Woman Talks About What Happened After She Learned Her Teen Son May Be a Pedophile

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2025

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  • @britneybij3997
    @britneybij3997 3 года назад +1919

    This woman is a decent balance of logic and emotion. She still loves her child (or least the child he use to be), and wants to get him help. However she is logical enough to know that he is a danger and that she isnt capable of managing the situation but was aware the least she could do is get him in a controlled environment where he cant hurt anyone and to keep her children and other children safe. Most mothers are in denial when their sons are predators, or worst case even enable their sons, meanwhile some others who are aware their sons are predators just kick them out but dont keep them under any supervision therefore letting a monster in the making roam freely to hurt other people. She took the right steps to get him away from the rest of the family and into a space where he cant hurt anyone else until he isnt a danger anymore. Although its unclear when or if that day will ever come.

    • @latofatifa8395
      @latofatifa8395 3 года назад +8

      she is a step mother not his bio mother

    • @Lainos2011
      @Lainos2011 3 года назад +130

      Label is irrelevant, step mother or not she is acting more responsibly than some biological parents are capable of

    • @carnegiemezzo
      @carnegiemezzo 3 года назад +7

      This woman is terrible. She has her own youtube channel where she gives her unprofessional psychological opinion on matters that are beyond her comprehension and continues to exploit her son for views. I get a very weird vibe from this whole situation. I think the most likely scenario was that he was abused when he was younger and started acting out, including perpetuating sexual acts with other children. I have no doubt that the most attention he has ever had from his family happened after they found out what was happening. It seems like he received more shame than he did help and he has now settled into that identity.

    • @kaizoku4385
      @kaizoku4385 3 года назад +16

      Hm... I've taken a look at the channel. I don't want to be cynical and believe in that scenario. Otherwise, I'll lose hope in the human race. Many people do use their "fame" from the show to try to get a social media career or something. This family in particular has to take care of themselves and their other kids and there's a pandemic, so maybe it's out of a sort of necessity. I'm not going to take the time to find these "unprofessional psychological opinions." All I see is updates on the matter because people are curious. And they're trying to raise awareness on these kinds of issues. That's what I saw from a 5 minute scroll or so, anyway.

    • @carnegiemezzo
      @carnegiemezzo 3 года назад +3

      @@kaizoku4385 I've sat in on her lives where she preaches was she claims the warning sign of pedophilia are, on of them being treating animals like people. She further listed several warning signs of someone who been molested and attributed those symptoms to someone who will violate others. Speculations of this type are dangerous. So is trying to use your relevance to prop yourself up as an authority. The advice she is giving is not based on sound psychology, nor is she suggesting that professionals gave her this advice, it's based on "gut." Her son is also a victim, and a child, and though what he is going through and done is deeply disturbing, he won't become any less disturbed by a mother whose only attention (publicly, no less) is focused on the most extreme negative aspect of his behavior. She keeps repeating it because the subject matter is so shocking that we won't turn away. She's got us captivated and she intends to take advantage of it. Watch for her book deal.

  • @Merccurii
    @Merccurii 3 года назад +1969

    I feel so bad for the parents. They probably feel like its their fault. :(

    • @EmmaLee150
      @EmmaLee150 3 года назад +58

      Can you imagine how much fear they live in? Crazy. They feel for their son, but they have to protect all their other children as well! I just tried to think how I would feel in their shoes and oh my god I just can't imagine.

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 3 года назад +2

      is it ?!

    • @bellalugosisrightnipple3719
      @bellalugosisrightnipple3719 3 года назад +5

      @@themoonbleu627 possible , he was probably just born predisposed to whatever's going on with him

    • @rachelraquel758
      @rachelraquel758 3 года назад +2

      Yeah, parents usually blame themselves.

    • @sylvesteruchia5263
      @sylvesteruchia5263 3 года назад +7

      Robbie is jus a nightmare scenario really tbh 👀 👀, holy cow. Hope facilities and the system pull through and keep Robbie from hurting children. Omg.

  • @a_sher2805
    @a_sher2805 3 года назад +1508

    The best part of this is that he actually came out. It could’ve been a whole lot worse in the future if he didn’t.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 года назад +12

      Yes, 100%

    • @sonias9722
      @sonias9722 3 года назад +77

      @@debbie2027 he wasn't secretive about it at all. He would have hidden it f he had wanted to

    • @taylorprocker
      @taylorprocker 3 года назад +30

      I think that shows the good parenting and love and support that he had. I hope he realizes, with loving parents, that he could be honest and hopefully get helo

    • @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198
      @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 3 года назад

      Ikr imagine if he didn't:/

    • @brianestepa2376
      @brianestepa2376 3 года назад +5

      @@debbie2027 he came out with it

  • @diogenes5127
    @diogenes5127 3 года назад +795

    It is said the death of a child is the worst thing a parent can go through. I have to say this is on the same level.

