Reformed Gang Member Warns Teen Facing Multiple Felony Charges: ‘Going To The Joint Is Nothing'

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2019
  • A 17-year-old who has been charged with multiple felonies says jail doesn’t scare him, but losing his freedom does. A reformed gang-member tells the teen there are things he may not have considered about going to prison.
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Комментарии • 11 тыс.

  • @drphil
    @drphil  3 года назад +2164

    Subscribe and ring the bell for notifications 🔔

  • @Greapes
    @Greapes 4 года назад +12243

    Swimming doesn’t scare me, moving around in water does.

    • @Strandone91
      @Strandone91 4 года назад +351

      Heights doesn't scare me, flying does

    • @cormac7884
      @cormac7884 4 года назад +49

      D S that can be a real thing stupid

    • @leifewald5117
      @leifewald5117 4 года назад +161

      Cormac Quinn cars don’t scare me, driving behind the wheel does.

    • @neonice
      @neonice 4 года назад +28

      Are you people really stupid enough to not have understood what he meant? lmao he's more intelegent than y'all

    • @f.b.i.853
      @f.b.i.853 4 года назад +106

      lunameowl it’s a joke, clearly you are the dumbest one

  • @nasgothus
    @nasgothus 4 года назад +15750

    Everybody is a gangster until the cockroach starts flying...

  • @AlekWheeler
    @AlekWheeler 2 года назад +1322

    “You a good looking kid.”
    When a former inmate tells a soon to be that, you’re done.

    • @thatnig321
      @thatnig321 11 месяцев назад +13

      Frfr

    • @twiff3rino28
      @twiff3rino28 11 месяцев назад +7

      Hot

    • @randommf3549
      @randommf3549 9 месяцев назад +7

      😂

    • @_leewookiee_
      @_leewookiee_ 8 месяцев назад +2

      I’m confused

    • @speedboy6776
      @speedboy6776 8 месяцев назад +106

      @@_leewookiee_ He is saying he is going to get raped in prison.

  • @elisemccorkle68
    @elisemccorkle68 2 года назад +1261

    Joseph has my utmost respect. He’s been through the TRENCHES, fully redeemed himself, raised an incredible son, and is doing what he can to keep young kids from making his mistakes. So much love for this guy.

    • @mipassionanime
      @mipassionanime Год назад

      Tell me cash app to send you moneyyuyu

    • @ksouthern1212
      @ksouthern1212 4 месяца назад

      He was never in a gang he’s an actor

    • @SCVentertainment1
      @SCVentertainment1 Месяц назад +3

      @@ksouthern1212shut up. Not everything’s make believe like in your perfect little world

  • @tebocra4141
    @tebocra4141 4 года назад +11024

    When an ex-convict tells you that they like women but you look nice, that’s when you should be scared

    • @MixerMadness
      @MixerMadness 4 года назад +804

      That’s when he stopped talking black

    • @bshays21
      @bshays21 4 года назад +409

      I would have said thanks and winked at him 😉

    • @Bigslime_38
      @Bigslime_38 4 года назад +190

      @@bshays21 df

    • @bassmaster117
      @bassmaster117 4 года назад +55

      Hope Chaz knows what a manpon is

    • @ifeelfantastic8956
      @ifeelfantastic8956 4 года назад +23

      @@bassmaster117 I was hoping he'd bring that xd.

  • @randomtv3258
    @randomtv3258 4 года назад +4810

    "Jail doesn't scare me,losing my freedom does"
    Committing suicide doesnt scare me,killing my self does

    • @ntf_midgyy1407
      @ntf_midgyy1407 4 года назад +20

      shane cale he just mean whats in the jail 😂

    • @Lazo-wv2uw
      @Lazo-wv2uw 4 года назад +50

      @@ntf_midgyy1407 lol take the joke. Use your brain. Sad

    • @tysopiccaso8711
      @tysopiccaso8711 4 года назад +4

      @@Lazo-wv2uw sad

    • @kiverisb
      @kiverisb 4 года назад +2

      sad

    • @leo-tu2tk
      @leo-tu2tk 4 года назад +2

      So sad

  • @AlejandroGonzalez-kk9no
    @AlejandroGonzalez-kk9no 10 месяцев назад +39

    “You’re a good looking dude. I love women, but you’re a good looking dude.”
    That should be enough to scare the 💩 out of him.

  • @theelephantintheroom69
    @theelephantintheroom69 2 года назад +259

    "Jail doesn't scare me, losing my freedom does."
    Ah yes, jail is just one big sleepover for this kid.

    • @dragondude9637
      @dragondude9637 2 года назад +6

      Jail (most likely he's only been to minimum security) may not scare him, but wait until he goes to ultra-max. He'll be separated from any friends he may know and all the vile inmates will fall upon him with shanks and dubious STDs.

    • @MrTimjm009
      @MrTimjm009 6 дней назад

      Definitely noticed that line ( lol ) this kid is confused

  • @isnitjustkit
    @isnitjustkit 4 года назад +24395

    He went from killing people to apologising when he swears

    • @CheyenneEllzey
      @CheyenneEllzey 4 года назад +1336

      ADHAiiN7 that’s one character development

    • @maahil6283
      @maahil6283 4 года назад +1290

      That's shows that any terrible person can change and become a good person if you allow them to change and not criticize them for their past

    • @DarkChasmGamers
      @DarkChasmGamers 4 года назад +246

      @@maahil6283 no idea what you're trying to justify but I can't say that is always true. People (not referring to this one) need to be held accountable for their actions

    • @maahil6283
      @maahil6283 4 года назад +188

      @@DarkChasmGamers im saying that yes they should be accountable for their actions but if theyre trying to change we should give them atleast one more chance

    • @ethangarza2610
      @ethangarza2610 4 года назад +86

      @@maahil6283 Not necessarily one more chance, everyone should he given the opportunity to improve/develope though. Sadly a lot of people that go to prison don't learn from people like this kid is, and don't take the opportunities they actually are given seriously. It's a tough issue.

