‘We’re Talking About Me Here; This Is My Show,’ 15-Year-Old Says To Dr. Phil
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- A teen whose allowance was lowered to $1,000 a month says her mom should be giving her more money. See what happens when Dr. Phil questions her about how she spends it.
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Hi Dr. Phill
Hi doc
Whatsup
I feel bad for you dealing with this person
Hi dr phil
"She works all the time. She doesn't do anything for me."
Except _work all the time_ to feed your sorry hass...
Yep.
To be honest that one one thing they should have taken as a very strong hit as to why she is the way she is
Not to "feed" for her own lavish lifestyle, too, you think?
Hey uhh is she working or Is she asking for pocket money?
What planet are you on. Her mother isn't working in order to feed her daughter. Her mother is very wealthy and could retire now and still feed her daughter.
In Asia if we act like this to our parent, our face Is gonna hit the wall real quick.
great thing I'm asian then
In arab too lol.
@@baguettes2438 same
Africa u can't even do this
Lol yes of course
Some poor guy is gonna think she’s cute, ask her out, and not realize the nightmare his life is about to become
Lol this was fake. She had a video on her RUclips
@@xoxokim123 got a link to that video???
Right!!! Haha
she should be a star of a movie... or like a punishment a judge can give to rich criminals by making her their wife for a year
You mean some rich guy.... No way she is gonna date some poor man...
OMG, the arrogance of this kid. Give her nothing in terms of an allowance, and tell her to get a job and earn the money to get what she wants. She’ll learn a lesson real quick.
I swear.
They did and she cried lmao!!!
Yeah, why didn't the topic of getting a job come up in this conversation?
shed sell it to a man rather than work
I can now understand why some animals eat their young.
its a kindness - put them out of their misery
Same here dude
Epic
Lmao
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That mother's raised a perfect little narcissist. Way to go mom.
Yeah, because the absent father had zero responsibility in her upbringing?
@@AwakenedIndigo No. I'm talking about the mother. Good point though.
the parents are to blame though - what she needs is a good slap & plenty more of them
@@irw4350 You can see that she is reachable.
The absence of a father figure can cause this. I don't know what led to her mom become a single mother. In case there is a divorce then there could be issues in her in the first place or issues in him. A child needs both parents. this is a broken family. The child will definitely have social disorders.
if you feel like a failure, just come back to this video to raise your self-esteem and understand how amazing and incredible human being YOU ARE!
lol so true
Oh thanks i feel a lot better about myself. Hehe
Prob better not to buy a 200 thousand dollar car for some brat who likely crash it anyway
AND WHAT A WONDERFUL DAUGHTER I AM BLESSED WITH!
Oohh this is actually a comment many people should take advantage of! Absolutely right 🎉
When I got my license I got to drive my parents 1979 caprice classic with 150,000 miles in 1991, and I was thrilled!
I got to drive, occasionally, my parent's PINTO! 😂
This brat doesn't know what life's about. :)
parents who spoil their kids like this need to get some serious help. So ungrateful.
This is what happens when money raises someone instead of parents
Theyre only discussing "that mean green"💵💵💵
The mother did this to herself. My mom would've knocked the stupid right out of me.
Black parents right?😀😀
No, but they didn't play. They were Depression Era kids, and knew what a hard time and situation looked like.
Exactly
same with my arab parents
My mom would have WHIPPED the stupid out of me!
Unless this is a joke, she is what is wrong with America
Elizabeth L what’s her RUclips?
@@kenymarie4807 Beverly hills
Keny Marie Nicholette Gray
@@macronfrog8360 she made a video saying it was fake
Isabelle she still is extremely rich and lives a life that most could only dream of
...and this is why you DON'T wait until your child is a teenager to tell them NO!
her: “i need 1000 dollars a month.”
me: “mom can i have 5 dollars?”
my mom: “no, go get a job.”
i live on 700 a month...that's BEFORE rent and food. if i can do this, no freaking 15yo spoiled brat needs half that much
@@aa-12isbestcodmwgun22 i live on hospital bills....
