The Shocking Story Of Aziza Kibibi

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  • Опубликовано: 23 апр 2023
  • Welcome back to Unfiltered Stories. Today we share the story of Aziza Kibibi, who has a very shocking story. She's a survivor of CSA, and now here to tell her life story to inspire others and help shining a light to this serious situation.
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  • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
    @UnfilteredStoriesYT  Год назад +388

    Do you have an inspiring story to share? Contact us at unfilteredstories@jellysmack.com

    • @HelenahSian-hl5ue
      @HelenahSian-hl5ue Год назад +32

      Is this inspiring story?

    • @reemclaughlin4260
      @reemclaughlin4260 Год назад +10

      Right?

    • @juniorramrop374
      @juniorramrop374 Год назад +1

      My x relatives use to rape her, found out her family are snitches and are internationally connected child slavery rapist, I'm still dying and these folks so connected the children and American and international families are still dying

    • @818Dimples
      @818Dimples Год назад +9

      H D channel Evil Lives Here

    • @gogetter4622
      @gogetter4622 Год назад +3

      ​@@HelenahSian-hl5ue that me want know to kmt

  • @jayceecastelano6160
    @jayceecastelano6160 Год назад +12281

    Your Mom, Your Dad, and His Girlfriends and Everyone who Harmed you NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE AND BROUGHT TO JUSTICE.

    • @EmmaGodLovesTruth95
      @EmmaGodLovesTruth95 Год назад +134

      Yeah okay.. I get that ur upset to hear these types of stories but that's not always how it works, it's really really painful to sue ones family. Most survivors don't.. but since she has incest children with him yeah she probably should put him away.

    • @datpsychobytch
      @datpsychobytch Год назад +481

      Look up her iG her father is currently in jail doing time for this crime

    • @CH-px1fw
      @CH-px1fw Год назад +364

      @@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 I don’t think the comment was referring to a lawsuit. I believe it was in reference to every adult involved participating in child sexual abuse and incest which is illegal and so they all should go to prison.

    • @CH-px1fw
      @CH-px1fw Год назад +149

      @@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 and btw… it’s not her choice… you mentioned “she should probably put him away”… it is not up to her. It’s illegal. Period.

    • @EJ-xq6nd
      @EJ-xq6nd Год назад +307

      @@datpsychobytch yes her mom and the girlfriend should also be in jail

  • @human151
    @human151 Год назад +3287

    This is sick. I can’t believe her mom didn’t go to the police.
    People are evil.

    • @blobmonster9494
      @blobmonster9494 11 месяцев назад +147

      ​@@TonyaMarihogwash. That evil woman knew what he was doing to her.

    • @blobmonster9494
      @blobmonster9494 11 месяцев назад +49

      @@TonyaMari sorry girl. Worked in the court system for years. It is a crap shoot for sure, but this nonsense that it would always be ignored is wrong. I have seen horrible things happen to people and they got justice.

    • @blobmonster9494
      @blobmonster9494 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@TonyaMari prosecuting attorney and public defender.

    • @fightfear3979
      @fightfear3979 11 месяцев назад +18

      Love how you blame the mom when the dad was doing the horrible acts.

    • @blobmonster9494
      @blobmonster9494 11 месяцев назад +91

      @@fightfear3979 Mom was allowing it. Quit taking up for monsters just because she is a woman.

  • @emostar1122
    @emostar1122 3 месяца назад +1343

    I went to college with this woman, we took a screenwriting course together. She told her story to our class one day, and I was absolutely floored. Although we weren’t close, we were paired in group assignments and had casual conversation and I could not believe how jovial and lighthearted and sweet she was after living through years and years of horrific experiences. I randomly think about her all the time, I hope you’re doing well Aziza ❤

    • @AzizaKibibi
      @AzizaKibibi 3 месяца назад +64

    • @primrosendlovu1574
      @primrosendlovu1574 3 месяца назад +11

      ​@@AzizaKibibi❤

    • @cookie246_
      @cookie246_ 3 месяца назад +10

      ​@@AzizaKibibi❤❤

    • @pennyanderson6987
      @pennyanderson6987 2 месяца назад +10

      I commend you for having the courage that you have exhibited I am proud of you for sharing I pray Gods strenght and Blessings in all you do❤

    • @rosalynlake8460
      @rosalynlake8460 2 месяца назад +5

      I wonder did her father get jail time

  • @carolinareyes4903
    @carolinareyes4903 4 месяца назад +861

    I can never understand a mother not sacrificing herself for her child 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @ghostbansurvivor6229
      @ghostbansurvivor6229 2 месяца назад

      Pickmesha. They value men over children

    • @cal9112
      @cal9112 2 месяца назад

      ​@@lilacgreens-er6huno excuse, my own mother deliberately favored my you gest sister for years, shunning me, kicking me out of the house while being extremely sweet to the other siblings g who made her life living hell and also charged her 400 euros a month to to take care of her while l was doing g it for free, they are evil people, enjoying causing harm because its "fun"

    • @JannyCKD
      @JannyCKD 2 месяца назад +55

      because not all birth givers are mothers

    • @NancyCronk
      @NancyCronk 2 месяца назад +47

      Interesting how the father was a monster but the mother is getting all the criticism here.

    • @jfm14
      @jfm14 2 месяца назад +24

      ​@@NancyCronk I think it's because our expectations of mothers and women in general tend to be much higher than for fathers and men in general. People just assume any mother would risk her life for her child when that's simply not the case.

  • @carriebizz
    @carriebizz 11 месяцев назад +1180

    I wish RUclips stopped censoring certain words now. RAPE, PEDOPHILE, SEXUAL ABUSE Should NOT be cut out

    • @enieniz
      @enieniz 10 месяцев назад +71

      thank you! it s so stupid

    • @sigsin1
      @sigsin1 10 месяцев назад +40

      Thank you. This was BULLSHIT.

    • @thesciencehubskb
      @thesciencehubskb 10 месяцев назад +29

      Exactly. It is a word!

    • @mermaidmoney2794
      @mermaidmoney2794 10 месяцев назад +10

      Yea I don't get that

    • @user-wc5jc6ph8h
      @user-wc5jc6ph8h 10 месяцев назад +46

      THE WORD WOMAN IS NEXT.......youTube is WACK

  • @mariangelicaq1623
    @mariangelicaq1623 7 месяцев назад +1538

    This poor woman was raised by demons and knew them as mom and dad. 💔
    Speechless.

  • @jbcom2416
    @jbcom2416 3 месяца назад +392

    Cannot imagine how many more kids are going through such horrors right now

    • @Ch3lRae
      @Ch3lRae 2 месяца назад +23

      THAT to me is always the worst thought of all when you hear these stories. It’s amazing she not only survived and is using her story for good but how many kids end their life due to this trauma without anyone knowing? How many are still in these situations right now as we speak with no way out? It’s too heartbreaking to even think of.

    • @user-dq6kq4oi2r
      @user-dq6kq4oi2r 2 месяца назад +1

      This is why pedophiles thrive because they con their own women into protecting them that leads to them allowing their children to get abused and severely hurt .

    • @ashtonlewis7332
      @ashtonlewis7332 Месяц назад +1

      Right. I think about this every day. 😢😢

    • @ashtonlewis7332
      @ashtonlewis7332 Месяц назад +2

      Lord Our Children

    • @Zxzzxxzv
      @Zxzzxxzv Месяц назад +1

      About half, if not more. Not kidding.... this is unfortunately similar to my and my siblings story minus the pregnancy. And this happened to 5 whole other sections of my family. I have a huge family but that's a fucking lot of predators to navigate, and that's from home. I went to public school and also got sexually abused here too. It happens all the time, everywhere, to most of us. And I'm 26. It's DEFINITELY worse now because of the internet.

  • @CashThat4U
    @CashThat4U 5 месяцев назад +461

    The fact that she was home schooled, and had no real social skills, and still knew that something was off, speaks volume! She stopped her sister from further abuse from the very demon that occupied her “father’s” mindset, and made conscious efforts while at the hospital! He knew exactly what he was doing, or else he wouldn’t have used coercion and threats in the first place!

    • @forgetallyall810602
      @forgetallyall810602 Месяц назад +3

      Kids know a lot

    • @foolishlyfoolhardy6004
      @foolishlyfoolhardy6004 3 дня назад

      There wasn't a demon occupying her fathers mindset. Why are you trying to put a degree of seperation onto him like that?
      Was it her father, or a demon occupying his body?
      I'll answer.
      It was her father! it was him, he was in control of his own actions and his own mindset. No demons or other entity that he is allowed to blame. All him.

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage5403 10 месяцев назад +4314

    Every adult in this woman's life literally failed her. So many things to take from this. I'm proud of this woman because the strength it must've taken to tell this story.

