How Dr. Phil Says A Mom Can Re-Parent Teen: ‘Give Her More Love And Less Money’

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  • Опубликовано: 30 апр 2018
  • A mom who admits she spoils her teen gets advice on how to re-parent her daughter. And, how does the teen respond when her mom tells her it's time to get a job?
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Комментарии • 7 тыс.

  • @drphil
    @drphil  3 года назад +1056

    Subscribe and ring the bell for notifications! 🔔

    • @emmagrace3357
      @emmagrace3357 3 года назад +5

      hey dr philllll

    • @fari7357
      @fari7357 3 года назад +12

      WHAT IS GOING ON?! 17 HOURS AGO?! THIS IS 2 YEARS AGO

    • @gordonlin6120
      @gordonlin6120 3 года назад +4

      @@fari7357 yea they just enabled comments lol

    • @whoisanaya
      @whoisanaya 3 года назад +1

      @@fari7357 *3 Years ago

    • @UncertifiedBruh
      @UncertifiedBruh 3 года назад +5

      Dr Phil..... I think I'm gay now

  • @deetalley3442
    @deetalley3442 3 года назад +16696

    Her at 15: crying about getting a job
    Me when I was 15: crying about not having a job

    • @aiyaa9315
      @aiyaa9315 3 года назад +241

      MEEEE !

    • @a2-antonio892
      @a2-antonio892 3 года назад +148

      me now

    • @official_morganmaher
      @official_morganmaher 3 года назад +346

      me! i want a job so bad, and i’m 15. i turn 16 soon and really want a job to start saving for a car

    • @deetalley3442
      @deetalley3442 3 года назад +130

      @@official_morganmaher good luck in your search for a job! and happy early birthday!

    • @arandomguy8352
      @arandomguy8352 3 года назад +42

      I am 15 and already have job plans for my dream job along with knowing where it is and what I have to do

  • @thejocerose
    @thejocerose 2 года назад +8366

    The audience laughing after she starts crying 😂

  • @Renzy-LuLu
    @Renzy-LuLu 2 месяца назад +189

    "overindulgence is a form of child abuse." Good on him holding the mother accountable

    • @JoshPhoenix11
      @JoshPhoenix11 2 месяца назад +6

      Yeah this is only the second time I've ever heard this and only the first time actually being applied in a clinical context. It was talking about the outcomes as an adult of childhood abuse. And that its shown that an over-appreciated childhood has the same outcomes as an under-appreciated childhood when it comes to learning and developing critical life skills necessary to function as an adult. It has the same disabling result as a child who never had a loving supporting safe home.
      I saw this like maybe 10 years ago yet this is the only time I've seen it addressed. Yet its become so much more prevalent in todays society with a whole generation now being effected just through social medias like TikTok. It might not seem related but its the over-appreciated attention and self image from chasing 'likes' and followers and a completely inflated artificial reality and mirror that they're seeing themselves by.

  • @NewTraditionalists
    @NewTraditionalists 19 дней назад +22

    I just can't even imagine raising this embarrassment. She still acts, emotionally, like a 4 or 5 year old.

  • @CoolerIsBack
    @CoolerIsBack 3 года назад +6372

    When the girl started crying i lost it she sounded like a car drifting lol

  • @mbmccamey2
    @mbmccamey2 3 года назад +4723

    “No, I don’t want a job! That’s so much work!” 😆😆😂😂🤣😅

    • @t-bagbagwell1327
      @t-bagbagwell1327 3 года назад +74

      Her parents have spoiled her over the years. This can’t be a result of 1 years of money showering. She was expecting to get paid for babysitting her lil sister hahahaha she’s not worth that life.

    • @toscatripp9134
      @toscatripp9134 3 года назад +23

      THAT was hilarious!

    • @Elijah-Bravo
      @Elijah-Bravo 3 года назад +34

      That’s why people say “I’m going to work” 😂

    • @zoettalovu
      @zoettalovu 3 года назад +19

      Isnt that the point 😂

    • @jjd3311
      @jjd3311 3 года назад +10

      That’s so whole point honey-

  • @soumyajyotichakraborty007
    @soumyajyotichakraborty007 6 месяцев назад +281

    After watching her
    I'm really proud of my parents

    • @goatrsuper6614
      @goatrsuper6614 3 месяца назад +3

      Same here

    • @PhoenixLibra83
      @PhoenixLibra83 2 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely!

    • @AndrewGrey22
      @AndrewGrey22 2 месяца назад +1

      My parents absolutely sucked but they were way better than this pair.

    • @davidpascoe5977
      @davidpascoe5977 Месяц назад

      Me too and I am proud that my 2 girls are NOTHING like her.

  • @bloxburgimagineering9633
    @bloxburgimagineering9633 29 дней назад +17

    You can tell her heart just sank when Phil said "What she needs is more love and less money."

  • @1helluvaguy738
    @1helluvaguy738 3 года назад +5107

    I love how the more she cries the louder the audience laughs at her.

    • @gwendolynosler3930
      @gwendolynosler3930 2 года назад +3

      Those tears are fake and her daughter
      is lazy she need to get a job money do
      not buy love

    • @bijiyalaxmileimapokpam4150
      @bijiyalaxmileimapokpam4150 2 года назад +50

      People laughing and saying bad stuff about her nuts ngl, I totally understand where she is coming from. I am not a brat or anything but I am a single child whose both parents have a job, my parents never had time for me, Idk how it feels to go on a picnic with my parents or do some sorta activity with them. I got my first phone at the age of 10 ( i am 17 rn) I was spoiled with money from a young age I was given whatever I needed and some of my wants were fulfilled as well. My parents kinda replaced their love with money when she said her mother never drives her anywhere and that she's always working and never has time for her Ik how it feels and she doesn't even attend school meaning she might not have that many friends.....she might be lonely. I do understand her and why she is behaving like this if my parents were richer like her's I might have turned out just like her but my parents are from an upper-middle-class family so not all of my wishes were fulfilled Ik how to take no as an answer. I think what she actually needs rn is time and love from her mother and her mother should explain her that money doesn't grow on trees, one has to work hard in order to earn it.

