What My Family Wanted To Do To Me Because Of My Gender

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
    @UnfilteredStoriesYT  Год назад +263

    Do you have an inspiring story to share? Contact us at unfilteredstories@jellysmack.com

    • @YummyGummy77
      @YummyGummy77 Год назад +20

      Did she mention how old she was when this horrific thing happened?? If she did I'm sorry to ask again

    • @adlozi
      @adlozi Год назад +16

      @@YummyGummy77 woman, don't be apologetic. You are free to ask anything as many times as you need.

    • @nancynahnigoh3550
      @nancynahnigoh3550 Год назад +11

      @@YummyGummy77 may be 9 years or more

    • @prasad9002
      @prasad9002 Год назад +21

      So sad. Us indian girls lived in sexist homes. But this is horrible. Thanks for sharing

    • @liljade53
      @liljade53 Год назад +9

      @@prasad9002 is this a Hindu thing? doesn't Hinduism speak /teach against this behavior?

  • @jasonbarney4278
    @jasonbarney4278 4 месяца назад +367

    You broke the legacy of terror. You loved your children. You didn’t pass on what was probably passed on for hundreds of years from parents to children. You broke the cycle. There is something in you that is divine and of another world. You are pure power and love !!!❤️

    • @JulieMontrose-cr4lj
      @JulieMontrose-cr4lj 2 месяца назад +13

      I absolutely agree!

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 Месяц назад +6

      Fabulous comment ❤

    • @an-alechianeathery770
      @an-alechianeathery770 Месяц назад +5

      She may have broken the cycle in her family. If more girl likes her, continue to fallow her after they been broken by year of abuse and overcome it's by stepping up. Then they broken cycle. It's sad that some races treat women like trash. They will have to answer to someone or something when their souls are released from their dead body.

    • @Sofie756
      @Sofie756 23 дня назад +1

      As a woman nyself, I"m so mad at what you have been through...My goodness...and to overcome all this abuse, you are truly a very strong and brave person. Big hugs to you for also sharing this story, that is so terrible. It is by sharing, that we can hope and pray that things can change.😢🤗💕

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 23 дня назад

      @@Sofie756 you might want to put this comment in the main comment as it is currently sitting as a reply to Jason

  • @bethoneybee
    @bethoneybee Год назад +1201

    How do they think they got their boys? From a GIRL. This is beyond twisted and sick. What a strong girl she was and a strong, inspirational woman she has become.

    • @thorneeva5321
      @thorneeva5321 Год назад +71

      Stupidity is often the breeding ground of evil

    • @T_r0525
      @T_r0525 Год назад

      Mom was intimidated by her daughter. While the father was probably a perv.

    • @jultolentino7515
      @jultolentino7515 Год назад +8

      Right strong woman,i appreciate fr. Telling her story to the free world where woman has right & freedom to live a normal life.alhamdulilla

    • @nicoleackerman205
      @nicoleackerman205 Год назад

      Like seriously how are you going to get the boys they desperately want if there are no woman to get pregnant with them.

    • @fefemyluv
      @fefemyluv Год назад +21

      My exact thoughts. Like, are y’all just going to be gay? But that can’t fly either.

  • @blacksquirrell1659
    @blacksquirrell1659 Год назад +2438

    I refuse to call it a "culture" where this amount of abuse is considered normal life. My heart crumbled listening to this.

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад +47

      ABUSE comes in all different religions. MY abuser was CATHOLIC!
      More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ?
      At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ?
      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
      Global Women Against War and Abuse!

    • @totesmegoatscrystal9688
      @totesmegoatscrystal9688 Год назад +162

      This is why I don't believe it's wrong to not accept all cultures. Not all cultures should be accepted because of acts such as this. I can't stand people who say we must accept all cultures and when they see certain documentaries of tribes, they say, "Well it's their culture, so it's okay, we should respect it" NO

    • @deltastones6702
      @deltastones6702 Год назад +18

      @@totesmegoatscrystal9688what culture is that exactly?

    • @deltastones6702
      @deltastones6702 Год назад

      Your generalising a pedophile and his dysfunctional family and calling it a “culture”.
      The culture she is claiming to be from feeds homeless and are one of the kindest people on earth - Sikhs and Panjabis - look us up.
      I don’t know how true this girls account is - but when she says her culture- she seems to be playing the victim to ignorant people and I start to doubt her story.
      She can say my family was bad, I had a dysfunctional home…when is sexual abuse a part of any cultures and that to incest and rape?
      Sikhs are known to be proper…taking care of others - clearly she was born into a household that said they were Sikhs.

    • @golalehkamran9529
      @golalehkamran9529 Год назад +14

      What was wrong with your mother? Who are these people?

  • @fabiwilliams4644
    @fabiwilliams4644 4 месяца назад +151

    You break my heart Nina. I was sexually abused & felt abandoned as a child, but nothing in my life compares to your suffering. You are & continue to be an inspiration

  • @karenfromva
    @karenfromva Год назад +3546

    How can men do this??? How can anyone hate their daughter??? This woman is amazing.

    • @isacastillo6042
      @isacastillo6042 Год назад +395

      It's not only men. Mothers perpetuate this...women really believe this is how it should be.

    • @Iamhome365
      @Iamhome365 Год назад +315

      Remember her mother was no better!

    • @bluetickbeagles116
      @bluetickbeagles116 Год назад

      Both men and women teach others that women are scum. It’s plastered everywhere in most religions. Women teach other women that they’re single purpose it to serve husbands, cook, clean, children and suck cocks. The 4 C’s. That’s all a woman is to societies. 😮

    • @solochica81
      @solochica81 Год назад +198

      Her mom was also beating her

    • @Clarice-rp7mh
      @Clarice-rp7mh Год назад

      @@solochica81 this is a bankrupt culture, men and women. The know the man determines the gender of a baby , but still blame the child and the female that carrie’s the child. In the Middle East a Muslim can divorce his wife for failure to provide sons.

  • @nevaklemenc1997
    @nevaklemenc1997 Год назад +1451

    One of most terrifying stories I have ever heard. I knew that there are "cultures" who did not want daughters, but their mothers were daughters once - how is it possible that they participate in such horrible treatments of their own children...

    • @karimawatford269
      @karimawatford269 Год назад +96

      Exactly, it's the dumbest shit I've ever heard! It's extremely tragic that so many women go thru this in these different cultures all around the world. Those men need a taste of their own medicine. How can u not love ur children? I will never understand.

    • @ToriLynnH
      @ToriLynnH Год назад +35

      Abuse dues horrible things to your psyche.

    • @salimd7842
      @salimd7842 Год назад +1

      Asian and African parents don't rape their daughters and don't treat them that way...This does not come from a culture, this comes from sick family... If we are talking about the number of fathers who rape their daughters, France and Europe are number one in this sh*t.

    • @feetpolice7135
      @feetpolice7135 Год назад +17

      Theres actually a bollywood movie of that premise. I want to say the name of it is Angel Child or sometging like that, but its about a mother protecting her infant daughter from her family

    • @kaska1123
      @kaska1123 Год назад +25

      Because she “rose to the top” and has established her place in a family. Some find more enjoyment into perpetuating a cycle than breaking it

  • @foxylilmimi
    @foxylilmimi Год назад +497

    The fact that she was deprived of the most basic love it's a wonder and a miracle to have turned out so well spoken. She deserves every bit of happiness she gets in this life

  • @melodypanek448
    @melodypanek448 4 месяца назад +87

    I want to cry for the little innocent sweet baby girl you used to be.

  • @varvaram.ashbaugh
    @varvaram.ashbaugh Год назад +5930

    This is one of the saddest and intense stories I've ever heard. How she overcame is absolutely incredible. What an amazing story and testimony. She is such a gift to humanity and so many women as she now helps so many. It's so inspiring. I'm so happy she somehow survived and is now able to tell her story.

    • @riaglo2472
      @riaglo2472 Год назад

      Your mother is a heartless witch. Omg

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +301

      This is Nina thank you so much for your kind words I feel that my story needed to be told for awareness purposes. I have received so many messages from women from all around the world saying that this is the story thanking me for speaking out would really like as for everyone to look at what they can do themselves to make the world a better place, looking out for signs that I have pointed out, and for those who have suffered, and I’ll still suffering from any kind of trauma to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel . Sending love.

    • @ginnycee13
      @ginnycee13 Год назад +152

      Nina, you are so incredible brave and strong. This family of monsters didn't deserve you. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world.

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Год назад +112

      @@londonslifecoach you are absolutely beautiful. 😍🌿 🙆🏻‍♀️
      I'm so sorry for your experiences, and I'm so glad you have survived, and become the incredible woman you are today. ❤️
      God bless you abundantly. 🥰

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +94

      @@GypsyGirl317 we are all beautiful in our own unique ways. Never let anybody tell you anything different.

  • @ibethalvarez2006
    @ibethalvarez2006 Год назад +1325

    Sometimes you think you’re struggling but when you hear a story like this, your struggling is nothing compared to this

    • @AotearoaAnge
      @AotearoaAnge Год назад +20

      100%

    • @veroniquecastel9582
      @veroniquecastel9582 Год назад +72

      Experiencing pain and suffering is not a competition 🙄

    • @eraldadevole
      @eraldadevole Год назад +103

      @@veroniquecastel9582 it is not, pain and suffering isn’t something to compare HOWEVER it is eye opening and helpful to many because it is human nature to sometimes focus too much on the negative and forget what you do have that others don’t even have that.

    • @Me-wy5yc
      @Me-wy5yc Год назад +28

      @@eraldadevole I totally agree. I felt the same way. Next time I’m feeling sorry for myself/circumstances I’ll remember this.

    • @ZEE.N-m5l
      @ZEE.N-m5l Год назад +19

      ​@Veronique Castel It's not about competition, rather perspective! We hear these stories about amazing survivors that didn't give up and our own dont seem as bad compared but they also inspire us to also keep going.

  • @yaniralopez1767
    @yaniralopez1767 Год назад +777

    Her father is pure evil and her mother is just as bad, sickening!

