Woman Says She Felt ‘Angry And Ashamed’ After Stepson Confessed To Molesting Victims
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2020
- Over a year ago, Robbie admitted to his stepmother, Kristin, that he has sexual urges toward younger children. After being placed in an in-patient treatment program, the 15-year-old confessed that he had already acted on those urges.
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“I was devastated,” says Kristin, adding, “I felt angry and ashamed and embarrassed.”
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I didn’t even realize she was his stepmom because she talks about him like she birthed him and it’s amazing and kudos to her
It says it in the title 😐
@@kailahmonroe718 ok chill
Kailah Monroe did she say she didn’t know or she didn’t realize
Kailah Monroe nobody reads anymore
Cheyenne Holder i mean it’s pretty obvious with or without reading it , context clues , keep y’all selves educated , end of discussion .
i respect her so much, because he isn’t even her biological son, and she is stepping up like a boss to help him and protect others.
Well I mean, the other *five* kids are hers, right?? Lol
@@NeeNee_B. I shouldn't have laughed
Dad's not talking much though?
Tf, she doesn't like him and wants him out, the other kids are hers. Lol gtfo sheeple.
Thelegendl23 I think she does care! Do you see her holding back emotion, trying not to cry? I’m a mother and from experience I can tell you she cares. But she also needs to look out for the other children, it’s a hard situation.
Calling her a step mother is an insult. She is his mom. Look at what she's doing. Everything and anything she can do to help him. This woman is a pillar of strength. She's incredible, I'm in awe of her strength and determination.
She’s nothing more than a loving stepmom.
It's not an insult to be called a step mom or a stepmother. Step mom / stepmother has become an inherently bad word that is imprinted on children's minds before they even HAVE a stepmother. From Disney movies, to Saturday morning cartoons, to sitcoms, to social commentary, to social media. Let's stop this horrible stigma. (I don't think OP meant it this way-or at least I hope OP did not- but it's how OP's post comes across.)
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with calling a stepmom
It doesn't change the fact that she's not his real mom She still has stepmom Get your freaking facts straight
Ya damn right!!!!
I was sexually assaulted when I was 14. I told my therapist about it and she broke the confidentiality rule by telling my mom. My mom yelled and grounded me saying it wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t been sneaking out. For almost 3 years I blamed myself and didn’t tell anyone else. It’s still hard for me to realize it wasn’t my fault and I wish I had a mother like this one.
It’s not your fault. you are so strong and I’m so sorry you went through this
You shouldn’t blame yourself. The only person at fault is the one who assaulted you, it doesn’t matter if you had snuck out it doesn’t give anyone the right to do that to you. I’m so sorry that your mom reacted so horribly :(
I’m sorry that happened to you. While I don’t blame you for what happened this is a great lesson to other children to listen to their parents since there are a lot of evil people around. This is the main reason why my parents never allowed me to do sleepovers. I’m 19 so I can actually see why some parents may seem over protective, but some parents also lack explaining to their child why they’re over protective which in turn makes the children go out and discover why for themselves.
Well it is your fault, they told you not to sneak out and you did
I’m so sorry you’re mom said that!
You’re messed up if you tell someone who was sexually abused as a child to get over it.
My family after I told them my older brother's friends groomed and molested me when I was younger
@@starlethearlet237 my family told me to "get over it" and "its normal for kids to play like that" after i told then that my siblibg had raped and molested me for years when i was like 4-7 years old... Know how it feels..
when I told my grandma (who I'm close to) what happened to me she said "why do you have to be depressed over every little thing get over it" and when I told my bestfriend "the guy who sexually assaulted me ruined my life" she said "no he didn't he was a good boyfriend' but he literally assaulted me in front of her....
@@arabella4442 Oh my, I'm so sorry. And she did nothing but watch? Shame on her. God bless. I'm so sorry. I understand, I hear you, I believe you, and I love you. Stay strong luv💜💜
@@arabella4442 thats sick nobody deserves that. We are strong we are survivours ❤️
I don’t care if he is not biologically hers, she’s more than a stepmom, she’s his mom, she’s doing absolutely everything she can to help him and protect her kids.
and other kids** she's wonderful and everyone should learn something from her.
cherry g_rl yes correct!
Jae Jamieson thank you - I’m definitely trying to do what’s best for everyone - the right choices aren’t always the easy ones
@@kristinpiper you are amazing. I pray you find peace. I can't imagine how much pain and fear you have been dealt. Your children are blessed to have you.