    • @laurenmiller9517
      @laurenmiller9517 3 года назад +27

      Definitely not. Two completely different things. To even compare shows you've never lost a child or experienced anything remotely close.

    • @geekemedia
      @geekemedia 3 года назад +132

      @@laurenmiller9517 no I feel like this is worse. The child you lost you will always have positive memories and love towards them. This? You pretty much feel guilty for giving birth to this child because he's a danger to society

    • @laurenmiller9517
      @laurenmiller9517 3 года назад +24

      @@geekemedia Nothing is worse than losing a child. I'm not saying this isn't awful, I'm saying you're comparing two completely different things that aren't even on the same level.

    • @tstryker03
      @tstryker03 3 года назад +28

      @@laurenmiller9517 how about not being able to see you kid and they are alive? if you loose a child they are just gone, this kid is alive and you can't see them.

    • @laurenmiller9517
      @laurenmiller9517 3 года назад +12

      @@tstryker03 First off, it's lose not loose, and second off, you can still talk to that child. You have no idea what you're talking about.

  • @nyb3894
    @nyb3894 3 года назад +1319

    These parents are doing a great job preventing and keeping siblings & community safe but how does a child end up being like this 🥺

    • @spunkysparks1779
      @spunkysparks1779 3 года назад +9

      Lemmie guess you blame the parents. Jfc 😒

    • @porkchoppeaches
      @porkchoppeaches 3 года назад +74

      I think he was also abused and molested when young. That usually creates this.

    • @thepyrotechnics4223
      @thepyrotechnics4223 3 года назад +74

      It’s just like dr phill said, a medical condition

    • @MoonbeamBear61
      @MoonbeamBear61 3 года назад +1

      Poor nose. Duh.

    • @geekemedia
      @geekemedia 3 года назад +22

      They are born

  • @Iwabaso
    @Iwabaso 3 года назад +183

    She is probably the best parent I've ever seen on this show

  • @disha8773
    @disha8773 3 года назад +432

    This stepmother is doing what many biological mothers fail to do. And as horrible as he is, atleast he is honest about everything to his parents and that's because of love that this woman showered him with. I wish, one day, I could be as good of a mother as she is.

    • @marylopez2844
      @marylopez2844 3 года назад +3

      Well said

    • @ccm0533
      @ccm0533 3 года назад +7

      Omg I thought she was the bio mom

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 3 года назад +6

      I didn’t realise it was his stepmother . Although it’s hard for her and she clearly loves him , I believe it would be much harder for his biological mother to accept it , which is only natural imo .

    • @dinavienna
      @dinavienna 3 года назад

      @@cherrymetha3185 I think she raised him most of his life though hearing her account .. might be harder for the woman who gave birth to AND raised a boy like him - but it doesn’t look like it could get much harder than for this mom already 😭

  • @queenmamabear5812
    @queenmamabear5812 3 года назад +539

    She is an AMAZING MOTHER, AND HIS Father is a Good gentle man. They saved who knows how many kids..... Prayers and Love to them she has a youtube channel. She is such a Wonderful mother and wife and person!!!!! 🥰🙏🥰🙏🥰🙏🥰🙏🥰🙏🥰

    • @salemlynn8225
      @salemlynn8225 3 года назад +3

      What’s her RUclips?

    • @thesimsismylife9816
      @thesimsismylife9816 3 года назад +5

      Amazingly she is actually his stepmom

    • @tvfan14
      @tvfan14 3 года назад +4

      @Savetion II No. The diference is children are children and have not went through puberty. Children do not know what they are doing.

    • @ccm0533
      @ccm0533 3 года назад

      @ElegantCookie I'm hoping that's just a child trolling

    • @grammichal6759
      @grammichal6759 3 года назад +1

      @QR8_reptile I looked MAP up. It’s pedophiles or “Minor Attracted Persons!!!!” I reported. I hope my report is accepted but maybe they’re busy censoring conservative people instead.

  • @tarnyaattwell4841
    @tarnyaattwell4841 3 года назад +281

    At least he felt able to talk to his parents. They must have done a good job, because he felt able to tell them his deepest secrets. I think they are great parstnts, to their
    son who is very ill xx

    • @Mia_Allen2013
      @Mia_Allen2013 3 месяца назад

      I don’t think that’s the “mothers” son

  • @lesliecain5051
    @lesliecain5051 3 года назад +124

    She's having to mourn the loss of a child that is still alive. She has my deepest sympathies.

  • @rosenbaum75
    @rosenbaum75 3 года назад +394

    That's not even her biological son and she still loves him so very much. What a heartbreaking situation to be in for this family and the for the boy as well.

    • @MustacheCashStash125
      @MustacheCashStash125 2 года назад +2

      Who cares of she is his stepmom? A mom is a mom.