    • @katierojas8066
      @katierojas8066 7 месяцев назад +19

      Yes. That picture of her as a little girl, she was so precious!

    • @nnnnom
      @nnnnom 3 месяца назад +6

      her mom is bad but not as bad as her dad. ifshe was she wouldnt have let her shower. this is the third video im watching of hers. by far, this has the least detail.
      when she got raped for the first time, her mom let her use the shower. she is only allowed to use a bucket to bathe. nina said that she got to use a proper shower for the first time in her life anger that. she added she wished to have a bucket bath instead because the cuts and bruises that those revolting disgusting men gave her were burning.
      while her dad said she ruined his life when he was the one who impreganted her. if her mom was as bad as her dad, she wouldnt have let her use the shower. her mom did that thinking a shower would be bettter. she had some sort of empathy. also imagine what kind of abuse her mom would have gone through.
      i recommend watching the other video. it had 2 parts. it had a lot of details. she had to kind of rush in this on

    • @MaritzaAgosto-e1g
      @MaritzaAgosto-e1g 2 месяца назад +5

      WELL SAID . Just because she was born as girl ... those parents and in laws are even worse for mistreating the poor girl .

    • @mononoke813
      @mononoke813 2 месяца назад +13

      No. BOTH PARENTS are pure evil.

    • @Hollie-w1s
      @Hollie-w1s Месяц назад +2

      I don't understand why where you mistreated so badly by both mother and father. your mom was born a girl and she was not treated that way and married . Why only some girls get treated that way when born .

  • @MeowMeow-by8ub
    @MeowMeow-by8ub Год назад +152

    I wonder how many women she’s saved with her message? She is such a beautiful woman. There are angels living amongst us.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +18

      It’s Nina, we have had 12k messages asking for help and then a further 2 -3k in the last few weeks.
      My message is that any victim or survivor isn’t alone ❤

  • @kandismith3911
    @kandismith3911 Год назад +1806

    This is horrible. NO CHILD should have to go through this! Im disgusted. How she found strength to share is amazing!!

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +56

      Kandi, I am thankful for your comment and appreciate you watching this interview which was created with the intention that we all deserve to be treated with basic human rights and dignity

    • @syzygy4365
      @syzygy4365 Год назад

      Correct that, no PERSON should ever have to suffer like this.

    • @wendyworsley2131
      @wendyworsley2131 Год назад +12

      Your an amazing lady,and a wonderful mother,be proud of yourself xx

    • @user-mf9gi5yx3j
      @user-mf9gi5yx3j Год назад +5

      Omg I'm British & for you to gofru that in the UK but anywhere makes me feel sick to my core. I want to cuddled you & tell you how brave you are . This is horrible. ! God wtf is wrong with these people. 1 brave lady you are just fabulous & is end lots of love to you

    • @nickda1
      @nickda1 Год назад +6

      @@londonslifecoach Im so sorry you had to go through that and im so pleased you found a way out and your Children sound so lovely keep going your doing amazing

  • @pamelacraig2791
    @pamelacraig2791 Год назад +527

    Her father's actions & hate defies any reason. How did he get into this world? A woman, a mother gave him life! Heartbreaking to the max! This gal is amazing to come out on the other side with so much love!

    • @carrier7399
      @carrier7399 Год назад +25

      A DEMON!

    • @backintimealwyn5736
      @backintimealwyn5736 Год назад +13

      it's a very common situation out of western paradise. Look it up. It's the norm.

    • @sherryhays8470
      @sherryhays8470 Год назад +3

      @@backintimealwyn5736😢

    • @sherryhays8470
      @sherryhays8470 Год назад +3

      😢😮😢 3:04

    • @morgan_baldwin
      @morgan_baldwin Год назад +18

      He might get it from his fam culture too, i bet he and his parents were treating his sisters the same as he treated nina, that to be born become women is a curse, just listen when nina said her two brothers eventually beat her too and yelled "honor killing!".
      Nina's brothers will become just like her father too, its all circle chain until something/someone cut them off.

  • @anakatsukifangirl2944
    @anakatsukifangirl2944 Год назад +452

    I'll never understand how a 6yo who has only just gotten a good grasp on social and motor skills is expected to cook entire meals for a family of five. I'm so sorry for the way you were treated by your parents and brothers. My heart goes out to you ❤

    • @egwthe1
      @egwthe1 Год назад +17

      Many of us had to cook and clean at that age. My sister and I were 6 and 7 and we were cooking and cleaning. If we did not have the house.cleaned we would get beat up. Plus there were 4 more kids to look after.

    • @MattyNelson-rs3ik
      @MattyNelson-rs3ik Год назад +21

      Well ,,,think of slavery in America ,how young black children had to work the cotton fields at an early age,and do God alone knows what.

    • @salehakhatoon3338
      @salehakhatoon3338 Год назад

      ​@avelina roman which country??

    • @Cherilen83
      @Cherilen83 Год назад +13

      ​@Matty Nelson think about any other color people that have had this going on. NOT JUST ONE COLOR HAS BEEN ABUSED OR ENSLAVED OR RAPED

    • @evelyncrouch1273
      @evelyncrouch1273 Год назад

      Gender based violence to girls. How do they decide which ones to destroy. Wives, mothers, where do they get them. When do they get a education.

  • @marimar2525
    @marimar2525 Год назад +144

    May she be protected and covered. It’s disgusting how she’s still getting death threats.

    • @BridgetWalker-xu8sw
      @BridgetWalker-xu8sw 7 месяцев назад +2

      She needs protection from the god that allowed this to happen to her.

    • @01iceskater
      @01iceskater 2 месяца назад +9

      ​@@BridgetWalker-xu8sw first of all her parents are responsible for this, not God. We all have a free will to decide. God does not support any of this inhuman behavior.

  • @ReyReyzzz
    @ReyReyzzz Год назад +616

    The amount of pain this woman went through in her life is unbelievable 💔

    • @sandrabauer1037
      @sandrabauer1037 Год назад

      Not allowed friends keep to your self so everything he says you ave to believe. Men brain wash women.Even God being a man angers me. I won't be ruled by a man! My feelings are all men must pay for 1 man's abuse.Hell must be their destiny.

    • @sandrabauer1037
      @sandrabauer1037 Год назад +14

      I don't know how she survived except God must have had a mission in mind for her.Something good will come of this all. Wait for Carma in all directions big and small for all intended.

    • @AA-mg3xr
      @AA-mg3xr Год назад +2

      ​@@sandrabauer1037 yes definitely, she will get her justice

  • @beckyf2845
    @beckyf2845 Год назад +407

    I wouldn't even call them family to be honest. Shame on everyone who let you down. There's no "honour" in any of this. Your a true survivor ❤❤❤

  • @Worlds_to_Explore
    @Worlds_to_Explore Год назад +721

    This woman is the epitome of courage. Her resilience from her experiences has earned her a crown of glory.

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty Год назад

      And how u know it's true....she look fab ...

    • @ssmythe61
      @ssmythe61 Год назад +9

      You are the Honor in this world! You are The Love in this world. You are an Earth Angel. You are true inspiration and I am Thanking you for All of your courage and strength. You are what it means to be a human being and Woman!! I Love you!! This feeling I have just listening to your story is what love is. Keep doing everything you are doing. Women matter, girls matter, and children matter. Thank you!

    • @suzannegaglie6146
      @suzannegaglie6146 Год назад +3

      Everything she said

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад

      Then why doesn't she have the courage to name Islam, and instead blames men and patriarchy? This is ISLAM.

    • @deiov
      @deiov Год назад

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 You're a crazy, horrible men and the women who enabled it are to blame. Blaming religion those justify those terrible behaviors is typical behavior. She never even mentioned Islam, which showcases your ignorance.
      And In fact, Islam directly condemns the killing of baby girls (just as she talked)
      Whenever one of them is given the good news of a baby girl, his face grows gloomy, as he suppresses his rage.(Quran 16:58)
      He hides from the people because of the bad news he has received. Should he keep her in disgrace, or bury her ˹alive˺ in the ground? Evil indeed is their judgment! (Quran 16:59)
      Quran 81:8-9): “When the female (infant), buried alive, is questioned, for what crime she was killed?
      May Allah ﷻ (The One and Only God) punish these wrenched beings to the deepest depths of hell.

  • @hkvery3852
    @hkvery3852 2 месяца назад +16

    I am a Brit born Punjabi and this is the worst account of abuse in a Punjabi family I have ever known. God bless you.

  • @ruby4751
    @ruby4751 Год назад +878

    As a south asian woman myself, I also went through some similar things and am still fighting against my "father" who is my abuser. He's a monster
    Edit: Thank you all so much for the support, I am away from him, It's a much longer story but I am safe

    • @nancynahnigoh3550
      @nancynahnigoh3550 Год назад +19

      Abuser without sexual abused is better to say even you can feel the pain for being beaten or get scolded by harsh words yet sexual abused is the worst among actions that worst itself

    • @ruby4751
      @ruby4751 Год назад +29

      @@nancynahnigoh3550 I was sexually abused by him too

    • @kerriewithpurpose5722
      @kerriewithpurpose5722 Год назад +7

      Wait a minute...he is still abusing you sexually????

    • @narengee6564
      @narengee6564 Год назад +11

      Oh my goodness pls seek help from someone whom you can trust i hope you will get the freedom you deserve

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Год назад +6

      Find somebody to 'handle the problem. '😮

  • @halimasyambo5685
    @halimasyambo5685 Год назад +369

    How can a father do this to his own child? Now the child they desperately wanted to kill has thrived and she is doing well. Nina, keep that spirit burning, go, go girl👏👏

    • @euphoria156
      @euphoria156 Год назад +1

      🙁😠THIS WOMAN is a LIAR. SHAME on YOU. She says in most Asian n African countries are not allowed to this and that..... listen from here @45 this agenda AGAINST Indians and Africans could be a POLITICAL move against these countries as these countries are under LEASE (India NEVER got FREEDOM from BRITAIN, its under 100yrs of LEASE) of these TYRANT UK Royals. Because soon UK will rule India etc countries AGAIN after the least is over. and what to look good in front of them and world that its BETTER if Brits RULE them than India be on its on/Free. This woman's family was criminal and crazy who made her do all these things. Even when girls were considered lower than boys they were not kept inside home till age 6 etc. She is making all Indians look bad so that UK could look good that thank god UK culture saved her! Now many BOUGHT out ppl just like her will comment says its true , happened to me as well. Well, then YOUR parents are Criminals, they are NOT Normal and its NOT a Common thing to happen in India. Such parents are there in USA and other European countries also and they are called "child abusers" which could be a girl or a boy.

