@@godzillasimpson8357 it would be incredibly mind torturing living with those thoughts knowing its wrong he knows he doesnt want to do it but he cant control what he actually thinks
Actually YOU are making him a menace to society. He’s just telling what he’s feeling and the thoughts he’s having. The menace here is you because you’re stigmatizing him. The menace to society thought is in your mind and you typed it out as well. Shame on you.
@Cream I agree with you But not with what the person I replied said He doesn't hate it at all,did you watch the other videos He literally said he doesn't feel bad and if he gets released,he will still try to do it and wouldn't regret it It's demonic,that can not be normal or human
At last someone with brain i found .... i think she manipulated that teen ager to think of himself as sexual offender..... cause teens at that age find their body changes its common they have sexual urges that doesn't prove that he is a offender.... i think they r worst parent out there .... thats my personal opinion ....
at least he’s open about it. don’t get me wrong, it’s disgusting. but i’m thankful that he expressed his thoughts and actions before the situation could escalate further.
Yes I’m glad he opened up about it and I hope he hasn’t did it to their kids yet. In a previous video they said he has two victims already . Very sad . I was hoping he hadn’t acted on it yet .
@@sakuraogami6885 he could lie, he could have said that he's completely normal and that the treatment worked wonders, but he's telling the truth even though he knows its not going to be good for him and it's not what people want to hear.
I think a part of it is he gets excited from the shock value and scaring people by what he’s capable of. It could be because he wanted help but from what his psych evaluation said I v much doubt that, he doesn’t care or empathise with anyone he could hurt
Yes he needs to be in a secured place, but it makes me wonder if there is more going on, on a psychological level. Why does he only tell his mother? And says nothing to a therapist? It makes me think there's something more going on between the child and parents. Anyway hope they all get the help they need
@@LouLikestowatch maybe he just feels more comfortable talking to her since everyone else just shut down on him. Or maybe these fantasies he's having has to do with her maybe he thinks about doing horrible thing's to her he might have even told her about these thoughts but she kept them to herself hopefully he gets help and learns to control his disgusting urges of his.
@@GRIMRAJ what, that doesn’t make any sense? In a way she’s better than ANYONE else out there, the child’s actual parents, the authority’s no one else is stepping up to help him and save potential victims
The main thing I’ve learned from watching this is that this family has an amazing dynamic. There is so much trust between all of them. The fact that robbie felt safe enough to open up about that with his step mom and he isn’t mad that she put him in the hospital shows how much he trusts her, and the fact that she immediately took action and took him out of the home shows her other kids how much they can trust her. It’s weird to say but, everybody did the right thing in the situation.
Like, this is not normal, and i'm glad that he is honest and the parents are trying to help, we all know that not all parents are that wake and just try to brush it off. Is really good to see that they are, at least, trying.
Absolutely! Unfortunatly, there are a lot of parents who just give up on their kids when they start getting behavioral problems. These parents are trying everything they can, from therapy to coming on Dr Phil to get their son the professional help he needs to learn adequate behaviours and patterns in life.
Yep men and women who were sexually abused as children and have urges for children walk in the streets heck you might have talked to one i hope the kid gets the help he needs
At the very least he's in a therapy program and giving really useful information to his step mom. I think if getting therapy for things such as this was more destigmatized then those people on the streets would be a lot less dangerous :>
Well they said they are trying. You could tell that both of them are devastated and don’t know how to feel about their son. Obviously they want their kid back but don’t want to put anyone in harms way.
All jokes aside, why is he being discharged if he's still having these urges?? Idk the solution, but I know this isnt it! He recites his urges with no emotion like it's the grocery list 🤯
There grounds to discharge him is that they can’t help him so there’s no point him being there. They’ve suggested having the boy prosecuted and having him in a state facility. But the parents have to do that once he’s discharged so he would still be out for a while.... and if they don’t come to collect him he will go into an independent living situation or a child home which would both give him plenty of opportunity to re-offend. He shouldn’t be discharged he’s admired himself that he’s a danger to children and would re-offend if he was given the opportunity....
Sakura Ogami I’ve changed it to re-offend I must have missed that part. I didn’t realise he had offended but even more reason he shouldn’t be allowed out
I have read articles before that claimed the issue can be treated with excellent results if treatment is provided at a young age like this. I do think it's very brave of him to admit his problem! 💯
@@Dustwitcho this and you've defeated the point of all mental institutions and the livelihoods of all therapists. There are probably a good hundred-thousand out there who have strong sexual inclinations towards pre-pubescent children. You say throw all of them in jail because 'they are a menace to society' (remains unproven, we need to see if they'd act upon it - they only become a menace when they do the action). But if we do this, why shouldn't we throw a kid whose harshly killed an animal in his youth or has psychopathic tendencies into jail, since they have a high likelihood of committing murder, the worst and most dangerous menace to society? If everyone who has any innate attraction towards wrong ought to be thrown in jail, you're going to be imprisoning a lot of people who could otherwise be helped and somewhat rehabilitated. It fundamentally seems to go against rehabilitation. You rush to there being no cure when there are plenty. Isolation, therapy, and chemically lessening his libido are all effective ways to chances of abuse.
The fact that she’s been abused and she’s a stepmother to a potential predator is so undeniably strong and courageous!!! She’s someone who is so truly admirable!!! In short: she’s the person heroes are made of!!
I can't imagine the things he was accessing on the internet before he told his parents... I loathe the fact there is material out there easily accessible to further these disgusting fantasies
@@ArchWolfVegasEditor By creating other victims? Where do you think this vile material comes from? Please let go of the unrealistic thought that porn is created by willing participants. Even adult "consenting" porn is made by broken people who suffered a great deal in life.
When she said "they don't care" my heart broke in two. Having been involved in the mental health system that's unfortunately the impression you get a lot. Thank God this family got some extra help.
@Jack Black. Being involved in mental health, you must know this is paedophilia which cannot be treated or cured. Many men ask for castration but even this has no effect. There is little medicine can do. But there are places where he can live normally with other people and be under constant scrutiny.
@@Diovanlestat I didn't "work" in mental health, I had a family member who had a mental health crisis and nearly ended up in prison. Had nothing to do with pedophilia. As for treating pedophilia, you can't erase the urges, but you can treat the pathology and behaviors. If what Dr. Phil is suggesting in this episode is correct, there may need to be some neurological work too.
@@jackblack3718 I realise you didn't work in mental health so corrected that. Sorry forget my mistake. Fascinating, my information must be outdated. I've never heard of correcting their pathologies and behaviours leading to long term change and ability to stop urges and manipulations. Sorry to ask, but a link I the right direction would help. Neurological change again is most interesting and I will research this. I come from the old school. Can't be cured, dangerous and manipulative, isolate from target group and try to make happy and comfortable. But I will. look up all these wonderful new cures you mention.
@@jackblack3718 Read more info and updated myself. Still not convinced there are any long term cures, but they are moving in the right direction. Still don't believe anyone would trust this boy to babysit even after 10 years of treatment., I been pleased that conversations have not been judgemental. But I think the current solution is for society to recognise this as a problem and to help watch over and guard him against his tormented nature outside of prison and hospital.
At least he has the awareness to talk about it. If there's anything to be thankful for in this it's that. Also, this could've gone unchallenged for years, decades even. Have to look for the positives and it seems like things are going that way these days going off her personal updates.
@@Froggysrock26 Lmao..Damn. You’re so needy for affirmation that you can label anyone with anything to make yourself feel better 😄 Get some therapy to regulate your emotions.
The fact that she’s been abused and she’s a stepmother to a potential predator is so undeniably strong and courageous!!! She’s someone who is so truly admirable!!! In short: she’s the person heroes are made of!!
It’s so terrible that he’s so open about it and letting everyone know that he truly needs help and the doctors are basically calling him a lost cause and sending him off to hurt kids.
This boy has sociopathic tendencies! When the mom was asking him questions on the phone, the way he answered questions lacked empathy and regard for how his actions impact other people
I am diagnosed with aspd and let me tell you that he is way too honest about what's going through his head. If he was on the aspd spectrum, he wouldn't have ever spoke up about it... at least not at this age. Please stop associating everything cruel and bad with sociopathy and psychopathy.
