Why Parents Of 15-Year-Old Say They Fear He’s A Pedophile
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2020
- Kristin and Rick say they are concerned their 15-year-old son, Robbie, may be a pedophile. Kristin says her stepson admitted to her that he had strong sexual urges toward children over a year ago.
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“He said the only reason he hadn’t offended them was because they were going to tell,” says Kristin.
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Rick says, “It was just such a shock that I didn’t know how to deal with it.”
The couple says they began supervising Robbie 24/7 and tried to find him a treatment facility placement. Then, says Kristin, Robbie threatened that if he didn’t get help that day - he would rape one of his siblings, “So we took him straight to the hospital.”
Kristin and Rick say Robbie has been in treatment for the past year and is due to come home soon, and they don’t know what to do. Can Dr. Phil help?
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This is a rare example of a serial killer being studied before he starts commiting the crimes.
This is very true.
Very scary.
At the same time, he had come clean about everything, no doubt due to the phenomenal parenting of his step-mom. This behavior is almost certainly due to abuse inflicted by his previous father-figure. I feel that there should be no reason that this behavior can not be purged, but the system does not seem to be interested in that.
A J It doesn’t mean he was abused by anyone. I had a relative like this and he was never abused. He just enjoyed inflicting passion for his sexual purposes. He has since committed suicide. He did that when he became a parent.
SurferGirl That’s really scary. Sorry, skipped over that line 🤷♂️
This is so depressing, the child even knew himself he was sick
Ikr
But why does their son look like my perv band teacher,last year in 7th grade my friend was changing in the girls locker room with me after track practice I already finished changing and was just waiting for her to finish so while I was waiting I went to that bathroom they have in the locker room,and while I’m in the bathroom I hear the door open,then I hear a mans voice(my band teachers voice) so I get up and go to see who it was,then I just saw him staring at my friend she literally froze she was so shocked and terrified,so I started to yell at him and call him out then he started to walk at a fast paste towards me,there’s a fire alarm in the room so I pulled it and then I kicked him in the balls grabbed my friend and ran...that teacher still works at my middle school,they only banned him from the school for 2months for looking at my friend when she was basically naked in her bra and panties.i quit band after that and stay as far away from him as I can.
@@biggerchungus5705 i dont want to be insensitive but that honestly sounds like bs
@@biggerchungus5705 I have to agree with hippity with this one, but might be in another country thats not a first world country.
@@biggerchungus5705 lmao that story is so fake
Imagine if all rape was taken as seriously.
@@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHillsso every time a woman gets raped they should shut their mouths because they’re liars? god i feel so horrible for men who have been raped because it’s not spoken about enough and i hope some day everyone will be taken seriously and won’t be ridiculed
@@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHills false rape allegations are very rare and a majority of allegations are true
@@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHillsi hope you know that real claims out weigh false claims. ur comment makes no sense, original comment only said imagine if was taken seriously then u came and flipped it. if rape was taken seriously, there would be no wrongful conviction, you would have investigations day after day to figure out what exactly happened. unfortunately most rapes aren’t taken seriously so we cannot live in utopia
@@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHillsand how often do women falsely claim rape?
@@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHillsok we will just shut up then. Problem solved for men. It was never taken seriously anyway. "What were you wearing? Had you been drinking? Why were you walking alone at night? "
Imagine being a kid having the courage to tell your parents you need help for something so f'd up and the "help" they get you is putting you on dr. phil
Literally he has a DISORDER and if he ever gets better his reputation is permanently tainted because of something he didn’t even do yet thanks to his parents
LMAO fr 💀
They blurred his face
@@Em-jj2hp yep, totally justified then, no way to get scarred for life if they blur your face on the TV show they stuck you in :D
They're spreading awareness, while keeping his identity hidden. I think it's a good thing bc other parents might realize it can very serious and you have to act and not just ignore the situation because many lives could be ruined afterwards
“He will find a way to keep them quiet” means he is a potential killer too.
@Nash Lantey and possibly bribing
I wouldnt say a killer but definitely a r@pist😰🤮
Or the parents lied
weird flex but okay yeah I don’t think killers always kill coz they are killers some are robbers that kill coz they got disturbed during the act of robbing, you can be a rapist and kill because ... either way you become a killer.
Angel the dog the parents definitely need to be analyzed and investigated
Imagine if this kid was born into a broken home. That's a scary thought.
Seriously. Thank god these parents are capable and proactive. I’m impressed with the precautions they have taken. I can’t imagine how hard this all is for them.
It says in the description that Kristin is his stepmother. I didn't see the full video or the episode.
Step parents can still hold a house together. That doesnt qualify a broken home. The support and attention and love is there or they wouldnt have seen the signs or done anything about it.
For real 🤦🏻♂️
Homayghad true
This is actually so traumatic for the parents.
I'd think them ruining any chance of him ever getting adjusted and having a normal life by putting him on blast on national tv while he's willingly in treatment for this issue is a lot more traumatic.
@@ultraguy14 no way this dude is going to have a normal life everything he says is coming out of a serial killers/rapist mouth theres no hope for him im willing to bet if this guy did finish his treatment you still woudnt let your sibling or kid near him
These parents need to make sure that their son isnt being molested by a teacher or neighbor. Its extremely rare for a child that was never abused to display these behaviors. Hes probably a budding psychopath and im glad his parents are getting him help.
Thats exactly what i thought its not impossible to be born like that but generally it reeks of abuse. He may have blocked the abuse out so he isnt consciously aware of it.
