Watch As A Dad Struggles With Meeting His Daughter As A Woman For The First Time

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июн 2016
  • Gary says he was devastated when he found out that his son Zach is transgender and wants to transition to biologically become a woman. Gary, who has seen photos of Zach dressed as Steph but has never seen the son he raised in person as a woman.
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Комментарии • 27 тыс.

  • @drphil
    @drphil  3 года назад +2342

    Subscribe and ring the bell for notifications 🔔

  • @scottbrandon6244
    @scottbrandon6244 2 года назад +15010

    The father looks like he could have a heart attack just from the shock.

    • @ibrahimmohammed3336
      @ibrahimmohammed3336 2 года назад +938

      He came back from the military and seeing his son like this who wouldnt get heart attack

    • @bobobingus3155
      @bobobingus3155 2 года назад +171

      Shii I would too

    • @Kacper42PL
      @Kacper42PL 2 года назад +1

      Imagine you had a son you love, care the most, and then you lost him forever because he saw some mentally ill/disabled person on the internet speak bs about their made out ideology and thought that it's something real that he should do. And now you can't get him back, he's lost in the abyss of retardation that the LgBtQ thing is.

    • @saintmay1952
      @saintmay1952 2 года назад +134

      @@biofilms22 ew

    • @biofilms22
      @biofilms22 2 года назад +9

      @@saintmay1952 ?

  • @benp.3966
    @benp.3966 3 года назад +18255

    bro they just all clapping while the father just already hyperventilating

    • @jeesonmumbambu8214
      @jeesonmumbambu8214 3 года назад +239

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

    • @broly425
      @broly425 3 года назад +779

      @@rosiegarza2698 ah yes because men cannot have legitimate feelings right

    • @NickSmith-qv4lh
      @NickSmith-qv4lh 3 года назад +46

      hilarious

    • @tyfly2631
      @tyfly2631 3 года назад +31

      I’m your 1000th comment like

    • @deeptoot1453
      @deeptoot1453 3 года назад +56

      @@rosiegarza2698 care to elaborate with evidence?

  • @dolanddrumpf6344
    @dolanddrumpf6344 Месяц назад +568

    Newsflash: wearing a wig and makeup does not make you a woman.

  • @UnlimitedEniola
    @UnlimitedEniola Месяц назад +744

    Imagine people clapping and cheering while a father is crying and sad😭. Who are these people 💔💔💔

    • @NicholasFrancoeur-tt7ed
      @NicholasFrancoeur-tt7ed Месяц назад +3

      It was funny Zach turned into Gary’s little princess

    • @MakedaFBrown
      @MakedaFBrown Месяц назад +8

      People encouraging and showing love to another person who lives even more pain than this father could ever imagine...

    • @alphaomarjallow676
      @alphaomarjallow676 Месяц назад +8

      They just clapped not knowing what they re clapping.

    • @houstonjoker3836
      @houstonjoker3836 Месяц назад +7

      I want to believe there were some sane people in the crowd who didn’t applaud but anyone who goes to these types of things surely isn’t.

    • @JasonweedQ3
      @JasonweedQ3 Месяц назад

      The new world

  • @TheEddy18090
    @TheEddy18090 2 года назад +10079

    The reality is that people will support those types of decisions until it happens to their kids

    • @RichardJohnson1969
      @RichardJohnson1969 2 года назад +488

      Facts

    • @Kaden_SparksYT
      @Kaden_SparksYT 2 года назад +277

      That is true

    • @m.w.2105
      @m.w.2105 2 года назад +352

      That’s not “reality” at all. If you support transgender rights then you accept it for everyone. I’ve never met or heard of anyone, ANYWHERE who claimed to support trans rights but then disowned a family member who transitioned.

    • @commentator1338
      @commentator1338 2 года назад +41

      And where did you get that from??

    • @HawaiiDEEPS
      @HawaiiDEEPS 2 года назад +377

      @@m.w.2105 You can accept it while not wanting it to happen to those in your family

  • @blue-phoenix115
    @blue-phoenix115 Год назад +7110

    Every father's worst fear.

    • @roguetank3526
      @roguetank3526 Год назад +472

      you mean parents or any logical thinking human with basic knowledge of biology

    • @PlumpnDreamyWalrus
      @PlumpnDreamyWalrus Год назад

      Not the child dying?

    • @jx2_23
      @jx2_23 Год назад +78

      ​@@roguetank3526 Yes...

    • @lwakvra
      @lwakvra Год назад +146

      It's not my father's worst fear, he's normal and not transmisogynistic!

    • @roguetank3526
      @roguetank3526 Год назад +443

      @@lwakvra a father who dont fear that his child would cut healthy body parts to live a lie is bad father

  • @whentheimposterissus8376
    @whentheimposterissus8376 2 месяца назад +786

    He lost his Son and why these pathetic people are clapping? ? He just lost his Son.

    • @DainnGreywall
      @DainnGreywall 2 месяца назад +34

      He didn't lose anyone. He got a daughter.

    • @cormacthem8406
      @cormacthem8406 2 месяца назад +5

      Life’s to short to love it for someone else bud. You have to live your life your way

    • @Mee.9262
      @Mee.9262 2 месяца назад

      @@DainnGreywallStfu that’s nonsense

    • @oceandrop7666
      @oceandrop7666 2 месяца назад +44

      @@DainnGreywall which would mean he lost the son, duhhhhhhhhh

    • @budmangt2
      @budmangt2 2 месяца назад

      They are told to clap, and like snowflake sheep they do!

  • @Hunter03269
    @Hunter03269 4 месяца назад +390

    It’s like all your memories suddenly got erased and replaced.

    • @Jose-vd3rn
      @Jose-vd3rn 3 месяца назад +17

      Same as betrayal, it shatters you

    • @SuperSwagTino
      @SuperSwagTino 3 месяца назад +12

      This. That's that alot of people forget, imagine you being around someone for decades thinking you know them, believing it. Only for them to turn out to be trans, it really shattere you espcially if its your offspring.
      And nothing against trans people either, I'm just saying how it is for those around you, espcially if you haven't let them know prior.

    • @MillyannaRuiz-le5pm
      @MillyannaRuiz-le5pm 2 дня назад

      Yeah

  • @johng2755
    @johng2755 Год назад +6903

    I'd be crying too. No normal man wants this for his son.

    • @bullymaguire7693
      @bullymaguire7693 Год назад +132

      Daughter**

    • @manarph6587
      @manarph6587 Год назад +3

      @@bullymaguire7693 shut up

    • @Chill_syr
      @Chill_syr Год назад +371

      ​​@@bullymaguire7693Lmao its son

    • @bullymaguire7693
      @bullymaguire7693 Год назад +76

      @@Chill_syr no its not lmao, don’t you see her long hair and dress? That’s a woman

    • @Chill_syr
      @Chill_syr Год назад +798

      @@bullymaguire7693 LMAO its a man

  • @carmenoyaoy
    @carmenoyaoy 3 года назад +15936

    My respect for the father showing emotions 📈📈📈

    • @maii9176
      @maii9176 3 года назад +13

      @@yusranarais2677 he isnr

    • @blackhole7909
      @blackhole7909 3 года назад +256

      So I respect the father hurting his daughter, the reason why he’s showing emotions is bc he doesn’t like his daughter being a girl

    • @johnpaulscheese6784
      @johnpaulscheese6784 3 года назад +165

      Showing his emotions but at the same time desperately staying in control so he can talk. I've been like that

    • @blakjjags0697
      @blakjjags0697 3 года назад +396

      @@blackhole7909 transgender women are not women, that is a biological fact, this doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t be treated with respect, it just means that they are not a woman, I’m not willing to argue with someone who disagrees with science

    • @josho_reacts2.0
      @josho_reacts2.0 3 года назад +179

      @@blackhole7909 im pretty sure he had a Adam apple not so long ago

  • @charliebritt6365
    @charliebritt6365 Месяц назад +148

    This young man was not always like this. This kid listened to the wrong people filling his head with garbage or simply wanted to be woke and totally shattered that poor fathers entire life. These clowns in the audience are mentally ill for clapping while that poor soul sat their with the soul literally leaving his body. How any kid could do this to their parents is beyond me,I pray this poor man has found some peace in what's left of his life.🙏

    • @Banshee22068
      @Banshee22068 День назад

      That's a dude. Always was a dude. Always will be a dude.