    • @manestage5403
      @manestage5403 10 месяцев назад +32

      @@LilithsCosmicLounge Define normal.

    • @jaylataylor6856
      @jaylataylor6856 10 месяцев назад +17

      @@LilithsCosmicLounge??

    • @danisloombands
      @danisloombands 10 месяцев назад +6

      A hero ❤

    • @lashauncarter78
      @lashauncarter78 10 месяцев назад +83

      ​@lilithsmoon9863 for your information this is not normal for any woman to be molested by her Dad and bear his children this is incest and this is is a wicked act.

    • @evelynbrown600
      @evelynbrown600 10 месяцев назад +3

      Indeed

  • @MaddMelloo41
    @MaddMelloo41 11 месяцев назад +2757

    The fact her mother knew but was only upset because his girlfriend was apart of it is astonishing!

    • @jadibdraws
      @jadibdraws 11 месяцев назад +297

      The kinda shit that happens when a woman prizes a man any man above all else. Very common among older generations and there's a lot of push back going on today cause that is changing.

    • @acealohbey2213
      @acealohbey2213 11 месяцев назад +17

      @@jadibdrawsmajority of not all of the people who had this position in my life died back to back within the last 10 years.

    • @burnyizland
      @burnyizland 11 месяцев назад +128

      Happens more than you think. My mother was the same kind of garbage. When I told her at age 8 she said, "Well we're all going to have to make sacrifices for Mommy's new marriage."

    • @BF-xc2sk
      @BF-xc2sk 11 месяцев назад

      @@jadibdraws this has nothing to do with “ older generations “ you are insulting all older generations.
      This is pure evil and psychopathy.
      Not acceptable behaviour in any generation!
      The guy was psycho and he trapped women and children.
      Pure trafficking.

    • @shay7515
      @shay7515 10 месяцев назад +85

      ​@@burnyizlandomg!😢 sorry you went through that 🫂

  • @jbestderulo45
    @jbestderulo45 Месяц назад +70

    This woman is beyond strong, to be able to share such a traumatic experience..

  • @donnabest2101
    @donnabest2101 3 месяца назад +188

    I remember Aziza when she wS a little girl, my sister was Best friends with her aunt, her father was very strict she was about 4 or 5 years old at the time the furthest she could go was the side door, where they lived, I remember her mother was very afraid of her father, as a child I could tell the mother was abused because she was always jumpy when he came around and every one had to leave once he came, so sad this was going on in such a beautiful family he really isolated them, I'm just glad they made it out alive. Good luck to you and your family Aziza

    • @teresawanjiru3171
      @teresawanjiru3171 2 месяца назад +4

      Extremely narcissist father.

    • @joejoe107
      @joejoe107 Месяц назад +3

      Random chance didn’t save this woman and that family, it was God, it was almost as if God was saying we are going this direction now….
      The true test of love is giving the same love Jesus gave Judas to her dad… even God sent Jesus to die for that man doing this stuff, that’s the level of love All of Us should be at, I’m not saying no Justice, I’m saying temper Justice with Mercy and give that instead of harsh harsh harsh…. Who knows why that man turned out like that, but God can fix it if he is an open vessel

  • @Chinaglo24
    @Chinaglo24 Год назад +1130

    I would have absolutely HATED my mother for allowing this to happen to me and my siblings.

    • @CocoEmmet61
      @CocoEmmet61 Год назад +68

      No you wouldn't. Abused children will put up with the unimaginable in the hope of love from parents. Believe me I KNOW, took 50 years before I finally kicked their asses to the kerb!

    • @Ifeanyi-su7lu
      @Ifeanyi-su7lu Год назад +34

      Same here
      Her mum just sat there and allowed that to happen

    • @Chinaglo24
      @Chinaglo24 Год назад +27

      @@CocoEmmet61 Well I was never in a abused situation so you right but no one I mean no one will I ALLOW my parent or anyone else in that matter to treat me in that manner way it just inhuman.

    • @GodfreyTaiOyYong
      @GodfreyTaiOyYong Год назад +5

      @@Chinaglo24 Agree with you!!100%!!

    • @etoileshine1011
      @etoileshine1011 Год назад +21

      ​@@CocoEmmet61 Just because YOU did it doesn't mean others would people react to trauma differently you should know this.

  • @factsonfacts9337
    @factsonfacts9337 10 месяцев назад +1155

    Demonic !! That’s all I can say. What a beautiful & well spoken woman. She deserved a childhood, a real love story & a family from love…

    • @unknownperson5848
      @unknownperson5848 10 месяцев назад +37

      I have lost all faith in Humanity. THESE ARE MONSTERS NOT HUMANS.

    • @deew2312
      @deew2312 10 месяцев назад +31

      very demonic

    • @lareinelester685
      @lareinelester685 10 месяцев назад

      Many families went through this. I'm convinced many men are the demonic savage monsters of earth.

    • @amyqb117
      @amyqb117 7 месяцев назад +5

      Utterly demonic.

    • @p_nicole683
      @p_nicole683 Месяц назад

      Straight up demonic and the MOM WAS JUST AS TRIFLIN AS THE DAD !

  • @mrsanderson3547
    @mrsanderson3547 4 месяца назад +131

    OMG I just cried real tears 😭 I'm so happy to see she is focused on healing, and helping others.

  • @linnycupcakes7912
    @linnycupcakes7912 3 месяца назад +47

    This is a lot more common in the Caribbean cultures than you think.That’s why mom says put on more clothes when uncle comes around or is nervous to send their daughters over for sleepovers.

    • @SUNROSE7878
      @SUNROSE7878 18 дней назад +3

      So true. All of a sudden is just a ton of cousins, sisters, half sisters, half uncles- is disgusting

    • @E1LTSaves
      @E1LTSaves 6 дней назад

      In all households across this world. Her father is American. White children, Black children, Latino, etc... Men from all over are out of control.

  • @dazem8
    @dazem8 Год назад +962

    When she said her first child was a girl I immediately worried that he was going to continue his sickness with his grandchildren too. Thankfully she ended that insanity.

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +28

      I did too!

    • @tcatladymoney6124
      @tcatladymoney6124 Год назад +6

      me to

    • @eloisavillaminguan5523
      @eloisavillaminguan5523 Год назад +122

      Not a grand child..but his own child by his own child.sick sick man.

    • @ProfessorMM
      @ProfessorMM Год назад

      @@eloisavillaminguan5523not even a man. A sick monster

    • @AnnaYAH5315
      @AnnaYAH5315 Год назад +66

      It's a terrible knot this situation, they're his grandchildren and his children at the same time. I hope he's miserable for the rest of his days!

  • @laneys2030
    @laneys2030 10 месяцев назад +1833

    The fact the mom was not mad about what was happening is sickening, the pain this woman went through and can tell her story I cant even imagine, my heart goes out to her and her kids.

    • @karmencarmen1720
      @karmencarmen1720 10 месяцев назад

      Fuck weak people that watch others be tried into a ball of trauma.

    • @jaswantsingh9287
      @jaswantsingh9287 9 месяцев назад +46

      Mom was a zombie..

    • @jaedagray2566
      @jaedagray2566 9 месяцев назад +52

      She confronted him and he hit her with a belt it said but she still wrong

    • @santanapage5044
      @santanapage5044 9 месяцев назад +34

      She was probably so defeated and felt hopeless, just horrific

    • @jaswantsingh9287
      @jaswantsingh9287 7 месяцев назад

      Satan exists, Allah don't,if he's there he won't let it happen....

  • @karashera2252
    @karashera2252 4 месяца назад +53

    How can she be such a strong woman after all that happened to her? She has all my admiration for Who she has grown to be despite her past life. Her last words really touched me: You are not what happened to you.

  • @TradWifeyxo
    @TradWifeyxo 6 месяцев назад +89

    My parents sure werent perfect but im grateful no abuse like this or any sort occurrd in my home growing up. This is truly horrific and her father is and will always be a monster. I pray for her healing as a survivor of such abuse. ❤

    • @jackquelinejuat5657
      @jackquelinejuat5657 2 месяца назад +3

      Same, my dad might be harsh with his words but he never did this shet😢😢😢

  • @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo
    @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo Год назад +1945

    No kids should be violated and when it’s a parent that has to be even worse. I am happy she didn’t go crazy or become evil and bitter.

    • @StarLight-sl9ok
      @StarLight-sl9ok Год назад +102

      Her resilience is unbelievable, she’s so inspiring.