Sometimes behavior like this sprouts out of no where. Kids don't get everything from there parents, mental illness will just come out of no where.
@@yoprobro806most of the time their is a cause.
@@yoprobro806yeah but how does this young kid even know what these things are. It’s crazy
@@baggierbobcat3324 He's 15. That's old enough to know what these things are. You're basically treating him like he's lived under a rock in complete isolation for his entire life.
The kid clearly wants help, he told his parents about his urges and straight up said "Get me help today".
It’s good to know that he knew that what he felt a sexual urge for was wrong (which was young boys)
I hope surgery to alter or change one’s sexual attraction is developed in the near future. Or else I fear that boy is going to end up killing himself.
@@darthvader0219 wasnt the treatment for this chemical castration?
@@jamiegiee7475 yes
@@iliketurtles5819 Often doesn’t work, unfortunately there is no sure fire way to reform pedophiles. Best thing anyone can do is lock them up
That boy knew something was wrong with him he told his parents everything.
Exactly
So glad he was honest! He wants help and that’s good
And they told the whole world. This kid has trust issues on top of everything else now.
@@superhesler yeah you're right
I’m glad he did though. So many people are congratulating the parents which I am happy they took immediate action to help him and protect other kids but could you imagine telling your parents that
My disgusting stepson was like that. He was constantly talking about rape and masturbating in front of his friends and siblings. His mother refused to acknowledge it.
Urgh… shameless
So what happened after that?
@@lostbunny8491 I got divorced shortly after. I didn't want that garbage near by daughters.
@@pooplips3114good job. i’m proud of you for leaving.
@@pooplips3114 you’re a good parent.
"mom I need help" ... sure son lets talk about this on live TV in front of millions of people....
Reminder that this is her stepson. Not even her biological kid, and yet she cares so much about him that his illness kills her. Not many step parents would deal with that.
yeah you can tell she cares about him
Wow amazing woman
Sorry, but that's funny!😂
@@samsara-summermooncomehome5881 HAHAHAH 😑
Luke Brizzy you know there’s a thinkg called chemical castration right? Chip the nuts and they’ll never feel the urge again
The fact that these parents weren’t in denial, and acted immediately. They’re so incredibly strong.
Sad and horrible
Why tf would u come on dr Phil tho
@@johnrab5302 that’s what I’m saying
Money for therapists maybe sponsors for help for their son. It's admirable he admitted to it and more admirable to the parents for stated above.
Naw they bad parents
I think it's important for them to go back into his past and learn from him how this lead to him feeling this way. Was it access to a rabbit hole of porn? Was he sexually abused by someone? Or perhaps a brain tumor or issue is causing these thoughts?
The fact that he came clean is applauded. Hopefully he can help us understand how these thoughts develop in people in order to prevent/treat others who think similarly.
WONDERING is he was sexually abused...its hard to believe he was just born like this..
sometimes there is no environmental reason, just hormonal/neurological/chemical etc
I agree, and its also literally SO concerning that theres so much access to porn and hypersexualization for young people, its really scary what damage can happen when developing minds are exposed to that as well as the fact that so much of it is violent and def doesn't teach consent.
Yeah definitely agree, abuse or exposure to inappropriate materials is the most likely cause
And i think its a mix of the degradation of social interaction in society as in 2024 its too easy to avoid social interactions
the saddest part is that it isnt even the kid's fault
Yeah I feel bad for him but he needs to be kept in that place until his mental health and fantasies are fixed.
@@Shonade_Malik yeah I’d expect that, but it’s almost like the pedophilia is happening to him, not that he even has it, like it’s not part of his personality. Very sad.
how is it not his fault? what a copehead comment
I've told people that pedophiles, just like heterosexuals and homosexuals, are born that way. There may be exceptions where some are like that as a result of being sexually abused themselves but I'm sure there's a genetic component to many as well.
@@Shonade_Malik , the Holy Scriptures are how you fix that problem.
He must have really trusted his parents for him to be completely honest with them.
Ray Shabaz at least they're aware of it and did something before he could rape a kid, or even worse, kill one
@@Ray_Shabaz "it shows that they're not going to do or say anything to him"
Bruh, it's clearly mentioned that they supervised him at home and then took him to the hospital after the kid himself told them that it was getting worse. The kid knew he had a problem and confided in his parents because he knew that they would try to understand his disorder. The parents acted immediately and sought professional help.
If you go to beat your child or severely scold him, there's a high chance that your child will not confide in you anymore. They'll just go ahead with whatever they're doing without you knowing.
@@eurekaembodo4972 true, better late than never. But you need to understand that by the time they did something about it, it was kind of too late. Their child is about to become what they feared the most
Poor guy wanted help
@@Ray_Shabaz wow and will you beat him when he molests a child 20 years later? Moreover, he as a child, will be scared and will never tell about his intentions to you anymore. Which is much much worse.
My parents would've performed an exorcism. No joke.
Asma Mhb whats a exorcism ?
The power of christ compels you. The power of christ compels you.
honestly, my parents will do the same
I want to laugh but idk If i should
@@bangtan809 Google it LMFAO
How does a child learn about these behaviors and terrible acts? Because taping a child’s mouth shut and horrific s&m is not an innate behavior in a child
The dark web
it’s a teenager NOT A TODDLER DUMMY
Hitlers curse
The internet
I wish they had addressed this. He had to have come in contact with this type of stuff on the Internet. Maybe they did talk about it in the full show. Porn is so dangerous !