    • @Agent1W
      @Agent1W 2 года назад +14

      @@bijiyalaxmileimapokpam4150 Funny that she has the looks to earn big on Twitch or OnlyFans. Women with looks can earn MILLIONS. She'd be laughing at the stipend she thinks she should get from her mother if she went that way. She could just get men throwing money her way that they earn from their terrible paying jobs.

    • @bijiyalaxmileimapokpam4150
      @bijiyalaxmileimapokpam4150 2 года назад +1

      @@Agent1W wtf are you saying it's totally irrelevant and you think women can earn big just because of their look? what the actual fu*k ? Women are mostly paid less than men for the sam freaking job!!

    • @furiousmojo1
      @furiousmojo1 2 года назад +1

      Lmfao

  • @chilliconn071
    @chilliconn071 3 года назад +2284

    "It's so much work."
    Welcome to the real world.

    • @chesceaktv889
      @chesceaktv889 2 года назад +37

      Reality check is basically the most effective and painful way to hit someone

    • @1matsg
      @1matsg 2 года назад +20

      @@chesceaktv889 Yep like it did with me when I moved away from my parents and it made me grow up.

    • @ashaveti9605
      @ashaveti9605 2 года назад +6

      @@chesceaktv889 you think slavery is normal? REALITY CHECK!

    • @fadalerabrasool3563
      @fadalerabrasool3563 2 года назад +7

      Ironically noawadays people can get money and fame for doing nothing

    • @jasondsouza24
      @jasondsouza24 2 года назад

      Well said

  • @abraarjee
    @abraarjee 5 месяцев назад +20

    this is most satisfying video on the internet. Parenting them right is a responsibility to our kids

  • @jayr1404
    @jayr1404 6 месяцев назад +76

    Welcome to the real world young lady!

  • @chesceaktv889
    @chesceaktv889 2 года назад +3347

    Girl: *cries pathetically*
    Everybody with a brain:
    "P U R E C O M E D Y"

    • @officialnexus7614
      @officialnexus7614 2 года назад +52

      “I N D E E D P U R E C O M E D Y”

    • @lordtremor393
      @lordtremor393 2 года назад +15

      Y E S

    • @meraki1911
      @meraki1911 2 года назад +22

      MY EXACT THOUGHTS WHEN SHE STARED CRYING BRUH IM DEAD XDDD

    • @lordtremor393
      @lordtremor393 2 года назад +1

      @Samantha Cuellar Still funny! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @sufferintoilet6231
      @sufferintoilet6231 2 года назад +4

      @Samantha Cuellar her whole life is a comedy

  • @taco_lovin5491
    @taco_lovin5491 3 года назад +4223

    Even the audience was laughing at her🤣

    • @owolabibadejo8356
      @owolabibadejo8356 3 года назад +14

      Fr😂😂😂😂

    • @everydaytechreviews4051
      @everydaytechreviews4051 3 года назад +11

      Look her up on RUclips she wrote in as a joke she’s not really like that

    • @ericmcclellan4660
      @ericmcclellan4660 3 года назад +26

      I was laughing harder then audience, surprised you didn't hear my laugh....

    • @taco_lovin5491
      @taco_lovin5491 3 года назад +2

      @@ericmcclellan4660 maybe I did😏

    • @pergustafsson1155
      @pergustafsson1155 3 года назад +11

      No kidding! If I didn't know better I'd think I was watching Saturday night live!

  • @homegown1234
    @homegown1234 6 месяцев назад +12

    That is very true about what Dr. Phil is stating. I bet she couldn't find a job or stand tall on her own without your money to support her.

  • @JMJG7
    @JMJG7 20 дней назад +2

    Her mom crippled her mentally and emotionally. Overindulgence is child abuse.

  • @Dhbgv
    @Dhbgv 3 года назад +2372

    I have never wanted to punch a girl so bad

    • @kam.556
      @kam.556 3 года назад +86

      you read my god damn mind

    • @RL-zk9wb
      @RL-zk9wb 3 года назад +34

      Agreed

    • @Anant0909
      @Anant0909 3 года назад +64

      But it's actually her mom who worked up all this. So she deserves the punch. This only happens when u give kid money and lavish stuff early on when kid needs love n attention. Now this can't be redesigned easily.

    • @Elijah-Bravo
      @Elijah-Bravo 3 года назад +34

      Punches all round.

    • @polokghosh983
      @polokghosh983 3 года назад +6

      really man forget women discrimination here LOL

  • @sthang23_
    @sthang23_ 3 года назад +868

    she has the maturity of a 5 year old

    • @midget420
      @midget420 3 года назад +32

      Not even i was way more intelligent and less spoiled at 5 years old. And this is coming from a pretty spoiled teen.

    • @fortunatoofamontillado1059
      @fortunatoofamontillado1059 3 года назад +4

      If she is lucky !! WTF is wrong with people!!

    • @viannymilton8950
      @viannymilton8950 2 года назад +1

      Underrated comment..

    • @superadders19
      @superadders19 2 года назад +6

      No way. Most 5 year olds are wiser than this spoiled brat.

    • @swapsakpal08
      @swapsakpal08 2 года назад +8

      Don't insult 5 year old

  • @poisiion
    @poisiion 4 месяца назад +12

    I'm shocked at her mother for being so soft to her daughter

    • @user-ds8nn8bg6s
      @user-ds8nn8bg6s Месяц назад

      I would love it if Dr Phil did a current update on some of his guest...where are they now.

  • @cartoonfanatic42._.10
    @cartoonfanatic42._.10 Месяц назад +4

    For me it wasn't that i didn't want a job it was that i was sheltered and didn't feel ready for a job

  • @mizzysparrots4874
    @mizzysparrots4874 2 года назад +3184

    "Its too late for that, I dont want love anymore."
    She only said that because she doesn't wanna lose the money

    • @SamuelVenturaMusic
      @SamuelVenturaMusic 2 года назад +30

      Yup. And now she's in prime position to start making money as an influencer and continue her lifestyle as others have done nurturing their fame from this show.