    • @rosenbaum75
      @rosenbaum75 2 года назад +13

      @@MustacheCashStash125 that's not true. A lot of step-parents don't fully assume the parental role either because it's not their biological child and that bond isn't there or the child knows it's not their biological parents and they aren't open to forming a tight bond. A lot of times, a situation this severe will scare off a step-parent. Like it's too much to handle and that's not what they signed up for. But she has gone above and beyond for her step-son. It's admirable.

    • @MustacheCashStash125
      @MustacheCashStash125 2 года назад +2

      @@rosenbaum75 That’s just a stigma

    • @rosenbaum75
      @rosenbaum75 2 года назад +2

      @@MustacheCashStash125 as a social worker for the last 13 years, I know first hand the dynamics of blended families. But you are entitled to your opinion.

    • @MustacheCashStash125
      @MustacheCashStash125 2 года назад

      @@rosenbaum75 Well if you’re a social worker, than I believe you

  • @tstryker03
    @tstryker03 3 года назад +709

    I see comments like "must have been abused himself" and "well he learned it somewhere" that couldn't be further from the truth. Not every behavior is taught, that's like seeing a kid throw themselves on the floor having a tantrum and you think to yourself "that kid must have seen their mother act like that" not every abuser was abused and not everyone that was abused will abuse.

    • @internetpersona3496
      @internetpersona3496 3 года назад +37

      I think in previous episodes of this story, he was allegedly molested.

    • @juliacarpentier3920
      @juliacarpentier3920 3 года назад +14

      @@internetpersona3496 he wasn’t but his mom was when she was younger

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 года назад +74

      In previous videos they did say he was sexually abused. He was also abused by his bio mom. This was his step mom, who is doing an amazing job at handling this, by the way. Most of the time there is some type o of trauma or abuse during development that leads to these kinds of problems.

    • @Arree1969
      @Arree1969 3 года назад +3

      I believe that holds true too, for his ability to say something about how he was feeling.

    • @lowrider81hd
      @lowrider81hd 3 года назад +12

      Some are just straight up sociopathic

  • @rinoldymangiri4377
    @rinoldymangiri4377 3 года назад +111

    "If he can't get better, at least his story can help someone else get better"
    Wow

  • @angelwings197275
    @angelwings197275 3 года назад +302

    Bless his poor moms heart, I can't imagine her pain. It's like losing a child to death.

    • @daily_dose_of_dumb6993
      @daily_dose_of_dumb6993 3 года назад +13

      @Savetion II no

    • @alannaibbeson5811
      @alannaibbeson5811 3 года назад +10

      @Savetion II are u serious? ew

    • @schlomogoldberg3785
      @schlomogoldberg3785 3 года назад +1

      Have you been in both situations before? This is terrible but they can still interact with and talk to their kid.

    • @Lexillios
      @Lexillios 3 года назад +4

      @@schlomogoldberg3785 I agree that it's not the same. I think they meant that when he is like this the mom feels she lost her innocent son, as in he's gone forever and the person he is become is someone completely different.

  • @Starmoon131
    @Starmoon131 3 года назад +379

    I feel so bad for this family.

    • @brooke9188
      @brooke9188 3 года назад +4

      @IlllIIlllIIIll No. Age is a reflection of emotional understanding and a concept of right and wrong.

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 3 года назад +163

    It’s shows that his parents made him feel comfortable to talk to them about anything, even something so awful. That’s the type of patenting kids need. You discipline and you teach right and wrong, but you don’t shame them. You explain why it’s wrong and teach empathy but don’t create an environment where they don’t feel safe talking to you about problems. Shame makes people do things in secret and they end up harming lots of people before it comes to light.

    • @schlomogoldberg3785
      @schlomogoldberg3785 3 года назад +2

      I think it varies. Sometimes public shaming can pressure people into altering their behaviors, but sometimes it can put people into a rebellious mood and want to go act on it in secret/elsewhere, shoot up a school, join a community of other depraved people, etc.

    • @ufggxdyxcrhc
      @ufggxdyxcrhc Год назад +1

      No the kid has psychopathy

  • @vanessawhitney5796
    @vanessawhitney5796 3 года назад +73

    I want to applaude these parents for fostering an environment where their child could share those feelings. And him for speaking up.

  • @latofatifa8395
    @latofatifa8395 3 года назад +242

    we just need to thank in the name of all other mothers

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy 3 года назад +17

      Absolutely.. I just cannot imagine having to go through this.. They are so so very strong..

    • @Idk-idk710
      @Idk-idk710 3 года назад +6

      @Savetion II ew stfu no one would ever in a million years let grown AS* men/women be with children, if you have that urge then you need help ASAP

    • @Idk-idk710
      @Idk-idk710 3 года назад +4

      I’m really happy they chose to get him help unlike other families who would do anything to keep the rapist a secret, sadly it’s what is happening in my family.

  • @syljm515
    @syljm515 3 года назад +89

    This is heartbreaking.... but its different to see he is open and talking about it. Instead of surpressing these urges and secretly acting on them. (Prob what most of them do). At least he acknowledges it as wrong and wants help.

