If you see this I would just appreciate a couple words of advice, you seem like someone I would like to be in the future. Much love
Stay strong bro, I'm sure you have an amazing purpose, word of advice you should probably stop scrolling or limit yourself (if you can control) and learn a new skill or something that can take you far
I love this guy, he always pops up on my reels or tiktoks and when they do, its the last reel or tiktok I watch. He reminds me that there i way more to life that wasting time on social media. Today I signed up to the gym and Jak is giving me so much self confidence. He always reminds me that nothing lasts and that I should not be afraid to make mistakes or take risky choices, Jak my guy you really are changing people's lives. Some may call it dumb but your videos really give me confidence and I don't think he gets to hear that enough, I am way happier in life than i was a year ago and all that really changed was my perspective on mistakes and how i see certain situations. Thank you for making such amazing videos
This is not as big as the other tips but i just wanted to say: thank you. I have lost NNN multiple times bcs of my lonliness through social exity and depression. I met a girl that i had never talked to in my class and we talked for hours and i felt alive. I did not do the thing yesterday but now it is urging me. But thank you, bcs of you i feel that mistakes can be made and i want to become better. My new friend will probably help me...
We can't always stay consistent, but it's important that we get back on our feet as soon as possible when we fail. Also, I like these kinds of 'vent' videos where you just share your honest thoughts about things. A lot of self improvement videos make the creator out to be on a pedestal from others and they never show their mistakes, but you've really made yourself feel more 'human' in a way and that takes a lot of bravery to admit that you're not perfect, which so many are scared of doing. Keep doing your thing man, still loving these videos.
I love your words man. I might make more of these kinda videos in the future. I am starting a second channel so I might even put them there, we will see ❤
Man I just gotta say these videos are so convicting to me and your the reason I’m pushing to be better everyday. Keep it up and know there are so many people who love you and appreciate you making wholesome and truthful content like this. It’s truly rare to see now.❤❤ much love brother keep it up
Thanks Jak for being such a positive role model for so many young men. Your videos have really helped me, and it’s really admirable that you can be so honest and genuine. Love from underground 🇮🇪🇦🇺
Thank you so much man. But you did not need to do that. I’ll be happy to send you double via PayPal just for your gesture. Comments like these are the reason I’m still making vids till this day, so thank you again my friend ❤
@@JakPiggott Thank you man, you have changed millions of lives (for the better) and that's one of the most inspirational things I have ever seen and a lot of people I know do not have the confidence to do what you do. You are special to all your viewers and everyone who knows you, so don't think you're not special. :)
This. This why how you got my respect, you are a man of character. You don't dance around it and bluntly admitted your mistake. I really appreciate that since I too have been struggling with these thoughts and the overwhelming guilt that comes when I relapse. But your video that used the house analogy reinforced what I've been thinking recently, to stop punching myself if I do fall, we just need to get up and do better. You got this man, we're all human and screw up. We are all rooting for you and each other!
I relapsed as well, not feeling sorry, as i will get back from this, when i saw your video get recommended i just couldn‘t control myself and i came immediatly, much love bro ❤
Dear Jak. You are so mature and kind. I look up to you and I am 59. That's right. Your wisdom is way beyond your years. I am now watching lots of your videos and have to say that you are teaching me things. Lots of things. I'm so sorry for your dad passing. You love him lots. I've lost both my parents and it's tough. I think you are wonderful. I really look up to you. I wish the world had more people like you in it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me with my life.
Damn that's actually crazy. I don't think I can offer anyone of your age any guidance at all but I am glad you found some value in my content, hearing this means a lot more to me than you think
@JakPiggott .Yes you can offer guidance. By just being your true self. I never grew up. Kind of like " peter pan syndrome ". Sometimes I feel your age. Most times actually. You don't need to be older to have wisdom. Just compassion, understanding and treating people the way you want to be treated. I'm so happy you actually replied. Made me cry a little. Thank you.
Thank you for your honesty Jak. Mistakes happen and this serves as a reminder to so many of us that it's OK and we can always learn and move on from them. All the best❤
Jak, Please do not stress on this desire for lust. This is naturally normal for your building stage and it is very common within people who grind for their future because their minds are screaming them to and while that is proactive, it blinds you from your heart’s wants. Don’t have this subconscious feeling at the back of your mind that you’re overthinking, it will only multiply the problem, just stay consistent with your videos because uploads like these are PERFECT - the silence, nature, and a man to man conversation. Many, and including me, are cheerleading for you Jak because you’re the one who saves our streak, the one who keeps consistent, the person who keeps motivating us to do better for the better of people. Stop and consider your mental state is just my advice, because it just doesn’t feel like that, you know? Much love, brother. ❤
I won't brother, I even stated I was overthinking in this video and if I look back at it now, I definitely was. Thank you for your words my friend, they mean a lot more to me than you think ❤
@@JakPiggott Idk if it matters, but I was subbed around 10k. I came back to this video and your progress on RUclips is incredible! Much love, stay strong! (I resubbed)
We appreciate the honesty man! don't worry about it. Anyone can relapse at any time. Lust is horrible like that. You cant kill it, but instead must run away from it. I've heard of so many people that have been on nofap for 600+ days but as soon as nnn rolls around, they start think about it more and more and fail (not everyone though). You're just getting used to some of the side effects to being successful, don't let that slow you or put you down. You really have inspired me with a lot of your videos to take action in my own life. All of us got lots to thank you for bro, so dont let us down! everytime you fail, get right back up! Thanks and love you bro!
Yeah, I don't know how you do it, but you make me feel over and over again that we are a big family and everyone makes mistakes and we are there to support each other. I think it's your honesty, keep doing like this!