Meagan Brown thank you 🙏
i respect her so much for taking action and not leaving it like it’s nothing. and the fact she’s doing this for her unbiological son makes it that much more incredible
It should be how a village cares for a child. Let's give stepparents the ability to be this way without being amazed. (OP I'm not saying you're rude or bad or anything on purpose, but these comments perpetuate that people in parental roles that are non-biological are as a norm-inferior or likely unable to be that permanently positive, just as valuable, just as loving, just as important, just as bonded parental figure. I'm not attacking you, I'm just saying.)
@@Khate999It Takes a Village ? We know where you got that from. Actually it TAKES A MOTHER AND FATHER.
She’s his stepmother?! Wow. Props to her taking on such a difficult role. Just goes to show the expanses of a mother’s kindness and heart. You’re doing an amazing job.
This. Is. How. You. Prevent. Child. Sexual. Abuse. You notice the signs. You get them help. If they stay violent, you keep them locked up. THIS SAVES LIVES.
YES! This needs to be the standard. Not "it's a family matter so were gonna sweep it under the rug" I know all too well how that turns out.
They didn’t notice but they did get help
Yeah like I’ve got mad respect for these parents!!!
Isaiah I am so shocked that he came forward and asked his parents for help, I think that means that there is some hope for him. I hope he doesn’t remain sick
Angelique Davis if he stays self aware he will probably come close to snapping but turn himself in every time
this is his STEPMOM.. incredible woman
I just saw that too I'm wondering where his real mom is and if she is connected to the reason why he is behaving like this??
👏🏼
No she’s not
Puddintang Gnatniddup it’s really inhuman to make stories up of something so delicate just for attention
@@puddintanggnatniddup7619 actually only around 3% of rape allegations and such are false so you would be wrong there. And in america at least 1 out of every 6 women has been molested so it's not really an uncommon occurrance.
This child was groomed. I wonder who was that man that was in their lives who only wanted Robby to visit.
Not all pedophiles are groomed. Actually most are born with specifically different neurological functions. He’s also open enough to tell them about all he plans on doing so he would say that he was groomed
@@peytonharrell1740 in the episode the mom sais that she had to cut a relationship off with a man that always wanted only Robby around. Also the boy said he doesn't know if he had ever done something to him. Im not talking about other instances just this specific case.
@@peytonharrell1740 sounds like ur trying to defend pedophiles and avoid accountability but ok
@@boss_galaga94 it doesn’t matter Robbie still had a choice to be better same as the mother who was touched as well
@@Brent10_ton exactly.
1. Robbie feeling comfortable enough (while knowing its wrong and most likely being very embarrassed by it) to go to his parents and really tell them whats going on, what hes feeling and thinking, and when he really needs help because he says hes getting dangerous is very brave of him.
2. His parents listening to him and actively trying to get him help. Not letting him be unsupervised, all of the things they are doing, is so good to see. This has most definitely stopped him from having the chance to abuse his siblings and/or other children.
HE SAID HE BELIEVES ITS NOT WRONG. HE DIDNT ADMIT TO IT TO TRY AND HELP OTHERS. HE DID IT BECAUSE HE FELT SO COMFORTABLE WITH HIS THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS. stop making him out to be the hero! U people are messed up
@@uhidk7940 thank you I've seen so many people giving the kid praise like he doesn't actively want r*** children and says he wouldn't regret it and it's sick
yeah no his medical reports clearly show that he doesn’t feel any remorse nor does he believe his victims need to be protected from him. He was almost threatening his parents or bragging or something, idk. But he definitely didn’t come forward because “something in him” knew what he was doing was wrong.
@@rad6286 He quite literally told his mom to help him or else he would do something bad. He knows it’s wrong and that it’s not normal. This is proven by his actions and words. I have no clue as to why his psych evaluations say otherwise, unless he decided to lie about knowing that it’s wrong when they were evaluating him. If so, it was probably because he didn’t feel comfortable enough to say that to people that weren’t his mom. He probably thought that it was better to SEEM unaware of how bad his thoughts are.
This woman is very, VERY special.
Definitely.
Frrr
Honestly that guy lucked up
Plenty of women are in this very same position. You would be suprised i am but its my parent im trying to help.