  • @LewisFromBattleforLewis
    @LewisFromBattleforLewis 3 месяца назад +66

    "..Why?"
    *that is the deepest thing ever.*

    • @TheDZHEX
      @TheDZHEX 3 месяца назад

      the painful thing is that there is no "why" - there is only "how".

    • @LewisFromBattleforLewis
      @LewisFromBattleforLewis 3 месяца назад +1

      @@TheDZHEX*there is no how just what*

  • @MichaelWilliamsofAmerica
    @MichaelWilliamsofAmerica 3 года назад +5671

    This has no business being on TV. It's extraordinarily exploitative of this family.

    • @nazteee8769
      @nazteee8769 3 года назад +307

      Well it's dr.phil.This is nothing new

    • @andrewshin9996
      @andrewshin9996 3 года назад +27

      Welll it’s on national television so to late😂

    • @austin16377
      @austin16377 3 года назад +137

      HOW? HOW? HOW? People who want to come onto Dr. Phil show desperately want to come on the show. They are not forced to come on the show; they choose to.

    • @eratoisyourmuse659
      @eratoisyourmuse659 3 года назад +9

      Well, it IS Dr. Phil... nuff said..

    • @TJ-im5kp
      @TJ-im5kp 3 года назад +46

      THEY SIGNED UP AND WERE PAYED TO BE ON THIS IF IT IS EVEN REAL. Do I like the show myself, not really... but ppl please. They probably emailed the producers hundreds of times to get a chance to be on the show.

  • @roberttuck4263
    @roberttuck4263 Год назад +5551

    You can see the moment he switches from sadness to hiding the pain.

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 Год назад

      Yeah. Pain.
      Make no Mistake and claim Dr.Phil 'uses peoples pain to get money': You miss the point if you dont understand theres more to say here ABOUT the 'Pain'. This Pain is caused by social-Issues. This is the same Pain a Conservative Mother feels when their Child is playing D&D, which we all KNOW is EVIL! The same Pain that Unhealthy-Trump-Supporters felt when Trump wasnt elected; some of them literally going on their Knees. This is the Pain of someone who got indoctrinated and groomed to think you 'Lost' your Child if its not exactly how you wanted it to be.

    • @roberttuck4263
      @roberttuck4263 Год назад +85

      Yup, it's pain.

    • @BADBVTCHRECORDS
      @BADBVTCHRECORDS Год назад +3

      Idk what u mean

    • @laragara
      @laragara Год назад +19

      This is what *parents* do.

    • @laragara
      @laragara Год назад +9

      @@turabalikhan1341 None of that was in my mind. Just pointing out how parents will commonly do this when hurt by their children.

  • @tom11zz884
    @tom11zz884 2 месяца назад +380

    The father's reaction was real and understandable.
    Father wants a real man for a son.

    • @juliocryv
      @juliocryv 2 месяца назад +5

      Yep

    • @Therealtruth2005
      @Therealtruth2005 2 месяца назад

      I’m killing my self after seeing this

    • @maplecakeschannel
      @maplecakeschannel Месяц назад

      transphobic

    • @Ikx._
      @Ikx._ 29 дней назад +1

      “Real man”💀

    • @natep7343
      @natep7343 7 дней назад +2

      Well this (adult) son doesn’t want to be a man. Not the father’s choice.

  • @adityakoul6191
    @adityakoul6191 Месяц назад +221

    meet his SON not daughter. just because someone lives in delusion doesnt mean we support it.

    • @Jem.Studios
      @Jem.Studios Месяц назад +4

      *daughter. Youre the only delulu one

    • @cherylcannon1987
      @cherylcannon1987 Месяц назад +25

      @Jem.Studios If something happens to a transgender person, their DNA still shows their birth gender. If they pass away, their pelvic bone structure will also identify them as their birth gender. And just because you have taken hormones, had plastic surgery, have less or more appendages, dress differently, or want to change your pronouns, does NOT change your gender. It’s a facade that people now accept as a reality. But it isn’t. The identity of their body will remain their birth gender and no one will identify them as their "preferred pronouns". So who is it that you think is "delulu"?

    • @die66666
      @die66666 Месяц назад

      @@Jem.Studios man, you cant put makeup on a gorilla and call it human.

    • @ErikHappy
      @ErikHappy 28 дней назад

      @@cherylcannon1987and when we die in a few thousands or millions of year and the sun blows up none of the genders matter so what’s the point of complaining now? It isn’t effecting no one or hurting anyone you guys need to get it together and grow the f up.

    • @Greenforlife-zi8np
      @Greenforlife-zi8np 27 дней назад

      ​@@Jem.Studios HE is a boy HE was born a boy HE is literally wearing make-up and a wig and that doesn't make him a girl

  • @kr8os227
    @kr8os227 Год назад +5474

    I am a father with 3 boys at home. This brought tears to my eyes.

    • @ericortega1745
      @ericortega1745 Год назад +169

      It's not a easy situation to see your son wanting to be a girl.

    • @ericortega1745
      @ericortega1745 11 месяцев назад +19

      @@OldDumbTeenCommentAccount . same brother.

    • @redcat6364
      @redcat6364 11 месяцев назад +108

      Hope your boys not only become men, but also Strong Gentlemen

    • @SlavToast
      @SlavToast 11 месяцев назад

      Its easy to raise boys, but it's difficult to raise men, good luck to you and your sons

    • @akritasdigenis4831
      @akritasdigenis4831 11 месяцев назад

      Sorry but I have to be honest with you, you think you have 3 boys but in the future they will identify as girls

  • @halodisciple8459
    @halodisciple8459 Год назад +6270

    I can tell you as a father with personal experience, this hurts. It's like no pain I've ever felt before. It's like you've lost somebody you love.

    • @sirbey9608
      @sirbey9608 Год назад +157

      I can only imagine

    • @ArthurMorgan-tr6tq
      @ArthurMorgan-tr6tq Год назад +182

      I'm genuinely sorry you have to live with that. I can't even imagine 😢

    • @Sean-xy4hk
      @Sean-xy4hk Год назад +197

      I feel so sorry for your child. You should be there for them no matter what.