  • @eridanampora3024
    @eridanampora3024 3 года назад +262

    Bro how do kids end up like this 😭 he's so young wtf

    • @noor-tb8ue
      @noor-tb8ue 3 года назад +21

      idek like his parents seem decent how could he end up so bad

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 3 года назад +75

      Pedophilia is considered a mental disorder that's part of Paraphilia, which is a mental illness. The kid is sick and he can't help it; that's why he needs help.

    • @SIGSEGV1337
      @SIGSEGV1337 3 года назад +32

      It usually starts young, usually happens as a result of some kind of sexual trauma

    • @uyoebyik
      @uyoebyik 3 года назад +36

      I think people are born psychopaths

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 3 года назад +28

      @@uyoebyik That's right Psychopaths are born with a specfic type of Anti personality disorder. Sociopaths are usually the serial killers you see on TV because they are a product of abuse and sexual mistreatment.

  • @zsmom14__18
    @zsmom14__18 3 года назад +92

    This is so heartbreaking as a mother of a son I couldn’t even imagine, she’s lost her child but he’s still alive just messed up and that has to be so hard to see for her.

  • @karisuperstar
    @karisuperstar Год назад +17

    They should just put him in prison for life. He’s a cancer to society at this point.

    • @Chris-zs4qd
      @Chris-zs4qd Год назад +5

      Yes. He’s literally admitted that he will re-offend when given the chance, yet the hospital literally wanted to send him into society. He also stated that he would do “anything” to keep a child quiet, so who knows how long it takes for murder to pop into his mind. He also said he was into sadomasochism, which is basically sexual arousal from committing violent acts. It’s amazing how people who commit the most minor offenses are jailed for years yet at the same time they are coddling the next Ted Bundy.

    • @WiseDevil-zzz
      @WiseDevil-zzz 2 месяца назад

      Likewise

  • @justasockonhere
    @justasockonhere 9 месяцев назад +11

    You can love your child to death and still be so disgusted, scared and disappointed in them. I can't imagine how she must be feeling. Good on her for taking immediate action.

  • @maggienaidoo8059
    @maggienaidoo8059 3 года назад +52

    This is heartbreaking...

  • @heloveskoko
    @heloveskoko 3 года назад +26

    The fact that she is his STEPMOM, still amazes me. I pray one day I become such a great mom

  • @spunkysparks1779
    @spunkysparks1779 3 года назад +80

    So sad. I know a mother will always love her son. I hope nothing like that ever happens to my son. I told mine I will always love him no matter what he does but I can't just let him do anything he wants. I just paraphrased it.

    • @tvfan14
      @tvfan14 3 года назад

      @Savetion II What is map pride?

    • @Emilykrabappel
      @Emilykrabappel 3 года назад

      @IlllIIlllIIIll you better be joking...

    • @ashnightcore2276
      @ashnightcore2276 3 года назад

      @@tvfan14 minor attracted person or pedophiles

    • @ashnightcore2276
      @ashnightcore2276 3 года назад

      @@Emilykrabappel they've been spamming it

  • @elizabeth_9746
    @elizabeth_9746 3 года назад +46

    Wow, these parents did what the Duggar’s should have. I feel so bad for the momma especially Bc as a mom I get how she could miss her baby while knowing he’s not well.

  • @littlefyre1446
    @littlefyre1446 Год назад +15

    There is no treatment for pedophiles or rapist... I don't care what anyone says.

    • @lifeadventurewithliam3934
      @lifeadventurewithliam3934 8 месяцев назад +3

      I agree I think the parents should just straight out have him arrested because I would not feel save if my child started thinking like that

    • @TC4loveandlife
      @TC4loveandlife 8 месяцев назад +1

      I agree, they need to be delivered through Jesus no medication can help that it’s a legion of spirits of lust beyond human comprehension and ability to help. Pray for this family and for the innocent people around the world including the victims.

    • @catc818
      @catc818 6 месяцев назад +1

      I work with teen boys that sexually harm. Every single one in our residental program has been a victim .....that's not saying all youth are pedophiles that do sexually harm either. Some viewed porn and acted it out on those most available to them like siblings, neighborhood kids and young cousins. I do know that we have an extremely low recidivism rate once they learn victim impact and empathy. It is a long process but most of them make it back to normal life and never re-offend. Some go on to commit other crimes that are not sexual which speaks to their criminal thinking in general.

  • @srideout91
    @srideout91 3 года назад +26

    Keep him locked up for the rest of his life. In my opinion is there is no hope for him. If they let him out he is going to reoffend again and possibly do much much worse.

    • @gustawjablonski1608
      @gustawjablonski1608 3 года назад +4

      That’s untrue he’s just a teenager when he’s adult he gain gain control over his action. If someone is attracted to children they need help like any other ilness

    • @valeriewoods6882
      @valeriewoods6882 5 месяцев назад +2

      Leave your kids alone with him, Gustaw.