@@t.roberts wow I'd love to see your degree on psychology and rip it up bc it clearly doesn't exist. first off, don't tell people how their mental illness works. secondly, sociopathy doesn't even exist. that isn't a medical term at all. the term that people mean is aspd (antisocial personality disorder) and they would even use that term incorrectly. please stop acting like movie troupes are mental illnesses when it puts a terrible stigma on those who are diagnosed with it. 🥰 thank you.
@@miniebrahma397 👉🏻👈🏻 hey fellow army, do you know any good resources that teach abt aspd and are possibly made by people with aspd?? i always want to learn abt it properly, but everyone treats aspd like it's a spooky movie character. also with the part on how he'd hide his thoughts, it kinda reminded me of masking. is that a correct comparison or am I misunderstanding. thank you 💛
Why are y'all in the comment confused? It's not confusing. You must protect your children, even from one of their siblings if one sibling us dangerous.
But she’s gone on national television about her son, and showed everyone everything. There are lots of parents that have this problem, do you see them on national television?
That's heartbreaking. I'm so glad the boy was honest, and what a wonderful woman to be so strong and do all she can. I wonder if it was just the stress of it all that broke them up, or if there was something deeper. I did find it surprising how silent Rick was in these clips.
He genuinely makes me scared to go outside the fact that people think like him Is so scary. You can never tell what's going on in someone's head I hope I never cross anyone like that in my life
{Megan Ziggler} That statistic, while true, is deceptive because it fails to mention males are more easily prosecutable. Some estimates believe the true distribution of sexual predators is evenly split between male and female perpetrators.
{serena squareparents} Statistically speaking, sexual predators make up some of the smallest percentages of criminal populations. You are more likely to encounter illicit substance users and robbers in day to day life. Of course, all of these conjectures depend on where you live and frequent. But I will agree with your mentality: keep your guard up because you never know who you are talking to.
That phone conversation...I give this mother so much credit for being able to maintain her civility and compassion while listening to such vile answers to disgusting questions. Her parenting skills show with how honest he is with her.
i thought this too. i could never put my self in the place of someone like this, but to some extent i feel like he just cant help it. i feel like he knows what hes doing/feeling is wrong, but he doesnt really know how to cope and work through those urges. i hope whatever treatment he gets is continued and that it really helps, he's only a kid himself and hopefully they can figure out a way to help him through this before he reached adulthood.
There has to be a whole bunch that have a compartmentalised kink for it, but have a moral compass so theyve buried it, and they probably wouldnt talk it since they'd feel that it wouldnt be worth it since they dont feel at risk of offending. Maybe its only the ones who have a sociopathic element that offend, and maybe sometimes thats genetic and sometimes it develops from being abused themselves at a young age, but this kid in the video clearly has some sociopathy going on, hes not just attracted to kids, he genuinely doesnt consider anyone elses welfare but his own, and that makes him dangerous.
Taking away a child's innocence, corrupting them though abuse is the worst most vile thing a person can do. It sickens me to my soul. I hahe a beautiful child and I prau to God hes not a victim of one of these twisted kinds of people. This teenager needs to be locked up.
How in the world is he being discharged when his "treatment," did not EVEN WORK?!?!! There has to be another option to keep him away from society!!!! He is doing the right thing by being honest! There is prior knowledge!
@@Diovanlestat I understand that, but I'm not suggesting for him to be locked up if he is not guilty, however he IS guilty and there are already two known victims and the authorities are slow to convict for some reason even though all the evidence is there. Even if he was innocent, there should be a way for him to continue to be constantly supervised to protect the public as he has been veru vocal about the failure of his prior treatment.
@@TheFlacapreciosa I haven't been able to find all the episodes, so I believe you about crimes and victims. But this is the big problem with paedophiles, how to lock them up when at any time they may decide to be good, Locking innocent people up who appear to change is against all laws known to society. Should we pay someone to follow paedophiles around even though they may not re-offend for another 20years. This problem isn't solved because nobody has an easy answer. What if your child offended once, should we watch them or lock them up until they die some 70years later?
Yes, i would. As a victim of abuse ik what it can do.. its lifelong. I would sacrifice one for the sanity of the rest of my kids and other people's kids. No second guessing it. This is why i judge so harshly parents who protect their abusive kids.
People that have never gone through abuse as a child, teen or as an adult, you don’t just get over it. And I’m sorry he should go to state hospital or jail, they don’t get better , they get worse. I stand with the mother, I’m sure it’s bringing up your past or flash backs. I know that happens to me, and I must applaud the stepmother how courageous she is, and crying for the child she thought he was to the very disturbing child he is. What a strong woman!! I hate she feels alone.
As a child victim of pedophilia, I'm so glad that Dr.Phil has done an episode on this and that the parents are taking action. My whole life I've been trying to understand the psychology behind these people and it has disappointed me that this field has not been understood enough yet. I've read about young pedophiles who want to get help but they are continually confronted with obstacles and an institution that doesn't want to deal with them. But guess what its their family's and the victims that suffer when society just points their nose up at this demographic and just ignores this behaviour because its too "disgusting" for them to deal with. Please blow the lid on pedophilia, because it is rampant. And more pedophiles need to go and get help. This behaviour is abnormal and not good for society.
Unfortunately, he went ahead and harmed children, got caught and thats the only reason he's being honest. Listen again to his voice. He's getting off on upsetting his step mom.
Yep. What is the point of allowing someone like this to continue to have the ability to have sexual organs when they would just use them to hurt others? But we'll put people away for the rest of their lives to live like monkeys in a zoo, but that's somehow less inhumane...
It could be the best solution if he ever wants to be out and in society but from what I know about it medical castration would lower his libido but not fully stop it and judging by his fantasies and the fact that he has already acted them out he would still be a threat to the community
This makes me so angry. I was assaulted for years as a child by a teenager with a list of other victims before and after me. (Some admitted and some rumors) No one ever did anything. CPS would "talk to him" but never followed up. Sounds like this kid has already ruined lives and no one wants to get justice for them. He needs help...and punished. At the end of the day he hurt people.
Hey I'm here for you. It's getting better. Just stay positive and things will get better. Glass half empty or glass half full. It's not okay what happened, but it'll get better
They want to press charges. He’s admitted to molesting 2 girls. There a very high probability that he’s also a victim of assault. The stepmother said when she first came into the children’s lives they would spend time with this man who was obsessed with the boy, so she put an end to that relationship immediately.
@@mcetiger the parents seem to be doing what they can but the institute he's in wants to release him onto the public. Pressing charges also shouldn't be up to his parents. The courts should have pressed them regardless. The courts and the mental health center are trying to pass off the situation to someone else to deal with and that's how people are able to continue hurting others with no consequences.
I don't think it's commendable as much as he is a sociopath or psychopath. Hes not trying to be honest, for him he's simply stating facts of how he feels.
this really breaks my heart because he seems like he would be such a sweet kid but these urges are overpowering his life. he knows he's a danger yet he's honest and open about everything. i don't think he wanted to be like this at all and its really sad. props to the parents for doing everything they can. I can't imagine going through this.
Ελισάβετ Sơ Elizabeth it’s caused by mental illness, so as wrong as all this is, it’s technically not his fault (although he doesn’t seem like he even wants to help himself). The brains of pedophiles are proven to be different to others. I feel bad for the parents tbh.