Man, this hit hard. Jak, you’ve put in so much work, and it’s clear that your content has touched a lot of people. Don’t give up just yet! Everyone goes through tough times, but your videos have made such a mark. Whatever you decide, just know that your fans appreciate everything you’ve done. You’ve got a whole community behind you, even on the rough days. Stay strong, bro 💯🔥
Don’t give up tbh I’ve been trying to stop for a year it’s hard but your motivation keeps me and many others going and I’ve stopped for a decent time thank you and remember what you told us about how to overcome that lustful desire
We all fall. One night i was about to do it after 3 years of not doing it. Then i've seen one of your videos, and it saved me. I didn't end up doing it. U don't have to worry about it and i'm really glad u are honest with us. U are the best influencer there is. Thank you.
You got this bro. Your head is in the right place. Your guilt is natural as you know but it is what you do with that, which defines you. Keep inspiring us bro to be greater
reasons of failing 1)loneliness(if you are about to do it u better play with friends or smth else) 2)stimulation(the content you watch affects your lust, even if there is an innocence joke about it. It can stimulate you to do it) This is only information you need and remember it is not gonna change anything in your life, instead you just lose energy and protein so keep your resources in yourself(except of poo and sweat)
Man this actually hit hard...i relapsed after around 30 days...i was yearning for a connection too...i relapsed again and again a lot of times...i feel numb..but stay strong brother...its gonna be alright...we gonna get through this shit..💪💪
As a young teen who’s had some urges, I’ve found your channel so helpful. it really gives me confidence at my low points and helped me with my view on the world so I just want to say thank you so much and stay strong ❤
You failed because you don't want it bad enough, you need to stop now or you will be alone for the rest of your life. M@sturb@ting is what effeminate cu c/ks do, you need to stop watching pornography and cleanse your mind of all perverted thoughts that torment you. This is the first step to healing, cutting of all exposure to disgusting content and instead talking with real girls. I wish you the best brother, if I knew what I know now my youth wouldn't have gone to waste. This is my biggest regret. Read: a 'treatise on diseases produced by onanism' by leopold deslandes for more motivation, as it reveals the deadly implications on long term health due to this addiction. It is free and online e book. I wish you the best.
Honestly, I can't think of any greater feeling as a lonely person, to be waking up to dms of people praising you and on top of that them being women. But everything has it's first time and being able to recover from this and gaining confidence by yourself is what matters, so the fact that you fell doesn't mean it's over, but the fact that you're sharing this shows that you aren't afraid or insecure about it and you're ready to move on. Stay strong and get stronger! 💪
That was my issue, I valued it so much. I know that type of attention doesn't get me anywhere, real satisfaction should come from me actually talking to women in public, and that is what I have learnt from this experience. Thank you for your words man ❤
It's okay bro, we understand it , After all we are humans Mistakes are inevitable, And real courage lies in learning from the mistake and not giving up
I'm so sorry brother. It really is the worst feeling when you're disappointed in yourself. The best thing about is it makes room for growth. Let's grow together and improve to our best selves. Stay strong brother. Trust in the Lord. Love you man
Bro. Don’t stress on it! Just the fact that you’ve gone as long as you can resisting temptations is INSANE alone. Be proud of how far you’ve come! Mistakes happen, and it’s not the end of the world. Regroup and repair and get back to your old self. Appreciate the honesty. It takes a lot of balls to admit something like that. Stay strong brother 💪💪
You are never lonely Jak, take time to look, admire and appreciate the community you have created and founded. We are all here to support each other, you included. Take a step back, get to the root cause and take deep breaths, all is good. Peace my brothas
It's okay even if it's repetitive (which I don't think so, I really enjoy the content you put out). As a girl, your videos are as relatable too, and honestly, girls (or for me, the opposite sex) really can be distractions. It's refreshing to see authenticity and transparency, no one's immune to basic yearning of intimacy and connection that's hardwired in our biological makeup :) Stay strong and keep going, you can do it! I'm sure many people have supported and are supporting you along the way so much, as you've also been a beacon of hope to others (including me) Much love ❤️❤️
Don’t beat yourself up jack, no one is perfect. I’m a teen and struggling with the same situations and then I regret it. We are all sinful just know when you get these urges it’s an attack from the deceiver himself just keep building on yourself and the special girl will come I guaranteed. I’ve been a supporter of yours for about a year now your my number one influencer on RUclips keep strong brother💪blessings
it's alright, Jak. you're still just a kid like all of us here. it's no one to blame. you've gotten this far all alone, infact, more ahead than a few who don't even realise and accept their mistakes. atleast, you're accepting your mistake so openly and i'm proud of you for that. you'll get it back. i believe in you, Jak. let's keep going👊🏻👊🏻
The feeling is natural and slip ups are inevitable Jak. Don't worry about it too much. The community you've built is ready to support you just like you support us every day.
Dont beat urself down with it bro. I still fall into it alot to and i know what ur feeling. Beating unself down will just make it worse. You have to be ok with losing to whatever sin your fighting and it may sound weird but the more you lose the higher chance there is to win. See what you did wrong and improve. Your doing this correct. Sharing your thoughts to people you can trust. Keep doing dis man ur a sigma ong
Stay strong brother, I can only imagine even for this being just for you, having to click upload and feel venerable to the bad truth your speaking of yourself. Love your content
Jak I love you man. You have helped me out of a porn addiction, social anxiety, family problems, and a breakup. Now I have a better relationship with my parents, I have mostly gotten past my anxiety, and I’ve had a loving girlfriend for 6 months. I love you man. Thanks ❤
Don't worry, bro. We all make mistakes and that's the part of our life. You motivated me not to give up after relapses and it seems that I have some success with the girl I like rn. And that's all thanks to you. Just keep being strong, bro. We're with you 💪
It is all good, Master Piggot. You have been a great influence on me, and have been of great assistance in helping me to quit porn and masturbation. I have been clean 6 weeks now and haven't masturbated for two weeks. One thing I would recommend is find an older man you trust and make him your accountablity partner. This was a game changer for me, I trust him as he is a member of my church as will as a Firefighter brother. I know he has my back. I will pray for you Jak, that you may rise again. Thank you, John
Haha thank you John. I am no master though, not even close. This was a little slip up on my end, I know if I dedicate myself to anything I can achieve it, so I'm not stressing at all. I've done it before and I can do it again ❤
Cool to see this. You described it exactly. It's the feeling of loneliness and how you feel after you do the act. Only other vid I had watched of yours was the how to quit one. Thanks for being honest and posting this. I hope things have gone well this month and that your exams go well. You're not even in your mid-20s yet, and you already have such a strong and healthy mindset and ability to lead a positive and fulfilling life. Keep up the great work, bro. We all support you and thanks for supporting us.
