Mean Girls Seem to Always Get the Guy, But Why? Are Men Turned On More by Aggressive Women?
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Is there any truth to the idea that men are more attracted to mean girls? Plus, we dish on our experiences with stepping up for people and it backfiring.
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Adrienne looks so angelic today!
First thing I thought..where is this outfit from ❤️
“Pursuers” is the word Adrienne was looking earlier in the video 💁🏽♀️
I would rather die than compete with another woman for a man.
I am you and you are me, the moment I feel that I have to compete for your attention i leave.
@@missme9650 period! There are 7 billion people on this planet, I’ll be damned if I have to compete for anyone.
samee
I swear to God these kind of women are so pathetic🤢
One thing men understand, is that it's always a competition to some degree. If you want that quality person, you've got to have more going for you than the many others that are also just as interested.
It's no different for women. Of course there are limits to how much you should compete, but coming in with the mindset that you'd "rather die" than compete for you potential partner in life shows a massive lack of prespective for how mating works. Humility is an important trait to develop and maintain.
I hope you guys didn’t actually get cancelled because what else am I gonna binge watch all day lol
Why are people talking about this show getting cancelled???
It’s all over social media & the internet, I think it is. I’m so sad about that.
It could just be a rumour but at the same time I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s been cancelled. Doing the show without an audience, Jeannie’s absence and such probably caused the ratings to go down idk
😭
@@unnderneath it's not a rumor. There's a short clip where they confirmed it themselves that this is the last season.
If Loni don’t do anything else, she is going to give us a DEFINITION 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Garcelle's such a nice addition to the show. If the show's really getting the boot, I'm gonna miss the girls so much 😭 But I was so looking forward to seeing Tam as a guest! I've been watching for years. This stinks.
Wait what’s the tea?
@Karman Search The Real under the news online and you'll see. Multiple outlets talking about a cancelation, one possible reason being low ratings 😥
@Karman Also Loni had dinner not too long ago at Tam's and during a live, they mentioned having Tam visit as a guest on the show.
I hope it doesn't
I really hope it’s not true 😭
I’m tired of hearing what men like/ want!😬so what.
Lol right. Who cares what they want?😂
don't let bad people turn you into one of them
had my heart broken in the worst way and I had to fight so hard to not let my heart turn cold
It's so true. My best friend treated her husband so mean and the more mean she was to him the more he loved her. She didn't want for anything. Me on the other hand was told that I'm too easy. I'm too nice and ready to please. He said that he likes the chase. Go figure that out!🤷
because he was submissive with zero self respect and boundaries why you want a man like that
@@constantnipples2428because women like that put men in their place and men should date at least 1 woman like that
Don't leave, The Real! If the rumors are true, move the show to NYC so you can have an audience!
That was me. "Don't let someone's bad character jeopardize your good character." Word of wisdom Adrienne. I paid for a an entire vacation for someone in the past to 3 European cities, only to enjoy her company and get her away from her current drama. Only to have that backfire, her leaving during 1st city in Paris, returning home to have her sister threaten my life, and placing the icing on the cake by spilling my darkest secrets on social media. The betrayal, confusion and unnecessity of it all was completely traumatizing and heartbreaking, especially since I thought she would have been a friend for a while. Plus, I've spent over a $1000 on her to have fun, and I couldn't get any of that refunded back
She has a contious, it will hit her one day when she meets someone and realizes how much of a gem you were,she was too immature to talk to you about it to act like that.
Karma will get her one way or another... Wait on it..
To be honest that person was never really your friend if they were willing to treat you like that.
Sounds like she low-key resented all of your offers 🤷🏾
@@007amy-n1b Sorry, do you mean conscience?
My mom. When I became an adult and got out of grad school, I got a high paying job in business and I helped my mother financially, A LOT. I co-signed a house with her, paid the mortgage, funded her entire lifestyle. I thought about her first and myself second. I wanted to help her get out of debt and stop struggling. Long story short - I did help her get out of debt and she’s financially well off now but, because of it, I didn’t have much to fall back on in terms of my own savings. I didn’t really care though because I thought an investment in my mom would be an investment in me. I ended up leaving my job for a new one in a different state and had to pay out of pocket for insurance during the transition and needed to borrow $2K for it. I asked my mom and she refused. Told me she didn’t understand how I make so much money and can’t afford insurance, and that I need to be more responsible and she had no money to help me (a lie). I didn’t even have the heart to tell her I didn’t have the money because I’ve been helping her my entire adult life. I just hung up the phone and learned to never depend on anyone. People will never remember the good things you have done for them and you’ll never see any reward from it.
