The Shocking Story Of Aziza Kibibi

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
    @UnfilteredStoriesYT  Год назад +449

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    • @HelenahSian-hl5ue
      @HelenahSian-hl5ue Год назад +42

      Is this inspiring story?

    • @reemclaughlin4260
      @reemclaughlin4260 Год назад +11

      Right?

    • @juniorramrop374
      @juniorramrop374 Год назад +1

      My x relatives use to rape her, found out her family are snitches and are internationally connected child slavery rapist, I'm still dying and these folks so connected the children and American and international families are still dying

    • @818Dimples
      @818Dimples Год назад +12

      H D channel Evil Lives Here

    • @gogetter4622
      @gogetter4622 Год назад +5

      ​@@HelenahSian-hl5ue that me want know to kmt

  • @jayceecastelano6160
    @jayceecastelano6160 Год назад +13921

    Your Mom, Your Dad, and His Girlfriends and Everyone who Harmed you NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE AND BROUGHT TO JUSTICE.

    • @EmmaGodLovesTruth95
      @EmmaGodLovesTruth95 Год назад +151

      Yeah okay.. I get that ur upset to hear these types of stories but that's not always how it works, it's really really painful to sue ones family. Most survivors don't.. but since she has incest children with him yeah she probably should put him away.

    • @datpsychobytch
      @datpsychobytch Год назад +526

      Look up her iG her father is currently in jail doing time for this crime

    • @CH-px1fw
      @CH-px1fw Год назад +400

      @@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 I don’t think the comment was referring to a lawsuit. I believe it was in reference to every adult involved participating in child sexual abuse and incest which is illegal and so they all should go to prison.

    • @CH-px1fw
      @CH-px1fw Год назад +168

      @@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 and btw… it’s not her choice… you mentioned “she should probably put him away”… it is not up to her. It’s illegal. Period.

    • @EJ-xq6nd
      @EJ-xq6nd Год назад +339

      @@datpsychobytch yes her mom and the girlfriend should also be in jail

  • @Ya555ir
    @Ya555ir 9 месяцев назад +2943

    I went to college with this woman, we took a screenwriting course together. She told her story to our class one day, and I was absolutely floored. Although we weren’t close, we were paired in group assignments and had casual conversation and I could not believe how jovial and lighthearted and sweet she was after living through years and years of horrific experiences. I randomly think about her all the time, I hope you’re doing well Aziza ❤

    • @AzizaKibibi
      @AzizaKibibi 9 месяцев назад +127

    • @primrosendlovu1574
      @primrosendlovu1574 9 месяцев назад +21

      ​@@AzizaKibibi❤

    • @cookie246_
      @cookie246_ 9 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@AzizaKibibi❤❤

    • @pennyanderson6987
      @pennyanderson6987 8 месяцев назад +30

      I commend you for having the courage that you have exhibited I am proud of you for sharing I pray Gods strenght and Blessings in all you do❤

    • @rosalynlake8460
      @rosalynlake8460 8 месяцев назад +17

      I wonder did her father get jail time

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage5403 Год назад +5159

    Every adult in this woman's life literally failed her. So many things to take from this. I'm proud of this woman because the strength it must've taken to tell this story.

    • @manestage5403
      @manestage5403 Год назад +31

      @@LilithsCosmicLounge Define normal.

    • @jaylataylor6856
      @jaylataylor6856 Год назад +16

      @@LilithsCosmicLounge??

    • @danisloombands
      @danisloombands Год назад +6

      A hero ❤

    • @lashauncarter78
      @lashauncarter78 Год назад +87

      ​@lilithsmoon9863 for your information this is not normal for any woman to be molested by her Dad and bear his children this is incest and this is is a wicked act.

    • @evelynbrown600
      @evelynbrown600 Год назад +3

      Indeed

  • @jbestderulo45
    @jbestderulo45 7 месяцев назад +334

    This woman is beyond strong, to be able to share such a traumatic experience..

    • @lisalarouge6309
      @lisalarouge6309 4 месяца назад +2

      Why do black women feel afraid of police?

    • @makaylafar16
      @makaylafar16 10 дней назад

      ​@@lisalarouge6309got taught to not talk because no one cares or when they did tell someone they didn't believe them or pretend it didn't happen

  • @mariangelicaq1623
    @mariangelicaq1623 Год назад +2364

    This poor woman was raised by demons and knew them as mom and dad. 💔
    Speechless.

  • @human151
    @human151 Год назад +4142

    This is sick. I can’t believe her mom didn’t go to the police.
    People are evil.

    • @fightfear3979
      @fightfear3979 Год назад +38

      Love how you blame the mom when the dad was doing the horrible acts.

    • @Miraclewillhappen2024
      @Miraclewillhappen2024 Год назад +5

      True

    • @nonino1644
      @nonino1644 Год назад +11

      ​@blobmonster9494she still was not the perpetrator.

    • @mollymainstream8005
      @mollymainstream8005 Год назад +33

      The mother was the first victim. It's difficult to understand for someone who hasn't been a victim of domestic abuse, but please know this man did terrible things to his family and that they are all victims of him.

    • @mollymainstream8005
      @mollymainstream8005 Год назад +3

      ​@blobmonster9494 I'm so glad that some get justice but not always they don't and when it's you you only have one shot, it's best to take the one that is most likely to succeed. People don't like to believe you when you tell them something terrible. But you're right, for all the people who didn't believe me when I finally involved the police they did their job, even though the man who threatened to murder me got only fourth degree domestic violence.

  • @carriebizz
    @carriebizz Год назад +2086

    I wish RUclips stopped censoring certain words now. RAPE, PEDOPHILE, SEXUAL ABUSE Should NOT be cut out

    • @enieniz
      @enieniz Год назад +119

      thank you! it s so stupid

    • @sigsin1
      @sigsin1 Год назад +69

      Thank you. This was BULLSHIT.

    • @thesciencehubskb
      @thesciencehubskb Год назад +48

      Exactly. It is a word!

    • @mermaidmoney2794
      @mermaidmoney2794 Год назад +21

      Yea I don't get that

    • @Lucky-c3v9k
      @Lucky-c3v9k Год назад +74

      THE WORD WOMAN IS NEXT.......youTube is WACK

  • @zero81888
    @zero81888 6 месяцев назад +215

    Aziza was one of my coworkers at my first job bussing tables, almost 15 years ago now. I remember on my birthday she made and brought me chocolate chip cookies with edible gold glitter in them. I always thought of her as a sweet, kind person. Wishing all the best to her.

  • @MaddMelloo41
    @MaddMelloo41 Год назад +3315

    The fact her mother knew but was only upset because his girlfriend was apart of it is astonishing!

    • @jadibdraws
      @jadibdraws Год назад +334

      The kinda shit that happens when a woman prizes a man any man above all else. Very common among older generations and there's a lot of push back going on today cause that is changing.

    • @acealohbey2213
      @acealohbey2213 Год назад +20

      @@jadibdrawsmajority of not all of the people who had this position in my life died back to back within the last 10 years.

    • @burnyizland
      @burnyizland Год назад +153

      Happens more than you think. My mother was the same kind of garbage. When I told her at age 8 she said, "Well we're all going to have to make sacrifices for Mommy's new marriage."

    • @BF-xc2sk
      @BF-xc2sk Год назад

      @@jadibdraws this has nothing to do with “ older generations “ you are insulting all older generations.
      This is pure evil and psychopathy.
      Not acceptable behaviour in any generation!
      The guy was psycho and he trapped women and children.
      Pure trafficking.

    • @shay7515
      @shay7515 Год назад +100

      ​@@burnyizlandomg!😢 sorry you went through that 🫂

  • @laneys2030
    @laneys2030 Год назад +1995

    The fact the mom was not mad about what was happening is sickening, the pain this woman went through and can tell her story I cant even imagine, my heart goes out to her and her kids.

    • @karmencarmen1720
      @karmencarmen1720 Год назад

      Fuck weak people that watch others be tried into a ball of trauma.

    • @jaswantsingh9287
      @jaswantsingh9287 Год назад +49

      Mom was a zombie..

    • @jaedagray2566
      @jaedagray2566 Год назад +54

      She confronted him and he hit her with a belt it said but she still wrong

    • @santanapage5044
      @santanapage5044 Год назад +40

      She was probably so defeated and felt hopeless, just horrific

    • @jaswantsingh9287
      @jaswantsingh9287 Год назад

      Satan exists, Allah don't,if he's there he won't let it happen....

  • @factsonfacts9337
    @factsonfacts9337 Год назад +1369

    Demonic !! That’s all I can say. What a beautiful & well spoken woman. She deserved a childhood, a real love story & a family from love…

    • @unknownperson5848
      @unknownperson5848 Год назад +49

      I have lost all faith in Humanity. THESE ARE MONSTERS NOT HUMANS.

    • @deew2312
      @deew2312 Год назад +39

      very demonic

    • @lareinelester685
      @lareinelester685 Год назад

      Many families went through this. I'm convinced many men are the demonic savage monsters of earth.

    • @amyqb117
      @amyqb117 Год назад +10

      Utterly demonic.