I’m not even a parent but my heart broke for the Mum when she started talking about how the treatment centres were ‘giving up on him (getting better)’. Also I don’t know if this is worth anything, but I think it’s a good thing that this teen can talk so openly about this issue with his mum. I think it’s good that he is willing to say that he thinks he’s still a danger to kids. I honestly have no idea what causes someone to think this way - for example is it genetics? Brain chemistry? Experiencing certain events? Look, I was molested many many times as a young child by an adult male in my family. I’m NOT saying that this is ‘ok’! But I do wonder if it’s something we just haven’t caught up with scientifically or ethically... For example, I’m straight, but I believe that for those who are gay or have gender identity issues, it’s NOT something they can just “stop thinking about and never think about it again”. Fortunately, some parts of the world now accept those who are homosexual on the same level as “normal people” (no one is normal!) We’ve even managed to legalise gay marriage and the option for a couple of the same gender to raise a child. Even just 50 years ago (and heck, still happening) many people think of homosexuality as “disgusting” or “un-human”. They’re not treated as equals and keeping it a secret because it’s “bad” ends up destroying more lives than simply the life of that individual themselves. So I wonder, are we perhaps just 100 or 200 years away from figuring out what causes predators to think and feel the way this 15 year old does? We certainly don’t accept it and I can completely understand why a young man like him should be forcibly prevented from harming more kids! But because society (heck, even in prison) has such a strong stigma against child molesters, it’s amazing (and rare) that this teen is even admitting and talking about his thoughts, feelings and whether or not he thinks he’s still a danger to others. Most people like him hide everything and instead of admitting they have a high risk of hurting another child, they just continue to do it (even if they don’t like that they’re doing it) and it remains a secret for a long time/forever. If more people like this teen were given the time and respect of proper medical and psychiatric care, who knows what we could learn? For example, say it’s caused by a genetic default. I know the ethical issues are very high regarding this subject, but in the future, will we perhaps genetically modify our offspring so that they don’t carry this gene? Like I said I’m not a genius or a scientist or a doctor - so everything I’ve just said could be 100% wrong 🤷♀️ But I just thought I’d share my thoughts after realising what a distressing position this teen and his parents must be in right now (and no, I haven’t mentioned the victims, but ONLY because I can’t just keep writing FOREVER! So disclaimer - yes I think victims (and potential victims) ARE just as important (if not more so) than abusers and they 100% need to be helped, protected, advocated for and treated as humanely as possible whilst they try to deal with what I personally think are horrific childhood experiences!)
flinty b but what if they do? The point she was making and I agree with is how can they get help if they’re always being pushed away? Like we don’t even know why it’s caused in the brain so like constantly pushing something away bcuz “were” scared isn’t helping the victims. Maybe we should learn more about why they’re the way they are to even see if there is a possibility for recovery. I mean there’s documentaries on RUclips where people who suffer from the thoughts suppress themselves and go to constant therapy to NOT act on the erge. Of course it’s disgusting but what happens if you like this mother give birth to one? Unless you’re a heartless mother who doesn’t love your kids it would be hard to hear everyone just giving up on your kid. Especially when they’re so open, maybe people need to see the openness as a different sign, idk maybe a way of trying to call out for help?
@@FlintyB he clearly does want help though. He a talking about it and accepting every bit of help coming his way. I really hope this burgers anyone with similar thoughts to come out and speak about it and get help.
this 15 year old is a much bigger person than a lot out there. He's actually trying to seek help. Some just offend whilst hiding in plain sight. I hope he got the help he needed to overcome those feelings.
@@mattjcrane He’s mentally ill. So he actually doesn’t know any better, I am not saying that was he has done is okay and that it should be but I genuinely think he does not know any better at this point.
@@mariadonkova2759 He doesn’t need to be locked up, he needs to be hospitalized. All prison will do to him is tear him down mentally making him even more aggressive, he need medical care and tons of therapy, I do agree that he needs to be kept away from strangers though.
They are aware and understand difference between right and wrong (cognitive empathy) but they don't care if it affects others badly because they lack affective empathy.
There are plenty of functioning/nonfunctioning sociopaths that understand right and wrong, but don't feel empathy. I've met a couple sociopaths with strong moral codes, not but because they feel bad about hurting people, but because either they know they should care and there'ssomething wrong with them, or life is easier when you are a good person. "All sociopaths can't comprehend right and wrong" is a generalization and it's one of the things that hurts sociopaths looking for help.
I’m more appalled at the State than the child. He’s sick and needs help. Group home? Homeless shelter? With all them children around? Sick medical and criminal justice system
I feel so bad for the whole family. I'm proud the parents jumped on the situation to help their son. It's really sad the system wont do anything until he does hurt someone smh. The system is ready to send him back home knowing how he is and could be capable of hurting someone.
For her to be able to sit there and listen to him, not judge him and not be so disgusted as to hang up on him shows how much she loves him and how amazing a person she is.
This is so hard to watch, sadly there is no cure for this particular disorder, there should be a new approach to keeping pedophiles away from society in specialist shelters where they can be separated from society. It might be expensive but it would protect our children. Waiting for them to commit an assault and then keeping them in prisons is expensive as well, I wish the politicians would break the pattern of out thinking and revolutionize the system. I fear this is a pipe dream on my part.
@@mackenzietucker7206 There is rehabilitation for many, many things. Unfortunately, for pedophilia, there’s no long term proof of change. They can remain supervised and in therapy, but as for permanent “change”, it doesn’t exist. They will always reoffend.
My heart breaks for the parents. This is right up there with losing a kid to murder, losing a kid to be the murderer. Really sad. I hope his parents get support to help him how they can.
I feel so sorry for this young man and his family.. no one asks for life to be like this! No one asks to be born with these urges ... so very very sad..
Dont feel bad for him, hes already molested two children and says he wants to do it again, and he clearly doesnt feel bad cuz he described his urges as if he was just describing what he had for breakfast
@@innocentspringrain729 We're allowed to feel sad, feel sympathy and empathy for others, that's what makes us different from people like him. Because this kid is never going to grow up normally, he'll never get to experience going to school, hanging out with friends, sleep overs, late night adventures, camps, after school clubs, birthday parties, at least not like normal kids do. Neither will those parents get to watch him grow up alongside his siblings like we might have. It's sad, because everything we've experienced he'll never get that, he's been robbed of something that he isn't even aware of himself because of how his brain works. It's just a depressing situation overall.
@@innocentspringrain729 I don't feel sorry fornthem either. People don't just wake up with these urges through no fault of their own. It's normally because vanilla porn wasn't doing it for them any more so the look for worse stuff.
I feel like he will start to understand how serious it is when he is doing 10 years in prison and someone else takes advantage of him in there. Prisoners have no mercy on child molesters.
Unfortunately, I think he already understands it. Based on what I’ve seen of this case, it’s likely he was abused by the other man (the one who specifically only wanted him around) when he was a small child, and then forced to “get over it”, told the horrible things he says about his victims just moving on, how nothing will happen if someone is abused, or how both parties like the abuse. He was forced to internalize that message to survive, and then was never un-taught, and so he continues to accept it as reality even though it isn’t. Not an excuse for what he’s doing, it’s still wrong and there’s no if’s, ands or buts about it, however I’ve found that 2 things can be true. In this case, it’s true that this boy is a threat to society and needs to be treated as such, but it’s also true that he’s like this because of trauma he endured as a small child. It’s horrible…
Pedophilia is a disease that affects the brain, it can be seen through MRIs. I appreciate this so much because it encourages people to get help and be honest instead of offending. I do not want to call this kid 'disgusting' because that is what prevents treatment for pedophilia. I appreciate his honesty, truthfulness, and admittance of needing help.
This is utterly haunting. I feel so bad for these parents. I’m glad they’re trying to get him help, but I think it’s also kinda sad that the state is giving up on him like that. This is a young kid who admitted that he needs help, and the state is willing to turn their backs on him. How pathetic. I really do hope he gets the help he needs. I feel really bad for the parents as well, especially his (step) mother.
@@glenaldothompson717 Please convey this message to one of his victims. I think you will receive an excellent response, after all, look what you are looking for, it is a paedophile. Shame on you, you may sympathize with this boy, but when this occurs to other children, it is completely unacceptable. Even though you will probably assume that it is normal. It is a matter of course that every child should be protected, and any criticism or harsh words he receives are justified because of how he placed his parents in this position, as well as the several children he has raped. That is an extremely shameful thought on your part.
amazed by both the boy's honesty and the step mother's caring. I see her heart drops when she hears the boy admitting that he still got the urge although she's trying hard to hold back her emotion. I do hope this commitment will get them somewhere they want to be
Why does no one talk about parents that are the pedophiles. Pedophiles have children all the time, then rape their children and nobody talks about it. It infuriates me.