  • @boogiewoogie1098
    @boogiewoogie1098 4 года назад +10615

    everyone is gangster until they face a real one.

    • @PuNkIsNoTdEaD01
      @PuNkIsNoTdEaD01 4 года назад +156

      Indeed. Get scared straight episodes show that better than ever😂😂

    • @ItsOver-wu3mk
      @ItsOver-wu3mk 4 года назад +6

      Lmao

    • @VnX6195
      @VnX6195 4 года назад +24

      this one is funny but it's real

    • @ItsOver-wu3mk
      @ItsOver-wu3mk 4 года назад +67

      @Mitchell Hart thats actually a psycho path,real gangsters do have a concious.

    • @13oo72
      @13oo72 4 года назад +6

      boogie woogie he wasnt even acting gang or disrespectful in the first place

  • @filizjohnson2059
    @filizjohnson2059 Год назад +67

    The way “your a good looking dude” hit him was enough to wipe that stupid smug smile of his face. That reality check as well as telling him his brothers life is on his shoulders is what this kid needed to hear.
    Never mind gentle approach telling kids straight is what will scare them straight.

    • @peaceandlove544
      @peaceandlove544 2 месяца назад +1

      Sooo true

    • @CloroxBleach42069
      @CloroxBleach42069 Месяц назад

      ​@@peaceandlove544 imagine him in prison when some of the inmates said that.

    • @Ashleykeithdavidharper
      @Ashleykeithdavidharper Месяц назад

      Do you mind me taking the last part of your comment and using it as a motto I really like it and wanted to ask you first just being polite to you

  • @blakevirtonis8567
    @blakevirtonis8567 Год назад +300

    That Joseph guy, if I was his son, I'd be the proudest man alive. How he and his son influence and empower each other is beyond anything I've ever seen. I'm genuinely certain his son will grow up to achieving great things. God bless you Joseph!

  • @trydodis690
    @trydodis690 4 года назад +9340

    “Jail doesn’t scare me”
    “Losing my freedom scares me”
    Yes, that’s the whole premise of a jail...

    • @immigranthustlemind8655
      @immigranthustlemind8655 4 года назад +13

      Trydodis hahahahaha

    • @trydodis690
      @trydodis690 4 года назад +123

      hyeboi what are you on about?
      The whole point of jail is that you LOSE your time AND freedom.
      That’s why he SHOULD be scared of it.

    • @SirBirstyy
      @SirBirstyy 4 года назад +96

      hyeboi you tried man. Let the normie be, he obviously don’t get it

    • @Galaxiiee02
      @Galaxiiee02 4 года назад +19

      hyeboi but thats why in jail your sentenced to TIME your not sentenced to go clean toilets 90 times then leave.

    • @chperezjr
      @chperezjr 4 года назад +4

      What an idiot right?

  • @semihdyngyldai1895
    @semihdyngyldai1895 2 года назад +50

    Joseph seems like a person who was truly rehabilitated in the prison and came out as a better man. I respect people who can accept to leave their criminal past behind, learn from their mistakes and focus on the better.

  • @zackv2514
    @zackv2514 2 года назад +60

    Much respect for Joseph and his son! The reformation that occurred within himself and his son being the breaking point for him to live on and change from what he grew up with is absolutely remarkable! I'm still preach to this day that i don't believe in bad people, only bad choices! Much respect!

  • @theperson6179
    @theperson6179 4 года назад +15279

    "I like women". Dude said "no homo" in an adult way lmao.

    • @gabifrierson2370
      @gabifrierson2370 4 года назад +26

      💀💀💀

    • @michaeld.williamsiii9026
      @michaeld.williamsiii9026 4 года назад +159

      The Person I get what he was saying, I’m comfortably, and proudly gay. I’ve got plenty of heterosexual friends who compliment me, so I totally get that he was just complimenting and trying to reach this young man who is nice looking and hopefully will turn his life around, if he so “chooses” to

    • @bloodlobster
      @bloodlobster 4 года назад +319

      Michael D. Williams III literally nobody asked

    • @michaeld.williamsiii9026
      @michaeld.williamsiii9026 4 года назад +81

      Cosmic Dot And??? I don’t care, don’t need your approval either to state and write what I want and comment/express myself the way that I want or chose. ✌🏾

    • @deadaccbye.8036
      @deadaccbye.8036 4 года назад +159

      Michael D. Williams III // congratulations on being gay but no hate or anything... no one really didn’t ask

  • @rfj1156
    @rfj1156 3 года назад +8505

    "You're a good lookin' kid" is a kind way of saying "Your cheeks will get clapped in Prison."

  • @FelixTsang
    @FelixTsang 2 года назад +9

    Joining a gang just because it’s “cool” is the worst idea ever

  • @RoyJones.
    @RoyJones. Год назад +22

    He talks senses into you. Even his real talk sounds intimidating that you can feel it!

    • @thaistomp
      @thaistomp Год назад +1

      Cause he's a real one.

  • @MRdeLaat
    @MRdeLaat 4 года назад +15914

    damn that ex gangster is a gentleman, his son must be proud.

    • @zuesgodofthunder9361
      @zuesgodofthunder9361 4 года назад +323

      RdL goes to show, people can change

    • @animetrash9110
      @animetrash9110 4 года назад +36

      Stoney Bologna naw... just leave it at that

    • @alonso3423
      @alonso3423 4 года назад +9

      Stoney Bologna just leave it at that man history in its self history is told by the winners

    • @joel7526
      @joel7526 4 года назад +9

      RdL real thugs give respect

    • @mr.stealyogirl4078
      @mr.stealyogirl4078 4 года назад +1

      @Alexandra Maria it doesn't matter what year it is in the hood its always about who is tougher bruh they prey on the weak in the streets thats how its always been and still is not everyone is gonna repect you til you show them you deserve respect

  • @mcloward1
    @mcloward1 4 года назад +5559

    "Jail doesnt scare me, losing my freedom does..."
    Water doesn't scare me, h2O does...