@@blackarchon8778 sorry to hear.
she was molested at 4th grade, finally had enough courage to confirm her mom about it at the age of 22, then her mom just says ''you're gonna get over it'' ... umm like when?! if she clearly hasn't till now?!
Edit: I understand that the mother was hurt and maybe she said that because there was nothing to be done at that time and knows that to be healed from it is to let it go even tho it’s extremely hard thing to do
"Getting over" trauma is a funny thing. Does it mean forgetting about it completely? Or becoming emotionally detached from it? I dont think that anyone gets over it. Because even if you forget. Theres still a piece that remembers. Even if you emotionally detach. There are still questions and behaviors that linger from it.
I'm a 4th generation rape victim. My mother and great grandmother dont remember the assault. But there was clear evidence it happened. My grandmother was a product of it. My grandmother was raped several times.
I myself remember some of the assaults that happened to me. But theres one I cant figure out, I have a deformities caused by blunt trauma. It's small and doesnt effect me much. But my gyno confirmed what type of trauma it wouldve had to have been. I was not born with it. Tho I dont remember when it happened. It haunts me almost more than the assaults I remember. I dont even have enough pieces to let go of. Just questions and fears
@@chaysethebadger I feel for you, and i'm praying that you always be emotionally and mentally strong, may no one in your family go through it again.
Which is why most sexual assault victims don’t come forward
How can a MOTHER say that to someone especially her own DAUGHTER!!! It’s absolutely disgusting and no mother should put their child in that position
@@tamararv its very sad
As a victim of molestation when I was 6 by my own cousin. I get her protectiveness towards children, the feeling of being robbed off your innocence at a very early age is traumatic it almost cost me my sanity, to the point of being detached of any emotions and the only thing I can feel is desire since I suffered being a Hypersexual, I was like a parasite hogging all the fleeting feelings i can feel in sexual pleasures and it disgusts me, it took me 14 years before I was able to tell my mother on what happened to me and she just hugged me and cry along with me.
Man this is scary so its true that other cousins molested their female cousins
Hey can I kill some molesters?
@@MisleadJACOB9391 all types of people can molest all types of people. cousins, siblings, uncles, even parents sometimes. it's a cruel world.
hey girly 👋I'm aware we do not know each other 😭😭 but as someone who relates to your story way too much, I genuinely hope you're better. ilysm fr 💗
I was SA by my cousin too when I was younger….
I'm Male and 15, and for me I was molested when i was 7-11 by this far family friend. It really does traumatize you. I had a psychologist appointment just today but I had to say that I was okay even though im not because I didn't want to ruin my family apart. My parents don't know I had a conversation with a psychologist. I have severe PTSD and during that time til freshman year of high school i was being sexually abused at school. So it was ongoing. Fortunately, thanks to Covid I don't have to see my abusers anymore. Police were informed, it became a case, but I dropped the case so my family wouldn't be in pain. I feel so sorry for the mother, I feel her pain, but what her step son did and say just triggers and disgusts me. I hope her and her family heals.❤❤
Im sorry u went through that, but You shouldn't have dropped the charges
You should not of dropped the case. The abusers are now free to abuse more people. You could of stopped them and got them arrested.
Even though this is 2 years later, I'm sorry you had to go through that, but dropping the case was the worst thing you could've done. In the last 2 years your abusers could've been out doing the same thing that happened to you.
You can’t just drop child sexual assault charges. You’re lying.
@@maekoh he’s lying. You cannot drop sexual assault charges as a child. The state takes over, especially if this was a school employee
She is literally a mother by nature.
what
Yes some women when they become Mothers they become Mothers to all children. ❤️🙏
@@frenchvanilla7109 I love those type of women. truely, everyone can benefit from having someone like that in their lives.
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Get over it??? I swear some people should not be parents.
I was 21 when I told my mom what happened to me, she cried and held me, and told me she was sorry. I was floored when the lady said her mom told her to get over it.
Priness SmileyFace I wish my parents were like that. I got kidnapped awhile ago. I escaped and I’m fine now but when I tried to tell my parents about it, they both told me they didn’t want to hear about it. They expect me to just get over it, but I can’t. I have nightmares and severe anxiety now and I sleep with a knife to make me feel safer :(
bonsbennett Thank you. You’re very kind
TigerLily9 I’m so sorry that happened:(
Helena Dobson Thank you
She seems so freaking sweet. God bless her. She's gorgeous inside and out. I just want to give her a hug
Thats the best thing Dr Phil ever said "its not how that works".. you cant just get over it and forget about it.. you need to talk about it
you can tell it made her feel better when he said that
Wow and not even his real mom, kudos to her for loving him unconditionally and trying to do whatever it takes literally to help him. He felt comfortable enough to go to her and tell her his feelings. That says mountains about her! Great job stepmom!