As a mental health nurse I can assure everyone that once a person has those thoughts they never go away, the ones who act on them believe the other person/victim will be okay with it and it’s lifelong too.
Man Sophie…my prayers are with you.
*They can go away, but it need a deep work on themselves.*
*So it's possible, but people need the right tools.*
- Personal development.
- hypnotherapy
- Manuel activities ( help the brain to stabilize in healthy behaviors )
- Games
- Sport
- Meditation
- Self-analyzis.
Etc.
Do you mean like homosexuality? That pedophilia is genetic, and they are born that way?
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!! ! !!!!! ! !
Not sure what's more impressive: the fact that the parents are this honest or that Dr. Phil left the comments on.
Dr. Phil’s team knows there are people out there with good ideas to help this family. They’re scouring the comments looking for them. Since this is such a bad situation, they’ll consider any good idea. This family needs all the help they can get.
Foreal they never leave comments
@Christina Lomeli In another part of the episode, he confesses that he did. Twice.
Definitely the parents being honest
Dr Phil only leaves the comments on videos that don't completely exploit the mentally ill
I feel like the fact that he told his parents everything was because he knew something was wrong with him and he didn't actually wanted to be that way.
Same
yo army
YoonMinly jiminie is dat u
Hey y’all
@@bloodystring I dont think this is the post to be saying "hey army" underneath
WAS he abused by someone else in his youthful days?
very, very likely
Maybe or maybe not some people are born like this
Not necessarily. Some people are born evil, born predators. We don't want to believe that some people are incurably predatory and lacking in empathy. But it's true. Psychopaths exist.
Its wild to think he may have just been born that way
@@taylereasdon4765genetics have infinite probabilities. Nothing is off limits. Just because we find it disgusting and wrong doesn’t mean it can’t happen naturally 🙃
Sounds like someone abused their son and they were never made aware of it, generally speaking that's how these types are created
she’s saving someone else’s kid by giving up hers. the parents are doing the right thing
Took the words right out of my mouth
Good parenting, they are saving their own children and others!
Yes obviously a good mom because her son trust her enough to tell her such things.
Thats the greatest thing a parent can do. Give one to save the lives of many.
Amen
Parents who realized something’s wrong with their kid, and took action immediately to prevent their kid becoming a bad person.. are great parents, meaning they really pay attention to their kids..
Agreed
The worst is the ones who think their children are perfect and dont suspect a thing
@@nanahotaru831 yeah
Eric Rivera look at the bright side, people would probably look up to them and start taking action towards their kids unusual behaviors. Sometimes people are not aware enough about their kids.
Eric Rivera yes, but we must realize that the parents didn’t even take their kids to phil, they took them to hospital, and the right place for their kid. They were just sharing their story
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
Yes, dr.poras. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes, he is dr.poras.
He clearly doesn’t want to act on his urges if he’s asking his parents for help. I applaud this boy and his family.
Only wild animals can't control their "urges"
Why tf are you applauding a psychopath
Jacob E he clearly has a metal illness and needs treatment.
Jacob E i dont think theyre applauding him per say, more his action of admitting before anything happened? but idk 😷
@@nedboase7909 Did you even watch the whole video?? Why would you applaud this kid?
If the parents haven't been this proactive, they could have had a serial killer on their hands.
Thats not a serial killer lol
I agree with you, those who want control and are sexually aroused through violence often leads to escalation-murder. I very much believe this boy is a serial killer in the making.
They will now, they have put themselves on international TV, exposing their child, this is so wrong, they should of sought help of course but Dr Phil. I'd hate them if they were my parents.
I agree...his comments about forcing someone, finding ways to keep them quiet, wanting to be in control and feeling powerful...He could've become one. I think the main difference between him either becoming a serial killer or a serial rapist is the fact that he actively chose to tell his parents and seek out treatment. Sure, that treatment may not have been effective up to this point, but it may be the factor that he needs to help turn his life around.
I'm glad they took this seriously and didn't brush it off like most parents because they can't fathom their son could feel such a way
The mom bad af tho.
I know this was hard but thank god he told them and the parents are so strong and brave. God bless them for trying to get him help.
This is disturbing but at least his parents acted quickly.
@@donjon123 Uh, okay buddy.
Don Jon Jesus Christ man.
Potassium Sage nah don’t try to justify those monsters
ItSrGeLost , They aren't justifying their being, they're just saying pedophilia is a mental disorder and with every sickness out there - you need a cure/medicine for it.
“Acted quickly” they put him on national television... that isn’t curing
the fact that the parents acted on this fast and didn’t ignore it like it was nothing
they truly are heroes.
Thank you
Kristin Piper Yeah thank you for acting on this, you’ve saved so many children from potential harm.
You parents are very brave and I applaud your openness and trying to help your boy and protect others at the same time. Maybe if this would happen this way more often , the world at least would be a safer place for all and hope they can help the boy , or at least learn from hom on what makes this happen.
@@kristinpiper sorry about your son. You tried your best. Unfortunately there is nothing we can about it. My heart aches for you, it really does.
Batman would still kick their arse
Wow this is a lot to unpack. FairPlay to him for being honest and his parents for sharing. He has done the right thing. This is the first steps into understanding and learning to how to treat . I don’t often feel short of breath. ❤️
I do hope this kid is getting the help he needs. This is scary and i dont know what id do if i were his parents. My heart goes out to them. It takes huge courage to even admit this in public. I pray for this whol family.