    • @loganreed4582
      @loganreed4582 4 года назад +104

      Im not scared of salt or anything but man that sodium chloride 😬😮

    • @gagelovz90000
      @gagelovz90000 4 года назад +29

      mcloward1 i’ve seen like the same comment over and over and it just makes me feel y’all a bunch of idiots

    • @enki2450
      @enki2450 4 года назад +19

      Its like that scene from Avengers Infinity War.
      - "It will kill you"
      - "Not unless I die"

    • @Cee_HNH
      @Cee_HNH 4 года назад +23

      He means he’s scared of losing time.. losing time to spend with his family.. scared to lose his freedom.. scared to have to spend time in a cage instead of out living life and watching loved ones grow .. Hes NOT SCARED OF The people, COs, The physical jail.. etc..

    • @goncalosantos3235
      @goncalosantos3235 4 года назад

      @@Cee_HNH but the point of the system is to make you regret your decisions by taking your time, not make you fear the environment. To condition one's freedom is a worse punishment than a physical one

  • @theultimatemale6820
    @theultimatemale6820 2 года назад +39

    FROM GANGSTER TO ICON. HE HAS MY RESPECT.

  • @rushrush1209
    @rushrush1209 Год назад +19

    The reformed gang member sends a more powerful message than Dr. Phil or any psychologist could, and probably Dr. Phil knows it. The gang member is saying to him, "You have a lot going for you. There's no excuse for you to be in a gang." He has a no BS approach to explaining the harsh life of prison.

  • @deletedprofile7547
    @deletedprofile7547 3 года назад +6015

    “I love women, but you a good looking dude”
    What he meant to say : “Don’t drop the soap”

    • @lunaaa6652
      @lunaaa6652 3 года назад +171

      dont remember laughing this hard

    • @nagato2k633
      @nagato2k633 3 года назад +323

      being this pretty he doesn't even have to drop the soap
      he's getting clapped even while eating lunch

    • @kingclampz6081
      @kingclampz6081 3 года назад +29

      @@nagato2k633 lolll

    • @justanothernarutofanbeliev9932
      @justanothernarutofanbeliev9932 3 года назад +54

      That's why you gotta squat and not bend over

    • @how2cord573
      @how2cord573 3 года назад +6

      @@nagato2k633 a y o w h a t

  • @yt-sh
    @yt-sh 4 года назад +5149

    “You a good lookin dude”
    I think the kid understood what he meant

    • @fatmandirtball4746
      @fatmandirtball4746 4 года назад +529

      He doesnt even need to drop the soap

    • @annabellelove6739
      @annabellelove6739 4 года назад +48

      Prison assault.

    • @animetrash9110
      @animetrash9110 4 года назад +30

      he wasn’t talking about that junk he was just tryna keep his head up

    • @rarry4443
      @rarry4443 4 года назад +35

      He said I like women lol

    • @thedoctormma9433
      @thedoctormma9433 4 года назад +40

      @@animetrash9110 he was DEFINITELY talkin about him getting that booty clapped lmao

  • @loveislove-le5nj
    @loveislove-le5nj 2 года назад +10

    My friend was running with gangs from 11-18 when he was shot in the head and now has a traumatic brain injury! His "family " left him to die and never looked back. He now talks at Cook County Juvenile Detention Center talking to at risk youth about gang life and has made impacts on these kids.

  • @jant3528
    @jant3528 11 месяцев назад +7

    Really like his relatable approach and how he doesn’t antagonize the kid. That’s how you get them to actually listen as opposed to screaming into their face

  • @sahilbasera834
    @sahilbasera834 3 года назад +7430

    The biggest warning for this kid was
    "You're a good looking dude."

  • @kev._._._.
    @kev._._._. 4 года назад +18984

    The former gangster seems like a very respectful and good man. He even apologized for his language. What an absolute chad

    • @prolo6309
      @prolo6309 3 года назад +260

      Yeah he seems like a good guy to be honest, I like him! :D

    • @squigga139
      @squigga139 3 года назад +57

      *insert spider-man copycat meme*

    • @brrr7949
      @brrr7949 3 года назад +52

      More like a hector

    • @bitchnighachris7579
      @bitchnighachris7579 3 года назад +44

      My nigga chad a true one ☝️

    • @aidynjenkins7669
      @aidynjenkins7669 3 года назад +32

      I never thought bout doing a gangster and drugs and murdering and killing people because those things will take away your life like crazy I’m just a clean rapper but not in any gangs or anything else and I think it’s amazing how I don’t struggle with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @bradames320
    @bradames320 Год назад +5

    I never realized that was Creeper from Mayans M.C.! Great actor, even greater inspiration!

  • @user-mc9kv4ti4x
    @user-mc9kv4ti4x 6 месяцев назад +3

    The fact that he speaks with him like a man, like man to man was very much needed. This says a lot about him, may christ bless him and his family.

  • @MrNight78
    @MrNight78 3 года назад +8264

    "You're a good looking dude."
    What he actually meant: Tyrone's gonna like you in prison.
    Why is this getting popular this comment wasn't even that clever.

  • @Chris_Troxler
    @Chris_Troxler 4 года назад +7950

    "You a good lookin' dude..."
    Translation: "You gon be some dude's chick."
    That's the cleanest way I could think to say it.

    • @sarahshae1543
      @sarahshae1543 4 года назад +24

      Chris Troxler Yup.