    • @noticiasfaisca2685
      @noticiasfaisca2685 Год назад

      @@StarLight-sl9ok that is called ...nastyness ahmed..not resilience
      1 child ok.if in africa it is NORMAL in your continent.but this woman was in the USA,if she so wilt,she could have reported this monster
      and common? he now is a delivering man? or his a fker himself?
      wtf..in the usa.and give birth like africa!
      hahahahahah does not make any sense!
      i see nothing heroic in this women's comment.i see compliance and nastyness..DIRT!
      where were the mom? why haven't she gone with mom and killed that monster?
      this is a monster!

    • @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo
      @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo Год назад +15

      @@StarLight-sl9ok I agree 🥰🥰🥰

    • @illmeeillmee9373
      @illmeeillmee9373 Год назад +32

      even though she has every reason to! al u can think of is thank God she aint bitter?? smh! anyone listening to this would be wanting to bludgeon these abusers to death

    • @rsc.1820
      @rsc.1820 Год назад +5

      @@illmeeillmee9373 thank who again?

  • @aliciaboucher748
    @aliciaboucher748 Год назад +2691

    This story is among one of the sickest I've heard, and I've heard quite a lot. I am so proud of her for not allowing herself to run into the ground. They would inevitably pay for what they did to those children.

    • @teresawester5770
      @teresawester5770 Год назад +42

      God, I couldn’t agree with you more. This story is horrifying!!! It’s truly unimaginable. My heart and prayers go out to this courageous young lady. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @captainmorguen3431
      @captainmorguen3431 Год назад +31

      Inevitably? I'm afraid not. To many of those sub-human child абusеrs escape punishment. It's only due to that woman's strength and courage that at least one of the perpetrators is in jail...
      But they all should be in jail! All adults that participated in this sickness!!! And there were at least three... maybe more...

    • @aliciaboucher748
      @aliciaboucher748 Год назад +10

      @@captainmorguen3431 I absolutely agree with you...every man and woman that participated should pay. I only have some reservation about her mom, because when she spoke out, she was beaten...and it would appear that her mental abuse from that man was a lot.

    • @Kimico57
      @Kimico57 Год назад +6

      You can barely form a proper sentence, much less understand the complicated sick world of an abuser...both sexual and physical. I'm sure, if you care to read up on the subject, you will be sorry you've left an ignorant, judgement filled rant.

    • @Kimico57
      @Kimico57 Год назад +1

      To Notified Faisca: (sp?)

  • @joselin2466
    @joselin2466 4 месяца назад +42

    I worked with abused children many years. You are SO strong and it is so important for children to have back up, someone to talk to and who believes in them. The earlier they get help the better. Thanks for turning your nightmare into power ❤

  • @jeffeena
    @jeffeena 2 месяца назад +10

    I thought my story was worst to tell , but urs, it’s unthinkable. U r a strong woman. Ur mother should protect u, but she didn’t know better either. 🙏

  • @princess_ama
    @princess_ama Год назад +412

    This whole story is sick. But when she said she was thinking of My Little Ponies while her father was abusing her, my heart just shattered.

  • @monicagulden1296
    @monicagulden1296 Год назад +2032

    Not sure why your mother didn’t get charge and a prison term. She knew what was going on and should have reported him.

    • @AmandaMitro
      @AmandaMitro Год назад +1

      She’s probably being treated for many various mental health issues. It is likely he groomed the mother.

    • @AmandaMitro
      @AmandaMitro Год назад +38

      That’s not to say she shouldn’t have a sentence. I’m wondering if she’s being held at all? (I’m also commenting while still watching so forgive me if it turns out she gets away Scott free!)

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 Год назад +93

      @@AmandaMitro was never mentioned that the gf and momma were held accountable! It happens a lot in the black community. Our children hold the momma to a lesser degree of accountability.

    • @jaj4706
      @jaj4706 Год назад +110

      The mother was also a victim. She was isolated and scared. This is not uncommon for abused women to be unable to leave the abuser. It is infuriating but she did try to tell her husband it was wrong only to get beaten with a belt which probably scared her more. She probably thought she could die by his hands and lose her children and they’d lose whatver little protection she had been able to give

    • @marieo6567
      @marieo6567 Год назад

      Yeah I rather die then let the abuse continue under my nose. Disgusting from the mum

  • @fefemyluv
    @fefemyluv 6 месяцев назад +47

    She is a beautiful woman. I pray for her and her family’s healing. ❤

  • @sybilblake-zd8gl
    @sybilblake-zd8gl 2 месяца назад +17

    Girl, thank you. You helped me to understand that I was not the bad person in all this mess. I thought you could smile now, so I could smile too. I was too ashamed to even talk about it. Thank you again for opening my eyes and making me understand what was happening to me. I still carries that hate.

    • @ayseguldemirkan9083
      @ayseguldemirkan9083 13 дней назад

      Please stay strong! It's very normal to carry hate against such monsters. You are good and loved. Very sorry for you :(

    • @hudagillani8014
      @hudagillani8014 7 дней назад

      May Allah bless n protect you

  • @jannifersophiajackson1815
    @jannifersophiajackson1815 Год назад +1708

    What a demon your dad was. I’m proud of your accomplishments!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

    • @Invisibleman305
      @Invisibleman305 Год назад +35

      He is/was evil

    • @girlinterrupted243
      @girlinterrupted243 11 месяцев назад +2

      @Jannifer Sophia Jackson Far from a Demon, just another Human with a clear conscience

    • @dinozaurpickupline4221
      @dinozaurpickupline4221 11 месяцев назад

      He had his sperm re impregnated

    • @elizabethsikabongo495
      @elizabethsikabongo495 10 месяцев назад +3

      Why took so long to come out. Even having children.. I don't blame you but. Did you make effort to save guard you own kids. Bcz what he did you he is doing it to yours😮

    • @marlak4203
      @marlak4203 10 месяцев назад +1

      he must have gotten involved with some to up and go polygamous and then start messing with his child. Something has seriously gone haywire in that family.

  • @DouglasvanderMooren
    @DouglasvanderMooren 10 месяцев назад +912

    I admire your strength, I was sexually abused as a teenager by three different paedophiles and one gave me HIV when I was 16To speak out is so challenging and I am blown away with your strength and courage. I wish you and your children all the best for the future. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!

    • @angeladukes6321
      @angeladukes6321 10 месяцев назад +99

      May God continue to bless you Douglas, and give you the strength to move on!

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p 10 месяцев назад +48

      In Sorry 😔 this happened to you, but God can and WILL bless you to heal and be able to forgive those who hurt you and God will give you peace and joy to live a happy successful life. God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @toya3079
      @toya3079 10 месяцев назад +18

      😢

    • @allthingsadella
      @allthingsadella 10 месяцев назад +40

      Douglas, sorry to hear about your past. I thank God you’re here and made it this far. You’re proof that your light was far too bright to be diminished in what can be a dark and evil world. Take care and God bless you and all you love too x

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p 10 месяцев назад +18

      @@allthingsadella im So sorry 😔 that you had to go through such a horrible , but I know that God has blessed you to be able to come through this. God has a plan for you...to give you a wonderful life and all the good things you deserve. He can heal ANY pains from the past and give you a beautiful, healthy new start. You are beautifully and wonderfully made, and trust in God to heal , and restore your health and your heart. He will NEVER betray you or leave you and he will provide ALL you need... May God in heaven bless you 🙏🏾 and keep you safe and happy and healthy. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

  • @HalluCinogen91
    @HalluCinogen91 6 месяцев назад +9

    What a woman! I’m rooting for you, girl!

  • @dejarogers2576
    @dejarogers2576 5 месяцев назад +18

    Go girl!! We are all sooo proud of you!!!

  • @Charlotte66666
    @Charlotte66666 Год назад +1633

    Sickening that the "Father" used religion as a way to justify his abuse.

    • @beastvader
      @beastvader Год назад +197

      He used skin condition as an excuse too. Clearly the man (or should I say animal) has no fear of God

    • @ashfire4378
      @ashfire4378 Год назад +102

      Most ppl do

    • @DMRJ53
      @DMRJ53 Год назад +65

      The whole thinking is so dysfunctional & sad

    • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965
      @dorisschneider-coutandin9965 Год назад +72

      It's a frequent excuse, sadly.

    • @mary-ue3mr
      @mary-ue3mr Год назад +85

      That man obviously didn't really read Deuteronomy in the bible.
      You don't sleep with your wife's child he should've been stoned according to the bible.

