Dreaming Big or Not Big Enough?
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- Is dreaming big specific to the person? We weigh in on the reasons we should all dream just a little bit bigger. Plus, is it ever okay to fight for someone who has given up on you?
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I'm not okay with this show ending. Can we please start a petition to keep it on the air?!
Yess let do it. Someone do this please
Yes
Yes!
I think Adrienne (and maybe even Jeannie) are ready for their next chapter.
yesssss
I dreamed about becoming an autistic supermodel and it came true by not giving up and stay positive everyday for real!!!!
The KEY to dreaming big is actually TAKING ACTION to make that dream into a reality just like "Knowledge is power", Knowledge is NOT power. APPLIED KNOWLEDGE IS POWER.
I’m not a big dreamer, by most peoples definitions. I grew up very poor with unstable housing and food access. My only dream for adulthood was to be able to provide a safe, stable environment for my family. It may not be a big dream to others but it’s big enough for me
My husband isn't a dreamer. He lives very realistically. I remember asking him when we were dating what was his dream job and he said he never had one. He was in the military and working full-time for a different company, but he always worked just to take care of himself and eventually his family. Family, money and stability are his motivators.
My fiancé the same and I always wondered if one day that would be a “issue”, because I’m a big dreamer. But I guess opposites attract?!
So that was his dream - to have a family and financial and home stability! 😊💕
@@Amaryllis-4U This is true!
My parents are very grounded and realistic ppl. They don’t dream they just go day by day and just survive. I think dreaming is definitely a privilege although it’s free. My parents are from a generation where they didn’t see many ppl make it to be anything grand. They always try to stop me from my goals so I stopped telling them,I just execute them tell them afterwards.
I relate to this so much, I come from a VERY small town, and grew up poor. I remember wanting to be an actor so bad, that was and still is my dream. I'm 27 now, finished grad school, in debt, and looking for a realistic job. I regret not following my dream everyday now, but my mother really destroyed my dream. She didn't see the big picture, she didn't support me, and now I don't know what to do with my life. Didn't mean to get all depressing, but I really hate how I grew up and not having any support. Whatever your dreams are Lady Rae, please continue to fight and go for it! I wish you the best! :)
@@robbycharmed wishing you all the best too. If you still want to act there is more life to live. Start off by joining the local theater.
I relate to this sooo much. My mum would be like just get a good job and my dad would be - go wild! Ahahahaha now I just tell my mum the mile stones I’ve hit
Relate!
Mental exhaustion is real and sometimes taking a mental evaluation can bring things into clarity. I think it's important to do self check ups to avoid burnouts from over extending
I remember being in high school and talking to a girl and she said “ I just want to be a Mom” I absolutely get it now but I wasn’t bit by that bug until I got older. I thought she was so crazy but she really was just listening to her instincts. I realized what’s more important to me now after being told by society I need to think about career over family.
I’ve heard people say that… I never understood but as I’ve gotten older… my views have changed. I wouldn’t mind getting married but children I don’t know yet 😁 it’s a lot and the way men are now a days is crazy. This isn’t the 90s anymore. People think I have kids but I don’t, because I’m so good with them. I will always want to do something career wise, to make money because there’s no guarantees with a marriage, but I’ve always lead a simple life. I did want to be an actress and singer when I was a kid 😁 who didn’t 😁and in my 20s but I left the industry because I wasn’t compromising and I don’t like the spotlight. I found out I was good at other things.
@@lifeisbeautiful9455 you really never know where life will lead you . I never thought I’d feel so strongly about wanting to be a mother . Best of luck to you in whatever you decide
People need to stop shitting on other's dreams just because it doesnt align with theirs. If they want to chase fame, fortune, image and power; go ahead, but enough with the guilt and sappy stories especially when prioritizing wealth at the expense of building experiences with family and loved ones. Comparison is the thief of joy. Be judged on having made it by what gives you peace, happiness and fulfilment.
I’m an upcoming r&b artist. I pride myself in never giving up and encourage you all to as well! I’ve sold 50 shirts for $25 in the last two months and to me that’s really my dream in motion. One day it’ll be 10000 sold and 100,000 streams ect ect… celebrate the small wins and do the work. Wish you all the best 💕💕💕
Dreams are some so important. You'll never regret trying, you'll only regret NOT trying. You don't have to be great to start but you must start to be great 👍
Preach 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 let people dream big or small, it’s their dream and it should be supported.
Dream BIG! Dream often.
I think you need to believe that your dream CAN come true. When it is so far fetched that you can’t believe in the dream because it’s too big then it will not come true. Believing is the key. So it’s great when you are bold enough to dare to dream big. But for some people it’s best to start out small and see how that goes.
I'm sorry for my manner of approach but i really love to get to know you. hope you are not upset...