@@kantraxoikol6914 how does anyone survive on $700?! I’m my city you can’t even get a 1 bedroom studio for less than $1000 month in the ghetto parts of town LOL 😆
@@paralysis_demon_hunter it’s probably just different places because where i live nothing is nearly as expensive as some big coty
Mom i need 5 euro, "Why for ???"
Traumatised? someone probably told her to put her phone away in class
Or that the classroom, and infact the entire universe does in fact NOT revolve around her.
Looking at the mom, i am not totally surprised that this kid turned out like that, the mother is clearly also a "high maintenance" lady.
She has “Traumatized” merch now!
@@actualwakandangirl7121 does... Does she actually???
@@blurryhds Yep She does!
@@actualwakandangirl7121 ugh. Also, I tried to get onto her merch store to see just a minute ago, but it said the site wasn't safe and it might steal my credit card info or something. Idk if she's purposefully put that on her merch store or what.
"She works all the time. She doesn't do anything for me." Wow. How can someone be so insensitive?
What would anyone expect. She was raised that way. Pavlov theory
Someone with an inflated sense of self-importance.
I know this is irrelevant but her Mom is beautiful.
well at least she backed it up by saying she cooks SOMEtimes
I wish was given custody of this female. While she was out I would have the locks changed and not let her back in. That is how you handle garbage. You remove it.
GET A JOB AND BUY YOUR OWN G WAGON.
I dont even know what to say about this girl. This is sick and sad.
Isn’t it her parents’ fault she turned out to be a spoiled brat?
Yeah but it’s her fault she still feels entitled, she needs a wake up call
Yeah, but the good "dr" needs to take a certain position for entertainment sake.
Yes, if u see this u probably won't like it, but, it's the same way with people against gay people or racist people, that's all they know, that's how they were raised, that's what they were taught to believe. It is partially their fault but it is also mostly the parents fault for telling them these things and raising them like that.
@@dan-ho1zz give her a 1999 car 😂😂
Yep! She did say that she was spoiled through out her life
Jesus this girl be getting angry for lowering her allowance from $2500, imma be happy with $10 a month
I don't get allowance
malie buggins same:’)
@@beakyy4827 ye idc tho honestly bc my parents do pay for food and devices
malie buggins for me it’s because I’m ONLY 15 and apparently I’m too small
@@beakyy4827 oh lol
When i look at people like this I'm glad how my parents raised me
Totally. Rather have some trauma and self esteem issues but be a productive responsible selfless honest hard working adult that takes care of himself since 17y old than this poor excuse of a person. She’s set up for a terrible adult life
Mom taught my brother and me her work ethic by example. He and I passed the same work ethic on to all of our children, and the grandchildren are learning her work ethic too. This was her legacy. She is no longer with us, we all miss her. She taught us well and for all her sacrifice and hard work we continue to be grateful ❤.
Same😅
I totally agree.
Get a job and face real life .
Great job mom ! You created this monster !!
This woman has raised a monster, tough love is required
It seems to run in the family.
Too late 4 that now........
Tough love on the mom too
To the 'parent' (term used very loosely) - You reap what you sow.
Unfortunately all kids everywhere have this scence of entitlement to some degree now and the parents are to blame
Her: I got traumatized after going to school.
Me: That school must have introduced her to the word "NO"
Totally agree. 👍
Exactly ! Spot on !
Some teacher interfered with her master manipulation plans with the word no.
Maybe the other kids rejected her bull sh*t, and she couldn't handle not being worshipped.
and the concept of sharing.... :D
If i had spoken to my parents like this i would be taught a lesson in humility real quick
I'd be 6 feet underground and decomposing
You would never have spoken to your parents this way because your parents did notvrsise an obnoxious spoiled brat. The mother is to blame for allowing the daughter to have such selfish expectations. @cromazac
Me too
I wouldn’t have even spoken to my parents like this.
We weren’t brought up to expect expensive gifts, let alone tell our parents what to spend their money on.
It wouldn’t have even entered our heads.
My father had a thick belt in his closet. He called it the persuader. When my brother or I got out of hand, he would get it out and trust me, we were more than "almost persuaded".
This is the definition of narcissism. Unreal how unprepared she will be for the real world.
This kid isn't just spoiled. If narcissism was a person, it would be her.