This is why i never ever let my young kids run around in bathing suits or posting any pictures on social media, because I know these people are out there.
as a 17 year old girl who’s been through SA at a young age, please do not let this boy walk free, he is not going to change, he is and will hurt someone, If not 1, many.
I know this was recorded a while ago so I really hope those parents are doing well and that things have improved for them. I also hope the kid is getting the help he needs and is in a place that can keep him away from others and prevent him from potentially re-offending. It is such a tough situation for those parents, I can't imagine what they have been through.
The fact that he admits he is GOING to reoffend and he doesn’t care at all about other people and they are letting him out is exactly what’s wrong with our country
Whew Chile bless their souls. I'm happy she's seeking help for him and having open dialogue instead of sweeping it under the rug. Regardless, of how bad it is I think its important for a professional to help her son talk through his feelings so he understands that the urges are not normal and have a devastating impact if acted out.
This is absolutely heartbreaking for the parents . The facility is doing nothing but awaiting for the day they’re able to ship him home so he can do the same things!! The parents are trying, he needs help!
He's literally saying he's a danger to others, why would they consider discharging him?!
I have no clue. They are just so idiotic and disgusting, letting more people like that into our world
Maybe they are pedophiles themselves.. You never know.
Ess P most likely, the world is run by them.
Plain and utter stupidity.
Ess P 💯
This is an absolute nightmare scenario for having kids
Probably the worse one. Beside rape and mass murder this one is the worst.
I see one every 4 vids
Another reason why kids should be limited and more people should just adopt.
C thats makes no sense. u can adopt a child that will be just as bad or even worse
For real I really couldn’t think of anything worse even having a drug addicted child or a child who murdered someon e
The brutal honesty of him is intense. He's literally saying he's a menace to society
Probably because he hates it. He knows he needs help and is literally crying for it
@@godzillasimpson8357 it would be incredibly mind torturing living with those thoughts knowing its wrong he knows he doesnt want to do it but he cant control what he actually thinks
@@godzillasimpson8357 he doesn't sound like he hates it
He's monstrous
Actually YOU are making him a menace to society. He’s just telling what he’s feeling and the thoughts he’s having. The menace here is you because you’re stigmatizing him. The menace to society thought is in your mind and you typed it out as well. Shame on you.
@Cream I agree with you
But not with what the person I replied said
He doesn't hate it at all,did you watch the other videos
He literally said he doesn't feel bad and if he gets released,he will still try to do it and wouldn't regret it
It's demonic,that can not be normal or human
“Are you still having sexual thought and feelings about little kids” is a question no mother should have to ask a child.
At last someone with brain i found .... i think she manipulated that teen ager to think of himself as sexual offender..... cause teens at that age find their body changes its common they have sexual urges that doesn't prove that he is a offender.... i think they r worst parent out there .... thats my personal opinion ....
@@GRIMRAJ
Ummmm... these aren’t normal urges
@@GRIMRAJ you are a sick person. Please get help
But sadly she has to do it because she knows how the boy is.
Welp i guess all the moms that work in mental institutions gotta go
at least he’s open about it. don’t get me wrong, it’s disgusting. but i’m thankful that he expressed his thoughts and actions before the situation could escalate further.
September 02 I agree he is open and honest about his desires.
I feel the same way, it's insanely disgusting but I think a part if him wants to get better
Yes I’m glad he opened up about it and I hope he hasn’t did it to their kids yet. In a previous video they said he has two victims already . Very sad . I was hoping he hadn’t acted on it yet .
He’s already hurt 2 children...
@@sakuraogami6885 he could lie, he could have said that he's completely normal and that the treatment worked wonders, but he's telling the truth even though he knows its not going to be good for him and it's not what people want to hear.
So the hospital knows he would reoffend but are planning to discharge him anyway? His insurance must've cut off treatment.
im amazed this boy is actually admitting all of this. He could lie if he wanted, but he is being honest. This is the weirdest thing
I think a part of it is he gets excited from the shock value and scaring people by what he’s capable of. It could be because he wanted help but from what his psych evaluation said I v much doubt that, he doesn’t care or empathise with anyone he could hurt
He's a monster. Needs to be kept away from children. But I don't think he can control himself 😔
Yes he needs to be in a secured place, but it makes me wonder if there is more going on, on a psychological level. Why does he only tell his mother? And says nothing to a therapist? It makes me think there's something more going on between the child and parents. Anyway hope they all get the help they need
He's so honest it's hard to not think he's a troll
@@LouLikestowatch maybe he just feels more comfortable talking to her since everyone else just shut down on him. Or maybe these fantasies he's having has to do with her maybe he thinks about doing horrible thing's to her he might have even told her about these thoughts but she kept them to herself hopefully he gets help and learns to control his disgusting urges of his.
Let’s not forget this amazing woman is a STEPMOTHER.
😏
@UnderFanNeo dubs noo
glad she’s not the real mother, you can tell how heart broken she is, imagine being the biological mother of this boy
@@GRIMRAJ what, that doesn’t make any sense? In a way she’s better than ANYONE else out there, the child’s actual parents, the authority’s no one else is stepping up to help him and save potential victims
That's why the parents went public with this shameful thing. If the son ever gets better, he'll definitely be bullied wherever he goes.
The main thing I’ve learned from watching this is that this family has an amazing dynamic. There is so much trust between all of them. The fact that robbie felt safe enough to open up about that with his step mom and he isn’t mad that she put him in the hospital shows how much he trusts her, and the fact that she immediately took action and took him out of the home shows her other kids how much they can trust her. It’s weird to say but, everybody did the right thing in the situation.
Like, this is not normal, and i'm glad that he is honest and the parents are trying to help, we all know that not all parents are that wake and just try to brush it off. Is really good to see that they are, at least, trying.
Thayná Albuquerque it’s because of her other children
These are true parents, accepting seeking help for their son.
Absolutely! Unfortunatly, there are a lot of parents who just give up on their kids when they start getting behavioral problems. These parents are trying everything they can, from therapy to coming on Dr Phil to get their son the professional help he needs to learn adequate behaviours and patterns in life.
Ayooooo Albuquerque gang
This is not the only child/family facing this, unfortunately. I hope their bravery of sharing this will help save other children
What a wonderful mother. She loves her children.
He loves her children too.
Tina Schulze LMAO
Tina Schulze bro 😂
Tina Schulze Dude, too soon 💀😬😂
She’s his stepmom.
it’s insane how there’s people like this kid who just walk around and are in the world
Yep men and women who were sexually abused as children and have urges for children walk in the streets heck you might have talked to one i hope the kid gets the help he needs
People that are grown adults.
At the very least he's in a therapy program and giving really useful information to his step mom. I think if getting therapy for things such as this was more destigmatized then those people on the streets would be a lot less dangerous :>
He's not just walking around in the world, he's been institutionalized.
He's a f******kid you guys are treating him like he's a grown man
I’m glad he’s honest and all but his parents need to keep him locked up because he’s clearly sick and a danger to society.
That's true, the whole situation is so sad
He’s honst but doesn’t sound that he want to change he’s like accept me the way I am
@@maisalohay1593 yeah, I kinda got that impression too
Well they said they are trying. You could tell that both of them are devastated and don’t know how to feel about their son. Obviously they want their kid back but don’t want to put anyone in harms way.
@UCt7sXZA6So0Nf13ViujmpTw little kids can't consent. Dont compare this to homosexuality, since they are very different.
All jokes aside, why is he being discharged if he's still having these urges?? Idk the solution, but I know this isnt it! He recites his urges with no emotion like it's the grocery list 🤯
There grounds to discharge him is that they can’t help him so there’s no point him being there. They’ve suggested having the boy prosecuted and having him in a state facility. But the parents have to do that once he’s discharged so he would still be out for a while.... and if they don’t come to collect him he will go into an independent living situation or a child home which would both give him plenty of opportunity to re-offend. He shouldn’t be discharged he’s admired himself that he’s a danger to children and would re-offend if he was given the opportunity....
aally hiji re-offend. He’s already offended.
Sakura Ogami I’ve changed it to re-offend I must have missed that part. I didn’t realise he had offended but even more reason he shouldn’t be allowed out
You can’t arrest people for crimes they might commit, he needs to go to a psych ward
Shea Wineland Was he even arrested for the crimes he did admit? Or did I miss something.