Adrienne will say “I know this sounds crazy…” and then say something completely normal 🤣
My greatest dream is to get married to the guy of my dreams and have a family with him and also to live in Cali. S0mething about the sunny weather the happy vibe gets to me. I want to live in a family oriented, happy, multicultural and safe area. I want to always have a good relationship with my family, my good friends and people in general. I always want to be surrounded my happiness and good vibes bc life is too short to be miserable.
When Garcelle said dreaming big is free, that was the BEST STATEMENT EVERRRRRRR!!!!!!!
I love it. I've been saying that to myself every single day. Thank you Garcelle🥰
Come on God and universe, Adrienne would make a great mom. Make that happen . Praying for u Ade🙏🏻
I’m so grateful for this show. I’m going to miss you guys so much
Some ppl just aren’t dreamers. I’ve always had goals and that’s what keeps me moving forward. And when I doubt myself I look back at what I’ve accomplished and I’m like wow you actually did it
Yes girl💥
I literally have been going through it lately with feeling like my dreams are unattainable and like I need to give up…and then The Real posts these gems 🥺 this show has been a huge blessing, sad it’s coming to an end
NEVER, EVER, give up on “YOU!” We are here for a reason, and it’s up to us to explore every avenue, boulevard, and street in our lives to find out who we are, and then how we can achieve our dreams/goals. I love a simple; but profound saying that simply says: “The Road toSuccess” Is Always” under construction🙏🏾
Dreaming can get exhausting. We live in reality.
@JustAFan Fave
Your comment is ironic considering your profile pic says, “never give up on your dreams” lol
Dreaming only becomes exhausting when you have high expectations for the future or outcome.
Adrienne : “ nice “
Lol that’s so toxic 😭😂
Don’t fight for me but compete for me through your actions. Show me why you’re a better guy for me. Do not have a chest beating contest with the other guy.
THIS! I am not competing with another woman for a man…pick her.
I am going to miss these four ladies on the real
Dreaming big
Loni called it. "NEVER DIM YOUR LIGHT" Do not listen to people that label you vain because you think you look good, or put you down because you bask in your achievement or success. That is nothing more than envy and jealously. I am a firm believer in the power of attraction. What fills your mind, you attract.😘
Letting go easily
Personally, I agree with Adrienne, if you broke up with someone or he left you.,.don't go back. Your EX is an EX for a reason. But.....I will say this....if you were really soul mates and had a strong bond, and for some bizarre reason you had an argument over something insignificant (ie he didn't call when he said he would) I would try and get back with him.😘
Adrienne talking about Khloe fighting for Tristan 🥴
I thought the same thing 🤣
Would be great if the ladies got together and have their own show online. I only get to see them on RUclips anyway. If they continue online it would be great, I love them. 🇬🇧 fan.
Thank you Loni for that checking out/in advice
I’m here for Adrienne’s hairstyle
I never had a dream and people find that weird but i don’t know what to tell them. I never had a passion either. People ask me all the time “what do you plan on going to college for?” And I honestly don’t know yet. I do know i want to go to college though.
I really want my dog back! After my brother died we moved into a small apt and he is a big dog so we had to give him away to our fam friend. They take care of him really well I miss him a lot. I think about him everyday and he is the only being that brings me happiness and purpose. I wish i lived in a bigger home so has more space and we can take care of him it sucks. He is ser the sweetest dog ever and I wish he was mine. I know he has a good life so that makes me happy! P.s. I know i sound crazy but my dog gives me pure love and sometimes you need that if u can't get that more humans.
I consider myself a big dreamer from the time I was a child and now I am 29 and honestly speaking, I haven't seen most of them coming to fruition despite going after them,trying so hard. Being positive most of my life and a true believer of time but at this point it is scary and frustrating especially that everyone around has atleast moved in most places of their lives. Anyway didn't mean to discourage anyone maybe it's just my village people at work.
Dream as big as you can and work every day a little bit harder 🙏🏼
i watched this show since day one. Watching this season is like watching paint dry. Bravo to the production company for giving up on producing these talented women and airing the dullest season in TV history. If i was the cast id be maaaaad af. They deserve better and i've seen each of them do much better on this platform and others. Might as well pull the plug now because y'all tarnishing these amazing women on all level with this under funded last season
This is a great episode we really really do immensely need another show like the real seriously you guys have helped me through so much in my life I really love you girls and I’m going to miss you and yes I am crying right now as I’m speaking!!!!!
I'm really envious of people 1) with big dreams 3) who actively pursue their dreams...and to see those dreams come true 😫😭😭😭, argh, brings me to tears. I literally have no dreams. Like none. Just living day to day.
Why do you think is that?