    • @GILLIANMOOR-ed9ii
      @GILLIANMOOR-ed9ii Год назад

      With out a woman there are no baby's.

    • @greenapple1039
      @greenapple1039 Год назад +13

      How can a mother do it to her own child she grew it?

    • @halimasyambo5685
      @halimasyambo5685 Год назад +3

      @@greenapple1039 my question precisely

    • @empressoftheuniverse1312
      @empressoftheuniverse1312 Год назад

      🎉Sat Nam Wahey Guru🙏🏻🧡🙏🏻🎉

  • @kimone99
    @kimone99 Год назад +841

    As horrifying as this story is, you’re helping us to understand that these atrocities are happening worldwide including the western world. Thank you for raising our awareness

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 Год назад +23

      For real. I'm so shocked and saddened hearing these stories...but not surprised, there are bad people in this world.

    • @Mrscarricom
      @Mrscarricom Год назад +57

      I'm glad you picked up on that. This behavior has men literally killing women daily. This is why women have a problem with men who want them to be submissive. A good man doesn't need you to submit a controlling man does.

    • @Memento_Mori_Morals
      @Memento_Mori_Morals Год назад +20

      I survived CSA since age 6 also and I grew up in the US in a mainly white upper middle class suburban area. Abuse happens everywhere, even behind white picket fences... and those perfect dads still punish girls like me for being abused/existing, too. I'm just thankful my dad never SA'd me, I dont think I would have survived to adulthood.

    • @BlindedNumen
      @BlindedNumen Год назад

      India is really a horrible place

    • @PinkSparklerToontown
      @PinkSparklerToontown Год назад

      It's only happening in the west because these animals move there

  • @susanparker4550
    @susanparker4550 3 месяца назад +24

    This is really hard to listen to, it hurts my heart, how on earth has this lady kept her sanity? God Bless her, please bring her Peace

  • @Ninsidhe
    @Ninsidhe Год назад +687

    These individuals NEED to be charged, even if it is an historical crime. Names, names, names will protect OTHER women.

    • @jasminedemir7962
      @jasminedemir7962 Год назад +44

      100% agree. Sometimes it can feel like you're just gossiping about what someone did to you and maybe you should just keep quiet. But the thing is that if they do it to you, they probably will do it to other people too. I wish someone warned me about some of the people I let in my life.

    • @celinebessem7684
      @celinebessem7684 Год назад +3

      So sad can't hold my tears

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +21

      It's Islam. I don't understand why so many of you people can't get this through your heads.
      So long as Islam exists in the world, women are in danger.
      It's Islam, not men, who are responsible for this.
      If you don't like her story, speak up against Islam.

    • @nickislade5533
      @nickislade5533 Год назад +30

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 where’s the islam ? Her family is Indian probably hindu.

    • @heatherlivingstone
      @heatherlivingstone Год назад

      ​@@nickislade5533 Lol, Sic Semper Tyrannis clearly just has another kind of hate going on and is not all that knowledgeable when it comes to cultures other than their own

  • @Texiewalker
    @Texiewalker Год назад +453

    "I was not born into love, but I was love itself" hit me like a mac truck. Nina's the definition of a survivor

    • @eeeeks
      @eeeeks Год назад +14

      I absolutely don’t know how she survived. What a strong woman. She truly is incredible 💪👏👏👏❤️

    • @jeannalalchan
      @jeannalalchan Год назад +1

      You too. may. have. an inspiring story or. ebook to. write.

    • @geraldinebrewington1739
      @geraldinebrewington1739 Год назад

      An amazing young woman. May God our creator uplift and sustain her ability in ministering to hearts who areneed to experience the amazing touch others who are in desperate need of a loving and merciful Savior.

  • @user-mo4wt9gk9y
    @user-mo4wt9gk9y Год назад +545

    As a mom it seems natural to protect your children- I can’t comprehend an entire culture of women not protecting their children from abuse( rape, arranged marriage, slaves,physical and emotional abuse.) This is one of the most horrific stories I’ve heard! The strength and determination of this woman is beyond amazing! Through her pain she has even found a way to help other girls! May she and her children continue to heal and live a life of happiness moving forward!

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +25

      Thank you for your kind words

    • @thedinnerparty4795
      @thedinnerparty4795 Год назад +17

      It is those very men who have been coming into our country without passports who do this sort of thing as it is accepted in their society.

    • @Rosierx1
      @Rosierx1 Год назад

      I do not understand this either. They all deserve to rot in hell

    • @binhmach9397
      @binhmach9397 Год назад +19

      Understand those females themselves probably go through the same thing that Nina has went through, so how can they know better?

    • @surgeryjenny9533
      @surgeryjenny9533 Год назад +32

      Isn't it crazy that her father hated her for being a girl, when it's the male that chooses the sex of the child.

  • @sunitapatel7740
    @sunitapatel7740 9 месяцев назад +14

    😭😭😭 I have never heard of such a level of abuse and torture. My heart went out to you.I was filled with rage. All I wanted to do is shower you with my love and just hug you.... you're absolutely brave and strong to share this most horrible terrifying abuse to the world. I thank you for that. It will be an absolute honor to meet you Miss Nina. ❤❤❤

  • @kk70x7
    @kk70x7 Год назад +963

    Her family should be prosecuted for their awful crimes. Didnt all this happen in London? How are her parents and brother(s) and the men who raped her as a child walking free??? And what about her "partner"? As much as I despise the men who abused her, its her mother who most sets my teeth on edge.

    • @Aleksamson
      @Aleksamson Год назад

      "How could this happen in London?" Well it's happening allover UK. Honour killings, child brides or grooming gangs raping underage girls on industrial scale...because multiculturalism. Social services, police, institutions, authorities,...the whole society is ignoring, pretending, looking the other way -out of fear. Diversity, inclusion, anti racism is paralyzing. People are dreading being labeled as racist.

    • @eddiewood7573
      @eddiewood7573 Год назад +103

      The mother and all those who harmed/abused this young woman are all the same, flooded in evil!!

    • @kasperorganics-organiccott6881
      @kasperorganics-organiccott6881 Год назад

      The mother was probably similarly raised and abused and so it may have seemed normal to her. She was probably full of self hatred and had shame and hatred of her own gender. It's a cycle that repeats itself until someone breaks out of it.

    • @marilynhemming3429
      @marilynhemming3429 Год назад +153

      Why are these so called parents and their “ friends” who did this to this poor girl allowed to remain living in England ?????

    • @courtneyhawkins4072
      @courtneyhawkins4072 Год назад +88

      They create their own communities so they’re protected by each other.

  • @teresapiper5664
    @teresapiper5664 Год назад +279

    What an incredible brave woman. When she said “ I looked down and saw a puddle of tears and thought I can dance or drown in that puddle” blew me away. I hope Nina has a fantastic life and other people in a similar situation hear her words and get help.

    • @MattyNelson-rs3ik
      @MattyNelson-rs3ik Год назад +13

      I pray that s h e got the deep therapy she needs for healing

  • @rachelroth3141
    @rachelroth3141 Год назад +282

    I will never get how there are so many people out there, doing awful things like that. My heart goes out to all of those who suffer under such abuse.

  • @stephaniemooers5492
    @stephaniemooers5492 Год назад +94

    This is the saddest thing ever omg. It’s disgusting how women are treated.. how we’ve always been treated throughout time. There would be no life without us!! We bring life into this world! We should be honored and respected not treated like an abomination. Breaks my heart what this woman (and many many MANY others) are treated discarded like trash!! DISGUSTING.

  • @hannah446
    @hannah446 Год назад +367

    She was born and raised in England and NOBODY noticed this kind of abuse??? really? i thought she was in India all the time?? what about the teachers, the neighbors anyone?
    So glad she told the world of her horrofic story! this woman is a warrior!! god bless her❤❤ to the disgusting people who did this to her- go and rot in hell, i hope they get what they deserve one day...

    • @Apryll.
      @Apryll. Год назад +29

      the teachers and the neighbors didnt care and its just as simple as that

    • @janetblanc7658
      @janetblanc7658 Год назад +26

      I don't think she got to go to school and probably never saw the neighbours. She was more or less confined to her room.

    • @LauraQ17
      @LauraQ17 11 месяцев назад +41

      Yes it does happen! I worked and lived in London for a family from Sri Lanka and the father was beating his three sons every day so badly and from about 10 people who worked there only two of us stood for those boys! Others did not seem to care at all. It is a long story - police and social workers were called. I had to leave that job but I am so happy we managed to help these little boys.

    • @janetblanc7658
      @janetblanc7658 11 месяцев назад +18

      @@LauraQ17 well done Laura. I don't understand people turning a blind eye to child abuse.

    • @marylooshiran4735
      @marylooshiran4735 10 месяцев назад +15

      I work with the children in France, teachers must report any négligence and abuse. There are psychologues at the schools and nurses.
      One night an immigrant child told me her parents killed her sisters before leaving the country. Then the pension and help of goverment gave many rights to the girls of thet family. Indian government must protect the girls and helping ladies.

  • @Cyberia398
    @Cyberia398 Год назад +920

    This story enrages me - I can’t believe how any human being could participate in or cover up such abuse. Much less can I understand that multiple families could be so morally degenerate.