I feel bad for the 15 year old. He knows he has issues and he’s being honest. He needs treatment for the rest of his life
I have read articles before that claimed the issue can be treated with excellent results if treatment is provided at a young age like this. I do think it's very brave of him to admit his problem! 💯
No, he is a dangerous predator. There is no cure. He belongs in prison.
@@Dustwitcho this and you've defeated the point of all mental institutions and the livelihoods of all therapists.
There are probably a good hundred-thousand out there who have strong sexual inclinations towards pre-pubescent children. You say throw all of them in jail because 'they are a menace to society' (remains unproven, we need to see if they'd act upon it - they only become a menace when they do the action). But if we do this, why shouldn't we throw a kid whose harshly killed an animal in his youth or has psychopathic tendencies into jail, since they have a high likelihood of committing murder, the worst and most dangerous menace to society?
If everyone who has any innate attraction towards wrong ought to be thrown in jail, you're going to be imprisoning a lot of people who could otherwise be helped and somewhat rehabilitated. It fundamentally seems to go against rehabilitation. You rush to there being no cure when there are plenty. Isolation, therapy, and chemically lessening his libido are all effective ways to chances of abuse.
@@Dustwitchthat's right, he should be at solitary confinement
@@TheHatGuy1500 A rope would be cheaper. I mean little boys under 5 years old? There ain’t nothing you can do at that point.
The fact that she’s been abused and she’s a stepmother to a potential predator is so undeniably strong and courageous!!! She’s someone who is so truly admirable!!! In short: she’s the person heroes are made of!!
I also think the boy was abused as well seeing the way he is that makes alot of sense
She’s in on it!
@@GunGlutton what
@@js0219 I don’t remember … but I stand by what I said
He's not a potential predator he IS a predator. He's assaulted two young girls already
I can't imagine the things he was accessing on the internet before he told his parents... I loathe the fact there is material out there easily accessible to further these disgusting fantasies
Better than creating a victim in his siblings
@@ArchWolfVegasEditor By creating other victims? Where do you think this vile material comes from? Please let go of the unrealistic thought that porn is created by willing participants. Even adult "consenting" porn is made by broken people who suffered a great deal in life.
Lil FreeZer you’re disgusting.
@@ArchWolfVegasEditor noone said it was better or worse...it's all in the disgusting category tbh
@@ArchWolfVegasEditor yeah but where do you think cp comes from?
The way he answers his mum so calmly while talking about his fantasies sends chills down my spine.
Drop the full episode this is wild!
Okkkkkk. I want to see it all.
Bro 😭
Lol I Iove this comment
Pay for it then 🥴
This poor family 😱💔😭
When she said "they don't care" my heart broke in two. Having been involved in the mental health system that's unfortunately the impression you get a lot. Thank God this family got some extra help.
@Jack Black. Being involved in mental health, you must know this is paedophilia which cannot be treated or cured. Many men ask for castration but even this has no effect. There is little medicine can do. But there are places where he can live normally with other people and be under constant scrutiny.
@@Diovanlestat I didn't "work" in mental health, I had a family member who had a mental health crisis and nearly ended up in prison. Had nothing to do with pedophilia.
As for treating pedophilia, you can't erase the urges, but you can treat the pathology and behaviors. If what Dr. Phil is suggesting in this episode is correct, there may need to be some neurological work too.
@@jackblack3718 I realise you didn't work in mental health so corrected that. Sorry forget my mistake. Fascinating, my information must be outdated. I've never heard of correcting their pathologies and behaviours leading to long term change and ability to stop urges and manipulations. Sorry to ask, but a link I the right direction would help. Neurological change again is most interesting and I will research this. I come from the old school. Can't be cured, dangerous and manipulative, isolate from target group and try to make happy and comfortable. But I will. look up all these wonderful new cures you mention.
@@jackblack3718 Read more info and updated myself. Still not convinced there are any long term cures, but they are moving in the right direction. Still don't believe anyone would trust this boy to babysit even after 10 years of treatment., I been pleased that conversations have not been judgemental. But I think the current solution is for society to recognise this as a problem and to help watch over and guard him against his tormented nature
outside of prison and hospital.
Diovanlestat i feel like constant monitoring and therapy as well as other numbing medicines would be great for pedophiles and “dumb down” their urges
If he wont tell the therapist, I believe hes getting off on telling his mom.
My thought 2
it's extremely unsettling to hear him talk so nonchalant about his feelings and behavior...
At least he has the awareness to talk about it. If there's anything to be thankful for in this it's that. Also, this could've gone unchallenged for years, decades even. Have to look for the positives and it seems like things are going that way these days going off her personal updates.
Yeah he was definitely abused when he was little
Not everyone is about feelings.
@@byefelicia8632 good job outing yourself as a sociopath 👍🏻
@@Froggysrock26 Lmao..Damn. You’re so needy for affirmation that you can label anyone with anything to make yourself feel better 😄 Get some therapy to regulate your emotions.
well at least her son came to them and was honest , thank God for that.
He seems to enjoy the attention he’s getting.. This is so weird to watch.. he seems very proud of himself?
The fact that she’s been abused and she’s a stepmother to a potential predator is so undeniably strong and courageous!!! She’s someone who is so truly admirable!!! In short: she’s the person heroes are made of!!
This is actually her step son and she is bloody amazing one. Sometimes step parents come into us parents lives for a beautiful reason.
@@babydiddy7577 strength is the word the keeps coming to me watching this woman.
Yes thank god this monster was honest 🙄, praise Jesus 🙌🏽
It’s so terrible that he’s so open about it and letting everyone know that he truly needs help and the doctors are basically calling him a lost cause and sending him off to hurt kids.
@user-ki6ce8iy5o…why? What’s funny about it?? Please, I’m genuinely curious.
He literally said he's lookong forward to getting out. He doesn't want help. He's evil. He's only being honest about what he is because he got caught.
This boy has sociopathic tendencies! When the mom was asking him questions on the phone, the way he answered questions lacked empathy and regard for how his actions impact other people
I am diagnosed with aspd and let me tell you that he is way too honest about what's going through his head. If he was on the aspd spectrum, he wouldn't have ever spoke up about it... at least not at this age. Please stop associating everything cruel and bad with sociopathy and psychopathy.
yoonie he is exhibiting traits of that. It’s purely factual.
@@t.roberts wow I'd love to see your degree on psychology and rip it up bc it clearly doesn't exist. first off, don't tell people how their mental illness works. secondly, sociopathy doesn't even exist. that isn't a medical term at all. the term that people mean is aspd (antisocial personality disorder) and they would even use that term incorrectly. please stop acting like movie troupes are mental illnesses when it puts a terrible stigma on those who are diagnosed with it. 🥰 thank you.
@@miniebrahma397 👉🏻👈🏻 hey fellow army, do you know any good resources that teach abt aspd and are possibly made by people with aspd?? i always want to learn abt it properly, but everyone treats aspd like it's a spooky movie character.
also with the part on how he'd hide his thoughts, it kinda reminded me of masking. is that a correct comparison or am I misunderstanding. thank you 💛
@@tobikms1709you are ignorance at its finest
Why exactly are they discharging him if he’s still a danger
you have to protect your kids even if its from one of your other kids
what
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Why are y'all in the comment confused? It's not confusing. You must protect your children, even from one of their siblings if one sibling us dangerous.
@@lisapoole1219 right
This step mom deserves an award for her patience and sincerity.
But she’s gone on national television about her son, and showed everyone everything. There are lots of parents that have this problem, do you see them on national television?
She got happily remarried and had kids of her own so she got her award for her kind actions
Update: Kristin divorced Rick and is no longer Robbie’s mother or stays in contact with him. She has moved on and is so much happier and healthier.
Okay, but what about Robbie? He was the danger to society, not her. What happened to him? Is he free out there?
@@DiogoLZ she hasn’t said but I’m assuming it’s something along those lines
Proof?
That's heartbreaking. I'm so glad the boy was honest, and what a wonderful woman to be so strong and do all she can. I wonder if it was just the stress of it all that broke them up, or if there was something deeper. I did find it surprising how silent Rick was in these clips.
