How to Pick Up a Woman at a Bar
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- Опубликовано: 21 дек 2016
- Alright, kids, let’s assume for a moment that you aren’t just meeting a Tinder date at that bar you’re going to and you’re actually looking to someone. We’ve decided to help you in your pursuit. Playboy enlisted the best bartenders in America to speak on the subject of picking up women, because they’re out there every single night seeing men succeed, but also watching them crash and burn. So they’ve shared with us the signals you should look for and the approach you should take when picking up a woman in a bar.
Bartenders, in order of appearance
Nectaly Mendoza, Sly Augustin, John Lermayer, Alex Negranza, Dustin Drankiewicz, Bobby Heugel, Julia Momose, Yael Vengroff, Lisa Palmer, Dan Sabo, Karen Grill, Gillian White, Eric Bennett, Lynnette Marrero, Charles Joly, Pam Wiznitzer, Giuseppe Gonzalez, Michael Neff and Houston Eaves
Producer, Director & Writer: Jeremy Repanich
Directors of Photography: Jenna Morse and Lee Fritz
Coordinating Producer: Alyson Sheppard
Editor: Backlot Digital
Executive Producer: Brian Berkowitz
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“Oh yeah, I used to love drinking.. whatever that shit is” 😂😂
I tried the "I used to love drinking whatever that shit is"
Did not work...
That's why you're supposed to ask politely what the person is drinking...
Body language, eye contact, and making sure she isn't preoccupied with someone else are good starter points
"Hi. I'm Bob and I have a lot of money." Works everytime.
Andrew Dasilva Haha! Once they hear "I have a lot of money" my name becomes obsolete!
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Winner of a video, I've been looking for "pick up girl" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Repatoon Pickup Packwood - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my co-worker got great results with it.
What if my name isn´t Bob?
You must live in a crappy area
1. be good looking
2. wait for a girl to give super obvious signals
3. go up to her and say literally anything
unortunately a lot of guys skip to step 4. Lack self awareness
@@ltzp2what's step 4?
Have no standards.
This also works for picking women up at the DMV, the supermarket, starbucks.
rob rick so true
respectable work young man
I’ve noticed that if you just go for the low hanging fruit then the more attractive and or classy women see that and know you have no standards and now they don’t want you
@@bassmaster117 Yes but if its 3 am and you want a shag, low hanging fruit is your best bet
"by the feet" nice....
Sit to her left and make sure you have more money than the guy to her right.
🤘🤟My nigga🤟🤘
Naw where I’m from you need more than money
Too true nowadays
Think about your motivation for speaking to that person, are you genuinely infatuated with this person? cause if not leave them alone! I LOVE THAT SO MUCH
Best pick up: "Do you know Jim?", "Hi, I'm Jim. Whats your name?" [hold out hand]
Do not go to bars to pick up women (or, any one), go to socialize. You are attempting to be friends with the entire room. Introduce yourself to men and women. From there, any sparks of attraction, is just a bonus.
and, oh yeah, be attractive.
Bring a puppy into a bar, got it
"By the feet.." I HOWLED! 😂😂😂😂😂
Love this series. Have been watching them religiously
I miss this channel tbh
"Hello fellow human. Are you currently having coitus regularly with someone? If not, would you consider..." oh to hell with this, I'm hungover
that is the way.
Men: thinking philosophically about a methodological approach.
Women: plan with %100 success rate: make eye contact, then look away.
I’ve had quite a few dudes try to pick me up at bar.... they’re usually pretty surprised when I turn around though
Hi I saw you looking at me looking at you. My name is Anthony, my friends call me Tony. You call me Anthony cause we are not there yet. I do this while looking in her eyes. If I’m looking to long at her eyes I say my apologies I’m partly staring at your beautiful eyes. I’m mostly looking at myself and happy that face scrub I used is amazing...no visible pores. Speaking of pours we are both low on our drinks. Why don’t you be different and buy me a drink. 😹😹😹😹
Well there’s no hope for me then I have such a hard time making eye contact. I have a fear of making people uncomfortable so I look always asap 😞
love the William Grant influence here!