    • @sweetvictory5643
      @sweetvictory5643 Год назад

      Such ugly monsters from India and other countries where girls have no value are given visas to democratic societies. And they become citizens of such societies. It should never have happened. I was told another story about a family from India who emigrated to Canada. The mother wanted her son to marry a daughter of a wealthy family in India, but he married a beautiful young girl from a poor family there. So, his nasty mother mistreated her horribly, every day telling her son bad things about the girl and her son grew to hate that poor girl too. Awful people...

    • @zahras1492
      @zahras1492 Год назад +55

      They denied her humanity and decided she was evil.
      Of course, whenever this happens, it's the people who think this way that loose their humanity and act evil.
      I stopped at the mention of rape.
      I feel sick, as if I was there and not doing anything.
      People must have known around that it wasn't alright. Why the heck they didn't stop it even before it started?!!!!

    • @amberlaplante6210
      @amberlaplante6210 Год назад +33

      Absolutely terrible!! ...how could her mom just let it happen...if they treated their daughter like that, why didn't they treat the mom like that!?

    • @katanasharp2866
      @katanasharp2866 Год назад +46

      ​@@amberlaplante6210 She was brainwashed I believe, she likely grew up the same way as her daughter.
      Some who grow up that way end up becoming abusive to protect themselves from the pain they endured while growing up, as some kind of coping mechanism.
      It is weird but the brain can get really fucked up by trauma. also if you grow up in a community where everyone is doing it, you will see it as norm....

    • @deniseganey6890
      @deniseganey6890 Год назад +49

      ​@@zahras1492It these cultures who hold onto barbaric traditions and are not help accountable. The Parents , Brothers, Male companions of the father should've been Prosecuted,put in Prison, and Deported. All property and Money Seized. Restitution made to the Girls harmed.

  • @BrianaCunningham
    @BrianaCunningham Год назад +433

    This is one of the hardest stories ive ever listened to. What an incredibly strong and kind person she is.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      Not strong enough to name Islam, though. She blames men when it was ISLAM.

    • @nawwaf__
      @nawwaf__ Год назад

      She is a liar baby don’t believe her . She said she was beaten to death and had to stay in the hospital for two months. She has had no problem living with a Nigerian guy and she know she has no money. so how the heck she was going to pay him .

    • @shmisarah1
      @shmisarah1 Год назад +4

      @@nawwaf__ you should here the story again. I think you did not listen very well.

    • @mitzoss
      @mitzoss Год назад +3

      @@nawwaf__ Paying with money after she would have gotten healthy again. She had already proved that she could earn money. Why would you consider paying with sex if you are a good and normal man??

    • @lulu_Lm
      @lulu_Lm Год назад

      @@nawwaf__ WTF is wrong with you? like actually? are you part of her horrendous family?

  • @Opinionakadatruth
    @Opinionakadatruth Год назад +20

    This woman is so beautiful and pure. Protect her at all costs. She is so resilient and strong. Keep speaking up and never give up. We love you Nina!

    • @susanneszucs6953
      @susanneszucs6953 17 дней назад +1

      Yes, we love you and your children. Never give up❤❤❤

  • @lorimenshew2033
    @lorimenshew2033 Год назад +336

    This woman is proof… that we as women are stronger than we think…
    “No one should go through any of the abuse this woman was subjected too”

    • @nancygibson604
      @nancygibson604 Год назад +6

      Terrifying

    • @haydenandrews3694
      @haydenandrews3694 Год назад +3

      Not really a good take away from the story we just heard. This is just the opposite of “ women are stronger than we think”. with the exception of Nina, and maybe one other most of the women in the story are quite disgusting. The men are also atrocious but they have never been a little girl and can’t relate to that position. These women can totally relate to what it was like to be a little girl, and their disgusting fear and selfishness is so large that it would actually allow them to stand by and watch the abuse of a minor to this level. Everyone within a 20 mile radius of the story should be in jail for life or worse.

    • @ITALJUTE
      @ITALJUTE Год назад

      Women are stronger than men. Let me say that again. Women are stronger than men. This is why many men feel the need to control women. It is their fear of the woman's power. Especially when women form a group, say like sisters who are united, or strong female friends standing together. That terrifies many if not most men. This is why controlling men seek to isolate women from other women.
      All men have over women is our physical power. That's really it. We're not more intelligent. We're not wiser. We're not more spiritual. We're just (generally) physically stronger.
      And, do you know what? My acknowledgment of that, as a man, actually makes me stronger as a human. But, I'm a human who understands that I would be nowhere without the strong woman who holds my family together.

    • @ITALJUTE
      @ITALJUTE Год назад +17

      @@haydenandrews3694 No, what you're doing is blaming the victim. You're not seeing the big picture, which is that all of those women had also grown up in the same severely misogynistic patriarchy.

    • @SantanaCampbell
      @SantanaCampbell Год назад +2

      No woman goes to Heaven WITHOUT being abused! The saints prove it!

  • @aboy6236
    @aboy6236 Год назад +170

    What a miracle, that she survived such a horrific childhood and grew into such an amazing, loving woman.

  • @judith8161
    @judith8161 Год назад +229

    Her parents do not deserve to be alive, and they certainly don't deserve such a powerful, strong, resilient woman to be their daughter. How someone who has been broken inside and out again and again can not only survive all the abuse but find the strenght to talk about it is beyond my understanding, but I am amazed by this beautiful woman.
    Nina, you're a true hero if ever I saw one. May the rest of your days be blessed with all the love you deserve.

    • @susanneszucs6953
      @susanneszucs6953 17 дней назад

      The same wishes from me to you, Nina❤❤❤

  • @IvonLopezArt
    @IvonLopezArt 17 дней назад +2

    I just cried listening to her story. It is inhuman for parents to treat their children that way. And in spite of everything that was done to her, she rose from the ashes and survived to help others. God bless you!

  • @lindaajide2115
    @lindaajide2115 Год назад +531

    What a sick family 😢 so sorry for the abuse you faced and thank you for telling your story.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +32

      Thank you Linda, I hope people will watch and see that they themselves can make a difference even just by being kind to another person

    • @sweetvictory5643
      @sweetvictory5643 Год назад

      @@londonslifecoach Nina, I feel like I would kill all those monsters who were cruel to you, including your mother. Sorry that you had all those monsters in your life...

    • @deanf7086
      @deanf7086 Год назад +2

      @@londonslifecoach Hello Nina! My mind is struggling to a actually comprehend the nightmare I just heard. How you have any sanity left is a miracle. I have profound feeling of helplessness that is unquenchable. I know I’m not alone in saying I love you and pray for you and yours joy and peace for all your days. May God bless you and your mission.

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад

      @@londonslifecoach btw. ABUSE comes in all different religions. MY abuser was CATHOLIC!
      More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ?
      At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ?
      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
      Global Women Against War and Abuse!

  • @Kuyetgaiya
    @Kuyetgaiya Год назад +481

    Dear Nina,
    I can't even comprehend how you went through so much horror. I'm a Nigerian and on behalf of Nigerians, I sincerely apologize for the way that monster treated you. I'm so sorry ma'am.

    • @gp2455
      @gp2455 Год назад +18

      You are a very kind human being ❤

    • @MetaKnight964
      @MetaKnight964 Год назад +5

      Kuyet Nina: First you don't speak for Nigerians, second being nigerian isn't a reason to apologize.

    • @Kuyetgaiya
      @Kuyetgaiya Год назад +12

      @@MetaKnight964 Ok. I've heard you. However I'm sure you'd realize the apology is for what she went through not because of the nationality.

    • @luciaconn6788
      @luciaconn6788 Год назад +3

      She seems this beautiful, strong woman then her story, that would've driven most women mad. The love in her heart is so special, may God protect and keep her always.

    • @Tigra59
      @Tigra59 Год назад +10

      I think it's lovely what you said.. of course it's not the fault of all Nigerians... but to think that one of your countrymen behaved in such a way is embarrassing. Some behaviour is cultural...especially men being aggressive to women just because of their gender.

  • @tash8308
    @tash8308 Год назад +334

    this is one of the saddest and most upsetting stories I have ever heard. her parents and in laws are monsters. they should be brought to justice

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +114

      I am taking steps to hold them accountant in the court of law

    • @margaretgarana911
      @margaretgarana911 Год назад +27

      @@londonslifecoach wonderful!!!

    • @Shalome_
      @Shalome_ Год назад +33

      So glad you are seeking justice! They should not be allowed free to hurt others. Thank you for your bravery ❤

    • @MethodiousMind
      @MethodiousMind Год назад

      ikr. can’t write this stuff. Truth is stranger than fiction. It’s just so crazy.

    • @Ohhheyy
      @Ohhheyy Год назад +4

      @@londonslifecoach
      I am sorry about what happened to you, I hope you heal to the best of your ability.
      And I am glad you are holding those horrible people accountable.

  • @joaniedee6145
    @joaniedee6145 17 дней назад +2

    I am so sickened by the abuse and evil this poor girl endured by her own parents!!! God bless her for overcoming this rotten way of life, and being healed enough to help others!!! I will pray for you to have peace and strength for the rest of your life!!!

  • @milliehicks7436
    @milliehicks7436 Год назад +418

    The amount of pure evil that this woman endured deeply saddens and angers me!!! She's an incredible, strong, and beautiful woman and I hope she continues to share her story and it helps other girls that are being abused seek help! 😢

    • @aabracadavra
      @aabracadavra Год назад

      ​@Yup Yup You're right. Accountability is something that has been escaping men for centuries. I've noticed that it's now trendy among immature, self proclaimed alpha males to invert the truth by yet again taking the focus away from their lack of accountability and accusing women of it instead.
      Which is hilarious.

    • @Me-wy5yc
      @Me-wy5yc Год назад +19

      It IS PURE EVIL. There are men who would never think nor would do this. They will get their reward. Sooner or later in some fashion.

    • @charleycleo
      @charleycleo Год назад

      I was so angry listening to her ordeal. I could not finish listening.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +3

      It's just average Islam.