Source? Or is the source, "Trust me bro"?
This isn't even her biological kids and she's still trying. She's a great mom, I feel really bad for her
Why do need to bring up the fact that she’s a stepmom?
Her lack of emotion is a red flag. Kids don't end up like him without parental influence.
@@justmeandalwaysproud5206 thats not how that works at all..
@just me and always proud she so emotionless that she’s crying
@@justmeandalwaysproud5206 she literally burst into tears. Wtf are you talking about lol
He genuinely makes me scared to go outside the fact that people think like him Is so scary. You can never tell what's going on in someone's head I hope I never cross anyone like that in my life
Yup especially as a woman it's scary because most of these pedophiles statistically are male.
{Megan Ziggler} That statistic, while true, is deceptive because it fails to mention males are more easily prosecutable. Some estimates believe the true distribution of sexual predators is evenly split between male and female perpetrators.
{serena squareparents} Statistically speaking, sexual predators make up some of the smallest percentages of criminal populations. You are more likely to encounter illicit substance users and robbers in day to day life. Of course, all of these conjectures depend on where you live and frequent. But I will agree with your mentality: keep your guard up because you never know who you are talking to.
@@meganziggler8841 yeah but since there are female pedophiles too you have to be careful
@@a.melanoleuca2247 that's true
She must be one of the best stepmothers that exists to even care so much about him. You go girl!
Has anyone scanned this boys brain?This is just so severe there either has to be trauma involved or an imbalance. I feel for this family...
He needs an exorcism not a cat scan
Samuel Samuel shut up. There’s no “dEmOnz”
Samuel Samuel are you dumb or stupid
what’s a scan gonna do lady
Samuel Samuel facts
That phone conversation...I give this mother so much credit for being able to maintain her civility and compassion while listening to such vile answers to disgusting questions. Her parenting skills show with how honest he is with her.
This world is TRULY a SCARY place!
It’s almost as if his blunt honesty is a cry for help.
i thought this too. i could never put my self in the place of someone like this, but to some extent i feel like he just cant help it. i feel like he knows what hes doing/feeling is wrong, but he doesnt really know how to cope and work through those urges. i hope whatever treatment he gets is continued and that it really helps, he's only a kid himself and hopefully they can figure out a way to help him through this before he reached adulthood.
@@mooseknee1709 I heard somewhere he was molested or raped by a man with 2 daughters
“Please, lock me tf up! I’m a danger to society! I will never change! Please, institutionalize me!”
he has no empathy, he doesnt care if he hurts people he just felt like saying this
It is
Imagine how many of them with these urges are out there, geez.
Many are not as vocal about it, so people dont know about it
There has to be a whole bunch that have a compartmentalised kink for it, but have a moral compass so theyve buried it, and they probably wouldnt talk it since they'd feel that it wouldnt be worth it since they dont feel at risk of offending.
Maybe its only the ones who have a sociopathic element that offend, and maybe sometimes thats genetic and sometimes it develops from being abused themselves at a young age, but this kid in the video clearly has some sociopathy going on, hes not just attracted to kids, he genuinely doesnt consider anyone elses welfare but his own, and that makes him dangerous.
Taking away a child's innocence, corrupting them though abuse is the worst most vile thing a person can do. It sickens me to my soul. I hahe a beautiful child and I prau to God hes not a victim of one of these twisted kinds of people. This teenager needs to be locked up.
I don’t think I’ve ever felt as bad for anyone on the Dr. Phil show as these parents. What a horrific situation. Praying for them.
How in the world is he being discharged when his "treatment," did not EVEN WORK?!?!!
There has to be another option to keep him away from society!!!!
He is doing the right thing by being honest! There is prior knowledge!
You can't hold somebody for treatment if there is no treatment and you can't put someone in jail if nobody reports a crime. Them is the laws.
@@Diovanlestat I understand that, but I'm not suggesting for him to be locked up if he is not guilty, however he IS guilty and there are already two known victims and the authorities are slow to convict for some reason even though all the evidence is there.
Even if he was innocent, there should be a way for him to continue to be constantly supervised to protect the public as he has been veru vocal about the failure of his prior treatment.
@@TheFlacapreciosa I haven't been able to find all the episodes, so I believe you about crimes and victims. But this is the big problem with paedophiles, how to lock them up when at any time they may decide to be good, Locking innocent people up who appear to change is against all laws known to society. Should we pay someone to follow paedophiles around even though they may not re-offend for another 20years. This problem isn't solved because nobody has an easy answer. What if your child offended once, should we watch them or lock them up until they die some 70years later?
My suggestion for a solution is not PC.
He's a psychopath he can't change this.he will hurt someone it's just a matter of when
The way he talks makes me anxious as heck.
Maybe he's demon possessed
WAIT SHE’S HIS STEP MOTHER NOT EVEN HIS BIOLOGICAL MOTHER??? wow. Bless her
The real mother is currently in the hospital because of a suicidal attempt that has something to do with him
@@ayavibes5663 I hope his real mom get’s better soon
Yes, i would. As a victim of abuse ik what it can do.. its lifelong. I would sacrifice one for the sanity of the rest of my kids and other people's kids. No second guessing it. This is why i judge so harshly parents who protect their abusive kids.
People that have never gone through abuse as a child, teen or as an adult, you don’t just get over it. And I’m sorry he should go to state hospital or jail, they don’t get better , they get worse. I stand with the mother, I’m sure it’s bringing up your past or flash backs. I know that happens to me, and I must applaud the stepmother how courageous she is, and crying for the child she thought he was to the very disturbing child he is. What a strong woman!! I hate she feels alone.
As a child victim of pedophilia, I'm so glad that Dr.Phil has done an episode on this and that the parents are taking action. My whole life I've been trying to understand the psychology behind these people and it has disappointed me that this field has not been understood enough yet. I've read about young pedophiles who want to get help but they are continually confronted with obstacles and an institution that doesn't want to deal with them. But guess what its their family's and the victims that suffer when society just points their nose up at this demographic and just ignores this behaviour because its too "disgusting" for them to deal with. Please blow the lid on pedophilia, because it is rampant. And more pedophiles need to go and get help. This behaviour is abnormal and not good for society.
i think i wanna become a professional who helps people regardless of how extreme they have it
@@xmustardcandyxx6093do it, become a psychologist. It’ll take a longggg time with school, but you get to really see the bad side
because there are pedos in the government/high society too... the way they get protected in the netherlands is sickening
These people? This is just a kid you say that like he's a grown man
@@allantruong7031 okay he doesn't care about seeing the bad side he cares about trying to help unlike you when all you can say is dO iT 🤡
At least he's honest about his feelings. He is only 15 and needs help. I hope he gets the help he needs.
I find his honesty as a sign for help. He knows it isn't right. He almost asking to stay there longer
Unfortunately, he went ahead and harmed children, got caught and thats the only reason he's being honest. Listen again to his voice. He's getting off on upsetting his step mom.
It's moments like these where medical castration seem like it could be an option
Yep. What is the point of allowing someone like this to continue to have the ability to have sexual organs when they would just use them to hurt others? But we'll put people away for the rest of their lives to live like monkeys in a zoo, but that's somehow less inhumane...
@@Daytue Rapists don't need a genital to rape anyone
It doesn’t remove the thoughts in their head sadly. It’s constant. How frightening for his whole family and society.
Some people in this thread don't seem to know what modern medical castration is. It is NOT cutting off their genital organ. lol
It could be the best solution if he ever wants to be out and in society but from what I know about it medical castration would lower his libido but not fully stop it and judging by his fantasies and the fact that he has already acted them out he would still be a threat to the community
This makes me so angry. I was assaulted for years as a child by a teenager with a list of other victims before and after me. (Some admitted and some rumors) No one ever did anything. CPS would "talk to him" but never followed up. Sounds like this kid has already ruined lives and no one wants to get justice for them. He needs help...and punished. At the end of the day he hurt people.