    • @surendemel8297
      @surendemel8297 2 года назад +38

      Actually not. She wants love, she hates jobs because that's what is taking her mother away from her.

    • @philurbanski
      @philurbanski 2 года назад +4

      @@surendemel8297 you are probably right.

    • @niaselah3348
      @niaselah3348 2 года назад +25

      @@surendemel8297 Absolutely there is so much more behind this. What a sad child. Yes she has a lot of privilege but actually lives a very small existence

    • @lucia1982
      @lucia1982 2 года назад +5

      I kinda grew up in a similar way as her i had the clothes, the trips, technology, butlers, cars, private school, etc but my parents werent really with me on a daily and so sure now they spend a lot of time with me but im 16 now its not the same

  • @catalinamartinezveloso6064
    @catalinamartinezveloso6064 3 года назад +1039

    Different realities, she's 15 and crying for getting a job. When i was 15 i would cry because my parents didn't allow me to have a job...

    • @wg6276
      @wg6276 3 года назад +20

      No literally. I lost my job to covid and literally lost it lmao

    • @yoshuaisnotok8794
      @yoshuaisnotok8794 3 года назад +15

      Yeah,I am 15 I want to get a job but my parents don't allow me to work cause they think I am too young. How can I convince them?

    • @yoshuaisnotok8794
      @yoshuaisnotok8794 3 года назад +5

      @@aman-qj5sx yeah I am an straight A student. I was thinking for a part time job so I can pay for all of my things . I don't spend that much but I don't want to cause my parents any economic problems . And it will be a plus for me because I will learn to be inedependent.

    • @Nb005
      @Nb005 3 года назад +4

      Im 15 and I wanna get myself a job while this girl is crying🤣🤣

    • @sallycakesmix-musicplaylis2013
      @sallycakesmix-musicplaylis2013 3 года назад

      @@yoshuaisnotok8794 by having your things in order. You have to have your grades up. You have to have extra curriculars. And you need to have time in the weekend to work. Focus on school, do some extra curriculars or join some club that will give you a skill to work. Then look for a job and look everywhere. Most places you apply to wont even respond

  • @fishy_bolo
    @fishy_bolo 8 месяцев назад +14

    her at 15 : crying because shes forced to get a job
    me at 15 thats still currently doing high school : i really should get a job at some point to get my wallet a bit more full

  • @Divalicious07
    @Divalicious07 6 месяцев назад +19

    She’s so real for that

  • @rubyhale1992
    @rubyhale1992 3 года назад +1800

    When the audience started laughing when she started crying 💀

    • @MrSigma_47
      @MrSigma_47 2 года назад +53

      Everyone in the audience has a job and laughing at her, she clearly doesn’t understand that people need to work to stay alive. You can’t hold down the economy by spending all the money. She’s gonna eventually be homeless after her mom isn’t around to take care of her if she continues to be a spoiled brat.

    • @dessopopp
      @dessopopp 2 года назад +7

      @@MrSigma_47 True but it's still crazy that we have to pay to live.

    • @Luke-vf6qc
      @Luke-vf6qc 2 года назад +3

      the reaction of Dr Phil got me dead😂

    • @heybeach2693
      @heybeach2693 2 года назад

      100th like 😌

    • @PzShockz
      @PzShockz 2 года назад +1

      @@dessopopp well you clearly don't have too.

  • @Caleb-fv5fp
    @Caleb-fv5fp Год назад +768

    If she ever gets married god help that man

    • @navgeetbali1452
      @navgeetbali1452 Год назад +59

      The question is who *would* marry her?

    • @MisterH1992
      @MisterH1992 Год назад +76

      @@navgeetbali1452 male feminist simps.

    • @themaestro3034
      @themaestro3034 Год назад +26

      @@MisterH1992 like any guy who uses terms like “alpha” or “simp”? Theyre always the biggest losers 😂

    • @reziqshadid6677
      @reziqshadid6677 Год назад +7

      Trust me, the one who's going to marry won't be a loser.. She's high maintenance so she needs a man with high productivity, that man ain't a loser 😂

    • @andrei-aw
      @andrei-aw Год назад +5

      if she were to get married she would instantly ask the guy for like 5000 USD

  • @renegado100
    @renegado100 4 месяца назад +8

    She had best advice and therapy ever !!

  • @graceylou61
    @graceylou61 2 месяца назад +4

    Wah wah wah. This girl is in for a ride awakening when she gets into the real world.

  • @TampaTec
    @TampaTec 2 года назад +1457

    Yes, a job is so much work, That's why it's called work 🤦

    • @HF1.0
      @HF1.0 2 года назад +11

      Thanks, Sherlock.

    • @OrthodoxChristianBeliever
      @OrthodoxChristianBeliever 2 года назад +2

      she wouldn't survive living in Grant Cardone's family

    • @fragmisty7827
      @fragmisty7827 2 года назад

      No dip

    • @HF1.0
      @HF1.0 Год назад

      @@vshah1010 thanks for you Ted Talk. Nobody asked.

    • @vshah1010
      @vshah1010 Год назад

      If she can do this, let her do it. It's just jealousy otherwise.

  • @philipjohnkaye8890
    @philipjohnkaye8890 2 года назад +2604

    It's scary watching this video, how delusional young girl actually is, she is in genuine belief she has a right to absolutely anything.

    • @Danneman92
      @Danneman92 2 года назад +51

      That's why you NEVER ever spoil your kids, but instead, make them appreciate and be thankful of what they have. People like her are made.. In her case, it's parenting.

    • @sophiajohnson296
      @sophiajohnson296 2 года назад +8

      it's not just her. There are millions of Americans who are less financially stable than her parents are that believe in this entitlement. Sad, but true

    • @abhibhalla92
      @abhibhalla92 2 года назад +6

      It's totally normal. A kid born Bangladesh wud feel less entitled than someone born in the US similarly thei girl rightfully feels entitled because of her family wealth.

    • @stephaniegersalia94
      @stephaniegersalia94 2 года назад +6

      Well that's what will happen to most kids if you give them too much freedom.

    • @VickiChristchurchNZ
      @VickiChristchurchNZ 2 года назад +7

      I think she's just terrified of having to look/be/do normal, because she's learnt that privilege=love.