I was picked up at a bar on vacation by a Aussie, also on vacation, and had the best night. He was just funny and sarcastic in a good way. So 6yrs into our marriage when folks ask how we met? I say the way all good Christian girls meet their husbands… at a dive bar on vacation in San Francisco!
If she says "is that seat taken" tell her "Hey it's a free country".
If a girl approaches me with anything other than telling me the tragedy of darth pleguis the wise, I'm not interested
haha the Chicago bartenders are great
That guy from London is beast
@Ruthlessnoodle Says the person behind the computer screen with no profile picture.
Course he his, cultivated from London ...:)
one thing i noticed is its not worth it and no one takes you serious when you only drink water lol
Ask for apple juice maybe?
Just ask : "how much ?"
and develop from there, depending on her answer.
This gave me nothing. The only thing I've gotten from this is don't go to bars to pick up women and dont watch videos on how to pick up women from a bar.
I have terrible eyesight so I wouldn’t be abled to tell if a girl was smiling at me or looking at me anyway. 😂
"Be hot."
*makes b-line for girl reading book at a bar*
the black guy knows stuff. i am pretty convinced he got laid A LOT during his career. he looks good,and for sure he knows a thing or two, or more about speaking to a girl.
Is it his horrendous lisp that makes him so irresistible??
He seems gay
I mean he is not so attractive but he seems to have proper manners which is way better for tips than looks IMO
Yeah but how am I supposed to meet people as a bartender who can’t go out to bars to meet people as I’m always working at one!
this video makes me not want to go into a bar. everything sounds too complicated and a waste of time
Mike Messier I don’t go to bars often just because it’s expensive, but going to the bar with some buddies is always a great time. It’s not that complicated once you do it once
You don't have to take notes, watch this for entertainment, go with your friends, and set your goal to have fun.
Just go with the flow, don’t force anything. Going to the bar is all about not thinking and just doing
It also depends on the bar, the group, and most of all, THE WOMAN. She has a say in all this, right? (If not, you might face criminal charges.) Is it a singles bar, a topless bar, sports bar, biker bar, on the college strip, hotel bar, motel bar, the beach (Is it Spring Break?) or a gay, and lesbian bar? All these are completely different when it comes to how you approach someone therein. Read the room first. Then, start picking out a likely victim in that room.
Oh yeah, where is she sitting? At the bar, on the end of the bar by the door? Close to the lady's room, in the corner, some rando table, or tucked into the darkest corner, trying to avoid eye contact? How she's sitting gives you a lot of clues what she's there for. Keep in mind, she might be there to meet a date, meet someone new, drink, or for the free drinks. (I have lots of friends that go to bars, get drunk on free drinks, then stagger home alone) Sitting next to the lady's room might mean she's about to throw up, or she's looking for a "Bump." Of course, it's illegal, but there are people that go to bars just to score other drugs. (Including anonymous sex with strangers.)
This video made me realise that I have no idea what i'm doing
I met my woman in a supermarket, not the bar. She was quite tall (6'2") - that's 186cm without heels. I asked if I could get to know her and asked for her phone number, and she gave it.
where is "tasting notes" or "lets get fat"?!
we all pick up eachther
Best way I've found to pick up a woman at a bar, is to sling them over your shoulder. Just duck down into their abdomen, put your arm around her waist, then hoist her up. I've they're on the more robust scale, best to use a weightlifting belt to avoid the possibility of a hernia. I've found some women get more upset than others, saying things like, "Help! Put me down! Who are you and what are you doing? Call the police!" and the like. Nobody at all seems thankful for your efforts, when clearly, they've gone to the bar in hopes of being picked up. Really, if women are going to be this difficult, I don't see why guys put in the effort. So ungrateful.
Who reads a book in a bar??? Go to a coffee place og something..