I don't think she's a narcissist, just a very hurt and neglected child.
Emotional trauma and neglect during childhood are root causes of narcissistic personality disorder. The child feels inadequate and worthless, wich leads it to develop a persona/facade of unusually high sense of self worth, superiority and confidence, in order to cope and compensate. Behind this facade, the core remains vulnerable, making the narcissist unable to handle any form of criticism. Criticism is percieved as an attack aginst the facade of perfection and leads to vicious resistance. So its safe to say, every narcissist is hurt child at core. But ofcourse this doesnt conclude every neglected or traumatised child will develop narcissistic pd. Some develop perfectly healthy, some may develop schizoid pd, depression etc.
@@aninafouche I think when it comes to the spoilt kids on Dr. Phil she seems the mildest. Yes, sure she's really spoilt and used to a lifestyle that's out of touch for a lot of people (myself included lol - if my parents offered me a C-class I'd be amazed), but she doesn't seem to far gone. Like she doesn't seem like a "bad kid" if you get what I mean. I feel like if her mum put in the effort into reparenting her it wouldn't take as much to make her come out alright.
She's definitely not a narcissist, at least to my understanding of the word. Spoilt: absolutely. Selfish: yes. But not a narcissist, I feel we throw that word around very liberally these days. But maybe I'm wrong.
@@WWETheDeadManDTFNever Thought Of It Like That!
I wouldn't blame her. You don't know what reality she grew up in. Her perception of reality is different from yours or mine. Of course her demands sound completely exaggerated but you don't know how she grew up, maybe you would think the same in her reality
As an Asian, from my childhood till now I've only received..
B E L T
S L I P P E R S
@@MinhPham-vf6jz B R O O M
Some times kung fu too
I still have some badass battle scars
Dough roller
Just realised how wonderful my son is when I watched this. Its his birthday next month and I said I wanted to get him a £250 cricket bat now he is in the 1st team. He thanked me for such a good idea but said it is wey too expensive for a birthday present and he is happy with the old bat he has.
He will definitely be getting the new bat he wishes he had...
Means that you're a good parent, congrats for raising such a great young man
Congrats to your son, mate!
Aww sweet son, Great job!
If you like, I want to suggest that if your son said that, just tell him that you want to spend and ask him what he really needs+wants right now. When you say he shows concern, then he really has a logic behind it too it seems. Nice kid you’ve got there👍😊
That's the difference between a son and a daughter.
I always worked since 9th grade. I worked in a restaurant full tume after school until after i graduated, bought my own car, clothes,etc. And moved out when i was 17
I am Asian... i showed this video to my mom, who is also an Asian... her exact words were...
"One tight smack on her neck and her soul will align perfectly with all her stars and she will be a good kid again"
LOL
BRO LMAOO
Gotta love Asian parenting
Oh I think she's past the stage of neck smacking.
LMAOOO IKR
This girl didn't raise herself. The parents created this sense of entitlement.
Absolutely correct!
Beverly Hills & Californication culture pitched in a few ideas, too.
Not necessary. There are very many families in California (LA/SFO) where one of the kids behaves acts all entitled and stuck up where as the other kid behaves all modest and mature. Despite having the exact same upbringing.
@@vikkran401 please don't procreate.
@@vikkran401 no. if parents don't discipline their kids, never get mad at them, always give them what they want, their kids will turn out like this.
I just can't wrap my head around how people like her end up being more financially successful than me. I legit don't understand.
Nepotism bruh, it's a serious issue.
Narcissistic and Manipulative
@@dead7781 I think you don't know the meaning of nepotism
@@matt-hw6mw people get opportunities because of the people they know, not because of their skills. Am I correct, professor?
It’s a broken system
The job of a parent is to raise her kid to be good citizen and not to be a burden to society. This mom
fails miserably!!
The girl doesn't looks like a 15 year old
EXACTLY.... I just turn 15 1 month ago bruh
@@Jboy4L bruh I’m 16 and I look 12 👀
2:08 ...... & She sounds like a 5 year old
ik man im 15 and i look nothing like her
That's what I was thinking, I'm 17 almost 18 and she looks way older than me, she looks like she's in her 20's.