    • @jadibdraws
      @jadibdraws Год назад

      ​@yupyup3878 if thats mens base nature than its evil. Thats not taking responsibility off of them. Cause ppl can control how they choose to act in any situation but to give into base wild violent animalistic nature when you have consciousness something animals do not have is actively choosing evil.

  • @justyeeeeeetit
    @justyeeeeeetit Год назад +514

    This is so beyond evil.. wow how could a culture do this to an innocent girl.. sending you love ❤️

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +32

      I receive the love you kindly shared. Thank you

    • @sladkydevotchka
      @sladkydevotchka Год назад +19

      I'd just say, don't lump an entire country with MULTIPLE cultures into one. Her story is valid and heartbreaking, but please don't apply it to the culture itself. That's racist and unfair. She's speaking her truth, but her experience is not the experience of every Indian female, and we need to remember that violence and evil of this kind is not limited to any one culture.

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 Год назад

      @@sladkydevotchkaYou are ignoring the point she made. It IS part of that culture to disregard girls as worthless- that's not racist, it's a fact. Obviously it doesn't mean that every one within that culture feels that way but yes, it is part of their culture and it's not racist to state facts. China does the same thing. They have murdered so many baby girls over several decades that this generation is in a crisis right now and doesn't even have enough women to marry the men available. Chinese men are literally marrying dead women( yes look it up) and shipping women in from surrounding countries so the Chinese men can get married. So please don't lump in facts with racism as though they are the same thing, just bc those facts are tied to a culture. Racism is when someone believes their race is above another race. No one is saying that here. Only facts were shared and if you think that's "racist" then you aren't making the connection and don't understand what's really being said here. What happened to this woman happened BECAUSE of her CULTURE and the way they view women; not because of racism.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +49

      @@sladkydevotchka many people think I am saying bad things about all Indians. What I am saying is that with in Indian communities and other communities that practice such cultural believes there is a stigma and shame of speaking out the girls are being treated badly just for the gender that they are born, so please note the purpose is awareness. Please note that you yourself can save a life if you take action having heard what I’ve been through. Thank you

    • @elizabethrose1766
      @elizabethrose1766 Год назад +19

      May I just say you are a beautiful woman and I’m so sorry you had to go through this… stay strong and know there are people out there that value you !

  • @dudie5403
    @dudie5403 Год назад +618

    I'm shocked listening to this story. It's so unbelievable that people can be so cruel. Esspecially your own parents and family. That no one even stepped in and helped you out when you where so young. They must have seen it and still did nothing. You are a strong woman.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +37

      Thank you for your kind words. The problem is that lots of people could have helped me along the line of my journey but didn’t step up or step forward to do so so by speaking out for awareness I hope to educate those working as teachers working in schools as Dinnerladies, so within the environment that they two can make a difference to a child’s life with the hope to save somebody from suffering in the way I did

    • @lorettaposey3327
      @lorettaposey3327 Год назад +16

      I'm so sorry that you were treated like this growing up, any family that treat's any young girl like this should be in my opinion shot. Listening to your story is breaking my heart.

    • @kaysmith5495
      @kaysmith5495 Год назад

      Unfortunately Indians have a long history of devaluing girls and women and abusing them. Indian culture is bad for women and in India, there are few laws to protect women and they’re not typically enforced. The U.S is much better now but it used to pretty bad for women here too. In general, the world is a dangerous place for girls.

    • @thesehandsart
      @thesehandsart Год назад +1

      There are far too many of us.

    • @anonymousone9699
      @anonymousone9699 Год назад +3

      @@thesehandsart are you okay?

  • @amandabritannica
    @amandabritannica 16 дней назад +2

    This is heartbreaking. Nina, and many others like her, is so strong in a way that most of us will never understand 💕

  • @user-ne7fi3nn8r
    @user-ne7fi3nn8r Год назад +561

    What I can’t understand is how a ‘father’ can sexually assault his own daughter and then let other men do the same and torture her as well. What sort of human being is this? I’m just so heartbroken listening to the story from this beautiful lady. Bless you, you are a very strong lady. ❤🙏🏻

    • @iloveschicken6527
      @iloveschicken6527 Год назад +53

      It happens all day everyday somewhere! Has for mega years! It's sick and sad!

    • @ustand2186
      @ustand2186 Год назад +54

      What about that pitiful mother....

    • @vuksgitau
      @vuksgitau Год назад

      He's a demon from hell an evil psychopath a piece of garbage this story infuriates me.

    • @normaesquillo5463
      @normaesquillo5463 Год назад

      He is not a human being but a devil in disguise. He must go to he'll with his advocates. They are a shame in the whole universe.

    • @shahidaakram9949
      @shahidaakram9949 Год назад +7

      A sick scyco one 🤬🤬

  • @loulouedmo
    @loulouedmo Год назад +346

    I can’t believe Nina survived these horrible monsters. I pray that her future is full of love, health, fortune, freedom and joy.

    • @paulineyoung1710
      @paulineyoung1710 Год назад +1

      Thanks God for you

    • @pilarq7886
      @pilarq7886 Год назад

      You mean demons

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад

      Believe it, it's Islam. And it happens every day everywhere Muslims are not held to account. Particularly in the UK. Look up Rotherham and how they've been turning kids into street vendor meat for over half a century and the police are too afraid to be called racist to do anything, despite the overwhelming proof. Literally covering it up. It's Islam.

  • @MEsqueda
    @MEsqueda Год назад +80

    "I was not born into Love ...I was Love itself" such a powerful story

  • @jillypants9135
    @jillypants9135 18 дней назад +2

    To get through such horrific abuse and break the cycle is so bloody empowering and brave. You are hope for all those other children born into such barbaric circumstances. You are incredible ❤

  • @tesagraham9324
    @tesagraham9324 Год назад +276

    I cant imagine how people are so cruel. How can people say women are "bad luck or cursed" when everyone is born from a FEMALE! Thank you so much for your story. You are a beautiful person. A true survivor. I was feeling down & decided to listen to your story. WoW! Omg! Still crying! I feel so much better! Keep telling your story! Thank you!

    • @shawnahall7246
      @shawnahall7246 Год назад +13

      I know it makes no sense, but they know the universe is divine feminine and they can’t deal with it

    • @dontworryaboutit4255
      @dontworryaboutit4255 Год назад +9

      It's because the devil. They have been scared into it for so long by the evil in the world. If they don't do it then it will be done to them, like she said. If everyone stopped doing it all at once then it wouldn't happen anymore but that's not gonna happen until the Lord comes back.

    • @SynthoidSounds
      @SynthoidSounds Год назад

      It's a function of idiotic, primitive "traditional" culture, immersed in pseudo-religion to escape any responsibility for such cruel behaviors, being an acceptable norm. This is the sort of predatory lunacy that many of the "developing" world immigrants bring with them into the civilized world they try to establish themselves in. And people wonder why there might be some push back against such immigration influx on a perpetually massive scale.
      She has managed to survive an unimaginable ordeal, and come out strong and thriving, infinite respect.

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Год назад +2

      ​@@shawnahall7246"divine feminine" 🤣🤣🤣 oh my god the insane cope

    • @triciakekana
      @triciakekana Год назад +2

      Dude talk about cruelty

  • @keetahbrough
    @keetahbrough Год назад +414

    i started SOBBING, when she got to the part of where her dog told her to leave. I've got a story like hers, I can't bring myself to tell it all. So this women's ability is staggering me. My heart goes out to her. xo I love you, sister. We're different cultures.. my story has to do with human trafficking and sex trafficking. I"m Indigenous from the territory of Canada.

    • @SetCCC
      @SetCCC Год назад +7

    • @gmltruth
      @gmltruth Год назад +18

      I pray for your safety and may God, in Heaven send Waring Angels with Flaming Swords to deliver out and bring you to safety. In Jesus Name...

    • @tobedownloaded6277
      @tobedownloaded6277 Год назад +12

      ​@@SetCCC Journal Keetah, it's so therapeutic and when you are ready to tell your story it will come forth from those pages ❤

    • @PAMELAPORTER-ci7mr
      @PAMELAPORTER-ci7mr Год назад +14

      I'm so very sorry for you both. I hope that those experiences are over and that you may heal.

    • @rb5325
      @rb5325 Год назад +2

      What an inspiration you are to go through all that and still be a force for good. 🙏

  • @beccalove8791
    @beccalove8791 Год назад +339

    I was really shocked by this story and I’m rarely shocked. I was abused at a young age. I was even raped as an infant by my father. I was kept in my crib for the first three years of my life because my mother didn’t want to deal with a child. It was easier to keep me in a room. I remember jumping in my crib a lot for fun because there was nothing else to do. I remember jumping so high and one day I accidentally jumped out onto the floor. I remember being more shocked that my family, hearing the thud, came in to see what happened than the fact that I fell on the floor. I didn’t know how to communicate with others because of the isolation. When I was fourty years old I learned how to talk freely by talking to strangers at the grocery store. God bless this lady, Nina, she has so much love in her heart and I hope her children appreciate her. There’s not enough love in this world

    • @meganlumley3719
      @meganlumley3719 Год назад +42

      My heart goes out to you. Your story is so painful. I hope that you will find love in your life and be able to love others in return. What a brave strong person you must be. God bless you.

    • @isabellrc
      @isabellrc Год назад +36

      You, too are a survivor. And, wherever you are right now, I 🙏🏻 that you’re finding a healing journey to overcome that trauma.

    • @miovicdina7706
      @miovicdina7706 Год назад +23

      You speak, i.e. write, really well. You're an amazing human being. ♥️

    • @lorimav
      @lorimav Год назад +5

      I don't want to downplay your trauma in anyway. I have 3 boys that I adopted as older children that suffered extreme neglect and it's not easy for them
      Nevertheless, I believe that someone must have interacted with you, perhaps a grandparent or sibling? I say that because for that level of extreme neglect your communication skills are excellent.

    • @adinabareiro9344
      @adinabareiro9344 Год назад +6

      I’m sorry you had to experience such evil! My heart hurts for you!