    • @woodsidefearless1763
      @woodsidefearless1763 4 года назад +189

      That’s probably the kindest way of putting it

    • @sarahshae1543
      @sarahshae1543 4 года назад +58

      Woodsidefearless the most “tv friendly”

    • @yuhturtles2818
      @yuhturtles2818 4 года назад +175

      men’s worst fear is being treated how they treat women.

    • @corpse00xx0
      @corpse00xx0 4 года назад +13

      @@yuhturtles2818 👀

  • @BraedenDias-vn6dy
    @BraedenDias-vn6dy 2 месяца назад +1

    Love this message, this is a truly reformed man. 🙏

  • @adventurerofmusic8675
    @adventurerofmusic8675 2 года назад +4

    Huge respect for joseph. A real man and a real inspiration

  • @cartoonmaster2401
    @cartoonmaster2401 3 года назад +4780

    Does he REALLY think that all of his friends will be in the same prison as him? 🤦

    • @miekaash6831
      @miekaash6831 3 года назад +157

      He thinks he’s going to county for a felony.

    • @khalilrahme5227
      @khalilrahme5227 3 года назад +171

      He thinks there's a difference between prison and losing his freedom

    • @OzzyCotin
      @OzzyCotin 3 года назад +42

      Not to mention the same block

    • @Youre_Right
      @Youre_Right 3 года назад +38

      It would really suck because the AB won’t accept him. He will have to run with the blacks. To get their respect he will have to do some heavy dirt. So if he goes to prison chances are he’s never coming out. Many guys go in with like 5 years, but end up catching more charges next thing you know it’s 15 years. Then finally you get that L hung on your neck. 25 to life is a long time.

    • @ElAzotador
      @ElAzotador 3 года назад +5

      @@Youre_Right Latinos are the most powerful in prison

  • @AdmiralColdhead
    @AdmiralColdhead 3 года назад +5931

    "You're a good looking dude."
    If that wasn't a warning, I dunno what is.

    • @ZaneDalton
      @ZaneDalton 3 года назад +59

      Lmao 😂

    • @nigelft
      @nigelft 3 года назад +155

      @@ZaneDalton
      On some levels, it is funny ...
      ... on others ... not so much ...
      If you listen to men whom ended up in prision, for a year or so, mixed in with hardened prisoners, whom are doing a long stretch, the end results can be brutal. If you listen to the young guys that either get turned out, in exchange for extra food (and I don't mean the protein shake kind ...), to got subjected to actual gang attacks, on them, leaving serious psychological scars, that they struggle talking about, because it's all too embarrassing, after all of that, you still think that's funny (hey, I like grim humour, too ...), then OK ...
      ... but don't be surprised if people don't think that kinda grim humour is that funny, and take prison rape seriously ...

    • @kshitiz6376
      @kshitiz6376 3 года назад +97

      @@nigelft I'm sure that these kinds of things take a heavy toll on anybody's sense of masculinity and it must be a traumatizing experience.

    • @MasseurDavis
      @MasseurDavis 3 года назад +12

      😂 😂 😂 Your comment deserves a dollar for every like 💯

    • @coolestloser5341
      @coolestloser5341 3 года назад +23

      @@nigelftseeing those prison jokes make me a little sick

  • @Noname-yl5kw
    @Noname-yl5kw 2 года назад +11

    Respect to anyone who can change their life around for the better

  • @tylerjohnson9154
    @tylerjohnson9154 2 года назад +2

    In the other video when he said, "I've had friends who were good people, die in my arms." broke me, and I don't break easy.

  • @dgyt27
    @dgyt27 3 года назад +3034

    “Going to jail doesn’t scare me, losing my freedom does”
    *every 60 seconds, a minute passes*

  • @obamabinladen2555
    @obamabinladen2555 4 года назад +6806

    "Losing my freedom is what scares me" pretty sure thats what jails all about

    • @jockeytx
      @jockeytx 4 года назад +111

      Obama Bin Laden Spot on, Osama Bin Laden, spot on.

    • @erolee8115
      @erolee8115 4 года назад +53

      He means the prison environment doesn’t scare him, the kids of freedom does.

    • @psisis7423
      @psisis7423 4 года назад +36

      There's losing your own freedom... and getting another man's freedom shoved down your throat

    • @pkelvin91
      @pkelvin91 4 года назад +20

      I thought you’re dead

    • @obamabinladen2555
      @obamabinladen2555 4 года назад +23

      @@pkelvin91 *PLOT TWIST*

  • @Willybonez
    @Willybonez 2 года назад +8

    Much respect. This interaction would have less meaning in an alternative setting. The intensity and authenticity may be enough to reach these kids. When I was younger, you couldn't tell me a damn thing.

  • @michaelwilliams6376
    @michaelwilliams6376 2 года назад +4

    I truly have the utmost respect for Joseph(ex-gang member). He keeps it 💯 and tells these mislead kids what they truly need to hear. I've lived that life as well and finally worked up the strength and courage to leave that lifestyle behind me. I'm now living the life that I was meant to live and I'm finally able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud of who's looking back. My family and I have rebuilt our relationships that was close to being non repairable. I feel for these mislead kids and pray for their eyes to open to reality.

  • @mattsteelman3832
    @mattsteelman3832 4 года назад +8990

    I actually like this kid, he isn't disrespectful like a lot of the kids that get on there.

    • @snirt1259
      @snirt1259 4 года назад +700

      Max Payne this is the only one so far ive had some respect for and he also seemed to understand what the guy was explaining too

    • @toshiya4979
      @toshiya4979 4 года назад +182

      because he understood the scary cheek bustin'

    • @igogoplatayobitch7566
      @igogoplatayobitch7566 4 года назад +17

      He didnt even talk.

    • @danr8267
      @danr8267 4 года назад +75

      @Jonathan B exactly. Probably just a suburban kid that listened to chief keef once and thought he could be the same.