There’s feeling entitled and then there is this attitude, which is on a whole new level.
The crazy thing is this legitimately the logic courts have when it comes to divorce and child support and alimony. You HAVE to provide them with "the lifestyle they're accustomed to" even if it's opulent and insane
She makes the "Cash me outside" girl look like an angel. How'd that happen?
Let's not say things in haste
The Cash me outside girl is actually making money as a rapper.
@@fionasmom6254 she makes money off her only fans. She doesn’t even make good music. The only fans is where it’s at.
How bout that.
It's usually the parents' fault.
I was so scared to get a job.. but here i am now at a local retail store, helping and minding my own business and getting along with the customers and employees. Depsite my short temper, I never had issues and i know netter than that.
This gives the word “spoiled” a whole new definition.
As an Indian, I can't even imagine what'll happen to me if i acted like that... ⁰_⁰
.... so what's life like on the reservation, Sleeping Toe ?
kuch ni bs sb kuch laal
Don't u even dare 😂🤣😅
I traveled to India a couple times in the pre-COVID era and If you live there - Uber Xs don't have cars above old Civics (called city) and old Skoda Rapids. Those cars barely cost $10k. Also, $231k would be the price of a luxury apartment in most neighbourhoods. Not the same in California, let alone Beverly Hills. That doesn't mean her demand for $2.5k and G-wagon is justified though.
@@rhassan3212 ????
honestly it's her parent's fault that she's such a brat, they shouldn't allow her to step on them like that
Totally agree with you 💯%
I really don't blame the child... I blame her mother for letting things getting this far. Listening to that kid, Dr. Phil can't fix her!
My respect for me has risen 10000 times after seeing this gal 😂
😂 Brilliant comment
Because of your comment my respect for you has risen 1000 times and I don't even know who you are. 😂😂
This is the best comment ever. I can relate
LMAOO FR 😂😂😂🤣🤣😭
I would buy the nice young lady a G Wagon and take her to test drive it at Pikes Peak right after I had the brakes removed.
Imagine attending this episode , and wasting three hours of your life
Sorry but I found her scence of entitlement hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
nah this is entertaining
you wouldn't............You'd walk out of the set
Congratulations Mom. You've done a great job raising her. Wow
Fault of parents
An entitled brat!
At the core of liberalism is the spoiled child miserable, as all spoiled children are, unsatisfied, demanding, ill-disciplined, despotic and useless. Liberalism is a philosophy of sniveling brats.
This is what happens when you don’t spend enough time on raising ur child and instead give them money to make yourself feel better.
@@georgemarak58 So true! children need time, love, and discipline.
She needs more time with her family. This is not about money. ❤
The worst thing about this? She’s not even embarrassed in front of this audience or viewers to talk like this. She genuinely believes she has every right to act this way. Definitely on the parents. When I was a kid my parents would always tell me how you behave is a direct reflection on us. Be respectful and behave. This young lady when she becomes legal age needs to be shown the door.
Same here.
She don't feel embarrassed coz she don't realise she's an idiot...
She's gonna learn some hard lessons in life and it makes me happy knowing that.
The fact that she didn’t get a G wagon is a very hard lesson for her.. poor girl
@@mohamadkhazal2390 🤣🤣🤣
YESS
youre a messed up person if thats the kind of thing you feel happy about
Nice one haha 👍
Americans(US) are a funny species. I love them. What a nice constant source of entertainment. XD
there's weird ppl everywhere relax
True, as an American I enjoy watching what the other Americans do cough cough raiding the capitol
As an American, I can concur.
Judging Americans by watching Dr. Phil is like judging Indians by watching Bollywood movies.
lol im the 69th like
This girl is the "before" character in an after school special where her mom sends her to work on the family form in Kansas for a year and she learns the value of hard work.
The parent set the precedent a long time ago for this child's mindset. Huge parenting failure. Entitlement at that age will breed a non motivated adult.
Stacey B - oh no, she is motivated to get Everything for Free, and she is only 15 years old...And a real Entitled, Brat...Perhaps there is a way her Mom can leave her at the Fire Station...