  • @OMGItsShea
    @OMGItsShea Год назад +1132

    Her father is sick and needs to be under the prison. But I'm soooo proud of her for escaping and not letting what her father did stop her from living her life and achieving her goals. She is truly an inspiration ❤❤❤

    • @tracymaragh483
      @tracymaragh483 Год назад

      I think they cut his dck off

    • @jupiterscorner5423
      @jupiterscorner5423 Год назад +61

      He is already in prison...I think he got over 90 years in prison

    • @jubimathew3169
      @jubimathew3169 Год назад

      @@jupiterscorner5423 he needs to be tortured in the worst possible way

    • @waontigo1234
      @waontigo1234 Год назад +4

      Has America escaped LGBTQ+ shame on you

    • @HaniZucker
      @HaniZucker Год назад +19

      Sad, damaged and so preventable. Too many excuses for this to have gone on for so long.

  • @girumzemichael704
    @girumzemichael704 6 месяцев назад +32

    I will never forget listening to this lady tell her life story on another (her own?) channel about a year ago… our inner strength is as astounding as how twisted our minds can get.. both facts constantly blow my mind whenever I hear of sub-animal behaviors and the fact that many who’ve been through such atrocities survive and some even thrive post freedom. It’s incredible!

  • @victoriarojas7199
    @victoriarojas7199 6 месяцев назад +12

    This is one of many amazing stories I've heard. Aziza, I commend you for your transparency and bravery. You are an amazing woman!

  • @EA-xp7hm
    @EA-xp7hm 10 месяцев назад +1822

    I wonder how her kids feel knowing they are a product of incest and abuse. I can’t even imagine how they come to terms with that. So heartbreaking. This woman is inspiring and her surviving all this is just amazing. I am in awe.

    • @Jenniferbluefire
      @Jenniferbluefire 10 месяцев назад +77

      You're right, how will her children feel knowing this truth? I've heard and seen siblings incest having children who turned out to be low IQs and are mentally handicapped but I've never heard of conditions in children, birth from incest of father and daughter.

    • @DaisyAppleJuice
      @DaisyAppleJuice 10 месяцев назад +69

      @@Jenniferbluefirebecause father daughter incest isn’t something that people talk about but happens every day all over the world and those kids (father,daughter incest) are usually born blind and sometimes nonverbal.

    • @Charlie-502
      @Charlie-502 10 месяцев назад +9

      Probably with a lot of drug addiction

    • @Artliker1234
      @Artliker1234 10 месяцев назад +17

      I hope they never find out.

    • @queendeedee2813
      @queendeedee2813 9 месяцев назад +13

      They feel like their family ain't shit and wish they could get their hands on them. Speaking from experience

  • @garyallen1473
    @garyallen1473 Год назад +739

    When I hear stories like this I get so angry and depressed at the same time. He had a wife and several girlfriends, why did he have to also violate his daughters.

    • @giftofYah7
      @giftofYah7 Год назад +165

      I believe when we deviate from the template set by our creator it leaves room for deviance and immorality. The wicked mind just finds more and more ways to be wicked. It will never be enough.

    • @lizzieoluwaseyi5869
      @lizzieoluwaseyi5869 Год назад +102

      @@giftofYah7 very correct! You stay away from God, the devil teaches you more ways to become evil

    • @sharlawilliamson9609
      @sharlawilliamson9609 Год назад

      Rape is not about sex, it's about power. So he sees all females as objects for him to control, use and abuse as he pleases. There is no place in the world for monsters like this "man"

    • @lem1738
      @lem1738 Год назад +3

      @@lizzieoluwaseyi5869you’re gay

    • @Bringmeariii
      @Bringmeariii Год назад +56

      @@lizzieoluwaseyi5869 You do realise that majority of people that sexually abuse children are religious. Which is why it’s sick.

  • @Brett.Crealy-kh1sk
    @Brett.Crealy-kh1sk 2 месяца назад +5

    You are the hero of your own story! My total respect! You are a champion! 🏆🥇👍

  • @cubanuba
    @cubanuba 4 месяца назад +4

    You are a beautiful and strong woman. God bless you for all your work. Thank you for being so candid❤

  • @Burnerbaby
    @Burnerbaby Год назад +462

    This made me ill. This is the stuff of nightmares. She was so young when this all started, a baby, and then to go on to have 4 CHILDREN with her own rapist of a father. She is so strong to still be standing, to be functional, to be willing to share these gut wrenching experiences with others… I hope she has an amazing, beautiful life now.
    ETA just made it to the end. 2 degrees and graduated magna cum laude?? What an amazing human being!

    • @dalia8518
      @dalia8518 Год назад +16

      I’m so amazed by her wow

    • @deejayp9668
      @deejayp9668 Год назад

      A man would RAPE the hole in Jesus' halo.

  • @recklessstaghomestead
    @recklessstaghomestead 11 месяцев назад +295

    These crimes should be a death sentence! The amount of hate and sadism it takes to do this to a child, is not something you can repair.

    • @aojuri01
      @aojuri01 10 месяцев назад +12

      That's true. It should be life in prison for all paedophiles

    • @recklessstaghomestead
      @recklessstaghomestead 10 месяцев назад +11

      @@aojuri01 gen pop without police protection. Let them reap what they sow.

    • @regalynwilliams536
      @regalynwilliams536 10 месяцев назад

      I'm sitting here appalled at the behavior of this dysfunctional so called family. He should be put to death. All these messed up children. Good thing the brother showed up to help her. Damn shame! Your baby having a dad and a grandson. BS! I'm not leaving the so called MOM, who did nothing to stop the bastard!! SICK, SICK and SICKER!!! Congratulations to you. Everyone has a story ❤❤

    • @sonja0707
      @sonja0707 10 месяцев назад +4

      This IS SATANIC ACTIVITIES

    • @CathyLTate
      @CathyLTate 10 месяцев назад

      @@aojuri01At Taxpayers Expense?

  • @trendyasmr105
    @trendyasmr105 6 месяцев назад +8

    I applaud her and even tuned into her RUclips channel. She is very outspoken, strong, and genuine for someone who went through a lot of trauma.

  • @KennyG_757
    @KennyG_757 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m proud of you! Don’t know how I found this video but it started playing out of nowhere. Best revenge is healing and living a successful life

  • @virgolove5119
    @virgolove5119 10 месяцев назад +876

    How she could tell her story without falling apart, my god. How absolutely disgusting her father was, what a sick monster!!! Her whole family failed her completely. What a strong woman that did not deserve any of this.

    • @lenejaia
      @lenejaia 10 месяцев назад +34

      That’s not “her” story…..that story was given to her….I’m glad she detached from what happened to her, because it was not her fault

    • @goldsteinist
      @goldsteinist 10 месяцев назад +16

      @@lenejaiaso well written. It was never her bag. So she left it behind. God bless her. She deserves nothing but happiness for the rest of her life. 🙏

    • @Josiecat80
      @Josiecat80 10 месяцев назад +1

      I was wondering that as well.. she’s so calm no tears 😢

    • @madeinblue7237
      @madeinblue7237 10 месяцев назад +2

      I don't know, I think a lot of victims kind of learn to accept it and feel like it's not 'that much of a big deal'. Like of course we feel hurt, confused and betrayed but at the same time we kind of just accept it. Maybe it's because no one around us reacted in an angry, protective, 'this is horrific and I'm gonna save you' way so we don't know how to feel those emotions for ourselves. We know it's wrong but don't register how wrong it really is because no one around us did.

    • @Athena6990
      @Athena6990 10 месяцев назад +7

      Because shes had years to process

  • @lal0723
    @lal0723 Год назад +796

    I'm balling my eyes out listening to her story meanwhile she is so calm, poised, articulate. I don't know if there is enough therapy in the world for me to have reached the state she's reached in just 10 years. I wish I could give her a hug. What an amazing woman.

    • @Aelffwynn
      @Aelffwynn 11 месяцев назад +60

      She probably dissociates somewhat when she's recalling these events. It is very common and doesn't necessarily mean that she's reached a state of peace with it. I agree she is an amazing woman though, and she deserves nothing but peace and love for her whole life.

    • @suzanpaul1881
      @suzanpaul1881 11 месяцев назад +12

      I can still see some pain there.her healing will come with time
      I think her helping others like her will give her a sense of peace
      God bless u my sister
      Let's be vigilent parents.