That’s messed up, I have similar experience with my own family members.
Wow...that is truly heartbreaking, I can't help but think that karma is waiting for the perfect moment to jump into your mom's life because you don't do your kids that way...esp not the ones who have held you down thru your hardships! The one above sees all... your reward is coming ❤️
I really feel for you on this situation. You did good things for you’re mom and she received it physically but she didn’t receive it emotionally, mentally. She doesn’t seem to realize that you Didn’t Have to Do the things you did. You did for her out of love, respect and appreciation. When you stop doing anything for her she will hopefully take a step back and think about this. Good luck
Hum, I experienced this with my late mother and now my Sister, really sad. Like someone said in this thread, you give with your wholeheart and people receive it physically and even become entitled. Especially family, they will position you to where they can just milk you if you let them.. it is traumatizing..
Sorry about your experience 😔
You should have definitely told her and took her off the deed. She’s going to blow her money off.
Pretty sure Loni is refering to her (ex)friend Cookie who said that she played a part in Tamar's firing
So many times I see good guys with mean girls, or bossy girls and controlling girls and they have these good guys doing anything for them it’s crazy.
I been saying that since Iv been 19 and I’m 34. Have no idea why men like it and the girlfriends they choose are all users, disrespectful, whiney, ungrateful. While my friends and I are intelligent assertive decent women 🤷🏾♀️
Don't worry, the grass ain't greener on the other side. Believe me ✌🏾
@@707tich some situations are like this, but there are also cases where the woman just appears to be more dominant and the man more “laid back” but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re controlling their men. So sometimes things appear a certain way on the surface but we need to dig deeper into the dynamic of the relationship to truly know. 😊
@@EsiriE agree with that example you gave. I’m talking about the other side. Then men wanna say “no good woman..”. Or she want like this to begin with. Please lol. Chase pretty, and great body and wanna be job and entitlement. When she cuss out your mum, don’t say good morning to no one, spend money and tell him to shhh. #yuck
I see this too. And tbh I blame the men. These same guys will treat nice girls like they're replaceable, and then go around and marry the meanest girl that ever lived. I think its their karma 😂
I don't want to see this show go! 😫 I feel like we finally have a perfect cast of 4 beautiful women who are powerful minorities. Say it ain't so, I'm here for season 9
It's a wrap
😂 how is Adrienne a minority? She is literally like 95 percent white. Being a Latina is not biology. It’s cultural.
Being a mean girl has nothing to do with keeping appearance 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ i know many mean ugly girls
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Lol
Haha😂
😂😂😂
Damn. I needed to hear this today. A nice reminder not to change the goodness in our hearts and in our intentions into bitterness because of the actions of other people. It ain't easy though! That's real.
Amen!
Why Adrienne on here acting like she wasn’t a mean girl 😂😂😂
6:00 That’s why I’m still learning to give, just to give and not trying or expecting something in return. Also, I’m learning to be generous with people that value that trait. Because a lot of people are not as giving as I am ; something that is easy for me will not be for others. And many takes advantage of kindness.
Are you talking about Loni’s story? She was not expecting anything in return. Her friend lied on her.
These hair cuts/colours/styles look really good ladies!!!😍 So flattering, so gorgeous!
Men also want what they cant have.
ruclips.net/video/eEnBRoCZdUg/видео.html
Yuck so they excited by drama and mean attitude
The book Why Men Love Bitches is a good read! Recommend
Really? What would be your summery of it?
Is the show really ending? 😫😢 Wth, Fox! It was getting to be soooo good!
I still feel regretful about this even though I was told it was not my fault..
A family friend I hadn’t met before once got me hired for a job. I was extremely thankful to her & I worked my ass off there, but she started to get jealous since the directors loved me. She would say things to me that rubbed me the wrong way. So one day she messaged me saying I was unprofessional because I forgot to respond to an email so I kindly defended myself when I should’ve just kept quiet. She then brought it to the directors since she wasn’t used to people standing up for themselves, but they took my side.
She ended up quitting a few months later and I felt really guilty about it since that wouldn’t have happened if she never was kind enough to help me out. But at the same time, I cannot allow myself to be treated unfairly.