YES!!! that's exactly her name (Mrs Patricia Vesely ) so many people have recommended highly about her and I'm just starting with her from United States'of America, Florida 🇺🇸
What u did right here...just yapping, it really helps. I don't yap..cus I don't have anyone like that to talk to. But I write. You're gunuinely my reflection man. As an 16 y/o boy I can proudly say that I look up to you like my elder brother.
It's okay Jak.❤ I've been feeling rather alone lately too. Just a little down. But some days are just bad days, you have to experience sadness to know happiness. I remind myself everyday is not going to be a good day, that's just the way it is. When you learn to realise that everything in your life seems feels alot less heavy. (Atleast it does for me 😅)
Bro I could never be so honest. Even with myself. This man is honest and genuinely a great person. Hope y’all are going strong through November, we all got this 💯
It's ok Jack, we all trip up. And the fact that ur so honest is amazing. I've been through it before and kinda still in withdrawal myself. You'll get through it. I don't really know what else to say
I feel you, man. I am very lonely, I have no friends. I have never had a lover before. And I used to read so many adult fanfictions just to try to fulfil this emptiness in my heart. 11 days clean and I am currently struggling a little. I will try to meditate, perhaps that will help me.
I am 13 yr old and I am doing my first NNN this November. So far I am completely clean and still going strong. Hoping to make my first NNN a complete success.
Your timing is immaculate, I've been struggling to. Actually quite similar to what you're going through. This has really made me stop and realize the problem
Jak you dont know how much this reached me, sharing your story really encourages me to stay strong, this past week Ive been so close to "relapsing" and even kinda had it in the works, but youve helped me to stay strong. Thank you keep up the work
I’m only 14 but I’ve been subbed for a year or so, but I found you when i was trying to escape lust. I can’t get away and just keep relapsing. Can you help me please Jak? I don’t want to live like this man. I always support aussies, and am a tassie boy myself, but anyway please man, I need help
Thank you dude, i dont think you really will ever realize the actual amount of impact you have on people, millions of people look up to you, youve saved lives, just take a look at what you have accomplished and be proud of yourself instead of always thinking you can do more. Keep up the good work bro!
You need to read, a treatise of diseases produced by onanism written by physician leopold deslandes there is a free copy available online. This book is all I needed to read to stop sinning. M@sturb@tion is slowly killing you and it is revealed in this book. It causes you to become effeminate, you lose muscle mass and your testosterone lowers as you constantly release your semen. If you want to be with a girl one day, you must stop now.
As many of the comments are saying on this video - it's only one "mistake," I wouldn't even call my own situation a mistake because I learnt a valuable lesson from it 👊
I am so glad you made this i have been stuggling so bad with lust and hadn’t beat it in akmost a year and i was struggling with my self for falling back in but i saw this and it has helped me thank you h=you have helped me get out of my old self into the new i have started a business and have been working on my self thank you so much man love you you got this live great
I was scrolling reels the other day and stumbled across a thirst trap that just hit me so hard. I looked at it pretty long and somehow I could feel myself almost coming just by looking at it, like wtf. I was fully clothed and not touching myself or anything, just sitting at my setup looking for some funny ig comments and shit. How crazy is it to just relapse by looking at something for too long, I never thought that was possible but I also thought I could have done it there if I tried. But of course I put it away cause I was a week in NNN and no shot that this would get me. I probably resensitized myself which is a massive sign of progress, just thought it's funny to share
wow i love how honest you are abt this kind of stuff. i love how u recognize that u shouldnt b doing it. i really look up to u a lot. we all make mistakes and im glad youve learned from urs. ive been n a similar situation as u, its nice to know im not alone. thank you so much for this vid. :)
This feeling of loneliness you feel is your desire for God catching up to you. We were made to be in fellowship with God, and we need Him. we can run from Him and fix our lives on our own, but nothing will permanently fill our loneliness other than Him. The crazy part is we all go against Him daily and He still loves us and still died for us. He was thinking of you when He died on the cross. He wants a relationship with you, and deep down, you want it too, but it disguises itself as a loneliness that can be cured by girls. You have great messages to share, and many of your values are very close to biblical values. I pray you encounter Jesus and He changes your life. There's so much more to life than just this earth. This yearning goes much deeper than those messages, it's God tugging at your heart. He is showing you the void that nothing can fill and telling you "I can fix that". God wants a relationship with you and he still would've died the same death if you were the only person to ever need saving from sin. And if you don't believe there is a God I just ask that you give Him a chance to show Himself to you and He will change your life.
That's so true brother. You did not need to donate but I really appreciate that. I would give it back if I could. Many people need to hear your message, including me ❤
Pray for his guidance, and he will help us. It takes patience, but we must learn to accept it and follow his directions. Bless you for sharing God's love. ❤🙏
@@JakPiggott Praying for you brother, I love what you do and the lives you changed from this channel, i don’t believe a single dollar of this donation went to waste. Keep up the good work!
Don't worry about it brother, we all fall down sometimes but we shouldn't beat ourselves up about it, just stay focused and don't be too harsh for yourself, we can get through this, I know we can.
November 10th update: I’m still going strong boys, for some reason I have felt almost no lust at all this month which is great, and I’m hoping for it to continue. Of course, an urge will definitely pop up but I think I know what to do when it comes. This was definitely a temporary experience i have learnt from. The support means the world honestly, I will get back to comments later today ❤️❤️
Good luck!
we're all rooting for you mate ^^ keep calm and carry on
Good to hear! I will be praying for you. Greetings from New York.
Rooting for you!