  • @legalizevore
    @legalizevore 3 года назад +42

    I’m just happy and relieved they found the help for their son and noticed the signs before his adulthood. I hear so many cases that could have been prevented had the parents noticed the signs when they were younger. Good on these parents for seeking the help rather than trying to hide it. I hope they get the recovery they need.

    • @MusaKitty
      @MusaKitty 3 года назад +1

      They didnt..he was molested and they ignored it until he came out about hurting others. She admitted it basically on her YT channel.

    • @legalizevore
      @legalizevore 3 года назад

      @@MusaKitty that’s awful, thanks for letting me know.

  • @michillene
    @michillene 3 года назад +34

    His next thoughts may be killing someone to get his kicks,and he probably will follow through..He is definitely in need of help if that is even possible.

  • @mspitstoptoyou
    @mspitstoptoyou 3 года назад +39

    In all the years of Dr. Phil shows, this one had to have been the most difficult to watch.

    • @sweethallucinations1295
      @sweethallucinations1295 3 года назад +1

      right like it made me cry when she started crying and hugging the pillow

  • @oldschoolboxing6048
    @oldschoolboxing6048 Год назад +3

    How do you even deal with this? I'd be too angry to understand what to do as a parent.

  • @tangelacarter6620
    @tangelacarter6620 3 года назад +13

    I have so many questions for these parents. What a nightmare to have to live through.

  • @CC-nh6gt
    @CC-nh6gt 3 года назад +10

    This is a parent's worst nightmare. Bless that family, I feel so bad for them but I'm glad that they were logical enough to do the right thing.

  • @michellelowe7082
    @michellelowe7082 3 года назад +21

    I've watched all of the updates on her RUclips channel and she is a strong woman! Being a step mom and not his biological mom her husband hopefully realizes how amazing she is!

    • @evesansom9118
      @evesansom9118 3 года назад

      What’s her RUclips?

    • @skyln3496
      @skyln3496 2 года назад

      @@evesansom9118 kristin piper

    • @patrickhowell6774
      @patrickhowell6774 2 года назад +3

      @@skyln3496 She got rid of all her videos.

    • @alexedeburn7331
      @alexedeburn7331 4 месяца назад

      She got a new RUclips channel and it turned out her and Rick got divorced and doesn't want to be reminded of this. I don't blame her. Too much baggage.

  • @ladybgail
    @ladybgail 3 года назад +24

    He should not be out on the streets

  • @kadyk4185
    @kadyk4185 3 года назад +17

    Atleast the boy is open and honest about it. The only way to stop this is by those with those urges to be honest. I pray his victims, his family, and him get the help they need.

  • @lymay8340
    @lymay8340 3 года назад +7

    Something about nails on the wall where pictures used to be hit me really hard

  • @noahbaker5192
    @noahbaker5192 3 года назад +24

    This mother's love is boundless. What an incredible parent.

  • @Punkeosa
    @Punkeosa 3 года назад +31

    His parents are such good parents, he dared to admit his condition. Regardless, this is sad,

    • @aicha3195
      @aicha3195 3 года назад +3

      Yes and even though she's actually his step mum you'd never know

  • @nicole-hu1fe
    @nicole-hu1fe 3 года назад +45

    It's highly likely that he experienced sexual trauma in his childhood though they've not been able to uncover this. I'm so glad he has a mother who still loves him, I hope she never ever stops.

    • @mariyas4928
      @mariyas4928 3 года назад +8

      I agree. Often people are overlooking that he is disturbed and simply throwing their judgement and anger out on minors who need serious help and shouldn't just try to lock them up.

    • @crcb4
      @crcb4 3 года назад +5

      I think he was born a psychopath. Psychopaths are born not normal.

    • @mariyas4928
      @mariyas4928 3 года назад +4

      @@crcb4 That's possible. Still, psychopathic tendencies can be controlled while children are still young and it's possible to live at least a somewhat normal life if taught how to manage the disorder.

    • @crcb4
      @crcb4 3 года назад +10

      @@mariyas4928 not to my understanding listening to certain psychologists Psychopaths are born Psychopaths and they tend to never get any better or be able to really control anything they have no feelings no empathy no compassion they don't think that they do any wrong. Where as narcissists and sociopaths are usually made by circumstances and family life.

    • @mariyas4928
      @mariyas4928 3 года назад +4

      @@crcb4 Both genes and upbringing contribute to the issue. There is research online to back this up. However, I think they should dig deeper into his past and relationship with other family members to see what may have contributed to this outcome. I'm saddened by the genetic aspect of this, though.