Hey I'm here for you. It's getting better. Just stay positive and things will get better. Glass half empty or glass half full. It's not okay what happened, but it'll get better
They want to press charges. He’s admitted to molesting 2 girls. There a very high probability that he’s also a victim of assault. The stepmother said when she first came into the children’s lives they would spend time with this man who was obsessed with the boy, so she put an end to that relationship immediately.
@@mcetiger the parents seem to be doing what they can but the institute he's in wants to release him onto the public. Pressing charges also shouldn't be up to his parents. The courts should have pressed them regardless. The courts and the mental health center are trying to pass off the situation to someone else to deal with and that's how people are able to continue hurting others with no consequences.
Honestly if a crimes been committed then there should be justice
Just imagine all the others who keep these evil thoughts inside. Terrifying
The maturity of this young man and the communication between him and his parents is commendable. It’s difficult but no one is hiding the truth.
There is NOTHING commendable about being a pedo!! Get real
I don't think it's commendable as much as he is a sociopath or psychopath. Hes not trying to be honest, for him he's simply stating facts of how he feels.
@@etherealonehe’s not trying he is being honest.
@@The-real-negan He's only being honest because he got caught.
this really breaks my heart because he seems like he would be such a sweet kid but these urges are overpowering his life. he knows he's a danger yet he's honest and open about everything. i don't think he wanted to be like this at all and its really sad. props to the parents for doing everything they can. I can't imagine going through this.
Your a nice woman
@@hopelessromantic4843 i try to be lol
Same 💔
Yall are slow...
He doesn’t seem sweet at all what??? He literally says he will r word someone, a KID. if he gets the chance
They need to do a huge search into his history. 99% of the time, this is from severe abuse as a child.
You can tell she genuinely does care. She wants the best for all of her children, even him. I really hope this works out for them
HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN???! WHAT CAUSED THESE URGES ?? I’m so confused & stressed by this
Brain isn't working right and/or pyschopath with no empathy
i think the boy just wants attention!
There is proof that the brains of pedophiles are different than others. It could nearly be described as a mental disturbance/illness
Ελισάβετ Sơ Elizabeth it’s caused by mental illness, so as wrong as all this is, it’s technically not his fault (although he doesn’t seem like he even wants to help himself). The brains of pedophiles are proven to be different to others. I feel bad for the parents tbh.
No saying he was but most pedophiles were sexual abuse
We need an update on this family!
I’m not even a parent but my heart broke for the Mum when she started talking about how the treatment centres were ‘giving up on him (getting better)’. Also I don’t know if this is worth anything, but I think it’s a good thing that this teen can talk so openly about this issue with his mum. I think it’s good that he is willing to say that he thinks he’s still a danger to kids. I honestly have no idea what causes someone to think this way - for example is it genetics? Brain chemistry? Experiencing certain events?
Look, I was molested many many times as a young child by an adult male in my family. I’m NOT saying that this is ‘ok’!
But I do wonder if it’s something we just haven’t caught up with scientifically or ethically... For example, I’m straight, but I believe that for those who are gay or have gender identity issues, it’s NOT something they can just “stop thinking about and never think about it again”. Fortunately, some parts of the world now accept those who are homosexual on the same level as “normal people” (no one is normal!) We’ve even managed to legalise gay marriage and the option for a couple of the same gender to raise a child. Even just 50 years ago (and heck, still happening) many people think of homosexuality as “disgusting” or “un-human”. They’re not treated as equals and keeping it a secret because it’s “bad” ends up destroying more lives than simply the life of that individual themselves.
So I wonder, are we perhaps just 100 or 200 years away from figuring out what causes predators to think and feel the way this 15 year old does? We certainly don’t accept it and I can completely understand why a young man like him should be forcibly prevented from harming more kids! But because society (heck, even in prison) has such a strong stigma against child molesters, it’s amazing (and rare) that this teen is even admitting and talking about his thoughts, feelings and whether or not he thinks he’s still a danger to others. Most people like him hide everything and instead of admitting they have a high risk of hurting another child, they just continue to do it (even if they don’t like that they’re doing it) and it remains a secret for a long time/forever. If more people like this teen were given the time and respect of proper medical and psychiatric care, who knows what we could learn? For example, say it’s caused by a genetic default. I know the ethical issues are very high regarding this subject, but in the future, will we perhaps genetically modify our offspring so that they don’t carry this gene?
Like I said I’m not a genius or a scientist or a doctor - so everything I’ve just said could be 100% wrong 🤷♀️ But I just thought I’d share my thoughts after realising what a distressing position this teen and his parents must be in right now (and no, I haven’t mentioned the victims, but ONLY because I can’t just keep writing FOREVER! So disclaimer - yes I think victims (and potential victims) ARE just as important (if not more so) than abusers and they 100% need to be helped, protected, advocated for and treated as humanely as possible whilst they try to deal with what I personally think are horrific childhood experiences!)
I read your comment with absolute passion and I'm glad I didn't have to write this essay bc you nailed it 100%
A. Kelly I think this is well thought out
You can't help a person that doesn't want it......
flinty b but what if they do? The point she was making and I agree with is how can they get help if they’re always being pushed away? Like we don’t even know why it’s caused in the brain so like constantly pushing something away bcuz “were” scared isn’t helping the victims. Maybe we should learn more about why they’re the way they are to even see if there is a possibility for recovery. I mean there’s documentaries on RUclips where people who suffer from the thoughts suppress themselves and go to constant therapy to NOT act on the erge. Of course it’s disgusting but what happens if you like this mother give birth to one? Unless you’re a heartless mother who doesn’t love your kids it would be hard to hear everyone just giving up on your kid. Especially when they’re so open, maybe people need to see the openness as a different sign, idk maybe a way of trying to call out for help?
@@FlintyB he clearly does want help though. He a talking about it and accepting every bit of help coming his way. I really hope this burgers anyone with similar thoughts to come out and speak about it and get help.
It’s kind of insane about how open he is about it tho, but how could they even THINK about letting him go when he says stuff like that??
this 15 year old is a much bigger person than a lot out there. He's actually trying to seek help. Some just offend whilst hiding in plain sight. I hope he got the help he needed to overcome those feelings.
The system has clearly failed
I'm so torn.. I'm glad he's honest. Hope he gets helps. He's a kid.. ugh. I pray for this family
He’s 15 he should know better.
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He’s not a kid he’s 15 he needs to be locked up
@@mattjcrane He’s mentally ill. So he actually doesn’t know any better, I am not saying that was he has done is okay and that it should be but I genuinely think he does not know any better at this point.
@@mariadonkova2759 He doesn’t need to be locked up, he needs to be hospitalized. All prison will do to him is tear him down mentally making him even more aggressive, he need medical care and tons of therapy, I do agree that he needs to be kept away from strangers though.
He's not a sociopath. A sociopath wouldn't be aware of anything *bad* they're doing.
No they def do. That’s what they like about jt
They are aware and understand difference between right and wrong (cognitive empathy) but they don't care if it affects others badly because they lack affective empathy.
@@Avolition617?? There's a lot of sociopaths out there who simply don't comprehend their actions are "bad". They lack any empathy.
sociopaths understand what is right from wrong they just don’t care
There are plenty of functioning/nonfunctioning sociopaths that understand right and wrong, but don't feel empathy. I've met a couple sociopaths with strong moral codes, not but because they feel bad about hurting people, but because either they know they should care and there'ssomething wrong with them, or life is easier when you are a good person. "All sociopaths can't comprehend right and wrong" is a generalization and it's one of the things that hurts sociopaths looking for help.
I’m glad they are talking about this. There’s got to be a way to help people like this.
Dang Philly! You’ve left the comments on!
He’s been doing it for months.
Tieia Middleton no way! I’m out of touch! 😆
I’m more appalled at the State than the child. He’s sick and needs help. Group home? Homeless shelter? With all them children around? Sick medical and criminal justice system
Makes me want to keep my kids indoors forever away from these sick individuals
Good idea and make them hate you for being over protective then one night they sneak out and little Jimmy got molested
I feel bad for Robbie at the same time bc he sounds like a very knowledgeable person who knows he is wrong but can't help it
3 years after this guy is 18 now. What happened to him?