Stay Strong! we can make it through this we just have to believe
This guy is so honest to his audience, he is litrally the best influenceer ever.
I'm not sure if he's the best since I don't watch that type of stuff - however, Jak really is one of the best. Indeed.
He is definitely the best for me
He's lying: they were men dming him and he's a power bottom so loves it
@@GaryGeezer-l2s You were that only men DMING him, weren't you?
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The fact that nobody talks about the book NoFap Rebirth Project, speaks volumes about how people are stuck in life.
Stay strong my brother!!! We all make mistakes man, don’t beat yourself up, pick yourself backup and stay on track and I know you will, and anybody else seeing this know the same go’s for you. Jack, I’m 22 years old and you’ve inspired me so much with all ur shorts and makes me smile. God bless! Enjoy the tip.
Massive W, respect to you man.
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@@IShädøwsI-i2j you dont know how much this means to him....
@@IShädøwsI-i2jimagine everyone who watched donated $10 or even $1
“You only fail if you stop trying” don’t give up!
100% ❤️
Bro, I also feels lust these days.. does my nofab is a dream😢?
when one trys one will fail. if you aren't failing than you are doing something wrong brother
@@JakPiggottPlease brother, don’t let the devil tempt you James 4:7. Please turn to Jesus to help you because you are a good person and if you believe in the Lord then you can be a believer and go to Heaven.❤
I'm stealing this and use it
We are all human, and mistakes make us grow. It's awesome that you're putting this topic out there because this is not discussed enough. Be proud of yourself for coming this far!
I just found your channel, and I wish I had found it sooner. It's nice to see a fellow Australian showing so much self-awareness at such a young age. Hang in there :)
Man you did not need to donate but thank you very much. I will use that for good, much love my friend 🇦🇺❤
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@@salah_lol wow
Dude thanks for donating to the guy God bless you
Please Can you make him see my message that I sent him via email , I cannot reach him and I cannot donate 😔
A righteous man falls seven times but shall rise again.
Don't focus on lust. You can't beat it. No one can. Focus on God. Only with Him you can beat lust and overcome it, overcome any sin.
Focus on God, and every time you see lust coming towards you, recognize it as an attack from the devil
You read my mind!
You will despise lust, when you walk with God.
Amen Brotha.
Amen
You never beat lust God can help you get away from it but it's impossible to completely beat it, you need to run away from it, as we see here even he couldn't beat it, it's about staying away from it, not facing it or "beating it." not a hate comment just something I learned recently
This comment section is so positive, i like it
Hell yeah brother 🎉
Yeah I’m actually so lucky to have support like this, I thought it may have been more negative 😂❤️
HELL YEHA
Yeah wish it had some jokes too, they're so serious though 😂
@@JakPiggott it's not luck. It's God
was close to relapsing and this pops up. thanks man
Good, keep up the good work man. If you ever lose NNN then start NNL
Yeh i failed NNN and now im Doing NNL no nut life@@Senjero
@@Senjero what is NNL?
I'm at 35 days atm. Second longest streak ever was 10 days. Religion was what finally did it.
@@TommysonKhaidemNo nut life
Hi Jak, I look up to you. I don’t think I could ever be as transparent as you. I’m 18 and I’ve been following lust since around 11 sadly. Years ago I used to do it multiple times a day for a long time then after I found faith in God I fought it for a long time. There’ve been times where I haven’t done it for up to six months but I’ve always relapsed and gone back. Anymore though I lost myself and hate myself, I still do it around once every couple days, but I just honestly don’t care that much. But I wish I did care, I don’t have a lot of purpose in my life so when I don’t have work or something to do or work towards I just scroll on my phone all day. If you see this I would just appreciate a couple words of advice, you seem like someone I would like to be in the future. Much love
Stay strong bro, I'm sure you have an amazing purpose, word of advice you should probably stop scrolling or limit yourself (if you can control) and learn a new skill or something that can take you far
Please Can you make him see my message that I sent him via email , I cannot reach him and I cannot donate 😔
@@SV7_EDITZ Please Can you make him see my message that I sent him via email , I cannot reach him and I cannot donate 😔
been struggling to man
@@SV7_EDITZ appreciate you brother, I’ll definitely try to find a hobby that I can invest some of my time into.
I love this guy, he always pops up on my reels or tiktoks and when they do, its the last reel or tiktok I watch. He reminds me that there i way more to life that wasting time on social media. Today I signed up to the gym and Jak is giving me so much self confidence. He always reminds me that nothing lasts and that I should not be afraid to make mistakes or take risky choices, Jak my guy you really are changing people's lives. Some may call it dumb but your videos really give me confidence and I don't think he gets to hear that enough, I am way happier in life than i was a year ago and all that really changed was my perspective on mistakes and how i see certain situations. Thank you for making such amazing videos
Don’t worry about it jack, stuff happens you taught me it’s about how you react
Was that on purpose?..
@@mountainman9751 don’t cuss bro
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NOOOO BRO. STAY FOCUSED ON BEING BETTER!! DON'T GIVE UP!
It's fine everyone makes mistakes
i never fall into lust, i dont even think about it.
thats why i never masturbated or watched porn in my life
Thank you brother, I won’t. This was a little mistake I will not let turn into anything damaging ❤️
I thought for a moment it said "I fell back into lust for boys again"🤣🤣🤣
doing that stuff isnt the problem as you've said, its the fact sometimes it feels uncontralble, you've got this man
This is not as big as the other tips but i just wanted to say: thank you. I have lost NNN multiple times bcs of my lonliness through social exity and depression. I met a girl that i had never talked to in my class and we talked for hours and i felt alive. I did not do the thing yesterday but now it is urging me. But thank you, bcs of you i feel that mistakes can be made and i want to become better. My new friend will probably help me...