This is why as a parent you need to create an environment in which your child is comfortable with telling you literally ANYTHING. No matter what it is.
pERIODT.
Amen
FACTS💯
I felt so safe I told my mom I ate a frog
@Illumi Zoldyck I hope that went well for you. I still haven't told my parents that I'm bi and it's been like 2 years.
WOW he told he's parents, that means something about him. He knows it's WRONG.
@PROUD PEDO lmao did you make this account just for this video
no he doesn't
doesnt mean he wont
I swear to God.
For the whole five minutes of this clip, it is repeatedly stated that he does not believe what he is doing I'd wrong.
did we watch the same clip? He's literally showing no remorse
Go to a therapist or counselor, not national television. You did the first part right. Your son definitely has something wrong and I’m sorry this is all happening. God bless you and your family and thank you for doing the right thing. Taking it public is your choice and I respect your choice, if I had a kid with this issue, I would’ve kept a record but not publicized it, but I do see the side of spreading more awareness. All the best to you, you’re all in our prayers ❤
Wow. Incredibly tough on the parents here they seem so strong! Hope the boy is getting the help he needs as well as the parents! Very tough situation for all involved
The fact his parents acted so quickly is honestly amazing. They could have just saved many lives
There was no need to tell the whole world. Now her son will get ostracised. Wha
What a bad decision.
So you're telling me that if your child said they were gonna rape someone you wouldn't do anything? Lol
Solar it’s called people don’t believe everything they hear. Especially from a child.
@@dde1z sad that we need to applaud people for having common sense
@@XxSolarBearzxX it's not just about believing. Some parents would just brush them off or give them a stern warning. They wouldn't actually take measures.
One of the most disturbing things about this situation is the fact that there aren’t more parents who take action like this
I mean, to be honest how would they know though? I can't imagine there are many instances where the kid says something like this and the parents do nothing. I think they usually don't know until it is too late.
@@coen071993 i think the parent's were looking out for their other kids.Thing is i heard the mother say " if he got out he would offend AGAIN or REOFFEND", i think there are bits missing because he is a minor.
that is definitely not one of the most disturbing things about this video LMAO
Exactly
I cant believe this is even real. Why would they even be on tv. Wonder if these are reinactment actors.
I wonder if the boy had any abuse himself, and never recognized it, or has been afraid to mention it.
The fact that he actually told his parents is what really surprised me, like he knows he's un-well
The fact he said, “get me help”, that’s just mind blowing cause a lot of kids aren’t like that they won’t look for help and will act on them
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@@kristinpiper that's really helpful that you guys are willing to expose the darkest of times for families who are secretly struggling with a similar if not the same situation. Just remember you guys are doing the best you can and no matter what there's nothing wrong with your parenting or something extra you guys could have done, you will always have our support, God bless you and your family
It means he trusts his parents. That means they are the type to talk to and teach their kids rather than yell and punish.
It doesn’t change the fact that he’s a sick and demented individual who should be kept away from the general public.
@@PruppetMaster truthfully if you paid attention you could've heard that the boy said a certain age, he's not a danger to adults, he's a danger to toddlers, pay attention. And you have no right to call someone who is sick a demented individual just because he's sick. Society is very much stupid because the minute someone calls for help you attack but if he weren't getting help you'd be saying "GET THAT ******* HELP!" Pick a struggle and move on with your life rather than tearing down what his parents are watching you comment.
It’s the fact that she is not even his biological mom but has accepted him as her own that she is so broken by this, for me!
@Giuliano BassWarrior that would be good
Of course she’s broken by this
@Giuliano BassWarrior How will, castrating him help anything?
@Giuliano BassWarrior yeah castration man really think about he had the gumption to know he needed help know imagine if he needed to be castrated for that help it would of been kept quiet and we would have another ted bundy out there.
Smh . Cameras ! 🤮 stupid
Never let your kids use the internet unmonitored
it's not the internet that made him that way, he was born like that.
@@Xerex9999 How do you know?
@@RealMacJones i'm good at psychology
never let your kids use the internet
@@senbonzakura662I think it's about to end our world with nukes if we all we die mother earth will live good
The parents are heroes, they saved potentially many victims from losing their childhood too early, and lifelong trauma. I can’t imagine how this would feel, I hope Robbie is able to heal, and no longer be a monster. (Though the chances are slim…)
I’m not defending Robbie but i admire the fact he said “listen I need help and I need it now before something really bad happens” 98% of ppl don’t do that ever
@@Juju-nr7cb he obviously didn’t say that but i think what they meant was that robbie spoke up about his issue to his parents
When they do no one helps. Don't be ignorant.
@@FirstnameLastname-cx6go it’s not being ignorant it’s just true…. People don’t usually come out about things like this when they do and you need help
@@AyshaaDuvv That sentence didn't even make sense.
@@FirstnameLastname-cx6go Only the end of the sentence is a bit off so you should be able to still piece what they're saying together, but anyways they're saying that people don't typically come out and ask for help when they're having dangerous thoughts like this kid is having.
You need to have 100% trust on your parents to tell them this truth about you. And the kid didn´t act, he asked for help. That says a lot in favour of the way the parents raised him.
He did.....he already assaulted 2 kids apparently.
Sakura Ogami Yeah, I caught the kids assessment when the MD said he has a high chance of reoffending. Meaning he has offended before
But them throwing him away like that is also not helping ... I hope they visit him everyday so he doesn't feel abandoned.
Nosipho Dywili he asked to go into treatment
@@marcy3959 alright ...