    • @p_nicole683
      @p_nicole683 7 месяцев назад

      Straight up demonic and the MOM WAS JUST AS TRIFLIN AS THE DAD !

  • @jbcom2416
    @jbcom2416 9 месяцев назад +1093

    Cannot imagine how many more kids are going through such horrors right now

    • @Ch3lRae
      @Ch3lRae 8 месяцев назад +41

      THAT to me is always the worst thought of all when you hear these stories. It’s amazing she not only survived and is using her story for good but how many kids end their life due to this trauma without anyone knowing? How many are still in these situations right now as we speak with no way out? It’s too heartbreaking to even think of.

    • @rosedelarosa-q9n
      @rosedelarosa-q9n 8 месяцев назад +1

      This is why pedophiles thrive because they con their own women into protecting them that leads to them allowing their children to get abused and severely hurt .

    • @ashtonlewis7332
      @ashtonlewis7332 7 месяцев назад +2

      Right. I think about this every day. 😢😢

    • @ashtonlewis7332
      @ashtonlewis7332 7 месяцев назад +3

      Lord Our Children

    • @Btx931
      @Btx931 6 месяцев назад +1

      A lot.

  • @aliciaboucher748
    @aliciaboucher748 Год назад +2874

    This story is among one of the sickest I've heard, and I've heard quite a lot. I am so proud of her for not allowing herself to run into the ground. They would inevitably pay for what they did to those children.

    • @teresawester5770
      @teresawester5770 Год назад +45

      God, I couldn’t agree with you more. This story is horrifying!!! It’s truly unimaginable. My heart and prayers go out to this courageous young lady. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @captainmorguen3431
      @captainmorguen3431 Год назад +32

      Inevitably? I'm afraid not. To many of those sub-human child абusеrs escape punishment. It's only due to that woman's strength and courage that at least one of the perpetrators is in jail...
      But they all should be in jail! All adults that participated in this sickness!!! And there were at least three... maybe more...

    • @aliciaboucher748
      @aliciaboucher748 Год назад +9

      @@captainmorguen3431 I absolutely agree with you...every man and woman that participated should pay. I only have some reservation about her mom, because when she spoke out, she was beaten...and it would appear that her mental abuse from that man was a lot.

    • @Kimico57
      @Kimico57 Год назад +6

      You can barely form a proper sentence, much less understand the complicated sick world of an abuser...both sexual and physical. I'm sure, if you care to read up on the subject, you will be sorry you've left an ignorant, judgement filled rant.

    • @Kimico57
      @Kimico57 Год назад +1

      To Notified Faisca: (sp?)

  • @Humblebee718
    @Humblebee718 10 месяцев назад +1890

    I can never understand a mother not sacrificing herself for her child 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @ghostbansurvivor6229
      @ghostbansurvivor6229 9 месяцев назад

      Pickmesha. They value men over children

    • @cal9112
      @cal9112 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@lilacgreens-er6huno excuse, my own mother deliberately favored my you gest sister for years, shunning me, kicking me out of the house while being extremely sweet to the other siblings g who made her life living hell and also charged her 400 euros a month to to take care of her while l was doing g it for free, they are evil people, enjoying causing harm because its "fun"

    • @JannyCKD
      @JannyCKD 8 месяцев назад +148

      because not all birth givers are mothers

    • @NancyCronk
      @NancyCronk 8 месяцев назад +129

      Interesting how the father was a monster but the mother is getting all the criticism here.

    • @jfm14
      @jfm14 8 месяцев назад +77

      ​@@NancyCronk I think it's because our expectations of mothers and women in general tend to be much higher than for fathers and men in general. People just assume any mother would risk her life for her child when that's simply not the case.

  • @princess_ama
    @princess_ama Год назад +520

    This whole story is sick. But when she said she was thinking of My Little Ponies while her father was abusing her, my heart just shattered.

  • @denisepagan2891
    @denisepagan2891 7 месяцев назад +85

    This is so sickening, his own daughter at 8 and her mother was no better. God has a special place for these sick people.

  • @CashThat4U
    @CashThat4U 11 месяцев назад +713

    The fact that she was home schooled, and had no real social skills, and still knew that something was off, speaks volume! She stopped her sister from further abuse from the very demon that occupied her “father’s” mindset, and made conscious efforts while at the hospital! He knew exactly what he was doing, or else he wouldn’t have used coercion and threats in the first place!

    • @forgetallyall810602
      @forgetallyall810602 7 месяцев назад +7

      Kids know a lot

    • @foolishlyfoolhardy6004
      @foolishlyfoolhardy6004 6 месяцев назад +16

      There wasn't a demon occupying her fathers mindset. Why are you trying to put a degree of seperation onto him like that?
      Was it her father, or a demon occupying his body?
      I'll answer.
      It was her father! it was him, he was in control of his own actions and his own mindset. No demons or other entity that he is allowed to blame. All him.

    • @CashThat4U
      @CashThat4U 5 месяцев назад +5

      @Monroe15 his lord WAS Satan!

    • @amaraokiwe839
      @amaraokiwe839 5 месяцев назад

      @@CashThat4U excatly but God himself couldn’t come into your life without your permission(will), same with devil. It was the same case with Judas. The devil saw a good trait he could use and Judas didn’t loved the gain that came from obeying the devil.

    • @SunnyAndShare
      @SunnyAndShare Месяц назад

      ​@Monroe15 He did it in the name of getting himself off

  • @dazem8
    @dazem8 Год назад +1168

    When she said her first child was a girl I immediately worried that he was going to continue his sickness with his grandchildren too. Thankfully she ended that insanity.

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +35

      I did too!

    • @tcatladymoney6124
      @tcatladymoney6124 Год назад +8

      me to

    • @eloisavillaminguan5523
      @eloisavillaminguan5523 Год назад +150

      Not a grand child..but his own child by his own child.sick sick man.

    • @ProfessorMM
      @ProfessorMM Год назад

      @@eloisavillaminguan5523not even a man. A sick monster

    • @AnnaYAH5315
      @AnnaYAH5315 Год назад +81

      It's a terrible knot this situation, they're his grandchildren and his children at the same time. I hope he's miserable for the rest of his days!

  • @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo
    @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo Год назад +2121

    No kids should be violated and when it’s a parent that has to be even worse. I am happy she didn’t go crazy or become evil and bitter.

    • @StarLight-sl9ok
      @StarLight-sl9ok Год назад +110

      Her resilience is unbelievable, she’s so inspiring.

    • @noticiasfaisca2685
      @noticiasfaisca2685 Год назад

      @@StarLight-sl9ok that is called ...nastyness ahmed..not resilience
      1 child ok.if in africa it is NORMAL in your continent.but this woman was in the USA,if she so wilt,she could have reported this monster
      and common? he now is a delivering man? or his a fker himself?
      wtf..in the usa.and give birth like africa!
      hahahahahah does not make any sense!
      i see nothing heroic in this women's comment.i see compliance and nastyness..DIRT!
      where were the mom? why haven't she gone with mom and killed that monster?
      this is a monster!

    • @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo
      @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo Год назад +15

      @@StarLight-sl9ok I agree 🥰🥰🥰

    • @illmeeillmee9373
      @illmeeillmee9373 Год назад +33

      even though she has every reason to! al u can think of is thank God she aint bitter?? smh! anyone listening to this would be wanting to bludgeon these abusers to death

    • @rsc.1820
      @rsc.1820 Год назад +5

      @@illmeeillmee9373 thank who again?

  • @chipclatto8831
    @chipclatto8831 4 месяца назад +51

    This young lady has got to be one of the most remarkable human beings that ever walked this planet! She is truly amazing!

  • @OMGItsShea
    @OMGItsShea Год назад +1224

    Her father is sick and needs to be under the prison. But I'm soooo proud of her for escaping and not letting what her father did stop her from living her life and achieving her goals. She is truly an inspiration ❤❤❤

    • @tracymaragh483
      @tracymaragh483 Год назад

      I think they cut his dck off

    • @jupiterscorner5423
      @jupiterscorner5423 Год назад +65

      He is already in prison...I think he got over 90 years in prison

    • @jubimathew3169
      @jubimathew3169 Год назад

      @@jupiterscorner5423 he needs to be tortured in the worst possible way

    • @waontigo1234
      @waontigo1234 Год назад +4

      Has America escaped LGBTQ+ shame on you

    • @Metaphysicalgrl
      @Metaphysicalgrl Год назад +19

      Sad, damaged and so preventable. Too many excuses for this to have gone on for so long.

  • @lal0723
    @lal0723 Год назад +834

    I'm balling my eyes out listening to her story meanwhile she is so calm, poised, articulate. I don't know if there is enough therapy in the world for me to have reached the state she's reached in just 10 years. I wish I could give her a hug. What an amazing woman.

    • @Aelffwynn
      @Aelffwynn Год назад +62

      She probably dissociates somewhat when she's recalling these events. It is very common and doesn't necessarily mean that she's reached a state of peace with it. I agree she is an amazing woman though, and she deserves nothing but peace and love for her whole life.