Wonder what kind of a life she'll have in 10 or 15 years when she has to fend for herself
And what was that? Excelling in her field?
@@Minime163 She will find someone who wiullmprovide for her. That is what she is asiming for
Anyone else slapping their computer, hoping she can feel it?!
I kinda shot a hole in my phone just to make her shut up
🤞
Just you probably lol
I m going to subscribe your channel for that
@Saurabh Erm? you realise that Computers aren't obsolete yet right?
Some people are very interesting. Only in America!
Lol sure are 😂
Exactly
XD
Trueeeee
murica
There's a mom and a kid who truly deserve each other.
I wanna try and act like her in front of my father.
But the possibilities of me having any chance to come back and tell the story is really low.
Lol you must be a Nigerian hahha
same but arab
Not me having no father to act in front of.
yep!
we gon be dead meat 🍖
I guess you could say the mom got what she paid for.😂
Well put and...played.
" I need a G Wagen". You need a slap more like.
More like a belt whooping
I mean they are nice
and expensive
She wants to give me Mercedes c class
Literally the luck them she said she want a g wagon
A reality "SLAP" not a check!!!
I’m sorry but what is a G wagon?? I think I’m about to feel dumb… lol
Im asian, and i said the same things to my parent like this girl. And now im homeless.
She's the type of girl that annoy her boyfriend and then cry forcing him to stay with her if he tries to break up
That was oddly specific…
sounds like that happened to u LOL
facts
@@Julius11111 odd?
Classic borderline. Abandonment issues.
“She wants to give me a Mercedes c class”
This girl is so ungrateful to her mother.
Word of advice, Filming yourself from below while stretching your neck back doesn't make you look more badass.
@@matthewsdicksons5110 wise advice
it coulda been a c63
The most ungrateful daughter ever.
@@lynx3576 true; but whose fault is it?
Her: i need her to give 2000dollars a month
Me:mom can I have this candy?
Mom:NO!
Fr
I get 5 dollars a week and I feel like I'm spoiled.
@@potatoplaysvalorant1179 you guys get money every week?????
@@thineevee7345 yea :P
@@potatoplaysvalorant1179 I get £5 a week (which is like roughly $3.50 dollars) and I never really felt lucky that I get that until today. (I'm not a spoiled brat) It was just part of my life I guess. But now I realise that I'm actually really lucky that I get money every week. So I'm thankful for that now.
Mom is an enabler
She knows that she's being unrealistic and bratty ... She just wanted to come on and be Bhad Bhabie 2.0
Her mother literally bought her a G Wagen and then another one because she didn't like the first G Wagen. She's more serious than you'd think.
@@itsbigal92 not so much about the materialistic stuff, I'm sure she could pull that off - I mean the whole "this is my show" plus her body language screams fake dominating.
Kinda worked tho, her yt channel took off bc of this
Yeah she admitted that it was fake
She truly embarrassed herself bigtime on this show and could almost guarantee most guys wouldn't want to date her.
Yup, she just threw up a circle of orange cones around herself with the flashing sign: DANGER ZONE.
I mean she does RUclips now and has made a lot of her own money
@@jeremiahgalindo367 what?
Don't uderstimate american men, let's not forget the Jhonny Depp conondrum
yk it’s fake right LMAOO go watch her yt video she’s not rlly a spoiled brat like in the show
Dang my mom doesn’t give me any money...this girl should be grateful.
So you never had money rewards here?
@@MartialArtswithLucyLu nope
@@emilyblankenship2237 Woah that's unusal to me here since when I was younger me and other people would get money rewards for chores and stuff here!
@@MartialArtswithLucyLu oh well you’re lucky lol
Truth.
Wow. She really is living in an alternate reality. Things just drop into her lap. Like magic.
Her face isn’t moving when She’s talking...
😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Weird IG.....
she has no expression or personality lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's probably already had botox to fix those adolescent wrinkles.
You know you’ve screwed up if Dr. Phil calls you the b word.
It’s always one form of rudeness or another coming from him. The only question is the delivery. He really does means well, but the way he tries to help people actually alienates them.
@@jeffreese5977 how can this girl be helped she is spoilt and horrible personality and needs a wake up call probably should send her to boot camp realise how hard it is.