I'm so glad they took such strict action. But...does this child have some sort of mental problem too? Lets suppose he was attracted to people his age instead (like he should be) - would he not be able to control those urges EITHER??? The fact that he can't control himself points more to a mental problem to me.
It is a mental problem no one wakes up one day and says to themselves "hey I want to be a predator"
People need to stop acting like this isn’t partially due to viewing pornography at a young age
That’s what I’m saying!!
Especially considering the titles on the videos these days. They mix siblings and family in with everything now. And it is deliberate! They want boys and men to become like him. The P-word.
I’ve felt for years that the industry is destroying men. It take addiction to a whole new level.
!!!
Omg I didn't even know she's his STEPMOM because she talks about him like he's her own flesh & blood!! He felt safe & comfortable to go to her w his feelings what an amazing mother!!
Thank you
Kristin Piper I’m not a doctor and don’t mean to be rude but is chemical castration available?
Kristin Piper this is you?
@@nicknick6887 It's illegal.
Asa Abraham Agulnik it depends on where you live chemical castration is an option for some pedophiles
I'm glad that he confessed his urges instead of acting on them
@@spoooksters He or she is not trying to be a creep he or she is just saying
Their son did a good job telling his problem to his parents. Atleast he still know what's wrong and right.
He needs help.
Jlynn Parohinog he legit said he doesn’t care about conciquences and he will re offend if given the chance, that’s not knowing right from wrong
Unfortunately he did act on them. Once he was in psychiatric help he admitted to already acting on it.
@@braydenmarr453 maybe not every time but before he was lost seemingly completely to his desires, he did what was right.
I’m happy he spoke on it and hopefully is getting the help he needs. the brain is a crazy thing and sometimes things go wrong. Better to speak up rather than do awful things later in life
Way to go for actually telling the truth, especially towards your own parents on a matter like that. He really does want help and is scared of the urge.
His level of self-awareness is honestly impressive. The fact that he basically told them to get him help or else...Pretty sure that's incredibly uncommon. I hope they can find a way to help him.
I kinda feel bad for him because he clearly wants help and he’s probably scared of what would happen
Edit: and no that doesn’t mean I think he’s a great person
what is sexual urges in the v ideo i dont get it
@@aliandoli2796 is it a language barrier, or are you young? if you're a kid this might not be the right thing for you to watch.
@@jlake2247 im 11
@Stygian Eons ok thanks
She’s saving someone else’s kid in the future at the same time and she doesn’t even know how much I wish some parents would’ve done that when I was younger. Saving someone from trauma, thank you
I think she does. Both of his parents seem like very rational and practical people.
Kids need to learn self defense against anyone who tries to harm them, including horny 15 year old boys. It’s never been safe. Girls should be careful about the clothes they wear and jeans should ALWAYS be worn with a belt!
Srestha Chakraborty that’s true. I guess I’m used to parents trying to save just their kid and not others
@@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger bruh. whats a belt gonna do if they have a knife or scissors. i do agree self defense is good and not letting kids wear mini skirts above the knee unless they have shorts underneath.
stariimidniight right? I read their comment about the belt and was like 😐
Then there’s my mom. I bluntly told her my brother was trying, at any opportunity, to see my naked or touch me. So what does she do? Move us in the basement together. I slept with knives under my pillow and butter knives Jammed between the trim and the dry wall as an attempt to lock him out. I KNEW what he wanted to do to me and I moved out at 15. Lucky for me he was in jail most of my childhood…
I am extremely sorry for you. You did not deserve any of this. I hope you the life that you always deserve, a life without injustice or evil people. Just the life you were entitled to since you were born. I wish you happiness and recovery from trauma. I am really praying for you ❤
Wow your own brother tried to do that to you? I’m so sorry you couldn’t have a actual relationship with him. Hope for the best
Its a miracle he told someone. I just dont have any other words.
Inner conflict between good & evil within that kid...very sad.
these parents have no clue how many people they potentially just saved. i’m so proud of them and i have no idea who they are.
How do you know they have no clue? In fact quite the opposite- they definitely know
I also believe Robbie opening up was a proud move
They still failed their son from his porn addiction
@@emmanights7599 it wasn't a choice not to in the first place
@@JesusDiaz-il2xq When was it mentioned that their son had a porn addiction?
I commend the mother heavily, she is his step-mother and yet she treats him like she carried and birthed him.
because she really cares
@@duckingtonduckss7525 That's my point
By going on Dr. Phil and making it extremely easy for people to discern his identity? The kid is the one I commend. He's having these thoughts and urges that he knows are wrong, and it took a lot of humility and courage for him to tell someone. It really amazes me that the parents didn't put him in treatment immediately. He had to tell them he was going to act on those urges unless they got him help right then. I don't like the fact that they went on Dr. Phil. People can figure out who he is, especially in their hometown. Now, even if he never acts on those urges, he's going to be treated like a criminal.
@@TakeAsNeeded4Pain I also commend the kid for going to his parents, but the mom here isn't even his biological mom, and she cares so much, that is why I commend her
@@MidRunner I understand the fact that this is a difficult situation for everyone involved. I just can't imagine going public with it. It feels like they betrayed the trust that their son put in them.
This is too important for "Dr" Phil
how does a child dream up scenarios like this? how is a child into S&M? how does a child know what that is?