    • @suzanpaul1881
      @suzanpaul1881 Год назад +12

      I can still see some pain there.her healing will come with time
      I think her helping others like her will give her a sense of peace
      God bless u my sister
      Let's be vigilent parents.

    • @carolchritopher
      @carolchritopher Год назад +4

      Wish I could give you a hug GGG u Strong

    • @dorothycerio9525
      @dorothycerio9525 Год назад +28

      I too had a sexually abusive dad from as far back as l can remember, from the age of three when he used to change my panties when I had an accident. It continued until the age of 16 when I had a nervous breakdown and told him I hated him and not to touch me ever again. He punched me in my face and knocked me out. When I came to he had me in his arms crying and I freaked out jumped away from him screaming don’t touch me, don’t touch me!! He had taken me out of school in the 10th grade so after that incident he padlocked my bedroom door and nailed down my windows.My mom was aware of this and gave me a large coffee can to do my business in. It stayed that way till I was 18 years old. One evening while he was working he forgot to lock me up and my oldest brothers friend came over to show us his new car and he also had a crush on me and had asked my dad if he could take me out because he used to come over for dinner. But my dad kept saying no,we don’t know you that well. This one time when he came to show us his new car,he asked me if I would like to take a ride in it and I accepted. We were gone probably for an hour as we went down to the beach. When I got home my dad was waiting with a sawed off shotgun and tried to pull me out of the car, but my friend who was into Marshall arts managed to take the gun from him and told me to run. I was so terrified because my father used to beat me like he was fighting a man. I only weighed about 85 lbs. once when he beat me you couldn’t even recognize me because my face was so mangled and bruised. My lip was cut up, my eyes were so puffed up, I barely could see, only out of one eye that was also just enough to squint out of. I looked like I came out of a horror movie. It took more than a month before I started looking half way normal again. With this in mind I was not going to let my dad get hold of me again. As I was running I could hear him chasing me and getting closer. I kept praying to God not to let him catch me. At one point he almost caught me. I felt the wind from his hand as he tried to grab me and with the fear in me I started picking up speed and then I was confronted with a six foot stone wall and petrified I asked God to please send his angels to lift me up and over the wall. I felt myself running and jumping and although I was scraped up a bit I made it over the wall and into freedom. I am a small person. Only 5 foot 3.It was about 8 o’clock at night and I fell over into an automobile junk yard. I ran into one of the abandoned cars and stayed there until morning. I went to one of my friends house and told her what happened and she took me in. Till this day I often see that brick wall in my thoughts and even went to see it later as an adult. I have no idea how I scaled that wall. Ever since that incident,it’s brought me closer to God and I also believe in Angels. I knew they helped me that day. I went on in life to have quite a few more adventures where I called upon my Angels. I am 78 years old now but the abuse from my father has affected my life in so many ways. He went on to abuse my sister and my daughter. And that’s another story. I am single to this day because this abuse has affected my relationships with men. I have been through counseling but I continue to have bad dreams about my dad. I even have dreams where I’m chopping him up with an axe and yelling in my dreams for him to die. When he did die I never attended his funeral. He didn’t deserve my acknowledgment even in death. When he died I felt a heavy weight lift off my shoulders. I hope if there is a hell,that’s where he went!! And I hope all you child predators end up in hell too. You only think of self gratification instead of a precious life you’re affected. You all should be castrated and shot to death.

    • @joeclarkist
      @joeclarkist Год назад +2

      Sorry, mom. This is so sad. I'm a dad and I have one by beautiful daughter, a no d 3 sons. I can't imagine dreaming about such an evil act. She's too sweet for such a punishment, and I always thank God for such a wonderful gift!
      May the same God continue to heal you, comfort you, and sustaining you.

  • @DouglasvanderMooren
    @DouglasvanderMooren Год назад +1010

    I admire your strength, I was sexually abused as a teenager by three different paedophiles and one gave me HIV when I was 16To speak out is so challenging and I am blown away with your strength and courage. I wish you and your children all the best for the future. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!

    • @angeladukes6321
      @angeladukes6321 Год назад +106

      May God continue to bless you Douglas, and give you the strength to move on!

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p Год назад +51

      In Sorry 😔 this happened to you, but God can and WILL bless you to heal and be able to forgive those who hurt you and God will give you peace and joy to live a happy successful life. God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @toya3079
      @toya3079 Год назад +18

      😢

    • @allthingsadella
      @allthingsadella Год назад +42

      Douglas, sorry to hear about your past. I thank God you’re here and made it this far. You’re proof that your light was far too bright to be diminished in what can be a dark and evil world. Take care and God bless you and all you love too x

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p Год назад +19

      @@allthingsadella im So sorry 😔 that you had to go through such a horrible , but I know that God has blessed you to be able to come through this. God has a plan for you...to give you a wonderful life and all the good things you deserve. He can heal ANY pains from the past and give you a beautiful, healthy new start. You are beautifully and wonderfully made, and trust in God to heal , and restore your health and your heart. He will NEVER betray you or leave you and he will provide ALL you need... May God in heaven bless you 🙏🏾 and keep you safe and happy and healthy. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

  • @sybilblake-zd8gl
    @sybilblake-zd8gl 8 месяцев назад +52

    Girl, thank you. You helped me to understand that I was not the bad person in all this mess. I thought you could smile now, so I could smile too. I was too ashamed to even talk about it. Thank you again for opening my eyes and making me understand what was happening to me. I still carries that hate.

    • @ayseguldemirkan9083
      @ayseguldemirkan9083 6 месяцев назад +3

      Please stay strong! It's very normal to carry hate against such monsters. You are good and loved. Very sorry for you :(

    • @hudagillani8014
      @hudagillani8014 6 месяцев назад +3

      May Allah bless n protect you

  • @monicagulden1296
    @monicagulden1296 Год назад +2421

    Not sure why your mother didn’t get charge and a prison term. She knew what was going on and should have reported him.

    • @AmandaMitro
      @AmandaMitro Год назад +1

      She’s probably being treated for many various mental health issues. It is likely he groomed the mother.

    • @AmandaMitro
      @AmandaMitro Год назад +40

      That’s not to say she shouldn’t have a sentence. I’m wondering if she’s being held at all? (I’m also commenting while still watching so forgive me if it turns out she gets away Scott free!)

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 Год назад +104

      @@AmandaMitro was never mentioned that the gf and momma were held accountable! It happens a lot in the black community. Our children hold the momma to a lesser degree of accountability.

    • @jaj4706
      @jaj4706 Год назад +123

      The mother was also a victim. She was isolated and scared. This is not uncommon for abused women to be unable to leave the abuser. It is infuriating but she did try to tell her husband it was wrong only to get beaten with a belt which probably scared her more. She probably thought she could die by his hands and lose her children and they’d lose whatver little protection she had been able to give

    • @marieo6567
      @marieo6567 Год назад

      Yeah I rather die then let the abuse continue under my nose. Disgusting from the mum

  • @nonodlamini
    @nonodlamini Год назад +696

    I can’t believe what I just heard 💔 her emotional awareness is just insane, how she’s managed to overcome this gross tragedy to help the rest of this world? She’s super inspiring

    • @Seadeddy
      @Seadeddy Год назад +11

      Praying for her 🙏❤

    • @darjijayantilal2735
      @darjijayantilal2735 Год назад +8

      Sorry for what you went through. May God Bless you and your siblings 🙏

    • @78musiksphere
      @78musiksphere 8 месяцев назад

      @@darjijayantilal2735God is evil for allowing this to happen to a child

  • @jennifercuffy801
    @jennifercuffy801 Год назад +716

    Glad he got 90 years!!!
    Glad to hear you are helping others and shining the light on predators they can be close by also in the family so be careful out there ladies and gentlemen.
    🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 To you and those children...

    • @D11r41k
      @D11r41k Год назад +6

      Oh I heard "9", yeah "90" is better!

    • @lakeniagaines45
      @lakeniagaines45 Год назад

      Girl u something else you nasty to

    • @othersbyuri
      @othersbyuri Год назад +5

      It’s one the stories you hate to hear but love that is paying for it. Hope they make him really pay in there!

    • @shawnstancil6942
      @shawnstancil6942 Год назад +1

      Inmates didn't show no mercy on him

    • @career5690
      @career5690 Год назад +12

      His girlfriend and her mother should have got time.

  • @donnabest2101
    @donnabest2101 9 месяцев назад +361

    I remember Aziza when she wS a little girl, my sister was Best friends with her aunt, her father was very strict she was about 4 or 5 years old at the time the furthest she could go was the side door, where they lived, I remember her mother was very afraid of her father, as a child I could tell the mother was abused because she was always jumpy when he came around and every one had to leave once he came, so sad this was going on in such a beautiful family he really isolated them, I'm just glad they made it out alive. Good luck to you and your family Aziza

    • @teresawanjiru3171
      @teresawanjiru3171 8 месяцев назад +12

      Extremely narcissist father.