  • @tylerzane7579
    @tylerzane7579 3 года назад +9

    As a parent I seriously couldn’t imagine knowing your child is a monster ..: I feel so bad for them but he can’t be saved

  • @nastarandovar4223
    @nastarandovar4223 3 года назад +7

    It's like the movie "we need to talk about kevin" but in a different way. A family with a son, hated because of son's actions.
    I love how mature and logically emotional these parents are. It's heartbreaking to see them go through this, but also it's amazing that they are doing all the right things to stop their son from damaging people.

  • @tbmb9531
    @tbmb9531 3 года назад +10

    These parents are doing as good as they possibly can in this horrible situation

  • @Oyztr
    @Oyztr 3 года назад +30

    Real ones know that this is a repost

  • @rosepedrosa9732
    @rosepedrosa9732 3 года назад +10

    I'm so happy these parents got help instead of pretending it's a faze or he'll grow out of it. They did their job I feel so bad for his family.

  • @DMaria216
    @DMaria216 3 года назад +6

    I remember watching an episode of SVU like this..the kid asked for help but he didn’t commit a crime yet..so the cops could do nothing.
    I really hope they got him into therapy young enough that it may make a difference.
    What a great mom though

  • @smashley4661
    @smashley4661 Год назад +7

    Where’s the boy’s biological mother in all of this?

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana Год назад

      She isn’t involved in his life

    • @sydneypaez
      @sydneypaez 8 месяцев назад +2

      She passed away

  • @ludakhomich7362
    @ludakhomich7362 3 года назад +45

    That's insane

    • @davidconnor6887
      @davidconnor6887 3 года назад +5

      Hello 👋
      How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

  • @RUTHLESSambition5
    @RUTHLESSambition5 3 года назад +38

    He's just a bad seed... Gotta give him to the state... Save everyone else

    • @mariyas4928
      @mariyas4928 3 года назад +11

      You have to acknowledge that he has a neurological imbalance and behavioral disorder. It's not his fault that he has these urges, and he needs lots of help to turn it around, but simply
      "giving him to the state" isn't an action conducive to raising a good child and being a loving parent.

    • @mariyas4928
      @mariyas4928 3 года назад +1

      @@samking7916 First of all, curb your judgement. I didn't hear that he "acted on his urges" or "sexually assaulted TWO LITTLE GIRLS." That's regrettable and needs to be fixed and prevented. And never did I say IGNORE IT. Goddamn. Stop dehumanizing people and children simply because they're mentally disturbed and made poor choices. He ACKNOWLEDGES his condition and so do his parents. That doesn't mean he needs to be at home, but his family shouldn't just turn their back on him and subject him to the state like a defunct purchase.

    • @mr.sophistication2461
      @mr.sophistication2461 3 года назад +3

      @@mariyas4928 I don't think Debbie was talking about Robbie... The username of the original commenter she replied to is @Highly Functioning Sociopath.

    • @mariyas4928
      @mariyas4928 3 года назад

      @@mr.sophistication2461 that makes more sense

    • @saraosori14
      @saraosori14 3 года назад

      @@mariyas4928 His family is not “turning their back” on him. It’s a very hard decision to make. If they place him back in the house they lose ALL their kids, their family clearly has worked very hard to find treatment centers and facilities in which did not help their situation. They can support and love from a distance but the boy himself is aware that he should not be around other kids.

  • @Dwayne-Mobile1
    @Dwayne-Mobile1 3 года назад +7

    My son wasn't sexually abusive to anyone but had to be in and out of hospitals and programs and live there places. Its the hardest to pick between your kids!

    • @Sunset553
      @Sunset553 3 года назад

      What happens when they are of legal age if the child wants to leave a therapeutic or restricted setting? Do we have to wait for a problem, like a crime?

  • @KindOldRaven
    @KindOldRaven 3 года назад +3

    Remarkable that the young guy could openly talk about this to his mother. Happy he did, happy they took it seriously as well.

  • @eturner2088
    @eturner2088 3 года назад +7

    This is just so sad, I feel for the parents. This would be heart breaking

  • @zxlns1066
    @zxlns1066 3 года назад +17

    You can only try your best when raising children.. ultimately, it lies within them who they become.

    • @davidconnor6887
      @davidconnor6887 3 года назад

      Hello
      How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

    • @duilio2656
      @duilio2656 3 года назад +1

      It was never his choice to think that way. He was born with it and it’s sad. He never got a choice.

  • @basedgengarenjoyer7510
    @basedgengarenjoyer7510 Месяц назад +3

    ok, so for anyone wondering how this is going and wants updates, i have a ton after some research.
    first, robbie was sent to a program and remained there essentially until adulthood from what i can tell. he is an adult now and nobody is really sure what happened to him, i cannot find a social media presence anywhere from the father, rick, so there is absolutely no up to date information out there about robbie (believe me, i looked.)
    as for the stepmother, kristen, she divorced rick in the last couple of years and deleted any updates about robbie that were on her channel previously, now replaced with random normal content about her and her new boyfriend. there are no archives that contain any of her previous content centered around giving updates on robbie. from her livestream a year ago however, we know that evem before the divorce it seems that their relationship had been weakening for a bit, understandably so. we can only assume that robbie likely has not recovered and is either in treatment, or god knows where doing god knows what to god knows who. reality doesnt end well like media im afraid, guys.