Unrestricted internet access, leading to porn, leading to extremely sexual thinking developing too early. He probably saw porn as a kid, had strong sexual urges grow while his peers were minors, and now his brain attaches sexual urges to that age range due to when they came into play.
yea keep asking those questions, you will realize how
Also I think the interview was them describing scenarios and asking if it was arousing and he said yes to 27 of them, not necessarily that he knew all about it
But to be fair I feel like most 15 years old when I was that age were well aware of things like that
I knew about BDSM at 12 lol, most kids aren't innocent by the time they reach middle school now. The internet
He's 15 there's no such thing as a 15 year that doesn't know at least a little bit about sexual things most of the time.
Crazy this kid told his parents all of this. At least he did, that took a lot of courage to get some help.
He’s changed the future by telling his parents. If he never told them we could have had another Dahmer on our hands.
There should be more help for pedophiles and sociopaths before they act on their feelings or as soon as they understand what they feel is not ordinary.
Its understandable to think they are monsters and i would be lying if i didnt feel incredible disgust towards them.
But there is at some point a child that knows the things he/she feels is not right and its going to hurt someone, be it themself a victim or a family member/friend.
Very difficult topic
@@BigBodyBiggolo If people are willing to help themselves that demands respect. If they never harm anyone and fix themselves then they shouldn't be known as what they were before.
If I was the parents I would just introduce my fist into his face real hard to make him never think of those thinga again
nesfan8 then you should never be a parent.
Good on the kid for saying something to his parents, and good on the parents for trying to deal with it.
Agreed. =
Especially since some parents would just blow it off and not think the kid is being serious
Yes! I can't even think about the possible consequences if he didn't tell them, or if they didn't take it as seriously as they did. Unfortunately, I believe it will be very difficult to help him. It can't be fixed, but hopefully he will be able to find the way to control it as he gets older.
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Watch the next clip- once in treatment he admitted to offending on two underage girls.
The fact that he informed them makes me think that he himself didn’t want to be like that and wanted to come out of it.
I dont really think putting him all over television is the help he needs the kid obviously needs alot of help
These parents saved so many potential victims.
@@_k__601 so? What is ur point
@@_k__601 yes they created him but his cause is genetic. Some people are genetically born a psychopath. This is not his parents fault.
Good God, did they ever..
@@_k__601 umm.. Yeah, you teenage troll. It's a very small percentage of humanity, but we can't just stay in denial and ignore it. Some humans just can't be allowed into the general public population. It's just the way it has been, and always will be.
Y’all this is a joke because to be a pedo you have to be 18+
I’m surprise how open and honest the kid is being, at least he is being so open so that hopefully he can get some help and won’t harm anyone...
I don't think the boy has any empathy for what he's done. 😑 I think he told his parents because he love seeing the look of terror on their faces as many offenders do.
Did you watch the whole video? It seems like while in treatment he wants to commit to his urges even more.
@@gleegleek4evaI don't believe the treatment works. He needs God.
April Brewin he needs Jesus Christ. He sounds possessed
@@aprilchow-chee5281 Although I believe the boy is dangerous and needs to be in a facility somewhere, I believe he does have empathy. I think he was so concerned with hurting someone that he opened up and asked for help. I am wondering if when he was put in the facility for help he had group meetings with other underage offenders possibly older than him who has assaulted a child talk about his feelings toward it. If the older offenders talked about enjoying what they have done it may have pushed him over the edge. You could be right but how does he go from begging for help to thinking he's normal and doesn't need help?
Literally checks EVERY SINGLE BOX for a psychopath. NOT ONE THING indicates otherwise.
I'm not sure if I would have gone through all this, and allowed a popular TV show to blurb it all over the place.
that’s really scary to hear your child saying he wants to r*pe his own siblings saying a locked door wont stop him 😣
I agree.. what a horribly painful and difficult situation to handle. Those parents are amazingly strong for how much care they put into the situation.
And for sharing their story. Because this is very very common. Unfortunately, it usually doesn’t even go this well normally because most parents don’t try so hard to help their kids with this problem or the child never feels able/inclined to share it with anyone.
He displays antisocial traits however he wants help so he can’t be a full blown psychopath.
He reached out for help which means he knows it is wrong. That's The most important thing
@@miyagikai617 lol it comes on local free over the air antenna tv too, one can always check their local listings for air time. The entire episode was shown this morning for my region.
Man imagine opening up to your parents and they go on live television to Dr Phil to tell everybody I'd never trust them again and now it's on RUclips forever.
I also hate this American culture of bringing personal stories OF OTHER PEOPLE on the news and internet. Maybe it's good if stories like this are told, but only if the person you're talking about is ok with it and wants to talk about it themselves. Since this is a child, that just can't be the case here. And you really should be able to either find adults who have went through it or a psychologist.
I also don't like how this is portrayed in general. The music and the cuts and effects are so overdramatic that it looks more like an episode of the onion than anything we should talk about seriously. It's such an important topic, we need better coverage than this. Stop focusing on individuals like this for drama, show what causes this, what the symptoms can be and what to do about it.
@@schrodingerskatze4308 agreed 100% !!!!!!!!
I hate these TV shows so much, people putting their children on these shows and then expecting them to be fixed.
I AM SO RELIEVED TO HEAR THE PARENTS IMMEDIATELY TAKING ACTION it’s so refreshing
True, but that are going to Dr. Phil of all people. :/ hope someone reputable actually contacts them. I go to Dr. Phil for memes and humor. Not for actually helping people.
Yeah too many do nothing then defend their kids after they offend.