    • @joejoe107
      @joejoe107 7 месяцев назад +6

      Random chance didn’t save this woman and that family, it was God, it was almost as if God was saying we are going this direction now….
      The true test of love is giving the same love Jesus gave Judas to her dad… even God sent Jesus to die for that man doing this stuff, that’s the level of love All of Us should be at, I’m not saying no Justice, I’m saying temper Justice with Mercy and give that instead of harsh harsh harsh…. Who knows why that man turned out like that, but God can fix it if he is an open vessel

    • @kasiak1288
      @kasiak1288 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@joejoe107oh come on with the god bullshit. The only thing that saved her was a coincidence of her father not being home, her son’s health issues and brother who knew the outside world.

    • @joejoe107
      @joejoe107 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@kasiak1288 so your saying randomness saved her, chaos and confusion saved her? how come that doesn't save people that have been bombed?

    • @kasiak1288
      @kasiak1288 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@joejoe107 World is random. Sometimes people are saved and sometimes not. What you can do is to do whatever you have influence on and minimize chcances, but there are things you have no influence on. Including what family you are born into.

  • @jlovesj3335
    @jlovesj3335 Год назад +228

    As a woman and as a mother. I spit on the mom for allowing this and on the dad for doing this.

  • @Chinaglo24
    @Chinaglo24 Год назад +1367

    I would have absolutely HATED my mother for allowing this to happen to me and my siblings.

    • @CocoEmmet61
      @CocoEmmet61 Год назад +81

      No you wouldn't. Abused children will put up with the unimaginable in the hope of love from parents. Believe me I KNOW, took 50 years before I finally kicked their asses to the kerb!

    • @Ifeanyi-su7lu
      @Ifeanyi-su7lu Год назад +40

      Same here
      Her mum just sat there and allowed that to happen

    • @Chinaglo24
      @Chinaglo24 Год назад +30

      @@CocoEmmet61 Well I was never in a abused situation so you right but no one I mean no one will I ALLOW my parent or anyone else in that matter to treat me in that manner way it just inhuman.

    • @GodfreyTaiOyYong
      @GodfreyTaiOyYong Год назад +5

      @@Chinaglo24 Agree with you!!100%!!

    • @etoileshine1011
      @etoileshine1011 Год назад +24

      ​@@CocoEmmet61 Just because YOU did it doesn't mean others would people react to trauma differently you should know this.

  • @EA-xp7hm
    @EA-xp7hm Год назад +1903

    I wonder how her kids feel knowing they are a product of incest and abuse. I can’t even imagine how they come to terms with that. So heartbreaking. This woman is inspiring and her surviving all this is just amazing. I am in awe.

    • @Jenniferbluefire
      @Jenniferbluefire Год назад +84

      You're right, how will her children feel knowing this truth? I've heard and seen siblings incest having children who turned out to be low IQs and are mentally handicapped but I've never heard of conditions in children, birth from incest of father and daughter.

    • @1_star_reviews
      @1_star_reviews Год назад +75

      @@Jenniferbluefirebecause father daughter incest isn’t something that people talk about but happens every day all over the world and those kids (father,daughter incest) are usually born blind and sometimes nonverbal.

    • @Charlie-502
      @Charlie-502 Год назад +9

      Probably with a lot of drug addiction

    • @Artliker1234
      @Artliker1234 Год назад +20

      I hope they never find out.

    • @queendeedee2813
      @queendeedee2813 Год назад +15

      They feel like their family ain't shit and wish they could get their hands on them. Speaking from experience

  • @jeffeena
    @jeffeena 8 месяцев назад +29

    I thought my story was worst to tell , but urs, it’s unthinkable. U r a strong woman. Ur mother should protect u, but she didn’t know better either. 🙏

  • @Charlotte66666
    @Charlotte66666 Год назад +1770

    Sickening that the "Father" used religion as a way to justify his abuse.

    • @beastvader
      @beastvader Год назад +209

      He used skin condition as an excuse too. Clearly the man (or should I say animal) has no fear of God

    • @ashfire4378
      @ashfire4378 Год назад +111

      Most ppl do

    • @DMRJ53
      @DMRJ53 Год назад +68

      The whole thinking is so dysfunctional & sad

    • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965
      @dorisschneider-coutandin9965 Год назад +76

      It's a frequent excuse, sadly.

    • @mary-ue3mr
      @mary-ue3mr Год назад +92

      That man obviously didn't really read Deuteronomy in the bible.
      You don't sleep with your wife's child he should've been stoned according to the bible.

  • @chloe7894561230
    @chloe7894561230 Год назад +963

    I truly can’t believe what I just heard. The fact that she can talk about her story is the most commendable thing I’ve ever seen. I am so sorry for you, nobody deserves to go through this trauma and violation. You are such a strong person, and a light in the darkness of this world. A testament of getting out the other side and of the cards we are dealt. Stay strong, you are seen for what you went through 🙏🏽🧡

    • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
      @UnfilteredStoriesYT  Год назад +32

      Thank you so much for your support and kind words ❤

    • @lorainehinds
      @lorainehinds Год назад +12

      It is happening still today among us.its só sick

    • @miajohnson7508
      @miajohnson7508 Год назад +3

      @@UnfilteredStoriesYT i want answers, how ur kids not deformed??

    • @tanagunda1368
      @tanagunda1368 Год назад

      @@miajohnson7508 not all children born from incest get automatic deformities

    • @jackierubinstein3198
      @jackierubinstein3198 Год назад +3

      You are an amazing inspiration to the whole world!

  • @Burnerbaby
    @Burnerbaby Год назад +496

    This made me ill. This is the stuff of nightmares. She was so young when this all started, a baby, and then to go on to have 4 CHILDREN with her own rapist of a father. She is so strong to still be standing, to be functional, to be willing to share these gut wrenching experiences with others… I hope she has an amazing, beautiful life now.
    ETA just made it to the end. 2 degrees and graduated magna cum laude?? What an amazing human being!

    • @dalia8518
      @dalia8518 Год назад +15

      I’m so amazed by her wow

    • @deejayp9668
      @deejayp9668 Год назад

      A man would RAPE the hole in Jesus' halo.

  • @calmo14
    @calmo14 6 месяцев назад +129

    him not understanding or knowing that incest can cause disabilities or deformities shows his level of education, knowledge, and intellect, it seems. not saying that as an excuse by any means!!! it’s just so sad!

    • @E1LTSaves
      @E1LTSaves 6 месяцев назад +22

      He knew, everyone knows. He didn't care!

    • @ErikTillery
      @ErikTillery 4 месяца назад +4

      I just saw this in real time. I have three daughters and I never thought about that and I took care of kids that weren't mine. A little girl is a little girl and I actually thought it was rare. Looking at this and what just happened. I met a girl in deep distress and eventually some things happened I'm older and she got pregnant immediately I was shocked so over the time I tried to get her to doctors and one constant was her father saying things that now I'm understanding. So I over the months she refused to go to appointments and I began to ask so one day she said she had sex with her father right before she came here now I'm in tears because I knew it was not mine but I knew she had nobody else. She didn't want her family to know. So I tried to reason with her and she actually named him after me. I was pissed beyond knowing. I was forced to take care of him and I noticed some things were off 😢😢 over time so eventually she ghosted me thinking I would flip but I told her not to name him after me. This is crazy

  • @jannifersophiajackson1815
    @jannifersophiajackson1815 Год назад +1834

    What a demon your dad was. I’m proud of your accomplishments!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

    • @Invisibleman305
      @Invisibleman305 Год назад +36

      He is/was evil

    • @girlinterrupted243
      @girlinterrupted243 Год назад +2

      @Jannifer Sophia Jackson Far from a Demon, just another Human with a clear conscience

    • @dinozaurpickupline4221
      @dinozaurpickupline4221 Год назад

      He had his sperm re impregnated

    • @elizabethsikabongo495
      @elizabethsikabongo495 Год назад +3

      Why took so long to come out. Even having children.. I don't blame you but. Did you make effort to save guard you own kids. Bcz what he did you he is doing it to yours😮

    • @marlak4203
      @marlak4203 Год назад +1

      he must have gotten involved with some to up and go polygamous and then start messing with his child. Something has seriously gone haywire in that family.

  • @Bevlep
    @Bevlep Год назад +921

    How she could tell her story without falling apart, my god. How absolutely disgusting her father was, what a sick monster!!! Her whole family failed her completely. What a strong woman that did not deserve any of this.

    • @lenejaia
      @lenejaia Год назад +37

      That’s not “her” story…..that story was given to her….I’m glad she detached from what happened to her, because it was not her fault

    • @goldsteinist
      @goldsteinist Год назад +18

      @@lenejaiaso well written. It was never her bag. So she left it behind. God bless her. She deserves nothing but happiness for the rest of her life. 🙏

    • @midnajanedoe
      @midnajanedoe Год назад +1

      I was wondering that as well.. she’s so calm no tears 😢

    • @madeinblue7237
      @madeinblue7237 Год назад +3

      I don't know, I think a lot of victims kind of learn to accept it and feel like it's not 'that much of a big deal'. Like of course we feel hurt, confused and betrayed but at the same time we kind of just accept it. Maybe it's because no one around us reacted in an angry, protective, 'this is horrific and I'm gonna save you' way so we don't know how to feel those emotions for ourselves. We know it's wrong but don't register how wrong it really is because no one around us did.