Heck yeah a wonderful woman and step mom
Sharing her own story with Robbie had to be so hard but she did it anyway. She is a selfless person who definitely deserves respect
This woman deserves the world.
She’s definitely his “real” mom
Love Lasts Exactly what I was gonna say!
Don't be shy, drop the full episode
Bruh!
xDD
The water’s warm it’s fine just one episode
@@queeniebeanie3196 😭😂
ikr what's even this episode
You go girl!!! You put your face out there for someone that's not your blood. His mom doesn't even do that. You are stopping a prediture. I'm proud of you for being so strong.
I think that man has offended Robbie and that would explain why he is attracted to little boys and maybe he created his fantasies but Got ideas from the man
Honestly, the kid coming to her and telling her was the strongest things he could do. Something I him knows it's wrong, and he was crying for help.
Same with gay people
@@zzzzoa3377 lmao no buddy.
@@zzzzoa3377 Pedophiles hurt people. Gay people don't hurt anyone apart from your fragile masculinity
Thats what i was thinking too. The fact he said something is interesting & shows he trusts her soo much!
Now that you say this I'm realizing as bad as he wants what he wants, he also probably wants to protect others but this abnormal side of him is just urging him to think and feel the way he does maybe I'm wrong but theres always a possibilty I mean we dont even know this full situation yet I dont think.
They had a man in their life???? Wtf does that mean..i dont let anyone have time alone with my son who is not my mother, brother, or father.. because ik that all it takes is 1 minute for something to completely change my son's life . Watch your kids cautiously.
Perhaps an uncle or a grandfather? Most children are abused by family members.
Yea id say it was a family member and they no longer recognise that person as part of the family - if that makes sense ?
Or a friend/babysitter?
Possibly the biological mothers bf haven’t watched this whole episode to get the facts but that’s my thought
The stepmother ended the relationship though so that makes me think it may have been a neighbor or someone not family that she could easily ban? Unclear though.
The poor kid is incapable of understanding he is in the wrong. A case like that cannot be solved. The sad truth is he must be kept from society permanently unless there are any changes.
He deserves to be loved, he needs someone who doesn't judge him and would help him understand why he has these desires
it's sad because he actually told his parents about everything. it takes a lot of courage to confess something like that. I think that makes it clear that he also up to some level understood the hurt it could cause people and does not want to act to act on those urges. anyway he's probably 18 by now I hope he was able to change :/
People don’t just get over being molested. Sure it’s despicable to make stuff like that up, but for real victims, it’s awful
“Have they done a brain map of this child?”
As if that’s even available to the general public..
He's asking if a DOCTOR has done one...
Exactly. Insurance won't be covering any brain mapping at 65,000 a pop i would agree this is not a standard to the people. Lol.
There's a doctor in LA doing them for psychology. Saying if you have a broken arm you scan the arm so if you have a broken brain you scan the brain. It'd be worth a shot here.
Dr phil will do it for free 😬
Of course it it! For the bargain price of $8000 (after insurance).
She looks like Rachel McAdams
I thought that toooo
She does! Absolutely gorgeous, I hope I age that gracefully when I become a mom
I was wondering the whole time why she looks so familiar
Wanted to say that. She’s very pretty
She's beautiful but she doesn't look like Rachel McAdams
LOCK HIM UP AND NEVER EVER EVER LET HIM OUT EVER
Yes please
Yeah! Kill all of the mentally ill! It’s obviously their fault they act this way!
😂 wait calm down
he needs a hospital not a prison
@@Hamothoa prison can be both.
I wish the best for her and her family. It’s unfortunate that most families would just sweep it under the rug. The fact that she not only believed him, but recognized the signs of his predatory behavior and got him immediate help to protect the lives of not only her son, but so many other children. This is how we prevent sexual abuse. This story is especially touching because I was also sexually assaulted myself when I was 12. It’s not something that victims just “get over.” It ruins lives.