    • @Saveahoe
      @Saveahoe 4 года назад +21

      Jonathan B no its because hes smart

  • @andreaslff
    @andreaslff 4 года назад +4818

    "Jail doesn't scare me in the slightest, losing my freedom scares me"
    *Every 60 seconds in Africa a minute passes*

    • @kash125
      @kash125 4 года назад +81

      The act of going to jail and having to deal with the violence doesnt scare him. Losing time scares him.

    • @andreaslff
      @andreaslff 4 года назад +21

      @@kash125 yeah but in jail you lose time from your life basically your freedom

    • @kash125
      @kash125 4 года назад +27

      @@andreaslff I know that. Hes saying the violence of jail and all that other stuff doesnt scare him but the fact that he will lose his freedom scares him.

    • @danr8267
      @danr8267 4 года назад +7

      You missed the point

    • @yungeenjc7417
      @yungeenjc7417 4 года назад +4

      Aνδρέας Λάφης you missed the point of what he said

  • @emeyeare
    @emeyeare Год назад +2

    When ppl talk bout gang members not having a heart and not contributing anything to society….this man speaks on levels regular ppl can understand and is a truly amazing human being

  • @first-thoughtgiver-of-will2456
    @first-thoughtgiver-of-will2456 Год назад +3

    "that ain't never coming off" just like those appeals. It's amazing how little criminals know about the criminal justice system and what to say and not to say when and where.

  • @Jamby
    @Jamby 4 года назад +2603

    1:46 “I love women, but your a good lookin’ dude.” Basically just said no homo.

    • @dylanhansen2352
      @dylanhansen2352 4 года назад +13

      Osama Manan I believe that was a joke

    • @sun5705
      @sun5705 4 года назад +48

      @@dylanhansen2352 try going to jail. see for it yourself. lol

    • @common_sense_supreme
      @common_sense_supreme 4 года назад +5

      @Osama Manan wow you don't let anything get past you, do you?

    • @dylanhansen2352
      @dylanhansen2352 4 года назад +3

      I witnessed coronavirus yeah, I know.

    • @adriancrevan
      @adriancrevan 3 года назад +14

      @I'm a Motherfucker • 67 years ago That's so 16th century. 🙄

  • @phantomforce_641
    @phantomforce_641 4 года назад +25592

    Let's talk about the fact that dr. Phil knows a gang member

  • @DreamTeam801SLC
    @DreamTeam801SLC 2 года назад

    Right on Joseph keep that 💯..positive keep doing the good work LUCERO GANG 👆

  • @bociljago203
    @bociljago203 Год назад +1

    Love it how they understands each other

  • @AhmadAhmad-wg6fk
    @AhmadAhmad-wg6fk 4 года назад +4560

    Everybody gangster until this bald guy starts talking

    • @ebonylover4104
      @ebonylover4104 4 года назад +24

      Hahahaha , real fact

    • @Chastaylor74
      @Chastaylor74 4 года назад +9

      Test my gangster if you want you

    • @ebonylover4104
      @ebonylover4104 4 года назад +6

      @@Chastaylor74 I quit school in 10th grade, and u?

    • @ambergibson371
      @ambergibson371 4 года назад +20

      @@ebonylover4104 What does that have to do with anything...?

    • @ebonylover4104
      @ebonylover4104 4 года назад +5

      @@ambergibson371 Nevermind

  • @sk3lut
    @sk3lut 3 года назад +9357

    sleeping doesn’t scare me, closing my eyes does.

    • @kieferdavis9587
      @kieferdavis9587 3 года назад +22

      @Chris Gamboa exactly straight facts

    • @jasjeetsingh6220
      @jasjeetsingh6220 3 года назад +6

      Is he a whale or a dolphin??

    • @alkha4711
      @alkha4711 3 года назад +38

      Closing your eyes isn’t necessarily sleeping though

    • @morbius7437
      @morbius7437 3 года назад +20

      @@alkha4711 but sleeping is closing your eyes

    • @maera415
      @maera415 3 года назад +16

      @@morbius7437 some people sleep with their eyes open look it up

  • @henriswonders.4905
    @henriswonders.4905 2 года назад

    Dr phil is the real gang boss he knows folk from every n literally every walk of life and has respect from them xx

  • @lwaymann2231
    @lwaymann2231 2 года назад

    i really respect joseph for being able to move on from a life like that and also be able to prevent other from following that same path

  • @slothzzz7379
    @slothzzz7379 4 года назад +7021

    He’s like the whitest dude ever until he starts speaking

  • @cole-nz1pi
    @cole-nz1pi 2 года назад

    this guy is so inspirational

  • @myMelody4life
    @myMelody4life 5 месяцев назад +4

    When Dr. Phil said to the reformed gangster's son: "You're the first in this family to not go the gang route" and everyone broke out in applause, you can see the teen who does want to be a gangster clapping his hands too. I like to think that the message was starting to get through to him.

  • @rosyrue6400
    @rosyrue6400 4 года назад +2571

    Dude at least this kid is listening, not interrupting and overdoing it

    • @ryanjohnjohn3015
      @ryanjohnjohn3015 4 года назад +60

      Rosy Rue you can just tell he doesn’t enjoy the life he’s chosen

    • @BargBarjFIT
      @BargBarjFIT 4 года назад +31

      Every time the kid tried to talk , the dude would just over talk him .. I think he just played it smart when he knew the former gang banger wasn’t gone let him talk .. in one ear and out the other one ..

    • @vengefuldeth
      @vengefuldeth 4 года назад +4

      @@BargBarjFIT Our he regretted what he did and understood what someone who lived a life he might have to and not want to coach him and help him choose the right path to take.