    • @carolchritopher
      @carolchritopher 11 месяцев назад +4

      Wish I could give you a hug GGG u Strong

    • @dorothycerio9525
      @dorothycerio9525 11 месяцев назад +26

      I too had a sexually abusive dad from as far back as l can remember, from the age of three when he used to change my panties when I had an accident. It continued until the age of 16 when I had a nervous breakdown and told him I hated him and not to touch me ever again. He punched me in my face and knocked me out. When I came to he had me in his arms crying and I freaked out jumped away from him screaming don’t touch me, don’t touch me!! He had taken me out of school in the 10th grade so after that incident he padlocked my bedroom door and nailed down my windows.My mom was aware of this and gave me a large coffee can to do my business in. It stayed that way till I was 18 years old. One evening while he was working he forgot to lock me up and my oldest brothers friend came over to show us his new car and he also had a crush on me and had asked my dad if he could take me out because he used to come over for dinner. But my dad kept saying no,we don’t know you that well. This one time when he came to show us his new car,he asked me if I would like to take a ride in it and I accepted. We were gone probably for an hour as we went down to the beach. When I got home my dad was waiting with a sawed off shotgun and tried to pull me out of the car, but my friend who was into Marshall arts managed to take the gun from him and told me to run. I was so terrified because my father used to beat me like he was fighting a man. I only weighed about 85 lbs. once when he beat me you couldn’t even recognize me because my face was so mangled and bruised. My lip was cut up, my eyes were so puffed up, I barely could see, only out of one eye that was also just enough to squint out of. I looked like I came out of a horror movie. It took more than a month before I started looking half way normal again. With this in mind I was not going to let my dad get hold of me again. As I was running I could hear him chasing me and getting closer. I kept praying to God not to let him catch me. At one point he almost caught me. I felt the wind from his hand as he tried to grab me and with the fear in me I started picking up speed and then I was confronted with a six foot stone wall and petrified I asked God to please send his angels to lift me up and over the wall. I felt myself running and jumping and although I was scraped up a bit I made it over the wall and into freedom. I am a small person. Only 5 foot 3.It was about 8 o’clock at night and I fell over into an automobile junk yard. I ran into one of the abandoned cars and stayed there until morning. I went to one of my friends house and told her what happened and she took me in. Till this day I often see that brick wall in my thoughts and even went to see it later as an adult. I have no idea how I scaled that wall. Ever since that incident,it’s brought me closer to God and I also believe in Angels. I knew they helped me that day. I went on in life to have quite a few more adventures where I called upon my Angels. I am 78 years old now but the abuse from my father has affected my life in so many ways. He went on to abuse my sister and my daughter. And that’s another story. I am single to this day because this abuse has affected my relationships with men. I have been through counseling but I continue to have bad dreams about my dad. I even have dreams where I’m chopping him up with an axe and yelling in my dreams for him to die. When he did die I never attended his funeral. He didn’t deserve my acknowledgment even in death. When he died I felt a heavy weight lift off my shoulders. I hope if there is a hell,that’s where he went!! And I hope all you child predators end up in hell too. You only think of self gratification instead of a precious life you’re affected. You all should be castrated and shot to death.

    • @joeclarkist
      @joeclarkist 11 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry, mom. This is so sad. I'm a dad and I have one by beautiful daughter, a no d 3 sons. I can't imagine dreaming about such an evil act. She's too sweet for such a punishment, and I always thank God for such a wonderful gift!
      May the same God continue to heal you, comfort you, and sustaining you.

  • @fulloutcortland
    @fulloutcortland 6 месяцев назад +6

    God bless you!!!!! You are a literal warrior. Cheers to taking complete control of your life

  • @natalielewis7193
    @natalielewis7193 4 месяца назад +15

    You are courageous women with all that trauma and still do what you are doing i salute you i pray YAHUAH continues to strengthen you physically and spiritually and that you remain to be a light for others ❤❤❤

  • @xxmarsii_diiicexx5141
    @xxmarsii_diiicexx5141 Год назад +534

    Crazy. Ain’t no way this could’ve been my child. Everybody involved getting buried. No lie. So sorry this happened to you, sis. ❤

  • @shawnatwood4653
    @shawnatwood4653 Год назад +163

    He told the mom. She did not get upset until she realized his girlfriend was in on it. That mom should be in prison.

    • @beelarehman5992
      @beelarehman5992 Год назад +1

      Agreed

    • @Passionfruitkisses15
      @Passionfruitkisses15 Год назад +4

      I was angry from the start but the fact that it was ok before when it was just him but another woman gets involved now you wanna get big and bad about your child being ABUSED!!!!!!!!! I’m so mad right now! Disgusting!!!!!

    • @happybirthday8803
      @happybirthday8803 Год назад +4

      He told her it was helping her allergies. I’m screaming in my soul some women want to be stupid and naive I’m convinced.

  • @kueunice1654
    @kueunice1654 2 месяца назад +2

    So amazing she has the courage and strength to stand up against someone who has dominated and brainwashed her since childhood. Thank you for showing us that it is possible to move beyond such traumatic experiences and be a force for good.

  • @PBTKaizen
    @PBTKaizen 20 дней назад +1

    Omg who is this beautiful angel that maintains such positive outlook after such a horrific story ! God Bless this woman!

  • @eagledice2008
    @eagledice2008 Год назад +235

    This is satanic there's just no other explanation I'm glad she survived

    • @nikicarrie4071
      @nikicarrie4071 Год назад +8

      This is man it happens a lot

    • @Christopher_J
      @Christopher_J Год назад

      ​​@@nikicarrie4071 Man is a horrible beast at times but this man is spiritually unclean and under the willful influence of demons. He is in prison and will be forever tormented by the depravity who lowered himself to and put his own child through. I would say the vast majority of the male population do not comitt incestuous abuse of children. 💔😒

    • @elliemichel7560
      @elliemichel7560 Год назад

      This is absolutely satanic and demonic. All of that

    • @sunnyhunn9315
      @sunnyhunn9315 Год назад

      Devilish indeed…there’s no way around it. A father is the first to protect their child from predators, not become the very nightmare he’s supposed to protect her from. This is why The Bible says we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, the things people do are far from what it seems on the surface; this is demonic and this guy’s job is to keep renewing this demonic covenant through his filthy acts. Disgusting.

    • @MDMuppetBones
      @MDMuppetBones Год назад +14

      It’s not satanic. This was a normal human man that did this. Don’t blame it on something outside of him. HE did that.

  • @ihanakaunotar2741
    @ihanakaunotar2741 Год назад +345

    This is so sad, he stole her life basically. She’s so brave.

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 Год назад +3

      @@amandaobiorah
      I agree with you 100%

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 Год назад +5

      🥜 Families 😢
      Unbelievable 😮 She knew that she was wrong! I left my family age 10 the same reason not father but brother! I said No and left 🎉

    • @sasshil4202
      @sasshil4202 Год назад

      @@amandaobiorah wow. You are awful.

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@amandaobiorah
      God knows she was wrong!
      So does she!

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@emryadora
      I became a servant and worked like SLIVE! Been married to 1 man for more than 50 years & educated myself.
      Other sister who accepted sexual relationships for years is in mental institution and I have been financially assisting her. God bliss me with wisdom

  • @namkebanyanklariti
    @namkebanyanklariti 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for having the courage to tell your story and standing up to evil. Thank you for looking out for your siblings🙏

  • @allthingsme641
    @allthingsme641 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for having the strength.

  • @angelstarr5509
    @angelstarr5509 Год назад +294

    Her father was sick and her mother was just as bad to encourage such act, she did nothing to defend her girls, but blatantly encourage it knowing fully well what he and his girlfriend was doing. Sick ppl

    • @niyawilliams2.021
      @niyawilliams2.021 Год назад

      She did not encourage you NUT she was fearful of her husband and beat her did you not watch the video

    • @diahreea2022
      @diahreea2022 Год назад +20

      Most mothers side with the man, and some even blame the daughter

    • @YouYou-sm8tf
      @YouYou-sm8tf Год назад +13

      ​@@diahreea2022 It’s sad that women are doing that to their own kids

    • @RosieWilliamOlivia
      @RosieWilliamOlivia Год назад +9

      ​@@YouYou-sm8tf mothers get away with a lot. People forgive or ignore.
      In many ways they are worse than the men.
      Animal mothers protect their children to the death, human mothers assist in abuse and kill their own children (more often than biological fathers, look it up).

    • @YouYou-sm8tf
      @YouYou-sm8tf Год назад +5

      @@RosieWilliamOlivia It remind me of a woman who lived near us. She had daughter with her ex somes years ago but broke up, then later married another man and got another daughter with him as well.
      She mistreated her 1st daughter like worse than slave/animal. She beated her for no reason, while treating the 2nd daugther like a princess. She treated her husband like a king while he cheated on her multiple times.
      If her husband didn't like their daughter, she would probably mistreat her as well.
      I think too many women lack self-esteem and would abuse/kill her own child for the love/approval of men.
      We need and should make more women accountable for those kind of things....
      There are so many stories where step fathers abuse the kids and the mother never report to police.

  • @jennifercuffy801
    @jennifercuffy801 Год назад +677

    Glad he got 90 years!!!
    Glad to hear you are helping others and shining the light on predators they can be close by also in the family so be careful out there ladies and gentlemen.
    🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 To you and those children...

    • @D11r41k
      @D11r41k Год назад +6

      Oh I heard "9", yeah "90" is better!