People reap what they sow hun. Sometimes and a lot of times, people will LITERALLY BE their own worst enemies. And situations like these can actually help people look into themselves more and help ppl self reflect. Hopefully that person self reflected after this, because jealousy and projecting that onto others is never okay. Common… but not okay- 😊
Girl she didn't help you! God used her to get you to YOUR job, she was probably not aware of what she was doing when getting you that job. Someone you never met before, without God hand they would never have helped you. When you truly help someone to get something especially a job, you will always be happy whenever that person's great at their job, most of the time will even cover their mistakes while you encourage them to be better.
God loves you ❤️ be bless!
You should not feel sorry about any of this! You defended yourself, and she tried to get you fired.
i’ve been called a mean girl because i wear a full face of makeup to school, get my nails and hair done. even my roommate said she thought i was gonna be a bitch at first because of what i wore when i moved into our dorm and the things i brought with me. i can be very aloof and quiet so i can see why i come off as standoffish. however i have noticed that with certain men, the more i turn them down the more they talk to me. my boyfriend says that i have an attitude (which i do sometimes) but he likes it and he’ll do little things to annoy me because me getting sassy with him is a turn on.
Loved this conversation! I hate hearing how you ladies got “handled” by someone you tried to help. Especially in the industry. I’ve been a makeup artist in my area since 1997 and let me tell you, if someone wanted to help me get into the Union there would have been no hesitation to accept the offer. Those shoes don’t compare to what being in the union could bring.
Mean girls are usually HOT and that's what attracts the men.
@2:37 I think the word you’re looking for Adrienne is: the *“provider”.* 😅🙌🏾👌🏾 It’s funny because Tamera was usually the one who was congruous with Adrienne and was able to provide the word she was looking for. 👯♀️✨
Interesting. I think she was looking for the word “Pursuer”
@@h3artands0uLL I agree! Provider does not make sense in this context.
Don’t help anyone if you require something in return. “Everything you do, do it unto the Lord” frees you from disappointment and expectation, and both are poisons.
Amen
But nobody wants to feel used either.
Hi watching from the UK. England. Loni Love should get her own show x
I don't like helping people with opportunities etc. unless I really know them. I know first hand what it's like to be used by ppl so now I have my guard up. I can't have ppl hurt me like that again.
Geez I’m early lol I’ll return when more people comment lol
Thoughts on both topics:
1st one: People at The Real are reading my mind somehow because I was just thinking it a couple hours ago, except with women falling for bad boys. The woman would say to her thoughtful but not conventionally good-looking guy friend "*Sighs why can't all guys be like you?" Then the next minute, she's still with the good-looking jerk 🙄
2nd one: It definitely sucks when good behavior is met with punishment. My once good friend would rant to me constantly about his boyfriend and friend. I would sit there and listen and try to be supportive of him. Now he's good with both of them, but I don't exist anymore. Like Garcelle said, I'm definitely gonna be more mindful of how generous I am with my time and energy towards others.
The thing about good guys like that is that often they do not pursue you. They think that just because they are always there, that somehow proximity and reliability make them desirable. But in the initial stages of building a relationship, a man needs to court a woman and make her feel special and desired which is something the bad boys are good at.
@@erivanson bad boys making them feel special sadly is just a phase. Pretty soon it’s gonna go into a cycle from that into treating them like garbage.
@@flyingchong that's true. But what I'm saying is good guys don't pursue so they put themselves in the friendzone because their intentions are unclear. Everyone wants to feel desired and it's unfair to tell someone to not want to feel that way. A good guy shouldn't expect to get the girl just because they're a decent person. You have to be a decent person, you shouldn't be rewarded for that. It's the extra effort that gets you the reward.
eh mean girls tend to be insecure because they put on a front from previous hurt/experience so they have to act that way. usually women from philly/new york i dealt with are mad aggressive then when u get to know them, they really soft asf
Yea New York is facts lmaooo
Very true
I got a “friend” from 2nd grade a job at my place of work. Even helped improve her resume, as it was just unprofessional at the time. She ended up showing she was 2 faced, lied to the manager and told me different things, flip flopping sides, and gossiping etc. Lesson learned.
Helping ppl nowadays can cause losses for U... it's sad but it happens often...
Yes......,Don't ever co-sign for anyone even family...they wil mailice you for the next million years because they stop paying the note and the car got re-po........Don't help with money cuz when thay get it they have zero use for you........
Garcelle is stunning!