I feel so bad for the whole family. I'm proud the parents jumped on the situation to help their son. It's really sad the system wont do anything until he does hurt someone smh. The system is ready to send him back home knowing how he is and could be capable of hurting someone.
And people still choose the illusions.
1. Awesome step mom, you can tell she really cares
2. I can respect that he is so open and honest. I hope they get him some help.
He definitely has self awareness and he needs a lot of help still he can learn
He doesn't need to learn. He already knows and just doesn't care. He's pure evil and only confessed because he got caught harming his victims.
Scary how’s there’s probably hella people out there like this who don’t get help....
*She’s a brave, openly understanding, and outstanding mother. I hope this family can survive & overcome this. 🖤*
This is why I believe those systems fail families. They don’t care about helping a child they just want to get paid. That’s so sad.
I can’t help but appreciate how this kid admits his whole thought process, and is doing what he can to keep others safe from him
He’s only doing it so he will minimize the amount of trouble he gets in
@@Cosmic_13xif he wanted to minimize he would never admit that he’s a pedo
Even the people who run the Dr. Phil YT are still up rn
It's mid day in Norway🇳🇴💪🏻
TheOneMrTom Svellingen Norway?! You’re so lucky, I heard it’s beautiful there!
9 am here in New York!
For her to be able to sit there and listen to him, not judge him and not be so disgusted as to hang up on him shows how much she loves him and how amazing a person she is.
This is so hard to watch, sadly there is no cure for this particular disorder, there should be a new approach to keeping pedophiles away from society in specialist shelters where they can be separated from society. It might be expensive but it would protect our children. Waiting for them to commit an assault and then keeping them in prisons is expensive as well, I wish the politicians would break the pattern of out thinking and revolutionize the system. I fear this is a pipe dream on my part.
actually i disagree. there is a cure as long as you respond to treatment.
@@mackenzietucker7206 This is incorrect. There’s no long-term proof of rehabilitation for pedophilia.
@@Rebecca-ei6zs actually, you’re the one who’s incorrect. You just think that because you have no faith in change.
@@mackenzietucker7206 There is rehabilitation for many, many things. Unfortunately, for pedophilia, there’s no long term proof of change. They can remain supervised and in therapy, but as for permanent “change”, it doesn’t exist. They will always reoffend.
@@Rebecca-ei6zs well it’s not an opinion. It doesn’t matter what the data says
This poor family. Their son is so ill and so young. What a heartbreak. He will unfortunately, either kill someone or they will kill him.
Should not get out EVER! 😢
My heart breaks for the parents. This is right up there with losing a kid to murder, losing a kid to be the murderer. Really sad. I hope his parents get support to help him how they can.
I feel so sorry for this young man and his family.. no one asks for life to be like this! No one asks to be born with these urges ... so very very sad..
Dont feel bad for him, hes already molested two children and says he wants to do it again, and he clearly doesnt feel bad cuz he described his urges as if he was just describing what he had for breakfast
Don't feel sorry for him.
There are people with these urges who dont want to offend and struggle not to. He wants to do it.
dOnT fEeL sOrRy fOr HiM… Bruh if everyone had more empathy and understanding this world would be much better. You hard asses ain’t sh*t
@@innocentspringrain729 We're allowed to feel sad, feel sympathy and empathy for others, that's what makes us different from people like him. Because this kid is never going to grow up normally, he'll never get to experience going to school, hanging out with friends, sleep overs, late night adventures, camps, after school clubs, birthday parties, at least not like normal kids do. Neither will those parents get to watch him grow up alongside his siblings like we might have. It's sad, because everything we've experienced he'll never get that, he's been robbed of something that he isn't even aware of himself because of how his brain works. It's just a depressing situation overall.
@@innocentspringrain729 I don't feel sorry fornthem either. People don't just wake up with these urges through no fault of their own. It's normally because vanilla porn wasn't doing it for them any more so the look for worse stuff.
I feel like he will start to understand how serious it is when he is doing 10 years in prison and someone else takes advantage of him in there. Prisoners have no mercy on child molesters.
Unfortunately, I think he already understands it. Based on what I’ve seen of this case, it’s likely he was abused by the other man (the one who specifically only wanted him around) when he was a small child, and then forced to “get over it”, told the horrible things he says about his victims just moving on, how nothing will happen if someone is abused, or how both parties like the abuse. He was forced to internalize that message to survive, and then was never un-taught, and so he continues to accept it as reality even though it isn’t. Not an excuse for what he’s doing, it’s still wrong and there’s no if’s, ands or buts about it, however I’ve found that 2 things can be true. In this case, it’s true that this boy is a threat to society and needs to be treated as such, but it’s also true that he’s like this because of trauma he endured as a small child. It’s horrible…
Pedophilia is a disease that affects the brain, it can be seen through MRIs. I appreciate this so much because it encourages people to get help and be honest instead of offending. I do not want to call this kid 'disgusting' because that is what prevents treatment for pedophilia. I appreciate his honesty, truthfulness, and admittance of needing help.
This is utterly haunting. I feel so bad for these parents. I’m glad they’re trying to get him help, but I think it’s also kinda sad that the state is giving up on him like that. This is a young kid who admitted that he needs help, and the state is willing to turn their backs on him. How pathetic. I really do hope he gets the help he needs. I feel really bad for the parents as well, especially his (step) mother.
Bro he needs to be locked up he ain’t young
@@mariadonkova2759 for his crime possibly, but he still needs help for his behavior and mindset and admitted he had a problems.
@@John-ls4xh still needs help? dawg he'd be lucky if he even makes it out of prison alive 😂😂
How can that even come out of a human!
Stop . Be kind
@@glenaldothompson717 Please convey this message to one of his victims. I think you will receive an excellent response, after all, look what you are looking for, it is a paedophile. Shame on you, you may sympathize with this boy, but when this occurs to other children, it is completely unacceptable. Even though you will probably assume that it is normal. It is a matter of course that every child should be protected, and any criticism or harsh words he receives are justified because of how he placed his parents in this position, as well as the several children he has raped. That is an extremely shameful thought on your part.
youre a monster@@glenaldothompson717
@@glenaldothompson717 defending him I see?
The amount of trust he has with his parents is phenomenal, take notes.
He's getting off on telling her those sick things! And he only started being honest once he got caught!
So basically they will not do anything until he does something very serious
amazed by both the boy's honesty and the step mother's caring. I see her heart drops when she hears the boy admitting that he still got the urge although she's trying hard to hold back her emotion. I do hope this commitment will get them somewhere they want to be
How is this person being discharged by any responsible facility?
Why does no one talk about parents that are the pedophiles. Pedophiles have children all the time, then rape their children and nobody talks about it. It infuriates me.
This is why i never ever let my young kids run around in bathing suits or posting any pictures on social media, because I know these people are out there.
Well in this case,the predator is also a kid,so you should keep watch on your kids that they don't turn out this way
I’m glad that the parents have handled it the way they have.
as a 17 year old girl who’s been through SA at a young age, please do not let this boy walk free, he is not going to change, he is and will hurt someone, If not 1, many.
This is absolutely terrifying 😭
Serial killers like michael myers make my head tilt. Am i normal
@@justinporter2117 no
@@justinporter2117 What does 'head tilt' mean?
@@justinporter2117michael myers isnt real
Dr. Phil himself needs to make some phone calls.
Why am I watching this at 5:12 AM
It’s 5:18 where I live lol
I know this was recorded a while ago so I really hope those parents are doing well and that things have improved for them. I also hope the kid is getting the help he needs and is in a place that can keep him away from others and prevent him from potentially re-offending. It is such a tough situation for those parents, I can't imagine what they have been through.
The fact that he admits he is GOING to reoffend and he doesn’t care at all about other people and they are letting him out is exactly what’s wrong with our country
Whew Chile bless their souls. I'm happy she's seeking help for him and having open dialogue instead of sweeping it under the rug. Regardless, of how bad it is I think its important for a professional to help her son talk through his feelings so he understands that the urges are not normal and have a devastating impact if acted out.
This is absolutely heartbreaking for the parents . The facility is doing nothing but awaiting for the day they’re able to ship him home so he can do the same things!! The parents are trying, he needs help!