    • @lakeniagaines45
      @lakeniagaines45 11 месяцев назад

      Girl u something else you nasty to

    • @othersbyuri
      @othersbyuri 11 месяцев назад +5

      It’s one the stories you hate to hear but love that is paying for it. Hope they make him really pay in there!

    • @shawnstancil6942
      @shawnstancil6942 10 месяцев назад +1

      Inmates didn't show no mercy on him

    • @career5690
      @career5690 10 месяцев назад +11

      His girlfriend and her mother should have got time.

  • @fbyahavasaraiyahigyah_made670
    @fbyahavasaraiyahigyah_made670 5 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. You and your children and siblings are strong and are healers. Continued to be a blessing

  • @karenkanyense8156
    @karenkanyense8156 2 месяца назад +2

    You are definitely one of a kind. Your account of the experience you endured, how you grabbed the opportunity to bring the horrible situation to light, standing up to your father and how you have picked yourself up and moved on is such an inspiration, I salute you. May God grant you a far much more joyful life than your experiences.

  • @nonodlamini
    @nonodlamini Год назад +680

    I can’t believe what I just heard 💔 her emotional awareness is just insane, how she’s managed to overcome this gross tragedy to help the rest of this world? She’s super inspiring

    • @Seadeddy
      @Seadeddy Год назад +11

      Praying for her 🙏❤

    • @darjijayantilal2735
      @darjijayantilal2735 Год назад +8

      Sorry for what you went through. May God Bless you and your siblings 🙏

    • @78musiksphere
      @78musiksphere 2 месяца назад

      @@darjijayantilal2735God is evil for allowing this to happen to a child

  • @jlovesj3335
    @jlovesj3335 Год назад +176

    As a woman and as a mother. I spit on the mom for allowing this and on the dad for doing this.

  • @user-dk5rq5pm8m
    @user-dk5rq5pm8m 3 месяца назад +5

    This is so sad by the grace of God this young lady is able to tell her story the pain and suffering she had to deal with the abuse may God continue to bless her .

  • @Luz-jb3dq
    @Luz-jb3dq 5 месяцев назад +3

    You’re a precious woman . Thank you for letting me know the world know that domestic violence is not acceptable that’s a crime.

  • @missdesireindependance5194
    @missdesireindependance5194 Год назад +320

    I personally feel the mother could have stopped this man behavior by going to the police. I hope this family can heal.

    • @cal9112
      @cal9112 Год назад +7

      Mothers arethe worst

    • @prislaem3838
      @prislaem3838 Год назад +17

      @@cal9112 don't generalize all mothers please. And you don't know what he threatened her with. He might have told her he would kill all the children if she said anything. He used to beat her and who knows what else. We only heard about him for the most part, she might not have willingly gone along with it.

    • @siobhanofarrell4646
      @siobhanofarrell4646 Год назад +19

      @@prislaem3838Some mothers are just shitty. My own older sister is a narcissistic sociopath. She knew our dad emotionally and physically abused me (as well as allowing one of his brothers to get away with molesting me), that he emotionally and physically abused our mother. My mom and I both warned her not to leave her daughters alone around him (he’s a narcissistic sociopath too) but because she was daddy’s little princess she arrogantly assumed he’d never do anything to one of HER kids. When she found out he molested one of her daughters, she blamed him, her husband, but, to this day has refused to accept one ounce of responsibility for what was done to her child. Needless to say, her husband finally got fed up with her ass and left her

    • @prislaem3838
      @prislaem3838 Год назад +3

      @@siobhanofarrell4646 yes, SOME not all. I agree you you on that. Also, my heart goes out to you. I hope you are healing from your trauma. The memories never go away, and the emotional pain comes and goes like the tides. So cry when you need to, be angry when you must, but don't let any of it consume you. Don't lose yourself in the murky darkness. It's not, nor was it ever, your fault. I also hope your brother-in-law took his children with him when he left. It would be sad if the cycle was repeated on them.

    • @seanjay110
      @seanjay110 Год назад

      Katherine Jackson didn't do anything also.

  • @mayanthigaragoda9638
    @mayanthigaragoda9638 11 месяцев назад +188

    Her mom knew what her father was doing to her 😢 It's unbelivable.A mom let her husband to abuse her own daughter 😡

    • @fakihdarusi4385
      @fakihdarusi4385 10 месяцев назад

      Did go to hospital for labor

    • @lasheemaford8318
      @lasheemaford8318 10 месяцев назад

      Black women do it all the time, this is nothing new. Most black girls have been molested or raped by their father, step father or someone close to her. Black men have been violating children for forever

    • @tastesweet9027
      @tastesweet9027 10 месяцев назад

      @@fakihdarusi4385 no had them at home

    • @kubolor1234
      @kubolor1234 10 месяцев назад +2

      She was probably also brainwashed

    • @audlovgodbland8153
      @audlovgodbland8153 10 месяцев назад +4

      Maybe mom's could be scared and ashamed! But! Mee I will always protect my daughter's! I can't be a dumb mom!

  • @janice9230
    @janice9230 5 месяцев назад +19

    I am so incredibly proud of you!!! 👏
    You came away from the horrible abuse to a mighty and courageous woman! I am so proud and happy for you! ❤

  • @brandienichole7474
    @brandienichole7474 Год назад +246

    My ex hurt our daughter in similar ways. I had him arrested. He bonded out (shouldn’t even be allowed in my opinion) and him and his lawyer put off court for two years. When he ran out of time and the prosecutor wouldn’t go less than 45 he ran. Hoping he gets caught soon so he can go to prison and be where he belongs.

    • @Im_so_Retro85
      @Im_so_Retro85 11 месяцев назад

      I would've killed him myself. Even if it meant me going to jail. I wouldn't care.

    • @elviacampos1858
      @elviacampos1858 11 месяцев назад +46

      Publish his picture you can prevent other pote victims 🙏👏👏great job protecting your baby

    • @biaccagreen7157
      @biaccagreen7157 11 месяцев назад +12

      Brandie I’m sorry for you and your daughter, I never understood how anyone could touch a child yet alone they’re on biological. I can relate to your ex being on the run, my abuser step-father skated retribution as well, he died. It took me years to get over the fact that he basically got away with what he did to me and my sister with the help of our mother sadly

    • @acealohbey2213
      @acealohbey2213 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@biaccagreen7157 he ain’t getting away with shit. if you have the courage, (because ive never personally seen any of the older ones) HELLRAISER the most recent one, it shows the sadistic side to what we deal with in the physical world because people have money and abuse their powers and titles. there is a place for them after they are judged. the truth is being revealed on every level. 🫶🏾

  • @ninnny5659
    @ninnny5659 11 месяцев назад +142

    I will never understand ,,mothers " allowing someone to harm their children.

  • @Merbella
    @Merbella 6 месяцев назад +11

    This woman is amazing 👏 she's a wonderful advocate for healing and strength ❤

  • @rosieglows
    @rosieglows 5 месяцев назад +4

    What a beautiful, strong woman ✊🏾

  • @neworleanzgrl
    @neworleanzgrl 10 месяцев назад +722

    That Mother had sooo many demons,insecurities,and her own un-healed trauma. Nothing is remotely excusable for what she did, or allowed. This story is the main reason why it’s so important to seek healing/therapy from childhood trauma,before being a parent, or immediately upon learning/realizing your trauma.

    • @wanderlust2202
      @wanderlust2202 5 месяцев назад +10

      How do you still blame the victim( a woman as always) while not saying a single word about the perpetrator, a man? The guy was clearly abusing and manipulating every woman in his life!!! As a woman yourself, you should stop blaming every single wrong thing happening to everyone on another woman and call out men for their evil

    • @serlingcruz2905
      @serlingcruz2905 5 месяцев назад

      @@wanderlust2202the guy deserves to rotten in jail and he surely got what he deserved. However, that doesn’t take away the mom’s responsibility in all of the abuse, she was a responsible adult and let this man abuse her children for years on end. Nothing excuses the behaviour of those two animals

    • @queend2748
      @queend2748 5 месяцев назад +4

      This is the MOST DEPLORABLE AND DESPICABLE DEMONIC BEHAVIORS A CHILD COULD EVER ENDURE AT THE HANDS OF A DESPICABLE DEMONIC CREATURE PEDOPHILE. THIS YOUNG WOMAN HAS TO LIVE WITH THIS FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE STARING HER IN THE FACE EVERY SINGLE DAY. DAMN THIS IS SO SAD.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 4 месяца назад

      No no , she should have protected her kids​@@wanderlust2202

    • @clob3896
      @clob3896 4 месяца назад

      ​@@wanderlust2202true

  • @andreal5947
    @andreal5947 Год назад +506

    As women we need to do better to protect our daughters and family members from this kind of abuse. Abuse could not continue if family members would stand up against it.