    • @BargBarjFIT
      @BargBarjFIT 4 года назад

      Jonathan Melton u didn’t read nothing I said uh ... 🤣🤣🤣if u believe that 😂😂

    • @uuuultra
      @uuuultra 4 года назад +1

      Shower time gonna suck for him

  • @snackplugt
    @snackplugt 3 года назад +5087

    "Jail doesn't scare me" "losing my freedom does"
    "Drugs don't scare me" "getting high does"

    • @neo.3
      @neo.3 3 года назад +325

      losing 60 seconds doesn't scare me, losing one minute does

    • @snackplugt
      @snackplugt 3 года назад +140

      losing a coupon doesn't scare me
      Paying regular prices does

    • @phenotakuosani2884
      @phenotakuosani2884 3 года назад +106

      Not drinking water doesn't scare me, Thirsting does

    • @somerandomperson5568
      @somerandomperson5568 3 года назад +106

      Being homeless doesn’t scare me, losing my house does.

    • @tavi7808
      @tavi7808 3 года назад +11

      what he’s saying is that if he gets sent to the same jail as his friends he’s not really losing his freedom

  • @studioclassicvision9757
    @studioclassicvision9757 2 года назад

    Great Joseph keep it up

  • @machinegunangel
    @machinegunangel Год назад

    I love this guy so much ❤️! He is so REAL!

  • @fehmismajli3448
    @fehmismajli3448 4 года назад +3209

    “Corona virus doesn’t scare me, COVID-19 does”

    • @iBFP.
      @iBFP. 3 года назад +27

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 BEST ONE SO FAR

    • @theytrynabecray
      @theytrynabecray 3 года назад +1

      @@iBFP. he stole that comment lol.

    • @justmii4887
      @justmii4887 3 года назад +3

      nah man sars-cov2 does

    • @yulianaserrato9540
      @yulianaserrato9540 3 года назад +2

      Lmfaooo 🤣

    • @RenataMonteiroL
      @RenataMonteiroL 3 года назад +1

      😂

  • @burjkhalifa2173
    @burjkhalifa2173 4 года назад +2280

    Drinking doesn’t scare me, swallowing liquids does.

    • @randomdude800
      @randomdude800 3 года назад +23

      *Drinks Hotdog like a BOSS*

    • @vaniapinto8214
      @vaniapinto8214 3 года назад +9

      *Swallowing liquids*

    • @shiloh2735
      @shiloh2735 3 года назад +17

      In prison he will be swallowing liquids for sure.

    • @AnythingLounge
      @AnythingLounge 3 года назад

      @@shiloh2735 gay

    • @shiloh2735
      @shiloh2735 3 года назад +7

      @@AnythingLounge that's the point.

  • @brenterickson9653
    @brenterickson9653 Год назад

    it's nice to see that he seems to have received the advice well

  • @audreyd2799
    @audreyd2799 2 года назад

    I think these are great programs!

  • @tinakyriazis4491
    @tinakyriazis4491 4 года назад +9023

    “Jail doesn’t scare me, losing my freedom does.”
    Ah yes, it seems the floor is made of the floor.

    • @itsyagirlsoph148
      @itsyagirlsoph148 3 года назад +82

      Tina Kyriazis he’s just trying to say he isn’t scared of getting beat up or anything like that I think.

    • @Skeptix1
      @Skeptix1 3 года назад +180

      @@itsyagirlsoph148 going to jail is literally losing your freedom 💀💀💀

    • @gj9157
      @gj9157 3 года назад +16

      @@Skeptix1 Exactly lol

    • @souls_eater307
      @souls_eater307 3 года назад +7

      i want to like but 666 is better than 667

    • @Sai-wf8pz
      @Sai-wf8pz 3 года назад +23

      I dont think u understand the analogy. The floor is made of floor is used for ppl who state the obvious. Not in this situation.

  • @themadviking5746
    @themadviking5746 4 года назад +2404

    When he start's insinuating that dude was too cute for prison dudes whole attitude changed .

    • @mapuangames5847
      @mapuangames5847 4 года назад +46

      @FactsForDayz who doesnt, dumbass

    • @avladi
      @avladi 4 года назад +11

      @@mapuangames5847 right

    • @carlinaibiza4833
      @carlinaibiza4833 4 года назад +9

      Ahhhhhhh I saw it loooooooool them tears were starting to form, eyes all glistening an ish

    • @landri5027
      @landri5027 4 года назад +2

      FactsForDayz it’s true tho

    • @mapuangames5847
      @mapuangames5847 4 года назад +2

      @@emanandchill I'm gonna find you

  • @DavidDiaz-de2qf
    @DavidDiaz-de2qf 2 года назад

    I sent this video to my dear 15 yo son 🙏🏻❤️

  • @carrriebelcher564
    @carrriebelcher564 2 года назад +2

    Dr. Phil is doing a good job to changing many young people's life before it's too late

  • @lolosunderland5028
    @lolosunderland5028 4 года назад +2118

    " everyone is a gangsta until the real gangsta shows up

    • @462mhz
      @462mhz 4 года назад +3

      Who the real gangsta?

    • @lolosunderland5028
      @lolosunderland5028 4 года назад +23

      @@462mhz the former gangsta guy

    • @noway2563
      @noway2563 4 года назад +2

      LoLo Sunderland truth

    • @462mhz
      @462mhz 4 года назад +3

      @@lolosunderland5028 the police,s the real gangsta

    • @lolosunderland5028
      @lolosunderland5028 4 года назад

      @@462mhz eh

  • @ShamanSquirrel
    @ShamanSquirrel 4 года назад +7629

    He real cute....he ain't gonna last long if he goes. 😂

    • @balenciagalifestyle2361
      @balenciagalifestyle2361 4 года назад +16

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 4 года назад +141

      @Cole Pratt I don't even know Andrew Garfield but I still laughed so hard.