The Most Honest Fallen Soldier, Your the Best Man! GL
Just tryna spread a good message bro ❤
We can't always stay consistent, but it's important that we get back on our feet as soon as possible when we fail. Also, I like these kinds of 'vent' videos where you just share your honest thoughts about things. A lot of self improvement videos make the creator out to be on a pedestal from others and they never show their mistakes, but you've really made yourself feel more 'human' in a way and that takes a lot of bravery to admit that you're not perfect, which so many are scared of doing. Keep doing your thing man, still loving these videos.
I love your words man. I might make more of these kinda videos in the future. I am starting a second channel so I might even put them there, we will see ❤
Great comment man! I also love the fact that you are a Persona fan. Persona really help me shape my philosophy and overall beliefs! Keep it up!
“it’s not about how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.”
Stay hard bruddah
@ always
@@Robin-w9mhard? But ....but what about when you're in public!
@@GeneralJiyaanno bro 😭
Hello again John
the fact that nobody talks about Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood speaks volumes about how people are stuck in trance
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Man I just gotta say these videos are so convicting to me and your the reason I’m pushing to be better everyday. Keep it up and know there are so many people who love you and appreciate you making wholesome and truthful content like this. It’s truly rare to see now.❤❤ much love brother keep it up
Whatever y'all are going through right now, I believe you can overcome it, just keep trying and eventually it will get better!💪 God bless you!
The largest and strongest trees take the longest to grow ❤
@@JakPiggottbut how thick are they? 😂
Thanks Jak for being such a positive role model for so many young men. Your videos have really helped me, and it’s really admirable that you can be so honest and genuine. Love from underground 🇮🇪🇦🇺
i would tip too but im broke :( Stay strong!
Thank you so much man. But you did not need to do that. I’ll be happy to send you double via PayPal just for your gesture. Comments like these are the reason I’m still making vids till this day, so thank you again my friend ❤
@@benju725no brother please don’t feel bad, I do not deserve any tips, anyone could do what I do and yap on camera, I am nothing special ❤
@@JakPiggottnot true, not many people have the balls to record themself talking about how they did something bad like this if im being honest..
@@JakPiggott Thank you man, you have changed millions of lives (for the better) and that's one of the most inspirational things I have ever seen and a lot of people I know do not have the confidence to do what you do. You are special to all your viewers and everyone who knows you, so don't think you're not special. :)
Happens to the best of us. Stay strong brother!
Will do brother, thank you ❤
@@JakPiggott Stay strong man💪❤️
@@JakPiggott same happend to me how do I break free
This. This why how you got my respect, you are a man of character. You don't dance around it and bluntly admitted your mistake. I really appreciate that since I too have been struggling with these thoughts and the overwhelming guilt that comes when I relapse.
But your video that used the house analogy reinforced what I've been thinking recently, to stop punching myself if I do fall, we just need to get up and do better. You got this man, we're all human and screw up. We are all rooting for you and each other!
I relapsed as well, not feeling sorry, as i will get back from this, when i saw your video get recommended i just couldn‘t control myself and i came immediatly, much love bro ❤
I’m confused did he hooks up with a girl or did he go on the hub?
I smiled seeing the thumbnail in nothing but only pure massive respect for you bro
I swear you’re behind one of the most motivational realest hero’s!
Aye thank you brother, just being as honest and transparent as I can ❤
Dear Jak. You are so mature and kind. I look up to you and I am 59. That's right. Your wisdom is way beyond your years. I am now watching lots of your videos and have to say that you are teaching me things. Lots of things. I'm so sorry for your dad passing. You love him lots. I've lost both my parents and it's tough. I think you are wonderful. I really look up to you. I wish the world had more people like you in it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me with my life.
Damn that's actually crazy. I don't think I can offer anyone of your age any guidance at all but I am glad you found some value in my content, hearing this means a lot more to me than you think
@JakPiggott .Yes you can offer guidance. By just being your true self. I never grew up. Kind of like " peter pan syndrome ". Sometimes I feel your age. Most times actually. You don't need to be older to have wisdom. Just compassion, understanding and treating people the way you want to be treated. I'm so happy you actually replied. Made me cry a little. Thank you.
You may have fell into lust yourself, but you helped millions escape it.
Thank you brother, I am not perfect but I have learnt from that experience 100% ❤
@@JakPiggott It is just the beauty of humanity. How we are able to be pulled down so our character is built by climbing back up.
Such a deep comment...
“I lead others to a treasure I can't possess”
These things help me so much, these videos and your shorts help me a lot. Finding you was one of the best things that happened to me.
This is a real "Influencer". Wonderful job Jak, you're doing great work for yourself and us all.
Thank you for your honesty Jak. Mistakes happen and this serves as a reminder to so many of us that it's OK and we can always learn and move on from them. All the best❤
Thank you Adelina, your support means the world 🙏
@JakPiggott 🙏❤️
Jak,
Please do not stress on this desire for lust. This is naturally normal for your building stage and it is very common within people who grind for their future because their minds are screaming them to and while that is proactive, it blinds you from your heart’s wants.
Don’t have this subconscious feeling at the back of your mind that you’re overthinking, it will only multiply the problem, just stay consistent with your videos because uploads like these are PERFECT - the silence, nature, and a man to man conversation.
Many, and including me, are cheerleading for you Jak because you’re the one who saves our streak, the one who keeps consistent, the person who keeps motivating us to do better for the better of people. Stop and consider your mental state is just my advice, because it just doesn’t feel like that, you know?
Much love, brother. ❤
I won't brother, I even stated I was overthinking in this video and if I look back at it now, I definitely was. Thank you for your words my friend, they mean a lot more to me than you think ❤
@@JakPiggott Idk if it matters, but I was subbed around 10k. I came back to this video and your progress on RUclips is incredible! Much love, stay strong! (I resubbed)
@JakPiggott hey man I've failed sfter 16th day my last record was 10 days how can I quit this I feel like shit man
We appreciate the honesty man! don't worry about it. Anyone can relapse at any time. Lust is horrible like that. You cant kill it, but instead must run away from it. I've heard of so many people that have been on nofap for 600+ days but as soon as nnn rolls around, they start think about it more and more and fail (not everyone though). You're just getting used to some of the side effects to being successful, don't let that slow you or put you down. You really have inspired me with a lot of your videos to take action in my own life. All of us got lots to thank you for bro, so dont let us down! everytime you fail, get right back up! Thanks and love you bro!