    • @Athena6990
      @Athena6990 Год назад +9

      Because shes had years to process

  • @neworleanzgrl
    @neworleanzgrl Год назад +743

    That Mother had sooo many demons,insecurities,and her own un-healed trauma. Nothing is remotely excusable for what she did, or allowed. This story is the main reason why it’s so important to seek healing/therapy from childhood trauma,before being a parent, or immediately upon learning/realizing your trauma.

    • @wanderlust2202
      @wanderlust2202 11 месяцев назад +11

      How do you still blame the victim( a woman as always) while not saying a single word about the perpetrator, a man? The guy was clearly abusing and manipulating every woman in his life!!! As a woman yourself, you should stop blaming every single wrong thing happening to everyone on another woman and call out men for their evil

    • @serlingcruz2905
      @serlingcruz2905 11 месяцев назад

      @@wanderlust2202the guy deserves to rotten in jail and he surely got what he deserved. However, that doesn’t take away the mom’s responsibility in all of the abuse, she was a responsible adult and let this man abuse her children for years on end. Nothing excuses the behaviour of those two animals

    • @queend2748
      @queend2748 11 месяцев назад +4

      This is the MOST DEPLORABLE AND DESPICABLE DEMONIC BEHAVIORS A CHILD COULD EVER ENDURE AT THE HANDS OF A DESPICABLE DEMONIC CREATURE PEDOPHILE. THIS YOUNG WOMAN HAS TO LIVE WITH THIS FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE STARING HER IN THE FACE EVERY SINGLE DAY. DAMN THIS IS SO SAD.

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 10 месяцев назад

      No no , she should have protected her kids​@@wanderlust2202

    • @clob3896
      @clob3896 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@wanderlust2202true

  • @le.symposie
    @le.symposie 5 месяцев назад +12

    "What happened to you is not who you are, you are the decisions that you choose to make". Very powerful and intense message ❤.

  • @Coach_MarcyBob
    @Coach_MarcyBob Год назад +559

    Crazy. Ain’t no way this could’ve been my child. Everybody involved getting buried. No lie. So sorry this happened to you, sis. ❤

  • @weirdarthistorian
    @weirdarthistorian Год назад +297

    The cruelty and danger this woman went through is just beyond words. 💔 She is so strong and I wish her only the best for her future!

  • @bellah8393
    @bellah8393 Год назад +1012

    As a survivor of repeated incest by my only sibling, I feel your pain. I also admire your strength and courage. I didn’t go through even a fraction of what you did though. I couldn’t tell my mother until I was 21. She didn’t believe me. When I was 32, my niece told her father, that this same abuser, had been molesting her. My parents refused to believe that was true. I told my father why I felt my niece was telling the truth, because of what he’d done to me. I did this through a letter. He never said a word about it. My sibling was convicted in two different counties for molesting my niece. He got nearly a total of twenty years in prison. My mother believed in his innocence to the day she died. My father and I discussed it briefly, since my mother died, and he says he believes me. I haven’t had contact with my brother, except in the ICU when our mother was dying, for nearly thirty years. I’m still not sure if my dad really believes me or not. Thank you for your very personal story. May you have peace and happiness.

    • @AnniePannanie
      @AnniePannanie Год назад +69

      I am sorry that you had to go through this. I hope both and your niece are now safe and had/have all the help you need.
      I really hope your father believes you and is just to embarrassed that he couldn't protect you to talk about it. I'm also so sad for you, that your mother couldn't stand up for you. I'm sure deep down she knew you weren't lying, but it is easier to say lair than to see your own mistakes (not noticing/ protecting you). Still, it is awful what she put you through and it's your strength that let you live and that's amazing and impressive tbh

    • @TheGloomyTuesday
      @TheGloomyTuesday Год назад +30

      I'm sorry love. 😞

    • @caramileelliott1719
      @caramileelliott1719 Год назад

      You should have poison him!! That is so disgusting on so many level!

    • @bellah8393
      @bellah8393 Год назад +63

      @@caramileelliott1719 While going through it, I was so young, he made it all seem like a game, until I got old enough to know better and I found my voice and I made it stop. As much as I detest him, it’s not my job to seek vengeance, it’s God’s. My dad, unfortunately, tells me things about my brother often and I’m happy to say, his life is a constant shit hole. While my life, is quite nice with a husband who treats me like a queen, children and grandchildren. God has blessed me profusely.

    • @fayemijumoke
      @fayemijumoke Год назад +14

      Thank God you were able to find your voice. I just can't imagine all that you went through all those years. Thank God for blessing you with a family of your own. Love and light!!

  • @MaNcu-dg2wt
    @MaNcu-dg2wt 2 месяца назад +3

    How is this even possible? A mother has to make whatever sacrifice to protect her children. God bless you for having the courage to share your story. This is painful.

  • @andreal5947
    @andreal5947 Год назад +539

    As women we need to do better to protect our daughters and family members from this kind of abuse. Abuse could not continue if family members would stand up against it.

    • @bellachannell777
      @bellachannell777 Год назад +12

      Amen

    • @megamoneyk
      @megamoneyk Год назад +6

      Omg this crazy I'm so upset

    • @Maz-zb9uf
      @Maz-zb9uf Год назад +30

      No what need to hold men accountable as well instead of instant everything on the women

    • @zawagift9361
      @zawagift9361 Год назад +4

      The dangers of extended family, the best family is nuclear and the worst is a polygamous one.

    • @jennhypp5367
      @jennhypp5367 Год назад +16

      @@Maz-zb9uf we can have that conversation a trillion times, but the reality is that they’re not held accountable. At a certain point it’s up to you to take precautions to protect Urself and ur children. A lot of women also turn a blind eye to the sexual abuse of children bc of what they benefiting from it , it’s very common

  • @ihanakaunotar2741
    @ihanakaunotar2741 Год назад +387

    This is so sad, he stole her life basically. She’s so brave.

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 Год назад +3

      @@amandaobiorah
      I agree with you 100%

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 Год назад +6

      🥜 Families 😢
      Unbelievable 😮 She knew that she was wrong! I left my family age 10 the same reason not father but brother! I said No and left 🎉

    • @sasshil4202
      @sasshil4202 Год назад

      @@amandaobiorah wow. You are awful.

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 Год назад +1

      @@amandaobiorah
      God knows she was wrong!
      So does she!

    • @helenchoe5970
      @helenchoe5970 Год назад +1

      @@emryadora
      I became a servant and worked like SLIVE! Been married to 1 man for more than 50 years & educated myself.
      Other sister who accepted sexual relationships for years is in mental institution and I have been financially assisting her. God bliss me with wisdom

  • @moodmusic2495
    @moodmusic2495 Год назад +133

    This woman is so brave. She did what her mother could not do

  • @moneyblue8466
    @moneyblue8466 4 месяца назад +16

    As much as I hate this happened to you, listening to this story makes me realize how brave you were and you were the chosen one for all this because you stood up to not only your dad but mother who all let this happen because of weak character something you didn’t have because you had more confidence than anyone ever

  • @nana2monie
    @nana2monie Год назад +212

    The fact you didn’t let this cripple you but push you and become such an amazing woman is beautiful…

  • @garyallen1473
    @garyallen1473 Год назад +825

    When I hear stories like this I get so angry and depressed at the same time. He had a wife and several girlfriends, why did he have to also violate his daughters.

    • @giftofYah7
      @giftofYah7 Год назад +178

      I believe when we deviate from the template set by our creator it leaves room for deviance and immorality. The wicked mind just finds more and more ways to be wicked. It will never be enough.

    • @lizzieoluwaseyi5869
      @lizzieoluwaseyi5869 Год назад +107

      @@giftofYah7 very correct! You stay away from God, the devil teaches you more ways to become evil

    • @sharlawilliamson9609
      @sharlawilliamson9609 Год назад

      Rape is not about sex, it's about power. So he sees all females as objects for him to control, use and abuse as he pleases. There is no place in the world for monsters like this "man"

    • @lem1738
      @lem1738 Год назад +3

      @@lizzieoluwaseyi5869you’re gay

    • @Bringmeariii
      @Bringmeariii Год назад +67

      @@lizzieoluwaseyi5869 You do realise that majority of people that sexually abuse children are religious. Which is why it’s sick.

  • @annavenson3893
    @annavenson3893 Год назад +379

    This is one of the most heart-wrenching stories I've heard. I became emotionally distressed and wept as Aziza continued to tell her story. Her mother is just as guilty as her disgraceful, sick and evil father for allowing this to happen. Domestic violence and fear should not have stopped the mother from protecting her children. She could have stopped this heinous abuse from the beginning. Aziza's courage and strength in speaking out is one of the paths towards healing.

    • @evelynfidler6285
      @evelynfidler6285 Год назад +2

      I agree

    • @izzydeadyet7336
      @izzydeadyet7336 Год назад +7

      My grandfather molested my mother and her sisters growing up, my mum always said my grandmother didn't step in because he used to beat the crap out of her .. but as a mother myself, a man would have to kill me to get to my kids! This is a big part of why I was a single mom their whole lives, refusing to leave them with babysitters and day cares .. I would absolutely kill a man !