    • @guesswhat-chickenbutt
      @guesswhat-chickenbutt Год назад +40

      Praying for you AND your family. 🙏

    • @PizzaManIsHere
      @PizzaManIsHere Год назад +236

      ​@@Sean-xy4hk no

  • @trulymushu
    @trulymushu 3 месяца назад +516

    Those tears in his eyes show he’s never going to look at his “son” the same ever again..
    edit : thanks for the 170 likes, never got this much :D

    • @Peliwat.Nusantara
      @Peliwat.Nusantara 3 месяца назад +1

      Islam is again, proven to be right again mate.. lol

    • @trulymushu
      @trulymushu 3 месяца назад

      yea, insha'allah islam will reach everyones houses@@Peliwat.Nusantara

    • @jasmatasialhlaleo3194
      @jasmatasialhlaleo3194 3 месяца назад +1

      Agreed with your saying , giving you more likes 😂

    • @lindahandley5267
      @lindahandley5267 3 месяца назад +2

      Now you have 231! You gave a good comment!

    • @Jem.Studios
      @Jem.Studios Месяц назад

      *daughter

  • @weirdo5424
    @weirdo5424 Месяц назад +58

    “You’re not a good looking girl, you’re a beautiful man.” 💔
    What an amazing father, he really tried his best 😢

  • @JeremyScoutTF2
    @JeremyScoutTF2 5 месяцев назад +1132

    Im tired of this world, god save us all

    • @Idoeverythingz
      @Idoeverythingz 5 месяцев назад +27

      True that

    • @why_so_serious
      @why_so_serious 4 месяца назад +29

      Me too, man... me too.

    • @zerik_barcafan
      @zerik_barcafan 4 месяца назад +51

      Jesus will take us out of the evil and crazy world❤️🙏

    • @stopmome667
      @stopmome667 4 месяца назад +5

      Same

    • @BuddyPuppy722
      @BuddyPuppy722 4 месяца назад

      Speaking facts. WHAT HAS THIS WORLD BECOME. 😭 I HOPE LGBTQ COMMUNITY QUITS

  • @marioivezaj154
    @marioivezaj154 Год назад +6277

    I feel extremely bad for that father brought a tear to my eye when he was crying

    • @sk-tx9dr
      @sk-tx9dr Год назад +48

      I feel the same

    • @tambert3897
      @tambert3897 Год назад +55

      Yes. It's hearbreaking.

    • @ripihy
      @ripihy Год назад +73

      Yeah but he’s gonna have to deal with it, if it was my child, I would love unconditionally

    • @tambert3897
      @tambert3897 Год назад +242

      @@ripihy Unconditional love doesn't mean a parent should agree or celebrate every part of their child's life. Parent's also have children who abuse alcohol and drugs. Parents should accept what their child is and love them unconditionally, but the parents should also want their children to get help. Same with being transgender. People who are trans are much more likely to self harm and abuse substances to cope with their gender dysphoria. They should get the help they need to cope with it in a healthy manner.

    • @aroniser
      @aroniser Год назад +45

      @@ripihy his son is dead

  • @littlesusieofficial
    @littlesusieofficial 3 месяца назад +117

    The fact these people are clapping says that this society is messed up BIG TIME!!

    • @Crackulence
      @Crackulence 3 месяца назад +5

      fr dawg

    • @croftmire
      @croftmire 2 месяца назад +6

      yeah, it’s so messed up to show support for folk going through a hard time by clapping. Shame on them.

    • @usibistro
      @usibistro Месяц назад

      ​@@croftmirethey're clapping for the delusional dumbass, not the father

  • @gambit23776
    @gambit23776 2 месяца назад +38

    Putting aside the acceptance part, the father is rightfully so grieving for a child he no longer recognizes and has lost. He deserves every right to be upset and grieving. Empathy and compassion is not a 1-way street. Some people say parents should support and accept their kids; I'm here to say it goes both ways. Accept that it will take time for a parent to come to terms with what has happened -- it doesn't happen overnight.

    • @mkwmag
      @mkwmag 2 месяца назад +2

      absolutely this

    • @usibistro
      @usibistro Месяц назад

      You can't just accept what your dumbass son is doing to his life and just call it a day.
      He has to be punished for his idiotic and unnecessary actions.

    • @fatooshtkd
      @fatooshtkd 2 дня назад

      To do this to your father, shame on you..... You don't deserve a father.... to inflict such pain on your father, in front of everyone.... son.... I wouldn't want you for a son.... You stabbed your father in the heart..... Was it good for you ? Asswipe..

  • @freddiffer522
    @freddiffer522 6 месяцев назад +2609

    Can’t blame him for feeling how he feels. He raised a boy to be a man and feels like he’s failed. There’s no judgement there’s no discrimination , just pain.

    • @nicolebro8399
      @nicolebro8399 5 месяцев назад +63

      I wish more comments explained like this how they understand instead of getting mad at one or the other. They are both hurt and grieving, and lucky for them they still have a relationship that cam be fixed, better than most

    • @user-ql9hs5qv7r
      @user-ql9hs5qv7r 5 месяцев назад +25

      Yea it’s is discrimination and hate it’s sexism. If his daughter transitioned to a man he wouldn’t be nearly as upset. This idea that trans women have somehow “failed” by becoming women is an inherently sexist and patriarchal idea.

    • @allimoo-249
      @allimoo-249 5 месяцев назад +81

      @@user-ql9hs5qv7ryou don’t know that he wouldn’t feel the same way if he had a trans son.

    • @cslearn3044
      @cslearn3044 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​​@@user-ql9hs5qv7roh shame on you, you piece of work, it would devastate him the same if not more, imagine raising your kid and they throw all their values just to feel "happy", and usually those trans people off themselves pretty quickly

    • @sen4090
      @sen4090 5 месяцев назад +38

      ​@@user-ql9hs5qv7r its more of the fact that he thinks he has failed as a father for his child even wanting to transition regardless of gender

  • @andrewgroeger3947
    @andrewgroeger3947 Год назад +3569

    This poor man is digging up every ounce of strength in his being not to fall apart.

    • @powerwise234
      @powerwise234 Год назад +2

      I would have the same issue if my mentally ill son had butchered himself in such a way.

    • @GlobalDesignHD
      @GlobalDesignHD Год назад

      Yeah when your kid is mentally ill like that I'd fall apart too

    • @jasperjenkins1244
      @jasperjenkins1244 Год назад +12

      So am I just watching this!!! 😢

    • @Chris_winthers
      @Chris_winthers Год назад +6

      4 minutes and 44 seconds of happiness in watching him suffer

    • @Youcanthandlemyhandle899
      @Youcanthandlemyhandle899 Год назад

      Or have a wank

  • @rltreasure
    @rltreasure 3 месяца назад +44

    This trans nonsense has gotten out of hand!

    • @Djkhrdfbviuhdffbvuihrbf
      @Djkhrdfbviuhdffbvuihrbf 3 месяца назад +4

      FOR REAL MAN

    • @rozdoyle8872
      @rozdoyle8872 Месяц назад

      Yes and a lot of lonely, mixed up people falling into the black hole , this Father is really this guy's uncle in that he & his wife took on his sister's baby at 2 days old , no mention of the mother or what happened to her ? This is deep stuff , is the young man trying to replace his real mother by becoming female?

    • @usibistro
      @usibistro Месяц назад

      ​@@rozdoyle8872might be one of the causes. Yet it's still unjustifiable behaviour that should be treated and cured.

  • @S1LeNtSnIpE45
    @S1LeNtSnIpE45 Месяц назад +3

    As a father this would push me to suicide because of the shame.

  • @fisheyehand3655
    @fisheyehand3655 2 года назад +4874

    You can hear the pain in his voice. He knows he's not going to see his son again

    • @suborelseilltakeitpersonal8349
      @suborelseilltakeitpersonal8349 2 года назад +162

      @@YACHIHANNAH well yes obviously. Just not exactly the son he expected. The average parent would be disappointed

    • @ajaxjohnson7999
      @ajaxjohnson7999 2 года назад +406

      @@suborelseilltakeitpersonal8349 Facts! It amazes me how so many people invalidate the father's feelings and say "he's needs to accept it and get over it." Such entitlement!