Yeah, I don't know how you do it, but you make me feel over and over again that we are a big family and everyone makes mistakes and we are there to support each other. I think it's your honesty, keep doing like this!
you shouldn’t do stuff like nofap, just forget about corn in general and your life will be great
Thank you for your words brother, I learnt from this experience so I'm actually extremely glad it happened ❤
My guy needs so much more popularity. With his honest and truthful he is, he deserves it. He deserves better. We are rooting for you
You’ve helped me so much through this last year and being lonely you’ve helped me a lot thank you❤❤
Man, this hit hard. Jak, you’ve put in so much work, and it’s clear that your content has touched a lot of people. Don’t give up just yet! Everyone goes through tough times, but your videos have made such a mark. Whatever you decide, just know that your fans appreciate everything you’ve done. You’ve got a whole community behind you, even on the rough days. Stay strong, bro 💯🔥
Thank you my friend, this was actually a massive learning experience for me, bigger than I thought at the time of recording this video ❤
@@JakPiggott no problem jak
We all fall down sometimes brother, it takes courage to bounce back up. Keep strong fam.
Will do brother, thank you ❤
Don’t give up tbh I’ve been trying to stop for a year it’s hard but your motivation keeps me and many others going and I’ve stopped for a decent time thank you and remember what you told us about how to overcome that lustful desire
We all fall.
One night i was about to do it after 3 years of not doing it.
Then i've seen one of your videos, and it saved me. I didn't end up doing it. U don't have to worry about it and i'm really glad u are honest with us. U are the best influencer there is. Thank you.
YOU CANT BREAK NNN, honestly, you are my #1 insparational youtuber ever, because you tell the truth and want to help your fans.
You got this bro. Your head is in the right place. Your guilt is natural as you know but it is what you do with that, which defines you. Keep inspiring us bro to be greater
Much appreciated my brother, thank you ❤
reasons of failing
1)loneliness(if you are about to do it u better play with friends or smth else)
2)stimulation(the content you watch affects your lust, even if there is an innocence joke about it. It can stimulate you to do it)
This is only information you need
and remember it is not gonna change anything in your life, instead you just lose energy and protein so keep your resources in yourself(except of poo and sweat)
I think you're right and 99% of "relapses" can be boiled down to those 2 reasons, at least that's evident in my own life
Man this actually hit hard...i relapsed after around 30 days...i was yearning for a connection too...i relapsed again and again a lot of times...i feel numb..but stay strong brother...its gonna be alright...we gonna get through this shit..💪💪
Bro just release 🤦♂️
@@Mason-.- release what ?
@@ImprovingDude release that nut urge
@@ImprovingDude release the urge to do it
@@ImprovingDude sperm
As a young teen who’s had some urges, I’ve found your channel so helpful. it really gives me confidence at my low points and helped me with my view on the world so I just want to say thank you so much and stay strong ❤
Glad you have someone to lean on, while being that young. Respect to you for wanting to be a better person and grow from Jak. Keep your head up, G.
My dyslexic ass thought it said i fell back into lust for boys again
Same! Lol
Failed NNN today and this video really helped me. Still going to go strong for the rest of this month.
Thanks, Jak.
Same here man. I failed too on day one, haha 😅. I guess it’s good to remember it could always be worse than it is now.
thats fuckin nuts no pun intended
You failed because you don't want it bad enough, you need to stop now or you will be alone for the rest of your life. M@sturb@ting is what effeminate cu c/ks do, you need to stop watching pornography and cleanse your mind of all perverted thoughts that torment you. This is the first step to healing, cutting of all exposure to disgusting content and instead talking with real girls. I wish you the best brother, if I knew what I know now my youth wouldn't have gone to waste. This is my biggest regret. Read: a 'treatise on diseases produced by onanism' by leopold deslandes for more motivation, as it reveals the deadly implications on long term health due to this addiction. It is free and online e book. I wish you the best.
@@Kablooey81 LMAO
Skill issue
Honestly, I can't think of any greater feeling as a lonely person, to be waking up to dms of people praising you and on top of that them being women. But everything has it's first time and being able to recover from this and gaining confidence by yourself is what matters, so the fact that you fell doesn't mean it's over, but the fact that you're sharing this shows that you aren't afraid or insecure about it and you're ready to move on. Stay strong and get stronger! 💪
That was my issue, I valued it so much. I know that type of attention doesn't get me anywhere, real satisfaction should come from me actually talking to women in public, and that is what I have learnt from this experience. Thank you for your words man ❤
It's okay bro, we understand it , After all we are humans Mistakes are inevitable, And real courage lies in learning from the mistake and not giving up
100% brother, and I am no different, thank you ❤
I'm so sorry brother. It really is the worst feeling when you're disappointed in yourself. The best thing about is it makes room for growth. Let's grow together and improve to our best selves. Stay strong brother. Trust in the Lord. Love you man
I’m confused did he hooks up with a girl or did he go on the hub?
This is why you’re one of my favorite content creators, you’re transparent and honest with your audience, don’t worry bro you got this 💪
I’m confused did he hooks up with a girl or did he go on the hub?