That boy should thank his lucky stars that he has a step-mother as strong as she is and that his parents contacted Doctor Phil instead of legal consequences. If he doesn’t stop he will end up in prison at 18. It’s amazing that she sees that and is trying to get him help. What an amazing lady.
Yes. He needs be in prison. Didn’t you read the description it says he doing it again
In the other video she says they're already pressing charges since the facility he's in doesn't want to help anymore and she doesn't want him to offend again. He would be put in an institution which is best for all involved tbh
@@theriseoftony Not necessarily prison. The fact is that he told his stepmother about these impulses and that takes courage. This young man needs a specialised institution.
Agree 100%
Wait so the lady is only his step-mother?
What do you do with a criminal that hasn’t committed a crime, but expresses his desire to? This is a tough one to watch.
*edit* I saw he has committed a crime and been caught, the question refers to his desire to offend again**
He’s already assaulted two young girls
He’s offended twice - both unwilling and both minors
In this case, a bullet.
Taylor Ashleigh I wasn’t aware of that, yikes, let’s say though he does his time, and gets released and says openly that he is going to do it again. How do you prosecute someone for a crime that they haven’t committed yet but will. The whole thing is creepy and I really feel for the parents.
TenThumbs Productions A prosecutor could attempt to use act of conspiracy which means they don’t do the crime but plan to. It would be difficult to prove though because you can’t really prosecute on a want rather they would have to find evidence that someone actively planned to commit a crime as in a journal or purchasing of equipment for the crime. It’s a legal black hole that’s difficult to prove but evidentiary if proven.
i love when any step-parent treats their step-kids like their own, i respect her
I can't begin to imagine my child coming home and telling me this. I hope they find a way to get him the help he needs.
I'm 25 years old man, I was sexually abused when I was 6 , my family told me to get over it and let it go.
But since that day I couldn't be normal again and now I'm dealing with mental illness, my advice to anyone who has been through this don't be scared to talk it's not your fault
I'm so sorry. Your trauma is valid.
Damn bro, sorry.
Oh damn, it's even worse because it's rare for men to come out with such experiences due to the stigma surrounding it. Wish you all the best!
@Rinka Anarchy Sometimes it’s easy to talk to stranger on internet than people in real life. At least you can’t judge them since your not in they’re position. + wanting attention from people is a mental illness too
I tried talking. Therapists told me the same thing, or that I made it up. Hopefully you found someone who could help though. I sympathize and best of luck with healing.
It sounds like this boy has been abused. He has endured a lot of abuse when he was young. Dr Phil is right need to dig up more. Where is his real mom.
He’s not the victim here
@@chandraschannel6166 hes victim who couldn't deal with the trauma and wasn't mentally strong enough to deal with it thus he broke and started to be a sexual fiend. He's still a child but he has serious issues. Many kids have been abused and don't end up like that. At least hes tryna seek help
i honestly disagree. i think that it is brain chemistry. i do think that something happened to him as a kid that made his condition worse but pedophilia is a psychological condition that you are born with
People who are in the situation like he is ... typically tend to have both, a mental or genetic component but also childhood abuse... I study psychology and there are case studies on criminals and offenders that show they have mostly endured childhood abuse of some form and also a family history of some kind... In his case could be one or both, but we dont know the whole story
sakura Of course he’s not, but there’s always a psychological reasoning behind behavior like this, and one of the most common ones for rapists and pedophiles is that they experienced similar things as children. It doesn’t make them victims or make what they did/do okay, it’s just a cause that triggers psychological behavior. It’s science.
I think it’s refreshing to hear and see a family that protects all of the children and don’t turn a blind eye.
I didn’t even realize this was his step mom. This woman is amazing
This is awful but i DO feel like there's something missing here
Literally same
Like what ?
Def I feel that too
Like they aren’t talking about why he became this way
100% agree people aren't born like this they are made . Maybe his bio mom is a horrible person ? Or that men that they talk about raped him ? Or something there has be way more to this story
i don’t know this lady personally but i love her. she deserves the world
this is horrendous to hear about a whole child coming from a 15 year old myself. thats so scary to hear. when i was younger i also got molested and i waited 10 years to tell my mom and she was so understanding because it happened to her when she was in her teens as well. my parents have been so supportive and no parent should ever say to just get over it. im so sorry for this family i genuinely feel disgusted by his thoughts
They need to stop blaming neurological problems and start calling it what it is. He’s a monster. Period.
Pretty much. Another way of normalizing pedophilia.