  • @Emmalittlepengelly1690
    @Emmalittlepengelly1690 4 месяца назад +15

    Give her nothing a month. But give her all the love.

  • @debbiem6406
    @debbiem6406 22 дня назад +1

    This girl is the result of her mom’s terrible parenting. It’s now the mom’s responsibility to dismantle the monster she created, and help her daughter become a vital, hardworking, successful kind human being.

  • @Bobby3038
    @Bobby3038 2 года назад +792

    The sad thing is, she will go right back to her old lifestyle because her mother is a push over and will cave to her demands.

    • @MrSigma_47
      @MrSigma_47 2 года назад +42

      I hope she’s not the crazy child that kills her parents because they didn’t get their way.

    • @ldwm
      @ldwm 2 года назад +29

      @@MrSigma_47 no she is an influencer here on youtube now and she did in fact not change anything.

    • @JRR1804
      @JRR1804 2 года назад +3

      @@ldwm what’s her channel

    • @ldwm
      @ldwm 2 года назад +14

      @@JRR1804 I am not sure. Just type in beverly hills brat and she will pop up.

    • @maizysincestarling8679
      @maizysincestarling8679 2 года назад +8

      You’re absolutely right. Mom isn’t going to want to deal with the tantrums that teen toddler throws

  • @wowaddict878
    @wowaddict878 3 года назад +496

    If when someone googles the term "spoilt brat" and a picture of her doesn't pop up, i'm gonna be disappointed

    • @nightmiddle8044
      @nightmiddle8044 3 года назад +3

      Hahhahahhahah ikr

    • @ericam6686
      @ericam6686 3 года назад +17

      i searched up "spoiled girls" and she came up lmao

    • @stephenhickey125
      @stephenhickey125 3 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙄

    • @wowaddict878
      @wowaddict878 3 года назад +1

      @Dough Boy well that would be because i'm probably not from the same country you are, so we say it differently, so if you wanna shake your head because everyone isn't from the same place and talk the same, you're a bit of a bellend :)

  • @luisbergantino1207
    @luisbergantino1207 21 день назад

    I was 14 when I knocked on my neighbor's door and asked him for a job. I felt so good about myself, I'll never forget it.

  • @dak2327
    @dak2327 Месяц назад +1

    I love how the crowd keeps laughing at her.

  • @neilchakr
    @neilchakr 3 года назад +760

    "I don't want love anymore"
    - no one, ever

    • @brunogilderson3556
      @brunogilderson3556 3 года назад +55

      She needs a hug

    • @brunogilderson3556
      @brunogilderson3556 3 года назад +77

      And a slap

    • @neilchakr
      @neilchakr 3 года назад +10

      @@lindsaycooke361 i agree that the mom is a narcissistic person, yes. but the kid shoul also make an effort to do something right??

    • @miriam4235
      @miriam4235 3 года назад +6

      @@lindsaycooke361 right? I thought that was such a sad thing coming from a child.

    • @voxbox6138
      @voxbox6138 3 года назад +2

      yeh thay dont want to give you love either girl

  • @JillianNoelle
    @JillianNoelle 3 года назад +1428

    I loved working at her age. It made me feel good and productive.

    • @nocloutchasersundermywatch
      @nocloutchasersundermywatch 2 года назад +18

      Exactly!

    • @BeeDenver
      @BeeDenver 2 года назад +19

      I did too. My first job was a department store. I LOVED it

    • @Christian-rv1bz
      @Christian-rv1bz 2 года назад +5

      Me too

    • @mariahelizabeth6921
      @mariahelizabeth6921 2 года назад +20

      not me. i cried before work because i was so nervous with anxiety and during work when it got busy because i was stressed, and sometimes even after work because i was depressed

    • @debora.426
      @debora.426 2 года назад +2

      ABSOLUTELY

  • @znaj7335
    @znaj7335 Месяц назад +1

    I'm not gonna lie. I was pretty entitled when I was below 17 years. My mother spoiled me a lot and I became really self-centered. When my parents told me to get a job I also was a bit reluctant at first because I didn't know if I could get off my lazy rear and get stuff done. Now it's 7 years later. I've worked for 7 years in multiple different jobs and while I'm still studying, I'm proud of myself that I can take care of myself and buy the things I want while also being able to save money and becoming a lot more down-to-earth and independent. Lots of love to my parents for opening my eyes and forcing me out into the world to find my path. ❤

    • @luizearaujo5844
      @luizearaujo5844 Месяц назад +1

      Yes! And I feel so bad for the kid that had her eyes opened like that in front of a crowd. She paid for her mother's irresponsibility, poor thing, with public humiliation. I hope she also found her way in life.

  • @christina6823
    @christina6823 20 дней назад +1

    I am embarrassed for her.

  • @tazeenalshifa8084
    @tazeenalshifa8084 3 года назад +410

    She's crying because she gotta work ??? 🤣🤣🤣

    • @t-bagbagwell1327
      @t-bagbagwell1327 3 года назад +19

      No because she won’t get the car hahaha

    • @babygirl-zq9uf
      @babygirl-zq9uf 3 года назад +4

      She’s the sugar baby type

    • @Johnr37us
      @Johnr37us 3 года назад

      I know how she feels. I need to win the lotto to feel better.

    • @asriayudewi3354
      @asriayudewi3354 3 года назад

      @@babygirl-zq9uf exactly.

    • @evaclark1792
      @evaclark1792 3 года назад +2

      @@t-bagbagwell1327 she did

  • @sebastianboeddinghaus3505
    @sebastianboeddinghaus3505 3 года назад +535

    When I was like 12 I was like "Damn she's only 15? she looks like she's 18"
    Now I'm 16 and I'm like "Damn she may look 18 but she acts like she's 6"

    • @YeCreme
      @YeCreme 3 года назад +4

      "2 years ago"

    • @sebastianboeddinghaus3505
      @sebastianboeddinghaus3505 3 года назад +3

      @@YeCreme ok so I was 13, I'm so sorry

    • @sallycakesmix-musicplaylis2013
      @sallycakesmix-musicplaylis2013 3 года назад +2

      @@sebastianboeddinghaus3505 haha bro youre like 6 you cant even add:P

    • @sebastianboeddinghaus3505
      @sebastianboeddinghaus3505 3 года назад +3

      @@sallycakesmix-musicplaylis2013 The video only says "2 years ago" it doesn't include months. I know I wasn't 14 when I watched this first and I know I'm 16 now

    • @glenndrexler1677
      @glenndrexler1677 3 года назад

      Someone help this
      Lost soul!!!