    • @bellachannell777
      @bellachannell777 Год назад +12

      Amen

    • @megamoneyk
      @megamoneyk Год назад +6

      Omg this crazy I'm so upset

    • @Maz-zb9uf
      @Maz-zb9uf Год назад +29

      No what need to hold men accountable as well instead of instant everything on the women

    • @zawagift9361
      @zawagift9361 Год назад +4

      The dangers of extended family, the best family is nuclear and the worst is a polygamous one.

    • @jennhypp5367
      @jennhypp5367 Год назад +15

      @@Maz-zb9uf we can have that conversation a trillion times, but the reality is that they’re not held accountable. At a certain point it’s up to you to take precautions to protect Urself and ur children. A lot of women also turn a blind eye to the sexual abuse of children bc of what they benefiting from it , it’s very common

  • @lalababy9295
    @lalababy9295 5 месяцев назад +4

    What a beautiful story of triump. Your courage and tenacity is amazing. Not living with shame ober what you went through is even more inspiring. So many women go through SA situations, and still carry shame. Seeing you hold your head up high, with your college successes makes me feel that i can do the same.
    Thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @breebrendahowell366
    @breebrendahowell366 6 месяцев назад +18

    I'm so very sorry that this happened to you.😢 Thank you so much for sharing your story. And if no one has ever told you this; from an older woman who has never had children, I'm so very proud of the woman you've become. I would have loved to have had you as my daughter.❤️ God bless you and your children! Continue to hold your head up high.

  • @ladyl22
    @ladyl22 Год назад +115

    Every time I watch these videos i be thankful for my dad for being a good man and wasn’t a monster smh I rather have my future kids have absent father than have a monster father

    • @jeanprinsloo2834
      @jeanprinsloo2834 Год назад +4

      Very true ❣️

    • @haileyt857
      @haileyt857 Год назад +4

      Hearing how common this is, I'm gonna just go to the sperm bank and be a single mother should I decide on a bio child. 😔

  • @chloe7894561230
    @chloe7894561230 Год назад +939

    I truly can’t believe what I just heard. The fact that she can talk about her story is the most commendable thing I’ve ever seen. I am so sorry for you, nobody deserves to go through this trauma and violation. You are such a strong person, and a light in the darkness of this world. A testament of getting out the other side and of the cards we are dealt. Stay strong, you are seen for what you went through 🙏🏽🧡

    • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
      @UnfilteredStoriesYT  Год назад +31

      Thank you so much for your support and kind words ❤

    • @lorainehinds
      @lorainehinds Год назад +11

      It is happening still today among us.its só sick

    • @miajohnson7508
      @miajohnson7508 Год назад +3

      @@UnfilteredStoriesYT i want answers, how ur kids not deformed??

    • @tanagunda1368
      @tanagunda1368 Год назад

      @@miajohnson7508 not all children born from incest get automatic deformities

    • @jackierubinstein3198
      @jackierubinstein3198 Год назад +2

      You are an amazing inspiration to the whole world!

  • @learnwithfun8731
    @learnwithfun8731 2 месяца назад

    You are such a strong woman to share personal story and start supporting women.. I really appreciate that 🙏

  • @bunnyolson9484
    @bunnyolson9484 6 месяцев назад +5

    My prayers r with u..I'm a survivor also.from the frozen praire of South Dakota peace

  • @Mary-zd6ow
    @Mary-zd6ow 11 месяцев назад +224

    I wish your mother was charged with something as well. This is absolutely horrible and I commend you for your strength, perseverance and sharing your testimony.

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 10 месяцев назад +4

      The mom was a victim as well. Many victims grow to be adult victim who Dnt know as well.

    • @kiaq1153
      @kiaq1153 10 месяцев назад +15

      @@tarahill308 she started off as a victim , but became an enabler.

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@kiaq1153 most never grow up. Never put your learnt lessons in life on the next person. Just be thankful with the time you learned yours.

    • @DaisyAppleJuice
      @DaisyAppleJuice 10 месяцев назад +3

      The grandparents too. How the hell was he able to do these things while living in his in laws house? 😡😡😡

    • @fifthlegendfifthlegends6501
      @fifthlegendfifthlegends6501 10 месяцев назад +1

      You can’t blame the mum when she’s scared of her life. Considering how he beats her and how controlling he his. However, she could’ve raised an alarm and end the marriage or whatever was going on between her and the monster.

  • @michkaadan5045
    @michkaadan5045 Год назад +513

    Your story sounds similar to a cult. Your dad cutting you guys off from society, the abuse, not being able to leave the house and so on.

    • @manny3918
      @manny3918 Год назад +14

      Yup, there's a TV show on netflix just like that

    • @germyw
      @germyw Год назад +18

      It was. There have been many family cults like this.

    • @candidaalex2007
      @candidaalex2007 Год назад +18

      Definitely a cult. Just horrible.

    • @kellymurphy6667
      @kellymurphy6667 Год назад +8

      Cults are high control groups and coercive controlling behaviours are part of family and domestic violence too

    • @chrissiepuriza3866
      @chrissiepuriza3866 Год назад +1

      DEFINITELY

  • @wendymuskal6516
    @wendymuskal6516 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ladies respect yourself enough to always have a voice. I WILL LISTEN. Ma’am thank you for sharing what you went through. I won’t pretend to not be horrified, but you are SO BRAVE, and I am so thankful I stopped at work, to listen to you🙏🏼

  • @charitydetoro9591
    @charitydetoro9591 4 месяца назад

    I want to hug you. I’m speechless! Sending you love. God bless you!

  • @moodmusic2495
    @moodmusic2495 Год назад +129

    This woman is so brave. She did what her mother could not do

  • @bellah8393
    @bellah8393 10 месяцев назад +989

    As a survivor of repeated incest by my only sibling, I feel your pain. I also admire your strength and courage. I didn’t go through even a fraction of what you did though. I couldn’t tell my mother until I was 21. She didn’t believe me. When I was 32, my niece told her father, that this same abuser, had been molesting her. My parents refused to believe that was true. I told my father why I felt my niece was telling the truth, because of what he’d done to me. I did this through a letter. He never said a word about it. My sibling was convicted in two different counties for molesting my niece. He got nearly a total of twenty years in prison. My mother believed in his innocence to the day she died. My father and I discussed it briefly, since my mother died, and he says he believes me. I haven’t had contact with my brother, except in the ICU when our mother was dying, for nearly thirty years. I’m still not sure if my dad really believes me or not. Thank you for your very personal story. May you have peace and happiness.

    • @AnniePannanie
      @AnniePannanie 10 месяцев назад +68

      I am sorry that you had to go through this. I hope both and your niece are now safe and had/have all the help you need.
      I really hope your father believes you and is just to embarrassed that he couldn't protect you to talk about it. I'm also so sad for you, that your mother couldn't stand up for you. I'm sure deep down she knew you weren't lying, but it is easier to say lair than to see your own mistakes (not noticing/ protecting you). Still, it is awful what she put you through and it's your strength that let you live and that's amazing and impressive tbh

    • @TheGloomyTuesday
      @TheGloomyTuesday 10 месяцев назад +30

      I'm sorry love. 😞

    • @caramileelliott1719
      @caramileelliott1719 10 месяцев назад

      You should have poison him!! That is so disgusting on so many level!

    • @bellah8393
      @bellah8393 10 месяцев назад +61

      @@caramileelliott1719 While going through it, I was so young, he made it all seem like a game, until I got old enough to know better and I found my voice and I made it stop. As much as I detest him, it’s not my job to seek vengeance, it’s God’s. My dad, unfortunately, tells me things about my brother often and I’m happy to say, his life is a constant shit hole. While my life, is quite nice with a husband who treats me like a queen, children and grandchildren. God has blessed me profusely.

    • @fayemijumoke
      @fayemijumoke 10 месяцев назад +14

      Thank God you were able to find your voice. I just can't imagine all that you went through all those years. Thank God for blessing you with a family of your own. Love and light!!

  • @nancyjohnson1739
    @nancyjohnson1739 2 месяца назад +1

    Your life is a miracle, and you're helping to transform the lives of others. More blessings

  • @angorachic
    @angorachic 9 месяцев назад +481

    This is probably the worst case of abuse I have ever heard. How did all of these adults (including the mom) allow this to happen? I grew up near this area and cannot believe this happened in NJ. All of those adults should be in jail for life. This is heartbreaking. I still cannot believe this.