He was referring to the mom, sarcastically
Someone doesn't understand sarcasm
timestamp?
She actually had the guts to say "We're talking about me here; this is my show" 🤣
She's a damn narcissistic demon
Couple years from affording her dreams when she starts her phoneyfans. Only way she can get the easy money. Because you know she'll never work at a real job.
Good on her
That's when Dr. Phil showed her the exit.
@@substancep21 Yeah, but I don't see a G-Wagon in her near future.
Bruh being fed 3 times a day (sometimes 5) and having a place to live on, to sleep on is already enough.
Poor her, seems like her mom treat her with a rich lifestyle. That's why she's hard to be grateful
If you want more, then earn it urself. Easy.
enough for survival, children need nourishment and to be taught how to take care of themselves, this girl clearly wasn’t taught that that’s why she’s like this
My heart is broken-15 years old and already dead in the eyes.
Very observant ~ Sad, but so true.
Unfnbelivable. Doesnt go to public school cause nobody can stand her vibe!
I feel like crying. I'm an African in Africa and this, how she acting, is how you ask your mom to expire you real quick. I blame no one other than the mom. Wow
I think we can also blame the father
Yep.. both parents.
@@MeneerSnubbel the father is likely the rich one who was divorced and now the mother she daughter are living off the settlement. They are each as bad as each other, 2 greedy pigs
This girl is old enough to take responsibility for the way she acts & the way she communicates with people.
Yah its sad. Unfortunately, a small chunk of America is filled with people like this. No wonder the rest of the world hates us 😂
Unbelievable! This child is a hollow shell.
Looking at this family… I’m very greatful for the middle class family life I have!
Yes! It's nice to be able to afford what you want growing up, but I would give up all of that to not be like her. Not even kidding. This is god-awful. Never seen anything like it! Seriously thought this only happened in the movies!?
I have a middle class family too and it’s better to me because I would hate myself if I was a spoiled brat
i was happy when iwas low class family
good for you🙄
@@aarizmushtaq4301 ???
If my daughter spoke to me like that, 360 roundhouse out the window
🤣🤣
Kirkkirkkir 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"I'm not just being a brat!" LOL
Major BRAT
She's only acting the way she was raised. She was never taught any bit of responsibility, consequences, or values. Her mom is reaping what she sewed.
Her: I only got 1000 this month
Me: finds 5 pence on the floor
Me: I’m gonna go buy nasa
Wait for me broo
epic
Yesterday I got 3 Dollar 😭😭 I'm the happiest
@Little Big why do i need money when there is no camera
Gonna have to exchange for dollars though.
This mom is the real monster here.She allowed this mess of a child behave like this.
mother and father!
I dunno maybe she can adopt me! I need an allowance too ! 🤣🤣🤣
I am a lawyer, and my wife is an accountant for our state. We have two kids. I remember when our daughter turned 14, she went through this phase of wanting everything under the sun. She knew not to talk back, but she moped around the house and was very disengaged. Our son at that time was 11.
We told her straight up, this is OUR money. You start working at 15. We provide a house, clothes, pay bills, etc. your job as of right now is to clean your room, do your laundry, get good grades, and any other house work we tell you to do. Period. She continued attitude for a little bit….UNTIL my wife took the tv out of her room, took her phone for two weeks, and told her verbatim, “you think because we have money you get everything. Well, this is going to show you there are kids everywhere who don’t have these things. You will go to school and come home. You can watch TV with us, or sit in your room. The longer you have this attitude, the longer it remained locked up. Your choice. We are teaching you to work for the lifestyle you want. Right now, you have no lifestyle because you don’t pay for anything. This is called the bottom, and you’re at the bottom right now. Choice is yours?”
Within a week, she apologized and understood. She still didn’t get her stuff back, but she wasn’t moping around the house. Two years later, time to get a car. We said, whatever you save from your job we will match it. If you save $200, you’ll get $400. If you save $3,000,you’ll get $6,000. It all depends on you. If you shop your money away, it’s your fault, not ours. You have to teach your kids the real deal. Nothing is given in our household
This is the way to be with our kids.I have told my son from early on that he will work for everything he owns beyond the basics we provide him.