    • @reportRafa
      @reportRafa 25 дней назад

      thanks for the update

  • @rachelstreeter4264
    @rachelstreeter4264 3 года назад +19

    As a mother I applaud her. What a brave woman to stand for what is right over what is biological

  • @ajdazagar5398
    @ajdazagar5398 3 года назад +4

    The parents are so open, real and accepting. I think this boy lived in a healthy environment, this is why he feels safe talking openly about it. This is why they are able to prevent tragedies from happening.

  • @ilovegameslibb2917
    @ilovegameslibb2917 3 года назад +2

    At least she got warnings. Her son said it out loud. Most parents don’t even know till it’s too late .

  • @amberinthebox4462
    @amberinthebox4462 2 месяца назад +1

    It's a miracle that he was even honest with the parents

  • @mojo3548
    @mojo3548 3 года назад +24

    Wow he was just born like this!? So awful, Kinda makes me afraid to have kids 😢

    • @SIGSEGV1337
      @SIGSEGV1337 3 года назад +4

      Not necessarily, trauma in childhood can cause a wide variety of abnormal sexual urges, some more extreme than others

    • @samking7916
      @samking7916 3 года назад +2

      @@SIGSEGV1337 he wasn't abused or traumatized. Stop trying to defend what he did. Some of you are really messed up in the head.

    • @SIGSEGV1337
      @SIGSEGV1337 3 года назад +1

      @@samking7916 I'm not, learn to read

    • @saraosori14
      @saraosori14 3 года назад +3

      @@SIGSEGV1337 Yes it CAN create behavior like this. But that is not the case in this scenario; another reason why this story is so highly talked about. He was born with tendencies like this and it was very apparent when he was extremely young.

    • @SIGSEGV1337
      @SIGSEGV1337 3 года назад

      @@saraosori14 people experience sexual trauma when they're extremely young, sometimes even before they have real episodic memory

  • @hanban76179
    @hanban76179 3 года назад +4

    Props to them for removing this child from the home they are keeping their children and others safe

  • @melt7891
    @melt7891 3 года назад +16

    What an incredible brave family. It’s only in bringing the darkness into the light that healing can begin 🙏

  • @leighhoppins9273
    @leighhoppins9273 Год назад +3

    So whenever I hear about someone sexually assaulting somebody else’s child or somebody they love
    I get enraged with anger, it literally takes me back to that day i was almost a Robbie victim i was maybe 14 or 15 years old
    Good thing I stopped him before he could do anything worse like touch my boobs, but it is just the thought if that young boy doing something like that
    It makes me furious i just can’t let that person live on our planet of they can nit treat people kindly and or with respect then they don’t deserve to be alive anymore
    Because they’re not human they shouldn’t be on our planet

    • @martinfrostnas6610
      @martinfrostnas6610 10 месяцев назад +1

      Damn right! Good on you for managing to protect yourself.

  • @wrestlingfan2024
    @wrestlingfan2024 3 года назад +1

    This poor family and poor woman! I so so hope he can get better and the family can be restored.

  • @WiseFalmily1111
    @WiseFalmily1111 Год назад +1

    I am going through something very similar with my step son, except he isn’t as honest as this boy, and that makes it even scarier. He is in a facility right now, but it hasn’t done much 😢

  • @christinecannibal844
    @christinecannibal844 3 года назад +11

    I hope this woman doesn't feel like she failed as a parent. She did everything right. She still is. I'm proud of her!

  • @Charly-in-the-808
    @Charly-in-the-808 3 года назад +5

    These abnormal impulses are learned. I feel for this family. I even pity the kid. Hope he can be saved.

  • @gabyg4783
    @gabyg4783 3 года назад +18

    this is disgusting

    • @snjord23
      @snjord23 7 месяцев назад +1

      True

  • @manfrummt
    @manfrummt 11 месяцев назад +2

    Some reason I'm suspicious of the step mom. Don't know why.

  • @one1six___890
    @one1six___890 3 года назад +2

    I mean he is open and honest, it shows he actually wants the help. Bless the parents hearts 🥺

  • @mordan4686
    @mordan4686 Год назад +7

    He's an evil monster. Actually evil. He wants to abuse children. Lock him up.

  • @OkamiWSDwarrior
    @OkamiWSDwarrior Год назад

    Being an open MAP is much better than suffering in silence and eventually harming others (or self) thats why we need people to discuss these things so we can provide support and resources.

  • @finnstewart4747
    @finnstewart4747 8 месяцев назад +1

    It speaks volumes about the parenting that the kid actually came to them with this, if more parents were like them less predators would slip through the cracks.