    • @UTBBT
      @UTBBT 4 года назад +69

      @Cole Pratt I laughed entirely too hard 😂😂 But I think he is a cutiepie so is Andrew Garfield
      They gonna turn him into a Mrs in prison

    • @babyroses12
      @babyroses12 4 года назад +9

      @@UTBBT just saw on tmz the son of Laurie from older RHOC being attacked by razor carrying gangbanger in jail, she tried hard to save him, he wouldn't listen, now lives in h*ll, -- this kid will wish he is dead in prison!! Smart mouth, he doesn't know races are separated in prison, I know that and I'm retired 😬🐀

    • @johncloois3301
      @johncloois3301 4 года назад +4

      @Cole Pratt Is that supposed to be a bad thing? It is not.

  • @hhHhHUhahauhaHh
    @hhHhHUhahauhaHh 7 месяцев назад

    The moment at the end is very nice

  • @newchannel7.7bviews3second3
    @newchannel7.7bviews3second3 2 года назад +2

    "Jumping off the cliff doesn't scare me. Losing my life does"

  • @bady3759
    @bady3759 4 года назад +3204

    Plot twist: Dr.phil is actually the gang boss and he is gonna take him after the show

  • @mareksimmons9162
    @mareksimmons9162 4 года назад +4680

    “Jail doesn’t scare me, losing freedom does”
    Palpatine doesn’t scare me, the senate does.

    • @xFaytal
      @xFaytal 4 года назад +19

      Marek Simmons LMFAO

    • @zombiefreaktank
      @zombiefreaktank 4 года назад +5

      Oh boy...

    • @stardustsama3688
      @stardustsama3688 4 года назад +55

      It’s treason then

    • @elbuki4006
      @elbuki4006 4 года назад +7

      He meant he not scared what's inside the jail or what could happened to him you god damn idiot.

    • @mozzarella7924
      @mozzarella7924 4 года назад +3

      AnAkyn don't ttry yeet

  • @Jsp1997
    @Jsp1997 10 месяцев назад +4

    Damn they got creeper from Mayans MC on here

  • @maartensmedia
    @maartensmedia 2 года назад

    Mad respect

  • @slize3808
    @slize3808 4 года назад +3602

    Literally every white teenager after a black kid calls him “G”.

    • @oliverjohnston9410
      @oliverjohnston9410 4 года назад +165

      Daniel ._.727 á watch out theres a social justice warrior on the lose

    • @slize3808
      @slize3808 4 года назад +1

      Daniel ._.727 á lol

    • @slize3808
      @slize3808 4 года назад +3

      Daniel ._.727 á not trying to be funny it’s a joke

    • @pulloutcouch6446
      @pulloutcouch6446 4 года назад +48

      Daniel ._.727 á you’re not cool, and everyone who agreed with you is a jackass

    • @fonziiebonez9101
      @fonziiebonez9101 4 года назад +10

      You stole this from that other video abt that other wannabe gangster Dawson smh

  • @mruniverse9500
    @mruniverse9500 4 года назад +8431

    "I love women, but your a pretty looking dude"
    Prison in a nutshell.
    Never had this likes before, don't stop keep'em coming.
    So a lot of people hating me for begging for likes, i am not that kind of people i troll them and those "first comment" people, I was just being silly I guess it sounded better in my head.

    • @erikrobles3995
      @erikrobles3995 4 года назад +37

      Facts

    • @mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm3153
      @mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm3153 4 года назад +46

      For real bruh LMAAAAAAOOOOO

    • @njbhcolio
      @njbhcolio 4 года назад +7

      Lol

    • @nikiski6142
      @nikiski6142 4 года назад +50

      @@mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm3153 wtf is with ur username😂

    • @shathiry
      @shathiry 4 года назад +9

      MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMW hahaha what’s this username

  • @StillAProudAmerican-ll2yc
    @StillAProudAmerican-ll2yc Год назад +1

    Joseph, you are really a great man and I'm proud of you and your son. Will the person next to me stop chopping onions, lol.

  • @StrawberryNinjaNibbles
    @StrawberryNinjaNibbles 2 года назад +2

    That gangster hug at the end was so cute :(

  • @TheJokerman1993
    @TheJokerman1993 3 года назад +1345

    “The dark doesn’t scare me , being around no light does “

    • @leilam.6794
      @leilam.6794 3 года назад +10

      Seriously yelled joking is very logical 😂😂😂

    • @kingpeedorah
      @kingpeedorah 3 года назад +3

      But that thing... It scares me

    • @princeofpeace794
      @princeofpeace794 3 года назад +2

      Jeus is the light of the world 🌎

    • @IlIIlMomo
      @IlIIlMomo 3 года назад +1

      @@princeofpeace794 ah yes, Jeus.

    • @crazybastard2.041
      @crazybastard2.041 2 года назад +1

      @@princeofpeace794 PRAISE JEUS!!!!!!!!!! OH MY GAUD

  • @joshuawalker6863
    @joshuawalker6863 4 года назад +1933

    He didn't need 2.5 minutes tbh. All he has to do was look him straight in the eye, in his most serious tone. And say,
    *"You're very pretty."*

    • @josephking932
      @josephking932 4 года назад +81

      Joshua Walker we can do this the easy way or we can do it the hard way

    • @bobbingtonsmith3981
      @bobbingtonsmith3981 4 года назад +44

      @@josephking932 define hard

    • @Missile6521
      @Missile6521 4 года назад +19

      The choice is yours

    • @koemijoce1628
      @koemijoce1628 4 года назад +12

      I SCREAMED

    • @bleachyuh2438
      @bleachyuh2438 4 года назад +4

      and again he said he wasn't afraid of what happens in jail or what lies in it but rather him losing all the time he lost just because he went there

  • @nikkipennington6271
    @nikkipennington6271 Год назад +7

    This kid is so good looking. So much potential. I hope he straightened up

  • @asdfghjkl-fn5no
    @asdfghjkl-fn5no Год назад +1

    That guy is just amazing.