    • @eggchomp
      @eggchomp 2 года назад +96

      @@ajaxjohnson7999 well clearly he can be upset, his emotions are valid because he lost a son but he needs to realise that his kid is so much happier living as she is now. she even said he didn’t do anything wrong, and i do hope that they have an okay relationship now. he lost a son, but didn’t lose a kid (unless he disowned her)

    • @sweetie_buns
      @sweetie_buns 2 года назад +11

      @@ajaxjohnson7999 how are people being entitled

    • @diablocls55
      @diablocls55 2 года назад +97

      @@eggchomp He*

  • @MikeHawks-pm1vm
    @MikeHawks-pm1vm 15 дней назад +4

    The pain in the Father's voice....

  • @YeahboiRussia
    @YeahboiRussia 4 месяца назад +34

    Who came here from short
    👇

  • @2v_5r84
    @2v_5r84 3 года назад +3843

    Why do people go on Dr. Phil for situations like this

    • @oldrooster7084
      @oldrooster7084 3 года назад +250

      @@Nios2216 yes, he is, but why so public? There are many other doctors who don't have public show on tv...

    • @Nios2216
      @Nios2216 3 года назад +46

      @@oldrooster7084 bc clout idfk lol

    • @aiyaa9315
      @aiyaa9315 3 года назад +53

      @@Nios2216 the only thing he say is “what are your feelings about this”

    • @Nios2216
      @Nios2216 3 года назад +9

      @@aiyaa9315 ok have u watched the other ones 😂

    • @AK-ql8yp
      @AK-ql8yp 3 года назад +51

      The money

  • @user-gz9js7fd2p
    @user-gz9js7fd2p 4 месяца назад +381

    I don't think he's a transphobic person. He's just heartbroken.

    • @Emily-cw7tj
      @Emily-cw7tj 2 месяца назад +12

      I agree I think he's just heartbroken too

    • @myrasmith1603
      @myrasmith1603 2 месяца назад

      Trans men are men

    • @HammoniaAmour1887.
      @HammoniaAmour1887. Месяц назад

      He's heartbroken because he's transphobic.

    • @dodonodens8802
      @dodonodens8802 Месяц назад +6

      As a femboy I can feel that father :(

    • @judesliggoo
      @judesliggoo Месяц назад +13

      ​@@dodonodens8802 ? How's that any different lmao

  • @SnowmanVR.
    @SnowmanVR. 4 месяца назад +32

    I’m a kid and I feel terrible.

  • @jeff271
    @jeff271 Месяц назад +17

    America has fallen

  • @CarolinaMartinez-hc1if
    @CarolinaMartinez-hc1if 2 года назад +5912

    I'm glad we are taking the father's feelings into consideration. These are the people we forget

    • @jeremyw.6946
      @jeremyw.6946 2 года назад +201

      That literally makes no sense. If you can’t accept your child for who they are then you are the issue & deserve to be forgotten.

    • @LB00146
      @LB00146 2 года назад +546

      @@jeremyw.6946 Its not that easy buddy! ..its a tough thing to have to deal with..not all people think the same and that's not a bad thing. His father clearly loves him and is not a bad person. Hes not berating his son in anyway he just finds it tough to deal with cause this is something that he wasn't prepared for.

    • @sherkhanomarkhan5496
      @sherkhanomarkhan5496 2 года назад +239

      The father is crying, and the son has no reaction

    • @cwstewartjr1973
      @cwstewartjr1973 2 года назад +265

      @@jeremyw.6946 that mans son is playing dress up

    • @coleprivett4651
      @coleprivett4651 2 года назад +6

      They ask to be on the show dude

  • @seanbangerter9646
    @seanbangerter9646 2 года назад +3189

    I remember holding my son at birth, looking forward to all the things a father does with his son. My heart breaks for this man.

    • @hotmango5647
      @hotmango5647 2 года назад +105

      "Looking forward to all the things a father does with his son"
      What a creep

    • @M-26-7
      @M-26-7 2 года назад +320

      @@hotmango5647 gr8 b8 m8

    • @hvr.
      @hvr. 2 года назад +292

      @@hotmango5647 anime pfp moment

    • @hotmango5647
      @hotmango5647 2 года назад +7

      @@M-26-7 thanks bro

    • @hotmango5647
      @hotmango5647 2 года назад +4

      @@hvr. indeed

  • @shresthadatta8653
    @shresthadatta8653 Месяц назад +7

    He just lost his child let him mourn omg

  • @LetJesusTouchUrLife
    @LetJesusTouchUrLife 3 месяца назад +28

    Must be so hard for him to see his son. Dad's heart is completely broken.

  • @allaroundamazing7007
    @allaroundamazing7007 3 года назад +2376

    That’s the face of a man who just had his whole squad wiped out in Vietnam.

  • @CowBoyBlaze44
    @CowBoyBlaze44 Год назад +2938

    My mom always said it’s really sad when a grown man cry. Hope this father found peace!

    • @amberheardsucks7972
      @amberheardsucks7972 Год назад +25

      I doubt he did!

    • @marthamungure1777
      @marthamungure1777 Год назад +155

      He had every reason to cry. His son died

    • @NolanAnderson
      @NolanAnderson Год назад +97

      he lost his child

    • @queenofcandy
      @queenofcandy Год назад +13

      I hope the father found peace too. The son never disappeared, she just changed a bit. I hope she is doing well.

    • @baarai4883
      @baarai4883 Год назад

      @@queenofcandy lmao "she is doing well""she just changed A BIT" wtf are you insane a bit ????? gtfo mate. he lost his world, you don't understand what does it mean to have a son has a father.

  • @StealthClxp
    @StealthClxp 4 дня назад +3

    I could never ever raise my kid like this.

  • @TheMotorMethod
    @TheMotorMethod Месяц назад +40

    The title should read: “Father Meets his Son Dressed as a Woman for the First Time”

    • @HilaryMeyerov
      @HilaryMeyerov Месяц назад

      Agreed

    • @no-one-1
      @no-one-1 29 дней назад

      The description says that. Something tells me they changed the title.

  • @Amamoo.
    @Amamoo. Год назад +2875

    I feel so bad for the father I hope he is okay, he looked as if on the verge of having heart attack

    • @marthamungure1777
      @marthamungure1777 Год назад +174

      He lost his son.

    • @whosurdanny
      @whosurdanny Год назад +149

      Im a father of a single loving boy. I love him to pluto and back... but if he ever comes to me and say hes transition to trans then im blowing my brains out infront of him and let him live with that and the decision that came with his consequences...... the pain that father feels.... its feels like having your flesh ripped off very very very slowly. Fathers worst nightmare

    • @qksf1645
      @qksf1645 Год назад +44

      @@whosurdannyIt’s not your fault if he comes out as trans. You should just accept him

    • @stefanosullo9792
      @stefanosullo9792 Год назад +65

      ​@@qksf1645 of course. Like a muppet

    • @user-zt4sg6zo2v
      @user-zt4sg6zo2v Год назад +77

      @@qksf1645 No

  • @stuff2047
    @stuff2047 3 года назад +3095

    This in not the sort of thing I’d bring on national television.

    • @rainoffire24
      @rainoffire24 2 года назад +47

      why not? Because their is genuine emotion on both sides that appears to be more than just theatrical?