Thank you! Reading in a bar? Really? I'm sorry but if I see that I'ma think that person is a serial killer.
I love Julia.
Just do the Barney's playbook
Just be charming, they’ll decide if they want to keep talking to you. But always follow the golden rule. If she’s interested in you switch to cranberry soda. You slur even once even a little. You’re toast.
I don't think it's about "when" to pick up a woman at a bar; its more like "how" because unless their body language is really closed off or they are in a deep conversation with a friend, even if they are reading a book, they are in a social place and chances are they are receptive to being social.
Ben Gerber the title of the video is “how”......
Ok, but how do you pick up a guy??
Ask them what they'd like for breakfast.
Are bars not made for finding girls
What I didn’t hear; 1 Don’t bring your 2yr old with you. 2 If your on your cell phone, don’t let her hear you tell your Mom you’ll be home soon. Or 3, If you have cold sores, stay home! All sage advice worth noting.
sly augustin what a handsome man 😮
Just be good looking
The real question is how should a woman pick up a man in a bar.
- Hey, wanna fuck in the bathroom?
- Are you serious?
- Yeah
- Sure, lets go!
well atraction its not a choice so if she is looking at you, go talk to her and say hi period..
Should how to pick up a man
Julia seems like a sweet lady
Don’t offer her an open drink because she’ll think you’re trying to roofy them.
Pull out your wallet.
Pick up the tab.
Pull out the blow.
Pander back to the hotel.
Drankiewicz? Not sure if that's a legit name or modified to fit the occupation
Ask her about her motorcycle.
it s simple. you like her, u just go n talk to her, n if she rejects u u move on to the next person
i think attractive women have power when it comes to who they choose so why not the woman approach you instead?
didn’t work
I JUST TICKLE 'EM EVEN IF THEY DON'T WANT ME TO . #TICKLEMANSION
To begin with, Bath first! Wear nice cologne but not overpowering, make eye contact, no lame lines, or 50 questions. And most importantly. don't talk about your X !!!
Absolutely
How to pick up a woman at the bar: You cant
Rule one: no consent
What makes a bartender a relationship expert?
How you doin'? ;-)
Rory Calhoun how does this not have more likes? This is clearly the best one, lol
Hahah NO
lol if fedor sees thatd be fucking hilarious
How to pick up women: Don't be an asshole, leave them be if they're not interested
Came for advice on how to get the conversation rolling, left disappointed the bartenders actually have to say this
Pro tip: don't
Mr. Sabo, 0:49 - 0:55, you are so wrong about that
Too much cues to follow regarding approaching a woman-seriously
No this is not right. Don't ever, ever, ever think about or take into account reasons that it will fail, because if you do, it will fail.
Who reads a book at a bar???
never let a woman hit on you at a bar... they are predators
more let's get fat!
Really?.....you get them drunk
Whip it out
you don't pick up women at bars
who the fuck brings a book to the bar?
I do sometimes
who the fuck reads a book at a bar ?
ikr?
me
Quite a few people actually
never heard of that
My thought exactly
Stupid advice, just use the Cosby....works every time.
*How to pick up a girl
Don't be a weirdo.
who the fuck reads books at bars
These burnouts don’t know what they are talking about.
Sorry to say this but I hate it when we have a group of Americans golfers who are in their fifties hitting on girls in their twenties! It's vulgar where I'm from
Not to mention creepy. Like stay in your lane,Grandpa.
I bring in emojis on a stick. When I see one I like I put up the😈 after the night o give them the 😂✌️
Feminist chicks dig me.
I would never pick up a girl at a bar these days. She might get drunk, sleep with you, then the next morning have regrets, and claim you raped her. No thanks.
Yeah, I'm socially awkward. All this seems like rocket science and I have a masters in physics, besides it's nerve wrecking to try to talk to women. Some Japanese animated woman and some lube and I'm good to go.......omg........hentai really did destroy a generation...................................
Please tell me youve gotten laid bro its been a year!!!!!