    • @annavenson3893
      @annavenson3893 Год назад +3

      @@izzydeadyet7336 God bless you my love. ❤ You are truly inspirational and I admire your profound affection and concern for your children. They are so lucky to have a mother like you. Take care and I wish you all the very best. ❤

    • @CHARITOBERMEJO-lv3sx
      @CHARITOBERMEJO-lv3sx Год назад +3

      I want to hug this woman. I admire her a lot

  • @melindarodriguez1513
    @melindarodriguez1513 4 месяца назад +8

    She has such a bright outlook on life! She has an angel with her, not many victims are able to lead a life as she has. She’s brilliant despite what she’s gone through and helps others. I applaud her bravery ❤❤❤

  • @mrsanderson3547
    @mrsanderson3547 11 месяцев назад +207

    OMG I just cried real tears 😭 I'm so happy to see she is focused on healing, and helping others.

  • @shawnatwood4653
    @shawnatwood4653 Год назад +243

    He told the mom. She did not get upset until she realized his girlfriend was in on it. That mom should be in prison.

    • @beelarehman5992
      @beelarehman5992 Год назад +1

      Agreed

    • @Passionfruitkisses15
      @Passionfruitkisses15 Год назад +6

      I was angry from the start but the fact that it was ok before when it was just him but another woman gets involved now you wanna get big and bad about your child being ABUSED!!!!!!!!! I’m so mad right now! Disgusting!!!!!

    • @WhatsyourIQ1
      @WhatsyourIQ1 Год назад +8

      He told her it was helping her allergies. I’m screaming in my soul some women want to be stupid and naive I’m convinced.

  • @brandienichole7474
    @brandienichole7474 Год назад +270

    My ex hurt our daughter in similar ways. I had him arrested. He bonded out (shouldn’t even be allowed in my opinion) and him and his lawyer put off court for two years. When he ran out of time and the prosecutor wouldn’t go less than 45 he ran. Hoping he gets caught soon so he can go to prison and be where he belongs.

    • @Im_so_Retro85
      @Im_so_Retro85 Год назад

      I would've killed him myself. Even if it meant me going to jail. I wouldn't care.

    • @elviacampos1858
      @elviacampos1858 Год назад +49

      Publish his picture you can prevent other pote victims 🙏👏👏great job protecting your baby

    • @biaccagreen7157
      @biaccagreen7157 Год назад +13

      Brandie I’m sorry for you and your daughter, I never understood how anyone could touch a child yet alone they’re on biological. I can relate to your ex being on the run, my abuser step-father skated retribution as well, he died. It took me years to get over the fact that he basically got away with what he did to me and my sister with the help of our mother sadly

    • @acealohbey2213
      @acealohbey2213 Год назад +2

      @@biaccagreen7157 he ain’t getting away with shit. if you have the courage, (because ive never personally seen any of the older ones) HELLRAISER the most recent one, it shows the sadistic side to what we deal with in the physical world because people have money and abuse their powers and titles. there is a place for them after they are judged. the truth is being revealed on every level. 🫶🏾

  • @karenkanyense8156
    @karenkanyense8156 8 месяцев назад +5

    You are definitely one of a kind. Your account of the experience you endured, how you grabbed the opportunity to bring the horrible situation to light, standing up to your father and how you have picked yourself up and moved on is such an inspiration, I salute you. May God grant you a far much more joyful life than your experiences.

  • @slix96
    @slix96 Год назад +385

    The calmness that she has while speaking of this horrific trauma is amazing. The things that happen to children behind closed doors seem to be coming almost “normal” and those who should be protecting them are the worst offenders.
    As horrible that her experiences are, I hope she and her children have peace and that she can give someone else who has/is experiencing something similar the courage to get help.
    God bless her

    • @montanapowell3896
      @montanapowell3896 Год назад +18

      I think her calmness comes from it being her normal and not really knowing to be upset about what was happening until she found out that it wasn't right.

    • @hellejrgensen9319
      @hellejrgensen9319 11 месяцев назад

      Republicans won't let women or girls get abortions even if the girl is pregnant because of incest. It's disgusting that men decides over women's bodies.

    • @mohamedndaro1431
      @mohamedndaro1431 10 месяцев назад +1

      Africa should have taught us more before America messed us up.

    • @donnabest2101
      @donnabest2101 9 месяцев назад +1

      The entire family is very soft spoken like I have never seen or herd them raise their voices from the aunts to the grand parents, very soft spoken.

    • @cal9112
      @cal9112 9 месяцев назад

      Family is the worst, take it from me

  • @missdesireindependance5194
    @missdesireindependance5194 Год назад +346

    I personally feel the mother could have stopped this man behavior by going to the police. I hope this family can heal.

    • @cal9112
      @cal9112 Год назад +8

      Mothers arethe worst

    • @prislaem3838
      @prislaem3838 Год назад +19

      @@cal9112 don't generalize all mothers please. And you don't know what he threatened her with. He might have told her he would kill all the children if she said anything. He used to beat her and who knows what else. We only heard about him for the most part, she might not have willingly gone along with it.

    • @siobhanofarrell4646
      @siobhanofarrell4646 Год назад +21

      @@prislaem3838Some mothers are just shitty. My own older sister is a narcissistic sociopath. She knew our dad emotionally and physically abused me (as well as allowing one of his brothers to get away with molesting me), that he emotionally and physically abused our mother. My mom and I both warned her not to leave her daughters alone around him (he’s a narcissistic sociopath too) but because she was daddy’s little princess she arrogantly assumed he’d never do anything to one of HER kids. When she found out he molested one of her daughters, she blamed him, her husband, but, to this day has refused to accept one ounce of responsibility for what was done to her child. Needless to say, her husband finally got fed up with her ass and left her

    • @prislaem3838
      @prislaem3838 Год назад +3

      @@siobhanofarrell4646 yes, SOME not all. I agree you you on that. Also, my heart goes out to you. I hope you are healing from your trauma. The memories never go away, and the emotional pain comes and goes like the tides. So cry when you need to, be angry when you must, but don't let any of it consume you. Don't lose yourself in the murky darkness. It's not, nor was it ever, your fault. I also hope your brother-in-law took his children with him when he left. It would be sad if the cycle was repeated on them.

    • @missdesireindependance5194
      @missdesireindependance5194 Год назад

      @@kaya856 both are to blame. The mother could have called the cops.

  • @recklessstaghomestead
    @recklessstaghomestead Год назад +357

    These crimes should be a death sentence! The amount of hate and sadism it takes to do this to a child, is not something you can repair.

    • @aojuri01
      @aojuri01 Год назад +15

      That's true. It should be life in prison for all paedophiles

    • @recklessstaghomestead
      @recklessstaghomestead Год назад +14

      @@aojuri01 gen pop without police protection. Let them reap what they sow.

    • @regalynwilliams536
      @regalynwilliams536 Год назад

      I'm sitting here appalled at the behavior of this dysfunctional so called family. He should be put to death. All these messed up children. Good thing the brother showed up to help her. Damn shame! Your baby having a dad and a grandson. BS! I'm not leaving the so called MOM, who did nothing to stop the bastard!! SICK, SICK and SICKER!!! Congratulations to you. Everyone has a story ❤❤

    • @sonja0707
      @sonja0707 Год назад +6

      This IS SATANIC ACTIVITIES

    • @CathyLTate
      @CathyLTate Год назад

      @@aojuri01At Taxpayers Expense?

  • @kueunice1654
    @kueunice1654 8 месяцев назад +6

    So amazing she has the courage and strength to stand up against someone who has dominated and brainwashed her since childhood. Thank you for showing us that it is possible to move beyond such traumatic experiences and be a force for good.

  • @creatorschild8247
    @creatorschild8247 Год назад +166

    You are a perfect example of what a survivor can achieve.
    You are a very beautiful, intelligent woman & I’m so happy you overcame this childhood tragedy 🙏🏼

    • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
      @UnfilteredStoriesYT  Год назад +10

      Thanks for your support and kind words ❤

    • @rihannaajie3866
      @rihannaajie3866 Год назад +1

      @@UnfilteredStoriesYT was the father and mother's mental health checked?

  • @wasanyihenry5099
    @wasanyihenry5099 Год назад +300

    I used to complain about my childhood because we were always broke and I believed my parents were not doing enough for us to have a happy life, now am grateful to them for actually being parents and doing the right thing even in poverty. Listening to this feels like a fiction story, but the word incest does exist so clearly these things happen and it’s sad to know how bad they mess up people’s lives

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Год назад

      Trust there are so many strange, disgusting stories out there that fiction has nothing on reality. I’ve heard things that make me perpetually disgusted with human beings.

    • @stacey4u2luv
      @stacey4u2luv 8 месяцев назад +4

      As they say money cannot buy love. With love comes protection, nurturing and care. Not spoiled children that think the world owes them material things. When you have real love you have parents that will sacrifice and put thier children first even if they cannot give them everything. Health and food come before buying the latest toys etc..