Bro. Don’t stress on it! Just the fact that you’ve gone as long as you can resisting temptations is INSANE alone. Be proud of how far you’ve come! Mistakes happen, and it’s not the end of the world. Regroup and repair and get back to your old self. Appreciate the honesty. It takes a lot of balls to admit something like that. Stay strong brother 💪💪
You are never lonely Jak, take time to look, admire and appreciate the community you have created and founded. We are all here to support each other, you included. Take a step back, get to the root cause and take deep breaths, all is good. Peace my brothas
It's okay even if it's repetitive (which I don't think so, I really enjoy the content you put out). As a girl, your videos are as relatable too, and honestly, girls (or for me, the opposite sex) really can be distractions. It's refreshing to see authenticity and transparency, no one's immune to basic yearning of intimacy and connection that's hardwired in our biological makeup :) Stay strong and keep going, you can do it! I'm sure many people have supported and are supporting you along the way so much, as you've also been a beacon of hope to others (including me)
Much love ❤️❤️
Don’t beat yourself up jack, no one is perfect. I’m a teen and struggling with the same situations and then I regret it. We are all sinful just know when you get these urges it’s an attack from the deceiver himself just keep building on yourself and the special girl will come I guaranteed. I’ve been a supporter of yours for about a year now your my number one influencer on RUclips keep strong brother💪blessings
it's alright, Jak. you're still just a kid like all of us here. it's no one to blame. you've gotten this far all alone, infact, more ahead than a few who don't even realise and accept their mistakes. atleast, you're accepting your mistake so openly and i'm proud of you for that. you'll get it back. i believe in you, Jak. let's keep going👊🏻👊🏻
Haha I know that brother, thank you ❤
@@JakPiggott i'm not brother, but yeah you're most welcome, my brotha❤️
Jak, so did I. We all make mistakes. You are just the best, so honest
The feeling is natural and slip ups are inevitable Jak. Don't worry about it too much. The community you've built is ready to support you just like you support us every day.
I’m confused did he hooks up with a girl or did he go on the hub?
@ neither, he just looked at women's dms and felt desperation towards physical affection
Dont beat urself down with it bro. I still fall into it alot to and i know what ur feeling. Beating unself down will just make it worse.
You have to be ok with losing to whatever sin your fighting and it may sound weird but the more you lose the higher chance there is to win. See what you did wrong and improve.
Your doing this correct. Sharing your thoughts to people you can trust. Keep doing dis man ur a sigma ong
This is what social media was really meant for. Helping our fellow humans. Ty brother 🙏
You are the most honest guy ive ever seen on youtube, this content feels so much more authentic than anything else ive watched
We all make mistakes brother don’t worry about it and bounce back
Its all good brother, we all make mistakes and that's okay, you're a strong human being for admitting this, take care ❤
Love you bro . Stay strong I always believe in you
Wow! I don't know what that equates to in USD, but that looks like you're rich!
You did not need to do this bro, but thank you so much, honestly, I don’t even know why I deserve it ❤️
@@justinAtkinson-f2oi checked, it's about 5 bucks :3
Did you just drop a year's salary 😭
@@jakekiper9294 it's about 5 bucks :3
Stay strong brother, I can only imagine even for this being just for you, having to click upload and feel venerable to the bad truth your speaking of yourself. Love your content
At least I'm not alone 😞 I relapsed too.
Stay strong brothers and make us proud 🥲
Cheers Jak I know how ya feel mate but I always tell myself “the pain I feel today is the pleasure I feel tomorrow” and it helps a lot
I keep forgetting how young this guy is! Don’t worry man you have tons of time to improve 💪
Jak I love you man. You have helped me out of a porn addiction, social anxiety, family problems, and a breakup. Now I have a better relationship with my parents, I have mostly gotten past my anxiety, and I’ve had a loving girlfriend for 6 months. I love you man. Thanks ❤
Don't worry, bro. We all make mistakes and that's the part of our life. You motivated me not to give up after relapses and it seems that I have some success with the girl I like rn. And that's all thanks to you. Just keep being strong, bro. We're with you 💪
The most honest influencer ever, hats off man
Can't believe we are both in year 12. His maturity is exponentially higher than mine. Insane.
It is all good, Master Piggot. You have been a great influence on me, and have been of great assistance in helping me to quit porn and masturbation. I have been clean 6 weeks now and haven't masturbated for two weeks. One thing I would recommend is find an older man you trust and make him your accountablity partner. This was a game changer for me, I trust him as he is a member of my church as will as a Firefighter brother. I know he has my back. I will pray for you Jak, that you may rise again. Thank you, John
Haha thank you John. I am no master though, not even close. This was a little slip up on my end, I know if I dedicate myself to anything I can achieve it, so I'm not stressing at all. I've done it before and I can do it again ❤
@@JakPiggott The title master is given to young men who aren't married but aren't boys either, sorry for the confusion. Lol
Cool to see this. You described it exactly. It's the feeling of loneliness and how you feel after you do the act. Only other vid I had watched of yours was the how to quit one. Thanks for being honest and posting this. I hope things have gone well this month and that your exams go well. You're not even in your mid-20s yet, and you already have such a strong and healthy mindset and ability to lead a positive and fulfilling life. Keep up the great work, bro. We all support you and thanks for supporting us.
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Sounds good, how do you do that? I'm interested, how do I go about getting started?
Do you invest with a broker??I'd appreciate it if you show me how to go about it.
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What u did right here...just yapping, it really helps. I don't yap..cus I don't have anyone like that to talk to. But I write. You're gunuinely my reflection man. As an 16 y/o boy I can proudly say that I look up to you like my elder brother.
Sup my guy I'm also 16 and I don't yap either lol
@@gerardoepicardo LOL what u do then?
@@pros3494 idk man i just stand there awkwardly
what is the meaning of yap
@@gerardoepicardo Music helps man..
It's okay Jak.❤ I've been feeling rather alone lately too. Just a little down.
But some days are just bad days, you have to experience sadness to know happiness. I remind myself everyday is not going to be a good day, that's just the way it is. When you learn to realise that everything in your life seems feels alot less heavy.
(Atleast it does for me 😅)
Bro I could never be so honest. Even with myself. This man is honest and genuinely a great person. Hope y’all are going strong through November, we all got this 💯
It's ok Jack, we all trip up. And the fact that ur so honest is amazing. I've been through it before and kinda still in withdrawal myself. You'll get through it. I don't really know what else to say
It’s alright Man U will always improve give it time trust.
I feel you, man.
I am very lonely, I have no friends.
I have never had a lover before.
And I used to read so many adult fanfictions just to try to fulfil this emptiness in my heart.
11 days clean and I am currently struggling a little.