  • @cynthiasmith4130
    @cynthiasmith4130 Месяц назад +1

    I got my first job at 14!! And I loved it!!! I couldn't wait to get out of the house.....😊😊😊😊....

  • @MikesLeTour83
    @MikesLeTour83 3 месяца назад +2

    Too bad Mom won’t follow through with Dr Phil’s advice. This 2 year old teenager is doomed.

  • @seiseiwst.6151
    @seiseiwst.6151 Год назад +648

    I was crying about not having a job when I was 16 . Times have definitely changed .

    • @LoneWolf_8
      @LoneWolf_8 Год назад +2

      nice try at stealing one of the top comments

    • @Basan614
      @Basan614 Год назад

      @@LoneWolf_8 I take it we’re best buds in the future

    • @jacktaylor7296
      @jacktaylor7296 Год назад +2

      Times haven't changed there are plenty still struggling at 16

    • @TheDayDreamingOwl
      @TheDayDreamingOwl Год назад +5

      Calm down, this one person doesn't represent an entire generation 🙄

    • @novawater2368
      @novawater2368 Год назад +3

      nah i want a job

  • @reple489
    @reple489 3 года назад +447

    "Makes a contribution to society instead of taking from Society".
    *Those are very wise words there*

    • @zawarudo1041
      @zawarudo1041 2 года назад +4

      she is immensed to much in expecting to get everything from others.
      What was that corporate bs buzzword they replaced 'equality' with? Ah yes, 'equity'. People like her are demanding equity

    • @OC2020
      @OC2020 2 года назад +1

      @@zawarudo1041 indeed

  • @lynneroberts3628
    @lynneroberts3628 Месяц назад

    All my so sons worked as paper boys until they left school. All worked since and i am very proud of them.

  • @chillbilly2517
    @chillbilly2517 2 месяца назад +1

    How dare you make me work for something! Unbelievable. Gotta say tho the tears were hilarious.

  • @whyjordie
    @whyjordie 3 года назад +520

    If this girl had a minimum wage job and realized how much work it takes to get one of those bags, she will understand the meaning of a dollar

    • @Mike-Ellis1058
      @Mike-Ellis1058 2 года назад +18

      A lot of people nowadays don't know the meaning of hard work and the meaning of a dollar.

    • @user-fj4po1lt1i
      @user-fj4po1lt1i 2 года назад

      Lol minimum wage slave and be a sheeple

    • @ewan9849
      @ewan9849 2 года назад +5

      You don't spend money the same after realising what it takes to make it. Apart from the first week or so I've thought about how long I actually had to work to buy anything and if I didn't have the money would I bang out the work it took in order to get that. I haven't spent money the same since.

    • @AdityaSingh-eh9zp
      @AdityaSingh-eh9zp 2 года назад

      But jordie why

    • @taleseylad1249
      @taleseylad1249 2 года назад +3

      my math teacher said look at how many hours of work you need to get a product It will make you appreciate money a lot more

  • @valeriomariani1662
    @valeriomariani1662 2 года назад +1971

    As a European myself, I love to see Americans in their natural habitat
    Guys chill out it's a damn joke

    • @tylerkane1063
      @tylerkane1063 2 года назад +111

      We should've never left. That was our first mistake.

    • @stefaniaiuliastan2179
      @stefaniaiuliastan2179 2 года назад +18

      Phahaha I’m dying 🤣🤣🤣

    • @chesceaktv889
      @chesceaktv889 2 года назад +94

      I'm Asian and yes,some Americans had some very interesting habitat.

    • @kathyo5971
      @kathyo5971 2 года назад +19

      Well, you ain’t seeing it here!

    • @marvinthemaniac7698
      @marvinthemaniac7698 2 года назад +9

      Are you from Italy? Your name sounds Italian.

  • @mabelanntoman-harvey1261
    @mabelanntoman-harvey1261 6 месяцев назад +2

    I know someone helped me Cindy and she's here and beautiful

  • @ruthgiles8926
    @ruthgiles8926 2 месяца назад +1

    "Give her more love and less money."
    Ooh! She didn't like that! Her face!
    What a horrible, entitled brat.

  • @Elynn0303
    @Elynn0303 2 года назад +378

    “it’s so much work”
    LMFAO welcome to life honey.

    • @gregelliott5016
      @gregelliott5016 2 года назад +7

      No one really wants to work. If her were to pass away for whatever reason, then what is the daughter going to do?

    • @joelpineda4414
      @joelpineda4414 2 года назад +1

      But why is it part of life??? And people these days don’t want to work and there’s nothing that they can do about it! And there’s no money out there!!!

    • @elijahhill6602
      @elijahhill6602 2 года назад +1

      It’s not really life. If they don’t want to work, let them be.
      The only other way people will get money is by birthday, Christmas, lottery, raffles, or what have you.
      Have social security help you if that’s possible!

    • @Agent1W
      @Agent1W 2 года назад +1

      @@joelpineda4414 The dirty little secret truth is that we all want a PAYCHECK. We just go through the motions of work and holding a job. And women have the advantage in that so she should be happy. Wait until she finds out that in *much* of the professional world, women don't do the real work.

    • @joelpineda4414
      @joelpineda4414 2 года назад

      @@Agent1W so are you saying that all WOMEN don’t work at all!!!!! And why is it so much work and people get so tired???!!!! Like why does she need a job and also, she’s retired

  • @valeriegee2587
    @valeriegee2587 2 года назад +867

    Watching this I'm actually grateful how I was raised and how I worked for everything I have. This is hilarious to watch her cry though

    • @k3yi
      @k3yi 2 года назад +3

      I’d be more happy if i was a paper maker

    • @mac_tire_aonair
      @mac_tire_aonair 2 года назад +1

      Me too - and that was a long time ago...