  • @theophosticphil
    @theophosticphil Год назад +141

    This woman is extremely strong to have survived and able to share her testimony with others!

  • @Brett.Crealy-kh1sk
    @Brett.Crealy-kh1sk 9 месяцев назад +15

    You are the hero of your own story! My total respect! You are a champion! 🏆🥇👍

  • @BF-xc2sk
    @BF-xc2sk Год назад +264

    This woman is the living evidence that it is possible to survive any evil that could have happened to you. She is actually a gift for humanity.
    A real survivor.

    • @RG_Eph
      @RG_Eph Год назад +14

      She is very strong. There are people though with mental illness who wouldn’t be able to handle it which is not their fault at all.

    • @Miishay-divnappt
      @Miishay-divnappt Год назад +4

      Slaves lived this hell, for centuries by anyone who chose to abuse them!

    • @okiedokieartichokiee
      @okiedokieartichokiee 2 месяца назад

      Everyone is different tho. Every brain is different. Every situation is different. Stop shaming people that have a more difficult time getting through such trauma. It doesn't make them any less of a survivor.

  • @ladyl22
    @ladyl22 Год назад +134

    Every time I watch these videos i be thankful for my dad for being a good man and wasn’t a monster smh I rather have my future kids have absent father than have a monster father

    • @jeanprinsloo2834
      @jeanprinsloo2834 Год назад +4

      Very true ❣️

    • @haileyt857
      @haileyt857 Год назад +4

      Hearing how common this is, I'm gonna just go to the sperm bank and be a single mother should I decide on a bio child. 😔

  • @michkaadan5045
    @michkaadan5045 Год назад +564

    Your story sounds similar to a cult. Your dad cutting you guys off from society, the abuse, not being able to leave the house and so on.

    • @manny3918
      @manny3918 Год назад +19

      Yup, there's a TV show on netflix just like that

    • @germyw
      @germyw Год назад +24

      It was. There have been many family cults like this.

    • @candyalex12
      @candyalex12 Год назад +23

      Definitely a cult. Just horrible.

    • @kellymurphy6667
      @kellymurphy6667 Год назад +10

      Cults are high control groups and coercive controlling behaviours are part of family and domestic violence too

    • @chrissiepuriza3866
      @chrissiepuriza3866 Год назад +2

      DEFINITELY

  • @kathy1310
    @kathy1310 8 месяцев назад +4

    What a remarkable young woman, to not only survive such a horrific childhood, but to build herself a good life and to endeavour to help others in similar situations. I cried when she said that she managed to graduate college, and that she got her children back, because this shows to me that she has retained a healthy mind and a good soul, despite the depravity she endured. Very impressive, I wish her a good and productive life!

  • @angelstarr5509
    @angelstarr5509 Год назад +334

    Her father was sick and her mother was just as bad to encourage such act, she did nothing to defend her girls, but blatantly encourage it knowing fully well what he and his girlfriend was doing. Sick ppl

    • @niyawilliams2.021
      @niyawilliams2.021 Год назад

      She did not encourage you NUT she was fearful of her husband and beat her did you not watch the video

    • @diahreea2022
      @diahreea2022 Год назад +23

      Most mothers side with the man, and some even blame the daughter

    • @YouYou-sm8tf
      @YouYou-sm8tf Год назад +14

      ​@@diahreea2022 It’s sad that women are doing that to their own kids

    • @RosieWilliamOlivia
      @RosieWilliamOlivia Год назад +10

      ​@@YouYou-sm8tf mothers get away with a lot. People forgive or ignore.
      In many ways they are worse than the men.
      Animal mothers protect their children to the death, human mothers assist in abuse and kill their own children (more often than biological fathers, look it up).

    • @YouYou-sm8tf
      @YouYou-sm8tf Год назад +8

      @@RosieWilliamOlivia It remind me of a woman who lived near us. She had daughter with her ex somes years ago but broke up, then later married another man and got another daughter with him as well.
      She mistreated her 1st daughter like worse than slave/animal. She beated her for no reason, while treating the 2nd daugther like a princess. She treated her husband like a king while he cheated on her multiple times.
      If her husband didn't like their daughter, she would probably mistreat her as well.
      I think too many women lack self-esteem and would abuse/kill her own child for the love/approval of men.
      We need and should make more women accountable for those kind of things....
      There are so many stories where step fathers abuse the kids and the mother never report to police.

  • @JNB520
    @JNB520 Год назад +178

    Oh dear God this is so sad. How can people be so evil especially to children, your own children. Thank you Aziza for sharing your story

  • @angorachic
    @angorachic Год назад +495

    This is probably the worst case of abuse I have ever heard. How did all of these adults (including the mom) allow this to happen? I grew up near this area and cannot believe this happened in NJ. All of those adults should be in jail for life. This is heartbreaking. I still cannot believe this.

    • @aramakuypers1693
      @aramakuypers1693 Год назад +32

      Right?! Like HOW, 4 dang kids with a pedofile rapist. This is SO scary

    • @nidhia6925
      @nidhia6925 Год назад +1

      The hardest part is she seems so opinionated....where was her voice at that time?
      May be she was too Young....

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Год назад +22

      @@nidhia6925 That, and depending on how violent and abusive her dad was, and the lack of support and protection from the other adults around her, she probably was heavily restricted in what she could say and do. I was a quiet and scared child due to my abusive father. I was constantly walking on egg shells regarding what I said and did, and I had zero support from my mom who would also partake in the abuse. It wasn’t until I worked on healing and wanting better for myself that I found my voice, and am less scared to speak and share my opinion.

    • @puffymuffin9064
      @puffymuffin9064 10 месяцев назад +1

      Oh no this poor lady and what she went through with her father very sad

    • @Shebrew144
      @Shebrew144 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@nidhia6925she was abused since she could remember until adulthood. Children who are abused learn to be quiet and learn not to upset their abuser. Remember the same abuser is the one they have to depend on for their daily needs. They usually scare them and if they are vocal they are harshly punished until their will is broken. Abusers do anything to make them comply very early in life. If they do stand up it takes a very long time for them to.

  • @Cheryl-j8y
    @Cheryl-j8y 9 месяцев назад +11

    This is so sad by the grace of God this young lady is able to tell her story the pain and suffering she had to deal with the abuse may God continue to bless her .

  • @mayanthigaragoda9638
    @mayanthigaragoda9638 Год назад +204

    Her mom knew what her father was doing to her 😢 It's unbelivable.A mom let her husband to abuse her own daughter 😡

    • @fakihdarusi4385
      @fakihdarusi4385 Год назад

      Did go to hospital for labor

    • @tastesweet9027
      @tastesweet9027 Год назад

      @@fakihdarusi4385 no had them at home

    • @kubolor1234
      @kubolor1234 Год назад +2

      She was probably also brainwashed

    • @audlovgodbland8153
      @audlovgodbland8153 Год назад +4

      Maybe mom's could be scared and ashamed! But! Mee I will always protect my daughter's! I can't be a dumb mom!

  • @eagledice2008
    @eagledice2008 Год назад +309

    This is satanic there's just no other explanation I'm glad she survived

    • @nikicarrie4071
      @nikicarrie4071 Год назад +9

      This is man it happens a lot

    • @Christopher_J
      @Christopher_J Год назад

      ​​@@nikicarrie4071 Man is a horrible beast at times but this man is spiritually unclean and under the willful influence of demons. He is in prison and will be forever tormented by the depravity who lowered himself to and put his own child through. I would say the vast majority of the male population do not comitt incestuous abuse of children. 💔😒

    • @elliemichel7560
      @elliemichel7560 Год назад

      This is absolutely satanic and demonic. All of that

    • @sunnyhunn9315
      @sunnyhunn9315 Год назад

      Devilish indeed…there’s no way around it. A father is the first to protect their child from predators, not become the very nightmare he’s supposed to protect her from. This is why The Bible says we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, the things people do are far from what it seems on the surface; this is demonic and this guy’s job is to keep renewing this demonic covenant through his filthy acts. Disgusting.

    • @MDMuppetBones
      @MDMuppetBones Год назад +17

      It’s not satanic. This was a normal human man that did this. Don’t blame it on something outside of him. HE did that.

  • @karashera2252
    @karashera2252 10 месяцев назад +116

    How can she be such a strong woman after all that happened to her? She has all my admiration for Who she has grown to be despite her past life. Her last words really touched me: You are not what happened to you.

  • @PBTKaizen
    @PBTKaizen 6 месяцев назад +7

    Omg who is this beautiful angel that maintains such positive outlook after such a horrific story ! God Bless this woman!

  • @christinakara278
    @christinakara278 Год назад +102

    The strength of this lady is unbelievable, bless her and her work

  • @Lina.Initiate
    @Lina.Initiate Год назад +149

    Aziza is incredible! You saved your family.

  • @truth_hunter
    @truth_hunter Год назад +229

    How awful to have a traumatic past like this. But to report him to the police and he finally gets what he deserves for ruining his family’s lives. Just glad she was able to go to college on scholarships and get degrees doing well for herself and her children.