I will try to meditate, perhaps that will help me.
Stay strong, You can try praying or meditate, I am self harming and it helps me often. Just dont be mad at yourself because that will not help.
Do some outdoor activities. Avoid staying in your room for long hours.
Me too
I am 13 yr old and I am doing my first NNN this November. So far I am completely clean and still going strong. Hoping to make my first NNN a complete success.
dang bro your 13? stay strong brother you got this.
It's affecting us you people
Your timing is immaculate, I've been struggling to. Actually quite similar to what you're going through. This has really made me stop and realize the problem
Jak you dont know how much this reached me, sharing your story really encourages me to stay strong, this past week Ive been so close to "relapsing" and even kinda had it in the works, but youve helped me to stay strong. Thank you keep up the work
Everyone makes mistakes man, what matters is what we learn from them and become more resilient. Much love brotha♥
I’m only 14 but I’ve been subbed for a year or so, but I found you when i was trying to escape lust. I can’t get away and just keep relapsing. Can you help me please Jak? I don’t want to live like this man. I always support aussies, and am a tassie boy myself, but anyway please man, I need help
ask Jesus for help
@ tried that long ago but I have never stopped asking Him
3:55 “mozzies bro” haha, as an aussie, i 100% agree with this😂
Thank you dude, i dont think you really will ever realize the actual amount of impact you have on people, millions of people look up to you, youve saved lives, just take a look at what you have accomplished and be proud of yourself instead of always thinking you can do more. Keep up the good work bro!
I love how you're always so transparent with these, it's very humbling.
24 secs is new for me, the title is what happened with me aswell, now i'll watch the vid
I’m confused did he hooks up with a girl or did he go on the hub?
@Salmarules the hub
I just fell to lust today . I felt guilty until I saw this video. Thank you . I felt helpless. I must go back up
A righteous man falls 7 times but gets back up. Get back up brother. You got this man
@@lazersharkproductions5622 thank you
You got this man
You need to read, a treatise of diseases produced by onanism written by physician leopold deslandes there is a free copy available online. This book is all I needed to read to stop sinning. M@sturb@tion is slowly killing you and it is revealed in this book. It causes you to become effeminate, you lose muscle mass and your testosterone lowers as you constantly release your semen. If you want to be with a girl one day, you must stop now.
As many of the comments are saying on this video - it's only one "mistake," I wouldn't even call my own situation a mistake because I learnt a valuable lesson from it 👊
No worries man november is the hardest month ngl 😂
This video was made before november LOL
5:44
NNN is easy if you distract urself
@@PPEPSII_3 not if you have blue b*lls, I failed on the 1st bro 😭
failed gotta continue till november 40th
@@ezra_so_fr you gotta wait til next year
I am so glad you made this i have been stuggling so bad with lust and hadn’t beat it in akmost a year and i was struggling with my self for falling back in but i saw this and it has helped me thank you h=you have helped me get out of my old self into the new i have started a business and have been working on my self thank you so much man love you you got this live great
this is exactly what is happening to me a couple of days back. Thanks gor the video Jak🖤🖤🖤
Jak has fallen into temptation! 😢🙏
i never fall into lust, i dont even think about it.
thats why i never masturbated or watched porn in my life
NOOO STAY FOCUSED BRO!
i mean he is a human not a robot so we all have to forgive him i mean it's not like that he did anything, all he did is to make us strong
I was scrolling reels the other day and stumbled across a thirst trap that just hit me so hard. I looked at it pretty long and somehow I could feel myself almost coming just by looking at it, like wtf. I was fully clothed and not touching myself or anything, just sitting at my setup looking for some funny ig comments and shit. How crazy is it to just relapse by looking at something for too long, I never thought that was possible but I also thought I could have done it there if I tried. But of course I put it away cause I was a week in NNN and no shot that this would get me. I probably resensitized myself which is a massive sign of progress, just thought it's funny to share
wow i love how honest you are abt this kind of stuff. i love how u recognize that u shouldnt b doing it. i really look up to u a lot. we all make mistakes and im glad youve learned from urs. ive been n a similar situation as u, its nice to know im not alone. thank you so much for this vid. :)
This feeling of loneliness you feel is your desire for God catching up to you. We were made to be in fellowship with God, and we need Him. we can run from Him and fix our lives on our own, but nothing will permanently fill our loneliness other than Him. The crazy part is we all go against Him daily and He still loves us and still died for us. He was thinking of you when He died on the cross. He wants a relationship with you, and deep down, you want it too, but it disguises itself as a loneliness that can be cured by girls. You have great messages to share, and many of your values are very close to biblical values. I pray you encounter Jesus and He changes your life. There's so much more to life than just this earth. This yearning goes much deeper than those messages, it's God tugging at your heart. He is showing you the void that nothing can fill and telling you "I can fix that". God wants a relationship with you and he still would've died the same death if you were the only person to ever need saving from sin. And if you don't believe there is a God I just ask that you give Him a chance to show Himself to you and He will change your life.
Real 🙏
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That's so true brother. You did not need to donate but I really appreciate that. I would give it back if I could. Many people need to hear your message, including me ❤
Pray for his guidance, and he will help us. It takes patience, but we must learn to accept it and follow his directions. Bless you for sharing God's love. ❤🙏
@@JakPiggott Praying for you brother, I love what you do and the lives you changed from this channel, i don’t believe a single dollar of this donation went to waste. Keep up the good work!
This stuff is supposed to happen to kids like us. It’s fine and if you believe you shouldn’t then eventually you will stop
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Hi Jak,
Yesterday I failed NNN. 8 days is my new best streak, but I'm so frustrated with myself. I really want to just quit this crap :(
It's okay bro I failed too we gotta change
Don't worry about it brother, we all fall down sometimes but we shouldn't beat ourselves up about it, just stay focused and don't be too harsh for yourself, we can get through this, I know we can.
delay your NNN by a month and try it on december
I been there man, but you just gotta keep going don’t give up
@@ejtako imma try this ty