    • @malcolmwilliams862
      @malcolmwilliams862 2 года назад +5

      Yup same here. 💯 I actually come from a very successful family. But my parents always told me, they are only obligated to give me a roof over my head, food and an education. They told me “ if you want something then you work for it!” Which I did and got a job at Chick-fil-A @ age 15. I’m 18 and bought my own car and able to splurge on myself if I chose to every now and then. Point is if parents pamper the their children with love then kids will have more confidence in their abilities!

  • @Hellooooooo989
    @Hellooooooo989 2 месяца назад

    Notice she says “my mom comes home tired from work; I don’t want to do that.” THAT is the issue. Long before teen years, more when a child is 3 months old, they’re getting dumped into someone else’s hands to raise for 8 hours 5 days a week- more time spent with the child than the child’s parents. Whose job is it to raise a child? THAT’S the root of the issue. Two providers and Zero nurtures.

  • @lynnbeamon1957
    @lynnbeamon1957 13 дней назад

    I feel like that every day! I don’t want job, it’s too much work

  • @kyliejenner17
    @kyliejenner17 3 года назад +825

    When she cried and everyone started laughing😂😂😂😂 hilarious

    • @pm8401
      @pm8401 3 года назад +4

      So many adults jealous of a child. Low.

    • @Haha-if9qf
      @Haha-if9qf 3 года назад +18

      @@pm8401 What jealous lol

    • @1Lotusflower
      @1Lotusflower 3 года назад +7

      @@pm8401 jealous?? how exactly? She is rather an amusing little thing though, I laughed.

    • @bowtoyoursensei554
      @bowtoyoursensei554 2 года назад +6

      @@pm8401 Jealous? Of a child so obsessed with acquiring "stuff" that she thinks she doesn't need to be loved?

    • @zawarudo1041
      @zawarudo1041 2 года назад

      this is how should be. Healthy ostracism to get someone back on track. And what we have now? Twitter witch hunts, because someone read biology book

  • @SidRTM
    @SidRTM Год назад +78

    "1000 dollars a month, im barely living!" got me dead 😆🤣

  • @prettyalexus5195
    @prettyalexus5195 16 дней назад

    Ridiculous. Some adults taking care of rent/bills make less than $900 a month. She is a spoiled brat, and her mom ruined her so far, it’s sick to watch!

  • @2112WELLWISHER
    @2112WELLWISHER 18 дней назад

    How comforted today's kids are

  • @alexa5411
    @alexa5411 3 года назад +443

    Her: *cries*
    Peoples: *laughs*
    Me: *laughs*

  • @thebakalord
    @thebakalord 3 года назад +375

    When I was 15 all I could think about was getting a job to help my mum with the bills.

    • @giyutomioka4871
      @giyutomioka4871 2 года назад +8

      Same

    • @hopeless_17
      @hopeless_17 2 года назад +5

      Same man

    • @R3atootall
      @R3atootall 2 года назад +2

      Im 15 rn and thats what i want

    • @Kathrynlove
      @Kathrynlove 2 года назад +8

      That's so sad. No kid should have to ever help pay their parents bills. You should be focusing on your future and school...adults should know by now HOW to pay their bills....

    • @thebakalord
      @thebakalord 2 года назад +15

      @@Kathrynlove I just wanted to do it because for most of my life my mum has done one thing no matter what: always put me ahead of her needs(no father thats why...). So thats why I wanted and got a job when I was 16. I know its supposed to be a good parent by doing all that stuff but I couldn’t help but to feel guilty that she spent all that money for my sake. So I got a cleaning job at the local hotel, and now? I’m 21 y/o, in charge of a cleaning staff that manages 11-12 holiday homes in my area(good money btw). My mum still gives out that I’m giving her 30% of my cleaning wages to her, still live with her thats why.

  • @kimlunarjin943
    @kimlunarjin943 4 месяца назад +1

    Me at 18 begging my father to let me work at the company of his boss even though he already gives me everything I need, because I'm major and can legally start my own life, and also.... There's only benefits for me to have my very own money and buy my very own stuff and learn the value of money and how to spend it healthily. A nice training for upcoming harder times.

  • @Raven-dv7yb
    @Raven-dv7yb 15 дней назад

    "A job is so much work!" LOL

  • @S24W2
    @S24W2 3 года назад +60

    Shame on any parent who would spoil their child like this!

    • @evaclark1792
      @evaclark1792 3 года назад +1

      kylie jenner

    • @S24W2
      @S24W2 3 года назад

      @@evaclark1792 she will be old before she knows it, youvecnonidechow quickly your twenties goes by, she will have to stand on her own two feet eventually

    • @ilanelsen8321
      @ilanelsen8321 Год назад +1

      Yeah. It doesn't hurt to spoil your child once in a while, but definitely not every day of every year

  • @andreafry3428
    @andreafry3428 3 года назад +497

    When she started crying it was sad to realise it was for real ,her actual reaction! Her mum looked so worried but also scared of her own daughter. The monster she had created .

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 2 года назад +31

      Her tears are fake though. It's her attempt to manipulate her mom into backing down and giving her what she wants.

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 2 года назад +6

      @Samantha Cuellar
      Lol no. If that didn't work she'd turn it off like a switch.

    • @nickdavis965
      @nickdavis965 2 года назад +11

      @@jshepard152 they are real tears used to manipulate. Her entire life her mom gave her everything she wanted and quickly she realized that she HAS to get what she wants. when she doesnt get that..its like...WOAHHH WTF?!...heres the deal. Each and every one of us would act the same way if we were raised like that. i feel for her a little bit. In a way her lifes been trashed and sucked from her because she was never told "no". We all experienced that at some point. I remember vividly wanting a toy and my mom saying "No, you cannot have that toy". Its small things like that people dont realize shape who you are as a human

    • @nadinekennedy9690
      @nadinekennedy9690 2 года назад

      @Samantha Cuellar she can turn it on and off on a whim. Just watch.