@@vulksen Really? By pointing out the fact that he most likely does NOT have a normal brain?
If he was a monster why would he come forward and admit this?
@@waspoppin4784 what kind of reasoning is that? He is clearly a sexual predator and has no remorse for it, he will do it again and again if not kept away from vulnerable individuals. Stop making excuses for this stuff! If it was your daughter that was sexually assaulted would you be so nonchalant about the crime simply because he ‘admitted’ it!??!
@@waspoppin4784 the man who raped me as a kid admitted his urges , what is your point it sounds like a psychopathic tell if you ask me, some people are just evil.
So the abused becomes the abuser. That sounds likely. I pray they can get this boy help. It's like real world vampirism, he has no choice.
That’s a very common cycle for kids who were abused. That’s why it is important that they get help to heal as early as possible
Plenty of abuse victims do not abuse. It is his choice, nobody EVER has to abuse someone else just Bc they were abused
He has plenty of choices ! He can choose not to repeat the cycle.
You're all right he does have a choice. But because he had been abused his cycle of appropriate behavior is messed up. He isn't going to fully understand. Plus this boy was made to feel powerless at a young age and is in a power struggle. He needs help and therapy.
The cycle of violence isn't broken by simple choices when you also have been damaged during formative years of your life. It is during that time that you are influenced so greatly that your level of what is normal is not normal at all. Not to mention brain damages can cause these behaviors, lobe damages, abnormalities etc. Yes, choices are something everyone has, however some people do not understand those choices, what their consequences are, or what to do about them.
Where's the child's biological mom? Does their family have a history of psychosis? I wanna know
There is definitely a genetic component to this. Would be interesting to know more
Luna Carminis not necessarily. He could’ve been groomed by the man who became obsessed with Robbie and possibly abused by him. I agree though, would definitely wanna know the family history
Christina Griz Abuse victims typically see no issues in their behavior when they get older. It would not surprise me if what that man did to Robbie scarred him for life. So if he more than likely was abused and his brain physically can’t remember. Our brains can produce things called amnesiac walls. Inevitably what they do is block certain memories in our brains from consuming us. Most people go their entire lives without realizing that they have some kind of trauma built up. This boy is self-aware though.. He knows something possibly happened. Honestly, I think he can be helped. I think with the right treatment and care he could live in society again. But that could take time.. probably a lot in this case.
Hello. I have psychosis, this is not psychosis. Please respect that, I’m sick of being made out to be a bad person because people aren’t educated about this topic. So much stigma in the way of people like me. I think you mean psychopathic. Have a beautiful day strangers. Keep smiling!
@@hekategoddess Preach 🙌
Yeah no you gotta lock this kid in a cage and throw away the key f
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HOW CAN YOU GET OVER BEING MOLESTED THAT'S SOMETHING YOU CAN'T GET OVER
I really hope Robbie gets help because this is absolutely devastating to him, his family and victims
There's no helping that
I honestly don’t know it’s just a tragic situation all around
In another clip they said he was institutionalized, however if he has offended before his family should press charges and he should face legal consequences.
Ok whatever
He's been getting help, but nothing is working.
She needs a mom of the world award.
This woman is one of the strongest people I have ever seen. This story just breaks my heart more and more.
This child would most likely be an adult now. I wonder where he is in life. I hope he's gotten the help he needs. And his mom as well.
Dr.Phil posting videos like there's no tomorrow like literally every second I get a notification...
LMFAOOOOO Dr.Phil's got some horny girls/bots watching his videos!!!!
@@thambir4192 tbh they need to stay on cornhub
@@moaptop5925 LOOOOL
And why are they snippets??? I want to see the whole show in one video...super annoying.
Like can’t they just put the full video 😂
Dr Phil: YA THAT’S NOT HOW THAT WORKS.
He’s horrible 💀😭
@@X043ver when he said that it made me so uncomfy. like even if it was directed at the step mums mum, i would been offended :p
rebecca samee
Offers no solution 💀
Dr phil
I am sorry that the mother was molested as a child and now knowing that Robbie has abused other children makes me wonder if he himself was abused as a young child
The fact that the child told her what he feels and urge to his stepmom meaning he truly respect her and want help and guidance.
What man? I don't understand how people let adults around their children. My parents were HAWKS with my safety.