  • @dreeewdorandom9341
    @dreeewdorandom9341 3 года назад +2948

    Eating with my family doesn’t scare me, washing dishes does

  • @markow4465
    @markow4465 4 года назад +2483

    "Jail doesn't scare me, losing my freedom does." is like the equivalent of saying "I love women but you're a good looking dude."

    • @itheivoidi9151
      @itheivoidi9151 4 года назад +23

      No

    • @tacotech777
      @tacotech777 4 года назад +144

      He's just warning him about prison rape

    • @Alexander-dv7vp
      @Alexander-dv7vp 4 года назад +3

      But saying he’s not scared of jail makes sense

    • @bluegirl278
      @bluegirl278 4 года назад +7

      Yeah we get it, I think that the commenter was just trying to make a joke.

    • @dominiclee3784
      @dominiclee3784 4 года назад

      The irony in this damn video

  • @gandysweet4288
    @gandysweet4288 25 дней назад

    So thankful for his words of wisdom ❤❤ (former gang member) ❤️

  • @UrGirlWantzMe
    @UrGirlWantzMe 2 года назад

    from gang member to motivational influencer...great career tbh. sales mentoring/motivation/influencer. respect man

  • @jackal3548
    @jackal3548 4 года назад +1936

    "I'm not scared of going to jail, I'm scared of losing my freedom."
    According to japanese legend, if you are not sleeping, it is because you are awake.

  • @JOEYCOOKSTME
    @JOEYCOOKSTME 2 года назад +3936

    I love how he didn’t try to use scare tactics. It’s just real talk. 🤝

    • @josephfrechette9916
      @josephfrechette9916 2 года назад +28

      Although I have to admit the manpon speech from scared straight was pure gold.

    • @MrWood-pw8nn
      @MrWood-pw8nn 2 года назад +46

      He did mention one time he doesn’t agree with the scare tactics, which makes him different, all respect to him

    • @IWonTheArgument
      @IWonTheArgument 2 года назад +1

      @@josephfrechette9916 Frl😂

    • @robjits_9133
      @robjits_9133 2 года назад +33

      I dunno man.."you're a good looking dude, I love women, but you're a good looking dude" is pretty scary 😂

    • @Nowhennowherenoworry
      @Nowhennowherenoworry Год назад +5

      You have the gangster’s son’s name.

  • @dontworrybehappy5431
    @dontworrybehappy5431 2 года назад

    That bro hug at the end I hope HE FELT THAT BECAUSE I DID! 🥺😄

  • @stacywilliams5895
    @stacywilliams5895 2 года назад +4

    When you say “jail don’t scare me” that means you’re really scared. Life is no joke Chas is young he doesn’t know anything. He needs to learn making bad choices is a bad thing. Hearing he’s a track star! WHAT?! He needs to get it together. As for Joseph Jr. I’m proud he broke that family cycle of felony makes me proud.

  • @thenonsenseguy2364
    @thenonsenseguy2364 3 года назад +4098

    Can we appreciate the ex gangster son for coming out on top regardless of the circumstances he was brought up in .

  • @mexiejew
    @mexiejew 2 года назад +1639

    That "You're a good looking dude, love women, but You're a good looking dude" is subtle and very powerful

    • @s.s4661
      @s.s4661 2 года назад +157

      Yeah, exactly. The subtext in what he said just perfectly described why things go on the way they do in prison.

    • @Angie_bae
      @Angie_bae 2 года назад +113

      Letting him know not to drop the soap

    • @yeshuaislord6880
      @yeshuaislord6880 Год назад +30

      @James Furey She just quoted what the guy said cause he might get raped if he goes to jail by other men. It'd do more than just scar him

    • @WilliamJohnson-lq7bd
      @WilliamJohnson-lq7bd Год назад +4

      Yeshua Is Lord, She didn't quote him. He never said that.
      She made a flippant remark that made light of male-on-male gang rape. If it isn't happening to women, most women don't take it seriously.
      I like you name, because Jesus is Lord, but your reply is poorly thought out.

    • @yeshuaislord6880
      @yeshuaislord6880 Год назад +19

      @@WilliamJohnson-lq7bd Seriously? Her comment was correct. It wasn't to make light of gay rape. Maybe it wasn't her quoting him but it's an inference of his comment "I love women, but you are a good looking dude". Calling me stupid doesn't change the facts. He is saying with his looks, he would get raped by gay men. Not dropping the soap is a nicer way of saying rapped in the shower. I don't know whom she is mocking

  • @dalewilliams4451
    @dalewilliams4451 Месяц назад +1

    Alot of wisdom can come from the people who have made the worst mistakes in their lives. This man speaks from his soul his very core and he speaks it true. Love is powerful, there's nothing gay about having love in your heart as a man, it makes you a better person. Touch the hearts of other people, it's worth your weight in gold.

  • @regalcartoon3952
    @regalcartoon3952 Год назад +2

    At least this wannabe gangster had enough heart and decency to meet his eyes. Instead of staring at the floor and smiling like the other one.

  • @RightCenterBack321
    @RightCenterBack321 4 года назад +996

    There's nothing more inspiring than a reformed gang member.

    • @uuuultra
      @uuuultra 4 года назад +3

      More like "nothing more Uncommon than a reformed gang member"

    • @lyrikalinyoswiminpoo
      @lyrikalinyoswiminpoo 4 года назад +5

      These are the men that women want.

    • @dannicolmatthew
      @dannicolmatthew 4 года назад +4

      @@uuuultra Reformed gang members aren't uncommon. People change their life around all the time, people can change you know

    • @sarcasm2960
      @sarcasm2960 4 года назад +5

      a 9 year old genius who earned his electrical engineering degree is more inspiring.

    • @samperrin7965
      @samperrin7965 4 года назад +1

      @@sarcasm2960 Not really