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh Год назад

      She just wants her mom's attention

  • @MikesLeTour83
    @MikesLeTour83 3 месяца назад +1

    That’s the biggest 2 year old I have ever seen. 😂😂

  • @sashasabbeth6836
    @sashasabbeth6836 2 месяца назад +2

    We are looking at a full blown Narcissist.

  • @stienengelaar3857
    @stienengelaar3857 3 года назад +671

    I'm sorry but when the girl started crying I lost it 😂
    Omg thx for the likes everyone! Never expected it to be that much lol

    • @thetdproject5304
      @thetdproject5304 3 года назад +6

      😂😂😂

    • @hello4283
      @hello4283 3 года назад +4

      lol me tooo !

    • @stienengelaar3857
      @stienengelaar3857 3 года назад +5

      @@heystobit3220 Ok, good for you! But I'm just giving my opinion and I'm not hurting anyone. If I was, I'm very sorry.

    • @juwairiyahmahmood7649
      @juwairiyahmahmood7649 3 года назад +2

      @@stienengelaar3857 PREACH!

    • @timklafke4712
      @timklafke4712 3 года назад +2

      she's the kind of person to cry if she breaks a nail or if somebody accidently bumps into her in public

  • @Codyflowers3
    @Codyflowers3 3 года назад +154

    I think we all laughed when she cried. Beautiful!

    • @thetemplelaboratory
      @thetemplelaboratory 2 года назад +4

      I'm commenting on your comment so you can come back and get a good laugh at this clown again. Hahaha

    • @RedTigerGamesPLayer
      @RedTigerGamesPLayer 2 года назад +1

      @@thetemplelaboratory your turn!

    • @daxx7359
      @daxx7359 2 года назад

      @@RedTigerGamesPLayer Your turn!

    • @majinvegeta3284
      @majinvegeta3284 2 года назад +1

      @@daxx7359 your turn

    • @daxx7359
      @daxx7359 2 года назад

      @@majinvegeta3284 Your turn.

  • @kellydean9373
    @kellydean9373 22 дня назад +1

    I hope she looks back at this and sees how badly she acted and has changed

  • @girlyghoul
    @girlyghoul 6 дней назад

    I'm just having a hard time picturing Dr. Phil on roller skates 🤔

  • @18brianenrique
    @18brianenrique 2 года назад +56

    "I dont want a job because it's so much work"
    It really do be like that though...

  • @Goobiousmaximus
    @Goobiousmaximus 3 года назад +130

    now i’m just imagining dr. phil on roller skates at A&W. and i don’t know how to feel about it.

    • @briannamorales2965
      @briannamorales2965 3 года назад +3

      This comment deserves more likes 😭😭

    • @vonziie
      @vonziie 3 года назад +8

      now I’m picturing a young bald child with a moustache at a&w lol

  • @johnknudson8575
    @johnknudson8575 2 месяца назад

    as this was 5 years ago, I'd love to hear a follow up

  • @mayavenuemisfit814
    @mayavenuemisfit814 Год назад +81

    I'm not at all ashamed to admit that I was laughing right along with the audience. It warmed my heart.

  • @CK-ed5ws
    @CK-ed5ws Год назад +116

    “They came home tired from work. I didn’t want to do that!!!!”
    Time to learn where the money come from, and appreciate your parents for once!!!

    • @homegown1234
      @homegown1234 6 месяцев назад

      It could work the opposite where children realized their parents don't have the means to get a decent job so the children who become adults won't be disappointed to start off setting the pace to work early on before they finish school to help out. One thing is to help out but not to be a permanent fixture of working for this family. Later to give up our lives to selfish adults that don't want to work at all. As they say, a family that works together is a happy family but not one that takes advantage and generosity of their children to help out.

  • @ronnablair5575
    @ronnablair5575 2 месяца назад

    The parents have crippled this young woman. It’s abuse. She’s horrible but they created this spoiled monster.

  • @janed811
    @janed811 Месяц назад

    She needed a parent who was home and forming her to be a contributing member of society.

  • @Lectric_Blue
    @Lectric_Blue Год назад +111

    I feel really sorry for that young girl. Her mother has brought her up into a hard and cruel world, and she has totally and completely failed to prepare her for it. The mother has used her wealth and position to avoid the hard work of bringing up a child properly.

    • @Arthur1_69
      @Arthur1_69 9 месяцев назад +7

      Look. If you got a child that is Embarrassing him self and Embarrassing you for just give him more money what you gonna do?
      Oh yeah and it won’t want get a job or help you in something….just want your money…..

    • @jilliannordhoff6498
      @jilliannordhoff6498 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Arthur1_69❤❤❤❤

    • @davinadavina1331
      @davinadavina1331 4 месяца назад +1

      the world as in living is not hard and cruel. from me with severe schizophrenia and other mental health and medical diagnosis like autism and multiple sclerosis. i did it until i retired. i did it in the work force and us marine corps

  • @FerreiMarques
    @FerreiMarques 2 года назад +174

    Mom: *gives her daughter 2k bucks a month*
    Brat: "YOU MAKE ME BABYSIT FOR FREE!"

    • @Speedster428
      @Speedster428 6 месяцев назад

      Yep, thats hows it like when you get children.
      Im not a parent but everyone knows you pay for children

  • @Dead_or_Wild
    @Dead_or_Wild 4 месяца назад +3

    I have to say, Phil is such a wise fellow. Glad he's gotten as big as he is.

  • @chloehall4270
    @chloehall4270 2 месяца назад

    This woman isn’t at all upset by her spoiled daughter. The “Dr.” is loving the exposure and is bragging about how she is so successful she is able to indulge her family. They are both on Dr. Phil in order to launch the daughter’s online site and MAKE MONEY!!!

  • @tammybrownbarajas8165
    @tammybrownbarajas8165 2 года назад +602

    This is actually very difficult for her. She only knows what she has been taught. I agree she needs a job and love and life lessons, but she has been taught this behavior is acceptable.