Spot on!!
how much did she save?
@@mathewshackelford8037 she ended up saving $3.100 for the summer. She spent a little over $300 for herself and kept $200 in the bank.
For her discipline, because we truly didn’t help after we gave her tips, we over matched and gave her $4,100. But, what my wife suggested was get the car and co sign for it. Put $1,000 down, put the rest in her checking. That’s how she will make her payments. We don’t let her work during the school year because she is involved in sports and clubs. We still want her to be a kid. She is responsible for making the payments from her own account through her check book to learn to balance her own book. We feel it teaches her to be responsible about paying bills on time, but it’s also building her credit.
What she didn’t know is for the summer we made her give us $20 a week for gas taking her and picking her up. But, we kept that money aside. And when school started, she got $240 back. On her own, she put that in her savings account.
I by no means am saying she will turn out perfect. As a husband and father, I can feel good saying I’m doing my best to prepare. She wanted to work during the school year. My wife was fine with it. I said no. We are teaching her to be responsible, but I want her to enjoy being a kid. I want her to hang out at football games, talk about boys, do their little dance steps, sleepovers. She can work her part time job in the summer. You’re a teenager once, and I want her to enjoy it! She starts college next year, so the responsibility will change between managing free time and fun versus hitting those books and blocking out the outside noise to achieve that goal.
You sound like such an awful father. Enjoy growing old alone
No sympathy for the mom. She created a MONSTER
Where's the sperm donor?
Me: what's a Mercedes c-class?
Also me: looks it up and sees over $40,000 dollar cars
Me: THIS BIT-
@samurai I'm literally poor and have no idea about cars only the pouplar ones like Jeep's, lambos, mustang, and a Mercedes. I have no idea that even a car💀🤣
@Mo Ok? Not everyone is into cars 🤣
@Mo same bro
I can just happy with Mercedes 190E than the newer C Class models
Haha same
I feel so sorry for her. If her parents don’t “re-parent” soon she’s not going to have many friends or family that would want to deal with her. Her parents spoiled her rotten. Needs to be fixed immediately!
Taking the money away would be a start
She'll have few friends, but I guarantee she'll seduce some dude who has no idea of the lifelong liability he's taking on.
Girl is a Mess !!! Someone needs to drop her off in the middle of no where and leave her there
Why do you think she's "traumatized" from public school in Beverly Hills? Nobody liked her
What, pray, is “re-parent”? Does that involve having a father and a mother? Who set limits - which is quite different to "negotiate standards". That would be one of those pretend concepts I suppose, which people invent but cannot define. Enough - this sheila is a brat, send it to its room and let it out for a half day a week to help with the housework.
"We're talking about me here, this is my show"
Is she out of her mind
😲😲😲
lollll its like she cant read or something the name of this show is literally DR. PHIL
Its laughable though she is indignant because she doesn't get more than the average working mans wage and has no doubt that shes intitled to it
Nice to see a young woman hold her own against this man. The man that berates young mentally unwell women for fame ego and money. Go baby girl.
It's the mom's fault, that's how the mom raised her.
BINGO !!!
The girls is an actress
No
Not true. Two siblings who were raised the exact same way behave differently. Upbringing is just one of the factors, there are other factors that influence a teenager's mindset and attitude. Company (as in friend circle) and aptitude to name a few.
@@rhassan3212 Parents' role is to identify and override outside influences.
When I was 16 I worked as a bartender for 500 dollars, a month and I did pizza delivery as well, my parent never gave me more than 10 bucks a month, not that we were poor, they were teaching me how to respect money
No way a bar would hire you at 16 liar
@@mrc6808 its possible. Not very likely to happen but possible.
Should have used that 500 bucks to learn grammar.
@@mrc6808 some people live outside of the US believe it or not
Liar. It's illegal
Wow !! I'm speechless. This goes way beyond being a spoiled, entitled brat..
When I was a kid of her age, I went door to door in my neighborhood asking for a single dry fish(common here for curry) so that my family won't go to bed empty stomach.
Painful to even think about those days
Hy.. hard time teach us difference b/w what we need and daily need.