Hey. I don't know if you believe in God, but I just thought I'd share. If you want, you can ask God to reveal those dreams to you. You probably just don't know that they're there, or they may have been right in front of you and you just didn't recognize it. 🤷
Hope this helps! ❤
I agree with Loni, don’t dim your light for anyone and encourage children. I wish my parents had been more supportive instead of instilling fear in me. They encouraged me to further my education but as soon as I got a full time job, the message was to stick to it until retirement even if I was unhappy.
It’s so important to have mentors in your area of interest.
Thank you guys because I am the biggest dreamer in the world ....I am always thinking things are going to be better for me and my kids/family
Adrienne is soo smart. Her world knowledge at that very young age is so terrific 😊
You know that topic about not fighting for someone who gives up on you, who disrespects you, who cheats on you...a
part of me totally agrees with them but then there's another part of me that reminds me of Jesus ..He fought for and DIED for people that wanted to MURDER him...He even commanded us to continue doing good and PRAYING for the people that keep persecuting us...He commanded us to turn the other cheek also and LOVE those people even if they are undeserving...so eventhough it's VERY hard to do, I'm gonna go with Jesus on this one...we all should
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Or maybe they don’t have the opportunity to dream as big. They can be an undocumented immigrant with limited options. Or maybe they’re afraid to to quit because they need to care for their family. And one paycheck makes a big difference.
Ugh love these ladies
I love this a dream is what you make it dream BIG 🤩
omg Loni you are looking so radiant today,love looks good on you.
Dreams stay dreams if there are no goals set💯that are SMART 🤓
Dream and DREAMMM...because with manifestation and hard work, one day, it may come true. The problem is when telling friends and family, and they kill that dream simply because they could not see it. But it was NEVER their dream to see. It was YOURS. Unfortunately, with doubts and negativity from people. People often doubt themselves and give up early.
Lesson: Never tell your dream to small-minded people. There are many stories of people's dreams coming true. So never doubt yourself🧡
5:41 Khloe has left the chat
The colors on Adrienne's dress😍😍😍
Checking out for me means checking in on myself
Mentally checked out for meant “Time to self inventory” myself in order to pull myself together. Even today ( at times), my brain goes out to lunch🤣-which just means too much day dreaming!!!!….
I’m going to miss them to. But what’s helping me “My Real Fam” is that I’m not allowing myself to think that this is the end; but “THE BEGINNING,” of something BIG for all these Queens.
I am 60 years old, and I’ve learned a lot from this program, even at my age. Plus, when a show it’s at its maximum height, then the only place for it to go is to spread out. What I mean the best time for a show to end, is when it’s audience/followers, are begging for more.
As these ladies spread their wings, and continue to soar, we will simply just support all 4 of them in their new arenas.
Thinking like this has helped me greatly.
Omg why are you guys cancelling :((((( I’m not okay! I love listening and watching all your videos on my lunch. What am I going to do!!!?
@4:49 “nice!…” 😅😂😂😂 Adrienne!! Lol
I gave up on my ex after several years. In that moment even with telling me he didn't want me & showing me my feelings would not let go then there was the times we went back on my end trying to make it work.. but yk it hurted so bad.. he had a baby.. & after a few months I just got tired of being dumb, tired of embarrassment & shortly after he was all over me.i had to block him on everything tho I went & unblock.. it was those times he didn't reach out that caused me to block again. It's been 4 years I got 3 beautiful babies by my man! But I still think about that hurt & pain .. I was at my lowest.. & him & the girl didn't even male it a year
Khloe needs to hear this
I dream about being a successful actress. I have a lot of negative people who said to be realistic. Even though I'm not a big star or anything, I've still gotten my foot in the door to many paid gigs
Me too❤️🔥
Well done!
😩 I’m gonna miss this panel 😢
Wheeeeew Garcelle is dropping nuggets! 🔥🔥
This reminds me of Vanessa on tiktok who was a house cleaner and now she works with Scrub Daddy. AMAZING!