    • @justicestanford5894
      @justicestanford5894 2 года назад +51

      I know it’s funny to the audience and to me I won’t lie, I’m laughing too, but indulgence is indeed a form of neglect😪

    • @techo4Ugeeks
      @techo4Ugeeks 2 года назад

      Cayate botijas

    • @sophiajohnson296
      @sophiajohnson296 2 года назад +2

      My girlfriend is such a push over to her daughters. Reminds me of this girls mother. smh

    • @adamabdoni4119
      @adamabdoni4119 2 года назад +1

      @@sophiajohnson296 ur names sophia wdym ur girlfriend?

    • @SM-jw1vv
      @SM-jw1vv 2 года назад +17

      @@adamabdoni4119 what do you mean “what do you mean your girlfriend?” You realize women can date women right?

  • @sarasarok1607
    @sarasarok1607 3 года назад +280

    As an Iraqi,she deserves to live in iraq for several years so that she learns what life is about

    • @googleuser-id4db
      @googleuser-id4db 2 года назад +26

      Totally agree as an ex solider that served in Iraq, I found the Iraqi people very nice but, reality of what you have at home compared to what the Iraqis have hits home hard, I now respect what I have now more than ever did.

    • @gil-sama3805
      @gil-sama3805 2 года назад +26

      Not just Iraq
      Many countries and even some first world countries there exist people who have hard time trying to survive life
      This girl really needs to be grateful.
      btw Im Iraqi too

    • @googleuser-id4db
      @googleuser-id4db 2 года назад +6

      @@gil-sama3805 100% agree mate.

    • @tunisian_stats
      @tunisian_stats 2 года назад +9

      She needs to live in Tunisia or you know what put this girl in Central African Republic and she will cry about not having food

    • @tunisian_stats
      @tunisian_stats 2 года назад +3

      I am tunisian

  • @matcha._.000
    @matcha._.000 6 месяцев назад +1

    and i’m here at 16 who’s basically desperate for a job

  • @d.f.9064
    @d.f.9064 3 месяца назад +1

    A trip blindfolded and dropped off in southern Mexico.

  • @annemariegerun7955
    @annemariegerun7955 2 года назад +646

    It appears the mother has "bought" her daughter's love through money, gifts, material possessions. The girl was literally groomed to become an entitled brat! I blame the mother for this, not the girl. And I thought it was cruel when the audience laughed at her when she cried. She was truly upset, and she's only 15 years old. I am NOT excusing or validating her behavior and think she should get a job and learn responsibility. But the whole situation is not only her fault...she is the byproduct of bad parenting.

    • @TinyMaths
      @TinyMaths 2 года назад +44

      Thank you.... I think a lot of people missed this. We have a tendency to be nasty about 'spoilt kids' because they can be a pain; but really, most kids try to push the barriers and take liberties at a certain age, and it's up to the parents to put boundaries in place. If they don't you'll get a spoilt or unruly child. And worst thing is, the child will have a lot of social problems as they grow into adulthood. As irritating as people might find this girl, how can we expect her to do the right thing if she hasn't had a the firm parental boundaries?

    • @FMLwaithisnameistaken
      @FMLwaithisnameistaken 2 года назад +4

      Not only that but I bet she does not even know on how to sweep the floor

    • @basilciccone1679
      @basilciccone1679 2 года назад +15

      @@TinyMaths whoever missed it didn’t hear dr phil also blame the mom???

    • @thisararanatunge9089
      @thisararanatunge9089 2 года назад +1

      Yes very true, my parents taught me the value of money, even when they bought me expensive things i know how hard it is to earn money.

    • @vanitymarks8798
      @vanitymarks8798 2 года назад

      @@basilciccone1679 he did, but Dr. Phil has a bad habit of being overly harsh to the "bad buy" in this case the girl. Like, he knows drilling into her will get better crowd response. He knows she's a kid, she vulnerable and upset, so he pushes her buttons.

  • @beazjohnson9865
    @beazjohnson9865 3 года назад +257

    The first time i've seen an audience laugh someone that was crying and it was acceptable lol.

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh Год назад +1

      It really wasn't

  • @althepalable
    @althepalable 2 месяца назад

    I worked at an A&W rootbeer stand too! Age 13.

  • @jeffreysmith2056
    @jeffreysmith2056 3 месяца назад

    They are not laughing with you,they are laughing at you.

  • @jimmyvasquez5298
    @jimmyvasquez5298 3 года назад +140

    3:50 when they eat the last slice of pizza

  • @tiyeeryan
    @tiyeeryan 3 года назад +30

    Girl: (starts crying)
    Dr. Phil: 👁👄👁

    • @Luke-vf6qc
      @Luke-vf6qc 2 года назад

      That part got me good😂

  • @MahasSaham79
    @MahasSaham79 Месяц назад

    That's ok- let her cry. This is her mother's doing...indulging her tantrums...instead of parenting and giving her love and actually raising her. Now she has to undo what she's done for the last 16 years and teach her daughter about the world, about self respect, self worth, hard work..and values . Won't be easy, but it will be worth it. If her mother can withstand the emotional part of parenting and regulate her own emotions so that she can be a solid foundation to teach her daughter about being a productive adult🎉❤

  • @akimakili8364
    @akimakili8364 Месяц назад

    The daughter is a whole mood!😂😂😂

  • @Cibbic
    @Cibbic 3 года назад +77

    Imagine getting everything and having everything you need in life and still say "all she does is work and doesn't do anything for me".

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh 2 года назад +1

      That actually says everything. A daughter needs a present parent, not an expensive car

    • @somethingsfishy8477
      @somethingsfishy8477 Год назад

      She probably got traumatized by the word "works" because of how many "mom have to go to work, so you stay with nanny" or "I promise I'll be home before 7" and gets "sorry honey mom has work to do, so I can't get home before 7".

  • @TheNicholle23
    @TheNicholle23 Год назад +34

    My mom wouldn’t even let me get a tear out if I was crying over something stupid like this. Thank you mom I love tou

  • @Afmzprod
    @Afmzprod 8 месяцев назад +1

    I feel like after this is over she will do great good in the world. All it takes is a change of mindset. 🙂

  • @connormcgregor6792
    @connormcgregor6792 4 месяца назад +1

    "no, No, NO!! 'crying'"