    • @stuff2047
      @stuff2047 2 года назад +108

      @@rainoffire24 IMO it’s too private a matter for TV.

    • @rainoffire24
      @rainoffire24 2 года назад +40

      @@stuff2047 I appreciate your sentiment, I know it's heartfelt. But they knew they were going to be on TV. And they may have even had their own reasons beyond being on TV. Why they wanted to be on Dr. Phil is their business and theirs alone

    • @stuff2047
      @stuff2047 2 года назад +15

      @@rainoffire24 no disagreement there, was simply stating my personal opinion.

    • @elizabethchwakanowski5067
      @elizabethchwakanowski5067 2 года назад +17

      @@rainoffire24 their pain is being exploited for the shock factor it brings. Its all about sensationalism

  • @user-rz3lr2kp7h
    @user-rz3lr2kp7h 2 месяца назад +42

    And their are people in the crowd cheering,clapping and encouraging him as he walks out … this one’s are the problem of the society

    • @anthonykirk6765
      @anthonykirk6765 20 дней назад

      These. These.

    • @sky_pirate
      @sky_pirate 15 дней назад

      ​@@anthonykirk6765The user you're responding to is foreign. That username is the clue.

  • @kevinfreeman8435
    @kevinfreeman8435 4 месяца назад +8

    …………….come on. Clapping while this father is in pain. Go home people

  • @johnsorzano
    @johnsorzano 2 года назад +3201

    To make a father cry it takes a lot... A LOT... I feel for this man.

    • @colddaysnowdays
      @colddaysnowdays Год назад +46

      True I feel for him to
      But he still needs to accept his kid

    • @darthasthma1283
      @darthasthma1283 Год назад +323

      @@colddaysnowdays no he doesn’t

    • @colddaysnowdays
      @colddaysnowdays Год назад +31

      @@darthasthma1283 yes he does. that's his kid

    • @darthasthma1283
      @darthasthma1283 Год назад +1

      @@colddaysnowdays he does not have to share that child’s delusion and if that child is refusing help for a mental disorder then all he can do is turn his back

    • @fargoboyle1
      @fargoboyle1 Год назад +190

      @@colddaysnowdays that’s attention seeking

  • @ENVT_Kitsu
    @ENVT_Kitsu Год назад +3683

    He’s not a good looking girl, he’s a beautiful man. Wise words from an outstanding father

    • @bullymaguire7693
      @bullymaguire7693 Год назад

      Shut up, SHES a woman, nothing anyone can do about it, not you not me not even her own father

    • @MrSnow-dk3to
      @MrSnow-dk3to Год назад +3

      @@bullymaguire7693 I think the word you're looking for is mental. Lol, good joke tho

    • @xeigor8913
      @xeigor8913 Год назад +2

      He is not beautiful....🖕🖕🖕

    • @modellawns5203
      @modellawns5203 Год назад +67

      You hit the nail on the head.

    • @jameshawkins8966
      @jameshawkins8966 Год назад +114

      Hes like i want my OLD SON BACK 😢

  • @DF2_YT
    @DF2_YT 3 месяца назад +14

    Bro is fighting the urge to get milk

  • @OG-Klas
    @OG-Klas Месяц назад +6

    🫡 You Are a Good father but he failed being your son 😔

  • @Edselsmellswell
    @Edselsmellswell Год назад +1729

    You know what else is heartbreaking besides seeing your mother cry ? Also seeing your father cry

    • @steppe_dweller_locky
      @steppe_dweller_locky Год назад +76

      and it's even worse.

    • @perpisdich3386
      @perpisdich3386 Год назад +63

      it's even harder, the strength of the family crumbling infront of you

    • @waldemarsilas6675
      @waldemarsilas6675 Год назад +52

      His 'son' seemed to be very cold and emotionless even when seeing his father crying.

    • @justhatemeisrael6760
      @justhatemeisrael6760 Год назад +36

      @@waldemarsilas6675 Thats what happens when you cut off your junk. All the emotions go with it

    • @uylvonne1288
      @uylvonne1288 Год назад +3

      @@waldemarsilas6675 of course he is. he is literally watching her father cry because shes being herself

  • @Jusbale
    @Jusbale 2 года назад +3873

    This is a perfect example of the concept of "nobody wins"

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 2 года назад +181

      the girl wins, it's HER life

    • @d.h4278
      @d.h4278 2 года назад +565

      @@oliviawutam Gender Dysphoria does not go away once physically changing appearance, it's something that's within the mind.

    • @seanparkk19
      @seanparkk19 2 года назад +335

      @@oliviawutam boy loses, it’s his life*

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 2 года назад +35

      @@seanparkk19 he doesn't lose anything but gains his real identity and peace of mind. the uncle / father has no right over the 'boy' , the boy/girl should have been dressed better, but it's his/her right

    • @LazerB.
      @LazerB. 2 года назад +328

      @@oliviawutam there is no girl there

  • @VishakhaTiwari-ew5yv
    @VishakhaTiwari-ew5yv 7 дней назад +4

    god the title has daughter in it, thats when you know the society has accepted being delusional

  • @russiantroubleyakutsk1612
    @russiantroubleyakutsk1612 15 дней назад +2

    Guy wants to pretend to be a girl, so we all must pretend with him.

    • @fatooshtkd
      @fatooshtkd 2 дня назад

      No, he put HIS FATHER ON NATIONAL TV AND DID THIS.... THE SON IS SEVERELY DISTURBED..... FOR THAT MATTER, SO IS DR. PHIL....

  • @erica8820
    @erica8820 3 года назад +3718

    I feel so bad for the father too. He looks heartbroken

    • @rubydevey9377
      @rubydevey9377 3 года назад +168

      well its always accept your kids no matter what until its his own kid hes just gonna have to accept it. i understand its new and shocking but hes clerly gonna have to get used to it.

    • @purpleplanet888
      @purpleplanet888 3 года назад +235

      Dont have kids if ur not going to accept them

    • @smacklol5363
      @smacklol5363 3 года назад +133

      i agree but this is the first time this man has seen his child as the opposite gender. it will be a shock and he was upset due to all of his dreams/hopes of seeing his “son” grow up to be a man and get married and do guy things w him. it’s a shock u have to look at both sides of this story.

    • @erica8820
      @erica8820 3 года назад +69

      @@smacklol5363 Exactly. It's important to look at both sides. Of course the daughter deserves to be accepted for who she is, and parents should accept their children. But parents are human too, and he was visibly very upset at first and that doesn't make him a bad person for his initial reaction

    • @someabstractsnack8151
      @someabstractsnack8151 3 года назад +42

      it's always fun to see confused people complaining about a sane man not accepting their delusions, the psychological pain may be real, but if you have pain, you go to the doctor, A REAL DOCTOR.

  • @TheFayzh
    @TheFayzh Год назад +3973

    I feel sorry for the father 💔

    • @dreamybulllxxx
      @dreamybulllxxx Год назад

      @@opmab5941 dilate

    • @bluecloudd4144
      @bluecloudd4144 Год назад +53

      Me too

    • @yo-dx7xm
      @yo-dx7xm Год назад +4

      @@opmab5941 why be rude?