  • @taslimakhatun9344
    @taslimakhatun9344 Месяц назад +1

    Can't even put together a thought after listening to this.
    This lady is beyond strong, and intelligent.

  • @Pennydeadful
    @Pennydeadful Год назад +271

    I’m so incredibly sorry that you were let down and abused by those who were supposed to protect you. You’re such a brave person to raise the red flags when at the hospital and confront them all when you got back. It must have been both scary and a huge relief to finally take your power back 💙

  • @Elaine-gn3uz
    @Elaine-gn3uz Год назад +149

    The amount of torment she went through over all those years but still remaining tough and standing up for herself and her sisters , just shows how strong she's built.

  • @joselin2466
    @joselin2466 10 месяцев назад +74

    I worked with abused children many years. You are SO strong and it is so important for children to have back up, someone to talk to and who believes in them. The earlier they get help the better. Thanks for turning your nightmare into power ❤

  • @sabine7864
    @sabine7864 4 месяца назад +5

    Stories like this send shivers up my spine! I feel sick out of my stomache! Wow a father is supposed to be a protector and a rock for a daughter! I'm glad she found a way and used that opportunity to escape, who know how many generations this would have continued to

  • @ninnny5659
    @ninnny5659 Год назад +175

    I will never understand ,,mothers " allowing someone to harm their children.

    • @EdnaBombo
      @EdnaBombo Месяц назад

      That what fear does. It sucks the life out of you

  • @jessieg1313
    @jessieg1313 Год назад +63

    “What happened to you is NOT who you are” I have no words. You are the goal that light at the end of the tunnel. I will buy and read your book.

  • @Mary-zd6ow
    @Mary-zd6ow Год назад +237

    I wish your mother was charged with something as well. This is absolutely horrible and I commend you for your strength, perseverance and sharing your testimony.

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 Год назад +4

      The mom was a victim as well. Many victims grow to be adult victim who Dnt know as well.

    • @kiaq1153
      @kiaq1153 Год назад +16

      @@tarahill308 she started off as a victim , but became an enabler.

    • @tarahill308
      @tarahill308 Год назад +4

      @@kiaq1153 most never grow up. Never put your learnt lessons in life on the next person. Just be thankful with the time you learned yours.

    • @1_star_reviews
      @1_star_reviews Год назад +4

      The grandparents too. How the hell was he able to do these things while living in his in laws house? 😡😡😡

    • @fifthlegendfifthlegends6501
      @fifthlegendfifthlegends6501 Год назад +1

      You can’t blame the mum when she’s scared of her life. Considering how he beats her and how controlling he his. However, she could’ve raised an alarm and end the marriage or whatever was going on between her and the monster.

  • @rico.rebenga
    @rico.rebenga Месяц назад +1

    To laugh and smile means how strong you are.
    You didn't let this monster take your beauty or joy away.
    God bless you for you and for shining your light for others to see!

  • @xtinabellarini9393
    @xtinabellarini9393 Год назад +373

    I am so sick of these filthy paedophile pigs taking advantage of children. How the hell do people do this to their own. Her mother wasn’t there to protect her coz she was afraid of a beating. I wish the courts had the right to neuter humans who should not have children and the girlfriend! What a score! A married man who is abusing his children and you join in. How does not one adult say this is wrong?? I am so glad this girl has come out of this with a smile on her face. I wish you all the peace and future happiness. Brave lady.

    • @kgreen8527
      @kgreen8527 Год назад +17

      Her mother should receive life in prison for being a dummy and a coward!!!

    • @79488djrolw
      @79488djrolw Год назад

      ​@godhg9694 its time for u to stfu. What shes doing is empowering and helping others. She understands something about happiness that u dont and she sure will be teaching her children to live life feeling joy despite what happened. Did u not see her book is titled shameless? Why should they feel shame, that takes away joy. These people understand that. U go take ur finger pointing and wagging somewhere else. Why dont u point it at the predators instead. U wrote a comment pointing at her, how many comments u wrote pointing about a child rapist? Let me guess ZERO. U go think about yourself and ur ridiculous mentality. I am so proud of her for SPREADING AWARENESS AND HELPING OTHERS BY TELLING HER STORY INSTEAD OF LIVING LIFE BROKEN AND ASHAMED AND KEEPING SECRETS THAT ENABLE PREDATORS

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 Год назад +6

      ​@@godhg9694 she can share this story for the rest of her life if she chooses🙄

    • @marywanjiku2246
      @marywanjiku2246 Год назад +6

      ​@@deenad3562
      GOD HG is what is wrong with society. Victims should be silenced so we can all live in a 'perfect' world naively at the expense of those suffering.

    • @Azulakayes
      @Azulakayes Год назад +12

      ​@@godhg9694 Victims/Survivors have a right to speak out about their experiences, they can shout it out from the rooftops if they want. It is about them, their healing and their chance to put the light to all the darkness in their lives.

  • @nattyophelia7879
    @nattyophelia7879 Год назад +110

    She is an INCREDIBLE woman . The very definition of resilience

  • @tkhcompany
    @tkhcompany Год назад +198

    This is more common than what people think. It's so very sad to abuse a child that trust you as an adult.... I have no other words, just pain in my heart.

    • @IneSa2008
      @IneSa2008 Год назад +8

      I feel like I can't breath oh my God, this is so painful

    • @jadibdraws
      @jadibdraws Год назад +5

      My grandma was telling me a story that she only mentioned once but it stuck with me. And it was how her mother ran away from home because her father and uncles were molesting her and she married a man 3x her age when she was only 14 and she talked about how much that disgusted her that her dad was so old. The suffering of women in general goes untold but ESPECIALLY black women. The common suffering of being in a society that doesn't give a damn about you and the generational trauma of abuse coming from all directions

    • @-amoureuse-9489
      @-amoureuse-9489 Год назад

      Very common in the black community…and black people REFUSE to admit it. I’m saying this as black woman..

    • @stevesmom9868
      @stevesmom9868 Год назад

      Happens often in the Amish communities!

  • @maryamali3347
    @maryamali3347 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you sister for speaking up. You are inspirational woman. Thank you🥰🥰

  • @janayialove4414
    @janayialove4414 Год назад +28

    Your grandparents knew something wasn’t right about him from the beginning… wow intuition is amazing … Thank God for you surviving and being brave to tell others your truth ❤ God bless sister

  • @lovelinendi6808
    @lovelinendi6808 Год назад +209

    I can't believe her mom stayed quiet to an extent that she was helping him with the process of birthing his own child and grand child 💔

    • @eliannahankin2971
      @eliannahankin2971 Год назад +2

      He was beating her mom. It’s not easy for victims speak out

    • @unknownperson5848
      @unknownperson5848 Год назад +53

      @@eliannahankin2971 STILL THAT IS YOUR CHILD. IT IS HER DUTY TO PROTECT HER

    • @kimoni6
      @kimoni6 Год назад +36

      ​@@eliannahankin2971pitiful excuses. She should've protected her daughter. I'm guessing you would've done the same.

    • @eliannahankin2971
      @eliannahankin2971 Год назад +8

      @@kimoni6 weak minded people get preyed on by psychopaths. Yes, she should have protected her daughter. The father was beating the mother. If you never been been beaten mercilessly before, you have no idea what it’s like

    • @Reese493
      @Reese493 Год назад +11

      ​@eliannahankin2971 when something is wrong, there's no excuse for it. The mom probably checked out mentally but, you fight! If not for herself, for the kids. The children who have no fault are a reason to wake the f*ck up

  • @carolinethomas391
    @carolinethomas391 Год назад +862

    Your mother is the biggest culprit she did not protect her children from a predator. More power to you.

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah Год назад

      Her father is the biggest culprit
      He physically raped n tortured her
      The mother was probably brainwashed and terrorized into submission

    • @megamoneyk
      @megamoneyk Год назад +75

      She needs to be in jail.

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +102

      They are all 3 equally the culprits- The father, his gf and the mother

    • @cplmpcocptcl6306
      @cplmpcocptcl6306 Год назад

      No. Obviously the mentally deficient pedo is at fault. Then all the others that allowed this.

    • @dalia8518
      @dalia8518 Год назад +25

      @@Anonymous-gt1eq yes but a mother is supposed to be the nurturer and protect her child

  • @namkebanyanklariti
    @namkebanyanklariti 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for having the courage to tell your story and standing up to evil. Thank you for looking out for your siblings🙏

  • @carmens.8817
    @carmens.8817 Год назад +122

    I’m sorry this happened to you and your sisters! I’m proud that you spoke up and saved yourself, your sisters and possibly your daughters! Please continue to stand tall and proud, continue to shine!

  • @GTA-bp4vf
    @GTA-bp4vf Год назад +27

    EVERY ADULT that was in that house should be held accountable along with the abuser. No excuses. It would not have happened it they did not accommodate it. To see you strong and smiling, it is a true reflection of you inner strengths.

  • @angeldavis7270
    @angeldavis7270 Год назад +74

    I saw this on TV. Could not even believe what I was hearing. At least one of her kids has chromosomal issues. She is so brave to survive this. I love her; she is a true survivor.