I'm down for helping people but don't try to hold it over people's heads later on. It's important to keep in mind that yes the favor should be returned but that person also isn't your slave from now on. It's not jump and they are supposed to say "how high?". Just keep that in mind bc I think sometimes people forget that.
I agree and I also notice some people almost make others take their help in order for that person to feel indebted to them. It's a manipulation tactic. It won't matter if that person is there for them in other ways. The person who did those favors will constantly expect to be showered with whatever it is they are looking for i.e time, money, loyalty, favors etc. I don't ever ask anyone for anything except from my family so, when someone I don't really know, even just a friend, is pushing their help on me I will stand firm in my NO THANK YOU!
Lonis talking about that lady that named cookie that said loni hated Tamar and caused a lot of drama. Cookie was around her at the real so I'm guessing she was the one who she had around her in the studio and that's how cookie could've said those hurtful lies.
The blogs r saying y’all getting cancelled. I hope that’s not true 🥺I love y’all
I love the direction they took this conversation. Tired of everything being about partnerships
My husband stated yrs. ago that's what he likes about me. I knew what I wanted, smart, confident, can handle business isn't negative towards others educated, etc. The wealthy man I dated said the same thing but, I just didn't care for him enough to marry. Confidence and kindness along with other contributions, etc. can/will land you a quality man. Note: I can be mean but only when needed. But, I've never had issues meeting and keeping a quality man.
True true men men love the mean girl...men don't like good woman
When I was mean to men they fought hard for the relationship as I changed to be more loving found that men took me for granted...being unavailable and being mean keeps men on their toes...
Women don't be the ride or die or u will be taken for granted
Loni said it all "Smart women" get the Smart men💯
Men we like a girl that doesn't give it all away. Not necessarily hard to get but someone to pursue. If a man REALLY wants you he'll have no problem pursuing you.
YES!
Yall have helped me get through the toughest times of my life... I'm so sad this show is ending:( it's like I'm loosing my best friends
I decided that I was wanting to be with a traditional man from another culture, because I thought that American men play too many games for me. I consider myself kind and ethical and not mean at all and I’m married to a dr. So not all men want a “mean girl” that sounds immature and drama filled.
What culture your husband is from? Asking for a friend lol. I'm Caribbean but I need me a good man and I'm hearing American men aint it lol
@@LeaEspinoza12345 lol neither the Caribbean men
@@LeaEspinoza12345 facts esp not AA men.
@@oneandonly3139 better than AA men ime
What about nerds?🤨 We need love too
Unpopular opinion: I think nerds are cute asf 🥰🥰
Recently dealing with mean girls who also took advantage of me trying to help. Like Garcelle said though I’m going to continue helping people though because that’s truly just what I want to do.
It may not be every person's philosophy by helping people without excepting anything in return. It's not helping if people except to be repaid for giving a helping hand in fact it's self-serving and might not bring any satisfaction. That's why I believe in giving in secret and not letting it be known what I'm doing and doing things because I "want" and if I can not I have a clear conscious, it might disappoint some however I have to stay true to my principles
It is so true. Don't change your character because someone else is wicked.
Wait..I thought women loved bad men? I don't believe the flip side of this. In the end a man loves a feminine woman who is confident rather than angry and mean. That gets tiresome and men don't want to be badgered. I really liked today's topics. I helped a friend in college and got her a job and I regret it. Her parents were so grateful but she was a spoiled brat.
@@shakurioguhebe8533 yes for sure but I don't believe for one second that men love a mean girl no matter how feminine she is. Men love confidence but not dominance in most cases.
@@shakurioguhebe8533 No they can't.
Well as a gay man I can only speak from my view of this. I’m am mean asf to men but for some reason they love it. I can literally curse them out and they’ll still call me the next day like I never said anything lol
True Loni: smart women get the smart man... smartness at times goes with 'meanness'- most smart women are mean when they need to be...
Wow can't believe The Real got canceled!!
It was never canceled nothing was confirmed
Not confirmed yet...
Thank you to the ladies for reminding us to not allow the bad in others deplete the goodness in ourselves.
I'm mean, but never a mean girl.
Are you a boy?!?
@@missme9650 sorry .nope
I feel like I know who you were talking about Loni, the person who lied on you. but I'm just gonna keep going and mind my business
Love the longer videos 🤩
You can help, without expecting a pay back when God put you in a position to help, I think you should do it, after all, God engraved you for it. Freely He gave you, freely you give too.