    • @Kestrafett
      @Kestrafett Год назад +15

      Me too 😢

    • @808andrewandrew
      @808andrewandrew Год назад +60

      why ?? You’re intolerant if u feel sorry for the father. Nothing happend to him. He should accept what her daughter feels like and who she is

  • @Etn575
    @Etn575 14 дней назад +4

    The world did this bad thing to this man 🥲🥲

  • @maryamqindeel3745
    @maryamqindeel3745 29 дней назад +3

    “I always felt the opposite gender” is just a phase. I’m a girl and i use to feel like i wanted to be a boy in my teens.
    I talked like boys i walked like boys. I had nothing girly except the appearance. But that phase ended.
    Instead of becoming a trans and hurting your parents people should go with the flow and let that phase fade out.
    Just like that psycho killer who says “i feel like putting people in acid drums” doesn’t mean he is right and we should respect his choice.

  • @TwistedSix85
    @TwistedSix85 5 месяцев назад +1423

    If my son ever showed up like this it would shatter me. I understand this man’s pain very well.

    • @babs_babs
      @babs_babs 5 месяцев назад +34

      usually i’d say “sounds like a you problem” but i know for a fact you’d make your hate your kids problem too.

    • @luisfernandolopez9794
      @luisfernandolopez9794 4 месяца назад

      I hate how you are homophobic

    • @fakefen
      @fakefen 4 месяца назад

      @@rickhammond2473the peak of insanity

    • @jamaalshaikh122
      @jamaalshaikh122 3 месяца назад

      ​@@babs_babs some things should and need to be hated and this is one of them

    • @shamaYahu8635
      @shamaYahu8635 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@rickhammond2473
      Said the reprobate

  • @ihategenz4254
    @ihategenz4254 3 года назад +4639

    The father seems really heartbroken 💔

  • @flamezonegaming1209
    @flamezonegaming1209 2 месяца назад +5

    If i was the father i'd have no child anymore

  • @isaiahwynn5909
    @isaiahwynn5909 2 месяца назад +4

    Imagine growning up all your life wanted a son of your own just for you to get to that point and their just like nah I don’t wanna be a man anymore

  • @theflicka28flicka24
    @theflicka28flicka24 2 года назад +4642

    I really felt for the Father. This would be incredibly difficult for him too.

    • @ewjiml
      @ewjiml 2 года назад +201

      Honestly, if I was in his fathers shoes, I was would be in shock too. My son is my life and I will always consider himself “my boy.” If you take that away from me, it would take me time to adjust. Anger first then hopefully acceptance.

    • @ameliasiebertr
      @ameliasiebertr 2 года назад +111

      i could understand how that could be difficult 100%. and could take time to get used to. but as a parent you’re supposed to support your kid & their choices that bring them happiness. imagine hiding who you are as a person your entire life & then finally having the courage to be yourself and have everyone you love make you feel horrible for it.

    • @ewjiml
      @ewjiml 2 года назад +86

      @@ameliasiebertr ummm this should have never been televised. The father was obviously overstimulated. If this was behind closed doors, it could have had a better result.

    • @ameliasiebertr
      @ameliasiebertr 2 года назад +18

      @@ewjiml oh yeah i agree. definitely

    • @juliaDVD
      @juliaDVD 2 года назад +57

      “difficult for the father” what about the trans daughter??

  • @michaelluciano7774
    @michaelluciano7774 2 года назад +4756

    What a kick in the gut for the father. Nobody wins in this picture, it's truly sad.

    • @alexanderb2193
      @alexanderb2193 2 года назад +314

      Except the child who’s finally happy now?
      Are we really supposed to care about a father who completely invalidates his child’s feelings and emotions because he’s ignorant and selfish?

    • @ameilioracryptos5298
      @ameilioracryptos5298 2 года назад +52

      Yeah

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc 2 года назад +591

      @@alexanderb2193 Nothing like living a lie to be happy. Do a little research into this gay man and see how things are going.

    • @khravos
      @khravos 2 года назад +387

      @@alexanderb2193 and the child invalidates the father with their actions. I don't understand how the trans communities argue and expect respect of their opinions, however don't respect the opinions of elderly. These people were raised and taught almost their whole lives stuff like this is wrong. If you're taught something your whole life it's hard to break away from that or understand. He clearly doesn't see this as what the child wants to be he sees this as him losing his son and didn't do good enough. He's not even really transphobic he's blaming himself more than his kid

    • @kage-Da4333
      @kage-Da4333 2 года назад +31

      @@khravos exactly

  • @0092mateo
    @0092mateo 2 месяца назад +14

    Man i feel for this father. May god give him strength to overcome this. For me i would go crazy 😢

  • @remiuii
    @remiuii Месяц назад +9

    I wish we could go back when all of this didnt exist

  • @boogieman7145
    @boogieman7145 3 года назад +2408

    The “Why” is so painful omg...got me cutting onions here.

    • @yusranarais2677
      @yusranarais2677 3 года назад +16

      Ikr 🥺

    • @aku69157
      @aku69157 3 года назад +131

      He should accept her. I’m sure she has been through enough

    • @ritvikvarada156
      @ritvikvarada156 3 года назад +272

      @@aku69157 *him

    • @juliegutierrez88
      @juliegutierrez88 3 года назад +196

      @@aku69157 it’s a he, and the father doesn’t need to accept him.

    • @lilcargoship6142
      @lilcargoship6142 3 года назад +108

      @@aku69157 just understand what he's going through he literally lost his son, he became a completely different person

  • @eggyg3662
    @eggyg3662 3 года назад +2007

    Try and understand what this must be like from the father’s perspective. You can preach all you want that he should be accepting of his child regardless, however he must’ve felt a sense of pride when he held his “son” as a baby. He probably had dreams of his “son” becoming a man, getting married etc. As a result of this change, that’s an entire reality he will no longer get to experience. That’s gotta hurt man. He’s not necessarily transphobic per say, he just feels he has failed as a father.

    • @MiguelDS5547
      @MiguelDS5547 3 года назад +135

      He did fail as a father.

    • @z0pzip
      @z0pzip 3 года назад +437

      @@MiguelDS5547 maybe you failed as a human

    • @MiguelDS5547
      @MiguelDS5547 3 года назад +228

      @@z0pzip I'm actually a trans-species, I identify as Pepe the Frog.

    • @z0pzip
      @z0pzip 3 года назад +318

      @@MiguelDS5547 wow so funny i forgot to laugh! no wonder you're a disappointment!

    • @femmemetal9200
      @femmemetal9200 3 года назад +78

      No. Hes dissapointed at his daughter happiness and right to be herself. End of argument.

  • @soda_17
    @soda_17 4 месяца назад +2

    Bro fr got the 1000 yard stare for meeting his son

  • @mauricio.nascimento
    @mauricio.nascimento 3 месяца назад +47

    The correct title is "His SON"

  • @songbirds3712
    @songbirds3712 2 года назад +3662

    This poor Father. My heart breaks for him.

    • @SpiralTheFirst
      @SpiralTheFirst 2 года назад +123

      Why poor him? He’s transphobic.

    • @Jimmie_.
      @Jimmie_. 2 года назад +523

      @@SpiralTheFirst poor father

    • @cosmokramer179
      @cosmokramer179 2 года назад +19

      His son, that he held in his arms from the day he was born, suddenly comes in looking like a female. Don’t pretend like you’d be all excited and joyful seeing your own flesh and blood go through a whole gender reassignment process

    • @vanessarodriguez4206
      @vanessarodriguez4206 2 года назад +420

      @@Taygon094 being a woman and man is natural. Not being trans and all that other stuff.