Exactly I dont let anyone around my kids I even keep an eye on adults that I've known my entire life around my kids
you do realize that the kid the video is about is 15, right? adults aren’t the only ones who can potentially molest a child
@@Boudicaisback yup, you've got too. You can't trust anyone. I've heard too many stories where it's the grandfather or the own father doing things to their kids. You've got to protect your kids. God bless
@@FruityHachi I meant adult in relation to a child. Not the technical over 18 definition.
Natalie Johnson a 15 year old isn’t an adult in relation to a child in any way whatsoever
Wow looking at the old photos I hope the mother willingly lost that weight and not from stress, I hope she gets better very soon!
I thought the same. Hope they get some type of resolution
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Well she looks hot now. Really brings out her beauty.
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I could never imagine how to handle news like that and the fact that she's a victim. That takes so much strength its unbelievable.
Need to convict this man who molested her son! Go back and find him! File a report. It's so obvious. Children don't just have these feelings. It came from somewhere!!
Unfortunately your wrong some kids are born with sick tendencies
Not always true
I dunno… sometimes it is…
Why do you assume there was a man who molested his son? The buck has to stop somewhere. Somewhere down the line pedophiles are just born.
The fact the boy confided to his parents about it means he wants help. I sure hope he gets it.
What about therapy for the stepmother so she may work through her own childhood trauma 🤔🤷♀️
Ikr she needs individual therapy the father needs it they need marriage therapy sessions bc this has to be hard for them and family sessions
How can I get help of a abuser around me, and away to run
Are you ok???
If your being abused, please call the 988 crisis hotline or a non emergency hotline
He needs to be in prison.
Is that supposed to be this boy's father? Why is he so quiet? Wth?!!..they had a 'man' in their life when we met? Are you saying that the father was sending the boy over to get molested and she came along and put a stop to it?
That guy needs to say something 😠 get him Dr. Phil!
It probably was the biological mom's boyfriend or something
It sounds like it was a family friend or a family member like an uncle or grandfather
@@dancer3205 I agree. It sounds like a relative if he was getting regular visits from the children but was able to request the boy alone as well. Those requests for just one child can be a sign of potential abuse.
Ahhh seriously!! I have so many questions. Who is the man? A partner? I'm so confused. Either way that man is definitely the reason the son is the way he is unfortunately.
I believe the father is being quiet because he’s on the autism spectrum, so his social cues don’t function in the same way as everyone else’s. Probably why he didn’t pick up on the signs of abuse from the mentioned man like the stepmother did. But I’m not sure if that’s entirely true or not though, I saw another comment saying that the step mom had mentioned the father having autism on her face book page.
My parents would have kicked me out.
J3WLS 9k you are kind! 🙏🏾
Bet they don’t - but teenagers are miserable humans to be around. I was once one and now I’m raising one and trust me sometimes i look forward to him moving out - but I love my kid more than anything and I don’t want him out. Stop feeding yourself negative thoughts , re evaluate your selfish teenage tendencies and maybe respect your parents.
Guys you need to chill. It's just a comment. And it's called MOOD. So don't hate.
If you struggle living at home with your parents...make financial independence your goal. Get a part-time job, finish school, get as much post-secondary education as you can, be smart about your choices and you will be able to live your own life one day. Short term losses for long term gains.
If your parents really wanted to kick you out they would. Believe me. If your over 18 they owe you nothing anymore.
Good for Robby for feeling this way and coming forward and telling his parents. He knows it’s different, can’t help it and told the people who can help him.
Hats off to parents I mean it’s still their son no other parent will do that .
That poor family, thats tragic.
so Robbie was likely abused? I can’t imagine his problems developed on their own
It’s called being a psychopath. Some ppl aren’t born with the capacity to feel empathy or feel guilt.
@@stuff1784 dude he was obv abused he’s not a psychopath🙄
@@re3171 Lmao, how would you know?
Have you met him in person and accessed him?
Some people are just natural born monsters nothing provoking it at all.
All the armchair psychologists pulling up trying to diagnose him over the internet lmao
Such an AMAZING and STRONG woman!! I can’t imagine how much this family is hurting and it’s sad and hard to see them go through this but then again it’s great to see them trying to help Robbie and make sure he isn’t out there hurting people! I’m glad they’re trying to get this to be a better situation and definitely not surprised how they aren’t getting the help they need and deserve!!
I find comfort in this women. I really hope she knows how strong she is 💗
I'm glad she cut off that other man. Could definitely well be the answer. Having him over alone.....ya no.