  • @janellejulianajoy
    @janellejulianajoy Год назад +16

    What on EARTH am I hearing, right now?!
    I don't understand this. Like, I just don't. There would be no men without women. And as a woman, your mother, mil, sil...no one could sympathize?! This is beyond horrible.
    Such a beautiful spirit.

  • @PriyankaShukla-r9k
    @PriyankaShukla-r9k Год назад +151

    "I WAS LOVE ITSELF", such beautiful words from this strong woman.

  • @lisalane3291
    @lisalane3291 Год назад +316

    I just cant get my head around how your own family, parents can treat their own children like this!...Blows my mind! Evil! Uncivilised!

    • @backintimealwyn5736
      @backintimealwyn5736 Год назад +3

      they can, very easyly actualy. you don't know how good you have it.

    • @lizs179
      @lizs179 Год назад +4

      Most part of the world IS uncivilised. Even within communities that consider themselves as such.

    • @faithahora
      @faithahora Год назад

      satan and his demons rule most of the world. USA was founded by Christians who know Jesus and how to deal with satan's kingdom of darkness to keep such evil away.

    • @TimBomTo
      @TimBomTo Год назад +6

      But in this culture, It’s the norm. In western It’s not!!! You go to jail for that!

  • @Komorebineeded
    @Komorebineeded Год назад +304

    I've heard her story on a different channel. This woman is the true definition of courage and kindness. So many people failed her. Her life story is just heartbreaking but also affirming because she beat them all by surviving and living her best life possible. You are an amazing person, Nina.

    • @Lara-EL
      @Lara-EL Год назад +12

      I wholeheartedly agree! What an amazing and inspiring woman! May God bless her and her children more! 🙏💗

    • @tenniskinsella7768
      @tenniskinsella7768 Год назад

      Hp some Asians are disgusting. Am I allowed to say that

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад

      More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ?
      At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ?
      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
      Global Women Against War and Abuse!

  • @Jesusmysavor
    @Jesusmysavor Год назад +15

    My heart is broken, cant understand how evil humans can be???? May God protect and bless your life🙏❤️

  • @cguzman4340
    @cguzman4340 Год назад +233

    This is horrific and it is imaginable that your own parents would do such a crime. Wow, evil is real. This is an amazing woman for having the courage to tell her story. God bless you lady.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +3

      It's just Islam.

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад +3

      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Ha NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.

    • @cguzman4340
      @cguzman4340 Год назад +1

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 It doesn’t make it right.

    • @allanmason3201
      @allanmason3201 Год назад +6

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 Not _just_ Islam. This story is about a particular version of Islam that exists amongst the uneducated, violent, lowest class of people from rural Punjab. Why such things are allowed to go on in Britain is beyond me.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      @@allanmason3201 Agreed. Take the 40 year history of Rotherham, for instance. The police have known for 4 decades that not only are children being R'd to unalive by these groups, but then being sold as kebab meat on the streets. Yet the 'authorities' do nothing.
      Anybody who takes Islam more seriously than Pastafarianism needs to be admitted into an asylum for the insane.

  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles Год назад +205

    She was a gorgeous little girl. I'd have been so proud of her being my daughter

    • @shesomadeline
      @shesomadeline Год назад +8

      What does gorgeous have to do with being proud to have her?! When will beauty of a child stop being the top value?!
      No matter what a child looks like, they are worth keeping & loving.

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 Год назад +16

      ​@@shesomadeline Every little girl deserves to know their beautiful. It's nothing wrong with giving a compliment you never know who may need to hear it.

    • @AA-mg3xr
      @AA-mg3xr Год назад

      ​​@@shesomadeline I get your point but I think she means she would have appreciated her and seen her beauty, unlike her ugly, demonic, trash family.

    • @jolan630
      @jolan630 Год назад +2

      They are monsters. They should be in prison. So sad!

  • @asusntbk7546
    @asusntbk7546 Год назад +219

    She has my highest praise as a human being.

  • @svalerie.001
    @svalerie.001 Год назад +47

    The mom’s friend quickly telling her to ask security for help at the airport gave me chills…it’s like she knew what was happening was wrong and wanted to help, but didn’t want to be victimized by those horrible people as well. Nina you’re an amazing and inspiring person, the horror you overcame is heartbreaking and saying that you’re incredibly strong is an understatement. Nothing but love and healing to you and your children ❤️ They’re so lucky to have a warrior as a mother

  • @miriambellas
    @miriambellas Год назад +177

    This Woman represents thousands of girls that are victims of unberable tortures... my heart is deeply sad, but cannot stop to be in deep admiration for her strenght and Love 😭💝

    • @meloise1696
      @meloise1696 Год назад +10

      I’d say hundreds of millions

    • @fawnieee
      @fawnieee Год назад

      ​@@meloise1696 billions if one is to consider history.

  • @jenniferlovesrats4456
    @jenniferlovesrats4456 Год назад +292

    I’m a 52 yo female who had a good upbringing. I’ve been married 35 years to the most loving loyal man. I’m so grateful for all I have ….all I want to do is hug and hold this woman. Her story is heartbreaking. No one, NO ONE deserves what she went through. The men in her life deserve horrible long lasting pain. Maybe they should go through all Nina did…every little thing. Nina, you matter. You are so strong, intelligent, and beautiful inside and out. If we ever meet, expect a big bear hug!

    • @deanf7086
      @deanf7086 Год назад +10

      They will for sure one day stand before Our Lord and be judged…………

    • @nahalymtl9445
      @nahalymtl9445 Год назад +7

      I just can't believe all this. Absolutely no disrespect meant. I've just been lucky enough to be myself surrounded by loving people. So, I just can't believe that people who birth you can be this mean to you, then in-laws this mean and then I can't believe that your partner will be this mean. What a world we are living in sharing neighbourhoods with victims abused daily and their perpetrators, pure heartless monsters. What makes them this evil. I have probably watched 90% of Law and order svu episodes and still can't believe the level of hate Nina has been subjected too. Then again human history is full of genocides and unspeakable crimes. The most beautiful thing is that despite all, Nina kept rising and is full of love.

    • @vgil1278
      @vgil1278 Год назад

      @@nahalymtl9445 When I see people like Nina's family, I know that satan is real, and he's alive!

    • @seaofflowers.
      @seaofflowers. Год назад +5

      This comment is so... Who listens to a tragic story being told by a victim & thinks to say "I had a good upbringing and I have an incredible husband. I want to hug you though."
      I can kind of see what you were trying to express but this is so, so tone deaf.

    • @nahalymtl9445
      @nahalymtl9445 Год назад +7

      @@seaofflowers. Tone deaf to you maybe. I hear empathy, despite a different life experience, and a message that life can be different, so I hear positivity and hope.

  • @gloriamcnutt9466
    @gloriamcnutt9466 Год назад +233

    Omg, how could anyone treat their child so horrifically… my prayers goes out to this young lady and any other children that endures such atrocities!🙏🏿

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +7

      Islam.
      It was commanded by Muhammad in the Hadith. It's Islam. Same god you probably prayed to.
      Yeah. You prayed to the god worshipped by the people who did this.
      And you do nothing to stop them, even now that you've seen and heard and know.
      It's Islam.

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад +2

      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.

    • @Ayattl
      @Ayattl Год назад +6

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351
      Meanwhile in Islam:
      The Prophet Muhammad صل الله على وسلم forbade the killing of daughters not to mention it is haram. If your going to lie tell people because research exists. Going around blaming Islam for everything is what let’s criminals like these men get away with things. Direct your energy to fighting injustice, not a religion that promotes justice

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      @@Ayattl And god forbade mixing your fabrics, didn't stop Christians. Hasn't stopped Muslims, either. Nice try, take your taqiyya elsewhere. I'm the seditionist your books warned you about; I am learned in the ways of Islam and I defy it's tyranny and slavery. I am the unbeliever you are ordered to (unalive) because I know your secrets and I will tell the world of them.

    • @allanmason3201
      @allanmason3201 Год назад +8

      @@Ayattl Yeah, yeah, yeah. Islam is a religion of peace and one where women are respected. We've all heard *that* line before. Meanwhile, stories just like this one continue to play out in the privacy of households of people who undoubtedly consider themselves very good Muslims, where the men all have permanent bruises and bumps on their foreheads to show how holy they are. If you want Islam to be considered a positive force, you should spend more time cleaning your own house and less accusing objective outsiders of lying.

  • @lesliewrigley444
    @lesliewrigley444 5 месяцев назад +6

    I’m so sorry that you had to endure abuse for so long, my heart aches for you. You are such an inspiration!! ❤️

  • @Treemonieee
    @Treemonieee Год назад +64

    I’m black and have several Indian friends and Arab friends who told me that they were raped by their fathers. I was a young teen when I learned of this from my friends. I was shocked and saddened hearing their stories.

  • @denisedspain7991
    @denisedspain7991 Год назад +457

    How evil can some people be? How can families treat their child this way or any other human being? Slaves, organ harvesting, sex trafficking and honor killings? How can people exist that keep this going? 😡

    • @sb416
      @sb416 Год назад +31

      Demons and the devil

    • @serenityssolace
      @serenityssolace Год назад

      With the approval of Joe Biden and the US government protecting child sex trafficking circles and also funding them

    • @sapnameena9178
      @sapnameena9178 Год назад +22

      This is India . As Indian mother to a girl . I know it still happening

    • @ashleyshim2078
      @ashleyshim2078 Год назад +4

      ​@@sapnameena9178Omg😮

    • @amishachaudhary6332
      @amishachaudhary6332 Год назад +5

      @@sapnameena9178 no need to say this is India !! She's not even indian she did not grew up here in india ,, her parents' aren't indian or to be precise they aren't Punjabi....it happens everywhere dont just generalise it saying that this is India !! Rather say those are devils who let her down ....and as far as i know devils don't own any nationality and culture , they're just there for bad ........

  • @nadinefroderman157
    @nadinefroderman157 Год назад +261

    I absolutely hate child abuse and my "parents", if you can call them that, treated me badly and blamed me for sexual things I'd never thought about doing. I ended up not shedding a single tear when they died. I suspect you felt the same. I am so sorry that you had to endure all of this, and I pray that you now have a much better life filled with love and kindness.