    • @t_ub
      @t_ub 2 года назад +6

      @@SpiralTheFirst years of raising a child for them to change gender and unable to reproduce, ending the bloodline

  • @JackOLantern0987
    @JackOLantern0987 Год назад +2979

    That is tragic. It's like he's lost his son. I cried with him.

    • @jimtempleton8196
      @jimtempleton8196 Год назад +12

      G.D!! HE DID!!

    • @apasih6854
      @apasih6854 Год назад +38

      yes but he gained a daughter

    • @TheVirginGaryLovingDemocrats
      @TheVirginGaryLovingDemocrats Год назад +83

      @@apasih6854 Dr. Phil sold out long ago, which means you'd be better off getting advice from some drunk guy at a bar.

    • @jimtempleton8196
      @jimtempleton8196 Год назад

      @@apasih6854 with a mental illness.

    • @susans-dead-son
      @susans-dead-son Год назад +57

      ​@@apasih6854 I don't think you understand how he feels. Maybe if it was your own son you would.

  • @playernumber3.
    @playernumber3. 3 месяца назад +5

    Imagine a psychologist telling you this, wow.
    This is idiocracy

  • @Cogelightninggamershorts759
    @Cogelightninggamershorts759 2 месяца назад +2

    Bro I feel the fathers pain 😢

  • @PsychoMan93
    @PsychoMan93 2 года назад +886

    “To biologically become a woman.”
    That’s biologically impossible.

    • @akaiiiii_15
      @akaiiiii_15 2 года назад +24

      Embarrassing

    • @prettypuffprincess
      @prettypuffprincess 2 года назад +40

      💯

    • @liamvanenschot6042
      @liamvanenschot6042 2 года назад +13

      The problem is that the people at first the young folks don’t even realize what consequences what decisions and also which solutions or results will occur. And it’s gettimg trendy So no it’s not really OK it’s OK that people can do it but it’s not OK that we have a massive trend in it because if we’re trending on it what will happen in 20 years?

    • @timothydraper6626
      @timothydraper6626 2 года назад +10

      If identity begins in the brain, and the brain is a part of our biology, which it is, then since it's a part of our body, I'm thinking that trans people are biologically the gender they transition to.

    • @danielmora7798
      @danielmora7798 2 года назад +5

      Facts

  • @AvaClifton-ly2ni
    @AvaClifton-ly2ni 11 месяцев назад +2752

    i feel so bad for the father and it’s good to know people are on his side here because they should be.

    • @Matt-nr3bh
      @Matt-nr3bh 11 месяцев назад +97

      There shouldn’t be sides. These are both humans and they both deserve love bd respect.

    • @yolomcswaggens9482
      @yolomcswaggens9482 11 месяцев назад +16

      Not those who encourage certain lifestyles through outright propaganda. That may not be relevant to this case but it often is.

    • @WW-bv8hk
      @WW-bv8hk 11 месяцев назад +31

      *Alhamdulillah* for *Islam*

    • @Darkness96302
      @Darkness96302 11 месяцев назад +79

      ​@@Matt-nr3bhHis son deserves love yes, and his father loves him, that's why his father wants him to realize that he's not a girl, he's a confused man in need of help.

    • @blakex2699
      @blakex2699 10 месяцев назад +16

      I understand his emotions as well but he should try to accept his daughter 🤷 I sure it take time

  • @elmurodtagoykulov3137
    @elmurodtagoykulov3137 Месяц назад +1

    Any words can't describe what the father is feeling through these moments. This is the end of all dreams and hope that the father ( as a real man) has had so far.

  • @NathansCollectables
    @NathansCollectables 4 месяца назад +5

    I feel bad for the father 😢

  • @mirandatinashemurahwa4493
    @mirandatinashemurahwa4493 3 года назад +2361

    It's like the little boy you had adventures with died. So when you look at the images of the past with your little boy....you cannot relate and he died. I feel this father

    • @cassier8414
      @cassier8414 3 года назад +163

      They're still the same person though?
      They can still be related to because they're your child.

    • @gameforce7791
      @gameforce7791 3 года назад +349

      @@cassier8414 it is not the same, its like looking at family pictures with yor ex who cheated on you but worse

    • @depressivschwul2377
      @depressivschwul2377 3 года назад +71

      @@gameforce7791 how is it worse there still his kid she hasn't changed a bit she's still the same person you make your horrible by being that why my mother is still the same was in denial because I'm male instead of being a girl like she's prefers I'd be but oh well if people choose to make it hurt that that's them nothing changes but looks the heart stays the same

    • @lotsaspaghettimamaluigi
      @lotsaspaghettimamaluigi 3 года назад +167

      @@depressivschwul2377 he*

    • @depressivschwul2377
      @depressivschwul2377 3 года назад +68

      @@lotsaspaghettimamaluigi she not he she grow tf up and stop being childish

  • @isatherebel1520
    @isatherebel1520 2 года назад +645

    I was actually expecting a lotta jokes and memes here bruh, but it's genuinely my first time seeing a comment section really serious about the topic

    • @ThatBrian
      @ThatBrian 2 года назад +4

      I was thinking the same

    • @jkeezy93
      @jkeezy93 2 года назад +9

      Why do their suicide rates go up POST operation?

    • @solitaryconfinement1975
      @solitaryconfinement1975 2 года назад +30

      @@jkeezy93 all the surgeries in the world won’t fix what’s broken inside

    • @daniels876
      @daniels876 2 года назад +4

      If my grandmother had wheels she would've been a bike

    • @lava-yq7tf
      @lava-yq7tf 2 года назад +1

      @@daniels876 don't talk about the Mac n cheese like that

  • @claudium6769
    @claudium6769 Месяц назад +2

    No father should ever go through something like that

  • @DeathDealer0302
    @DeathDealer0302 Год назад +636

    I'm sorry, this might sound wrong. But I feel like they shouldn't have done this in Dr. Phil. This is a conversation that should take place at home between the two of them. Not on national TV Infront of millions of people

    • @vac8810
      @vac8810 Год назад +25

      Totally agree with you

    • @adam632
      @adam632 Год назад +47

      Typical dr Phil moment...

    • @muhammadabuzarkhan7450
      @muhammadabuzarkhan7450 Год назад +25

      This issue is common in America. That is why many people wanted to bring such conversation to national TV. There are better way to do it but this needed to be addressed. The parents or loved one effected by others person transitioning need to be brought to public attention which media will not show only the story of the one who transitioned.

    • @musicneedle
      @musicneedle Год назад +7

      They both agreed to this.

    • @ebanram5782
      @ebanram5782 Год назад +6

      I feel like if it was just the two of them in a room the father would walk out, but not the son 💀

  • @DylanTheBossMan
    @DylanTheBossMan 4 месяца назад +267

    1:29 - Man put on all five stages of grief in one face.

    • @user-er2qx7ee2h
      @user-er2qx7ee2h 3 месяца назад +2

      Thousand yard stare

    • @Jjkfananime
      @Jjkfananime 3 месяца назад

      @@user-er2qx7ee2h that’s going a lot of far😂

    • @Jjkfananime
      @Jjkfananime 3 месяца назад +2

      @@user-er2qx7ee2h looking back at the time stamp you’re right😂

    • @bodypositiveimage
      @bodypositiveimage 24 дня назад

      Right.

  • @joestrk1333
    @joestrk1333 3 месяца назад +2

    LMAO NOT THE FIVE O CLOCK SHADOW ON THE SON

  • @xdcharot1216
    @xdcharot1216 3 месяца назад +10

    This generation is doomed

    • @lNF1Z
      @lNF1Z 3 месяца назад

      Every generation is doomed in there OWN way.