This mom gets it
This is an example of what step mothers should be. Shes strong asf for not giving up on him.
Nothing a severe, blood dripping, beating can't fix
I also watch Dr.Phil.
Do you watch it with Lois
Im watching your show in the background right now !
Buttscratcher!!! Buttscratcher!!!
I force her to watch this
Hey Peter, can Bonnie and I watch this with you?
She shouldnt be ashamed she never told him to molest anyone
Mike Johnson yeah but I think she feels upset she couldn’t prevent it
There's part of me that feels that the boy doesn't want to feel this way hence why he told his parents.... I hope he gets the help he needs and is kept under observation if/when he's released.
Thank goodness for this women! We need more parents like this, she is very caring and has protected so many children by stepping up! 💜
Okay but children don’t just RANDOMLY get these thoughts... so what is he watching or being told? And who has he been around that could possibly expose him to these kind of thoughts and things or images
It kinda said how he got those thoughts
Some neurological research shows kids can be born this way or damaged. So maybe he googled words or scenarios he thought of and that triggered more. And obviously molested on top of it. Like gun bullet trigger. Born with neurological issues, being molested, being in an environment where they can explore those urges. Sad there really is no fix for this yet.
That’s the thing though- they absolutely can. I’m sure he had these feelings for a very, very long time, and only recently was able to articulate it. Pedophilia is a disorder.
Right and I think that it’s really important to see what he’s watching on devices and monitor that
Omg, statistically young offenders are victims too.
Why everyone making a big deal that it’s his step mom this is literally how their suppose to act
Many parents don't take this leap. Many. We should be praising parents who do this, so others feel inspired too as well. It is a big deal.
Not all step parents love their stepchildren....or come off as the biological Mother
its the bare minimum, but most people dont.
@@xxxmolly the reason why i heard about why they dony do this is because they dojt wanna consider themselves bad parents or try to thibk there life is ruined with dramma and chaos
she’s so wonderful
You cannot rehabilitate this condition
I love this woman. She’s so sweet. She’s trying so hard to love. Oh mama. 💔
I feel so sorry for this whole family. That Woman is amazing for caring as much as he does.
These are amazing parents. Them sharing their story is helping so many people.
Wow. Didn't know they could brain map that sort of thing.
This would be the most horrific thing a parent would ever go through. What a living nightmare.
This lady is amazing. You could tell she's a caring person and emotionally intelligent
Imagine what the world woud be like if all parents we're this perfect?
Why didn’t they knock some sense into him?
Dr. Phil, it's 5 am. Crawl up your weird snake staircase and go to bed!!
There’s more than one time zone
Lol
Pretty sure the weird snake staircase is in his sons house am i wrong
Beetlejuice reference lol?
@@kaytou351 google Dr Phil's son's staircase
Don't feel too bad. He told you and you got him help. Be proud of yourself....i am !!!!
What wonderful people for semi keeping their cool when they found all this out. I don’t think I could. God bless them.
This amazing woman and mother! I watched her RUclips videos and she is intelligent and compassion. Breaks my heart when he asked if she got help in her past and she said " No, sir."
This woman did absolutely everything right, and she’s a STEP MOM. Truly amazing. She’s protecting not only Robbie but all other children.
My mum said the same thing... get over it! Sending you all the healing and light you need ♥️
Mine too 😔
Nocturnal Flare I’m so sorry to hear! It’s so not true. You don’t have to get over it. It’s your life, your story. Sending love and healing light! 🙏🏻
my mom still doesn’t know
Wow. What is happening 😖😕. I dont know why people just tell children to get over these things like its a normal occurrence
Mine happened when I was 6 all the way to 8 by 2 people and I’m 20 now and haven’t told anyone but 1 close friend I’m scared that that’s going to be their reaction or worse won’t believe me so I don’t plan to tell them ever and just take it to my grave even though I struggle so much with it I can’t bring myself to ever tell them
She sure handles the spot light pretty well.... Would like to hear Robbie's Testament before we bow down to her.
I was kinda thinking the same thing
I can’t believe how eerily similar our stories are. I was abused as a child and when I told my parents at 22 they told me I was just making it up to ruin their friendship with my abuser who was also their friend.
Omg! im sorry u had to deal with that...just know that u are heard and your parents are veryyyyy wrong for saying that.