    • @aramakuypers1693
      @aramakuypers1693 7 месяцев назад +30

      Right?! Like HOW, 4 dang kids with a pedofile rapist. This is SO scary

    • @nidhia6925
      @nidhia6925 7 месяцев назад +1

      The hardest part is she seems so opinionated....where was her voice at that time?
      May be she was too Young....

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 7 месяцев назад +22

      @@nidhia6925 That, and depending on how violent and abusive her dad was, and the lack of support and protection from the other adults around her, she probably was heavily restricted in what she could say and do. I was a quiet and scared child due to my abusive father. I was constantly walking on egg shells regarding what I said and did, and I had zero support from my mom who would also partake in the abuse. It wasn’t until I worked on healing and wanting better for myself that I found my voice, and am less scared to speak and share my opinion.

    • @puffymuffin9064
      @puffymuffin9064 4 месяца назад +1

      Oh no this poor lady and what she went through with her father very sad

    • @Candice144
      @Candice144 3 месяца назад +1

      @@nidhia6925she was abused since she could remember until adulthood. Children who are abused learn to be quiet and learn not to upset their abuser. Remember the same abuser is the one they have to depend on for their daily needs. They usually scare them and if they are vocal they are harshly punished until their will is broken. Abusers do anything to make them comply very early in life. If they do stand up it takes a very long time for them to.

  • @locs_bjuicy6397
    @locs_bjuicy6397 Год назад +356

    I remember this story. It was on the I.D. channel (Evil lives here) the most horrific story of child abuse by her own father. His own seed. May GOD bless you, you’re truly a SHERO in my book to survive all this and be able to talk about it.💐💐💐🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @yvonnewilson2242
      @yvonnewilson2242 Год назад +3

      Shero? Is that a combination of "she" and "hero"?

    • @RegentDeMarquis005
      @RegentDeMarquis005 Год назад +7

      ​@@yvonnewilson2242 child ! Byeeee

    • @beastvader
      @beastvader Год назад +4

      ​@@yvonnewilson2242 Yeah I think she means a heroine haha

    • @germyw
      @germyw Год назад +4

      @@yvonnewilson2242 Yes! Where have you been that you’ve never heard that term?

    • @yvonnewilson2242
      @yvonnewilson2242 Год назад +5

      @@germyw Never heard of it because I'm not around in circles that use it. In normal reality, we have a term for that---heroine.
      I guess I'm not around foolishness enough🤷

  • @veronikalynn5084
    @veronikalynn5084 23 дня назад

    What a force of nature she is. Thank you for being who you are

  • @calmo14
    @calmo14 17 дней назад +5

    him not understanding or knowing that incest can cause disabilities or deformities shows his level of education, knowledge, and intellect, it seems. not saying that as an excuse by any means!!! it’s just so sad!

    • @E1LTSaves
      @E1LTSaves 6 дней назад

      He knew, everyone knows. He didn't care!

  • @tkhcompany
    @tkhcompany Год назад +194

    This is more common than what people think. It's so very sad to abuse a child that trust you as an adult.... I have no other words, just pain in my heart.

    • @IneSa2008
      @IneSa2008 11 месяцев назад +8

      I feel like I can't breath oh my God, this is so painful

    • @jadibdraws
      @jadibdraws 11 месяцев назад +5

      My grandma was telling me a story that she only mentioned once but it stuck with me. And it was how her mother ran away from home because her father and uncles were molesting her and she married a man 3x her age when she was only 14 and she talked about how much that disgusted her that her dad was so old. The suffering of women in general goes untold but ESPECIALLY black women. The common suffering of being in a society that doesn't give a damn about you and the generational trauma of abuse coming from all directions

    • @-amoureuse-9489
      @-amoureuse-9489 11 месяцев назад

      Very common in the black community…and black people REFUSE to admit it. I’m saying this as black woman..

    • @stevesmom9868
      @stevesmom9868 10 месяцев назад

      Happens often in the Amish communities!

  • @carolinethomas391
    @carolinethomas391 Год назад +789

    Your mother is the biggest culprit she did not protect her children from a predator. More power to you.

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah Год назад

      Her father is the biggest culprit
      He physically raped n tortured her
      The mother was probably brainwashed and terrorized into submission

    • @megamoneyk
      @megamoneyk Год назад +71

      She needs to be in jail.

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +96

      They are all 3 equally the culprits- The father, his gf and the mother

    • @cplmpcocptcl6306
      @cplmpcocptcl6306 Год назад

      No. Obviously the mentally deficient pedo is at fault. Then all the others that allowed this.

    • @dalia8518
      @dalia8518 Год назад +24

      @@Anonymous-gt1eq yes but a mother is supposed to be the nurturer and protect her child

  • @briattnybrittany6843
    @briattnybrittany6843 2 месяца назад

    your strength in sharing your story, is felt. I am so sorry this happened to you! may your every wish in life, be granted. every single one of them. you didn't deserve that. you turned pain into power and that is to be applauded 👏🏾

  • @Coco_Love
    @Coco_Love 5 месяцев назад

    This brought tears to my eyes.. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Like I’m so sorry. You’re so strong and beautiful.

  • @xtinabellarini9393
    @xtinabellarini9393 Год назад +349

    I am so sick of these filthy paedophile pigs taking advantage of children. How the hell do people do this to their own. Her mother wasn’t there to protect her coz she was afraid of a beating. I wish the courts had the right to neuter humans who should not have children and the girlfriend! What a score! A married man who is abusing his children and you join in. How does not one adult say this is wrong?? I am so glad this girl has come out of this with a smile on her face. I wish you all the peace and future happiness. Brave lady.

    • @kgreen8527
      @kgreen8527 Год назад +15

      Her mother should receive life in prison for being a dummy and a coward!!!

    • @79488djrolw
      @79488djrolw Год назад

      ​@godhg9694 its time for u to stfu. What shes doing is empowering and helping others. She understands something about happiness that u dont and she sure will be teaching her children to live life feeling joy despite what happened. Did u not see her book is titled shameless? Why should they feel shame, that takes away joy. These people understand that. U go take ur finger pointing and wagging somewhere else. Why dont u point it at the predators instead. U wrote a comment pointing at her, how many comments u wrote pointing about a child rapist? Let me guess ZERO. U go think about yourself and ur ridiculous mentality. I am so proud of her for SPREADING AWARENESS AND HELPING OTHERS BY TELLING HER STORY INSTEAD OF LIVING LIFE BROKEN AND ASHAMED AND KEEPING SECRETS THAT ENABLE PREDATORS

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 Год назад +6

      ​@@godhg9694 she can share this story for the rest of her life if she chooses🙄

    • @marywanjiku2246
      @marywanjiku2246 Год назад +5

      ​@@deenad3562
      GOD HG is what is wrong with society. Victims should be silenced so we can all live in a 'perfect' world naively at the expense of those suffering.

    • @Azulakayes
      @Azulakayes Год назад +11

      ​@@godhg9694 Victims/Survivors have a right to speak out about their experiences, they can shout it out from the rooftops if they want. It is about them, their healing and their chance to put the light to all the darkness in their lives.

  • @weirdarthistorian
    @weirdarthistorian Год назад +293

    The cruelty and danger this woman went through is just beyond words. 💔 She is so strong and I wish her only the best for her future!

  • @slatouche6089
    @slatouche6089 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your story.... So glad justice has been served & you managed to escape from your father when he was away. Hope your children are thankful for you. God bless you & Keep on Keeping on!!

  • @screstubbs7455
    @screstubbs7455 6 месяцев назад +5

    You are magnificent. As a sister of abuse I send you so much love. Amazing!

  • @lovelinendi6808
    @lovelinendi6808 10 месяцев назад +207

    I can't believe her mom stayed quiet to an extent that she was helping him with the process of birthing his own child and grand child 💔

    • @eliannahankin2971
      @eliannahankin2971 10 месяцев назад +1

      He was beating her mom. It’s not easy for victims speak out

    • @unknownperson5848
      @unknownperson5848 10 месяцев назад +52

      @@eliannahankin2971 STILL THAT IS YOUR CHILD. IT IS HER DUTY TO PROTECT HER

    • @kimoni6
      @kimoni6 10 месяцев назад +36

      ​@@eliannahankin2971pitiful excuses. She should've protected her daughter. I'm guessing you would've done the same.

    • @eliannahankin2971
      @eliannahankin2971 10 месяцев назад +8

      @@kimoni6 weak minded people get preyed on by psychopaths. Yes, she should have protected her daughter. The father was beating the mother. If you never been been beaten mercilessly before, you have no idea what it’s like

    • @Reese493
      @Reese493 9 месяцев назад +11

      ​@eliannahankin2971 when something is wrong, there's no excuse for it. The mom probably checked out mentally but, you fight! If not for herself, for the kids. The children who have no fault are a reason to wake the f*ck up