They may snag em but I bet they have a lot of hell in the beginning if the relationship! Coming from a mean girl 😬 I’m in therapy by the way Lol
I’m curious how did you come to the conclusion that you are a “mean girl”
Years of different experiences with myself
accepting all of me.
Self reflection and evaluation.
The interesting thing is it only came out in intimate relationships which led me to look at the trauma my soul experienced and how it chose to experience it lol it’s not my conclusion though we all have the ability to grow and evolve 🤗🥰
@@thedouble2ruth222 me too sis. Except it turned out to be BPD (borderline personality)
@@Myaccount923 I’m glad you’ve came to understand that about yourself peace and love to you and your journey 🥰🥰 and thank you for sharing that ✨♥️
I have always been someone that is solid and real. I am not perfect but i have never screwed someone over to get anything, and i am truthful. I have gone out of my way for a lot of ppl and even at my most insecure worst self i always uplift others. I am def a sensitive person i don't show it but it is there that is why i am always cautious how i speak to others and i am always considerate. I know not everyone deserves my love and best. I have great fam members though i hope god brings me a real, genuine, and caring life partner bc that is what i want most. My family and my in laws are my family. I have a few friends that are cool but for the most part i am not fukking with ppl who don't keep it a buck, have integrity, and uplift me!
Men are out here talking about something totally different, especially the ones on the "Red Pill". They are not feeling aggression at all.
Men like the chase!
Yes but also we are afraid to approach women in public due to humiliation or some tiktok trend where we are creeps. There is nothing wrong with men who love stong passionate women. I served my country and have been kicked down all my life but it doesn't mean it disabled me from giving it all in love.
Take it from a man like me. We love the opposite. I don't know what they're talking about! Are they talking about when they're away from us? Like they're mean to other women, but may not be mean to men?
Tearing up that this show is getting cancelled. If I had live TV I would have watched it there but I could only watch it via RUclips. :/ This is a great show. This season has been beautiful.
I believe it’s generous at times to help people who are in need without expecting anything in return. With doing so unexpected blessings will come your way from God. However showing too much generosity will lead to heartbreak because a lot of people are unappreciative. Secondly, it’s not always guaranteed that they will help you when you fall flat. Always remember that sometimes it’s good to say no.
Helping someone with the expectation to be helped is not helping it is self serving. Sorry Loni.
You help with no expectation.
A lot of people don't understand this. I have no regrets about helping someone because I helped them because I wanted to and I wanted them to win, what they do with the help is on them but they don't owe me anything. Now someone who is a user is different and I can choose to distance myself from that person.
She didnt do it with the expectation to be helped. She helped a person and then down the line she needed help herself and the person refused
@@ashleyrogers1930 my grandmother and my aunt always said this saying always help with your heart but expect nothing in return for god knows who you are and you will have many blessings bestowed upon you.
@@CaioGPL Actually she did. She needed help down the line as you mentioned and the person could not help her. She is discussing it on the show. Sorry but if she had no expectations would she share it or would she accept that the person had the right to refuse at the time of asking? She only had expectations from that person and subsequently became disappointed because of what she did for them.
Great discussions. I definitely feel all this. On a sidenote I know exactly who Loni is talking about 👀😏
Spill!!! Who?
@@karman8229 I think she was talking about Cookie
I honestly think 💭 we need to BE KIND 🥰
Fr
Just like Roseanne said “the only way to keep a man is to treat him like dirt!” 😂😂😂
Loni always uses these topics to respond to her haters and rumours online.
Exactly..
She come off low key shady to me and messy. Never really take accountability. Just the victim all the time.
Cause it traumatized her, you heard Adrienne response to her..whoever that person was that lied on her was just a clout chaser and down right evil..
@@sassyspice2727 You're literally the definition of the mean girl - except can't get no man
@@sattasana7753 Exactly! I do not understand the two comments before yours.
LONI ALWAYS COMES WITH INSIGHT AND GOOD CONTENT. SMART WOMAN.
Adrienne looks perfect, that hair!!!!! Keep doing it girl!!!!!!!!!!
Why am I seeing comments about the show being cancelled? Are there rumours circulating about the show or people are enjoying it and therefore wishes they don’t ever get cancelled??
Adrienne looks like a "Madam President"
Love white on Adrienne. LOVE
I think Adriane ment to say provider?