    • @charlieangel9705
      @charlieangel9705 Год назад +11

      No single tear, indeed.

    • @shea1219
      @shea1219 Год назад +4

      Not one tear.

    • @alphazunitee
      @alphazunitee Год назад +6

      Wishing you the best in life and to heal ❤

    • @lindsayboykin
      @lindsayboykin Год назад

      yeh I'm really sorry they blamed you or even thought to speak about sexual things with you in a way that wasn't kind

  • @greentree730
    @greentree730 3 месяца назад +5

    Your life story has touched many people Nina. If is a very difficult heart breaking situation you grew up in. You didnt deserve any of that abuse.

  • @MorningOnMars
    @MorningOnMars Год назад +291

    I was repeatedly sexually abused for years as a child and subject to physical and emotional abuse on account of being born disabled. I was often referred to as a 'mistake' or a 'lost cause'. Recovery from this kind of torture is a long, long road, and no one in my life as an adult knew my history until recently. We can never know what people have been through.

    • @imarigee6715
      @imarigee6715 Год назад +9

      God bless you Bo and heal your heart/soul wounds in the Name of Jesus. sO sad what happened to you.

    • @MorningOnMars
      @MorningOnMars Год назад +10

      @@imarigee6715 that's sweet, thank you. I've done a lot of work, and these days are much better.

    • @imarigee6715
      @imarigee6715 Год назад +10

      I will keep you in prayer.

    • @bibletriviaforchildren
      @bibletriviaforchildren Год назад +8

      I'm so sorry you had to go through that. May God continue to heal you of pain that might still be there. Just know that Jesus loves you so much ❤️ and I love you too. God bless

    • @bushrafarooqi6354
      @bushrafarooqi6354 Год назад +8

      Iam sorry and sad you went through all that. May Allah make ot easy for you. Stay strong girl...

  • @fayprivate7975
    @fayprivate7975 Год назад +140

    The brutality that this woman went through, even as a little girl, is incomprehensible. How she managed to survive shows me that the parents and other adults in her life failed to destroy her spirit and her ultimate self love, no matter how hard they tried. Women have suffered so much in creation! It is heartbreaking.

  • @dittohead7044
    @dittohead7044 Год назад +101

    So much for Britains diversity. This is something the government should be much more alert to and I’m sick that they failed you. This was horrific. You’re a very brave and compassionate woman. God Bless You Nina. You were a very beautiful little girl. I’d have been proud to be your mother❤

    • @MercurialRed9
      @MercurialRed9 Год назад

      One thing these tragic stories don’t need is “bad subculture within a foreign culture” means “all foreign cultures are bad” means “diversity is bad”.
      Female infanticide is not synonymous with “all foreign cultures” or “diversity”. That’s the kind of stereotyping used by those, usually on the far right with an agenda.

    • @StarsDeity
      @StarsDeity Год назад

      You can take the third-worlder out of the third world, but can't take the third world out of him.

    • @frequencyoftruth2303
      @frequencyoftruth2303 Год назад

      Their government was part of it...

    • @aaishaaa76
      @aaishaaa76 Год назад

      🥹

  • @taahiramcgee
    @taahiramcgee Год назад +97

    She's so young looking, born in 1970. She's like 50 years old. This is crazy. Her story is wild. All of these men were doing a lot.Her mom was doing terribly.

    • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
      @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 Год назад +9

      What? You’re kidding! I thought she was in her thirties!

    • @Marie-pb2zy
      @Marie-pb2zy Год назад +8

      She's using a filter. If you watch other videos you can see the wrinkles. She is still very beautiful -inside and out

    • @sheshasheen
      @sheshasheen 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Marie-pb2zystupid

  • @kamilakennedy2686
    @kamilakennedy2686 Год назад +150

    The cruel domination of women based on the horrifying cultural beliefs must stop. I’m so glad you survived to tell your story. I’m sending you lots of love and hugs. I’ve also experienced terrible assaults. It’s taken most of my life to recover. You impress me with your fortitude. You are beautiful.

    • @bmarchbanks7661
      @bmarchbanks7661 Год назад +12

      Right it must stop! Mayans used to do human sacrifice but others put a stop to that! Cultures can and should change. No more child abuse!! It’s so disgusting !

    • @lefantomer
      @lefantomer Год назад

      @@bmarchbanks7661 Including the cutting off of little barely teenage girls' breasts as part of trying to "trans" them into boys!!! Do NOT cooperate with or support the evil "trans" movement.

    • @nancygibson604
      @nancygibson604 Год назад +1

      You both are Beautiful Women,.God Bless you two angels and other women who s story is not. told

    • @agrameroldoctane_66
      @agrameroldoctane_66 Год назад

      But all cultures are equal. You are racists. 😂😂

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +3

      It's Islam.

  • @teresaduvall6269
    @teresaduvall6269 Год назад +136

    Amazing survival story. Literally from birth, neglect, abuse, unspeakable trauma by her own parents because she was born a girl. This is not just an ignorant custom, but an evil one. Gut-wrenching human condition. The story teller has Incomprehensible strength.

  • @vault7137
    @vault7137 Год назад +167

    I'm struggling for words right now. That's one of the most horrific stories I have ever heard. I don't understand how a culture can have such little regard for women. I don't understand how a father and mother can treat a child like that. I think the saddest part is that it never crossed her mind that she could leave, that this was how it was supposed to be. My goodness, what a strong, brave lady. I wish her every success and nothing but love and happiness in the future. Bless her and her children.

    • @shirleywatre5092
      @shirleywatre5092 Год назад

      They are worst than animals. They are pure evil ! Monsters ! 😡😡

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад

      More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ?
      At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ?
      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Take a long walk through a Walmart sometime and WATCH it happening continually?
      Sometimes I fear the families coming from five other countries to invade America; There is such a thing as having TOO MANY children for your budget, too, then refusing the birth control pill! MEN JUST KEEP ON INGNORING THE PROBLEM TOO?Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
      Global Women Against War and Abuse!

  • @joannajourneys
    @joannajourneys Год назад +47

    Simply amazing how some men can hear about this woman's abuse and then think that they are going to be the next one to abuse her, as is the case with the man who became her ''partner'' later one...

    • @candlerosemint
      @candlerosemint Год назад +15

      Narcissits and psychopaths can smell abuse victims from a mile away, similar to sharks swimming towards the scent of blood.

    • @joannajourneys
      @joannajourneys Год назад +3

      Yes. Very sad but true...@@candlerosemint

  • @ivieeghobamien9466
    @ivieeghobamien9466 Год назад +221

    I am a Nigerian, and am so sorry for what you went through in the hands of a fellow Nigerian, you deserved better, I pray for your healing, both emotional and physically.

    • @kaylahall1219
      @kaylahall1219 Год назад +2

      It’s not your fault

    • @aysedarbandi4602
      @aysedarbandi4602 Год назад

      It's not about being Nigerian. He was a monster not because of his race but because of his unforgivable behaviour.

    • @a.thomas501
      @a.thomas501 Год назад +12

      These horrific injustices upon ANY human is unconscionable. But upon a child the most innocent is beyond reasoning. What I don't understand is these same rabid dogs who masquerade as a semblance of alleged men, where in the hell do they think they came from. Surely someone gave birth to them. Didn't they marry a woman in order to procreate? Aren't the sons going to marry women and procreate? The mindset defies logic. The stupidity, ignorance, contempt and hatred of females defies logic. And the minute a woman sneezes the wrong way she's sacrificed as a honor killing. I can think of a million ignoble things to say but this needs to STOP! No God of any civilized culture would condone this. Lastly, to the Nigerian who kicked her down those stairs may the ANCESTOR SPIRITS rebuke you for as long as you live.And to her father who sold his is illegitimate daughter of 6 years old into sex TRAFFICKING may you rot in hell. INSHALLAH

    • @davejones4269
      @davejones4269 Год назад +6

      She is English From Indian heritage - she said Punjabi so possibly Sikh (the men traditionally wear turbans to identify themselves) hopefully she reported them to the police and they were all arrested and imprisonsed for attempted murder.

    • @AA-mg3xr
      @AA-mg3xr Год назад

      ​@@a.thomas501 in shaa Allah I will revel in their punishment before God

  • @pacificrules
    @pacificrules Год назад +134

    Im a guy and I'm really disgusted with her father and brothers, that I wish I was there to beat these Coward to a pulp. Nonetheless, this woman has become a lot stronger and more wise. I embrace her story and support her and Women's right. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💞💓💓💓💓💓💓

    • @dynogamergurl
      @dynogamergurl Год назад +5

      I’d be right there with you to help lend a hand,fist or foot 🤟🏼💖

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад +1

      @@dynogamergurl btw. ABUSE comes in all different religions. MY abuser was CATHOLIC!
      More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ?
      At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ?
      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
      Global Women Against War and Abuse!

  • @AMunee
    @AMunee Год назад +170

    This woman is proof that everyone has the strength deep within their soul to change their life. I hope she's doing well. Very inspiring.

  • @cafepr
    @cafepr Год назад +20

    You were such a beautiful innocent child. I'm so sorry that you were born into such evil ignorance & thank you for surviving and being so brave and coming out to tell us your story. God bless you 🙏🏻

  • @elizabethagard7930
    @elizabethagard7930 Год назад +225

    I am Indian from the Island, never had to go through such horrible experiences, Lord I got so angry at these evil practices that family allows to happen to their girls children is just unimaginable, I am in such hurt for you.
    But so very proud of all you have been able to accomplish and helping so many women.
    Gods continue blessing to you my dear🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty Год назад +1

      Which island never knew indians live on island

    • @florencechupa2028
      @florencechupa2028 Год назад

      ​@@Sthmohtwenty ❤❤❤❤❤ you are very sweet not to hold grudges to your family

    • @AtheneHolder
      @AtheneHolder Год назад

      @elizabeth agard are you Trini?