Who is here in October 2022 looking at this and just thinking Look at God, wow 😍😍😍 now Adrienne is a great mom to a beautiful baby boy 🥹💙
I don't agree with that mentality, I wouldn't fight for someone that puts me in that position, I can fight for my relationships, i.e., become better at communicating, forgiving, understanding my love, become a better me but fighting against another woman, I remove myself, darling you win, 🏆 you can have him, keep him! If I'm who he wants "No other man is going to do... so I'm saving all my love for you..." There's no love without respect! Ha e some dignity🤢
me too, if i found out a guy was dating me and another woman, I would just leave him. why would I have to fight for him? i don't like games and I don't like indecisive people who date, like, and create romantic emotional connections with multiple people simultaneously. i wouldn't trust him after that even if he choose me over the other woman(women)
someone please pick this show up❤❤❤ it's the Best
I’m thinking, I also want to be fought for even in a friendship
Loni looks very beautiful in this colour 😍😍😍
Fighting for someone doesnt always have to be a romantic relationship … what about fighting for your mom, dad, child relationships or grown children those are the ones where its hard to know
Love this look Loni 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I have checked out and wondered why no one checked in ..there have been times where they will check in and I’m like didn’t I say I checked out? 😅😅I know you can relate
I understand being mentally checked out, I think I’m crazy tbh I scream my head off everyday from rage over very little things
I love reality ❤
Hi edagdwg being blessed and free to be thankful for sharing time careing for others being yourself is a real gift from god is always around Linda j. Peace
Aww Adrienne 🥺
like stromae said in his song Santé, Et si on célébrait ceux qui ne célèbrent pas
Pour une fois, j'aimerais lever mon verre à ceux qui n'en ont pas
À ceux qui n'en ont pas , lets celebrate the ones Who don't celebrate, everyone is important and especially in Jobs, everyone has a important role, we celebrate where they r now and where they want to be later
I disagree with the ladies this time. They think it’s “hot” for a man to compete or fight for you against another guy, but if the roles were flipped and a guy had two women “fighting” for him I bet they wouldn’t like that and none of the ladies on the panel would be down to compete for a man.
Checking out is survival mode !
sorry but not everyone dreams big. some people are happy with their life without wanting more than what they have. it doesnt always mean they dont believe thay can have more - maybe they just dont want more...
Dreams be expensive. I dream to lose weight and be healthy but healthy food is really expensive and i'm busy with work to get this coin to workout.
My question is how do you figure out what you dreams are? That is where I am at now....
@Gary C
I’d say spend time alone, thinking about what piques your interest, what makes you happy, what you’re passionate about/what you could talk about for hours… One the other hand you can also go the route of just trying random things - pick up a book that’s completely new, go to a play, check out a state park, join a community group… Just different things. The more you experience the more your mind will come alive and also sort what it likes and what it doesn’t. I feel you’ll be drawn along a path of interest and excitement, which will lead to hopes and dreams.
@@Joce-bl7qi You make some great points. I think I fall into I have many ideas but not enough gumption to take the risk or know how to go about taking that risk.
I know Adrienne wants to be a Mother and it will happen, but just know that's not going to make her whole. She's already a whole women ,worthy in Christ like everyone else.
Yes. I'll only be wining and dining while I'm back here.
Nothing wrong with having a dream to be a mom, but I think it is important to have a plan B. I have a friend who's dream is to have a child and be a stay at home mom with a man that will take care of her. But she is now almost 40, single with an unsteady job that does not offer the same steady income, and still living with her dad.
Adrienne TALKING NONE STOP by repeating her points OVER AND OVER is driving me crazy 😱 😱 I can’t take it!!!!!!! Gabriel checks her every now and then but damn…
Checking out and as I like to call it having well being days or me days are so crucial to our health and mental stability and not to be ashamed own it and let people know I’m overwhelmed and need some time but please know I will be back bigger and better a version of my best self
Can someone please tell me where Adrienne’s dress is from 🙏🏽💚
Honestly, I think that person saying they’ve checked out means it somewhat more seriously that what this well-intended conversation indicated. I don’t think its a matter of checking out as in simply “spacing out” here and there, but rather check out as in “no longer invested in my own life.” I’ve felt that way too at times, that I can’t really find it in me to work on my own dreams and do my best in the opportunities I ask given because a part of me doesnt care about any of it even though I really want to care, - which is an actual sign of depression. It can manifest at “laziness” or, as the women are saying, loosing focus and spacing out, but it goes way deeper and beyond that.
Just want to let people out there know that, this type of checking out is normal too. Feeling overwhelmed and emotionally disconnected can be very scary. If its only for a short period, try to be kind to yourself and allow your mind and heart some space to rest. But if it goes on for long and starts impacting different areas in your life for real, it can be a wonderful thing to seek help.
Guys please don't go 😢 #savethereal
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A's dress is the 💣
I’m 29… my dream is to have a home 🏡 a bed to call my own 🥺.
Not enough i tend to watch subway videos 4 pleasure i dont have dreams i have movies 4 me wats there to dream about i dream big bcuz the chain of events n my life is on a big stage its not a dream its a thought day dreamin is wat i mean i guess a top or 2 fly off n the mist of my regular scheduled program even tho im some were n the millions yup i livin a m f n movie dream wateva.
my dream is that one day,I will own Latest GTI
Sad but I can't dream big until I handle some life issues and no 1 wants me to. I guess I should pay for my funeral arrangements early... since everyone thinks they are entitled to silence me from getting things the way we are all allowed to get them. Like records or anything that is government based. Court based.
This is the Kardashians keeping up with how they get screwed over by men
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Idk if the dude I was seeing was dating two people I would be the one to say take the other chick
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