@@TheSlipperyNUwUdle yeah but they also hospitalized him immediately. They're not only relying on Dr. Phil
HONESTLY! Could not agree more, it must’ve taken so much courage to appear on live TV and not only admit it to yourself as a parent but the nation x
Yes!! Aimee same here!! So glad the parents took responsibility and did what need to be done.
If my kid had that kind of urge I wish he could trust me enough to tell me
What has he been exposed to? Did anything happen to him? Did he have social media or access to sexual violence in video games, music, other outside influences?
I'm just so happy his parents got him away from other children he could harm.
What do you mean? Those things don't influence sexual desires do they?
Of course they do. Every experience we have influences our brain and personality. If this boy has serious brain problems and was exposed to violent sexual material, that could help manifest these behaviors@@Villager6404
It's gotta be the internet. Some boys and girls go onto the internet without being properly monitored by their parents and come across wrong unacceptable acts on porn sites probably. 😢. It's very sad that porn is even allowed in our society. Because it might give someone ideas. Especially if the child is not monitored or given proper guidance. THIS is why everyone who is a parent should be using parental monitoring software! To protect and guide and get ahold of any red flags in time before it moved into action! These parents are heroic but I hope that they told the boy he was loved before they left him at the hospital. Just for his feelings sake even if they didn't. Sometimes you gotta set limits. Correction: with both children and adults you Must set appropriate limits and boundaries and cease contact if they're deviant. I learned that the hard way. I had to cut contact with a person. Sad that some people get that way and there's basically no way to get ANY actual help before something bad happens usually. Because parents are either in denial or just want to murder their child possibly.
@@Villager6404those things can definitely influence people sexually especially kids when they are young.
The fact that this boy knows it’s wrong enough to tell his parents about it says a lot. He’s asking for help 😢
Ummm no she literally said that he doesnt understand the consequences of his behavior and thinks it's normal for him to feel like that towards children. He didnt tell his parents so he could get help he told them because he probably thinks those horrible thoughts are normal or maybe he just wanted to frighten his parents
Cork lad nah I think this kid is straight psychopath, he’s telling his parents this because to him it’s a normal thing that comes across his mind. Instead of your kid saying I have a crush on this girl.... he says he wants to hurt and sexually assault his siblings
@Cork lad I'm the same age as him and I've know that it's wrong since I was wayyy younger. You cant excuse something as disgusting and wrong as that just by saying he's young. He's old enough to know the consequences of his actions.
Yep. Lots dont come forward out of fear of being seen as a monster or attacked. Which leads to no help and leads to a good possibility of them acting on it
Chloe Skaf he said he would rape his siblings if they didn’t get him the help he needed. He is clearly terrified of his desires to hurt those close to him. He wants it, but he also knows it’s wrong.
how he that comfortable with his parents??? can't even tell mine i'm hungry
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my jaw is on the floor
The fact that he was able to tell them makes them great parents, they did the best that they could
The fact that this boy was so self-aware enough to recognize and articulate that his own mental health and understand that there was something wrong speaks volumes. In my opinion.
Yeah, he’s a real G. He’s gonna suffer a lot in society though lol.
He doesn't see anything wrong with it so how.....
@@yerolypalacios6286 I think he knows he is different from other but still doesn’t find his actions wrong.
I thought the same thing. It seems as if he has entirely too much knowledge of such things to be so young, especially being raised in what seems to be a normal family. The scenarios seem really specific as if he's been here before. Anybody here believe in past lives??
I agree on that part. But all the other things just makes him seem like a psychopath, without any empathy.
The greatest thing is that HE SPOKE UP AND EXPRESSED HIS THOUGHTS. He was asking for help and he accepted the help. I think that’s great.
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That's definitely better than nothing
Wow your a rare one nice. Ppl should express there imotions.
Definitely agree....when someone knows something isnt right in their head they should tell someone no matter what because the worst that can happen is someone stayed silent and gave into their urges
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Hopefully he gets the help he needs to have a peaceful life .
I am so proud of these parents, they are so strong.
They're so, so incredibly lucky that he ever said anything to them.
I can't imagine what that must feel like as a family, I feel so awful for them. They've in many ways lost a son and brother, because whatever made him like this has taken away the boy they once loved, and the chances of recovery are slim 😔
It's good that his parents are trying to help him. He's my age, but if he didn't get any help now...imagine what he'd do once he's an adult.
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Omg another kid born after me. This is so weird man. I was born in 1999 and to see people born after that year trips me out man
@@OriginalKingRichTv Youre as old as my Uncle. Hello Uncle.
KingRichTv I was born in 2009
@@OriginalKingRichTv omg. So melodramatic. 😆. Why is someone being born after 1999 freak you out?
At least the kid told his parents and didn’t hide it....but damn that doesn’t sound like something that can be fixed.
Thats sad that he so far gone but at least he hasnt acted only spoken
I agree with you, I’m interested to see how they resolve this because he seems so far down the path that there’s no turning back. I mean hopefully something because that’s pretty screwed up
There are many ways to kill someone and make it look like an accident. So yes, it can be fixed.
4oh 9oh he did act, he assaulted 2 young giels
I say load him up with a small dose of LSD in a therapeutic setting and gather why he thinks he might feel these things, and is it possible the ego is wrong? Because his whole vibe and wave is urkingly dark and sexual. Let him see himself for who he is
Jesus. What a horrific situation. Good on those parents for taking action, and good on them for having the type of relationship with their son where the boy felt safe to come to them and openly express what he was experiencing
I am SO glad he told his parents.