  • @sandrajune1172
    @sandrajune1172 22 дня назад

    I've just come apon this and I am amazed by this mother. It's so sad why this happens to some people. The devastation it causes to their victims and their families is irreparable. What causes it? Why is there no treatment that works to stop these awful urges.

  • @simi6152
    @simi6152 3 года назад +2

    The parents are heroes for recognizing that their child is harmful to others! They truly deserve to get some emotional support for their experience!

  • @candi4202
    @candi4202 3 года назад +3

    Good God, i feel so bad for these parents. This is a nightmare

  • @whitneyclayton7201
    @whitneyclayton7201 8 месяцев назад +3

    i have a hard time believing people like that can get better!

    • @moodmusicytc
      @moodmusicytc 8 месяцев назад

      Oh no, definitely not. He's mentally unwell - the untreatable kind

  • @acatesss
    @acatesss 2 года назад +3

    the mother is incredible. truly

  • @grillbesteck6319
    @grillbesteck6319 3 месяца назад

    I am just glad that Robbie told his parents about his feelings and that they took it seriously and did what was necessary! I don’t wanna imagine what would’ve happened if he hadn’t opened up to them.

  • @middleohnowherenj7426
    @middleohnowherenj7426 3 года назад +1

    Quick and rational reactions from the parents . They acted out quickly and tried to get him help so kudos to them

  • @maria_atalla
    @maria_atalla 3 года назад +1

    It is probably one of the very rare cases where parents are so mature and capable of knowing what to do. Still this is an incredibly difficult problem. One of the worst psychiatric problems someone could have. His mother is literally going through grief as she is grieving her child for not being there, for not being able to be there and for who he is versus who she thought he was. These parents are so courageous..

  • @cherrymetha3185
    @cherrymetha3185 3 года назад +6

    This little boy was brought up in a middle class home with good parents . I believe that it just shows that some people are born this way. No amount of therapy can ‘fix ‘ him and make him have empathy for others imo . It’s missing in him and always will be imo. Ted Buddy said he had empathy missing in him and he used to fake it.

    • @notorious.a.r.i.
      @notorious.a.r.i. 2 года назад

      actually she is his stepmom, in other videos about this she talks about how he was most likely abused in the past before she had him

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 2 года назад

      @@notorious.a.r.i. He was raised in a loving home and the step mother doesn’t know that for sure. She was presuming , looking for a logical explanation . There’s always a debate about ‘nature or nurture ‘ and even a mixture of the two.

  • @amberking1434
    @amberking1434 Год назад +3

    I thank God that this child told you these things. , do you know how many do not. Kudos to this boy for speaking up and saying Hey this is not right but this is what I feel help me. His Parents have a horrible bad situation but you are truly blessed that he told them before acting.

  • @Lisa.G412
    @Lisa.G412 3 года назад +5

    I need the whole episode!!!!! Now!

  • @kellymoses8566
    @kellymoses8566 Год назад +1

    It is very strange why he didn't keep his urges secret.

  • @rosemarielancieri7212
    @rosemarielancieri7212 3 года назад +6

    My heart breaks for these parents!

  • @auntemmyd1604
    @auntemmyd1604 Год назад +2

    I guarantee it’s the internet that really helped him discover all of this!

  • @AngelaSk-qh7ov
    @AngelaSk-qh7ov 9 месяцев назад +1

    How’s does a child even end up like that ?

  • @Jackhandless
    @Jackhandless 9 месяцев назад +1

    I feel sorry for them all. I hope this boy can get the healing he needs.

  • @blackiceberrys
    @blackiceberrys 3 года назад +1

    It’s crazy how honest he is

  • @skye-annecollwell-smith9358
    @skye-annecollwell-smith9358 3 года назад +4

    This is heart braking

  • @tatiannaayoub4229
    @tatiannaayoub4229 3 года назад +6

    Great parenting. Absolutely amazing. Most mothers never pay enough attention to their child to know things like this.. that’s why there are so many pedophiles out in the world! This is an amazing mother.

  • @psychshell4644
    @psychshell4644 3 года назад

    Its an awful position to be in. Your family splits in two. Mine has been shattered & will never be the same.

  • @ericawalker7695
    @ericawalker7695 3 года назад +2

    I feel SO bad...for those parents. These videos made me cry a little,cuz I feel so bad for them. 😢

  • @dinavienna
    @dinavienna 3 года назад +3

    Oh no … that s heartbreaking for the family

  • @Jojoburns26
    @Jojoburns26 7 месяцев назад +1

    Most kids his age are unmotivated and don't have clear goals in life. Not this kid. He knows what he wants and is very motivated to accomplish those goals.

  • @adamtifone9243
    @adamtifone9243 2 месяца назад

    This creep should be locked up for the rest of his life.

  • @Asheru1980
    @Asheru1980 2 года назад +4

    I wonder what she's actually smelling on that pillow...GAG

  • @betterbetty3542
    @betterbetty3542 3 года назад +4

    This is terrifying