    • @elizabethagard7930
      @elizabethagard7930 Год назад +4

      Yes I am, I never had to go through such horrible experiences.
      Are you from Trinidad??
      Yes there a lots of Indian in all the West Indies.

    • @sandiimartin4831
      @sandiimartin4831 Год назад +2

      ​@Tahiti Baksh Yes, the islands in the Caribbean. E.g... Trinidad, Guyana, etc.

  • @alidabotes6264
    @alidabotes6264 Год назад +112

    I was horrified & repulsed but couldn't stop listening to you. What you endured is unthinkable. Thank you so much for helping others. You will be blessed.

    • @cisdale2
      @cisdale2 Год назад

      20:06 20:42 😅😮😮😅😮😅

  • @MB-qo7ru
    @MB-qo7ru Год назад +86

    Dear Nina, how you survived all that suffering, pain and trauma is a miracle. Now you are an inspiration and a shining example of the very best of humanity!

  • @jennybridge5089
    @jennybridge5089 Год назад +4

    She so beautiful wnt expect she wnt thru so much those a monsters need to be put away in prison forever heartbreaking disgusting

  • @jenniferglenn14
    @jenniferglenn14 Год назад +143

    This woman says she believes she had angels looking out for her, and now she herself is an angel for others. Amazing woman ❤ This is the type of role model girls should look up to nowadays. I wish her and her children nothing but love and blessings.

  • @rufiredup90
    @rufiredup90 Год назад +124

    I feel so sad for this woman. I literally burst into tears at her story. I hope she’ll always be safe and happy for the rest of her life!

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      I would have if she named Islam.
      instead she blamed all men.
      She refused to name Islam, when it was the fault of Islam.

    • @rufiredup90
      @rufiredup90 Год назад +1

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 No, it is not. You are very ignorant for saying that. I am Muslim from Malaysia and majority of people here are Muslim. My father is an excellent father. He is kind and selfless when it comes to his family. He is the type of father who never puts himself first. He would sleep on the floor if there weren’t enough beds, giving us his wife and children the beds, not buy any food or any clothes for himself but for his family, he would spend hundreds if not thousands. He took us to places, brought us on holidays with money out of his own pocket. He has never demanded anything back. He is a Muslim, a devout one who prays 5x a day and is always practicing.
      Islam does not teach the men to be cruel and hateful to their daughters. Islam teaches a father to love and nurture all his children. Islam teaches the men that women are equal and should be protected and loved and cherished. Come to Malaysia and see how peaceful Islam is. Come to Malaysia and you will see millions of Muslim men loving and kind to their daughters and wives. All of my family members, all the men who are fathers are excellent fathers. Do not equate Islam with whatever culture this woman’s family is from. That is culture not religion and it is a hateful, evil and repulsive culture that should die.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      @@rufiredup90 You know nothing.
      Let's see what Islam actually says, shall we?
      Surah 3:151: "We shall cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve (all non-Muslims) …"
      Surah 2:191: "And (unalive) them (non-Muslims) wherever you find them … (unalive) them. Such is the recompense of the disbelievers (non-Muslims)."
      Surah 9:5: "Then (unalive) the disbelievers (non-Muslims) wherever you find them, capture them and besiege them, and lie in wait for them in each and every ambush …"
      "you must bleed and draw blood for allah or you will not see paradise" "All those dwelling outside the house of Islam dwell in the house of war" yeah I think we get it here.
      Anybody with an independent thought must be unalived because "sedition."
      Terror and (unaliving others), from a religion whose name literally means "Submission." Yeah, I think everybody with a brain can see exactly what Islam is about, thanks. Maybe you should read your own holy books. I know what Muhammad commands in the Hadith for women, why don't you?

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад

      @@rufiredup90 I can't help but notice how I quoted you directly from the Quran and proved you wrong. Cat got your tongue?
      Surah 3:151, Surah 2:191, Surah 9:5.
      How about the Harb? Where you say everyone who is not Muslim must be forced into submission (slavery)?
      Do you have nothing to say? What is your excuse for the violence and terror demanded of Muslims in the Quran and the Hadith? Do you have nothing to say now that you've been proven wrong?

  • @elishadoyle8191
    @elishadoyle8191 Год назад +288

    I wasn't born in an Indian culture but this brings up all my childhood and adulthood traumas. Makes me realise how strong we are as women. I'm so sorry you went through what you went through

    • @hum_sanatani.01
      @hum_sanatani.01 Год назад +1

      Might be fake story

    • @claudinelopez5177
      @claudinelopez5177 Год назад +13

      @Yeh Mera India
      Then why would they have the photos? Don't say its fake when there's prove its real.

    • @karmyog2557
      @karmyog2557 Год назад

      What's indian culture has to do with it? And, by that logic, entire white race should be brutally treated for all the sexual nd physical nd mental violence u all did nd r still doing.

    • @grooves.x
      @grooves.x Год назад +8

      I can never understand getting rid of girls. Who would their sons marry? Females of other races who actually saw daughters as offspring like their sons?

    • @helgardforche3400
      @helgardforche3400 Год назад

      ​@@grooves.x Wer bringt denn die Kinder zur Welt? Diese Menschen müssten in einer Welt mit nur Männern leben - keine Frau, nirgends. Dann begreifen sie vllt ihre Fehler.

  • @BonnieRoberts-t9i
    @BonnieRoberts-t9i 2 месяца назад +2

    I lived through a milder version of what you did. I am safe now. I LOVE you and what you do. Give your little self a hug from someone who understands. So glad she's safe now. ❤

  • @grandmamma
    @grandmamma Год назад +91

    As a mother of seven precious daughters this story breaks my heart. God bless your work, Nina.

  • @jettj6088
    @jettj6088 Год назад +150

    I just listened to this and I'm astonished that she made it through. They say only the strong survive and in this case it is true. Her father and the other men are evil. The mother might have been in fear of her own life but being a mother means protecting your child. God Bless her and her family.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Год назад +8

      Thank you Jett, your blessings are received with gratitude

  • @AlexandraZe
    @AlexandraZe Год назад +133

    I can't even explain the amount of rage that this video has given me.

    • @heatheryearwood9199
      @heatheryearwood9199 Год назад +5

      Leaves me cold I'm unable to find sense in this women's torture ....it's really outright murderous torture behaviour like this warrants a sentence of death. It's the ultimate attempt to kill a human soul.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      Direct it towards Islam.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      @@heatheryearwood9199 Because there is no sense in Islam, only "submission." The fact she blamed men instead of Islam cost her all sympathy from me. She made enemies of all men instead of naming Islam.

    • @heatherlivingstone
      @heatherlivingstone Год назад

      ​@@sicsempertyrannis4351 You do realize that Indians are typically Hindu, do you not? Perhaps you should get your facts straight before you try to comment on people's videos.

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Ha NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical!MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.

  • @clarequinn4826
    @clarequinn4826 2 месяца назад +2

    You think ur having a bad day and u listen to this....horrific, absolutely horrific!! I was in tears listening to this. What a strong women u are! All my thoughts and prayers to u xxxx❤

  • @dragonwithagirltattoo598
    @dragonwithagirltattoo598 Год назад +87

    The parents should be rotting in a prison. This story is the saddest story. Omg. I’m so sorry for for all you were forced to endure. You are a beautiful, intelligent woman. I wish all things good for you in life. Sending you love and light ❤

    • @daniellewilliams7263
      @daniellewilliams7263 Год назад +4

      Lowkey want to find them myself

    • @leilanilea
      @leilanilea Год назад

      There ought to be controls for different cultures entering our country, it’s too open to anyone with any beliefs & norms, with zero controls or monitoring. The rest of the world is NOT like us with our ethics and principals. They should know and agree our ethics if they want to stay here. This cannot be allowed on our shores. We need to ensure this can never happen in our country. Food for thought.

    • @peggyschulz9288
      @peggyschulz9288 Год назад

      I was zzzz to get z and I was z to get get good place for a good

  • @mama-cant-dance
    @mama-cant-dance Год назад +135

    As bad as my childhood was being raised with a mom suffering with Schizophrenia it was nothing compared to what you went through. My mother loved us and always was protective of all of her children even when she made terrible life choices that hurt our family. God bless you and thank you for being so strong and telling your very difficult story.

    • @theresamayfield2721
      @theresamayfield2721 Год назад +5

      Same

    • @velmaford6580
      @velmaford6580 Год назад

      12:48 13:03 13:20

    • @AM-yt6oz
      @AM-yt6oz Год назад +2

      Such a lovely person to have been treated so badly. God bless you & keep you

    • @portiawilliams1127
      @portiawilliams1127 Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing ,you are helping people that are hurting , you are blessed and highly favored , you have a to be here .

  • @melraco4503
    @melraco4503 Год назад +143

    I’m sitting here in tears wondering how you found the strength to share something so deeply personal. You are amazing. I am sure you have helped more people than you know.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +3

      Maybe she could have found the strength to name Islam instead of blaming patriarchy and men.

    • @lyndafaye6748
      @lyndafaye6748 Год назад +2

      @@sicsempertyrannis4351 YOU DO make a good point, but others are suffering many of the same abuses, still?
      (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?")
      I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw?
      Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also?
      Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous?
      Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!"
      "Loving You All Day Long"
      by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian.
      LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад

      @@lyndafaye6748 Saudi Arabia is an Islamic country run by the Islamic caliphate.
      Many animals eat their young and worse things, but I agree Muslims are worse than any animal.
      Don't give advice to men, 2 reasons. 1, it's not a "men" problem which is what I called Nina out on. 2. 1st Timothy 2:12, if you're a good Christian you should obey your book.

    • @AldenCarbos
      @AldenCarbos Год назад +1

      I never Indian culture permitted these ungodly horrors in their families. What a shock and rude awakening.

    • @sicsempertyrannis4351
      @sicsempertyrannis4351 Год назад +1

      @@AldenCarbos Because as has been said 100 times here, it's WRONG for her to blame CULTURE because it's NOT CULTURE, it's RELIGION.