I’m glad this his parents took it seriously instead of going into denial, which I imagine a lot of parents would
It’s a good thing he had the courage to tell his parents, and ask for help....but it’s terrible
I don't think ANY sane parent would go into denial when their child is THIS Honest... If they did they would probably be the one needing help as well.... There's no denying this ESPECIALLY when you have small children in the home. That would be HIS victims 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. Denial would make them ACCESSORIES smh.
"Took it seriously?" They went on Dr Phil instead of having the situation handled privately and professionally, that's the opposite of taking it seriously. These idiots are making a joke of the entire issue so they can have their 15 minutes of fame like the raging narcissists they are.
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@@anthonywood4634 right lol
The sad thing is the mom looks so sweet... I can’t imagine how heartbreaking it was for her.
Right and it's sad that the poor kid knows he's sick himself but it's good he told his parents
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Thank God for parents like this and them having the courage to get him help and do something about it.
What a heart wrenching situation. I am so sad for the entire family. I do hope something can effectively be done to help redirect this child.
It's the moms fault lol, dont be sorry.
@@detective2221no it’s not her fault. The son had been abused sexually
@@detective2221it’s not the moms fault 😒 ignorant douche
For everyone saying he’s been abused himself by the parents or anyone else. With how open this kid is, I’m sure he would have told his doctors if that had happened.
I think he absorb that from the internet
@@arieldesjar I agree
I'm not a mental health professional but I think that sometimes people have OCD which can cause obsessive thoughts regarding things which they consider to be horrible and deep down are afraid of doing those things.
At such a young age you can become obsessed with sexual ideation when the body is surging with hormones. If this child was left to his own on the internet this could become worse. Once the child becomes used to getting satisfaction from daydreaming about these ideas it would be really difficult to break this thought pattern which provides pleasure but it all started with obsessive thoughts.
Just my personal thoughts.
This family did the best they could.
He may not remember what happened to him. His trauma goes deep. We only get to see the surface.
I don’t know the time difference but There is another video where they talk about how he has molested a couple kids so I don’t know if he just didn’t admit that then or not I’m kind of confused but also in that video of the step mom talks about how when she first came in to the kids lives there was this man that they used to go visit the son more than anything and she put a stop to the relationship because she thought the guys obsession with the son was too much. She said she’s asked the kid if anything happened he said that he doesn’t remember but he said that it’s possible
This kid is well raised. He had enough trust on his mom to tell her, warning his family about his dark thoughts. That’s tough, even as an adult much more for a teenager. Well done mom, help you family. Sending you strength from here.
Yeah at least he told them before he did anything. That was definitely a good move on the parents
mental disabilities don't just appear in someone's psyche. This sick boy must have a long history of sick ancestors and a really traumatic childhood that enabled his sickness
well raised?
@@swiftyeldiablo6905 He is well raised, it’s just that he has mental problems. No matter how you raise someone with mental problems, they still have it in their brain. They raised him right by encouraging him that it’s ok to raise the call if he is experiencing any further problems.
Did you watch the entire thing? The boy is a dangerous sociopath
Wow. All I can say is KUDOS to the parents, and I wish them well. The sad thing is-some ignorant people will still hate them and even send them threats, despite the fact that they never had to show themselves to the public & address this problem; yet they willingly chose to.
I’m genuinely surprised he decided to get help. Like if he was so determined to hurt a child, then how come he decided to find help? Maybe he doesn’t FEEL bad for people, but he probably has the logic to know it’s not right, even if it doesn’t feel wrong
Dr Phil is usually just for entertainment 😂
When doing horrible stuff a person ussualy dissociates that part of brain while the rest can function normaly. You can have a determination and will to do something horrible but the good part of your brain that keeps you in check throws obstacles in your way. Think about brain like a democratic system of neurons that each gives a vote before making a decision as a whole brain. There are no 100% bad people. Its always a "bad" part of the brain that hijacks the rest. Therapist ussualy want to make the good part of the brain take control over the bad part in problematic individuals. So in a way everyone is redeemable in terms of brain function, in the eyes of society tho...not so much. Money is also a big issue on top of that
The boy was about to become a second Jeffery Dahmer but because he was born into the right environment where he can open up his issues to his parents and they acted so quickly, the boy was saved from becoming a terrible person. l can't imagine if he was born into a different family where he was too afraid to tell his urges to his parents, this would have ended up so terrible. This is why we need more parents like these, bless them!
I could be wrong but I would not be surprised if he was heavily watching porn. What else could a kid develop those urges unless he was molested.
Dahmer was not a pedo. He was not aroused by little boys. He liked muscular men. He preferred adult-looking boys even if they're underage. He said that he thought the 14 year old victim was actually an adult and was shocked to learn the victim's real age in the interrogation room. And i don't think he was lying. He had no reason to lie after that point.
Why compare him to someone who are people?
@@yas-ww3biyeah, that's one thing I give Dahmer, he was pretty straightforward and forthcoming after they caught him. Unlike Bundy who refused, even after they knew it was him, to come clean about his crimes. Dahmer was sick for sure but I don't think he lied about anything after he was caught.
jeffrey dahmer? bro he was no pedo, he was a a murdeerer
Good parents. No wimping around, trying to get him justice, just straight cut to the chase.
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I’m proud of this kid for taking action to inform his parents he needed help and understanding this is the best for him and I’m glad the parents got him help
I am so sorry for them and the son, what a horrible thing to go through, prayers in getting help for son and his family!!