I know exactly who Loni talking about at 6:00 iykyk
Also yes yes yes to what Adrienne said at the end of helping with money with some people it never stops and it gets to a point where you don’t know how to say no
Yup! And it has to do with Tamar lol
@@anissa8119 It's that "cookie" woman, right?
@@hannahwalmer1124 yup 🎯
I learn alot from the real. Love, from KL, Malaysia
I hope Loni is not talking about Tamar ... because nah uh!
Adrienne looks stunning!!!❤❤❤👌
Adrienne better preach! 🙌🏾
A man like a little bit of everything😊
Lmaooo Adrienne “that’s what y’all want??!”
YESSSSSSSS GURRRRRRRRLLLLLLLL #Adrienne honey has hit the nail on the wall chiiiillllllllld #SecondBible the had the entire collection of the Book " BITCHES" that Book is TRUE ♥️
Mean Girls gets the Guy. However our Sister #Lanny GURRRRRRRRRRRLLLLLLLL hit it #REAL 💯🎯🎯 SMART Girls get the RING ♥️🎯
There are two types of Mean girls, type A like Loni described all the way mean. Type B) they are only "mean" or assertive with their man. They can not even be bothered with spreading lies about other girls cause they don cut everybody off, they have a very small circle and ppl do think they are up tight but not mean, even described as nice, but ppl don't get to enjoy the nice cause they never get that close anyway. I'm mean girl type B. You will respect me as my man as much as I respect you. No 1 died and made you Jesus....
I agree I think your comment is literally the best one
i swear to god, a few days ago they had a segment where adrienne repeatedly said, she doesnt really care about any gig, including this one. i understand she meant that she is financially secure and is now more focused on health and family, but BOY i thought adeeeee, this is still a once in a lifetime gig, dont speak it into existence! apparently they have not been told about the cancellation yet and read it in the news like us
I think it’s about time they bring back a crowd if low ratings is what’s going to cancel them. They need to go back to how they used to.. if Wendy’s show can do it, so can they.
Please tell me its a lie ! Ya aren't getting canceled!!!!
They're getting cancelled cause we're all here on RUclips. People aren't watching them on TV.
@@omphilemoerane2569 🥺 so make it a RUclips show then 😔
Pastor Haughton on the pulpit! That was a whole bar!
For 3 years I pay my highschool sweetheart bills and fix her car and she never notice my " good deeds". I was so in love with her and she was seeing other guys
Nah. Cause at the end of the day they want you to conform to what they /really/ want is submissive women.
I have that book, lmao.
Guys is it true The Real has been cancelled?? I heard it’s been posted on the Jasmine Brand.
I'm not fighting over a man, but yes. Mean girls do get the man. I personally don't get it. They are rude for NO REASON. Overly aggressive for NO REASON. It's weird.
It's the personality aspects that come with it that's appealing. It's true, mean girls are aggressive. There general common characteristics on top of that. This isn't a complete list but they aren't afraid of taking risks, more reasonable, more direct and are generally respected or at least no one tries to mess with them; a mean girl has influence and she's usually the leader of her friend group. I also notice there are often far more competitive whether sports, academics, arts, or even looks a mean girl will (try to) excel at it. She can come off as intimidating to most people including guys. Interestingly, they tend to the smaller side but are often athletic.
I should note that there's a parallels in that women like 'bad boys' as well. There many similar character traits in both.
And they get treated better too. I had an ex-friend like this. She literally bullies all of her boyfriends and they kiss the ground she walks on. In my experience though, and this goes for men and women, when someone doesn't like their partner, they're typically more critical towards them. So really, the two that are choosing eachother are drinking their own well deserved poison! He chooses the mean girl and gets punished for it, and she settles for the guy she doesn't actually like and is mad about it for the rest of their relationship. I think its a perfect pairing actually 🤷♀️ the mean girl will not get the actual good guy because actual good men don't vibrate on that toxic frequency. From an outside perspective it looks like the mean girl is getting the nice men, but really, they're getting the guy who has no backbone, no integrity, no self esteem, and likely, no masculinity either
Let me just go download this "Why do men love bxtches" book real quick
I didn’t get the pride and prejudice example
Nice ladies romantically are nice romantic
Selfishness is romantic hate
Scrubs and Players like being with mean girls...never heard or seen a good man that likes to be with a mean girl. I've seen weak/nice men, that have no backbone with mean women...they don't know how to live on their own.