    • @prod.halfnhalf
      @prod.halfnhalf 3 месяца назад

      @@lNF1Zlil bro did not cook

    • @lNF1Z
      @lNF1Z 3 месяца назад

      @@prod.halfnhalf it ain't 2023 grow Df up

    • @prod.halfnhalf
      @prod.halfnhalf 3 месяца назад

      @@lNF1Z i know you aint talkin lil bro

  • @amandapyers4870
    @amandapyers4870 2 года назад +3005

    Poor man, he is clearly heartbroken.

    • @janicenichols3707
      @janicenichols3707 2 года назад +75

      I TO WOULD BE HEART BROKEN .

    • @My_NameisMike
      @My_NameisMike 2 года назад +262

      @@dawn-fp3zw so basically what your saying is the father is not allowed to be heartbroken who are u to say that u are not that persons father so he cant have his own opinions your a joke

    • @gonetopluto3461
      @gonetopluto3461 2 года назад +61

      @jjtolsk shes a woman m8, if u cant handle that fact then go cry abt it lol

    • @gonetopluto3461
      @gonetopluto3461 2 года назад +38

      @jjtolsk sorry you're stuck in that false reality 🤷‍♂️

    • @gonetopluto3461
      @gonetopluto3461 2 года назад +31

      @jjtolsk you seem angry, i suggest a breathing exercise.

  • @sarahkirby8821
    @sarahkirby8821 2 года назад +2309

    I am not a parent yet but I think this would be extremely difficult.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 2 года назад +8

      agreed, but you don't own a child

    • @tarralyncook3712
      @tarralyncook3712 2 года назад +226

      @@oliviawutam that’s why they said “I am not a parent.” Tf

    • @whitemike7822
      @whitemike7822 2 года назад +44

      @@oliviawutam you can be 1000% dissapointed for sure!!

    • @mgooner521
      @mgooner521 2 года назад +7

      Very difficult and insane mate

    • @mslondoner185
      @mslondoner185 2 года назад +16

      Don't become a parent. Recently it's like playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded @un

  • @char_blade31
    @char_blade31 2 месяца назад +3

    Why’s bro so muscular even im skinnier and I’m a guy and I’m staying a guy💀💀💀

  • @christiangerhardt2408
    @christiangerhardt2408 16 дней назад +2

    The detransitioning rates speaks volumes.

  • @t.3251
    @t.3251 3 года назад +2082

    It’s hit hard when he said “I’m hurt bad...really bad” 💔

    • @blackhole7909
      @blackhole7909 3 года назад +61

      😂😂😂😂😂 he’s only pretending so he can make his daughter feel bad and go back to a man

    • @tahamohammad1741
      @tahamohammad1741 3 года назад +6

      @@pepperghost3477 😂😂

    • @ksilofo
      @ksilofo 3 года назад +6

      @@pepperghost3477 هههههههههههههههههههههه

    • @Slapdatknee
      @Slapdatknee 3 года назад +16

      مسكين يعني ربى ولد و بالاخير طلع بنت…

    • @user-th2wh2hy2y
      @user-th2wh2hy2y 3 года назад +106

      @@blackhole7909 dude, just look how his son looks, it’s weird and unacceptable😂

  • @trippnroll
    @trippnroll Год назад +1449

    The father can feel how he wants to feel, he raised a beautiful son and that got taken away from him. His feelings are valid.

    • @Coolhalo
      @Coolhalo Год назад +58

      His feelings most likely come from him being taught to see trans people as unnatural or evil in some way. It’s still his child no matter what, once the person is grown up you can’t be there to tell them what to do, you have to be there for them and not reject them.

    • @Coolhalo
      @Coolhalo 11 месяцев назад

      @@UnknownArchive yeah coz humans are all about nature now

    • @omerelhassan9133
      @omerelhassan9133 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Coolhalo I mean if switching genders were natural you'd see other animals doing that

    • @unitunes4763
      @unitunes4763 11 месяцев назад +114

      @@Coolhalo not a matter of rejection; it is LOSS in it's greatest sense. The loss of humanity having been replaced with confusion/delusion and a complete break of reality.

    • @mr.x4533
      @mr.x4533 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@Coolhaloa child who is good for nothing

  • @ericfukumoto5737
    @ericfukumoto5737 4 дня назад +1

    Truly heartbreaking when he asks “why?” 😢 really understandable how uncomfortable that would be for someone that raised him.

  • @farlodelfiannarun7749
    @farlodelfiannarun7749 3 месяца назад +2

    God made a rainbow to put on the sky, not for it to be cursed on a flag and peoples souls

  • @one9072
    @one9072 Год назад +318

    The father about to have a metal break down
    Audience: 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @no_halo24
      @no_halo24 Год назад +15

      I shouldn't be laughing but 😂😂

    • @sharirihem1637
      @sharirihem1637 Год назад +9

      I wonder how Dr Phil would be, if his boys were that...

    • @PizzaManIsHere
      @PizzaManIsHere Год назад +18

      ​@@sharirihem1637 Dr Phil trying his best to not get cancelled 💀

    • @frisk3096
      @frisk3096 Год назад +2

      Gahahahha

    • @brandiguarino1778
      @brandiguarino1778 Год назад

      @@PizzaManIsHere Dr Phil, this wasn’t helpful to either of them.

  • @Mikeishere1234
    @Mikeishere1234 7 месяцев назад +810

    I don’t even have a son and this brought a tear to my eye.

    • @TemplarX2
      @TemplarX2 5 месяцев назад +18

      Worst thing that can happen to a father. All real, decent men feel for this man.

    • @jasminefrichtl806
      @jasminefrichtl806 5 месяцев назад +1

      Its proven to be genetic

    • @Neonlike0
      @Neonlike0 5 месяцев назад

      All insecure, self-interested, narcissistic parents cry and whine about their own feelings instead of supporting their child for who they are.@@TemplarX2 It is so much easier to accept than to make it about yourself and victimize yourself.

    • @williamstriumph9463
      @williamstriumph9463 5 месяцев назад +2

      did you ever have one? may he's just a daughter now.....

    • @rhen1215
      @rhen1215 4 месяца назад +2

      Don’t ever have kids if you won’t love them unconditionally

  • @mslaugenhoup
    @mslaugenhoup 5 дней назад +1

    Honestly mad respect the father told his son how he felt. Totally on the dad’s side.

  • @MrMunoz714w
    @MrMunoz714w 13 дней назад +2

    Why does this "Dr " Phil have his own tv show and called a doctor when he has failed to renew his liscense since 2006??? Cant stand this guy!

  • @missmac564
    @missmac564 2 года назад +1367

    He’s grieving for the son he’s lost. Doesn’t means he’s homophonic, he just lost a son & is processing that. I think the emotional turmoil of the parents are sometimes overlooked & it’s all about the individual coming out. It’s a big deal.

    • @bail997
      @bail997 2 года назад +48

      He was never a man.

    • @fishcrackers461
      @fishcrackers461 2 года назад +86

      *I think you meant to say doesn't mean he's transphobic*

    • @novahnick
      @novahnick 2 года назад

      @@bail997 that comment is just delusional. He was a man. She is a transgender woman now.

    • @calmghosts
      @calmghosts 2 года назад +73

      He never lost anyone. His kid is still very much there. He can still have all the exact same experiences with his kid as he could have before.

    • @b2kzangelalwayz
      @b2kzangelalwayz 2 года назад +17

      What do you have against homophones?