Boring
@@xlantboi 😐
It's the best example of what actually a bad parenting is.
I love how everyone is traumatized or have mental issues, 10yrs ago noone would have
dared to say that.
because in today's world, everyone thinks they are owed acceptance from others regardless of anything. spoiled generation.
@@shuarma0 that sounds pretty wise. in fact, it seems not uncommen for ppl to demand special treatment because of "what they gone trough in live".
Mental issues or trauma doesnt give the right to anyone to act appallingly. That mother has done her daughter no favours. Daughter is going to have one tough life
Yeah… in a decade things change… times have changed… now people are more comfortable admitting when they’re traumatizing or mentally ill .. doesn’t mean they’re lying
@@polpterusdelhezi people who have gone through things deserve treatment LMAO
Mama is so proud of that mess.
i think they removed the "No comments allowed" thing off this video
Yup
There is just too much to say..😂
They're doing that to a lotta videos now
LET'S GOOOOO
Indeed
Ik she not complaining that someone’s rent isn’t enough for her 💀🤚🏾
The daughter is obnoxious but the mother only has herself to blame....
This girl needs a massive reality check, like change the locks on all the doors and say good luck.
This kind of outlook on life is mind-boggling. My parents never bought me a car. When I was in high school I was rolling around in a $700 Honda, that I paid for, and buying gas for my 30 mile school commutes. Yeah, my parents bought me some things. But I've never received as much money or possessions in my entire life that match what her car alone is worth. She's gonna learn the real hard way how most people have to live.
I wish we could get a car that cheap……
@@marinapozniak well that was also 6 years ago, the car market has changed a lot since then. And that was also an exchange with my family, because I bought it off my stepmom, and not with some random car seller.
Pressure makes diamonds bro, ironically all the money she's been given gives her no incentive to create or make anything that has value, doesn't have good social skills, really no path toward any goal, she better wisen up and see her lifestyle is actually her mothers😂
I grew up poor but had hard-working parents. After high school, I joined the military and spent 22 years working. In fact, I sent money to my parents for many years to help them live a little easier life. There's no excuse for this child's behavior.
If I acted like this my parents would have my head on a silver platter. Everyone in my family has always worked for what we have.
Keep the faith.
Not allowed to hit women. No excuses.
@@The_Bit_Player equality
American parents need to introduce the "Sandals" to their kids. Generations of men possibly turning into a dictator were made straight with this almighty tool.
@GachaKitty Pepper its an art, my grandma use the sandal with my little cousin a couple times, hes pretty good behaved
@@oddiseyaatrox2813 you don’t need to hurt your child to teach them respect. Just don’t always give them everything what they want.
Nd then 911 u will be in prison 4sho atleast 1 year
@GachaKitty Pepper uh no, abuse is torturing lmao. Sandal method is pretty good because it shows your kids that you’re the dominant one, not them. You control them until they’re 18, as in an adult, and then they can fend off for themselves
😂😂😂 Rakuzen
I told my mother one day I didn’t want to go to school as I didn’t want to - she pretty much dislocated her shoulder from the wind up before she started the beat the motivation back into me.
This girl is a nightmare. Well done single mom.
Wdym? It’s the moms fault for not raising her daughter properly. Maybe she should have educated her daughter better and not given her a $1000 dollar allowance a month.
@@georgemarak58 that was a sarcasm bruh 😂 chill
If you can, can you ask that girl with the allowance to buy me something thats 40 bucks
I haven't had even a dollar allowance ever in my life and i am 18 now.
hehehehhe i get 5$ a week get trolled but now i dont get 5$ a week unless i take out the trash
Same
i get like 7 bucks a week but thats cuz i spend a few days a week far from home for the whole day and i donèt wanna starve lol
Same here bro... Never got any weekly or monthly allowance... Whenever i needed something had to ask my parents and after they see fit , they use to give me money only what is required to buy... I always dreamnt that time that when i get a job i will get all the things i ever wanted... And i did that... Got my first bike with own money... now i am 31 and i realize it was for my own good.. Not getting free money made me realize value of money and that how hard it is to earn it
yeah, ive worked my entire life, since I was 10